Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey and this is the second
Speaker 1: Day podcast. We got a brand new awkward Tuesday phone
Speaker 1: call for you coming up. But first, a lot of feelings,
Speaker 1: a lot of big feelings. On yesterday's second date. The
Speaker 1: lengths that that woman went through to get revenge for
Speaker 1: her friend were a lot. Yeah. I don't know that
Speaker 1: I would commit ten hours just to get back at
Speaker 1: a guy that goes. But some people were actually on
Speaker 1: her side.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they said, I don't know, I like her and
Speaker 2: her friend. Good for her, guys, who ghoes deserve that.
Speaker 2: I don't really think it was hate for the guys.
Speaker 2: She was just defending her friend and upset that she
Speaker 2: got hurt, which makes total sense. Yeah, so it's just
Speaker 2: so much time, I mean, yeah, more fun to just
Speaker 2: take your girlfriend out and be like, hey, let's get
Speaker 2: over yeah.
Speaker 3: For guys, because we would just like try to get
Speaker 3: the other girl back, like and they just wouldn't respond.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I see different.
Speaker 4: All right, that didn't work, So.
Speaker 1: It didn't work. Sorry, all right? Well, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for commenting. Always, we love to hear your thoughts
Speaker 1: about what happens during these episodes, and today we've got
Speaker 1: an awkward Tuesday. That is, uh, you know, gonna be
Speaker 1: fun for you. Yeah, so here it goes. Brand new
Speaker 1: starts right now.
Speaker 5: We've done a fair amount of these phone calls where
Speaker 5: we help out listeners and then our reaction is, WHOA,
Speaker 5: did not expect that? Yeah, well, today we got a
Speaker 5: huge whoa.
Speaker 4: I definitely was not expecting that. Oh wow, maybe one
Speaker 4: of the biggest of the entire year.
Speaker 6: I've never seen Jeff that animated the biggest whoa of
Speaker 6: the entire expecting it, man, someone the whole show didn't
Speaker 6: even know what to say when the truth came out.
Speaker 4: So you'll be happy to know it.
Speaker 5: Gets extra awkward in your brand new awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 4: Don't miss it. It's next, It's awkward, It's Tuesday. It's
Speaker 4: awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 5: It's not necessarily the most fun part of our jobs,
Speaker 5: but occasionally we have to do it. What is it
Speaker 5: help out a listener who's worried about possible cheating.
Speaker 4: In their relationship. You know, we may not be private eyes,
Speaker 4: but we do.
Speaker 5: Know about eyeing privates and that was close enough for
Speaker 5: a guy named Derek to reach out for help today.
Speaker 5: So Derek, man, I'm sorry that we're meeting under these circumstances,
Speaker 5: but hey, thanks for being on.
Speaker 4: Welcome to the show, dude.
Speaker 7: Thank you, man, I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: My eyes are on your privates right now. Supposed to
Speaker 1: be helpful, no, I mean private life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, Jeff.
Speaker 1: Started it, man, I was just trying to finish it.
Speaker 4: I hinted that and you went right.
Speaker 1: For It's okay. Sorry, Derek.
Speaker 5: Why don't you tell us about the reason that you
Speaker 5: emailed us for help? What makes you think that your
Speaker 5: girlfriend is cheating on you?
Speaker 7: Yeah, so my girlfriend and I we've been dating for
Speaker 7: a very long time and something weird isn't happening, and
Speaker 7: it's been kind of happening over the past couple of days,
Speaker 7: but like specifically.
Speaker 8: The other day.
Speaker 1: Oh so this is super recent.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: So I was over at our place and every morning
Speaker 7: she takes a little run, like she doesn't all the time,
Speaker 7: but that's her her thing.
Speaker 1: I bet she wouldn't like it if you called it little.
Speaker 1: I mean, has a great.
Speaker 3: Runs, a short run.
Speaker 7: And so you know, she brings her phone with her
Speaker 7: listens to music.
Speaker 8: So I was.
Speaker 7: Just doing some work and I needed to get a
Speaker 7: pen to write something down and I went to her
Speaker 7: deft dour and underneath her notebook I.
Speaker 8: Find a cell phone.
Speaker 7: At first, I was just like, oh, you know, it's
Speaker 7: just an old phone. But like, as I'm looking at
Speaker 7: the cell phone, it looks brand new, like the newest
Speaker 7: iPhone type of new.
Speaker 1: Oh did she maybe buy one and not activate it yet?
Speaker 4: That's why I thought.
Speaker 7: At first, I was like, Okay, maybe she need a
Speaker 7: new phone, because we've been talking about that, like how
Speaker 7: we both wanted to get a new phone. Yeah, but
Speaker 7: both of us know each other's passwords. So I opened
Speaker 7: it and there's one contact and if a guy named Brian.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't.
Speaker 4: Know any Brian.
Speaker 7: So I'm sitting there, I'm like, what.
Speaker 1: The yeah, I would be.
Speaker 4: So I found out.
Speaker 7: From this person recently that you can google somebody's phone
Speaker 7: number and like figure out who they are.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I did that and it turns out he's from out
Speaker 7: of date. Couldn't find any pictures of him or anything.
Speaker 1: Oh do you need Alexis to get on it, because
Speaker 1: she could have this for you in what seconds?
Speaker 4: Yeah, she already have his numbers.
Speaker 7: Yes, I mean yeah, that might that might be aful. So,
Speaker 7: like I'm thinking the tiding this for me, right, and
Speaker 7: like she has been acting like kind of strange. Oh yeah,
Speaker 7: Like she'll go, so'll be like I'm gonna go run
Speaker 7: some errands and then she'll be gone for thirty minutes
Speaker 7: and so come back and see me happy and there's
Speaker 7: time or still come back. No like bags at all,
Speaker 7: no nothing.
Speaker 5: And the fact that she's coming back super happy from
Speaker 5: her thirty minute errand is also kind.
Speaker 7: Of You said the guy was out of state, bro,
Speaker 7: I know he could be nearby and just have an
Speaker 7: out of state phone number.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Do you ever check when she's gone, like if she
Speaker 2: takes that extra phone with her, or if it's like
Speaker 2: still in the drawer.
Speaker 7: So I put it back the other day and I
Speaker 7: went to check it this morning and it was gone.
Speaker 4: Whoa, alexis? What does that mean?
Speaker 1: Not good things, Jeff?
Speaker 7: Not?
Speaker 5: Oh okay, you always keep your secret boyfriend phone in
Speaker 5: the same spot every single day, except when it's moved.
Speaker 4: Then you know you're up to No.
Speaker 2: I mean it's not an old phone, like she's actively
Speaker 2: taking it.
Speaker 1: That's right.
Speaker 3: Say why would you leave like a cheater burner phone
Speaker 3: like out and around your boyfriend?
Speaker 1: It was anna drawer underneath a note book?
Speaker 4: Yeah, how much? How much more hidden? It doesn't have
Speaker 4: to be.
Speaker 2: I mean I could give a lot of better spots
Speaker 2: to hide it.
Speaker 1: If it's been going on for a long time. You
Speaker 1: get lazy with that stuff, you know, Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: could there be any other reason for it? Have you
Speaker 1: thought of?
Speaker 7: Not that I can really think of. Okay, But I
Speaker 7: tried something really stupid. So I tried to like weave
Speaker 7: his name into conversations.
Speaker 5: Oh, because I was going to ask have, like why
Speaker 5: haven't you brought this up and confronted her about it?
Speaker 5: But you've tried to do it in a sneaky way.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm extremely nervous, Like I've been with this girl
Speaker 7: for so long that it's to the point where it's
Speaker 7: like I don't want to believe it's true.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how did you weave Brian into conversation?
Speaker 7: I was telling the story, but I went to go
Speaker 7: get my oil change and I was saying, oh, yeah,
Speaker 7: like the guy Brian like was talking about this, and
Speaker 7: I was like, you know, like I know, Brian's like,
Speaker 7: don't you know Brian? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: Brian is such a cool man.
Speaker 1: Tons of Brian you know, how attractive do you? What
Speaker 1: was her response?
Speaker 7: She got like really at like no, no, not really
Speaker 7: And then again after that, that was when the phone
Speaker 7: kind of disappeared. And I don't know what else to
Speaker 7: do it. I'm afraid of how this conversation is going
Speaker 7: to go, and I don't know how to bring it up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like up until this point you thought
Speaker 1: you were in a happy relationship.
Speaker 8: Yeah, like it's been so great.
Speaker 1: I thought, Yeah, that's so hard. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: And so we never called what was your girlfriend's name?
Speaker 8: Annie?
Speaker 1: Annie?
Speaker 4: Annie?
Speaker 1: Okay, that sounds like such a nice name.
Speaker 5: With your awkward call, are we reaching out to Annie here?
Speaker 5: Or are we calling this guy Brian and trying to
Speaker 5: figure out.
Speaker 3: We're starting with the first, Brian Anderson. You better be ready.
Speaker 7: I really don't care about the guy. I want to
Speaker 7: hear it from her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the right place to put your energy.
Speaker 4: Is that called them?
Speaker 1: I mean you may not even know you know that
Speaker 1: she's in a relationship.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so we need to really figure out what is
Speaker 5: our advice going to be to help you with.
Speaker 1: This because and get her to confess if that's what's happening.
Speaker 5: Seriously, Derek, you deserve some answers when we come back
Speaker 5: and let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call to
Speaker 5: find out if your girlfriend is being unfaithful with some
Speaker 5: dude named Brian.
Speaker 4: It's coming up right after this. Hold on, it's awkward.
Speaker 7: It's Tuesday.
Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 5: I think most people have one drawer in their house
Speaker 5: with like ten different random phones in there and a
Speaker 5: bunch of old charger cables. Dude, Yes, just old devices
Speaker 5: you never turned in or threw out because maybe you're
Speaker 5: open to reminisce one day and look back at all
Speaker 5: the old naughty photos of yourself.
Speaker 4: Okay, ten fifteen years ago, you think that.
Speaker 3: But I just found those phones recently and I was like,
Speaker 3: why do I have these? I never even turned them
Speaker 3: on again exactly.
Speaker 5: But that's different than the phone our listener Derek found
Speaker 5: in his girlfriend's desk recently, which was brand new, with
Speaker 5: only one contact in it.
Speaker 1: No naughty pictures unfortunately, right, just not that he could find.
Speaker 5: At least, the contact was a random guy named Brian
Speaker 5: from out of state who he's never even heard of before,
Speaker 5: so naturally he's thinking, oh God, this is my girlfriend's
Speaker 5: burner phone that she's using to sneak around on me with.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the more we got into it, the more
Speaker 1: we felt the exact same thing.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 5: Hasn't been able to confirm that officially though, So that's
Speaker 5: what he's trying to do once and for all with
Speaker 5: his awkward Tuesday phone call, or hopefully just find out
Speaker 5: that he's totally wrong and there's some other explanation for it.
Speaker 5: But oh, first he needs advice, So Brooke, what do
Speaker 5: you have for him?
Speaker 1: I think the first thing you need to do is
Speaker 1: like remind her you're a person with feelings that she
Speaker 1: actually cares about.
Speaker 4: Derek.
Speaker 5: Can you confirm that you are an actual person with
Speaker 5: real feelings that I can guess?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 1: And I think you need to lay it out there.
Speaker 1: You need to say, look, I found this phone. It's
Speaker 1: got to contact Brian on it. You need to explain.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna be kind of hard for you to do,
Speaker 7: but I'm gonna definitely try.
Speaker 1: I know we're here for you though, you know we
Speaker 1: got your back. I can't even imagine being in your position.
Speaker 5: Or is it hard for him to do because he's
Speaker 5: not a real person. We don't know, So Ose what's
Speaker 5: your advice for Derek here.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of ways this conversation can go to
Speaker 3: put her on the defensive, and we don't want to
Speaker 3: do that. So suggest that we need to get new phones, honey.
Speaker 4: And then that way the rest of the story may.
Speaker 1: Come out, Oh, I just have a new phone.
Speaker 5: Oh you're trying to get her to admit that she
Speaker 5: has a second phone without accusing.
Speaker 4: Her of it. You already got one in the drawers.
Speaker 4: It's interesting.
Speaker 5: It's totally conflicting advice than what Brooks said, which was
Speaker 5: to directly bring it up.
Speaker 1: He already tried the whole slip Brian into a conversation
Speaker 1: and it didn't work.
Speaker 4: That's true.
Speaker 5: So I mean, at the end of the day, Derek
Speaker 5: is going to be up to you to decide which
Speaker 5: piece of advice you feel like it's best for you.
Speaker 5: But no matter what, we're going to be waiting here
Speaker 5: ready to support you on the other line.
Speaker 4: Okay, And you.
Speaker 1: Also remember that you are a person to be loved
Speaker 1: and cherished and if someone's not doing that for you,
Speaker 1: then it's time to move on.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 7: Thank you guys a lot.
Speaker 4: It means a lot.
Speaker 5: You got this brother, really trying to sell the human
Speaker 5: aspect there. Okay, I'm not sure still, but maybe things
Speaker 5: will clear up when you make this call. I'm going
Speaker 5: to dial your girlfriend Annie here you gave me.
Speaker 4: Her number, and hopefully she picks up. But here we go, man,
Speaker 4: good luck.
Speaker 8: Hello, Hey, babe, Hi, Hi.
Speaker 7: Are you how how are you?
Speaker 8: I'm doing okay, just my standard routine. Okay, thanks, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 8: call from you from your number. Oh.
Speaker 7: You know, I was just in the process of maybe
Speaker 7: getting a new phone, you know, just trying to figure
Speaker 7: that whole thing out, because you know, I think we're
Speaker 7: both kind of due for new phones, don't you think.
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Yeah, but good try. You know that I love you
Speaker 7: a lot, yes, and I would hope that feeling is reciprocated,
Speaker 7: of course, of course. Okay, yeah, yeah, because you know,
Speaker 7: as a fellow human being, you know, I feel like
Speaker 7: we all have feelings that should be cherished.
Speaker 8: What's going on? Are you on something right now?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 7: Are you possibly on something called bribing by?
Speaker 8: Should you asked me about the same thing the other day?
Speaker 8: I don't know anyone named Brian. Please stop asking me.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's kind of hard to think that when
Speaker 7: I found another phone in our room with the contact Brian.
Speaker 8: I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 7: So we're just gonna pretend that there wasn't a phone
Speaker 7: underneath your notebook with the contact named Brian that just
Speaker 7: magically disappeared the day after I mentioned the name Brian.
Speaker 8: That was my drawer. It's not yours or snooping in
Speaker 8: places that you should not. No one was doing.
Speaker 7: I literally just went to go get a pencil and
Speaker 7: I saw the phone. So let's not beat around the
Speaker 7: bus here and try to act like the phone wasn't found.
Speaker 8: Trust me, I am not interested in any other guy.
Speaker 4: What do you mean?
Speaker 7: No, no, no, no, you're gonna tell me about the phone? Like, no,
Speaker 7: play for a second, Like this is crazy.
Speaker 9: You're never ever gonna meet him?
Speaker 4: What is happening here?
Speaker 1: You mean you're never gonna meet him? He doesn't want
Speaker 1: to meet your sight?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Wait, what's happening? Who are those people?
Speaker 4: That's our question? Yeah?
Speaker 5: These people you're talking about us. We're a radio show.
Speaker 5: We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. You're you're
Speaker 5: on a segment that we do called the Awkward Tuesday
Speaker 5: Phone Call.
Speaker 8: Oh man, I don't want to talk about this with you.
Speaker 8: Guys talk about it.
Speaker 5: Listen, And the reason that we're on the phone with
Speaker 5: your boyfriend Derek here is because we're trying to help
Speaker 5: him after the phone that he found. He didn't know
Speaker 5: the right way to handle this situation with you. He
Speaker 5: was going through us to get a little bit of advice.
Speaker 8: Derek, you're gonna make me freaking blow your surprise.
Speaker 4: What are you the more right now?
Speaker 1: Surprise?
Speaker 8: Look, this is really embarrassing to admit that I am
Speaker 8: not cheating on you whatsoever.
Speaker 5: Okay, but you're saying things like don't worry You're never
Speaker 5: going to meet the other guy?
Speaker 4: Like who are you? What are you even talking about there?
Speaker 8: Okay? Well, I meet guys on a certain website and
Speaker 8: I engage them in like a friendly conversation.
Speaker 1: Are you talking about like OnlyFans or something? Are you
Speaker 1: doing video stuff?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 8: They just pay for things, so I ask them for
Speaker 8: a new phone.
Speaker 5: What we're still a little unclear here, Annie, I don't understand.
Speaker 5: How is this like not as bad.
Speaker 1: As it sounds, It sounds worse, to be honest.
Speaker 8: Well, so far I've gotten forty phones and sold most
Speaker 8: of them all to pay for our car.
Speaker 1: What you're trying to make this like altruistic, like you're
Speaker 1: talking to other men for the betterment of a new
Speaker 1: car for you guys.
Speaker 7: Wait wait wait, wait wait wait wait wait, After all
Speaker 7: the Prime documentaries that we watched, you think that's smart?
Speaker 9: Wait?
Speaker 1: I mean are forty phones?
Speaker 2: There's no way you're not gonna have to do something
Speaker 2: exchange to one of those guys.
Speaker 1: No, there's no way.
Speaker 7: And again the guys are are probably the ones that
Speaker 7: are going to stalk us afterwards.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're not wrong.
Speaker 5: If your car's fast enough, they won't be able to
Speaker 5: catch your.
Speaker 8: I mean it goes to a po box, so they'll
Speaker 8: never know what our addresses.
Speaker 4: Oh that's kind of smart.
Speaker 1: But still, Derek, do you feel better or worse? Like?
Speaker 1: Where are you at?
Speaker 7: How cool of a car are we talking?
Speaker 5: Whoa is the juice worth the squeeze?
Speaker 4: Is what he's asking.
Speaker 8: I mean, some surprises need to be kept secret. I'm
Speaker 8: not saying that.
Speaker 4: Yes, we don't blow the anniversary gifts.
Speaker 1: It's all just a big lie to cover up your
Speaker 1: actual cheating, Like it's why wouldn't you tell Brook?
Speaker 3: Wait a minute, I was done with the cheating part.
Speaker 8: When we're home tonight, I can show you all of
Speaker 8: the books, and you can see how much money that
Speaker 8: I've made through this business.
Speaker 1: Ah, you track, you need to read those chat messages.
Speaker 7: Yeah, or if.
Speaker 3: There's none, that's also saying a lot.
Speaker 5: And Annie, Alexis wants the website that you're meeting the
Speaker 5: scammable guys. If you can forward that to Brooke and
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Emails full of those guys for Alexis. We're fine, Okay,
Speaker 4: never mind, We're good. You keep scamming.
Speaker 7: If this is real, I will say next time you
Speaker 7: can keep what you're getting me a secret. But still
Speaker 7: wrote me into this little plan of yours. That might
Speaker 7: make me seem a little less likely to think.
Speaker 4: That you're cheating.
Speaker 5: He's what he wants, jet skis, and he's asking for
Speaker 5: jet skis.
Speaker 4: And there you go. You enjoy your anniversary together.
Speaker 1: Jets Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: You hear of couples embracing the side hustle now more
Speaker 5: than ever. This one's a little bit different, but I
Speaker 5: think still falls underneath that umbrella, right, I mean, if.
Speaker 1: You could keep one box from interfering with the other box.
Speaker 1: But it's all gonna get messy.
Speaker 3: Don't know. What if he does the same, What if
Speaker 3: he starts, you know, doing the thing for ladies that
Speaker 3: bounces it out?
Speaker 1: Sure? Sure, and I'm sure none of these people give
Speaker 1: you money. We'll ever expect anything else than a friendly
Speaker 1: conversation that said something that they didn't wearn't asked for.
Speaker 3: Oh thanks for saying hi back. You have one thousand dollars.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, that's all I wanted. Jeff, all right, you
Speaker 4: bring up some fair points.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to request some of the transcripts of
Speaker 5: these conversations before we can fully endorse it to our
Speaker 5: listeners going phone.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you want to see them, dude,
Speaker 1: you maybe I'll sell those.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
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