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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater Only on the Juble Show,

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Speaker 1: Natalie is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 1: Cheater and she's been with her boyfriend Eric for three years,

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Speaker 1: but now she thinks that he might be cheating. So

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help her out before we

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Speaker 1: do that, though, Natalie, what's up? Why do you think

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Speaker 2: So he's been going to these weekly therapy sessions on

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Speaker 2: Tuesday nights, and at first I was pretty supportive, but

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Speaker 2: lately it's kind of been different. He's been coming home

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Speaker 2: later and then expected. I don't know, he just seems

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Speaker 2: distracted afterwards, and he keeps mentioning his therapist all the time.

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Speaker 2: He's saying things like she really understands me or whatever.

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Speaker 3: Just like and then and he's a I feel.

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Speaker 2: Different after talking to her. And I noticed last week

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Speaker 2: he changed the password on his phone, Like it's just

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Speaker 2: it's like a different thing. And I asked him about

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Speaker 2: it and he's like, well, therapy, you know, it's maybe.

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Speaker 4: A want more.

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Speaker 3: He's in privacy and boundaries.

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Speaker 2: And I want to believe him, but like, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: it just doesn't feel right, like there's a lot of

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Speaker 2: weird stuff, right, I'm just getting it like we'd have weird.

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Speaker 1: Vibes from all of this. Are you thinking that he

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Speaker 1: has something going on with this therapist or that he's

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Speaker 1: using the therapist as like a cover.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's the therapist. I think he's mentioned

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Speaker 2: with this therapist.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think the way he talks about therapy

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Speaker 3: and this woman is like crazy.

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Speaker 2: And then all of a sudden he just stopped like

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Speaker 2: talking about her, and so I'm like, oh.

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Speaker 4: You know, like he wasn't he was.

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Speaker 2: Talking about like the therapy and the stuff. He was

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Speaker 2: like he was like figuring stuff out. And then the

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Speaker 2: fact that he was so glowing about her and then

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Speaker 2: now he's he's like squirrely now, And so that's why

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Speaker 2: I think it's something up. Okay, I just have a

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Speaker 2: feeling like I I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Have you asked just to kind of try to put

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, he's squorely. He's just like what

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Speaker 2: are you talking about? You know, he's not denying anything.

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Speaker 4: It's just I just feel like I doubt to know.

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Speaker 2: Because I can't take this this is. It's ridiculous that

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Speaker 2: it's just I'm just at the end of my rope.

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Speaker 1: I guess anything else going on that makes you think

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Speaker 3: Was that enough?

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Speaker 1: It is? I just kind of have to ask the question. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it definitely sounds suspect for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just I don't know when you know, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like I know, and I just need a confirmation so

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Speaker 2: that I can move on.

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Speaker 3: Like I I'm tired of like living like this, and

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Speaker 3: also I'm tired of like hating Tuesdays, and I just.

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Speaker 4: I'm sick of this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you sound angry. Yeah, we'll see if we can

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Speaker 1: figure it out for you. Ryan the Middle love to

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Speaker 1: catch a teeter and if you just joined us. Natalie

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Speaker 1: Eric of three years might be cheating on her. So

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Speaker 1: we're about to call him and pretend to be from

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Speaker 1: the grocery store that he's a Rewards card member and

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Speaker 1: say that every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards

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Speaker 1: member who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department,

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Speaker 1: and we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Natalie or to somebody else. But before we do that, Natalie,

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Speaker 1: why don't you break down your situation for us again

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Speaker 3: He's been going to therapy every Tuesday night, and it's

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Speaker 3: like he comes home late, he's weird about his phone,

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Speaker 3: he's squirrely about the whole therapy thing.

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Speaker 2: He talks about like I don't know she was saying.

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Speaker 3: Like he was saying like, oh, she really understands me,

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Speaker 4: He just talked about her and he's really.

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Speaker 2: Specific, I don't know, not in the way, a weird way.

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Speaker 1: And you think that it's a therapist that he's cheating with.

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Speaker 3: Well, at first I thought like, oh my god, this

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Speaker 3: me or something like, you know, there's the therapist some angle.

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Speaker 3: And now I'm starting to think, like, you've got something

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I'm ready for this.

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Speaker 4: I'm tired of this.

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Speaker 3: I'm so I can't even tell you, like, I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay. And her name is Melissa, right, yeah, yeah, Melissa.

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Speaker 1: See if he sends flowers to Melissa or to you

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Speaker 1: or to somebody else, but here we go. Are you ready? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: dollar number right now. Hi man, speak to Eric. Please,

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Speaker 1: Hi Eric, Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. My

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Speaker 1: name is Corbett calling from grocers and you're this month's winner. Yeah, congratulations,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for shopping with us.

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Speaker 4: You're welcome. What does this mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, maybe you didn't know. Every single month, we

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Speaker 1: choose one Rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 1: from our Florida department to anybody that they'd like in

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Speaker 1: the whole fifty United States of America. Absolutely free. You've

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Speaker 1: just won thirty six long stim red roses, a box

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Speaker 1: to anybody that you want. It's a three hundred and

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Speaker 4: Okay, then it's free.

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Speaker 1: You have one, absolutely free. I will not ask you

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Speaker 1: for any kind of credit card information, nothing like that.

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Speaker 1: Just takes a few minutes and you'll get confirmations before

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Speaker 1: we're even done with this phone call. It's just a

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Speaker 4: Okay, great, good.

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Speaker 1: Cool. Well, here's how it works, so I can take

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Speaker 1: down the information in just a few minutes over the phone.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, it takes about three minutes. I can

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Speaker 1: do that right now. If you already know who you

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Speaker 4: No, no, I think I know what I wants unto.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, all right, cool, Well, if you already know,

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Speaker 1: then let's get started. Like I said, we get confirmations

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Sure, if you can send them to Melissa, Melissa?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything that you want to put on a

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Thank you for helping me feel seen in ways

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you for helping me feel seen any ways

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Speaker 1: I've never had before. Yeah, I can I can do

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Speaker 4: I think about Joes constantly.

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Speaker 1: I think about Tuesday constantly.

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Speaker 4: Got it?

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Speaker 1: All right? Got that? Thank you, Eric. And at this

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Speaker 1: point I'll let you know that this is actually a

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Speaker 1: radio show. It's called the Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Hi, I Meana, Hi and Victoria, and my name is Jewell.

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Speaker 4: How are you wait?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we do a segment on the show called

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Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater where if you think your significant

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Speaker 1: other might be messing around you see you. They send

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Speaker 1: Yeah wait wait.

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Speaker 4: Wait what Natalie?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm here, they're here.

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Speaker 4: Yeap, what's going on? What is it? Are you gonna

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Speaker 3: Or should I?

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Speaker 4: What did you think of?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Why are you sending flowers to your therapist? You're

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Speaker 3: sending flowers to your therapist?

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Speaker 4: Natalie. Look, I'm gonna have to draw a boundary with this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Oh my god, no, no your therapy speak. No, no,

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Speaker 3: explain the card. You spent all you spent all last

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Speaker 4: Who talks like that?

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Speaker 3: Explain the card? You will explain it.

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Speaker 4: She's been helping me through a lot.

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Speaker 3: Why do you think about Tuesday constantly? Why would you

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Speaker 3: be thinking about therapy constantly?

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Speaker 4: Because it's important to me and she's holding space for me.

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Speaker 1: Flowers, it's just appreciation. I mean, you know, I've been

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Speaker 3: No, No, appreciation would be Hey, thanks for your help.

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Speaker 3: That's it you wanted to say, helping me feel seen

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Speaker 3: Why do you think about Tuesday constantly? What have is

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Speaker 4: Eric? We've gotten close.

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Speaker 1: You've gotten close close?

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Speaker 4: I didn't mean for it to happen.

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Speaker 3: It's really about is that why you said you didn't

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Speaker 3: Did you you slept with her?

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Speaker 4: You sup with her?

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Speaker 1: WHOA? What happened?

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Speaker 4: It just happened after one session and then.

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Speaker 1: The session just happened, then the other sessions.

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Speaker 3: Think about Tuesday constantly?

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Speaker 1: You're thinking about being with her.

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Speaker 2: Unbelievable.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm about to draw boundary around our place with

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Speaker 3: all of your you can pick it up.

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Speaker 4: I'm not holding space for you. Whatever I wanted.

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Speaker 3: So many go there, triggered. I'll show you triggered. Your

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Speaker 3: stuff is on the street. You're done, You're done, You're done,

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Speaker 3: We're done.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Natalie, I just hung up on him. Wow, So sorry,

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Speaker 1: sorry about that. That is terrible.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but I mean I knew it though, Like I

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Speaker 3: Thank you guys for.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, helping me figure this all out.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go. I mean, I don't know how this works,

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Speaker 2: like about.

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Speaker 4: Her license and all.

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Speaker 2: And like malpractice and whatever. But I feel like people

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're not supposed to do this.

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Speaker 3: And also like it's not like he's so charming she

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Speaker 3: what I mean, That's why.

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Speaker 2: This is so messed up. Like he's fine, but he's

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Speaker 2: no pride. It's not like I don't know

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Speaker 1: The jewel shows to catch a cheater