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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady. My name is Gielle Branch and

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Speaker 1: what's up. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being with us. I know, okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: it is it is is officially two days after Christmas. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and you know, you know over the holidays, we we

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Speaker 1: definitely want to show up and show out for you

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Speaker 1: guys every Monday as we do. However, these little um

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Speaker 1: in the holiday season we give like a little mini episodes. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean so to be clear, to help everyone understand,

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Speaker 1: we did not want you to be off. We don't

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Speaker 1: want you to miss our voice. But you know we

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Speaker 1: got a family too, and we got shopping to do

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Speaker 1: and traveling to do. Yes, so we're just going to

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Speaker 1: give you a little taste of Reasonably Shady, just a

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Speaker 1: little something something to hold you over. Don't get mad

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Speaker 1: at us, because like last time when we did this

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Speaker 1: over thanksgiven, y'all got mad at us. Y'all send us

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Speaker 1: notes like, hey, where's the whole damn episode? Why? Why

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Speaker 1: are you giving a short episode? What's wrong with y'all?

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Speaker 1: Why you phone in it in? My sister called me

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Speaker 1: and said, y'all just phoned it in. No, we didn't

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Speaker 1: phone it in. We just wanted to enjoy the holiday exactly.

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Speaker 1: Is there something wrong with that? Now? Y'all got off

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Speaker 1: from school, we got all from work. Yes, we're supposed

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Speaker 1: to work anyway. No, I mean, we're just joking. But

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Speaker 1: this is a reasonably shady mini mini moments. Yes. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So first and foremost Christmas traditions. So every year I

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Speaker 1: typically take my kids to New York on what day

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Speaker 1: right after Christmas to do plays, to do shopping. Normally,

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Speaker 1: they get gift cards from their grandparents of like these

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Speaker 1: little stores that I can't stand to go in, and um,

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Speaker 1: they want to use their gift cards. So for whatever reason,

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Speaker 1: like Sophora is better in New York than it is

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Speaker 1: in their mind than it is in Maryland. Same store,

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Speaker 1: but in their mind that New York has better savors,

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Speaker 1: New York has better stores. I'm like, you know that's

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Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, you're a really great mom. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, I know. Okay, So we we

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Speaker 1: it's like amazing and they really enjoy it. So that's

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Speaker 1: kind of like my Christmas tradition Okay, I love it.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Um you know, unfortunately my traditions are all

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Speaker 1: not a tradition. Yeah, they kind of like fizzled. They fizzled, yes,

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Speaker 1: because he used to do like the Christmas Eve, you know,

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Speaker 1: at one person's house. We've done you know, the Secret

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Speaker 1: Santa's before or we do. You know. I think it's

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Speaker 1: because my kids are a little bit older and they're

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Speaker 1: not into Santa Claus, you know. Um so, but before

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Speaker 1: it would be like, you know, oh, let's make the

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Speaker 1: cookies and let's you know, my parents would come over

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Speaker 1: and bring the gifts and all that type of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Um So now it's just a little like yeah, you know,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm just thinking of, I'm gonna cut

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Speaker 1: you off. It wouldn't it be kind of cool if

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Speaker 1: we did like an r HLP Secret Santa. That would

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Speaker 1: be cool because there's some people that you want to

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Speaker 1: give cold to right right and because they've been naughty

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Speaker 1: and not naughty in a good way. Well you can't

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Speaker 1: do that. I mean, I mean it would be kind

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Speaker 1: you would be okay with that. Well I'm thinking that, like,

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Speaker 1: or do I get a bad gift too? Really? And

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Speaker 1: you're okay with that? I'm okay with that? Really? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Do you know like gift giving is so hard for me? Right?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? It's like it's it's so

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Speaker 1: what their size is. It's just like I just I'm

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Speaker 1: like racked my brain on like what kind of gifts

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Speaker 1: to give really, even not not for your kids. Well,

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Speaker 1: my kids already wanted Nike's okay, I mean that's that's easy. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So are you when you were when you were younger,

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Speaker 1: were you always like looking for whatever gift that you

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Speaker 1: younger meaning like when I was a kid. Yeah, when

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Speaker 1: was some years my stuff wasn't there. I got a

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Speaker 1: back under the tree and you still look like a present? Like,

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Speaker 1: ain't any more gifts? What's in the kidchen? Gifts in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen? Everything? Like what happened? Did all Shirley drop

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Speaker 1: her gifts off? But happened that gift I wanted? Oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, isn't that though? And now when you look

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Speaker 1: back as a parent, isn't that so horrible? Like don't

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Speaker 1: your parents busted their ass. They spent so much money

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Speaker 1: kid that's like where's the rest? Well I didn't see

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Speaker 1: that out loud. I said it in my mind. But

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Speaker 1: I make sure I get my kids everything that they want, right,

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Speaker 1: But sometimes you just can't. That's true, that's true. You

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Speaker 1: know what I did one year? So a door wanted

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Speaker 1: what I did? And she still mad at me. I

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Speaker 1: bought her a book about dogs. See that's not funny that.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to be funny. I was trying to

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Speaker 1: pacify her. I was trying to like, like kind of

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Speaker 1: didn't want the dogs. I take it back, you're not

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Speaker 1: a good mother. Oh yes, thank you, Robert Dixon. I mean,

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Speaker 1: just tell you're not gonna get her a dog. I know. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we didn't get the dog, and she's actually okay

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's why you were in that dinner. Okay,

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Speaker 1: now that explains it. I kidding. I'll tell you one thing, though,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy I don't have to play Santa Claus anymore.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because like really, especially when the kids were younger,

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Speaker 1: things that they driving themselves. And they literally like, oh

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Speaker 1: Santa Claus, it is so awesome. And you're like that

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Speaker 1: fat white man did not buy all this stuff. Right,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy I don't have to do that anymore. Really,

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Speaker 1: But and you're all trying to be secretive and sneaky.

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Speaker 1: You know, my parents coming over in the middle of

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Speaker 1: excited about Santa Claus. They're waking up and right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so did you do the tooth fairy? I did? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Can I tell I got busted one year with the

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Speaker 1: tooth heads? I didn't get busted, Okay. So I had

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Speaker 1: the next morning I was I saw the money there.

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Speaker 1: then and then the next day they saw the money

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Speaker 1: wasn't there, and they're like, yeah, we know really yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: well were you giving like twenty dollars? Were you that? Parents?

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Speaker 1: I was, wait, do you still have their teeth? No?

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Speaker 1: They're very they're readily accessible. I just saw them. Do not.

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Speaker 1: I want to see your kids teeth. I love your kids,

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Speaker 1: It just it's trash, can throw it in. I can't

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Speaker 1: throw away my kids teeth. I did. Really, what am

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Speaker 1: I gonna do with that? It's just like, oh, what's

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Speaker 1: a memory. Oh my god, you got three kids, you

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Speaker 1: got a lot of teeth. Right, So I was giving

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Speaker 1: the tooth fairy was bringing them like a quarter Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: like yeah, or maybe two quarters, maybe a dollar case

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Speaker 1: like twenty dollars, that's a lot for tooth. Okay, different

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Speaker 1: for the for the what the um the bottom tea?

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Speaker 1: different ones had different values. Oh okay, long story, show people,

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Speaker 1: This is a slippery, slippery slope. I'm gonna tell you why.

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Speaker 1: If you start with twenty, where do you go from there?

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Speaker 1: Very true? Yes, So if you start with a quarter,

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Speaker 1: we're your kids excited about a quarter? They were just

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Speaker 1: happy with something. They're at the time of the the final

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Speaker 1: This little fiery flew under my pillow, yes, and gave

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Speaker 1: me something good, gracious. Okay. I hope no bout new

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Speaker 1: children are listening, right, screwed? They better not listening anyway. Jeez,

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Speaker 1: the stuff we talk about, it's insane. Okay, So we

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Speaker 1: have a couple of more things to talk about, all right,

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Speaker 1: So I just want you to know that I tell

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Speaker 1: Does wine give you things from the kids? No one

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Speaker 1: is a very like, I don't need anything you like,

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Speaker 1: he really never asked for anything, okay, and and that

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Speaker 1: just is frustrating. Do you ask stuff? I really don't either,

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Speaker 1: like I have. I used to, but then I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm just in the mode of, like, I just don't

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Speaker 1: have anywhere to put anything else. Very true. But we

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Speaker 1: can always find a spot for like a little nice bag,

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Speaker 1: a little I know, a little shoe, very true, a

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Speaker 1: have not been asking forget like I don't there's nothing

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Speaker 1: you know what it is. I've already shared that I

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Speaker 1: have a shopping problem. That is true. So I kind

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Speaker 1: want somebody to buy from me? Um, I can't think,

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Speaker 1: oh one thing. And this is like one of my

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Speaker 1: needed a big one. You need a big skalet, big one. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Robin Dixon Scrooge over here, right, No, I'm not, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be amazing. For Reasonably Shady, okay, oh yes,

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