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Speaker 1: All right, guys, time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

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Speaker 1: gonna do that one today. Couldn't be puppet. Buckle up

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Speaker 1: and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here.

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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephews. Subject he

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Speaker 1: Stole my heart and a few other things. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: A while back, I met a man on a dating

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Speaker 1: app and it was supposed to be just a one

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Speaker 1: night stand. He came over and we had the most

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Speaker 1: explosive sex. After that, we talked all night. He lives

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Speaker 1: out of town, and when he got back home, we

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Speaker 1: talked daily and spend hours getting to know each other.

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Speaker 1: He came back to visit me because he was dying

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Speaker 1: to have sex with me. We admitted that we were

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Speaker 1: catching feelings. After he left, I noticed that he changed.

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Speaker 1: If I missed his call, he called me back to

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Speaker 1: back until I answered. It was so sweet, but I

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Speaker 1: kept reassuring him that I wasn't cheating. He came to

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Speaker 1: visit again, and this time he brought some of his

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Speaker 1: clothes and a few personal things to leave at my house.

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Speaker 1: This made me so happy because it meant we were

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Speaker 1: an official couple. Whenever we got into arguments, he jokingly say,

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Speaker 1: don't make me pop up to see what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: I never thought he would do it, but he did.

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Speaker 1: One Saturday, I volunteered to feed the homeless and I

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Speaker 1: couldn't use my phone while I was serving due to

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Speaker 1: the COVID nineteen guidelines. At the place, I went for

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Speaker 1: four hours without answering my man's calls and he lost it.

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Speaker 1: When I got home, he had kicked my door in

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Speaker 1: and he left me a note. I discovered that he

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Speaker 1: took all of his clothes, and he also took my

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Speaker 1: forty two inch TV, two lamps, some of my shoes,

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Speaker 1: some frozen steaks, and the microwave. It was so random,

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Speaker 1: since he has never bought me anything. I called to

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Speaker 1: beg him to come back, but he said it's over

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Speaker 1: and he never wants to see me again. How can

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Speaker 1: I get this man to see that I would never

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Speaker 1: cheat on him? How can I fix this? Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna read your words back to you and see if

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Speaker 1: this sparks anything in your brain. You say, when I

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Speaker 1: got home, he had kicked my door in, he'd left

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Speaker 1: me a note. I discovered. He took all of my clothes,

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Speaker 1: and he also took my two inch TV to lamp,

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Speaker 1: some of my shoes, some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Okay,

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Speaker 1: does that sound crazy to you? I mean, doesn't that

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Speaker 1: sound a little crazy? It does to me. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it does to Steve and to everyone else listening. So why, why,

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Speaker 1: why would you want this ignorant man back in your life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, it sounds scary. I mean, who does this?

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Speaker 1: He sounds like some kind of psychopath. To me, I

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Speaker 1: just say, consider yourself blessed that that's all. He took

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Speaker 1: the TV and the microwave and some shoes, and I

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Speaker 1: really don't get the stakes part anyway. He sounds violent,

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Speaker 1: he sounds controlling, he sounds possessive. To me, I'm so glad.

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Speaker 1: I'm really glad you weren't in the house, because I

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Speaker 1: think he would have put his hands on you. I

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Speaker 1: really do. And it's really a shame. I think that

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you this. It really pains me, honestly,

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Speaker 1: because you've got to know you need to know this,

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Speaker 1: that you shouldn't be so desperate that you would think

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Speaker 1: back to you to do what I mean, Let him go, please, girl,

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Speaker 1: you gotta let him go, and don't ever invite him

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Speaker 1: back to your house. I mean, he tried to destroy

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Speaker 1: a thief. Remember that. Please don't forget that. Let's be clear.

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Speaker 1: This man sounds very unstable. I think you need to

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Speaker 1: run and run quickly and get away from him. Steve Well,

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Speaker 1: good letters, Shirley. I see a little something else in

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Speaker 1: here that I probably need to go over and cover. Yes, oh,

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Speaker 1: metis man on this day now, this way, this went wrong.

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Speaker 1: It was supposed to be a one night stand. This

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Speaker 1: and hit it, quit it, sock it, knock it, throw it,

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Speaker 1: catch it. He came over and we had, in your words,

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Speaker 1: the most explosive six. Now let me show you what

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Speaker 1: happens after you have explosive six. Y'all talk daily, spend

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Speaker 1: because he was dying to have sex with me again.

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Speaker 1: You know why, because it was explosive. We admitted we

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Speaker 1: was catching feelings. He left, and I noticed he changed.

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Speaker 1: If I missed his calls, he would call me back

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Speaker 1: to back to back. You know why, because y'all had

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Speaker 1: explosive sex. Explosive sex will make you call back to

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Speaker 1: back to back to back. Damn it, answer me. If

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Speaker 1: you'd just had regular sex, none of this would be

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Speaker 1: happening to you. Yeah, you thought it was so sweet,

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Speaker 1: didn't you. I kept with shooting him. I wasn't cheating.

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Speaker 1: He came to visit again, and this time he bought

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Speaker 1: my house. You know why, because y'all was down there

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Speaker 1: having exploding sex, just blowing a spoon, just blowing up stove,

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Speaker 1: snatching pigs out, grenades, dropping it on the side of

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Speaker 1: the bed. This made me happy. It made you think

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Speaker 1: he was an efficial couple. Whenever we got in the arguments,

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Speaker 1: he jokingly saved, don't make me pop up. See what

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Speaker 1: you're doing. You know why, man, just pop up, because

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Speaker 1: y'all hand explosive six explosive. This your whole damn problem.

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Speaker 1: That all right? Hold on explosive six. Hold on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we'll have heard two of your response blowing up twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour of today's subject, he stole

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Speaker 1: my heart and a few other things. We'll get back

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry Letters subject,

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Speaker 1: He Stole my heart and a few other things. Met

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Speaker 1: a man on a day nap, hooked up with him,

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Speaker 1: posted to be a one nice stand, end up having

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Speaker 1: the most explosive sex ever. He called every day because

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Speaker 1: you was having explosive six. He came back because he

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Speaker 1: missed you so much. Because y'all was having explosive six.

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Speaker 1: He admitted that he wanted you. Y'all had sex. I

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Speaker 1: missed his called. He called back to back to back

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Speaker 1: because y'all was having explosive six you thought it was

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Speaker 1: sweet and and then he came to visit. He bought

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Speaker 1: That's so he can just have a shirt over that,

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Speaker 1: because you know, after you have explosive sex, you need

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Speaker 1: to have a change of clothes. Didn't have explosive sex

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Speaker 1: and put them same draws on you. Explosive sex. You

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Speaker 1: gotta change your side. See explosive sex is different. Your

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Speaker 1: belt probably don't fasten no more. You need a set

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Speaker 1: of clothes, shoe strings and came all out your shoes

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Speaker 1: because y'all have an explosive sex. You open the doors.

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Speaker 1: He diving across the porch. Then when y'all have an arguments,

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Speaker 1: he saying, don't make me pop up and see what

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Speaker 1: you're doing. I never thought he'd do it, but he did.

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Speaker 1: You down there trying to feed the homeless. You volunteer

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Speaker 1: to feed him, and you can't use your phone while

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Speaker 1: you're serving because you're dipping food. Due to the COVID guidelines.

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Speaker 1: You went four hours without answering your man's call and

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Speaker 1: dog go on it. He lost it. You know why

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Speaker 1: he lost it because he was looking. But that explosive sex,

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Speaker 1: it was not on the phone every time. When I

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Speaker 1: got home. He didn't kick your dough in and left

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Speaker 1: you a note. But you discovered he took all his clothes,

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Speaker 1: took your forty two inch TV two lamps, some of

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Speaker 1: your shoes, some frozen steaks, and the microwave. Now after

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Speaker 1: he did all that, this is what you said. It

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Speaker 1: was so random since he never bought me anything. He

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Speaker 1: didn't buy me no shoes or no microwave, and just

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Speaker 1: taking TVs down off the wall. I don't understand he

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Speaker 1: didn't buy none of that stuff. That was your statement

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Speaker 1: after that. Then right after that, you said I called

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? See, maybe this explosive sex

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Speaker 1: wasn't just having him do ignorant mess. It's got you

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Speaker 1: doing ignorant mess too. So a man kick your dough in,

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Speaker 1: leave you a note, took his clothes, your forty two

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Speaker 1: his TV two lamps, some of your shoes, some frozen

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Speaker 1: What did he miss something? Baby, you got to come back.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe you left on this chicken in this

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Speaker 1: freezing How can I get this man to see that

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Speaker 1: I would never cheat on him? Wait a minute, sure

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Speaker 1: he had this right. What are you talking about? Why

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Speaker 1: are you concerned with getting him back and trying to

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Speaker 1: prove to this man that you didn't cheat. He kicked

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Speaker 1: your dough in? Yes, come on, he took a flash

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Speaker 1: grew you're not hard. Just take a far to two

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Speaker 1: with your shoes. Oh damn microwave? How did he get

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Speaker 1: that microwave? About that wall? Can I ask you something? Huh?

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Speaker 1: Why did he take frozen steaks? So because he had

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Speaker 1: to drive homes? They keep better? Oh okay, So you know,

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Speaker 1: taking that out refrigerator because he'd be small. It's hot.

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Speaker 1: He put him in a trunk back that that engine,

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Speaker 1: that engine kicking off heat off that muffler. Okay, and

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Speaker 1: I didn't get it. Okay, And then you know he

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Speaker 1: probably stay out of town because they met on the app. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not thank you for bringing it.

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm just trying to help. Yeah, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: You got to thank this thing out. You don't when

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Speaker 1: you don't take no NOTU tofrigerator. That's passion. You get

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Speaker 1: it frozen so it can last. I don't know why

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Speaker 1: I would not want to see him again, all having

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Speaker 1: all this exploding sex and he's still in stuff and

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Speaker 1: he didn't explode it so good. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: he's still in stuff to kick the whole damn though.

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Speaker 1: And you ain't got a lock no more. You ain't

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Speaker 1: leave some cardboard up getting show though. That's crazy. How

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Speaker 1: can I fix this? What did you do wrong? Because

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Speaker 1: I'm looking in the letter, I'm trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: what you did want lady, lady, what's wrong with you?

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Speaker 1: Don't you. You are what's called brown. Don't get on

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Speaker 1: this explosive set and get yourself hurt. Something wrong with him?

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Speaker 1: Wrong you don't answer the phone. He kicked a doe

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Speaker 1: in the star stin it and she just met him.

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Speaker 1: But the whole damn dope. When you kick the doe

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Speaker 1: in final Dog, you know how hard he is kicking. Man.

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Speaker 1: Everybody can do it, all right, Thank you, Steve. Post

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Speaker 1: forty six minutes after the hour. Some states are seeing

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Speaker 1: a southern increase in the coronavirus cases. We'll talk about

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