WEBVTT - To Post or Not to Post....Your Significant Other

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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<v Speaker 1>and the Black Effect Network.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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<v Speaker 2>who talks.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for tuning in for a new episode and

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<v Speaker 1>We Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and

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<v Speaker 1>chasers and lovers. Okay, this is your co host, AJ Holiday.

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<v Speaker 2>What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Tam Bam?

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<v Speaker 2>Its official Tam Bam. I love y'all. I love you Aj.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing? Love you? Mar?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm well stayed out the heat? Okay, what the hell

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<v Speaker 1>happened to spring?

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't no spring. We went straight from winter to summer,

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<v Speaker 2>straight from like straight the hell?

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<v Speaker 1>What is happening? It's so hot outside. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>stay cool, but I am going to go on a walk. Man, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I've been eating the horses lately. What

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, girl? All type of shit? Just eating like

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<v Speaker 1>and I know I need to just need to get

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<v Speaker 1>out the fucking house. That's really the problem. Yeah, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>get out the goddamn house. But I started rewatching the

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<v Speaker 1>Game of Thrones again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh actually that like when it was cold, I started

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<v Speaker 2>from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, I had to google how much hours. Uh is

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<v Speaker 1>it to watch the full Game of Thrones? Y'all's sixty

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<v Speaker 1>four point four hours?

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<v Speaker 2>That's not that bad one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm on season four right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what's your favorite what's your favorite scene or episode

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<v Speaker 2>or moment in the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see what is my favorite?

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you thinking? I'll tell you mine?

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<v Speaker 1>No, the very end, actually the very end where the

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<v Speaker 1>youngest sister what's her name, Aria, Aria? Well, Aria killed

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<v Speaker 1>the killed the Walkers, then King. Yeah, that was my favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>Park Is who was expecting her low ass to come

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<v Speaker 1>do She's that? She actually has my favorite storyline.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's my favorite. One of my favorite characters, John Snow.

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<v Speaker 2>I love John Snow. My one of my favorite moments

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<v Speaker 2>in the show was when we found out how hold

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<v Speaker 2>Door got his name, Hold the Door, Hold the Door,

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<v Speaker 2>Hold Door, Hold Door Holder.

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<v Speaker 1>I was blown away.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, stupid bitch, when I tell you, I

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<v Speaker 2>was so into that show, Like I remember, like when this.

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<v Speaker 1>Time goodass writing.

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<v Speaker 2>When that final season came on, y'all that night, the

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<v Speaker 2>first episode of the final season, I swear to god,

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<v Speaker 2>I was marching around my living room in my draws

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<v Speaker 2>with a pot lid like well of my big pot

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<v Speaker 2>lids like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a shield, and I was like, I love that show.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't even make shows like this for real no more.

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<v Speaker 1>This is why rewatching it because I don't watch that

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<v Speaker 1>much TV anyway, and I just wanted to watch something good.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is my first time rewatching it because when

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<v Speaker 1>I watched it before, I binge watched seasons one through

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<v Speaker 1>seven just so I can watch the season finale with

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<v Speaker 1>everybody else. I didn't watch it at all prior to

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<v Speaker 1>uh coming out. Yeah, so yeah, I love Gaming Thrones

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<v Speaker 1>me too, me too. The House of Dragons is about

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<v Speaker 1>to come back on soon too. I've seen that, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know they was trying to cancel that the new

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<v Speaker 1>season really so they are, Yeah, they didn't, they weren't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna come out. But I feel like they're telling the

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<v Speaker 1>truth with that game with the House of the Dragon,

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<v Speaker 1>because notice there are black people in the House of

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<v Speaker 1>the Dragon, a lot of them, and they were in

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<v Speaker 1>power the richest, the Sea Snake, he had the biggest army,

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<v Speaker 1>in the most ships. But we also get to see

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<v Speaker 1>how these niggas cannot resist them white ladies. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fuck we got where we're at right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It was too much true history being being shown.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's what I think about Lovecraft Lovecraft Country. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that show and I've me too after one season.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too, gir. I be d M and the girl

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<v Speaker 1>who wrote that show because I want to write with her.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she be ignoring me? Damn? One days now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put my ship out and then they're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>on my nuts. That's what's gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how it works.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Jordan Peele, niggatta be messaging you two?

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<v Speaker 2>What did you do over the weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't doing shit. I started watching the Game of

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<v Speaker 1>Thrones on Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>So.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, actually, my mom's birthday, Uh, another famous Gemini Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>her birthday is on Thursday. So my oldest sister and

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<v Speaker 1>her kids came into town, so we all hung on.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy birthday. Mama.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk loud. I don't know why. When all the family

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<v Speaker 1>get together, everybody just talks extra loud. It so it's

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<v Speaker 1>extra loud and extra Gichi sounds like and I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>be like, can we talk lower? Why are we yelling

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<v Speaker 1>and everybody fighting to be heard? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>I listen. When I got off on Saturday. I did

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<v Speaker 2>not leave my house until today. I did not come

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<v Speaker 2>out the house at all. That's good, that's good. Just

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<v Speaker 2>mm I stay. I pretty much spent the whole Sunday

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<v Speaker 2>in bed, and that was it. I don't even think

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<v Speaker 2>I watched much any TV.

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Squirreled and read and masturbated.

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<v Speaker 1>That was it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that was it. That was my Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>He was in there selutting yourself out, y'all. Gemini season

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<v Speaker 1>started yesterday. So I did take me a nice spiritual

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<v Speaker 1>bath to kick the shits off. Okay, and we're coming

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<v Speaker 1>up on a full moon. If y'all want that that recipe,

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<v Speaker 1>so y'all can have a nice prosperous summer. Let me know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to actually record it and show the whole process,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, nah, man, everybody ain't privy to this magic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well send some juju my way. I don't need

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<v Speaker 2>no more recipes though, I'm scared of this ship with them.

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<v Speaker 2>Ricky just riaky. The last thing I was trying to recipe.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. Look, damn, you see how God be for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Intention I might I might have fucked up the intentions

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<v Speaker 1>of your ship. You ain't supposed to show it to me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Well as you showed it to me, it's okay because

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need that in no way that God did

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<v Speaker 2>not want that for me. All right, let's get in this.

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<v Speaker 1>We only got one sent for the week, y'all. God

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<v Speaker 1>damn ditty, dumb diddy dumb. Okay, y'all, I was inside

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<v Speaker 1>of y'all. Ever been to one of those ben places

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<v Speaker 1>like they have like all of this return ship or

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<v Speaker 1>discontinue shit from like the Walmart and Target and all

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<v Speaker 1>these different places, but they like big ben sit. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a big ass swap me and people are in

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<v Speaker 1>there like picking through shit.

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<v Speaker 2>It.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where I was, okay when the fucking video dropped,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's some little nickknack shit I needed, and I

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<v Speaker 1>knew I could find it in there, like I needed

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<v Speaker 1>like a little vegetable chopper or that type of shit.

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<v Speaker 1>But I literally was digging through a bin and the

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<v Speaker 1>video came out. I sent the video to everybody I

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<v Speaker 1>knew and my cell phone once I saw it, and

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<v Speaker 1>out of the ten people I might have sent it to,

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<v Speaker 1>one of my friends send a message back saying, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe what you see. This could be AI. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at a beIN cussing a nigga out via FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 2>Like how was this Ai? Like y'all just refused to

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<v Speaker 2>believe black women, like you could see it with your

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<v Speaker 2>own eyes and still have doubts.

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<v Speaker 1>That shit is so scary to me and that to

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<v Speaker 1>me is own. That is really the gist of this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing. Were in trouble we are in because even

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<v Speaker 1>with like Meg the Stallion situation, like people had to

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<v Speaker 1>have seen a Diddy video in order for people to

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<v Speaker 1>have believed her. Yeah, like we and even when they

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<v Speaker 1>have the proof, it'll be conversations like, well, they just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to take down another black man. Do y'all not

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<v Speaker 1>realize that if he didn't do the thing, the video

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't exist.

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<v Speaker 2>It wouldn't be not in to take down because he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't do the thing. Yeah, I mean there is there

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<v Speaker 2>is some.

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<v Speaker 1>We all know. We all know the thing, Like we

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<v Speaker 1>all know that we're going to get exploited and when

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<v Speaker 1>we do the worship, we're going to get exploded, exploited

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<v Speaker 1>even more than the white man, because y'all want to

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<v Speaker 1>compare him to Harvey Weinstein and Jeffrey Epstein. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all want to compare his crime to these white men

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<v Speaker 1>and feel like, oh, they didn't get the public humiliation

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<v Speaker 1>that Diddy is getting. Let's take into consideration that we,

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<v Speaker 1>the black people who consume this shit, we contribute contribute

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<v Speaker 1>to that.

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<v Speaker 2>Dynamic.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we contribute to that because we like negativity. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying collectively, because I'm not talking about me collectively. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the type of ship black people want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>And and I don't really be seeing a whole bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of white people wishing on a nigga's downfall. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really see it. But look in the comments regular people

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<v Speaker 1>every day on the most randommest celebrity or even somebody

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<v Speaker 1>you deem to have more than you. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing to them? Y'all raise them up to tear and

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<v Speaker 1>you want to also simultaneously be the ones to tear

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<v Speaker 1>him down.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's how council cultures started. It's just people

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<v Speaker 2>wanting to tear the motherfucker down that's up higher than

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<v Speaker 2>they are, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the case with Diddy. Did he tore

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<v Speaker 1>his own his self down? He tore himself down, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it needs to put it needs to

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<v Speaker 1>be public. You know, Sean the youngest son King Combs,

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<v Speaker 1>he should have left that disk track out because the

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<v Speaker 1>fads was like, oh, okay, we dropping we dropping a

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<v Speaker 1>hit this week too.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, maybe he didn't know no better. I'm just because

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<v Speaker 2>was did he capable of hiding this truth? Because all

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<v Speaker 2>these people that he's around are We're all of y'all

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<v Speaker 2>complicit in this behavior, Like because y'all got a problem,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a problem with you too. At that point, if

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<v Speaker 2>everybody around all these yes men and they're like, that's

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<v Speaker 2>just diddy, you know, they that's just diddying him and

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<v Speaker 2>allowing this behavior to go on, and nobody's saying like

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<v Speaker 2>course correct to him. Nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that the people around him, and also a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the men in the commons and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the women are complicit with this type of behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>And I won't get into how women get duped right

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<v Speaker 1>and to this thing, because I think it starts with religion.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it starts with the church, how women are

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be and just letting men men it starts

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<v Speaker 1>and get real, it gets real oppressive.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but beating up on women and just it being Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not new, that's not new though. We were once

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<v Speaker 1>property even after slavery. You know what I'm saying, for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. Your wife, you owned her. You could

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<v Speaker 1>do what you want.

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<v Speaker 2>You could beat her and if she went to the police,

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<v Speaker 2>they wouldn't even do shit.

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<v Speaker 1>You could rape her. So now we're talking about human

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<v Speaker 1>evolution at this point, it'll take thousands of years for

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<v Speaker 1>people to really be sophisticated, Like we're supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>more sophisticated than animals, but for whatever reason, humans are

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<v Speaker 1>very animalistic.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, I just seen a video of people having sex

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<v Speaker 2>on a city bus and uh, I think it was Houston.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know what, I just give up

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<v Speaker 2>on this humanity. There was too homeless, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if they were homeless, but I was just so

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<v Speaker 2>taken aback and the poor people that was just trying

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<v Speaker 2>to get the work on the No ain't no, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it ain't one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she ain't want her. Kucie opened up to the

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<v Speaker 1>elements outside that day, so on the books with everybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen that video before.

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<v Speaker 1>But dog Diddy and people like him have to be

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<v Speaker 1>ostracized there's no excuse for people like him in our

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<v Speaker 1>community anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, he should say, somebody should have beat his ass

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<v Speaker 2>a long time ago. I feel like, no, there was

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<v Speaker 2>no course correction for many years, and he just felt

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<v Speaker 2>invincible because there's never been any real course correction for

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<v Speaker 2>He's never like, think of all the things that he's

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<v Speaker 2>been in trouble for, and he just kind of slid

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<v Speaker 2>right on through. And he's just been sliding through his

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<v Speaker 2>entire life. And that's why he thought he could just

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<v Speaker 2>get away with just diddy bopping a.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch, bad boy. He been telling y'all exactly who he was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. But for whatever reason it has to happen

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<v Speaker 1>to it has to happen directly to a man's mother,

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<v Speaker 1>directly to his dog, are directly to a woman that

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<v Speaker 1>he loves, right in order for him to think is

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<v Speaker 1>wrong a lot of times because we no longer see

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<v Speaker 1>ourselves and other people like I see myself in you.

0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I see myself and other black women. I see myself

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<v Speaker 1>and other black men. So that's where the love comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>So even him trying to change his name to love

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<v Speaker 1>is highly disrespectful to me, to the culture. You ain't

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<v Speaker 1>never love nobody but Diddy. And let's be very fucking clear,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of black men, y'all want access to whiteness,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all give a fuck, And it's a lot of niggas

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<v Speaker 1>in line to be Diddy. There's a lot of black

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<v Speaker 1>men in line to do the same slimeball shit that

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<v Speaker 1>he did to get a billion dollars. There's no integrity

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<v Speaker 1>along along the way along the world the riches, oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's no integrity involved with it. Yeah, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. I know a few people. I know a

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<v Speaker 1>few men who they operate with integrity all day, every day.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not about to do anything for a fucking dollar.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just seen a video online with some dudes

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<v Speaker 1>podcast and one guy was asking the other would you

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<v Speaker 1>suck dick for a bet? He just got to bet?

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<v Speaker 1>The other nigga was like, absolutely yes. These people already

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<v Speaker 1>know who dick they suck, and they know who in

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<v Speaker 1>the family.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's just wild. Even if the answer is yes,

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<v Speaker 2>which a lot of people are going to. Nobody says

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<v Speaker 2>you have to enjoy it, right, they say, are you

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<v Speaker 2>gonna dick?

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<v Speaker 1>You like it?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody says you have to enjoy it? But a billion dollars,

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<v Speaker 2>it would be a wise decision to go ahead something

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<v Speaker 2>that did for that billion. But in a hypothetical situation,

0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.960
<v Speaker 2>the answer is, always know, unless there's a billion dollars

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<v Speaker 2>on the table in front of you for some dick

0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:45.000
<v Speaker 2>sucking the answers always know, don't ever answer that hypothetically, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, it didn't happen unless there's video. That'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a lot of these like they feel like, ain't no,

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<v Speaker 1>don't nobody know, Ain't nobody gonna ever know? So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna beat these bitches up in public. I'm gonna do

0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:01.920
<v Speaker 1>all this slime ball shit. I'm I'm exploit women, I

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<v Speaker 1>exploit men, and ain't no video about it. So it

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<v Speaker 1>never happened until we see.

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<v Speaker 2>It, until you running down the hallway in the hotel

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<v Speaker 2>with a towel on.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is a lot of the comments I saw too,

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<v Speaker 1>people saying, well, he paid the money, why they still

0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.880
<v Speaker 1>put the video out? He paid so that this type

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<v Speaker 1>of evidence would not have come out in a deposition

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<v Speaker 1>had he challenged her in the quarterlock and actually challenged

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<v Speaker 1>the civil lawsuit. All of this plus more, it's more evidence.

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<v Speaker 1>This ain't the only video.

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<v Speaker 2>This man was really like out there saying people have

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<v Speaker 2>been trying to I've sat silently while they tried to

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<v Speaker 2>destroy me. It's crazy. That's insanity to me, Like some

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<v Speaker 2>things like when I know how I did some shit

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<v Speaker 2>and somebody might be trying to call it out, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>aa shut the fuck up. I ain't gonna say too

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<v Speaker 2>much more.

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<v Speaker 1>You.

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<v Speaker 2>For you to be called out and then double down

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<v Speaker 2>on your lives is insane. That's insanity.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never had nobody stumble on me, but I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not got into physical altercation with somebody I was

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with who was trying to stop me

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<v Speaker 1>from leaving. But since I'm a gorilla, I'm gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>the fuck up out of there, regardless.

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<v Speaker 2>Because she is a small little she was a small

0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:17.960
<v Speaker 2>little girl.

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<v Speaker 1>These type of men, they don't want people to know

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<v Speaker 1>who they really are. You know what I'm saying. Diddy

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<v Speaker 1>did not give a fuck. He was in a public place.

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<v Speaker 1>My homeboy, the one who I argued, but he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>how did they even get the footage? I said, this

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<v Speaker 1>nigga is such a narcissist. He doesn't give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>Who sees it like he isn't Why would you think

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<v Speaker 1>there's not a cameras in a luxury hotel hallway, Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you think that?

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<v Speaker 2>Why?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, he was so sure he was and that's the

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<v Speaker 1>scary thing. He was so sure he can do this,

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<v Speaker 1>this type of shit to this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is just one instance that we got to see.

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<v Speaker 2>Imagine how much abuse that girl suffered.

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<v Speaker 1>That probably wasn't the last. She probably didn't leave after

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<v Speaker 1>that day twenty sixteen. When did they actually ultimately break up?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. And then I just think I think

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<v Speaker 2>Kim suffered all of the women.

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<v Speaker 1>That left twenty eighteen. Well she wait, wait, wait, no,

0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:18.159
<v Speaker 1>she married Alex Fine in twenty nineteen. Okay, yeah, so

0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.200
<v Speaker 1>she left him in twenty eighteen. So they were together

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<v Speaker 1>from two thousand and seven to twenty eighteen. So ten

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<v Speaker 1>years of abuse.

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<v Speaker 2>Horror, Yeah, Lorraham Mercy and then having to like watch

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<v Speaker 2>that and know the world is watching you get violated

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<v Speaker 2>like that and you got to relive it, and that

0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:43.680
<v Speaker 2>everybody's talking about it. Everybody's talking about it. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of people who probably like who are

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<v Speaker 2>actually friends with Diddy that are like, oh, that was

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<v Speaker 2>so fucked up that knew Diddy was doing that shit though.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the thing, y'all are just gilt.

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<v Speaker 1>None of the people coming out I don't respect none

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<v Speaker 1>of the people coming out, like the bodyguards and shit

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<v Speaker 1>like that coming out speaking because you you watched all

0:18:00.640 --> 0:18:02.560
<v Speaker 1>of these women get they asked with. You probably watched

0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:03.680
<v Speaker 1>Ken Porter get her asked with.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, You was complicit in it as far as I'm concerned,

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<v Speaker 2>you were. And now now you on a BBC with

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<v Speaker 2>Piper Piper what's his name, Morgan Piper, Piper, Peter Piper

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<v Speaker 2>whatever I'm telling you now, I want to tell my story,

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<v Speaker 2>Like boy, and you're a whole security guard. You probably

0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:28.040
<v Speaker 2>could have whooped Diddy ass, but no, you just sat

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<v Speaker 2>there and let these women get beat.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why people think celebrities are exempt from

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<v Speaker 1>being like sociopaths and and goddamn serial killers, like they

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<v Speaker 1>are the least like the least suspecting ones. Like nobody's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna think Diddy is a serial killer, but he just

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<v Speaker 1>might be.

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<v Speaker 2>It is. Listen, there's I won't say his name, but

0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:52.920
<v Speaker 2>this basketball well he retired now player that I dealt with,

0:18:53.720 --> 0:18:56.760
<v Speaker 2>socie a path. I don't know why he's not in

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<v Speaker 2>like in jail or in a mental facilit like people

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<v Speaker 2>because you got a little bit money, you get away

0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:06.840
<v Speaker 2>with a lot of shit and treating people bad. It's

0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:14.720
<v Speaker 2>not uncommon. A whole fucking lunatic shame.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but every dog will have their day. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So Diddy's baby mama, Justin's mom, Misa, she came out.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, I am heartbroken that Cassie must relived the

0:19:29.040 --> 0:19:32.040
<v Speaker 1>horror to her abuse. And my heart goes out to her.

0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I know exactly how she feels, and through my empathy,

0:19:35.600 --> 0:19:38.840
<v Speaker 1>it has triggered my own trauma, so she probably dealt.

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<v Speaker 2>With So basically she's saying, he used to do that

0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:42.719
<v Speaker 2>shit to me too. Mm hm.

0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:45.680
<v Speaker 1>And you know with Kim, I just feel like Kim

0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:47.600
<v Speaker 1>was with Diddy when he was really going to come up,

0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:51.159
<v Speaker 1>when his when his career was really taken off. But

0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:54.479
<v Speaker 1>imagine like the hardships you go through on the come up,

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<v Speaker 1>the bad days when sh it don't work out you

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<v Speaker 1>how you wanted business wise. Imagine like her being a

0:19:59.680 --> 0:20:01.879
<v Speaker 1>punch bag for his bad days.

0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:05.520
<v Speaker 2>And I just imagine what them kids have seen. What

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<v Speaker 2>have they seen you?

0:20:08.600 --> 0:20:10.760
<v Speaker 1>Misa goes on to say. She says, these young people

0:20:10.840 --> 0:20:13.119
<v Speaker 1>were raised by women that want the best for them.

0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:16.320
<v Speaker 1>We put God and education first and have always been

0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:20.840
<v Speaker 1>united in our mutual effort to support their dreams. Two

0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:23.000
<v Speaker 1>of the youngest do not have their mother here, and

0:20:23.160 --> 0:20:26.160
<v Speaker 1>it has been our duty to support them if father

0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:29.280
<v Speaker 1>needs help, and I am praying that he truly does

0:20:29.440 --> 0:20:33.480
<v Speaker 1>the personal work and receives it. But y'all been new this, y'all.

0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:35.840
<v Speaker 1>Women enabled them to the one who just had a

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<v Speaker 1>baby with him, young Miami.

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<v Speaker 2>What about that girl, the Asian girl? Oh, your Miami

0:20:44.760 --> 0:20:46.080
<v Speaker 2>is mighty quiet too.

0:20:47.680 --> 0:20:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you pick a fights with JT while this shit going.

0:20:50.080 --> 0:20:55.080
<v Speaker 2>On, right that part. But what about that young Asian

0:20:55.119 --> 0:20:56.920
<v Speaker 2>girl who says she was pregnant for Diddy and Diddy

0:20:56.920 --> 0:21:00.000
<v Speaker 2>stumped her in the stomach that was hard to see while.

0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:04.720
<v Speaker 1>Somebody else was pregnant for him having a baby Hue. Yeah,

0:21:04.880 --> 0:21:07.520
<v Speaker 1>So even these women, you know what I'm saying. We

0:21:07.680 --> 0:21:11.640
<v Speaker 1>saw them on family vacations, all of them, and Cassie

0:21:11.880 --> 0:21:15.480
<v Speaker 1>on a yacht. We've seen it. Y'all knew y'all with

0:21:15.640 --> 0:21:18.720
<v Speaker 1>this monster. But it's the money, it's the resource, it's

0:21:18.760 --> 0:21:22.479
<v Speaker 1>the access, right, So none of you are innocent.

0:21:22.800 --> 0:21:24.520
<v Speaker 2>Listen, let me tell you something. You got some good

0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:27.040
<v Speaker 2>discernment for him, because I remember being like, shit, I'm

0:21:27.040 --> 0:21:29.040
<v Speaker 2>trying to be on a yacht with Diddy. He was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>you're trying to be with the devil.

0:21:30.640 --> 0:21:32.560
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, you can't look at his eyes.

0:21:32.880 --> 0:21:37.919
<v Speaker 1>Let me say that. You was like, girl, I'm praying eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to be around people to know who

0:21:41.080 --> 0:21:43.159
<v Speaker 1>they are. And I feel like, and I've heard this

0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:45.119
<v Speaker 1>about Diddy before I heard did he always keep on

0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:47.600
<v Speaker 1>sunglasses because he can't really look at people in the eyes.

0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:50.840
<v Speaker 1>He can't. He always he's always looking away when having

0:21:50.880 --> 0:21:54.359
<v Speaker 1>conversations with people. I've heard that personally from people who have,

0:21:54.680 --> 0:21:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, been in rooms with Diddy, right, And it's

0:21:57.960 --> 0:22:04.040
<v Speaker 1>because some people can see you. I see you. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me tell you when I hear what you don't say,

0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:08.440
<v Speaker 1>and I see what you don't do, I see people.

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<v Speaker 2>I was at this party last year, I won't say

0:22:12.800 --> 0:22:14.800
<v Speaker 2>who party it was, and I was in the section

0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:19.000
<v Speaker 2>and Diddy literally sat next to me. Remember that party

0:22:19.040 --> 0:22:23.439
<v Speaker 2>I went to with that and I remember the energy

0:22:23.640 --> 0:22:26.479
<v Speaker 2>not feeling good. But I just thought it was because

0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:29.399
<v Speaker 2>Karesha was a cross and it might have been like

0:22:29.520 --> 0:22:31.960
<v Speaker 2>some tension between them at the time. That's what I

0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:34.280
<v Speaker 2>was assuming because I was thinking, like, ain't they together

0:22:34.280 --> 0:22:37.159
<v Speaker 2>while they sitting so far apart. Well, maybe I was

0:22:37.240 --> 0:22:39.480
<v Speaker 2>just feeling some devil energy from that nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>No, absolutely, absolutely, man, Listen, that's why. And every day

0:22:44.680 --> 0:22:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, God, let me just I Sometimes as women,

0:22:48.000 --> 0:22:51.840
<v Speaker 1>we don't trust our intuition. But as long as you

0:22:51.920 --> 0:22:55.800
<v Speaker 1>got a womb, you got some major discernment. Trust it.

0:22:56.400 --> 0:23:00.440
<v Speaker 2>Well, another one of are black and put this in

0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:03.960
<v Speaker 2>heavy quotation, heroes twice to dust. And you know, I

0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:08.080
<v Speaker 2>just want some of the black men who are leaders

0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:15.120
<v Speaker 2>in our culture to keep their legacy intact, you know, yeah.

0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:19.960
<v Speaker 1>Like I want you know, I don't aspire to you

0:23:20.040 --> 0:23:22.960
<v Speaker 1>know how people be like bragging about not having any

0:23:23.040 --> 0:23:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Black people in their neighborhood, Like I don't got no

0:23:25.359 --> 0:23:28.000
<v Speaker 1>black people in my neighborhood. Like I aspire to live

0:23:28.240 --> 0:23:31.040
<v Speaker 1>in a neighborhood with a bunch of affluent black people, right,

0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:33.320
<v Speaker 1>just a bunch of people doing well, a bunch of

0:23:33.359 --> 0:23:36.600
<v Speaker 1>black people doing well. Okay, it shouldn't just be a

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:40.639
<v Speaker 1>couple of us, and we can all turn this thing around,

0:23:41.240 --> 0:23:44.680
<v Speaker 1>but we have to. We have to get more communal, right,

0:23:44.960 --> 0:23:47.440
<v Speaker 1>we have to care about each other a little bit more,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more. Yeah, the comments that I see is

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<v Speaker 1>like it's almost like, y'all don't realize that Diddy is

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<v Speaker 1>where he's at because of because he's shipped on a

0:23:57.280 --> 0:23:59.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of black people. You don't shit on no white

0:23:59.640 --> 0:24:01.399
<v Speaker 1>people to get to where he's at.

0:24:02.560 --> 0:24:04.840
<v Speaker 2>We should have known when when he made them kids

0:24:04.920 --> 0:24:07.760
<v Speaker 2>walk to juniors for that cheesecake, We should have known.

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<v Speaker 1>Men who does that?

0:24:12.920 --> 0:24:13.639
<v Speaker 2>Who who does that?

0:24:13.840 --> 0:24:16.360
<v Speaker 1>And those those people were kids? Yeah, those were kids,

0:24:16.400 --> 0:24:19.920
<v Speaker 1>young young people, and you don't you don't need to

0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:21.520
<v Speaker 1>go through that he did. He even't go through that

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<v Speaker 1>to get to where he was, and look.

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<v Speaker 2>At not none of them had no real success after that,

0:24:30.359 --> 0:24:31.320
<v Speaker 2>non of cheesecake.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to address one more thing before we end signs.

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<v Speaker 1>So I only follow like two gossip blogs. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>unfollowed the majority of them because I don't need that

0:24:44.359 --> 0:24:46.800
<v Speaker 1>type of drama in my life often, right, but I

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:48.800
<v Speaker 1>like to get a little taste of it sometimes. But

0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:51.560
<v Speaker 1>one blog, Gossip in the City, which is probably one

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<v Speaker 1>of the worst blogs to be fucking following.

0:24:53.720 --> 0:24:55.360
<v Speaker 2>But she'd be telling the truth.

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:59.280
<v Speaker 1>She be she'd be knowing to know. Okay, she actually

0:24:59.359 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 1>went through these comments and pulled out like screenshots of women.

0:25:04.119 --> 0:25:07.679
<v Speaker 1>This is what is the psychology. There's something, it's something.

0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:11.000
<v Speaker 1>I've been saying this and I mean it, and it

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:13.040
<v Speaker 1>might be some people might take offense to it. But

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:18.560
<v Speaker 1>black women love abuse Stockholm syndrome. It's like, are you

0:25:18.720 --> 0:25:22.119
<v Speaker 1>drawn to this? Do you think it's okay? Like everybody

0:25:22.240 --> 0:25:25.800
<v Speaker 1>should not be forgiven, we should not forget some things.

0:25:26.800 --> 0:25:30.360
<v Speaker 2>But he hasn't even done anything to deserve any forgiveness yet,

0:25:30.600 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, like.

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:34.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so people. So one of the comments, it's crazy

0:25:34.840 --> 0:25:37.720
<v Speaker 1>how people judge people. Is not a person on here

0:25:37.880 --> 0:25:42.440
<v Speaker 1>ain't sinned. Yeah, you're right, you're right, but my sins

0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.800
<v Speaker 1>do not affect other people. I be cussing and fucking.

0:25:44.840 --> 0:25:49.199
<v Speaker 1>That's all I do. I don't do nothing major kill nobody.

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 1>I hurt nobody, like I swear, I want the best

0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:54.000
<v Speaker 1>for my people. I'm not gonna shit on nobody to

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:57.359
<v Speaker 1>get the fuck where I'm going at, Like I have integrity. Okay,

0:25:57.880 --> 0:26:01.480
<v Speaker 1>life goes on. We should have been okay, this merchant

0:26:01.520 --> 0:26:03.440
<v Speaker 1>is that life goes on. We should have been said

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:08.200
<v Speaker 1>something another woman. Everybody made mistakes. You don't need You

0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 1>don't need our forgiveness. You need cassies and gods. Trust me,

0:26:11.720 --> 0:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>they still gonna buy your music like everybody else's that

0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:19.360
<v Speaker 1>do stuff. And we forgive and we forgive given bad boy.

0:26:19.640 --> 0:26:21.760
<v Speaker 1>It's just what it is, no taking away from the

0:26:21.880 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 1>soundtrack that saved a lot.

0:26:23.200 --> 0:26:23.800
<v Speaker 2>Of our lives.

0:26:23.840 --> 0:26:26.320
<v Speaker 1>Who I ain't never like that ain't the music I

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:31.159
<v Speaker 1>listened to to save my life, right, it's just a

0:26:31.240 --> 0:26:35.960
<v Speaker 1>whole slew of of patty cake and ass women. Man,

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:38.439
<v Speaker 1>pick me, pick me, pick me, pick me.

0:26:38.960 --> 0:26:42.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I mean, all right, the music, the music

0:26:42.520 --> 0:26:45.920
<v Speaker 2>that he's involved with, you know, is a big part

0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:49.760
<v Speaker 2>of the soundtrack to my life. Right. But that don't

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:53.159
<v Speaker 2>they don't excuse him for his behavior, and he that

0:26:53.400 --> 0:26:55.720
<v Speaker 2>you know what, that kind of pandering makes me think

0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:58.600
<v Speaker 2>of when that white girl shot that black man in

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 2>his apartment and they was a court and they was

0:27:00.800 --> 0:27:03.359
<v Speaker 2>hugging her and crying, passing her the Bible or stuff

0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 2>like that. It pissed me off so bad, And so

0:27:05.560 --> 0:27:08.879
<v Speaker 2>does this like damn like y'all absolving him already. He

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:11.399
<v Speaker 2>need to go to Tibet. He needs to be sitting

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 2>in a become a monk. He need to do all

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:16.800
<v Speaker 2>kind of shit before I can say, did he is

0:27:16.840 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 2>a change man? And believe it?

0:27:18.560 --> 0:27:22.840
<v Speaker 1>You so saw what doctor Umar said, Know what he's saying.

0:27:24.359 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>Doctor Umar said, he probably just gonna go straight to

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:27.680
<v Speaker 1>the pulpit.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, oh and be a pastor.

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:35.359
<v Speaker 1>Now. Yes, I cannot like.

0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:40.040
<v Speaker 2>A lot of I couldn't imagine who his flock would be,

0:27:40.119 --> 0:27:44.920
<v Speaker 2>these same people that's pandering in the comments. Yes, yes, yes.

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 1>When you when you keep searching for something outside yourself,

0:27:48.320 --> 0:27:52.640
<v Speaker 1>there's always going to be a thing, a person that's

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to have control of you. When you

0:27:54.720 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>don't have self control yourself. You don't. You don't. You're

0:28:00.040 --> 0:28:03.359
<v Speaker 1>stood steadily searching for some ship outside of you instead

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:03.919
<v Speaker 1>of going with not.

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:06.520
<v Speaker 2>The Church of Love, always the church.

0:28:08.680 --> 0:28:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Naming this niggas church, not you naming this niggas church,

0:28:13.920 --> 0:28:14.640
<v Speaker 1>Church of Love.

0:28:17.800 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 2>We need you, we need you to. Did he bop

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:21.720
<v Speaker 2>to the collection plate?

0:28:22.760 --> 0:28:24.320
<v Speaker 1>Ain't no way, ain't no way.

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 2>He's got a lot of inner work, self work to do.

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:30.399
<v Speaker 2>I think his best bet would be to go to

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:34.720
<v Speaker 2>Thailand with Russell and start doing some other girl.

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh and it looks like he was out of the

0:28:37.119 --> 0:28:40.880
<v Speaker 1>country in that video. Okay, it looks like he was

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:42.600
<v Speaker 1>out of the country in the video. The only comment

0:28:42.640 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>I had was I didn't hear an apology to Cassie,

0:28:45.920 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 1>but apparently did a lawsuit. He couldn't. He probably can't

0:28:49.200 --> 0:28:50.720
<v Speaker 1>mention her name at this plane.

0:28:51.680 --> 0:28:56.440
<v Speaker 2>Nothing about that apology was sincere. No, did you see

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:58.840
<v Speaker 2>Daisie Banks? Did you see what Daisie Banks did?

0:28:58.920 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 1>He did?

0:28:59.440 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's too soon, it's joyce. But let me tell

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 2>you why it's okay to make because nobody took that.

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 2>Nobody with good sense took that apology. Series. Nobody saw

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 2>that and was like, Oh, this is a man who

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.160
<v Speaker 2>is bearing his soul to us right now, and he

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:21.600
<v Speaker 2>is being vulnerable and honest. No, nobody saw that. If

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:24.960
<v Speaker 2>you saw that and felt that, then you just believe

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 2>the sky's green because you just believe anything. It's clear

0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 2>that he was up against the wall and he felt

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 2>compelled to say anything to save any inkling of what

0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:38.440
<v Speaker 2>might seem like integrity. But we can see through that shit.

0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just found the doctor Umar post. He said,

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to give too much energy, as we

0:29:45.200 --> 0:29:48.000
<v Speaker 1>have far more important issues to address than what happened

0:29:48.000 --> 0:29:51.120
<v Speaker 1>ten years ago. However, this isn't the end for Diddy.

0:29:51.200 --> 0:29:55.480
<v Speaker 1>TD Jakes will help him set up his own megachurch.

0:29:55.920 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>We will be saved and baptized, No excuse me. He

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:02.160
<v Speaker 1>will be saved and baptized and will probably make more

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:05.760
<v Speaker 1>money as a pulpit pimp than he has ever made

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>as a mogul. Puffy will rise from the ashes born again. Damn,

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not forgiving. That ain't for me.

0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:19.800
<v Speaker 2>No, That's what I always tell people. God forgives. I

0:30:19.920 --> 0:30:22.560
<v Speaker 2>don't because that ain't That's not my job.

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 1>Because once you do it, I know it's in you.

0:30:25.000 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 2>You can do it again.

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:31.200
<v Speaker 1>I no longer like m absolutely not, because there's things.

0:30:31.320 --> 0:30:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't have those things in me, so it would

0:30:33.240 --> 0:30:36.200
<v Speaker 1>never happen. So did he has this thing in him?

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:38.600
<v Speaker 1>And you can kind of see him morphing. It's so

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 1>crazy when the people take their energy away from something.

0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:46.120
<v Speaker 1>How it started looking different? He looked different.

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:53.560
<v Speaker 2>He looks sick. That's the look of stress. Get well,

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:53.880
<v Speaker 2>did he?

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 1>But listening them?

0:30:56.320 --> 0:31:00.040
<v Speaker 2>Karma coins are real. You can't live like that and

0:31:00.160 --> 0:31:02.320
<v Speaker 2>expect nothing but goodness all the days of your life.

0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 2>That's not how it works. Baby. Them Karma crows on

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 2>real and it just worked.

0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 1>Too long on this realm. It's like doing me bad

0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:11.280
<v Speaker 1>shit get you a lot of places.

0:31:11.600 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 2>But listen, look how like it didn't. It didn't. The

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.720
<v Speaker 2>karma didn't hit him slowly in increments, but when it came, baby,

0:31:18.840 --> 0:31:22.880
<v Speaker 2>it came absolutely in a major way, the same way

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:25.520
<v Speaker 2>you was winning in a major way. This Carmera, bust

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 2>your ass.

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:30.840
<v Speaker 1>Listen, we're gonna take a quick break in and we're

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna come back to I mean topic, this topic. This

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 1>week we were talking at ig versus me, I G

0:31:36.440 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>versus your relationship. Right, you're posting up niggas. A nah niggas?

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Do I look like a bitch that post niggas? You know?

0:31:45.880 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Not me?

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:48.000
<v Speaker 2>That's what Glow Reala said.

0:31:49.920 --> 0:31:51.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh you still her name? Right?

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 2>You always call her? Yes? This be like Gorilla Glow

0:31:57.520 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 2>gorilla glue.

0:31:58.840 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Right back, y'all, we're back. And this week we wanted

0:32:07.760 --> 0:32:12.719
<v Speaker 1>to have a discussion about you know, posting your significant

0:32:12.760 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 1>other on social media because I send time a post

0:32:16.560 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 1>online where this girl posted her engagement. Right, this is

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:24.240
<v Speaker 1>their very first time posting his nan online and immediately

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:26.920
<v Speaker 1>shortly thereafter a bit you was hitting her up like, yeah,

0:32:26.960 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 1>that's my man. I'm and my man too, So it

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:34.360
<v Speaker 1>brings up the question should you even post your significant other?

0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>And you also see people like covering your baby faces

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 1>up and shit like that, But.

0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:40.520
<v Speaker 2>That's because the internet is cruel. It's a cruel plate.

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.880
<v Speaker 2>It is. Man. You don't want people talking about your

0:32:42.960 --> 0:32:45.240
<v Speaker 2>kid and saying nasty things to your child. You know,

0:32:45.440 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 2>like you didn't take that, but I can't take it here.

0:32:48.800 --> 0:32:51.480
<v Speaker 2>It depends on the day. Yeah too, me too, because

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 2>there's somebody talk about mine it.

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:58.040
<v Speaker 1>You and I got that if you don't put that

0:32:58.120 --> 0:32:59.680
<v Speaker 1>little fiber shit on there and get over it.

0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 2>So I'd be putting eyest on this.

0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:05.080
<v Speaker 1>Sh I seen some shit on it. I sent you

0:33:05.160 --> 0:33:06.600
<v Speaker 1>something other day. I was like, you be doing this

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:09.920
<v Speaker 1>that little black on people hand on the side.

0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 1>Like I might not have like a whole good head

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>of hair, but one thing about it.

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:18.960
<v Speaker 2>A bitch keeps some edges. My edges being they straight,

0:33:19.320 --> 0:33:20.880
<v Speaker 2>they okay, but they a little thin.

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:22.800
<v Speaker 1>Why. I just seen this video with this girl put

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:25.040
<v Speaker 1>a Jerry co on her edges and her hair came out.

0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I did that before, girl, you had a whole Jerry

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 1>curl on your whole hair. I tried to put a

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:32.640
<v Speaker 1>Jerry Curl on my edges, and I didn't do the

0:33:32.720 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 1>full process we you know, doing a Jerry curl like

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:36.920
<v Speaker 1>that Gina Curl. Shit they got Now it's like a

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:40.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of different steps, bitch. I just literally wiped them

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:41.960
<v Speaker 1>edges clean off my damn head.

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 2>You're lucky that grew back. Okay, So back to social media.

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 2>Do you post your person? Okay? The last time I

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 2>posted a mail.

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:55.040
<v Speaker 1>Was when I was engaged, and it wasn't even like

0:33:55.160 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 1>me just really posting the picture and we was like

0:33:57.160 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>out eating and I'm like ringing the picture because I

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 1>had one of my good friends at the time we

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 1>were no longer friends, but she told me that if

0:34:05.840 --> 0:34:10.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't post my engagement, it's not real. And I'm like, girl,

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:14.719
<v Speaker 1>like what? But luckily I didn't because here I am,

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm not married to this nigga, and I would have

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>posted his ass online like he wanted me to, and

0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, show my engagement all this shit, only to

0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:27.799
<v Speaker 1>not get married. I have seen that over and over again.

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.640
<v Speaker 1>I can count bitch's bodies based on the people be

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:33.319
<v Speaker 1>they be posting on their social media. So I prefer

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 1>not to, like I feel like I don't like my

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:36.960
<v Speaker 1>life online.

0:34:37.640 --> 0:34:41.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't like it. I don't post anybody, but

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:45.560
<v Speaker 2>that's because I ain't had nobody in a cloud. I'm like,

0:34:45.680 --> 0:34:47.480
<v Speaker 2>way if I get a nigga out of my postal,

0:34:47.600 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't know. I gotta wait till

0:34:49.120 --> 0:34:52.040
<v Speaker 2>I get there. But I just wouldn't want nobody coming

0:34:52.120 --> 0:34:54.560
<v Speaker 2>up talking about my man, my man and my man

0:34:55.000 --> 0:34:58.279
<v Speaker 2>so like. I would be afraid to post them. But

0:34:58.360 --> 0:35:01.200
<v Speaker 2>if it's so one you trust, be able to post

0:35:01.520 --> 0:35:04.200
<v Speaker 2>at least a little bit, like maybe vacation pigs or

0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 2>But do.

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:09.759
<v Speaker 1>You think people post for validation and confirmation for their relationships?

0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? I think it's a combination of things. Some is

0:35:13.400 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 2>just fun, we look good, let me post it, And some.

0:35:15.760 --> 0:35:18.360
<v Speaker 1>Of it is validation. You know, I want to validate

0:35:18.440 --> 0:35:18.799
<v Speaker 1>this thing.

0:35:19.120 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I just hate people who switch niggas every two months

0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 2>and have a different nigga.

0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Like, and you ain't tell us, you ain't give us

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 1>no update on the last nigga, Like, we need to

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:28.800
<v Speaker 1>know what happened to that relationship.

0:35:28.400 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 2>Exactly because I'm totally invested. I've been watching y'all e

0:35:30.840 --> 0:35:33.839
<v Speaker 2>ice cream go on dates. We're matching outfits and shit,

0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:34.520
<v Speaker 2>And now he's.

0:35:34.400 --> 0:35:37.520
<v Speaker 1>Just just gone like, no, we need an update, and

0:35:37.640 --> 0:35:39.560
<v Speaker 1>don't be telling us to mind out business either, because

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>you put.

0:35:39.920 --> 0:35:41.839
<v Speaker 2>Us in it. Can you put us in a group

0:35:41.920 --> 0:35:43.800
<v Speaker 2>chat exactly, so tell us what happens.

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 1>So I'm not putting people in my group chat. I'm

0:35:46.280 --> 0:35:47.319
<v Speaker 1>not creating a group chat.

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 2>He got a new nigga every two months, and she

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:53.400
<v Speaker 2>posts pictures. I take pictures with all my niggas, right,

0:35:53.440 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 2>but they see the phone. Nobody ever sees them. Nobody

0:35:57.200 --> 0:35:58.000
<v Speaker 2>ever sees them.

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:02.160
<v Speaker 1>I think the last two people I posted on social media,

0:36:02.239 --> 0:36:05.920
<v Speaker 1>the men initiated it. It wasn't me. I never need

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 1>validation from other people for shit. I'm not posting people one.

0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't want a bitch hitting me up and about

0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:16.200
<v Speaker 1>my man. And I remember my ex ex boyfriend who's

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:21.000
<v Speaker 1>the current. I posted him on social media once before,

0:36:21.080 --> 0:36:24.440
<v Speaker 1>and the bitch came on my page and only liked him.

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 1>She only liked the picture of this nigga. So now like,

0:36:28.320 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that was she was signaling to me, right,

0:36:30.719 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 1>that's a signal I did it. So I automatically was like,

0:36:33.360 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 1>who's this bitch? Because why would she come on my

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:37.840
<v Speaker 1>page and only like a picture of my man on

0:36:38.040 --> 0:36:38.840
<v Speaker 1>my baby.

0:36:38.640 --> 0:36:43.000
<v Speaker 2>My ex boyfriend, y'all, he got this girl pregnant and

0:36:43.200 --> 0:36:45.719
<v Speaker 2>on the baby shower pictures. I wouldn't have liked all

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:49.359
<v Speaker 2>the baby shower pictures like with him, Like no, all

0:36:49.440 --> 0:36:51.839
<v Speaker 2>of them were her by herself or her and her

0:36:51.880 --> 0:36:55.320
<v Speaker 2>friends or heard her mama with him. See fuckers, Patty,

0:36:55.400 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 2>I just feed the black man.

0:36:56.640 --> 0:36:57.239
<v Speaker 1>I ain't doing it.

0:36:57.360 --> 0:36:59.319
<v Speaker 2>I'm praying for this. That's why I was like, man,

0:36:59.320 --> 0:36:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm playing for me.

0:37:01.600 --> 0:37:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I ain't doing it. So I never initiate that type

0:37:04.600 --> 0:37:06.840
<v Speaker 1>of thing. And I feel like once a man posts me,

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:09.560
<v Speaker 1>I felt pressure to post him. M h. You know

0:37:09.600 --> 0:37:11.480
<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, Like I would get a question like

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:14.480
<v Speaker 1>you hiding? And you know I am a fraternizer a

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 1>little bit, so am I hiding?

0:37:16.239 --> 0:37:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Niggas? I feel like a lot of people, especially men,

0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:23.120
<v Speaker 2>don't post their girlfriend ever, like until like Mother's Day

0:37:23.200 --> 0:37:25.400
<v Speaker 2>or some shit like that, and then and then it

0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:27.000
<v Speaker 2>come down after mother's.

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Post a bit on the story that twenty four hours

0:37:29.520 --> 0:37:33.000
<v Speaker 1>that bitch going. I feel like, so my another relationship, well,

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.320
<v Speaker 1>actually the same relationship. I only had a couple of relationships.

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:39.320
<v Speaker 1>It'd be the same people in heavy rotation, so he

0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:43.560
<v Speaker 1>deleted all our pictures off of his social media. So

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:45.879
<v Speaker 1>my thing, you started this, right, because I was never

0:37:45.960 --> 0:37:48.759
<v Speaker 1>posting men on my social media. You started this. I

0:37:48.880 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>posted you, you posted me, right. We posting whatever pictures

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:54.880
<v Speaker 1>we have periodically. So one day I go on his

0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>social media and at the time, like he was rapping

0:37:57.040 --> 0:38:01.160
<v Speaker 1>and just outside right. Okay, this was years ago, and

0:38:01.360 --> 0:38:03.360
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, all my pictures are going, like

0:38:03.480 --> 0:38:06.800
<v Speaker 1>all our pictures were going fight no fight. He just

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>randomly went on there and removed all the pictures, and

0:38:09.160 --> 0:38:12.120
<v Speaker 1>his explanation was, I don't want people knowing who my

0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:16.640
<v Speaker 1>bitch is, so you don't want a motherfucker reaching out

0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:18.920
<v Speaker 1>to me. That's what That's how I took it. So

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, so that's what we're doing.

0:38:20.719 --> 0:38:21.560
<v Speaker 2>Let me go delete you.

0:38:21.640 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Off my page too. But it hurt my feelings and

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.799
<v Speaker 1>the process of deleting the pictures. I just got off

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>of social media. So I was off of social media

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:33.719
<v Speaker 1>from twenty twelve like twenty sixteen because of that situation. Really, yes,

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:35.440
<v Speaker 1>I din't get back on it to that. Nigga went

0:38:35.520 --> 0:38:39.759
<v Speaker 1>the jail. I got back on Instagram and Nigga lost

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:40.880
<v Speaker 1>my lost handle.

0:38:41.000 --> 0:38:43.560
<v Speaker 2>That's how I lost that aj holiday. That's why I'm two.

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.759
<v Speaker 1>Point zero because I got off of social media for

0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:49.600
<v Speaker 1>a nigga, Right where am I like? Because you like

0:38:49.760 --> 0:38:53.080
<v Speaker 1>deleting memories. You didn't even save these pictures to your phone,

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Like you're deleting memories at this point, So if that's

0:38:56.600 --> 0:38:58.239
<v Speaker 1>what we're doing, like, I'm not about to be the

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:03.000
<v Speaker 1>only person. Imagine you acting like you don't only want popping, right,

0:39:03.160 --> 0:39:05.759
<v Speaker 1>and you're deleting my shit? So now when people still

0:39:05.880 --> 0:39:07.800
<v Speaker 1>know we together, So when you go to my page,

0:39:08.200 --> 0:39:11.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not wanting pitches who just your man page blink.

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.040
<v Speaker 1>No pictures of you when they come to my pages,

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:16.239
<v Speaker 1>all our pictures, absolutely not. They're having a lot of time, lok,

0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:18.440
<v Speaker 1>don't tip me because I'm sating that out.

0:39:18.480 --> 0:39:20.840
<v Speaker 2>And now niggas have girlfriend. I'm like, look at this, nigga.

0:39:21.239 --> 0:39:23.000
<v Speaker 2>We had to do all this to take and work

0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:23.680
<v Speaker 2>to find out that.

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 1>You're a liar.

0:39:24.719 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 2>Girl. I remember I was talking to this guy and.

0:39:28.680 --> 0:39:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I found him on It might have been my spaces

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 1>at the time, my Space and Facebook at the time.

0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:36.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, you engaged. All he text me back was

0:39:36.719 --> 0:39:38.600
<v Speaker 2>motherfucking my space. That's all.

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:39.920
<v Speaker 1>He never talked to him again.

0:39:40.800 --> 0:39:42.880
<v Speaker 2>I got a guy in my DMS asking me to

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:45.480
<v Speaker 2>meet him in Miami. Right, First of all, I don't

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:48.359
<v Speaker 2>know you, right, so inviting me to Miami. I think

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:50.440
<v Speaker 2>it's insane. We're complete strangers.

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:51.480
<v Speaker 1>We haven't had any.

0:39:51.280 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 2>Real conversation, just a little back and forth about politics.

0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:56.800
<v Speaker 2>And then he asked me to come with him to Miami.

0:39:57.200 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 2>So now I go to look at your page because

0:39:59.000 --> 0:40:02.000
<v Speaker 2>I really haven't gone to the prior to that, I'm

0:40:02.080 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 2>talking about two days prior, he was celebrating his person

0:40:06.760 --> 0:40:10.160
<v Speaker 2>for being such a good mother. How I love it was,

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:14.000
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, you just celebrated your girl for

0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:17.160
<v Speaker 2>being a good person, and how I love you. He's like, yeah,

0:40:18.280 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 2>are you coming to Miami? Yo?

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:26.960
<v Speaker 1>No, absolutely, I really don't hate them, but god, man,

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:29.200
<v Speaker 1>why just do that?

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:33.080
<v Speaker 2>Then you are safe. Listen if you message me again,

0:40:33.120 --> 0:40:33.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm a screenshot.

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:35.880
<v Speaker 1>This is to be to your visit because what they are,

0:40:36.080 --> 0:40:38.680
<v Speaker 1>what they're doing is depending on your integrity not to

0:40:38.760 --> 0:40:40.760
<v Speaker 1>put their ass on blasts like this is what happens.

0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Wh y'all run into crazy bitches and they hit your

0:40:44.080 --> 0:40:47.080
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend up, they hit your wife up, they hit your

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>baby mama up because you just be out here doing

0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:52.600
<v Speaker 1>the most and just expecting people to just fall in line.

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:54.560
<v Speaker 2>No, you can't just be being deceitful.

0:40:55.200 --> 0:40:57.400
<v Speaker 1>Tell people what's up so they know what time it is.

0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 2>Did you see that? I don't know if this is

0:41:00.800 --> 0:41:03.080
<v Speaker 2>real or not, but it was a man and him

0:41:03.120 --> 0:41:05.160
<v Speaker 2>and his girl took pictures and they were dressed in

0:41:05.239 --> 0:41:07.200
<v Speaker 2>green and he had on the suit with the green tie.

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:09.160
<v Speaker 2>She had on the green dress, and she had her

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:12.640
<v Speaker 2>hand perch on his shoulder and they look so regal.

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:15.840
<v Speaker 2>And then the same nigga had on some tight.

0:41:15.760 --> 0:41:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Ag that's real? What's that dude? Messy something on Instagram?

0:41:19.200 --> 0:41:22.239
<v Speaker 2>And with a man wrapped around him? Like girl, every

0:41:22.320 --> 0:41:22.600
<v Speaker 2>time that.

0:41:22.680 --> 0:41:28.320
<v Speaker 1>Dude come across my timeline, I'm just like, because.

0:41:28.080 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 2>That was a real situation. That was Ai be yes

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:33.919
<v Speaker 2>and he is super sassy, Like, at what point did.

0:41:33.880 --> 0:41:36.320
<v Speaker 1>You get engaged in him? Like how you thought that

0:41:36.440 --> 0:41:38.919
<v Speaker 1>was gonna work? You have a kid, he has a son,

0:41:39.200 --> 0:41:41.080
<v Speaker 1>He has a son, he'd be posting.

0:41:40.880 --> 0:41:45.239
<v Speaker 2>His son child is so upset. And the Sun was

0:41:45.400 --> 0:41:50.160
<v Speaker 2>like vugan on a video. Really yes, well, I mean

0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:52.399
<v Speaker 2>that's okay if the Sun wants to Vogue. I don't

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:54.640
<v Speaker 2>have no problem with that. I just have a problem

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:58.600
<v Speaker 2>with just being deceitful like either girl, you want no.

0:41:58.640 --> 0:42:01.800
<v Speaker 1>Problem with him ring Vulgan when the kid had no

0:42:01.880 --> 0:42:03.120
<v Speaker 1>problem with nobody's.

0:42:02.719 --> 0:42:04.399
<v Speaker 2>Sexuality, we had, we talked, bag.

0:42:04.520 --> 0:42:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I got a problem with the kids, Volgan.

0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 2>Whatever they want to do, ain't know.

0:42:09.160 --> 0:42:11.560
<v Speaker 1>We at we talk bag. I'm gonna tell y'all goddamn truth.

0:42:11.560 --> 0:42:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't support that ship. Let them kids be kids.

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 1>Why is your kid walking around acting like you let

0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:17.040
<v Speaker 1>him choose?

0:42:18.160 --> 0:42:19.800
<v Speaker 2>I feel like that is a choice.

0:42:20.280 --> 0:42:22.480
<v Speaker 1>He's a kid though he's like five or six years old.

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:24.560
<v Speaker 1>He doesn't know. He just sees his dad.

0:42:25.040 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 2>How do you know that's where he's how he got

0:42:26.719 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 2>that from? Because, girl, his daddy.

0:42:28.280 --> 0:42:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Got a b b L.

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:32.560
<v Speaker 2>His daddy got a BBM. Yes, that dude ass is

0:42:32.640 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 2>not really that fat like he has daddy.

0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:42.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking that a sticker, I'm thinking that, nigga. Yeah,

0:42:42.719 --> 0:42:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I don't like it. I don't like it.

0:42:44.200 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm not about to pacify y'all niggas. Listen, all right,

0:42:47.400 --> 0:42:50.440
<v Speaker 2>back to the boyfriend.

0:42:50.960 --> 0:42:53.399
<v Speaker 1>You can have new times. Man, we almost gonna see

0:42:53.400 --> 0:42:56.040
<v Speaker 1>what we want nowadays. All right, It ain't no cancel

0:42:56.080 --> 0:42:56.799
<v Speaker 1>culture no more.

0:42:57.440 --> 0:42:59.879
<v Speaker 2>I have the pros and cons to consider. The post

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:03.600
<v Speaker 2>posting your partner on social media all right, It says,

0:43:03.640 --> 0:43:05.719
<v Speaker 2>when you share your relationship with the world, it can

0:43:05.800 --> 0:43:08.120
<v Speaker 2>help strengthen your bond with each other. Seeing all of

0:43:08.160 --> 0:43:10.640
<v Speaker 2>the positive comments and likes from friends and family can

0:43:10.680 --> 0:43:13.160
<v Speaker 2>make you feel appreciated and love. It can also be

0:43:13.239 --> 0:43:15.120
<v Speaker 2>a great way to show your partner how much you

0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:17.759
<v Speaker 2>love them. Of course, it's important to maintain a healthy

0:43:17.840 --> 0:43:21.800
<v Speaker 2>balance between sharing your relationship online and maintaining some privacy,

0:43:22.200 --> 0:43:24.319
<v Speaker 2>but if you use social media in a positive way,

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:26.720
<v Speaker 2>it can be a great tool for keeping your relationship strong.

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 1>The only way I would put myself my relationship on

0:43:29.239 --> 0:43:31.840
<v Speaker 1>social media is if we get the check off of it, like,

0:43:32.520 --> 0:43:35.920
<v Speaker 1>then I'll do it. Other than that, like your homegirl Lexi,

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:38.799
<v Speaker 1>like everybody loves to see her and this dude pop

0:43:38.920 --> 0:43:40.920
<v Speaker 1>up every once in a while in her videos, Like yeah,

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:45.080
<v Speaker 1>like that's great content. Other than that, what is the purpose? He?

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.560
<v Speaker 1>Ain't nobody visiting my page while I'm putting this nigga

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:47.759
<v Speaker 1>on there.

0:43:47.800 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you're family and friends.

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:52.719
<v Speaker 1>Girls. Fucking people know so much fun, so happy, and

0:43:52.800 --> 0:43:54.840
<v Speaker 1>they know what's really going on in our relationship. Well,

0:43:54.880 --> 0:43:56.440
<v Speaker 1>maybe you are heavy beating him up.

0:43:56.480 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes everything is good, you know, sometimes relationships are good. No,

0:44:01.600 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't really be beating up my partner. But no,

0:44:06.360 --> 0:44:09.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm not posting stuff for family either. The first come,

0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:13.239
<v Speaker 2>it can cause jealousy and envy from other people. Now

0:44:13.360 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 2>that is a big one, because I have a friend

0:44:17.160 --> 0:44:20.120
<v Speaker 2>right now who's going through an issue with some friends.

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:22.279
<v Speaker 1>In her life. She has a good life, she lives

0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:22.759
<v Speaker 1>a good life.

0:44:22.800 --> 0:44:25.960
<v Speaker 2>She got beautiful kids, beautiful family. Everything is lit, and

0:44:26.080 --> 0:44:29.359
<v Speaker 2>she's so pretty, and like some of her friends seem

0:44:29.440 --> 0:44:31.400
<v Speaker 2>to be envious of her right now.

0:44:32.280 --> 0:44:36.120
<v Speaker 1>And are they posting stuff? Are they like commenting on stuff?

0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:37.400
<v Speaker 1>Like not not commenting?

0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:39.839
<v Speaker 2>I mean the only reason they really know what's going

0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:43.000
<v Speaker 2>on is because of what she posts. And it's looking

0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 2>it's looking lit, you know, it looks lit. So how

0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 2>you know they're jealous? Like she had a conversation with me,

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:51.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh it was said to someone who will say something

0:44:51.040 --> 0:44:54.560
<v Speaker 2>else and it's like someone that she loves, or it's hurtful.

0:44:54.719 --> 0:44:56.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, she's hurt to hear these things.

0:44:57.560 --> 0:44:58.960
<v Speaker 2>I tol hers. You know, maybe you should have a

0:44:59.040 --> 0:45:01.319
<v Speaker 2>conversation about it and I told her I would pray

0:45:01.360 --> 0:45:04.440
<v Speaker 2>about it, but that jealousy and envy is a real thing.

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I tell my friends, ooh girl, I'm jealous right

0:45:07.719 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 2>when there's something good.

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:11.440
<v Speaker 1>But it's not just not real jealous, not like you're

0:45:11.480 --> 0:45:12.160
<v Speaker 1>happy for them.

0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like in a hangful way. No, like because when

0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:17.239
<v Speaker 2>my friend got that big ass white chanel, I was like,

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm jealous. I really was jealous, but not jealous where

0:45:22.160 --> 0:45:23.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't want her to have it, you know, right,

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:25.120
<v Speaker 2>I just want one too.

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:27.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And see, when things aren't going right in your relationship,

0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:29.279
<v Speaker 1>you might need to take a look at what you

0:45:29.400 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>be posting. Take a look at who's around you. It's

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:33.759
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people like side eye and you just

0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:37.279
<v Speaker 1>hoping your shit fall apart. So if you have like

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:40.880
<v Speaker 1>a big platform you're posting your relationship, not everybody's gonna

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:42.960
<v Speaker 1>like that, so that there's going to be negative energy

0:45:43.000 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that comes towards that union as well from people who

0:45:45.640 --> 0:45:46.959
<v Speaker 1>know you personally and now.

0:45:46.920 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 2>From the public.

0:45:48.040 --> 0:45:50.720
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like, if it's a relationship you actually

0:45:50.800 --> 0:45:54.200
<v Speaker 1>want to keep, you might want to do it different.

0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:57.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, hold that thought one second. Let's pay some bills.

0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 2>So I was talking to this guy. This girl who's

0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:06.800
<v Speaker 2>like a big social media girl. Y'all know her, but

0:46:06.840 --> 0:46:10.160
<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna tell y'all who she is. Messy, messy boots.

0:46:10.800 --> 0:46:13.160
<v Speaker 2>So they were dating. They went on a trip to

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:18.480
<v Speaker 2>like Thailand or somewhere right, and she posted a picture

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:21.799
<v Speaker 2>of them together and all the comments were like, oh,

0:46:21.880 --> 0:46:24.200
<v Speaker 2>y'all look so good, y'all look so great, Oh that's dope,

0:46:24.680 --> 0:46:26.400
<v Speaker 2>And it was like one or two that was like

0:46:26.600 --> 0:46:28.920
<v Speaker 2>why are you with this old ass nigga? Or like

0:46:29.120 --> 0:46:32.799
<v Speaker 2>just something two thirty eight for last comments like saying

0:46:32.880 --> 0:46:35.560
<v Speaker 2>something bad. You see why with this old ass nigga?

0:46:35.760 --> 0:46:39.200
<v Speaker 2>Excuse me? Why are you with him? Basically, and she

0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:40.440
<v Speaker 2>the ruined them.

0:46:40.480 --> 0:46:44.480
<v Speaker 1>He said, she allowed that to ruin the negative.

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:47.720
<v Speaker 2>The two or three nigga. It was like four hundred

0:46:47.960 --> 0:46:51.080
<v Speaker 2>positive comments and two or three negative comments, and she

0:46:51.239 --> 0:46:54.000
<v Speaker 2>allowed that to ruin. Why do Why don't he felt

0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 2>about the picture how she was treating him like it

0:46:57.160 --> 0:46:57.440
<v Speaker 2>was just.

0:46:58.040 --> 0:47:00.239
<v Speaker 1>So does she really like him? Because I mean, you

0:47:00.320 --> 0:47:02.680
<v Speaker 1>got four hundred positive comments and then these two people

0:47:02.760 --> 0:47:05.600
<v Speaker 1>call you out by having his granddaddy d and now

0:47:05.719 --> 0:47:08.080
<v Speaker 1>you feel some type of way, So do you really

0:47:08.239 --> 0:47:08.560
<v Speaker 1>like him?

0:47:09.520 --> 0:47:13.439
<v Speaker 2>Are you just influenced by what people say. Great leading, right, Like, yeah,

0:47:13.600 --> 0:47:15.719
<v Speaker 2>that affects you because I mean I think about it.

0:47:15.840 --> 0:47:19.000
<v Speaker 2>When we get comments, we love to do ones, but

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:21.080
<v Speaker 2>with a negative one we do focus.

0:47:20.840 --> 0:47:24.319
<v Speaker 1>More on day. You want to check that person immediately. Now,

0:47:24.400 --> 0:47:26.759
<v Speaker 1>I just block my block lives so fucking long, Like,

0:47:27.200 --> 0:47:29.719
<v Speaker 1>I just block them because I feel like that hurts

0:47:29.800 --> 0:47:32.240
<v Speaker 1>them more, like not to have access no more, because

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 1>so many these people wouldn't have access to you otherwise, right,

0:47:35.280 --> 0:47:36.840
<v Speaker 1>So why you think you could just wake up and

0:47:36.880 --> 0:47:38.920
<v Speaker 1>say what the fuck you want to say? Yeah, they

0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:41.160
<v Speaker 1>go study your page and then they come back and

0:47:41.239 --> 0:47:44.200
<v Speaker 1>make a nasty ass comment. So no, you don't get

0:47:44.239 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>to do that. So I just block them, comment goes away,

0:47:47.160 --> 0:47:49.520
<v Speaker 1>nobody else sees it, and you don't have access to

0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:50.520
<v Speaker 1>do the dumb shit no more.

0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:52.480
<v Speaker 2>No, I'll go to your page and look at all

0:47:52.560 --> 0:47:55.799
<v Speaker 2>your shit and a lot and I'm about to code

0:47:55.800 --> 0:47:59.000
<v Speaker 2>with the clap back for real. Cuz calling people kids ugly?

0:47:59.120 --> 0:48:03.720
<v Speaker 2>You you had hair last year, That's what happened.

0:48:04.320 --> 0:48:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I said, not do that from your page. Now why

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:10.759
<v Speaker 1>are you taking people from the podcast page log into

0:48:10.840 --> 0:48:13.040
<v Speaker 1>your ship and comment on this Nigga's son?

0:48:17.200 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 2>No, you definitely call him. You didn't call a kid ugly.

0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 1>You went on the dudes page. You called his ass ugly.

0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:24.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm gonna start doing that, man, I'm gonna start.

0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:26.160
<v Speaker 1>Why are you coming over here calling me?

0:48:26.640 --> 0:48:29.359
<v Speaker 2>What you said something? I really be looking people up though,

0:48:29.360 --> 0:48:33.040
<v Speaker 2>I definitely be using ben verified looking up people use

0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:37.600
<v Speaker 2>the id little age fam Oh, here I come, motherfucker,

0:48:37.920 --> 0:48:41.920
<v Speaker 2>here I come, bitch. No nigga was like, we like

0:48:41.960 --> 0:48:44.320
<v Speaker 2>two refrigerators. That's the one that got me, Like, what

0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:45.880
<v Speaker 2>are you looking at? What are you seeing?

0:48:45.920 --> 0:48:47.880
<v Speaker 1>And what type of bitches do you really have access to?

0:48:47.960 --> 0:48:50.960
<v Speaker 1>Because it ain't us the hell? Yeah, so you have

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:53.960
<v Speaker 1>to you know, these people aren't well, They aren't well,

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:56.239
<v Speaker 1>life ain't going well for them, and then they just

0:48:56.320 --> 0:48:59.240
<v Speaker 1>get to hide behind the cell phone of the computer

0:48:59.600 --> 0:49:01.839
<v Speaker 1>and say mean, heyful things, which is why I would

0:49:01.880 --> 0:49:05.560
<v Speaker 1>like to keep my relationship private. They was talking about.

0:49:08.080 --> 0:49:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Just Jazz is just Jazz? Right? Who had the baby?

0:49:10.760 --> 0:49:10.800
<v Speaker 1>For?

0:49:13.239 --> 0:49:14.319
<v Speaker 2>What's the football player?

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 1>So Charlotte no One cam Newton and you know she's

0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:20.440
<v Speaker 1>posting pictures of the baby, but of course the baby's

0:49:20.480 --> 0:49:23.080
<v Speaker 1>face is covered up. Just don't post her.

0:49:23.920 --> 0:49:25.200
<v Speaker 2>You know, people be acting like this.

0:49:25.360 --> 0:49:27.319
<v Speaker 1>The kids are like a thing, you know what I'm saying,

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 1>Like nanaa booboo, y'all can't like you know, people want

0:49:29.480 --> 0:49:30.319
<v Speaker 1>to see that damn baby.

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:34.040
<v Speaker 2>Just don't post a baby. Yeah, I feel you're.

0:49:33.920 --> 0:49:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Using a baby as a prop at this point in

0:49:37.160 --> 0:49:39.000
<v Speaker 1>your picture because you're we could see your face and

0:49:39.000 --> 0:49:40.839
<v Speaker 1>you smiling with your bathing suit on, and we can't

0:49:40.880 --> 0:49:41.440
<v Speaker 1>see the baby.

0:49:42.239 --> 0:49:46.560
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like people are concerned with what people

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:51.000
<v Speaker 2>will say about their child and they're scared. Look why

0:49:51.040 --> 0:49:51.520
<v Speaker 2>am I ask?

0:49:51.640 --> 0:49:54.719
<v Speaker 1>When his daughter was first born, his sister was telling

0:49:54.760 --> 0:49:57.040
<v Speaker 1>people like, I'm the reason why he hasn't.

0:49:56.840 --> 0:49:59.800
<v Speaker 2>Posted a baby. Little did they know this?

0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Nigga said he was waiting for her her features to

0:50:02.640 --> 0:50:05.799
<v Speaker 1>come in. Like it was him not thinking his baby

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:08.560
<v Speaker 1>was cute enough to post. It was not me right, Okay,

0:50:09.000 --> 0:50:10.760
<v Speaker 1>this nigga was not posting his baby.

0:50:11.239 --> 0:50:12.360
<v Speaker 2>They have nothing to do with me.

0:50:12.400 --> 0:50:15.000
<v Speaker 1>And his sister was like, he don't even post your

0:50:15.120 --> 0:50:18.040
<v Speaker 1>daughter because of this bitch Like, no, it's not me right,

0:50:18.760 --> 0:50:21.719
<v Speaker 1>your brother is Yeah, he waited for her to come

0:50:21.760 --> 0:50:24.560
<v Speaker 1>into her looks and I don't have you to do

0:50:24.680 --> 0:50:24.880
<v Speaker 1>with me.

0:50:25.120 --> 0:50:26.320
<v Speaker 2>And that's because people are me.

0:50:27.520 --> 0:50:30.440
<v Speaker 1>People be me or like I don't know, I have a.

0:50:30.800 --> 0:50:32.919
<v Speaker 2>You posted your baby, people under the picture talking about

0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:35.680
<v Speaker 2>that's a cute outfit. Baby, come to yours.

0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:39.440
<v Speaker 1>I got a friend who only posts her baby with filters,

0:50:40.120 --> 0:50:42.080
<v Speaker 1>and I just I'm so weirded out by that shit,

0:50:42.280 --> 0:50:46.359
<v Speaker 1>Like it's already re weird that people be really like, yes, girl, bitch,

0:50:46.440 --> 0:50:49.239
<v Speaker 1>that's not your real friend face first of all, and

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:51.560
<v Speaker 1>now you got the filter on a baby face. And

0:50:51.719 --> 0:50:54.080
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't like for anybody to post a picture of

0:50:54.120 --> 0:50:55.279
<v Speaker 1>her baby's regular face.

0:50:55.600 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy that I listen, I don't babies are awful

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:01.920
<v Speaker 2>is when it comes to don't filter the baby, but

0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 2>I do, Like I'm so obsessed with filters now, I'm like,

0:51:06.160 --> 0:51:09.040
<v Speaker 2>where's my filter in a picture? Like why is there

0:51:09.239 --> 0:51:13.959
<v Speaker 2>my real face? The filters are the worst.

0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:14.719
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I.

0:51:14.800 --> 0:51:16.960
<v Speaker 2>Used to just like my regular face, and now it's

0:51:17.000 --> 0:51:18.920
<v Speaker 2>like you need a filter, yeah.

0:51:18.760 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 1>Because everybody else is filtered up. So now you're gonna

0:51:21.719 --> 0:51:23.439
<v Speaker 1>just come on in and there with this basic ass

0:51:23.480 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking face.

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:28.160
<v Speaker 2>Have you seen like from.

0:51:28.120 --> 0:51:31.640
<v Speaker 1>Cartoon face and everything from the met Gallas they're posting

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:35.680
<v Speaker 1>these like close up pictures like they posted Cardi b Yeah,

0:51:36.000 --> 0:51:39.480
<v Speaker 1>like the you could see the real skin, skin with

0:51:39.680 --> 0:51:43.520
<v Speaker 1>tone and the real skin texture. This is this is

0:51:43.600 --> 0:51:46.000
<v Speaker 1>how people look. I saw JT had a video and

0:51:46.120 --> 0:51:48.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody call her ugly, like, oh these filters really like

0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 1>everybody uses filters, right, JT is beautiful with without the filter.

0:51:53.320 --> 0:51:55.200
<v Speaker 1>Of course, you know you assumoos your face out and

0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:58.239
<v Speaker 1>all that shit. Like, but imagine somebody just saying you

0:51:58.360 --> 0:52:00.680
<v Speaker 1>like you just ugly because you don't have a Meanwhile,

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:02.319
<v Speaker 1>you home looking like a basic bitch.

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:05.960
<v Speaker 2>That's the thing, because you filtered up and all your

0:52:06.000 --> 0:52:08.520
<v Speaker 2>pictures on social media where people see you in real life, like,

0:52:08.680 --> 0:52:10.920
<v Speaker 2>that is not the same. Who is that? Who's that guy?

0:52:11.360 --> 0:52:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:52:12.200 --> 0:52:15.160
<v Speaker 2>That's about cartoon face. This is my real face, your person.

0:52:15.280 --> 0:52:17.480
<v Speaker 2>You get cartoon don't lie and real face and person.

0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:20.480
<v Speaker 1>Girlan people are sick. We live in a six society

0:52:20.560 --> 0:52:23.439
<v Speaker 1>at this point. So what's some other pros and con bro.

0:52:23.520 --> 0:52:25.840
<v Speaker 2>It can make you feel more connected to your partner.

0:52:26.280 --> 0:52:28.560
<v Speaker 2>Social media can help you feel more connected to your

0:52:28.600 --> 0:52:31.800
<v Speaker 2>partner even when you're not physically together. Seeing their posts

0:52:31.800 --> 0:52:33.600
<v Speaker 2>and updates can give you a sense of what they're

0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:36.399
<v Speaker 2>doing and how they're feeling. This can be a great

0:52:36.440 --> 0:52:38.399
<v Speaker 2>way to stay in touch when you're apart. Of course,

0:52:38.440 --> 0:52:41.080
<v Speaker 2>it is important to balance this digital connection with real

0:52:41.160 --> 0:52:43.800
<v Speaker 2>life interaction. You don't want to spend more time staring

0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:45.760
<v Speaker 2>at your phone than you do talking to your partner.

0:52:45.880 --> 0:52:48.359
<v Speaker 2>But used in moderations, social media can be a great

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:49.680
<v Speaker 2>way to stay connected.

0:52:49.360 --> 0:52:51.800
<v Speaker 1>To the one you love. Yeah, but then you know,

0:52:51.840 --> 0:52:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure men are sick. They just want to

0:52:53.800 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 1>be at the restaurant Andy when it's go ahead and

0:52:55.160 --> 0:52:57.680
<v Speaker 1>eat their food. But you gotta take a picture to

0:52:57.760 --> 0:53:00.840
<v Speaker 1>food first. You gotta take a picure of him first,

0:53:01.400 --> 0:53:03.240
<v Speaker 1>and all this shit before you even post a picture.

0:53:03.280 --> 0:53:05.320
<v Speaker 1>It just takes away something.

0:53:05.400 --> 0:53:07.680
<v Speaker 2>It just takes away like the that's the con. It

0:53:07.719 --> 0:53:10.919
<v Speaker 2>can be overwhelming. I like, I don't like hanging out

0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:12.200
<v Speaker 2>with all.

0:53:12.200 --> 0:53:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Right, So the super content creators, all right, we supposed

0:53:17.560 --> 0:53:18.640
<v Speaker 1>to like be all right.

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:22.520
<v Speaker 2>If y'all go to our social media, it's nonexistent. It's trash.

0:53:22.680 --> 0:53:26.600
<v Speaker 2>We gotta do better about like participating and creating content.

0:53:26.719 --> 0:53:30.879
<v Speaker 1>But it's just it's too much. It's too much. Man.

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:33.600
<v Speaker 2>I have friends who like, I love him to death,

0:53:33.680 --> 0:53:37.840
<v Speaker 2>But everything is a movie. Everything is an opportunity to.

0:53:37.880 --> 0:53:40.640
<v Speaker 1>Create con you're not even enjoying the moment it no

0:53:40.760 --> 0:53:41.719
<v Speaker 1>longer becomes fun.

0:53:41.880 --> 0:53:44.400
<v Speaker 2>It's like I'm spending too much time trying to curate

0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:48.279
<v Speaker 2>the experience for your social media following that I'm not

0:53:48.480 --> 0:53:49.080
<v Speaker 2>having won.

0:53:49.000 --> 0:53:52.240
<v Speaker 1>In real life exactly So, So when you're on vacation,

0:53:52.560 --> 0:53:54.839
<v Speaker 1>like every month, I'm sick of seeing that god damn

0:53:54.880 --> 0:53:59.359
<v Speaker 1>boat taking them pictures with the drone. You don't be seeing. Yes,

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:06.480
<v Speaker 1>it's a clear they are Turks and Kekos. Everybody is

0:54:06.520 --> 0:54:08.800
<v Speaker 1>taking a picture and it's goddamn boat. I want to

0:54:08.840 --> 0:54:09.200
<v Speaker 1>get on it.

0:54:09.239 --> 0:54:13.120
<v Speaker 2>If it's clear, sign me up with the blue water. Yeah.

0:54:14.400 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 1>They done ran that shit in the whole man, I'm

0:54:16.160 --> 0:54:17.439
<v Speaker 1>sick of it. I don't want to see that shit

0:54:17.520 --> 0:54:19.560
<v Speaker 1>no more on my timeline. Okay, this guard the boat.

0:54:20.239 --> 0:54:22.399
<v Speaker 1>I always be like, y'all take the pictures. I'm gonna

0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:22.879
<v Speaker 1>live the life.

0:54:22.960 --> 0:54:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Y'all take the pictures because I can't be bothering.

0:54:26.200 --> 0:54:28.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll be hitting up everybody that was there, like,

0:54:28.400 --> 0:54:30.480
<v Speaker 1>can you send me your videos you got because I

0:54:30.520 --> 0:54:30.960
<v Speaker 1>ain't doing it.

0:54:31.040 --> 0:54:32.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm not doing none of that because I'm really the

0:54:32.920 --> 0:54:34.080
<v Speaker 2>entertainment right now.

0:54:34.200 --> 0:54:37.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not good. Yeah, Like, how do you enjoy your

0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:39.680
<v Speaker 1>vacation when the whole time, you got a whole setup.

0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:42.719
<v Speaker 1>They just gotta get a damn tripod. They got all

0:54:42.760 --> 0:54:46.040
<v Speaker 1>the things they traveling with. But if you're making money

0:54:46.080 --> 0:54:47.960
<v Speaker 1>off of it, that's the only time it makes sense

0:54:48.000 --> 0:54:50.839
<v Speaker 1>to me. I have friends that have nobody following them

0:54:51.440 --> 0:54:53.080
<v Speaker 1>but me, and this is the.

0:54:53.120 --> 0:54:54.759
<v Speaker 2>Type of shit they got going on.

0:54:54.920 --> 0:54:57.279
<v Speaker 1>They page and that's because they enjoy it. You gotta

0:54:57.360 --> 0:54:59.920
<v Speaker 1>enjoy it. At that point, they be talking to themselves

0:55:00.239 --> 0:55:04.360
<v Speaker 1>in the car, like nobody's following you. Is that what

0:55:04.480 --> 0:55:07.719
<v Speaker 1>they say when they say be consistent, just keep doing

0:55:07.760 --> 0:55:10.120
<v Speaker 1>it till you picks up people mat fuck that girl?

0:55:10.280 --> 0:55:16.600
<v Speaker 2>No? All right? So social media could be a great

0:55:16.600 --> 0:55:18.840
<v Speaker 2>way to document your relationship. You can look back on

0:55:18.920 --> 0:55:21.360
<v Speaker 2>all of the special moments that you've shared together and

0:55:21.440 --> 0:55:23.439
<v Speaker 2>see how far you've come. This can be a great

0:55:23.480 --> 0:55:26.600
<v Speaker 2>way to reminisce and feel grateful for what you already have.

0:55:27.200 --> 0:55:29.279
<v Speaker 1>So that's what I was mentioning when he's when my

0:55:29.360 --> 0:55:33.279
<v Speaker 1>ex started like deleting the memories of social media, Like

0:55:33.400 --> 0:55:35.040
<v Speaker 1>do you have that picture on your phone?

0:55:35.840 --> 0:55:35.960
<v Speaker 2>Now?

0:55:36.000 --> 0:55:39.600
<v Speaker 1>It's just gone because you're worrying about what some bitches think?

0:55:40.520 --> 0:55:41.680
<v Speaker 2>Did you have it in yours?

0:55:42.200 --> 0:55:44.520
<v Speaker 1>No? Because they like were pitches that he would have taken,

0:55:44.719 --> 0:55:46.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So you just delete like

0:55:47.000 --> 0:55:49.360
<v Speaker 1>we were at like wedding stuff like that. They just

0:55:49.480 --> 0:55:53.960
<v Speaker 1>gone because you're concerned about what did somebody else think

0:55:53.960 --> 0:55:56.120
<v Speaker 1>about you having these pitches on your page or whatever.

0:55:56.239 --> 0:55:59.239
<v Speaker 1>You create a second account. That's what he probably should

0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:02.040
<v Speaker 1>have done. Yeah, something he said.

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:05.360
<v Speaker 2>Here's a con the relationship is either too new or

0:56:05.520 --> 0:56:09.520
<v Speaker 2>unstable to share with the world. What is too new though, Like,

0:56:09.880 --> 0:56:13.239
<v Speaker 2>how do you know, you bitch, that's not your man

0:56:13.840 --> 0:56:16.680
<v Speaker 2>and you posting him on social media? The weirdest thing

0:56:16.719 --> 0:56:19.279
<v Speaker 2>to me is like when women know that they know.

0:56:19.400 --> 0:56:24.040
<v Speaker 1>That's not they man, and they still post somebody else

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:25.360
<v Speaker 1>man on their social media.

0:56:25.680 --> 0:56:31.080
<v Speaker 2>Them bitches can fight. Obviously. I had that going on

0:56:31.200 --> 0:56:33.040
<v Speaker 2>the first date with this guy. He was like, let's

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<v Speaker 2>take a picture. Okay, we can take a picture. I'm

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:37.440
<v Speaker 2>not opposed to taking a picture. So we took a

0:56:37.520 --> 0:56:39.439
<v Speaker 2>picture on this first date. We had a good time,

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<v Speaker 2>right and then later on that night I get home

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<v Speaker 2>and I look on Facebook and he posted a picture.

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<v Speaker 2>It tagged his whole family and was like, me and

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<v Speaker 2>my baby out on a lunch date. What I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>Too soon?

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody tag I was I never saw him again. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you say something even about it? Yeah? I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>why did you post me like that? We only went

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<v Speaker 2>on one day. I barely know you to tag your grandmama.

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<v Speaker 2>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>He must be trying to prove something that they must

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<v Speaker 1>have thought something else about him, like look, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a girlfriend right see see, and that's what I got

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<v Speaker 1>out of that. No, I knew this.

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<v Speaker 2>I was cool with this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't fuck with her and don't murdered.

0:57:27.680 --> 0:57:31.400
<v Speaker 2>But she was dating this guy and they were they

0:57:31.440 --> 0:57:33.960
<v Speaker 2>were moving really fast. It was like maybe three weeks

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<v Speaker 2>in and he had her around his son and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if he got out the car or something

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, but she took a picture with the.

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<v Speaker 1>Son in the car and posted in and posted it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The mama was like, I don't know who the fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Take this picture of my child down and I'm thinking, like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>why would you post that? That is if people be psychopaths.

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<v Speaker 1>So's there's some etiquette, right, maybe we should they had

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<v Speaker 1>a list of that, like what is the what is

0:58:01.880 --> 0:58:04.960
<v Speaker 1>the etiquette when posting your relationship on social media? I

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<v Speaker 1>guess this is something you need to discuss with the

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<v Speaker 1>person you with and how comfortable they are with whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is that you want to do. But I would

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<v Speaker 1>not just be posting somebody's kids on my social media.

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<v Speaker 2>You're tripping. That's insane.

0:58:17.360 --> 0:58:20.160
<v Speaker 1>You're tripping, and you asking to get beat up because

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:24.040
<v Speaker 1>these mamas be real sensitive about their little snotty nose brats,

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<v Speaker 1>their own kid.

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<v Speaker 2>They covering their faces up with emulji. You think you

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<v Speaker 2>can post it?

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's insane, that's terrible. What's the last last? I

0:58:34.920 --> 0:58:37.480
<v Speaker 1>keep your relationship private, man, That's what I believe. And

0:58:37.560 --> 0:58:43.800
<v Speaker 1>it's not because I'm hiding niggas, okay, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>seen I just don't like you, my business man. I

0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:50.240
<v Speaker 1>like to be able to show people what I want

0:58:50.320 --> 0:58:53.520
<v Speaker 1>them to see because I think there should be a

0:58:53.640 --> 0:58:57.919
<v Speaker 1>differentiation between the social media life and your real life.

0:58:57.960 --> 0:59:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Although I am the same person on the Internet that

0:59:00.280 --> 0:59:02.920
<v Speaker 1>I am in real life, it's just some things I

0:59:03.000 --> 0:59:05.240
<v Speaker 1>want to keep it myself, which would be my relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably would post my kid before I post the man.

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<v Speaker 1>Listen, I am not unless I got married, Like if

0:59:11.520 --> 0:59:15.360
<v Speaker 1>we're married, that's different. But like these boyfriend girlfriend relationships, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not posting them, no more that shit over it.

0:59:17.320 --> 0:59:19.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't feel like I'm I can't say I'm the

0:59:19.880 --> 0:59:23.200
<v Speaker 2>same person. But you only get my highlight real on

0:59:23.600 --> 0:59:27.080
<v Speaker 2>social media. That don't get my like everyday regular shit.

0:59:27.160 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 1>You don't get that.

0:59:27.720 --> 0:59:29.920
<v Speaker 2>You get parts of the highlight reel and just small

0:59:30.000 --> 0:59:33.520
<v Speaker 2>pieces of it. That's all I got for you, because

0:59:33.600 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 2>y'all don't see.

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<v Speaker 1>Me with my wig off on social media.

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<v Speaker 2>You not. You're not gonna see me with my wig off.

0:59:38.280 --> 0:59:40.880
<v Speaker 2>You're not going to see in the bonnet. No, you're

0:59:40.920 --> 0:59:41.640
<v Speaker 2>not gonna see.

0:59:41.440 --> 0:59:43.680
<v Speaker 1>Me in my bonnet. Like I'm not doing that, none

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<v Speaker 1>of that, just the highlights. Is this something empowering about

0:59:47.200 --> 0:59:48.040
<v Speaker 1>getting on the internet?

0:59:48.200 --> 0:59:48.920
<v Speaker 2>Like looking like that?

0:59:49.960 --> 0:59:52.760
<v Speaker 1>Like looking like I don't even say looking like yourself

0:59:53.080 --> 0:59:55.120
<v Speaker 1>because I want to always look like my best self.

0:59:55.760 --> 0:59:58.360
<v Speaker 1>So people will get on the internet not looking like

0:59:58.440 --> 1:00:00.960
<v Speaker 1>their best selves because thats what they look like.

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<v Speaker 2>Those are the people who do the best, though, they

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<v Speaker 2>really do. The people who just come as they are

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<v Speaker 2>whatever they are before there, okay doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Eyeliner lashes, And it doesn't mean I'm insecure. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to look like I'm going to a

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<v Speaker 1>wedding every fucking day. Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Told you. That's see that, y'all, So we'll talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>We talk back, suggesting you to keep your just keep

1:00:35.880 --> 1:00:39.840
<v Speaker 1>the relationship private, especially if if ship rocky. Yeah, you'll

1:00:39.840 --> 1:00:41.520
<v Speaker 1>want to be looking stupid in the month from now,

1:00:41.680 --> 1:00:44.000
<v Speaker 1>y'all and broke up or you get back together. Like

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<v Speaker 1>now people get to even see your dumbis ship because

1:00:46.440 --> 1:00:49.120
<v Speaker 1>people start posing subliminal ship to their exes.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you end up back with the person.

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<v Speaker 1>So that that's another thing, Like, just keep all your

1:00:53.440 --> 1:00:57.520
<v Speaker 1>ship dumb ship private, and don't it only makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>to be making money.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I like. Post. You're a post wedding pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, that's it, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, don't post me.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't even post the announcement, just post the half the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh how about people posting your wedding before you do.

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<v Speaker 2>I've seen that too. I don't mind if they're at

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding. How are you gonna stop them for posting

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<v Speaker 2>their experience?

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<v Speaker 1>If I say, don't post my experience, then don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I want somebody posting my wedding before I

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<v Speaker 1>get to posting on social media. I don't want that.

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<v Speaker 2>People create hashtags for people to post your wedding. I

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<v Speaker 2>probably wouldn't anyway, y'all. All right, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>And never hold your nigga, your your photos off Instagram.

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