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Speaker 1: What is the gold digger test? A woman on a

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Speaker 1: first date thought things were going great now. This was

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Speaker 1: on Breddit. She posted the story. When the one hundred

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Speaker 1: dollar bill came for dinner, her date slid it over

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Speaker 1: and asked her to pay. She agreed, thinking all right,

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Speaker 1: no big deal. He smiled and said, congrats, you passed

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Speaker 1: the test. You're not a gold digger now. She posted this,

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Speaker 1: and then she deleted the post. But she explained that

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Speaker 1: her date told her that he had been burned by

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Speaker 1: an ex who made him pay for everything, so now

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Speaker 1: he tests women by making them pay. She wasn't impressed.

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Speaker 1: She said, I told him that I'm not his ex

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Speaker 1: and he has no right to treat me like I'm

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Speaker 1: guilty until proven innocent.

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Speaker 2: She said.

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Speaker 1: I also said he's not some prize that I need

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Speaker 1: to pass tests for, she said. After paying the bill,

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Speaker 1: she walked out, and then you know, days after he

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Speaker 1: kept trying to contact her. But the woman, she went

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Speaker 1: on to say, she had a later post where she said,

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Speaker 1: I have a good career, I own property, and I'm

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Speaker 1: very financial, financially independent. So here's my question to you, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Tommy and Jr. Is a chivalry?

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Speaker 3: Dad? I think we live in a different generation today.

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Speaker 3: I think these young men are confused of how this

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Speaker 3: really works. And I think that they don't have a

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Speaker 3: true understanding of who we are and what we are

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Speaker 3: and what our role is. And we have so much,

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Speaker 3: so many different you know, we're crossing so many lines

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Speaker 3: with gender roles and stuff that is carried over into manhood.

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Speaker 3: Manhood will never change. It is clear we that are

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Speaker 3: men know what being a man is. We don't lessen

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Speaker 3: the requirements because you don't want to do it. Now,

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Speaker 3: this lady handled this exactly correct. She handled it superstar status.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you couldn't have done it more professionally than that. Uh,

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Speaker 3: this guy who has been burned in the past, so

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Speaker 3: what So what had a girlfriend and he paid for everything.

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Speaker 3: You slept with it too, didn't you? Didn't you? You

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Speaker 3: asked her to do You asked her to do things

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Speaker 3: that that was you asked her for wifey stuff with

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Speaker 3: girlfriend and status. So all this gold digging tests, look

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Speaker 3: because a woman won't pay for a date. That's not

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Speaker 3: the test. You're stupid if you think that's the test.

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Speaker 3: Who's gold digging for one hundred dollars?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: But that's copper digging.

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Speaker 1: Copper not gold.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that ain't gold digging, dog, I said, one hundred,

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Speaker 3: and you passed the test, you stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead, that's real stupid. I don't even get

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Speaker 2: this strategy of that. It's your one hundred dollars and

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Speaker 2: you gave it the hunch. You're still paying for it.

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Speaker 2: You're not making no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: Tommy, he slid her the be for one hundred dollars.

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Speaker 3: She had to pay the hundred dollars.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Believe you realized that he passed her test too, the

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Speaker 2: SAM test passed that one that.

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Speaker 1: Did the SAM test?

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Speaker 2: What's that? Yes? Okay, all right, flying colors, way to.

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Speaker 3: Go, and your question. Chivalry isn't dead, but it's not

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Speaker 3: taught or required anymore. And women have got to keep

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Speaker 3: the requirements. So if you go on a date with

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Speaker 3: the man, go stand by your door and don't open

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Speaker 3: that door. Just stand there. When you go into the

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Speaker 3: mall with a guy, stand at the door, don't open

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Speaker 3: that door. When you go to a restaurant with a guy,

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Speaker 3: stand at your chair, don't pull your chair out. You

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Speaker 3: can train a man how to teach you. Not a

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Speaker 3: sad thing.

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Speaker 2: About it is.

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Speaker 3: These young guys, a lot of them are not about that,

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Speaker 3: and we need to remember that. But chivalry shouldn't be dead.

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Speaker 3: It's called etiquette. But more importantly, brothers, it's called manhood.

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Speaker 3: And I'm sorry, And you can sit up here in

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Speaker 3: town that ain't got nothing to do with manhood, got

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Speaker 3: everything to do with it. Why don't you just admit

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Speaker 3: you don't know what it is instead of telling me

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Speaker 3: somebody been doing manhood for a long time. You're not

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Speaker 3: finna reshape the way I treat my wife because you

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Speaker 3: don't want to treat nobody that way. Man, Miss me

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Speaker 3: with that. I can't stand that standing man. And then

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Speaker 3: when somebody try to tell you what it is, you

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Speaker 3: want to fight that for what right?

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Speaker 1: School them on the tradition your listening to the Steve

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