WEBVTT - THE WHATABURGER DRIVE-THRU ORGY

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey, what's that man?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's passing, dude.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

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<v Speaker 2>My name is Dusty.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you all right? Dusty?

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm all right. I like, I'm all right, I'm fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh what's going on with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>You sound like I just woke you up?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, I'm just I'm chilling. It's the long day,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. Now we're here. Yeah, I'm awake.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Dusty, tell me my my good sir. What would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to talk to a gecko about today?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I texted you about this thing that happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically I like to do uh, I like to do ketamine.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I can say that on here.

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<v Speaker 1>But say whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck yeah, I like doing that. And h one night

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up doing that and like drinking some alcohol,

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<v Speaker 2>which like makes you like kind of like black out,

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<v Speaker 2>but it like also makes you stay conscious. And I

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<v Speaker 2>like had like a fool on orgy with like my

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<v Speaker 2>best friends and like our chicks, and then like do

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<v Speaker 2>you not remember any of it? Was completely conscious through

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<v Speaker 2>all of it. Woke up the next day like laying

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<v Speaker 2>next to like a massive dildo, and like that's how

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<v Speaker 2>like I found out I was like, oh, something went down,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, so you.

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<v Speaker 1>Got I was like, you got sucked up on ketamine

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<v Speaker 1>and walk up next to a dildo?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, pretty much. And then I asked my friends because

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<v Speaker 2>they were they were not blacked out, but I asked

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<v Speaker 2>them and they were like, yeah, no, we we definitely

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<v Speaker 2>had an orgy. And I was like, yo was it

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<v Speaker 2>was like was I good? And they were like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you were? You were you were good. Like I was

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<v Speaker 2>like conscious, like did I like do anything weird? They're like, nah,

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<v Speaker 2>you were, you were chilling. You did you did the thing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, I mean I'll let me ask you that.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you how do you feel about this experience?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this like a like cause you sound like you

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<v Speaker 1>sound like you feel like, oh this was this is sick.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no orgy and I didn't even know it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know it. Do you feel that way or

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like, oh man, I should stop getting

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<v Speaker 1>sucked up on ketamine?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like a little bit of both. It's

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<v Speaker 2>like Yoda's cool, but at the same time, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>it would have been cooler if I could have remembered it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it probably would have still happened if I wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>like on ketamine because it's like I don't know, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I do want to like not do ketamine and drink anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's kind of like when I do ketamine, alcohol

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<v Speaker 2>is like already like in the premise, so I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like it's just like already gonna happen. Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to us about ketamine for those who don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like ketamine And maybe it's just because I'm whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but uh, I feel like ketamine has been a new

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I've been hearing about, like it is a

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<v Speaker 1>new new phenomenon. Tell us about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's uh, it's honestly probably like it's one of my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite drugs. I wouldn't say's my favorite one, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like I call it indo co cocaine because

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<v Speaker 2>it's like you snored it and then but instead of

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<v Speaker 2>like getting all hyped up, it's just like you chill out,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like it can get like psychedelic if you

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<v Speaker 2>do a lot. Like for the most part, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>it's just gonna like chill out. And yeah, sometimes I

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<v Speaker 2>call it like portal hopping, like you like like you'll

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<v Speaker 2>see ship from like third person and you're like you

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<v Speaker 2>like it's like the Verde of the k Hole, but

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<v Speaker 2>like you'll see shit from like third person and like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it gets trippy, it gets real fucking trippy,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's it's cool and like in a safe environment,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I think it's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>That actually is that is? I've never heard it described

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I know it's. Yeah, it's indy coo cocaine.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you you snored it once. I tried it once.

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<v Speaker 1>I only tried it once, and I didn't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>It It just kind of like made my heart hurt

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<v Speaker 1>and didn't do anything really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh no you should. You should, Like well, I wouldn't say,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm not trying to encourage you to like try

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<v Speaker 2>it to get but like if you wanted to, like

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<v Speaker 2>don't be like like I wouldn't like pray from it,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like be upen minded to it might have

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<v Speaker 2>just been like not good stuff maybe, But yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>love it personally.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so uh I love it?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>To do do you feel like you have a problem

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<v Speaker 1>with it?

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<v Speaker 2>I say, like I've had problems with it, but like

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<v Speaker 2>at this moment, no, like what classifies a problem, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, Like I don't feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>have a problem, but like to like a person who

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't do ket of me, and they'd be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 2>that's you got like a little bit of a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, I don't think I have a problem. I

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<v Speaker 2>think there's a lot of people who do a lot

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<v Speaker 2>mar ketamine than.

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<v Speaker 1>Be that's true. What is what would have to happen

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<v Speaker 1>for you to be like, ah, that's that's a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh looking up next to an even bigger dildo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe like

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<v Speaker 2>like if I like a near death experience, or like

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<v Speaker 2>if I like I went to like jail or something

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<v Speaker 2>over it, but like I don't, I don't see that

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<v Speaker 2>like happening. It's like more like I just like to

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<v Speaker 2>go to the rave, get fucked up, and go home.

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<v Speaker 2>But like you know, uber and things like that. So

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't I feel like really like I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like I'm pretty safe about it, but I don't what.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What else has gone on in your life?

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, Honestly, you want to hear some other crazy shit

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<v Speaker 2>that just happened. Sure, Okay, So, like, uh, my ex

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<v Speaker 2>we've like been broke up for like a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh literally, just like on Saturday, I went to like

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<v Speaker 2>this really chol party with my friends. I like played

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<v Speaker 2>some music. It was a guit time, and my ex like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we like had the same friend group and so like

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<v Speaker 2>she was like hitting everyone up to hang out, but

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<v Speaker 2>they didn't want to make it awkward, so they were

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<v Speaker 2>like kind of like ignoring her, like out of respect

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<v Speaker 2>for me. But I guess like she looked up one

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<v Speaker 2>of my friends that was there, She looked up her

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<v Speaker 2>location on snapchat, showed up to where we were at

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<v Speaker 2>and slashed all our tires and then dip the fuck out.

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<v Speaker 1>All of your tires, yes, my.

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<v Speaker 2>Tires, and then my friends they rode there together, but

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<v Speaker 2>she slashed their tires too, and they didn't even find out.

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<v Speaker 2>So they were like on the freeway in Dallas and shit,

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<v Speaker 2>and they were like, what the fuck's happening with her core?

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<v Speaker 2>And they like sent me a snapchat and I was like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 2>it's crazy, all right, I have a flat tire too,

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<v Speaker 2>and like, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it is?

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<v Speaker 2>It?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it bad to me if the worst thing I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard from you so far as that you're still using Snapchat. Ah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a classic. I feel like I still

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<v Speaker 1>like Snapchat is a classic. I'll log into my Snapchat

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<v Speaker 1>once a year or something like that, but I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like Snapchat is a classic. Like a place to buy drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember like pot dealers used to like put their

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<v Speaker 1>ship on their story.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, you gotta get a telegram now, really

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<v Speaker 2>do you?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you really like the whole the whole way. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>curious about this, the whole telegram thing, like like the

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<v Speaker 1>whole uh are people actually like it's like if you

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<v Speaker 1>organized a ketamine uh exchange over a Facebook messenger? Like

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<v Speaker 1>is anyone do you actually think anyone's like looking at

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<v Speaker 1>your messenger to see if you're buying ketamine? Like does

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<v Speaker 1>anyone actually care that much about you?

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<v Speaker 2>Not about me? But maybe like the person sewing it

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<v Speaker 2>to me? Sure, But I mean I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>only a very paranoid person. I just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm maybe that's a bad thing, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I was gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Say that that could that could be the ketaman.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe it could be. It could be a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of things. Honestly, I'm just like, I just like don't

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<v Speaker 2>like the feeling of being paranoid, and so I like

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<v Speaker 2>don't like focus on that, like if I see a cop,

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<v Speaker 2>like I just like I'm like, cool, there's a cop there.

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<v Speaker 2>But like if he worried about me, probably not been

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<v Speaker 2>with like online things.

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<v Speaker 1>So so tell me this, why do you think your

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<v Speaker 1>ex girlfriend slashed your tires?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? She told me so, like because I called her

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<v Speaker 2>and I like psyched her out. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>got you on a ring camera doing it, so like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna call the cops on you right now. She's

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<v Speaker 2>like she like busted, like real fast. I had no

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<v Speaker 2>camera evidence, like I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone might have had a ring, but I didn't have it.

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<v Speaker 2>So she told me and like she like she like

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<v Speaker 2>told me everything. She's like, I just like felt like

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<v Speaker 2>my friends tool chose you over me and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, damn, that doesn't have to be

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<v Speaker 2>like that, and that's some psycho shit to like find

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<v Speaker 2>us and then slash our tires. But yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 2>more like a jealousy thing because her friends chose me.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know sure, but it wasn't even like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in a new relationship now?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, not at all. I'm big chilling just being single.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna soak it up for a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Very nice. Are you? So is anything is anything good

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<v Speaker 1>and reasonable happening in your life?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Indeed? Uh, I like pretty recently moved to like

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<v Speaker 2>Dallas and like got a really dope ass job I

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<v Speaker 2>like do music, and my music's like actually doing some shit.

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<v Speaker 2>I got booked in like Colorado and Oklahoma and Arkansas,

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<v Speaker 2>and yeah, it's like going really good. That's why I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>honestly like this beach just like I slash my tires

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<v Speaker 2>is like out of my life really good. So that's

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<v Speaker 2>a really good thing. And like, I don't know, life

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<v Speaker 2>is a great thing and I'm really happy to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. Well, well, I guess you can't possibly be

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<v Speaker 1>addicted to drugs if you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, right, That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't don't take, don't take, don't take anything. I say, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no fucking idea, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I always say is it's not an

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<v Speaker 2>addiction until it's affecting, uh, the people you love around you.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's affecting their life, that it's an addiction.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know I'm not gonna sit here, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm going to sit here and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out the the precise definition of what an addiction

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<v Speaker 1>would be. But I mean, I'm glad you sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you're uh doing cool stuff. This DJ thing seems like

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's panning out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like it's fun make some weird, weird noises

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<v Speaker 2>and get to go cool place to show people my

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<v Speaker 2>weird noises.

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<v Speaker 1>So who all was in this orgy?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Okay, so it was this Uh So I was like, a,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just like not my girlfriend, but like we like

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<v Speaker 2>hang out quite a bit. It was with her, my

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<v Speaker 2>best friend and his fiance. And then I guess it's

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<v Speaker 2>just a foursome. But that's like that's enough. But and

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<v Speaker 2>then yeah, but I don't remember any of the leading

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<v Speaker 2>up to We were like apparently like in the back

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<v Speaker 2>of a car in a Whataburger parking lot, like getting

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<v Speaker 2>it on in the back seat, like going through the

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<v Speaker 2>drive through. I don't remember any of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, This took place in the drive through of a Whataburger.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it started to take place, and then we got

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<v Speaker 2>the food, went to my best friend's house, and then

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<v Speaker 2>it like escalated from there, like no one even ate

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<v Speaker 2>what a burger like. I woke up to like completely

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<v Speaker 2>fool beals of what aburger like out in front of me.

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<v Speaker 2>It was the best thing ever, honestly, Like, if you

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<v Speaker 2>think about it, like hungover suck you wake up and

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<v Speaker 2>full with a burger meal right there in front of

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<v Speaker 2>your face.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have se Do you have sex with your

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<v Speaker 1>friend's fiance?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's like it's it's like love. It's like

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<v Speaker 2>it's like a love thing. Now, it's not like a

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<v Speaker 2>weird thing. It's like I don't know, it's not you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's kind of weird to explain. It's more like a

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<v Speaker 2>like they're polyamorous, and me and my like lady friend

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<v Speaker 2>are also pretty poly. So it was just like a

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<v Speaker 2>good time, good night. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're someone that we can all aspire to be,

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<v Speaker 1>like Dusty.

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<v Speaker 2>Hell yeah, thanks, man, I don't aspire to be like

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<v Speaker 2>you in some ways too, man, Like you you're a

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<v Speaker 2>very inspirational person.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know if I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you're addicted to academene, but uh, whenever you realize that

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<v Speaker 1>you are, you're gonna have some pretty interesting stories to

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<v Speaker 1>tell in narcotics. Anonymous.

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<v Speaker 5>Hell, yeah, stay stay stay okay, all right, just uh

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<v Speaker 5>don't I mean, I don't, I don't know, man, I

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<v Speaker 5>just don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't go too crazy, don't like, uh, don't black out

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<v Speaker 1>and uh be just be careful who you're with whenever

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<v Speaker 1>you black out in the drive through of fast food restaurants.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, all right, Hey, man, it is dope, dopes he'll talk.

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<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, it was cool talking to you too.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I'm deciding. I'm deciding. I'm not worried about you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm deciding you're gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>No, don't be not at all. I've like like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like like a like, I feel like I don't have

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<v Speaker 2>a problem in like I gotta think going. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I keep things together in my life for.

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<v Speaker 1>The most part, Dusty, is there anything else you want

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<v Speaker 1>to say to the people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Absolutely, Uh love everybody for real, like show love,

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<v Speaker 2>spread love.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, what's your snapchat? My snapchet No, don't don't get us,

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<v Speaker 1>don't give it. Get your snapchat? All right, thank you, Dusty,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a good night. I agree with him. There

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<v Speaker 1>is something kind of awesome about waking up to old

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<v Speaker 1>What a burger that you can eat? Hey, folks, this

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<v Speaker 1>is Lyle. I am very excited to announce that I

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<v Speaker 1>am going back on tour in twenty twenty four to

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<v Speaker 1>do Therapy Gecko Live all across the country. If you've

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<v Speaker 1>never been to one of my live shows before, they're

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<v Speaker 1>the audience come on stage to talk talk to a

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<v Speaker 1>gecko about whatever they want, just like we do right

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<v Speaker 1>here on the podcast. Plus I mix in a few

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<v Speaker 1>stories and presentations and little tidbits from my own life.

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<v Speaker 1>Tickets are available right now at therapygeckotour dot com, or

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<v Speaker 1>you can find the link in the episode description. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>And you can get tickets for all of those cities

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<v Speaker 1>say your city, you can still go to the link

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<v Speaker 1>and hit the rs VP button to get notified for

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<v Speaker 1>when I do come to your city in the second

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<v Speaker 1>half of the year. This is my third tour so far,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think it's going to be sick, so I

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<v Speaker 1>hope to see you there. Thanks.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Jesus, where are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Man? I'm that word right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, I want to talk to you, but you

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<v Speaker 1>you I there's so many things going on in the background.

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<v Speaker 3>Hang on, it got better.

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<v Speaker 1>No, No, where do you work?

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<v Speaker 3>I work at the so like an amusing place like

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<v Speaker 3>a Day and Busters. But it's called Whirlelyballs.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you take me off of the speakerphone.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, you're not on speakerphone right now, man.

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<v Speaker 1>So Whorleyballs. What is Whirlelyballs.

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<v Speaker 3>It's it's got like laser tag and their signature game Warllyball,

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<v Speaker 3>which is like basketball and lacrosse, but you're in a

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<v Speaker 3>little bumper car and ship. It's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>That actually sounds Do they just have that or do

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<v Speaker 1>they have that plus like different like arcade games and ship?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh well, I mean it's kind of like their main

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<v Speaker 3>thing is they get their game warleyball, but they have

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<v Speaker 3>bowling alleys and they have laser tag. They have like

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<v Speaker 3>a two story laser tag.

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<v Speaker 2>They hear.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds sick. How many warleyballs are there around the world?

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never I we had a place called Players,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a similar similar stick, but I've never heard

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<v Speaker 1>of a whirlly ball.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean there's there's like five on five you know,

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<v Speaker 3>that's like the max we allow. And do you have

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<v Speaker 3>like a little like plastic racket you scoop up a

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<v Speaker 3>with football at the passage your teammates and you score

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<v Speaker 3>on the backboard going on. It's pretty cool. I just

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<v Speaker 3>got done with the party because I'm a referee.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Do people ever get mad at you for

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<v Speaker 1>bullshit calls?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yes they do, and I tell them don't argue

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<v Speaker 3>with the rest for I'm kicking you out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. That must feel. That must feel so good.

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<v Speaker 1>That must feel like you run a country or something.

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<v Speaker 3>It is it is. It is my favorite part of

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<v Speaker 3>the job. It's calling people out and then making fun

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<v Speaker 3>of them when they miss wide open shots.

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<v Speaker 1>M M yeah, So Xavier, what town are you in? Xavier?

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<v Speaker 1>Where's the word? Is this Warlely ball at?

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<v Speaker 3>It is in Naperville, Illinois.

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<v Speaker 1>Naperville, Illinois. What time is it there?

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<v Speaker 2>It is?

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<v Speaker 3>What? Let me see? It is just about eight thirty here?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow? Okay, So so club going up on a Tuesday

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<v Speaker 1>in Naperville, Illinois.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, sir, yes, sir, And I'm here talking to a

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<v Speaker 3>wonderful get go bet all right?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 1>Is well? Thank you? I just don't have to ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Is anyone get pissed off that you're on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now instead of shit?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's very slow right now. I just got

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<v Speaker 3>done at the party and I have like two hours

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<v Speaker 3>to close up shops. So okay, right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Great? Well, x Avier, I saw you texted something you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk about. But I'll just I'll ask you

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<v Speaker 1>what what did you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I wanted to talk to you about being a

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<v Speaker 3>black being a black kid in a white town, raised

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<v Speaker 3>white parents. He's been like one of the only ones

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<v Speaker 3>out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm hmmm, I think somebody just got to strike in

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<v Speaker 1>bowling when you said that you want to are you you?

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny that you decided to call me from

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<v Speaker 1>a fucking bowling alley anyway, but you seem like an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting guy, So I'm going to try to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you through the noise. Oh my god, it's really a

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<v Speaker 1>bowling alley. Jesus Christ, is there any way? You're gonna like,

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<v Speaker 1>we're here's the thing we're gonna get. We're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>into like a really serious part of this conversation, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be talking about a revelation you had in

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<v Speaker 1>your youth, and you know how you want to repair

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship with your father and then someone it's a strike.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm running to the Breaker network right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay, all right, I'll walk.

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<v Speaker 3>In through the kitchen about the thank the elevator.

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<v Speaker 1>So you said that you were you were raised by

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<v Speaker 1>white parents in an all white town.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you are? Are you adopted?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'll let you start, uh tell me about this,

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<v Speaker 1>however you would like to start, Well.

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<v Speaker 3>It all kind of started when I was like really little. Actually,

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<v Speaker 3>so I have two other siblings, one older and one younger,

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<v Speaker 3>so we were all putting foster care for the young

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<v Speaker 3>and my sister was too old. So like, me and

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<v Speaker 3>my younger brother are really ones that were like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>sought after, and we were actually kind of lucky. We're

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<v Speaker 3>with the first families where that took us in, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>which doesn't really ever happen because the adoption system is

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<v Speaker 3>fucking and traumatizing kids beyond belief. So it's it's kind

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<v Speaker 3>of a shitty experience as a whole. But me and

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<v Speaker 3>my younger brother were lucky ones. My sister wasn't so lucky.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't end up getting adopted by a family. But

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<v Speaker 3>she's all right, wait a.

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<v Speaker 1>Minute, so you so so you're you're you got separated

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<v Speaker 1>from your siblings. Yes, yes, really they do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, it's not as bad as it wasn't as

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<v Speaker 3>bad as like it could.

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<v Speaker 1>Have done, you know, because what do you mean it

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<v Speaker 1>could have It wasn't as bad as it could have been.

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<v Speaker 3>So actually it ended up that, uh, the family that

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<v Speaker 3>adopted me and the family that adopted my younger brother,

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<v Speaker 3>they they knew each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so like we were we and my younger brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever stay in touch.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like your family friends with your brother.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, which was really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fascinating.

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<v Speaker 3>This sister actually got taken in by my biological grandma,

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<v Speaker 3>but she wasn't very fond of the families that took

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<v Speaker 3>me or my younger brother in, so it's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>hard to stay in contact with her during our younger years.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I try not to read the comments,

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<v Speaker 1>but people are talking a lot of shit about Naperville

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<v Speaker 1>in the chat.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, it's horrible. It's horrible. Thankfully I don't live

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<v Speaker 3>out here.

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<v Speaker 1>What makes it so horrible?

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<v Speaker 3>It's so fun stilly actually, So I used to date

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<v Speaker 3>a girl out in Aperville, right, And I used to

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<v Speaker 3>live soutly, like about half an hour south in Aprilville,

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<v Speaker 3>and I would every time i'd leave her neighborhood, I'd

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<v Speaker 3>get followed by a car to the highway. Jesus, it

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<v Speaker 3>was the same car every time. And like there's a

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<v Speaker 3>bunch of like there's a bunch of rich, preppy, racist

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<v Speaker 3>white people out here, you know, so like it's it's

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<v Speaker 3>not it's not a great place. And a lot of them,

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<v Speaker 3>like a lot of like their kids, like their teenage.

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<v Speaker 3>Their children, especially their sons, like to put on a

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<v Speaker 3>performative act of like being gangster, almost for acting hood

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<v Speaker 3>in a way, and it's it's it's almost idios. It

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<v Speaker 3>is idiotic. It's idiotic and really stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>And so how long how long have you did you when?

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<v Speaker 1>What age were you at when you were adopted?

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<v Speaker 3>I was adopted at five, okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And how old are yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I am twenty two about to be twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>March okay, So you you basically lived your whole life

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<v Speaker 1>with this family and in this neighborhood. Yes, what was

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<v Speaker 1>it like growing up?

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<v Speaker 3>It was weird. It was weird because there was like

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<v Speaker 3>one other black kid down the street, but he moved

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<v Speaker 3>away when I was really young. Shout out to that man,

0:23:54.400 --> 0:23:58.320
<v Speaker 3>j Justin Smith. I miss you every day, bro. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>after once he moved, I was I was like flying solos,

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<v Speaker 3>like you only black kid in my grade or in

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:08.840
<v Speaker 3>my school for the longest time, And it was it

0:24:08.880 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 3>was weird and I didn't really understand it until a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit later. Like you ever heard of the you know,

0:24:14.440 --> 0:24:16.560
<v Speaker 3>the rapper Earl Sweatsher? Uh?

0:24:16.680 --> 0:24:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he said in the songs that he was a

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:22.320
<v Speaker 3>he said in the song it was a too black

0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 3>for the white kids and too white for the blacks,

0:24:24.119 --> 0:24:27.080
<v Speaker 3>you know, And at that point it kind of clicked

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:29.040
<v Speaker 3>because I heard that when I was like when it

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:30.879
<v Speaker 3>was like early on Future Days, So I was like

0:24:30.920 --> 0:24:32.600
<v Speaker 3>I've been like a fancist like day once. Like when

0:24:32.640 --> 0:24:35.159
<v Speaker 3>I heard that, it clicked, you know, and like it

0:24:35.240 --> 0:24:37.760
<v Speaker 3>kind of made sense, but it still left me feeling alienated,

0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 3>you know, but like it also let me know. It

0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:43.359
<v Speaker 3>was like that whole lot of future collective kind of

0:24:43.400 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 3>let me know that it's okay to not follow the

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:51.200
<v Speaker 3>you know, the normal African American stereotype, you know, because

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:53.560
<v Speaker 3>like I'm far from it. I'm far from it, you know,

0:24:53.680 --> 0:24:56.600
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't I'm not big on sports. You know,

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:59.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm not a violent person, you know, I'm not. I'm

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:03.360
<v Speaker 3>not you know, I'm very far from like the stereotypical

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<v Speaker 3>archetype of a black man.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, do you do you not now as

0:25:09.520 --> 0:25:12.679
<v Speaker 1>an adult? Do you do you now have black friends?

0:25:14.280 --> 0:25:16.600
<v Speaker 3>That's the thing, it's really it's I've been having, Like

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.160
<v Speaker 3>that's that's one thing I've been striving to have and

0:25:19.240 --> 0:25:20.600
<v Speaker 3>I've been struggling to find it?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you go can you like meet is there? Like

0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:26.679
<v Speaker 1>you know how there's black people meet dot com? Right,

0:25:26.800 --> 0:25:29.200
<v Speaker 1>can you go on there for friends?

0:25:30.000 --> 0:25:32.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I don't think so yeah, Like I

0:25:32.640 --> 0:25:37.320
<v Speaker 3>have a girlfriend, you know, and she's mixed, so like, hm,

0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:41.560
<v Speaker 3>well she has she's white. She doesn't really identified as

0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:43.600
<v Speaker 3>like a white person because like she hasn't like all

0:25:43.640 --> 0:25:45.960
<v Speaker 3>like the negative connotations that come to like that come

0:25:46.000 --> 0:25:48.240
<v Speaker 3>with white people, and she's not she doesn't act like

0:25:48.240 --> 0:25:52.160
<v Speaker 3>a stereotypical white person, you know. So it's like we

0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:54.960
<v Speaker 3>we jokingly classify as a person who happens to be white,

0:25:55.280 --> 0:25:56.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, mm hmm.

0:25:57.359 --> 0:26:01.119
<v Speaker 1>You know she can she does, she say the word.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, no no, but she is. She is

0:26:07.840 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 3>very understanding of black culture, which is wonderful m hm,

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:13.920
<v Speaker 3>very very supportive.

0:26:14.560 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 1>And so like when you were growing up as a kid,

0:26:16.480 --> 0:26:18.760
<v Speaker 1>like middle school, high school, you're still friends with those folks.

0:26:19.560 --> 0:26:22.120
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I didn't have very many friends. I had

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 3>like one, so my best friend Colton, he's so as

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:28.520
<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm twenty two by be twenty three. This

0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:34.320
<v Speaker 3>man has been my friend for twenty years. And our

0:26:34.400 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 3>dads were friends and our friends were friends in middle

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:39.359
<v Speaker 3>school and because of that, we met each other and

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 3>we've been friends since we were two m And that

0:26:44.160 --> 0:26:47.159
<v Speaker 3>is something I can proudly say because I know that

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:50.480
<v Speaker 3>not very many people within my age range can say

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:55.960
<v Speaker 3>they've had a friend for twenty years. Yeah.

0:26:56.960 --> 0:27:00.239
<v Speaker 1>Now what about your your So you said you're you

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:05.199
<v Speaker 1>have a brother and a sister, and your brother was

0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:08.520
<v Speaker 1>adopted by a family that is friends with the family

0:27:08.560 --> 0:27:12.840
<v Speaker 1>that you were adopted by. Yes, and do you are

0:27:12.840 --> 0:27:14.480
<v Speaker 1>you still hanging Are you still cool with that brother?

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:15.360
<v Speaker 1>You still hang out with him?

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:19.280
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's harder now because I'm working full time and

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:23.080
<v Speaker 3>he's in college and so it's it's hard to find time.

0:27:23.119 --> 0:27:25.200
<v Speaker 3>But like it's all love, you know, we still look

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:27.240
<v Speaker 3>after each other. We still like hang out whatever we can,

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:31.359
<v Speaker 3>you know. And our older sister is more in our

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:33.000
<v Speaker 3>lives now, you know.

0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, where did where did she go? Is it hard

0:27:37.480 --> 0:27:37.960
<v Speaker 1>to find her?

0:27:39.080 --> 0:27:44.959
<v Speaker 3>No, she's actually so I was in my hometown and

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:49.440
<v Speaker 3>we were actually like we were each in a town

0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:50.920
<v Speaker 3>over from each other. So like I was in the

0:27:50.960 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 3>middle town, my brother was in the eastern town right

0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 3>next to me, and my sister was in the western

0:27:57.560 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 3>town right next to me.

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:00.440
<v Speaker 1>MM hmm.

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:05.040
<v Speaker 3>So she still is there, and so like I've moved farther.

0:28:05.080 --> 0:28:07.679
<v Speaker 3>I'm like almost an hour away from my hometown right

0:28:07.680 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 3>now because I love with my girlfriend. And but yeah, wait.

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:15.479
<v Speaker 1>So you okay, so you work at a uh uh

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:21.160
<v Speaker 1>an entertainment center in Naperville, but ye live an hour out.

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:24.760
<v Speaker 3>I live half an hour out.

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Why do you still work there?

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:32.400
<v Speaker 3>The job market is horrible? Well, job market is horrible.

0:28:34.119 --> 0:28:36.320
<v Speaker 3>The job market is whole. I used to do warehouse work,

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 3>but just ever since I moved, he's been terrible to find,

0:28:40.280 --> 0:28:42.959
<v Speaker 3>like warehouse work that's willing, like they're hiring, but they

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 3>won't hire anybody.

0:28:45.080 --> 0:28:45.520
<v Speaker 2>M hmm.

0:28:46.200 --> 0:28:51.360
<v Speaker 1>And are you are you? Are you a lifelong Floridian?

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:52.720
<v Speaker 1>Would you ever move anywhere else?

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 3>I do want to move to Virginia?

0:28:58.280 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 1>What's going on in Virginia?

0:29:00.960 --> 0:29:03.120
<v Speaker 3>I went out? So in August I went out for

0:29:03.160 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 3>one of my really good friend's weddings with a couple

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:07.440
<v Speaker 3>of my buddies. We took a road trip there. It

0:29:07.480 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 3>was like two thousand miles round trip, like from because

0:29:12.200 --> 0:29:14.000
<v Speaker 3>they went to Western Michigan at the time. I drove

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 3>from Chicago to Western Michigan University all the way to

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 3>Virginia Beach. So it was like a thousand miles just

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:25.520
<v Speaker 3>in one direction, but it was Virginia Beach is a

0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:29.200
<v Speaker 3>beautiful area. It was beautiful from what I saw. It

0:29:29.280 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 3>was warm, there was a very diverse crowd. You had

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.160
<v Speaker 3>very small town vibes in certain areas, but it was

0:29:36.200 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 3>also like a whole big it's a big area. You know,

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 3>you have the ocean right there. It's it's just from

0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:45.000
<v Speaker 3>what I witnessed, it was a it's a beautiful place.

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 1>What would you do? What would you do there?

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I'd find work. I mean, I'm right now I'm

0:29:55.760 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 3>taking classes for User Experience Designs MHM, which is I'm

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 3>not sure if you're aware of what that is, but u.

0:30:04.680 --> 0:30:09.600
<v Speaker 1>X design it's like, uh, you make you make uh yeah,

0:30:09.760 --> 0:30:13.160
<v Speaker 1>you make apps hard to use?

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:18.840
<v Speaker 3>No, you actually make them easier to use. If something's

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 3>ever really hard to use, like and it's confusing, that

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 3>usually means they only had one designer but within their team,

0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 3>or they didn't have any designers and they just kind

0:30:28.280 --> 0:30:29.080
<v Speaker 3>of threw it together.

0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 1>I want to know this and if if you want

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:36.920
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it, did you ever get to uh

0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:39.640
<v Speaker 1>like back into context, because it's interesting because so you're

0:30:39.640 --> 0:30:42.520
<v Speaker 1>in contact with your your biological grandma. Were you ever

0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:45.440
<v Speaker 1>in contact with your mom or dad or any of

0:30:45.480 --> 0:30:46.680
<v Speaker 1>your other biological family?

0:30:47.680 --> 0:30:51.400
<v Speaker 3>Uh? No, No, I have not seen my biological mother

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:56.240
<v Speaker 3>since I was four, and I've never seen my biological father.

0:30:57.200 --> 0:31:00.120
<v Speaker 1>So then does your are you still cool with? Uh?

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:01.840
<v Speaker 1>The grandma?

0:31:02.600 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 3>She lives in Texas and I never really got any

0:31:04.800 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 3>way to contact her, you know, so well, she's she's around.

0:31:09.120 --> 0:31:11.480
<v Speaker 3>It's all love, you know, But like I don't really

0:31:11.520 --> 0:31:12.880
<v Speaker 3>ever communicate with her.

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 1>What about any of your other siblings? Do they do

0:31:16.200 --> 0:31:18.920
<v Speaker 1>they communicate with them?

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 3>My sister, my older sister is that's because that's like

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:25.600
<v Speaker 3>basically her mom, my grandma. My brother's her grandma raised

0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 3>my older sister.

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:27.360
<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm.

0:31:28.440 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 3>So like my older sister loves my grandma mm hm.

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.760
<v Speaker 1>And what else is they going to say? Are you

0:31:36.840 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 1>still so like your your adopted parents? What's their deal?

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Who are they?

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 2>They were?

0:31:43.960 --> 0:31:47.160
<v Speaker 3>I was actually the first child they adopted. They they're

0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:50.880
<v Speaker 3>wonderful people. They're wonderful people. They've given me a life

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:54.720
<v Speaker 3>more than I could even ask for. You know, They've

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:58.000
<v Speaker 3>they've set me up in the with within their best abilities.

0:31:58.000 --> 0:32:00.640
<v Speaker 3>You know, they've bent over back. It's time and time

0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 3>again to give me the best life that I could

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:04.840
<v Speaker 3>possibly have, and I'm forever grateful for that.

0:32:05.360 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 1>But that's awesome.

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean obviously, you know, there's ups and downs,

0:32:10.000 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 3>you know, like there's no right way to pairing a

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.760
<v Speaker 3>kid if there's no like you know, like I wasn't

0:32:13.760 --> 0:32:16.520
<v Speaker 3>a perfect kids. Like, obviously there's up and downs, you know,

0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 3>and there's some things we still don't see eye to

0:32:19.320 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 3>eye on, you know, even though I'm glown, you know,

0:32:20.880 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 3>and there's still like some that there's still some issues.

0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:24.520
<v Speaker 3>But like at the end of the day, I mean,

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:27.160
<v Speaker 3>I love them dearly. You know, they've done more for

0:32:27.240 --> 0:32:28.360
<v Speaker 3>me than I could ever even ask.

0:32:29.320 --> 0:32:31.040
<v Speaker 2>You know, do you.

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Do you are you still close with them now that

0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 1>you are live an hour out?

0:32:38.240 --> 0:32:38.520
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:32:38.600 --> 0:32:41.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, honestly, Like at first, it was like the relationship

0:32:41.760 --> 0:32:44.080
<v Speaker 3>with my my foster mom was a bit rocky towards

0:32:44.080 --> 0:32:46.360
<v Speaker 3>the end of like me moving out, But ever since

0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:48.520
<v Speaker 3>I moved out, it's gotten better. I think it was

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:49.920
<v Speaker 3>at that point where it was like we just kind

0:32:49.920 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 3>of made it stay for each other. Yeah, you know. Yeah,

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:55.440
<v Speaker 3>and on top of that, like a bunch of my

0:32:55.480 --> 0:33:00.480
<v Speaker 3>other foster siblings have moved out, you know. So, I

0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:03.160
<v Speaker 3>mean it's really just a lot of the birds are

0:33:03.240 --> 0:33:04.720
<v Speaker 3>leaving the nest so to speak right now.

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:12.040
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. Yeah. So what's your ultimate goal here then?

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Ux designing? What's the if you could wave a magic wand,

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:18.040
<v Speaker 1>what would you what would you?

0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:33:19.000 --> 0:33:19.760
<v Speaker 1>What would your life be?

0:33:21.760 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 3>If I could wave a magic wand and have my

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:24.840
<v Speaker 3>life be perfect?

0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm.

0:33:28.440 --> 0:33:30.680
<v Speaker 3>If it was actually perfect and everything like was like

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 3>my way, I probably I'd end up owning three different

0:33:33.840 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 3>different brands I have like my three favorite cards, live

0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:40.560
<v Speaker 3>in a good house with my girlfriend, and we'd be married,

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:43.480
<v Speaker 3>and she'd be having the best barbering career of her life.

0:33:44.600 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Barbering career like she cuts her.

0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:52.640
<v Speaker 3>Yes, my girlfriend's a barber, cosmetologist and raider. Oh, very exactly.

0:33:53.360 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 3>My girlfriend's fucking awesome. I love my girlfriends so much.

0:33:56.560 --> 0:33:57.400
<v Speaker 1>That's very sweet.

0:33:57.440 --> 0:33:57.600
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:33:57.600 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 1>How'd you guys meet?

0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 3>So funny story, Actually we met through two people. So

0:34:04.400 --> 0:34:06.520
<v Speaker 3>like I used to be. I used to be kind

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 3>of like a bar junkie. So I used to go

0:34:08.160 --> 0:34:10.239
<v Speaker 3>to the bars all the time, like when I was

0:34:10.280 --> 0:34:12.920
<v Speaker 3>like twenty one, because it was I just got it

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 3>out of my system earlier. I don't really drink anymore.

0:34:14.719 --> 0:34:18.879
<v Speaker 1>But you're twenty two, right, Yes, okay, you're talking about

0:34:18.960 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 1>just like it was, like it was ten years ago.

0:34:21.480 --> 0:34:23.520
<v Speaker 3>No, I know, it's it's weird. It's weird when I

0:34:23.560 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 3>say it, but like it's true. Like I just I

0:34:25.400 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 3>got bored of it really fucking quick. But I don't

0:34:27.560 --> 0:34:31.760
<v Speaker 3>do it anymore. But So, I had this drinking partner

0:34:32.000 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 3>right at the time, who was a forty eight year

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:35.360
<v Speaker 3>old lesbian.

0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:38.640
<v Speaker 4>Momouldn't because she's like now like a godmother figure to me.

0:34:38.880 --> 0:34:43.160
<v Speaker 4>So she was dating somebody who knew my girlfriend through

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:46.399
<v Speaker 4>like a similar circle, right, and we both met.

0:34:46.560 --> 0:34:48.960
<v Speaker 3>We both end up running into each other because we

0:34:49.239 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 3>were both invited out to his karaoke bar, right, And

0:34:55.560 --> 0:34:59.719
<v Speaker 3>I'm outside and I see her and I go, hey,

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 3>I like your outfit, and she says, hey, I like

0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:04.160
<v Speaker 3>yours too, Because that's just how I am. Like, if

0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:05.759
<v Speaker 3>I see somebody with a nice outfit, I'm gonna tell

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:07.799
<v Speaker 3>them like their outfit. You know, it's not that deep.

0:35:07.800 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna say it, you know. But I've thought

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:13.640
<v Speaker 3>nothing of it. I was like, I'm probably never gonna

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:15.520
<v Speaker 3>see this person again. And then I go back inside

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 3>to sit down and we see each other and it

0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:19.080
<v Speaker 3>was like the Spider Man me mother fun at each other.

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:22.360
<v Speaker 3>We both looked at each other and immediately like we

0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 3>just started hitting it off. And in my mind the

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:29.440
<v Speaker 3>whole time I'm talking to her, I'm like, this person

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:33.680
<v Speaker 3>is like the coolest fucking person ever. This person's amazing, right,

0:35:34.600 --> 0:35:37.959
<v Speaker 3>And I ended up getting her snapchat and I find

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<v Speaker 3>out she's a barber. I'm like, well, next time I

0:35:39.560 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 3>get a haircut, I'm coming to you, and if you

0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 3>do a great job, You're the only person I'm seeing

0:35:43.600 --> 0:35:46.759
<v Speaker 3>from my head. She goes all right, cool, but I

0:35:46.880 --> 0:35:48.720
<v Speaker 3>never got the information on how to book an appointment,

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:52.279
<v Speaker 3>and I never asked where she works. So, like six

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:55.279
<v Speaker 3>months later, after I finally built up enough courage to

0:35:55.360 --> 0:35:57.439
<v Speaker 3>like reach out to her because I'm like, this person

0:35:57.520 --> 0:36:00.680
<v Speaker 3>is too fucking cool, I asked him, like, hey, how

0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.919
<v Speaker 3>do I book an appointment? She sends me the link.

0:36:03.040 --> 0:36:05.800
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh, damn, okay, so I book an appointment. Anyway.

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:09.799
<v Speaker 3>Two months later, I come in and she's like ecstatic

0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:11.480
<v Speaker 3>to see me after like so long, and I'm like,

0:36:11.520 --> 0:36:14.840
<v Speaker 3>holy shit, yes, So I sit down. We started she

0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:17.759
<v Speaker 3>starts cutting my hair, and it was like we never

0:36:17.800 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 3>missed a beat. M it was. And then we started

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.799
<v Speaker 3>actually communicating and snapchatting, you know, like actually like you know,

0:36:24.840 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 3>talking to her like friends. And then after that we

0:36:29.600 --> 0:36:31.200
<v Speaker 3>kind of realized, holy shit, we have a lot of

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 3>stuff in common, right, And they're like, do we just

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:36.959
<v Speaker 3>become best friends? She's like yeah, And then we started

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:38.840
<v Speaker 3>hanging out more and then next thing, you know, we

0:36:38.920 --> 0:36:40.680
<v Speaker 3>kind of catch feelings for each other and now we're

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<v Speaker 3>dating and.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very sweet. How long he is been dating for?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:47.600
<v Speaker 3>We are approaching seven months now.

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<v Speaker 1>Very sweet, very sweet.

0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:53.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, seven months together, almost a year of like, you know,

0:36:53.600 --> 0:36:57.000
<v Speaker 3>just like talking on a romantic way. M.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, I guess before we go, I'll ask you.

0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the original subject that you wanted to talk

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 1>about was like specifically the experience of of being the

0:37:07.080 --> 0:37:11.680
<v Speaker 1>only black guy in town. And I don't know, do

0:37:11.719 --> 0:37:14.240
<v Speaker 1>you do you was there anything else that like about

0:37:14.280 --> 0:37:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that subject specifically that you wanted to to to share

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<v Speaker 1>or do you feel like we covered it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, there's there's a hell of a lot more,

0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:29.080
<v Speaker 3>but I'll leave it with this. My message to the

0:37:29.080 --> 0:37:31.799
<v Speaker 3>people of the computer if you ever feel like an

0:37:31.840 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 3>our test, Just know there's other people who feel the

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:39.920
<v Speaker 3>same way. You are not alone in your feelings. Embrace

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:40.719
<v Speaker 3>your true self.

0:37:42.320 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>What's the absolute worst part of Naperville? Like, give us

0:37:45.280 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 1>the reason, not like, the biggest reason not to go

0:37:48.480 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 1>to Naperville, Florida.

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh, this is Naperville, Illinois. This is Naperville, Illinois.

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh why the fuck did I think it was Florida?

0:37:57.440 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 1>Thought this was Florida the whole fucking time.

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:01.680
<v Speaker 3>No, this is Illinois, this is Illin.

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.799
<v Speaker 1>It just sounds like a place in Florida. Okay, tell

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:06.879
<v Speaker 1>us why not to go to Neighborville, Illinois.

0:38:07.400 --> 0:38:11.359
<v Speaker 3>It's fucking horrible. It's a bunch of snotty, snobby knows

0:38:11.440 --> 0:38:17.399
<v Speaker 3>white people. There's no diversity of culture. It's like if

0:38:17.440 --> 0:38:19.920
<v Speaker 3>you saw a corner field and was like a Starbucks

0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:23.520
<v Speaker 3>will looked really fucking nice here. That's basically the embodiment

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 3>of Naperville.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

0:38:27.040 --> 0:38:27.600
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's like.

0:38:27.600 --> 0:38:30.040
<v Speaker 3>Naperville wants to be Chicago so bad.

0:38:30.600 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, at the very least they have a bumper

0:38:34.160 --> 0:38:36.040
<v Speaker 1>car basketball facility.

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:39.880
<v Speaker 3>That's Yeah, it's a pretty decent way to describe it.

0:38:40.200 --> 0:38:41.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, I guess you already said it, But is there

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:43.200
<v Speaker 1>any final thing you want to say to the people

0:38:43.200 --> 0:38:44.160
<v Speaker 1>of the computer before we go.

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:51.040
<v Speaker 3>Stay true to yourself, don't change for other people. Let

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 3>your let your life decide who you're supposed to be.

0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:55.600
<v Speaker 3>Follow your gut and stay true.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for the uh, the the kind word, Xavier. Now

0:39:01.960 --> 0:39:04.280
<v Speaker 1>go yell at some kids to stop running.

0:39:04.400 --> 0:39:06.640
<v Speaker 3>I will get buss gek blood.

0:39:06.719 --> 0:39:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Take care, Take care man, you.

0:39:10.880 --> 0:39:11.080
<v Speaker 4>Dude.

0:39:11.120 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Does anyone remember I'm trying to remember. There was a

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:17.920
<v Speaker 1>place called Jeepers. There was a place called Jeepers. They

0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>had this like banana ride and it was kind of

0:39:21.160 --> 0:39:24.799
<v Speaker 1>half rides, half arcade. There's a place called jeep I

0:39:24.800 --> 0:39:28.200
<v Speaker 1>think there was a few Jeepers. Shout out to Jeepers.

0:39:28.280 --> 0:39:30.359
<v Speaker 1>Just wanted to end this call by saying, shout out

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:37.160
<v Speaker 1>to Jeepers. Shout out to players in Maryland. Shout out

0:39:37.200 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 1>to Chuck E Cheese. Can you still get into Chuck

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:41.600
<v Speaker 1>E Cheese? Can you get into Chuck E Cheese without

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:46.000
<v Speaker 1>an adult? They have the best pizza, dude, They have

0:39:46.160 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 1>the best pizza. There was this thing where they ran

0:39:49.120 --> 0:39:53.960
<v Speaker 1>a ghost kitchen where you could order Chuck E Cheese pizza,

0:39:54.880 --> 0:39:57.360
<v Speaker 1>like just from Uber Eats. Or whatever the fuck, and

0:39:57.400 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>I never did it, but I wish I did, because

0:39:59.040 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 1>they have the best piece I've been I went to

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:05.359
<v Speaker 1>Italy a while ago and I had pizza and it

0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>wasn't as good as the chuck E cheese pizza. So

0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:18.959
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, hello, Hello, Hi. What is your name?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 6>My god, my name is Scarlet?

0:40:21.640 --> 0:40:24.279
<v Speaker 1>Scarlet? What's going on? How's life?

0:40:25.080 --> 0:40:26.880
<v Speaker 6>It's great? How are you?

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm a gecko on the computer and I'm actually having

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:37.359
<v Speaker 1>a pretty I'm having a pretty nice night. I'm having

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:42.279
<v Speaker 1>a pretty good recording session. I'm enjoying talking to people.

0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm enjoying being alive. I'm feeling like a real person.

0:40:45.840 --> 0:40:49.160
<v Speaker 1>Slowly but surely, I'm doing like.

0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:50.160
<v Speaker 7>A real person too.

0:40:51.239 --> 0:40:54.760
<v Speaker 6>I was watching the stream and I kind.

0:40:54.640 --> 0:40:56.839
<v Speaker 7>Of gave up on calling, so.

0:40:56.840 --> 0:41:01.760
<v Speaker 6>I was watching videos on cats and trapped neuter returned.

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<v Speaker 7>Do you know about that?

0:41:04.080 --> 0:41:06.719
<v Speaker 1>Trapped neutered returned? What is that?

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:09.120
<v Speaker 7>It's a program?

0:41:09.200 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 6>You know how there's like so many feral cats on

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:14.799
<v Speaker 6>the street. It's a program where you go and you

0:41:15.120 --> 0:41:17.319
<v Speaker 6>trap cats and you take them so that way they

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:19.080
<v Speaker 6>don't have babies anymore, and.

0:41:19.040 --> 0:41:21.160
<v Speaker 7>Then you put them back in the community.

0:41:22.320 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 1>MM.

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<v Speaker 6>The only way to decrease the cat population.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that a good thing to cut off cat cocks?

0:41:31.440 --> 0:41:31.760
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:34.560
<v Speaker 6>It is actually so that way they don't have babies

0:41:34.600 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 6>and then there's not like thousands of kittens on the

0:41:38.560 --> 0:41:39.840
<v Speaker 6>street without a home.

0:41:40.280 --> 0:41:42.799
<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like like if aliens came down to

0:41:42.880 --> 0:41:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Earth and they were like, hey, we're gonna help solve

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:49.279
<v Speaker 1>human population by cutting guys cocks off, we I think

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 1>a few of us would probably be like, I I

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know about that.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it's a it's a thing.

0:41:58.840 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 7>But I have a colony of cat that live outside

0:42:01.120 --> 0:42:03.200
<v Speaker 7>my house. So I got it.

0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you assemble this colin Did you assemble this colony?

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 1>Or did this company Colinie just come well?

0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 6>I mean we kind of did because we said them.

0:42:11.760 --> 0:42:14.239
<v Speaker 6>So they were like, oh, you have food, let me

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:19.040
<v Speaker 6>come over. So now we have like six cats living

0:42:19.040 --> 0:42:19.760
<v Speaker 6>in our backyard.

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<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 7>But I love cats, so all is good.

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<v Speaker 1>Well here's what. Okay, you're a contradiction, scarlet, because if

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 1>you love cats so much, why don't you want more

0:42:30.239 --> 0:42:32.880
<v Speaker 1>of them running around? Why shn't you curb the population?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:38.120
<v Speaker 6>You see, I'm an opera singer and my boyfriend's an

0:42:38.120 --> 0:42:42.440
<v Speaker 6>opera singer, and we move around a lot, so we

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 6>can only really have like one or two cats. If

0:42:45.840 --> 0:42:48.759
<v Speaker 6>I had like a stationary job and I could like

0:42:48.920 --> 0:42:52.240
<v Speaker 6>live in one place forever, I'd have like a colony

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:54.480
<v Speaker 6>of cats. I'd have like thirty cats.

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<v Speaker 1>What are so you guys are always on tour doing

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<v Speaker 1>the opera.

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<v Speaker 6>No, we're not on tour. We're pretty young, and being

0:43:05.760 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 6>opera singers is tough. I mean, do you know anybody

0:43:09.719 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 6>that's an opera singer?

0:43:11.320 --> 0:43:13.160
<v Speaker 1>How old are you guys?

0:43:13.480 --> 0:43:16.840
<v Speaker 7>I'm twenty six and he's twenty four.

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:18.239
<v Speaker 3>Oh, twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>Very nice. Did you guys meet at the opera?

0:43:22.600 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 7>We met in school in university.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, very cool, Very cool. It's you sound like

0:43:30.680 --> 0:43:31.880
<v Speaker 1>you guys have a good life.

0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:34.520
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we're good.

0:43:35.160 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 6>We live in South Florida. Now, I'm from South Florida,

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:41.520
<v Speaker 6>so it's nice to.

0:43:41.480 --> 0:43:45.200
<v Speaker 7>Be close to home. But I'd love to move to Europe.

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:47.480
<v Speaker 6>I'm being completely honest.

0:43:47.840 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 7>That's like the dream.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the So, what's the worst thing about being an

0:43:51.680 --> 0:43:52.320
<v Speaker 1>opera singer?

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<v Speaker 6>The worst thing about being an opera singer?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, okay, I'm an opera singer, but I'm also.

0:44:08.160 --> 0:44:10.880
<v Speaker 6>Like a marketer. I'm a social media girly and I

0:44:10.920 --> 0:44:13.520
<v Speaker 6>work in social media, so I.

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:16.680
<v Speaker 7>Kind of do both things. And I would say the

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<v Speaker 7>worst thing about being an opera.

0:44:18.120 --> 0:44:20.759
<v Speaker 6>Singer is like a lot of people don't understand what

0:44:20.840 --> 0:44:25.040
<v Speaker 6>you do. So it's like hard to find like a

0:44:25.120 --> 0:44:28.759
<v Speaker 6>community that loves opera, if that makes sense, for like

0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:32.839
<v Speaker 6>people appreciating like what you do and like the work

0:44:32.920 --> 0:44:34.600
<v Speaker 6>that goes behind it. And I guess you could say

0:44:34.640 --> 0:44:38.480
<v Speaker 6>that for any artist, like a visual artist or a dancer,

0:44:38.600 --> 0:44:41.560
<v Speaker 6>Like the amount of time and at furt that goes

0:44:41.560 --> 0:44:44.520
<v Speaker 6>into like the art that you're doing is like astounding,

0:44:44.680 --> 0:44:48.160
<v Speaker 6>and unless you're an artist, you like can't really comprehend.

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 7>Does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>Just a general feeling of being unappreciated.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel. Like the folks who do those

0:44:59.480 --> 0:45:03.760
<v Speaker 1>special effects on those Marvel movies must feel, right because

0:45:03.800 --> 0:45:04.960
<v Speaker 1>they spend oh.

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:09.560
<v Speaker 6>My god, yeah, they spend like their whole lives.

0:45:09.880 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, They're like they spend like eight hours a day

0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:18.080
<v Speaker 1>for about seven years just on Adobe whatever, clicking and

0:45:18.200 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 1>dragging key frames around. And then Robert Downey Junior shows

0:45:22.719 --> 0:45:26.280
<v Speaker 1>up for like two days and then it's Robert Downey

0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:30.000
<v Speaker 1>Junior's fucking Iron Man. You know it should be uh

0:45:31.239 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 1>but Mark Finnegan's Iron Man.

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:36.319
<v Speaker 7>You're absolutely right.

0:45:36.320 --> 0:45:38.640
<v Speaker 6>And then you go to the theater one day of

0:45:38.680 --> 0:45:41.640
<v Speaker 6>your life, for like an hour and a half, two hours,

0:45:41.680 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 6>you watch the movie and then that's it.

0:45:44.440 --> 0:45:48.000
<v Speaker 1>No, not even Scarlett, not even Scarlett. You have the

0:45:48.120 --> 0:45:52.120
<v Speaker 1>movie in the background while you are on your phone

0:45:52.400 --> 0:45:54.759
<v Speaker 1>doing something in a different God.

0:45:54.680 --> 0:45:57.640
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you're like or yeah, you're talking to therapy. Get

0:45:57.680 --> 0:45:58.799
<v Speaker 6>go mm hmm.

0:45:59.400 --> 0:46:01.560
<v Speaker 1>So I guess I guess at the very not to

0:46:01.600 --> 0:46:03.600
<v Speaker 1>make this ay, it could be worse, but you know,

0:46:03.680 --> 0:46:05.520
<v Speaker 1>it could be worse. You could You could do special

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:10.280
<v Speaker 1>effects for Marvel movies that people watch, well, that people

0:46:10.280 --> 0:46:13.520
<v Speaker 1>don't watch while they're in the bathroom in another room.

0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:16.160
<v Speaker 1>At least. The cool thing about opera is that I

0:46:16.200 --> 0:46:19.960
<v Speaker 1>guess people people are are captive audience for you.

0:46:19.360 --> 0:46:24.560
<v Speaker 2>You know, yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess, I guess.

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:29.720
<v Speaker 1>So what's the best thing about being an opera singer?

0:46:29.719 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 1>What do you enjoy about it?

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<v Speaker 6>I really love learning languages. Do you like watching things

0:46:36.840 --> 0:46:37.800
<v Speaker 6>in different languages?

0:46:38.520 --> 0:46:41.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying. I'd like to learn I I knew a

0:46:41.640 --> 0:46:44.200
<v Speaker 1>little bit of Italian, but I want to I want

0:46:44.239 --> 0:46:48.000
<v Speaker 1>to Spanish seems fun. I've been there's a few stores

0:46:48.040 --> 0:46:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I've been to around my h around around the city,

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:56.360
<v Speaker 1>and like they only speak Spanish.

0:46:57.880 --> 0:46:59.560
<v Speaker 7>Oh that's awesome.

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:00.799
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:47:01.840 --> 0:47:02.520
<v Speaker 6>I really love that.

0:47:02.680 --> 0:47:05.920
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, learning languages is fun, and I feel like.

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:09.200
<v Speaker 6>So many more things and like the world could be

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:13.000
<v Speaker 6>better if we could watch things in different languages. Like

0:47:13.040 --> 0:47:16.880
<v Speaker 6>I feel like we could come to appreciate like cultures

0:47:16.920 --> 0:47:20.360
<v Speaker 6>and people if we like watched more things in different languages.

0:47:22.120 --> 0:47:25.960
<v Speaker 7>And same thing with opera, it's like it's it's a play.

0:47:26.560 --> 0:47:31.319
<v Speaker 6>There's costumes, you read subtitles the whole time. But it's

0:47:31.360 --> 0:47:34.200
<v Speaker 6>like there's so many things to look at. It's so engrossing,

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<v Speaker 6>and it's so like opera can be so scary, but

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<v Speaker 6>I want to tell people that it's not scary. Just

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<v Speaker 6>like literally, wear a get go suit and go to

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<v Speaker 6>the opera and nobody's like, nobody can tell.

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<v Speaker 7>You what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody in the chat just said my roommate dated an

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<v Speaker 1>opera singer in college and it sucked because the asshole

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<v Speaker 1>would start warming up at nine to thirty am. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, at nine is not that bad. That's

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the workday.

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<v Speaker 6>True, but opera singers can be pretty loud, so it

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<v Speaker 6>would wake everybody up. So I get where that person's

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<v Speaker 6>coming from.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's just that's just a rude person.

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<v Speaker 6>That's not like an opera singer traite, that's just that's

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<v Speaker 6>just being rude.

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<v Speaker 1>What have you ever done something like that?

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<v Speaker 7>No, because I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm pretty considerate.

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<v Speaker 7>Also, I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>Like like singing in front of people when I don't

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<v Speaker 6>have to, if.

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<v Speaker 7>That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yes, some people in the chat were also saying

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<v Speaker 1>they wanted you to belt out right now, but that

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<v Speaker 1>probably would wake up ye see ibras.

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<v Speaker 2>Well.

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<v Speaker 6>I live in a house, so no, not really, but

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<v Speaker 6>I freaking knew that would happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>One of my side projects, I'm Gonna I'm Gonna self

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<v Speaker 6>smote here is an opera paid and literally my second

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<v Speaker 6>to Las video is a meme talking about how people

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<v Speaker 6>are like.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, you're an opera singer, can you sing something?

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<v Speaker 6>And it just happened on on Therapy Get Go.

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<v Speaker 7>So thank you for affirming it.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, I guess I guess this means you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it.

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<v Speaker 7>No I'm not, I'm not. Thank you. Thank you for

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<v Speaker 7>your curiosity, but unless I'm getting paid. No, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you invited me to come to the opera in

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<v Speaker 1>this text? Where where where's this opera?

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<v Speaker 7>It's anywhere you want it to be there.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I will go to the opera with you wherever,

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<v Speaker 6>wherever you go, I will be there.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay. We can go to New York, we can.

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<v Speaker 6>Go to Self, Sorida, anywhere opera's happening, I'll be there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I thought this was like you. I assumed it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like your opera. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 1>just meant the.

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<v Speaker 7>Opera No, I just mean like the opera in general.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I think it would be.

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<v Speaker 6>Really fun for you to go to the opera because

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<v Speaker 6>people are like, oh, operas so like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 6>like when you think of the opera, you probably think

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<v Speaker 6>of like, oh, people dressing like really nice suits, and

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<v Speaker 6>like it's really nice and and everybody's very you know,

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<v Speaker 6>got the noses in the air.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, very posh.

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<v Speaker 6>But it doesn't need to be like that. I feel

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<v Speaker 6>like you showing up, people would be like, what's going

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<v Speaker 6>on at the opera?

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<v Speaker 1>No, but I would I see some thing. I would

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<v Speaker 1>show up in a suit and I would just be like.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I would be a dick to everyone. I

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<v Speaker 1>would like. I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't tip the bartender,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would send the drink back, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>fart really loudly and it would smell bad, and you'd yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would. I would be bad if if I would

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<v Speaker 1>yell out lame, if I didn't like one of the singers,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't. I wouldn't be good.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, Please just yell boo.

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<v Speaker 1>I would boo. I would. I would if somebody was good,

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<v Speaker 1>I would boo just because I'm jealous. Well, Scarlett, I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you giving us this little uh uh tidbit into

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<v Speaker 1>into into another portal of of opera. Yeah, into the

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>opera universe. Is there anything else that you want to

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<v Speaker 1>say or share or or express to the people of

0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:39.960
<v Speaker 1>the computer before we go, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Go follow my opera account if you want to hear

0:51:41.880 --> 0:51:43.080
<v Speaker 6>a little bit of opera music.

0:51:43.239 --> 0:51:44.680
<v Speaker 7>It's on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 6>Simply bell kanto, simply.

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<v Speaker 7>B E L kanto, c A N t o oh.

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<v Speaker 7>Also therapy go go.

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<v Speaker 6>You went to Guatemala, I'm Waatemalan freaking very cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Yeah, I'm very fond of Guatemala. Well, some girls

0:52:00.920 --> 0:52:03.880
<v Speaker 1>just died there at the same place that that I

0:52:03.960 --> 0:52:05.600
<v Speaker 1>went to, and I was like, damn, that sucks.

0:52:07.200 --> 0:52:09.080
<v Speaker 7>Are you talking about Lake Titlan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, lake Titlan, Yes.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I saw that. That was really messed up.

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<v Speaker 6>But it's a beautiful place. It's messed up, but one

0:52:20.280 --> 0:52:21.360
<v Speaker 6>of my beautiful places.

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<v Speaker 1>Side note, Yeah, I mean I lived in Los Angeles

0:52:23.760 --> 0:52:26.799
<v Speaker 1>for a hot second and a lot of people died

0:52:26.800 --> 0:52:30.480
<v Speaker 1>there too, So people people pretty much anywhere that there

0:52:30.480 --> 0:52:31.960
<v Speaker 1>are people, those people.

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<v Speaker 7>Die, so even yeah, that's that's life.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a go rest of the night, Scarlet.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you so much for talking to me.

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<v Speaker 6>This made my night. I hope I trapped some cats

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<v Speaker 6>tonight in your honor.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful Bye Scarlet.

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<v Speaker 6>Alrighty go bye.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do. I'll sing opera right now. I don't give

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<v Speaker 1>a fuck what wdier, I'll stop.

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<v Speaker 2>Never be Get goes on the line, taking your phone

0:53:11.440 --> 0:53:14.640
<v Speaker 2>calls every night. Never be cant goes do on his ride.

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<v Speaker 2>He's teaching you loud in the lid of your life,

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<v Speaker 2>but he's not really an expert.