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Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject he

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Speaker 1: needs some friends. Dear Stephen Shirley, My husband and I

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Speaker 1: are in our late forties and we've been married for

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Speaker 1: twenty years. We have one son that was active in

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Speaker 1: his trucking business. Our son is nineteen years old and

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Speaker 1: he recently left the nest and moved out two hours.

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Speaker 1: Moved about two hours from us to be closer to school.

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Speaker 1: He decided to change his major and transferred to a

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Speaker 1: My husband tried to make him stay closer home, and

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Speaker 1: I had to talk some sense into him so our

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Speaker 1: as I could. I realized that my husband does not

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Speaker 1: have real friends. He has guys that work with him

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Speaker 1: our son. My son sent me a text telling me

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Speaker 1: hoping his dad will reconnect with his friends so he

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Speaker 1: he said that we should go visit my son for Easter,

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Speaker 1: and I made up a lot of excuses why we shouldn't.

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Speaker 1: The only thing that keeps him occupied is sex, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to keep doing that all the time,

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Speaker 1: so he needs his friends. Should I plan a playdate

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Speaker 1: for him? How do I get him out of this

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Speaker 1: house more. You're certainly right about one thing, and that's

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Speaker 1: the subject of your letter. The subject is he needs

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Speaker 1: some friends, and your husband really really does need some friends.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm happy that your husband and son are really,

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Speaker 1: his dreams, and you've been an excellent wife who's tried

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Speaker 1: to fill in the blanks of the board and your

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Speaker 1: husband's you know, feeling. But no matter what you do,

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Speaker 1: obviously can't go on like this because your son has

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Speaker 1: or having you guys over anytime soon. I mean, notice

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Speaker 1: your son didn't invite you guys over for Easter. Your

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Speaker 1: husband that you're going, I say, instead of planning a date,

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Speaker 1: because you asked about planning a play date for your husband,

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Speaker 1: Plan a party, plan a dinner and bite some of

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Speaker 1: his old friends that he used to work with and

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Speaker 1: some of you know, some of the his old buddies.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he has some from the past. Maybe invite

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Speaker 1: out what they're doing and bite some other couples over um,

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Speaker 1: try to connect, try to you know, get some parties,

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Speaker 1: distract him from from being so needy where your son is.

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Speaker 1: I've really never heard of this before, a father being

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Speaker 1: but if you have a dinner party or a house

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Speaker 1: slowly get your husband to start hanging out with his

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Speaker 1: that's all I have to steve, Well, he needs some friends.

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Speaker 1: See this ladder right here. I don't have to be

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Speaker 1: all of this right here. You know, y'all in your

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Speaker 1: late part, he's been married twenty years. You only got

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Speaker 1: what's happening, helping to build his trucking business. Okay, our

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Speaker 1: Your son escaped. See your son escaped. That's really what

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Speaker 1: damn truck driver. I don't want to drive no damn truck.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to pick up no loads. I don't

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Speaker 1: loads and all this hell. This ain't what I want, daddy.

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Speaker 1: So now I'm I'm going to two hours away. I'm

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Speaker 1: go to a whole nother damn school. I'm trying to escape.

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Speaker 1: My husband tried to make him stay closer to home,

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Speaker 1: our son could pursue his dreams. Okay, I understand that too,

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Speaker 1: over it this yr dream, Daddy. As soon as my

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Speaker 1: It gave him purpose. It's like, it's like it's like

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Speaker 1: and sureley, you never heard of this. You've all heard

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Speaker 1: of mama's boy, but this is a daddy's boy. But

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Speaker 1: He can't have a relationship with a woman because his

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Speaker 1: boy is a direct opposite. It's the father tied to

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Speaker 1: and decided I'm not driving no damn truck. Hold on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: hold on, I'm moving. We'll have two of your response

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. The

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Speaker 1: subject of today's strawberry letter, he needs some friends. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 1: Hardy Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap

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Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is he needs some friends. Well,

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Speaker 1: let's look at this. This is his woman and husband

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Speaker 1: have been married for twenty years, only got one boy.

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Speaker 1: At the man's whole life was wrapped around his son,

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Speaker 1: Your boy don't want to drive trucks. He got a

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Speaker 1: new dream and a new vision, got another degree program.

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Speaker 1: The mother was ecstatic. Your husband tried to make him

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Speaker 1: into a depression, and I kept trying to keep him

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Speaker 1: company and attaining best you could. And then you realize

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Speaker 1: that your husband don't have real friends. What should realize

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Speaker 1: that your husband is a daddy's boy. See a daddy's boy.

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Speaker 1: See you got a mama's boy, but you got daddy's

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Speaker 1: boy too. That's when the father is attached to the sun.

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Speaker 1: He had his whole life wrapped around the boy. He

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Speaker 1: made that up just now, Okay, okay, is that really

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Speaker 1: very rare. It's very rare, but it is the direct

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Speaker 1: opposite of a mama's boy. But the daddy's boy. There

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Speaker 1: are men who are attaching live vicariously through their sons,

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Speaker 1: That's really really I don't know if it's called a

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Speaker 1: daddy's boy, but that's what we're calling it for this letter.

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Speaker 1: But I know some guy knew a couple of friends

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Speaker 1: of mine that lived their life like that. Son's really

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Speaker 1: He didn't He didn't go pro and that knocked their

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Speaker 1: now while he was building the business with his son,

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Speaker 1: sent me a text telling me that he was moving

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Speaker 1: reconnect with his friends so he won't call him so much.

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Speaker 1: Okay them ten was had it that bodom with his

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Speaker 1: gonna FaceTime and some innappropriate moments. He's four nineteen day

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Speaker 1: FaceTime and that boy can't pick fun daddy. Huh No,

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Speaker 1: hold on, it. Wait a minute. That so now he

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Speaker 1: getting reconnected. So he ain't got to call me any money. Now,

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Speaker 1: because you didn't want to crush you rush, But we're here,

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Speaker 1: grown ass man. He gotta go, hey, look, you're calling

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Speaker 1: him too much. He want to live his life. He

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Speaker 1: had to move his girl in. Now. He in love

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Speaker 1: with this girl. Now. Yesterday he said he wonna go

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Speaker 1: visit his son for Easter. What ye ain't got no babies?

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Speaker 1: You ain't gonna see your grandkids? Y'll sign nineteen. He

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Speaker 1: ain't even gonna come home for Easter. Him and that girl.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what they fit to do on Easter.

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Speaker 1: easter he ever had without your ass, daddy, Daddy's boy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: How to him? How do I get him out of

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Speaker 1: You gotta contact his friends and go, hey, look, Herbert,

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Speaker 1: he ain't been paying y'all no intension because him, but

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Speaker 1: We need a barbecue, We need a card night poker,

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Speaker 1: them when do y'all go to the strip club? But

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Speaker 1: You got to call his friends and get in touch

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Speaker 1: with him, tell them that he's depressed. He needed to

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Speaker 1: got it? You got to go bolding and so go

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Speaker 1: bold at night, man, Go get you in a go

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Speaker 1: go to the gym, work out with your friend. Go what,

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Speaker 1: start crying, Shelly because he used to go with all

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Speaker 1: his games with his sons. You do this, Shelly depression, Sully, Stop, dude,

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Speaker 1: you shouldn't. They don't live in the NBA city. This

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Speaker 1: ain't from no NBA city town. They live in Willewine, Virginia,

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Speaker 1: New York or nothing like this. This ain't no New

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Speaker 1: York problem. This is a small town problem where a

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Speaker 1: a small town problem, all right. Hit us up on

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