Speaker 1: It's time take Catch a Cheater only on.
Speaker 2: The Jubile Show.
Speaker 3: If you want to win the Jubil Shows Trip to
Speaker 3: the Caribbean, you got to listen at eight ten. Sophia
Speaker 3: is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater
Speaker 3: and she's been with her boyfriend Cole for six months,
Speaker 3: long distance for three months, and now she thinks that
Speaker 3: he might be cheating. So we're going to see if
Speaker 3: we can catch him in just a second, but first, Sofia,
Speaker 3: tell us what's going on with you and Cole.
Speaker 1: Hi, thank you so much for I guess hearing me out.
Speaker 1: Hopefully we can sort this out. It's been kind of
Speaker 1: like really really hitting me, just like I'm just so
Speaker 1: confused at this point. So like about Cole and I
Speaker 1: have been together about six months now and everything was
Speaker 1: going so great, and then a few months in he
Speaker 1: had to move overseas to London actually for work, and
Speaker 1: he was like, we got this, we can do long distance.
Speaker 1: We talked about like possibly maybe me coming there at
Speaker 1: some point, but we've been doing like the long distance
Speaker 1: things a few months now, and it was about a
Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago, like things really started to take
Speaker 1: a turn and I just like suddenly started to stop
Speaker 1: hearing from him as much. I mean I would sometimes
Speaker 1: go daze without really properly speaking to him, like there
Speaker 1: might be a text message or something, but I mean,
Speaker 1: he won't answer my calls, but he's I'll see that
Speaker 1: he's you know, like responding to other people on Instagram too,
Speaker 1: just like not but just not responding to me. And
Speaker 1: he keeps saying that he's been really busy with work.
Speaker 1: So I think that what happened is is that he
Speaker 1: met somebody over there possibly and he's just like doing
Speaker 1: this like slow fade thing maybe, but I'm really hoping
Speaker 1: it's not because he swears that, you know, he's just
Speaker 1: you know, really busy with work. But then I'm also
Speaker 1: seeing him like super active on social media and even
Speaker 1: responding to like stuff that my friends will post or
Speaker 1: memes that are sent to him by like our mutual friends.
Speaker 1: So I just don't understand why he's not communicating with
Speaker 1: me directly.
Speaker 4: I can understand why your mind would go right to
Speaker 4: that place. I just wonder. I mean, this is for
Speaker 4: all of us too, you know, when we see people
Speaker 4: being active on social media and it's just like a
Speaker 4: like or an emoji or whatever here and there.
Speaker 2: It shows us that they're active and they're looking.
Speaker 4: But when you have to respond or talk to somebody
Speaker 4: that you care about, that's more of like a paragraph.
Speaker 2: That's like a longer communication.
Speaker 4: So I don't know, maybe that just takes more effort,
Speaker 4: and he really is, you know, working and tired. This
Speaker 4: is just you know, benefit of the doubt, but it
Speaker 4: is something to think about because sometimes we're wrong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And I'm really hoping that I am just
Speaker 1: like a little bit paranoid about it, and that it's
Speaker 1: just taking time to adjust, you know, with the long
Speaker 1: distance and everything. But we already only get you know,
Speaker 1: a few hours out of our day to like really
Speaker 1: connect with each other, so with the time zone change
Speaker 1: and everything. So that's why I'm just really hoping to
Speaker 1: try and I don't know, maybe see if I can
Speaker 1: get a little bit more clarity at least.
Speaker 2: That's really hard. Do you believe you ever done long distance? No?
Speaker 2: I haven't, so, like, really you know how to stay
Speaker 2: connected when you're apart? Advice I did longest?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 2: I did? I was.
Speaker 3: I had broken up with my girlfriend when I moved
Speaker 3: away for a job, but she still thought we were together.
Speaker 3: I made it very clear we were broken up though,
Speaker 3: but there was that was a very toxic situation, which
Speaker 3: like all my relationships have been. So so I guess
Speaker 3: I was in a long distance relationship. I just didn't
Speaker 3: know it.
Speaker 2: Okay, got it.
Speaker 4: Well, let's just well we know that Sophia's man knows that.
Speaker 4: So yeah, different story. I digress.
Speaker 3: We told us what grocery store is a rewards card
Speaker 3: member of here, even though he lives in London. So
Speaker 3: we'll call and just say that he's still won flowers
Speaker 3: to be delivered to anywhere in the world the world
Speaker 3: he sends them to you or somebody else. Okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 3: we go plays, I'll come back and get your to
Speaker 3: catch cheeter.
Speaker 2: Next, it's time.
Speaker 1: To catch a cheater only on the.
Speaker 3: Jubile Show if you're just joining us for to catch
Speaker 3: a cheater. Sophia is on the phone and she thinks
Speaker 3: that her boyfriend of six months, Cole, might be cheating
Speaker 3: on us. So we're going to see if we can
Speaker 3: catch him in just a second. But before we do that, Sophia,
Speaker 3: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we've been together for about six months, now,
Speaker 1: and then about three months ago he had to move
Speaker 1: for London for work and we agreed to do long distance,
Speaker 1: but a few weeks ago he just went kind of
Speaker 1: kind of aid. Has been really unresponsive to me, but
Speaker 1: just also very active on social media and responding to
Speaker 1: other people, just like kind of ignoring me. And this
Speaker 1: is very not like him and not like us. So
Speaker 1: I'm hoping to try and get some clarity on that.
Speaker 3: Okay, So we're going to call him and pretend to
Speaker 3: be from the grocery store that he's an awards car remember
Speaker 3: at here, and do the usual, say that he won
Speaker 3: thirty six longstim red roses to be delivered anywhere in
Speaker 3: the entire world, and we'll see if he sends them
Speaker 3: to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 1: You ready, I think I'm ready.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I'm going to call him right now.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from I was looking
Speaker 3: for a rewards card member named Cole.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's that's me.
Speaker 1: That's uh yeah, what can I do for you?
Speaker 2: Cole?
Speaker 3: Congratulations you're this most big winner. Don't hang up, it's
Speaker 3: not a marketing call. Congrats.
Speaker 5: Oh that's weird, Okay, weird. I guess what did I win?
Speaker 3: Well, maybe you haven't seen the signs, but every single month,
Speaker 3: we choose one Rewards Card member at random who gets
Speaker 3: free flowers delivered anywhere they want, absolutely free. You just
Speaker 3: want thirty six long stim red roses, a box of candy,
Speaker 3: and a car to be delivered anywhere to anybody you want,
Speaker 3: anywhere you want, absolutely free. It's actually a three hundred
Speaker 3: and twelve dollars value.
Speaker 5: Okay, So, I mean this is gonna sound weird, but
Speaker 5: I actually moved. I live in London now and in
Speaker 5: like three months, so oh so, I mean it might
Speaker 5: have been my hex. She might have been using my account.
Speaker 5: So well, you know, how about we pass it on
Speaker 5: to the next person and give give them the gift?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 2: So well you can gift hours delivered.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, that's all right, I'll talk thank you
Speaker 5: so much by.
Speaker 3: Yeah yang up, I think so, uh, Sophia, I think
Speaker 3: he did. He hung up, so I'm gonna try to
Speaker 3: call him back. But maybe it's the flowers being over here.
Speaker 3: Think I'm just gonna tell him who it is.
Speaker 2: Okay, is that cool?
Speaker 1: All right? Yeah? Yeah, I think that'll Yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 3: Okay, here we are track again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hello, Hi Cole. Yeah, is this the grocery guy whatever?
Speaker 3: No, it's it's not. Actually, please don't hang up. My
Speaker 3: name is Jewbel. I host a radio show called The
Speaker 3: Jebel Show. Hi, Cole, the whole show is here. I'm Nina, Hi,
Speaker 3: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 5: Oh well, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if you ever listened to the show.
Speaker 3: We're not on the air in the UK, Yeah, but
Speaker 3: we're That was me calling you from pretending to be
Speaker 3: from the grocery store. So we do a segment on
Speaker 3: the show called to Catch a Cheater, where if you
Speaker 3: think your significant other might be cheating, you try to
Speaker 3: see who they send flowers to and your girlfriend. Sofia
Speaker 3: is actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 5: Wait, hold on, wait, wait what what you're calling me
Speaker 5: because she thinks I'm cheating? That's that's freaking insane.
Speaker 1: That's crazy that.
Speaker 5: She thinks that I'm the one that's cheating.
Speaker 2: Sophia.
Speaker 1: Well, why is that so crazy? I mean you you
Speaker 1: haven't seld in to me in weeks, Like I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to I'm just trying to understand.
Speaker 5: What's non Well, first of all, I was I was
Speaker 5: busy and then you know what, like last week, Mark
Speaker 5: he let me know that he sent me a screepshot
Speaker 5: of your profile on Tinder.
Speaker 2: Oh, why do.
Speaker 5: You do you think I'm cheating? I all I do
Speaker 5: is I don't have time to cheat you.
Speaker 1: Okay, First of all, I know I'm not on it,
Speaker 1: Like I don't know what your friend sent you, but
Speaker 1: I'm not actively on Tinder like I used to have
Speaker 1: it before you and I got together, but then we
Speaker 1: got together and then I just deleted it. So the
Speaker 1: account might be still there, but like it's got to
Speaker 1: be an old profile there. I don't use Tinder. I
Speaker 1: don't have it, so I don't know what.
Speaker 3: You're talking about.
Speaker 5: The picture is from that beach day that we had
Speaker 5: like two days before I left. Remember we went we
Speaker 5: went to the beach. That's where that picture is from
Speaker 5: from two days before I left. So that now it's
Speaker 5: an old profile that has a recent picture. Yeah, I
Speaker 5: don't I don't think so.
Speaker 1: So what you were just gonna like never speak to
Speaker 1: me again and like not actually communicate with me or
Speaker 1: talk to me or anything. You just saying that that's okay.
Speaker 5: No, I was trying to find the word to tell
Speaker 5: you that you are a terrible person and that and
Speaker 5: that you know that. I think that you're better off
Speaker 5: finding someone on your little Tinder app because that's what
Speaker 5: you deserve, is that's someone that's gonna sleep with you
Speaker 5: and give you herpes?
Speaker 2: What you?
Speaker 1: Wow?
Speaker 2: Okay, really fast?
Speaker 1: Well are you?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 1: Are you saying somebody else or not?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 5: Never, I've never want I've never wanted anyone talked to
Speaker 5: another woman since we were starting never Okay, cool?
Speaker 1: Well whatever, then I guess I should just go back
Speaker 1: on Tinder.
Speaker 4: Then wait, Sophia, are you on Tinder then or not?
Speaker 4: Like you may be honest here for a second.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like not to look for dates.
Speaker 4: What why?
Speaker 1: I'm just looking to connect with people since you know,
Speaker 1: Cole left, like he's gone, and I don't have very
Speaker 1: many friends here, like a lot of our friends are
Speaker 1: kind of scattered and busier with their partners, and mine
Speaker 1: was I thought, you know who I thought was still
Speaker 1: my partner, you know, is thousands of miles away. So
Speaker 1: I was just using it to try and connect with people.
Speaker 2: Which I totally get.
Speaker 4: But there's something called bumble BFF yeah, or other apps
Speaker 4: just for friends Tinder.
Speaker 2: That's more for different.
Speaker 1: Well okay, then I don't know. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what you do now,
Speaker 1: Like I don't know. This is like kind of gone
Speaker 1: completely derailed. So I just I don't know what to
Speaker 1: do anymore.
Speaker 4: Well cool, If Sophia is not cheating on you, are
Speaker 4: you still freaking out?
Speaker 5: I can't believe anything she says, and at this point,
Speaker 5: I don't think that there's any way.
Speaker 1: To repair this.
Speaker 5: So Cynthia, I have a nice life.
Speaker 2: But wow, he's gone. Yeah, he hung up, Sophia. It
Speaker 2: is weird to be on Tinder if you're in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Well, I guess, but I mean I think that's to
Speaker 1: each their own. He could have also like talked to me.
Speaker 1: He also lost me like two hundred bucks, so maybe
Speaker 1: you can get that out of him.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do that, but yeah,
Speaker 2: good luck.
Speaker 3: Though, Hey, at least you guys were you know, you
Speaker 3: were together for six months, not like you know, super long.
Speaker 1: And now you know yeah true, Yeah, I guess maybe
Speaker 1: I dodged a bullet too.
Speaker 4: I don't know already to jump start on Tinder.
Speaker 1: So yeah, okay, yeah, all right well, thank you, bye.
Speaker 2: Good luck.
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