WEBVTT - HIGHLIGHT- Aurora Culpo

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<v Speaker 1>That is Steve Lacy Bad Habit one or two point

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<v Speaker 1>seven kissp Fan. So going back a few weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking to the Copos sisters here about their

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<v Speaker 1>new show, The Copos Sisters, and it's on TLC, and

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<v Speaker 1>we had you guys on. Nice to see Arora Copo

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<v Speaker 1>is back with us now and we had you guys

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<v Speaker 1>on and I get it, like I see you sister together,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear some of the history, um, and I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Then Tania comes to the show maybe the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>two days later, and she does this thing she calls

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<v Speaker 1>a trending report, and she's talking about you and the

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<v Speaker 1>trending report and she says that you made a one

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<v Speaker 1>year deal with I guess you're now ex husband where

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<v Speaker 1>you are or could have a random hook up once

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<v Speaker 1>a year you or he? No, no, no no, he just

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<v Speaker 1>you made that deal. Yeah. So this was a deal

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<v Speaker 1>I made when I was twenty five. I met my

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<v Speaker 1>my ex husband when he was forty. I was twenty five, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So there's a lot of growth that happened in the meantime.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I had kids and and at that time

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<v Speaker 1>I was really I was trying to make this work.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I think I have in my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I got five years left to get the

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<v Speaker 1>kid thing done and to just be that's what you're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to do, right, You're supposed to have it all

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<v Speaker 1>wrapped up in a bow when you're thirty. And to me,

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<v Speaker 1>objectively speaking, I don't really think the sex with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else once a year. It wasn't intimidating to me because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, what we have is so special. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out like fast forward eight years later and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have the same feelings as I did then.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was fascinating to me because she brought up

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<v Speaker 1>and you weren't there, and she, you know, two days later,

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<v Speaker 1>like White, we could have asked her about this when

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<v Speaker 1>it was in the episode. I didn't know. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was interesting because you know, we talked about all these

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of things on our show a lot. Susan, he

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<v Speaker 1>has Mary been married for a long time. Tanya is

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<v Speaker 1>probably closest to be engaged. I have a significant other girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we were hearing that thinking, Okay, well, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that takes a lot of confidence in a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>it's also a slippery slope. Yeah, so at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of thought I was more evolved. People think

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<v Speaker 1>that this was something that was made by a very insecure,

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<v Speaker 1>broken person. I'm not really sure that I'm that. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe that at that time I had so much confidence

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<v Speaker 1>in our relationship that I didn't think that this impulse

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<v Speaker 1>that a man has to sleep with somebody else and

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<v Speaker 1>spread his seed far and wide whatever, like from you know,

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<v Speaker 1>from from the Neanderthal times. I wasn't intimidated by that impulse.

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<v Speaker 1>And what I cared about mostly was that he felt

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<v Speaker 1>like he could be honest and that he was getting

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<v Speaker 1>all of his needs met. I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that that can't work for some people. I just know

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<v Speaker 1>that right now it doesn't work for me anymore. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not the reason why we got divorced at all, actually, UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It just is one of the many things that we've

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<v Speaker 1>learned have has diverged in our in our values, um

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<v Speaker 1>with each other since. So let me ask you this

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<v Speaker 1>or a coup on with us the Corporal Sisters, Monday's

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<v Speaker 1>nine o'clock on TLC. As an unmarried person unmarried married,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you look at marriage differently now that you've

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<v Speaker 1>done it once? Oh? I don't need to be quite

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<v Speaker 1>honest with you. I don't really know how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about the institution of marriage, to be honest, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that we have multiple soul mates. I think that we

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<v Speaker 1>have soul contracts with people. I think that there's a

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<v Speaker 1>certain amount of time that you can learn what you

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<v Speaker 1>need to learn in order to grow and become the

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<v Speaker 1>best version of yourself. And then it's actually an obligation

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<v Speaker 1>and a responsibility to know when that's over and to

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<v Speaker 1>know when it's time to move on. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>that my parents are not gonna be happy about that,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're of the notions stay together to the kids,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not for it, not about you. But um, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't agree with that, says you bench the Coulpo's

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<v Speaker 1>sisters right when she when you're out the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I was just recovered from COVID and I

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<v Speaker 1>got to tell you the show is incredible. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are so honest, and I wanted to tell you that

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<v Speaker 1>your strength by sharing what you're going through on this show,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's gonna help so many women in that

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<v Speaker 1>may be going through similar situations that are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be uh, you know, we battling divorced or are becoming

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<v Speaker 1>single moms and things like that, And I just think

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<v Speaker 1>that it shows a lot of courage on your front. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. I feel like I went back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's a fine line between exploiting, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>divorce and using this as an opportunity to show people

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't need to be ashamed of the choices

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<v Speaker 1>that you made, that that people don't understand, and that

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<v Speaker 1>you've out grown up. I know, but I also think

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<v Speaker 1>too the thing that's so interesting is you were saying,

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<v Speaker 1>like your frame of mind at twenty five was like

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<v Speaker 1>you have to have everything wrapped up in a bow

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<v Speaker 1>and done by thirty and I think so many of

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<v Speaker 1>us have that same mentality, do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I feel like at thirty five, I'm so behind

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<v Speaker 1>because I haven't frozen my eggs and I haven't done

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<v Speaker 1>all these things. And I think it's just like there's

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<v Speaker 1>this expectation of society puts on us, and like we

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<v Speaker 1>are kind of put in these situations that maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't necessarily be and how do we just been free

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<v Speaker 1>and like living our own truth? And so I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's really cool that you kind of share that because

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of us have those feelings totally.

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<v Speaker 1>My sisters always joked like, we just see what Aurora does.

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<v Speaker 1>We do the opposite, because I made all the mistakes first.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's true when I was thirty and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I have my kids, I'm married. It's like I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of feeling bad for my friends who were

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<v Speaker 1>single that that now are probably feeling bad for me.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh loo because it's divorced women with two kids.

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<v Speaker 1>But the point is that, like, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. It's everyone's journey is exactly what they need

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<v Speaker 1>at that time. And and I'm I'm you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make anything easier. Change is hard, and and I

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad for the people who haven't found their person

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<v Speaker 1>yet and really want to be in a relationship with kids.

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<v Speaker 1>But if there's one thing I've learned is it's not

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<v Speaker 1>up to us. The timing is not up to us.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you try to force it is when um,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't go the problems don't go anywhere. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>all the things that I that like, we're kind of

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<v Speaker 1>red flags. In the beginning, I was like, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>just like make it work this way, and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>like they don't go anywhere, they just get worser. They

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<v Speaker 1>come up later in a different way. And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with us. It's a good relationship therapy, isn't it

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<v Speaker 1>really ship therapy? And this show is so funny. Your parents,

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<v Speaker 1>as old school as they are, when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>like how they believe in marriage and all that stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>they are so genuine and like the fact, like your

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<v Speaker 1>mom has never like worn makeup in her entire life.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just I love everything about it. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are so real. It's really good. Thank you my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. She's like, well, I never had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to therapy. I was just lucky, you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>never did that. We don't have problem. How long have

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<v Speaker 1>they been married. They've been married for eighteen years or twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even I should know. I know, I do

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<v Speaker 1>not care. In my opinion, just way too long. Well, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for coming on and talking about it. Congratulations on

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Auroral cop A couple of sisters on Monday's

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<v Speaker 1>not all TLC take a care tell the others. We say, hi, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for having me. I like her.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very comfortable in her own skin, and uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like she's at peace. Yeah, we're a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of her, all right, Coming up next. Jingle Ball presented

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<v Speaker 1>my cop of one this Friday. Tickets to next