1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador 3 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. 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Say hello to the 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 4: vacant ranch mccrispy by time by five five. 23 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 5: I participated in Mcconnalds some HM at the time. 24 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 6: Only I was running from the gift. I don't run 25 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 6: from it no more. So I'm all right now, you know. 26 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 6: But so I hear him in different ways, and so 27 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 6: I always tell people I can't tell you how you 28 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 6: can hear him versus how I hear him. It's gonna 29 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 6: be different because everybody didn't have the same gift that 30 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 6: I have. However, I will tell you that thing that 31 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 6: you think about that you can't shake. Most time it's 32 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 6: him trying to nudge you on something, and sometimes he 33 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 6: speaks to you through other people. Now you can have 34 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 6: a thought about something you ain't told nobody, and then 35 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 6: somebody comes saying, you know what I was thinking, you 36 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 6: know what you should do? 37 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 7: And you'd be like, I been thinking about that. 38 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 6: That's him saying, let me send it through somebody else, 39 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 6: because you won't be of a handle if he came 40 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 6: down and. 41 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 8: Said, my graduate from my school being forced back drop drop, Mike, 42 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 8: drop back drop drop. 43 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 9: All right, gosh, welcome back, e y l. 44 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 10: We are in our second home, Los Angeles, and this 45 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 10: is an episode that I was just telling. My sister 46 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 10: is extremely excited about so she actually told me about 47 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 10: Tabitha Brown, probably a year and a half, two years ago, 48 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 10: something like that. 49 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 7: Come on, sis, I appreciate you. 50 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 9: So yeah, actually, you know, get it done. I told her. 51 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,799 Speaker 9: She's like, I told you. 52 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 5: Only big it's a big deal, big deal. 53 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 9: Yeah. 54 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 11: So but can you talk about how the room feels 55 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:52,440 Speaker 11: right now that you walked in. 56 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean. 57 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 11: There's a level of joy that has Southern hospitality compassed 58 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 11: the room. 59 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 9: So that's the fact. The pink is very drip. 60 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, we're not gonna play around with the drip from 61 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 11: the watch to the kigs. 62 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 9: It's giving. 63 00:03:07,520 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 11: You know, I'm not even show what they called the 64 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 11: fabric just love, love love. 65 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 5: Everything is aligned here, the love movement love. 66 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 10: So Tabitha Brown, I guess the best way to describe 67 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 10: is an entrepreneur, restaurant tour author, huge on social media, 68 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 10: health advocate, vegan. 69 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 9: Wife, a mother, inspiration. Anything I left out you. 70 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 5: Got the wall bro, Damn that was good. 71 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 7: I guess I didn't even care. 72 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 5: Just so she checks fashion icon. Yeah, we're don't put 73 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 5: that on the list now. 74 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 9: Obviously she checks off a lot of boxes. 75 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 10: And I feel like this conversation is going to be 76 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 10: a multi fascon one very interesting, from the health side, 77 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 10: to the business side, to social media side, author to 78 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 10: family life. 79 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 9: Is a lot of a lot of things happening here. 80 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 5: And the journey is incredible. 81 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 11: I think people you know may not know the journey, 82 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 11: but a lot of character building goes inside that journey. 83 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 11: A lot of you become and the things you've learned 84 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 11: help you later in the future, and all the things 85 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 11: you've been doing. So that that part is it's super 86 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 11: like you said, inspiring, super inspiring. 87 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 9: So yeah, first of almost, thank you for being here, appreciate. 88 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 7: It, thank you for having me. 89 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 9: No problem. 90 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 10: So all right, so let's get into this. I know 91 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,239 Speaker 10: you're from North Carolina. Yes, born and raised. Yes, small town. 92 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 10: Shout out to eating. Shout out to everybody. Ain't eating 93 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,520 Speaker 10: all five people. 94 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 11: All, seventy y'all, thirteen, twenty y'all in the city we 95 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 11: love all. I just added the whole city of listeners. 96 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 10: But all right, so how does this journey start? I know, 97 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 10: you know you became a vegan because of health issues. 98 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 10: She was also an actor, right, and then you go 99 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 10: extremely viral on social media in a very short period 100 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 10: of time. That's an accomplishment within itself. I don't think 101 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 10: I've ever heard anybody ever doing that. But all right, 102 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 10: so where does it start as far as for you 103 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 10: on your journey to where you are now? Does it 104 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 10: start with the vegan or does it start with being 105 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 10: an actress? And like, how does it get to like 106 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 10: this where we're at now? 107 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 7: I mean, you can't get here without the beginning it started. 108 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 7: And you know, as a child, I always wanted to 109 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 7: be an actor. 110 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 6: I grew up watching Cosby Show, and my first introduction 111 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 6: to acting or really understanding what it meant, I saw 112 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 6: myself in Rudy and I was like, I want to 113 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 6: do that. 114 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 7: I want to be Rudy Springing. So I told my mom. 115 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:50,720 Speaker 6: She said, oh, you want to be Rudy spreend. I 116 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,279 Speaker 6: was like, no, only in the TV. And it was like, oh, 117 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 6: that means you want to be an actor. And so 118 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 6: I spent all my childhood trying to figure out, oh, 119 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 6: how do I do this thing? 120 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 7: Because you know, for me and so, nobody was an actor. 121 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 6: And so I started doing you know, plays in school 122 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 6: and I would tell any teacher if there was a production, oh, 123 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 6: I want. 124 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 7: To be an actor. 125 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 6: Now that I know what this word mean. So they 126 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 6: would put me in plays and church theater. I grew 127 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 6: up in the church, so doing church theater, community theater, 128 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 6: anything I could to perform. In high school, I started 129 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 6: making clothes, and so when it was time to go 130 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 6: to college, my mom was like, you know, I know 131 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 6: you want to be an actor, but we don't know 132 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 6: anybody who's done that. 133 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 7: And she wasn't trying to discourage me. 134 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 6: She was, I think, doing what she was used to doing, like, 135 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 6: you know, creating a plan B to make sure I 136 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 6: was all right. And so my great great aunt was 137 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 6: our town seamstress, and so she was like, we do 138 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 6: know somebody who makes clothes for a living, So you 139 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 6: should go to school for fashion design. Then you can 140 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 6: do that while you try to pursue your acting. And 141 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,559 Speaker 6: I thought that was like, okay, that's a good idea, 142 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 6: I guess, And so I went to school to study 143 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 6: fashion in Miami when I left Eden, and I was 144 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 6: there for like the first US and woke up one 145 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 6: night I was like, yeah, this saint did I'm supposed 146 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 6: to be acting? 147 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 7: And I called my daddy. I'm a daddy's girl, and 148 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 7: my daddy worked real hard, and I said, did he 149 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 7: better come get me a wasting your money. I'm supposed 150 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 7: to be pursuing acting. 151 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 6: And so I went back home to Eden now trying 152 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 6: to figure out, like, Okay, how do. 153 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 7: I get to this dream that I have? And uh, I. 154 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 6: Applied to Columbia College in Chicago. Me and my mama 155 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 6: went out there in the spring, because that's how they. 156 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 7: Get you, you know, this is nice. 157 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 6: Got accepted and worked off some of the like you know, 158 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 6: save money and stuff. I was working at American Express 159 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 6: and I it was like two weeks before it was 160 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 6: time to go to school and got a letter in 161 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 6: the middle said hey, unfortunately, do to your financial aid 162 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 6: that I had at the school in Miami. They couldn't 163 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 6: approve my financial aid for Columbia and I ain't had 164 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 6: that much money that I had saved over the summer, 165 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 6: so I didn't get to go, and. 166 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 7: I was still stuck in Eden, like now what do 167 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 7: I do? 168 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 6: And I remember my mom had knew somebody that lived 169 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 6: in California had told me, you know what, if you 170 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 6: ever want to come to California, you can come in 171 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 6: rent a room. And I was like, oh, I wonder 172 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 6: if she'll still let me come out there. So I 173 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 6: was like I'm just going to go to California try 174 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 6: to pursue my dreams. I had no gold. I just 175 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 6: had the dream and so went out there. Now the lady, 176 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 6: you know, she told me I could in the room. 177 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 6: She didn't tell me she was crazy. Didn't say that part. 178 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 5: Those are the details. 179 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, yes, she left that part out mission right. 180 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 6: So I was out there for you know, a while, 181 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 6: and my husband, who was my boyfriend at the time 182 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 6: we're talking, were in ninety eight and he came out 183 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 6: there because our goal was to like move there together. 184 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 6: I was not in La I was way down in 185 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 6: like Laguna the guel beautiful, but not Hollywood, and I 186 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 6: was doing no acting. I was working two jobs, trying 187 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 6: to survive. And my husband came out there and he 188 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 6: was like, this is crazy. We need to move back 189 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 6: to North Carolina and save up money for a year 190 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 6: and then moved back to La so you can really 191 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 6: pursue your dream. And I was like, all right, I 192 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 6: guess that's a good idea of moved back. 193 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 7: To North Carolina. 194 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 6: And it was supposed to be a one year planning 195 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 6: and the one year turned into five years, a baby, 196 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 6: and you know, we got married and jobs responsibilities and 197 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 6: I've forgotten dream. I convinced myself that I could not 198 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 6: have this because you know, I'm from a small town. 199 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 7: Get a baby early, that's it. 200 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 6: You get a job, and you get a house, and 201 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 6: you live happily ever after. That's kind of like the mentality. 202 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 6: And so I was pretty content. I was working at UPS. 203 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 6: I was a manager at a call center, and so 204 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 6: one day God woke me up out my sleep and 205 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 6: it felt like earthquake had happened in Greensboro. And I 206 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 6: heard a voice and said, this is not the life 207 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 6: I planned for you. And I was like, okay, Lord, 208 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 6: this is you speaking to me. I'm gonna need you 209 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 6: to show me a sign today. And I told my 210 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,199 Speaker 6: husband what happened. I think he thought I was crazy. 211 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 6: It's like I'm telling I heard this voice. It sounded 212 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 6: like thunder. And so later that day I was on 213 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 6: my way to tomorrow with my husband and my daughter 214 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 6: and on the radio, Bust the Brown, who was our 215 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 6: you know, the DJ in the city. He came on 216 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 6: and was like, Hey, I'm holding auditions, got a new 217 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 6: TV show. I'm looking for a female co host. And 218 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,160 Speaker 6: I almost like bust the windows out the car I 219 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 6: was like, that's the sign I prayed for. 220 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 7: So I went to the audition and I booked it. 221 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 7: Was my first audition for television. Booked it. 222 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 6: And that's what made me start dreaming again and believing 223 00:10:26,400 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 6: that I could maybe still have my dreams. 224 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 7: And so I did that for like a year. 225 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 6: Learned to produce my own segments, and I was a 226 00:10:33,360 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 6: rolling correspondent. Really, I was interviewing all the celebrities when 227 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 6: they would come for concerts and things like that. And 228 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 6: I'm doing that for like a year. I started doing 229 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 6: theater again and short films whatever I could. I would 230 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 6: drive three hours to do extra work on One Tree 231 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:48,800 Speaker 6: Hill and my day told us, so, okay, now it's 232 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 6: time to move back to LA And he was like, 233 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 6: oh no, we can't do that. 234 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 7: We got this little baby. 235 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 6: And what was he doing working at a call center 236 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 6: and he was doing music too. 237 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 7: He had built a studio in the house. 238 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 6: But it was the fear of like, we got a 239 00:11:03,480 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 6: small baby, and he had already you know, had a 240 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 6: baby earlier too. He was like, we can't, we can't 241 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 6: do that. I was like, well, listen, in my mind, 242 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 6: I thought I had some money. I ain't out of money, right, 243 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 6: but I was making like twelve dollars an hour. I 244 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 6: was like, I will move to LA and come back 245 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 6: and forth. And he was like, oh no, we ain't 246 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:24,679 Speaker 6: doing that. Oh God, yeah, so let's plan it out. 247 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,599 Speaker 6: And so we planned it out and we moved. I 248 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 6: think we had like eight thousand dollars we saved up 249 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 6: and we moved in two thousand and four, and I've 250 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 6: been out here pursuing acting ever since then. 251 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 7: A lot of small victories. 252 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 6: Nobody knew me as actress, right, but I loved it 253 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 6: for free. A lot of things that should have stopped 254 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 6: me from pursuing happened. You know, as soon as I 255 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 6: got out here. You know, when you hear the voice 256 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 6: of God, you were like, I know they waiting on me. 257 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 6: And I got out here and want nobody wait on me. 258 00:12:00,240 --> 00:12:03,600 Speaker 6: Nobody was waiting, right, So. 259 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,200 Speaker 7: It was like, you better go get this job. 260 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 9: Talked to me again. 261 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 6: And my mama got sick right after we moved, maybe 262 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 6: six months we were here, and she was diagnosed with ALS, 263 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 6: which is terminal and you only get one mama, you know, 264 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 6: And I had an amazing mama. And so I went 265 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 6: back and forth for the next three years. To help 266 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 6: take care of her until she passed away. And then 267 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 6: I just thought like I just got to take any 268 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 6: job I can to pursue my acting, like I gotta 269 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 6: do it. And so back when Blockbuster was a thing, 270 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 6: I did a lot of films that went straight to DVD. 271 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,719 Speaker 7: Uh, straight to Walmart type of thing. 272 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 6: Yes, yes, something that I'd be like, please just don't 273 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 6: even look them up. It's nothing to see here, okay, Right, 274 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:03,200 Speaker 6: And so I did you know, music videos, I did commercials. 275 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 6: I did a lot of like you know, small roles 276 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 6: and things, but nothing ever broke. However, every job I did, 277 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 6: I thought it was the one. 278 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 7: I thought this was gonna be the thing that blew 279 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 7: me up. My husband's always telling me here like men, 280 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 7: it didn't matter if it was fifty dollars. He was like, 281 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 7: this the one. 282 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 6: But I just always believed that, you know, in my heart, 283 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 6: there was always this thing inside of me that was 284 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 6: saying something big was coming. And then in twenty sixteen, 285 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 6: I felt like I was finally getting to a good place. 286 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 6: I just went to Sundance for the first time. I 287 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 6: was like, man, I feel like my career is really 288 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 6: starting to like kind of take off in a different level, 289 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 6: and I think I had booked like my first like 290 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 6: guest star and co star like on TV, like you know, 291 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 6: and then I got sick, like out of nowhere. 292 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 7: I just woke up. 293 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 6: I had this headache in the back of my head 294 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 6: and they had ache rested there for a year and 295 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 6: seven months. It was accompanied by chronic fatigue, crying of 296 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 6: pain throughout my body. I began to fall when I 297 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 6: would walk. As a woman. All this stuff was like 298 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 6: shutting down. It was not functioning properly. Doctors can't figure 299 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 6: out what was wrong with me. I did everything that 300 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 6: you can imagine. I've had blood work mrs weekly monthly. 301 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 6: I was taking every drug the doctor's offered me, and 302 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 6: if anything, I was probably getting worse because they couldn't 303 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 6: figure out. 304 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 7: What it was. 305 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 6: I was like a guinea people, you know, when you 306 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 6: don't know what's wrong with you, be like, yeah, I 307 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 6: take it. 308 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:34,400 Speaker 5: You know. 309 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 6: They would, you know, shoot me up in the head 310 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 6: and giving me all kinds of steroids. But it didn't work. 311 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 6: And so my daughter came home from school and they 312 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 6: was like, we saw this documentary. I think you should 313 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 6: watch it at school, and it was what the hell 314 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 6: I watched that Netflix on Netflix, watched it as a 315 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 6: family and was like, oh, this is something that I've 316 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 6: never tried. 317 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 5: Right. 318 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 6: It was also, you know one of those things you 319 00:15:01,320 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 6: kind of hear about you like that ain't really for 320 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 6: black people. But I was like, when they started talking 321 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 6: about all diseases are not hereditaries that we sometimes we 322 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 6: can eat the same thing that caused the same disease. 323 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 6: In our family. My mama died at fifty one. My 324 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 6: daddy is seventy one. He's older men oldest man to 325 00:15:18,280 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 6: have a live in our family. People die young, and 326 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 6: it gets sick at young ages in my family. And 327 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 6: so I was like, let me try to go vegan 328 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 6: for like thirty days and see what happened. I ain't 329 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 6: got nothing to lose at this point, because I did 330 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 6: think I was gonna die and did it, and in 331 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 6: the first ten days, the headache I had every day 332 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 6: for a year and seven months disappeared, and I started 333 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 6: getting energy again. I started feeling better, and I was like, Oh, 334 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 6: I think I'm onto something. 335 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 7: And I told my husband. I was like, this is 336 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 7: gonna be my life. I'm gonna go vegan. 337 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 6: And that's literally how I got on that journey, and 338 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 6: prior to doing that, I had got to really dark place. 339 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 6: I was suffering from anxiety and depression and I had 340 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 6: what you know, I grew up in the church from 341 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 6: the South, and I always prided myself on having this 342 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 6: great relationship with God. And I had what I called 343 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:15,600 Speaker 6: my last call and conversation with Him in the bathroom 344 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 6: because I thought he had forgotten about me when I 345 00:16:17,400 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 6: was sick, and so I went in the bathroom. I 346 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 6: got in the mirror and I was really in search 347 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 6: of trying to see my soul and I pregnant. I 348 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 6: was like, God, if you heal me, you can have me. 349 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 6: And I meant it, and something changed that day in 350 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:35,880 Speaker 6: the bathroom. 351 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 7: I don't know. 352 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 6: When I walked out, I felt different. I didn't feel healed, 353 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 6: but I felt different. And then you know, later as 354 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 6: when my daughter had came home about the documentary. But 355 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 6: a couple of weeks after that, I had had this dream. 356 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 6: And if you've read my book, you know I have 357 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 6: a gift I was born with. Ever since I was 358 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 6: a kid, I dreamed things and they come to past. 359 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 6: I see things that other people don't see. And I 360 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 6: saw myself on a show and I was like, now, God, 361 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 6: how was I on the show Because I'm sick. I'm 362 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 6: not even auditioning. I used to do stand up trying 363 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 6: to get a TV show stand up. I'm not doing 364 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:16,360 Speaker 6: any things that I usually would do. And I was like, well, 365 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 6: revealed that to me. How was I on a show 366 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 6: if I am not working towards it? And I heard 367 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:26,399 Speaker 6: a voice that said start doing videos and I was like, oh, yeah, no, 368 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 6: I ain't goin to do that. You know, I ain't 369 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 6: gonna do no videos because as an actor, we've been 370 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 6: told in Hollywood, and you got to know that I 371 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 6: was a person who was not free, so I believed 372 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 6: anything that was told to me to make it in Hollywood, 373 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:43,959 Speaker 6: and so I would always be told you do videos, 374 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 6: Nobody gonna take you serious in Hollywood. 375 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 11: You're talking And I can imagine that from a standpoint 376 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 11: where like you've been training at this profession for so long, 377 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 11: it almost feels like to now do a video on 378 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 11: a phone, it's like. 379 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,640 Speaker 9: A social media video social media. 380 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,919 Speaker 11: Yeah, Like it's almost like not a downgrade, but you 381 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,200 Speaker 11: feel like I worked all that hard. 382 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 5: To do this. 383 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 7: It wasn't even that it was to me, It was 384 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:08,680 Speaker 7: more of. 385 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 6: They won't take me serious, because you know, there was 386 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 6: also like the Vine error. And I had a lot 387 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 6: of friends who we all acted together. We came up 388 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 6: producing and acting and doing our own thing together, started 389 00:18:22,280 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 6: doing Vine, and I was the person that was like, oh, 390 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:27,399 Speaker 6: y'all ain't gonna make it. I thought I was better. 391 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 6: I had this thing where I really believe. You know, 392 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 6: when you ain't free, you like to look down on others, 393 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 6: or you like to think that you're doing it the 394 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 6: right way, not your way, but the right way is 395 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 6: what you're thinking because you have conformed right. So I 396 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 6: went from corporate America conforming code switching to entertainment conforming 397 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 6: and code switching. So I believed that I had to 398 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 6: fit a certain box in order to be successful. And 399 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 6: so when God spoke to me and said it started 400 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 6: to be I was like, I can't do that. 401 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:02,879 Speaker 7: But then he reminded me. 402 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 6: He said, you know, you said if I hear you, 403 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 6: I can have you, which meant I had to start 404 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 6: being obedient to what I heard from him. 405 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 7: And so I was like, okay, So I started doing 406 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 7: these videos. 407 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 6: When I first started doing videos, I was just kind 408 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 6: of doing the same sets I would do when I 409 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 6: was a comedian. I would, you know, talk about being 410 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 6: a mom and a wife. And I still had not 411 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 6: healed myself yet. I was not feeling completely better yet. 412 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 6: And so when I did the Beacon Challenge and started 413 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,199 Speaker 6: feeling better, and after the thirty days, I told my husband, like, 414 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 6: this is going to be my life. 415 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 7: That same voice I heard say, now tell people what 416 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:39,119 Speaker 7: you're eating in your videos. 417 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 6: And I was like, wait a minute, now, Lord, because 418 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 6: I also had shaved off all my hair. See I 419 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 6: always want my hairberry long and straight. I was always 420 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,400 Speaker 6: a certain size. I would wave myself like ten twelve 421 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 6: times a day trying to fit this look. I always 422 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 6: cover my accent, everything I was programmed to do. So 423 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 6: I was taking layers off. It's like God was dealing 424 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 6: with me on becoming he created me to be, and so. 425 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 7: I was very scared. 426 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 6: I was like, Lord, I didn't shave off all my hair, 427 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 6: and I'm really trying to be obedient to be who 428 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 6: you created me to be. 429 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 7: But this is scary, but okay. 430 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 6: So I started doing videos and said, hey, y'all'm going vegan, 431 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 6: Like it ain't a challenge now, like this is gonna 432 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 6: be my life. 433 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:26,640 Speaker 7: It follows Hi, maybe three thousand. 434 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 9: What platform? 435 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 7: Facebook? 436 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 9: Facebook? 437 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 11: And at the time you're doing acting as indie, but 438 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 11: you're also are is your Uber driver at this point? 439 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 7: Not yet? 440 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 6: Okay, So, because this is August of twenty seventeen, so 441 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 6: I started feeling better about October. 442 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 7: I told my husband. 443 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 6: I was like, I'm gonna go drive Uber because now 444 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 6: I'm feeling good. I'm doing these videos every day. I 445 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,119 Speaker 6: don't know why, because god, you know, he spoke to me. 446 00:20:54,119 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 6: He said, listen, you were trying to get a TV 447 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,679 Speaker 6: show out doing stand up. You was reaching like fifteen 448 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 6: thirty people a night. You start doing these videos, you're 449 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 6: gonna reach thousands and minutes. And I said, well, lord, 450 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 6: I ain't even got thousands of follow us to reach 451 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,119 Speaker 6: a minutes. Most of my fathers was my family and 452 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 6: my friends back in North Carolina, you. 453 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 5: Know, yeah Altonio, listen, Okay. 454 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 7: But I was like, I got to be obedient. 455 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, and so, and I was also doing things on 456 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 6: my personal Facebook page. I ain't know nothing about monetizer, 457 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 6: I ain't no none of that stuff, excuse me. And 458 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,719 Speaker 6: so I was like, all right, I'm going live every day. 459 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 6: I'm cooking in my kitchen when I find stuff, I 460 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 6: tell people, oh, I found a beacon option. I would 461 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 6: get like thirty people on my life, you know, one 462 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 6: hundred views after you know, a day or two on 463 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,560 Speaker 6: my videos, and if you watch like some of my 464 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 6: earlier videos, I would cry on the videos sometime while 465 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 6: I was cooking because I'm like, I don't know why 466 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 6: God got me doing this. He told me thousands and 467 00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 6: minutes it is thirty three people on here. 468 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,920 Speaker 7: What do he have me do? And I also never wanted. 469 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 6: To do anything with food, never, but I was just 470 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 6: being obedient. And so October is when I told my 471 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,160 Speaker 6: husband I'm gonna drive Uber because now I'm feeling good 472 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 6: and I had, man my savings. What a little bit 473 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 6: that I had was gone, you know. And my husband 474 00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 6: is my partner, not my provider. And so I was like, 475 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 6: I'm gonna go get discovered in my car because I'm 476 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 6: in LA. I'm probably gonna pick up a director or producer. 477 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,600 Speaker 6: They gonna love me, okay, And I call you from 478 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 6: the set. That's how my mind be working. And my 479 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 6: husband's like, okay, damn all right. So I started driving 480 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 6: Uber in October and December thirtieth, I dropped somebody off 481 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:36,960 Speaker 6: and you know about Whole Foods, and I was still 482 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 6: a new vegan. 483 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 7: I always don't hold Foo's got a vegan option. So 484 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:40,240 Speaker 7: I went in there. 485 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 6: I said, I put myself on a little Uber break 486 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 6: give me a little breakfast. And I went in and 487 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 6: got a sandwich. I had never heard a vegan bacon 488 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 6: at that time, and that was the sandwich that TTLA 489 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 6: and ate the first half and I was like, oh shoot, 490 00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 6: I need to do a video to tell people. 491 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,359 Speaker 7: I found a new vegan option. So I did the 492 00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 7: video sitting in my car and I went on back 493 00:22:58,440 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 7: to driv an uber. 494 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 6: When I got home and I turned my you know, 495 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 6: notifications on my phone, was like going crazy. 496 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 7: I was like, we're watching this video. The video had like. 497 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 6: Fifty thousand views and I was like on Facebook. On Facebook, 498 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 6: and the next morning it had over one hundred and 499 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,560 Speaker 6: some thousand. And I told us I said, I think 500 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,120 Speaker 6: I'm going viral, and he was like what that means. 501 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 6: I was like, I don't know. He said, well, you're 502 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 6: gonna make some money. I was like, I don't know. 503 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 6: And four days later, Whole Foods DM me on Facebook 504 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 6: and they were like, we saw your video. We love 505 00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 6: to partner with you, and I partnered with them. That 506 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:37,520 Speaker 6: was like my first partnership. The sandwich was like something 507 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 6: that had never happened for Whole Foods. The sandwich was 508 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 6: only available in the southern California region, but after the video, 509 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 6: people were requesting it nationwide. So in thirty days, they 510 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 6: rolled it out all over the nation and it became 511 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 6: like I was. 512 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 7: It was like my sandwich. 513 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 6: I had also changed the name of the sandwich because 514 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 6: in my excitement, I said the name of the sandwich wrong. 515 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 6: So they changed the name of the sandwich in TTLA, 516 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,400 Speaker 6: and so I changed their market for them. It had 517 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 6: never been done, and I think see you said over 518 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 6: thirty years. He was like, how did you do that? 519 00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:17,879 Speaker 6: I also gave them a new customer, and so they 520 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:23,160 Speaker 6: changed their market, right, so they had the Whole Foods 521 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 6: was not a place where black people were shopping, right, 522 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:33,200 Speaker 6: especially not like my following right, which grew overnight. There 523 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 6: were churches in the South taking buses to go to 524 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 6: the nearest Whole food together to try the sandwich. You know, 525 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 6: people were planning trips to go to Whole Foods because 526 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:44,800 Speaker 6: like where I'm from, there's no Whole Foods. You got 527 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 6: to drive about forty five minutes for an hour, and 528 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 6: so I was giving them that and it just it 529 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 6: sold out every day for nine months straight, like they 530 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 6: couldn't keep it instart. 531 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 7: Even the bacon that company reached. 532 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 5: Out, it's Temple Bacon. 533 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was ten Bae. 534 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 5: Bacon, tomato, lettuce and avocado. Yeah, T T L. 535 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 7: Yeah gotcha. I put a little pickle on it. 536 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 5: Okay, don't forget that. 537 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 7: But yeah. 538 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 6: So that's what began this part of tail, and I 539 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 6: realized I was like, oh wait, I can really make 540 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 6: money doing this. Okay, I don't know how it's gonna 541 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 6: keep happening, but I'm just gonna keep doing what I've 542 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 6: been doing. And what that was was being organic, being 543 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 6: in the moment, and I've continued to do that. 544 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 5: How this is that so within a week you got 545 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 5: a million views? 546 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 11: Obviously they reach out within the first week say we 547 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 11: want to partner at that point, because it's like who 548 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:44,359 Speaker 11: do you even follow to say like this is how 549 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 11: you partner with a major brand. 550 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 6: I called all my friends that had been doing influencer work, right, 551 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:53,920 Speaker 6: and I was like, what do I do? 552 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 7: How much do I charge? And nobody will help me 553 00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 7: they wouldn't tell me. 554 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 6: So I was like, Okay, I know how SAG work, 555 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 6: like the Union, but it's a different world. And I 556 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 6: had a manager at the time that I had just 557 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,200 Speaker 6: signed with to try to like start getting like auditions 558 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 6: in Atlanta, and she knew nothing. And all my old 559 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 6: agents knew nothing about social media. They were like, girl, 560 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 6: this is just a little phase. 561 00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 7: Like they couldn't help me. And so. 562 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 6: I was like, Okay, I'm gonna just go as big 563 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 6: as I can and ask for a crazy amount of 564 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 6: money and see what they say. And they were like, hmm, 565 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 6: we can't give it to you at once, but what 566 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 6: if we break it up and you do a couple 567 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 6: of other things throughout the year for us. And I 568 00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:46,720 Speaker 6: was like okay, right, because I didn't know. I didn't 569 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 6: even have an attorney at this time, you know. And 570 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 6: then I had a friend who was a producer, Steven Love, 571 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 6: and he's super smart and he and I have been 572 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 6: trying to develop a show together. And I called Steve 573 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 6: and I said, you're gonna be my manager. He was like, oh, no, 574 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,680 Speaker 6: I'll tell you I ain't a manager. I'm ann producer. 575 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 6: I said, I know, but I didne prayed about it, 576 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 6: and God told me you're gonna be my manager, and 577 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 6: so me and Steven figured it out together. 578 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,959 Speaker 7: H And we probably did about fifty six deals together. 579 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 6: And when one deal was like okay, this money, when 580 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 6: they said yes, too quick, we was like, oh, we know, 581 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 6: were too low. So on the next deal, we was like, 582 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 6: go higher and see what they say. Oh they said, yeah, 583 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,400 Speaker 6: oh we're still too low. So that's how we kind 584 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 6: of learned over the years. You know, we worked together 585 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 6: for like two years. 586 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:40,280 Speaker 7: We're still producing parties like he's still my my. 587 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:42,240 Speaker 6: My number one, that's my guy, but now of course 588 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 6: I have a team. And then really learned that, oh we. 589 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,720 Speaker 7: Was we was real low. I ked up been making 590 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 7: more money. 591 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 9: So let me ask you. 592 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 10: I want to go back to this social media because 593 00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 10: it's interesting you you gained two million followers in five weeks? 594 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 9: Is that correct? 595 00:27:55,600 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 6: So that so that is on TikTok happened happened ye 596 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 6: later after Yeah. 597 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 7: That was twenty twenty. 598 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 6: So March December thirtieth of twenty seventeen, I had no 599 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:12,240 Speaker 6: you know, just normal followers. By January fourth, I had 600 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 6: like I can't even tell you, not a million, but 601 00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:15,959 Speaker 6: hundreds of that. 602 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 7: They were just happening every day on faces on Facebook. 603 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 9: Was on Facebook Facebook. 604 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 605 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,080 Speaker 6: I would post a little bit on Instagram, but Facebook 606 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 6: was my platform and I probably gain maybe a million. No, 607 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 6: I was like five hundred thousand by twenty twenty. So 608 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 6: from twenty eighteen to twenty twe I had like five 609 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 6: hundred thousand on Facebook and I had three hundred thousand 610 00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,479 Speaker 6: on Instagram. March of twenty twenty, my daughter told me 611 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 6: to get on TikTok and I was like girl with 612 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 6: them kids. She was like, Mommy, you can be like 613 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 6: the mom of TikTok. Look, you know, do your recipes, 614 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 6: do your inspirational videos, the same stuff I do on Facebook. 615 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 7: I got on there the first. 616 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:57,160 Speaker 6: Week, I went viral on TikTok. In thirty days, I 617 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,960 Speaker 6: had a million followers. A week later I had two million, 618 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 6: and it just kept growing. 619 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 10: So what are some best practices that you use for 620 00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 10: social cause it might have started as a mistake, but 621 00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 10: you don't have that level of success by accident. So 622 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 10: you have to be doing things that you know are 623 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 10: working and you've kind of met you've mastered it right so. 624 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:23,719 Speaker 7: Well, for me, I was doing what was real and natural. 625 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 6: For me, I never planned a post unless it was 626 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 6: a branded post, and I still don't do that. 627 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 7: I do what I feel. 628 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 6: Right when I was first doing videos, it's like what 629 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 6: I had to taste for, that's what I'm gonna cook 630 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 6: and I'm gonna just share that. 631 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 10: But there's no like second take or no, it's not stage. 632 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 9: It would be live, just organic. 633 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 5: This is just this camera would be on, it. 634 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 7: Would be live. So whatever happened happened. 635 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,479 Speaker 5: Did you ever feel the pressure to try to have success? 636 00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 11: Obviously you've been. You were doing the videos, you got 637 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,400 Speaker 11: one that goes ridiculously viral. Do you feel in the 638 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 11: back of your mind like, well, I got to create 639 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 11: something similar to have the same time success or it's 640 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 11: like I'm just staying sticking to the script of what 641 00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,520 Speaker 11: I know. 642 00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,080 Speaker 7: I'm gonna stick because you got to also remember I 643 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 7: didn't know the. 644 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 5: World, right, right, I didn't know you don't know what 645 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 5: you'all know. 646 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 6: So I was just like, I'm gonna just keep being consistent, right, 647 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 6: I'm gonna just keep doing the videos. 648 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 7: They like that, I guess they'll like this. 649 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 6: If they don't, they don't, But I'm only really doing 650 00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 6: what I think God has called me to do right now, 651 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 6: I'm just trying to be obedient because I also didn't 652 00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 6: want to do nothing with food. 653 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 7: So for him to. 654 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 6: Bless me in a way that I had not planned 655 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 6: because I had many plans for acting. 656 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 7: I mean, I could give you the layout. Food was 657 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 7: never a part of my plan. 658 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 6: So I was like, I just got to trust God 659 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 6: and keep doing this every day and sharing. 660 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 7: But I had no. 661 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 6: Recipe for success other than being true to who I am. 662 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,320 Speaker 6: That was the hardest part for me, taking off the 663 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,800 Speaker 6: layers of the old tab because I was, you know, 664 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 6: in my own words, like I was a fraud for 665 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 6: a very long time because I wasn't the true me, 666 00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 6: because I created this other Tabitha that I thought could 667 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 6: win in Hollywood, right the straight hair, the thin, the 668 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 6: you know, very neutral accent, because I told her, I, 669 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 6: you know, I had been told I was ignorant for 670 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 6: having a Southern dialect, you country, you know, and always 671 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 6: in a negative so I always would try to cover that. 672 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 6: So now I was like, God told me he can't 673 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 6: bless who I'm not right, How is he gonna bless 674 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 6: me if I ain't me? So I was like, I 675 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 6: gotta start taking these layers off and show up his 676 00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 6: tab every day. 677 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 7: This is like. 678 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 6: My my season of becoming me. It was more about 679 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,239 Speaker 6: that than anything else. It won't about nobody else. I 680 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 6: was just trying to figure out what he wanted me 681 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 6: to do. 682 00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 11: So after the success, obviously the whole food now the 683 00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 11: vegan community, now it becomes the marketplace for you. 684 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:15,479 Speaker 5: So how did the brand start treating you from that space? 685 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 11: Because you know that's obviously something that's been more prominent 686 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 11: over the past five ten years. You didn't have any 687 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 11: clue that you were going to be in the space, 688 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,920 Speaker 11: but now you're the spokesperson for it. 689 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 5: So how do the brands start approaching after that? 690 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,680 Speaker 6: Oh my honey, every day my inbox was flooded. Everybody 691 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 6: wanted to send me stump. Everybody wanted to send tail products. 692 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 6: Everybody wanted to do a deal. And I learned very 693 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,640 Speaker 6: quickly that the power of no. 694 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 7: Right. 695 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 6: I never did anything for money. If I didn't like it, 696 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 6: I ain't going to endorse it, right. And I also 697 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 6: had to like the people like the business, because some 698 00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 6: people I could tell like, oh, you just want me 699 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 6: because a I'm a black woman and it's a certain 700 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,320 Speaker 6: time of the year, and you know, I can move 701 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 6: merchandise right product, but you don't really see me as 702 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,400 Speaker 6: a person. And then I would also look at their 703 00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 6: you know, their social media, their marketing. You never had 704 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 6: nobody black before, Now you won't tab. I don't feel 705 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:25,680 Speaker 6: good about that. 706 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 7: You know. 707 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 6: So I would always just kind of look at the 708 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:32,160 Speaker 6: approach and see if it was genuine. I would meet 709 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 6: with people and talk to people, but always pray before 710 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,480 Speaker 6: I say anything. I'd be like, Okay, guide me on this. 711 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 6: But I did a lot of deals that were a 712 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 6: lot of small businesses. Still to this day, those are 713 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 6: my passion. Small businesses are my passion because I've seen 714 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,520 Speaker 6: them change overnight because of me just endorsing them, right 715 00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:58,680 Speaker 6: or sharing them on my platform. 716 00:33:59,160 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 7: That's what's important. 717 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 6: Changing somebody's life is like, that's it, you know, because 718 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 6: that also changes my life, right because I know, oh, 719 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 6: I'm doing what I'm purpose to do. 720 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 10: So so all right, let's on the media side. Right, 721 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:16,240 Speaker 10: You've grown the media empire where you have the YouTube channel, 722 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 10: you have the podcast and children, So at what point 723 00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 10: do you transition from Okay, I'm making cool content, I'm 724 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 10: going viral. I'm working with brands. So now I'm gonna 725 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,440 Speaker 10: build a business structure and do it that way. Like 726 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 10: what's the steps to say, Okay, now this is something 727 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,640 Speaker 10: that we're really going to focus on to make it 728 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 10: a business. 729 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 6: What for me it was it was like very organic, 730 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 6: like I've moved strategically. I don't do anything like I 731 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 6: and people don't be believe me when I say this, 732 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:49,959 Speaker 6: But honey, when I tell you, I promise you. It's 733 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 6: never like a laid out plan, right, It'll be something 734 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 6: will come to me and then I'll be like, okay. 735 00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 7: I got to do that. 736 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,319 Speaker 6: But like when I first cut my hair off and 737 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 6: she started growing back, I named her Donna. Right, I 738 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 6: was cooking live in my kitchen and she was like 739 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,040 Speaker 6: sticking up straight, and I was like, throw up my 740 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:11,919 Speaker 6: hair sticking up straight. 741 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 7: I'm looking like don King tonight. I met have to 742 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 7: call her Donna, and it stuck and. 743 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 6: People started saying I look at Donna like every night 744 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:22,239 Speaker 6: when I'd be cooking. So it became a thing, and 745 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,239 Speaker 6: I continued to call her that, and I was like 746 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:26,799 Speaker 6: in prayer, God was like I need you to stay 747 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 6: consistent in that, and I was like, but why, Like 748 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,279 Speaker 6: it's just a name for my hair, you know. And 749 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 6: then over time I really started to realize me embracing 750 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,799 Speaker 6: my hair was a big deal for me because I 751 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,320 Speaker 6: had not embraced my natural hair for so long. 752 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 7: And then over time that's when I was. 753 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 6: Like, oh, I want to do a hair pure line. 754 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 6: And I've already named my hair Donna and people know that. 755 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 6: So it's going to be like the Donna collection, right, 756 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 6: which is now my hair collection is Donna's recipe. 757 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,480 Speaker 7: So those are the things that I'm intention Nowhere. 758 00:36:01,640 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 6: When I figured that out, I'm like, oh, okay, gods, 759 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 6: see what you're showing me. So now when I my 760 00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 6: favorite cooking spoon when I cook, people know my favorite 761 00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 6: spoon is Shina. So in my mind, I'm like, one 762 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 6: day I'm gonna have a collection of these. That's how 763 00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:18,239 Speaker 6: I plan it. It's not like, oh A has to 764 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 6: go to be to go to sea for me to 765 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 6: Domino effect. 766 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 7: Exactly. 767 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,360 Speaker 6: And so but I know, like when I'm in the door, 768 00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:29,480 Speaker 6: I look around the room, right, I don't. I don't 769 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 6: show up and walk through the door for the one 770 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 6: reason I'm there. If I walk through the door, I 771 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 6: want to look around the room. 772 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 11: I had like the obedience just keeps coming up in 773 00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,919 Speaker 11: the faith in it. And it was like you named 774 00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 11: your hair, now you got to hear a product, and 775 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 11: so like now it makes sense. I'm putting the pieces 776 00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 11: together as I'm listening to the story even more so 777 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 11: it's like, all right, I'm giving recipes, here's my you know, 778 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 11: here's my spice. 779 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 5: Here's what I'm doing exactly. 780 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 11: You're just creating businesses based on who is just who 781 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 11: you are and being obedient who you. 782 00:36:58,600 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 7: Are exactly like I could. 783 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 6: So I got seasoning, yeah right, people know I love fashion. 784 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 7: Yeah, I got closed the target. Right. If it ain't me, 785 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,600 Speaker 7: it don't make sense. You know. If I came out 786 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:15,279 Speaker 7: with my own beer, people were like, really that means 787 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:16,319 Speaker 7: you just do a name on something. 788 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm so intentional with what I do. It has 789 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 6: to be so rooted in tail. 790 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 11: So the other part of that is like the not knowing, right, 791 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 11: And so you didn't come from a food background, no, right, 792 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 11: so you had somebody had to give you guidance in 793 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 11: that space. So where did you see the guys? Even 794 00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 11: with the seasoning, I'm thinking like this, this makes perfect sense, 795 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:39,520 Speaker 11: But how do I even go about that? How do 796 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,799 Speaker 11: I market that who do I find to even help me? 797 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,240 Speaker 11: What were those times? 798 00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 5: Like? 799 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 7: So crazy enough? 800 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 6: Same as with my hair products, same as with my 801 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 6: season and same as with my cookbook. When I was 802 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 6: doing everything independently, just by myself and me and Stevens 803 00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,000 Speaker 6: that was my team being him, I would cook life 804 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 6: and I would look at the comments and people were like, 805 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 6: you need your own seasoning. So I literally had started 806 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 6: trying to mix my own seasoning at my house. Same 807 00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 6: with my hair tap, you need your own hair products. 808 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 6: I was getting the essential olds, like all these different things, 809 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 6: trying to mix it at my house. My cookbook, I 810 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 6: was writing my cookbook at home by myself, and every 811 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:24,920 Speaker 6: night I would pray, like, God, I need a team. 812 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 7: I don't know how to do this, and he would 813 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,760 Speaker 7: send me the people. Literally. 814 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 6: I did a deal with McCormick and they wanted me 815 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,320 Speaker 6: to just cook with their seasonings live like I was doing. 816 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, okay, my granny, I grew 817 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,759 Speaker 6: up on McCormick seasoning, you know, all the people my. 818 00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 7: Exactly. 819 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 6: And so after I did that, I was like, hmm, 820 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 6: I wonder if they would help me create my own seasoning. 821 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,799 Speaker 6: So I asked my team and they were like, oh, 822 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 6: let's set a meeting. And that's how that happened. With 823 00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 6: Donna's Recipe. It was actually a very organic thing. My 824 00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 6: husband coaches basketball, so one of the moms of the 825 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,879 Speaker 6: his players was like, I got an idea. I want 826 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 6: to run by you, and so she had an idea 827 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 6: to do hair care aligned with me. I was like, girl, 828 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 6: I've been trying to develop this for a year by myself, 829 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 6: but I pray for somebody, you know, I pray for 830 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 6: God to see me a team. 831 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:24,799 Speaker 7: And she was like, oh, well, this is what I do. 832 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 6: That's how I formed my partnership with her to do 833 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,319 Speaker 6: Donna's Recipe, and then with my book with my team, 834 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 6: I was like, I've been writing a quick book, but 835 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:35,200 Speaker 6: I have no idea about publishing. 836 00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,840 Speaker 7: I need somebody to show me. And they were like, oh, 837 00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:38,840 Speaker 7: let's set a meeting. 838 00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 6: So the thing I learned about is you can have 839 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 6: a dream, you can have an idea, but you can't 840 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 6: always just keep it inside. 841 00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 7: Sometimes you got to ad. 842 00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 6: You got to pray for the guidance but also for 843 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,319 Speaker 6: the team, and then you got to speak up and 844 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 6: be like, I need help because I know I have 845 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,959 Speaker 6: all these great ideas, but I also know I can't 846 00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 6: do it alone, so I would as my team. I'd 847 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 6: be like, you know, my new managers I signed with 848 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 6: when I signed with my agent, we would have meetings 849 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,799 Speaker 6: and I would say, listen, these are the things I 850 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,320 Speaker 6: want to do. This is what's in my mind, is 851 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 6: what God put inside of me. I have this list 852 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,399 Speaker 6: of things I want to do, this, this, and this, 853 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:17,839 Speaker 6: and it has to ligne this way. And they'll be like, Okay, 854 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 6: let us try to say some meetings and then I 855 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:23,080 Speaker 6: would take meetings with multiple people and whoever felt right 856 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 6: to me, that's who. 857 00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:26,359 Speaker 7: I would move forward with. 858 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean you said something very important. 859 00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,839 Speaker 11: You said you didn't do it for money, right, at 860 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:36,040 Speaker 11: a certain point you're making money, absolutely, and so that's another. 861 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,600 Speaker 5: Side of a team that you have to build. 862 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:39,360 Speaker 11: And one of the things that in our community is 863 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 11: tough is trust, right, so even sharing your vision. 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And I still 922 00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 6: don't trust them. Me and my husband, we don't trust 923 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 6: nobody but me and him. 924 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 7: I'll be talking like, girl, I love you, but I 925 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:57,960 Speaker 7: don't trust you, you know, because. 926 00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,120 Speaker 5: It's my money. Don't be honest with you. 927 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:00,840 Speaker 7: I'm just listen. 928 00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 6: Me and my husband we came from nothing together, right, 929 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 6: We've been together for twenty five years. Next year, I 930 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:11,480 Speaker 6: mean next month, and we still keep a notebook. We 931 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,319 Speaker 6: still write things down. That's how we started. And so 932 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,000 Speaker 6: we were like, wait, man, we got to really look 933 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 6: at this. Like we got the apps, we can go 934 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 6: online and look, but now I need to look at 935 00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 6: it our way. It's hard finding people in the industry 936 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 6: that you can trust. And people have tried to get 937 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,480 Speaker 6: over on me. People have tried to steal from me, 938 00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 6: and it's disheartening because I want everybody to win. And 939 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 6: I always tell people, you know how you said, I 940 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:43,399 Speaker 6: walk to the room. 941 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,239 Speaker 7: And you can feel it. That's how I always want 942 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:46,399 Speaker 7: to present, right. 943 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,560 Speaker 6: It's only two things that will take me out of 944 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,360 Speaker 6: that element is if you mess with my family or 945 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,160 Speaker 6: you mess with my money, because I take care of 946 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 6: my family with my money. 947 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,279 Speaker 7: Right. And so. 948 00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 6: As a black woman, it's already hard, you know, in 949 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,040 Speaker 6: an industry that is you know, or in a world 950 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,759 Speaker 6: rather that was not created to cater to us. But 951 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 6: then when you become like very successful and you're a 952 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 6: Southern country black woman, people think you dumb, so they 953 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 6: think that they can, you know, take advantage of you. 954 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,360 Speaker 6: And so that's what makes it even more so hard 955 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 6: to trust people. 956 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:27,319 Speaker 8: Right. 957 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 6: But I'm very grateful that I do have a good 958 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 6: team and I've established like a good business manager the company. 959 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,200 Speaker 7: You know, I did my homework. 960 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 6: I made sure I was like, let me look and 961 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 6: see if y'all in the other had a situation. Listen, 962 00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:46,600 Speaker 6: when y'all had Steve Harvey, I called her the next ask. 963 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 6: But you see what I'm saying. I seen him the video. 964 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,759 Speaker 6: I said, now listen, this why I don't trust you. 965 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 11: Have got fast forward to the park where you're talking 966 00:45:58,719 --> 00:45:59,200 Speaker 11: about the tech. 967 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's why I was. 968 00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:01,919 Speaker 9: That was the crazy. 969 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,279 Speaker 6: I was like, I'm gonna need you. And it's so 970 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 6: funny because I sent her that. I was like, I 971 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 6: know that you send them to me, but I need 972 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 6: you to. 973 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:12,120 Speaker 7: I needed the print out of my receipts. I don't 974 00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 7: want the computer ones. I want the print out of 975 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 7: my tax receipts. Like but those little things like that. 976 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 6: We need a little reminder every now because sometimes we 977 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,800 Speaker 6: can't get a little comfortable and. 978 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 7: We can't do that. 979 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,720 Speaker 6: We can't lose sight. Listen, if I got three dollars missing, 980 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:28,799 Speaker 6: I won't know where it is. 981 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:34,600 Speaker 10: No, so let's talk about Okay, so you're in the 982 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 10: food space, you got the recipes, and when do you 983 00:46:38,400 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 10: turn to a restaurant tour? And what's the process of 984 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 10: opening the restaurant. 985 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 7: Now, let me tell you this. 986 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 6: Niemen I love him, he's a sweetheart. I went to 987 00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,360 Speaker 6: kill my name. I was shooting the Shy in Chicago, 988 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:53,359 Speaker 6: so I was there for. 989 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:55,880 Speaker 9: Yeah, that's a restaurant. 990 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:00,320 Speaker 7: It was let's get to it. So I to the 991 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 7: kell my name, the original. 992 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 6: One is in Chicago. I fell in love with it. 993 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,200 Speaker 6: I fell in love with it, and I fell in 994 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 6: love with Neiman. And I was like, h y'all, you 995 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 6: need one of these in l A. And I was 996 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,799 Speaker 6: like thinking, like I'm gonna go to the restaurant again 997 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 6: because I was staying in Chicago for a couple of months. 998 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,399 Speaker 6: And I was like, if he said something about doing 999 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 6: one of these and you know in l A, I'm 1000 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 6: a I'm a partner with him. He came to the 1001 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,439 Speaker 6: table that day and he was like, I've been thinking 1002 00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 6: about coming to l A and and looking for a building. 1003 00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,719 Speaker 7: I said, you know what, I want to partner with you. 1004 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:37,400 Speaker 6: And so while kill my name is not my it's Niemens, 1005 00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 6: I did partner with him. 1006 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 7: Too. Fun to have one here in l A. 1007 00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 6: But oh, restaurant business that you know how you really 1008 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:50,879 Speaker 6: can't trust people, right? 1009 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:52,759 Speaker 7: Not Neiman? I love him. 1010 00:47:53,280 --> 00:48:00,480 Speaker 5: He was he was yeah, yeah, pinky, yeah, yes. 1011 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 6: He is so passionate about restaurant business. And for me, 1012 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 6: if it was my restaurant like it is, he is like, 1013 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 6: if it was my brand and I was there every day, 1014 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 6: I could see myself building more right and maybe later 1015 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:17,280 Speaker 6: in life. 1016 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 7: But so many issues happened. 1017 00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:24,280 Speaker 6: With like the building right, things that you don't think 1018 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:25,440 Speaker 6: that you're gonna run into. 1019 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:30,359 Speaker 7: Uh. Structural issues, yes, slum and also slum lords. I'm 1020 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 7: going to say that. 1021 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:33,360 Speaker 9: Uh. 1022 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 6: And it became a whole legal thing that I was like, oh, 1023 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 6: I'm gonna have to because now you mess with my 1024 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 6: money right and nemas money right. So, but just so 1025 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:47,720 Speaker 6: many things that you can't rush into. That's what I learned. 1026 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,960 Speaker 6: I was like, you know what, in Chicago, he did 1027 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:52,359 Speaker 6: it one way, and so he thought it would work 1028 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 6: the same in La I've never opened a restaurant, so 1029 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:56,239 Speaker 6: I trusted that, and I was like, you know what, 1030 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 6: if this is how you do it, let's do it. 1031 00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 6: I'm gonna give you the money. I know, I'm gonna 1032 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:01,960 Speaker 6: get the people in here. You ain't gonna never have 1033 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:06,400 Speaker 6: to worry about, you know, people coming. But that's his passion. 1034 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 6: But the people trying to find people to help you, 1035 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:17,200 Speaker 6: like work in a restaurant, to show up every day 1036 00:49:17,239 --> 00:49:21,720 Speaker 6: to work, to also be honest, it was hard. 1037 00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,840 Speaker 7: That part was hard too. So a more power to 1038 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 7: all the people. I love Pinky. 1039 00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,839 Speaker 6: I'll be like, girl, honey, very very good. But I said, 1040 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,200 Speaker 6: I'm gonna go ahead and just put food in. 1041 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,840 Speaker 9: Target, so you're not so you're not in that business anymore. 1042 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:40,680 Speaker 7: No, we actually closed the one in laid Down last summer. Yeah. Yeah. 1043 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 11: So he said, you're gona put food in the Target, right, 1044 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 11: Well I already fo Yeah, So we got to get 1045 00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:49,080 Speaker 11: to that part because I mean that's nothing to sneeze down. 1046 00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:51,480 Speaker 11: I mean being inside you know the big before retails 1047 00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,799 Speaker 11: is tough. So you know, obviously the season ends and 1048 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 11: you have deals with making food. 1049 00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 5: So how did they approach you? Who approached? 1050 00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 9: Like? 1051 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 5: How did that work? 1052 00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 9: So? 1053 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:02,560 Speaker 2: Target? 1054 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 7: Same way, very organic. 1055 00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:10,280 Speaker 6: I was doing what they call Target Family with them 1056 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 6: for like a year as an influencer doing content and 1057 00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,359 Speaker 6: like for the holidays or back to school, they send 1058 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:18,719 Speaker 6: me stuff. 1059 00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 7: I do videos. When I first started working with them. 1060 00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:25,560 Speaker 6: What I loved about Target instantly was I would do 1061 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:29,000 Speaker 6: a video and I would send it in for approval 1062 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 6: and I would just be waiting for their feedback to 1063 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,440 Speaker 6: tell me what to change, and they never wanted anything change. 1064 00:50:35,680 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 7: They was like, oh, we love it. 1065 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:40,359 Speaker 6: And I was like, y'all gonna leta just be tab 1066 00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 6: because I was sending other you know, work with other 1067 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:44,920 Speaker 6: brands and they're be like could you do this? And 1068 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,319 Speaker 6: then I'd be like, you know what, it's not gonna 1069 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,160 Speaker 6: work out. Target never ever tried to change me. They 1070 00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:53,160 Speaker 6: was like, no, lean more into whatever whatever you want 1071 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,879 Speaker 6: to do, we love it. They didn't care about talked 1072 00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:59,080 Speaker 6: about God, they didn't care about I talked about Beganism. 1073 00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 6: They didn't care as long as I was being me. 1074 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 6: So I did that for like a year with them. 1075 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 6: And when they presented, you know, an opportunity to do 1076 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:09,439 Speaker 6: something bigger, I was like. 1077 00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 7: I'm all ears, what do you want to do? 1078 00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,600 Speaker 6: And they knew that I had studied fashion, and so 1079 00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,439 Speaker 6: they were like, we have this idea that we've never 1080 00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 6: done it before, but we would love to do four 1081 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:25,640 Speaker 6: exclusive collections with you across the whole store. So I 1082 00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 6: was like, you ain't never did it before. And they 1083 00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:29,319 Speaker 6: speaking my language because I like to do things ain't 1084 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:34,719 Speaker 6: never been done. And so we I said, yeah, you know, 1085 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,239 Speaker 6: we talked about it, and I was like, oh, this 1086 00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,759 Speaker 6: is right up my alley. I get to do, you know, 1087 00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 6: clothing and accessories. You know, I love glasses, I love clothes. 1088 00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:49,560 Speaker 6: I get to do swim wear and it's all inclusive, 1089 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 6: which is what I love. Like you know, I'm going 1090 00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 6: to say all the women in my family think we 1091 00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 6: you know, we big women in the South, Okay. And 1092 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 6: so I was like, I can make you know, stuff 1093 00:51:57,680 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 6: that my mother would have been able to wear and 1094 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 6: my sister are and my aunts, and I was I 1095 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,160 Speaker 6: was excited to do that. But then I also got 1096 00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 6: to design furniture. I had never did that before, furniture 1097 00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 6: and office supplies. And you know then from their food, 1098 00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:20,120 Speaker 6: which is my you know, now like something I'm very 1099 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:25,520 Speaker 6: passionate about. And to do a vegan collection and kitchen 1100 00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:28,319 Speaker 6: you know where, and now I have my fourth drop 1101 00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,680 Speaker 6: that comes out the summer would be outdoor entertainment, and 1102 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,719 Speaker 6: so I'm super excited to do it. I loved that 1103 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 6: I was the first, you know, I had my own 1104 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 6: merch line that I used to do, which is one 1105 00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 6: of the first ways that I made a lot of money. 1106 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 7: And I did that independently on my own. 1107 00:52:43,000 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 6: And so I would go downtown and buy the T 1108 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,320 Speaker 6: shirts and bulk, then find a printer, take them to 1109 00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 6: the printer. 1110 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 7: Design the logo, do all the things. 1111 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,720 Speaker 6: And to be able to go and partner with somebody 1112 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 6: like Target, where I you know, it was in their 1113 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 6: corporate headquarters in the in the room while things are 1114 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,840 Speaker 6: being styled and you know, designing it with them and 1115 00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:03,799 Speaker 6: looking at color ways and doing the whole thing. 1116 00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:06,640 Speaker 7: I was like, Oh, I feel like, okay, this is 1117 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:07,320 Speaker 7: why you do. 1118 00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:10,799 Speaker 6: It yourself first, so you can really appreciate when you 1119 00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:11,600 Speaker 6: get to this place. 1120 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 10: So is it is it your brand or is it target? 1121 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:18,880 Speaker 9: Is it target? And then you're like the designer on it. 1122 00:53:18,800 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 7: Right, So it's it's uh, tap of the brand for target? Okay, right? 1123 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:23,640 Speaker 7: And so. 1124 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:28,080 Speaker 6: But everything I got to do right, So they would 1125 00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:32,920 Speaker 6: give me like a whole bunch of color palettes and 1126 00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:35,439 Speaker 6: then I picked what I want and the designs I want. 1127 00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,280 Speaker 7: I tell them what I envisioned. 1128 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 10: And how I want, like the creative director, right, yeah, 1129 00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 10: off the line. So okay, let's talk about your spirituality 1130 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,000 Speaker 10: because that's something obviously that's extremely important to you. 1131 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 9: Right, So. 1132 00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:57,320 Speaker 10: What that is that an ever an issue in business? 1133 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 10: How do you you know walk that line or is 1134 00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 10: it a line to walk as far as spirituality? And 1135 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 10: because a lot of time people say, like you know, 1136 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 10: separate church and state, right, like separate church and business. 1137 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:13,399 Speaker 9: Like you know what I mean? 1138 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 10: Like, as far as whatever your religious beliefs are, that's fine. 1139 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,879 Speaker 10: You can mention it, but don't over bleed it too 1140 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:22,719 Speaker 10: much in your business because you might alienate people, you 1141 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,520 Speaker 10: might even offend people, right or so, it's a lot 1142 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:31,600 Speaker 10: of times you don't see people like overly expressing their 1143 00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 10: religious beliefs or their spirituality. But so, what's your thoughts 1144 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:35,840 Speaker 10: on that? 1145 00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 6: It's who I am, right, I always share openly my 1146 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 6: love of God, but I'm also very open about my 1147 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:53,040 Speaker 6: dislike of religion. I feel that religion causes separation. My 1148 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:54,960 Speaker 6: mother was a pastor later in her life and she 1149 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 6: told me, she said, listen, don't ever get caught up 1150 00:54:56,760 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 6: in religion. Get caught up in your relationship with God. 1151 00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:02,160 Speaker 6: And that is what I talk about all the time. 1152 00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:05,640 Speaker 6: People know who I am when I walk in the door. 1153 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,920 Speaker 6: If you if you book me, you already know me. 1154 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,440 Speaker 6: And I don't come. 1155 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:19,840 Speaker 7: To judge. I come in love. I think that my 1156 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,319 Speaker 7: love of God is. 1157 00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,799 Speaker 6: Very known, so I don't have to walk in the 1158 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,759 Speaker 6: room and talk about it, right, But if the opportunity 1159 00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 6: presents itself, you know where I'm rooted. 1160 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:31,959 Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying. 1161 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:35,799 Speaker 6: So, but I don't shot away from it. If somebody 1162 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:36,959 Speaker 6: want to have a conversation, you think. 1163 00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:39,400 Speaker 10: That that it's actually helped you as far as do you 1164 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:43,000 Speaker 10: think that a lot of brands have they want to 1165 00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:44,919 Speaker 10: work with you as far as because of that, Because 1166 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 10: you know a lot of especially like in a Bible 1167 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:48,640 Speaker 10: belt in the South, different things of that nature. So 1168 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:52,080 Speaker 10: a lot of times what somebody might look at as 1169 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,680 Speaker 10: a handicap is actually a benefit. 1170 00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,759 Speaker 6: I think it has its pros and cons. Right, some 1171 00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,279 Speaker 6: people don't want to work with me because they don't 1172 00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 6: like that, you know. 1173 00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,440 Speaker 7: But I always say to main my people that ain't. 1174 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 6: Supposed to work with if I that mean you don't 1175 00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:11,560 Speaker 6: like to tell, right, And that is also some church folks. 1176 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:16,800 Speaker 6: Some church folks say ain't Christian enough? That ain't my business? 1177 00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:20,239 Speaker 7: Right. I love everybody. You know, one of my best 1178 00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 7: friends is Muslim. 1179 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,319 Speaker 6: One of my best friends, right, And so I think 1180 00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:30,680 Speaker 6: that we get to a place where we're so focused 1181 00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 6: on what you were taught, you ain't even having a relationship, right. 1182 00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:35,839 Speaker 7: That's that's the thing. 1183 00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,520 Speaker 6: A lot a lot of people don't realize that you 1184 00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 6: got these strong beliefs in something because of what you 1185 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:45,240 Speaker 6: were taught. I'm telling you what I know, what's in here, 1186 00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,799 Speaker 6: what I've heard, nobody taught me the God. I know, 1187 00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:52,880 Speaker 6: it wasn't taught to me. It was developed inside of me. 1188 00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:57,759 Speaker 6: And that's a difference. And so you know, if you 1189 00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,560 Speaker 6: look at my content, have always, you know, always give 1190 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 6: glory to God. I do credit him for everything that 1191 00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 6: I am. And I also do the work right. And 1192 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,080 Speaker 6: so if somebody be like you know I have people say, Tam, 1193 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,799 Speaker 6: you might want to tone it down talking about God 1194 00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 6: all the time on your social or whatever, because you 1195 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,360 Speaker 6: know people ain't gonna work, you know, they ain't gonn 1196 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,440 Speaker 6: want to work with you. I was like, ooh, honey, 1197 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 6: let me turn it up a little bit because I 1198 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:23,760 Speaker 6: want to make those people stay clear. 1199 00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:26,959 Speaker 7: Don't work with tab money if you. 1200 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:30,280 Speaker 6: Know, because I'm gonna still show up as this tab right. 1201 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:35,080 Speaker 6: But I love I love people. I believe in people, right. 1202 00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 6: I believe we all got something great to offer. You know, 1203 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,600 Speaker 6: no matter what you believe, you know, no matter you know, 1204 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 6: no matter the God that you may feel exist in 1205 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:49,360 Speaker 6: your life, I still believe in people. We don't have 1206 00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,160 Speaker 6: to have the same belief for me to love you right, 1207 00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,160 Speaker 6: for me to see you, we don't have to have 1208 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:55,200 Speaker 6: the same belief. 1209 00:57:56,520 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 7: Or for us to work together, right. And what you 1210 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:01,320 Speaker 7: do at home. 1211 00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,840 Speaker 6: Hundred that's your business, right, But this is who I am, 1212 00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 6: and I ain't gonna change, nor should. 1213 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,120 Speaker 11: You know, and it ain't gonna do it ain't gonna 1214 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 11: I mean. So inside that the business, there's a lot 1215 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 11: of verticals there. I heard design, I heard the cooking obviously, 1216 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 11: the media, the books. I don't even want to use 1217 00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 11: the word balance, But how do you delegate managing all 1218 00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 11: these things at the same time. 1219 00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:30,840 Speaker 6: I'm first, right, that's priority. Then it's my family, and 1220 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 6: then I have a good schedule, right, I put everything 1221 00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:36,080 Speaker 6: on the calendar. Wait to hear me say that. I'm like, you, 1222 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:37,560 Speaker 6: look at the calendar. You're like, Lord, here we go 1223 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 6: to this calendar. But that's that's how I do it. 1224 00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:46,560 Speaker 6: But I schedule my own breaks, and those breaks sometimes 1225 00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:49,040 Speaker 6: happen throughout my day, you know, because I want to 1226 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:52,920 Speaker 6: make sure I'm all right. I have struggled with anxiety 1227 00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:54,760 Speaker 6: and depression before, and I don't want to go back, 1228 00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,120 Speaker 6: so I don't allow myself to get burned out. And 1229 00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 6: I really love what I do. I love it, and 1230 00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:10,960 Speaker 6: when you love it, it is easy to balance. It's easy 1231 00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:14,800 Speaker 6: to balance when you love it. When you are doing it. 1232 00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:18,360 Speaker 6: Because you're trying to make money, or you're doing it 1233 00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:22,280 Speaker 6: because you're trying to survive, or you're doing it to 1234 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:26,080 Speaker 6: try to be like somebody else. It's a balancing act. 1235 00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 6: It's hard and it's heavy. But when you really love 1236 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:32,640 Speaker 6: it and you're doing it because you were called to 1237 00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:36,040 Speaker 6: do it and it's part of your purpose, it's easy 1238 00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:36,919 Speaker 6: to balance. 1239 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:40,760 Speaker 11: When I just want because I'm thinking now about the 1240 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 11: Target situation, right, and obviously that there's food inside of 1241 00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:44,840 Speaker 11: that your brand. 1242 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,320 Speaker 5: But it started with Whole Foods or a partnership. 1243 00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:53,440 Speaker 11: And so in terms of having two obviously separate corporate 1244 00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:57,440 Speaker 11: companies that you worked with, was there a battle or 1245 00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:59,680 Speaker 11: was there a negotiation saying hey, like yo, this is 1246 00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,640 Speaker 11: what they're offering, this is what and we'll just choose 1247 01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 11: one that schoos. 1248 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:08,400 Speaker 7: Oh no, Whole Foods. I worked with them up until. 1249 01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 6: Maybe like two years ago, right, so it's a it's 1250 01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:20,440 Speaker 6: a different situation. But also, uh, they could not offer 1251 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:25,480 Speaker 6: me the things that Target offered me. Right, there's no clothing. 1252 01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,040 Speaker 5: In right, it's different, different, it's a. 1253 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:31,160 Speaker 6: Whole different thing. But also Whole Foods they had their 1254 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:35,400 Speaker 6: their role in my journey, you know, that was their role. 1255 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:36,720 Speaker 5: They were not like Thung partners. 1256 01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 7: Listen, you gotta know your season, everybody, listen. 1257 01:00:42,240 --> 01:00:44,000 Speaker 6: You know that it was a great season and I 1258 01:00:44,040 --> 01:00:46,840 Speaker 6: will ever love them, and who knows, I could always 1259 01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:51,000 Speaker 6: go back to them. I also, you know, we have 1260 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,200 Speaker 6: products inside of the Whole Foods. You know I have 1261 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:54,960 Speaker 6: I have products everywhere. 1262 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:55,440 Speaker 5: You know. 1263 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,600 Speaker 6: I got products in Walmart even though I partner would Target. 1264 01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,640 Speaker 6: You know, I got them into every grocery store, even 1265 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 6: though I partnered with Target. You know, my season ain't 1266 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 6: just at Target. Domald's recipe ain't just gonna be at Alta, 1267 01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:11,120 Speaker 6: you know. So there's a way you do business. There's 1268 01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:13,800 Speaker 6: a way that tabat the Brown can show up. Then 1269 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:18,080 Speaker 6: there's a way that my businesses and brands can show up. Right, 1270 01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,640 Speaker 6: So you can't lock my brand in the deal. You 1271 01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:22,400 Speaker 6: might be able to, you know, partner with TAB and 1272 01:01:22,440 --> 01:01:26,160 Speaker 6: I have exclusivity, but then I have a brand that 1273 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:29,920 Speaker 6: you don't own, right, Nobody owned me, but I own 1274 01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,240 Speaker 6: my brand, so I can put that in wherever I 1275 01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:32,600 Speaker 6: want to. 1276 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:34,240 Speaker 9: So talk about that. 1277 01:01:34,320 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 10: As far as separating the brand from the personality, that's 1278 01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:41,040 Speaker 10: something that it could be a gifting curse, right when 1279 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:45,520 Speaker 10: somebody just associates you with the brand. It's like, we 1280 01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 10: don't associate fill Night with Nike, right, but we do 1281 01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 10: associate Michael Jordan with Jordan brand. 1282 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:54,760 Speaker 9: Give them pros and cons for both. 1283 01:01:55,000 --> 01:02:00,760 Speaker 10: Right, So do you ever separate yourself from the brand 1284 01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:03,080 Speaker 10: or do you think it's just completely tied together? Like 1285 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,920 Speaker 10: what's your thoughts on and just for entrepreneurs in general 1286 01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,360 Speaker 10: in this new age of social media as far as 1287 01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:13,680 Speaker 10: you know, battling between that, like should I put this 1288 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 10: on social media? Should I not put this on social media? 1289 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 10: Should I always attach my own personal brand to the company? 1290 01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:21,800 Speaker 9: Should I back out a little bit? Like what's your philosophy? 1291 01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:25,120 Speaker 6: I think that if you if you are your brand, right, 1292 01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:26,080 Speaker 6: I am my brand. 1293 01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:27,360 Speaker 7: I am tab At the Brown. 1294 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:31,560 Speaker 6: If I own it, like I own Donna's recipe, I'm 1295 01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:32,880 Speaker 6: always gonna be attached to it. 1296 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:34,680 Speaker 7: I don't own Target. 1297 01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:38,440 Speaker 6: I partner with them, right, so people can still go 1298 01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:41,680 Speaker 6: to Target and not think about tab Right, I won't 1299 01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:44,680 Speaker 6: forever be Oh is she the Target lady? No, she 1300 01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:46,880 Speaker 6: tap at the Brown. She just so happened to have 1301 01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:51,280 Speaker 6: a partnership with Target. But Donna's recipe, that's gonna always 1302 01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,520 Speaker 6: be tab At the brand right, because people gonna know, 1303 01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:55,880 Speaker 6: oh that's donad, oh that's her, and I own it. 1304 01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,840 Speaker 6: So I think that as long as you know the 1305 01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:03,960 Speaker 6: difference of partnership versus ownership, because it's a big difference there, 1306 01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,200 Speaker 6: and if you have that understanding, then you're gonna be 1307 01:03:08,200 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 6: all right. 1308 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:14,800 Speaker 10: Okay, So let's let's talk about the motivation behind tap Time. 1309 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 9: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, let's talk about that a little bit. 1310 01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:21,520 Speaker 10: What made you want to do it and what's the 1311 01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:22,480 Speaker 10: dynamics of that. 1312 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,439 Speaker 7: So tap Time is my children's show. 1313 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:30,880 Speaker 6: And for about four years, uh, every every day in prayer, 1314 01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 6: I would hear God speak to me. He would say, 1315 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 6: heal the world. I need you to heal the world. 1316 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,120 Speaker 6: And I'd be like, look, I'm one person. Am I 1317 01:03:37,160 --> 01:03:37,920 Speaker 6: gonna heal the world? 1318 01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:40,040 Speaker 9: So how often do you actually hear God? 1319 01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:41,480 Speaker 7: Very often? 1320 01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,240 Speaker 6: So there's a so I always help I get this 1321 01:03:44,320 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 6: question a lot. There's a different way of hearing him. 1322 01:03:48,200 --> 01:03:51,520 Speaker 7: Now. To hear the voice that sounds like thunder has 1323 01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:52,600 Speaker 7: only happened to me once. 1324 01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:53,880 Speaker 9: That's like the Morgan Freeman. 1325 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,520 Speaker 7: It was a very I wish it sounded like more. 1326 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:03,920 Speaker 9: No, because that's what you take, but yeah, but it was. 1327 01:04:04,000 --> 01:04:10,000 Speaker 6: It sounded more like thunder, and it scared me very bad, exactly. 1328 01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:12,280 Speaker 7: But then there's a. 1329 01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 6: Way that you know, because everybody is not ready to 1330 01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:22,200 Speaker 6: hear the voice, and so he will sometimes make the 1331 01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,800 Speaker 6: voice sound very familiar to you. So like when my 1332 01:04:24,840 --> 01:04:29,080 Speaker 6: mama was sick, she had ls so or she could 1333 01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:31,840 Speaker 6: no longer talk towards the end of her life, and 1334 01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:32,800 Speaker 6: we'd have to read her lips. 1335 01:04:32,880 --> 01:04:34,520 Speaker 7: Or she could have a very small whisper. 1336 01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 6: And so I'd be at her house and i'd be 1337 01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,720 Speaker 6: in the office, and you know, her bedrooms way down 1338 01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:40,920 Speaker 6: the hall, and I could hear her as plain as 1339 01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:42,320 Speaker 6: they called me. And I go in there, I'm like, 1340 01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:43,640 Speaker 6: you call me, mom, And she look at me, like, 1341 01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:46,760 Speaker 6: now I call you, and I was like, And so 1342 01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:48,920 Speaker 6: she explained me. She said, you know, sometimes God will 1343 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,520 Speaker 6: use a voice that sounds like somebody that you know, 1344 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:55,200 Speaker 6: not to scare you. And so sometimes I'll hear the 1345 01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:57,720 Speaker 6: voice that sounds familiar, like it could sound like my 1346 01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:02,760 Speaker 6: son calling me, can sound like my daughter. But sometimes 1347 01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:08,920 Speaker 6: it's a whisper that I hear that it's nagging. So 1348 01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:11,480 Speaker 6: it's like unless I address it, it won't. 1349 01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:12,800 Speaker 7: Go away right. 1350 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:16,800 Speaker 6: And sometimes it's in a dream Sometimes it's very in 1351 01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:20,080 Speaker 6: a dream. I'm not as I always. This used to 1352 01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:21,400 Speaker 6: be the joke with me and my mom because my 1353 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:24,720 Speaker 6: mama knew my gift. I ain't scared of my dreams 1354 01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 6: in the daytime. Give me a minute, you know, because 1355 01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 6: you got to understand, like I'm a child, I was 1356 01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:35,360 Speaker 6: a little girl seeing things that nobody else saw, right, 1357 01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:37,920 Speaker 6: And I could see something run across the floor, or 1358 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,840 Speaker 6: I could see somebody's face change. 1359 01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:45,320 Speaker 5: It's just like visions, like sixth sense, yes, and so. 1360 01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,960 Speaker 6: That's a very scary thing as a child. And then 1361 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:51,800 Speaker 6: you know, me and my husband just talking about this 1362 01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:54,680 Speaker 6: on Fridays, was having a chance. I was like twenty six, 1363 01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:57,440 Speaker 6: twenty eight before I could sleep with the lights off 1364 01:05:57,800 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 6: with us together. 1365 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:01,480 Speaker 7: We got a TV. 1366 01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:04,960 Speaker 6: We could finally afford one that had the timer so 1367 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 6: that in our bedroom, so he was set it on 1368 01:06:06,600 --> 01:06:08,480 Speaker 6: forty five minutes so I could fall asleep, so I 1369 01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:11,720 Speaker 6: could have light, you know, in the room before I 1370 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,360 Speaker 6: fell asleep. Because of the things that I would see, 1371 01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:18,640 Speaker 6: you know, at night would scare me. But that was 1372 01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 6: because I was running. I was running from the gift. 1373 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:23,760 Speaker 6: I don't run from it no more. So I'm all 1374 01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:27,720 Speaker 6: right now, you know. But so I hear him in 1375 01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:30,000 Speaker 6: different ways. And so I always tell people I can't 1376 01:06:31,160 --> 01:06:33,760 Speaker 6: tell you how you can hear him versus how I 1377 01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:35,919 Speaker 6: hear him. It's going to be different because everybody didn't 1378 01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:39,120 Speaker 6: have the same gift that I have. However, I will 1379 01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:41,960 Speaker 6: tell you that thing that you think about that you 1380 01:06:42,000 --> 01:06:45,560 Speaker 6: can't shake. Most time it's him trying to nudge you 1381 01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:49,160 Speaker 6: on something, and sometimes he speaks to you through other people. 1382 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,439 Speaker 6: Now you can have a thought about something you ain't 1383 01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:53,440 Speaker 6: told nobody, and then somebody comes saying, you know what 1384 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:55,200 Speaker 6: I was thinking, you know what you should do? And 1385 01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 6: you'd be like, I've been thinking about that. That's him saying, 1386 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 6: let me send it through somebody else, because you won't 1387 01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,480 Speaker 6: be a handle if he came down and said you 1388 01:07:03,520 --> 01:07:06,240 Speaker 6: know that Morgan Freeman boys. 1389 01:07:06,720 --> 01:07:09,160 Speaker 7: But it comes in different ways. 1390 01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:13,680 Speaker 6: So I was, you know, in prayer, and I kept 1391 01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,720 Speaker 6: hearing you know, I need you to heal the world, 1392 01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:18,920 Speaker 6: and so I was like, how do I do this? 1393 01:07:19,040 --> 01:07:22,200 Speaker 6: When I first went begin to heal myself, I was like, oh, 1394 01:07:22,400 --> 01:07:25,920 Speaker 6: he meant my body is my world and now I'm healed. 1395 01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,400 Speaker 6: And he was like, that's cute, tab and that's not that, 1396 01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,480 Speaker 6: ain't it. And so one morning he was like, it 1397 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,880 Speaker 6: starts with children, and I was like, oh, okay. 1398 01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:35,640 Speaker 7: So I told my team. 1399 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,560 Speaker 6: I was like, listen, I want to do a children's 1400 01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:41,080 Speaker 6: show because I have this idea that if I can 1401 01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:45,160 Speaker 6: teach children to love themselves, to love each other, to 1402 01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:49,560 Speaker 6: see each other despite our differences, have compassion for each other, 1403 01:07:49,600 --> 01:07:52,840 Speaker 6: and we do this while learning together about the world, 1404 01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:57,040 Speaker 6: those same children will have this inside of them and 1405 01:07:57,080 --> 01:07:59,720 Speaker 6: they'll grow up one day and be adults who still 1406 01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:02,360 Speaker 6: see each other, we still love each other, have compassion 1407 01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:04,680 Speaker 6: for each other, but will also be willing to help 1408 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:08,560 Speaker 6: heal each other. That's the plan, and that's why I 1409 01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,040 Speaker 6: decided to do S halftime. And I also wanted to 1410 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:14,080 Speaker 6: slow television back down for children. I grew up on 1411 01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:19,040 Speaker 6: like mister Rogers, and so I just felt like we 1412 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,080 Speaker 6: needed to slow it down. 1413 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:22,519 Speaker 7: You know, my son. 1414 01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 6: Was diagnosed with motor tics when he was eight, and 1415 01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:31,360 Speaker 6: a lot of children have motor tics or high anxiety. 1416 01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:37,000 Speaker 6: In the children's program being over stimulates children. All the 1417 01:08:37,080 --> 01:08:39,720 Speaker 6: colors and a lot of like the loud sounds and 1418 01:08:39,800 --> 01:08:41,639 Speaker 6: like very fast paced music. 1419 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:45,000 Speaker 7: It's actually over stimulating to children, and. 1420 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,719 Speaker 6: So you'll find in the comments when people are talking 1421 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:51,200 Speaker 6: about tab time that a lot of children was like 1422 01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:55,960 Speaker 6: autism or motor tics or anxiety. They have them watched 1423 01:08:56,040 --> 01:09:00,599 Speaker 6: and it calms them down. And it's important I think 1424 01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,160 Speaker 6: that we remember that we only have children for a 1425 01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:05,920 Speaker 6: very small amount of time. A good ten years is 1426 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:08,800 Speaker 6: all we got, and we adult for the rest of 1427 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 6: our life. So for those ten years, if we can 1428 01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:15,599 Speaker 6: just be patient with them, slow it down a little bit. 1429 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,559 Speaker 6: I think, you know, to have time is. 1430 01:09:18,520 --> 01:09:18,960 Speaker 7: Where is it? 1431 01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:22,559 Speaker 5: That's always They asked me, what's the adage that I 1432 01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,760 Speaker 5: always like live by? And it's like, you're going to 1433 01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,320 Speaker 5: be older a lot longer than you're gonna be younger. 1434 01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:29,320 Speaker 7: Man, Ain't you adult for a very long time? 1435 01:09:29,360 --> 01:09:32,760 Speaker 6: But you you know, even when we adult, though, we 1436 01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:34,280 Speaker 6: refer back to the child in side. 1437 01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:35,679 Speaker 9: Yeah, And if. 1438 01:09:35,560 --> 01:09:42,520 Speaker 6: The child's childhood was something great, then it's a good reflection. 1439 01:09:43,160 --> 01:09:46,240 Speaker 6: If it was a lot of trauma, it's tough. And 1440 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:47,799 Speaker 6: so I want to be part of the good reflection. 1441 01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:54,080 Speaker 11: You spoke about taving chance Yes. Twenty five years of marriage. 1442 01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:55,680 Speaker 7: Twenty years of marriage, twenty five together. 1443 01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:56,160 Speaker 5: Twenty five together. 1444 01:09:56,479 --> 01:10:01,240 Speaker 11: April nineteen, The Power of strong Union versus the power 1445 01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:06,120 Speaker 11: of showing partnership and being married and having finances together. 1446 01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,080 Speaker 5: Talk about the complexities of that shoot. 1447 01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:12,240 Speaker 7: We are very rare. 1448 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:22,400 Speaker 6: It has always been our money together. We struggled together, 1449 01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:29,960 Speaker 6: and we've never had separate bank accounts that we like 1450 01:10:30,080 --> 01:10:33,040 Speaker 6: keep away from each other everything. For a very long time, 1451 01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,880 Speaker 6: we had one. Everything just went in that one. Now 1452 01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:41,600 Speaker 6: we got multiple and but all of them are still ours. 1453 01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 6: We you know, I don't know how other couples do it, 1454 01:10:48,280 --> 01:10:51,680 Speaker 6: because that also is not my business. But for me, 1455 01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:55,360 Speaker 6: it's like, if I ain't got it, he ain't got it. 1456 01:10:56,120 --> 01:10:58,200 Speaker 6: If he got it, I got it right Like, we 1457 01:10:58,320 --> 01:11:03,720 Speaker 6: in it together. So our foundation is locked and we 1458 01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:04,599 Speaker 6: build together. 1459 01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:06,320 Speaker 7: That's that's just what it is. 1460 01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,240 Speaker 6: And don't matter how much we get, it's gonna still 1461 01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:11,840 Speaker 6: be the same. 1462 01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:12,840 Speaker 7: You know. 1463 01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:14,960 Speaker 10: So the one the one bank account, because that's an 1464 01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:20,800 Speaker 10: issue that a lot of people face, that's never been 1465 01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:21,759 Speaker 10: an issue for you guys. 1466 01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:24,200 Speaker 6: No, but you gotta understand, we were very young, been 1467 01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:29,240 Speaker 6: together since we was nineteen, that's all we knew. And listen, 1468 01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:31,960 Speaker 6: we had that one bank account and we overdrafted that 1469 01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:37,080 Speaker 6: thing together. Okay, we had no money or you know, 1470 01:11:37,160 --> 01:11:40,439 Speaker 6: many times and we would have to budget, you know, 1471 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:43,200 Speaker 6: and try to figure it out. 1472 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,080 Speaker 7: And when we started making it. 1473 01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,800 Speaker 6: The only time, the very first time he had to 1474 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:52,360 Speaker 6: get a separate bank account was for a job that 1475 01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:53,080 Speaker 6: required it. 1476 01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,040 Speaker 7: They were like, you have to have a bank account. 1477 01:11:55,040 --> 01:11:56,800 Speaker 6: And I was like, oh, you're gonna get a bank account, 1478 01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 6: just gonna do that on me. Yeah, And they would 1479 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:02,280 Speaker 6: give me one because my credit was too bad back 1480 01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 6: then and so and it was a joke. Then he's like, hey, 1481 01:12:05,120 --> 01:12:07,360 Speaker 6: you see that I got there. Yeah, I got that credit. 1482 01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:09,960 Speaker 6: I was like, you got a six forty cut it out. 1483 01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,559 Speaker 6: That was back then. But even then I knew what 1484 01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:16,880 Speaker 6: was in it. Even then he gave me, you know, 1485 01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:17,760 Speaker 6: a bank card. 1486 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:19,400 Speaker 7: It was never. 1487 01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,000 Speaker 9: A question, Yah, won't it it too? 1488 01:12:23,040 --> 01:12:23,880 Speaker 5: Shall become one. 1489 01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:26,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was never that, you know, even though you 1490 01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:30,600 Speaker 6: know you have old school you know this is I 1491 01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,200 Speaker 6: don't know if this is and my breaking the code. 1492 01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,280 Speaker 6: If I say this the woman's code, you know, the 1493 01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:36,200 Speaker 6: women be like, hey, you make sure you always keep 1494 01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:36,839 Speaker 6: a little stance. 1495 01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:37,439 Speaker 7: You know. 1496 01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:40,240 Speaker 6: My granny used to tell that, you know, woman should 1497 01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:41,800 Speaker 6: always have a little something, you know, she have a 1498 01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,519 Speaker 6: little something stashed away. 1499 01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:47,160 Speaker 10: But yeah, I mean I got to ask you about 1500 01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,920 Speaker 10: that before I had a personal situation before years ago. 1501 01:12:50,720 --> 01:13:00,800 Speaker 10: It was like, you know, I'm not doing that. 1502 01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:03,920 Speaker 7: I ain't saying it was the bank account, but I'm 1503 01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:04,559 Speaker 7: just playing. 1504 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:12,640 Speaker 6: But you know, sometimes if you don't build together, you 1505 01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:14,880 Speaker 6: don't think you deserve to have a bank account together. 1506 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:15,840 Speaker 5: That's the fact. 1507 01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:18,880 Speaker 10: One last question before we finished this is important to 1508 01:13:18,920 --> 01:13:23,280 Speaker 10: the vegan what exactly should we not be eating? 1509 01:13:23,320 --> 01:13:25,479 Speaker 9: Like, what were you eating? That was an issue? 1510 01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:28,679 Speaker 10: What's some of the things that we should definitely avoid 1511 01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:32,360 Speaker 10: because you know a lot of people say, like even 1512 01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:34,439 Speaker 10: just because you're vegan doesn't necessarily mean. 1513 01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:34,920 Speaker 9: That you're healthy. 1514 01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,120 Speaker 10: Right, that's why exactly a junk exactly, they prefer the 1515 01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:42,439 Speaker 10: word like plant based, right, So for educational purposes, Yeah, 1516 01:13:42,479 --> 01:13:43,960 Speaker 10: like what were some of the things that you were eating? 1517 01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:46,439 Speaker 10: And then what were some of the things that you 1518 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:49,200 Speaker 10: changed to that that changed your life and your health? 1519 01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:56,080 Speaker 6: So this is always kind of what takes people throws 1520 01:13:56,080 --> 01:14:00,280 Speaker 6: them back. I wasn't a terrible eater, right, but I 1521 01:14:00,320 --> 01:14:02,439 Speaker 6: didn't eat to feel well. I ate to look a 1522 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,640 Speaker 6: certain way, which is different. I ate to look I 1523 01:14:05,840 --> 01:14:09,320 Speaker 6: ate to try to be thin. Oh eat a lot, right, 1524 01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:13,320 Speaker 6: I didn't eat a lot, but I wasn't eating to 1525 01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 6: nourish my body. So I have not had red meat 1526 01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:21,200 Speaker 6: or pork since I was fifteen. I was only eating 1527 01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:26,680 Speaker 6: fish and chicken and turkey and veggies. I'm allergic to dairy, right, 1528 01:14:26,720 --> 01:14:29,960 Speaker 6: Dairy almost killed me. So that's first and foremost, none 1529 01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:31,719 Speaker 6: of us should be eating dairy. 1530 01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:32,559 Speaker 9: That's a fact. 1531 01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:33,439 Speaker 7: It is a fact. 1532 01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:36,800 Speaker 6: That's a fact, none of us. For me, I'm also 1533 01:14:36,840 --> 01:14:39,200 Speaker 6: allergic to soy. In the beginning, I was eating it, 1534 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,360 Speaker 6: but I kept like having like moments where I would 1535 01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,280 Speaker 6: feel weird and I would get a headache that would 1536 01:14:45,680 --> 01:14:48,040 Speaker 6: start up, and I was like, what is happening? And 1537 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,280 Speaker 6: I did an allergae panel and found out I was 1538 01:14:50,320 --> 01:14:54,000 Speaker 6: allergic to soy. And also, if we listened to our 1539 01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:57,000 Speaker 6: body when we eat something, and our body tells us, 1540 01:14:57,080 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 6: it would tell us if it doesn't like it. So 1541 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,599 Speaker 6: I would always tell people, you know, the main things, 1542 01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:05,080 Speaker 6: and a. 1543 01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:06,880 Speaker 7: Lot of people don't want to hear that. We really 1544 01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:07,880 Speaker 7: shouldn't be eating chicken. 1545 01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:09,320 Speaker 9: That's the fact too. 1546 01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 7: We should not be eating chicken. 1547 01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:15,120 Speaker 9: That's a fact. The hormones, the it's different. It's not 1548 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:16,559 Speaker 9: even the same chicken anymore. 1549 01:15:16,600 --> 01:15:18,599 Speaker 6: It is not and a lot of people always be like, well, tap, 1550 01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:20,840 Speaker 6: my grandma and my granted they live to be you know. 1551 01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:21,840 Speaker 5: Nine. 1552 01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:24,240 Speaker 7: They also knew the names of their animals that they ate. 1553 01:15:25,280 --> 01:15:26,680 Speaker 7: They could. They also probably. 1554 01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,400 Speaker 9: Started the chicken does not taste the. 1555 01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:32,719 Speaker 6: Same exactly, And so uh, you know. I never tried 1556 01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:36,559 Speaker 6: to force Beganism on anybody. It is how I live 1557 01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:39,040 Speaker 6: my life. I started it for health reasons, and now 1558 01:15:39,080 --> 01:15:41,280 Speaker 6: I do it for health, for the planet, for the animals. 1559 01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:43,439 Speaker 7: I do it for all that. Why don't I don't 1560 01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:43,880 Speaker 7: wear leather. 1561 01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:49,240 Speaker 6: But the thing that I feel that changed my life 1562 01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:53,880 Speaker 6: was me not eating chicken and soy and of course 1563 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:57,720 Speaker 6: dairy and it definitely killed me. 1564 01:15:57,880 --> 01:16:00,920 Speaker 9: And then eating greens. So what did you. 1565 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:04,280 Speaker 6: I eat a lot of live foods like the greens, right, 1566 01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:09,520 Speaker 6: A lot of berries, antioxidants, dark dark berries, dark berries, blueberries, blackberries, 1567 01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:13,640 Speaker 6: even raspberries, right, But leafy greens. 1568 01:16:13,880 --> 01:16:17,120 Speaker 7: Kale is a super food. It is so healthy for us. 1569 01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:20,280 Speaker 7: Collars and not the ones that you're gonna soak in 1570 01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:25,400 Speaker 7: the port in. But you can eat the collars. You 1571 01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:26,799 Speaker 7: can still make them collar greens. 1572 01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:28,519 Speaker 6: But you can use some onion and some mushroom and 1573 01:16:28,600 --> 01:16:33,760 Speaker 6: some garlic to you know, you know, season them, but and. 1574 01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 7: I juice a lot. 1575 01:16:34,560 --> 01:16:35,439 Speaker 9: What do you do for protein? 1576 01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:37,799 Speaker 7: Same thing a cow do for protein? 1577 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 9: Nothing eat plants. 1578 01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:46,040 Speaker 6: So that's so the misconception is that biggas don't get protein. 1579 01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:47,320 Speaker 6: So I always tell people, well, a lot of people 1580 01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:49,719 Speaker 6: think they get to eat a steak for protein. 1581 01:16:50,200 --> 01:16:51,599 Speaker 7: And I said, what were you think the cow got 1582 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:52,160 Speaker 7: his protein? 1583 01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:55,680 Speaker 9: It didn't need another cal chickpeas. 1584 01:16:55,880 --> 01:17:01,400 Speaker 6: I love chickpeas, yep, chickpe's proteins, beans. 1585 01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:02,360 Speaker 7: Nuts, lental. 1586 01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 9: What about carbs? Healthy carbs, you know, like sweet potatoes. 1587 01:17:05,960 --> 01:17:09,120 Speaker 7: Sweet potatoes, like wild rice. 1588 01:17:08,920 --> 01:17:12,600 Speaker 9: But not rice, like not white washed potatoes. 1589 01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:17,400 Speaker 6: And now listen, tab gave up potatoes for lent because 1590 01:17:17,439 --> 01:17:17,960 Speaker 6: I love them. 1591 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,160 Speaker 7: My mama used to love them, and I blame nobody 1592 01:17:20,160 --> 01:17:20,920 Speaker 7: who love them that much. 1593 01:17:21,000 --> 01:17:25,280 Speaker 6: I need to give them up for forty days, you know, right, Brea, Okay, 1594 01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:29,080 Speaker 6: but I do. I love sweet potatoes, probably more than 1595 01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 6: you know, the average person. But every now and then 1596 01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:34,360 Speaker 6: I don't do like a white potato. You know, if 1597 01:17:34,360 --> 01:17:36,240 Speaker 6: if I want like a baked potato, I like a 1598 01:17:37,280 --> 01:17:40,479 Speaker 6: like an Asian potato they have like a sweet white potato. 1599 01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:48,080 Speaker 6: There's there's many healthy options of carbs. There's like lental 1600 01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:51,200 Speaker 6: and peapastas that you can have. If you don't want 1601 01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:54,240 Speaker 6: to do like heavy starches, you can do like zucchini 1602 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:55,720 Speaker 6: and make that into your noodles. 1603 01:17:56,720 --> 01:17:59,839 Speaker 7: A lot of squash. You can use this noodle spaghetti 1604 01:17:59,840 --> 01:18:02,600 Speaker 7: squa you've had so you know, you slice it up. 1605 01:18:02,640 --> 01:18:05,479 Speaker 10: And I'm almost vegan. The only thing I can't so 1606 01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:07,679 Speaker 10: I never ate pork my whole entire life. I stopped 1607 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,160 Speaker 10: eating red meat when I was like eighteen. I stopped 1608 01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:13,280 Speaker 10: eating chicken six years ago, and I've been in I've 1609 01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:14,920 Speaker 10: been like toosing towerant my whole life. So I don't 1610 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,519 Speaker 10: drink milk Harley ever, alert you any ice cream andy 1611 01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:19,400 Speaker 10: thing like that. Only the only thing I need to 1612 01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:20,519 Speaker 10: give up is fish. 1613 01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:24,599 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, fishes. I love fish. 1614 01:18:24,080 --> 01:18:25,439 Speaker 7: This is my joke. 1615 01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:29,040 Speaker 6: I'd be like, when I'm awake, I'm vegan. When I'm sleep, 1616 01:18:29,080 --> 01:18:30,679 Speaker 6: I'm pescatarian because. 1617 01:18:30,479 --> 01:18:32,680 Speaker 7: I'll be dreaming about you fish. Okay, let me just 1618 01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:34,400 Speaker 7: tell you I count crab legs in my clae. 1619 01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:37,640 Speaker 9: Fish isn't good for you either, right well. 1620 01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:41,719 Speaker 6: You know to me because of how I live my life, 1621 01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:44,040 Speaker 6: and because that was all I was eating, and I 1622 01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 6: was sick. I would think that some people won't agree 1623 01:18:47,600 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 6: with that. They'll think, oh, no, you can still eat 1624 01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:50,760 Speaker 6: fish as long as it's a lean fish or as 1625 01:18:50,760 --> 01:18:55,480 Speaker 6: long as it's a white fish, but you know, shellfish 1626 01:18:55,640 --> 01:18:59,000 Speaker 6: and it's high cholesterol. You know, it's terrible for people 1627 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:01,439 Speaker 6: who have like all the right business. 1628 01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:02,479 Speaker 9: Now. 1629 01:19:02,479 --> 01:19:05,800 Speaker 10: I remember that's how my sister originally because I've been 1630 01:19:05,840 --> 01:19:07,639 Speaker 10: telling for a long time I wanted to be a vegan, 1631 01:19:08,080 --> 01:19:11,800 Speaker 10: and she sent me your page originally like, well, she 1632 01:19:11,960 --> 01:19:14,800 Speaker 10: makes recipes and do her like follow her for to 1633 01:19:14,880 --> 01:19:16,799 Speaker 10: know what you're doing as far as the vegan lifestyle 1634 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:17,400 Speaker 10: is concerned. 1635 01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:19,160 Speaker 9: I just realized that I just remember. 1636 01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,200 Speaker 7: That just be trying to help. 1637 01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:25,439 Speaker 11: So like this is my final point, because thank you 1638 01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:27,680 Speaker 11: for your tongue. You been gracious with it. But a 1639 01:19:27,680 --> 01:19:29,280 Speaker 11: lot of times people walk up to us and they 1640 01:19:29,320 --> 01:19:32,280 Speaker 11: talk about how this financial education that we have gone 1641 01:19:32,320 --> 01:19:35,960 Speaker 11: has changed given has changed their lives. How's that been 1642 01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,559 Speaker 11: for you as far as changing people from a healthy standpoint? 1643 01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 11: With the recipes, like what are some of the like 1644 01:19:41,080 --> 01:19:43,200 Speaker 11: to you know, most rewarding stories that. 1645 01:19:43,160 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 6: You've had, they are all they they are the things 1646 01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:49,080 Speaker 6: that blessed me to make me know like, Oh, this 1647 01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:51,599 Speaker 6: is what God wanted me to do when people say 1648 01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,479 Speaker 6: I was a diabetic and I started watching your videos 1649 01:19:54,520 --> 01:19:56,760 Speaker 6: and I eat what you eat. For the last six months, 1650 01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:59,439 Speaker 6: I'm not diabetic anymore. It's been on blood pressure medication. 1651 01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:03,440 Speaker 6: I'm not don bla upressure medication anymore. I've lost fifty pounds. 1652 01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:03,720 Speaker 7: You know. 1653 01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:08,000 Speaker 6: I'm not even on anxiety medication anymore. You know, I 1654 01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:10,240 Speaker 6: used to have asthma. I didn't realize that I hadn't 1655 01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:14,080 Speaker 6: used my inhaler until I was moving. It was a 1656 01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 6: year and a half after being began. I haven't used 1657 01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:20,559 Speaker 6: my inhaler now in almost six years. I don't have 1658 01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:24,880 Speaker 6: asthma anymore. But people tell me those things and I'm like, 1659 01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:28,000 Speaker 6: oh my god. You know, even with skin, people don't 1660 01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:30,479 Speaker 6: realize how much what you eat affects your skin. 1661 01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,760 Speaker 7: And that blesses me. 1662 01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:38,759 Speaker 6: You know that people are changing their lives for the better, 1663 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:42,599 Speaker 6: and I never take the credit for it. I consider 1664 01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:47,080 Speaker 6: myself a vessel, you know, and a messenger. But I'm 1665 01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:50,120 Speaker 6: just sharing my story and how it changed my life. 1666 01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:52,519 Speaker 6: And I'm grateful that people say, oh, let me try 1667 01:20:52,560 --> 01:20:55,360 Speaker 6: it for me. That's why I would never force what 1668 01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:57,840 Speaker 6: I do on anybody. I just simply share and I 1669 01:20:57,840 --> 01:21:01,040 Speaker 6: try to root it in love and laughter. But when 1670 01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:03,760 Speaker 6: people tell me that, of course I have cried and 1671 01:21:03,840 --> 01:21:07,800 Speaker 6: hugged people and just been grateful that God uses me 1672 01:21:07,840 --> 01:21:08,680 Speaker 6: in that capacity. 1673 01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:13,080 Speaker 10: Yeah, oh, thank you, thank you. We appreciate it. You 1674 01:21:13,080 --> 01:21:16,880 Speaker 10: got to get to your son's game. But definitely, UH 1675 01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,200 Speaker 10: would love for you to come back at some point 1676 01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:21,520 Speaker 10: in time. And I look forward to, you know, developing 1677 01:21:21,520 --> 01:21:23,400 Speaker 10: a strong relationship with you. We got a lot of 1678 01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:24,880 Speaker 10: different things that we do, so I'm sure we can 1679 01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,080 Speaker 10: potentially work together. And yeah, I hope my sister is 1680 01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:31,280 Speaker 10: now happy that we got and I'm going to become 1681 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:37,080 Speaker 10: a vegan one more, have like every flush, every fish 1682 01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 10: on the table. 1683 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,479 Speaker 6: Because I have a friend who is vegan, you know what, 1684 01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:44,480 Speaker 6: plant based uh, pretty much all the time unless she travels. 1685 01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:46,360 Speaker 6: And when she travels, she's like, I got to try 1686 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:47,519 Speaker 6: to fish in other countries. 1687 01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:50,640 Speaker 7: Uh, And so you know, maybe I'll do that. 1688 01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:54,160 Speaker 5: I think my life has been changed to honey, if 1689 01:21:54,160 --> 01:21:54,880 Speaker 5: you're watching. 1690 01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:57,840 Speaker 6: Oh, somebody about to go vegan thirty days, let's just 1691 01:21:57,840 --> 01:21:59,240 Speaker 6: try listen together. 1692 01:21:59,439 --> 01:21:59,559 Speaker 9: Oh. 1693 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:04,240 Speaker 6: Like I always tell people, you deserve to try something, 1694 01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:08,200 Speaker 6: whether it's veganism, whether it's a business venture, whatever the 1695 01:22:08,240 --> 01:22:08,720 Speaker 6: case is. 1696 01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,240 Speaker 7: Thirty days, you're worthy of thirty days. 1697 01:22:11,400 --> 01:22:12,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I'm gonna try it. 1698 01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:13,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, thirty days. 1699 01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:14,400 Speaker 9: Oh. 1700 01:22:14,479 --> 01:22:16,160 Speaker 10: Anything you want to make the public aware of, You 1701 01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:17,840 Speaker 10: got anything coming out website? 1702 01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,360 Speaker 7: You can just follow me on. I am Tabatha Brown everywhere. 1703 01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:21,920 Speaker 9: Yeah. 1704 01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:25,040 Speaker 6: So many, so many great things happening, and I'm always 1705 01:22:25,040 --> 01:22:25,880 Speaker 6: posting about them. 1706 01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 9: So do you have it? Troy housekeeping items? 1707 01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:32,320 Speaker 11: Shorty, I'm not gonna do housekeeping items today. I'm gonna 1708 01:22:32,400 --> 01:22:35,880 Speaker 11: end it with this. Have a good day. Oh and 1709 01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:38,960 Speaker 11: even if you don't, don't go messing up anyone else's. 1710 01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,040 Speaker 7: I love it very good. 1711 01:22:44,360 --> 01:22:49,599 Speaker 8: My graduates from my school being forced back drop drop 1712 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:52,679 Speaker 8: or Mike drop back drop drop. 1713 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:06,679 Speaker 1: An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child 1714 01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:10,560 Speaker 1: in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador 1715 01:23:10,800 --> 01:23:14,920 Speaker 1: accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with 1716 01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:18,880 Speaker 1: filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just 1717 01:23:19,000 --> 01:23:22,759 Speaker 1: some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President 1718 01:23:22,800 --> 01:23:23,240 Speaker 1: Donald J. 1719 01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:25,760 Speaker 2: Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the. 1720 01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 1: United States Secretary of Homeland Security under President Trump. Attempted 1721 01:23:30,400 --> 01:23:34,080 Speaker 1: illegal border crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, 1722 01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:37,479 Speaker 1: and over one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. 1723 01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:41,280 Speaker 1: If you are here illegally, your next you will be 1724 01:23:41,360 --> 01:23:45,240 Speaker 1: fined nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. 1725 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:46,879 Speaker 2: You will never return. 1726 01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:50,200 Speaker 1: But if you register using our CBP home app and 1727 01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,160 Speaker 1: leave now, you could be allowed to return legally. 1728 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:55,759 Speaker 2: Do what's right, leave now. 1729 01:23:56,120 --> 01:24:00,879 Speaker 1: Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will be protected. 1730 01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:03,120 Speaker 3: Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,