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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a suit on giving them like

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Speaker 1: the million bucks things and its true good. Steve listening

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Speaker 1: to the movie Together for I don't join join me.

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Speaker 1: You gotta U turn m you gotta turn to turn

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Speaker 1: them out. Turn You haven't got to turn them out

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Speaker 1: to turn the water the water go. Come come on

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Speaker 1: your tha, I shall will. Oh, good morning everybody. You

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Speaker 1: are listening to the voice, Come on now dig me

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: What God doing, y'all? Huh? What are he doing? What

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Speaker 1: are doing in your life? Here doing something? He moving?

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Speaker 1: He working. Don't lose your patience though, so I did

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Speaker 1: that before. Don't lose your patience. Don't don't. Don't get

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Speaker 1: so sick of waiting that you take matters into your

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Speaker 1: own hands. Don't do that. Boy, you're blowing it. Listen

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Speaker 1: to me. You're listening to somebody who's done it that way.

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Speaker 1: I had a dream. I had a vision. I had

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Speaker 1: some hope, I had some faith, I had some aspirations.

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Speaker 1: But I got a little impatient waiting on it. So

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Speaker 1: I tried a couple other things move it along. But

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how I messed it up. Then

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Speaker 1: I messed it up then, because God gave me the

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Speaker 1: power of decision. What I had to do was then

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Speaker 1: after I took matters into my own hand, messed it up. Now,

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Speaker 1: guess what, He still got something from me. But now

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Speaker 1: I gotta fix all the mistakes. Now I gotta straighten

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Speaker 1: them out. I gotta I gotta suffer some consequences. I

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Speaker 1: gotta pay for my transgressions. All of that, all of that,

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Speaker 1: it's gotta go down. You can't do something wrong and

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Speaker 1: not pay for it. It's you call it, calma, call

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Speaker 1: it whatever you wanna call it. Every action has an

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Speaker 1: equal and opposite reaction every action. If it just stays

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Speaker 1: sunny all the time, you might think it's cool, but

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Speaker 1: there's gonna be a reaction to it. Ain't no dark,

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Speaker 1: ain't no shade, ain't no break, ain't no rain. Gonna

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Speaker 1: be hard if it's just sunny all the time, vice versa.

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Speaker 1: So you need you need the opposite. You need the

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Speaker 1: darkness so you can get your break from that sun.

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Speaker 1: You need the rain so you can nourish the roots

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Speaker 1: so that sun it can soak up the sun and

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Speaker 1: get the benefit of the sun. If you don't get

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Speaker 1: the opposite, you got a problem, man. And it happens

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Speaker 1: throughout nature, it happens throughout your life. Don't think that

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Speaker 1: you can do wrong and not have to pay for that.

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Speaker 1: Do you think this is man? We we think man,

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Speaker 1: because we'd have made a decision that we think is

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Speaker 1: we got the right to make that call. No, you don't.

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Speaker 1: Whoever is telling you that, whoever's misguiding you into the

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Speaker 1: gang life, telling you, yeah, man, you need to be

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Speaker 1: this way to be down with us. I tell you what.

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Speaker 1: Get yourself stuck on chuck with that gang. See how

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Speaker 1: when it's time to do some time and they can

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Speaker 1: lessen their centers, you're gonna get that time. They're gonna

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Speaker 1: eight hours all the time, man, I watched lock Up

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Speaker 1: Raw all the time, all the time, man, all the time.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no real cold dudes out there, just holding to

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Speaker 1: hound the hood. We didn't created this ignorant mess called

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Speaker 1: no snitching. With that hignorant mess, you don't even understand.

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Speaker 1: No snitching was created by criminals as a code of honor.

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Speaker 1: If you do dirt and you get busted doing the dirt,

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Speaker 1: That's a code of honor amongst the thieves. Now, so

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Speaker 1: many code of honor thieves that then came out of prison.

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Speaker 1: No snitching, No snitching, You gotta be crazy. That's for

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Speaker 1: people who disobey the law. That's who people have made

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Speaker 1: You got to make a decision every day to do right.

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Speaker 1: Because our communities. Man, it's just going to the pot man,

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Speaker 1: because it ain't nobody can about nobody else. Don't nobody

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Speaker 1: Look at them foods over that man, Go over there

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Speaker 1: me talk to you. I saw you the other day. Man.

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Speaker 1: You look like you got something going on in your life.

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Speaker 1: What's happening with you? Let me talk to you, man,

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Speaker 1: Let me share something I learned. I was doing what

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Speaker 1: you was doing. You know it's like Toimmy did a

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Speaker 1: prank phone call one time as a limo driver, and

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Speaker 1: the dude the prank was he called this limo company

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Speaker 1: a young business he going, yeah, okay, I got you.

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Speaker 1: I don't normally work like that. But how long you

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Speaker 1: need it? He said for just bout an hour. He said, well,

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Speaker 1: because a three hour minimum. Tommy told him, now, I

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Speaker 1: So where you want to go? He gave the address.

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Speaker 1: The man stopped writing. He said, that's a bank. He

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Speaker 1: flow it that to dude with the limo. He stopped writing.

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Speaker 1: He said, ho, hold on, hold on, man, you want

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be in there for a few minutes and

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Speaker 1: He says, sir, I don't do stuff like that. He said,

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Speaker 1: you got the wrong company. He said, what made you

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Speaker 1: You a limo come to you. Just drive. He stopped

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Speaker 1: and took the time out. He said, young man, let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. He said, I've been down before,

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Speaker 1: I've been locked up before. It ain't pretty. He said,

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Speaker 1: that's what's wrong with you young people to day. Instead

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Speaker 1: you're always looking for some fast money. He's I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you what I already know. Don't go down they're

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Speaker 1: messing with them people's money like that because they love

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Speaker 1: gonna do something to you down now. Now, you stop

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Speaker 1: this foolishness. And I'm not caring you nowhere, but I'm

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Speaker 1: take care of their business where they come to that money.

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Speaker 1: Tommy kept insisting to this man to pick him up

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Speaker 1: in the limit. It was a playing phone call. But

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Speaker 1: the point I'm making is the man took out time.

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Speaker 1: He could just hung the phone up. But you know

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Speaker 1: what he's said, he's a hold up young man. Let

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Speaker 1: me hip you to something. Because the brother had been

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Speaker 1: locked up before. He said, no, no, no no, I see

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Speaker 1: I've done that when I was young. Now I a'most

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Speaker 1: stop and I'm gonna take some moment out to tell you.

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Speaker 1: I ain't going back down there because I don't. I don't.

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Speaker 1: You don't want the food. You gotta get up when

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Speaker 1: manhoo it is is to start delivering the message. The

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Speaker 1: problem that we have in our communities we could solve ourselves.

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Speaker 1: It didn't escalated to a point because we who are men,

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Speaker 1: So I went there. I don't know where they came from.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen. Look at it. See it.

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Speaker 1: It's hell, It's a new day. Wow. That's powerful. It's

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Speaker 1: I'm already glad. Join in, ladies and gentlemen. Steve Harben

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Speaker 1: Martin show about the Pop All Sherley Strawberry calling from

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Speaker 1: and the legend that is Nephew Tommy, We the pop

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Speaker 1: he even thought of he didn't wondering about but he ain't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I got something. I got something. Okay, Well here it

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Speaker 1: is happy birthday, so well I say it has a

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Speaker 1: birthday to my son. Yeah, this is his birthday. So

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Speaker 1: let's just check us in the order that it happened.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know you twenty five years ago. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: on junior birthday for a second. What you got, Tommy? Okay,

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Speaker 1: tell me if I'm wrong or not. My my wife

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Speaker 1: ran and jumped in my arms. Yes, I nah, nah,

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Speaker 1: it's a beautiful thing. It's a nice gesture. I like it.

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Speaker 1: But listen to all you ladies out there. We can't

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Speaker 1: we can't pick all y'all up. Sometimes we gotta lift

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Speaker 1: some of y'all up in spirit. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a week It ain't ain't a week back,

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Speaker 1: it ain't the back. It's maybe, well, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: just maybe. Maybe y'all ain't what you was. You know,

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Speaker 1: you know some of y'all, you know, graduated past. Jump.

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Speaker 1: Wait now, I gotta stop always here. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying? You know, yeah, you know I might I

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Speaker 1: might be the same strong as I was, but you know,

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Speaker 1: you just require more strift. Now hello, you know, and

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Speaker 1: then a lot of y'all when y'all jump, if y'all

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Speaker 1: here we go. Callista and um Maine says, I'm dating

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Speaker 1: Well to all the brothers, that was very helpful. Well,

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Speaker 1: if I got a cigar line and I tell my

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Speaker 1: wife I'm going smoking my cigar line, and every time

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Speaker 1: I get ready to go here she comes, Well, that

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna be good. Yeah, but she felt something in

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Speaker 1: her spirit though. This wife's til well, you know, get

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Speaker 1: out your spirit. That's it. That's your stay in your

425
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Speaker 1: spirit until that you know what's up. Moving on this

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Speaker 1: our last one laying elaying in Ohio says, my fifty

427
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Speaker 1: nine year old boyfriend brings the funk in the bedroom,

428
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Speaker 1: but he can't do anything around the house. He can't

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Speaker 1: do his own laundry, washing car, definitely not change a tire.

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Speaker 1: It's like he skipped over the manhood section or he's

431
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Speaker 1: been spoiled all of his life. Is his unmanliness a

432
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Speaker 1: sign that we need to break up? You obviously didn't

433
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Speaker 1: pick him for his ability to wash clean and fix calls, right,

434
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Speaker 1: and now all of a sudden you want him out

435
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 1: there fixing cars. Well, the dumba. I don't know how

436
00:28:42,960 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: to do nothing else but that. We gotta go see hello,

437
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: y'all ain't doing that. Y'all got sitting at ragged as

438
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Speaker 1: his house as it fall apart. Coming up in the

439
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Speaker 1: top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for

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Speaker 1: you right after this. You're listening to Save Hartymore show.

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Speaker 1: All right. So, while sitting down with Kevin Hart in

442
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Speaker 1: the season two peak of Heart to Heart, jay Z

443
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: discussed what's ahead for him for his career in the

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Speaker 1: new future near future. He said he's leaving it up

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Speaker 1: to chance, adding that he does not have plans to

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Speaker 1: fully step away from music. Take a listen. I'm not

447
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Speaker 1: actively making music or making an album or have plans

448
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: to make an album, But I never want to say

449
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm retired. I just you know, it's a gift, and

450
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: who am I to shut it off? You know what

451
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: I mean? Like, it's just like it's open to whatever.

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00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: And it may have a different form or different interpretation.

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00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe it's not an album. Maybe it is. I

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00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 1: have no idea, but I just, you know, just gonna

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Speaker 1: leave it open today. I like that. Just stay a vessel.

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Speaker 1: Jay Z, by the way, has twenty four Grammys. He's

457
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Speaker 1: been rapping, performing, he's putting out. He's a great business man.

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00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: For those of you listening that are not there yet, oh,

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Speaker 1: he has the ability, has earned his seat at the

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Speaker 1: table too, see how things are gonna go. He's accomplished

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Speaker 1: so much, and he has a reservoir of residual income. Company.

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Speaker 1: And for those of you that it's on the hustle,

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Speaker 1: that can't be how you go at it. They ask

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Speaker 1: us to get out there. You got to make your names,

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Speaker 1: You got to go to work. Okay, So don't sit

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Speaker 1: up it. You can't employ all the techniques. I'm a person.

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Speaker 1: You have to understand what he's said. He's talking about

468
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Speaker 1: his musical future. He's still a really, really an accomplished

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Speaker 1: business man. So don't don't take that one piece of

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Speaker 1: information to try to apply to your damn life. And

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Speaker 1: you ain't dare yet because I know how people do

472
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Speaker 1: with jay Z. Ain't go in there and tell your mama.

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Speaker 1: Jay Z said, just He's just gonna go and see

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Speaker 1: how I go by chance. So that's what I'm gonna do. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you need to get your gold work. Yeah, record reflect

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Speaker 1: all right, he has put his time. Yes he has,

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Speaker 1: Yes he has going on from one billionaire jay Z

478
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Speaker 1: to another billionaire Bill Gates. Bill Gates says he will

479
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Speaker 1: be removing himself from the World's Richest list after he

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Speaker 1: transfers twenty billion dollars to his foundation. Last week, Bill

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Speaker 1: Gates went on Twitter to outline his plan to increase

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Speaker 1: the suspending of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation by

483
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Speaker 1: transferring twenty billion dollars of his personal wealth into the

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Speaker 1: foundation's endowment. Gates wrote, I have an obligation to return

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Speaker 1: my resources to society in ways that have the greatest

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Speaker 1: impact for reducing suffering and improving life. He is hopeful

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Speaker 1: that others in his position will find it in their

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Speaker 1: hearts to do the same. Who I needed him, Miles

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Speaker 1: A Giving called him law here commercials. He could just

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Speaker 1: send his foundation much money. Whoa, So he's taking himself

491
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Speaker 1: off the World's Richest list because he's going to transfer

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Speaker 1: that twenty billion to his foundation because improve society. Ain't

493
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Speaker 1: nobody else goes when he get a twenty billion Do

494
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Speaker 1: you know how much money he's still got it. He's

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Speaker 1: still on the list foundation. He is rich. Yeah, rich rich. Yeah,

496
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Speaker 1: all right, So big news for Dancing with the Stars fans.

497
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Speaker 1: Actor and TV host Alfonso Robero will co host season

498
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Speaker 1: thirty one with Tyra Banks. As a former winner of

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Speaker 1: Dancing with the Stars, Ribero says he's very excited for

500
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Speaker 1: the opportunity and the chance to add even more fun

501
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Speaker 1: to the show. Of course. Alfonso Alfonso Robero, we know

502
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Speaker 1: him miss Carlton from The Fresh Prince. So he'll be hosting. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: one thing, he's asking play some golf. Oh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that. I did not know that. I

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Speaker 1: thought you was gonna say he could dance because calf Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you won Dancing with the Stars. What this TV show

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Speaker 1: does well? That yeah too? Yeah for him. You're working,

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Speaker 1: you're working, boy, Yeah, season thirty one. Though I had

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Speaker 1: no idea stars have been on that long man, that's

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Speaker 1: a long time after you know, what, have you noticed?

511
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Speaker 1: Have you noticed that when you don't see a person

512
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Speaker 1: in a long time and they show up on something,

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Speaker 1: you gon? Man, they old that's why I thank God

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Speaker 1: that I'm on TV every day. So anybody got to

515
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Speaker 1: feel that way about me? You shot watching my ass age,

516
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Speaker 1: and I want to thank you for that shock. Yeah,

517
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Speaker 1: antybody gotta cut the sea on the damn you're actually

518
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Speaker 1: watching it. Man, I'm tared dancing and I went, that's

519
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Speaker 1: Ted white Hand and everything. Yeah, but he's been around,

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00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 1: he's had that TV show, so yeah, yeah, yeah, I said,

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Speaker 1: here the other one. Yeah, let's talking about the show.

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Speaker 1: Because I don't get you watch TV. I know, I

523
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Speaker 1: know you did, I'd be going, we gotta get you

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Speaker 1: some new TV shows though, there's some new ones out there.

525
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Speaker 1: We gotta get this news. I like Netflix though, where

526
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: I can watch it all that. Once saw Amazon. I

527
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: got all the apps put on my TV. Now. I

528
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 1: still ain't watch Yellowstone though, Dude, I haven't seen all

529
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Speaker 1: the things. At least two Yellowstones. It's excellent. Kevin Constner

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Speaker 1: all right, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour

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Speaker 1: survey says Chicago is the second greatest city in the world.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it when we come back. Right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the same Harvey Morning Show. Well, we

534
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Speaker 1: got to give a big shout out to the city

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Speaker 1: of Chicago and our family. At v one oh three.

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Speaker 1: Chicago is officially the second best city in the world. Okay,

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Speaker 1: not the United States, not only the United States, but

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Speaker 1: the world. Okay. That's according to a brand new poll

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Speaker 1: by Timeout dot com. Chicago's ranked as number two for

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Speaker 1: best cities to both live in and visit, based on

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Speaker 1: everything from food and drink to culture and affordability. But

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Speaker 1: while Chicago, we all know this, has taken a share

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Speaker 1: of hits from gun violence and government corruption, fifty five

544
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Speaker 1: percent of the people polled praised Chicago for its resiliency.

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Speaker 1: Number one on the list is Edinburgh, Scotland. All right.

546
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Speaker 1: Other US cities that made the list are New York

547
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Speaker 1: City came in number twenty, San Francisco number twenty five,

548
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: Boston at number twenty nine, Miami at number thirty eight,

549
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles at number forty two. So there you go,

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00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 1: Chicago number two in the world. All right? Shot down? Yeah,

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00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:24,839
Speaker 1: I lived there for five years, and I love damn Hulk.

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00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: That winter not for the week at heart. You got

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00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:39,720
Speaker 1: that right, Maybe God Michigan got something. But the summer

554
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: is the best summers in the world, best summers, you

555
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: know when at Michigan. Freeze over, the freeze over. Yeah, yeah,

556
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 1: but it has to be really really cold, Tommy, Well,

557
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: surely it'd be really really cold. I mean, like and

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Speaker 1: everything low free Shirley, I thought you was from Chicago,

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Speaker 1: ill born and raising about this got to be below

560
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Speaker 1: below freezing. But I mean he's talking about like freeze over,

561
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: like the entire layer. Yeah, walk on, yeah, you walk

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00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 1: on it. I wouldn't suggest that. Yeah, don't do that,

563
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: do not do that. We love Chicago. We will fall.

564
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: You can't walk my eyes out there if you walk

565
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 1: around that edge. Yeah, around the edge. Yeah, I strongly

566
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 1: suggest you have a rope around your waistcoast. Don't do that.

567
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: Do not do that. But Chicago is a great city,

568
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: you know, and hopefully, um well this there's a huge

569
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Speaker 1: argument between that New York on our set of Family Feud,

570
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: because we have a lot of New Yorkers and a

571
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,200
Speaker 1: lot of Chicagos, and there's a huge argument about who

572
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: has the best pizza and the New Yorker adamant, but

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Speaker 1: I must tell them people in the Chicago got the

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Speaker 1: best pizza. The best pizza you got that you have

575
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Speaker 1: a New York and I lived in Chicago as Chicago.

576
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 1: Ain't playing with that pizza. Man. Y'all got some great

577
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 1: I don't like being crispy as crust. Oh we gotta,

578
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 1: oh my goodness, we look at the time. We gotta

579
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Speaker 1: get out of here because guess what. Sister Odell is

580
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: coming up next. She she is here. She is here.

581
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 1: We'll talk to her just a minute. Uh huh, right

582
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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, as promised, she

583
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 1: is here. We don't know where she's been, but she

584
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Speaker 1: she's been gone for a while, but she's back. She's back.

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00:38:47,560 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: You here, girl, you hear her? My low since Odell

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Speaker 1: and my lord, good morning, good well, well, well, well,

587
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: good mornors, good mornings. Everyone morning. How y'all been y'all

588
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 1: hands mooning a while? I thought y'all had forgotten about me?

589
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: Never though, never ever where your head? Actually you did.

590
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: It's what you did. If you didn't forget about me,

591
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: you wasn't show, wasn't gawling. Well, we're surprised that you're here.

592
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 1: What what you mean? You just called me? Yes man,

593
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 1: yes man. I just thought maybe you, you know, went

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Speaker 1: somewhere to try to keep cool for the summer and

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00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: all of that. What's been going on y'all? Y'all ain't

596
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: hand from me? Well, yeah, to check on you. And

597
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: the vacation was good. I went to cut several places,

598
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 1: you know, went down to Miams. You went to Wow,

599
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: what you doing Miamis? When I was like, you know,

600
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: I was doing missionary work like I always do. You know,

601
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: I was there. They're trying to save souls, same souls. Beach.

602
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 1: Oh lord, I was on South Beach and I think

603
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: I don't think i'mna be able to saving people. No,

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Speaker 1: you know that. You know Nephew tell Me is also

605
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 1: in Miami and filming his show Ready to know. I

606
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: went on there. I said, out there, I saw, I

607
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: watched them tape and I stayed in the back. You know,

608
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Speaker 1: I didn't want to disturb him because you know, I

609
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 1: know he's stupid. He that once, you know, so he

610
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,439
Speaker 1: does such a good job on that show. I said,

611
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Speaker 1: I stayed them the background, and you know, I watched

612
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: it Reddy Reddy love and then you know, watching them

613
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Speaker 1: girls walk on the beach, you know they wed. He's

614
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 1: but kinnan. Now, I ain't got no ain't ain't got

615
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 1: no ass panels. They don't have ass panels on them.

616
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 1: They just got a string run straight up their little

617
00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:03,439
Speaker 1: crap so uncomfortable. They look good like my bloomers after

618
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: I had walked all day in them over sharing. Would

619
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,799
Speaker 1: you ever be on a dating show or dating you know?

620
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 1: I would? You know it depending on who they asked

621
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Speaker 1: me to go out, which you know all the people

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Speaker 1: out of scene, you know, don't look like they can

623
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Speaker 1: Lewis gossip. You know, got your number one freeman, but

624
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Speaker 1: I had Oh yes, we would be in a fever

625
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Speaker 1: and you were losing what you would do whatever? If

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Speaker 1: it's what you won't sharey, come on, come on, you shally.

627
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Speaker 1: You ain't never been in the fight. You don't know

628
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: what you're doing. Good, It ain't this ain't what you

629
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: want fight? Okay, when Mogan you let Morgan get your

630
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 1: ass whooped? Hey, sister, I was thinking, um, you know

631
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 1: this the political year, you do know that, right, And

632
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:07,360
Speaker 1: one of the candidates down in Georgia is herschel Walker,

633
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: former football player, herschel Walker. He's running for a senator.

634
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: I believe, yes, yes, oh yeah, did you great grand father?

635
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh okay, his name cicter Odell Hardly, Hardley Walker, Haley Walker,

636
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:30,720
Speaker 1: Hardley Walker, Hardly. Well, you should call him Hardly because

637
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: he couldn't hardly talk, he couldn't hardly see, and it

638
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: just rubbed off on his dumb ass great grandson because

639
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 1: he just as dumb as a doknob. I don't know

640
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: why Hershel Walker is running for anything, just in here,

641
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: just sounding you sound just like Slavery. I don't know.

642
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: Doug his ass up from thinking he's gonna all right

643
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 1: other black men like we're just voting for people cost

644
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: days black. Well, thank you, sister Odell. Our time is up.

645
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: Um what you introducing the nephew and the prank phone call?

646
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: Please well? Leddy and Jamie hees bigger fool on this

647
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: his show. Nephews, Tommy, we're the prank calls of f

648
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: fooling people. Right after this, Oh, what were you playing?

649
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: Whenever you want to? You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning

650
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: Show coming up at about four minutes after the hour.

651
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today, and the name of

652
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 1: the letter is a game of cat and mouse every night,

653
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 1: a game of cat and mouth every night. We'll get

654
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: into that in just a bit. Uh huh, sounds interesting. Right,

655
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: we'll see what it's all about and a few But

656
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: right now, the nephew is here for today's prank phone

657
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: call what you got for us, neph I'm gonna go

658
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: deep in with tim my stupid arc Shirley. I need

659
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: you to wash me. I need you to wash me.

660
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: There ain't no sensing me washing myself. I need you

661
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: to wash me. This girl, I got this, you know.

662
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: I've been working on it. Whether the weather be cold,

663
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: or whether the weather be hot, whatever the whether we

664
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 1: end this together, whether we like it or not, we

665
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:39,920
Speaker 1: don't like it, whatever, whether the whether the weather be cold,

666
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 1: or whether the quether be hot, whatever the weather. We

667
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: end this together, whether we like it or not. What

668
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: right up there with Quindy Quilliam, Right up there with

669
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: Quindy Quien. I'm gonna say it again. I need you

670
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 1: to have washed me. It's a great data nursery. This

671
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: is Felicia. I'm trying to get somebody to come down

672
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: here to five on one. I'm sorry, five old one.

673
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 1: I need somebody to come down here to five O

674
00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: one and and clean me up. Sir. I think you

675
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,320
Speaker 1: might have the wrong number. This is the nurser. This

676
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: is just the nurse. I need the nurse to come

677
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: down here to five on one and clean me up. Sir.

678
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: This is a nursery, not the nurse. I think you

679
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: might have dow the wrong number. Nor I need to

680
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:39,760
Speaker 1: talk to the where nurse a city. That's who's normally

681
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: to clean me up. I need to come down here

682
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: and clean me up, sir. I really do think you

683
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 1: have the wrong number. Where are you calling from? Who? Who? Who?

684
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: Who is this here? This is Felicia. I'm the director

685
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 1: here at the nursery. That's what I say. I need

686
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 1: the nurse to come down here to clean me up.

687
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: I'm playing and every all this stuff to clean me

688
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 1: off because I've been sitting here a long time. I

689
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: ain't nobody come, sir. I think you dial the wrong number.

690
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,919
Speaker 1: If you tell me where you are, I can try

691
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: to help you. But I ain't done the wrong number.

692
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: I need somebody to come down here and clean me off.

693
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: This ain't right, y'all. Pose the pill y'all pose the

694
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: guinea ever pot comes check on the Ain't nobody come

695
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: check on me yet? Okay, well, I apologize, but you

696
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: have the wrong number. Try hanging up and then dialing

697
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: this the nurse station. Sir, this is a nursery. We

698
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,760
Speaker 1: take care of children here. This is not the nurse station.

699
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm not a child, I said, it's this the nurse station.

700
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you're not listening to me. This is not

701
00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: the nurse station. This is a nursery. We have children here.

702
00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,879
Speaker 1: We take care of children. So I think you dialed

703
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: the wrong number. No, they said that. I think they

704
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: posed to come clean up every all. They posed to

705
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 1: come to canna be here. I bet on mind need

706
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 1: three hours. They're nobody come to check on me yet another.

707
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: I need somebody to come clean me up in the uh.

708
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: The bad plant is fool and they just they they

709
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: they just don't come check on its like they pull

710
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: the check on them. They I am check on it.

711
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry that they have not come to check

712
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: on you and your your bad pants. So why would

713
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: they learn the suit You're like they do. Okay, so

714
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: just listen to what I'm saying. This is a nursery.

715
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: We take care of small children. This is not the

716
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: nurses stations. Oh my grandkid, I got small childing as

717
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: my grandkids. I got about forty two grandkids that comes

718
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: in all Sunday. But soon did they leave the people

719
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 1: at the nurse stairs and then they ain't treat me

720
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,960
Speaker 1: a bad and leave me here like they're two to

721
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: three hours? I'm about come check on. Can you come

722
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 1: down here check this bad play? Sir? I can't do that.

723
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: I need to get back to the kids here that

724
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: if we take care of it. My kids. No, my

725
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: kids don't come till they come on Sunday. They come

726
00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:06,919
Speaker 1: and all a sudden, out the chuck and they come sleep,

727
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: do they Okay? Okay, well I'm glad your kids come

728
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,479
Speaker 1: see you. And I'm going to get off the phone now.

729
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,359
Speaker 1: When I hang up, you just down the number right

730
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: when you get off, you're gonna come down here and

731
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: come thick and clean me up. I'm not going to

732
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: do that, but I'm going to let you call BACKNNA,

733
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: come clean me up. Why are you gonna do that?

734
00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:31,760
Speaker 1: Brothers do it there. I'm not a nurse, I'm a teacher.

735
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: When when when when when when? When? Ill coming through.

736
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: Do you proposed to do the job? You do? What

737
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,800
Speaker 1: the job or whatever your job or they what you do.

738
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: I worked for two years straight and I did my job. Okay,

739
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: I'm a teacher. Then why come on down here and

740
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: do what you proposed to do. I don't clean the pain.

741
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: You know why. I go, y'all, young phone, don't do

742
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: your job. The damn it you're gonna make me. Man.

743
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: If you're gonna get you down, you get your daria. Uh.

744
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm going to ask that you're not talk to me

745
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: like that. You don't come clean this bad bit and

746
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: clean me up. I ain't gonna be sitting here like

747
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: this all the time. What's your name again, it's Felicia,

748
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: and I have time really really nice because down here

749
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: right now, please do not speak to me like that.

750
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: I'm trying to know. You're gonna calm down and quit

751
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: talking to me like that. I'm trying to help you. Now.

752
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: That's just rude speaking to me like that that. This

753
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:38,239
Speaker 1: is a nursery, read you a noise ball to do.

754
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: Darn right now, I knew you. I'm talking to him,

755
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: but David, you're not gonna talk to me like that.

756
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: That's just rude and disrespectful. Don't speak to me like that.

757
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: You're talking about kicking I will kick yo in the wheelchair.

758
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 1: This seems to be the only language you understand. Is

759
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: me talking to you crazy. Since you're talking to me

760
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: crazy when you're gonna get you? Is not coming down

761
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 1: that you stay in that stink? How about that? What

762
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 1: did you say? You heard me? I said you stay

763
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: in that stink. I'm not cleaning though. I've been trying

764
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: to hear you for the past five minutes, but you

765
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: won't shut up long enough to listen. You gonna get hidiot.

766
00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: I am not coming down there to clean your Why not?

767
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:24,040
Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell you that it is not

768
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: my job. You dial the wrong number. I'm talking to you.

769
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: Who are you talking to like that? Who? We'll bring

770
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: it on if you think you've been getting your wheelchair

771
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:36,600
Speaker 1: and make it down here to the nursery to whoop

772
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:40,600
Speaker 1: my and come the hell owned listen when you're taking

773
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: message from it and give it to somebody? What what?

774
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 1: What's your what's your message? Right down and e in

775
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 1: e and uh huh whatever age uh huh uh huh, y'all?

776
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 1: What okay? You got you got that part. Yeah, I

777
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: got that. Okay, dude, Oh damn, what is that? What

778
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,799
Speaker 1: doing spell? I don't know what is it? You must

779
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: spell it off. I'm not selling as you tell me

780
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: what it is? What does that say? I don't know.

781
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: Nephew taught me, Nephew tim Me. This is Nephew tim

782
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Morning Show. Baby, you just got

783
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: break by your sister Nita while you were sitting up

784
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: there like what in the world? Yeah, yeah, then you

785
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:48,319
Speaker 1: got me, you got me over? I got you, I

786
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: got you. I got one question for you, though. What

787
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,680
Speaker 1: is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest

788
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: radio show in the land. It is the Steve Harvey

789
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: Morning Show. You got me good? It's what I do, man,

790
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: That's what I do. It's what I do. Baby, It's good. Yeah.

791
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:16,720
Speaker 1: Get ready y'all. It is going down July twenty ninth, Friday.

792
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 1: You don't want to miss it is a season number seven.

793
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: Ready to Love My Ammi, Baby, Ready to Love My Ammy.

794
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: Make sure you tune in because the Nephew was doing

795
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: to be good playing. I'm playing match makeup. Oh, this

796
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: one is good. This is really really, yes, really good.

797
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: I can't wait, I right, can't wait? All right? Nephew,

798
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,359
Speaker 1: thank you? Coming up Nextidento Strawberry Letter. The subject is

799
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: a game of cat mouse every night. We'll get into

800
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: it right after this you're listening to show. It is

801
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: time now for today Strawberry Letter. And if you need

802
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

803
00:53:05,480 --> 00:53:08,920
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com. All you

804
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter. We could

805
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

806
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 1: we're going to read this one right here, right now,

807
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours. You never know.

808
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,360
Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for

809
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:26,240
Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject a game

810
00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 1: of cat and mouse every night. Dear Stephen Shirley, my

811
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: husband and I got married two months ago and I

812
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 1: haven't been getting any sleep. I need your help on

813
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: how to get my husband to calm down. I married

814
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 1: a very religious man and he wanted to be a pastor,

815
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: but changed his mind about a year ago. Because of that,

816
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: he already thinks he is one. He insisted we wait

817
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: until marriage to have sex, so we did kind of.

818
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 1: We pooled around once just to see if we were compatible,

819
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 1: and it was great, so I was excited for a

820
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: married life with him. As soon as I said I do,

821
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: he was ready for some action. We had sex between

822
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: the wedding and our reception while I was trying to

823
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: change into my second dress. I was not even in

824
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 1: the mood, but he started quoting scripture about how a

825
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,279
Speaker 1: woman is supposed to treat her man. I tried to

826
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 1: stay at our reception as long as I could because

827
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 1: he kept whispering to me all that he was going

828
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: to do to me that night. I was too tired

829
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: for all of that, and he didn't care. We have

830
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,799
Speaker 1: had so much sex since that night, and I have

831
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: to run, hide and make up excuses to get a

832
00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:42,360
Speaker 1: break from pleasing him. Don't get me wrong, it's fantastic,

833
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 1: but too much of a good thing is a problem.

834
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: He likes the game of cat and mouse and capturing

835
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: me all over the house. I suggested we try sex

836
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,319
Speaker 1: at lunchtime, and he said it will make him too

837
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: tired to finish his day in the mornings. He said

838
00:54:57,560 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: he has to prepare mentally for his day, so sex

839
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,439
Speaker 1: won't work. He only wants to have sex at night,

840
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: all night like three times a night. I sat him

841
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 1: down and set him down and told him we have

842
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 1: to compromise, and he looked so defeated that I felt

843
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 1: bad for him. We're both thirty, and my aunt said,

844
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: he will settle down soon. At what age does a

845
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: man settle into a sensible sex schedule? How do I

846
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 1: handle this? Well? I would think a sensible sex schedule

847
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 1: would be one that you guys, you know, to use

848
00:55:32,120 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 1: your word compromised about, And right now that's not happening.

849
00:55:36,760 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: You know, maybe as he gets older, forties, fifties, maybe

850
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: he'll slow down. Then he wanted to be a pastor,

851
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:46,919
Speaker 1: you said, but he changed his mind. I really don't

852
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: think that's how that works. When you have a call

853
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: in your life to be a pastor but you have

854
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 1: other problems. You're trying to get him off you. That's

855
00:55:54,560 --> 00:56:00,320
Speaker 1: what you're trying to do. And this is something because

856
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 1: if you're complaining this soon into the marriage, it's only

857
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 1: been two months. Okay, you're newlyws. That's what you're supposed

858
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: to be doing. You're supposed to be doing it, doing

859
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: it a lot, Okay. Then later on, like your aunt said,

860
00:56:16,080 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 1: it slows down. But this is your issue. It's important

861
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 1: to you. You're right. Sometimes too much of a good thing, is,

862
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:25,759
Speaker 1: you know, too much? It can be your husband has

863
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: lived a sheltered lifestyle, trying to be a pastor and

864
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:30,399
Speaker 1: all that, and he's trying to get it in as

865
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: much as he can without any regard to your feelings.

866
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,760
Speaker 1: It's all his way or no way. He even quotes

867
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 1: the Bible to get you to try and guilt you

868
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: into having sex with him. He could compromise, like you say,

869
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:48,879
Speaker 1: with you do some morning, some lunchtime, some afternoons. But no,

870
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: he says, that doesn't work for him. But what about you?

871
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: You know? And then nighttime you know is good of course,

872
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: but not all night. You got to go to sleep

873
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 1: at some point. Again, your man needs to learn and

874
00:57:02,840 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: understand the meaning of the word again, compromise if you

875
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: guys are going to be happy in this marriage. And

876
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 1: that's the thing. You guys have years to be together,

877
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: God willing, So what is the rush? Slow it down

878
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,760
Speaker 1: just a little bit, that's all you're asking. This is

879
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: not a race, it's a marriage. So after this honeymoon

880
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: period you can start to pace yourselves because you're gonna

881
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: have to get some sleep at some point, and he

882
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: needs to know that just because you're his wife and

883
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: you're there, you know that doesn't mean that, you know,

884
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: he gets to pounce on you whenever, whatever, however he

885
00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: wants to. It's not just about him. This is about you, too, Steve.

886
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: I have answers to all these questions this woman has

887
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 1: before we get to him. Let's go through some parts

888
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: of the letter that I found to be all interesting.

889
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,520
Speaker 1: A game of cat and mouse every night, that's the

890
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: name of the subject. Every night. We gotta do it

891
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: every night. Now, she'd been married to the husband for

892
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:07,800
Speaker 1: two months and she's been getting no sleep, and she

893
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: needs some help on how to get her husband to

894
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 1: calm down. She said, I married a very religious man

895
00:58:14,920 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 1: that he wanted to be a pastor, but changed his

896
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: mind by the year ago. Okay, I didn't know you

897
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: could do that. I didn't know you could take your

898
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: call and then just go I ain't even to do that. Well,

899
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: I guess you can not answered the call, but I

900
00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:31,840
Speaker 1: guess you change your mind. Y'all headed for some for

901
00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,360
Speaker 1: some more rocket roles. I'm gonna just tell you that

902
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: since he's a very religious man, because of that, he

903
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: already thinks he's won. So he insisted that y'all waiting

904
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 1: to marriage before y'all had sex, And you did that

905
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: kind of but your food around one time. Make sure

906
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: y'alls compatible. You know, that happens, that's life. And it

907
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: was great, okay, So you was excited to have a

908
00:58:56,200 --> 00:59:00,360
Speaker 1: married life with him. But as soon as you said

909
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: I do, homeboy was ready for action. So right after

910
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 1: the win, before the honeymoon, when you was changing dresses

911
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: for your reception, here he come. Oh, boy was ready.

912
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: And then you was trying to go when I'm standing

913
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 1: and go into your second dress, and you weren't even

914
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:29,120
Speaker 1: in the mood, but he started quoting scriptures about how

915
00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:33,439
Speaker 1: a woman is supposed to treat her man. I'm gonna

916
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: stop right there because I have several questions at this

917
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: point about this letter. All right, Steve, we'll have part

918
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

919
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 1: after the hour. Today's subject a game of cat and

920
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: mouse every night. We'll get back into it right after this.

921
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

922
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. Finish up your response. The subject is

923
00:59:57,360 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 1: a game of cat and mouse. Every night. Well, this

924
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: woman and married this religious man who was called to

925
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: be a preacher. But a year ago he decided he

926
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna do that because he wanted to live a

927
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: more obviously different lifestyle than pastor and would require so

928
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: he bagged out of that. But since he that, he

929
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:19,720
Speaker 1: still think he's a minister. And so you all decided

930
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,080
Speaker 1: not to have sex before you got married. But then

931
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 1: y'all went on the food around one time to make

932
01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 1: sure y'alls comparable compatible. That's human nature. So happened. It

933
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 1: was good. So now you're really looking forward to married life.

934
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: But as soon as y'all said I do, I'm talking

935
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 1: about right after the vibe, he homeboard ready for action. No, no, damn,

936
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: all in pictures. Out took these pictures. But you know

937
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: where my hand is, thought you. So now y'all had

938
01:00:53,040 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: sex between the win and your reception. Wow. And then

939
01:00:56,920 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 1: you was trying to change into your second dress for

940
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 1: the reception evening. You weren't even in the mood, but

941
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: he started quoting scriptures about how a woman it's supposed

942
01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: to treat our man. Now, let me ask you a question,

943
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 1: can y'all please send all of us me and descripture.

944
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: What is the scripture that she's getting all this sex

945
01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 1: on home? Send us the scripture so we can have

946
01:01:30,720 --> 01:01:34,280
Speaker 1: the scripture because I'm very unfamiliar and if anybody knows

947
01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:38,800
Speaker 1: the scripture, that make it a require minute that y'all

948
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 1: do what we want y'all to do and how you

949
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,200
Speaker 1: want to do it in many times? Can you please

950
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,840
Speaker 1: send us a copy of the thank you? What are

951
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:54,600
Speaker 1: you going to apply? I'm gonna read it to my wife. Yeah,

952
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 1: now here's another problem. And then she said, I try.

953
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:01,920
Speaker 1: I had to stand the reception as long as I

954
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 1: could because he kept pushing to me all that he

955
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: was gonna do to me that night. I was too

956
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 1: tired for all that, and he didn't care. You know,

957
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: I've noticed a lot of women because of the activities

958
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: of the wedding day and the reception. I've heard a

959
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:19,760
Speaker 1: lot of people say that that night, that night of

960
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: the wedding, it don't be all that y'all thought it

961
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:28,880
Speaker 1: was gonna be, because she'd be woe out. Yeah, so

962
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: you know, but he don't care. The lady said, we

963
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:35,640
Speaker 1: have had so much sex since that night that I

964
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,959
Speaker 1: got to run, hide and make up excuses to break,

965
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: to get a break from pleasing him. And then she

966
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:44,000
Speaker 1: tried to fix it. Don't get me wrong, it's fantastic.

967
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: No it ain't. But too much of a good thing

968
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 1: is a problem. And then he want to play cat

969
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: and mouse all night long, and then and that's what

970
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 1: it's up. So she had to go hide and then

971
01:02:56,040 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 1: he find her. Now this ain't cat and mouse, this

972
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: is hide and seek. The only way you gonna get

973
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: out of this problem is from now on, when y'all

974
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: play high and seek, you're gonna have to leave the

975
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 1: house back completely. Sneak out. Did you say, put a

976
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:19,520
Speaker 1: ladder up against the garage and climb up on it

977
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,920
Speaker 1: and then kick the ladder open. He will never find

978
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: you up there, but you have got to get out

979
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: of that house. So now here's the problem too. He

980
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: don't like sex doing the day because she didn't try

981
01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 1: to tell him, let's have lunch, but he doesn't. He

982
01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: can't get it in the morning because he wants to

983
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:43,200
Speaker 1: have sex. You know. He told you that he can't

984
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: compromise because I suggested to have sex and lunch, he said,

985
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 1: to make him too tired to finish the day. Then

986
01:03:49,680 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: in the morning he got to prepare mentally for his days,

987
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: so sex won't work. He don't want to have sex

988
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 1: at night. I set him down and told him we

989
01:03:57,120 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: got to compromise. He looked so defeated. I felt bad.

990
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 1: We're both thirty, and my aunt said he will settle

991
01:04:03,080 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: down soon. At what age does a man settling into

992
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 1: a sensible sex How do I handle it? Well, let

993
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:10,800
Speaker 1: me help y'all with that, because I know exactly when

994
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: his ass is gonna settle into a sensible sex schedule.

995
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 1: As soon as y'all have kids. Boom, settle case clothes.

996
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: You ain't got where about all this where you every night?

997
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: And then he gonna help out with these kids. He

998
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 1: got to get up in that two hour feed and

999
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 1: scheduling all that soon as y'all have kids. If I'll

1000
01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: tell you something else, if he tried to open a business, Oh,

1001
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: he's gonna set his ass right on downed. Oh you

1002
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: got to think now. See, so y'all just missing a

1003
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,120
Speaker 1: couple of things. Y'all ain't got no family started, and

1004
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:53,959
Speaker 1: y'all ain't got no real business going. Y'all both at work.

1005
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: As soon as y'all get to having dreams and aspirations

1006
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 1: as soon as y'all sit down and feel out that

1007
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: vision and find out what everybody won't and think. And

1008
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: now you realize what it's gonna take to make that

1009
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 1: vision board come through, come true. Oh, you're gonna get

1010
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 1: on the sensible sexual schedules. Then you can believe that

1011
01:05:11,720 --> 01:05:16,760
Speaker 1: some kids and some visions. All you got to do

1012
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:20,920
Speaker 1: is wan't more and have more And here comes a

1013
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: whole bunch of sensible as six. Congratulations, you are now

1014
01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: into this sexual or sensibility phase of life, and them

1015
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: kids gonna help you be real sensible. All right, Steve,

1016
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: I sent you a scripture. Yeah, I'll read it when

1017
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:46,360
Speaker 1: we come back. Send it to me too. Now I'm

1018
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 1: gonna say, I'm gonna if you ain't gonna want to

1019
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:57,720
Speaker 1: come all right? All right? Thank you. Um. You can

1020
01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:00,600
Speaker 1: hit us up on Instagram at Steve har the FM

1021
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: to comment on today's Strawberry Letter. You can also check

1022
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. They're coming up next.

1023
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:11,439
Speaker 1: It is Sports Talk with Tommy. That should be fun. Yes,

1024
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1025
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:20,240
Speaker 1: it is time now for Sports Talk with Tommy. What

1026
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:22,919
Speaker 1: you got Tommy here? All right? I got something, Steve

1027
01:06:23,000 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: right here. The Houston Texans have recent settlement with thirty

1028
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: women who made claims or were prepared to make claims

1029
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 1: against the NFL organization for it's a large role regarding

1030
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 1: sexual misconduct allegations against Cleveland Brown's quarterback, this Sean Watson.

1031
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: Each of the thirty settlements are confidential. Okay, they're confidential.

1032
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 1: The Texans owners issued the statement on Friday. We hope

1033
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: this resolution will provide some form of closure to the

1034
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: parties involved, our fans, and the Houston community at large.

1035
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,120
Speaker 1: We will now turn our focus to the future and

1036
01:06:56,280 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: doing what we can to ensure respect for all. So

1037
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:04,720
Speaker 1: now you got your quarterback. Well, well that's not what

1038
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: that says for us. What that says is the owner

1039
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,360
Speaker 1: who's next door neighbor is the lawyer to all these

1040
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 1: girls who he went to ruin Deshaun Watson since Deshaun

1041
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 1: Watson didn't want to play for Houston. Now them backfired,

1042
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:21,280
Speaker 1: and now the next door neighbor, because they ain't speaking

1043
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 1: no more, then turn to everybody. So now they pay

1044
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 1: a settlements out. Oh see, you got to be careful

1045
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 1: when you dig a hole for something, because you might

1046
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 1: end up in that same hole. I'm talking about the

1047
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 1: owner of the Texas trying to uh destroy lawyer. Yeah

1048
01:07:38,960 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: he he lived right next door to the owner when

1049
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,919
Speaker 1: when Deshaun said he didn't want to play, and they

1050
01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:48,960
Speaker 1: sick the bulldogs on DeShawn. So but now the bulldog

1051
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 1: to turn around bit yourself. See you gotta be careful

1052
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:55,640
Speaker 1: with that right there. Now, that ain't speculation. That's inside

1053
01:07:55,680 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 1: Pimperie pipe to play for the Browns or not. Oh no,

1054
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 1: not yet to judge still ain't finished her ruling. You

1055
01:08:05,400 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 1: think he's gonna be suspended for a few games. Yeah,

1056
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 1: they're gonna suspend it for a few things and then

1057
01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: just not the whole year. It just can't be the

1058
01:08:14,200 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: whole year. He better be all that when he hit

1059
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:21,559
Speaker 1: the field though, he better look, man, this was this

1060
01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:25,240
Speaker 1: was a money situation from the trying to get though

1061
01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: and that's what it is. Steve Huh said, Oh yeah,

1062
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 1: the way they went, the way that lawyer went and

1063
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:40,719
Speaker 1: rounded up everybody to make the case bigger and bigger.

1064
01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 1: And now everybody, you don't look, there's no criminal things.

1065
01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:47,679
Speaker 1: It's got thrown out of grand jury. Try twice. Now, everybody,

1066
01:08:47,760 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 1: take a settlement payment. See, why don't you take them

1067
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:56,360
Speaker 1: settlement payments? Come on now, But do you think he'll

1068
01:08:56,400 --> 01:09:03,560
Speaker 1: get any massages in Cleveland? I'm just I just stro

1069
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:09,000
Speaker 1: watching in Cleveland. You have all your massage. You're gonna

1070
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 1: be at your training facility by some dude. All right, listen,

1071
01:09:21,680 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 1: all right, thank you, nephew, and for junior with sports

1072
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have

1073
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

1074
01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:34,679
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, guys,

1075
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 1: Boosey is back in the news after he got pulled

1076
01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: over and nearly as nah, yeah, he got pulled over

1077
01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: during a traffic stop in Georgia. Boosey was allegedly pulled

1078
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: over for having heavy window tent and concealed tags. When

1079
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: they stopped the vehicle, officers said they smelled marijuana, which

1080
01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: triggered a search that turned up a few grams of

1081
01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:02,240
Speaker 1: weed and a large bag of cash. Video from the

1082
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 1: traffic stop shows Bootsey ranting about how he moved to

1083
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 1: rural Georgia to get away from the cops, noting the

1084
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:12,599
Speaker 1: six years he's spent in prison before being found innocent

1085
01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:16,240
Speaker 1: and becoming visible visibly angry because he feels like there's

1086
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:19,960
Speaker 1: a target on his back. Take a listen, I moved

1087
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:23,719
Speaker 1: out here for trailing home to the sale money hard.

1088
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 1: It's not stolen. Registration is right, the tag is right.

1089
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:35,799
Speaker 1: I was poured over because he's bootstick hard targeting my vehicle.

1090
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: It's targeting my field. If I was a white college player,

1091
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 1: you wouldn't with my field. If I play soccer or baseball,

1092
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:48,200
Speaker 1: you wouldn't with my field. You'll stopper car autographic. Well

1093
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 1: that's true, Bootsy. But now that we know that, you

1094
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: know what it is, and you're Georgia, don't listen to me.

1095
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: I live here fifteen miles outside of Atlanta. Your ass

1096
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 1: is in Georgia. Yeah, the real Georgia. You're gonna learn

1097
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:12,559
Speaker 1: around here. Boy. No, And so I you know, I'm

1098
01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:18,520
Speaker 1: you know, boot Bootsy may very well be being very factual. Yeah,

1099
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 1: but you know what this is. You know what this

1100
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:26,240
Speaker 1: he is, man, and we have to deal with it constantly. Ye,

1101
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:30,840
Speaker 1: black man in America. I'm dealing with some issues right

1102
01:11:30,880 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 1: now in in in this state. It ain't got nothing

1103
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: to do except it because we black, thin damn thing

1104
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: to do with it. Said, nothing else Wow. Well, after

1105
01:11:42,960 --> 01:11:46,080
Speaker 1: all this, the officers uncuffed Bootsy and the nineteen year

1106
01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:48,559
Speaker 1: old man he was with and said they were free

1107
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 1: to go. After they issued the citation for the nineteen

1108
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 1: he took ownership of the we Yeah, he was upset too,

1109
01:11:57,040 --> 01:12:00,240
Speaker 1: He was very angry. Yeah, he went on a ranch. Uh.

1110
01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 1: He did get it though, I understand. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1111
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:07,360
Speaker 1: I get it. Man, there you go. Yeah, I'm glad

1112
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:09,240
Speaker 1: nothing and I'm glad it didn't get worse than that,

1113
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 1: because we all know it could have been way worse

1114
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 1: than that. And he got there custom and tripping. Oh,

1115
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:23,520
Speaker 1: it's usually best to save the rent after you're uncuffed

1116
01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:28,240
Speaker 1: and back at your house. Okay, m hm, yes, put

1117
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: it on social media. It's usually the best time. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1118
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 1: because you never know which way it's gonna go once

1119
01:12:41,000 --> 01:12:45,559
Speaker 1: you're stopped. You just never know. Well, let's also give

1120
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,799
Speaker 1: credit to the officers who realized there was a mistake

1121
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:52,640
Speaker 1: and then tried to do the right thing afterwards. So

1122
01:12:52,960 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 1: let's give a shout out to them, because it's so

1123
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:58,679
Speaker 1: often gold the other way. You know, it's it's dog

1124
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:01,160
Speaker 1: gonna shame that you gotta sell break not getting shot.

1125
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:07,679
Speaker 1: I mean, really see that's really a sad day when

1126
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:12,519
Speaker 1: you have to celebrate not getting shot. That the victory

1127
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:15,640
Speaker 1: that you got stopped by the police. Yeah, but the

1128
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 1: victory is you were able to get back in your car. House.

1129
01:13:19,400 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: That's because the common thing is the other way. Oh yeah, yeah, unfortunately,

1130
01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:31,679
Speaker 1: but it's a fact. Yeah mmmmmm, it is a fact. Yeah.

1131
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: Well that was yeah one in the wind column. I

1132
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: guess you could say definitely, m I'm glad he was

1133
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:45,559
Speaker 1: able to walk away, drive away whatever you care. Yeah,

1134
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 1: And Steve, you're you're you're okay. You said you're dealing

1135
01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 1: with something. You're good. Of course, I'm gonna be fine

1136
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: because God is in control. It's not them. You can

1137
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: put out all the committees you together, You won't. You

1138
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 1: ain't really in control. It's really you need me to

1139
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: ride down there. Please don't do that. All right, Coming

1140
01:14:10,640 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more

1141
01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're

1142
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:22,759
Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, It's been confirmed that Chloe

1143
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:28,639
Speaker 1: Kardashian and Tristan Thompson are expecting a baby boy, not together,

1144
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:33,000
Speaker 1: though they're doing this by surrogate. Okay, bea surrogate. Sources

1145
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:36,200
Speaker 1: tell Page six that Chloe has always wanted a little

1146
01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:39,719
Speaker 1: brother for her daughter True, and decided to go ahead

1147
01:14:39,760 --> 01:14:42,080
Speaker 1: with having the baby with the support of her family.

1148
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:44,680
Speaker 1: A rep for the family confirmed that the baby was

1149
01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 1: conceived in November and Chloe is incredibly grateful to the

1150
01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:53,040
Speaker 1: extraordinary surrogate for this blessing. According to reports, Chloe and

1151
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: Tristan are nut back together. Well, why she do that

1152
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:02,400
Speaker 1: with him? Because she won that her daughter and her

1153
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:06,000
Speaker 1: next baby to have the same daddy, same dad, Okay,

1154
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,800
Speaker 1: same daddy, Okay what she don't like him though, but

1155
01:15:09,840 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: we're just gonna Yeah, I understand, but but I want

1156
01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: your seed though I don't like you. But but you know,

1157
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: man up, there's a lot going on with this surrogant

1158
01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:23,920
Speaker 1: mother stuff and like this and on family feud. I

1159
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: had a couple interracial couple, black guy, white white white woman.

1160
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:35,480
Speaker 1: Uh well on the stage and uh they had two children.

1161
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 1: But she said, I've given birth to three. And I thought,

1162
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,759
Speaker 1: lekain and walked up into this. I thought something happened

1163
01:15:41,800 --> 01:15:46,240
Speaker 1: to the third child. She said, No, I was a surahant.

1164
01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 1: I had a baby for someone else because I just

1165
01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:55,639
Speaker 1: love being pregny. No, yeah, all right. We'll be back

1166
01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:57,760
Speaker 1: with more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

1167
01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the Hourable do a round

1168
01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:03,960
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this? You're listening to

1169
01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:07,360
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for

1170
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather breathe fire when you talk?

1171
01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:22,200
Speaker 1: I got a pardner, do that right now, dragon? Or

1172
01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:26,479
Speaker 1: would you rather talk through your teeth? Talk through your teeth,

1173
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:30,200
Speaker 1: talk through my teeth? Yeah? I read the talk through

1174
01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 1: my teeth? All right? Would you rather your Internet browsing

1175
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: history be revealed? Or your call call logs be revealed?

1176
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 1: Internet browsing? You're gonna quit right here, You're okay? So

1177
01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:56,439
Speaker 1: obviously you have a problem with one or both Internet?

1178
01:16:56,720 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah? Yeah, because I don't know how to

1179
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 1: look up have stuff I need anyway. I ain't real

1180
01:17:06,600 --> 01:17:09,640
Speaker 1: tech savvy. So he'll go ahead. So you're gonna give

1181
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,759
Speaker 1: up your call call log on your phone? Yeah? Okay?

1182
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:20,799
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, your phone. I'm giving up the browsing, okay.

1183
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 1: Versus you want to keep your phone? You want to

1184
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:25,559
Speaker 1: keep your Yeah, I got way too much going on.

1185
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,679
Speaker 1: I got my phone program when I die it's gonna

1186
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:30,839
Speaker 1: and I ain't really got no names with no codes

1187
01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 1: in it either, so you know exactly who the hell

1188
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 1: out because i'd be don't forgot who the hell there?

1189
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:40,320
Speaker 1: But wait, let's not miss this moment though, what nephew,

1190
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:45,759
Speaker 1: when you die? What it's gonna self destruct? Your phone

1191
01:17:46,280 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 1: just catch fires on Tommy's phone? What is girl? A

1192
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,559
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I want my phone as a matter

1193
01:17:56,520 --> 01:17:58,720
Speaker 1: of fact, if something having the time of Timmy, just

1194
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:02,280
Speaker 1: give me your phone, right to get your phone, your

1195
01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:08,479
Speaker 1: damn uncle man. All right, get a sick on a

1196
01:18:08,560 --> 01:18:10,560
Speaker 1: glass and Kanye can sit down and go through it

1197
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:17,080
Speaker 1: and be HOLLI all right, here's one. Would you rather

1198
01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:20,800
Speaker 1: be in a bad relationship? A bad relationship for the

1199
01:18:20,840 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 1: rest of your life? Again? Would you rather be in

1200
01:18:24,720 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 1: a bad relationship for the rest of your life? Or

1201
01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:34,080
Speaker 1: would you rather be single forever? B B B B.

1202
01:18:34,760 --> 01:18:40,519
Speaker 1: I thought you would say, you're not miserable, but you're

1203
01:18:40,560 --> 01:18:44,719
Speaker 1: still You'll still get sex though in a bad relationship? Single?

1204
01:18:46,640 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 1: Single show? Oh alright? One be different? Is that Drake?

1205
01:19:13,280 --> 01:19:16,600
Speaker 1: That's today's rounded? Would you rather coming up? It is

1206
01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 1: the last break of the day. We'll close out the

1207
01:19:18,520 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 1: show with the one and only Steve Harvey's closing remarks

1208
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 1: right after this you're listening show. All right, guys, here

1209
01:19:27,160 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: we are our last break of the day. Before we

1210
01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:33,280
Speaker 1: get out of here, we gotta say happy birthday, Steve.

1211
01:19:34,200 --> 01:19:37,759
Speaker 1: You start because it's very special to you today. Happy

1212
01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: birthday to my youngest child, my son Winton Bryce ling

1213
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:52,679
Speaker 1: Alie Harvey. Say happy that's the quarter of a century. Man. Wow,

1214
01:19:53,600 --> 01:19:56,599
Speaker 1: that's my youngest child is twenty five. Ain't that crazy?

1215
01:19:56,600 --> 01:20:01,320
Speaker 1: WoT dude? Man, I'm really really proud of him, man,

1216
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:05,000
Speaker 1: that little dude is. I'm proud of all my kids. Man,

1217
01:20:05,080 --> 01:20:08,880
Speaker 1: they really are. They're really forging their own way and

1218
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:11,599
Speaker 1: they're just good people. Look, they're making mistakes out here,

1219
01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:14,839
Speaker 1: but they're good folks. They ain't trying to mess nobody

1220
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:17,880
Speaker 1: over and stuff like that. And so I raised my

1221
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:22,280
Speaker 1: son's to be honorable young men. It's not to say

1222
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 1: they're not gonna make mistakes, because lord know they daddy did.

1223
01:20:25,640 --> 01:20:28,360
Speaker 1: But I've always been an honorable man and they've followed

1224
01:20:28,400 --> 01:20:30,919
Speaker 1: in that, and so I appreciate that. So Happy birthday

1225
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:36,280
Speaker 1: went to bryceling Alie hard Happy birthday. He works for

1226
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:40,439
Speaker 1: his daddy and he really making headway in all of that.

1227
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 1: So I'm proud of him. That's good. I'm sure he's

1228
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:47,679
Speaker 1: happy to hear you say that, because your approval. I mean,

1229
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:50,479
Speaker 1: like all of us, our parents approval means so much

1230
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:53,880
Speaker 1: to us. And he always wanted to please you and

1231
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 1: just be a good kid for you. And I think

1232
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:58,599
Speaker 1: he's you know, we've known him for so long. I've

1233
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:01,960
Speaker 1: done Winton since he was a little boy with a

1234
01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:05,720
Speaker 1: suit on three suit, a tie and a hat at

1235
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 1: three three, No longer than that. He should come to

1236
01:21:10,560 --> 01:21:13,479
Speaker 1: the radio station. He did that drop for us because

1237
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 1: he couldn't talk, and I thought it was funny, and

1238
01:21:15,400 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 1: I had him do it on the radio because who

1239
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:21,759
Speaker 1: followed me on the radio was not a Cadala cruise,

1240
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 1: Dela cruise, not a cu not a Cadela cruise. And

1241
01:21:25,479 --> 01:21:27,640
Speaker 1: Winton couldn't say it, so I had him do the

1242
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 1: drop and he said, coming up next, not a good

1243
01:21:31,400 --> 01:21:35,479
Speaker 1: day of the cruise. So it was not a good

1244
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:39,679
Speaker 1: day of the crew. So we kept that for years.

1245
01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 1: What a great kid, Yeah, what a great, great young man.

1246
01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:47,920
Speaker 1: He's grown up to be just like your daddy, would

1247
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:51,240
Speaker 1: look just like your daddy. Yeah, And then we gotta

1248
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 1: say Happy birthday to Junior. It's his birthday as well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's happy, happy birthday Junior. Junior is off today because

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Speaker 1: it is his birthday. So happy birthday, Junior. You're enjoying

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Speaker 1: your day kicking cool. Yep, yep, yep. All right, So

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Speaker 1: Steve in lieu of closing remarks, can we just ask

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Speaker 1: some questions of all right, this is a question that

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Speaker 1: I get asked a lot by women who know that

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Speaker 1: I work with you and who respect you dearly. They

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Speaker 1: all want to know where do they meet and how

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Speaker 1: do they meet good guys? They want to know where

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Speaker 1: do they meet guys? But you know, if there is

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Speaker 1: no where, there is no where. You know, it could

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Speaker 1: be at a construction site, it could be at a mall,

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Speaker 1: it could be Yeah, they think it's a place and

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Speaker 1: a car accident, there is no where. And but then

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Speaker 1: see what stops a lot of women from from meeting him.

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Speaker 1: It is because they have that ideal of if I

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Speaker 1: go to this place or if I ten this, I'll

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Speaker 1: meet the man of my dreams. You've got to remove

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Speaker 1: yourself from the equation and start placing yourself in a

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Speaker 1: different frame of mind. So here's the way it works.

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Speaker 1: Because you've heard me say that on the show million

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Speaker 1: million times. You can't ask God to bless you and

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Speaker 1: then tell him how to do it right. See, God

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Speaker 1: don't need no help from you figuring out a place

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Speaker 1: and all is here, you don't. Don't worry about that.

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Speaker 1: Tell God what you want, tell him exactly what you want,

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Speaker 1: and then say now I'm gonna trust in your will

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Speaker 1: and your timing and stop trying to help him. He

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Speaker 1: does not need your help, soul. What that means is

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Speaker 1: what you can do, though, is take care of you.

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Speaker 1: Become the best you can be that transposes itself out

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Speaker 1: into the universe. And those are the things that come back.

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Speaker 1: Your confidence, your caring nature, your ability to take care

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Speaker 1: of yourself, which sends a message to a guy that

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Speaker 1: she has the ability to take care of me and

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Speaker 1: mine I look for. I was always looking for a

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Speaker 1: woman who would not only accept me, but accept mine

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Speaker 1: because I had children, and you know, and if you

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Speaker 1: think men are concerned about that, you know women are

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Speaker 1: concerned about that, right. So if you're the best that

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Speaker 1: you can be in all areas, and a man does

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Speaker 1: meet you and he can see yourself being seeing that

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Speaker 1: same best in you in all areas applied to his

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Speaker 1: areas of life. That's how you get the man of

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Speaker 1: your dreams. It ain't going to home deeper or going

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Speaker 1: to a steakhouse or joining the country club with a membership.

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Speaker 1: It ain't that because and you got to take that

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Speaker 1: worry and concern you know too though you know a

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Speaker 1: lot of people are getting together dating. You can meet

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Speaker 1: a lot of men online. You just gotta be a

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Speaker 1: smart way to do it. And I said, just going

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Speaker 1: to Bella Gandhi's dating academy. She teaches women how to

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Speaker 1: do their profiles and stuff online. You know how to play.

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Speaker 1: That's it, you know. But there is no place, so

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Speaker 1: stop worrying about the place and just focus on you

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Speaker 1: and tell God what you want. And God has a

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Speaker 1: soul mate for you. And the only reason he would

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Speaker 1: not allow you to meet the soul mate as you're

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Speaker 1: not ready. That's the only reason you won't meet your

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Speaker 1: soul mate. Okay, it is great advice. Those are my

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Speaker 1: closing remarks. Hell y'all talk to God today. He would

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Speaker 1: absolutely love to hear from me. And don't forget to pray,

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Speaker 1: don't be ashamed to pray, and don't ever be too

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Speaker 1: Proud to Pray. Because Prayudy contests, no purchase necessary avoid

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Speaker 1: were prohibited. Participants must be the US residents at least

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Speaker 1: eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules,

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Speaker 1: visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show.