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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: So you're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode and

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Speaker 1: We Talked Back and show dedicated to you dreamers and

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Speaker 1: chasers and lovers. Okay, this is your co host, AJ Holiday.

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Tam Bam?

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Speaker 2: Its official Tam Bam. I love y'all. I love you Aj.

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Speaker 2: How you doing? Love you? Mar?

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Speaker 1: I'm well stayed out the heat? Okay, what the hell

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Speaker 1: happened to spring?

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Speaker 2: It wasn't no spring. We went straight from winter to summer,

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Speaker 2: straight from like straight the hell?

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Speaker 1: What is happening? It's so hot outside. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: stay cool, but I am going to go on a walk. Man, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I've been eating the horses lately. What

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Speaker 1: you mean, girl? All type of shit? Just eating like

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Speaker 1: and I know I need to just need to get

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Speaker 1: out the fucking house. That's really the problem. Yeah, bitch,

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Speaker 1: get out the goddamn house. But I started rewatching the

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Speaker 1: Game of Thrones again.

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Speaker 2: Oh actually that like when it was cold, I started

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Speaker 2: from the beginning.

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Speaker 1: Look, I had to google how much hours. Uh is

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Speaker 1: it to watch the full Game of Thrones? Y'all's sixty

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Speaker 1: four point four hours?

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Speaker 2: That's not that bad one.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm on season four right now.

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Speaker 2: Like, what's your favorite what's your favorite scene or episode

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Speaker 2: or moment in the show.

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Speaker 1: Let me see what is my favorite?

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Speaker 2: Why are you thinking? I'll tell you mine?

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Speaker 1: No, the very end, actually the very end where the

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Speaker 1: youngest sister what's her name, Aria, Aria? Well, Aria killed

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Speaker 1: the killed the Walkers, then King. Yeah, that was my favorite.

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Speaker 1: Park Is who was expecting her low ass to come

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Speaker 1: do She's that? She actually has my favorite storyline.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's my favorite. One of my favorite characters, John Snow.

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Speaker 2: I love John Snow. My one of my favorite moments

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Speaker 2: in the show was when we found out how hold

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Speaker 2: Door got his name, Hold the Door, Hold the Door,

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Speaker 2: Hold Door, Hold Door Holder.

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Speaker 1: I was blown away.

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Speaker 2: I was like, stupid bitch, when I tell you, I

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Speaker 2: was so into that show, Like I remember, like when this.

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Speaker 1: Time goodass writing.

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Speaker 2: When that final season came on, y'all that night, the

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Speaker 2: first episode of the final season, I swear to god,

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Speaker 2: I was marching around my living room in my draws

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Speaker 2: with a pot lid like well of my big pot

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Speaker 2: lids like it.

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Speaker 1: Was a shield, and I was like, I love that show.

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Speaker 1: They don't even make shows like this for real no more.

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Speaker 1: This is why rewatching it because I don't watch that

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Speaker 1: much TV anyway, and I just wanted to watch something good.

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Speaker 1: So this is my first time rewatching it because when

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Speaker 1: I watched it before, I binge watched seasons one through

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Speaker 1: seven just so I can watch the season finale with

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Speaker 1: everybody else. I didn't watch it at all prior to

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Speaker 1: uh coming out. Yeah, so yeah, I love Gaming Thrones

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Speaker 1: me too, me too. The House of Dragons is about

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Speaker 1: to come back on soon too. I've seen that, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know they was trying to cancel that the new

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Speaker 1: season really so they are, Yeah, they didn't, they weren't

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Speaker 1: gonna come out. But I feel like they're telling the

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Speaker 1: truth with that game with the House of the Dragon,

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Speaker 1: because notice there are black people in the House of

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Speaker 1: the Dragon, a lot of them, and they were in

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Speaker 1: power the richest, the Sea Snake, he had the biggest army,

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Speaker 1: in the most ships. But we also get to see

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Speaker 1: how these niggas cannot resist them white ladies. It's a

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Speaker 1: lot of fuck we got where we're at right now.

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Speaker 1: It was too much true history being being shown.

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Speaker 2: So that's what I think about Lovecraft Lovecraft Country. I

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Speaker 2: love that show and I've me too after one season.

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Speaker 1: Me too, gir. I be d M and the girl

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Speaker 1: who wrote that show because I want to write with her.

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Speaker 1: Did she be ignoring me? Damn? One days now I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna put my ship out and then they're gonna be

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Speaker 1: on my nuts. That's what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: That's how it works.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Jordan Peele, niggatta be messaging you two?

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Speaker 2: What did you do over the weekend?

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Speaker 1: I ain't doing shit. I started watching the Game of

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Speaker 1: Thrones on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: So.

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Speaker 1: Oh, actually, my mom's birthday, Uh, another famous Gemini Okay,

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Speaker 1: her birthday is on Thursday. So my oldest sister and

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Speaker 1: her kids came into town, so we all hung on.

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Speaker 2: Happy birthday. Mama.

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Speaker 1: Talk loud. I don't know why. When all the family

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Speaker 1: get together, everybody just talks extra loud. It so it's

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Speaker 1: extra loud and extra Gichi sounds like and I'll just

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Speaker 1: be like, can we talk lower? Why are we yelling

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Speaker 1: and everybody fighting to be heard? Yes?

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Speaker 2: I listen. When I got off on Saturday. I did

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Speaker 2: not leave my house until today. I did not come

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Speaker 2: out the house at all. That's good, that's good. Just

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Speaker 2: mm I stay. I pretty much spent the whole Sunday

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Speaker 2: in bed, and that was it. I don't even think

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Speaker 2: I watched much any TV.

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Speaker 1: I just kind of.

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Speaker 2: Squirreled and read and masturbated.

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Speaker 1: That was it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was it. That was my Sunday.

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Speaker 1: He was in there selutting yourself out, y'all. Gemini season

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Speaker 1: started yesterday. So I did take me a nice spiritual

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Speaker 1: bath to kick the shits off. Okay, and we're coming

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Speaker 1: up on a full moon. If y'all want that that recipe,

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Speaker 1: so y'all can have a nice prosperous summer. Let me know.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, I was.

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Speaker 1: Going to actually record it and show the whole process,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, nah, man, everybody ain't privy to this magic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well send some juju my way. I don't need

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Speaker 2: no more recipes though, I'm scared of this ship with them.

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Speaker 2: Ricky just riaky. The last thing I was trying to recipe.

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Look, damn, you see how God be for me?

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Speaker 1: Intention I might I might have fucked up the intentions

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Speaker 1: of your ship. You ain't supposed to show it to me.

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Speaker 1: That's what happened.

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Speaker 2: Well as you showed it to me, it's okay because

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Speaker 2: I don't need that in no way that God did

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Speaker 2: not want that for me. All right, let's get in this.

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Speaker 1: We only got one sent for the week, y'all. God

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Speaker 1: damn ditty, dumb diddy dumb. Okay, y'all, I was inside

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Speaker 1: of y'all. Ever been to one of those ben places

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Speaker 1: like they have like all of this return ship or

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Speaker 1: discontinue shit from like the Walmart and Target and all

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Speaker 1: these different places, but they like big ben sit. It's

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Speaker 1: like a big ass swap me and people are in

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Speaker 1: there like picking through shit.

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Speaker 2: It.

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Speaker 1: That's where I was, okay when the fucking video dropped,

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Speaker 1: because it's some little nickknack shit I needed, and I

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Speaker 1: knew I could find it in there, like I needed

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Speaker 1: like a little vegetable chopper or that type of shit.

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Speaker 1: But I literally was digging through a bin and the

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Speaker 1: video came out. I sent the video to everybody I

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Speaker 1: knew and my cell phone once I saw it, and

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Speaker 1: out of the ten people I might have sent it to,

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Speaker 1: one of my friends send a message back saying, you

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Speaker 1: can't believe what you see. This could be AI. I'm

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Speaker 1: at a beIN cussing a nigga out via FaceTime.

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Speaker 2: Like how was this Ai? Like y'all just refused to

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Speaker 2: believe black women, like you could see it with your

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Speaker 2: own eyes and still have doubts.

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Speaker 1: That shit is so scary to me and that to

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Speaker 1: me is own. That is really the gist of this

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Speaker 1: whole thing. Were in trouble we are in because even

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Speaker 1: with like Meg the Stallion situation, like people had to

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Speaker 1: have seen a Diddy video in order for people to

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Speaker 1: have believed her. Yeah, like we and even when they

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Speaker 1: have the proof, it'll be conversations like, well, they just

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Speaker 1: trying to take down another black man. Do y'all not

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Speaker 1: realize that if he didn't do the thing, the video

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Speaker 1: wouldn't exist.

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Speaker 2: It wouldn't be not in to take down because he

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Speaker 2: didn't do the thing. Yeah, I mean there is there

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Speaker 2: is some.

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Speaker 1: We all know. We all know the thing, Like we

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Speaker 1: all know that we're going to get exploited and when

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Speaker 1: we do the worship, we're going to get exploded, exploited

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Speaker 1: even more than the white man, because y'all want to

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Speaker 1: compare him to Harvey Weinstein and Jeffrey Epstein. You know,

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Speaker 1: y'all want to compare his crime to these white men

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Speaker 1: and feel like, oh, they didn't get the public humiliation

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Speaker 1: that Diddy is getting. Let's take into consideration that we,

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Speaker 1: the black people who consume this shit, we contribute contribute

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Speaker 2: Dynamic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we contribute to that because we like negativity. I'm

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Speaker 1: saying collectively, because I'm not talking about me collectively. This

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Speaker 1: is the type of ship black people want to see.

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Speaker 1: And and I don't really be seeing a whole bunch

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Speaker 1: of white people wishing on a nigga's downfall. I don't

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Speaker 1: really see it. But look in the comments regular people

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Speaker 1: every day on the most randommest celebrity or even somebody

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Speaker 1: you deem to have more than you. What are you

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Speaker 1: doing to them? Y'all raise them up to tear and

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Speaker 1: you want to also simultaneously be the ones to tear

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's how council cultures started. It's just people

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Speaker 2: wanting to tear the motherfucker down that's up higher than

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Speaker 2: they are, I think.

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Speaker 1: But that's not the case with Diddy. Did he tore

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Speaker 1: his own his self down? He tore himself down, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like it needs to put it needs to

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Speaker 1: be public. You know, Sean the youngest son King Combs,

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Speaker 1: he should have left that disk track out because the

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Speaker 1: fads was like, oh, okay, we dropping we dropping a

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Speaker 1: hit this week too.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe he didn't know no better. I'm just because

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Speaker 2: was did he capable of hiding this truth? Because all

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Speaker 2: these people that he's around are We're all of y'all

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Speaker 2: complicit in this behavior, Like because y'all got a problem,

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Speaker 2: it's a problem with you too. At that point, if

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Speaker 2: everybody around all these yes men and they're like, that's

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Speaker 2: just diddy, you know, they that's just diddying him and

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Speaker 2: allowing this behavior to go on, and nobody's saying like

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Speaker 2: course correct to him. Nobody.

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Speaker 1: I believe that the people around him, and also a

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Speaker 1: lot of the men in the commons and a lot

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Speaker 1: of the women are complicit with this type of behavior.

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Speaker 1: And I won't get into how women get duped right

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Speaker 1: and to this thing, because I think it starts with religion.

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Speaker 1: I think it starts with the church, how women are

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Speaker 1: supposed to be and just letting men men it starts

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Speaker 1: and get real, it gets real oppressive.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but beating up on women and just it being Okay.

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Speaker 1: That's not new, that's not new though. We were once

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Speaker 1: property even after slavery. You know what I'm saying, for

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Speaker 1: a long time. Your wife, you owned her. You could

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Speaker 2: You could beat her and if she went to the police,

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Speaker 2: they wouldn't even do shit.

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Speaker 1: You could rape her. So now we're talking about human

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Speaker 2: Girl, I just seen a video of people having sex

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Speaker 2: Man, he should say, somebody should have beat his ass

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Speaker 1: Bitch, bad boy. He been telling y'all exactly who he was,

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Speaker 2: So it's just wild. Even if the answer is yes,

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Speaker 2: you have to enjoy it, right, they say, are you

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Speaker 2: Nobody says you have to enjoy it? But a billion dollars,

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Speaker 1: The thing is, it didn't happen unless there's video. That'd

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Speaker 1: all this slime ball shit. I'm I'm exploit women, I

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Speaker 2: It, until you running down the hallway in the hotel

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Speaker 1: And this is a lot of the comments I saw too,

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Speaker 2: This man was really like out there saying people have

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Speaker 2: destroy me. It's crazy. That's insanity to me, Like some

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Speaker 2: For you to be called out and then double down

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Speaker 1: I ain't never had nobody stumble on me, but I

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Speaker 2: Because she is a small little she was a small

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Speaker 1: These type of men, they don't want people to know

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Speaker 1: how did they even get the footage? I said, this

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Speaker 1: Who sees it like he isn't Why would you think

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Speaker 2: And this is just one instance that we got to see.

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Speaker 2: Imagine how much abuse that girl suffered.

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Speaker 1: That probably wasn't the last. She probably didn't leave after

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Speaker 2: I don't know. And then I just think I think

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Speaker 2: Kim suffered all of the women.

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Speaker 1: That left twenty eighteen. Well she wait, wait, wait, no,

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Speaker 1: she married Alex Fine in twenty nineteen. Okay, yeah, so

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Speaker 2: Horror, Yeah, Lorraham Mercy and then having to like watch

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Speaker 2: like that and you got to relive it, and that

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Speaker 2: everybody's talking about it. Everybody's talking about it. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: it's a lot of people who probably like who are

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Speaker 2: actually friends with Diddy that are like, oh, that was

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Speaker 2: That's the thing, y'all are just gilt.

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Speaker 1: None of the people coming out I don't respect none

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Speaker 1: of the people coming out, like the bodyguards and shit

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Speaker 1: like that coming out speaking because you you watched all

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Speaker 2: Right, You was complicit in it as far as I'm concerned,

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Speaker 2: Piper Piper what's his name, Morgan Piper, Piper, Peter Piper

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Speaker 2: whatever I'm telling you now, I want to tell my story,

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Speaker 2: Like boy, and you're a whole security guard. You probably

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Speaker 1: I don't know why people think celebrities are exempt from

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Speaker 2: It is. Listen, there's I won't say his name, but

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Speaker 2: socie a path. I don't know why he's not in

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Speaker 2: because you got a little bit money, you get away

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Speaker 2: with a lot of shit and treating people bad. It's

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Speaker 2: not uncommon. A whole fucking lunatic shame.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but every dog will have their day. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So Diddy's baby mama, Justin's mom, Misa, she came out.

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Speaker 1: She said, I am heartbroken that Cassie must relived the

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Speaker 2: With So basically she's saying, he used to do that

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Speaker 1: And you know with Kim, I just feel like Kim

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Speaker 2: And I just imagine what them kids have seen. What

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Speaker 1: Misa goes on to say. She says, these young people

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Speaker 1: the personal work and receives it. But y'all been new this, y'all.

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Speaker 1: Women enabled them to the one who just had a

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Speaker 2: What about that girl, the Asian girl? Oh, your Miami

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you pick a fights with JT while this shit going.

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Speaker 2: On, right that part. But what about that young Asian

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Speaker 2: stumped her in the stomach that was hard to see while.

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Speaker 1: Somebody else was pregnant for him having a baby Hue. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So even these women, you know what I'm saying. We

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Speaker 1: on a yacht. We've seen it. Y'all knew y'all with

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Speaker 1: this monster. But it's the money, it's the resource, it's

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Speaker 1: the access, right, So none of you are innocent.

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Speaker 2: Listen, let me tell you something. You got some good

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Speaker 1: And I was like, you can't look at his eyes.

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Speaker 1: I don't have to be around people to know who

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Speaker 1: He can't. He always he's always looking away when having

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Speaker 1: because some people can see you. I see you. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you when I hear what you don't say,

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Speaker 2: I was at this party last year, I won't say

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Speaker 2: was assuming because I was thinking, like, ain't they together

438
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 2: while they sitting so far apart. Well, maybe I was

439
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 2: just feeling some devil energy from that nigga.

440
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: No, absolutely, absolutely, man, Listen, that's why. And every day

441
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, God, let me just I Sometimes as women,

442
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 1: we don't trust our intuition. But as long as you

443
00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 1: got a womb, you got some major discernment. Trust it.

444
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 2: Well, another one of are black and put this in

445
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 2: heavy quotation, heroes twice to dust. And you know, I

446
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 2: just want some of the black men who are leaders

447
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:15,120
Speaker 2: in our culture to keep their legacy intact, you know, yeah.

448
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 1: Like I want you know, I don't aspire to you

449
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: know how people be like bragging about not having any

450
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: Black people in their neighborhood, Like I don't got no

451
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 1: black people in my neighborhood. Like I aspire to live

452
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 1: in a neighborhood with a bunch of affluent black people, right,

453
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: just a bunch of people doing well, a bunch of

454
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: black people doing well. Okay, it shouldn't just be a

455
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 1: couple of us, and we can all turn this thing around,

456
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: but we have to. We have to get more communal, right,

457
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 1: we have to care about each other a little bit more,

458
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: a lot more. Yeah, the comments that I see is

459
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: like it's almost like, y'all don't realize that Diddy is

460
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 1: where he's at because of because he's shipped on a

461
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 1: lot of black people. You don't shit on no white

462
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 1: people to get to where he's at.

463
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: We should have known when when he made them kids

464
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,760
Speaker 2: walk to juniors for that cheesecake, We should have known.

465
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 1: Men who does that?

466
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:13,639
Speaker 2: Who who does that?

467
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,360
Speaker 1: And those those people were kids? Yeah, those were kids,

468
00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: young young people, and you don't you don't need to

469
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: go through that he did. He even't go through that

470
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: to get to where he was, and look.

471
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: At not none of them had no real success after that,

472
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: non of cheesecake.

473
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: I want to address one more thing before we end signs.

474
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: So I only follow like two gossip blogs. Okay, I

475
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: unfollowed the majority of them because I don't need that

476
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: type of drama in my life often, right, but I

477
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 1: like to get a little taste of it sometimes. But

478
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: one blog, Gossip in the City, which is probably one

479
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: of the worst blogs to be fucking following.

480
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 2: But she'd be telling the truth.

481
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: She be she'd be knowing to know. Okay, she actually

482
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: went through these comments and pulled out like screenshots of women.

483
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 1: This is what is the psychology. There's something, it's something.

484
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: I've been saying this and I mean it, and it

485
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 1: might be some people might take offense to it. But

486
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: black women love abuse Stockholm syndrome. It's like, are you

487
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,119
Speaker 1: drawn to this? Do you think it's okay? Like everybody

488
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: should not be forgiven, we should not forget some things.

489
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:30,360
Speaker 2: But he hasn't even done anything to deserve any forgiveness yet,

490
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: you know, like.

491
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, so people. So one of the comments, it's crazy

492
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: how people judge people. Is not a person on here

493
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: ain't sinned. Yeah, you're right, you're right, but my sins

494
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,800
Speaker 1: do not affect other people. I be cussing and fucking.

495
00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: That's all I do. I don't do nothing major kill nobody.

496
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 1: I hurt nobody, like I swear, I want the best

497
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: for my people. I'm not gonna shit on nobody to

498
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: get the fuck where I'm going at, Like I have integrity. Okay,

499
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: life goes on. We should have been okay, this merchant

500
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: is that life goes on. We should have been said

501
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 1: something another woman. Everybody made mistakes. You don't need You

502
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 1: don't need our forgiveness. You need cassies and gods. Trust me,

503
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,920
Speaker 1: they still gonna buy your music like everybody else's that

504
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 1: do stuff. And we forgive and we forgive given bad boy.

505
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: It's just what it is, no taking away from the

506
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 1: soundtrack that saved a lot.

507
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 2: Of our lives.

508
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: Who I ain't never like that ain't the music I

509
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 1: listened to to save my life, right, it's just a

510
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: whole slew of of patty cake and ass women. Man,

511
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 1: pick me, pick me, pick me, pick me.

512
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I mean, all right, the music, the music

513
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 2: that he's involved with, you know, is a big part

514
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 2: of the soundtrack to my life. Right. But that don't

515
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 2: they don't excuse him for his behavior, and he that

516
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 2: you know what, that kind of pandering makes me think

517
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 2: of when that white girl shot that black man in

518
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: his apartment and they was a court and they was

519
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 2: hugging her and crying, passing her the Bible or stuff

520
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 2: like that. It pissed me off so bad, And so

521
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 2: does this like damn like y'all absolving him already. He

522
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 2: need to go to Tibet. He needs to be sitting

523
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: in a become a monk. He need to do all

524
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 2: kind of shit before I can say, did he is

525
00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 2: a change man? And believe it?

526
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: You so saw what doctor Umar said, Know what he's saying.

527
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: Doctor Umar said, he probably just gonna go straight to

528
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: the pulpit.

529
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 2: Now, oh and be a pastor.

530
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: Now. Yes, I cannot like.

531
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: A lot of I couldn't imagine who his flock would be,

532
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 2: these same people that's pandering in the comments. Yes, yes, yes.

533
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: When you when you keep searching for something outside yourself,

534
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: there's always going to be a thing, a person that's

535
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 1: gonna be able to have control of you. When you

536
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: don't have self control yourself. You don't. You don't. You're

537
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 1: stood steadily searching for some ship outside of you instead

538
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 1: of going with not.

539
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 2: The Church of Love, always the church.

540
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 1: Naming this niggas church, not you naming this niggas church,

541
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:14,640
Speaker 1: Church of Love.

542
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: We need you, we need you to. Did he bop

543
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: to the collection plate?

544
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: Ain't no way, ain't no way.

545
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 2: He's got a lot of inner work, self work to do.

546
00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 2: I think his best bet would be to go to

547
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 2: Thailand with Russell and start doing some other girl.

548
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: Oh and it looks like he was out of the

549
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: country in that video. Okay, it looks like he was

550
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: out of the country in the video. The only comment

551
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: I had was I didn't hear an apology to Cassie,

552
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: but apparently did a lawsuit. He couldn't. He probably can't

553
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 1: mention her name at this plane.

554
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 2: Nothing about that apology was sincere. No, did you see

555
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: Daisie Banks? Did you see what Daisie Banks did?

556
00:28:58,920 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 1: He did?

557
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 2: Oh, it's too soon, it's joyce. But let me tell

558
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: you why it's okay to make because nobody took that.

559
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: Nobody with good sense took that apology. Series. Nobody saw

560
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: that and was like, Oh, this is a man who

561
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: is bearing his soul to us right now, and he

562
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 2: is being vulnerable and honest. No, nobody saw that. If

563
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: you saw that and felt that, then you just believe

564
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 2: the sky's green because you just believe anything. It's clear

565
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: that he was up against the wall and he felt

566
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 2: compelled to say anything to save any inkling of what

567
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 2: might seem like integrity. But we can see through that shit.

568
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just found the doctor Umar post. He said,

569
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: I'm not going to give too much energy, as we

570
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: have far more important issues to address than what happened

571
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: ten years ago. However, this isn't the end for Diddy.

572
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 1: TD Jakes will help him set up his own megachurch.

573
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 1: We will be saved and baptized, No excuse me. He

574
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 1: will be saved and baptized and will probably make more

575
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: money as a pulpit pimp than he has ever made

576
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: as a mogul. Puffy will rise from the ashes born again. Damn,

577
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: I'm not forgiving. That ain't for me.

578
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 2: No, That's what I always tell people. God forgives. I

579
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 2: don't because that ain't That's not my job.

580
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: Because once you do it, I know it's in you.

581
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: You can do it again.

582
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: I no longer like m absolutely not, because there's things.

583
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: I don't have those things in me, so it would

584
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 1: never happen. So did he has this thing in him?

585
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: And you can kind of see him morphing. It's so

586
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: crazy when the people take their energy away from something.

587
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 1: How it started looking different? He looked different.

588
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: He looks sick. That's the look of stress. Get well,

589
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 2: did he?

590
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: But listening them?

591
00:30:56,320 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 2: Karma coins are real. You can't live like that and

592
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 2: expect nothing but goodness all the days of your life.

593
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 2: That's not how it works. Baby. Them Karma crows on

594
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 2: real and it just worked.

595
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: Too long on this realm. It's like doing me bad

596
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: shit get you a lot of places.

597
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 2: But listen, look how like it didn't. It didn't. The

598
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 2: karma didn't hit him slowly in increments, but when it came, baby,

599
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 2: it came absolutely in a major way, the same way

600
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 2: you was winning in a major way. This Carmera, bust

601
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 2: your ass.

602
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: Listen, we're gonna take a quick break in and we're

603
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: gonna come back to I mean topic, this topic. This

604
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: week we were talking at ig versus me, I G

605
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: versus your relationship. Right, you're posting up niggas. A nah niggas?

606
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: Do I look like a bitch that post niggas? You know?

607
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: Not me?

608
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 2: That's what Glow Reala said.

609
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: Oh you still her name? Right?

610
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 2: You always call her? Yes? This be like Gorilla Glow

611
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: gorilla glue.

612
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: Right back, y'all, we're back. And this week we wanted

613
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 1: to have a discussion about you know, posting your significant

614
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 1: other on social media because I send time a post

615
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: online where this girl posted her engagement. Right, this is

616
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: their very first time posting his nan online and immediately

617
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: shortly thereafter a bit you was hitting her up like, yeah,

618
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 1: that's my man. I'm and my man too, So it

619
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: brings up the question should you even post your significant other?

620
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: And you also see people like covering your baby faces

621
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: up and shit like that, But.

622
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 2: That's because the internet is cruel. It's a cruel plate.

623
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: It is. Man. You don't want people talking about your

624
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 2: kid and saying nasty things to your child. You know,

625
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 2: like you didn't take that, but I can't take it here.

626
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 2: It depends on the day. Yeah too, me too, because

627
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: there's somebody talk about mine it.

628
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: You and I got that if you don't put that

629
00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 1: little fiber shit on there and get over it.

630
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 2: So I'd be putting eyest on this.

631
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: Sh I seen some shit on it. I sent you

632
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: something other day. I was like, you be doing this

633
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: that little black on people hand on the side.

634
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

635
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 1: Like I might not have like a whole good head

636
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: of hair, but one thing about it.

637
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 2: A bitch keeps some edges. My edges being they straight,

638
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: they okay, but they a little thin.

639
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: Why. I just seen this video with this girl put

640
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: a Jerry co on her edges and her hair came out.

641
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: I did that before, girl, you had a whole Jerry

642
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: curl on your whole hair. I tried to put a

643
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: Jerry Curl on my edges, and I didn't do the

644
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: full process we you know, doing a Jerry curl like

645
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: that Gina Curl. Shit they got Now it's like a

646
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: lot of different steps, bitch. I just literally wiped them

647
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: edges clean off my damn head.

648
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: You're lucky that grew back. Okay, So back to social media.

649
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: Do you post your person? Okay? The last time I

650
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 2: posted a mail.

651
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 1: Was when I was engaged, and it wasn't even like

652
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: me just really posting the picture and we was like

653
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: out eating and I'm like ringing the picture because I

654
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: had one of my good friends at the time we

655
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: were no longer friends, but she told me that if

656
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: I don't post my engagement, it's not real. And I'm like, girl,

657
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: like what? But luckily I didn't because here I am,

658
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm not married to this nigga, and I would have

659
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: posted his ass online like he wanted me to, and

660
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: you know, show my engagement all this shit, only to

661
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 1: not get married. I have seen that over and over again.

662
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 1: I can count bitch's bodies based on the people be

663
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: they be posting on their social media. So I prefer

664
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: not to, like I feel like I don't like my

665
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 1: life online.

666
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't like it. I don't post anybody, but

667
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 2: that's because I ain't had nobody in a cloud. I'm like,

668
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 2: way if I get a nigga out of my postal,

669
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. I gotta wait till

670
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 2: I get there. But I just wouldn't want nobody coming

671
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 2: up talking about my man, my man and my man

672
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 2: so like. I would be afraid to post them. But

673
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 2: if it's so one you trust, be able to post

674
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: at least a little bit, like maybe vacation pigs or

675
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 2: But do.

676
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 1: You think people post for validation and confirmation for their relationships?

677
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 2: Absolutely? I think it's a combination of things. Some is

678
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 2: just fun, we look good, let me post it, And some.

679
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 1: Of it is validation. You know, I want to validate

680
00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: this thing.

681
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,880
Speaker 2: I just hate people who switch niggas every two months

682
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 2: and have a different nigga.

683
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: Like, and you ain't tell us, you ain't give us

684
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: no update on the last nigga, Like, we need to

685
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,800
Speaker 1: know what happened to that relationship.

686
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 2: Exactly because I'm totally invested. I've been watching y'all e

687
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 2: ice cream go on dates. We're matching outfits and shit,

688
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: And now he's.

689
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 1: Just just gone like, no, we need an update, and

690
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: don't be telling us to mind out business either, because

691
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: you put.

692
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 2: Us in it. Can you put us in a group

693
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 2: chat exactly, so tell us what happens.

694
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: So I'm not putting people in my group chat. I'm

695
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:47,319
Speaker 1: not creating a group chat.

696
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,520
Speaker 2: He got a new nigga every two months, and she

697
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: posts pictures. I take pictures with all my niggas, right,

698
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: but they see the phone. Nobody ever sees them. Nobody

699
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 2: ever sees them.

700
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: I think the last two people I posted on social media,

701
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: the men initiated it. It wasn't me. I never need

702
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,560
Speaker 1: validation from other people for shit. I'm not posting people one.

703
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't want a bitch hitting me up and about

704
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: my man. And I remember my ex ex boyfriend who's

705
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: the current. I posted him on social media once before,

706
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: and the bitch came on my page and only liked him.

707
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: She only liked the picture of this nigga. So now like,

708
00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: I feel like that was she was signaling to me, right,

709
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: that's a signal I did it. So I automatically was like,

710
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,279
Speaker 1: who's this bitch? Because why would she come on my

711
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: page and only like a picture of my man on

712
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 1: my baby.

713
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 2: My ex boyfriend, y'all, he got this girl pregnant and

714
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 2: on the baby shower pictures. I wouldn't have liked all

715
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 2: the baby shower pictures like with him, Like no, all

716
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 2: of them were her by herself or her and her

717
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 2: friends or heard her mama with him. See fuckers, Patty,

718
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 2: I just feed the black man.

719
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: I ain't doing it.

720
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: I'm praying for this. That's why I was like, man,

721
00:36:59,320 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 2: I'm playing for me.

722
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I ain't doing it. So I never initiate that type

723
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 1: of thing. And I feel like once a man posts me,

724
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: I felt pressure to post him. M h. You know

725
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I would get a question like

726
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: you hiding? And you know I am a fraternizer a

727
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: little bit, so am I hiding?

728
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 2: Niggas? I feel like a lot of people, especially men,

729
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: don't post their girlfriend ever, like until like Mother's Day

730
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 2: or some shit like that, and then and then it

731
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 2: come down after mother's.

732
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: Post a bit on the story that twenty four hours

733
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: that bitch going. I feel like, so my another relationship, well,

734
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 1: actually the same relationship. I only had a couple of relationships.

735
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 1: It'd be the same people in heavy rotation, so he

736
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: deleted all our pictures off of his social media. So

737
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,879
Speaker 1: my thing, you started this, right, because I was never

738
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: posting men on my social media. You started this. I

739
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: posted you, you posted me, right. We posting whatever pictures

740
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 1: we have periodically. So one day I go on his

741
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: social media and at the time, like he was rapping

742
00:37:57,040 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: and just outside right. Okay, this was years ago, and

743
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, all my pictures are going, like

744
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,800
Speaker 1: all our pictures were going fight no fight. He just

745
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: randomly went on there and removed all the pictures, and

746
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: his explanation was, I don't want people knowing who my

747
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 1: bitch is, so you don't want a motherfucker reaching out

748
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 1: to me. That's what That's how I took it. So

749
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so that's what we're doing.

750
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: Let me go delete you.

751
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: Off my page too. But it hurt my feelings and

752
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: the process of deleting the pictures. I just got off

753
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: of social media. So I was off of social media

754
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: from twenty twelve like twenty sixteen because of that situation. Really, yes,

755
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: I din't get back on it to that. Nigga went

756
00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: the jail. I got back on Instagram and Nigga lost

757
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 1: my lost handle.

758
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 2: That's how I lost that aj holiday. That's why I'm two.

759
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: Point zero because I got off of social media for

760
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: a nigga, Right where am I like? Because you like

761
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: deleting memories. You didn't even save these pictures to your phone,

762
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: Like you're deleting memories at this point, So if that's

763
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: what we're doing, like, I'm not about to be the

764
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 1: only person. Imagine you acting like you don't only want popping, right,

765
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 1: and you're deleting my shit? So now when people still

766
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 1: know we together, So when you go to my page,

767
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: I'm not wanting pitches who just your man page blink.

768
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: No pictures of you when they come to my pages,

769
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,239
Speaker 1: all our pictures, absolutely not. They're having a lot of time, lok,

770
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:18,440
Speaker 1: don't tip me because I'm sating that out.

771
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 2: And now niggas have girlfriend. I'm like, look at this, nigga.

772
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: We had to do all this to take and work

773
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 2: to find out that.

774
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: You're a liar.

775
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: Girl. I remember I was talking to this guy and.

776
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: I found him on It might have been my spaces

777
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: at the time, my Space and Facebook at the time.

778
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, you engaged. All he text me back was

779
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 2: motherfucking my space. That's all.

780
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: He never talked to him again.

781
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 2: I got a guy in my DMS asking me to

782
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: meet him in Miami. Right, First of all, I don't

783
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 2: know you, right, so inviting me to Miami. I think

784
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: it's insane. We're complete strangers.

785
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: We haven't had any.

786
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: Real conversation, just a little back and forth about politics.

787
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: And then he asked me to come with him to Miami.

788
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 2: So now I go to look at your page because

789
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:02,000
Speaker 2: I really haven't gone to the prior to that, I'm

790
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 2: talking about two days prior, he was celebrating his person

791
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 2: for being such a good mother. How I love it was,

792
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 2: and I was like, you just celebrated your girl for

793
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 2: being a good person, and how I love you. He's like, yeah,

794
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 2: are you coming to Miami? Yo?

795
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: No, absolutely, I really don't hate them, but god, man,

796
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: why just do that?

797
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: Then you are safe. Listen if you message me again,

798
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: I'm a screenshot.

799
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: This is to be to your visit because what they are,

800
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: what they're doing is depending on your integrity not to

801
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 1: put their ass on blasts like this is what happens.

802
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: Wh y'all run into crazy bitches and they hit your

803
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: girlfriend up, they hit your wife up, they hit your

804
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: baby mama up because you just be out here doing

805
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: the most and just expecting people to just fall in line.

806
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 2: No, you can't just be being deceitful.

807
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 1: Tell people what's up so they know what time it is.

808
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: Did you see that? I don't know if this is

809
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: real or not, but it was a man and him

810
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 2: and his girl took pictures and they were dressed in

811
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 2: green and he had on the suit with the green tie.

812
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: She had on the green dress, and she had her

813
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 2: hand perch on his shoulder and they look so regal.

814
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 2: And then the same nigga had on some tight.

815
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,040
Speaker 1: Ag that's real? What's that dude? Messy something on Instagram?

816
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 2: And with a man wrapped around him? Like girl, every

817
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 2: time that.

818
00:41:22,680 --> 00:41:28,320
Speaker 1: Dude come across my timeline, I'm just like, because.

819
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 2: That was a real situation. That was Ai be yes

820
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,919
Speaker 2: and he is super sassy, Like, at what point did.

821
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: You get engaged in him? Like how you thought that

822
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,919
Speaker 1: was gonna work? You have a kid, he has a son,

823
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: He has a son, he'd be posting.

824
00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: His son child is so upset. And the Sun was

825
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 2: like vugan on a video. Really yes, well, I mean

826
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 2: that's okay if the Sun wants to Vogue. I don't

827
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: have no problem with that. I just have a problem

828
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: with just being deceitful like either girl, you want no.

829
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 1: Problem with him ring Vulgan when the kid had no

830
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: problem with nobody's.

831
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 2: Sexuality, we had, we talked, bag.

832
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,880
Speaker 1: I got a problem with the kids, Volgan.

833
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 2: Whatever they want to do, ain't know.

834
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: We at we talk bag. I'm gonna tell y'all goddamn truth.

835
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't support that ship. Let them kids be kids.

836
00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: Why is your kid walking around acting like you let

837
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: him choose?

838
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 2: I feel like that is a choice.

839
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: He's a kid though he's like five or six years old.

840
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: He doesn't know. He just sees his dad.

841
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 2: How do you know that's where he's how he got

842
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 2: that from? Because, girl, his daddy.

843
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 1: Got a b b L.

844
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 2: His daddy got a BBM. Yes, that dude ass is

845
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: not really that fat like he has daddy.

846
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: I'm thinking that a sticker, I'm thinking that, nigga. Yeah,

847
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I don't like it.

848
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 2: I'm not about to pacify y'all niggas. Listen, all right,

849
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 2: back to the boyfriend.

850
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,399
Speaker 1: You can have new times. Man, we almost gonna see

851
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: what we want nowadays. All right, It ain't no cancel

852
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 1: culture no more.

853
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 2: I have the pros and cons to consider. The post

854
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 2: posting your partner on social media all right, It says,

855
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 2: when you share your relationship with the world, it can

856
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 2: help strengthen your bond with each other. Seeing all of

857
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 2: the positive comments and likes from friends and family can

858
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 2: make you feel appreciated and love. It can also be

859
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 2: a great way to show your partner how much you

860
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 2: love them. Of course, it's important to maintain a healthy

861
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,800
Speaker 2: balance between sharing your relationship online and maintaining some privacy,

862
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 2: but if you use social media in a positive way,

863
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,720
Speaker 2: it can be a great tool for keeping your relationship strong.

864
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: The only way I would put myself my relationship on

865
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 1: social media is if we get the check off of it, like,

866
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 1: then I'll do it. Other than that, like your homegirl Lexi,

867
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: like everybody loves to see her and this dude pop

868
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,920
Speaker 1: up every once in a while in her videos, Like yeah,

869
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 1: like that's great content. Other than that, what is the purpose? He?

870
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody visiting my page while I'm putting this nigga

871
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: on there.

872
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: I mean, you're family and friends.

873
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: Girls. Fucking people know so much fun, so happy, and

874
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: they know what's really going on in our relationship. Well,

875
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: maybe you are heavy beating him up.

876
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes everything is good, you know, sometimes relationships are good. No,

877
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: I don't really be beating up my partner. But no,

878
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: I'm not posting stuff for family either. The first come,

879
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 2: it can cause jealousy and envy from other people. Now

880
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: that is a big one, because I have a friend

881
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 2: right now who's going through an issue with some friends.

882
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 1: In her life. She has a good life, she lives

883
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: a good life.

884
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 2: She got beautiful kids, beautiful family. Everything is lit, and

885
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 2: she's so pretty, and like some of her friends seem

886
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 2: to be envious of her right now.

887
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: And are they posting stuff? Are they like commenting on stuff?

888
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 1: Like not not commenting?

889
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 2: I mean the only reason they really know what's going

890
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: on is because of what she posts. And it's looking

891
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: it's looking lit, you know, it looks lit. So how

892
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 2: you know they're jealous? Like she had a conversation with me,

893
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: Oh it was said to someone who will say something

894
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 2: else and it's like someone that she loves, or it's hurtful.

895
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:56,720
Speaker 1: You know, she's hurt to hear these things.

896
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 2: I tol hers. You know, maybe you should have a

897
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: conversation about it and I told her I would pray

898
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 2: about it, but that jealousy and envy is a real thing.

899
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes I tell my friends, ooh girl, I'm jealous right

900
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: when there's something good.

901
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 1: But it's not just not real jealous, not like you're

902
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: happy for them.

903
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like in a hangful way. No, like because when

904
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 2: my friend got that big ass white chanel, I was like,

905
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 2: I'm jealous. I really was jealous, but not jealous where

906
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 2: I don't want her to have it, you know, right,

907
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: I just want one too.

908
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, And see, when things aren't going right in your relationship,

909
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:29,279
Speaker 1: you might need to take a look at what you

910
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: be posting. Take a look at who's around you. It's

911
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: a lot of people like side eye and you just

912
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 1: hoping your shit fall apart. So if you have like

913
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: a big platform you're posting your relationship, not everybody's gonna

914
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: like that, so that there's going to be negative energy

915
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: that comes towards that union as well from people who

916
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:46,959
Speaker 1: know you personally and now.

917
00:45:46,920 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: From the public.

918
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 1: So I feel like, if it's a relationship you actually

919
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 1: want to keep, you might want to do it different.

920
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,280
Speaker 2: Okay, hold that thought one second. Let's pay some bills.

921
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 2: So I was talking to this guy. This girl who's

922
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,800
Speaker 2: like a big social media girl. Y'all know her, but

923
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna tell y'all who she is. Messy, messy boots.

924
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: So they were dating. They went on a trip to

925
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:18,480
Speaker 2: like Thailand or somewhere right, and she posted a picture

926
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,799
Speaker 2: of them together and all the comments were like, oh,

927
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 2: y'all look so good, y'all look so great, Oh that's dope,

928
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 2: And it was like one or two that was like

929
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 2: why are you with this old ass nigga? Or like

930
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,799
Speaker 2: just something two thirty eight for last comments like saying

931
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 2: something bad. You see why with this old ass nigga?

932
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 2: Excuse me? Why are you with him? Basically, and she

933
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: the ruined them.

934
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 1: He said, she allowed that to ruin the negative.

935
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,720
Speaker 2: The two or three nigga. It was like four hundred

936
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: positive comments and two or three negative comments, and she

937
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 2: allowed that to ruin. Why do Why don't he felt

938
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 2: about the picture how she was treating him like it

939
00:46:57,160 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 2: was just.

940
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: So does she really like him? Because I mean, you

941
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: got four hundred positive comments and then these two people

942
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: call you out by having his granddaddy d and now

943
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: you feel some type of way, So do you really

944
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: like him?

945
00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,439
Speaker 2: Are you just influenced by what people say. Great leading, right, Like, yeah,

946
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:15,719
Speaker 2: that affects you because I mean I think about it.

947
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 2: When we get comments, we love to do ones, but

948
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 2: with a negative one we do focus.

949
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 1: More on day. You want to check that person immediately. Now,

950
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: I just block my block lives so fucking long, Like,

951
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: I just block them because I feel like that hurts

952
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 1: them more, like not to have access no more, because

953
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: so many these people wouldn't have access to you otherwise, right,

954
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 1: So why you think you could just wake up and

955
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: say what the fuck you want to say? Yeah, they

956
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: go study your page and then they come back and

957
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: make a nasty ass comment. So no, you don't get

958
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: to do that. So I just block them, comment goes away,

959
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: nobody else sees it, and you don't have access to

960
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: do the dumb shit no more.

961
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 2: No, I'll go to your page and look at all

962
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 2: your shit and a lot and I'm about to code

963
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 2: with the clap back for real. Cuz calling people kids ugly?

964
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 2: You you had hair last year, That's what happened.

965
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 1: I said, not do that from your page. Now why

966
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: are you taking people from the podcast page log into

967
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: your ship and comment on this Nigga's son?

968
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 2: No, you definitely call him. You didn't call a kid ugly.

969
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: You went on the dudes page. You called his ass ugly.

970
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna start doing that, man, I'm gonna start.

971
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: Why are you coming over here calling me?

972
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,359
Speaker 2: What you said something? I really be looking people up though,

973
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 2: I definitely be using ben verified looking up people use

974
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: the id little age fam Oh, here I come, motherfucker,

975
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,920
Speaker 2: here I come, bitch. No nigga was like, we like

976
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 2: two refrigerators. That's the one that got me, Like, what

977
00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 2: are you looking at? What are you seeing?

978
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,880
Speaker 1: And what type of bitches do you really have access to?

979
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 1: Because it ain't us the hell? Yeah, so you have

980
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: to you know, these people aren't well, They aren't well,

981
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 1: life ain't going well for them, and then they just

982
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,240
Speaker 1: get to hide behind the cell phone of the computer

983
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: and say mean, heyful things, which is why I would

984
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: like to keep my relationship private. They was talking about.

985
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 2: Just Jazz is just Jazz? Right? Who had the baby?

986
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 1: For?

987
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 2: What's the football player?

988
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: So Charlotte no One cam Newton and you know she's

989
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,440
Speaker 1: posting pictures of the baby, but of course the baby's

990
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: face is covered up. Just don't post her.

991
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 2: You know, people be acting like this.

992
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: The kids are like a thing, you know what I'm saying,

993
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: Like nanaa booboo, y'all can't like you know, people want

994
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: to see that damn baby.

995
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 2: Just don't post a baby. Yeah, I feel you're.

996
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: Using a baby as a prop at this point in

997
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 1: your picture because you're we could see your face and

998
00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,839
Speaker 1: you smiling with your bathing suit on, and we can't

999
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: see the baby.

1000
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 2: I just feel like people are concerned with what people

1001
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 2: will say about their child and they're scared. Look why

1002
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 2: am I ask?

1003
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: When his daughter was first born, his sister was telling

1004
00:49:54,760 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: people like, I'm the reason why he hasn't.

1005
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 2: Posted a baby. Little did they know this?

1006
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 1: Nigga said he was waiting for her her features to

1007
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 1: come in. Like it was him not thinking his baby

1008
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: was cute enough to post. It was not me right, Okay,

1009
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 1: this nigga was not posting his baby.

1010
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 2: They have nothing to do with me.

1011
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: And his sister was like, he don't even post your

1012
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: daughter because of this bitch Like, no, it's not me right,

1013
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 1: your brother is Yeah, he waited for her to come

1014
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: into her looks and I don't have you to do

1015
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 1: with me.

1016
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 2: And that's because people are me.

1017
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: People be me or like I don't know, I have a.

1018
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:32,919
Speaker 2: You posted your baby, people under the picture talking about

1019
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 2: that's a cute outfit. Baby, come to yours.

1020
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: I got a friend who only posts her baby with filters,

1021
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 1: and I just I'm so weirded out by that shit,

1022
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: Like it's already re weird that people be really like, yes, girl, bitch,

1023
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 1: that's not your real friend face first of all, and

1024
00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: now you got the filter on a baby face. And

1025
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,080
Speaker 1: she doesn't like for anybody to post a picture of

1026
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: her baby's regular face.

1027
00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy that I listen, I don't babies are awful

1028
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 2: is when it comes to don't filter the baby, but

1029
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: I do, Like I'm so obsessed with filters now, I'm like,

1030
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 2: where's my filter in a picture? Like why is there

1031
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:13,959
Speaker 2: my real face? The filters are the worst.

1032
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: I remember when I.

1033
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 2: Used to just like my regular face, and now it's

1034
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 2: like you need a filter, yeah.

1035
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: Because everybody else is filtered up. So now you're gonna

1036
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:23,439
Speaker 1: just come on in and there with this basic ass

1037
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: fucking face.

1038
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 2: Have you seen like from.

1039
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: Cartoon face and everything from the met Gallas they're posting

1040
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: these like close up pictures like they posted Cardi b Yeah,

1041
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: like the you could see the real skin, skin with

1042
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: tone and the real skin texture. This is this is

1043
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 1: how people look. I saw JT had a video and

1044
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 1: somebody call her ugly, like, oh these filters really like

1045
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 1: everybody uses filters, right, JT is beautiful with without the filter.

1046
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 1: Of course, you know you assumoos your face out and

1047
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: all that shit. Like, but imagine somebody just saying you

1048
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 1: like you just ugly because you don't have a Meanwhile,

1049
00:52:00,719 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 1: you home looking like a basic bitch.

1050
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 2: That's the thing, because you filtered up and all your

1051
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:08,520
Speaker 2: pictures on social media where people see you in real life, like,

1052
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 2: that is not the same. Who is that? Who's that guy?

1053
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: Right?

1054
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,160
Speaker 2: That's about cartoon face. This is my real face, your person.

1055
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 2: You get cartoon don't lie and real face and person.

1056
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,480
Speaker 1: Girlan people are sick. We live in a six society

1057
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,439
Speaker 1: at this point. So what's some other pros and con bro.

1058
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:25,840
Speaker 2: It can make you feel more connected to your partner.

1059
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: Social media can help you feel more connected to your

1060
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 2: partner even when you're not physically together. Seeing their posts

1061
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: and updates can give you a sense of what they're

1062
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 2: doing and how they're feeling. This can be a great

1063
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,399
Speaker 2: way to stay in touch when you're apart. Of course,

1064
00:52:38,440 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 2: it is important to balance this digital connection with real

1065
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,800
Speaker 2: life interaction. You don't want to spend more time staring

1066
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:45,760
Speaker 2: at your phone than you do talking to your partner.

1067
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 2: But used in moderations, social media can be a great

1068
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 2: way to stay connected.

1069
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,800
Speaker 1: To the one you love. Yeah, but then you know,

1070
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure men are sick. They just want to

1071
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: be at the restaurant Andy when it's go ahead and

1072
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,680
Speaker 1: eat their food. But you gotta take a picture to

1073
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: food first. You gotta take a picure of him first,

1074
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,240
Speaker 1: and all this shit before you even post a picture.

1075
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,320
Speaker 1: It just takes away something.

1076
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 2: It just takes away like the that's the con. It

1077
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,919
Speaker 2: can be overwhelming. I like, I don't like hanging out

1078
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 2: with all.

1079
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 1: Right, So the super content creators, all right, we supposed

1080
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: to like be all right.

1081
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 2: If y'all go to our social media, it's nonexistent. It's trash.

1082
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 2: We gotta do better about like participating and creating content.

1083
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 1: But it's just it's too much. It's too much. Man.

1084
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 2: I have friends who like, I love him to death,

1085
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:37,840
Speaker 2: But everything is a movie. Everything is an opportunity to.

1086
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 1: Create con you're not even enjoying the moment it no

1087
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: longer becomes fun.

1088
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 2: It's like I'm spending too much time trying to curate

1089
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: the experience for your social media following that I'm not

1090
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 2: having won.

1091
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 1: In real life exactly So, So when you're on vacation,

1092
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,839
Speaker 1: like every month, I'm sick of seeing that god damn

1093
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:59,359
Speaker 1: boat taking them pictures with the drone. You don't be seeing. Yes,

1094
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: it's a clear they are Turks and Kekos. Everybody is

1095
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:08,800
Speaker 1: taking a picture and it's goddamn boat. I want to

1096
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: get on it.

1097
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 2: If it's clear, sign me up with the blue water. Yeah.

1098
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: They done ran that shit in the whole man, I'm

1099
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,439
Speaker 1: sick of it. I don't want to see that shit

1100
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 1: no more on my timeline. Okay, this guard the boat.

1101
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 1: I always be like, y'all take the pictures. I'm gonna

1102
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:22,879
Speaker 1: live the life.

1103
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,080
Speaker 2: Y'all take the pictures because I can't be bothering.

1104
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll be hitting up everybody that was there, like,

1105
00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: can you send me your videos you got because I

1106
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:30,960
Speaker 1: ain't doing it.

1107
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm not doing none of that because I'm really the

1108
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 2: entertainment right now.

1109
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm not good. Yeah, Like, how do you enjoy your

1110
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 1: vacation when the whole time, you got a whole setup.

1111
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: They just gotta get a damn tripod. They got all

1112
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: the things they traveling with. But if you're making money

1113
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: off of it, that's the only time it makes sense

1114
00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 1: to me. I have friends that have nobody following them

1115
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 1: but me, and this is the.

1116
00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 2: Type of shit they got going on.

1117
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 1: They page and that's because they enjoy it. You gotta

1118
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: enjoy it. At that point, they be talking to themselves

1119
00:55:00,239 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: in the car, like nobody's following you. Is that what

1120
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: they say when they say be consistent, just keep doing

1121
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: it till you picks up people mat fuck that girl?

1122
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 2: No? All right? So social media could be a great

1123
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 2: way to document your relationship. You can look back on

1124
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 2: all of the special moments that you've shared together and

1125
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,439
Speaker 2: see how far you've come. This can be a great

1126
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 2: way to reminisce and feel grateful for what you already have.

1127
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 1: So that's what I was mentioning when he's when my

1128
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 1: ex started like deleting the memories of social media, Like

1129
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: do you have that picture on your phone?

1130
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 2: Now?

1131
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: It's just gone because you're worrying about what some bitches think?

1132
00:55:40,520 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 2: Did you have it in yours?

1133
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 1: No? Because they like were pitches that he would have taken,

1134
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:46,880
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So you just delete like

1135
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 1: we were at like wedding stuff like that. They just

1136
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 1: gone because you're concerned about what did somebody else think

1137
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: about you having these pitches on your page or whatever.

1138
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: You create a second account. That's what he probably should

1139
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: have done. Yeah, something he said.

1140
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 2: Here's a con the relationship is either too new or

1141
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 2: unstable to share with the world. What is too new though, Like,

1142
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:13,239
Speaker 2: how do you know, you bitch, that's not your man

1143
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 2: and you posting him on social media? The weirdest thing

1144
00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 2: to me is like when women know that they know.

1145
00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: That's not they man, and they still post somebody else

1146
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 1: man on their social media.

1147
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 2: Them bitches can fight. Obviously. I had that going on

1148
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 2: the first date with this guy. He was like, let's

1149
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 2: take a picture. Okay, we can take a picture. I'm

1150
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,440
Speaker 2: not opposed to taking a picture. So we took a

1151
00:56:37,520 --> 00:56:39,439
Speaker 2: picture on this first date. We had a good time,

1152
00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 2: right and then later on that night I get home

1153
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 2: and I look on Facebook and he posted a picture.

1154
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 2: It tagged his whole family and was like, me and

1155
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:57,439
Speaker 2: my baby out on a lunch date. What I'm talking about?

1156
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: Too soon?

1157
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 2: Everybody tag I was I never saw him again. Did

1158
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,400
Speaker 2: you say something even about it? Yeah? I was like,

1159
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 2: why did you post me like that? We only went

1160
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 2: on one day. I barely know you to tag your grandmama.

1161
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

1162
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:15,839
Speaker 1: He must be trying to prove something that they must

1163
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 1: have thought something else about him, like look, I got

1164
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: a girlfriend right see see, and that's what I got

1165
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: out of that. No, I knew this.

1166
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 2: I was cool with this girl.

1167
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:27,640
Speaker 1: I don't fuck with her and don't murdered.

1168
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 2: But she was dating this guy and they were they

1169
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 2: were moving really fast. It was like maybe three weeks

1170
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: in and he had her around his son and I

1171
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: don't know if he got out the car or something

1172
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 2: or whatever, but she took a picture with the.

1173
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: Son in the car and posted in and posted it.

1174
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:47,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1175
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:49,919
Speaker 1: The mama was like, I don't know who the fuck

1176
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: you are.

1177
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:54,439
Speaker 2: Take this picture of my child down and I'm thinking, like, girl,

1178
00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 2: why would you post that? That is if people be psychopaths.

1179
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: So's there's some etiquette, right, maybe we should they had

1180
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: a list of that, like what is the what is

1181
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 1: the etiquette when posting your relationship on social media? I

1182
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: guess this is something you need to discuss with the

1183
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 1: person you with and how comfortable they are with whatever

1184
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: it is that you want to do. But I would

1185
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: not just be posting somebody's kids on my social media.

1186
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 2: You're tripping. That's insane.

1187
00:58:17,360 --> 00:58:20,160
Speaker 1: You're tripping, and you asking to get beat up because

1188
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: these mamas be real sensitive about their little snotty nose brats,

1189
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: their own kid.

1190
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 2: They covering their faces up with emulji. You think you

1191
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 2: can post it?

1192
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:34,440
Speaker 1: No, that's insane, that's terrible. What's the last last? I

1193
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: keep your relationship private, man, That's what I believe. And

1194
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 1: it's not because I'm hiding niggas, okay, and I have

1195
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 1: seen I just don't like you, my business man. I

1196
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 1: like to be able to show people what I want

1197
00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: them to see because I think there should be a

1198
00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:57,919
Speaker 1: differentiation between the social media life and your real life.

1199
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:00,080
Speaker 1: Although I am the same person on the Internet that

1200
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,920
Speaker 1: I am in real life, it's just some things I

1201
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:05,240
Speaker 1: want to keep it myself, which would be my relationship.

1202
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 2: I probably would post my kid before I post the man.

1203
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: Listen, I am not unless I got married, Like if

1204
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 1: we're married, that's different. But like these boyfriend girlfriend relationships, No,

1205
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm not posting them, no more that shit over it.

1206
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:19,800
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I'm I can't say I'm the

1207
00:59:19,880 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 2: same person. But you only get my highlight real on

1208
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 2: social media. That don't get my like everyday regular shit.

1209
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 1: You don't get that.

1210
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 2: You get parts of the highlight reel and just small

1211
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 2: pieces of it. That's all I got for you, because

1212
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:34,280
Speaker 2: y'all don't see.

1213
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: Me with my wig off on social media.

1214
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 2: You not. You're not gonna see me with my wig off.

1215
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 2: You're not going to see in the bonnet. No, you're

1216
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 2: not gonna see.

1217
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: Me in my bonnet. Like I'm not doing that, none

1218
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:47,160
Speaker 1: of that, just the highlights. Is this something empowering about

1219
00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:48,040
Speaker 1: getting on the internet?

1220
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 2: Like looking like that?

1221
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: Like looking like I don't even say looking like yourself

1222
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,120
Speaker 1: because I want to always look like my best self.

1223
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: So people will get on the internet not looking like

1224
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 1: their best selves because thats what they look like.

1225
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 2: Those are the people who do the best, though, they

1226
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 2: really do. The people who just come as they are

1227
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 2: whatever they are before there, okay doing that.

1228
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: Eyeliner lashes, And it doesn't mean I'm insecure. It's just

1229
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 1: like I want to look like I'm going to a

1230
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 1: wedding every fucking day. Okay, I.

1231
01:00:25,800 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 2: Told you. That's see that, y'all, So we'll talk back.

1232
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 1: We talk back, suggesting you to keep your just keep

1233
01:00:35,880 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: the relationship private, especially if if ship rocky. Yeah, you'll

1234
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: want to be looking stupid in the month from now,

1235
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 1: y'all and broke up or you get back together. Like

1236
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,439
Speaker 1: now people get to even see your dumbis ship because

1237
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 1: people start posing subliminal ship to their exes.

1238
01:00:49,600 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 2: And then you end up back with the person.

1239
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: So that that's another thing, Like, just keep all your

1240
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 1: ship dumb ship private, and don't it only makes sense

1241
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: to be making money.

1242
01:00:58,880 --> 01:01:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I like. Post. You're a post wedding pictures.

1243
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 2: That's it, that's it, that's all.

1244
01:01:04,880 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't post me.

1245
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 2: Don't even post the announcement, just post the half the picture.

1246
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 1: Oh how about people posting your wedding before you do.

1247
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 2: I've seen that too. I don't mind if they're at

1248
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 2: the wedding. How are you gonna stop them for posting

1249
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 2: their experience?

1250
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 1: If I say, don't post my experience, then don't. I

1251
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 1: don't think I want somebody posting my wedding before I

1252
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:29,280
Speaker 1: get to posting on social media. I don't want that.

1253
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: People create hashtags for people to post your wedding. I

1254
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 2: probably wouldn't anyway, y'all. All right, y'all.

1255
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 1: If you enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every Thursday

1256
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:45,320
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1257
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 2: Oh why what a fuck you get your podcast at?

1258
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: This is your codes AJ Holiday kick it tam Bam.

1259
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 2: This official Tambama on Instagram. Y'all follow me. Remember speak now.

1260
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: And never hold your nigga, your your photos off Instagram.

1261
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 2: This is