1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please 3 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: live on the air, Papa, just like we're gonna read 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. Could be now. Buckle 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:23,160 Speaker 1: up and hold on type we got it. Fool you 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: Here it is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you. You sounded 9 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: a little like Don Cornelius this morning. All right, thank you, nephew. 10 00:00:32,479 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: Subject they let their husbands run wild. Dear Stephen Shirley. 11 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: I've been married for two years and I'm twenty five 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: years old. My husband is twenty six, and he pursued 13 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: me heavily until I let him take me out. We 14 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,639 Speaker 1: had a great first date and he told me that 15 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: he loved me. I fell for him really quick, and 16 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: we got married in no time. He lived out in 17 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: the suburbs and I had an apartment downtown, so he 18 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: stayed with me mostly before we got married. Right before 19 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: the wedding, I moved in with him, and I met 20 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: three other married couples in his neighborhood. They were all 21 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: professional men, and they loved to golf, mainly because it 22 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: was a status thing for them. And I asked my 23 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: fiance at the time why he never mentioned these friends, 24 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: and he said they're his neighborhood friends and he didn't 25 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: really hang out with them because he was single. I 26 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,919 Speaker 1: got upset and asked him if he was rushing into 27 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: marriage to fit in. He said absolutely not, and I 28 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: did not nap him about it. Fast forward to present 29 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 1: day and we've been married for two years. My husband 30 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: thinks it's okay to hang out with his neighborhood friends 31 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: every Friday and Saturday night. It's fine if they're in 32 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: the backyard or in one of their man caves, but 33 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 1: they liked to go to the city to hang out. 34 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm the only wife in the group that has a 35 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: problem with it. One of the wives told me that 36 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: as soon as I start getting tired of my husband, 37 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: I will look forward to him hanging out at night. 38 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: My husband said that I'm making us look bad as 39 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 1: a unit because I'm always calling around complaining about him 40 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 1: being out. I don't like that they let their husbands 41 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: do whatever they want to do, and I hope it 42 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,959 Speaker 1: doesn't rub off on my husband. He's not a big drinker, 43 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: but now he's buying liquor and building up his bar 44 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: to show up to his friend. Is there any way 45 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: to keep my husband at home? Well, you could lock 46 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: the bedroom door and throw away the key, you know, 47 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: keep him in there, But of course you're not gonna 48 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: do that. I just think this thing started from the 49 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 1: very beginning. I mean, you guys went really fast. I mean, 50 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: to begin with, you said he told you he loved 51 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: you on the first date. That was quick, very quick. 52 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: So now that you've been married for two years at 53 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: twenty eight, he'd rather hang out with his boys on 54 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: the weekend. At twenty eight, that just seems rather odd. 55 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: It seems like you guys would still be honeymooning and 56 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 1: getting it in at this age. He's twenty eight, now 57 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: you're twenty seven. I do think it's something to him 58 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 1: rushing to fit in with the rest of his suburban friends. 59 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 1: You mentioned that he denies it, but there is something 60 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 1: to that. He is trying to impress him. You mentioned 61 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: the liquor. He's trying to build up his bar, and 62 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: he doesn't even drink all that. I mean, they do 63 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: the same things together, leaving their wives at home when 64 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: they go to the city and your husband, I don't know. 65 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:25,119 Speaker 1: I think you guys need to work out some sort 66 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: of compromise if you want to stay together, because you guys, 67 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: at the rate you're going, you might end up in 68 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: divorce court. I mean, you got to schedule some date nights. 69 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: You got to work on your marriage. Stop calling around 70 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: looking for him because he doesn't like that. Stop talking 71 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: to these other messy wives who seem bitter, they don't 72 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: even like their husband. The husbands at this point they said, 73 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: you know, when he starts getting on your nerves, you'll 74 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: be happy. All of that. You don't want to hear 75 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: that you need to work on your marriage. If that's 76 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: what you want, you know, let them know how you feel, 77 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: don't you know that doesn't require an argument or anything 78 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: like that. I mean, if he doesn't want to try 79 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: to fix it, then you know where you stand. Your 80 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 1: marriage is in trouble, and you guys are young. You 81 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: know you're gonna you're gonna come up against some hurdles. 82 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: You might want to consider counseling at least something to 83 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: try and keep your marriage together. But first, you know, 84 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: let him know how you feel. Communicate Steve great response, Shirley. 85 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm stuck on this letter in a couple of ways 86 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: because there's so many things wrong here, young sister. I 87 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: hate to tell you that, but all right, here goes 88 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: uncle Steve. Let me try to help you out. They 89 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 1: let their husbands run wild. Let okay, we'll get into 90 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: that in a minute. You've been married for two years. 91 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: You're twenty five years old, your husband twenty six. Now 92 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: this is young. Now, this is young to be married. 93 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: I just want to tell you that right off the dribble, 94 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: we had a great first He pursued you heavily until 95 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 1: you let him take you out. You had a great 96 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: first date. He told me that he loved me. I 97 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: fail for him really quickly, and we got married in 98 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: no time. Pump your brakes stop. Here is the whole 99 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: problem in this whole letter is wrapped up in that 100 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: statement right there. I failed for him really quickly, and 101 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: we got married in no time. Well, that's the whole problem. 102 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: You did not take the time to know the score. 103 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: You did not take the time to read the book. 104 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 1: You did not take the time to go over the chapters. 105 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: You just jumped into it. Anybody that's married will tell 106 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: you marriage is a challenge. It's beautiful, but Lord, have mercy, 107 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: it's a challenge. And you didn't even have enough information 108 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: about your mate going in Now. He lived out in 109 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: the suburbs. You had an apartment downtown, so he stayed 110 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: with you most of the time before you got married, 111 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: right before the wed and I moved in with him. 112 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: That's out in the suburbs. I met three other married 113 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:01,040 Speaker 1: couples in his neighborhood. They were all professional men. They 114 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: loved to golf, mainly because it's a status thing for them. 115 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: And I ask my fee, I say why he never 116 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: mentioned these friends, and he said they're his neighborhood friends. 117 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: And he didn't really hang out with him because he 118 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 1: was single right there, right there. And you know why 119 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: he didn't hang out with them, because as married people, 120 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 1: they weren't doing the things that he was doing as 121 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: a single man. You got that. When we come back, 122 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: the rest of it will get unfolded right in front 123 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: of you. Hope you enjoy it, and please stay together. 124 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: After my response, it's not over. It's just troubles, all right, Steve. 125 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 126 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour today's Strawberry Letter, subject 127 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: they let their husbands run wild. We'll get back into 128 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, 129 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject they let their 130 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: husbands run wild. Yeah, they do. They let their husbands 131 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 1: run wild. Now you're twenty five. You didn't married this 132 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 1: man twenty six. You got married really quick. You got 133 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: married in no time. According to the letter, he lives 134 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: out in the suburbs. He spent all the time downtown 135 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: with you in your apartment. When you all got married, 136 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: you discovered he had three friends out there in the 137 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: suburbs who were all married. You wanted to know why 138 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: he didn't tell you about him. He said, because they 139 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: didn't hang out because he was single and they were married. 140 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: Like I said in the beginning, when you getting married 141 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: in no time, you don't know the whole story. You 142 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: can't get a better picture of the view of the picture. 143 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: You haven't read the book, you don't have enough information. 144 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: So now this is gonna come back to bite you. Now, 145 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 1: he didn't really hang out there because he was single. 146 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: So then you got upset and you asked him if 147 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: he was rushing into marriage to fit in. He said, no, 148 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 1: absolutely not, and so you didn't nag him about it. 149 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 1: Fast forward to present day. Now we're talking two years now, 150 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: two years in past now, and my husband thinks it's 151 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: okay to hang out with his neighborhood friends every Friday 152 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 1: and Saturday night. Wow. Now, part of this is because 153 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 1: of two things. Number One, his friends have been married 154 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: for a while. Now, I guarantee you those three friends 155 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: are a little older than he is. And also this 156 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: has something to do with youth to want to hang 157 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:46,599 Speaker 1: out with your boys every Friday and every Saturday. I 158 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: get to hang out with my main boys twice a year. 159 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: Twice a year. It's when I get to hang out 160 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: with my boys. All twelve of us get together, and 161 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: it's twice a year. Yeah, that's it. Now that's been 162 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: twice this year because the funerals sad to say, but 163 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: that's how long we've been friends. Now we hanging out. 164 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: You hanging out twice a week every Friday and Sadday. 165 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 1: And if you like it, okay, if they in the 166 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: backyard or you in one of their man case. But 167 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 1: then they like to go to the city to hang out. 168 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: Now you're the only wife in the group that's got 169 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: a problem with it. One of the wives told me, 170 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: as soon as I start getting tired of my husband, 171 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: I would look forward to him hanging out that night. See, 172 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: so obviously they've been married longer than two years. They've 173 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: been married for a while. If this is the feeling 174 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: that she has. My husband said that you're making us 175 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: look bad as a unit. That's funny right there, when 176 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:52,719 Speaker 1: the dude told her, you're making us bad as a 177 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,560 Speaker 1: unit by complaining to the other wives because you're the 178 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 1: only one complaining. Well, the unit. Dog is a marriage. 179 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: That's a little bit more important than a unit and 180 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:07,360 Speaker 1: un it is an office space downtown. A unit is 181 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:11,079 Speaker 1: a collection of coworkers. You all are unit. No, No, 182 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,640 Speaker 1: this is a marriage. It's very different. I don't like 183 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: that they let their husbands do whatever they want to do. 184 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 1: And I hope it don't rub off on my husband. 185 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're hoping against it already? Does 186 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 1: he hang out every Friday and Saturday? You hope it 187 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: don't rub off on your husband. It didn't rubbed. He 188 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: with them every Friday cent Ain't that what the letter fall? 189 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: It then't rubbed. He's not a big drinker now, but 190 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: he buying looking building up his bar to show off 191 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: to his friends. Well that's good because the bars at 192 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: the house see you getting them closer to homes, and 193 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: they're gonna be drunk, but they all gonna be closer 194 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: to home. Is there any way to keep my husband 195 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 1: at home? Well, there is a way to keep your 196 00:10:58,360 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: husband at home. But let me tell you what's happen 197 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: right here. The reason they go out every night, every 198 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: Friday and every sight because what's out there in them 199 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: streets is more exciting than what's happening at home. Period. 200 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 1: This is a fact. If your husband is gone every 201 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: Friday and every Saturday, I'm assuming y'all been at work 202 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 1: Monday through Friday, and all of them get together every 203 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: Friday night and every Saturday night, is because they're blowing 204 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: off steam from the workweek, and they're blowing off the 205 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: steam without their wives. Something is happening out there in 206 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 1: them streets that's more exciting. That's what's happening at home. 207 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: Whatever happened to date night, it would seem to me like, 208 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: since all y'all are friends, it would seem to me 209 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: like as couples, y'all would get together, and it will 210 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 1: be one couple's responsibility to host and event at their 211 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 1: house or playing and the date night for you all. 212 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:07,160 Speaker 1: So if your guys did a Friday night, everything would 213 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: be cool. If the ladies and everybody got sadday. Now, 214 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: you ever seen a mob movie? You ever seen the 215 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: Mob movie? Even the Mob movie, they had a night 216 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: with a family, but then they had a night when 217 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: their girlfriends all met down at the cabana or the 218 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: cotton club. Even gangsters know, you got to take care 219 00:12:24,880 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: of your family. These faulk foods and got together on 220 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 1: the weekends and decided, ain't no damn family. That's about 221 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: its dumb. Even they do that in a gangster movie. 222 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: You got a night for the girlfriend, you got a 223 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: night for the wives. Y'all. Both day nights is shot, 224 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: y'all stupid. Y'all need a date night. Y'all need a 225 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 1: couple's night out. So y'all can save y'all's marriage. Because 226 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, this continue every Friday 227 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: and every Saturday. You can't stay married like that. I 228 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: don't care who you are, all right, We're moving on. 229 00:12:57,280 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey 230 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: on Instagram, Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. And 231 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast Please that's on demand 232 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. You 233 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: know what time it is, It's time for junior and 234 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: sports talk. 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