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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for making a pregnancy jar? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea what a pregnancy jar is?

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Speaker 2: Jar of pregnancy?

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Speaker 1: Is that like when you store your baby, your little

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Speaker 1: fetus in a jar? That is that it?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for six years,

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Speaker 1: still don't have kids. We want them, but it's not

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Speaker 1: happening yet. Friends and family are causing us constant stress

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Speaker 1: about having a baby soon. But it's obviously something we

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Speaker 1: can't control. But we only wish they stop, but to

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Speaker 1: no avail. Dang, why can't you get pregnant? That's where

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Speaker 1: your family is like, why can't you get pregnant? Are

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Speaker 1: you not having sex enough?

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Speaker 3: It's interesting how I love each other sexist taboo in

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Speaker 3: every conversation except for that one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, hey, y'all should be getting busy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you should be pumping out those babies. So what I

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Speaker 1: did was I came up with this idea. Stupid, I know.

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Speaker 1: And the idea is to have an empty jar and

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Speaker 1: call it the pregnancy jar. I'm starting to get some

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Speaker 1: my is Okay. I carry it with me in my

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Speaker 1: bag whenever I'm with friends and family and every time

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Speaker 1: some when asked when me and my husband are going

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Speaker 1: to have a baby. I pull my jar out and

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Speaker 1: ask them to drop a dollar in there for asking.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's much better than what I was thinking.

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Speaker 1: What what were you thinking?

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Speaker 2: There was storing the gins or something.

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Speaker 1: No, John, John, gear you in mind? Edd of They

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Speaker 1: come go oh man.

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Speaker 2: I was like, good God, we've heard crazier.

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Speaker 1: That is true. That is true. I'd get puzzled looks.

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Speaker 1: But they reach out for their pockets while it's purses

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Speaker 1: and pull out a dollar and add it to the

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Speaker 1: inside of the jar. It actually worked because most of

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Speaker 1: them stopped asking after four months. Yeah, seemed to accomplish

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Speaker 1: the goal. Last week, we had dinner at my parents' house.

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Speaker 1: My brother came back from his business trip that lasted

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Speaker 1: a month, and while we were eating, he asked when

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Speaker 1: me and my husband are going to have a baby.

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Speaker 1: My husband paused, and then I got from the chair

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Speaker 1: and made my way to where my brother was and

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Speaker 1: made my way to where my brother was sitting with

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Speaker 1: my jar in hand and asked him to drop a

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Speaker 1: dollar in the jar for the question. He asked, cough up,

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Speaker 1: dat yup. He stared at me, then laughed nervously, asking

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Speaker 1: if I was serious. Everyone was looking at us. He

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Speaker 1: said no, he didn't have to pay me, but I

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Speaker 1: told him he didn't have to ask either, So here

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Speaker 1: we are. I could tell he felt embarrassed, and so

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Speaker 1: he immediately reached out to his pocket, pulled out his wallet,

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Speaker 1: and put a dollar in my jar. I made my

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Speaker 1: way back to my seat and sat down and resumed

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Speaker 1: eating like nothing happened. It got pretty awkward, after which

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Speaker 1: I understand, you're forcing a pregnancy jar on someone.

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Speaker 2: Different.

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Speaker 1: So my mom pulled me into the kitchen later to

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Speaker 1: tell me that I had embarrassed my brother in front

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Speaker 1: of his wife and family and said that I should

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Speaker 1: quit acting childish by running around with a jar demanding

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Speaker 1: others to put money in it. I told her they

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Speaker 1: should quit asking. Then she went on about how they're

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Speaker 1: just worried for us, since you are in your mid

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Speaker 1: thirties and don't have much time left, and we want

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Speaker 1: at least one healthy baby child. I got upset and

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Speaker 1: started arguing. My husband and I left and we haven't

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Speaker 1: seen them in days except I got a call from

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Speaker 1: my sister basically siding with my mom and saying that

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Speaker 1: I'm being childish, So am with the a hole for this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean there's there's maybe a time and place

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Speaker 3: to have that conversation, but not uh, you know in

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Speaker 3: all these like group settings, and not constantly you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean, Like if she's really concerned, like why

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Speaker 3: not sit down one on one with her and being like, hey,

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Speaker 3: like are you thinking about having a child?

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Speaker 1: Blah blah blah, Like.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, there's like a way to approach it.

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Speaker 3: It seems like op already made it clear she doesn't

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Speaker 3: want this asked, So, yeah, why you.

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Speaker 1: Ever been doing it? Yeah? And then I guess like

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Speaker 1: this is like may be a more fund way to

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Speaker 1: make sure people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like try not to be an asshole about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, Yeah, and so there's actually some qas. Oh. Edit.

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Speaker 1: So One, this has been going on for years, but

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Speaker 1: in the past year it's gotten worse. Two. I already

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Speaker 1: told them about how I feel regarding this question. My

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Speaker 1: husband doesn't. My husband doesn't care much and says I

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Speaker 1: should let it go to Three. Yes, they pay every

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Speaker 1: time because it's just a dollar. It won't make them

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Speaker 1: any richer or any poor. Four. My husband and I

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Speaker 1: spend the money on snacks to eat every night when

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Speaker 1: watching TV or on some toys for the dogs. One

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Speaker 1: more thing, I realized that this could actually be expanded

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Speaker 1: into wedding jar, Slasha cake jar for weight loss work jar,

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Speaker 1: house jar, and so on and so on, depending on

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Speaker 1: the type of struggle, because there are things that we

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Speaker 1: struggle and get frustrated with often enough.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: Also, someone suggested I up the price to five dollars

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Speaker 1: and said, maybe I'll just price it to a gallon

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Speaker 1: of gas in my city.

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Speaker 3: That's smart. I love it. Inflation. Op yeah, get yours