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Speaker 3: Okay, So I met Ron on match dot com and

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Speaker 2: Is that what this is?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: I hope everybody is okay. But what happened next?

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Speaker 3: I couldn't wait to ask me out and he eventually

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Speaker 1: Good morning, the frend Show. Commercial free for the next

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Speaker 1: forty minutes. You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Marcy, Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's call Ron. You guys met on match dot com

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Marcy who

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Speaker 2: No, she's just sick. She's literally sick.

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Speaker 4: You don't go out and anybody could get sick.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it's like considerate, super cool.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, of course I kiss people when i'm sick

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Speaker 1: But look, Ron, are you gonna get her another chance?

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Speaker 1: Let's say she's fully recovered by now, it's been at

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Speaker 4: All right. Look, look when you called me and you

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Speaker 4: She made me laugh right now, and uh, I might

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Speaker 4: just a flip flopped here. I don't know. Maybe I

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Speaker 1: We went from terrible judgment, could have gotten me sick. Like,

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Speaker 2: He wants to see the best man.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well I didn't see this one going.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, I'm curious, Yeah, I'm Curious's okay, you

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Speaker 2: Just in case. We'll forget this out in.

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Speaker 1: Case she's licked a telephone pole lately or something. All Right, look, I.

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Speaker 4: Guess I'm the sick one.

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Speaker 1: I don't I guess. All right, Well, good luck to

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Speaker 1: you guys. We'll get you set up on another day

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Speaker 1: that I didn't think was gonna happen. Uh and we

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Speaker 1: we saved the best.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you