1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: You are listen to or Honor Fisher Expert. You are 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: listen to go Honor Fisher Expert. Hello and Hello, I 3 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: don't know what that was. I don't know what that 4 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: was either, but welcome to the unofficial Expert Sydney and 5 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: I'm Marie. Oh my, the other the other black girl 6 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: on the thing. Anyway, So this is a show where 7 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: we talk to people who think they're smart, but we're 8 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,640 Speaker 1: experts too, right, said, yeah, expert on all things ridiculous 9 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: and fabulous. No, that's not true. We've had some really 10 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: good guests we've had. We've learned so much about drugs 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: and open relationships, and we've learned about Southern hospitality. We've 12 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: learned a lot, we really did. We even learned a 13 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: lot about the hood, you know, because I don't love this, 14 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 1: so I have no idea. Don't you aren't you from 15 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: thanks you from Harlem? Yeah, you know, I'm just like, well, 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: it's actually so hot now, so it's not even Yeah, 17 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: Harlem is, well, that's what happens when you let others 18 00:00:57,680 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: move in. You know, you'd started early with Shade, Marie. 19 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: I'm just's that's what Harlem is now. Harlem looks like Greenwich, Connecticut. Right, 20 00:01:04,480 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: that's what it looks like, Sidney, What were you an 21 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: expert in this week? Not getting fired? I feel like 22 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: I'm on the brinks of getting fired because I keep 23 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: calling out of my shifts. So I picked up an 24 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: extra shift this week to prove to them, like, you know, 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: I want to be here, but I'm calling out on Tuesday, 26 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: I mean next week as well. So you plan when 27 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: you're calling out. Yes, I feel like for me, whenever 28 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: I've ever called out, it's been like just the day of, 29 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: like a couple minutes before my shift. No, you have 30 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 1: to like think in advance. You got to get your 31 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: lies together. You got to make sure your Instagram is 32 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: like off, so you don't post a picture and say like, 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: oh I was sick, but you're really out somebody's birthday party. 34 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: So like, I do it in advance. I gotta get 35 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: my lives off. That's probably why to keep firing me 36 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: from everything that I do. I had a friend who 37 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: worked as a cashier at like King Cullen or Wall 38 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: Bombs or something in one of those stores in high school, 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: and her family came in through her register and they're like, 40 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: we're going to the beach and so what she did 41 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: because she wanted to go to the beach is she 42 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: just fake fainted at work? She just fake fainted when 43 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: her supervisor walked by so she could go to the beach. 44 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: That's so much like how do you fake faint? Did 45 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,960 Speaker 1: she know how to faint? Like? And she fell on 46 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: the ground. She probably caught us up. I don't know. 47 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: I don't know how committed she was to the role. 48 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: But the beach is not that serious, Like I'm not 49 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: fainting and possibly wig falling off for all of that. 50 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: But I mean, maybe you want to I don't know. No, 51 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: I put the beach right up there with like bowling. 52 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: After I'm there for a couple of minutes and the 53 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: food that we bought is done, I don't want to 54 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: be there no more. That's how I feel about the beach. 55 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: I feel you on that. What were you an expert 56 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: in the creek? I was an expert at being sick 57 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: on the train, so just blowing my nose consistently, you know, 58 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: just like coughing all over people that I don't know. 59 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: So you know, I was looking real sexy this week 60 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: on the train. I'm coming down with a little something. 61 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: This guy asked me for my number on the train, 62 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: and I sneezed and had like the sneeze juice on 63 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: my hand, and I was like, did you want me 64 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: to put my number in your phone? And he was like, nah, 65 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: he probably thought you were just high. He was like, man, 66 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: she's doing some crazy cocaine. I was sniffing and everything. 67 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: But all I've been doing is drinking tea and honey, 68 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: I got some ginger tea Rayre. I'm just trying to 69 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: be the best uninsured millennial that I could be this year. 70 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: Oh definitely, I feel like I'm coming down with something. 71 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: Just sitting next to you, I'll tell you something. Not 72 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: on the mics. You know, these are not fully paid 73 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: for it yet, so just loans. Yeah, we got to 74 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: take them back. Well, I'm excited. I feel like I'm 75 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 1: just I'm doing really well. I don't know if you 76 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: can hear it in my voice, but uh, it's not 77 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: what I normally sound like. But I feel like I'm 78 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: giving like a Tony Braxton like realness voice right now? Wait? 79 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: Can you can you give me a Tony song? I'm 80 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: just like ring Okay, people don't want to hear you 81 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: like that. That was good right, we hit the note 82 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: to barely be hitting the note. Listen our guests today. 83 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:56,080 Speaker 1: You probably know you were down down with Tony. Our 84 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: guest today is an actor, a comedian. He was a 85 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: finalist in the two thousand and four World Series of 86 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: Dice Series Championships. He's the ashiest of all the Larry's 87 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: all around funny dude, and he's our new dad expert. 88 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: Give it for. 89 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 2: What's up everybody. I would prefer to be a lotion expert. 90 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 2: But but since the new thing of me being a dad, 91 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: I just got to take on that life. But I'm 92 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: more of an expert on lotion. But the new dad thing, 93 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: I guess for the show today, I will be an 94 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: expert day. 95 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: Your hands are a little dry today. 96 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 3: Know this is the weather. 97 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 2: This is the weather, This is the This is the 98 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: season for dry hands and ring around the lip. 99 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 3: Ever, ringing around the lift season starts every year. 100 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 2: I think October two is official ringing around the lips. 101 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 2: And you know the guy that is about to get 102 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: it because it's just all you hear all this? You 103 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: like you got chapstick. Let me need champstick four for 104 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 2: that ring around the lip. But this is the weather. 105 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: I think everybody's ass she doing this weather. 106 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: We're pretty good. No, I'm a little bit. I'm a 107 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: little bit dry. 108 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 2: But it's okay, it's okay, I mean it's I think 109 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: it's it's better for a god to be ashy. Women 110 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 2: being askey is kind of disrespectful. I don't think I 111 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: don't think a man. I don't think a man should 112 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: be moisturized too much. Like real men, the only thing 113 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: they do is lotion and face in their hands, and 114 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 2: that's it. Face hands, it. Everything else is covered up 115 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: unless you get into a new relationship. If you get 116 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 2: into a new relationship and then you're moisturized. But once 117 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 2: you've been dating somebody for maybe like a year, and 118 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 2: it's ash rules everything around. 119 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 3: Me, you know. 120 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: I hate like when people are really dry, like at 121 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 1: like where their back is and then underneath their ass. 122 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, you need to moisturize. 123 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 3: My question is how do you find out if. 124 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:50,279 Speaker 2: Somebody well then whether the way people are wearing their pants. 125 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 3: Now, you probably could see. 126 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: The plumber, but all day damn near don't even have 127 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: any draws on me. How many ash she asses have 128 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: you seen? And in the last twelve months at least 129 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: five the J train. 130 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, well you're getting los, don't you. As long 131 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: as you make your ass quota, you're good to go. 132 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: So I want to call you Larry, but that's not 133 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 1: what your name is. So Donelle, can you give us 134 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: like maybe five quick lotion facts and then we'll jump 135 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: into the new desk. 136 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 3: Five quick lotion facts. 137 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 2: If you take a bottle lotion upside down and you 138 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: don't even put pressure on the bottle and it drips 139 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 2: off fast, that's not gonna be the consistency that you want. 140 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: That's LUBADRM, that's luber dirm. 141 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 3: You know. 142 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: I want to discredit any brands or anything, but and 143 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 2: b or queen Bee, Queen Bee, that's not a good lotion. 144 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: Anytime you can get lotion forty ounces for a dollar, 145 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 2: I wouldn't suggest that lotion. Another thing is that if 146 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 2: you're going to apply lotion, it should be in a 147 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: room temperature of at least seventy three degrees because anything 148 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 2: other than that, the lotion does not absorb and it 149 00:06:57,000 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 2: stays white. You have in this situation where it's cola, 150 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 2: you put ocean and it feels like you rubbing conditioner 151 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: on your on your body. 152 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 3: The whole time. That's another thing and and another, and 153 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: it is not even lotion. 154 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,400 Speaker 2: But if you really want to know key to moisturizing, 155 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: take a hot shower while you're wet, warm up some 156 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:14,679 Speaker 2: baby or while you're in a shower. 157 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 3: This is this is a trick that I do. 158 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 2: While I'm in the shower, I run a bottle of 159 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: baby or under the sink to get it hot. So 160 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: when you get out of the shower, while you wet, 161 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: you squirt yourself with a baby or and then you 162 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: rent yourself and dry youself off and that will maintain 163 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 2: you'll be moisturized for at least. 164 00:07:30,880 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 3: I think that'll get you four to eight hours. 165 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: For the eight you rinse it off. 166 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, you while you're wet, you put it on, and 167 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: then you go. 168 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: This is how you bust your ass. 169 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 2: No, no, no, you got to put it. Make sure you 170 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: put an extra towel on the floor. No, you don't 171 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 2: do it. 172 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I'm I'm an expert. I know I'm 173 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 3: supposed to. 174 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 2: I supposed to be expert on dad, but I'm really 175 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 2: expert on lotion. But that is the key to it. 176 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 2: If you want to be moisturised for a minimum of 177 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 2: four to six hours, water, hot baby or rinse it 178 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 2: off and you'll feel good about yourself. 179 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 1: You're telling you never slipped and slide bust your ass 180 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: anywhere near the bathroom kitchen. 181 00:08:05,480 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 2: No, I've slipped and slide in the bathroom, but it 182 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 2: had nothing to do with lotion. 183 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: You know, slipped and hit your head on the toilet seat. 184 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 2: No, I've slipped the slide and some things in the bathroom, 185 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 2: but there had nothing. 186 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 3: That's a great place. 187 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: It's not a good place. 188 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: That's a great place. 189 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: That's not. 190 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 3: You gotta expand you gotta live life. 191 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: No, man, terms are too awkward. The wall be slippery, 192 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: it is lotion bottles falling all over the places. 193 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 3: It's not being held right. 194 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what it was. The ledge is too little. 195 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: You're trying to put your foot up. It's too slip. 196 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: My roommate at the time, she shaved with coconut oil. Oh, 197 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: she got muddy. She shaved oil was like eight dollars 198 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,359 Speaker 1: for like a couples And I like used the bathroom 199 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: after her. And when I tell you, I brought down 200 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: the whole shower curtain, the whole rod, everything. It was 201 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: like yo shaves with cocon Does that make sure you 202 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,119 Speaker 1: don't get yes. 203 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, that's a problem with guys too. But that's 204 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 3: like you shaved. 205 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: Are they using coconut oil at the barbershop? 206 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 2: Because I feel like, no, they don't use cocon oil. 207 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 2: But I know what the ingrown ingrown hair. That's the 208 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 2: thing that uh uh black guys deal with a lot 209 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 2: of shaven. But a good way to uh get away 210 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 2: from that is just exfoliate. And my pronouncer, right, sometimes 211 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 2: it's folier, you know, get one of those scrubs whatever, 212 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: and every time you take a shower and and one 213 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: of those scrubs like Saint Eves guys, the scrubs like 214 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: the Apricol scrub. 215 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 3: Yes, I mentioned this. I'm into this grooming game. 216 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 2: But if you just keep your pores clean, you don't 217 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 2: have to worry about the ingrown hairs as much. 218 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 1: I am shocked. I'm so much about this is great. Yeah, 219 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: but we're definitely you're here today for our new Dad Expert. 220 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: You're on a show on TLC called Project Dad. 221 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, Project Project Dad. It was a popular show. 222 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 2: It's a remake of a show that was popular in 223 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: South Korea called Return a Superman, where they take three 224 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: celebrity dads and they're leaving with their kids for forty 225 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 2: eight hours eighty four hours at a time, with no 226 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 2: help from the mom, just to see how you fail 227 00:10:07,559 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 2: and basically to see the evolution of you as a dad. 228 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: I know it's a short period to figure that out, 229 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, what they want 230 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 2: you to do is fail. So it's a test to 231 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 2: see how well dads do. 232 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 3: We did it. 233 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 2: It had a run on Discovery Life Now that's on 234 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 2: TLC every Thursday, five o'clock Easter. 235 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 3: But it's a good show. It's a fun show. 236 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,440 Speaker 1: I had a good times, really funny. You were like, 237 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: I was like, wow, I would I would have a 238 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: kid with him. 239 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 3: He isn't that easy, yo, you gotta just knock, knock, 240 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 3: who's there, Mama, I'm pregnant. No, It was like, no, 241 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 3: I understand. 242 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: You know, but a lot of women are attracted to 243 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: dudes with kids, right because they're like, well, he's so 244 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: committed to be a good dad, and. 245 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 3: It's the best. It's the best feeling in the world. 246 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 2: And like right now, like like I'm not on a mission, 247 00:10:54,600 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 2: but like me and I'm like, I'm what you call 248 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 2: an older dad. 249 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 4: And I know that I'm an older dad. Older we 250 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 4: don't do that. I'm an actor, you know what I'm saying. 251 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 4: You know I don't have no industry. I'm ageless. I'm ageless. 252 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 4: I'm agis black, don't crack. 253 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 2: But I know the age difference with my kids, my 254 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 2: son and my other friends kids because when I was 255 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 2: playing my son's first birthday party, I called one of 256 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 2: my friends, I'm like, you think your son could come 257 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 2: to my son's birthday party? And he was like, if 258 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 2: he can get off work. So and I had to 259 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 2: take it. If you can get off work, you know 260 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: I'm making I'm making bottles and it popping bottles with 261 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,199 Speaker 2: their kids. But the old time I told me, he said, Donald, 262 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:38,199 Speaker 2: it is better to be I'm late to the party 263 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,959 Speaker 2: to not be invited all. So I'm enjoying it and 264 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 2: with with the feeling that I'm having for and I'm 265 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 2: like so against like dead be dads and guys who 266 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 2: don't want to be I just don't understand it because 267 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 2: my situation. I was there for the entire pregnancy, from 268 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 2: the time we found out we were pregnant, and you know, 269 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: men always say weed till we get to the delivery room. 270 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we about to have his baby. No, 271 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: I'm about to have his baby. But yeah, I was 272 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 2: in there. 273 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 3: I saw. 274 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm telling when I say involved, I mean 275 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 2: from the first time we found out we're pregnant, to 276 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 2: every sonogram, every doctor's appointment. I remember it was one 277 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 2: time Stephanie had a doctor's appointment and I was doing 278 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 2: the show. 279 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 3: I was I do show. 280 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 2: I had to show Thursday and Saturday with Chappelle in Miami. 281 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 2: She had a doctor doctorspartment. 282 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 3: On Friday. 283 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 2: I caught the first flight Friday morning to get to 284 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 2: LA for after new appointment, and then I we had 285 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: two appointments and then I went and caught a red 286 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 2: out the next day to get back to my gig. 287 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 2: And I knew I could have had one of my 288 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:34,559 Speaker 2: friends do it, but I was like, you know, if 289 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 2: she's gonna go through it, you know what I mean, 290 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 2: I want to be there like every step of the way. 291 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: And if you start, if you start, I mean to me, 292 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 2: that's where the real real connection starts. 293 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 3: It starts. 294 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 2: There so many brothers I know that it's like, oh, yeah, 295 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 2: I had a baby. I haven't seen them yet. 296 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 3: Like I can't know. 297 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, I mean, I have no situations 298 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 2: where you know, guys, yeah yeah, right, yeah. 299 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: Did you go to Lama's class or anything like that. 300 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 3: We didn't do the we didn't do the we didn't 301 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 3: do the lamask class. But like I had every book 302 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:07,559 Speaker 3: and every app available read why you have to say read, 303 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 3: like I don't read like that. 304 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 2: I didn't read it out loud, you know, I read 305 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 2: it on the inside. 306 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: An app. 307 00:13:15,400 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 2: I had to all the babies in the apps, you 308 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 2: know those apps, like your baby's the size of a peanut, 309 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: your baby's the side of an avocado, and it was 310 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 2: all like like not to say vegetables are reserved for 311 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 2: white people, but it was all like your your de side, 312 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 2: your baby's signs of. 313 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: An avocado, a rub ala. 314 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 2: I'm like, do something, I know, like your baby's the 315 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,599 Speaker 2: size of two chicken wings and something like that. But 316 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: like it was just for me, it was it was 317 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: just it was an exciting time and the whole experience 318 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: up to like I saw my son come out and 319 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 2: like I don't care before I started crowning and everything, and. 320 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: She was induced, so you know, she was like she 321 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 1: was like she passed. 322 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 3: Passed to do that. 323 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 2: So we went from ground zero to that point. And 324 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, when they say it's some more amazing thing, 325 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 2: you have a witness in your life, like that's one 326 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,679 Speaker 2: hundred percent truth. Like I saw, and I saw, I 327 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 2: saw him starting to come out. I was like, well, 328 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:10,080 Speaker 2: I don't know what our sex life is gonna be now, 329 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 2: but it just it's like it's a miracle, you know 330 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:14,000 Speaker 2: what I mean, It's a miracle. 331 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 1: And it's like, did she scream? Was she throwing stuff? 332 00:14:16,559 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: Was she cursing you out? 333 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 3: She didn't like she didn't. I was like, I was 334 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: really good, okay, but you know you so you're right? Yeah? Yeah. 335 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 3: I even had theme music. I brought it. 336 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:31,040 Speaker 2: I brought a playlist I was playing on. I was 337 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 2: playing Salt and Pepper, push. 338 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: It what was playing when the baby came out? 339 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 3: Push? 340 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 4: No? 341 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 3: It was in my mind. 342 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: I started up. I didn't spotify in the damn No. 343 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 2: No, they didn't. They didn't think it was a good idea. 344 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 2: I was having fun. I was making memes in there, 345 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 2: like she thought it was gonna be easy. So she's 346 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 2: watching TV and I took a picture of her and 347 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, the face you make uh, the face you 348 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 2: make before them contractions hit, right, and then like maybe 349 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: an hour later, contraction hit and her face was scrunched 350 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 2: up right, took another pit. I was like, the face 351 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: you make when just got real, you know what I mean? So, 352 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 2: and I was, and I was sending them to her 353 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: mom in the delivery room. I made it fun. In fact, 354 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 2: our doctor said that was the most fun she ever 355 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 2: had in the delivery room. No, no, no, no, no, 356 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 2: she wasn't because she was like straight. She was like straightforward. 357 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 2: She didn't really she was Asian black lady. Yeah, but 358 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 2: she was like she was dope. It wasn't about me. 359 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 2: Every time we would go to the doctor's appointment, she 360 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 2: wouldn't even look at me. She was like, so how 361 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 2: are you doing, Stephan, I'm like, what about me? She 362 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: was like, you already did the easy part. She's got 363 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 2: to do the hard play. But it was a great experience. 364 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: So you had the baby. How old is your son? 365 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 3: A year and a half? Now? 366 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: Wow? Really? 367 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 3: Austin Donnelle Rollins. 368 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: I named his first name in Austin because I wanted 369 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:49,040 Speaker 2: him to have a fair shaking life on paper. 370 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, Rawlins is like, if you think about it. 371 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 2: The biggest Rawlins name is the name of the sports equipment, 372 00:15:58,000 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 2: the footballs and the baseball gloves. 373 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 1: Sounds like a country old man with a back of 374 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: the day that lives like a little shack. 375 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 2: How Austin Rawlins. That's a good name. And Austin can 376 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: go to anybody's house for dinner, anybody I know, But 377 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: he don't put I was like, we fought for that, 378 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 2: We thought for that because I wanted a junior, and 379 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 2: she was like, no, I don't want to put him 380 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 2: through that. 381 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 3: She didn't hate my name, but she just way society 382 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 3: is down. 383 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 2: Like again, like I said, on paper, she won him 384 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 2: a fair opportunity, like I'll do, but I stuck. I stuck, 385 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 2: stuck to my guns on wanting Donnille to be his 386 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 2: middle name. 387 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: How do you feel about like really hood names, just 388 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: like people who name their their kids like they which 389 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: is like heaven backwards, or. 390 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 2: Like I think, like I think when people do that, 391 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: in some way, they're trying to make their kid individual 392 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 2: and creative. And it sounds the process of it sounds 393 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 2: good when you think about it, but you know, when 394 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 2: you start going to school, the teacher has to read 395 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 2: a certain name. 396 00:16:58,720 --> 00:16:59,840 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. When they start looking at 397 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 3: you paper, whatever, it might not be the same star. 398 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: Is there a star star quasial rawlins. They can get 399 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: these Russian Polish all these names, right, they can't get. 400 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 1: But those names they know that that's a white person 401 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: a black Like when your name sound black, They're like, oh. 402 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think anything with Queta or Anita, c Sheida, Asha, Kasha. 403 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 3: No, that's soul sister right there. You know it's gonna 404 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 3: be a soul sister. 405 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:27,919 Speaker 1: My name is Marie. So I'm out here well, I mean, 406 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: I'm still unemployed, but you know, I'm doing really well. 407 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 2: But Marie, they wan't know you're unemployed on paper. They're like, oh, 408 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:35,119 Speaker 2: Marie must have a great job somewhere. 409 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 410 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're never We're never gonna be able to get Maria. 411 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,679 Speaker 2: I know she won a job, but Maria, Maria has 412 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 2: so many options. 413 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 1: I mean, I judge them too. I went to school 414 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: with a girl named Shanika, and when I met her, 415 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:50,640 Speaker 1: I was like, that's your real name, but you can't 416 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: go by your middle name or whatever. When I was 417 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: in Oakland, everybody had crazy names and I just thought 418 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 1: it was the norm. When someone had a regular name 419 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: like Bryan, no like me like this. They were like, 420 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: you can't be in You're you're too basic. 421 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 3: Like I know a girl named Lucretia Lucretia, and that's 422 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,400 Speaker 3: so bad because you know, kids play so much. 423 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 2: I know in school when she was younger, everybody's ew, 424 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 2: it's Cretia. Got kid that's discussed, Lucretia. 425 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: That looks not Creti'm sorry she. 426 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 2: Anytime you can get her pregnant off of a joke, 427 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: you know what, you gonna go there anytime, like it 428 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 2: was an not joke. 429 00:18:29,560 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 1: Sydney's a hot ass mess. Can you tell us a 430 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: little bit about your dad growing up? 431 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 3: My dad was interested. 432 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 1: My dad was my dad. 433 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 2: I had a dad that chose a lifestyle that didn't 434 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: give really give him the opportunity to spend as much 435 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: time with his kids as he wanted to. 436 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 3: My dad was a drug dealer, you know. 437 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: And I you know, you didn't choose that life. That 438 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:51,639 Speaker 1: life chose him. 439 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's not a circumstances on why he was 440 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: you know, why why he chose that. But I know, 441 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: like you know, as I get older, whatever, you know, 442 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 2: and he he did. He was in and out of prison. 443 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 2: He was a great He was a great dude when 444 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,400 Speaker 2: he was out. But I told myself, you know my son, 445 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 2: like I want to the most important thing about I 446 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,639 Speaker 2: think parenting, of being a dad is like creating good memories. 447 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:13,560 Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean. 448 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 2: Like I think that, you know, my son's only been 449 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 2: on the earth for like a year and a half, 450 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 2: and I think that I have more memories with him 451 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,680 Speaker 2: in that short period of time that my dad has had. 452 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: You know, well, I mean in this day and age, 453 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: we have like photos, everything is so instant. Before you 454 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 1: had to like get a polaroid and ship, but like 455 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: now you can take selfies and got like drones where 456 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: you could do like video. 457 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you could do anything. I'm doing all of that. 458 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 3: I didn't think I was gonna be that dad. I'm like, yeah, 459 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be the dad. 460 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 2: I do what I call when I see people and 461 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 2: I found their kids, do what I call baby picture uno, 462 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 2: where it's like you pull out your camera, You're like 463 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: look at this. It's like okay, draw two. That's a reverse. 464 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 2: And you know if you get one like him talking, 465 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 2: that's like a UNO. 466 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 3: But it's just. 467 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,880 Speaker 2: I need to Snapchat more. I'm not really into Snapchat. 468 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 2: You know, I'm Instagram, yeah, you know all this stuff, 469 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 2: but I need to get on Snapchat. 470 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: How do you feel about people who have like Snapchat 471 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: and they literally they put their baby like on the 472 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: Snapchat filter all the time, Like I know, new moms 473 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: are literally like just them spittle with. 474 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: I didn't think that, well, that's just the world we ended, 475 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 2: you want to. I didn't think that I was going 476 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 2: to be that that person that posts so much. I 477 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to wear people out with it. 478 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,840 Speaker 2: But it's such a proud moment and you feel so 479 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 2: good about it, you know what I'm saying, And like, 480 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 2: you know, back in the day, you would talk about it, 481 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 2: but now you know your voice is social media and 482 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 2: you can you can, you know, show people what you have. 483 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 1: When your son was in the months stage, did you 484 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 1: have pictures of him and there was like a number 485 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: next to him saying, oh he's three months? 486 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 3: Oh y'all did it to Yeah, I'm going it, I 487 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 3: did it. Yeah. Did you know y'all don't have kids? 488 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 4: Now? 489 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:52,719 Speaker 3: Y'all talking trash right now? 490 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 2: I swear to god, I can't wait to come and 491 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,320 Speaker 2: host their own show, and I'm like, we got the 492 00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 2: expert moms. I'm telling you you can say what you want. 493 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 2: And you're like, yeah, whatever, okay, And I've seen people switch. 494 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 1: It's just it's just a photo shoot every month. 495 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm telling you when you when when when 496 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 2: you experience that is because like you see the development 497 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 2: of your kid. 498 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 499 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 2: That's why, Like now I understand like when my mom 500 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 2: used to yell at me and she used to be 501 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: like you, how are you? 502 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:24,800 Speaker 3: And a lie to me? You think I don't know you, 503 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 3: And I'm thinking, like, yeah, you don't know me. But 504 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 3: like they know everything. 505 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,119 Speaker 2: They know your personality, they know your attitude, they know 506 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 2: you from your temper tantrum stages. So you can't pull 507 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 2: you you know, you can't pull the wool over the 508 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 2: head and understand you guys don't have kids, but that experience, 509 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 2: like it's just so exciting and overwhelming that you just 510 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 2: cannot not embrace it. 511 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: No, I got issues with commitments. 512 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you have issues with commitment because you're not committed exactly. 513 00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 1: You know what hospital like, hey, can I get But I'm. 514 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,160 Speaker 2: Telling you, I guarantee you this. I want to take 515 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 2: a picture of your face now. But when you have 516 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 2: that experience, I'm telling. 517 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 3: You could you could be like boy, I was young, 518 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 3: We was out here in the streets. We were doing whatever. 519 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 3: But it's in a different places. It's it's dope. 520 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,880 Speaker 1: It's also but do you think that sometimes people are 521 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: like exploiting their kids, like just okay, some people have 522 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 1: every picture on Facebook. 523 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 3: I mean some people want to get their numbers up. 524 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 3: And the best way to get your number up is 525 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 3: nothing like a alle you know what I'm saying, Like, oh, 526 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 3: like you have to like on a kid. 527 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: I mean, like you know, you don't. I feel like 528 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,440 Speaker 1: I'm strolling. I'm scrolling past ugly babies all the time. 529 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 3: That's let me talk to you. 530 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't have to have a lot of followers, because 531 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: if you don't, your baby is gonna get like, I 532 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 1: don't know, a hundred likes. And if my baby get 533 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,400 Speaker 1: a hundred likes, it's over, Like my baby better get 534 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: you know. You know how you do that? You put 535 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: your baby picture up and then you like put like 536 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: a little bit of your butt cheek in the photo 537 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: and take a picture and. 538 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 3: You can up like that likes. That's the worst that's that. 539 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 3: That's what work. 540 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 1: And have the baby there at the same time. 541 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 3: And I've seen people do that. I've seen them do that. 542 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 2: It's so confusing with these instagram some people on Instagram, 543 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,520 Speaker 2: because you'll see like they're like booty shot, booty shot, 544 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 2: booty shot, and then next thing you know, it's. 545 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 3: Like this the love of my life. 546 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,199 Speaker 2: You got to a little kid up there. I'm like, yo, 547 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:14,399 Speaker 2: I just saw your ass. At least at least let 548 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,200 Speaker 2: your time, like let it go where it's like a 549 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,120 Speaker 2: whole page down. 550 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:18,199 Speaker 3: You can't do. 551 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 2: Ass, baby ass baby ass baby. 552 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 1: Well now it's the norm. So I don't even now 553 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: when I see ass, I'm like, no, we're the baby, 554 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: like I want it is the baby, alright, I don't 555 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: you don't get tired of taking pictures with just your butt, 556 00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: like your backed on her. I just I was on 557 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 1: this girl's photo, this model's page today and every single 558 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: photo was her like. 559 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:37,879 Speaker 3: Back was. 560 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,440 Speaker 1: I was like, well, what does her face look like? 561 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: I would have to I mean, just for the guys 562 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,359 Speaker 2: I'll steal in the street, and there's a certain position 563 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 2: a certain time where you really not even concerned what 564 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 2: the face looks like. 565 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: I mean her whole page. She had one hundred and 566 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,880 Speaker 1: sixty seven thousand, where you're. 567 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 3: Not even you're not even focused on that face. You 568 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 3: like you got a face. I din't even know that 569 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 3: that means something when you want to talk out. 570 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: Of that face. I don't know any thing about that. 571 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: Like my Instagram is mainly my face. I barely have 572 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: anything lower than that, because I'm like, this is my 573 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: asset I don't know about. That's why we ain't got 574 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 1: ten thousand followers. 575 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 2: We in the mid No, that would be a funny 576 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 2: photo shoot, though, y'all just do like a very exaggerated 577 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,400 Speaker 2: like ass pants or something and be like, does this work? 578 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 3: It just turned around? That'll be funny boy pop. 579 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 1: We should buy booty pops and see what we should 580 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 1: have done. El boy, some booty pop. Because Dollar, you're 581 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: not scaring me. I'm gonna asking quurts and that. I 582 00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: feel like everybody who's listening right now is wondering, why 583 00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 1: didn't you bring Dave Chappelle with you today? 584 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 3: Dave Chappelle? Why didn't I bring Dave Chappelle? Kidding, but 585 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 3: you know you answered, he didn't make himself available today. 586 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and he knew he was going to. He 587 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: knew what he was going to get into it if 588 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 2: he came in. So he came in, I'm like the scouter. 589 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 2: I come out here to check it out, don't do 590 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 2: it side. But I'll just say Dave Chappelle wasn't available. 591 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 1: Well, he said, he is a few kids and two 592 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 1: three And did you learn anything from watching him? With him? 593 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: He has like daughters and three boys. 594 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 3: He has two sons and a daughter. 595 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you learn just hanging out with him? 596 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:18,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 597 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,840 Speaker 2: I kind of learned, like how you balance off, you know, 598 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 2: like being on the road because for me me personally, 599 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: you know, I'm not a working actor, I'm a working comedian, 600 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,560 Speaker 2: so my my my my money is on the road offer. 601 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 2: I always have to be in a road But just 602 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,000 Speaker 2: watching him, how he was, how he's been able to 603 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 2: balance the road life and at the same time knowing 604 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 2: that you have to go home, you know what I'm saying, 605 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: and like, you know, the fun that you had on 606 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 2: the road. And I'm not saying anything like negative or 607 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 2: anything like that. You got your road life and then 608 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 2: you got your home life, and you know, you have 609 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 2: to be able to separate them, and you have to 610 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 2: be able to be happy with both of them and 611 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 2: make like a good balance with it. In fact, he 612 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 2: was just on an episode on a project Dad and 613 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 2: you know, and he said something that I thought was profound. 614 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:06,920 Speaker 2: He said the day he said that the days alone, 615 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 2: but the years. 616 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 3: Fly by fast. 617 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 2: And I really realized that with going back to what 618 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 2: you said about the picture the one month, it seems 619 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 2: like yesterday I was taking a one month picture. Now 620 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 2: he's like, it's sixteen months. You know, like those days 621 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 2: they seem like they forever, But next do you know, 622 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 2: that year's past, this month's past. 623 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 1: Next do you know, I'm turning into one of these 624 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: people now that Like I'll see somebody's kidding. I'm like, 625 00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: last time I saw you were this big. 626 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 3: No, this is the funniest thing for me. 627 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 2: It's so when you hear the like he getting so big, 628 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, unless he's Gary Coleman, he's supposed to get 629 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 2: They make it seem like that's your son is going 630 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 2: to be the best son ever because he's growing him. 631 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: Walking and talking. But when I see people like kids 632 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,640 Speaker 1: get older, I'm like, oh fuck, that means I'm getting older. 633 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: Like I don't want I want them to stay small. 634 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 1: I want to stay the same. I don't want anybody. 635 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 2: Well, how do you think I feel when I meet 636 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 2: When I meet people on the street and they come 637 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 2: into me and they was like, I grew up with 638 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 2: you on Chapelle's and this dude got a beard longer 639 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 2: than mine. I'm like, damn, it's time for some dives. 640 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:05,960 Speaker 1: Son. 641 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 2: They was like, yeah, I even it was so funny 642 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,080 Speaker 2: because I even had a I was doing a project 643 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 2: on MTV and the executive producer was like, yeah, man, 644 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 2: when we was in college, we would get we would 645 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 2: get a bag of weed. We would get so and so, 646 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 2: and then we would watch Chapelle shows like every night. 647 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 2: And that's, you know, following what you're saying, time really 648 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,360 Speaker 2: flies Chappelle show. 649 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,159 Speaker 1: What year did that end? 650 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 3: I think it was two thousand college three or four. 651 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was in college. It ended in two thousand. Oh, 652 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 1: that's when it started. 653 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 2: But it didn't it didn't. It ended shortly after that. 654 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,160 Speaker 2: Only did like two two seasons, two and a half season. 655 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: I can't believe it was only two seasons. It just 656 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: seemed like how long were the seasons? They were long? 657 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 2: Then? 658 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 3: No, I think the season would probably been like ten 659 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 3: or eleven episodes. 660 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 1: It wasn't a lot. I mean the Rick James I 661 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:51,200 Speaker 1: felt like that was forever. 662 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 3: It was literally, man, people kicked out of school, like 663 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:56,880 Speaker 3: kids were going to school, Like what did the five 664 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 3: figures stay to the face pop? 665 00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: I'm Rick James. 666 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 3: But it was a great time. 667 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,280 Speaker 2: And it's so funny because people, you know, like being 668 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 2: involved with a show that was so iconic as Chappelle's show, 669 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: Almost anything that you do after that, people try to 670 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 2: compare it or say, well, what happened? 671 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? But how often does a 672 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 3: great show like chapelle Show come around? 673 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 2: You know? And I've done some good things after that, 674 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:24,480 Speaker 2: but you know, for some reason, like people that that's 675 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 2: how powerful that show was. 676 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,280 Speaker 3: It's just so much in their brain. 677 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 2: Like and people and the way they did the sketches 678 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 2: they were like most of them were like like Evergreen. 679 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 2: They weren't too often topical that way they would they 680 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 2: would they never get they could do anything. But it's 681 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 2: like people like, well, how did you feel about the 682 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 2: people you're coming up on you and call you ask 683 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 2: Larry blah blah blah. I'm like, I've been Ashley my 684 00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 2: entire life, Like even when we were preparing for the 685 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 2: sketch day. It was like, so what are you going 686 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 2: to do to prepare for this role? I was like, 687 00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 2: just take a shower and just come outside and I'll be. 688 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: Alone, all right. 689 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 3: I can't even winter time is very dry, thirty. 690 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: This is a problem is. 691 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 2: And this is the problem with women nowadays. And this 692 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 2: is when they need to support their strong black man. 693 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: Because if you see me walk up in here and 694 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 2: I'm ashy, you as a woman, you as a sister 695 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 2: and as my queen, and you should have some and 696 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 2: you said you live in Harland, you should have a 697 00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 2: tub of shade butter somewhere, and you're supposed to put 698 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 2: and you're supposed to support me and say, brother, I 699 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 2: can't let you. 700 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 3: And you got to use that voice, brother, I can't 701 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 3: let you walk in these streets like. 702 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: That knuckles right now. And I like, my dad is 703 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: dry like that. My dad only puts on when he 704 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,880 Speaker 1: gets out of the shower at nighttime. I'm comfortable. 705 00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 3: I'm comfortable. 706 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 1: I mean you should. 707 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 2: I'm comfortable in my skin. You don't, literally and figurative 708 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 2: quite sure, unexposed area is going to be ashy. 709 00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: This is you came. You came in a car. A right, 710 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: you didn't take public transportation with the mashy hands, No 711 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: I would. 712 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 3: I don't care. Like, I really have no issue with 713 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 3: being ashy. 714 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: Now, how do you moisturize your baby? Because man got 715 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 1: that soft? 716 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 2: You know the funny thing about it. I don't know 717 00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 2: if it's DNA or whatever, but my son really is ashy. 718 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 3: Like I'm serious. 719 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 2: I swear to you as I swear to you when 720 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 2: he gets when I when I give him a bath, 721 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,160 Speaker 2: I swear to you I'll put lotion on him fifteen 722 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 2: minutes later. 723 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,480 Speaker 3: That's the first thing his knees are Ashy is. 724 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: Using on the baby. 725 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 3: Baby baby will Yeah, that's what you should be using. 726 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: Now you mosturizing with the baby? Well, what about his gear? 727 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: I want to know how he looks like how you 728 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: dress him. I don't know you're your outfit today. I 729 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: don't know the vibe that your baby well people you know. 730 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 2: Stephanie says that she wants him to dress more like 731 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 2: a baby. Yeah, he should try, but I don't. I 732 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 2: want him to trust like me, Like, you know, that's 733 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 2: a man, your son. It's like, Yo, I got a hoodie, 734 00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,400 Speaker 2: you wear a hoodie. You know what I'm saying, like you. 735 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 1: Got a mortgage, you got him a whole bubbles. 736 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 3: It's a mix. I mixed. 737 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: This looks up just like saying thing my style. One minute, 738 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 2: I might feel like real Brooklyn. The next minute, I 739 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: might feel like, you know, like like a corporate swag 740 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: or something like that. 741 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: Do you have a corporate swag for me? A corporate 742 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: like I say, is that a blazer. 743 00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 2: With a corporate swag for me would be like like okay, 744 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 2: maybe not corporate, but like business. 745 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 3: I'll say business swag. 746 00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 2: It might be a nice jacket, a nice button down, 747 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:27,960 Speaker 2: a nice pair like like like high end. 748 00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 3: Jeans, not no Levi's what's the high end gene for you? 749 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 2: John Varvados, Jean like Tom for any of that like 750 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 2: and then I might and I might flip it with 751 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 2: like some like fly sneakers and fly sneakers and me 752 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 2: not like they could be Jordan's. But I get like 753 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 2: it's like again, I love John Varvados, Like John Varvados, 754 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 2: Jimmy Jimmy Choo would be a good one and just 755 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 2: like like kill it like that, because a woman know 756 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 2: when you when you when you when you got yourself together. 757 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 1: What's a good sneaker for a new dad and a 758 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: dad on the run, like when you have because you 759 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: can't air force ones. 760 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, those hard. There's like the old school ones because 761 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 2: I know, but that the air force one. They just 762 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 2: like you to me, you could dress them up or 763 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 2: dress them down. 764 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: They're sturdy, they sturdy, but they don't look comfortable. You 765 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: can't chase your que with those days. 766 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 3: You don't fashion you. 767 00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 2: Really women, A woman is trying to tell me. A 768 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 2: woman is trying to tell me fashion needs to be 769 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 2: comfortable with all these heels that be breaking people ankles. 770 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 1: They don't have to becoming heels today. I'm not chasing 771 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 1: my baby and no heels. If I have on heels 772 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: and my baby gets away from me, that that's that's 773 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,080 Speaker 1: that's the world's baby. 774 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 3: I swear. I can't wait to have a baby. I 775 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,000 Speaker 3: can't wait. I can't wait to see the next you. 776 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: I can't wait the next year, and the next means 777 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: not I can't. I'm not ready. I'll be ready and 778 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: like not ready in years. I think I'll be ready 779 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 1: in my kids. I think, really, yeah, my girlfriend want kids, 780 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: like next year, I can't. I'm not doing who will 781 00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: have the baby, she's gonna have the baby. 782 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something. It's like, I understand that, 783 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 2: and a lot of I hear that from a lot 784 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 2: of women, especially like when you're young in your career, 785 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: driven and I understand that. But with all that, with 786 00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 2: all the independence and all the success, and I'm not 787 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 2: saying that you need a kid that complete you whatever, 788 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 2: but it's gonna be it'll be a transitional period and 789 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,240 Speaker 2: you're gonna you may or you may not. But I 790 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 2: know a lot of women get the point like, Okay, 791 00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 2: I've had good life. I've spent good good life, and 792 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 2: I've been probably selfish and for the business that we're in, 793 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 2: being selfish drives. 794 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: You, you know, and I I'm on stage by myself. 795 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's gonna be a it's gonna be a 796 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 2: point where you're gonna want to share that with something 797 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: or someone other than yourself. 798 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,080 Speaker 3: And that's what it's gonna hit. 799 00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: Get a new beta fish. 800 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 2: I've heard it all. I've heard it all before. I've 801 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,239 Speaker 2: heard it all before. I've heard I know the cat 802 00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 2: bench too. I don't try to place anything. Yo, I 803 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 2: need two more dogs. Now give me a goldfish. I'm 804 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,719 Speaker 2: gonna take a yoga class. I can puncture everything. 805 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 1: But I have a I know a female comics. She's 806 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: doing really well and she's she's up there and she 807 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: told us, she's like, you guys need to freeze your eggs, 808 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: so when you ready, they'll defrost them eggs and you 809 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:00,040 Speaker 1: can have those babies. And I was like, no, I 810 00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: feel like frozen eggs like that exactly. 811 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 2: No, it's gonna come up. I'm telling you, nothing is 812 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:11,239 Speaker 2: going nothing, nothing is going to give you. This is 813 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 2: me as a dad, and I see and in my lady, 814 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 2: nothing is going to give you that feeling other than that. 815 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 1: So, did you guys decide you guys we're going to 816 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 1: have a baby or was. 817 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 2: This like a well, I guess anytime you have an 818 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,879 Speaker 2: unprotected sess if the decision is yeah, yeah, I wanted 819 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 2: to have a kid and she wanted to give me 820 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:28,399 Speaker 2: a kid. 821 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 3: And that's so and that's so funny because like you know. 822 00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,440 Speaker 2: I believe in God. I believe in God. Look at God, right, 823 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 2: And we were like our situation. We were we were pregnant. 824 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 2: I'm just everything as we were pregnant and she was 825 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 2: except was pregnant. We got to three month period and 826 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 2: she had a miscarriage and when she got pregnant. First 827 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 2: thing I was like, when she first got pregnant, I 828 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: was like, look at God, won't he do it? 829 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 3: Yes? Yes, I was on God hard. I was like, yes, 830 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 3: you know that pregnancy and it started. It didn't start 831 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 3: off good. 832 00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 2: The doctors told us that it was like it wasn't 833 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 2: a good chance, you know, But me at my age, like, 834 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:10,879 Speaker 2: if you had told me a thirty five percent chance, 835 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 2: that sounds like ninety nine percent to me. 836 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. So I'm like for sure, Yeah, And I'm like this, 837 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 3: let me get some let me we're gonna start juicing, 838 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,279 Speaker 3: you know, whatever I can do. If we got the 839 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 3: three three months and we had miscarriage and as much 840 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 3: else and when we had miscarre I was like, look, 841 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 3: I'm like God, come on. Yeah, I'm like why you know, 842 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 3: I didn't question God. 843 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 2: But you know, I'm like, because me, I'm like, I 844 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 2: don't really be asking you for a lot of God, 845 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not one of 846 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:39,240 Speaker 2: those people that ask God for everything in any situation. 847 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 2: Like you know, you some people like they ask God 848 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 2: for everything they could be at a at a light. 849 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 2: It's about to turn read. They'd be like, God, please give. 850 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 3: Me do this life. You like, I don't think you 851 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 3: should call God for that, right? And then what I 852 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 3: call what I called God for? You know, he answered 853 00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 3: me by you know, being able to have a baby. 854 00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 3: And then you know, and that's what really lets you 855 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 3: know beauty and blessing, because it's not easy. People think 856 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 3: it's that simple having a baby. It's a big deal 857 00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,520 Speaker 3: when you're younger. 858 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,759 Speaker 2: You know, people splashing all over the place, like you 859 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 2: know what I mean, people shooting up the club, all 860 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 2: over the place. But then like that was three months, 861 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,839 Speaker 2: three months miski. Then three months later we got pregnant again. 862 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 3: Wow. 863 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,919 Speaker 1: And then I was like, you're you're good. 864 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:26,840 Speaker 3: I was like, got bang bang bank. I don't know 865 00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 3: how many swimmers, but they strong. It might not be 866 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 3: on the tribe of them, yeah. 867 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 2: But it was like and and and then we started 868 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: the journey again. And you know, you want to be 869 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 2: nervous if you I know, it's a lot of women 870 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,959 Speaker 2: or people that listeners that have that experience that would 871 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:44,760 Speaker 2: tell you having a baby it's not that easy. 872 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:45,839 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 873 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 2: It's like you have people out here that spending a 874 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 2: lot of money to give themselves an opportunity. That's why 875 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,040 Speaker 2: when I see like women or people that you're not no, 876 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,000 Speaker 2: not necessarily don't plan it, but don't take it serious. 877 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, it's not taking it serious. All these real 878 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: housewives moms. 879 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I know, I mean, this is the 880 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:05,839 Speaker 2: women out here to get pregnant just so they could 881 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 2: get more money from from the state, whatever. You know, 882 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 2: But you got to realize it's it's a it's a 883 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 2: it's a blessing, and it's it's a good thing. 884 00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: How do you feel about white people adopting black babies? 885 00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 2: I think that the most important thing in a baby's 886 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,680 Speaker 2: life if is to have a parent that cares and 887 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,440 Speaker 2: loves them and will do everything to give them the 888 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:31,560 Speaker 2: best chance in life. 889 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,080 Speaker 3: And that could come in any color. 890 00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 2: That could come in any color that could come in, 891 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 2: that could come into women, you know what I'm saying, 892 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,840 Speaker 2: that could come into guys like because kids don't know 893 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:45,320 Speaker 2: the difference until they get introduced to society and just society. 894 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 3: So oh, yeah, you know, she's talling you. 895 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 2: We don't mess with you know what I'm saying, Like, 896 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 2: it's not yeah, but kids don't know the difference. All 897 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,200 Speaker 2: kids want is to be loved. You know, one of 898 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 2: my friends I know in Atlanta, she's she's married less, 899 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 2: she's married, and I was so happy for it. 900 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,359 Speaker 1: And I'm taking notes because listen, listen helped me out. 901 00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 2: No, no, and like I was so happy, Like I've 902 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,080 Speaker 2: seen her go through the transition, like she's dating guys 903 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 2: and she didn't find her happiness there. And then she 904 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,400 Speaker 2: found her happiness with this woman. 905 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 3: And you know, and I was like so happy because 906 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,400 Speaker 3: she was happy. Yeah, you know what I mean. 907 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 2: She was family happy, content and someone loved her, you 908 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,360 Speaker 2: know what I mean, whether they had a penis or vagina. 909 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,840 Speaker 2: She found a love. And I said, I mean like, 910 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,800 Speaker 2: and I know, I was like because she had she 911 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,560 Speaker 2: got dogs. She got dogs like she take White women 912 00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: take care of their dogs, no white way. I mean 913 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,279 Speaker 2: she she had a dog in the you know the 914 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 2: wheelchair dogs. 915 00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 1: You know, she had a dog. 916 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:45,880 Speaker 3: She had a wheel Black people don't really get wheelchairs 917 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:46,399 Speaker 3: rade dogs. 918 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 2: You better stay in the corner and say, oh you 919 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 2: already said, but she had a whil she had a 920 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:50,919 Speaker 2: wheelchair dog. 921 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 3: And I seen her like bring this dog from like 922 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,400 Speaker 3: like not being able to walk to walk again, like, 923 00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 3: and I was like, she has that nurturing. Oh she. 924 00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 2: And I was saying to myself, I was like, I'm geting. 925 00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 2: I was like, they're gonna have a baby. You know, 926 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 2: they didn't have a baby. They adopted a baby. And 927 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 2: my point is they adopted a baby. They got a 928 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,760 Speaker 2: Mexican baby's model. 929 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,319 Speaker 1: That's the iOS seven. 930 00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:15,719 Speaker 3: They got a Mexican baby. 931 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 2: But that baby is gonna be the happiest baby, and 932 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 2: that baby has made them the happiest couple. So to 933 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:26,319 Speaker 2: follow up on it, like it doesn't matter. You would 934 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 2: want people to take care of kids, but if somebody 935 00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 2: wants to love and nurture a kid, you can't stop it. 936 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,839 Speaker 1: And what about discipline, Like how do you think you're 937 00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,040 Speaker 1: gonna be able to discipline? 938 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 3: You know? 939 00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: Pop out? 940 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 2: I really don't like I'm saying this, but everybody says 941 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 2: is not gonna have it? Like I really want to 942 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,399 Speaker 2: be on a on the page where I could talk 943 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 2: to him. 944 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:55,680 Speaker 1: Are you in time out? 945 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:56,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 946 00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 2: I mean, like think about it like a beating only 947 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 2: a whipping only temporarily fix the situation. And then once 948 00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 2: a kid gets used to getting the beat and they're like, okay, 949 00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 2: once my ass, don't hurt no more. 950 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:12,120 Speaker 3: I'm past it. 951 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 2: But I think, like I just want to get to 952 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,279 Speaker 2: the point hopefully i'll be to do it. I don't know, 953 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 2: get to the point where I could communicate, you know, 954 00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,800 Speaker 2: communicate to him and let him understand, like whatever you do, 955 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,399 Speaker 2: there's gonna be consequences to it. You know, we laugh 956 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 2: at the idea of time out, but time up gives 957 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 2: you a lot of time to think about what you 958 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 2: just did. 959 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:34,520 Speaker 1: Real time is like these kids don't understand time out. 960 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 1: They're just in a corner. All they want to know 961 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,280 Speaker 1: is what let me tell. 962 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 3: You you don't you have time out? You have to 963 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:48,439 Speaker 3: explain why you just not just time out. Explain why 964 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,560 Speaker 3: you suggesting or telling you time out, not just go 965 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:53,319 Speaker 3: time out. 966 00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,920 Speaker 1: Let me tell you what the Haitian timeout is. My 967 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: mom would make us all go on our knees and 968 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 1: face different corners in the kitchen and weld just face 969 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:05,400 Speaker 1: the wall for like twenty minutes. You know, your knees 970 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 1: like you trying to like slouch in. My mom like 971 00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 1: you want to stand up straight, and you're like, I'm kneeling. 972 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:10,880 Speaker 1: I know this. 973 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,000 Speaker 2: I know that I got a lot of beatings when 974 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 2: I was younger, I don't I probably don't remember any 975 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:18,920 Speaker 2: of those beatings, but I do remember. More than anything, 976 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,800 Speaker 2: it's the lectures and my mom used to like my 977 00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 2: mom used to give us options that she was like this, 978 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:25,960 Speaker 2: you want to you want a lecture or you want 979 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,680 Speaker 2: to I was like, please beat me because I do 980 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,920 Speaker 2: not want to hear you for another forty five minutes. 981 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:32,080 Speaker 4: No. 982 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:34,880 Speaker 1: I had the beating and the lecture because I was 983 00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,239 Speaker 1: that was a setup. I was raised by my great 984 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 1: aunt and great uncles, so like they were so old 985 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 1: that they when they were beating me, I was like, 986 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 1: you beating me with the dialysis quarters going on, I 987 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: feel like it's big, it's you can't even move it like, 988 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,680 Speaker 1: and they're just talking. So I'm like, man, like I 989 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 1: just don't want. 990 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 2: And I think a lot of times beating are just 991 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:58,160 Speaker 2: like it's a It's like I think sometimes parents it's 992 00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,120 Speaker 2: just their frustration. You know what, I can't take him. 993 00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:02,480 Speaker 2: I got do so what I'm doing beat him. And 994 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,280 Speaker 2: when I was growing up, it was like two younger brothers. 995 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 2: My youngest brother said ten year difference, but it was 996 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:11,839 Speaker 2: like when one of us got in trouble, we both 997 00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 2: got it. And I had a brother, my other brother. 998 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,800 Speaker 2: He's super smart. He never got in trouble, so I 999 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,800 Speaker 2: see he always got a whoop and messing with me. 1000 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,359 Speaker 2: You should have made him, you should have stopped him 1001 00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 2: from doing it. 1002 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 1: That's a lot of responsibility on one person. I mean, 1003 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: I get it. You're you're the oldest. You gotta get 1004 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:30,800 Speaker 1: hit too. But now, if your son has a tantrum 1005 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,359 Speaker 1: in public, like if he just like throws his body 1006 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,040 Speaker 1: on the ground and just starts to flip, what do 1007 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,279 Speaker 1: you do? Do you let him do that? 1008 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,719 Speaker 2: Do you He's already starting to do that, Like he's 1009 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,880 Speaker 2: already doing the Terrible two tangles now he's on a 1010 00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 2: year and a half. I'm like, this is what I 1011 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 2: look at, like, I don't let him do it. But 1012 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,959 Speaker 2: also know, like anybody around it that if you know kids, 1013 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 2: you know that's shit kids. Do you know what I'm saying, Like, 1014 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,160 Speaker 2: like you on a plane and somebody's like, why is 1015 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,600 Speaker 2: that baby crying? Because it's a fucking baby man, you know. 1016 00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 2: But what I talked, I'm like, no, we've traveled well, 1017 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,040 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, We've traveled well, you just 1018 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,480 Speaker 2: try to with kids for the most part, you just 1019 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,920 Speaker 2: try to their attention pans. Attention span is so short. Yeah, 1020 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,280 Speaker 2: you just just got to keep giving them different scenes, 1021 00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 2: you know. And this is the luck of draw flying. 1022 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 2: You know, a lot of them is because their ears 1023 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 2: get clocked up. 1024 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:19,320 Speaker 3: Whatever. But he's my son. He's had it, and like 1025 00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 3: I know, I can't he does. 1026 00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 2: He can't talk now, you know, so I can't say 1027 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 2: what he's getting used to telling my voice and everything. 1028 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 2: But I gotta deal with the tantrum and just put 1029 00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 2: him in another situation where possibly stop pick him up, 1030 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,880 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like people say, why you 1031 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:36,399 Speaker 2: always pick that baby up? You got a good back, Yeah, 1032 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,879 Speaker 2: I got a good back. That's how I got this baby, 1033 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:46,239 Speaker 2: because I got a strong this. Yeah, that's how I 1034 00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 2: got that baby. That back, you gotta put your back 1035 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 2: into it. 1036 00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 3: Yeah. But like I really like I talk to him now, 1037 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:53,920 Speaker 3: even though I know. 1038 00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 2: We can't communicate, but he's getting used to the toning 1039 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,680 Speaker 2: my voice and everything, and I think you could talk 1040 00:43:58,719 --> 00:43:58,960 Speaker 2: to him. 1041 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,640 Speaker 3: It's like you just have to communicate. 1042 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 1: What would you what would you do since you can't 1043 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,200 Speaker 1: talk yet? What would you do if somebody try to 1044 00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:07,160 Speaker 1: kidnap your kids? Like somebody just pick you up and 1045 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: was like, like, what would you do? What would you're 1046 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:11,359 Speaker 1: still doing that? Yeah, it's still taking baby. 1047 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:12,840 Speaker 3: I mean what I would do that situation? 1048 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: I mean, because your baby is cute? 1049 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 3: If they what you mean, people like all no. 1050 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:20,360 Speaker 1: Like somebody somebody like somebody like America's most wanted to 1051 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 1: grab your baby. Oh, then I mean somebody. 1052 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 3: Answer that. 1053 00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't that's not even I don't know. 1054 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 2: I just feel uncomfortable saying it. But if you try 1055 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:39,800 Speaker 2: to harm my kid, then I'm going to harm you. 1056 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 1: That's the first instinct. 1057 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, first instance I wanted to say. I wanted to 1058 00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 3: say killed right off the top. You know what this? Yeah, 1059 00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,320 Speaker 3: I don't even like that. That that the thought of that, 1060 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 3: that doesn't make me feel good. 1061 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: Have you ever misplaced your baby? Like you've been at 1062 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,520 Speaker 1: the store and you like left and some some some 1063 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:58,760 Speaker 1: carts somewhere, and you're. 1064 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,839 Speaker 3: Like, damn you Like, I love this dude so much. 1065 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,399 Speaker 2: I'm around him so much that that's not a moment 1066 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 2: that I don't know what's you know now, I know 1067 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 2: because he's walking down, but I know it's gonna be 1068 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,919 Speaker 2: a point where he's gonna be all over the place, 1069 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,120 Speaker 2: like even with that Cincinnati thing, right, the Cincinnati with 1070 00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 2: the haramirilla. 1071 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:18,160 Speaker 3: Pel had a funny joke. 1072 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,320 Speaker 2: He said, he said, anybody just says that that family 1073 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,000 Speaker 2: they weren't good in parents aren't parents, he said, he said, 1074 00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 2: because he said, if they say that, they don't, they don't. 1075 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:31,879 Speaker 2: They don't know, he said, because he said, he said, 1076 00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,759 Speaker 2: if my kid fell in the damn gorilla case, he said, 1077 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be surprised. He'd be like, Oh God, damn, 1078 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,719 Speaker 2: I goddamn son. Get somebody shooting's got damn gorilla so 1079 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,279 Speaker 2: I could get my baby. And he said, how you're 1080 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 2: gonna call them good parents bad parents? When they was 1081 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,360 Speaker 2: at the zoo, they was on a field trip. They 1082 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 2: was in a family outing. 1083 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never been to the zoo with my parents, 1084 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,800 Speaker 1: had never taken my parents took me to church and pathmark. 1085 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: That's one of them. 1086 00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:56,320 Speaker 3: That's hilarious. 1087 00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say this when when I was growing up, 1088 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,479 Speaker 2: my mom, not my dad, not being my mom, would 1089 00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,000 Speaker 2: we had no money. Anything that was free. My mother 1090 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,480 Speaker 2: we did a free museum or free concert. She she 1091 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 2: always took us out and gave us some culture. 1092 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,240 Speaker 1: My family didn't like free like people giving. They didn't 1093 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: getting free food, Yeah, no, they were like no, man, 1094 00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 1: I was proud. 1095 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:17,920 Speaker 4: No. 1096 00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 1: My mom was the same way. 1097 00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 2: But I'm just talking about activities like if they have 1098 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 2: like a not like yo, go to a store, you're 1099 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,640 Speaker 2: a free blow for bread. I'm talking about like I'm 1100 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,520 Speaker 2: talking about like a free outdoor concept where like everybody 1101 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:33,839 Speaker 2: was getting a free you know, we weren't free. Oh 1102 00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 2: that's the more more I love that line. Every time 1103 00:46:39,520 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 2: I heard somebody asks for something else, I'm like, more. 1104 00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: What about this is my Uh, what I'm scared of 1105 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 1: is like holding babies and it's terrifying. They're really you 1106 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 1: dropped that baby? That baby's their heads so soft it is. 1107 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 2: But like like I say that and that's easy. I mean, 1108 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 2: I understand that with someone else's baby. But I'm sure again, 1109 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,879 Speaker 2: we're going back. I want to get y'all pregnant so bad. 1110 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:07,120 Speaker 3: No, we're going back. I'm going back. 1111 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 2: It's never had no podcast like that, That's what I'm saying. 1112 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 2: But when it's yours, like I felt the same way, 1113 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,320 Speaker 2: but when it's yours, it's like it's just it's just 1114 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 2: an extra connection. 1115 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 1: I would just holding too tight. I would be like, 1116 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,040 Speaker 1: is that how women can have on heels and carry 1117 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,040 Speaker 1: their baby? Because I watched them and I'm like, yo, 1118 00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,279 Speaker 1: you're not scared, like your ankle's gonna just twisted a 1119 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 1: little bit. 1120 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but old, old, older women don't like that. 1121 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 1: I don't like it either, step are not strong enough. 1122 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 2: My mother got mad at my mother got mad at 1123 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 2: my lady because she was like, you know, Mom's always. 1124 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,719 Speaker 3: Like she got that baby with the heels on. 1125 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 1: A witch. You're is your wife right? 1126 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:47,000 Speaker 3: Soon? 1127 00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,720 Speaker 1: Soon you're engaged? 1128 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, I'm a hoodie. I'm a hood engaged. 1129 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,719 Speaker 3: I told you we're gonna do it, not bothering me, 1130 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 3: but I know I want to get married. 1131 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: How were you guys together? 1132 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:02,160 Speaker 3: Three years? 1133 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 1: Three years? I feel like that's a good enough time. No, 1134 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 1: I was in a relationship for three years. 1135 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 3: Everything you want to hug, he want to hug. No, 1136 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:14,799 Speaker 3: Sometimes people don't know how to ask for us. 1137 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:15,480 Speaker 4: You know. 1138 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:19,800 Speaker 1: He wanted me to move in, and I was like, 1139 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,240 Speaker 1: I don't think we're ready. 1140 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 3: You live in a walk up. 1141 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,320 Speaker 1: I gotta like move on my crap in here, and 1142 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 1: then if we break up, I gotta move on my 1143 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: stuff back down. I was like no, so we broke up. 1144 00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:30,279 Speaker 1: We broke up. 1145 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 3: You you are fearful of commitment, Oh I am. 1146 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,720 Speaker 1: Three years is a long time to be with somebody, 1147 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 1: and everything he wanted from me was like realistic. 1148 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 3: I just was like, I don't know, I'll just tell 1149 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,600 Speaker 3: you this. I'll tell you this. 1150 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,520 Speaker 2: As we get older in life and we look back, 1151 00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,200 Speaker 2: you are an age where you could you know, you 1152 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,160 Speaker 2: can roll the dice like that, but there's always one 1153 00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 2: where you be like hmm. 1154 00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 3: But again, mentally, I. 1155 00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,640 Speaker 1: Don't think he was a mmm know what that was 1156 00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,399 Speaker 1: gonna happen. There was definitely there's somebody else out there. 1157 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,040 Speaker 1: Definitely this is my first boyfriend. 1158 00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's just that's 1159 00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 3: a smashing dash. You know. 1160 00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,080 Speaker 1: It was a three year smashing dash. But he was 1161 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 1: also ten years older than me, so we were in 1162 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:13,840 Speaker 1: different places. 1163 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you still I'm not older than my lady. 1164 00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:17,360 Speaker 2: But you know, it depends on what you want and 1165 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 2: like how you get on. Nobody can really dictate or 1166 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 2: how what this place is supposed to be like that. 1167 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 1: You know, it was like with me, like I don't 1168 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: know what I want. Like every day would I would 1169 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 1: wake up and I want to do. 1170 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,680 Speaker 2: But it's like me talking like I'm almost like like 1171 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 2: this like you were a kid, you know, so I 1172 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 2: expect you, know especially and I see what you're doing 1173 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 2: now and just like briefly knowing you, like it's certain 1174 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:42,799 Speaker 2: things you want out of life, and you can't lock 1175 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 2: a person down. That's why you got to get those 1176 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 2: weak women that don't have no ambition, no drive, them 1177 00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:53,200 Speaker 2: the ones that you married. And I'm joking what you 1178 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,799 Speaker 2: want to do with your life another Oh don da da, 1179 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 2: I got you boot no dif strokes with different folks. 1180 00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:04,160 Speaker 1: My girlfriend, I feel like she's one of those people 1181 00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: that's like she understands what I'm doing. But at the 1182 00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:08,799 Speaker 1: same time, it's like, no, but I want to hang out. 1183 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,239 Speaker 1: I want to be with you on the weekends, like 1184 00:50:10,360 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 1: you know you don't have to You're like, wait, what 1185 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:17,400 Speaker 1: she's accommodating. I get she's accommodating because the rent be 1186 00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: late on my side, Like she's not accommodating to what 1187 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm doing. Like I'm doing comedy and I have to 1188 00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 1: be out late and she's like, you know, you gotta 1189 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 1: come home. She got to send you on a curfew. 1190 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,440 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, no, that's gonna be an issue if 1191 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:34,279 Speaker 2: they if they stressing you on, because that's that's gonna 1192 00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 2: be I'll be. 1193 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 1: Dashing out of diners out with the diner pot. 1194 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 2: She got it, she's she's she's got to be more 1195 00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 2: understanding with that because like our business, it's it's late. 1196 00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:50,160 Speaker 2: I mean, you can control it, but you know you 1197 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 2: have a good set. You are with some people that 1198 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,280 Speaker 2: can make a difference, or you've been having to creative, 1199 00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 2: you can't like there's no curfew to that. 1200 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: Out Adrian, did you hear that? Don't said I got 1201 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 1: to stay out. 1202 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:10,480 Speaker 2: But the thing is like, ultimately, do you trust me 1203 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 2: enough to understand that it's all good and and and 1204 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:17,000 Speaker 2: and that's where you're gonna meet like mine. That's where 1205 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 2: you're going to meet people that are like you, you 1206 00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:19,440 Speaker 2: know what I mean. 1207 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 3: It's like comics. 1208 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 2: I mean, you could probably try to break it, but 1209 00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 2: commics don't use like you'll listen, get together sometimes, let's 1210 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:26,279 Speaker 2: get together for lunch whatever. 1211 00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 3: But that's when it happens, you know. 1212 00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 1: We don't have maybe like you want to get together, 1213 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:32,759 Speaker 1: maybe like you want to get together right together, And 1214 00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 1: I'll be like, no, oh yeah, that. 1215 00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,479 Speaker 2: Was my that was that was that was fore played 1216 00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:38,840 Speaker 2: for me? Yeah, you know, I think we should have 1217 00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,000 Speaker 2: a right decision. Well, I didn't know you was pulling 1218 00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 2: out that pen. 1219 00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,040 Speaker 1: Writing session or like a sketch, and you were like, 1220 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,000 Speaker 1: why is your sketch in this bedroom? It's like the 1221 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:52,479 Speaker 1: Players Club. You feel like ebony at Junior's methodogory or whatever. 1222 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:54,719 Speaker 1: So we are going to give you a quit. Quit. 1223 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,239 Speaker 1: It's gonna has to your expertise. You feel like you're 1224 00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,479 Speaker 1: gonna get a lot of this right. You're so brand 1225 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 1: new at it and you're just so fresh. I feel 1226 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,719 Speaker 1: like you're learning a lot. Yeah, you got to put 1227 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:04,279 Speaker 1: those glasses on. 1228 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:11,280 Speaker 3: Hold on sweet potatoes. 1229 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 1: Yes, it is sweet potatoes, and it looks like sweet 1230 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 1: potatoes or mustard or something. 1231 00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:17,200 Speaker 4: It is. 1232 00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:22,560 Speaker 1: Wow, that was great. And the next one I already 1233 00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,360 Speaker 1: know what that one is. Yeah, we already knows. He 1234 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: picked all the obvious stuff. Pumpkin, pumpkin. No, it's carrots, isn't. Yeah, 1235 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:34,640 Speaker 1: let me. 1236 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,920 Speaker 3: Smell it looks like it tastes smell like pumpkin. 1237 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:42,040 Speaker 1: Man, I don't know what pumpkin smell like. Sydney ripped 1238 00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,640 Speaker 1: all the Sney ripped all the things off. So you 1239 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 1: filled one you got one, you got so you got 1240 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,359 Speaker 1: one point right now you want to try one more? 1241 00:52:50,320 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 3: Chick m h, I don't know. Oh I should know 1242 00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 3: my palace. 1243 00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 1: Oh, I feel like. 1244 00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:16,080 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1245 00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,439 Speaker 1: Is that one of fruit? Yes? 1246 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:17,919 Speaker 3: Fruit? 1247 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:22,240 Speaker 1: Is that apple or parents? No, it's peaches, peaches blended 1248 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:22,759 Speaker 1: real ugly. 1249 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:24,000 Speaker 3: They don't look. 1250 00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,360 Speaker 1: He just blend to discuss. 1251 00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:26,360 Speaker 3: I didn't get that. 1252 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: You're failing. Don't have one. 1253 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 3: I don't. 1254 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:31,960 Speaker 2: I don't eat baby. I don't eat baby for I 1255 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:33,840 Speaker 2: don't eat it either. I don't eat baby. Well, I 1256 00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:35,239 Speaker 2: know you don't want nothing to do with no baby. 1257 00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 2: You know why, because she's like, you get babyful, you 1258 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:38,480 Speaker 2: gotta have a baby with it. 1259 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,560 Speaker 1: Why. I know a lot of mothers who like taste 1260 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 1: the stuff and like chew it up in their mouth 1261 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,960 Speaker 1: and put it in the baby's mouth. So I mean 1262 00:53:46,040 --> 00:53:47,719 Speaker 1: that's why I thought that maybe you were one of 1263 00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:48,160 Speaker 1: those people. 1264 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 3: No, I don't do all that. No, I don't do 1265 00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:50,480 Speaker 3: all that. 1266 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,719 Speaker 2: And then he was he was nursing. He was breastfeeding 1267 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,480 Speaker 2: for like a year, like three months. He was been 1268 00:53:55,600 --> 00:53:57,640 Speaker 2: getting that breast milk for a while. 1269 00:53:57,480 --> 00:54:00,320 Speaker 1: Because his teeth Now though, right, so is he what 1270 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 1: is he is? He eating like cheerios. Are you the 1271 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,480 Speaker 1: dad that has like the bag full of cheerios and like. 1272 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,759 Speaker 3: Food? Whatever I do, I like chop it up like 1273 00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:08,319 Speaker 3: really good. 1274 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:08,880 Speaker 1: You know. 1275 00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 3: No no like no no like no season or anything 1276 00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:12,160 Speaker 3: like that. 1277 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:17,719 Speaker 1: No season, no lies, no litryes, no old bay or 1278 00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,640 Speaker 1: none of the smashed carrots. I just put her on 1279 00:54:20,719 --> 00:54:22,960 Speaker 1: the obey so she wants to put I just try. 1280 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:24,880 Speaker 2: To do his food with like like herbs and like 1281 00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,239 Speaker 2: lemon and stuff like that. I don't try to try 1282 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 2: to keep him away from all the bad things that 1283 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:30,319 Speaker 2: I used to eat. 1284 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,560 Speaker 1: Okay, So I have a question for you. I think that. 1285 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:37,480 Speaker 1: So did you have any questions? More questions for the quiz? 1286 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,279 Speaker 1: I have one more? Oh okay, well go ahead, so ahead. No, 1287 00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm gonna look at my phone. 1288 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 3: You can do okay. 1289 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 1: Uh. What advice do you have for dudes who got 1290 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,839 Speaker 1: the car seat in the back seat trying to holler 1291 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,480 Speaker 1: at a woman like me walking down the street. What 1292 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 1: advice do you have for the dude is like am 1293 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,920 Speaker 1: I mom? And then I look and I'm like, grow up. 1294 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:01,840 Speaker 2: That's my advice, Just to grow up, you know what 1295 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,439 Speaker 2: I'm saying. Some people like you know, you just can't 1296 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 2: change it, but it's the time to it. Just grow up, 1297 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 2: or if you don't grow up, at least put the 1298 00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 2: car seat in the trunk like I do, like I do. 1299 00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 3: Like I do, just put it in the trunk. 1300 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:16,719 Speaker 2: And it's so funny because definitely be like this, why 1301 00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:18,480 Speaker 2: is the baby seat in the truck? I was like, 1302 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,360 Speaker 2: because I want to still act like I still got it, 1303 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:21,360 Speaker 2: you know what. 1304 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: You tell it? 1305 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:26,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, what's wrong with being that's funny? 1306 00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 1: It? 1307 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,880 Speaker 3: Yo, you can't be like you can't be uptight, you 1308 00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:31,439 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. 1309 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 1: You can't be up there is that a car seat 1310 00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,040 Speaker 1: for a baby? You can be like, yo, this is 1311 00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 1: my cousins baby. This is my cousins car. Oh nah 1312 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:39,759 Speaker 1: nah nah nah nah. 1313 00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 3: It's so funny. Yeah, I would just uh, either grow 1314 00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:45,320 Speaker 3: up or just put the car seat. 1315 00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:47,719 Speaker 1: In the back. You're that guys put the car seat 1316 00:55:47,760 --> 00:55:50,040 Speaker 1: in the truck trunk. I hope you have a big 1317 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:52,040 Speaker 1: enough trunk to put a car seat in it. 1318 00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, most car seats fixing. 1319 00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: Back for fel like Toyota and Hondai have really short 1320 00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,400 Speaker 1: and not big enough trunks. 1321 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:01,800 Speaker 3: It's a carze, not a wheelchair. 1322 00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:10,719 Speaker 1: And the last question is you're on a flight from 1323 00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:14,239 Speaker 1: a visa with you, your soon to be wife and 1324 00:56:14,680 --> 00:56:20,600 Speaker 1: your son. Your son is crying the entire eight hours. 1325 00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,560 Speaker 1: What do you do for all the people on the plane. 1326 00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:24,959 Speaker 3: I don't. 1327 00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:30,800 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't do anything. I don't care. You 1328 00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. It's like I'm I don't care. 1329 00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 2: It's a kid. Now, if it was like I wasn't 1330 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 2: making an attempt to try to calm him down anything, 1331 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 2: that'd be one thing. 1332 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 3: It's like, I don't. I would make every effort to 1333 00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 3: calm him down. But if I can't, it is what 1334 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:43,920 Speaker 3: it is. 1335 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 1: It is what it is. The one time I was 1336 00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,959 Speaker 1: on the on a flight and the mother had bought 1337 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:52,920 Speaker 1: like everybody in her row, like some drinks. If I 1338 00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,279 Speaker 1: was sitting behind her, I'd be like, I can hear 1339 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 1: your baby too. 1340 00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,000 Speaker 2: You just just so against everything about a baby. I 1341 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 2: don't want no part of that baby life. You don't 1342 00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 2: even want to play with a doll baby like, oh 1343 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,120 Speaker 2: that doll, that's won't get me warmed up. 1344 00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:08,400 Speaker 3: I'm not ready for that. Now. 1345 00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: Now it's going to find somebody for you, Marie, and 1346 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:17,160 Speaker 1: trying to somebody would work trying to workshop. Listen, if 1347 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,960 Speaker 1: you could tell anything to your younger self, like if 1348 00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,400 Speaker 1: you say something to like Donnelle from like twenty years ago, 1349 00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 1: what would you say, Like, what advice would you give 1350 00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,880 Speaker 1: yourself about like just fatherhood. 1351 00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,040 Speaker 3: Of fatherhood or just whatever. 1352 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,480 Speaker 2: No, if I would go about twenty years of my life, 1353 00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 2: I would tell myself, and I did tell myself this 1354 00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 2: twenty years ago. Stay focused, you know what I mean, 1355 00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 2: don't get distracted, stay away from negative, negative energy, and 1356 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:49,680 Speaker 2: always uh and just remind yourself that things are going 1357 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 2: to get better if you put the work in to 1358 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:53,360 Speaker 2: make them better. 1359 00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:53,960 Speaker 3: That's what I said. 1360 00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:56,440 Speaker 1: Yo, twenty years ago was nineteen ninety seven. 1361 00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,880 Speaker 4: Do y'all realize that twenty years ago that's when I 1362 00:57:58,920 --> 00:57:59,840 Speaker 4: first started doing comedy. 1363 00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:00,760 Speaker 1: Wow. 1364 00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:05,520 Speaker 3: Wow, Now she's trying to do the numbers and say 1365 00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 3: you're probably getting close. 1366 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,440 Speaker 1: You get close. No, I'm just sure I've been. We've 1367 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 1: been doing it like three four years. Baby, we're fresh 1368 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 1: in here, but you know we're doing what we can. 1369 00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 2: You got go hard, go my advice, go hard to 1370 00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,720 Speaker 2: go home. And I mean just on the comedy side, 1371 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:22,520 Speaker 2: I always have young comics. They always come and say, 1372 00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 2: do you have any advice you will give a young 1373 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 2: com I was like, yep, don't ask for any advice. 1374 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,680 Speaker 2: That's what people try to do, is like you can 1375 00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,760 Speaker 2: take shortcuts, but the thing that's going to be they've 1376 00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 2: given your best learning curve is the more stage time. 1377 00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,600 Speaker 3: And I know you guys have heard it before, perform before, 1378 00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 3: and perform and perform, and then you don't have to 1379 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:40,880 Speaker 3: ask a lot of questions. 1380 00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,360 Speaker 2: If it's a favorite comic you like with somebody you appreciate, 1381 00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,000 Speaker 2: just like study like just just you know, you don't 1382 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:49,640 Speaker 2: want to be them, but just see how the best 1383 00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,800 Speaker 2: people to do it do it. And watching somebody in 1384 00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,800 Speaker 2: their in their greatness is very motivating. 1385 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,200 Speaker 1: And yeah, what do you remember the worst set, the 1386 00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:00,600 Speaker 1: worst bomb you ever had? 1387 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:05,960 Speaker 3: I don't bomb a lot. No, I wasn't bombed. I 1388 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 3: never bombed. I mean I never was a bomber. I 1389 00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:09,760 Speaker 3: would have done this. 1390 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:15,000 Speaker 2: Something may sound crazy like bomb like like i I've 1391 00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,840 Speaker 2: never was like no laughs, I never was not funny. 1392 00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 2: I was never not engaging, right saying like, I've had 1393 00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:27,400 Speaker 2: situations where like say the mic is messed up to 1394 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,800 Speaker 2: sound It's just something that contribute to me not having 1395 00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 2: a good set, But I just never been a person 1396 00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:33,320 Speaker 2: that like. 1397 00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:34,320 Speaker 3: I took some hits. 1398 00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you remember the worst set you've ever had 1399 00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: or the worst time you've ever had on stage. 1400 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,680 Speaker 2: I don't remember the worst time I've ever had on stage, 1401 00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:44,240 Speaker 2: but I do remember one moment and I was all 1402 00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 2: excited about I thought I was super funny then and 1403 00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:48,680 Speaker 2: I learned the lesson. It was this gay guy in 1404 00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,920 Speaker 2: the audience right and he started starting off. He started 1405 00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 2: heckling me, and we were going back and forth. And 1406 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:59,240 Speaker 2: what I did was I attached his sexuality and he 1407 00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:03,080 Speaker 2: embraced this actuality and he didn't care. So he took 1408 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,160 Speaker 2: the weapon I thought I could use against him and 1409 01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 2: used it against me. He was and he had the 1410 01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:09,640 Speaker 2: coldest life ever heard. He said, Yeah, he said, I 1411 01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:12,480 Speaker 2: might be gay, he said, but I'm more man than 1412 01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:14,880 Speaker 2: you'll ever be, a more woman than you will ever get. 1413 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:21,480 Speaker 3: Look when he said that, I was like, Okay, good 1414 01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:24,120 Speaker 3: night everybody. But the funny thing about. 1415 01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:24,920 Speaker 1: It was like I took it. 1416 01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 3: I was like this. I was like I was like 1417 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:27,800 Speaker 3: Ronda Rousey and that last. 1418 01:00:31,400 --> 01:00:34,600 Speaker 2: But the funny thing about it maybe maybe like probably 1419 01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,920 Speaker 2: seven years later, and I had started getting some you 1420 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,640 Speaker 2: know moderate amount of success and and I ran into 1421 01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 2: him right and he just said, you don't remember me 1422 01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:47,680 Speaker 2: and remember yo. As soon as he said, especially with 1423 01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:49,880 Speaker 2: that tone, he was like, he said, you don't remember me. 1424 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,520 Speaker 2: I was like, yes, side dude, And I was like, 1425 01:00:52,640 --> 01:00:55,800 Speaker 2: that was probably like one of the funniest moments and 1426 01:00:56,040 --> 01:01:00,200 Speaker 2: like revealing moments I've had in my career. He was like, yoh, man, 1427 01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:02,680 Speaker 2: I'm so excited to see what you've been doing. Man, 1428 01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:03,640 Speaker 2: and keep up the good work. 1429 01:01:03,920 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: That's like, that's great, that's beautiful. I feel like you 1430 01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,440 Speaker 1: you've answered all the questions. You're obviously an expert at 1431 01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:14,439 Speaker 1: being a new dad who knows kind of what he's doing. 1432 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: Because while you're doing it doing a good job. I 1433 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 1: think you're doing a great job. 1434 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:19,160 Speaker 3: Oh I know I'm doing I'm doing for this. 1435 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,800 Speaker 1: Where can people catch you? I mean, I know that 1436 01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:24,840 Speaker 1: you're in the city regularly shows stuff. 1437 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:26,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the easiest way is to go to 1438 01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:30,000 Speaker 2: Donnie Rollins my website. You know, you could google me, Like, 1439 01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 2: if you want to find out almost anything everything about me, 1440 01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,880 Speaker 2: you google me. You're gonna find out some some interesting things. 1441 01:01:35,960 --> 01:01:38,280 Speaker 2: But you can if you're trying to find it you 1442 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,720 Speaker 2: can catch me on on Just I'm out there. 1443 01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:42,200 Speaker 1: And Project Dat is that? Is there going to be 1444 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 1: another season? 1445 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,680 Speaker 3: I'm not sure. We only had the deal was only 1446 01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 3: for one season. It'll be interesting. 1447 01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 2: Like I'm really excited about doing something else with my 1448 01:01:51,120 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 2: son because when he was on Project That, he wasn't walking, 1449 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,880 Speaker 2: he was crawling. And now like he's going to go 1450 01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:00,200 Speaker 2: through some milestones in his life, like talking and all 1451 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 2: these other things. And I think that and he's starting 1452 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,400 Speaker 2: to develop his personality. I think like he's funny and 1453 01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:05,120 Speaker 2: interesting now. 1454 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:06,040 Speaker 3: And I don't want to. 1455 01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to like, I don't want to like 1456 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,200 Speaker 2: I don't want to force him into it. But it's 1457 01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:13,040 Speaker 2: something that's so close to mean I love it, you 1458 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,040 Speaker 2: know what I mean. It's just like you know, I 1459 01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,560 Speaker 2: would like for him to do something. 1460 01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 4: Comedy, like I just want him to be fun funny, 1461 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,479 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, like funny doctor or whatever. 1462 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:28,280 Speaker 2: But I just I mean, I enjoyed working with That's 1463 01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,440 Speaker 2: so funny to say work with him, but just you know, 1464 01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:31,520 Speaker 2: I was making money and. 1465 01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:34,800 Speaker 1: That you get a check as well. 1466 01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:38,000 Speaker 3: He got a check through me. He has his work 1467 01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 3: for men or whatever. He's going to get that money. 1468 01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's doing it like he's gonna I look at 1469 01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:46,520 Speaker 2: it like if it's something that he enjoys, and if 1470 01:02:46,560 --> 01:02:48,400 Speaker 2: I could make it like fun for him, not like 1471 01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 2: a job, and as long as he's having fun with 1472 01:02:50,960 --> 01:02:53,880 Speaker 2: it and it's expanding his imagination, whenever, I'll do it. 1473 01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 2: But the minute I feel like he's like, oh Dad, 1474 01:02:55,840 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 2: get out of here with that, then I won't push it. 1475 01:02:58,520 --> 01:02:59,840 Speaker 2: But I would love to be able to share some 1476 01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,000 Speaker 2: choke stories and teach them the trade. 1477 01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,640 Speaker 1: That's beautiful and I feel like that's what we're gonna do. 1478 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. That was awesome. We have a show every 1479 01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,960 Speaker 1: second Saturday of the month that Carmel Lounge called The 1480 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:15,760 Speaker 1: warm Up hosting that, and then we have our unofficial 1481 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 1: expert page on Instagram and you can just add us 1482 01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:21,360 Speaker 1: let us know that you love the episode, subscribe. 1483 01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 3: I can't wait. Just like this, Yo, it's unofficial, but 1484 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 3: I'm pregnant. 1485 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:34,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's gonna be Sidney pregnant, freaky as hell. Give 1486 01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:35,000 Speaker 1: it up. 1487 01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:37,080 Speaker 3: Thanks for having