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Speaker 1: Entitled mom mad because I won't take your parenting advice

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Speaker 1: because all our kids are in foster care? Am I

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Speaker 1: the a hole? That's like the best clapbag ever? Bro?

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Speaker 1: All your kids are fucked up? Why would I take

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Speaker 1: advice from you? Jesu? Maybe Jesus? Oh my god? Well,

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Speaker 1: actually not fucked up? Like, why would you take advice

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Speaker 1: someone who literally decided I do not want to be

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Speaker 1: a parent. I nineteen female, have two kids, a two

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Speaker 1: year old and a one year old. I've been in

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Speaker 1: foster care on and off since I was fourteen. I

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Speaker 1: have two siblings, twelve and ten, whom I've taken care

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Speaker 1: of all my life. Wow. Before I had my second child,

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Speaker 1: me and all my siblings were put into foster care.

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Speaker 1: I was put in foster care first because my mom

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Speaker 1: tried to attack in front of the police while she

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Speaker 1: was drunk and after she called them on me for

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Speaker 1: no reason. She was literally just upset because I spent

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Speaker 1: some of my Easter with some of my other family.

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Speaker 1: But that's another story. Damn Ope, sure that one. After that,

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Speaker 1: my siblings are put into foster care. A couple days

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Speaker 1: later due to the situation where my sibling twelve was injured,

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Speaker 1: and she tried to hide it from the social worker.

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Speaker 1: So fast forward one year, I was stressing out about

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Speaker 1: my daughter. I don't like to pop my children due

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Speaker 1: to the fact that my mom was abusive. I'm like hit,

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Speaker 1: so I'm heavy on gentle parenting. When my oldest daughter

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Speaker 1: drew on the wall, my mom said if she was me,

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Speaker 1: she would have beat my ass. I said, well, I

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Speaker 1: don't like to pop my children. She continued to say.

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Speaker 1: She continued to say what I should do and how

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Speaker 1: I should raise my child, and it started to make

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Speaker 1: me upset because I kept telling her to drop it. Seriously. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: what do you know. After a couple of minutes of

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Speaker 1: her going on and on while I was wiping the wall,

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Speaker 1: I exploded and told her why would I take advice

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Speaker 1: from you when all your kids are in foster care.

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Speaker 1: She looked shocked and said, I'm the asshole. So am

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Speaker 1: I the a hole? Uh? The exact opposite. No, dude,

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Speaker 1: I didn't the fact that you're raising two kids. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: like dude, I could barely raise myself. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I could barely keep my Farmville farm alike at nineteen. Yeah, bro,

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Speaker 1: I could do shit. You're you're keeping two kids a

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Speaker 1: lot that's insane, and op also says, if you like

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Speaker 1: this when I have a bunch of crazy stories starring

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Speaker 1: entitled mother, please and this comes from officially Rick der

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Speaker 1: thank you. We're looking forward to more stories from you.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, you're you're not the ahole, like a, there's

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Speaker 1: actually a really there's a really good piece of advice

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Speaker 1: on taking advice. Listen to everyone, but actually act on

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Speaker 1: basically no advice right or act on very few pieces

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Speaker 1: of advice. And the other one is only take advice

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Speaker 1: from people that you respect and you want your life

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Speaker 1: to look like yeah, so and then, but that could

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Speaker 1: be in different areas, right, So, like, let's say you

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Speaker 1: want to be healthy like some runner, you want to

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Speaker 1: learn how to run, take advice on running from them,

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Speaker 1: but maybe don't take advice on, you know, how to

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Speaker 1: be in a good relationship if they're divorced three times,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's like like take like, take advice from

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Speaker 1: people who are experts in that field. What if you

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Speaker 1: want to be good at running away from your problems

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Speaker 1: that you know that that then maybe maybe that gets

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Speaker 1: running and divorce. Oh b, thank you for your story.

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