WEBVTT - Turn On's & Turn Off's 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:03.279 In the morning's when. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:12.560 Yeah, like say, in the morning. 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:23.560 Yeah. 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But you know what, 0:00:57.920 --> 0:00:59.960 our sound has been sucking up in case you haven't noticed. 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:04.200 Because my apologies, I'm not a sound mixer. I try 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:08.840 my best YouTube it. You too can be a podcaster 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:10.679 if I can. 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:14.920 We apologize, But now you got some classy ship. 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:17.520 Yeah, we're recording up at dash radio shout out to 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:20.080 dash Radio because you're this ship. 0:01:20.240 --> 0:01:26.960 We appreciate you. How was your again? Yeah it was good. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.760 More Labor Day, Oh Jesus, Labor Day. 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:33.280 Visit me. 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:39.160 That was really fun and we just chilled. Went to LACMA. 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:43.000 If you didn't know, guys, Mila finally posted Young Bay. 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.680 Go check out Mela's instagram if you want to know 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:47.800 who Young Bay looks like. Now he has put a 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:49.720 name to the face facing the name. 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.040 Oh yeah, I posted him, so you know it's real. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:54.680 I was like, I have so much anxiety about that. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:56.720 I'm like, should I Okay? 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:57.320 Well I did it. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:02:01.520 It's done. Can't go back now. Oh and it's cute. 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:02.880 It was a cute picture. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:04.800 If it wasn't such a cute picture, I may I 0:02:04.840 --> 0:02:08.200 don't know, it may still be anonymous face. So you 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:12.000 can go to at Meila underscore MATHO m I l 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:13.919 A h underscore Matho m A. 0:02:15.040 --> 0:02:17.840 Go check out that bitch. You did know you did it? 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.480 If you want to go check out my man. Here's 0:02:20.520 --> 0:02:25.079 my instagram. Hey extra extra read all about it. That 0:02:25.240 --> 0:02:29.639 was just my like way to get followers. Shout myself. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:32.760 Oh please follow me. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:33.680 Post my man. 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:39.079 So you hung out with your man's I feel like 0:02:39.120 --> 0:02:41.840 I we've seen each other, but like we've been like 0:02:42.639 --> 0:02:44.840 in like hectic mode but in both of our lives. 0:02:46.240 --> 0:02:48.440 Yeah that's true, that's actually true. 0:02:48.880 --> 0:02:50.359 But we still like have to do ship. 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:59.400 Yeah, hey, hey more and smokes bla blax peace peacefull right. 0:03:02.280 --> 0:03:02.880 Yeah, I agree. 0:03:02.960 --> 0:03:05.160 I feel very I feel very. 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:11.440 Calm right now, in a good place and we're catching 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:13.160 up and yeah, that's good. 0:03:13.520 --> 0:03:16.840 How was your weekend? What did you do? My weekend 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:18.040 was good. 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:21.480 I went to wait, what did I do for Friday? 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:25.480 I think Friday was that that I did something? Then 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:26.200 I went to the pool. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:31.040 Yeah, oh wait, no, yeah, oh I saw you at 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:31.359 the pool. 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:33.120 Well I was at the pool. 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:33.520 Oh wait. 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.360 My friend, my good friend Ashley, she had a twenty. 0:03:37.160 --> 0:03:41.120 She was celebrating her twenty thousand followers on her model account, 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:49.760 which is there we go sorry, the Model Experience. Oh wow, 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:51.880 we put headphones on guys. We forgot that we're supposed 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:53.000 to put the headphones. 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:56.080 It sounds so different. Oh my god. Okay, so now 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:58.480 I know I'm being loud or not. 0:03:58.680 --> 0:03:58.960 Okay. 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.000 My friend she runs this Instagram and she has a 0:04:03.120 --> 0:04:06.920 company called The Model Experience, where models come like people 0:04:06.960 --> 0:04:10.360 that don't want to like start modeling and you know, 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.200 don't know where to start and want to build a 0:04:12.240 --> 0:04:13.080 book and all that stuff. 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:14.160 So she provides that service. 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:17.520 And so she was celebrating like a big win on 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.960 her Instagram and so she had a party, went there, drank, 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:25.920 saw a friend friend, former hookup friend, friend that I'm 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:28.000 not supposed to hook up with any. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:32.839 More friend, and then abandoned him for another friend. 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:37.760 She's a friend half of night and made a connection 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:42.240 with a new friend, which is interesting and I think, 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.799 you know, we talked about it. I was telling Jamila 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.880 that this friend is very happy, like always really really happy, 0:04:48.040 --> 0:04:50.400 and like I'm not used to someone so happy, and 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:50.800 I don't know. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:51.400 How to deal with it. 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:54.440 A happy bay, happy Bay. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.719 And she was like, bitch, you're mad because he's happy. 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:04.159 I was like, no, I'm not mad, I'm just it's 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:08.080 just something like, you know, okay, you know you have 0:05:08.279 --> 0:05:10.760 when you meet those people that are so fucking happy, 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:13.719 you always have like are you why are you so happy? 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:16.560 What're you so happy about? What are you hiding? 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:22.800 I get, I get, I understand when it can be 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:26.640 like happy annoying, but I don't know, you can't. 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:29.440 Say it like that loud, I know what I'm saying it. 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:31.760 Oh my god, I hope he doesn't listen to this, 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:34.520 but I know I hope he does if he does whatever. 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:38.400 But that's like it is like I'm true, there's something 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:40.800 wrong with me if I have a problem with someone's happiness. 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:44.240 But I'm like a really happy person, perky. I think 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.440 this is a different love. No, it is different level, 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:47.680 Jamila Madham. 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:48.240 And so she knows. 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:52.240 So I can say he's very happy. He's a very 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:53.880 happy guy. I mean, what can I say? 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:57.840 Yeah, you know what it is. I think he's very expressive. 0:05:58.560 --> 0:06:03.640 Yeah, he's very expressed of of his happiness, feelings, feelings 0:06:03.680 --> 0:06:04.280 and happiness. 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.480 Yeah, I guess so he just I feel. 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:10.880 Like he's constantly experience experiencing joy and bliss, Like he's 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.400 in a constant state of joy and bliss. 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:15.520 It kind of maybe sounds like you should date them, 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:19.080 I know what. Yeah, that's a good way. 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:20.840 I mean, yeah, I would love for that joy and 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:22.960 bliss to rub off on me more like, not that 0:06:23.000 --> 0:06:25.320 I'm not joyful or blissful, but like his ship is 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:28.360 on a whole other level. And I think old Erica 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:31.200 would have been annoyed by it, but like I'm trying 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:34.960 to obviously grow press and I want happiness and I shouldn't, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.160 you know, push that away from or like try to 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:39.440 like make it weird. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:42.520 So I need, I need, I need. She just needs 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:47.680 to get more happy. I need. So yeah, I connected 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.320 with him this weekend, and what else did I do? 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:55.640 Hang out with my kid? She started her first day of. 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:59.160 Preschool, which is I keep spending in this chair and 0:06:59.279 --> 0:07:01.200 remembering that I have to talk into a microphone. 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:02.120 I know I'm looking at you. 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:03.880 Can you hear yourself? 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:06.200 Because I'm like, can I hear her? 0:07:06.440 --> 0:07:10.280 Or am I just hearing myself? First of all, still 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:12.880 managing to funk up the sound, still managing. 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:15.840 Let me say that we are in a classy studio, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.160 but that did not stop us from smoking a joint 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:22.040 in the parking lot, not in this parking, across. 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:26.080 The street, not in the radio. I'm pretty sure a 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.480 lot of people smoke in the radio parking, but we 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.920 did not. The owner, but we did not. We did not. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:36.960 We smoked it across the street. So we're still we're still. 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:41.440 Respect I'm very high. I had to to come and 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:43.960 to get it, come into this environment. It's very different. 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:45.120 Speaking of high. 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:50.440 We want to shout out hc CAN of health Caregivers 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.880 for providing that joint Thank you. 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:57.880 If you guys need that good ship and of Healthcare 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:01.000 Givers is your go to dispenser. 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:02.240 It's on Peko. 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:06.640 It's on Peko right by the Rosco's the good roscos. 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:12.880 Ooh yeah, exactly, Hi roscos So fifty six fifty eight 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.960 West Pico at CANA health Caregivers. 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.400 You could check out the instagram. 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.160 What was I gonna say? 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:28.120 So? Yeah, that was my week end and. 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:33.559 I'm leaving town tomorrow, going to Toronto and London and 0:08:34.040 --> 0:08:37.040 shout out to London because me and Jamila, I'm pretty sure. 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.120 We're going to be there at the same time. 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:39.840 That's the plan. 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:40.920 Okay, that's the plan. 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:45.800 So if you if anybody knows any London spots we 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:48.280 need to check out, let us know. 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:51.319 Sliden o DMS and let us know. We want to 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:55.040 know where to hang out. And if you have any 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.640 London followers, let's hang too. 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:59.440 Oh yeah, that would be cool. 0:09:01.559 --> 0:09:05.599 Slide in our DMS. Someone slid in our DMS and 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.400 he's still in that like little box. Did you open it? 0:09:08.480 --> 0:09:08.920 I don't want to. 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.360 I thought you would I looked at it, but I'm 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.360 not going to open it. I'm gonna leave him there. 0:09:14.280 --> 0:09:16.719 I hate seeing that one in the corner. It's like 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:22.760 it like kills me. I'm like, oh, like OCD remember, yeah, No, 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:27.480 we're just not doing that. Well maybe I don't know. 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:30.240 It's just never anybody like I want to where are 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:32.000 the fine men that slide in the d ms? 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:32.599 Where are you? 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.000 I feel like little boys slide on our dms. He 0:09:35.080 --> 0:09:36.560 did look like he looked like he was like, well, 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.160 nineteen years old. Remember that the other one that like 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:39.200 kept messaging us too. 0:09:39.320 --> 0:09:41.600 He was like, yeah, he was like twelve. That twelve 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:42.800 probably the same age as. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:47.360 They're probably looking for hashtags like mills probably are. 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.600 And the fact that we're hashtagging MILF, Oh my god, 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:52.480 who are we old ladies? 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.280 What else? Listen? We even have brot. 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:04.920 I typed out notes, but clearly I was high or 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:06.760 something because I was looking for these. 0:10:08.280 --> 0:10:09.199 They are bad. 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:14.520 They help, It helps, It's helpful, no, And I mean 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:17.520 we're trying to be more organized, you know, I have. 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.400 We have a lot going on all the time, and 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:22.520 sometimes you just need things to be laid out for you. 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:25.000 But you need to find time to do that. Apparently 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:27.520 Jamila found that last night at four am, so thank you. 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:33.079 So there four am the notes. Did you see the 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:34.800 whole Nike and I thing. 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:38.439 Of course I did, because it's all over in my 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.960 feed and everywhere, because it's the most important. 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:44.320 Thing going on in the world right now. My thing 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.360 is is does Nike actually care? 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:47.880 No, of course not. 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:50.199 They were trying to insert themselves and look like the 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.160 better brand, is what I'm saying. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:55.000 I mean, it's like, oh, it's like this ongoing rivalry night. 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.880 I mean, it's datas was winning for a minute. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:10:59.520 It's obviously. 0:11:00.440 --> 0:11:07.360 Like a well thought out publicity controversial, controversial publicity thing. 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:07.599 You know. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.640 But you think between both of them, or you think, oh, 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.480 I think like as far as Nike caring, I think 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:16.679 like maybe maybe not. 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.319 Somebody cared, someone pitched it, someone knew even more that 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:21.760 it would be talked about, and. 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:23.679 At the end of the day, Colin Kaepernick agreed to 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:25.400 do it, so he must have felt like they cared, 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:26.280 you know what I mean. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.280 It is not a man that does some no, but 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.440 he's also a businessman and at the end of the day, 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:34.240 the message is greater then whoever, you know, he has 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:36.360 an agenda, and I think that's great. And obviously we 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.320 know where his but you know why not I would 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:39.000 do it too. 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:43.719 Yeah, I know it's true, it's true. The agenda is 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:44.640 to inspire. 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:45.040 I hope. 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.800 I mean, obviously there's always money is always the agenda too, 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:49.640 but to inspire because and. 0:11:49.760 --> 0:11:52.280 To reach and Nike ed was going to reach how 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:52.880 many people? 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:55.240 That message is going to be so profound and reach 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:57.400 so many more people than he could without the endorsement. 0:11:57.520 --> 0:12:03.840 So on your face in the camera, Oh okay, com side, 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:10.079 mm hm, oh what else is going on? 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:17.760 And then oh yeah, this is so mean, like's silly, silly, 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:21.120 fifty bullying Floyd Mayweather again. 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:24.520 No, why they need to stop. I didn't even see that. 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:27.760 I don't even when I see anything about that, I 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:30.199 just zone out because they're both dumb as fuck. I mean, 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:33.400 fifty cents not dumb, but he's just mean and Floyd 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.640 is just red talented but dumb. 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:39.120 No, they both have their flaws, all right, Like, okay, 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:40.599 we're not gonna talk about that. No, I want to 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:42.400 know what did he say? Now? I don't know what 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:43.240 the fuck did you say? 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.760 So you know, everybody's remixing the ad, the Black and 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:48.160 White ad. 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:51.800 But I believe in something, or even if it makes 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:55.319 Colin Kaepernick. Yeah, believe in something, even if it means 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:56.480 sacrificing everything. 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:01.280 Yeah, anyway, fifty one of Floyd and then it says 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:16.120 I need to stork. Oh, I don't even know it's 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:22.400 that funny. It's it's totally fed up. But it's stupid. 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:25.959 It's just dumb at this point because they're both grown 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.080 children like man babies. 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:35.960 Okay, yeah, ridiculous. A more important note, Uh, I. 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:38.559 Have a question, Smatt, which one would you rather fifty 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:39.680 for Floyd? 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:40.040 Oh? 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:42.800 God, mm. 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:49.480 Ill right, no, right, I mean not ill. I think 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.880 I'd rather have sex with fifty. 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:58.439 I was. I think I think I was part of 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.160 me say like fifty because you know I love it. 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:05.120 But he's like an like he's like a dick. I 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:07.280 feel like you know what I really think. I think 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.240 in realize he's probably like such a I think. I 0:14:10.360 --> 0:14:13.640 hope so he's got to be. But I can you 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:16.800 think Floyd's sweet? I know, but I know what he is. 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:20.200 You know he doesn't. This is who he is. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:22.760 Plus I might get like a bag out of it 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:26.040 if he ain't buying ship fifty is not buying any 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:27.880 bitch for anything. 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.760 I don't care what your Yeah a bitch, you can't 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:36.080 get it now. Yeah, look, he has a tribe of 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:36.680 woman once. 0:14:36.760 --> 0:14:39.880 You know, I'm all about the polygamy and I'm all 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.080 about the sister wife life. 0:14:42.560 --> 0:14:47.120 I've never had one for it and for it. 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.640 But yeah, at least he takes care of those care 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.640 of those women. For the exception that the couple that 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:54.920 he abused. 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:56.920 Yeah exactly. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.400 I'm like, you know what, I'll probably get like a 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.360 limited Chanel bag out of this. 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.760 You're not a limited edition? Yeah, I'm so gad. 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:06.560 I mean, like I would get a small one and 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:09.360 a limited edition and he returned the limited edition for 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:09.840 the money. 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:12.920 He's cute. I mean, he's all right, you know, I smile. 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:15.160 Short guy, he is short. 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:18.520 That's the thing. Sometimes they have I know, I think 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.600 he does. I think he does too, and fifty may not. 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:23.800 I think fifty does too. 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:25.040 I don't know. 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:27.840 It's a mystery. 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:29.800 I'm sure we could google dick pics. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:31.120 If both of them, we can probably find him on 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:32.240 the internet, like the dick. 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:34.320 In print, like on the pant pic. Because not everyone 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:36.720 has Oh Floyd didn't have a sex kick dude, No, 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:37.920 I don't think so. 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:41.920 Just spreading rumors. We sound like old mills. Like maybe 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:48.040 we could google that, Google Floyd's Erica. I know we 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.440 could too, get on the line. 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.080 I'm going to google that right now. Oh my goodness, 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:58.920 I actually am really interested in fifty cents penis? What 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:00.120 what is that? 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:04.960 Looked like? Fifty cents penis? Oh there's a tip? What wait? 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:09.480 Fifty cents penis made its television debut last night. Oh 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:11.200 yeah it was. It was on the show. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:13.320 Look what. 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:21.480 Go google fifty cents penis right now, y'all you will 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:25.760 see the tip. That's all he's showing. But it looks thick. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:31.960 It looks thick. Yeah, but it's real, That's what I'm saying. 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:34.440 Do you think that was by mistake and ship by mistake? 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:38.920 I think maybe that's fake, right, Like they did that 0:16:39.000 --> 0:16:41.160 on purpose. It's not even a real dick. It's TV. 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:41.680 They're not. 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:44.160 Who's not going to edit past a huge penis in 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:46.160 someone's hand? I mean, now I hear like girthy. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:48.360 Definitely girtsy guys. 0:16:49.360 --> 0:16:53.000 Anyway, Oh, he said fifty cent admits a fake penis? 0:16:53.440 --> 0:16:56.000 Oh yeah, damn it. That's so lame. You should have 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:59.880 just went on with the lie. You right, so stupid? 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:02.400 Did you wait? 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.640 Did I'm talking about this last week speaking of penises, 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:09.120 Safari is actually replicating his dick with a sex toy 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:10.639 company and distributing it. 0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:11.399 Is it? 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.840 I kind of want it, I kind of want Oh 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:17.159 my god, I was kind of turned on when I 0:17:17.200 --> 0:17:18.720 saw his dick. I'm not even gonna lie. Like he 0:17:18.800 --> 0:17:22.119 got sexier to me me too, I mean corn but 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:24.280 still he's also. 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:27.760 Like sensitive, like I want I know, like. 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:31.280 That's so sweet, Like I don't want to be your wife, 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:33.520 but like that's really cute that, like I will have 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:37.000 definitely probably yeah, just because you said that I might. 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:40.120 Find you, maybe I'll be I don't know. I don't 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:42.600 see that like matching first. Maybe I don't know. 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:48.199 I could be cute Brooklyn And. 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:52.280 Hey, Safari, that's. 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:55.280 The next we're gonna creep in so far as you 0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:55.720 know how. 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.640 I'm sure his d ms are endless. 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:02.560 Oh my god, I'm sure his dms are crazy, just 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:06.720 from the dms that Van showed us of girls, like 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:08.920 I know, Safaris are even off more off the chain 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.560 just because he promotes himself sexually. 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.760 I mean, I just in real life consider it if 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:20.359 we should really seriously group into his DMS. I was like, 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:22.720 we should just try, because I'm like, no, it's going 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:23.560 too many homes. 0:18:27.359 --> 0:18:30.160 Even harboring this secret now. I thought about it right now. 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:32.359 It was my high thought alone over here. 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:37.439 I just shared it honestly after seeing like a preview 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:41.040 of what Van gets in his DMS. Shout out to 0:18:41.119 --> 0:18:42.639 Van Leathan if you listen to her. He was on 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:45.240 our last episode and he was the first male guest. 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:47.360 We had a good time chatting first single male guest 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:49.840 or a single male guest. Yes, chatting with Van, and 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:55.200 he is hilarious. He's crazy, a bit crazy, but I 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:55.760 love him. 0:18:57.880 --> 0:19:01.119 Anyway. His DMS gave me like I was like, oh, 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:02.639 this is what's happening in DMS. 0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:04.880 And you know what I thought about immediately, I was like, Wow, 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:08.520 my baby daddy's DMS must have been or must be 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:11.159 off the fucking chain. And I when I was in 0:19:11.200 --> 0:19:13.440 that relationship, I just like didn't think about it. I 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:15.600 just like tuned it out. Oh my god, Like it 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:18.320 wasn't something that stressed me out. But now that I've 0:19:18.400 --> 0:19:21.679 seen like evidence of what a DM like it can 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:22.119 look like. 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:25.320 I feel like a man. Like a man's DM is 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:29.880 a bit more aggressive. Are women just more aggressive than men? Actually? Yeah, 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:30.480 that's what I mean. 0:19:30.640 --> 0:19:33.359 Yeah, because men I don't I've never got I've gotten 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:37.840 like two dick pics. Ever, Yeah, same, So I don't know, 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:40.800 I don't want dick pics. 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:41.480 It's a turn off. 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:44.560 I do not want a fucking dick pic in my 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:49.160 Instagram at all. Like, I just don't like dickpics. 0:19:49.480 --> 0:19:54.359 They just don't do it. I mean, I guess I 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.359 do like dickpics. I liked his dick pic, but I. 0:19:57.400 --> 0:20:01.760 Don't like unexpected me too warranted dick pics. Okay, which 0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:05.359 you ask for? Which brings us to today's topic. 0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:11.760 Turn offs, and of course, on the opposite side, the 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:12.240 turn on. 0:20:14.240 --> 0:20:17.520 So speaking of pics, first of all, guys, let me 0:20:17.640 --> 0:20:19.640 just I've said this before, let me just say it again. 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:27.840 Women do not want unrequested photos of you. 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:31.879 If I ask for a picture, let me see what 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:33.640 you're doing right now or something, don't. 0:20:33.760 --> 0:20:35.119 I don't know, I don't really want you to just 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.800 send anyone, especially if you make i don't know, like 0:20:37.880 --> 0:20:42.920 a stupid selfie face. Actually maybe I'm like I kind 0:20:42.960 --> 0:20:46.560 of like sometimes my boyfriend says, yeah, you're a man. 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:52.159 But if it's like if you're just dating someone and 0:20:52.280 --> 0:20:54.400 he just if you just start sending a bitch pictures 0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:58.560 for no goddamn reason shirtless, it's very like it's not 0:20:58.680 --> 0:21:02.240 a turn on, it's a turn off. Like Also, do 0:21:02.400 --> 0:21:07.639 not do any selfie like dancing videos. Pucker on your lips, 0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:11.320 and don't put that hand over your back. 0:21:12.920 --> 0:21:16.080 That armpit on armpit model armpit pose where you put 0:21:16.119 --> 0:21:19.840 your hand and you stretch like you're cratching like arch 0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:20.879 your back and you're. 0:21:20.760 --> 0:21:23.600 Selfie at that moment. Don't do it. If you come gay, 0:21:23.960 --> 0:21:26.359 it's not even a good cut. It's not even gay. 0:21:26.440 --> 0:21:28.240 It's just like it's just I also don't want to 0:21:28.240 --> 0:21:31.040 see your fucking armpit, Like I don't want to see 0:21:31.080 --> 0:21:32.920 your fucking hairy ass armpits. 0:21:32.640 --> 0:21:33.359 Next to your face. 0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:35.760 It's not the armpit that bothers me so much as 0:21:35.840 --> 0:21:38.440 it is just like that you thought out this selfie, 0:21:38.440 --> 0:21:40.720 you probably take it more than once to get it 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:42.720 just right, and then you posted it like, yeah, this 0:21:42.800 --> 0:21:44.040 is for the ladies. 0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:46.840 Or for her. She don't like this. 0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:49.479 That's never the l And definitely not send a dig 0:21:49.560 --> 0:21:54.480 pic without being asked, because that's very aggressive unless you 0:21:54.600 --> 0:21:57.600 have a dick like Safaris, in which case continue. 0:21:58.480 --> 0:22:00.520 But you know some people think I have a dick 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:03.000 like Safaris, Well they need Obviously they wouldn't just send 0:22:03.040 --> 0:22:04.119 a dick pic if they didn't think that. 0:22:04.280 --> 0:22:06.800 Dick was like killing the game. I don't know. I've 0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:10.040 been said that they had to think they were doing something. 0:22:10.119 --> 0:22:11.800 I'm not setting up. I'm not going to be set 0:22:11.800 --> 0:22:13.159 in a dick pic. If I have a dick and 0:22:13.240 --> 0:22:15.399 I know it's small, I sending it. You have to 0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:19.480 find out about this dick later, after I gave you 0:22:19.600 --> 0:22:20.720 some like yeah, after. 0:22:23.280 --> 0:22:24.280 Then we can talk about this. 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:27.280 Dick that sucks for guys. Women kind of can work 0:22:27.320 --> 0:22:31.640 with what they got, you know, dressed it up. Speaking 0:22:31.720 --> 0:22:34.840 of arm pits, I kind of like armpits. Do you 0:22:35.440 --> 0:22:38.400 like sometimes I want to nestle my face if you like, okay? 0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:40.400 For I like men that really smell good. 0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:45.200 It has like always smells delicious, like always like you 0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:50.720 just get the peromones. Yeah, I like that. I don't 0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:52.960 ever want to smell any man's armpit, but I like. 0:22:53.040 --> 0:22:54.560 Nestle my face in the arm pit. 0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:55.320 Like. 0:22:57.560 --> 0:23:01.200 Stop, I'm weird. 0:23:01.680 --> 0:23:04.720 I don't want to wrestle any face in any armpit, 0:23:05.520 --> 0:23:07.600 but I will nestle my face all up in your 0:23:07.640 --> 0:23:10.320 face and your neck. Like I was like, I used 0:23:10.359 --> 0:23:12.639 to do this Max, and I put my face on 0:23:12.840 --> 0:23:15.760 his cheek and just smell it and he would be like, 0:23:15.840 --> 0:23:16.960 what the fuck are you doing? 0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:20.720 And I'm like, you just have like just he had 0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:22.680 a scent. It was like I was so attracted to 0:23:22.760 --> 0:23:25.520 his scent. I don't know if anyone else else does 0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:30.200 that weird ship, but I like beards. I have a type. 0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:37.680 Go on Jamila's instagram again at Mila underscar Mapo. You 0:23:37.760 --> 0:23:40.240 would like to see her type, because every time we're out, 0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:41.879 she'd be like, oh he's cute. I'm like, okay, that 0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:43.880 looks just like I'm. 0:23:43.760 --> 0:23:47.680 Like, you just love light skin beard and man I 0:23:47.800 --> 0:23:51.200 do it's is it? Is it a crap? 0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:53.800 Yeah? 0:23:54.000 --> 0:23:56.119 I like a like a lot. I definitely have a 0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:56.560 type too. 0:23:56.800 --> 0:24:00.320 I also like white boys, like white boys with us 0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:02.840 and beards, Like white boys with buns and beards. 0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:09.960 I like that, like dude hair kind of like white boy. Look, 0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:13.320 I hate that. I like clean cut white boy. I 0:24:13.400 --> 0:24:15.280 showed you the other white boy who is in my TMS. 0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:15.880 He was fine. 0:24:15.920 --> 0:24:19.840 Now with the dreads, he's fine, but he's obviously the 0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:23.000 fact that he does hair like shrips me the fuck out. 0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:26.800 This naggad is a white with dreadlocks and just dreading. 0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:30.320 He dreads other people's hair. He's very and doesn't cut. 0:24:30.760 --> 0:24:35.200 He's very soulful, you know, like but abound the ver naked. 0:24:35.240 --> 0:24:37.359 He sent me pictures of him in the river naked, 0:24:38.480 --> 0:24:41.240 stainting his whole body, and he's like, you know, got 0:24:41.760 --> 0:24:42.480 cool dreads. 0:24:42.680 --> 0:24:45.520 Does you know roster ship with his friends. Maybe that's 0:24:45.560 --> 0:24:48.399 the kind of white boy like yeah, I mean, if 0:24:48.440 --> 0:24:52.240 that's he's living his true authentic self. Yeah. I also 0:24:52.320 --> 0:24:55.680 dated an Asian guy. He was like Asian white who's 0:24:55.720 --> 0:24:58.879 from Oakland. He was, uh, this is this is how 0:24:58.920 --> 0:24:59.840 you know it's back in the day. 0:25:00.800 --> 0:25:03.760 He is a really good guitar player, but at the 0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.320 time it's Kisha Cole's guitar player. And I was working 0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:08.240 at Whole Foods and I met him and he had dreads. 0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:11.320 He's like, yeah, like you know, like Atlanta's Chocolate City. 0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:20.160 Oh my as like pretending number. Yeah, he was kind 0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:22.399 of sexy. I guess I have even a type when 0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:24.399 it comes to yeah, I have types. 0:25:24.760 --> 0:25:27.240 M Yeah, I was. I was making fun of Meala. 0:25:27.280 --> 0:25:28.920 I was like, bitch, you don't like white girls with drugs, 0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:32.439 but you like white boys with dreads. She's like, it's different. 0:25:34.480 --> 0:25:36.520 I mean, I say, you don't like white girls with dreads. 0:25:36.840 --> 0:25:37.760 No white it's annoying. 0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:41.280 It annoys me. It both both annoyed me. Like I'm committed. 0:25:41.359 --> 0:25:45.359 I'm committed to both. I'm equally exclusive. 0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.280 I don't really give a fuck about the hair shit 0:25:48.359 --> 0:25:48.959 like whatever. 0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:53.080 You don't get annoyed when people like when white girls 0:25:53.119 --> 0:25:54.440 get like cornrows. 0:25:54.000 --> 0:25:56.600 And ship, okay, just depends on what kind of white girl. 0:25:56.680 --> 0:25:59.440 It is, like there's a really annoying type of white 0:25:59.480 --> 0:26:03.040 girl that wants really badly to be ethnic. 0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:07.159 Like I know because I have like an associate like this. 0:26:09.840 --> 0:26:12.160 And she's cool, but then you start to notice things 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:15.440 like she gets drunk and starts singing nigga and like, 0:26:16.040 --> 0:26:18.560 I don't know, it's just annoying. And there's certain things 0:26:19.480 --> 0:26:21.919 it's like I don't know if it's authentic stuff. 0:26:21.960 --> 0:26:23.400 I wanted this hair doo, I wasn't. 0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:26.800 I don't know who like whatever, but there are really annoying, 0:26:26.960 --> 0:26:29.840 wanna trying way too hard white girls that are like 0:26:30.160 --> 0:26:33.680 totally oblivious to the culture. But like I mean, you know, 0:26:33.800 --> 0:26:37.040 like I take it four black guys hip hop for life. 0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:43.240 Oh my god, shout out to white girls, we. 0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:44.960 Love you all my friends. 0:26:45.640 --> 0:26:48.960 Sounds so racist, you know how like white people say 0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:52.560 my best friend is black, I have like or like 0:26:52.640 --> 0:26:53.960 a what are you talking about? 0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:54.720 I have a gay aunt. 0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:56.000 People. 0:26:56.040 --> 0:27:02.000 You're about to say all my friends are white? Oh god, 0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:03.320 I mean it like they. 0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:10.800 Yeah. Anyways, speaking of hair, I don't like when when 0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:13.600 men shave their pubes off, like when they shave all 0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:14.400 their hair. 0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:19.159 Around their penis. I don't really care, but it just 0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:20.800 like you have a lot of time on your hands, 0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:24.159 but it's too much time. And then when I get 0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:28.600 to you, it's it's prickly. It's like I just just 0:27:28.680 --> 0:27:29.960 let it curl. Let it curl. 0:27:30.320 --> 0:27:32.280 I like like a low just like a low cut. 0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:33.160 It could be low. 0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:35.080 But I don't like shave. I don't want to see 0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.000 your skin. You do not want to see the rest 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:40.760 of your skin around your penis. Yeah, my ex used 0:27:40.760 --> 0:27:44.359 to do that, and he used to shave completely, and 0:27:45.840 --> 0:27:48.920 well not my baby daddy, but another ex. 0:27:52.960 --> 0:27:56.159 Right, I was like, ask you about that in the 0:27:56.240 --> 0:28:02.000 car oh my god, No, no, no, not him, and 0:28:02.040 --> 0:28:03.600 he's to shave it all. And at first I did, 0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:06.240 I liked it, but then I just was like, it's 0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:07.879 just I don't know, it's just. 0:28:08.359 --> 0:28:11.520 I feel like makes it look like porn. A porn 0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:14.280 guy I sucked with for a long time, he was 0:28:14.359 --> 0:28:16.520 always well shaved. I don't know if because he was 0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.000 working sometimes or if that was what he's used to. 0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.520 I also noticed he never wore underwear, which was very peculiar, 0:28:22.680 --> 0:28:24.800 like even in jeans, which I don't know why. I 0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:27.199 think it's peculiar because I don't wear panties ever. I mean, 0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.800 I'm wearing some right now for the first time, but 0:28:32.000 --> 0:28:33.760 I have to wear pant A guy that doesn't wear 0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:36.000 boxers or anything, it is like are you just ready? 0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:37.600 I mean, I don't know. It was very porn like. 0:28:37.600 --> 0:28:39.760 It was very poorny of him, but he wasn't wearing 0:28:40.280 --> 0:28:42.120 she doesn't. He doesn't wear boxers. He would just have 0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:43.560 jeans on it pull like pull. 0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:50.720 I felt like it would smell needs like some barrier 0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:53.240 jeans are like hot. 0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:57.360 I thought it was so rub rub r. I just 0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:00.680 thought it was because he was like used to doing porn. 0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:01.880 He didn't wear underwear. 0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:04.960 I'm gonna ask him about that. We're we're really good friends. 0:29:04.960 --> 0:29:06.960 I'm not him for like fifteen years. I'm gonna ask, like, 0:29:07.800 --> 0:29:11.760 are were underwe He's like, he's actually a pretty big 0:29:12.240 --> 0:29:18.960 porn star. Justin Slayer, justin Justin Slayer. But I met 0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:20.680 him when I was like in high school. I lied 0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:23.000 about my age. I was sixteen when I was eighteen, 0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:27.320 and we been like friends for so long. He's like 0:29:27.560 --> 0:29:30.160 a calm for advice about my mom. And then we 0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:33.080 also done some really weird freaky shit together too. 0:29:33.400 --> 0:29:37.520 Okay, but now he went to Africa. 0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:40.440 For eight years and now he's like very low key religious. 0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:43.320 Oh and then oh he told me about that. It's 0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:46.000 so interesting. Is he still porn star? Don't know? 0:29:46.240 --> 0:29:47.280 No, I mean he's old now. 0:29:47.360 --> 0:29:48.880 I mean I met him he was thirty four. He's 0:29:48.920 --> 0:29:50.480 like forty Seve bad or something. He has a daughter 0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:51.120 who's like eighteen. 0:29:52.640 --> 0:29:55.800 But I thought I thought that was very interesting that 0:29:55.920 --> 0:29:58.000 his lifestyle, because he was the first person who introduced 0:29:58.040 --> 0:30:00.440 me to like this open like made me feel. 0:30:00.760 --> 0:30:02.520 I was like, oh my god, there's people like me. 0:30:03.600 --> 0:30:05.120 I was. I got in the car, I was like, 0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:06.560 pick me up. I don't know where. My parents were 0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:08.680 in a range rover, me and my cousin in front 0:30:08.680 --> 0:30:09.280 of my house. 0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:12.800 And of course, because we all did that weird crazy 0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:14.120 shit and got in cars with older men. 0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:18.920 Yeah, like totally totally irresponsible, dumb shit. And I was 0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:21.320 with my older cousin who's totally with it, and. 0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:22.960 I said, do you have a girlfriend? And he is like, 0:30:23.040 --> 0:30:24.440 I have the many, I have a lot of girlfriends. 0:30:24.520 --> 0:30:26.320 Maybe you want to be one? And I was like, 0:30:26.840 --> 0:30:31.959 I'm in love. Then I fell in love. Yeah, oh 0:30:32.040 --> 0:30:32.320 my god. 0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:35.120 He took us to like a swinger spot. I was 0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:39.239 in high school wilding out, and I'm like, why am 0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:39.800 I a freak? 0:30:40.320 --> 0:30:44.240 This is why I get? Is this normal? Exposed very early? 0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:45.320 Is this normal? Oh my god? 0:30:45.320 --> 0:30:48.440 I'm looking at Jamila's notes. She has like exclamation points 0:30:48.480 --> 0:30:53.160 next to things I do, parentheses, like abbreviations, Like I 0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:56.320 don't know how to read some of this, so it 0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:57.480 doesn't even make any sense. 0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:01.240 We should leave youse? Oh wait, I stabled it? 0:31:02.120 --> 0:31:03.000 What else? Return on? 0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:06.880 Well, I have a new discovery of a turn on 0:31:06.960 --> 0:31:12.480 that I like. She's late curved penis. Curved penis, guys, 0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:17.000 that's I highly recommend that you get a guy like 0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:18.840 watch Men, like that be the new like rave of 0:31:18.880 --> 0:31:19.560 plastic surgery. 0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:24.400 Like no, it's really a thing, and it's so funny 0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:28.400 that you you experienced it like recently, because I remember I. 0:31:28.560 --> 0:31:39.160 Told you someone googled it some Yeah, good old Google Google. 0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:42.600 So if you google it does say the curved penis 0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:46.080 is designed to hit the G spot and hit spots 0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:47.880 that the straight penis just cannot hit. 0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:54.120 Yeah, this is true. So this is our endorsement for 0:31:57.080 --> 0:31:59.760 go get you one, don't get you one. Cursed penis skill. 0:31:59.800 --> 0:32:03.920 Get curved penis dot com. Try it up. I wonder 0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:10.040 if they have like curved penis vibrators. They should you 0:32:10.120 --> 0:32:10.440 touch that? 0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:10.920 I can hear this. 0:32:11.200 --> 0:32:15.040 Oh, they should have curved penis vibrators. 0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.360 That is a thing. Notes. Wait, we need to write 0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:20.960 that down, merchants. We might have to blur this whole 0:32:21.560 --> 0:32:22.360 section out. 0:32:22.360 --> 0:32:24.840 As First of all, I'm positive it exists. 0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:26.600 I'm sure. No, I don't think it does. 0:32:26.680 --> 0:32:28.520 I don't I would have seen it at a sex shot. 0:32:29.200 --> 0:32:31.080 Have you ever seen a curved penis at a sex shot? 0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:33.040 Maybe it was like a hook, like a hook. 0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:41.120 I don't know, young baby has a hook? Okay, oh, 0:32:42.040 --> 0:32:45.600 I put on the list filthy mouth. I love a 0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:49.960 man with a filthy fucking mouth, like a dirty talking mouth. 0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:53.360 Like I like someone who could talk talk nasty good. 0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:56.160 Does that make sense? And it may talk nasty good, 0:32:57.880 --> 0:32:58.680 I mean like talk. 0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:01.960 Dirty, Like who's good at talking dirty in the bedroom. 0:33:02.480 --> 0:33:03.120 That's what I mean. 0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:06.080 And that's a lot of effort effort to get out. 0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:08.880 I like a man that can talk dirty too. 0:33:09.000 --> 0:33:11.200 But I think you will like it to another level 0:33:11.280 --> 0:33:13.200 because when you were explaining this to me, you were like, 0:33:13.480 --> 0:33:13.920 I like a. 0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:19.600 Filthy, dirty, dirty dirty fuck. It was like, God, damn you. 0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:21.800 Actually when we were by the pool, you were you 0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:24.120 were like doing some shit with your tongue to like 0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:25.320 show some shit you like. 0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:28.600 It's like, damn, Jamal's really talk she's really gone for 0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:33.880 I do not recall doing anything with my tongue you 0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:37.320 did or whatever. And when we're talking to the sister 0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:41.880 or my girlfriend, what uh. 0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:43.520 What. 0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:47.080 I don't like though, I would just on the other side, 0:33:47.240 --> 0:33:48.959 if you don't know how to talk filthy, or if 0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:50.880 you're just not a good dirty talker, just. 0:33:50.920 --> 0:33:54.840 Don't talk at all, Like the fuck up, just don't 0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:55.360 say anything. 0:33:55.880 --> 0:33:58.400 Just stick to ooz in us because these are some 0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:00.719 things you don't say during sex. I really hate when 0:34:00.760 --> 0:34:03.240 guys say cock. It makes me feel like you watch 0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:04.360 a lot of white porn. 0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:07.960 Cock and put my cock. You know, that's really great. 0:34:10.760 --> 0:34:12.279 That's such a disgusting word too. 0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:19.799 Also, this is so hard to have, Like, never mind, 0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.360 let me just not incriminate myself. 0:34:23.480 --> 0:34:27.320 Butthole. Don't say butthole. No one says just like, but 0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.480 say butthole, butole? 0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:31.000 I heard. 0:34:31.040 --> 0:34:33.239 But if you want to do it in the ass, 0:34:33.840 --> 0:34:36.160 say I want to. I want to put it in 0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:39.799 your butt. Don't you put it in your but I'm 0:34:39.840 --> 0:34:43.799 going to be Oh my god. 0:34:43.880 --> 0:34:45.880 My friend was hooking up this guy from London and 0:34:46.080 --> 0:34:48.040 she said that He's like, I want to put. 0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.280 It in your bum. Oh, it's so cute. 0:34:50.560 --> 0:34:52.799 I know, it sounds like the little kid is asking you, though, 0:34:52.880 --> 0:34:56.000 I like to put it in your bum, touch your bum? 0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:57.359 You like that when I do it to your bum? 0:34:57.600 --> 0:35:00.560 I like that bum, math your bum. I kind of 0:35:00.719 --> 0:35:00.880 like it. 0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:06.760 I'm actually I'm going to London, and we're going to London, 0:35:06.840 --> 0:35:10.080 and I pray to God. I pray that whoever whoever 0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:12.680 I connect with out there, if and when, does not 0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:15.919 use the word bumb when I would hope that that's 0:35:16.000 --> 0:35:19.879 so when talking about my ass, give me that fat 0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:22.799 bumb a look a bit juicy bumb oh. 0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:30.560 Also, speaking of words, not to say, never, ever, ever, 0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:31.040 should a. 0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:35.040 Grown man refer to his penis as a peep. I 0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:36.280 went out with this doctor. 0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:39.760 He literally has to be forty seven years old at minimum, 0:35:40.360 --> 0:35:43.360 and he's telling me his story how he got a 0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:46.759 surgery and he was struggling because he was having a 0:35:46.800 --> 0:35:49.480 retail dysfunction because the surgery. 0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:51.279 He needed to get in his hip blah blah blah blah. 0:35:51.640 --> 0:35:55.080 So then he got the best surgeon in this Christate area. 0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:57.600 And when he showed up to the surgery, there was 0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:00.960 two women there and he was like, oh no, this 0:36:01.120 --> 0:36:02.960 is how he told the story to me. And I 0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:04.680 was like, oh no, they're going to see my peepee. 0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:08.480 And I was like, like the music stuff, Like I'm like, 0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:15.560 what did you just say your pee pee? Not only 0:36:15.640 --> 0:36:20.640 are you a hundred, you are a physician, you're a doctor. 0:36:21.280 --> 0:36:23.680 Why the fuck are you referring to your penis as 0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:26.560 a peepee and a regular? And I said that to 0:36:26.640 --> 0:36:27.919 him in the middle of the story, like I didn't 0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:30.239 even ask about the surgery. I was like, why are 0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:32.800 you calling your people? Did you just say peepee? 0:36:33.560 --> 0:36:35.640 He's like, you know, because it's you know. I was 0:36:35.680 --> 0:36:37.640 just I wasn't expecting that it's my peep. 0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:41.600 Oh girl, I almost died. 0:36:42.080 --> 0:36:47.000 I can't. So, yeah, I've never experienced that. I hope 0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:47.880 that never happens. 0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:52.640 But I did experience experience something similar recently in my DMS. 0:36:52.320 --> 0:36:52.799 With this guy. 0:36:52.920 --> 0:36:55.080 But I've been chatting actually, oh my god. He's from 0:36:55.120 --> 0:36:58.560 London and I've known him forever. We had sex literally 0:36:58.640 --> 0:36:59.759 like probably ten years ago. 0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:02.760 Thing, and you know, we've been we kept. 0:37:02.640 --> 0:37:04.520 In touch ever since, and he's always had this fit. 0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:07.880 We've always like we flirt or whatever. So recently he 0:37:08.040 --> 0:37:10.520 was messaging me and like, I don't know. He said 0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:12.040 something like, oh, do you know what I would do 0:37:12.160 --> 0:37:13.120 to you? And I was like, what would you do 0:37:13.200 --> 0:37:15.000 to me? We've never talked like dirty ever. It's like 0:37:15.040 --> 0:37:17.320 the first time. I was like, what would you do? 0:37:18.120 --> 0:37:20.080 And he was like, I put my salami in you 0:37:20.239 --> 0:37:27.960 and I wouldn't pull out. And I'm like, salami, his salami. 0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:31.040 And now he's not gonna pull out that salami. He's 0:37:31.080 --> 0:37:32.640 gonna put his salami in me. 0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.759 Bitch. I was like, well, this is is this is why? 0:37:37.200 --> 0:37:43.560 No he's black, Yes, that was worst. 0:37:44.640 --> 0:37:47.520 He's gonna put his I guess the salamis are dark, 0:37:47.840 --> 0:37:51.320 like no, no, no, I would be like, I'm age, 0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:52.160 I would have liked. 0:37:52.160 --> 0:37:54.480 Egg clam more than salami, Like what. 0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:58.160 Just fucking refer to your goddamn penis as your goddamn penis. 0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:00.759 I think of salami, think of it being chopped up 0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:04.000 like it's just I get a lot of really bad visuals. 0:38:04.040 --> 0:38:05.920 When I heard that word, it was like it triggered me. 0:38:06.000 --> 0:38:08.319 I was like, hell, no, you don't want to put 0:38:08.320 --> 0:38:09.799 a slot man your pissy, So now we're not. I'm 0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:10.759 not saying him when I go out there. 0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:15.840 There's no way, uh. I. 0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:21.759 I don't like guys that I have like limited palettes 0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:24.600 of like foods they can eat like I want. 0:38:25.239 --> 0:38:28.160 I don't like sushi. I just want chicken wings and chickens. 0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:28.680 I don't like. 0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:32.960 I don't know, you don't, bitch, you want all all 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:36.400 the chicken, fried rice, shrimp, steaksters. 0:38:37.000 --> 0:38:39.799 I really like food, and I like seafood and ship 0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:41.920 and I'm like plassy meals and I don't want you 0:38:42.000 --> 0:38:44.440 to embarrass me at a good restaurant by asking for 0:38:44.560 --> 0:38:47.600 some bullshit I also don't want. Oh, I also don't 0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:50.279 want a man to order a motherfucking Long Island iced tea. 0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:56.280 I also would prefer he also not drink anything colored? 0:38:56.840 --> 0:39:01.520 Do you mean colored? Like blue? Like? 0:39:01.719 --> 0:39:01.759 What? 0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:02.680 Like Fanta? 0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:04.359 Like what I mean? 0:39:05.160 --> 0:39:07.640 You know what that's like? Cool? I like no, no, no, 0:39:07.960 --> 0:39:08.920 I mean like cocktails. 0:39:08.960 --> 0:39:11.040 But now that you know that, you said fanta. My 0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:14.560 EXE used to drink like so much juice, so much soda. 0:39:15.239 --> 0:39:17.320 It annoyed the shit out of me, like drink some 0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:24.120 fucking water. Maybe he just he's a trigger. But yeah, yeah, 0:39:24.280 --> 0:39:26.680 like an unhealthy man. When I if I did an 0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:28.760 unhealthy like a super unhealthy guy. 0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:33.479 I think, oh my god, well, what is your com taste? Like, yeah, 0:39:34.280 --> 0:39:37.680 that's true. It affects it. It plays a part. Yeah, 0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:39.239 even if you eat a lot of meat and like, 0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:44.000 oh my god, you can taste it. 0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:46.120 I don't know, but in my head, it just doesn't 0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:48.480 seem like a good kind Does your boyfriend eat a 0:39:48.520 --> 0:39:48.839 lot of meat? 0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:55.279 Yeah? Yeah? Actually I was like, this is not gonna 0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:58.279 last very long. I need to cook you vegetables. 0:39:58.760 --> 0:39:59.640 Oh my god. 0:40:00.160 --> 0:40:03.799 No. My turn off is. 0:40:07.160 --> 0:40:12.880 Also the way guys design their facial hair. No, seriously, 0:40:12.960 --> 0:40:14.719 like I don't like just like I've seen guys with 0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:15.680 just mustache. 0:40:16.120 --> 0:40:19.200 No, no, this the. 0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:23.480 Mustache is weird. I can't think of guys that I 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:23.800 don't like. 0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:26.839 This just this thing, the one that goes, the one 0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:28.200 that goes all the way around the mouth. 0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:29.160 That would be called a goatee. 0:40:31.280 --> 0:40:33.080 This but just motioning around her mouth. 0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:34.600 This one. 0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:37.279 You know what? The only thing I like is one 0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:38.760 that fully commits. Just get the beard. 0:40:38.880 --> 0:40:41.800 Don't do like some weird ass designs or like or 0:40:41.880 --> 0:40:45.120 this like this, the thin one, the thin goatee. 0:40:46.239 --> 0:40:48.279 Oh my god, that is very I don't like that 0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:50.320 thin shit either. I just like a full I like 0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:50.760 a beard. 0:40:50.840 --> 0:40:51.280 A rough. 0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:55.719 Squavy are looking for you know that one? 0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:56.160 Yeah? 0:40:56.560 --> 0:41:01.879 I like ruffy scruffy. So we thought of this topic 0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:03.800 last night. So like everybody who called me, I was like, 0:41:04.040 --> 0:41:06.040 put some turn on and turn offs. I was in 0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:07.960 a sushi restaurant, like running down and there was all 0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:09.440 these I meaning you forgot, And I was like, how 0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:10.080 did we forget? 0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:11.960 Mama's boys? 0:41:12.520 --> 0:41:15.120 Oh, you want to love your mom. 0:41:15.160 --> 0:41:16.560 You gotta like your mama to take care of her. 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:19.680 But like, don't be like yeah, there's a limit. 0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:22.320 I've never dated one, honestly, so I don't even know 0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:22.759 what that's like. 0:41:23.640 --> 0:41:25.399 You there's a lot of different levels of mama's boy, 0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:30.080 because I think, yeah, I have, and it's like, also, 0:41:30.160 --> 0:41:33.320 a mama who like keeps saving a son is very annoying, 0:41:33.480 --> 0:41:37.640 Like you need to let it go, bitch, he's thirty, 0:41:38.719 --> 0:41:39.480 that's very annoying. 0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:42.279 Well, his mama's boys are usually mama's boys because their 0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:43.759 moms are like that, you know what I mean? 0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:46.839 Yeah, they like that's the one that's actually that's one 0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:49.439 of my fears. Not actually no, because I'm pretty tough. 0:41:50.480 --> 0:41:53.120 I'm a pretty tough bitch parenting wise, but having a 0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:56.719 son and then like, because the weird part is, I 0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:59.680 actually can I can understand how it can happen because 0:41:59.719 --> 0:42:03.239 it's your child and there's no limit to what you'll do. 0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:07.319 But then obviously there's there's doing it to a level 0:42:07.400 --> 0:42:08.520 that handicaps them. 0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:09.640 But then you've. 0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:11.600 Handicapped them, so how do they survive if you don't supplement. 0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:14.200 It's like this fucked up cycle. So yeah, I think 0:42:14.200 --> 0:42:16.640 it's like a huge responsibility to raise a man. 0:42:17.000 --> 0:42:18.040 I take that very serious. 0:42:18.080 --> 0:42:18.719 No, it is. 0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:23.200 Oh, also having roommates. I do not want to fuck 0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:24.560 you at your house with your roommate. 0:42:24.800 --> 0:42:27.000 Oh my god, that's so funny you said that because 0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:33.920 the guy that I'm happy by, yeah, happy bed he 0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:34.840 was like telling me. 0:42:35.239 --> 0:42:37.200 He was like, I'm looking at how I'm looking to 0:42:37.239 --> 0:42:38.680 get it, like move into a new like a new 0:42:38.719 --> 0:42:40.720 place because he lives in he lives in an apartment 0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:43.319 downtown and he's like, I'm looking to get into a house. 0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:46.480 And I was like, oh cool, He's like, yeah, three bedrooms. 0:42:46.480 --> 0:42:48.920 I was like, are you gonna have roommates? And he 0:42:49.040 --> 0:42:54.480 was like no, no, And I was like, I relieve. 0:42:54.560 --> 0:42:56.400 I was like, oh thank god, thank. 0:42:56.200 --> 0:43:04.200 God, Okay, we can still talk. No seriously like no, no, no, no, no, no, 0:43:04.840 --> 0:43:06.640 let's have no let's have no room. 0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:08.640 Yeah, I already have a kid. 0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:11.480 I get when Yeah, I get when you're young. It's 0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:13.600 one thing when you're like in your twenties. Like I'm 0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:15.719 thirty years old. I'm gonna be thirty one next month. 0:43:16.320 --> 0:43:18.400 You cannot have a roommate. I have a four I 0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:20.520 have a three year old going to be four next year. 0:43:20.719 --> 0:43:22.000 No, no roommates. 0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:27.759 Yeah, I mean that's that sounds, I thought. Danielle said, 0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:31.160 and I was like, that's shallowed. Daniell Ellie is expensive. 0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:35.440 She's like, no, I really like Jamella. You wouldn't. 0:43:35.840 --> 0:43:41.320 I was like, you're right, I hate a guy. My 0:43:41.400 --> 0:43:46.440 friend said, in between jobs? Where did she? Where is 0:43:46.800 --> 0:43:51.840 turn the page in between that close? 0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:55.800 Well? You know what? 0:43:56.080 --> 0:44:00.320 Yeah? Wait, no, I know, but not that, she said, Floyd. 0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:04.560 You know what, because we live in LA. This is 0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:09.000 really shallow because I hope to no. Okay, well okay, 0:44:09.600 --> 0:44:13.040 I'm just gonna say it, like an actor that's not 0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:16.520 that successful as an actor in LA is gonna get 0:44:16.600 --> 0:44:18.480 kind of annoyed because you probably do have a roommate, 0:44:19.160 --> 0:44:21.360 and I get it. I want I want that to 0:44:21.400 --> 0:44:24.600 be I'm gonna do it too. But for a man 0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:27.680 like you also have to have some other stream. 0:44:27.440 --> 0:44:28.359 Of income. 0:44:29.880 --> 0:44:35.960 Because now, yeah, Hollywood's competitive place. Yeah, and there's a 0:44:36.000 --> 0:44:39.400 lot of that in LA and there's a lot of 0:44:39.440 --> 0:44:40.200 fake jobs. 0:44:40.400 --> 0:44:44.040 People will legitimately just make sh up in La. 0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:49.799 I'm looking at this listener to y'all, Oh my god, 0:44:50.400 --> 0:44:51.839 I'm sorry, I'm trying to listen to you, but I'm 0:44:51.880 --> 0:44:54.520 over here looking at this selfie taken ass niggas. 0:44:55.920 --> 0:45:04.240 SELFI video. We're literally has written down on not type 0:45:05.800 --> 0:45:06.960 right here, right here. 0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:09.920 He's bad. 0:45:10.000 --> 0:45:13.000 But oh my god, this is another one doesn't know 0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:18.680 mispronounces big words like if you basically if you're not 0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:21.920 that smart, you know, like if you're foreign, that's fun thing. 0:45:22.360 --> 0:45:26.200 But one time, my cousin was on FaceTime with this 0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:28.480 guy and he was trying to get her to come 0:45:28.520 --> 0:45:30.719 to Vegas and he's like, just buy the ticket, y'all, 0:45:30.880 --> 0:45:31.480 just get the ticket. 0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:36.880 I'm I'm a ticket, I'm a I'm gonna refresh you. 0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:44.480 He was trying to go for reimburse, refresh you, a refreshing. 0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:48.040 He started like he was like trying to think it up. 0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:49.960 Yeah first, yeah, I'm. 0:45:52.080 --> 0:45:52.279 Ship. 0:45:52.320 --> 0:45:53.399 I gotta commit to something. 0:45:55.239 --> 0:45:58.080 And this is I mean again, I appreciate the butther 0:45:58.239 --> 0:46:04.000 for trying to go back. That ship was so fucking funny. 0:46:04.800 --> 0:46:07.040 And she was on FaceTime, so you can't like fly. 0:46:09.360 --> 0:46:17.080 Oh my god, like ask that close sorry, asked if 0:46:17.120 --> 0:46:19.560 you have if you're unsure, would rather. 0:46:19.480 --> 0:46:21.160 Some of that, I'll ask what does that mean? 0:46:21.680 --> 0:46:23.399 What are you talking about? Like if I don't know something, 0:46:23.440 --> 0:46:24.200 I don't mind asking. 0:46:26.200 --> 0:46:29.440 I mean, yeah, I mean I think I think we 0:46:29.520 --> 0:46:31.719 can just agree that me and Shamila want and highly 0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:32.640 educated man. 0:46:34.200 --> 0:46:37.480 That's true to ask I does not. Yeah, an email 0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:38.560 crying as naga. 0:46:46.800 --> 0:46:48.520 Is it the weed or is this hilarious? 0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:49.160 I don't know. 0:46:51.520 --> 0:47:00.520 Maybe no, that's those are those those are that's for sure. Yeah, 0:47:00.719 --> 0:47:01.360 I can't do it. 0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:04.920 I do that. Like his instagram you can tell is 0:47:05.040 --> 0:47:07.360 post all the time like someone's taking his photos. Like, 0:47:07.480 --> 0:47:09.279 I don't know why. It's a double standard. Women can 0:47:09.320 --> 0:47:10.560 do that shit. I don't want to see a man 0:47:10.640 --> 0:47:12.480 do that shit. I don't want to ask your homie 0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:14.480 to take like multiple pictures of you. I don't want 0:47:14.520 --> 0:47:18.280 me to leave that for me. Yeah, curate your instagram 0:47:18.360 --> 0:47:20.360 in some other way. Do some shit like post some 0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:24.080 like I don't know, some cute like some like landscape photos. 0:47:24.160 --> 0:47:26.160 I don't know. But I don't want to see your 0:47:26.200 --> 0:47:36.279 fashions every five your fashions. I feel like there's so many. 0:47:36.760 --> 0:47:38.560 There were some that people sent us to. They were 0:47:38.680 --> 0:47:39.919 like one girl. 0:47:41.960 --> 0:47:45.560 One girl said, uh, when he does when he wait 0:47:45.640 --> 0:47:47.880 turn on, when he remembers to put the towel on 0:47:48.120 --> 0:47:49.120 the towel rack. 0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:52.800 I was like, that's a turn on. It probably happens never. 0:47:52.760 --> 0:47:55.160 So I know, like maybe she was traumatized in her past, 0:47:55.200 --> 0:47:57.399 so she's like, oh, baby, when. 0:47:57.320 --> 0:47:59.239 You turn that, when you put that towel in that rack. 0:47:59.560 --> 0:47:59.680 Uh. 0:48:00.760 --> 0:48:02.680 Erica came to the complusion that she really doesn't like 0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:03.360 small balls. 0:48:04.840 --> 0:48:08.640 I don't come on, you know you have has anybody 0:48:08.680 --> 0:48:12.960 out there ever hooked up with someone and you go 0:48:13.160 --> 0:48:16.040 down to touch their balls and there there's none there, 0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:17.640 or they're very very small. 0:48:17.800 --> 0:48:18.360 There's like a. 0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:21.279 Small sack of skin, or like a hard it's like 0:48:21.400 --> 0:48:23.279 hard and small, not like you. 0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:28.000 More like I'm very happy to say I have not 0:48:28.160 --> 0:48:30.400 experienced Oh my god, you saw it, though I did. 0:48:30.760 --> 0:48:33.160 We saw it together. We did see something and there 0:48:33.160 --> 0:48:34.600 were some small balls and I was like, oh wow, 0:48:34.680 --> 0:48:37.160 that is weird. Right was huge though? 0:48:37.320 --> 0:48:39.640 Yeah, so all the balls, like all the disosterone was 0:48:39.680 --> 0:48:40.560 pumped into the panic. 0:48:40.760 --> 0:48:43.600 Yeah, I guess wow. And he seems like he has 0:48:43.640 --> 0:48:50.279 a lot of you're not lacking. No. Erica also hates 0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:53.880 faux hawks. I fucking hate faux hawks. 0:48:54.480 --> 0:48:58.680 I don't come to me with your curly like afrocentric 0:48:58.719 --> 0:49:01.280 faux hawk, or even you're well groomed. 0:49:01.400 --> 0:49:03.759 I'm a niggapho hawk. I don't want either one. This 0:49:03.880 --> 0:49:06.960 is very twenty I don't know it's two thousand. 0:49:07.400 --> 0:49:13.759 Never should happened, Okay, unless you're like a child, maybe 0:49:13.760 --> 0:49:17.440 a little boy. Yeah, I just I just don't know. 0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:20.160 I also don't really like when guys dye their hair 0:49:20.200 --> 0:49:22.879 a lot. No, no, no, take it into like died hair, 0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:23.879 the dying of the hair. 0:49:24.040 --> 0:49:25.319 No, do not die your hair. 0:49:25.400 --> 0:49:26.799 Do not wearse colored contacts? 0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:31.040 Oh god, oh god, yeah, I didn't know that is that? Yeah? 0:49:31.120 --> 0:49:33.600 In high school actually, even past high school, he was 0:49:33.600 --> 0:49:35.480 wearing them. He was wearing like actually he went to 0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:36.280 school with Bobby. 0:49:36.400 --> 0:49:42.320 I was like, is she talking, okay, whisper? Oh my god, 0:49:42.680 --> 0:49:44.640 does he still wear them? I think he stopped. 0:49:44.719 --> 0:49:46.839 Oh god, I pray the fucking god. 0:49:46.880 --> 0:49:49.359 Because it did go past high school. It did, right, 0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:52.000 It was like, well into an adult, you know what 0:49:52.040 --> 0:49:53.000 I'm talking about. 0:49:55.160 --> 0:50:00.160 The valley and I'm like the tall as, like these 0:50:00.239 --> 0:50:02.520 are the peoples today, Like he would switch up the color. 0:50:03.239 --> 0:50:07.480 Yeah, I'm pretty sure he were shells. He did work. 0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:10.400 He was going for a lot of looks he was 0:50:10.440 --> 0:50:15.080 going for. I think no, no, he was, because he 0:50:15.280 --> 0:50:20.239 was like going for like it was Hawaiian like green eyed, 0:50:20.520 --> 0:50:21.400 but nigga. 0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:24.279 Still Yeah, I think that he I think he was 0:50:24.320 --> 0:50:26.360 just trying to He's trying to get in touch with 0:50:26.400 --> 0:50:27.040 his white side. 0:50:27.680 --> 0:50:29.480 Well, he went to that school, so that's cool. 0:50:29.680 --> 0:50:31.840 You have to understand when we talk, the ship that 0:50:31.920 --> 0:50:35.640 we talk, me and Erica grew up in like the 0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:37.480 super white in the valley. 0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:41.400 It's super very white, and these are things that you 0:50:41.480 --> 0:50:41.920 come across. 0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:45.640 Lots of people have identity crisis, a lot of black 0:50:45.719 --> 0:50:47.799 you know, and it's okay, it happened. 0:50:47.560 --> 0:50:48.120 Ship, I think. 0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:50.480 I mean, I struggled with I've struggled with identity crisis 0:50:50.560 --> 0:50:52.719 because I didn't have a lot of black people around me, 0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:56.800 and I was constantly trying to, like, you know, find 0:50:56.920 --> 0:51:01.640 where I felt comfortable, you know, where I felt like 0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:05.239 like I look like people. And then I was like, well, 0:51:05.239 --> 0:51:06.920 I'm not. I guess I don't look like anyone here. 0:51:07.120 --> 0:51:10.320 So I'm just gonna try. I'm gonna try to fit into. 0:51:10.120 --> 0:51:12.920 What they do. Yeah, I don't know, I mean obviously 0:51:13.239 --> 0:51:14.000 like straight in your hair. 0:51:16.800 --> 0:51:18.279 No, actually in high school I wore my hair now 0:51:18.360 --> 0:51:23.520 jewel and because my dance coach, she's actually I went 0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:25.880 to her daughter's birthday party with my kids. Now as 0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:30.160 an adult, she was such a fucking sorry, you know, 0:51:30.280 --> 0:51:32.480 if you're listening, you weren't you know you were a bitch. 0:51:32.960 --> 0:51:34.040 You know you're a bitch. 0:51:34.600 --> 0:51:39.040 And she was like, Okay, tonight for the game, you 0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:41.480 guys have to put your hair down. And I was like, no, Summer, 0:51:41.560 --> 0:51:45.960 I can't. It doesn't work that way for me. She's like, 0:51:46.560 --> 0:51:48.720 figure it out. I was like, I can't just straighten 0:51:48.800 --> 0:51:52.359 my hair. She's like, and then for the first time, 0:51:52.400 --> 0:51:54.200 I wore my I don't know. 0:51:54.239 --> 0:51:56.960 What I were my hair Nashville for the first time, 0:51:57.600 --> 0:51:58.840 and she laughed. 0:51:58.600 --> 0:52:02.440 At me, that's Trump, That's fucking horrible. 0:52:02.800 --> 0:52:07.840 She also like she also like taught to African American 0:52:08.080 --> 0:52:11.680 like culture class and dated all black guys. I don't 0:52:12.320 --> 0:52:14.480 don't She probably wasn't laughing to be who knows what. 0:52:14.640 --> 0:52:16.560 I don't even know, but I remember I'm like, how 0:52:16.600 --> 0:52:17.160 are you gonna laugh? 0:52:17.280 --> 0:52:17.520 Bitch? 0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:18.800 I had to do this. 0:52:19.120 --> 0:52:20.839 This is And after that, I wore my hair natural 0:52:20.880 --> 0:52:22.400 and I figured it out. It took probably like six 0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:23.440 months to figure it out. 0:52:23.800 --> 0:52:25.719 But I did. Now I won't go back. I can't 0:52:25.719 --> 0:52:26.399 figure it out again. 0:52:26.800 --> 0:52:30.680 But but I don't even know how I got on 0:52:30.719 --> 0:52:35.680 this topic. Did contact oh, no contact lenses? Identity crisis? 0:52:36.400 --> 0:52:39.680 Yeah, I did my hair blonde once a couple of 0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:42.040 times because I did man, not because I want to 0:52:42.080 --> 0:52:44.000 be waiting. No, that that showed up in different ways 0:52:44.040 --> 0:52:44.560 in my life. 0:52:45.040 --> 0:52:47.759 But I feel like once I left high school that 0:52:47.920 --> 0:52:50.600 like finally, like I could I finally that fell away 0:52:50.640 --> 0:52:52.319 because I didn't have to surround myself with a certain 0:52:52.320 --> 0:52:55.319 type of person. I wasn't surrounded by certain I had 0:52:55.360 --> 0:52:56.520 more diverse experience. 0:52:56.680 --> 0:53:01.600 Yeah, Erica went to another day super like white is 0:53:01.640 --> 0:53:04.239 a Catholic skirt wearing. 0:53:04.160 --> 0:53:05.840 And then before that, I went to like a private 0:53:05.880 --> 0:53:08.359 all girls school which was super white. 0:53:09.120 --> 0:53:11.200 So I would be like whenever I wouldn't at those 0:53:11.280 --> 0:53:13.840 private dances, like they'd be like, you know, there's a 0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:15.759 few like black boys at the other. 0:53:15.760 --> 0:53:22.000 School that were like like from Inglewood, Right, I'll be right, numbers, 0:53:22.000 --> 0:53:24.399 where should I meet you? Howard you? But I'll be there. 0:53:24.560 --> 0:53:27.040 That's why I knew all like the guy who were 0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:29.839 talking about with the contact lenses. That's the only reason 0:53:29.840 --> 0:53:32.439 I knew everybody who went to Montclair because one girl came. 0:53:32.400 --> 0:53:34.040 Back and was like, there's so many black guys that 0:53:34.120 --> 0:53:35.400 go to this private school. 0:53:35.600 --> 0:53:38.640 And I was like, actually, yeah, they actually Montclair did 0:53:38.719 --> 0:53:40.960 have the most grade because. 0:53:40.719 --> 0:53:44.640 They were shipping them in from the from that for 0:53:44.880 --> 0:53:47.160 like sports, and they were like, all fine, there's like 0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:48.280 a bunch of brothers. 0:53:48.520 --> 0:53:50.200 And it's like if you were in an eight mile 0:53:50.280 --> 0:53:51.239 radius at the Bella, you. 0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:54.480 Knew who they were. That's so true. 0:53:54.960 --> 0:53:57.640 True, it's so true, all of them. We still know 0:53:57.719 --> 0:53:58.200 these people. 0:53:58.680 --> 0:53:59.319 That's so true. 0:54:01.360 --> 0:54:03.160 Oh my god, it's hard out here for a black girl. 0:54:03.440 --> 0:54:03.799 Oh my god. 0:54:03.840 --> 0:54:09.360 So you know what else someone said about bad turn offs? Incarceration? 0:54:10.000 --> 0:54:12.960 Oh yeah, I put that on. I saw that. I 0:54:13.200 --> 0:54:15.480 was like, I messages. She didn't write me back. 0:54:15.520 --> 0:54:19.720 I said, like in the past or currently like currently 0:54:19.800 --> 0:54:22.319 incarcerated or like formally incarcerated. 0:54:22.320 --> 0:54:24.440 I guess, like I fun, I guess man that. 0:54:26.000 --> 0:54:28.240 I don't want you to have been incarcerated. 0:54:27.600 --> 0:54:29.600 Because I'm gonna think how long. It doesn't turn me on? 0:54:29.800 --> 0:54:33.520 But it like adds another layer to your mystery to me, Yeah, 0:54:33.960 --> 0:54:36.040 fucked up. I'm trying to work on it. I have 0:54:36.120 --> 0:54:37.319 a friends from Phil. 0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:40.919 I've done him for like fifteen like literally fifteen years. 0:54:41.120 --> 0:54:44.600 Nigga has been to jail like literally five times, and. 0:54:44.680 --> 0:54:47.200 I'm like, but why, Like you're a smart guy. 0:54:48.200 --> 0:54:52.719 Mm hmm. You had you have kids, I can't. Like, 0:54:52.840 --> 0:54:53.399 I'm your friend. 0:54:53.480 --> 0:54:55.960 I pick up the phone sometimes, but dude, why the 0:54:56.040 --> 0:55:00.160 fuck do you keep going to jail? Honest to god, Like, 0:55:00.200 --> 0:55:01.239 are you tired of that ship? 0:55:02.360 --> 0:55:04.040 I mean, you know, I don't. 0:55:04.360 --> 0:55:08.239 I know people get in fine, but that's I don't know. 0:55:08.320 --> 0:55:12.000 That's stupid. Another turn off for me, though, which just 0:55:12.040 --> 0:55:16.799 real quick, is teeth and breath mm hmm. 0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:20.799 If you your teeth or I have a teething because 0:55:21.520 --> 0:55:23.360 the nails, if you have dirt underneath your fingernails or 0:55:23.400 --> 0:55:27.399 long fingernails we're thinking about like our vaginas. Yes, why 0:55:27.719 --> 0:55:30.280 I can't do the long fingernails, like it just tells 0:55:30.320 --> 0:55:31.320 me too much about you? 0:55:31.719 --> 0:55:32.759 What else? What else? 0:55:33.080 --> 0:55:33.480 What else? 0:55:34.360 --> 0:55:34.600 Yeah? 0:55:34.800 --> 0:55:37.839 No, I don't neglect those things. I like guys who 0:55:37.880 --> 0:55:39.600 get manicures and pedicures. 0:55:39.960 --> 0:55:41.880 I used to be weird about that, but then I'm like, well, 0:55:41.880 --> 0:55:42.439 how the fuck am. 0:55:42.320 --> 0:55:44.600 I gonna be weirded about that? And then don't don't 0:55:44.719 --> 0:55:46.560 like feet and clean No, but now I do now, 0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:51.359 Like I love a man that will camper himself facials. 0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:54.960 I just got a little horny thinking about it. 0:55:57.640 --> 0:56:00.160 Oh my god, real quick, this is all I saw 0:56:00.200 --> 0:56:02.560 my list things we've done that turned people off. 0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:07.120 One time. I don't know why I did this. 0:56:08.600 --> 0:56:11.600 I who was this nerdy guy that I met on 0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:14.520 the plane on Spirit And he was so smart and 0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:16.880 he had this really crazy story of how he was. 0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:18.879 He was from this really fucked up place in New Jersey. 0:56:18.960 --> 0:56:21.080 He has a book, he's a lawyer, he's an activist. 0:56:21.120 --> 0:56:23.840 He's like an amazing guy. You know, I like a 0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:31.120 smart guy or like an intriguing character. And I, oh, no, 0:56:31.200 --> 0:56:31.960 I just know the story. 0:56:32.080 --> 0:56:35.840 Oh he anyway, he came to my Oh. So the 0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:38.040 story was he's used to sol drugs. His parents were 0:56:38.080 --> 0:56:40.040 both in and out of jail and on crack, and 0:56:40.480 --> 0:56:43.040 he ended up putting himself and had a really poor education, 0:56:43.160 --> 0:56:45.520 ended up putting himself through law school, put down you know, 0:56:45.800 --> 0:56:47.880 he went to like let that shit go one day, 0:56:47.960 --> 0:56:51.759 completely released it, put himself through law school, became this 0:56:52.239 --> 0:56:55.439 black activist lawyer and has the amazing story. 0:56:55.600 --> 0:56:57.640 So what did you turn his off? Oh? Okay, I 0:56:57.680 --> 0:56:58.919 don't know why I did this. He was a nerd. 0:56:59.040 --> 0:57:03.359 I spit in his mouth, like like leaned over him 0:57:03.400 --> 0:57:07.160 and like not everyone's ready for that. No one's ready 0:57:07.200 --> 0:57:07.360 for that. 0:57:08.360 --> 0:57:08.400 That. 0:57:08.520 --> 0:57:10.880 I don't know why I did that to that particular 0:57:10.960 --> 0:57:13.000 person because it made no sense. 0:57:13.480 --> 0:57:16.280 But I just laughed, were you having like dirty sex 0:57:16.400 --> 0:57:18.760 right at that moment that made you feel comfortable? 0:57:19.400 --> 0:57:20.920 But maybe I was just like trying to take him 0:57:20.920 --> 0:57:24.320 over and be a bitch, but he totally was like no, 0:57:25.240 --> 0:57:26.160 I started cracking. 0:57:26.240 --> 0:57:28.800 I'm like, sorry, no, okay, sorry, did he like spit 0:57:28.880 --> 0:57:30.080 it out with no? 0:57:30.720 --> 0:57:37.160 Yeah, Oh my god, don't do that if it's that, 0:57:37.560 --> 0:57:39.520 it's really filthy and you don't know the memo. 0:57:39.960 --> 0:57:43.080 I've definitely done that with a few people and they 0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:44.320 didn't they didn't react poorly. 0:57:45.720 --> 0:57:49.480 No, Usually they would sit like the first someone else had, 0:57:49.600 --> 0:57:51.320 like the first time that it was ever done was 0:57:51.400 --> 0:57:52.000 like someone. 0:57:51.800 --> 0:57:54.240 Did it to me and then I was like, wow, 0:57:54.400 --> 0:57:56.120 that was that. I don't know if I like that. 0:57:56.440 --> 0:57:59.800 No, I did like it, so then I don't know. 0:57:59.840 --> 0:58:02.600 I to gauge it, but you never know. You kind 0:58:02.640 --> 0:58:04.200 of just gotta you never know. 0:58:06.240 --> 0:58:07.960 I don't like my guys like complain if I scratch 0:58:08.040 --> 0:58:09.440 and buye them too hard, even though I know I 0:58:09.440 --> 0:58:10.680 can be kind of rough, but like, don't be a 0:58:10.720 --> 0:58:17.240 little bit, Oh. 0:58:17.160 --> 0:58:20.400 My god, monster. 0:58:21.160 --> 0:58:24.080 No. I mean some guys and even women they want 0:58:24.120 --> 0:58:26.120 to be made love to all the time, and they 0:58:26.200 --> 0:58:27.640 want to get that gentleness. 0:58:27.960 --> 0:58:30.240 True. I feel like I go through phases where I'm 0:58:30.320 --> 0:58:32.400 like that too, or I don't want that. Yeah, but 0:58:32.480 --> 0:58:34.480 it has to be Like I feel like a healthy 0:58:34.520 --> 0:58:35.240 balance is ideal. 0:58:35.400 --> 0:58:38.760 Yeah, but not ever, not everybody is down for, you know, 0:58:38.880 --> 0:58:42.880 scratching and spitting in their face and whatever. 0:58:44.040 --> 0:58:45.160 I recently had. 0:58:46.480 --> 0:58:48.320 Someone get turned off by something I did or I 0:58:48.360 --> 0:58:50.000 don't know if they were turned off, but it turned 0:58:50.040 --> 0:58:51.520 me off, which made me think it was one of 0:58:51.520 --> 0:58:55.840 their turn offs. Uh. I was hooking up with a 0:58:55.880 --> 0:59:02.560 guy and like he you know, I'm I'm a squirters before, and. 0:59:04.280 --> 0:59:06.400 It just bragging and he. 0:59:06.520 --> 0:59:08.560 Was going down on me, and I was like, I 0:59:08.680 --> 0:59:09.920 was like, I'm gonna come, come, and he was like, 0:59:09.960 --> 0:59:11.240 oh my god, don't score it in my face. 0:59:11.400 --> 0:59:13.960 And I was like, what fuck? Like he said it 0:59:14.040 --> 0:59:15.960 out loud before I even I was even going to 0:59:16.120 --> 0:59:19.080 First of all, you can control it. It just wasn't that. 0:59:19.400 --> 0:59:20.560 It wasn't that type of orgasm. 0:59:20.640 --> 0:59:23.400 Okay, sporting is like a different type of orgasm. 0:59:23.160 --> 0:59:23.680 You know what I mean. 0:59:24.280 --> 0:59:27.440 And I was and then and then I was like 0:59:27.880 --> 0:59:29.320 I didn't even know what to do, Like I was 0:59:29.440 --> 0:59:31.480 just like and I could tell like he was scared, 0:59:31.520 --> 0:59:32.560 like it was a turnoff for him. 0:59:33.000 --> 0:59:35.640 Think, yeah, no, it needs to be a turnof for him. 0:59:35.760 --> 0:59:38.520 I can't be afraid of any bodily fluid. This guy 0:59:38.640 --> 0:59:38.840 used to. 0:59:39.040 --> 0:59:40.560 This guy told me once you didn't want to eat 0:59:40.600 --> 0:59:43.880 my pussy after a result, like if it was really wet, 0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:46.280 And I was like, after it's wet, didn't want to. 0:59:47.360 --> 0:59:49.280 He didn't his mouth on there, it was too wet. 0:59:49.480 --> 0:59:51.920 I just didn't understand. I didn't understand it at all. 0:59:52.640 --> 0:59:54.720 And I was like, yeah, the same thing, like to 0:59:54.760 --> 0:59:55.640 self stuff with it. 0:59:56.480 --> 0:59:57.200 Yeah, I don't know. 0:59:57.320 --> 0:59:59.040 It was just weird and it made me feel It 0:59:59.080 --> 1:00:00.320 made me feel weird, and I I think it was 1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:02.400 a I'm assuming it was one of his turn offfs, 1:00:02.440 --> 1:00:04.520 like obviously it's something he doesn't enjoy or maybe he's 1:00:04.560 --> 1:00:05.480 never experienced. 1:00:07.160 --> 1:00:10.400 But in general it made me feel like, oh it 1:00:10.480 --> 1:00:13.480 maybe like should I not be doing this because nobody 1:00:13.920 --> 1:00:15.920 this is a turnoff. Nobody wants a man who has 1:00:16.000 --> 1:00:18.760 any Like. I don't like boundaries. I don't want sexual limits. 1:00:18.920 --> 1:00:23.640 I like like really free spirit liberated sexually, men like 1:00:23.720 --> 1:00:27.760 comfortable with their body, their bums right, they're bums and 1:00:28.400 --> 1:00:29.520 like all things like not. 1:00:29.600 --> 1:00:32.320 That I want to like, I don't want to put anything. 1:00:32.360 --> 1:00:33.840 I don't want to put anything in a man's bud. 1:00:34.040 --> 1:00:36.800 But I no, no, no, no, thank you. 1:00:37.480 --> 1:00:43.880 But yeah whatever, Jimilla, Well, I'm not doing it. Silence, 1:00:45.240 --> 1:00:48.080 go for a girl. I mean proud, No, I mean, 1:00:48.120 --> 1:00:48.440 I don't know. 1:00:48.480 --> 1:00:50.160 I'm not against it. But what are we talking about? 1:00:50.200 --> 1:00:53.240 But what in the I'm so confused, That's really what 1:00:53.400 --> 1:00:55.600 I was confused about, Like, well, what am I? What 1:00:55.760 --> 1:00:57.160 kind of objects we talk? 1:00:58.480 --> 1:00:58.760 Okay? 1:00:58.920 --> 1:01:00.480 Because I don't want to put like a penis in 1:01:00.560 --> 1:01:02.880 your button? Okay, but maybe a finger? 1:01:03.600 --> 1:01:05.600 Okay, a finger. I'm not against a finger. 1:01:05.920 --> 1:01:07.560 All I can do the finger like a finger or 1:01:07.600 --> 1:01:12.040 a tongue. That okay, yeah, not anything too crazy, No, 1:01:12.160 --> 1:01:12.840 I'm thinking. 1:01:13.000 --> 1:01:14.040 No, no, Okay. 1:01:15.080 --> 1:01:19.640 Anyway, we got a question from somebody, and we're gonna 1:01:19.640 --> 1:01:21.560 switch gears real quick because this question is a little. 1:01:21.400 --> 1:01:28.680 More wait o, wait what, well it's a fun Oh 1:01:28.800 --> 1:01:30.200 oh yeah, we should talk about it. Okay. 1:01:30.360 --> 1:01:34.960 So in conclusion, because this is our library book report, 1:01:36.400 --> 1:01:38.920 how to discuss turn ons and turn offs with your partner. 1:01:39.080 --> 1:01:40.920 This is hard because you can't always tell people to 1:01:41.240 --> 1:01:44.400 like especially, I mean in general people, I'm defensive. 1:01:44.600 --> 1:01:48.600 And so what like, how do you go about this? 1:01:49.560 --> 1:01:50.520 I can just do it? 1:01:51.800 --> 1:01:54.640 Yeah, there's that, But obviously you want to establish a 1:01:55.040 --> 1:01:56.840 communication early on in your relationship. 1:01:56.920 --> 1:01:58.200 That's that's ideal. 1:01:58.360 --> 1:02:01.960 Obviously that doesn't always happen, but if you can, if 1:02:01.960 --> 1:02:04.800 you're starting a relationship, I would say, just start talking 1:02:04.800 --> 1:02:07.560 about sex early on. If you're already dating somebody, just 1:02:07.600 --> 1:02:12.760 start talking about it early on. And if you're already 1:02:12.840 --> 1:02:15.760 dating someone you've had issues talking about it in the past, 1:02:16.720 --> 1:02:17.200 good luck. 1:02:17.760 --> 1:02:20.880 I'm just kidding. I think, like there's no perfect way. 1:02:20.880 --> 1:02:22.480 I mean I came out of a relationship where I 1:02:22.520 --> 1:02:24.440 felt like I couldn't talk about sex without getting the 1:02:24.480 --> 1:02:26.919 person upset and then thinking like they're not good enough 1:02:27.080 --> 1:02:28.919 or like they're not doing something good enough, when really 1:02:28.960 --> 1:02:31.160 it was just like me trying to express my needs 1:02:31.680 --> 1:02:33.480 and me wanting to know what his needs were. 1:02:33.600 --> 1:02:36.520 So I think I think that that approach can happen. 1:02:36.720 --> 1:02:37.840 I mean, the approach can work. 1:02:37.880 --> 1:02:39.040 You just have to be careful how you do it 1:02:39.040 --> 1:02:42.000 because people are so sensitive, like, you know, maybe make 1:02:42.040 --> 1:02:44.320 it about like you know, what can I do to 1:02:45.280 --> 1:02:47.760 you know, please you? More so that then you can 1:02:47.840 --> 1:02:50.240 ask maybe hopefully they'll ask, well what can I do 1:02:50.360 --> 1:02:50.760 to please? 1:02:51.320 --> 1:02:54.840 What can I do to please you? Obviously that doesn't 1:02:54.840 --> 1:02:55.360 always happen. 1:02:55.400 --> 1:02:58.000 What's I don't know, there's like an alarm going off. Sorry, 1:02:58.880 --> 1:03:04.120 I don't know what's happening, Like, uh yeah. The first 1:03:04.160 --> 1:03:06.480 psychology like, uh, is there anything you want me to 1:03:07.120 --> 1:03:09.240 this is that I always do this, like what's your fantasy? 1:03:09.280 --> 1:03:10.560 Because I want you to ask me what's mine? 1:03:10.600 --> 1:03:16.720 Exactly? Talk filthy? Yeah, like because anything you want me 1:03:16.800 --> 1:03:19.200 to do differently, and then like you know, and. 1:03:19.280 --> 1:03:21.680 If they say to you economics, you like feel open 1:03:21.800 --> 1:03:24.840 to talk to them about it, even though just for 1:03:24.920 --> 1:03:28.400 the record, no one's ever asked me to do anything differently. 1:03:29.960 --> 1:03:30.560 She's perfect. 1:03:30.680 --> 1:03:38.480 I'm pretty good at all these moves. Oh, also not waiting, 1:03:39.000 --> 1:03:42.040 just like address it immediately or also for sex stuff, 1:03:42.080 --> 1:03:44.360 I was thinking, like you could do it sexy. 1:03:44.280 --> 1:03:47.400 Like I want you to do it like this, or 1:03:47.480 --> 1:03:49.640 get like a sex game and play a game with 1:03:49.760 --> 1:03:51.720 each other so that you can like start opening up 1:03:51.760 --> 1:03:52.440 yourself more. 1:03:56.120 --> 1:03:57.000 Oh my god, you guys. 1:03:57.080 --> 1:03:59.520 So, because we're recording at a studio, we have to 1:03:59.600 --> 1:04:03.560 go weird, right, we have we have to wrap it 1:04:03.680 --> 1:04:04.200 up right now. 1:04:05.800 --> 1:04:07.240 So I hope that these things. 1:04:07.280 --> 1:04:09.000 I hope you can relate to some of these turn 1:04:09.080 --> 1:04:12.640 ons and turn offs, and I hope that you know, 1:04:12.680 --> 1:04:15.200 if you're experiencing that with your partner, you guys can 1:04:15.320 --> 1:04:17.800 work through it, because sometimes that's all it is. It's 1:04:17.880 --> 1:04:21.200 like just a simple conversation can transform your relationship and 1:04:21.280 --> 1:04:24.600 you guys can have a different relationship. And if you can't, 1:04:24.640 --> 1:04:26.200 then you have to kind of consider is this the 1:04:26.240 --> 1:04:27.160 relationship I want? 1:04:27.680 --> 1:04:29.840 True? Yeah, that's true, because you got to be able 1:04:29.840 --> 1:04:31.600 to communicate and keep it real. Yeah. 1:04:32.480 --> 1:04:34.840 But anyway, make sure you check out our instagram. We 1:04:34.920 --> 1:04:38.080 are having a brunch on September twenty third. Check out 1:04:38.120 --> 1:04:39.640 the details. 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Bye bye. 1:05:09.680 --> 1:05:10.720 No no no no no no no no no no 1:05:10.800 --> 1:05:12.320 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:12.400 --> 1:05:13.920 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:14.040 --> 1:05:15.200 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:15.320 --> 1:05:19.160 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:19.240 --> 1:05:20.840 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:20.880 --> 1:05:22.160 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:22.640 --> 1:05:23.880 no no no no no no no no no no 1:05:23.960 --> 1:05:25.280 no no no no no no no no no no. 1:05:26.200 --> 1:05:28.320 Put puss it for breakfast. 1:05:28.440 --> 1:05:32.400 That's how I start my day. My dick is a pin. 1:05:32.720 --> 1:05:36.080 It's written all over her face. I put my tongue 1:05:36.160 --> 1:05:39.320 in the mouth and make them pussy lips straws. She 1:05:39.560 --> 1:05:42.440 got the junk in the trunk, You know, I like 1:05:42.600 --> 1:05:43.400 junk food. 1:05:43.920 --> 1:05:47.960 Tell her like this life is good, yo, pus