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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, what's that man?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's passing, dude.

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Speaker 1: What's your name?

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Speaker 2: My name is Dusty.

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Speaker 1: Are you all right? Dusty?

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Speaker 2: But I'm all right. I like, I'm all right, I'm fine.

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Speaker 1: Uh what's going on with you?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 1: You sound like I just woke you up?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, I'm just I'm chilling. It's the long day,

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Speaker 2: you know. Now we're here. Yeah, I'm awake.

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Speaker 1: Well, Dusty, tell me my my good sir. What would

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Speaker 1: you like to talk to a gecko about today?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I texted you about this thing that happened.

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Speaker 2: Basically I like to do uh, I like to do ketamine.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I can say that on here.

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Speaker 1: But say whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: Fuck yeah, I like doing that. And h one night

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Speaker 2: I ended up doing that and like drinking some alcohol,

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Speaker 2: which like makes you like kind of like black out,

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Speaker 2: but it like also makes you stay conscious. And I

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Speaker 2: like had like a fool on orgy with like my

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Speaker 2: best friends and like our chicks, and then like do

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Speaker 2: you not remember any of it? Was completely conscious through

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Speaker 2: all of it. Woke up the next day like laying

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Speaker 2: next to like a massive dildo, and like that's how

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Speaker 2: like I found out I was like, oh, something went down,

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Speaker 2: but yeah, so you.

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Speaker 1: Got I was like, you got sucked up on ketamine

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Speaker 1: and walk up next to a dildo?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty much. And then I asked my friends because

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Speaker 2: they were they were not blacked out, but I asked

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Speaker 2: them and they were like, yeah, no, we we definitely

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Speaker 2: had an orgy. And I was like, yo was it

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Speaker 2: was like was I good? And they were like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: you were? You were you were good. Like I was

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Speaker 2: like conscious, like did I like do anything weird? They're like, nah,

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Speaker 2: you were, you were chilling. You did you did the thing?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I mean I'll let me ask you that.

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Speaker 1: How do you how do you feel about this experience?

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Speaker 1: Is this like a like cause you sound like you

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Speaker 1: sound like you feel like, oh this was this is sick.

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Speaker 1: I had no orgy and I didn't even know it,

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Speaker 1: but I know it. Do you feel that way or

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Speaker 1: do you feel like, oh man, I should stop getting

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Speaker 1: sucked up on ketamine?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like a little bit of both. It's

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Speaker 2: like Yoda's cool, but at the same time, it's like

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Speaker 2: it would have been cooler if I could have remembered it,

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Speaker 2: and it probably would have still happened if I wasn't

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Speaker 2: like on ketamine because it's like I don't know, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do want to like not do ketamine and drink anymore.

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Speaker 2: But it's kind of like when I do ketamine, alcohol

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Speaker 2: is like already like in the premise, so I feel

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Speaker 2: like it's just like already gonna happen. Does that make sense?

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Speaker 1: Talk to us about ketamine for those who don't know,

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Speaker 1: I feel like ketamine And maybe it's just because I'm whatever,

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Speaker 1: but uh, I feel like ketamine has been a new

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Speaker 1: thing that I've been hearing about, like it is a

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Speaker 1: new new phenomenon. Tell us about it.

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Speaker 2: It's uh, it's honestly probably like it's one of my

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Speaker 2: favorite drugs. I wouldn't say's my favorite one, but it's

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Speaker 2: like it's like I call it indo co cocaine because

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Speaker 2: it's like you snored it and then but instead of

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Speaker 2: like getting all hyped up, it's just like you chill out,

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Speaker 2: and it's like it can get like psychedelic if you

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Speaker 2: do a lot. Like for the most part, it's like

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Speaker 2: call it like portal hopping, like you like like you'll

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Speaker 2: like it's like the Verde of the k Hole, but

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Speaker 2: like you'll see shit from like third person and like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it gets trippy, it gets real fucking trippy,

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Speaker 2: but it's it's cool and like in a safe environment,

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Speaker 2: it's like I think it's fun.

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Speaker 1: That actually is that is? I've never heard it described

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Speaker 1: like that. I know it's. Yeah, it's indy coo cocaine.

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Speaker 1: I know you you snored it once. I tried it once.

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Speaker 1: I only tried it once, and I didn't like it.

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Speaker 1: It It just kind of like made my heart hurt

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Speaker 1: and didn't do anything really Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Huh no you should. You should, Like well, I wouldn't say,

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Speaker 2: like I'm not trying to encourage you to like try

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Speaker 1: Okay, so uh I love it?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: I mean.

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Speaker 1: To do do you feel like you have a problem

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Speaker 2: I say, like I've had problems with it, but like

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Speaker 2: at this moment, no, like what classifies a problem, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like I don't feel like I

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Speaker 2: But like, I don't think I have a problem. I

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Speaker 2: think there's a lot of people who do a lot

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Speaker 1: Be that's true. What is what would have to happen

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Speaker 1: for you to be like, ah, that's that's a problem.

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Speaker 1: Uh looking up next to an even bigger dildo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe like

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Speaker 2: But like you know, uber and things like that. So

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Speaker 2: like I don't I feel like really like I feel

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What else has gone on in your life?

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Speaker 2: Dude, Honestly, you want to hear some other crazy shit

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Speaker 2: that just happened. Sure, Okay, So, like, uh, my ex

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Speaker 2: we've like been broke up for like a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Uh literally, just like on Saturday, I went to like

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Speaker 2: some music. It was a guit time, and my ex like, well,

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Speaker 2: location on snapchat, showed up to where we were at

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Speaker 2: and slashed all our tires and then dip the fuck out.

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Speaker 1: All of your tires, yes, my.

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Speaker 2: Tires, and then my friends they rode there together, but

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Speaker 2: So they were like on the freeway in Dallas and shit,

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Speaker 2: And they like sent me a snapchat and I was like, Yo,

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Speaker 2: it's crazy, all right, I have a flat tire too,

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Speaker 2: and like, what.

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Speaker 1: Is it is?

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Speaker 1: Is it bad to me if the worst thing I've

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Speaker 1: heard from you so far as that you're still using Snapchat. Ah,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's a classic. I feel like I still

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Speaker 1: like Snapchat is a classic. I'll log into my Snapchat

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Speaker 1: like Snapchat is a classic. Like a place to buy drugs.

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Speaker 1: I remember like pot dealers used to like put their

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you gotta get a telegram now, really

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Speaker 1: Do you really like the whole the whole way. I'm

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Speaker 1: curious about this, the whole telegram thing, like like the

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Speaker 1: organized a ketamine uh exchange over a Facebook messenger? Like

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Speaker 1: is anyone do you actually think anyone's like looking at

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Speaker 2: Not about me? But maybe like the person sewing it

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Speaker 2: to me? Sure, But I mean I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 2: only a very paranoid person. I just I don't know,

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Speaker 1: Say that that could that could be the ketaman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it could be. It could be a lot

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Speaker 2: of things. Honestly, I'm just like, I just like don't

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Speaker 2: But like if he worried about me, probably not been

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Speaker 1: So so tell me this, why do you think your

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Speaker 2: Oh? She told me so, like because I called her

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Speaker 2: like she like busted, like real fast. I had no

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Someone might have had a ring, but I didn't have it.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, damn, that doesn't have to be

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Speaker 2: more like a jealousy thing because her friends chose me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know sure, but it wasn't even like that.

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Speaker 1: Are you in a new relationship now?

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Speaker 2: No? No, not at all. I'm big chilling just being single.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna soak it up for a minute.

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Speaker 1: Very nice. Are you? So is anything is anything good

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Speaker 1: and reasonable happening in your life?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Indeed? Uh, I like pretty recently moved to like

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Speaker 2: like do music, and my music's like actually doing some shit.

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Speaker 2: and yeah, it's like going really good. That's why I'm like,

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Speaker 2: a really good thing. And like, I don't know, life

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Speaker 2: is a great thing and I'm really happy to be here.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Well, well, I guess you can't possibly be

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Speaker 2: Good, right, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: I don't don't take, don't take, don't take anything. I say, seriously,

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Speaker 1: I have no fucking idea, you know.

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Speaker 2: You know what I always say is it's not an

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Speaker 2: If it's affecting their life, that it's an addiction.

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Speaker 1: I don't know I'm not gonna sit here, and uh,

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Speaker 1: would be. But I mean, I'm glad you sound like

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Speaker 1: you're uh doing cool stuff. This DJ thing seems like

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Speaker 5: Hell, yeah, stay stay stay okay, all right, just uh

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Speaker 3: Man? I'm that word right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I want to talk to you, but you

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Speaker 3: I work at the so like an amusing place like

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Speaker 3: a Day and Busters. But it's called Whirlelyballs.

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Speaker 1: So Whorleyballs. What is Whirlelyballs.

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Speaker 3: It's it's got like laser tag and their signature game Warllyball,

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Speaker 1: That sounds sick. How many warleyballs are there around the world?

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Speaker 3: What? Let me see? It is just about eight thirty here?

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Speaker 1: Is well? Thank you? I just don't have to ask.

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Speaker 3: Well, I wanted to talk to you about being a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm running to the Breaker network right now.

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Speaker 1: So you said that you were you were raised by

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Are you are? Are you adopted?

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Speaker 3: Yes? I am.

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Speaker 1: Minute, so you so so you're you're you got separated

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's not as bad as it wasn't as

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Speaker 3: So actually it ended up that, uh, the family that

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Speaker 1: Whoa.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so like we were we and my younger brother.

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Speaker 1: You're like your family friends with your brother.

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, which was really nice.

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Speaker 3: This sister actually got taken in by my biological grandma,

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Speaker 1: By the way, I try not to read the comments,

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's horrible. It's horrible. Thankfully I don't live

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Speaker 3: a girl out in Aperville, right, And I used to

438
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 3: live soutly, like about half an hour south in Aprilville,

439
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 3: and I would every time i'd leave her neighborhood, I'd

440
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 3: get followed by a car to the highway. Jesus, it

441
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 3: was the same car every time. And like there's a

442
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 3: bunch of like there's a bunch of rich, preppy, racist

443
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:02,120
Speaker 3: white people out here, you know, so like it's it's

444
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 3: not it's not a great place. And a lot of them,

445
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 3: like a lot of like their kids, like their teenage.

446
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 3: Their children, especially their sons, like to put on a

447
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 3: performative act of like being gangster, almost for acting hood

448
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 3: in a way, and it's it's it's almost idios. It

449
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 3: is idiotic. It's idiotic and really stupid.

450
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: And so how long how long have you did you when?

451
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: What age were you at when you were adopted?

452
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 3: I was adopted at five, okay?

453
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 1: And how old are yeah?

454
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 3: I am twenty two about to be twenty three.

455
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: March okay, So you you basically lived your whole life

456
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,680
Speaker 1: with this family and in this neighborhood. Yes, what was

457
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: it like growing up?

458
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 3: It was weird. It was weird because there was like

459
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 3: one other black kid down the street, but he moved

460
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 3: away when I was really young. Shout out to that man,

461
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 3: j Justin Smith. I miss you every day, bro. But yeah,

462
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: after once he moved, I was I was like flying solos,

463
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,399
Speaker 3: like you only black kid in my grade or in

464
00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 3: my school for the longest time, And it was it

465
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 3: was weird and I didn't really understand it until a

466
00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 3: little bit later. Like you ever heard of the you know,

467
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 3: the rapper Earl Sweatsher? Uh?

468
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah?

469
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, he said in the songs that he was a

470
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 3: he said in the song it was a too black

471
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 3: for the white kids and too white for the blacks,

472
00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: you know, And at that point it kind of clicked

473
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 3: because I heard that when I was like when it

474
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 3: was like early on Future Days, So I was like

475
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: I've been like a fancist like day once. Like when

476
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 3: I heard that, it clicked, you know, and like it

477
00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 3: kind of made sense, but it still left me feeling alienated,

478
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 3: you know, but like it also let me know. It

479
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 3: was like that whole lot of future collective kind of

480
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 3: let me know that it's okay to not follow the

481
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 3: you know, the normal African American stereotype, you know, because

482
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 3: like I'm far from it. I'm far from it, you know,

483
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 3: Like I don't I'm not big on sports. You know,

484
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 3: I'm not a violent person, you know, I'm not. I'm

485
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 3: not you know, I'm very far from like the stereotypical

486
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 3: archetype of a black man.

487
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

488
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 1: You know, like, do you do you not now as

489
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,679
Speaker 1: an adult? Do you do you now have black friends?

490
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 3: That's the thing, it's really it's I've been having, Like

491
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 3: that's that's one thing I've been striving to have and

492
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 3: I've been struggling to find it?

493
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: Can you go can you like meet is there? Like

494
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: you know how there's black people meet dot com? Right,

495
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: can you go on there for friends?

496
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't think so yeah, Like I

497
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 3: have a girlfriend, you know, and she's mixed, so like, hm,

498
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 3: well she has she's white. She doesn't really identified as

499
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: like a white person because like she hasn't like all

500
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 3: like the negative connotations that come to like that come

501
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,240
Speaker 3: with white people, and she's not she doesn't act like

502
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 3: a stereotypical white person, you know. So it's like we

503
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 3: we jokingly classify as a person who happens to be white,

504
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:56,560
Speaker 3: you know, mm hmm.

505
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 1: You know she can she does, she say the word.

506
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:07,639
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, but she is. She is

507
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 3: very understanding of black culture, which is wonderful m hm,

508
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 3: very very supportive.

509
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 1: And so like when you were growing up as a kid,

510
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: like middle school, high school, you're still friends with those folks.

511
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I didn't have very many friends. I had

512
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 3: like one, so my best friend Colton, he's so as

513
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 3: you know, I'm twenty two by be twenty three. This

514
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 3: man has been my friend for twenty years. And our

515
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: dads were friends and our friends were friends in middle

516
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 3: school and because of that, we met each other and

517
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: we've been friends since we were two m And that

518
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 3: is something I can proudly say because I know that

519
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 3: not very many people within my age range can say

520
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 3: they've had a friend for twenty years. Yeah.

521
00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,239
Speaker 1: Now what about your your So you said you're you

522
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 1: have a brother and a sister, and your brother was

523
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: adopted by a family that is friends with the family

524
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: that you were adopted by. Yes, and do you are

525
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: you still hanging Are you still cool with that brother?

526
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 1: You still hang out with him?

527
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's harder now because I'm working full time and

528
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 3: he's in college and so it's it's hard to find time.

529
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 3: But like it's all love, you know, we still look

530
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 3: after each other. We still like hang out whatever we can,

531
00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 3: you know. And our older sister is more in our

532
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 3: lives now, you know.

533
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:37,440
Speaker 1: Interesting, where did where did she go? Is it hard

534
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 1: to find her?

535
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:44,959
Speaker 3: No, she's actually so I was in my hometown and

536
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:49,440
Speaker 3: we were actually like we were each in a town

537
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 3: over from each other. So like I was in the

538
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 3: middle town, my brother was in the eastern town right

539
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 3: next to me, and my sister was in the western

540
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: town right next to me.

541
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: MM hmm.

542
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: So she still is there, and so like I've moved farther.

543
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 3: I'm like almost an hour away from my hometown right

544
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 3: now because I love with my girlfriend. And but yeah, wait.

545
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,479
Speaker 1: So you okay, so you work at a uh uh

546
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:21,160
Speaker 1: an entertainment center in Naperville, but ye live an hour out.

547
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 3: I live half an hour out.

548
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,120
Speaker 1: Why do you still work there?

549
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 3: The job market is horrible? Well, job market is horrible.

550
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 3: The job market is whole. I used to do warehouse work,

551
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 3: but just ever since I moved, he's been terrible to find,

552
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,959
Speaker 3: like warehouse work that's willing, like they're hiring, but they

553
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: won't hire anybody.

554
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: M hmm.

555
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: And are you are you? Are you a lifelong Floridian?

556
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: Would you ever move anywhere else?

557
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 3: I do want to move to Virginia?

558
00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: What's going on in Virginia?

559
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 3: I went out? So in August I went out for

560
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 3: one of my really good friend's weddings with a couple

561
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 3: of my buddies. We took a road trip there. It

562
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 3: was like two thousand miles round trip, like from because

563
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 3: they went to Western Michigan at the time. I drove

564
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 3: from Chicago to Western Michigan University all the way to

565
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 3: Virginia Beach. So it was like a thousand miles just

566
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 3: in one direction, but it was Virginia Beach is a

567
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 3: beautiful area. It was beautiful from what I saw. It

568
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: was warm, there was a very diverse crowd. You had

569
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 3: very small town vibes in certain areas, but it was

570
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 3: also like a whole big it's a big area. You know,

571
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 3: you have the ocean right there. It's it's just from

572
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 3: what I witnessed, it was a it's a beautiful place.

573
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: What would you do? What would you do there?

574
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 3: Honestly, I'd find work. I mean, I'm right now I'm

575
00:29:55,760 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 3: taking classes for User Experience Designs MHM, which is I'm

576
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 3: not sure if you're aware of what that is, but u.

577
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: X design it's like, uh, you make you make uh yeah,

578
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: you make apps hard to use?

579
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 3: No, you actually make them easier to use. If something's

580
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 3: ever really hard to use, like and it's confusing, that

581
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 3: usually means they only had one designer but within their team,

582
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 3: or they didn't have any designers and they just kind

583
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 3: of threw it together.

584
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: I want to know this and if if you want

585
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: to talk about it, did you ever get to uh

586
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: like back into context, because it's interesting because so you're

587
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: in contact with your your biological grandma. Were you ever

588
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: in contact with your mom or dad or any of

589
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 1: your other biological family?

590
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 3: Uh? No, No, I have not seen my biological mother

591
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 3: since I was four, and I've never seen my biological father.

592
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: So then does your are you still cool with? Uh?

593
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 1: The grandma?

594
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 3: She lives in Texas and I never really got any

595
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 3: way to contact her, you know, so well, she's she's around.

596
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 3: It's all love, you know, But like I don't really

597
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 3: ever communicate with her.

598
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 1: What about any of your other siblings? Do they do

599
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: they communicate with them?

600
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 3: My sister, my older sister is that's because that's like

601
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 3: basically her mom, my grandma. My brother's her grandma raised

602
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 3: my older sister.

603
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

604
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 3: So like my older sister loves my grandma mm hm.

605
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: And what else is they going to say? Are you

606
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: still so like your your adopted parents? What's their deal?

607
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: Who are they?

608
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 2: They were?

609
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 3: I was actually the first child they adopted. They they're

610
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 3: wonderful people. They're wonderful people. They've given me a life

611
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 3: more than I could even ask for. You know, They've

612
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 3: they've set me up in the with within their best abilities.

613
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: You know, they've bent over back. It's time and time

614
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 3: again to give me the best life that I could

615
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 3: possibly have, and I'm forever grateful for that.

616
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: But that's awesome.

617
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean obviously, you know, there's ups and downs,

618
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 3: you know, like there's no right way to pairing a

619
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 3: kid if there's no like you know, like I wasn't

620
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: a perfect kids. Like, obviously there's up and downs, you know,

621
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 3: and there's some things we still don't see eye to

622
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 3: eye on, you know, even though I'm glown, you know,

623
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 3: and there's still like some that there's still some issues.

624
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 3: But like at the end of the day, I mean,

625
00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: I love them dearly. You know, they've done more for

626
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 3: me than I could ever even ask.

627
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: You know, do you.

628
00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: Do you are you still close with them now that

629
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: you are live an hour out?

630
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: Uh?

631
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, honestly, Like at first, it was like the relationship

632
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 3: with my my foster mom was a bit rocky towards

633
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 3: the end of like me moving out, But ever since

634
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 3: I moved out, it's gotten better. I think it was

635
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 3: at that point where it was like we just kind

636
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 3: of made it stay for each other. Yeah, you know. Yeah,

637
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 3: and on top of that, like a bunch of my

638
00:32:55,480 --> 00:33:00,480
Speaker 3: other foster siblings have moved out, you know. So, I

639
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 3: mean it's really just a lot of the birds are

640
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 3: leaving the nest so to speak right now.

641
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. Yeah. So what's your ultimate goal here then?

642
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:16,280
Speaker 1: Ux designing? What's the if you could wave a magic wand,

643
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: what would you what would you?

644
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 2: Uh?

645
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: What would your life be?

646
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 3: If I could wave a magic wand and have my

647
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 3: life be perfect?

648
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

649
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 3: If it was actually perfect and everything like was like

650
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 3: my way, I probably I'd end up owning three different

651
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 3: different brands I have like my three favorite cards, live

652
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 3: in a good house with my girlfriend, and we'd be married,

653
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 3: and she'd be having the best barbering career of her life.

654
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: Barbering career like she cuts her.

655
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 3: Yes, my girlfriend's a barber, cosmetologist and raider. Oh, very exactly.

656
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 3: My girlfriend's fucking awesome. I love my girlfriends so much.

657
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 1: That's very sweet.

658
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 2: Man.

659
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: How'd you guys meet?

660
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,240
Speaker 3: So funny story, Actually we met through two people. So

661
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 3: like I used to be. I used to be kind

662
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 3: of like a bar junkie. So I used to go

663
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 3: to the bars all the time, like when I was

664
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 3: like twenty one, because it was I just got it

665
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 3: out of my system earlier. I don't really drink anymore.

666
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,879
Speaker 1: But you're twenty two, right, Yes, okay, you're talking about

667
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: just like it was, like it was ten years ago.

668
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 3: No, I know, it's it's weird. It's weird when I

669
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 3: say it, but like it's true. Like I just I

670
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 3: got bored of it really fucking quick. But I don't

671
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 3: do it anymore. But So, I had this drinking partner

672
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 3: right at the time, who was a forty eight year

673
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 3: old lesbian.

674
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 4: Momouldn't because she's like now like a godmother figure to me.

675
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 4: So she was dating somebody who knew my girlfriend through

676
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 4: like a similar circle, right, and we both met.

677
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,960
Speaker 3: We both end up running into each other because we

678
00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 3: were both invited out to his karaoke bar, right, And

679
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 3: I'm outside and I see her and I go, hey,

680
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 3: I like your outfit, and she says, hey, I like

681
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 3: yours too, Because that's just how I am. Like, if

682
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 3: I see somebody with a nice outfit, I'm gonna tell

683
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: them like their outfit. You know, it's not that deep.

684
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say it, you know. But I've thought

685
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 3: nothing of it. I was like, I'm probably never gonna

686
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 3: see this person again. And then I go back inside

687
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 3: to sit down and we see each other and it

688
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 3: was like the Spider Man me mother fun at each other.

689
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 3: We both looked at each other and immediately like we

690
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 3: just started hitting it off. And in my mind the

691
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 3: whole time I'm talking to her, I'm like, this person

692
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 3: is like the coolest fucking person ever. This person's amazing, right,

693
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:37,959
Speaker 3: And I ended up getting her snapchat and I find

694
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 3: out she's a barber. I'm like, well, next time I

695
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 3: get a haircut, I'm coming to you, and if you

696
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 3: do a great job, You're the only person I'm seeing

697
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,759
Speaker 3: from my head. She goes all right, cool, but I

698
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 3: never got the information on how to book an appointment,

699
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 3: and I never asked where she works. So, like six

700
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 3: months later, after I finally built up enough courage to

701
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,439
Speaker 3: like reach out to her because I'm like, this person

702
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 3: is too fucking cool, I asked him, like, hey, how

703
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 3: do I book an appointment? She sends me the link.

704
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, damn, okay, so I book an appointment. Anyway.

705
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,799
Speaker 3: Two months later, I come in and she's like ecstatic

706
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,480
Speaker 3: to see me after like so long, and I'm like,

707
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 3: holy shit, yes, So I sit down. We started she

708
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 3: starts cutting my hair, and it was like we never

709
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 3: missed a beat. M it was. And then we started

710
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,799
Speaker 3: actually communicating and snapchatting, you know, like actually like you know,

711
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 3: talking to her like friends. And then after that we

712
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 3: kind of realized, holy shit, we have a lot of

713
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 3: stuff in common, right, And they're like, do we just

714
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,959
Speaker 3: become best friends? She's like yeah, And then we started

715
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 3: hanging out more and then next thing, you know, we

716
00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 3: kind of catch feelings for each other and now we're

717
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 3: dating and.

718
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: That's very sweet. How long he is been dating for?

719
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:45,080
Speaker 2: Uh?

720
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 3: We are approaching seven months now.

721
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 1: Very sweet, very sweet.

722
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, seven months together, almost a year of like, you know,

723
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: just like talking on a romantic way. M.

724
00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 1: Well, you know, I guess before we go, I'll ask you.

725
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: I mean, the original subject that you wanted to talk

726
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 1: about was like specifically the experience of of being the

727
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: only black guy in town. And I don't know, do

728
00:37:11,719 --> 00:37:14,240
Speaker 1: you do you was there anything else that like about

729
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: that subject specifically that you wanted to to to share

730
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: or do you feel like we covered it?

731
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 3: I mean, there's there's a hell of a lot more,

732
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 3: but I'll leave it with this. My message to the

733
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 3: people of the computer if you ever feel like an

734
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 3: our test, Just know there's other people who feel the

735
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,920
Speaker 3: same way. You are not alone in your feelings. Embrace

736
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 3: your true self.

737
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,239
Speaker 1: What's the absolute worst part of Naperville? Like, give us

738
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: the reason, not like, the biggest reason not to go

739
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: to Naperville, Florida.

740
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 3: Oh, this is Naperville, Illinois. This is Naperville, Illinois.

741
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,880
Speaker 1: Oh why the fuck did I think it was Florida?

742
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: Thought this was Florida the whole fucking time.

743
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: No, this is Illinois, this is Illin.

744
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: It just sounds like a place in Florida. Okay, tell

745
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,879
Speaker 1: us why not to go to Neighborville, Illinois.

746
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 3: It's fucking horrible. It's a bunch of snotty, snobby knows

747
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:17,399
Speaker 3: white people. There's no diversity of culture. It's like if

748
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 3: you saw a corner field and was like a Starbucks

749
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 3: will looked really fucking nice here. That's basically the embodiment

750
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 3: of Naperville.

751
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

752
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: Well, it's like.

753
00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 3: Naperville wants to be Chicago so bad.

754
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: You know, at the very least they have a bumper

755
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: car basketball facility.

756
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:39,880
Speaker 3: That's Yeah, it's a pretty decent way to describe it.

757
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: Well, I guess you already said it, But is there

758
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: any final thing you want to say to the people

759
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go.

760
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 3: Stay true to yourself, don't change for other people. Let

761
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: your let your life decide who you're supposed to be.

762
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 3: Follow your gut and stay true.

763
00:38:56,200 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: Thanks for the uh, the the kind word, Xavier. Now

764
00:39:01,960 --> 00:39:04,280
Speaker 1: go yell at some kids to stop running.

765
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: I will get buss gek blood.

766
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: Take care, Take care man, you.

767
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 4: Dude.

768
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: Does anyone remember I'm trying to remember. There was a

769
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: place called Jeepers. There was a place called Jeepers. They

770
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 1: had this like banana ride and it was kind of

771
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 1: half rides, half arcade. There's a place called jeep I

772
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: think there was a few Jeepers. Shout out to Jeepers.

773
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: Just wanted to end this call by saying, shout out

774
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: to Jeepers. Shout out to players in Maryland. Shout out

775
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: to Chuck E Cheese. Can you still get into Chuck

776
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 1: E Cheese? Can you get into Chuck E Cheese without

777
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: an adult? They have the best pizza, dude, They have

778
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: the best pizza. There was this thing where they ran

779
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: a ghost kitchen where you could order Chuck E Cheese pizza,

780
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 1: like just from Uber Eats. Or whatever the fuck, and

781
00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: I never did it, but I wish I did, because

782
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: they have the best piece I've been I went to

783
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 1: Italy a while ago and I had pizza and it

784
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: wasn't as good as the chuck E cheese pizza. So

785
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:18,959
Speaker 1: so yeah, hello, Hello, Hi. What is your name?

786
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:19,439
Speaker 5: Oh?

787
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 6: My god, my name is Scarlet?

788
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: Scarlet? What's going on? How's life?

789
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 6: It's great? How are you?

790
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: I'm a gecko on the computer and I'm actually having

791
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 1: a pretty I'm having a pretty nice night. I'm having

792
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:42,279
Speaker 1: a pretty good recording session. I'm enjoying talking to people.

793
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: I'm enjoying being alive. I'm feeling like a real person.

794
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: Slowly but surely, I'm doing like.

795
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 7: A real person too.

796
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,760
Speaker 6: I was watching the stream and I kind.

797
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,839
Speaker 7: Of gave up on calling, so.

798
00:40:56,840 --> 00:41:01,760
Speaker 6: I was watching videos on cats and trapped neuter returned.

799
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 7: Do you know about that?

800
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 1: Trapped neutered returned? What is that?

801
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 7: It's a program?

802
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 6: You know how there's like so many feral cats on

803
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 6: the street. It's a program where you go and you

804
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,319
Speaker 6: trap cats and you take them so that way they

805
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 6: don't have babies anymore, and.

806
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 7: Then you put them back in the community.

807
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: MM.

808
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 6: The only way to decrease the cat population.

809
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: Is that a good thing to cut off cat cocks?

810
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 2: Yes?

811
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 6: It is actually so that way they don't have babies

812
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 6: and then there's not like thousands of kittens on the

813
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 6: street without a home.

814
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: Because I feel like like if aliens came down to

815
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,920
Speaker 1: Earth and they were like, hey, we're gonna help solve

816
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 1: human population by cutting guys cocks off, we I think

817
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: a few of us would probably be like, I I

818
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: don't know about that.

819
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean it's a it's a thing.

820
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 7: But I have a colony of cat that live outside

821
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 7: my house. So I got it.

822
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: Do you assemble this colin Did you assemble this colony?

823
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: Or did this company Colinie just come well?

824
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 6: I mean we kind of did because we said them.

825
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 6: So they were like, oh, you have food, let me

826
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 6: come over. So now we have like six cats living

827
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 6: in our backyard.

828
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool.

829
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 7: But I love cats, so all is good.

830
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 1: Well here's what. Okay, you're a contradiction, scarlet, because if

831
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 1: you love cats so much, why don't you want more

832
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: of them running around? Why shn't you curb the population?

833
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:34,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

834
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 6: You see, I'm an opera singer and my boyfriend's an

835
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 6: opera singer, and we move around a lot, so we

836
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 6: can only really have like one or two cats. If

837
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 6: I had like a stationary job and I could like

838
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,240
Speaker 6: live in one place forever, I'd have like a colony

839
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 6: of cats. I'd have like thirty cats.

840
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: What are so you guys are always on tour doing

841
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,320
Speaker 1: the opera.

842
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 6: No, we're not on tour. We're pretty young, and being

843
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 6: opera singers is tough. I mean, do you know anybody

844
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 6: that's an opera singer?

845
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: How old are you guys?

846
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 7: I'm twenty six and he's twenty four.

847
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 3: Oh, twenty five.

848
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: Very nice. Did you guys meet at the opera?

849
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 7: We met in school in university.

850
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 1: Oh okay, very cool, Very cool. It's you sound like

851
00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: you guys have a good life.

852
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, we're good.

853
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 6: We live in South Florida. Now, I'm from South Florida,

854
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 6: so it's nice to.

855
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 7: Be close to home. But I'd love to move to Europe.

856
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 6: I'm being completely honest.

857
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 7: That's like the dream.

858
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: What's the So, what's the worst thing about being an

859
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: opera singer?

860
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 6: The worst thing about being an opera singer?

861
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 7: Well, okay, I'm an opera singer, but I'm also.

862
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 6: Like a marketer. I'm a social media girly and I

863
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 6: work in social media, so I.

864
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 7: Kind of do both things. And I would say the

865
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 7: worst thing about being an opera.

866
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 6: Singer is like a lot of people don't understand what

867
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:25,040
Speaker 6: you do. So it's like hard to find like a

868
00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 6: community that loves opera, if that makes sense, for like

869
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 6: people appreciating like what you do and like the work

870
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 6: that goes behind it. And I guess you could say

871
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 6: that for any artist, like a visual artist or a dancer,

872
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 6: Like the amount of time and at furt that goes

873
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 6: into like the art that you're doing is like astounding,

874
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 6: and unless you're an artist, you like can't really comprehend.

875
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 7: Does that make sense?

876
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,560
Speaker 1: Just a general feeling of being unappreciated.

877
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

878
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:59,439
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. Like the folks who do those

879
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: special effects on those Marvel movies must feel, right because

880
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: they spend oh.

881
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 6: My god, yeah, they spend like their whole lives.

882
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, They're like they spend like eight hours a day

883
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: for about seven years just on Adobe whatever, clicking and

884
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: dragging key frames around. And then Robert Downey Junior shows

885
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 1: up for like two days and then it's Robert Downey

886
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: Junior's fucking Iron Man. You know it should be uh

887
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: but Mark Finnegan's Iron Man.

888
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 7: You're absolutely right.

889
00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 6: And then you go to the theater one day of

890
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 6: your life, for like an hour and a half, two hours,

891
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 6: you watch the movie and then that's it.

892
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: No, not even Scarlett, not even Scarlett. You have the

893
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 1: movie in the background while you are on your phone

894
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 1: doing something in a different God.

895
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're like or yeah, you're talking to therapy. Get

896
00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 6: go mm hmm.

897
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: So I guess I guess at the very not to

898
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: make this ay, it could be worse, but you know,

899
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:05,520
Speaker 1: it could be worse. You could You could do special

900
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:10,280
Speaker 1: effects for Marvel movies that people watch, well, that people

901
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: don't watch while they're in the bathroom in another room.

902
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: At least. The cool thing about opera is that I

903
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: guess people people are are captive audience for you.

904
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess, I guess.

905
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: So what's the best thing about being an opera singer?

906
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 1: What do you enjoy about it?

907
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,840
Speaker 6: I really love learning languages. Do you like watching things

908
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:37,800
Speaker 6: in different languages?

909
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'd like to learn I I knew a

910
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: little bit of Italian, but I want to I want

911
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 1: to Spanish seems fun. I've been there's a few stores

912
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: I've been to around my h around around the city,

913
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: and like they only speak Spanish.

914
00:46:57,880 --> 00:46:59,560
Speaker 7: Oh that's awesome.

915
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 2: I love that.

916
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 6: I really love that.

917
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, learning languages is fun, and I feel like.

918
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 6: So many more things and like the world could be

919
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 6: better if we could watch things in different languages. Like

920
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,880
Speaker 6: I feel like we could come to appreciate like cultures

921
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 6: and people if we like watched more things in different languages.

922
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 7: And same thing with opera, it's like it's it's a play.

923
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:31,319
Speaker 6: There's costumes, you read subtitles the whole time. But it's

924
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,200
Speaker 6: like there's so many things to look at. It's so engrossing,

925
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 6: and it's so like opera can be so scary, but

926
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 6: I want to tell people that it's not scary. Just

927
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:44,319
Speaker 6: like literally, wear a get go suit and go to

928
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 6: the opera and nobody's like, nobody can tell.

929
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 7: You what to do.

930
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: Somebody in the chat just said my roommate dated an

931
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: opera singer in college and it sucked because the asshole

932
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: would start warming up at nine to thirty am. Well,

933
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: by the way, at nine is not that bad. That's

934
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:05,760
Speaker 1: like that's the workday.

935
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 6: True, but opera singers can be pretty loud, so it

936
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 6: would wake everybody up. So I get where that person's

937
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 6: coming from.

938
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 7: And that's just that's just a rude person.

939
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 6: That's not like an opera singer traite, that's just that's

940
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 6: just being rude.

941
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 1: What have you ever done something like that?

942
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 7: No, because I'm.

943
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 6: I'm pretty considerate.

944
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 7: Also, I don't.

945
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 6: Like like singing in front of people when I don't

946
00:48:36,239 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 6: have to, if.

947
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:38,080
Speaker 7: That makes sense.

948
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: Okay, yes, some people in the chat were also saying

949
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: they wanted you to belt out right now, but that

950
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: probably would wake up ye see ibras.

951
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 2: Well.

952
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 6: I live in a house, so no, not really, but

953
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 6: I freaking knew that would happened.

954
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:55,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

955
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 6: One of my side projects, I'm Gonna I'm Gonna self

956
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:02,320
Speaker 6: smote here is an opera paid and literally my second

957
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 6: to Las video is a meme talking about how people

958
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:06,439
Speaker 6: are like.

959
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 7: Oh, you're an opera singer, can you sing something?

960
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 6: And it just happened on on Therapy Get Go.

961
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:16,040
Speaker 7: So thank you for affirming it.

962
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 6: Thank you.

963
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:20,920
Speaker 1: Yea, I guess I guess this means you're not going

964
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: to do it.

965
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 7: No I'm not, I'm not. Thank you. Thank you for

966
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 7: your curiosity, but unless I'm getting paid. No, thank you.

967
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 1: Well, you invited me to come to the opera in

968
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 1: this text? Where where where's this opera?

969
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 7: It's anywhere you want it to be there.

970
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:48,560
Speaker 6: Okay, I will go to the opera with you wherever,

971
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 6: wherever you go, I will be there.

972
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 7: Okay. We can go to New York, we can.

973
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 6: Go to Self, Sorida, anywhere opera's happening, I'll be there.

974
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: Oh I thought this was like you. I assumed it was.

975
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 1: It was like your opera. I don't know if you

976
00:50:04,280 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: just meant the.

977
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 7: Opera No, I just mean like the opera in general.

978
00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: Oh okay.

979
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 7: I think it would be.

980
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 6: Really fun for you to go to the opera because

981
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 6: people are like, oh, operas so like I don't know,

982
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 6: like when you think of the opera, you probably think

983
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 6: of like, oh, people dressing like really nice suits, and

984
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 6: like it's really nice and and everybody's very you know,

985
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 6: got the noses in the air.

986
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, very posh.

987
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 6: But it doesn't need to be like that. I feel

988
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 6: like you showing up, people would be like, what's going

989
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:40,959
Speaker 6: on at the opera?

990
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: No, but I would I see some thing. I would

991
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,000
Speaker 1: show up in a suit and I would just be like.

992
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: I know, I would be a dick to everyone. I

993
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: would like. I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't tip the bartender,

994
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,320
Speaker 1: and I would send the drink back, and I would

995
00:50:54,400 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: fart really loudly and it would smell bad, and you'd yeah,

996
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I would. I would be bad if if I would

997
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: yell out lame, if I didn't like one of the singers,

998
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I wouldn't be good.

999
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 6: Honestly, Please just yell boo.

1000
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:15,719
Speaker 1: I would boo. I would. I would if somebody was good,

1001
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: I would boo just because I'm jealous. Well, Scarlett, I

1002
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 1: appreciate you giving us this little uh uh tidbit into

1003
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:31,920
Speaker 1: into into another portal of of opera. Yeah, into the

1004
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: opera universe. Is there anything else that you want to

1005
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 1: say or share or or express to the people of

1006
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: the computer before we go, Yeah.

1007
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:41,879
Speaker 6: Go follow my opera account if you want to hear

1008
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 6: a little bit of opera music.

1009
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 7: It's on Instagram.

1010
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,360
Speaker 6: Simply bell kanto, simply.

1011
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 7: B E L kanto, c A N t o oh.

1012
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:53,800
Speaker 7: Also therapy go go.

1013
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 6: You went to Guatemala, I'm Waatemalan freaking very cool.

1014
00:51:57,719 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I'm very fond of Guatemala. Well, some girls

1015
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: just died there at the same place that that I

1016
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: went to, and I was like, damn, that sucks.

1017
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 7: Are you talking about Lake Titlan.

1018
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: Yes, lake Titlan, Yes.

1019
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw that. That was really messed up.

1020
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 6: But it's a beautiful place. It's messed up, but one

1021
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 6: of my beautiful places.

1022
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: Side note, Yeah, I mean I lived in Los Angeles

1023
00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:26,799
Speaker 1: for a hot second and a lot of people died

1024
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: there too, So people people pretty much anywhere that there

1025
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: are people, those people.

1026
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:37,799
Speaker 7: Die, so even yeah, that's that's life.

1027
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: Have a go rest of the night, Scarlet.

1028
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 7: Thank you so much for talking to me.

1029
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 6: This made my night. I hope I trapped some cats

1030
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:46,840
Speaker 6: tonight in your honor.

1031
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: Beautiful Bye Scarlet.

1032
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 6: Alrighty go bye.

1033
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: I'll do. I'll sing opera right now. I don't give

1034
00:52:54,400 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: a fuck what wdier, I'll stop.

1035
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 2: Never be Get goes on the line, taking your phone

1036
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:14,640
Speaker 2: calls every night. Never be cant goes do on his ride.

1037
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 2: He's teaching you loud in the lid of your life,

1038
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 2: but he's not really an expert.