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Speaker 1: You are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now.

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Speaker 1: One and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Got

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Speaker 1: a radio show because God in the blessing. Business. Got

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Speaker 1: a radio show because God is in a forgiving business.

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Speaker 1: Got a radio show because God to let you turn

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Speaker 1: your life around. Business. Got a radio show because God

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Speaker 1: no better than you know. Yeah, Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: radio show. Didn't see it coming, but he did. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna share with you today a principle of success. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's important that we get our lives together. I

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Speaker 1: and hopefully for the majority of us, that's quite a

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Speaker 1: way He's off. So what about how you living today.

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Speaker 1: How about now? You know often talk to you talk

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Speaker 1: in the morning about your relationship with God that can

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Speaker 1: never change. That is at the forefront and the best

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Speaker 1: thought process that I can give you. And I know

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Speaker 1: who I'm talking to on the radio. I'm talking to

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Speaker 1: And I'm talking to a lot of people out there

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm talking to a lot of people like myself.

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Speaker 1: There is a principle of success that is out there

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Speaker 1: that if more people understood one of the baits. This

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Speaker 1: is just one of one of the basic principles of success,

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Speaker 1: you would have more success in your life. And that

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Speaker 1: principle is this, the more people you help become successful,

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Speaker 1: the more successful you become. Well, the more people you

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Speaker 1: help become successful, the more successful you become. Because you

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Speaker 1: are a practicing helping your and as you do to

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Speaker 1: others than it's done unto you. You know, you you

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Speaker 1: you build relationships. When you do that, people forget in success,

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Speaker 1: that has to be relationships. There is no one person

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Speaker 1: You are successful, and successful people form relationships and you've

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Speaker 1: got to really coddle these relationships. You've got to nurture

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Speaker 1: these relationships. They don't just happen. You don't just get

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Speaker 1: cool with people just cause you cool. No, you've got

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Speaker 1: I just speak like that. This is an important principle

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Speaker 1: to put into your life. The more people you help

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Speaker 1: become successful, the more successful you become. You cannot look.

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Speaker 1: You have to say to people, hey, look, I've done that.

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Speaker 1: You got to take a minute man to uplift somebody,

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Speaker 1: Don't give up. You have no idea. You you you

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Speaker 1: a little bit. I walked out. I went on about

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Speaker 1: And he just encouraged me. He's a man always thought

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Speaker 1: And just hearing it from him, man, that's all right.

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Speaker 1: that you do that. That ain't Steve Harvey talking. If

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Speaker 1: you read your Bible. Somebody got a Bible verse that

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Speaker 1: out there all right, you're listening show, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Steve Harvey, one and only. Hello, Carlin Farrell,

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Speaker 1: Hello Steve Harvey, and career ladies and gentlemen. That damn

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Speaker 1: junior kill speech. Morning off, morning everybody, the King of Pranks, nephew, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: are all here. Delightful, delightful. Yes, Tuesday, Tuesday, Tuesdaysday, Taco Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: No I got her no diet doco today. Well, let

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Speaker 1: but I'm here. Not no all he hadn't done for

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Speaker 1: you that he ain't pulling out all right? Thank you

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Speaker 1: for that. Steve coming up at thirty two minutes after

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Speaker 1: CLO with our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. Right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time

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Speaker 1: now for Asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: in the building. This one is from Carman in Braden, Florida.

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Speaker 1: Carman says, my sister and I hang out with a

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Speaker 1: her with her ugly friends because all of them drink

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Speaker 1: and eat And you just said these is your sister's friends.

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Speaker 1: But see, you chose this move. Nobody made you. Your

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Speaker 1: sister is your sister by birth. Nothing you can do

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Speaker 1: about that. But these are her friends, and you chose

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Speaker 1: her friends. Why don't you start another circle of friends

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Speaker 1: I'm dealing you. I'm the owner of this house. Now,

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Speaker 1: I don't give it. I gave my money to mister Verney.

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvard Morning Show. Malik, your son got me

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Speaker 1: the plank phone call you come on, man, are you playing?

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Speaker 1: Are you serious? Come on, dog, y'all see y'all all

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Speaker 1: You ain't. Yeah, I'm a right man. I'm gona let

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I know you weren't getting at that house

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Speaker 1: come Sunday. What you dude? Hell no, we ain't moving nowhere.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm already trying to save what I'm trying

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Speaker 1: What do you think we think? I just want to know.

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Speaker 1: I just want to not moving right, ju I think

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Speaker 1: he ain't moving. I think he's made that clip. He

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Speaker 1: did make it clear. But fifteenth of October. Fifteenth of October,

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Speaker 1: Friday Night, brand New Spanking Season, are ready to love.

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Speaker 1: That's right, We're doing it, Washington, d C Style Baby

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Speaker 1: in the Nathan's Capital, The Nephew has taken over Washington,

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Speaker 1: d C. October fifteenth, on the on Network. You Don't

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Speaker 1: Want to miss it, hosted by yours truly, your boy.

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Speaker 1: And then that's on the fifteenth. But guess what on

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Speaker 1: the sixteen, Detroit, Michigan. The nephew come to town with

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Speaker 1: some amazing comedians on board. You don't want to miss

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Speaker 1: it Dominique, Rodney Perry, Tommy Davidson, Guy Tory and hosted

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Speaker 1: by yours truly nephew Tommy at the music Hall. That's

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Speaker 1: October the sixteenth at the music Hall. Side of the Night, Detroit, Michigan.

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Speaker 1: Tickets on seeing him Redden Nah hosted by the stupidest.

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Speaker 1: This is stupid at his best. See when you got

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Speaker 1: a stupid host who's a genius at the Saint What now?

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna ask you, because you said the

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Speaker 1: music Hall, I thought it was at back at the

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Speaker 1: casino back in Detroit. I was gonna ask, is that

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Speaker 1: where you drove your ass off that stage? Fail? Now

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Speaker 1: let you bring that up. Oh you ain't forgot that,

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Speaker 1: that's none of us have nephews flew off of it? Now?

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, look at the time I never wanted to

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Speaker 1: see coming up at the top of the hour. R

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Speaker 1: Kelly is guilty. We'll talk about it right after this

448
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Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Morning Show. R Kelly has

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Speaker 1: just been found guilty on all counts in his federal

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Speaker 1: sex crimes trial and could be staring down life in prison.

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Speaker 1: That's right, I said, life in prison. The jury started

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Speaker 1: deliberating on Friday afternoon, had the weekend off, and then

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Speaker 1: took about half a day on Monday to reach its

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Speaker 1: verdict on nine federal counts, including racketeering, sex crimes, human trafficking,

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Speaker 1: obstruction of justice, and kidnapping. The trial wrapped a little

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Speaker 1: over a month after it began, with the prosecution calling

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Speaker 1: for more witnesses than to defense. Kelly himself never took

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Speaker 1: the stand. Some of the prosecutors witnesses said Kelly had

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Speaker 1: a small team made up of managers, bodyguards, and assistants

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Speaker 1: who rounded up Kelly's potential victims before he groomed them

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Speaker 1: for unwanted sex, among other things. Fifty witnesses were identified

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Speaker 1: as Jane Doe's and singer Aaliyah who died back in

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Speaker 1: two thousand and one. Was Jane Doe number one. Also

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Speaker 1: the two women Joscelyn Savage and Azrielle Clary interviewed by

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Speaker 1: Gail King. Remember that interview back in twenty nineteen, also

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Speaker 1: took the witness stand and they claimed that Kelly was

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Speaker 1: controlling them right then and there during the interview with

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Speaker 1: Gail King. Well, you saw that because he was supposed

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Speaker 1: to allow to him to talk separately, he stayed in

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Speaker 1: the hallway the whole time they were talking, was clearing

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Speaker 1: his throat. Yeah, that's when they they what was that for? Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, shut up, you're saying too much, answer that question.

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Speaker 1: Controlling the interview. That was his way of controlling the situation. Yeah, wow,

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Speaker 1: you know, man, it's really this is a This is

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Speaker 1: a real travesty, a real tragedy. I mean for the victims,

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Speaker 1: first and foremost the victims, I mean to have been

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Speaker 1: subjected to the things that they were subjected to, and

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Speaker 1: and and and and and used in the way that

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Speaker 1: they were used. Uh. That that's horrible. The other part

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Speaker 1: of it is this brother had an opportunity when he

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Speaker 1: was acquitted the first time, to straighten his life up.

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Speaker 1: He had a chance, he had a chance to go wild. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, I got I got, I got clear of

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Speaker 1: that one. The one man. Let me just hey man,

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Speaker 1: let me stop this foolishness. Let me get somebody grown

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Speaker 1: and going by my business. That's not what he did.

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Speaker 1: And he went deeper, and he went worse, and now

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Speaker 1: you have to pay, and it just really sad on

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Speaker 1: so many levels, man, so many levels. You know, genius,

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Speaker 1: but you know, you know what I mean. Really, for me,

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Speaker 1: it's like if anybody gets a second chance at forgiveness

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Speaker 1: and gets a chance to get it right, but then

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Speaker 1: you go right back into the same thing that got

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Speaker 1: you there in the first place, that's something's wrong, man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: being a predator. Yeah yeah, something's wrong. And if that's

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Speaker 1: more important to you than your freedom, brother, that's that's

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Speaker 1: But I think you know what, Steve, I think these

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Speaker 1: kinds of people who do these things don't think they're

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Speaker 1: going to get caught, you know, which is why they

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Speaker 1: I think it was like, you know, I'm teflon down,

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Speaker 1: I can't be touch you know what I'm yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it's such a thrill for them, and such a

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Speaker 1: that controlling, that that above the law, controlling, domineering, taking

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Speaker 1: from women, abusing them, using them, taking advantage of an

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Speaker 1: age difference. But you know what I'm going Steve, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna call he's sick, He's hell yeah, he's straight sick man,

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Speaker 1: you're just sick over. But you know, man, it's sick

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Speaker 1: is a word for it. But it's just a deviant behavior. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because young man. Yeah, these his young girls were talking

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Speaker 1: about and grown women that's over his house doing whatever that.

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Speaker 1: I don't know them stories the young girls though, fourteen fifteen,

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, come on, but a deva behavior that's

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Speaker 1: you willingly knowing them as kids. But that's what you

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Speaker 1: want to do, right man. I think he's sick because

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Speaker 1: I think it happened to him. And we know what

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Speaker 1: happened to him. We heard that. He just has it.

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Speaker 1: Don't give you a right to affect somebody else with

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Speaker 1: your past and you did well. You'll let me say this,

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Speaker 1: no excuses. You ain't no little girl, you're grown man.

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Speaker 1: These are children. I don't have nothing for you. When

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Speaker 1: you do that to a child. I don't give a

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Speaker 1: damn what happened to you. I don't give a damn

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Speaker 1: what happened to you. You had to know it was

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Speaker 1: wrong then, and you're gonna grow up and you're gonna

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Speaker 1: you're gonna turn around and do it to some young girl. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't care. Yeah, and you know what, when we

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Speaker 1: watch that documentary, Surviving documentary, it was a message too

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Speaker 1: that they were sending that no one cared about black

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Speaker 1: girls being victims. And so for this to happen, for

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Speaker 1: the justice for you know, young black girls to have

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Speaker 1: been victims like this, I'm just happy that they received justice. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But you know something, I don't understand how there are

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Speaker 1: no accomplices in this, because he can't pull this off

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Speaker 1: by Somebody wouldn't got them. Somebody watched him while he

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Speaker 1: was gone. Somebody wouldn't picked him up. Somebody took them

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Speaker 1: to the stove, somebody locked it dough, somebody knew they

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Speaker 1: was in that house. That's right, Steve, How to hell

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Speaker 1: ain't no damn accomplices to this? Yeah, and Kelly could

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Speaker 1: be facing ten years to life in prison. He still

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Speaker 1: set to go on a second federal trial in Chicago,

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Speaker 1: state trials and annoy in Minnesota. Coming up. We'll have

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Speaker 1: more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: after right after this you're listening to show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about the r Kelly verdict. He has

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Speaker 1: been found guilty on all counts in his federal sex

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Speaker 1: crime trial. Um, just such a more middle Minnesota. Oh

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Speaker 1: there's more. Are you not ever getting out? But here's

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Speaker 1: what here's what I want to know. And look, I'm

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Speaker 1: you know, look, I'm happy for justice. But let me

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Speaker 1: explain something to you. You can't pull this off by yourself.

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Speaker 1: Somebody in your circle aided and abeted. Somebody in your

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Speaker 1: circle helped. Somebody knew a dollhead's a locked person behind

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Speaker 1: the door, somebody knew that. Somebody knew these kids was young.

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Speaker 1: Somebody knew. You can't do this by yourself. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: it's said see that some of the prosecutors witnesses said

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Speaker 1: that our Kelly had a small team. It was made

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Speaker 1: up of managers, bodyguards and where are they's potential victim?

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00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: Because they ask is a part of this? See, you

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00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: gotta get all of this cancer cut out? Yeah, you know, man,

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00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: you can't do You can't serve all these black girls

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Speaker 1: up and then you walk away with hell, Kelly did it?

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Speaker 1: I just worked for it, man, dog, you know better,

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Speaker 1: hold up, dog. See first of all, let me say

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Speaker 1: this about me. If I see a person abusing a woman,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna right there. I don't even got to know you.

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Speaker 1: If I see you hitting a woman in the parking lot,

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Speaker 1: I got problem with you dog right now in the

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Speaker 1: parking lot. It ain't no, this ain't none of my business.

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Speaker 1: If I see you snatching a kid out in public

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Speaker 1: and that kid fighting to get free, you you got

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Speaker 1: you got, you got with me right so I don't.

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00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sit here. If one of my friends

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Speaker 1: got a young girl locked behind the dough and I

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Speaker 1: know it, hold of dog? Whatever? How does she sixteen?

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Speaker 1: Don't say nothing? But wait, don't say nothing, boy, What

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Speaker 1: the hell you mean dog? That's something that's dog? Where

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Speaker 1: am I mad? That? What you're doing? Steve? Don't open

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Speaker 1: that door talking dog me? And you got a problem

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Speaker 1: right now because don't getting open And I'm gonna get

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Speaker 1: this little girl about a hill. And not only that, Steve,

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Speaker 1: when r Kelly leave that house and go somewhere else,

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Speaker 1: whether he go perform, go to the stove, go whever.

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Speaker 1: Who who's at that house on that door saying somebody

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Speaker 1: watching dogs? Exactly, Tommy, it ain't just no locked dough,

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Speaker 1: let's see windows. It's just a horrible situation, just really sad.

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Speaker 1: I want to know who connected to this? Yeah? See yeah,

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Speaker 1: Now unless they cut a deal in turns states. Ever,

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Speaker 1: see maybe they cut a deal and turns and testified.

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Speaker 1: That's traffic India, people, bro, That's all that is. And

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00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: that's a huge problem out here today. Yes, it is.

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Speaker 1: It is, Oh my goodness, especially in the places like Atlanta. Yeah,

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00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: tragic story, very much so. But he's guilty. Good yep ye.

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Speaker 1: All right. We'll be back with more of the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: all right, So, guys, today is National voter Registration Day.

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Speaker 1: National voter registration Day. That means a lot our voting

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Speaker 1: rights are under attack. As we all know, voter suppression.

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Speaker 1: We hear that term a lot. This is what it means.

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00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: It's a strategy used to influence the outcome of an

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Speaker 1: election by discouraging or preventing specific groups of people from voting.

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Speaker 1: That's what voter suppression means. More than four hundred bills

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Speaker 1: with provisions that restrict voting access have been introduced in

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Speaker 1: forty nine states in the twenty twenty one legislative sessions.

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Speaker 1: This is a new version of Jim Crow laws, and

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Speaker 1: Republicans describe it as election integrity. Get that, okay, Election integrity.

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Speaker 1: There's no integrity anywhere in any of these laws. Here

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Speaker 1: are some voting registrations restrictions. Check it out. Absentee ballot

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Speaker 1: short return deadlines. Okay, that's one. Absentee ballot short return deadlines,

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Speaker 1: complicated absentee ballot requirements, strict voter photo ID laws X

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Speaker 1: fellon disenfranchisement laws not placing polling places on college, university

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Speaker 1: and campuses, requiring payment of fines or fees as condition

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Speaker 1: of vote restoration, voter intimidation, impersonating law enforcement personnel or

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Speaker 1: immigration officers. I mean, there's so much in these laws

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Speaker 1: that have come out to stop us from voting, to

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Speaker 1: stop you know, it's that's always been a ploy of

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Speaker 1: the right, because the right is in the minority, and

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Speaker 1: they've done everything in their power to remain a power

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Speaker 1: block even though they are minority. A given example, the

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Speaker 1: electoral college vote is simply because they are but the minority,

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Speaker 1: and by being the minority, they can still have the

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Speaker 1: same vote as the majority. That's why we still have

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Speaker 1: the electoral college vote. That's why they won't get rid

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Speaker 1: of it to take to make it a fine hinders

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Speaker 1: the poor. If you don't have this, then it's a fine.

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Speaker 1: Well who then now they know they're dealing with people's money.

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Speaker 1: If you don't put polling places on campuses, now you

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Speaker 1: restrict these young voters with the ability to vote and

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Speaker 1: get off campus and be able to vote. Everything is

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Speaker 1: done to stop a specific group of people. Not a

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00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: specific group of people that they're talking about are US

631
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: blacks and people of color. This is all designed for you.

632
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: But what they do not know is they are also

633
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: affecting their low end voter block, which them rule County

634
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: as people, and the and them and them and them

635
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: damn hill billies that you count known and everything they

636
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 1: fit into this equation too, which you have to be

637
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: very very keenly aware. But they know it affects the

638
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 1: masses even more. I'm telling y'all, we don't care how

639
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: much I d we need. We're gonna have it. I

640
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: don't care how short you make the absentee voting time frame.

641
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna get it in. I don't kill what you

642
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: can move to poland places. We're gonna drive. We're gonna

643
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: stand in line because we are awake. Now we know

644
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 1: what you're doing, and we're gonna prove you wrong. I'm

645
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: telling you, man, We're not going back. It's a new day.

646
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: It's a new day, and all of you. Kemp, you're

647
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: not going to be governor again. Listen to me really quickly.

648
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 1: Donald Trump was in Georgia over the weekend at a rally.

649
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 1: You know, he's slowly coming out publicly now. He said

650
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,880
Speaker 1: out of his own mouth that Stacy Abrams might be

651
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: better as governor than Brian Kemp him. And he's right, right.

652
00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:51,720
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't even know why people

653
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 1: follow him. You've got to be blindly ignorant to follow

654
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 1: a person this ignorant. Seriously, man, it's really it's shocking. Yeah,

655
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 1: it's shocking the number of people that really follow this man.

656
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: And it's disheartening at the same time because that's actually

657
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: half of the adult voting block that believe this man

658
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: is correct. That's a sad statement, which means this country

659
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: is sick. Exactly what a minute? Yeah, go to When

660
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: we All Vote dot org for more details on this

661
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,360
Speaker 1: National voter Registration Day. We'll be back with Tommy and

662
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 1: the Prank phone Call right after this. You're listening Steve

663
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour,

664
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today.

665
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 1: The subject we said I do, but she does not.

666
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 1: What you heard me, we said I do, but she

667
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: does not. My nephew is here. You hear him with

668
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for us? And

669
00:44:53,560 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 1: half my tip? My tip forty semple let's go catch dogs? Yeah? Yeah, hello, hello,

670
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach mister mister Kenney's. Yeah, this is

671
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm actually calling you from the seafood house.

672
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: You you you came and had I waited on you.

673
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: You came and had dinner over here the other night. Yeah,

674
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,720
Speaker 1: I'm about two nights ago. Yeah, I was a food,

675
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 1: I was a service. Um, everything was good. Um, I don't.

676
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: I don't have any complaints. I always enjoy when I

677
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: come there, Um I don't. I never got a phone

678
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: call from you. Got everything all right? Yeah? Yeah, everything.

679
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: So I'm actually, uh, I don't know if you remember

680
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 1: me waiting on you, but I actually waited on you. Okay, okay,

681
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: how you doing? I'm good with What would you say?

682
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 1: Would you say that my service was was was pretty

683
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,160
Speaker 1: good enough to par Yeah? Like I said, man, everything

684
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 1: was excellent every time I come there. The food is great,

685
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: the service is good. Um, I have no complaints. Everything

686
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 1: is is good. Okay, good good deal, good deal, mister Kennedy.

687
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 1: Listen you you if you're mind me asking man, if

688
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:05,720
Speaker 1: you really thoroughly enjoyed the service as well as the food.

689
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: And I'm assuming you you come here a lot, so

690
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm assuming you you really like the food that we

691
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: put out, if you don't mind, because if I can

692
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: ask you a question, if you don't mind, sure, okay.

693
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 1: If the service was so good and you enjoyed everything,

694
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 1: why why you why you took me the way you did?

695
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Why did I do well? You know you

696
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 1: you you you didn't even even close to ten percent?

697
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:33,479
Speaker 1: You know I would just I just you call. First

698
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 1: of all, let me ask you something because I don't

699
00:46:36,239 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: remember giving my phone number, writing my phone number down

700
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:42,240
Speaker 1: on any survey. I didn't I've never taken a survey.

701
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 1: Lord about gotten a call from you guys? So how

702
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 1: did you get my phone number? Well, I'm just giving

703
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,320
Speaker 1: a courtesy call, and I'm just curious about you know,

704
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 1: the courtesy. Hey, that's fine, but how did you You

705
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: didn't answer my question? How did you get my phone

706
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 1: number because I didn't give it to anybody there. So

707
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: you you you've done something to to when I went

708
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: on it. I went on and the research and whether

709
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: it took to get a number, So yeah, I did.

710
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: I you know, it was just a bother to me

711
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: that that you took me the way you did. Well,

712
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: it's bothering me that you calling me, uh in the

713
00:47:13,120 --> 00:47:15,959
Speaker 1: middle of the day asking me about a tip. First

714
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: of all, uh, you said how much? Did you say?

715
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:21,520
Speaker 1: I tipped you? Yeah? I got five dollar tip and

716
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: your your meal was at least eight is something plus dollars.

717
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: You you've done all this research and you got the

718
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: wrong number. You got the wrong damn number because first

719
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: of all, I took more than five damn dollars. I

720
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: used to work for kills, bro, so let me explain

721
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: that to you. I used to work for chips and

722
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: I know what it's like. And then five dollars is no,

723
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: you got the wrong tayy. You haven't done all this

724
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: research for no, no, no, you you you mister kiddies.

725
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: I waited on you. I'm kiddy, but but you don't

726
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: got the wrong kidders because chimnipal damn five dollars when

727
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: I go, I balled, baby. I go to the people

728
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 1: out because I want to entertain my people. You know

729
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:01,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I don't see the problem I'm having.

730
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:03,360
Speaker 1: You know, you you you you're bringing your people and

731
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: you want a ball and everything. But you you know

732
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: you're bawling with them, but you shot changing the waist down.

733
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: I ain't short change the damn Look, you complaining about

734
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 1: five dollars, I give you five dollars. Get off the

735
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: damn phone. Now, would I give you five dollars for us?

736
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 1: I don't tip no damn five dollars. But I got

737
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 1: plenty of money. I got plenty of money. I don't

738
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: need you to call me tell me how to damn kill.

739
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 1: I told you, man, I used to work for TIMPs.

740
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't need you to call me. You would you

741
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: would think you would think that if you would, you

742
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: would think that if you were somebody that worked for

743
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 1: some tip that you would know how to come in

744
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: and tip somebody leading at least fifteen percent. Man, I

745
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 1: can't even understand how how you come in you bawling.

746
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: You know you don't brought a couple of people with you,

747
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: and you leave me with five out look here, man,

748
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: I ain't leave you. I told your stupids, I ain't

749
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: leave you with no five dollars. Man, I love that

750
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: at least twenty five dollars up in that thing called

751
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: hosting some people. And I want to show my gratitude

752
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 1: or something. And you calling me about the wrong damn

753
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: tip them mount and the wrong person. You don't have

754
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: got the wrong person and calling got the wrong person,

755
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 1: mister Kenny. I remember waiting on you and two other

756
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 1: people when you came in there. When you're in there

757
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 1: with two other people, Man, who the hell are you?

758
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: How do you know my damn business anyway? Who who

759
00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: the hell are you? Because I'm because I'm the one

760
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 1: that way that I don't didn't tell yourself the only way,

761
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: the only way, only way we could really rectify it.

762
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 1: Won't you do this? Man? Won't you come back up

763
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: here and bring me the tip that I deserve. I

764
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: ain't coming no damn when I told you a matter

765
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: of fact, when I come up there again, I'm gonna

766
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: look for you. You give me your name, and you

767
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: give me your managing name, because matter of fact, I'm

768
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: gonna call up there and come up there to day

769
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: because I don't appreciate you calling my damn faull by

770
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 1: some skill and I know footing. Damn well, I killed

771
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: good money. Okay, we'll do this for me. You do

772
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,400
Speaker 1: want this for money? When you do come up here

773
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: to day, when you bring me my damn clip money,

774
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a tip. I'm gonna give you

775
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: a till quit causing people about it. Tip and maybe

776
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: make some better service and you get a better tip.

777
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 1: I'mnna bring your till. I'm bringing you the tip of

778
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 1: my shoe up, y'all. That one of my brain because

779
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: you know, I get into the job today of Baba

780
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,400
Speaker 1: Clark ain't kill man. It ain't no problem. That's perfect.

781
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: Because I get off at five, I'm gonna come down there.

782
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna thirst. I'm gonna talk to your managers. Then

783
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,919
Speaker 1: i'm gonna hand you the little that's your money, tip

784
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 1: money you won't sell. I'm gonna whoop your in the

785
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: talking like. That's what I'm gonna do. You know what

786
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:17,439
Speaker 1: I ain't worried about to get I want to tip.

787
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you a till quit talking people by

788
00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: the damn tip. That's what you stopped doing. That's your till.

789
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 1: And see you know I'm pissing me off. Now, j

790
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna whoops, that's

791
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. Okay, then I'm gonna tell you,

792
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: you gonna I'm gonna what the one need to do

793
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: to help you want time? Hey, what ain't, man, I

794
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: ain't worried about nothing, because let me tell you something.

795
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:40,319
Speaker 1: If you whip the same way you timp, I ain't

796
00:50:40,320 --> 00:50:42,719
Speaker 1: worried about the damn thing. No, check this out. You

797
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: got the wrong number, but you got the right. But

798
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna let you

799
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: see what it is. Claim see how I try to

800
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 1: conduct myself in a nice matter and be professional. But

801
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 1: you know I'm about and you're gonna get it. I

802
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 1: got your till when I'm bob, you better weed come'na

803
00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: come down then beat you. That's what I'm gonna do.

804
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna get the real I'm coming down there soon

805
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: as I get off from work. You bet not bring

806
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: you down now, you bet whatever. You ain't got to

807
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: worry about me. He ain't. What's your name? What's your name? Y'all? You?

808
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:14,040
Speaker 1: You you you gotta be in the paper. I remember

809
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: your name? What's your name? My name, Tommy? Tell me

810
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: what because I'm I don't tell me who. Nephew Timmy

811
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got rank

812
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: and what? Hey man, this is a nephew Timming from

813
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy Richard got me

814
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: to play for call you ya. You know what, y'all?

815
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: You got my damn pressure up. Man, y'all some steak

816
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna get. I'm gonna get both of

817
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 1: y'all time. Y'all be cause y'all ain't right. Man. You

818
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: got me hollering in the day I'm building my employees

819
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: looking at me. Man, he ain't gonna be me act

820
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: like this. I'm up hill talking about a meeting so

821
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: we can get out of company Christmas party together. Man,

822
00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 1: And you got me a fool here, y'all. Man, Hey,

823
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: kitty man, I gotta I gotta ask you though, baby,

824
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: Come on, man, what is what's the baddest that, I mean,

825
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvid

826
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Man, Hey, man, Hey, listen, take all the

827
00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: employees to the seafood House. Man, hey, I'm scared to

828
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 1: go down, and now they might. They might be scared it.

829
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: Go with me. It might be a good thing. Over.

830
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: They're gonna be pulling out. They kills nine, They're gonna

831
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,799
Speaker 1: they're gonna got the boss. We got it man, y'all

832
00:52:28,840 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 1: got me, y'all got me. Your son, Come on, man,

833
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 1: I love him. You know what? What what's amazing the

834
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 1: sheer number of black people that are professional now that

835
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,240
Speaker 1: have you know, moved on, but have that other side

836
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: that when leave me, they could revert to it. It's amazing, man,

837
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: how how they pull it up like, hey man, I'm

838
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: trying to be professional. I'll tell you what. You got

839
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 1: the right one now, man, you need to be You

840
00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: need to be weaving. Cole when I bob, you need

841
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 1: to weave because I'm that dude and went straight back

842
00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: to what he wore. It's a switch. Click click, go ahead,

843
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: time for it that day. Put a whole playing together.

844
00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: I'll be email fucking money and then I'm gonna we'll

845
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 1: be asking the party. Let he was bigger all the

846
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: waiters I here, everybody that waits man, big up tip

847
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: to wait staffs. All right, nephew, thank you coming up

848
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:32,000
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letter subject we said I do, but she doesn't.

849
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to

850
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

851
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

852
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM

853
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could

854
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

855
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Hear that.

856
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: Buggle up, bugle, bugle, hold on tight. We got it

857
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject we

858
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 1: said I do, but she doesn't. Dear Stephen Shirley, my

859
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 1: wife and I have been together for four years and

860
00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: married for almost a year. I was planning to propose

861
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,280
Speaker 1: to her, but she got pregnant and sped up the process.

862
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm fifty two and she is forty, and his head

863
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: overheels in love with our newborn. The baby is all

864
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 1: she cares about. I overheard her telling her mother that

865
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: she got exactly what she wanted, a man to take

866
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,160
Speaker 1: care of her and a son that looks like her.

867
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: I called her out on it, and she said. It

868
00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 1: was her way of bragging on how good I am

869
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: to her. But I'm not a fool. Since we said

870
00:54:42,239 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: I do, she doesn't. She doesn't clean, she doesn't cook,

871
00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: and she certainly doesn't have sex with me anymore. When

872
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: we have company over, she is the best hostess ever.

873
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: She's making drinks, fixing snacks, and she's very affectionate to me.

874
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,800
Speaker 1: I even get to hold the baby when people are around.

875
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 1: As soon as they leave, I have to live with

876
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,080
Speaker 1: a totally different person. If my son cries and I

877
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 1: go to pick him up, she takes him and says

878
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: that he needs his mother, and it's all about creating

879
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:17,359
Speaker 1: a bond with her son. Whenever I try to cook

880
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: for myself, she gets upset because I mess up her

881
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 1: kitchen and she's afraid the company might pop up, and

882
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: the house isn't spotless. It's as though she's living a

883
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: fairy tale at my expense. I have lawn men, a housekeeper,

884
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 1: and a nanny that I pay for now, because the

885
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 1: house has to always be perfect. When her sorority sisters

886
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: visit us, I hear them giving her props for getting

887
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: everything she wished for. But it is at all at

888
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:47,239
Speaker 1: my expense, and I'm not happy. I feel like I'm

889
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,879
Speaker 1: bugging her when I ask for sex. She has told

890
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: me that her body isn't fully ready yet and it's

891
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 1: been seven months since she gave birth. Is this a

892
00:55:55,840 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 1: phase or is this a marriage of convenience? And she's

893
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: not in love with me? Well, it certainly doesn't sound

894
00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: like she's in love with you at all. I was

895
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: gonna say she could be suffering from postpartum depression. That's

896
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: a lot of pregnant women after they have the baby do.

897
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: But I tend to agree with you on this one

898
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 1: because she certainly knows how to act when company is around,

899
00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 1: doesn't she you know, fix and drinks snacks, all of that. No,

900
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: after pregnancy depression, then hum. I don't even think you

901
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: would mind paying for the nanny and the housekeeper in

902
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 1: the gardeners if she would show you a little attention sometimes.

903
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: And it's not just her baby. Why can't she share

904
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:37,919
Speaker 1: the baby? She won't even let you hold your own son.

905
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: Something is wrong with this picture. I just think you

906
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: really need to stand up to her and let her

907
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 1: know that. And I hate too, I really hate too,

908
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 1: But I gotta ask you. I gotta ask you this.

909
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 1: Are you absolutely sure that this is your baby? Are

910
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:58,280
Speaker 1: you sure about that? You did say it? It looks

911
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: like her you did say that. I mean, you know,

912
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 1: this should be a happy time. You just gotta say it.

913
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: You just gotta put it out there. This should be

914
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 1: a happy time for you to Where did that come from?

915
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm not finished. Your time is coming. This should be

916
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: a happy time for you too, not angry and stress stressful.

917
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: How was she four years ago when you knew her

918
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: without man before you married her? Were there any red flags? Then? Um,

919
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure she knows you're unhappy, so be honest. Let

920
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: her know that there needs to be some changes. You're

921
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:37,520
Speaker 1: gonna start by holding your son, Steve, I don't know, Steve.

922
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 1: True just stunned your damn response. It changes my whole

923
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 1: answer because I was not ready for you to interject

924
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 1: the fact that it could not possibly be this man's

925
00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 1: Becky Bear in this damn letters. You you've thrown an

926
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: element into this letter where I just went, oh Lord,

927
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 1: so now, okay, well this is my answer. You didn't

928
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 1: gave your answer this. It has affected my answer because

929
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: I try to offer a counter, and you know, I

930
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 1: try to find out something to say nice about your letter.

931
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 1: It was going good. I have to say anything that's

932
00:58:23,920 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: let me response. Why, y'all, I wasn't talking doing yours?

933
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: Yes you were. Wouldn't you give your answer, Steve? I

934
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 1: can't wait to hear it. Here's all I'm saying. This

935
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: letter right here has a couple of elements to it,

936
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: and Father, God, pray for me now that I don't

937
00:58:43,640 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 1: break up this home, but I'm planning it on breaking

938
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: it up a different way. You've been together for four years,

939
00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: married a year. You was gonna propose, but she got pregnant,

940
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 1: spared up the process. You fifty two. She fought her

941
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,520
Speaker 1: head over heels in love with y'all newborn, but the

942
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: baby is all she cares about. Now. You heard her

943
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 1: talking to her mother. She said she got exactly what

944
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: she wanted, a man to take care of her, take

945
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 1: care of her and a son that looks like her.

946
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: I called out, and she said it was her way

947
00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: of bragging, and how good I am to her. Now

948
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 1: here's the letter. But I'm not a fool. Since we've

949
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: said I do. She doesn't clean, she don't cook, and

950
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: she certainly don't have sex with me anymore. What do

951
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 1: she do. I'm stuck. I'm not saying a woman has

952
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 1: to cook. I'm not saying a woman has to clean,

953
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:42,480
Speaker 1: but it sounds to me like she used to and

954
00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 1: now she don't. Not a part where we don't have

955
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: sex no more. And then I found out it's been

956
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,320
Speaker 1: seven months and she said her body ain't ready. I

957
00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 1: don't really know how to respond to that because I'm

958
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: not a woman, and I surely did point out that

959
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: she thought it might be postpartum. I don't know nothing

960
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 1: about that. So let me just stay off that subthing.

961
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: Let me just say this, it's been seven months. My

962
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: damn body ready. You're a man. If your body ain't ready,

963
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: I'll understand, But this body ready, and you won't make

964
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 1: me do something. Hold on, all right, we'll be part

965
01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

966
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the subject we said I do,

967
01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: but she doesn't. We'll get back into it right after this.

968
01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today

969
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 1: Strawberry letters. Subject we said I do, but she doesn't.

970
01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: This woman right here and had this baby. She forty

971
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 1: years older, man fifty two. They got a newborn son

972
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 1: that looks like the girl. She's been bragging to a

973
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 1: mama how she got everything she won't from her man

974
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: and our son that looks like her. Then, when the

975
01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: man called her out about it, she said that she

976
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 1: was just bragging about how good he is to her.

977
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 1: But he says he's not a fool because since stay

978
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: said I do, she don't clean, cook, or her certainly

979
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 1: don't have sex with him anymore. Now that's a problem,

980
01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: she said. It is because it's been seven months and

981
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:15,600
Speaker 1: her body not ready yet. That's some type of postpartum.

982
01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 1: Surely pointed that out. I don't know nothing about that,

983
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna stay off that. Your body might not

984
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:24,400
Speaker 1: be ready, but damn it, mine is. Now you're sending

985
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,479
Speaker 1: up in here. You ain't having sex for seven mores?

986
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: What you not having sex? You're not having sex for

987
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 1: seven months. We're not signing up for this. We didn't

988
01:01:34,640 --> 01:01:37,160
Speaker 1: do this here, so we were not having sex for

989
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:42,160
Speaker 1: seven months. You're not having seven for seven You not clean,

990
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: you ain't cooking. I like a clean house. I'm gonna

991
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,439
Speaker 1: eat and I'm not waiting seven months to have sex

992
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: with you. Now, let's go on and move on. Through

993
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: the letter. How I want to go about this? When

994
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,600
Speaker 1: company come over, she the best host ever. She's making drinks,

995
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:03,080
Speaker 1: fixing snacks. They're affected it to me. I even get

996
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:06,439
Speaker 1: to hold the baby when people around see see see

997
01:02:07,000 --> 01:02:08,919
Speaker 1: see see see this a little to see this little

998
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 1: sorority girl. She wanted them one of them flex type people,

999
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: you know, show out, you know, like you know, best

1000
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: foot forward, like the front, you know, make everybody think

1001
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 1: she got it going on and everything as soon as

1002
01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:22,800
Speaker 1: they leave. I got to live with a totally different person.

1003
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: If my son cries and I go pick him up,

1004
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: she takes him and says he needs his mother, and

1005
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: it's all about to creating a bond with her son.

1006
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: Whenever I try to cook for myself, she get upset

1007
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 1: when I mess up her kitchen, and she's afraid company

1008
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 1: might pop up. And the house ain't spotling what y'all stay?

1009
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,360
Speaker 1: Y'all live in the college down the tory. Who is

1010
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: all these people that just get to pop up? I

1011
01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,439
Speaker 1: don't have people like that. Excuse. Maybe I'm out of touch,

1012
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:50,640
Speaker 1: but I don't hear the ladies on this show talking

1013
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: about people just pop up day house and they married.

1014
01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:56,560
Speaker 1: You can't just you can't just pop up over these

1015
01:02:56,600 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: blown ass people house. Yeah yeah, something just pop up

1016
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:06,000
Speaker 1: over the house. And then she said, and then he says,

1017
01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 1: it's as though she's living a fairytale. At my experiense

1018
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,440
Speaker 1: I got lawn, me and a housekeeper and the nanny

1019
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: that I pay for because the house has to always

1020
01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: be perfect putting That hit the part when her serato

1021
01:03:16,360 --> 01:03:18,960
Speaker 1: as sisters come over, I hear them giving her problems

1022
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: for getting everything she wished for. But it's all in

1023
01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:25,480
Speaker 1: my experience, and I'm not happy. I feel like I'm

1024
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 1: bugging her. When I asked her for sex, he right here.

1025
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: See we're not so I'm not gonna wear you about

1026
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:35,479
Speaker 1: no sex. I'm bugging you. Nah. You know she told

1027
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: me that her body ain't fully ready yet and it's

1028
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 1: been seting. Monk, okay, cool, thank you? Hello? Hello? You

1029
01:03:44,920 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 1: leave me? No, you have me? Who am I to

1030
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: do with this information? You leave me? Know what to do?

1031
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 1: You've decided you're not cooking, you're not cleaning, and you're

1032
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: not having sex. Well, I like a clean house. I'm

1033
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: hugged and I was also sex. So now where we're

1034
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 1: at cause I like a clean house, I'm hungry and

1035
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,360
Speaker 1: I like sex. You're not doing none of them. You're

1036
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: not cleaning the house, you ain't cooking, we ain't having sex.

1037
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:20,920
Speaker 1: Why are you staying him now? She didn't flipped and

1038
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 1: told her free of her friend. Girl, you got everything

1039
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,280
Speaker 1: you want it okay, cool, But I ain't getting nothing

1040
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:32,120
Speaker 1: I want. But I'm sponsoring Lane men Nani's housekeepers. But

1041
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: I ain't getting nothing. I can't have no sex. We

1042
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 1: were not having sex for seven months. No no, no, no, no,

1043
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: you're not having sex for seven I'm o niche streets.

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Speaker 1: That's it. I'm niche. I'm on the streets and having

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Speaker 1: somebody gonna wash me, somebody I'm gonna lay down next.

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01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: I'm she doesn't like you, she don't like to clean.

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01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:09,800
Speaker 1: I can find somebody saw with me, soaking me up, clean,

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Speaker 1: cook from me, and then do something to me. I'm

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Speaker 1: out in these streets. This is what happened. And you

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01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 1: can't get mad at him. Man, when he go out

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Speaker 1: in these streets when y'all are, He told you what

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01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 1: he had to have, and you keep telling him what

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01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: you don't want to do. Now, Siry interjected into the

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01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: letter that it could probably not be his baby where

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Speaker 1: that came from. I don't know, but let's explore that.

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01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,960
Speaker 1: Let's go down that dog path that she opened up

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01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: the keys. But you want him to cheat, and that's

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Speaker 1: not a dark path you're trying to justify. So you're

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01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: saying she already cheated. I'm saying she doesn't care for him,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't like this man. It could understood. I believe

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Speaker 1: that I don't have a problem with that. So now

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01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 1: my alsel and I'm out in the streets. If you

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01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 1: don't care for me, I bet you I can find

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01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 1: somebody who do right. And that doesn't mean that she

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01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,360
Speaker 1: doesn't care for someone else, and it could be well,

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Speaker 1: I'm in the streets. Then that's all here once again. Baby,

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Speaker 1: I'm in the streets deep. I don't feel sorry for

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Speaker 1: the baby. The baby don't know none of this right now.

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01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 1: The baby's still crying in the crib seven months. The

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01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: baby can't walk. The baby don't know. I'm in the streets.

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01:06:31,320 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: I can't hold the baby, no damn way anyway. I

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Speaker 1: bet I'm gonna hold somebody baby, all right. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: somebody baby school and everything. Daddy, I ain't you, daddy,

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Speaker 1: but thank you. It's your comments on today's Struwberry Letter

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01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out

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01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 1: the Strubberry Letter podcast on de Man coming up at

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Speaker 1: forty six minutes after Sports with Junior. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it

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Speaker 1: is time now for Junior and sports talk. What you

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01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 1: got Junior? All right, Shirley, Um, let's just go ahead

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Speaker 1: and just give a round applause for pimping. What an

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01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:12,720
Speaker 1: impressive week of picks fourteen and two pimping. I don't

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01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 1: he wasn't hot. It's not just all you can see

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01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: player was not two. With the win of the Dallas

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01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 1: Gimes over the Philadelphia Eagles forty one to twenty one.

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Speaker 1: You know how I was hot, Junior? Why is that pimpis?

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01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: I had on my microwave jacket microwave your But it

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01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 1: was first game at Hall since his injury last season.

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Speaker 1: Man and that boy showed out Man twenty one to

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Speaker 1: twenty six, two and thirty eight yards and three touchdowns.

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Speaker 1: Right then at and T State know the thing of

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Speaker 1: it is, Junior, it's justin I like stand boy dank.

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01:07:57,200 --> 01:08:00,920
Speaker 1: You know, Steve Maddie Maunt the interview right away. He

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01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: was a bill. You know what I'm saying, Cities he was.

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01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what you about me? B I m B.

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Speaker 1: I knew him when he was a qualm. Yeah, I

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01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: would ask you, pepper Man, did you think that Did

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01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 1: you see the game that he saw Ezekiel Elliott and

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01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:30,080
Speaker 1: Tony Polamt Is that one of the best one two

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01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,000
Speaker 1: punches at running back position? No, No it's not. No,

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01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 1: it's not. It's Nick Chubb and Kareem Hunt is the

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01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 1: don't get it twisted. You know someone who fourteen and two? Me,

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01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: go ahead, I've had that game. But they and Kareem

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Speaker 1: and Chump. You know what I'm saying. He had a

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Speaker 1: good game. Man, he did Man seventeen carried ninety five

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01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:59,920
Speaker 1: yard two touchdown. Who was Yeah? They trying to write

1107
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: your mouth. You don't like any rude boys. I'm trying

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01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:03,800
Speaker 1: to treat him like keep being sick. It's you know

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01:09:03,840 --> 01:09:08,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Oh, Man, I went to basketball. Yeah,

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01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 1: you know I ain't mad at you, Peppers. So um,

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01:09:15,720 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 1: all we can say right now, Pepper is what did

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01:09:17,640 --> 01:09:19,560
Speaker 1: you think about your boy Jalen Hurts? Did you did you?

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01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 1: Did you? Did you feel fun. Yeah, you know he's

1114
01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:26,880
Speaker 1: tramp running everything. You know, ain't got the team what

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01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:30,439
Speaker 1: you want? Meaning, I ain't picking just called you on

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01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 1: on the radio on five point three day DN No more,

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01:09:37,000 --> 01:09:40,600
Speaker 1: you don't care. You know what I'm mean. I got

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01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 1: what I got to be. I can't be everything everybody.

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01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,240
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I just gotta be what

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Speaker 1: a player can be. You know, I knew Dallas was

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01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 1: gonna get them. No, I didn't want them to. But

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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm starting to change a little bit

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Speaker 1: towards Dallas. Yeah, man, they looked good. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: not that because I like the players. You know what

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01:09:57,520 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I like ce C Lamb, you know I

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01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:07,639
Speaker 1: from the stuff like that make me say it's a yeah.

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Speaker 1: And Thence and thank you guys. Coming up at the

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Speaker 1: top of the hour. Hey, we'll talk about burning bridges

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show. On this past Saturday,

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Speaker 1: Ohio State Buckeyes linebacker k Vaughan Pope was escorted off

1131
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:32,960
Speaker 1: the field after a blow up on the sideline during

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01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 1: a game against Akron. He pretty much quit in the

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01:10:36,560 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: middle of a game. And then this is a crazy part.

1134
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:45,479
Speaker 1: Then went to Twitter with a simple message, f Ohio

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01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 1: State while the game was still going on. Yeah, Tommy,

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01:10:56,760 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: I watched it. You watch Dave. They pulled him out

1137
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: of the game. Something happened. He wanted to go back in.

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01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:06,720
Speaker 1: The coach put somebody else in the game. This dude

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01:11:06,800 --> 01:11:09,439
Speaker 1: took his jersey off and then he got a big

1140
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: argument with the coach and then they escorted him off

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01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: the field. He running up the tunnel with the jersey

1142
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 1: halfway on. Now always you know I'm showing his shoulder pad.

1143
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: He go in the dressing room, get his telephone and

1144
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 1: tweets out f Ohio State boy, how dumb are you now?

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01:11:29,120 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: A coach on TV trying to explain that the coach

1146
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: is going, Hey, look, we played football. The coach's decision

1147
01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:39,040
Speaker 1: was based on the play. We will go. He played defense.

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01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 1: You wasn't going back in the game. He didn't go

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01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 1: back in the game. Man, This dude lost his mind

1150
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:46,200
Speaker 1: because he didn't go back in the game. He didn't

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01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 1: take him out the game, He just took him off

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01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 1: of that series. Nobody said you wasn't playing the day

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01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:55,560
Speaker 1: no more. Now Tommy went in the locker room and

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01:11:55,600 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 1: tweeted F Ohiose State going on doc sports. Now, they're

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01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:06,200
Speaker 1: not gonna put you back in no game at all. Brother,

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01:12:06,760 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 1: what was the tweet? Fault on the people with this

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01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 1: social media? Won't everybody know what he fakes? Yeah, you

1158
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: feel me and not all the ignorant ass people. Yeah, man,

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01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 1: f f Ohio State. I had a problem with a

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01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 1: professor down there one time. They faked football. Yeah. Yeah,

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01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:34,000
Speaker 1: demands his own scholarship to Steve. Now if this is

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01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: going to I'm about to say the same thing. Yeah,

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01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:41,040
Speaker 1: I mean even if he wants to go pro later

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01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:47,640
Speaker 1: in life, Bridges, that's old pro. Sure, nobody's drafting a

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01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:51,800
Speaker 1: person who quits on the team. That's your reaction to

1166
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:55,360
Speaker 1: something that went wrong with a coach's decision, and that's

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01:12:55,400 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 1: who you are, that's your character. Somebody's drafting him. That's

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01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 1: what I want you to say, exactly right. Nobody's drafting him.

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01:13:02,479 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 1: And for school he's fee to transferred to. He's got

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01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:13,320
Speaker 1: to know the consequences of no. No sad part. That's

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01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 1: the sad part that young people have got to learn.

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01:13:18,080 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 1: And it takes some time. I get it. But the

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01:13:21,760 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: older you get, the more dire the consequences behind your

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01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: decisions we as parents. You don't have to overparent your

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01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 1: child anymore. Because the older he gets the decisions that

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01:13:36,080 --> 01:13:40,240
Speaker 1: he makes the diet, the consequences become more dire. I

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Speaker 1: ain't gotta kick your ass no more because life is

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01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:45,280
Speaker 1: to do it for me. I told all my sons

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Speaker 1: animal spankings. I got something for you. You fee go

1180
01:13:49,720 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 1: and go to college. Watch this. Now, leave college and

1181
01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: watch this. I bet you'll come back to me. It's

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01:13:56,000 --> 01:14:00,960
Speaker 1: about life, is about choices, and this is a regret

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01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:03,960
Speaker 1: that he will have that's gonna follow him for a

1184
01:14:04,040 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 1: while because you not only made a bad decision, you

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01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:12,160
Speaker 1: compounded it. Not only did you cuss out the coach,

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01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 1: take your jersey off, left your team. You quick quit.

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01:14:18,800 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 1: You went into the locker room, grabbed your phone, and

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01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,640
Speaker 1: turned it into a national story. This food was on

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01:14:24,760 --> 01:14:28,280
Speaker 1: Sports Center. Hey, y'all. He wasn't on Sports Center for

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01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 1: Top ten Players of the day. He was on Top

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01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:38,400
Speaker 1: ten for this. He made Sports Center. This kid then

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01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 1: threw his career as a football player on the collegiate

1193
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:44,640
Speaker 1: level out the window. I don't know how he fixes this.

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01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:51,400
Speaker 1: How do you get that? That's sad, that's highest level.

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01:14:52,760 --> 01:14:55,320
Speaker 1: I hope it's fixable, though you say you don't know

1196
01:14:55,439 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: how he fixes it. You can fix it later on,

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01:14:57,600 --> 01:14:59,400
Speaker 1: but it won't be with a house state. It won't

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01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:01,679
Speaker 1: be just all right. We'll have more of the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:13,680
Speaker 1: Since the coronavirus change the world, the cannabis industry has

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01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,799
Speaker 1: been on a roll. A bunch of dispensaries and growing

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01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,840
Speaker 1: facilities opened up, and it doesn't look like things are

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01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:25,000
Speaker 1: slowing down any time soon. All this expansion has required employees,

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01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:28,880
Speaker 1: and industry insiders say many of these employees have been

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01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:32,599
Speaker 1: coming from retail and restaurant jobs. People are walking away

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01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:36,439
Speaker 1: from stores and restaurants to work with weed people. They

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01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,920
Speaker 1: say they enjoy the slower pace of the work and

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01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,640
Speaker 1: a more desirable schedule, and they certainly don't miss the

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Speaker 1: hustle and bustle and stress of being on the front

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Speaker 1: lines at those stores and those restaurants. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: So that's why you see a lot of now hiring

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01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 1: signs at restaurants and retail stores. Now you know where

1214
01:15:55,320 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: they are. What's just slow down? We only got to that, man,

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01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 1: you ain't got to get to work till noon. Yeah,

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01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 1: what what do you want? What is it? I do

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01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: think that we often ever changed in a lot of industries.

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01:16:17,560 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 1: I just think a lot of things are not gonna

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01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:22,559
Speaker 1: go back. There are some companies that's not going to reopen.

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01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: There's some businesses that it's not reopening, and there's gonna

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Speaker 1: be a new way of doing things. Yeah, that's so true.

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Speaker 1: I was in the meeting last week. Man in Atlanta,

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01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 1: went to guys office, ain't nobody in the meeting have

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01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: a mask on? I was sitting up that just masked

1225
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:41,520
Speaker 1: up you guys, said Steve, It's okay, we're all vaccinating

1226
01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:48,000
Speaker 1: here at the company. Yeah that's cool. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after. Right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right? So, guys, today is

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Speaker 1: National voter Registration Day. National voter Registration Day. That means

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01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:06,600
Speaker 1: a lot our voting rights are under attack. As we

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Speaker 1: all know, voter suppression. We hear that term a lot.

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01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:12,120
Speaker 1: This is what it means. It's a strategy used to

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Speaker 1: influence the outcome of an election by discouraging or preventing

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Speaker 1: specific groups of people from voting. That's what voter suppression means.

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Speaker 1: More than four hundred bills with provisions that restrict voting

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01:17:25,560 --> 01:17:29,280
Speaker 1: access have been introduced in forty nine states in the

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01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one legislative sessions. This is a new version

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01:17:33,680 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 1: of Jim Crow laws, and Republicans describe it as election integrity.

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01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: Get that, okay, election integrity. There's no integrity anywhere in

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Speaker 1: any of these laws. Here are some voting registrations, restrictions.

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01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 1: Check it out. Absentee ballot short return deadlines. Okay, that's one.

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Speaker 1: Absentee ballot short return deadlines, complicated absentee ballot requirements, strict

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01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 1: voter photo ID laws, expelling disenfranchisement, laws not placing polling

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01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:15,400
Speaker 1: places on college, university and campuses, requiring payment of fines

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01:18:15,479 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 1: or fees as condition of vote restoration, voter intimidation, impersonating

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Speaker 1: law enforcement personnel or immigration officers. I mean, there's so

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Speaker 1: much in these laws that have come out to stop

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Speaker 1: us from voting, to stop you know, it's that's always

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Speaker 1: been a ploy of the right, because the right is

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Speaker 1: in the minority, and they've done everything in their power

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Speaker 1: to remain a power block even though they are minority.

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Speaker 1: Given example, the electoral college vote is simply because they

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Speaker 1: are but the minority, and by being the minority, they

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Speaker 1: can still have the same vote as the majority. That's

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Speaker 1: why we still have the electoral college vote. That's why

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Speaker 1: they won't get rid of it to take to make

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01:19:08,160 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 1: it a fine hinders the poor. If you don't have this,

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Speaker 1: then it's a fine. Well who now they know they're

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Speaker 1: dealing with people's money. If you don't put polling places

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Speaker 1: on campuses, now you restrict these young voters with the

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Speaker 1: ability to vote and get off campus and be able

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Speaker 1: to vote. Everything is done to stop a specific group

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Speaker 1: of people, not a specific group of people that they're

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01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:36,120
Speaker 1: talking about are US blacks and people of color. This

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01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 1: is all designed for you. But what they do not

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01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 1: know is they are also affecting their low end voter block,

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Speaker 1: which them rule county as people and them and them

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01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 1: and them damn hill billies that you count known and

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Speaker 1: everything they fit into this equation too, which you have

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01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 1: to be very very keenly whale, but they know it

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Speaker 1: affects the masses even more. Coming up, it is our

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Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Tuesday, and of

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Speaker 1: course at forty nine minutes after we'll have some closing

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Speaker 1: remarks from the one and only, our fearless leader, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are Tuesday, last break of

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Speaker 1: the day. Hopefully we got you started well on your

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01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 1: way to work or your home office or still in bed,

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01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:33,559
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing today. I think I think the officer

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01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:37,240
Speaker 1: is done, but hopefully the companies can still say stay

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Speaker 1: in business. Yeah. Way, And before we go, we do

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Speaker 1: want to remind people that it is National voter Registration

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Speaker 1: Day and for more information, please go to When we

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Speaker 1: All Vote dot org. When we All Vote dot org. Please. Hey.

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Speaker 1: In closing today, I want to remind everybody of something

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Speaker 1: that if you aspire to be successful, if you aspire

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01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 1: to want more things out of life, if you aspire

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Speaker 1: to be great, if you aspire to have just anything

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01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 1: above normal, I just want to remind you of the

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Speaker 1: effort that is going to take. I want to let

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01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:28,479
Speaker 1: you all know that becoming successful, if it were easy.

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01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 1: You've heard this a thousand times. If it were easy,

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01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:34,160
Speaker 1: everybody would be successful. You've all heard that well. The

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01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:41,320
Speaker 1: reason is twofold. The reason the average person is not

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01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:48,600
Speaker 1: successful is because of faith and because of effort. You

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01:21:48,840 --> 01:21:54,040
Speaker 1: need the two as a combination in order to be successful.

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01:21:54,560 --> 01:21:59,719
Speaker 1: One without the other is not the formula. The formula

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Speaker 1: is faith and effort in order to become successful. And listen,

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Speaker 1: success is within all of us. It's just are you

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01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:12,639
Speaker 1: willing to do the things it's necessary? Ask yourself this. Look,

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01:22:12,720 --> 01:22:15,679
Speaker 1: this is time to take real inventory and to ask

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01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:20,519
Speaker 1: yourself some serious questions about how bad you want something.

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01:22:21,680 --> 01:22:24,040
Speaker 1: See Stop saying you want it, but then you ain't

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01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:26,679
Speaker 1: willing to do what it takes to get it. Stop

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01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:30,120
Speaker 1: and one of the biggest things that stops us from

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01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:32,760
Speaker 1: getting what we want is all we do is talk

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Speaker 1: about what other people have, what other people do, what

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01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:39,040
Speaker 1: other people got, what other people want. Stop you're wasting

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01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 1: your time. This is not the way to become successful.

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Speaker 1: Successful people are not sitting around talking about other people.

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01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:52,519
Speaker 1: That's not how it works in order to become successful, Guys,

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Speaker 1: I am telling you it requires a maximum effort. I

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Speaker 1: don't care what nobody then told you. It ain't no

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Speaker 1: book now, ain't no book. Call easy way to the

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Speaker 1: top Three easy steps to be successful. Success is easy

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Speaker 1: is one two, three ABC, the ABC's of success and okay,

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Speaker 1: where you can write the book if you want to

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01:23:15,479 --> 01:23:18,280
Speaker 1: listen to me. In order to be successful, you have

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Speaker 1: to have a combination of two things. That's faith and effort.

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Speaker 1: And in order to be successful, y'all, it's going to

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Speaker 1: take a maximum effort. I'm sorry. If you are where

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Speaker 1: you are, all you have to do is look at

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Speaker 1: those two things in your life and how they play out.

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Speaker 1: If you're not where you want to be, but you

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01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: are further than where you work, see, let me let

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Speaker 1: me share this with you. Success ain't how far you've come.

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Speaker 1: Success is how far you've come from where you starting. See,

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Speaker 1: you can confuse that you're looking at if you judge

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Speaker 1: a success on how far how far you are, because

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01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 1: you can always look around and find somebody more successful you.

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01:23:57,160 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 1: Somebody got more calls and you. Somebody got bigger how

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01:23:59,479 --> 01:24:01,960
Speaker 1: somebody got more money. That ain't it for you? Stop

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01:24:02,040 --> 01:24:04,679
Speaker 1: looking at these other people. I'm telling you, man, it's

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01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:08,000
Speaker 1: gonna put the wrong color view you're gonna have of

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Speaker 1: your life and you'll start looking at yourself. It's not successful.

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Speaker 1: Successful ain't how far you've come. It's how far you've

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Speaker 1: come from where you started. A lot of us are

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Speaker 1: far better off than we used to be, but we

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Speaker 1: won't give ourselves no credit for that. You have to

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Speaker 1: maximize your effort. If you don't like where you are,

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01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 1: simply look at your effort in your faith. You ain't

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Speaker 1: got to look around. It ain't my fault. It ain't

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Speaker 1: your job's fault. It ain't they fault. It ain't your

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01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,800
Speaker 1: mamma for not supporting you. It ain't your daddy for

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Speaker 1: not being there. It's about your faith in your effort.

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Speaker 1: You know how many people have made it have never

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Speaker 1: seen their father. Do you know how many people have

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Speaker 1: made it who come from tarnished backgrounds, who were really poor,

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01:24:52,560 --> 01:24:54,760
Speaker 1: whose mother was on drugs? Do you know how many

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01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:59,160
Speaker 1: people have become successful out of foster care programs? I'm sorry, man,

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01:24:59,640 --> 01:25:02,599
Speaker 1: but you can create any excuse you want. Well, Steve,

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Speaker 1: I what about this? You ain't the first? Well, Steve,

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Speaker 1: this is what happened to me. And we're not talking

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01:25:11,840 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: about what happened to you. We're talking about what you're

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Speaker 1: gonna do about what has happened to you. Life is

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01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:20,200
Speaker 1: ten percent what's happened to you it's ninety what you

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01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:22,840
Speaker 1: do about what has happened to you. Listen to me,

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01:25:23,680 --> 01:25:26,679
Speaker 1: put forth a maximum effort. This is something I created,

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01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 1: and I saw it on a quote on my page

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Speaker 1: the other day, and I forgot I said this. But

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Speaker 1: I spend all my time building my dreams, so when

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Speaker 1: I get some time, I can live my dreams. I

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01:25:43,240 --> 01:25:48,400
Speaker 1: spend all of my time building my dreams, so when

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Speaker 1: I get some time, I can live my dreams. So

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Speaker 1: you can miss me. With all these conversations y'all be

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Speaker 1: having about Steve he working it. He said he would

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01:25:59,520 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 1: prefer wealth over health. Now I never said that, but

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Speaker 1: I do know the effort that's required to be successful,

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Speaker 1: and I'm telling you it ain't no shortcut to the top.

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Speaker 1: You got to get busy with it. You got to

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Speaker 1: want something and you got to put the effort into

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01:26:14,240 --> 01:26:18,160
Speaker 1: getting it. It's effort and faith. Stop listening to people

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01:26:18,200 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 1: who are not successful tell you how to be successful.

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01:26:21,479 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 1: If you look at anybody that's successful, they're gonna tell

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Speaker 1: you the same thing. It takes a maximum effort, and

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01:26:27,439 --> 01:26:29,560
Speaker 1: you got to have a lot of faith. Faith is

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01:26:29,560 --> 01:26:32,320
Speaker 1: a belief in things that you cannot see. You got

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01:26:32,439 --> 01:26:34,599
Speaker 1: to have that man, because there's gonna be so many

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01:26:34,680 --> 01:26:36,560
Speaker 1: days you ain't gonna see how you're gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: But you gotta keep that faith in that relationship with

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Speaker 1: God wide open, and you gotta put forth from maximum affica.

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Speaker 1: If you ain't gonna do that, man, I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what else to tell you. Uncle Steve

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01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 1: just trying to tell you the truth. If you don't

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Speaker 1: want to hear the truth, gonna try it your way,

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Speaker 1: right a book. Let me know how to work out

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01:26:51,600 --> 01:26:53,760
Speaker 1: for you. Y'all, have a great day, put forth from

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Speaker 1: maximum effort and keep your faith in God. That's a fact,

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01:26:57,400 --> 01:27:12,760
Speaker 1: see you. I know. For all Steve Harvey contests, no

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Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US

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01:27:16,400 --> 01:27:19,880
Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For

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Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.