WEBVTT - Holla At These Holidays! (Minisode)

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady. My name is Gielle Branch and

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<v Speaker 1>what's up. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for being with us. I know, okay, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>it is it is is officially two days after Christmas. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, you know over the holidays, we we

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<v Speaker 1>definitely want to show up and show out for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys every Monday as we do. However, these little um

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<v Speaker 1>in the holiday season we give like a little mini episodes. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean so to be clear, to help everyone understand,

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<v Speaker 1>we did not want you to be off. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to miss our voice. But you know we

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<v Speaker 1>got a family too, and we got shopping to do

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<v Speaker 1>and traveling to do. Yes, so we're just going to

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<v Speaker 1>give you a little taste of Reasonably Shady, just a

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<v Speaker 1>little something something to hold you over. Don't get mad

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<v Speaker 1>at us, because like last time when we did this

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<v Speaker 1>over thanksgiven, y'all got mad at us. Y'all send us

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<v Speaker 1>notes like, hey, where's the whole damn episode? Why? Why

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<v Speaker 1>are you giving a short episode? What's wrong with y'all?

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<v Speaker 1>Why you phone in it in? My sister called me

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<v Speaker 1>and said, y'all just phoned it in. No, we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>phone it in. We just wanted to enjoy the holiday exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there something wrong with that? Now? Y'all got off

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<v Speaker 1>from school, we got all from work. Yes, we're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to work anyway. No, I mean, we're just joking. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is a reasonably shady mini mini moments. Yes. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So first and foremost Christmas traditions. So every year I

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<v Speaker 1>typically take my kids to New York on what day

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<v Speaker 1>right after Christmas to do plays, to do shopping. Normally,

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<v Speaker 1>they get gift cards from their grandparents of like these

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<v Speaker 1>little stores that I can't stand to go in, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>they want to use their gift cards. So for whatever reason,

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<v Speaker 1>like Sophora is better in New York than it is

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<v Speaker 1>in their mind than it is in Maryland. Same store,

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<v Speaker 1>but in their mind that New York has better savors,

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<v Speaker 1>New York has better stores. I'm like, you know that's

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Yeah, you're a really great mom. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that, I know. Okay, So we we

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<v Speaker 1>go and we do our New York run and it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's like amazing and they really enjoy it. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like my Christmas tradition Okay, I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Um you know, unfortunately my traditions are all

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<v Speaker 1>over the place. We used to then that makes it

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<v Speaker 1>not a tradition. Yeah, they kind of like fizzled. They fizzled, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because he used to do like the Christmas Eve, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at one person's house. We've done you know, the Secret

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<v Speaker 1>Santa's before or we do. You know. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>because my kids are a little bit older and they're

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<v Speaker 1>not into Santa Claus, you know. Um so, but before

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<v Speaker 1>it would be like, you know, oh, let's make the

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<v Speaker 1>cookies and let's you know, my parents would come over

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<v Speaker 1>and bring the gifts and all that type of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Um So now it's just a little like yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm just thinking of, I'm gonna cut

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<v Speaker 1>you off. It wouldn't it be kind of cool if

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<v Speaker 1>we did like an r HLP Secret Santa. That would

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<v Speaker 1>be cool because there's some people that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>give cold to right right and because they've been naughty

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<v Speaker 1>and not naughty in a good way. Well you can't

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I mean, I mean it would be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of fun. Would be kind of um like if you

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<v Speaker 1>picked and you've got a person that you really don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to give a nice gift to and and so

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<v Speaker 1>you would be okay with that. Well I'm thinking that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>or do I get a bad gift too? Really? And

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<v Speaker 1>you're okay with that? I'm okay with that? Really? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know like gift giving is so hard for me? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean? It's like it's it's so

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<v Speaker 1>hard to pick something that is not going to be

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<v Speaker 1>junk for someone, you know, if you don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what they like, um, what they're into, you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what their size is. It's just like I just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like racked my brain on like what kind of gifts

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<v Speaker 1>to give really, even not not for your kids. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>my kids already wanted Nike's okay, I mean that's that's easy. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you when you were when you were younger,

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<v Speaker 1>were you always like looking for whatever gift that you

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<v Speaker 1>had in mind? Were you like, oh my god, that

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<v Speaker 1>gift is not under the tree, I'm gonna lose it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going eight ship up in his camp. I mean, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>younger meaning like when I was a kid. Yeah, when

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<v Speaker 1>your kids went in, like Santa Claus was coming to

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<v Speaker 1>bring off to bring the gifts. Oh yeah, I knew

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<v Speaker 1>all my stuff was gonna be there. Oh yeah, there

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<v Speaker 1>was some years my stuff wasn't there. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of stuff, but like that thing that I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>was not there. I was just kind of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is it. We're where you know how you go

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<v Speaker 1>back under the tree and you still look like a present? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>ain't any more gifts? What's in the kidchen? Gifts in

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen? Everything? Like what happened? Did all Shirley drop

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<v Speaker 1>her gifts off? But happened that gift I wanted? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, isn't that though? And now when you look

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<v Speaker 1>back as a parent, isn't that so horrible? Like don't

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<v Speaker 1>you think like, oh my god, now you know how

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<v Speaker 1>your parents busted their ass. They spent so much money

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<v Speaker 1>to make you happy, and then you got this little

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<v Speaker 1>kid that's like where's the rest? Well I didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>that out loud. I said it in my mind. But

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<v Speaker 1>I make sure I get my kids everything that they want, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes you just can't. That's true, that's true. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I did one year? So a door wanted

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<v Speaker 1>a dog. Oh no, let me, can I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>what I did? And she still mad at me. I

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<v Speaker 1>bought her a book about dogs. See that's not funny that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't trying to be funny. I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>pacify her. I was trying to like, like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a dog. I know. It was bad. It was so bad.

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<v Speaker 1>She's still mad at me about that. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>took I took it a notch up the next year

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<v Speaker 1>and I bought a hamster. Oh god, it was something

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<v Speaker 1>that she had to take care of, right, I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want the dogs. I take it back, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>a good mother. Oh yes, thank you, Robert Dixon. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>just tell you're not gonna get her a dog. I know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we didn't get the dog, and she's actually okay

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<v Speaker 1>with it, but it was traumatic for her and she

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<v Speaker 1>still talks about it. Remember that time I went to

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<v Speaker 1>her women and then she said she went to her

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<v Speaker 1>room and cry for the rest of Christmas Day. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, that's why you were in that dinner. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now that explains it. I kidding. I'll tell you one thing, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy I don't have to play Santa Claus anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, because like really, especially when the kids were younger,

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<v Speaker 1>like you really busted your butt to like go all

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<v Speaker 1>over the place and get all these an Xbox and

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<v Speaker 1>a bike like a yes and a Chalca trunk and

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<v Speaker 1>you know the CARDI driving with the remote. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what are those things called the hot wheels, the big

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<v Speaker 1>things that they driving themselves. And they literally like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>Santa Claus, it is so awesome. And you're like that

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<v Speaker 1>fat white man did not buy all this stuff. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so happy I don't have to do that anymore. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>But and you're all trying to be secretive and sneaky.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, my parents coming over in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>the night stuff off. Yeah, because you have to like

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<v Speaker 1>hide it, you know what I mean. Yes, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to wait for the kids to go to bed sneak

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff in. You gotta. You know, they're so so

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<v Speaker 1>excited about Santa Claus. They're waking up and right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so did you do the tooth fairy? I did? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I tell I got busted one year with the

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<v Speaker 1>tooth heads? I didn't get busted, Okay. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>the money like next to my dresser to put under

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<v Speaker 1>and I fell asleep. Okay, that happened to you? So

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<v Speaker 1>the next morning I was I saw the money there.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh ship. So I go running into

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<v Speaker 1>the twins room and I tried to sneak it under that.

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<v Speaker 1>It didn't really work. I said a lot the touthes

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<v Speaker 1>ferry got busted. I think mine saw the money on

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<v Speaker 1>my on my nightstand, and they went to bed and

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<v Speaker 1>then and then the next day they saw the money

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't there, and they're like, yeah, we know really yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well were you giving like twenty dollars? Were you that? Parents?

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<v Speaker 1>I was, wait, do you still have their teeth? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I do? Yeah. You want to see him? No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>They're very they're readily accessible. I just saw them. Do not.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see your kids teeth. I love your kids,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to see their baby teeth. But

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<v Speaker 1>how do you like, how do I throw that away?

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<v Speaker 1>It just it's trash, can throw it in. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>throw away my kids teeth. I did. Really, what am

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<v Speaker 1>I gonna do with that? It's just like, oh, what's

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<v Speaker 1>a memory. Oh my god, you got three kids, you

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of teeth. Right, So I was giving

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<v Speaker 1>the tooth fairy was bringing them like a quarter Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, or maybe two quarters, maybe a dollar case

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<v Speaker 1>that's my kid, that was a bad mother case. But

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty dollars, that's a lot for tooth. Okay, different

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<v Speaker 1>teeth were cost more or less. Okay, so five hours

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<v Speaker 1>for the for the what the um the bottom tea?

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<v Speaker 1>Ten dollars for the top combo. I mean, how how

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<v Speaker 1>did we break this thing? I don't remember. I just no,

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<v Speaker 1>different ones had different values. Oh okay, long story, show people,

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<v Speaker 1>This is a slippery, slippery slope. I'm gonna tell you why.

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<v Speaker 1>If you start with twenty, where do you go from there?

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<v Speaker 1>Very true? Yes, So if you start with a quarter,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a very long way to go on. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're your kids excited about a quarter? They were just

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<v Speaker 1>happy with something. They're at the time of the the final

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<v Speaker 1>quarter in the couch. But okay, but rob at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>they had no value. They didn't understand the value of money.

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<v Speaker 1>This little fiery flew under my pillow, yes, and gave

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<v Speaker 1>me something good, gracious. Okay. I hope no bout new

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<v Speaker 1>children are listening, right, screwed? They better not listening anyway. Jeez,

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff we talk about, it's insane. Okay, So we

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<v Speaker 1>have a couple of more things to talk about, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want you to know that I tell

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<v Speaker 1>my kids stuff to tell their day it right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Does wine give you things from the kids? No one

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<v Speaker 1>is a very like, I don't need anything you like,

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<v Speaker 1>he really never asked for anything, okay, and and that

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<v Speaker 1>just is frustrating. Do you ask stuff? I really don't either,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have. I used to, but then I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just in the mode of, like, I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>have anywhere to put anything else. Very true. But we

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<v Speaker 1>can always find a spot for like a little nice bag,

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<v Speaker 1>a little I know, a little shoe, very true, a

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<v Speaker 1>little bracelet very true, very true. But I have I

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<v Speaker 1>have not been asking forget like I don't there's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>you know what it is. I've already shared that I

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<v Speaker 1>have a shopping problem. That is true. So I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just buy it myself. And then when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>time for me to think about, well what do I

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<v Speaker 1>want somebody to buy from me? Um, I can't think,

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<v Speaker 1>oh one thing. And this is like one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite Christmas gifts. Sound really domesticated. Um, I just really

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<v Speaker 1>needed a pot. I mean, I'm sorry, A pay in

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<v Speaker 1>a pain like a skillet you needed a skillet. I

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<v Speaker 1>needed a big one. You need a big skalet, big one. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get like a nice like William Senoma exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>William Sonoma, Okay, very nice. I used it all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I used it to Okay. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>a commercial for a Ninja ice cream maker and then

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you do something with it and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can put all your little blendings in it. You want that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta ask for stuff like that. Or I can

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<v Speaker 1>ask for diamonds. I mean, yeah, I guess. So look,

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<v Speaker 1>did you have enough? I do? I do? This is true,

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<v Speaker 1>you had enough bags, enough diamonds, shoes. When you see

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<v Speaker 1>something you get it like, yes, it's very true. But

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<v Speaker 1>it is nice when it's like wrapped up and then

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<v Speaker 1>you open up and you're like, oh for me, for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of what is your love language, Robin, we've never

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<v Speaker 1>discussed this acts of service? So if if somebody what

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean? They do it? Act for you? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they do something that is useful, like it's it's helpful

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<v Speaker 1>and it's useful. It's like, oh, let me bring dinner

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<v Speaker 1>home and just don't even ask, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Just show up with dinner. Oh that's not I like that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't give two ships. Mine is gifts, Okay, gifts

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<v Speaker 1>and tell me I look pretty. Okay, that's it, and

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<v Speaker 1>you you will win. So gifts and words of affirmation, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>gifts and words of affirmation, but they should go together.

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<v Speaker 1>One should not be without the other. But I guess

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<v Speaker 1>you can have two love languages. What is your love

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<v Speaker 1>language that you give to people? That's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think. I don't think it's gifts or

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<v Speaker 1>words of affirmation. Damn, I was gonna say gifts. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to give a gift, Okay, yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 1>to surprise somebody with something like right, you have definitely

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<v Speaker 1>given me gifts like just you know, randomly because yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin Dixon Scrooge over here, right, No, I'm not, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to surprise people. I like for people to

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they were thought of. Yes, yeah, and I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll probably never tell you I like you, but I

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<v Speaker 1>can't give you a kid, and then that that means

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<v Speaker 1>you like them. Yes, you're just being nice. I like them.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't like do it unless I like you? Okay, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like the same with um with like,

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<v Speaker 1>when you cuss people out, it's really because you like them, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because you care? Let me care? Yeah, is that it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when I cussed the guy out like that

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<v Speaker 1>cut me off that. Yeah. I like when you call

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<v Speaker 1>somebody a bit, it's because you really like them. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the way you say bitch. If it's like bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>then you like that. That's different. Okay, it's like right,

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<v Speaker 1>and like you don't like them though. Okay, this is true,

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<v Speaker 1>this is true. All right, we we we have exhausted this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we are done. We are out of here. This is

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<v Speaker 1>actually our last episode for the year. For one, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>is a rap. It is done. So please start like

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about what you want to do for yourself, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you'all heard in the streets, but

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