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Speaker 4: To I don't Joy, Yeah, Joy, you gotta do that,

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Speaker 4: Looking me. Come come on, you'll think, uhh.

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Speaker 2: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening to

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Speaker 2: the voice, Come on dig me now.

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Speaker 7: One and only Steve Harvey got a radio showy man.

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Speaker 7: God is in the blessing business all day every day.

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Speaker 7: God got hundreds of millions of blessings that he passes

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Speaker 7: out every day. All I want to do is be

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Speaker 7: the recipient that I'm the recipient of what He has

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Speaker 7: for me. That's all I want. I just want God's favor,

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Speaker 7: and I go. I want God's blessings. You know, of

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Speaker 7: course I need his mercy and his grace, but I

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Speaker 7: just want his blessings and his favor.

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Speaker 2: I want.

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Speaker 7: I want that in my life because it does things

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Speaker 7: for me that I'm absolutely incapable of doing for myself.

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Speaker 7: And I've been a recipient of many of those and

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Speaker 7: you can be the recipient of them too. You already are, really, really,

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Speaker 7: you already are. If you're getting up every morning, that's

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Speaker 7: a blessing. If you're getting one day closer to anything

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Speaker 7: you're trying to accomplish, that's a blessing. But now let

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Speaker 7: me talk to you about this part right here, folks,

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Speaker 7: because this is the part that message people up a

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Speaker 7: great deal. What happens when you get off track?

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Speaker 2: What is that? What does that mean? When you get

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Speaker 2: off track? See? I've been off track.

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Speaker 7: I can't tell you how many times, and it happens

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Speaker 7: in so many aspects of your life. But what is

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Speaker 7: it that makes getting off track so debilitating to some people?

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Speaker 7: You know, there are some people who want stay off track.

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Speaker 7: They of course, they off the dream, They on to

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Speaker 7: something else. And you cannot allow the fact that you've

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Speaker 7: gotten off track to stop you.

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Speaker 2: Can. I tell you something. Everybody gets off track.

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Speaker 7: There are people who are living their life's dreams in

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Speaker 7: spite of getting off track. See what happens when you

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Speaker 7: get off track? Here's the simple thing to do. The

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Speaker 7: simple thing is just to get back on track. Now

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Speaker 7: that's that's but that's easier said than done. Ain't it, Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: Because see, people, when you get off track, here's some

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Speaker 7: of the things that happen. See you get the here

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Speaker 7: come to nay says, some of them from the outside,

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Speaker 7: some of them internally. Here's what gets said when you

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Speaker 7: get off track. See, I told you, I told you.

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Speaker 2: You know. You start hearing that it's.

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Speaker 7: Not for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is all just because you got off track.

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Speaker 2: It's not for you. Okay, here's another one. It ain't

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Speaker 2: to be. You can hear it all. You could say it. Well,

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Speaker 2: I guess it's just not meant to be.

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Speaker 7: But let me ask you a question, though, Who made

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Speaker 7: the rule that when you get off track you can't

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Speaker 7: get back on? Who made that rule? Where is that

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Speaker 7: written that once you get off track you can't get

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Speaker 7: there's no such rule. As a matter of fact, it's

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Speaker 7: quite the opposite. See, everybody in pursuit of a dream,

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Speaker 7: going to be days where you're not going to get

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Speaker 2: That's the journey. But let me tell you something.

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Speaker 7: Every successful person that I know, ever met, talked to,

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Speaker 7: thing in common. We all get off track. We all

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Speaker 7: get it wrong along the way. I don't care who

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Speaker 7: They've all been off track. Your boss down at your job,

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Speaker 7: As a matter of fact, it's impossible. Listen to me,

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Speaker 7: it is impossible not to get off track in pursuit

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Speaker 7: of your dreams, goals, visions, aspirations. It is impossible. Don't

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Speaker 7: you let nobody tell you that they got through life

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Speaker 7: unscathed that they made it because they were just so determined,

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Speaker 7: and I would let nothing turn me back. Yeah, you

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Speaker 7: might not have let nothing turn you back because you

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Speaker 7: about it on days when you was off track. But see,

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Speaker 7: people don't like to tell the whole story. They just

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Speaker 7: So when they tell you their story, they leave out

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Speaker 2: No it wasn't, No, it wasn't.

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Speaker 7: It was the fact that you got off track and

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Speaker 7: the grace and mercy God allowed you to get back on.

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Speaker 7: His forgiveness allowed you to get back on because you

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Speaker 7: would not believe what some of the people have done.

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Speaker 7: So when you get off track, don't allow the naysayers

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Speaker 7: it don't matter what other people say out there. It

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Speaker 7: takes some time for you to learn this. And I

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Speaker 2: See. I have a lot of naysayers out there, but

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Speaker 2: I ain't operating for them.

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Speaker 7: Operating function for the ones that love me, for the

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Speaker 7: I'm really trying to do. And so don't you be

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Speaker 7: who made the rule up that you can't get back

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Speaker 7: at the beginning of the year, and you already off

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Speaker 7: start another one, start over, try it again, don't ever

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Speaker 7: But if you never give up the effort, if you

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Speaker 7: never give up and say it's over, it ain't over.

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Speaker 7: You heard the saying it ain't over, to the fat

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Speaker 2: She's not invited. It ain't over.

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Speaker 7: To the fat lady saying I don't know where the

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Speaker 7: fat lady stay. I have not send her an invitation

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Speaker 7: I ain't got time for that. All right, stop inviting

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Speaker 7: the Fat Lady to all your events.

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Speaker 1: Thank you you're listening.

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Speaker 2: Show.

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen. Today is today that the Lord has made.

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Speaker 7: Let us rejoice and be glad in it. It's a

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Speaker 7: crazy world we live in, but still all in all,

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Speaker 7: in spite of everything, I wake up today with the

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Speaker 7: same gratitude, a little heavy heart, but the same gratitude

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Speaker 7: that I always have. I'm grateful that God is still

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Speaker 7: in the hearing business, the blessing business, the redeeming business.

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Speaker 2: And the forgiving business.

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Speaker 7: I'm asking Him to forgive me for anything that I

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Speaker 7: might say today that's not Christian life. I will not

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Speaker 7: be focusing on my Christian side today much at all, anyway,

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Speaker 7: and so I ask Him to forgive me for my

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Speaker 7: flaw because today I don't feel like I'm off the

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Speaker 7: because I am an imperfect soldier for Christ. So today

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Speaker 7: I might not be on the white line like I'm

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Speaker 7: opposed to as a Christian, but that's just fine with me.

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Speaker 7: I get back on it when I feel better. Ladies

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Speaker 7: and gentlemen, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Started

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Speaker 7: Shirley Strathberry Calor farre Mississippi, Monica Junior, and the Legend

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Speaker 7: of Nephew Tunney. Ladies and gentlemen, let us begin with

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Speaker 7: some moment of levity.

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Speaker 2: Junior. I'm scared to ask you what's on your mind

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Speaker 2: because you don't even look.

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Speaker 1: Good on zoom.

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Speaker 2: See you right there and got your alls folded.

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Speaker 8: You know what it is because because as a comedian,

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Speaker 8: see this is this is this is where it get hard,

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Speaker 8: how the job goes. Say, as a comedian, we're supposed

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Speaker 8: to show this the society what it is, what's funny

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Speaker 8: about what we do in life, and you just don't

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Speaker 8: feel like.

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Speaker 4: That every day.

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Speaker 2: See how today is like the other day.

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Speaker 8: Don't just don't feel like we're supposed to be because

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Speaker 8: you're killing people look like you and see I'm supposed

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Speaker 8: how I feel on the jobs. I don't feel that way,

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Speaker 8: and so you cease to fire.

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Speaker 4: How you do it?

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Speaker 2: How you find out how to make these moments levity? Well,

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Speaker 7: That just don't have levity to it because we are

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Speaker 7: affected by this world and these conditions in these situations, just.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody else, our job is to provide.

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Speaker 7: Moments of levity in dark times's as a diversion. So today,

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Speaker 7: you know, we'll try to do some of that. Today

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Speaker 7: and some days, you know, the community.

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Speaker 2: Here's a part about it. Is we that are stand

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Speaker 2: ups usually is for an hour on this radio show.

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Speaker 2: We got four hours to produce, so highlight moments are

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Speaker 2: laughing the rest of the day.

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Speaker 7: The three of us that are in this business happen

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Speaker 7: to be African American, which I prefer to be called black,

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Speaker 7: though I'm a black man.

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Speaker 2: I like that much better.

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Speaker 7: I prefer that because they just keep the American part

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Speaker 7: so hidden sometimes and so unavailable to me. And you know,

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Speaker 7: I love to be African American. Just put me in

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Speaker 7: the Constitution, the whole thing. I don't want to be

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Speaker 7: in pieces of it, just the whole thing. So today

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Speaker 7: we'll carry on and I might say something crazy.

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Speaker 2: I might not.

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Speaker 1: You might you think you try to show all right?

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Speaker 9: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, Nephew

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Speaker 9: Tommy is going to run that prank back for us

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Speaker 9: right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening morning show, all right, it is time to

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Speaker 1: start your morning off with the nephew and run that.

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Speaker 9: Prank back what you got for us new here it

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Speaker 9: is check suttlem and let's go cat dog if you would.

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Speaker 2: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Hello, right, I'm trying to reach out please, how you doing?

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Speaker 3: It's attorney over the associates. All right, I want to

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Speaker 3: give you a call. I just got your file that

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to be getting six four hundred and ten dollars, okay,

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately is being reduced to twelve hundred due to injuries

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Speaker 10: Oh okay, I'm still getting it. So what was the

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Speaker 3: The everyday The person that did these calculations completely did

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Speaker 10: So I just real right, because I was six thousand

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Speaker 11: And the chi practice.

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Speaker 3: Well, from my understanding, man, what they're also stating is

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Speaker 2: They're actually wondering if you were actually hurt at all.

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Speaker 12: And I was his call.

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Speaker 10: That was a chipractice car.

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Speaker 11: That wasn't my decisions.

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Speaker 10: It's called from my injury.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and a lot of a lot of these doctor

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Speaker 10: That's still okay. I understand what you're saying. But I'm

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Speaker 10: That you're telling me six thousand that's not gonna wouldn't

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not at liberty to let you look at

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Speaker 2: Other legal life.

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Speaker 10: I mean that is a sound of right, Robert. I

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Speaker 3: I understand that, ma'am. What I'm trying to let you

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Speaker 3: is the response coming back is that you're not actually

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Speaker 10: I need to see some paperwork with far to check it.

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Speaker 10: This doesn't sound right and that doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 3: Well, all right, now, you know I'm the last person

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Speaker 2: This is pretty much a take it or leave it option,

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Speaker 10: And if you don't no, no, no, no no, I

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Speaker 10: lord and I am your client.

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Speaker 3: Well, you're not gonna raise your voice. You're not gonna

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Speaker 3: So let's let's pipe it down a bit. Okay, Now

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Speaker 3: here's what we're gonna do. Do you want the twelve

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Speaker 2: Now? I've already wavered the fees of the of the

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Speaker 6: No, I don't want twelve.

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Speaker 10: Undred because i'mnna take you to court, So that doesn't time.

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Speaker 10: If you're supposed to be my lawyer.

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Speaker 3: I'm being the best attorney that you probably could afford,

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Speaker 10: Now you, from what I understand is yes, I'm sorry

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Speaker 10: to say that's not going to be acceptable. I just

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Speaker 10: have to get a lawyer to you. That's not accessible.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know you people continue to want it take.

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Speaker 10: Me to offer yesterday when we came in, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't there doing the meeting yesterday. Like I said,

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Speaker 2: Now you want to file a lawsuit on me. You

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Speaker 10: This isn't I want to talk to you.

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Speaker 11: I've never heard of you.

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Speaker 3: Well, now you've heard of me. I'm and I work

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Speaker 2: Me the way that you're doing.

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Speaker 10: I just have to get a lawyer to you. That's

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Speaker 3: I got one more thing. This is nephew Tommy from

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Speaker 3: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked. You

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Speaker 3: got pranked by your husband. Oh, your husband told me

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Speaker 3: she's been waiting on that check.

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Speaker 13: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: I was about to go buy a little office.

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Speaker 3: All right, baby, let me ask you something. Tell Tommy,

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Speaker 13: Steve?

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Speaker 3: All right, baby, look here, get your check. I'm not

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Speaker 3: gonna brag today. I don't feel like it. Don't have

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Speaker 2: What that is? That's the prank of the day. You

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Speaker 2: can catch me keeping a stupid baby.

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Speaker 3: It's going down Saturday that the in Detroit, Michigan, the

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Speaker 2: It's jokes and jams.

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Speaker 3: I got Donelle Rollins, I got Capone, I got Red Grant,

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Speaker 3: I got the girl Kelly Cal's Tony Roberts OMG hosted

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Speaker 3: the jams is juvenile. The jams belongs to juvenile. That

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Speaker 3: is jokes in Jam the Detroit, Michigan, Saturday night, May

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Speaker 3: twenty seven, at the Fox Theater.

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Speaker 2: Take his own seal Red Now.

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Speaker 1: All right, go see the nephew.

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Speaker 9: Coming up next, it is Ask the COLO Chief Love

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Speaker 9: Officer Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 9: All right, guys, time now for Ask the CLO Chief

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Speaker 9: I know he's ready. Now, Steve, this one is from

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Speaker 9: a grandmother. She's in Arlington, Texas. She says, this is

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Speaker 9: not a love question, but I need your help with

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Speaker 9: my granddaughter. She is thirteen years old and keeps getting

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Speaker 9: in trouble in school for cursing and keeping it. She

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Speaker 9: but she is very good at it. I draw the line.

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Speaker 9: I drew the line Sunday when she called our pastor

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Speaker 1: What am I going to do with her?

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Speaker 7: Well, truth of the matter is, now, let's be fair

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Speaker 7: your past he's a snitch.

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Speaker 2: That's what they call him.

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Speaker 13: Now.

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Speaker 7: Hey man, oh, your granddaughter has taken old prison terminology

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Speaker 7: and turned it in to her life.

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Speaker 2: I can't help you.

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Speaker 7: I'm the last person you should call about cussing. I'll

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Speaker 7: know what tied thirteen though, Yeah, God started cussing he

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Speaker 7: was thirteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thirteen.

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Speaker 7: I was expert. I didn't have the right combinations because

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you can say you don't cuss, grandma, and I

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Speaker 7: It's not a cute habit on a girl. Oh boy,

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Speaker 7: to tell you the truth, because if you can't monitor

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Speaker 7: be a lady. I don't know if that's gonna do

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Speaker 7: any good, but that's all I got for you. Because

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Speaker 7: I think all my kids cussed. I think every last

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Speaker 7: one of them. I don't say a damn thing when

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Speaker 7: I hear it because I get it.

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Speaker 1: There you go, and there you go.

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Speaker 2: I ain't the best.

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Speaker 1: Let's move on.

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Speaker 9: This one's from Derek and Largo, Maryland. Derek says, I'm

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Speaker 9: My wife is the bookkeeper and comes in twice a week,

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Speaker 9: I hired him on the spot, hoping to give him

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Speaker 9: sitting in her car smoking weed.

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Speaker 1: My wife can't understand why. I'm very upset. She asked

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Speaker 1: her too. Am I overreacting?

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Speaker 2: Well, they're gonna do it.

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Speaker 7: I think the problem ain't her sitting in the car, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I'm fine, Why you and this man's car smoking weed?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Is my question?

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Speaker 1: Not a good look?

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Speaker 2: Wifey? Yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: You're not overreacting.

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Speaker 2: You underreaction if he asks me? Right, all right?

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Speaker 9: Kelly in South Bend, Indiana says, I'm a thirty one

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Speaker 9: We met at a hookah lounge and bonded over our

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Speaker 9: love for spoken word in jazz. He's a songwriter during

444
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Speaker 9: the day, and at night he's in the studio working

445
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Speaker 9: on a rap album.

446
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Speaker 1: I know he's a great writer, but I'm not sure

447
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Speaker 1: if rapping is his thing.

448
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Speaker 9: His lyrics are very inspirational, so I don't know who

449
00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 9: he's making this music. For should I tell him nicely

450
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Speaker 9: that his music isn't all that well, I.

451
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Speaker 7: Don't know if you should tell him if his music's

452
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Speaker 7: all that it's just do you want to sign up

453
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Speaker 7: for this relationship with this dude is fit to be

454
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Speaker 7: broke for all time?

455
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Speaker 11: Yeah?

456
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

457
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Speaker 2: He a songwriter in the day. Now you don't know

458
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Speaker 2: none of his songs. He a rapper at night, and

459
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Speaker 2: you don't like none of the raps.

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Speaker 1: Tradicts herself because very inspirational.

461
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Speaker 7: Hey you had the inspirational when the last good ass

462
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Speaker 7: inspirational rap?

463
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Speaker 2: You don her exactly because.

464
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Speaker 7: All the hits I heard on the radio ain't a

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Speaker 7: damn now one of them inspirational.

466
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Speaker 2: Come on, damn ksom cup.

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Speaker 7: This inspirational to the strip was ded okay, But I

468
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Speaker 7: don't know how you make no money.

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Speaker 1: With you know, a commons and ain't a lot of them.

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Speaker 9: This is from a podcast listener named Tuesday. Tuesday says,

471
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Speaker 9: I'm in my mid thirties and I've been in a

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Speaker 9: polyamorous relationship for four years.

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Speaker 1: Now what that means you know more than one lover

474
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Speaker 1: the man?

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Speaker 9: And then yeah, all right, my boyfriend and I have

476
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Speaker 9: a three year old son and my mother took him

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Speaker 9: away from us.

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Speaker 1: I dropped him off in her house we ago so

479
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Speaker 1: that I could run errands, and.

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Speaker 9: She wouldn't let me in when I came back a

481
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Speaker 9: week later, and she's still not letting me take my son.

482
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Speaker 9: My boyfriend is ready to call the police, but I

483
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Speaker 9: won't let him. Our bedroom behavior does not impact my

484
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Speaker 9: son in any way. How can I get my mom

485
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Speaker 9: to understand this?

486
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Speaker 2: Your mama can't take your baby. This ain't your cock keys.

487
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Speaker 2: This is a child.

488
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Speaker 7: You can't take nobody baby from him because you don't

489
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Speaker 7: like their lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

491
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Speaker 7: You don't like this polyamals or polygamy or whatever you

492
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Speaker 7: have in at the house.

493
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Speaker 2: Meringue pow. I don't know what y'all doing, but whatever

494
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Speaker 2: it is, I don't ut living Moraine.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but if you're having this thing at y'alls, how

496
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Speaker 7: they ain't got nothing to do with your baby. Man,

497
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Speaker 7: You can't take your baby from you. Your sex life

498
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Speaker 7: has nothing to do with your parenting skills. The two

499
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Speaker 7: are separate. You can be a lousy husband and be

500
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Speaker 7: a great father. Your boyfriend is right, and he could. Hey,

501
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Speaker 7: your boyfriend can call now, Yeah, that's his child. If

502
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Speaker 7: you don't want to call alone to mama.

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Speaker 1: All right, don't you're listening morning show?

504
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Speaker 9: Old school relationship advice means well most of the time,

505
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 9: but some of it is out of touch and should

506
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Speaker 9: become a thing of the past. Some of these rules

507
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 9: or tips need to be redefined and clarified for the

508
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Speaker 9: time we live in now. This is according to psychologist

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Speaker 9: doctor Joshua Clapal for example.

510
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Speaker 1: Clap Clapal.

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Speaker 9: For example, Steve the old cliche and this is biblical,

512
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Speaker 9: don't go to bed angry.

513
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Speaker 11: Uh.

514
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Speaker 9: Doctor Clapow says, we've heard this classic, but it's unrealistic,

515
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 9: and sometimes going to bed mad and sleeping on it

516
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 9: is better.

517
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Speaker 2: What do you say, do you well? I don't know

518
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 2: when you were with that.

519
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Speaker 7: I wish we could go to bed and not be mad.

520
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,440
Speaker 7: I really do, right, I know nobody won't go to

521
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 7: bed mad. You know, when you got to sleep backs

522
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Speaker 7: to each other, somebody roll over and touching you, jumping

523
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Speaker 7: you don't foot off.

524
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Speaker 2: Nobody want to. I think it's better to do that. Now.

525
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Speaker 2: Is it realistic to expect not to ever go to

526
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: bed mad?

527
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Speaker 3: Now?

528
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Speaker 1: I don't think it is, That's what he's saying.

529
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Speaker 2: But that showing good to go to bed, man, we're

530
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Speaker 2: gonna be up on that.

531
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Speaker 1: Or you wake up mad, you let me tell you

532
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Speaker 1: something that you you know.

533
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Speaker 7: I hate that if you let a woman go to

534
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 7: bed mad, she wake up, she gonna be just as mad,

535
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 7: all mad her she'd have thought about some mostuff.

536
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: Yeah. Now, dudes wake up and go, hey, baby, how

537
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: you doing? How the hell you think? How was I

538
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 2: last night? When you shut your eyes exactly?

539
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 11: Yeah?

540
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 2: So I think he's wrong about that. It's not healthy,

541
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Speaker 2: all right.

542
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Speaker 9: Doctor klap House says you can change them. He says

543
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Speaker 9: it's a romantic idea, the old cliche, you can change them.

544
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 9: But he points out it's not your responsibility to change anyone, right.

545
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 2: I agree with him. It's not your job to change anyone.

546
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 14: Nor.

547
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Speaker 2: Don't you know do you have the ability?

548
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Speaker 1: Right?

549
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Speaker 9: That's something that women have. I mean, we may as

550
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 9: well admit that. We're always trying to change. And I

551
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 9: think it's the nurturer in us. We always Yeah, yeah, I.

552
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Speaker 1: Know he's like that right now, But once he give

553
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Speaker 1: me six months, Yeah, yeah, let.

554
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Speaker 2: Me work on a girl. You're going have to work

555
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: it every day. Don't work every day. I changed, but

556
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:08,479
Speaker 2: you do it everything.

557
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Speaker 9: Yeah, but women, I get more that, all right. Here's

558
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 9: another one. Some people never change. That's the cliche, the

559
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Speaker 9: old school cliche. Doctor Clepale says, on the flip side,

560
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Speaker 9: the suggestion that someone is incapable of changing is wrong,

561
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Speaker 9: and it ignores the fact that we all have control

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Speaker 9: over our choices.

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Speaker 7: So I absolutely agree with that. That's one hundred percent. Yeah,

564
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Speaker 7: he's only saying one thing I didn't.

565
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Speaker 1: Agree with, and that was the first one.

566
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that.

567
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Speaker 1: You don't go to bed.

568
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Speaker 2: We'll change.

569
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Speaker 1: Yeah, people change, man, all right all the time.

570
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Speaker 9: Here's another one, old school. Love will keep you together.

571
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 9: Love will keep you together.

572
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Speaker 1: He says.

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Speaker 9: This works in an old romantic movie, but in real

574
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 9: life it takes a lot more than love to make

575
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Speaker 9: it work.

576
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Speaker 1: WHOA what love.

577
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Speaker 2: Got to do? Yeah? I got to do watch love

578
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: but a second handy moved shut take it up, gotta do.

579
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Speaker 2: I ain't got nothing to do with it, man, love.

580
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta honor that commitment that you got.

581
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: A compromise and love understanding.

582
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: Take the blame, not be right all the time.

583
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 4: That, Yeah, it.

584
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: Ain't never worked for me never.

585
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 8: All right here, No, it's that love thing. I told

586
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 8: her I love her, But my replacement was at the dump.

587
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: When I'm just like, who is this?

588
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: Oh this Chris, We're going to dinner you and I

589
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 2: love you though.

590
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: The love to the love through June.

591
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 2: You've been played so hard it scary.

592
00:31:57,080 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's almost like, what but you you've grown up now,

593
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: you're now you're good now. Yeah that was back. Yeah

594
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 1: I haven't. We've all been through some things. YEA to

595
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: the game.

596
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 9: All right, old school love will, I mean, know your

597
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 9: role in the relationship, that's old school. Doctor Clipow says,

598
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 9: forget this old gender stereotype and remember there is not

599
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Speaker 9: a required way for you to act. Your role in

600
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 9: a relationship shouldn't always be the same. It's constantly shifting.

601
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 9: Know your role in the relationship. That's old school thinking. Okay,

602
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 9: doctor clip how says, forget this old gender stereotype and

603
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 9: remember there is not a required way for you to act.

604
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 9: That's new school thinking. He says, your role in a

605
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 9: relationship isn't going to be the same all the time.

606
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 9: It's constantly changing. And that's a good thing, that's what

607
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 9: he's saying. He says, it'll shift organically. M that's a

608
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 9: good thing. Yeah, and that's a good thing.

609
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: You think your roles should stay the same in a relationship.

610
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think.

611
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Speaker 7: I think your roles have to be defined so that

612
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 7: everybody has an understanding of positioning. And then I think

613
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Speaker 7: there has to be some type of all give and

614
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Speaker 7: take where sometimes the other person can do that. I'm

615
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 7: not saying like roles like you do all the cleaning

616
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Speaker 7: and I'm not talking about that.

617
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but if you're good with money, yeah, do that

618
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: many things. Yeah.

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Speaker 15: I mean, you know, you either side, if you roll

620
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Speaker 15: playing in, your roles change Like you know, I might

621
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Speaker 15: be Batman one night, you know what I'm saying, but

622
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Speaker 15: then next night I might be incredible hook.

623
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Your roles do change.

624
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Speaker 7: You have to know that organically, organically and realistically, you're

625
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 7: neither one.

626
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Speaker 1: All right, here's old school. You should stay with them

627
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: for better or for worse, won't, he says. He says.

628
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 9: We all want to think our partner will stick around

629
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 9: no matter what. But if a relationship is unhealthy, you don't.

630
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 9: You don't need to stick it out. Get all right,

631
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 9: we do have to get out.

632
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Speaker 1: You're listening Morning show.

633
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 9: It is time now for would you rather let's play around,

634
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 9: let's get into it. Would you rather sing everything you speak?

635
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,359
Speaker 9: Or would you rather dance every time you walk?

636
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Speaker 2: Else?

637
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 4: We know that's what you want.

638
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 2: I'm not shouldn't be that happy as black person dance and.

639
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Speaker 9: Every time you walk doing a little cheek So sing something, Steve,

640
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 9: ask me a question. Tell, okay, what time is our

641
00:34:57,680 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 9: meeting today? Our conference call meeting.

642
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 7: The time of the meeting will be somewhere about a

643
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:12,759
Speaker 7: quarter to three. I want you call the Tommy, I

644
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:20,320
Speaker 7: want Junior coun Mississippi Mona. I will everybody phone zoom,

645
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 7: get pretty rude, see you on the phone call three

646
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,000
Speaker 7: hours afternoon.

647
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:41,439
Speaker 1: He sings everything. I just will be loan tho. Yes, yes,

648
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: all right.

649
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 9: So here's another one. Would you rather have Christmas twice

650
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 9: a year? Or would you rather have your birthday twice

651
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 9: a year?

652
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: Christ Birthday? Christmas?

653
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: You rather have your birthday twice?

654
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 2: Here? Yeah? Hell yeah? Why not Christmas? I got to

655
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: spill on Marching.

656
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:09,720
Speaker 7: Already, got Valentown Day, Mother's Day, damn anniversary, her birthday?

657
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:11,880
Speaker 2: Hell no, we ain't gonna do Christmas twice?

658
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:21,320
Speaker 16: Yeah, okay, perspective, I got you, Okay, coins yeah, okay,

659
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 16: all right.

660
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 9: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL or

661
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 9: be the general manager of your favorite NFL team?

662
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

663
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 9: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL? Or

664
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 9: would you rather be the general manager of your favorite

665
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 9: NFL sports team?

666
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 2: General ain't doing nothing. I need to be out front

667
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Speaker 2: and be the commission.

668
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, and the check wave that I'll tell you right now,

669
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 7: DeShawn Watson would be playing for the Browns right now,

670
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 7: he would be what playing for the Browns?

671
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 2: No criminal charges? We have none to get you here either.

672
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: So the commissioner could he's out front? Okay?

673
00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

674
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:10,800
Speaker 5: What about you, junior commission He wouldn't be in Cleveland

675
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 5: if I was the commissioner.

676
00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 4: Okay, so there you go.

677
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 2: Well, good thing you the last ain't the commissioner?

678
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 12: All right?

679
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:23,720
Speaker 1: Thank you guys.

680
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 9: That is today's roundup. Would you rather you're listening Hard

681
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 9: Morning show? Well, Stephen Tommy, you two are like the

682
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 9: grilling experts on the show, the barbecue experts on the show.

683
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 9: So Memorial Day is coming up, and I wanted to

684
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,959
Speaker 9: know if you guys had any tips.

685
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 2: For us hips for grilling.

686
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,120
Speaker 1: For grilling, let me go.

687
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 2: Let me go first, he's been putting on that. He

688
00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 2: let me go first.

689
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 3: This is what bothers me about people grilling. Okay, quit

690
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:55,280
Speaker 3: putting all.

691
00:37:55,239 --> 00:38:00,720
Speaker 2: That light of fluid on your charcoal or your drives

692
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 2: me crazy. Do you realize your meat smells just like

693
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 2: that light of fluid. It tastes like that. Yeah, come on, man,

694
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 2: get you some wood. They got some natural wood starters

695
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 2: that you can put in there and light those up.

696
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,760
Speaker 3: And now your wood or your charcoal, whichever one you using,

697
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 3: doesn't taste like a smell like all this gas light

698
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 3: of fluid.

699
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: You don't put on that. That's one of my tips

700
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: right there. That's a pet peever.

701
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 14: Man eat.

702
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 7: So let me just piggyback off that and say to

703
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 7: start your five. They sell, they sell. What time he's

704
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 7: talking about is firestarters. Wood starters where the little white chunks.

705
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 7: They got matched sticks that burn naturally that you can

706
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 7: put on it. But they have these things that look

707
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 7: like coffee cans. They look like a big giant coffee mug.

708
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 7: You put your charcoal in it and light it from

709
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:02,720
Speaker 7: the bottom right, and that can get your charcoal started

710
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 7: a little bit more even for you. You don't pour

711
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 7: the charcoal in the basin of your thing. You pour

712
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 7: the charcoal in this like big round pot and it

713
00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 7: started like that. Yes, it's gotta handle on it. Then

714
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 7: you just pour it in there and they'll burn. Even

715
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,760
Speaker 7: this is little stuff you can learn. I have another tip.

716
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:21,439
Speaker 2: When it's my turn.

717
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 3: Okay, here's another people that people that are you know, amateurs,

718
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 3: are grilling.

719
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 2: They throw their chicken on and then you think, twenty

720
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,959
Speaker 2: minutes later, your chicken is done. Your chicken ain't done.

721
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 1: Okay, long.

722
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 2: And it's a sport. Oh and why are you talking

723
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: while we talking about cooking.

724
00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: Why us trying to stay awake? Why it takes so long.

725
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 7: We'll learn how to cook and bill awake. Hell, the

726
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 7: people come over your house and not leave so much.

727
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 3: If you can cook, you have ever bring something. So

728
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 3: listen while you're cooking your chicken. Keep flipping it and

729
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 3: don't be afraid. The slice a piece and see where. Yeah,

730
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 3: if you see a little light red water, you need

731
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 3: to cook a little longer. That means there's still some

732
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 3: blood in the keeping your chicken. Keep flipping it and

733
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 3: keep cooking. That's all I'm asking.

734
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 7: Look, man, grilling ain't no thing where you can leave

735
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 7: your meat for ten minutes and walk off somewhere.

736
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 2: That ain't what There's some people going in the house

737
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: for thirty minutes.

738
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,360
Speaker 11: What did you do?

739
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 7: You can't do that when you grilling. Grilling is a sport.

740
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 7: It's an activity. You got to move that chicken to

741
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 7: the front, to the back. Go ahead, okay, okay, let's

742
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 7: go back real quick.

743
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead and have one jay Okay.

744
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 17: I know nothing about grilling. I think what you guys

745
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:50,280
Speaker 17: are saying is great. If you add a barbecue, please

746
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 17: bring good ass plates.

747
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:52,280
Speaker 2: Okay.

748
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 17: If the sign says cheap plates. If it says cheap plates,

749
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 17: damn it, don't bring them. Okay, it says plates, right there,

750
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:04,319
Speaker 17: bring good ass plates.

751
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 3: All right, here's one quick. When I give it back

752
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 3: on the steak. When you when you he said your charcoals,

753
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 3: are you eving them out? You know when you get it,

754
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 3: when you get it going.

755
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,919
Speaker 2: But some of us like to have a real hot

756
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: side and then a warm side while you cook it.

757
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 2: You understand.

758
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 3: So you may have more wood or more charcoals on

759
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: one side, and then on another side you got you

760
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: still got wooden charcoals, but it's not as heavy as

761
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 3: the other side.

762
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 2: That's just one of my tips.

763
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 7: Yeah, my tip is I have the back side of

764
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 7: my grill, I put no charcoal back there. On the backside,

765
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 7: I put none so you can move some meat off

766
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,960
Speaker 7: that heat if it's cooking too fast. Cool, you gotta

767
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 7: have what time is talking about, a cool spot on

768
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 7: the grill.

769
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: I put no.

770
00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:54,400
Speaker 7: Charcoal on the back. On the back and forth of

771
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 7: the grill, I put no charcoal.

772
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: This was so exciting.

773
00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 7: And you can set the money on. You can set

774
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 7: the meat on top of each piece if you have

775
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 7: to to keep it off your stack. And Shirley, don't

776
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 7: rush us with your learn picking lad. There's people who

777
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 7: care about this.

778
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 2: This is fast for a plate though.

779
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 7: Yes, nobody coming to your house eating not no damn

780
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 7: crock Poddle.

781
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: We gotta go. Coming up next to Nephew with today's

782
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 1: prank phone call.

783
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 9: Right after this, you're listening Hardy Morning Show coming up

784
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 9: at the top of the hour, about four minutes after

785
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 9: into my strawberry letter for today. The subject number two

786
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 9: will never be number one, but right now we'll get

787
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 9: to that. Yeah, talk about that a lot on this show.

788
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 9: Right now, the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

789
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: What you got for us, nest, It's.

790
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 2: Time to hit the pool. Summer time is coming. It's here.

791
00:42:53,320 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 3: Basically, the title is Naked Lifeguard, Naked what lifeguard? Don't don't, don't.

792
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 3: Don't let this bother you could. I know I ain't

793
00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 3: the only one on this show to swam, Nick, I

794
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 3: know I ain't. Let's go get make your lifeguard.

795
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 12: Hello.

796
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 13: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Carrie. Yes, this is

797
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 13: Carrie Carrie. My name is Oliver Olive. You put in

798
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 13: an application with the employment agency about looking for some

799
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 13: work as far as being a lifeguard.

800
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 14: Oh, yeah, I did.

801
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 13: Okay. Have you had much experience being a lifeguard?

802
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 14: Yeah, I've been doing this for a while now, back

803
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:39,800
Speaker 14: since I was like eighteen I got my CPR certification.

804
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 14: I've had as many as like two hundred people at

805
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 14: one time watching them. So I'm good. I'm good at

806
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 14: what I do. I love it.

807
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 13: Very good, very good. Well, i'll tell you what. I've

808
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 13: looked over your application and I've checked everything out thoroughly,

809
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 13: and I'm very excited about maybe getting you to I

810
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 13: don't know if you're famili with a public pool. It's

811
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 13: actually in a subdivision. There's two pools there are you

812
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 13: familiar with.

813
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 14: Yeah, I'm familiar with it. They're they're near well Is. Yeah.

814
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 13: Okay, Well there's actually in the back of you there's

815
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 13: a gated community and that is actually the particular property

816
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 13: that I'm talking about. You coming out and working for

817
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 13: us there at the pool site. If we can get

818
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,439
Speaker 13: you on Monday to Friday, we're going to actually hire

819
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 13: some some more college students for Saturday and Sunday. What

820
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:31,759
Speaker 13: do you say, Oh, I.

821
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 14: Say, okay, that sounds great mony weekends off.

822
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now we start off job actually pays

823
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:41,879
Speaker 13: twenty five dollars an hour.

824
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 12: Wow.

825
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 13: You would be our head lifeguard and we would we

826
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,000
Speaker 13: would want you to be there from you know. I

827
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 13: mean if you start at twelve, it'll actually like you

828
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:54,800
Speaker 13: to get there around eleven thirty, you know, just just

829
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,879
Speaker 13: to be prepared and be the overseer and make sure

830
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,279
Speaker 13: the other lifeguards get there on time, and you know,

831
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 13: we'll go from there.

832
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 7: Okay.

833
00:45:01,960 --> 00:45:05,479
Speaker 13: Now, carry there's only one catch that actually comes along

834
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 13: with this job. We want you to work an additional

835
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 13: four hours from six to ten at night, but it's

836
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 13: going to pay you fifty dollars per hour. So you'll

837
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 13: make an extra two hundred dollars. How do you feel

838
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 13: about that?

839
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 14: Man?

840
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 12: I feel good.

841
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 14: I mean, with the recession and everything, I can use

842
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 14: that money right now, especially during the summertime.

843
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 13: Okay, now here's the deal. This is in a gated community,

844
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,320
Speaker 13: like I told you before, but also it's going to

845
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 13: be adults at night, and they are actually going to

846
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 13: be swimming nude. What Yeah, they're going to be swimming nude.

847
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 13: And what they asked is if they're going to be

848
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:43,920
Speaker 13: swimming nude, they want to make sure that the lifeguard

849
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,879
Speaker 13: that's protecting them is going to be nude as well.

850
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 14: Okay, I'm a certified lifeguard, I'm CPR certified, I'm a student.

851
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 14: I've had other jobs, but nudity wasn't on my resume,

852
00:45:59,239 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 14: and I.

853
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 13: I understand that wholeheartedly. But we're talking about you possibly

854
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,560
Speaker 13: making seventeen hundred and fifty dollars a week. How do

855
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 13: you feel about seventeen hundred and fifty a week for

856
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 13: your nursing school. I'm sure that'll definitely pay for it

857
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 13: throughout the entire summer. That should be a big help,

858
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 13: shouldn't it.

859
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 14: Yeah?

860
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 13: W But I mean, I mean, are are you, how

861
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 13: do you feel about trying it for a few weeks

862
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:24,759
Speaker 13: and then you know, why do you feel about that?

863
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 13: I don't know, But I mean, you're gonna watch over

864
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 13: some adults who are actually just gonna be nude in

865
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 13: the pool, and you're nude as well up on the

866
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 13: big chair that overwatches everybody. Seventeen fifty. I don't seventeen

867
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 13: fifty Carrey.

868
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 14: You know, I don't think I'm going to be able

869
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 14: to do that.

870
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 13: Seventeen fifty carry. We're talking about four hours of you

871
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 13: being nude along with some other people that are already new. So,

872
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:55,439
Speaker 13: I mean, what's the big deal?

873
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 11: You know?

874
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 13: What we need you to do is come down. We're

875
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 13: gonna do some drills, some lifeguard drills to make sure

876
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 13: that you're definitely qualified. But we're going to make sure

877
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 13: that when you do those, you got to be naked

878
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 13: as well. Okay, why why would I have to do.

879
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 14: Some drills naked?

880
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 12: I'm on a radio life guard.

881
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 13: What do I need to drug? And understand all that?

882
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 13: But in order we for our particular property, we got

883
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 13: to make sure that you're actually prepared and ready.

884
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 14: You know, I understand.

885
00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 13: Well, that's the way it is. Carry. We need you

886
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 13: to come down and do some drills. It's not going

887
00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 13: to take a long probably about a half hour. You

888
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 13: come down, you get undressed, you get in the pool,

889
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 13: and we make sure that you're qualified to swim nude,

890
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:38,480
Speaker 13: to handle to saving somebody's life, nude, the whole nine yards.

891
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 14: But what I mean, what if my family come to that?

892
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 13: You know, Carrie, you know I can't go back and

893
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 13: forth with you. I can't now. I know you. You know.

894
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 13: I looked at your resume, I looked at what you

895
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 13: were doing and what you're pursuing in life, and I

896
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 13: thought this would be a great opportunity for you.

897
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 12: But I can't be here.

898
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 14: I mean, I can't do that to my family and

899
00:47:57,880 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 14: you no, no.

900
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 13: Wait a minute, hang on a second. You can't tell

901
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 13: me you can't do it now?

902
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 12: Oh yes, I yes I can.

903
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,360
Speaker 13: So you get your down here in the morning so

904
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 13: I can get these drills done. And I want you

905
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 13: naked when you get here and get in this pool.

906
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:11,320
Speaker 13: You understand me.

907
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 12: Hoo, the hell do you think you're talking to her?

908
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 12: You some kind of pool pimp? Lifeguard? Human resources are

909
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 12: and pimp. You're not pimping me.

910
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 14: I don't have to come down there, but I want

911
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 14: to come down there.

912
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 13: You gonna bring you think it down there tomorrow and

913
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 13: get in this pool and do the drill.

914
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 12: Do you think you're talking too.

915
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 13: I'm talking to you.

916
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,879
Speaker 4: You get your tomorrow and you do the drill.

917
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 12: You need to do it. Go get your panel of

918
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 12: Henderson Baywatch because anth doing enough new brass strip for

919
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 12: you all freaking I don't know them. I don't know

920
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 12: them people.

921
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 13: I don't give a pool you know. Now, you get

922
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 13: your down here and you take the job.

923
00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:51,240
Speaker 12: I'm not coming down this to your front pool tomorrow

924
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 12: and swim new and life go ahead new for a

925
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 12: bunch of ronchy. I don't know who you take your

926
00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 12: time to. I'm just trying to be nice to you.

927
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 14: You come home with that, and then I stood because.

928
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 12: I'm not there kind of girl. You got me? Okay,

929
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 12: you need to go get you.

930
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 14: A a Pamela Anderson baby watch. You know deepse diving.

931
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 12: I don't know what you need, but I'm gonna what

932
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:14,239
Speaker 12: you need.

933
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 13: You get your block down here tomorrow.

934
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 12: What talking I'm talking to you? Talking to who I'm

935
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 12: talking to you? What do you think you're talking to?

936
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 13: I got something I want to say to you, you listening,

937
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 13: you know where you you better go.

938
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 14: Ahead and say because I'm bout to hang up this

939
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 14: phone in your face right now.

940
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 13: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

941
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 13: You just got pranked by your girlfriend.

942
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 12: I just see this.

943
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 13: She's franks you, baby. Your girlfriend pranks you.

944
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 12: When I see that she's gonna have one less float,

945
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 12: I cannot believe she damn me like this?

946
00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 13: Alright, I gotta ask you, so the baby, what is

947
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 13: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio

948
00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 13: show in the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

949
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 1: The distress in her voice, I thought about it. I

950
00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 1: can't do that.

951
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 2: I just can't do that to my family.

952
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 11: Right.

953
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 2: She really was cut your black ass.

954
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 7: Down, Tommy. I'd have been down there for show. I

955
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 7: wouldn't got my daddy. But Tommy, you kind of blew

956
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 7: it in the beginning. You know you're gonna be at

957
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 7: the pool. You're gonna be like the head of You're

958
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,760
Speaker 7: gonna be the overseer. I said, what kind of slave

959
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:50,799
Speaker 7: as you dinna be the overseer? I said, what did

960
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 7: his old ass say that he is younger? Gotta be

961
00:50:53,200 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 7: like the overseer for them that at what point shall

962
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:04,919
Speaker 7: I bring out my bag and pick a bail? Wow?

963
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you for that. I was scared

964
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:14,280
Speaker 1: for you on that one. Coming up next, Strawberry Letter, subject.

965
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 9: Number two will never be number one. We'll get to

966
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 9: that in just a few minutes.

967
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: At the top of the hour. We'll be back with

968
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:23,719
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

969
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

970
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 9: All right time now, guys for today's Strawberry Letter and

971
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 9: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

972
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 9: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

973
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,800
Speaker 9: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

974
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 9: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

975
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 9: going to read this one right here, right now.

976
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 2: Muckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you.

977
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 9: Here.

978
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 2: It is the Strawberry Letter.

979
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 9: Thank you, nephew. Subject number two will never be number one.

980
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 9: Stephen Shirley, I was a single and attractive, thirty four

981
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 9: year old woman losing hope at finding love. I grew

982
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 9: tired of the dating cycle, and I decided that I

983
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 9: would not have sex again until I was married, I

984
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 9: prayed and practiced celibacy, and a year later I met

985
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:19,239
Speaker 9: the man of my dreams. He is handsome, educated, gainfully employed,

986
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 9: and he loves the Lord. I fell hard for this man,

987
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 9: and a year after we met, we got married. I

988
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 9: was so excited for my wedding night because it would

989
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 9: be our first time making love. He is blessed with

990
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:38,520
Speaker 9: the proper equipment, but it's his skill set that's lacking.

991
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 9: On our wedding night, I had the absolute worst sexual

992
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 9: experience I've ever had. It was four minutes from start

993
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 9: to finish. Then he passed out and slept like he

994
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 9: has showed out. Since then, he's been overly confident, and

995
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 9: he's not as attentive and loving as when we met.

996
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 9: Six months into the marriage, I ran into an old

997
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 9: friend from college and he had some dental work done

998
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 9: and it made a world of difference in his appearance.

999
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 1: We had lunch and we talked for hours.

1000
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 9: He said that when I got married it broke his

1001
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 9: heart because he's always had a big crush on me,

1002
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 9: but didn't think I'd give him the time of day.

1003
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: Well, I've given him a lot more than that. I'm

1004
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: falling for this man.

1005
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 9: Because he has given me his whole heart, and he

1006
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,839
Speaker 9: holds me after sex, kisses my nose, and looks into

1007
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 9: my soul when he talks to me. I'm ready to

1008
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 9: get a divorce and date my boyfriend for a while.

1009
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 9: I want to be happy, and so far this guy

1010
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,960
Speaker 9: could be my soulmate. Steve says that number two will

1011
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 9: never be number one, So I want your opinion on

1012
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 9: my situation. What if this time there is an exception

1013
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 9: to the rule.

1014
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,919
Speaker 1: Could this be true love?

1015
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 4: Wow?

1016
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: Love?

1017
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 9: Well, by exception to the rule, you mean he's your

1018
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 9: number two, right, and you're thinking of making him number one,

1019
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 9: replacing your husband with him.

1020
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: Could this be true love? You ask, well, I don't

1021
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 1: know about that.

1022
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 9: I don't know if love has anything to do with this.

1023
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 9: I do think lust is all over this situation, though,

1024
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 9: I do. And instead of.

1025
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:28,360
Speaker 1: And would you say, Steve, oh oh oh, sorry, I

1026
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,800
Speaker 1: thought it was see yeah.

1027
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 2: I don't say stupid stuff out.

1028
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: Of nowhere, okay, okay, And you're right about that. And

1029
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,280
Speaker 1: I should have known better, because.

1030
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 13: I do know you.

1031
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 4: You know you.

1032
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,920
Speaker 9: You talked in the beginning of your letter how you

1033
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 9: grew tired, you decided you wouldn't have sex again, you

1034
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 9: started losing hope and finding love, and then you met

1035
00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 9: this great man, the man of your dreams, and six.

1036
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: Months into your marriage you've already cheated on him.

1037
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:58,399
Speaker 9: Instead of trying to fix your new marriage and fight

1038
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 9: for it, you haven't done that at all. I mean,

1039
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:03,840
Speaker 9: I think you've checked out, You've moved on, uh just

1040
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 9: six months in UH. I think you're falling for the

1041
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 9: grass as always greener trap. And not once did you

1042
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,720
Speaker 9: say you tried to, you know, talk to your husband

1043
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 9: about what you like, you know, maybe he could do

1044
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:15,880
Speaker 9: something better.

1045
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: And then wait a minute, you.

1046
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 9: Did say you prayed, You practice celibacy, and your husband

1047
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,959
Speaker 9: loves the Lord, so I would think that you would

1048
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,919
Speaker 9: honor your marriage vows since you're the one that brought

1049
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 9: the Lord into it.

1050
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1051
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: This letter doesn't make a lot of sense to me.

1052
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 9: I want to tell you to leave your number two

1053
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,799
Speaker 9: alone and try to work on your number one right now,

1054
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 9: since it's only been six months into it.

1055
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: But I don't think you're going to listen at this point.

1056
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 1: I just don't think so.

1057
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 2: Steve short As.

1058
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:52,839
Speaker 1: Doesn't think she's gonna listen.

1059
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 13: I don't know.

1060
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 2: I got you.

1061
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:56,319
Speaker 1: She wants what she wants.

1062
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't understand what you said. I think you

1063
00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 7: make valid points in here. Two the number two will

1064
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 7: never be number one. Let me help you out with

1065
00:56:04,440 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 7: something you said. Let's start with the letter. Steve says

1066
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 7: number twos will never be number one. So I want

1067
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 7: your opinion on my situation. What if this time that's

1068
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:16,719
Speaker 7: an exception to the rule. Could this be true?

1069
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:17,040
Speaker 1: Love?

1070
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 7: I said, men don't make their number twos when they

1071
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 7: have a number one. If a guy has a solid

1072
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 7: his ride or die and that's what he called in

1073
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 7: her and then he got a chick on his side,

1074
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,320
Speaker 7: and you're number two. We don't promote number twos to

1075
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 7: number one because you ain't considered ride or die. That's

1076
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 7: what the situation is.

1077
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 13: OK.

1078
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 2: So now this is a different situation because you're married.

1079
00:56:55,920 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 7: You're supposed to be your husband's number one and your

1080
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 7: husband is supposed to be your number one. But now

1081
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 7: you are a woman wanting to promote your number two

1082
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 7: to the number one position, and that's what you're wanting

1083
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 7: to do.

1084
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:14,959
Speaker 8: This is rare.

1085
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 7: Here, let me walk you through some contradictions in this

1086
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 7: letter before I give you what I want to say.

1087
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 7: You didn't have sex to you, was married. Thirty four

1088
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 7: year old woman found this man. He's a man in

1089
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,680
Speaker 7: your dreams. He's handsome, educated, gamefully employed, and.

1090
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 2: He loves the Lord. You did not mention how much

1091
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: you love the Lord.

1092
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: Shet up though.

1093
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he loves the Lord. He ain't say nothing

1094
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 2: about you.

1095
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 7: I fell hard for this man, and a year after

1096
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 7: we met, we got married. I was so excited for

1097
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 7: my webnite because it will be our first time making love.

1098
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 7: He's blessed with the proper equipment, but it's his skill

1099
00:57:59,600 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 7: set that's lacked. Oh so you took a year off

1100
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 7: still had Joe skills. So what are we really talking

1101
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 7: about here?

1102
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 12: All right?

1103
00:58:11,360 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 9: Hold on, Steve, Yeah, pardon too. Steve's response is coming

1104
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 9: up at twenty three minutes after. Number two will never

1105
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 9: be number one is the subject. We'll be back right

1106
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 9: after this.

1107
00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 1: You're listening Hardy Morning show.

1108
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,640
Speaker 9: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,

1109
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 9: subject number two will never be number one.

1110
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:34,040
Speaker 7: This is an interesting letter about this woman who states

1111
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 7: that Steve says that the number two will never be

1112
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 7: number one, so I won't opinion on my situation. What

1113
00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 7: is this What if this time there's an exception to

1114
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 7: the rule. Could this be true love? I'm gonna get

1115
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 7: to this part quickly. But first of all, she married

1116
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 7: this guy, man of her dreams, everything. She's been celibate

1117
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 7: for a year and a half. She didn't have sex

1118
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:57,080
Speaker 7: to her wedding night. She was so excited about the

1119
00:58:57,200 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 7: sex she fell hard for the man. They made love.

1120
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 7: He got the right equipment, but his skill set he's lacking.

1121
00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 7: Our wedding night, I had the absolute worst sexual experience

1122
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:15,360
Speaker 7: I ever had. It was four minutes from start to finish.

1123
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 7: So he didn't got you undressed, took all them buttons

1124
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 7: off that wedding dress, got.

1125
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 2: All them guarters down in them figh highs and all

1126
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 2: that une.

1127
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:31,960
Speaker 7: Snapped all them spanks and got all that stuff unstrapped,

1128
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:36,800
Speaker 7: and got them clips. Wedding dresses had about four five

1129
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 7: pieces to it. And then right after that, it was

1130
00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 7: over in four minutes, and he passed out and slept

1131
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 7: like he had showed out to him.

1132
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 2: He did.

1133
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:51,959
Speaker 7: Now he'd had sex in a year and a half either,

1134
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 7: so come on, now, it's a lot of It's a

1135
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 7: lot so the first time, maybe he didn't do right,

1136
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 7: but I guess it continued that way because since then

1137
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 7: he's been overly confident. He's not as attentive and of

1138
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 7: loving as he was when you met. So, in other words,

1139
01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 7: I'm assuming you saying that he's become arrogant for some reason,

1140
01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 7: that maybe he thinks he all that because you ain't

1141
01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 7: looking upside his head the right way. You know this

1142
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 7: four minutes. You need to stop something before we get there.

1143
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 7: Excuse me, excuse me, excuse me? Can I give more

1144
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,439
Speaker 7: and fault today what we're doing?

1145
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 2: Can we do eight? Let's skin o' clock.

1146
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 7: You need a timer on the night stand, hit a

1147
01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,080
Speaker 7: thing like a chest clock, and you need I need

1148
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 7: eight from you tonight.

1149
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: Let's work. Let's beat last night.

1150
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 7: We need twelve. But he ain't been giving it to you.

1151
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:43,920
Speaker 7: So you ran into an old college for you and

1152
01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 7: had some dinner work done. So that means before in

1153
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 7: college he had a regglar ass mouth. But now he'dn't

1154
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:53,720
Speaker 7: got this dinner work done, and he's made a world

1155
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 7: of difference.

1156
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 2: He said, when he got married, it broke his heart.

1157
01:00:56,640 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 2: He always had a big crush on.

1158
01:00:58,040 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 7: Me, but he didn't think I'd give him the time

1159
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 7: of Hey, Well, hell, he knew he wasn't he had

1160
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:06,840
Speaker 7: ragged ass mount. You know he knew well, he knew it.

1161
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 7: He knew the girl wasn't gonna give him time today.

1162
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 7: You got ragged ass. My raggedy mounth fans me and

1163
01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 7: no they ain't got no. You know your teeth is

1164
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 7: they gonna see your teeth hard hide your teeth when

1165
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 7: you're talking, Kate, laugh with bad teeth, you can't even

1166
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 7: have a good sense of humor. We got raggedy ass mouth.

1167
01:01:25,320 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 7: So there, Well, I've given him a lot more than that.

1168
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 7: I'm falling for this man because he's given me his

1169
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 7: whole heart. He holds me after sex, kisses my nose,

1170
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:36,760
Speaker 7: looks into my soul when he talks to me. I'm

1171
01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 7: ready to get the voice and date my boyfriend, and

1172
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 7: date my boyfriend a while. I want to be happy,

1173
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:45,240
Speaker 7: and so far this guy could be my soul mate.

1174
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 7: Steve says his number two would never be number one.

1175
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 7: So I want your opinion on this situation. What if

1176
01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,880
Speaker 7: this time this is an exception to the rule. Could

1177
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 7: this be true love? All right, here's my answer. He

1178
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 7: could be you may have married a person that's not

1179
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 7: your so o mate, it happens all the time. Sometime

1180
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 7: it take a minute to find your soulmate. Sometime it

1181
01:02:06,240 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 7: takes MOLDI one time, help me Jesus trying to work

1182
01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 7: through this letter.

1183
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: Give him a chance, though, I think it.

1184
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 2: Maybe, I think she may have realized she made a mistake.

1185
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: I think this.

1186
01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 7: Once you got to living with a guy and sleeping

1187
01:02:22,840 --> 01:02:25,480
Speaker 7: with a guy, you discover some things that might not

1188
01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:29,240
Speaker 7: be changeable. Now you can go to counseling, But you

1189
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 7: got to be in love with this man. If you're

1190
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:33,600
Speaker 7: not in love with a person, that ain't gonna work.

1191
01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 7: Tina Turner said, WHOA. Of course, love got to deal

1192
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 7: with it.

1193
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 1: You got to do hard for him.

1194
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 7: We fell hard and stayed falling two different things. I

1195
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:49,520
Speaker 7: feil I fell hard for a whole lot of people

1196
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,360
Speaker 7: in my life. Got my ass right back up though,

1197
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 7: me too, Yeah, I fell hard for a whole lot

1198
01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 7: of damn people.

1199
01:02:56,920 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 2: Got my ass right on back up again.

1200
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 1: Did you marry them?

1201
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 13: Though?

1202
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: Did you marry them?

1203
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 13: Though?

1204
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 1: I'm on my third man, You know that a whole

1205
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 1: lot of people. You haven't had a whole lot of marriage.

1206
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 7: No, I ain't got I ain't married everybody I fell for.

1207
01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 7: I fell for three women because they had apartments.

1208
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:19,800
Speaker 2: I was homeless.

1209
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,440
Speaker 7: If I fed a girl at the club. Yeah, when

1210
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:25,439
Speaker 7: I was homeless, I met a girl at the comedy club.

1211
01:03:25,720 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 2: I was in love with it at.

1212
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 9: Night, hard for her that night, at first sight, first sight,

1213
01:03:32,440 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 9: at first I love you as soon as I heard her.

1214
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 7: She has some keys jangling. Hey, what is them keys to?

1215
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 7: She said, my apartment? Apartment A dope, You got.

1216
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: A bathroom room a Kitschen girl.

1217
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 2: So yeah, it could be and you may have married

1218
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 2: the wrong person. But only you can know that. I

1219
01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: don't tell people that staying marriages. It ain't good.

1220
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 7: Counseling ain't gonna save all of them. Sometimes you made

1221
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 7: a mistake. You got to eat the mistake. So now

1222
01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 7: it is an exception to the rule. He could be it,

1223
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:12,200
Speaker 7: but you could be wrong about this one too.

1224
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 2: I'm move my third.

1225
01:04:14,200 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: All right, guys, we got to get out of here.

1226
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 9: You can post your thoughts on today Strawberry Letter at

1227
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 9: Steve Harvey FM and check out our Strawberry Letter podcast

1228
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:26,480
Speaker 9: on demand. Okay, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1229
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 9: With travel continuing to rebound, it sounds like a lot

1230
01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:32,880
Speaker 9: of people will be heading somewhere. According to Triple A,

1231
01:04:33,240 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 9: thirty nine point two million people will travel fifty miles

1232
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 9: or more over Memorial Day, and with all those travelers,

1233
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:43,440
Speaker 9: there will be plenty of traffic. I'm talking plenty of traffic.

1234
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:46,320
Speaker 9: I'm talking plenty of traffic. Of course, the car isn't

1235
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,919
Speaker 9: the only way people will be escaping. Millions of people

1236
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 9: will be flying or taking a cruise or the train

1237
01:04:52,040 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 9: or the bus. So guys, Steve, think back when you

1238
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 9: were a kid. Tell us about your favorite road trip

1239
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:00,920
Speaker 9: cation memory.

1240
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 7: I don't I don't have anywhere it was, Yeah, but

1241
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:12,920
Speaker 7: damn disaster. What happened ping in the Maxwell coffee can

1242
01:05:12,960 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 7: because he ain't want to stop? Yeah, my dad, man,

1243
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 7: he needs hot ass promental cheese sandwiy I didn't like

1244
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 7: none of them skip on that, so I couldn't wake

1245
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 7: and give me some money so I could get.

1246
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:28,880
Speaker 2: This here.

1247
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:35,840
Speaker 7: Here, we have a good ass trip six hours all

1248
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:36,720
Speaker 7: the way to West Virginia.

1249
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 2: Were sitting in the back of this hot ass car.

1250
01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 2: We ain't got no air.

1251
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 7: He ain't running the air because it burned more gas

1252
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 7: in the back of that hot ass station wagon.

1253
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 2: Sitting up in him man like felt like just animals

1254
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 2: in the back of that damn How did we not

1255
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: run the air back of the day.

1256
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:56,320
Speaker 7: How do we not trying to lay down in the

1257
01:05:56,400 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 7: back of the station wagon and go to sleep with

1258
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 7: these bad ass shocks on this car. Then I won't

1259
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 7: go the bathroom. We ain't stopping peeing that coffee can.

1260
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 7: Boys on my knees trying to pee in this coffee can.

1261
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 7: Sick of the mess right here? An no money? All

1262
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 7: the white people stopping that stuckies in all these little places.

1263
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 2: Get not eating. We gotta eat what my mama made.

1264
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:23,480
Speaker 2: We open it up.

1265
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 7: Stuff in wax paper is win because it's in there.

1266
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,560
Speaker 7: All these white people going in the restaurant to eat.

1267
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 7: We just look it out the window. Don't get dog

1268
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 7: out of this car. We're gonna gas something.

1269
01:06:36,360 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: Keep going.

1270
01:06:40,320 --> 01:06:42,160
Speaker 7: You know, he'll run around, he'll be to touch something

1271
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 7: and knock it off the shelf, and then I got

1272
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,320
Speaker 7: to pay for that too. Just stay in this damn car.

1273
01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 7: Stick your head out that window again and see.

1274
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 2: What happened.

1275
01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:56,520
Speaker 13: For you.

1276
01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 2: Roll mental cheese man on the sandwich in the wax paper.

1277
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:08,720
Speaker 1: That an egg salad sandwiches, hog headche show.

1278
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 2: I don't want nothing but.

1279
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 13: Hot.

1280
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, survivors, you're listening morning show. All right, guys, time

1281
01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 1: now for comedy roulette. Jay take it away.

1282
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 17: All right, there we go, comedy roulette. You take four subjects,

1283
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 17: three subjects don't matter. Putting them on a wheel. Spin

1284
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,480
Speaker 17: the wheel where a wheel stop and it stops will

1285
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:37,880
Speaker 17: make it funny, because that's what we do.

1286
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:39,000
Speaker 1: They don't.

1287
01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: Oh, since he got sick, he wrote respectful.

1288
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,720
Speaker 4: Everybody, he will.

1289
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 14: Come out.

1290
01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:56,840
Speaker 1: Equipment. I was waiting on that.

1291
01:07:57,200 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 8: He's a comedian.

1292
01:07:58,520 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: Jason commited none of that.

1293
01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:01,920
Speaker 2: Now you know that out?

1294
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:05,040
Speaker 1: All right, here we go.

1295
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 9: Number one excuses black people make not to get in

1296
01:08:08,640 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 9: a swimming pool. Number two things you say to fifty

1297
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 9: year old men who still wear corn rows.

1298
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 2: Let's do that.

1299
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:21,839
Speaker 1: Excuse this you make to not let the Jehovah witness

1300
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: in the house.

1301
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:26,760
Speaker 9: And Number four things people say when they don't want

1302
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 9: to leave the waitress or the waiter a tip.

1303
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:32,280
Speaker 1: All right, so let's get it. Yeah, let's call.

1304
01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 2: Corn rolls. Let's go, baby, please, let's let go.

1305
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:40,680
Speaker 4: All right.

1306
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:44,360
Speaker 1: It landed on Hi. Excuses black people make to not

1307
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 1: get in.

1308
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 4: The swimming pool, because this is for real. I get

1309
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,639
Speaker 4: in the water once I get in the water.

1310
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 2: I get real damn Ashy. I can't get in a

1311
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:53,920
Speaker 2: damn one.

1312
01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it.

1313
01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 2: Tell you what I don't know about black people.

1314
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:02,840
Speaker 1: This is the excuses I used.

1315
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 2: It's not getting the pool.

1316
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 4: I got cigare sel.

1317
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:06,439
Speaker 1: I could die.

1318
01:09:10,880 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 4: I can't get it. I swim could that?

1319
01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 8: Okay?

1320
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you know what. I wanted to swim today.

1321
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:24,960
Speaker 2: But they don't make depends in swimming. Trump, that's the

1322
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 2: only reason why there. They just you know them depends. Yeah,

1323
01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 2: I gotta have that. I can't get in there.

1324
01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:35,960
Speaker 1: I will never go swimming with you.

1325
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 7: Every excuse you black people, don't Black people use not

1326
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Speaker 7: to get in the swim. I like to swim all

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Speaker 7: the way down in back. It's too many people in there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't like overscribed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just like to do down the back.

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Speaker 17: Excuse black people make so they don't have to get

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Speaker 17: in the water. It's a whole lot of people in

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Speaker 17: that water and somebody I don't know who it is,

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Speaker 17: but I'm just guessing somebody done broke winning.

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Speaker 2: I ain't getting in there.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, hey, hey, excuses black people make for not to

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Speaker 8: swim where y'all keep the floatest.

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Speaker 4: I don't see no floating. I can't get in there

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Speaker 4: without floating.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, all right, all right.

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Speaker 3: Excuses black people make not to get in a swimming pool.

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Speaker 3: You know what, dog, I was gonna get in. I was,

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Speaker 3: but my exit then flat up. And you know if

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Speaker 3: I get everybody gonna get me if I get in there.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I don't want everybody to

1345
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:50,760
Speaker 2: get because I got it bad. Yeah, this this ex me.

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Speaker 7: Here, different, different excuses Black people used to not get

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Speaker 7: in the swimming pool.

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Speaker 2: I go in with y'all. But people allergic to chlorine,

1349
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Speaker 2: we don't don't care for them.

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Speaker 17: All right, Excuses black people make so they don't have

1351
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Speaker 17: to get into pool. See if I get in the water,

1352
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Speaker 17: my fake jury will turn color. See I don't need

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Speaker 17: to get in the water.

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Speaker 2: Work the angry black people why they don't get in

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Speaker 2: the pool. We ain't like the boat ride over here.

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Speaker 7: Excuses Black people are used not to get in the

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Speaker 7: swimming pool. Well, I would get in there today, but

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Speaker 7: I like more of a racial mix in the water.

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Speaker 2: I like racial in the water.

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Speaker 7: I like more like, yeah, fifty fifty half white hair blacks.

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Speaker 2: Then I'll get.

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Speaker 9: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. We'll be

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Speaker 9: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

1364
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Speaker 9: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 9: Never far from the office, even on vacation, that is

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01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:19,280
Speaker 9: the question. A new survey found that forty five percent

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01:12:19,320 --> 01:12:23,040
Speaker 9: of responding said they checked in with the office multiple

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01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 9: times a day while they're on vacation.

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Speaker 1: That's not a vacation.

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Speaker 2: Listen to this one. I know, I know, I was

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Speaker 2: not a promise.

1372
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Speaker 1: I won't be cot twenty week.

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Speaker 2: To give you my word. Actually would find me on Instagram,

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01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 2: I would go on lret week. I ain't even tear y'all.

1375
01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 2: I will leave it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so forty five I know.

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Speaker 9: Forty five percent of responding say they checked in with

1378
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:59,040
Speaker 9: the office multiple times a day during vacation. Twenty six

1379
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Speaker 9: percent said they checked in at least once a day,

1380
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Speaker 9: and none of the respondents said they.

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Speaker 1: Never checked in with work while on vacation.

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01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:07,600
Speaker 4: What they need to.

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01:13:09,320 --> 01:13:11,799
Speaker 3: Is it a disrespect to the people you on vacation

1384
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 3: with to stay on the phone and keep calling and working.

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01:13:14,520 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 2: Ain't that a disrespect? That makes sense? I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, what the hell you just said.

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01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 6: It's a respect it's disrespectful. But I'm sure the arguments

1388
01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 6: and all of that coming from you know, you're supposed

1389
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 6: to be on vacation.

1390
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Speaker 3: I mean, if you out with your spouse and you

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01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:35,639
Speaker 3: you guys are on a vacation. You got a three

1392
01:13:35,760 --> 01:13:39,479
Speaker 3: four day weekend. You know, is it right to be

1393
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 3: calling back and forth world with NU.

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Speaker 1: If you're on vaca, be on vaca.

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Speaker 13: All right.

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Speaker 9: We got more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1397
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 9: up at thirty three after the hour with some trending

1398
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 9: news stories right after this. You're listening to the Steve

1399
01:13:51,800 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Never

1400
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:03,080
Speaker 9: far from the office, even on vacation, that is the question.

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01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 9: A new survey found that forty five percent of responding

1402
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,880
Speaker 9: said they checked in with the office multiple times.

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01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:12,560
Speaker 1: A day while they're on vacation.

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01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 2: That's not a vacation. Listen to this one. I know,

1405
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 2: I know, I was not a promise. I won't be

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01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 2: caught twenty week, give you my word. Actually would find

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01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:29,800
Speaker 2: me on Instagram. I would go on last week. I

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01:14:29,840 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 2: ain't even tear y'all. I would leave it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:37,280
Speaker 2: we know, Yeah, so forty five.

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01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 13: I know.

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01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:40,840
Speaker 9: Forty five percent of responding say they checked in with

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01:14:40,960 --> 01:14:42,480
Speaker 9: the office multiple times.

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01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:43,679
Speaker 1: A day during vacation.

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01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:47,280
Speaker 9: Twenty six percent said they checked in at least once

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01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:49,720
Speaker 9: a day, and none of the respondents said they never

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01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:51,599
Speaker 9: checked in with work while on vacation.

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Speaker 3: What they need to tell you is it is it

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01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 3: a disrespect to the people you own vacation week to

1419
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,679
Speaker 3: stay on the phone and keep working.

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01:15:00,720 --> 01:15:04,200
Speaker 2: Ain't that a disrespect? That makes sense?

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01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 6: I don't know what the hell you just said, just

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01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:10,280
Speaker 6: a respect?

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01:15:10,800 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 2: It disrespectful.

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01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 6: But I'm sure the arguments and all of that coming

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01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 6: from you know, you're supposed to be on vacation.

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01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 3: I mean, if you out with your spouse and you

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01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 3: you guys are on a vacation. You got a three

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01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:25,680
Speaker 3: four day weekend, you know, is it right to be

1429
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 3: calling back and forth work with.

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01:15:27,360 --> 01:15:29,559
Speaker 1: NU if you're on vaca, be on vaca.

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Speaker 4: All right?

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01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 9: We got more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1433
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:34,719
Speaker 9: up at thirty three after the hour with some trending

1434
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,840
Speaker 9: news stories right after this. You're listening to the Steve

1435
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

1436
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:46,679
Speaker 9: is time now for would you rather let's play around,

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01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 9: let's get into it. Would you rather sing everything you speak?

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01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 9: Or would you rather dance every time you walk?

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01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 2: Everything else?

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01:15:58,200 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 4: Hey, we know that's what you.

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01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:02,559
Speaker 2: I'm nothing to be that happy ass black.

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01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:09,200
Speaker 1: Person dancing every time you walk, So sing something.

1443
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:11,639
Speaker 2: Steve to ask me a question.

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01:16:12,520 --> 01:16:15,839
Speaker 9: Tell, okay, what time is our meeting today? Our conference

1445
01:16:15,960 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 9: call meeting.

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01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 7: The time of the meeting will be somewhere about a

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01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 7: quarter to three. I want you call the Tommy if

1448
01:16:29,560 --> 01:16:36,920
Speaker 7: I want Junior coun Mississippi Monaic. I wont everybody boone zoom,

1449
01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:50,640
Speaker 7: get pretty rude. See the phone call three hours afternoon?

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01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:54,320
Speaker 1: He sings everything.

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01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:54,720
Speaker 13: I just.

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01:16:56,200 --> 01:17:00,200
Speaker 1: Long, yes, yes, all right.

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01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:04,120
Speaker 9: So here's another one. Would you rather have Christmas twice

1454
01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 9: a year? Or would you rather have your birthday twice

1455
01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:07,439
Speaker 9: a year?

1456
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 2: Christ Birthday? Christmas?

1457
01:17:10,479 --> 01:17:11,880
Speaker 1: You rather have your birthday twice?

1458
01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:17,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? Why not Christmas? I thought you when I

1459
01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:19,160
Speaker 2: got to spiel On mord.

1460
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 7: Already got Valentown Day, Mother's Day, damn anniversary, her birthday?

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01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 2: Hell no, we don't gonna do Christmas twice?

1462
01:17:29,880 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 16: Yeah, okay, perspective, okay, coins yeah, okay.

1463
01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 11: All right.

1464
01:17:39,360 --> 01:17:43,519
Speaker 9: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL, or

1465
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:47,680
Speaker 9: be the general manager of your favorite NFL team? Oh,

1466
01:17:48,680 --> 01:17:51,720
Speaker 9: would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL? Would

1467
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 9: you rather be the general manager of your favorite NFL

1468
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 9: sports team?

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01:17:57,000 --> 01:17:58,800
Speaker 2: Ain't doing nothing? I need to be out front them,

1470
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 2: be the commission Yeah, and the check wave bite.

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01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 7: I'll tell you right now, Deshaun Watson would be playing

1472
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 7: for the Browns right now.

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01:18:08,600 --> 01:18:10,879
Speaker 2: He would be what playing for the Browns?

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01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 13: Right?

1475
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 2: No criminal charges?

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01:18:14,520 --> 01:18:15,280
Speaker 7: We have none?

1477
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: Get here, So the commissioner be Coulse, he's out front. Okay, absolutely?

1478
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:26,680
Speaker 5: What about your junior for the commission He wouldn't be

1479
01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:28,520
Speaker 5: in Cleveland if I was the commissioner.

1480
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 2: Okay, well, good thing, you're the last ain't the commissioner?

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01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:39,280
Speaker 4: All right?

1482
01:18:39,640 --> 01:18:42,400
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That is today's roundup? Would you rather

1483
01:18:42,479 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 1: coming up?

1484
01:18:42,840 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 9: At forty nine minutes after the hour, the last break

1485
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:48,560
Speaker 9: of the day and Steve Harvey's closing remarks right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here

1487
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:54,559
Speaker 1: we are, last break of the day.

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01:18:55,560 --> 01:18:58,000
Speaker 9: Last Yeah, this is the last day of the week

1489
01:18:58,080 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 9: for US Friday, and it's you're up.

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01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 13: You know what?

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01:19:03,080 --> 01:19:08,160
Speaker 7: Man, going into the weekend, I'm gonna talk about a

1492
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 7: subject that can sound a little different coming from me,

1493
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 7: But I began to understand more and more why it's

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01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 7: okay for me to talk about God. Because I am

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01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:32,799
Speaker 7: such an imperfect person, because I've made some serious, serious

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01:19:32,960 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 7: mistakes in my life, because I'm flawed, because I am

1497
01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:48,679
Speaker 7: oftentimes transparent in some of my failings in life, because

1498
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:55,040
Speaker 7: of my willingness to say I'm sorry. I have learned

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01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 7: that I'm a very qualified person to talk about God

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01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:05,840
Speaker 7: because I'm a good example that you can be an

1501
01:20:05,880 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 7: imperfect person with so many flaws, have done so many

1502
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:14,640
Speaker 7: wrong things in your life, have gotten it wrong, so

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01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 7: many times, have been written off, ridiculed, understood and misunderstood,

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01:20:24,680 --> 01:20:30,120
Speaker 7: and you can still have a relationship with God that

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01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:35,080
Speaker 7: brings your life into great benefit. So therefore, I'm qualified

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01:20:35,200 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 7: to talk about this. Now I'm improving, And somebody told

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01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,640
Speaker 7: me the other day, so you just gonna stay an

1508
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:50,160
Speaker 7: entry level Christian because I was jokingly telling a person, man,

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01:20:50,200 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 7: I think I'm really just an entry level Christian. I

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01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 7: don't really know how to do advanced Christianity, but I'm

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01:20:56,040 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 7: okay with this. So they said, so you're never going

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01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:02,760
Speaker 7: to improve as a Christian. I said, well, I'm doing

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01:21:02,760 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 7: the best I can right now with where I am

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01:21:05,640 --> 01:21:08,360
Speaker 7: and what I've been working with. I say, but you know,

1515
01:21:08,880 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 7: I think that you know I've improved a little bit.

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01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 7: I'm better than I was, but I may not be

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01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 7: where you think I should be, but I ain't where

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01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 7: I was. So with that said, this is a good

1519
01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:24,960
Speaker 7: reason for me to say what I'm saying. I would

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01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 7: suggest to everybody that can hear me that you should

1521
01:21:29,520 --> 01:21:35,640
Speaker 7: form a relationship with God immediately, starting now. And the

1522
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 7: reason I know you need a relationship with him is

1523
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,000
Speaker 7: because life is so difficult.

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01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 2: If you try to do this without him, you're not

1525
01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 2: going to make it.

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01:21:47,720 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 7: That if you try to get through this thing called

1527
01:21:50,040 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 7: life without a relationship with God, it is too difficult

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01:21:53,400 --> 01:21:57,400
Speaker 7: and you will be trapped. I learned something from Victoria Oldstein,

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01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:59,639
Speaker 7: and she said that the devil really don't care nothing

1530
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 7: about you. All he wants to do is rob you

1531
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:05,599
Speaker 7: of your destiny. I had never heard anybody say that before.

1532
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,679
Speaker 7: I really have it, not that I can remember.

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Speaker 2: She said, the devil really don't care anything about you.

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01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:14,519
Speaker 2: It's not interested in you in the least bit.

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01:22:15,560 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 7: His mission is to rob you of your destiny is

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01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:22,240
Speaker 7: to throw you off course, to not make you see

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01:22:22,600 --> 01:22:25,800
Speaker 7: what God created you to be. And that really caught

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01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 7: my attention because if I look back on my life,

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01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 7: all the things I've happened, everything that's happened to me,

1540
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 7: every time the devil sends the bloggers to attack me,

1541
01:22:35,040 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 7: the one mission that's clearly at stake and is at

1542
01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 7: hand is that they are simply trying to rob me

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Speaker 7: of my destiny. When something happens in your life that

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Speaker 7: the devil sets into play because he has all these

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Speaker 7: impstinct work for him, it's simply because he's trying to

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Speaker 7: rob you of your destiny that he knows that God

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01:22:56,439 --> 01:22:59,719
Speaker 7: has blessings for you stored up that he hasn't given

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Speaker 7: to you, and he don't.

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Speaker 2: Want you to get to that point of receiving him.

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Speaker 7: So he got to throw you off course and keep

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Speaker 7: you from taining your destiny. And that's his job and man,

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Speaker 7: understanding that has made my life a little bit clearer.

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Speaker 7: Ain't made it no easier, but it has allowed me

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Speaker 7: and helped me to understand some of the things that

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Speaker 7: occur in my life. Everything that happened to me ain't

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Speaker 7: from the devils are the imps. Sometimes God provides a test.

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Speaker 7: Sometimes a test is to just to prepare you for

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Speaker 7: something that He has for you. So in testing you,

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01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 7: it gets you ready for where you're about to receive.

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Speaker 7: So I've learned that it's a little bit of this

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01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:38,880
Speaker 7: and it's a little bit of that. Sometimes I'm a

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01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,479
Speaker 7: little confused at to which direction is coming from. But

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Speaker 7: at the end of the day, God always reveals to

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01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,519
Speaker 7: me what the message was that he wants me to learn.

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01:23:47,800 --> 01:23:51,479
Speaker 7: Because behind every setback and hardship, that is a lesson

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01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:54,519
Speaker 7: and a blessing. But the important thing for you all

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01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:56,680
Speaker 7: and for all of us to form some type of

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Speaker 7: relationship with God, because.

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Speaker 2: God knows your name. When you reach out to God,

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01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:05,360
Speaker 2: he knows your name. He does.

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Speaker 7: He made you, He created you, He knows exactly who

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Speaker 7: you are. He put them fingerprints on you. He made

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Speaker 7: your ten fingerprints different from the six other to eight

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01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 7: billion other people that's in this world, and the billions

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Speaker 7: of people that have already died. Ain't none of us

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Speaker 7: have the same fingerprints. That's how much you mean to him.

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Speaker 7: Have a relationship with God because he knows your name.

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Speaker 7: Stay in touch with him. We were all created to

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01:24:40,600 --> 01:24:44,400
Speaker 7: need him, moment by moment. When we walk away from that,

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01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:48,840
Speaker 7: we put ourselves in jeopardy. It opens up the door

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01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 7: for the devil to slip in and rob us of

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01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:54,559
Speaker 7: our destiny. Have a relationship with God.

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Speaker 2: Talk to him. You don't have to go to church

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Speaker 2: to do that. Do that you have a better weekend.

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Speaker 2: I know I will. Y'all have a good weekend. Hell

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Speaker 2: drop that mic.

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