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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo Pull yourself together. Man.

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Speaker 1: This is from Tristan. You ready, This is from Tristan

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Speaker 1: and Buffalo. Tristan writes, my wife is killing my sinuses.

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Speaker 1: She takes baths full of scented bath bombs. She sprays

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Speaker 1: body oils and puts on shade butter. She has a

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Speaker 1: night perfume and a linen spray for our bed. I

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Speaker 1: am dying with all of these sins. I'm like, what's wrong?

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Speaker 1: How do I get her to ease up just a

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Speaker 1: little bit?

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, bro, you might not want to mess

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Speaker 2: with that. Your wife might have a problem you on

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Speaker 2: the well, so just let her go on and do

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Speaker 2: all you just leave her alone. Though women know how

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Speaker 2: to do this type of stuff. Now, your wife could

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Speaker 2: have a condition or something, and that you don't know

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Speaker 2: nothing about.

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Speaker 3: Of what condition she just like, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know because what I learned have learned not

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Speaker 2: to do is you don't discuss female stuff with women.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know what it is is, because you know,

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Speaker 2: they don't ever tell you, because because if a woman

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Speaker 2: having a female thing, they'll just tell you it's female,

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Speaker 2: and then that means shut up.

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Speaker 3: Don't as beautiful sense.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, gotta have a condition.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying you gotta you gotta consider that

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Speaker 2: now she might just like sense you right about, She

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Speaker 2: could just like sense and she overdoing it. But on

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Speaker 2: the other hand, too, it might be something wrong. So

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Speaker 2: you just gotta find that.

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Speaker 3: Behind no, no.

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Speaker 4: Who man is sense don't make sense?

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Speaker 3: Okay, and you're not making sense all right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, let me give you a sensible answer. She

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Speaker 2: might be overstimulating her senses a bit and not realizing

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Speaker 2: how it affects you. And maybe her sense of smell

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Speaker 2: is a bit dead and yours is a little sense

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Speaker 2: to So if you could just ask cut a cut

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Speaker 2: back a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe the nine sum Yeah.

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Speaker 2: All arm piss could be gamy and she's trying to

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Speaker 2: cover it up.

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Speaker 1: And y'all he just took a bath, okay, with the

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Speaker 1: bath bomber, I had a.

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Speaker 4: Pardon it as soon as he bathe he stinks.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Camaya in Atlanta, uh Camaia writes, my

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Speaker 1: son climbs trees and will sit there alone for hours.

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Speaker 1: My husband wants him to be rough and tough like

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Speaker 1: he was at his age. My husband grew up in

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Speaker 1: the projects. Our son is not about that life.

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Speaker 3: He's eight. Why is my husband worried about him? He

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Speaker 3: sits in the.

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Speaker 2: Tree trees if your m grew up in the hood

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Speaker 2: and a whole lot of trees, and yeah, I think

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Speaker 2: the boy don't like y'all. So he can climb up

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Speaker 2: in that tree and sit up there all dayn day.

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Speaker 2: At least stay ain't up here. But now you got

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Speaker 2: to allow your husband to be his father too, because

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Speaker 2: sometimes you have to steal some stuff in your sons.

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Speaker 4: Tommy got boys, I got boys.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you have to in steal some stuff in them

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Speaker 2: because they're very helpful tools as you grow up. So

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Speaker 2: don't hamper the husband for trying to instill something because

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Speaker 2: he gonna need him, trust me. Or you can let

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Speaker 2: that little boy grow and just raise them up. That

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Speaker 2: little soft as sitting up in trees all damn day

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Speaker 2: him and his wife did all with that outside climb

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Speaker 2: up in the damn tree.

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Speaker 4: I'm not speaking to you.

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Speaker 3: We can't get down.

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Speaker 4: Don't get up there in that tree and can't get down.

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Speaker 1: All right, moving on, moving on all this crazy information.

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Speaker 1: Sammy and Roanoke says, I'm dating a girl that said

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Speaker 1: she's spiritual but not religious.

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Speaker 3: She won't go to church with me. But she said,

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Speaker 3: if we're getting married, the wedding can be in a church.

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Speaker 3: My bishop said it will not be in his church

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Speaker 3: unless she does some counseling with him. She said, I'm

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Speaker 3: forcing my views on her. Is this a big, big

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Speaker 3: red flag or not? Is this a big red flag

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Speaker 3: or not?

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Speaker 2: Well, let me say this though, And if you marry

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Speaker 2: somebody and you all don't share the same core beliefs

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Speaker 2: core beliefs, that'll always be differences in people. But you

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Speaker 2: want to have the same core beliefs. And if she

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Speaker 2: don't share the same core beliefs, it's gonna be a problem.

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Speaker 2: Because all you have to understand is this. If it's

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Speaker 2: a problem now, it would be a bigger problem then that.

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Speaker 4: Those are just facts. So I'm not saying you write

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Speaker 4: or she write all like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, y'all ain't on the same page with

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Speaker 2: core beliefs and faith is a core belief that.

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Speaker 4: That was the last sam ain't that many most salmon?

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Speaker 4: That was is his random thought.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that.

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 3: It's about stop Sammy, Tommy. It's all the same.

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Speaker 1: Bella in Silver Spring. This is the last one. Steve

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Speaker 1: Bella in Silver Spring says. My mother in law had

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Speaker 1: a credit card in my husband's name for twenty years

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Speaker 1: and let it go into collections. He did not know

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Speaker 1: until he applied for a loan to get veneers. I called.

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Speaker 1: I called and told her off. My husband is furious

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Speaker 1: with me. My his mama is raggedy and so is

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Speaker 1: his mouth.

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Speaker 3: Why does he.

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Speaker 1: Always side with her regardless it's your mama raggedy?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm tell you right now, you was wrong for

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Speaker 2: calling this mom. Yeah, Harry, he was dead wrong for

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Speaker 2: calling this dead bra and going off that you don't

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Speaker 2: really know what happened with that credit card. You don't know,

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Speaker 2: so you was wrong for that. But I don't know

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Speaker 2: a lot of women women care about it. Your mouth,

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Speaker 2: you know, ain't all them teeth that be behind the

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Speaker 2: other tooth can have is one that's the man. You

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Speaker 2: can have one tooth that's offset. Here's I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: you some stuff about teeth. Women don't tolerate that corner

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Speaker 2: tooth can't be missing. But when you smile, we can

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Speaker 2: see right through.

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Speaker 4: Your head that corner.

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Speaker 2: Look that that one sharp tooth, that canine tooth, that

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Speaker 2: one can't be missing without a doubt, none of them front.

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Speaker 4: Teeth can be missing.

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