Speaker 1: It's the Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Number two.
Speaker 1: What is Up? Y'all, welcome to the Best Bits of
Speaker 1: the Week. It's Morgan and this podcast. I bring on
Speaker 1: a show member and we talked about live sometimes the segments,
Speaker 1: but not usually. In this weekend, I'm bringing on Abby
Speaker 1: What is Up? What's Up? This is about to be chaos.
Speaker 1: I just finished eating a ho ho that got sent
Speaker 1: into the studio because I am like dying. This is
Speaker 1: We're recording this the day after the Cmas. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: we all are just drained of energy. It's like a
Speaker 1: vampire came in and just sucked a little life out
Speaker 1: of all of us. It really is. Yeah, that's how
Speaker 1: I feel. I know. But I am still on a
Speaker 1: high from last night because that was high. But like
Speaker 1: my adrenaline's gone. Yeah, the adrenaline's gone. So now I'm
Speaker 1: just like I got coffee just now. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm so tired, I know, and like I need to
Speaker 1: work out, but there's no chance. Like I have not
Speaker 1: worked out once this week because of how much we've
Speaker 1: had going on. But gosh do I need to? But
Speaker 1: I do not have the energy. And if we're just
Speaker 1: gonna be the energy boundaries here just to get through
Speaker 1: this podcast. So if it's pure chaos, the people know why. Yep,
Speaker 1: we warned you, right, this is our formal warning. We're
Speaker 1: just gonna dive in because we're gonna get this thing going.
Speaker 1: You ready, let's do it all right? At number seven
Speaker 1: this week, rejected segments. You guys love to hear the
Speaker 1: things that we suggest they get rejected. I don't know
Speaker 1: why you guys thoroughly enjoy us being rejected, but you do,
Speaker 1: and so that will happened. This week, Bobby shared some
Speaker 1: that he didn't chose not to do for actual segments,
Speaker 1: but then they still have chosen as a rejected segment,
Speaker 1: so we still talk about them, but you know, don't
Speaker 1: actually do the bit. I don't really have anything to
Speaker 1: say about rejected segments because it kind of makes me sad,
Speaker 1: you know. And basically this whole best Bits is my
Speaker 1: rejected segments in a way. So right, yeah, you bring
Speaker 1: up things we didn't Yeah, so you know, I whatever
Speaker 1: rejected segments is out there. Okay, I have some random
Speaker 1: questions and that's how we're gonna get started. Okay, what
Speaker 1: is your favorite way to spend your day off? Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, I sleep him. Oh would love sleeping. Okay, definitely,
Speaker 1: I meant off good. Yeah, I can sleep until like eleven.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know people in my age, they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't sleep in past like seven. I
Speaker 1: just get up within like without an alarm. Like, no,
Speaker 1: I'll sleep till eleven or no chance any person who
Speaker 1: can wake up without alarm. I don't understand. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's more I guess older people or I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, I don't even know, Like if it's they're
Speaker 1: just like so routine and they can do it. But like,
Speaker 1: if I don't send an alarm on a weekend, I'll
Speaker 1: be sleeping till three o'clock in the afternoon. Okay, good,
Speaker 1: I feel more normal now. Yeah, my body does not
Speaker 1: have an internal clock, yes exactly, it's just existing. It's
Speaker 1: constantly writing on neutral I know, right, But they say
Speaker 1: not to do that. You're supposed to like keep it
Speaker 1: consistent through the weekends. I'm like, no, that is my
Speaker 1: time to can't listen anybody, you know why because my
Speaker 1: mental health matters also, and the only thing that makes
Speaker 1: me feel better on the weekends is sleeping. In exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I sleep in and then I go get my coffee,
Speaker 1: and then if it's nice out, I'll go for a
Speaker 1: hike or a run, or I'll go to the gym.
Speaker 1: I like to go shop thing, you know, me shoppered. Yes,
Speaker 1: So it's basically running errands and getting stuff done around
Speaker 1: my house. I feel like if my house is a mess,
Speaker 1: my brain and I'm just like chaos in my head.
Speaker 1: So I'm like I need to clean everything. I just
Speaker 1: clean and do laundry, like that's my day off. Kind
Speaker 1: of sad, but but I like it makes me feel
Speaker 1: like I'm being productive. You know, Yes, I'm with you.
Speaker 1: It's really hard, Like I always like to try and
Speaker 1: be that person that doesn't do much on a day
Speaker 1: off because I'm like, I need to actually not do things.
Speaker 1: I'm always doing things. I need to turn my brain off.
Speaker 1: And every time I try and do that, Like, let
Speaker 1: me tell you when I was sick this past week,
Speaker 1: I think it was a week ago now, and I
Speaker 1: could not physically do anything. I was bored out of
Speaker 1: my mind. I watched like thirty six hours of television
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I do not know what the outside
Speaker 1: world looks like. Right now, and I don't like it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not good about that. It's like, yeah, that's stay
Speaker 1: at home. I'm not doing anything, just like not even
Speaker 1: being productive, like not cleaning the house, not taking care
Speaker 1: of things, like just kind of like just chilling. I
Speaker 1: am not capable of doing that. No, okay, how are
Speaker 1: you like during facials? Because I gotta give I never
Speaker 1: had a facial done. Oh you haven't, or like a massage.
Speaker 1: I guess massage is. I'm good because I hey, you
Speaker 1: rub it all over my back. I felt great. You
Speaker 1: can relax. Yeah, that's when my mind when they're doing
Speaker 1: a facial, I'm like, oh my gosh, I need to
Speaker 1: be doing this. I gotta be doing I'm wasting so
Speaker 1: much time right now. Okay, So you can't like I
Speaker 1: can't turn my like productivity off, and you can't turn
Speaker 1: like your brain off. Yeah, I just cannot shut it off.
Speaker 1: They're like you can go sit in the relaxation room
Speaker 1: after and just chill. I sat there for two minutes
Speaker 1: and I was like, I cannot do this. I feel
Speaker 1: like I have so much to do. Yes, So I
Speaker 1: was like, I can't waste my time in here, even
Speaker 1: though I need to take full advantage of the spa
Speaker 1: since you're there, but like, true, I gotta go. I
Speaker 1: have been thinking, I'm like, you know, I really should
Speaker 1: just like treat myself to like a really good spa day.
Speaker 1: You should. However, I haven't done like a full blown
Speaker 1: day of spa. You have to do a facial. I've
Speaker 1: done like a massage. Yeah, and that's about it. But
Speaker 1: like go and get like all the things done just
Speaker 1: because like they do in the movies, Yes, do it now,
Speaker 1: that's you need to do on your next day off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then obvious saying about all the productive things I
Speaker 1: still need to do. See that's the thing. Yes, it's
Speaker 1: like they're waiting for you when you get out. And
Speaker 1: that's all I can think of. The Only way I
Speaker 1: can relax in those is that when I do all
Speaker 1: the productive things beforehand, if I get everything done and
Speaker 1: then I go and do something, then I can enjoy it.
Speaker 1: But I have to get everything done or like make
Speaker 1: sure I like crossed off a few things on my checklist,
Speaker 1: because then I feel productive and then I'm not like
Speaker 1: sitting during things. I mean like, oh, I have so
Speaker 1: much to do because I did do things off of
Speaker 1: that list right, Yeah. Yeah. Can I tell you I've
Speaker 1: only gotten one massage ever? Yeah, and it was the worst.
Speaker 1: It was the worst experience. Oh my gosh. Is that
Speaker 1: why you've never gone back and got another one? Probably
Speaker 1: because it was at a boucherette party, and so it
Speaker 1: was like nine girls and we all wanted to be
Speaker 1: in there at the same time, not in the same room,
Speaker 1: but in the spa, and you got to choose different things,
Speaker 1: like a facial or a massage, and so I got
Speaker 1: a facial and a massage, and there was only one guy,
Speaker 1: and I would rather have a girl. And I was
Speaker 1: the only one that got this man, so no one
Speaker 1: else had this experience. But he was like probably seventy
Speaker 1: I would say, like, and he kept like, he kept moaning.
Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding. He was making the worst sounds.
Speaker 1: I almost got up. Oh that's I don't know why
Speaker 1: you didn't. I don't like story. This is enough. I
Speaker 1: was like, is this can't be normal. I just didn't
Speaker 1: want to cause a scene, you know, with all this
Speaker 1: bachelorette party either, because I was the one that planned it,
Speaker 1: so I didn't want to walk out and be like
Speaker 1: this guy is disgusting, and like ruin it and it
Speaker 1: was thirty minutes. In the longest thirty minutes in my life.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, you like asked to go get
Speaker 1: an actual massage and like one that you will enjoy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it made me very uncomfortable. I feel like he should
Speaker 1: have been reported because he kept going on the side
Speaker 1: like inappropriate, like not good. Now that I look back,
Speaker 1: it's just not good at all. No, So now I'm
Speaker 1: scarred because I'm like thinking, I'm like, I think I've
Speaker 1: had my side touched, but it was like they were
Speaker 1: like massaging full body. I never felt uncomfortable. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he lowered like the pet towel down below down
Speaker 1: like my butt. Who but yeah, yes, and I'm like
Speaker 1: that's not necessary. Yeah, no, they don't expose the whole
Speaker 1: buy what does that have? This is like one of
Speaker 1: the best rated spas in Kansas City. Yeah, that's not good.
Speaker 1: You should have reported that. I should have lesson learned. Okay,
Speaker 1: and you also need to go like and get legit
Speaker 1: massage so you can know that they're the most amazing
Speaker 1: thing ever. Okay, yeah, because they are good and normal things.
Speaker 1: That does not happen. I promise you Okay, good, So
Speaker 1: that's on your list now is it? Go get an
Speaker 1: actual massage and you got to like have a better experience,
Speaker 1: because gosh it's terrible. I know, I hate to hear
Speaker 1: that I got on that, but oh yeah, okay. What's
Speaker 1: the wildest thing you've ever done? The wildest thing I've
Speaker 1: ever done? Oh gosh, wild wild. It's always like a
Speaker 1: vacherette parties. I don't know how exactly like my oy,
Speaker 1: bring on the wild, bring me the stories out. We
Speaker 1: just were like dancing like on tabletops, and I have
Speaker 1: videos and yeah, I look like wild. Yeah that's wild.
Speaker 1: We did, you know, speaking of bachelorette parties, when I
Speaker 1: went to Tampa from my girlfriend's bachelotte this past year,
Speaker 1: we went to a bar and the place there was
Speaker 1: doing some type of their video promotions, and so they
Speaker 1: gave us champagne bottles to pop and spray on everyone.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was a oh I did it. I
Speaker 1: did it, and I went wild and I was in
Speaker 1: my knee on my like rave outfit and I had
Speaker 1: my sparkly bright in flashing scrunches on my space buns
Speaker 1: and I'm on stage is like popping it and then
Speaker 1: I just shake it and spray it on everyone. It
Speaker 1: was crazy. It was a crazy experience. That's fun though.
Speaker 1: It was fun, But I definitely think a lot of
Speaker 1: people hated me that I sprayed up, but I got
Speaker 1: told that I had to do it. What I was
Speaker 1: the only way I got free champagne. And you know
Speaker 1: your girl's gonna do just about anything for some free alcohol. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then it's you that they get mad at the
Speaker 1: ones that like did their hair. But I never saw
Speaker 1: them again, so it didn't even matter. That's true. I
Speaker 1: think i'd be kind of mad. Yeah, there is, like champagne.
Speaker 1: It's fair. But if I see listen, if I ever
Speaker 1: even see a champagne bottle at a bar, I know
Speaker 1: what's coming and I avoid the area. So yeah, it's
Speaker 1: on them. They weren't pay att engine, that's true, you know,
Speaker 1: but I did do that. So I'm with you on
Speaker 1: the craziness at bachelorette parties. Okay, listen, girls get wild
Speaker 1: my bachelorette parties. They do. They don't do anything like stupid.
Speaker 1: Nothing they're going to regret. M None of the ones
Speaker 1: I've been on, it's never like things you regret. It's
Speaker 1: just like you just really get wild and it's like
Speaker 1: ladies night out genuinely, yes, full on, like no cares
Speaker 1: in the world. That's what happens, no cares at all,
Speaker 1: and they're amazing. Yeah. And then in Austin, which I
Speaker 1: can't believe I did this. I don't know why I
Speaker 1: did this. Most everybody else like went back to the house.
Speaker 1: It was like twenty girls at the house and me
Speaker 1: and another girl. I don't know why we got the
Speaker 1: idea to do this and I don't even know if
Speaker 1: we could put it. But we went to a strip club,
Speaker 1: which I, well, I don't do that, Like, why would
Speaker 1: I even want I just haven't ever done that. I
Speaker 1: had never been to one. I was like, why not,
Speaker 1: I'm out of town whatever, and I didn't. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was weird. It was weird. I was like those
Speaker 1: girls up there dancing. It was very out of place. Hey,
Speaker 1: people feel different things about it. There's it's across the
Speaker 1: board of those Indians. People feel about it. So um.
Speaker 1: It was like a wild wider like a wild hair
Speaker 1: moment from I was just like, why not, I'm probably
Speaker 1: not gonna do this thing. It's not like I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go in Nashville that's weird. You had to you had
Speaker 1: to do it once in your lifetime kind of thing.
Speaker 1: I feel you. Okay, I don't think it's a bad thing.
Speaker 1: That's Yes, it's allowed to be part of this. Hey, somebody,
Speaker 1: some girls are out there just making their living, that's
Speaker 1: what they're doing. Yes, that's true. So hey, and they're
Speaker 1: proud of their bodies. So we'll leave it on that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like it, like wild hair Abbey. Okay, nice, I'll
Speaker 1: leave it at that. There's probably more stories. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: can't you tell those? Those can be reported in public form. Yeah.
Speaker 1: What would your superhero power be? Oh? Man, oh, well,
Speaker 1: minded me go back time? Is that one? Is that
Speaker 1: like a superhero power? Yeah? Okay, here this way, give
Speaker 1: me the one that you want, and then give me
Speaker 1: one that you actually have. And it could be like
Speaker 1: like obviously something to be like I can see through things,
Speaker 1: but like your genuine superpower. And I'll let you think
Speaker 1: about this, let me let me break down mine and
Speaker 1: maybe that'll help you with an idea. Yeah. So, if
Speaker 1: I had a superpower, like actual legit from the movies,
Speaker 1: it would be to be able to run super fast,
Speaker 1: because in running super fast, you can get away from things.
Speaker 1: You're basically invisible and you can travel through time. It's
Speaker 1: like the one that you have like all the abilities
Speaker 1: through and you can like go on trips and you're
Speaker 1: there in a flash. Basically, the flash is who I
Speaker 1: would want to be. Yeah, that would be like my
Speaker 1: actual superpower, but my my real superpower in real life.
Speaker 1: And it's funny. The reason this happens is because I
Speaker 1: was I was talking to like my mom and my
Speaker 1: therapist and like, your actual like genuine superpower is the
Speaker 1: ability to have a thief for other people regardless of
Speaker 1: a situation, like even in the worst of times, darkest times,
Speaker 1: like you have hope, you have empathy, and I've learned
Speaker 1: to own that. But it's a dang, it's a she's
Speaker 1: not pretty one sometimes and she's not fun to have.
Speaker 1: But um, most of the time, I do really enjoy that.
Speaker 1: That is my superpower. I like that. Yeah. Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to also be good about, you know, complimenting myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: out of myself. We need more of that because we
Speaker 1: don't think of those things like oh, what am I
Speaker 1: really good at? Or what makes me who I am?
Speaker 1: You know, in my on the flip side of that
Speaker 1: coined the revenge side of Morgan. I guess you can say,
Speaker 1: as Taylor would say, the dark side of me would
Speaker 1: be that I have an uncanny ability. If somebody does
Speaker 1: me wrong, I can turn them off like a light switch,
Speaker 1: and I will never look back. There will never be
Speaker 1: a second thought in my brain. I'm really good. It's
Speaker 1: it's the dark side of this empathy is that I
Speaker 1: will give out that empathy like nobody's business, and I
Speaker 1: will give second chances. But if I if something happens
Speaker 1: and you give me a reason, I will turn that
Speaker 1: off with no question and I will not. Like the
Speaker 1: best metaphor I can give is like, if somebody puts
Speaker 1: gasoline on a fire, I will be the one to
Speaker 1: set the match, and I will not I will do
Speaker 1: it in a movie and I'll turn around and I
Speaker 1: will never speak to you again. Wow. Yes, which is good.
Speaker 1: That's hard to do. Teach me very hard to do.
Speaker 1: Teach me your ways. But like I said, it takes
Speaker 1: steps for me to get to that point. But when
Speaker 1: I do, it is not good. For Like, if that
Speaker 1: person on the other side ever wants something else, like
Speaker 1: it's like if they were to talk to me, it'd
Speaker 1: be like they're talking to robot Morgan, like there's no
Speaker 1: light in my eyes in a way. Yeah, no, I
Speaker 1: feel my dark and my light superpowers. My love it.
Speaker 1: We'll peek into Morgan's brain. Yes, Okay, did I help
Speaker 1: you come up with one? Okay, So the one that
Speaker 1: I would want to have would be be invisible. I
Speaker 1: know that's kind of part of yours. Hey, it's okay,
Speaker 1: Like I just want to be able to go anywhere
Speaker 1: and spy on people, see all the yes, right, and
Speaker 1: like I don't know, I don't even know what all
Speaker 1: you could do of being invisible, but I feel like
Speaker 1: you can do a lot of things. You can also
Speaker 1: steal a lot of things. That's how I was kind
Speaker 1: of thinking. I was like, you could like rig the
Speaker 1: lottery or something. I don't know totally, it's already rigged.
Speaker 1: It's already rigged. Maybe maybe Bobby Shure seems to think.
Speaker 1: So that's what you mentioned on the show this week.
Speaker 1: I know, I feel like after this week that was
Speaker 1: a lot it is possible, Like billions, there's nothing that's
Speaker 1: impossible at this point in our lives. Let's just throw
Speaker 1: that out there. M Yeah, okay, And then the other
Speaker 1: Oh my superpower, I would say is listening. Like I'm
Speaker 1: way better at listening and letting people like feel comfortable
Speaker 1: around me. I feel like all my friends always come
Speaker 1: to me because I just like listen. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: not wanting to like talk, I'm just there to be
Speaker 1: like a listening ear. And I feel like that's hard
Speaker 1: sometimes because a lot of people in this world like
Speaker 1: to talk about themselves. We're you know, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of hard to get a conversation. And so I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm just going to be the listener. I'm not going
Speaker 1: to judge, and I'm going to give you advice if
Speaker 1: I have it, which I feel like I do have
Speaker 1: good advice. I don't take any of it myself, but like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, like dating advice, I'll give you all of it,
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to listen. But I think that's
Speaker 1: a really important quality to be able to be a
Speaker 1: good listener, because you are right and that we don't
Speaker 1: have a lot of good listeners. And the also ability
Speaker 1: that something you've said in there is to not judge.
Speaker 1: It is really easy to judge people. It's very easy
Speaker 1: to see something and be like I wouldn't have done it.
Speaker 1: That way or this is the correct way to do it,
Speaker 1: and there's no other way. Having being able to listen
Speaker 1: and not judge that is definitely a superpower for sure.
Speaker 1: I know, and I feel like people when they are
Speaker 1: talking they're like, oh my gosh, don't judge me, and
Speaker 1: I'm like I have to be like, oh, that's not
Speaker 1: at all. I would never judge you because I know
Speaker 1: I have things that are you know, I feel like
Speaker 1: people could judge me for but I'm not going to judge.
Speaker 1: We all have things going on, are We all make mistakes. See,
Speaker 1: and that is your superpower. Boom, I love it. See,
Speaker 1: I'm good. We're talking about superpowers. Okay. We also had
Speaker 1: a super awkward moment that happens on the show this week.
Speaker 1: Lunchbox asked Breland for tickets to his show, which shoan
Speaker 1: I Twain. So basically what happened this CMA week. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of CMA content in here because it's been
Speaker 1: CMA Week and so much CMA events and work We've
Speaker 1: had to do. Well pre CMA Awards, we had two
Speaker 1: days full of remotes where we do a bunch of interviews,
Speaker 1: and during one of these interviews, Lunchbox interviewed Breland and
Speaker 1: he asked them for tickets and it was incredibly awkward.
Speaker 1: Abby and I were both there and I was like,
Speaker 1: did this really just happen in real life? So uncomfortable? Yes,
Speaker 1: And you guys will hear it for yourself. You don't
Speaker 1: hear the audio in the best bits, just the bits.
Speaker 1: But do you have any awkward running or just an
Speaker 1: awkward encounter with someone recently? And I have to tell
Speaker 1: you about this because obviously with Cmas, I would and
Speaker 1: got my nails done, keep them. I get my nails
Speaker 1: on maybe two three times a year. I'm really not
Speaker 1: somebody that goes and gets my nails done, mostly because
Speaker 1: I'm my feet are incredibly ticklish. I hate people suching
Speaker 1: my feet and too. I just I feel better about
Speaker 1: doing it myself instead of going to pay for all. Right,
Speaker 1: I'm really weird about that. But my nail lady, so
Speaker 1: she did my petticure and it's great and they all
Speaker 1: turned out beautifully, like they're wonderful. She did a great job.
Speaker 1: But the lady while she was doing my nails, like,
Speaker 1: my hands are up. Okay, so let me pay the picture.
Speaker 1: If you've never gone and got a manicure before you
Speaker 1: have your hands up and they're sitting on this table
Speaker 1: and you kind of have like your elbows on the
Speaker 1: table and they're like working on your nails. And I
Speaker 1: had both of them up and she's straight up kept
Speaker 1: hitting my hand, who telling me to relax, like and
Speaker 1: instead of just saying, hey, releaxt your hand and like
Speaker 1: just allowing me to do it, she kept hitting them. Why,
Speaker 1: like I was even smacked by my mother some capacity
Speaker 1: they're being scolded. Yes, it was not straight, and she
Speaker 1: did it multiple times. And I wasn't even like purposely
Speaker 1: trying to be tense. I was just like I was
Speaker 1: paid attention to other things in my hands were just
Speaker 1: kind of existing and she just like it was the
Speaker 1: most aggressive someone has ever been to me in a
Speaker 1: capacity where I was paying them. Yes, that just did
Speaker 1: she say anything or she just kind of like, I'm
Speaker 1: no sure enough? She just kept doing it. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And finally I think my aunt was like, I've had
Speaker 1: enough being hit at, so I'm just gonna like not
Speaker 1: do that anymore. It's like red when you leave, Yeah,
Speaker 1: hitting it? What is going on? That is stright? That's interesting,
Speaker 1: right for sure? But yes, awkward. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like I still tipped a rule because honestly, Minds
Speaker 1: looked really great, so so it was worth it. Maybe
Speaker 1: it was worth it, But honestly, I just don't. I
Speaker 1: do not know what happened. I've never had someone so
Speaker 1: passively aggressive yell at me no, and that's okay. I
Speaker 1: know it was a very weird encounter firm. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: have you had any like just kind of awkward encounters
Speaker 1: that you're like, what is happening? Well, I kind of
Speaker 1: did this week when Nate Smith came to the remote. Yes,
Speaker 1: Like I saw him walking down the hallway and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh. I like he was coming
Speaker 1: towards our booth and I was like, I lunchbox was
Speaker 1: still there at this point, and I was like, can
Speaker 1: they he not talk to him? I was like, let's
Speaker 1: just I don't want him to see him because I
Speaker 1: know what he's gonna do and then he's gonna make
Speaker 1: it more uncomfortable. Because I don't even think Nate didn't
Speaker 1: even know any of this was going on where everybody
Speaker 1: thought it was flirty, Like I don't think he even
Speaker 1: knew we were talking about that. No, and so I
Speaker 1: knew that would be awkward for him and Lunchbox would
Speaker 1: make it whatever. And so I just came and sat
Speaker 1: on the cher because I thought we were done. I
Speaker 1: didn't know if we were gonna stay any longer. And
Speaker 1: that's when Nate was like the Lunchbox was like, who's that? Oh?
Speaker 1: Is that your boy? I'm like, no, it's not, like,
Speaker 1: why do you call it my boy? Like we interview
Speaker 1: people all the time, but you don't call it, you know.
Speaker 1: And so luckily he laughed and then you talked to him.
Speaker 1: He did, we did. Lunchbox at least listened to us
Speaker 1: and saying that he couldn't do it. Yes, he actually did.
Speaker 1: But I was like, I feel like, now every time
Speaker 1: I seen Nate, it's just gonna be awkward. Now, I
Speaker 1: don't think so, because in that conversation when I did
Speaker 1: talk to him, that's why I wanted to clear or
Speaker 1: the air, because the reality is if he didn't hear it,
Speaker 1: he's likely going to hear it from someone. So at
Speaker 1: the very least it was a conversation that was like
Speaker 1: you were there, you could have your your say in
Speaker 1: the matter, and it wasn't going to be awkward. At
Speaker 1: the end of it. Yeah, So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: we're clearing the air and then you move forward and
Speaker 1: there's no more talk about it. That's true, at least
Speaker 1: I tried. Yes, no, you don't, I think with my help,
Speaker 1: but we'll see. I think he handled it well. He
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like the weird, like awkward type, but I
Speaker 1: was just it was awkward for me because I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't want him to feel weird. It was you
Speaker 1: know what's funny too about lunchboxes. I've noticed something about him.
Speaker 1: He loves just to fill the void because lunchbox. This
Speaker 1: is where a lunchbox and I are polar opposite, is
Speaker 1: that he can handle anything uncomfortable. He loves uncomfortable. If
Speaker 1: he like loves that, he thrives off of it. I
Speaker 1: hate it. I hate being an uncomfortable situation. It makes
Speaker 1: me very very like I start giggling, I start laughing
Speaker 1: because I don't know what else to do. Even just
Speaker 1: like sitting in the office before we were recording this podcast,
Speaker 1: he's losing his voice, as some people heard on the
Speaker 1: show this week, and from so much yelling, and I
Speaker 1: told him, I'm like, lunchbox, your voice is just louder
Speaker 1: than the average person, so it's going to be more
Speaker 1: fragile when you go and you really yell loudly. And
Speaker 1: then we were sitting in here and people would walk
Speaker 1: by and he'd make like one comments, like one offhanded
Speaker 1: comments at him and like say something. I'm like, Lunchbox,
Speaker 1: you literally need to be on vocal restraint. Do you
Speaker 1: not understand like that you are making this worse on yourself.
Speaker 1: And finally, for all of you know, about thirty minutes
Speaker 1: we were sitting in this room the studio, and he
Speaker 1: did not say one word. And it is the quietest
Speaker 1: I've ever heard Lunchbox in his entire life. Because the
Speaker 1: thing I finally got through to him, I was like, Lunchbox,
Speaker 1: you actually have to get better, and the only way
Speaker 1: you're gonna get better is if you stopped talking. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's probably the first time he's ever done that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he probably hated every minute of it. Into Yes,
Speaker 1: he did. He kept making like hand gestures from at people.
Speaker 1: I'm like, Lunchbox, just for you don't have to say anything.
Speaker 1: Just let people actually walk by without you saying something.
Speaker 1: To say something you don't It's like anytime there's any
Speaker 1: moment of silence. I mean, it's just like him just
Speaker 1: coming through, and I'm like, we could have just stood
Speaker 1: here like normal people and just let there be silence exactly.
Speaker 1: But he doesn't like that. No, he doesn't. He does
Speaker 1: not give any silence. So I'm glad that I could
Speaker 1: assist in the Natesmith situation, but definitely sorry you had
Speaker 1: to feel awkward again. Yeah, that's fine. I have another
Speaker 1: one though that I wanted to ask. Oh yeah, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: So I was at the mall and I saw Shay
Speaker 1: from Dan and Shay and his wife okay, yes. So
Speaker 1: I was leaving and they were coming down the escalator
Speaker 1: and I was, my eyes are so bad. I just
Speaker 1: saw a couple with like dark hair and blonde hair,
Speaker 1: and I didn't think anything of it. So I get
Speaker 1: on the escalator and I'm going down like to the
Speaker 1: parking garage, and so they started coming down, so we
Speaker 1: faced each other at one point, oh yeah, and I
Speaker 1: just kind of I looked up really quick and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's Shay, and then I for something
Speaker 1: like I just automatically like looked like turn my head
Speaker 1: the opposite way, like so weird. And I was like
Speaker 1: Why did you just have that reaction? You know, because
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't want I didn't even know what
Speaker 1: to do because he kind of walked by me, you know,
Speaker 1: and he usually I mean, he's interviewed more by Bobby
Speaker 1: or like you during remotes and all that, and so
Speaker 1: I don't really talk to them much like one on one.
Speaker 1: I don't think they would know my name, I guess,
Speaker 1: but they probably know my face from being in the studio.
Speaker 1: But I should have just should I have just been like, hey, Shane,
Speaker 1: what's up? But he's with his wife, you know, Like
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. Yeah, I mean, even
Speaker 1: if you don't want to that you would like say anything.
Speaker 1: You could always just give a smile. I just kind
Speaker 1: of like acknowledge, yeah, that he may know who you are, yeah,
Speaker 1: or you just I mean, honestly, I don't know that
Speaker 1: it was awkward that you did that either, because I've
Speaker 1: done that before where I see him and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I wasn't looking like it wasn't like I was trying
Speaker 1: to make sure they didn't know that I didn't look. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just was like I'm trying not to make sure
Speaker 1: they don't think I'm just staring at them. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: I don't think what you did was uncomfortable. I didn't
Speaker 1: do it, but I do think he would have said
Speaker 1: hi to you if you're like, hey, how are you? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be like hey, how's it going,
Speaker 1: he'd be like good. I don't know. Honestly, even at
Speaker 1: the end of the day, he still could have just
Speaker 1: thought you were like a fan. Yeah, even if it
Speaker 1: wasn't like from the show, it would have been like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's a fan, and he probably would not have thought
Speaker 1: twice about it. Yeah. It's just kind of funny because
Speaker 1: I really didn't know with him. So if I would
Speaker 1: have known at the first time when I saw them
Speaker 1: from far away, I probably would have like been like okay,
Speaker 1: just like say hi. But it just kind of caught
Speaker 1: me off card because they were so close, because they
Speaker 1: were coming down the escalator as I was going to
Speaker 1: get so weep. Well, and those are awkward just in general.
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be anybody faces on the other side.
Speaker 1: Those are just awkward when you pass and you make
Speaker 1: eye contact exactly. It was just like in passing and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, wait, I know him, but what
Speaker 1: do I do, so I don't. It's just always we'd
Speaker 1: been there with family or something and on a day
Speaker 1: you don't want to bother them. But yeah, I think
Speaker 1: he would have cared. No, he totally wouldn't know. He
Speaker 1: would be like, hey, what's up. I know, and then
Speaker 1: you guys would have been about your day. So I
Speaker 1: definitely made it more than it was or needed to be.
Speaker 1: But yeah, he didn't think anything of it. I don't
Speaker 1: at all. Probably No, you probably didn't. Nope, Okay, that's
Speaker 1: a good one. Time. I like it. Next time you
Speaker 1: say hi, yeah, I feel like what's up? All right,
Speaker 1: you're encouraged to say hi, and we both have to
Speaker 1: go give massages. That's what we've learned so far. Also
Speaker 1: on the show this week, I reviewed a new nineties
Speaker 1: movie in the Millennial Movie Review. I watched a Spintura
Speaker 1: Pet Detective for the first time, and I loved it.
Speaker 1: And you can get that full review on the Best
Speaker 1: Bits Just the Bits or Bobby Bones dot Com, either
Speaker 1: one you want. But I really did love it. Besides
Speaker 1: watching this though, because I was homesick and like I said,
Speaker 1: I was watching television for like thirty six hours. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: I watched so many things. Really, I got lots of reviews,
Speaker 1: Oh good, you were to make up for my lack
Speaker 1: of Yeah, if you have any new though, I want
Speaker 1: to hear them, but I'm guessing you don't. A couple
Speaker 1: of shows, okay, one show. Hey, we're making progress. This
Speaker 1: is progress, Abby, I mean like it last time I
Speaker 1: had like twenty that's true, but I think that makes
Speaker 1: up for like, it makes up for maybe it. Technically
Speaker 1: we're like weeks since you were last on Abby. Just
Speaker 1: reminder next time. I started watching perphel after Bobby suggested
Speaker 1: it because him and I tend to like similar like
Speaker 1: sci fi shows, and I gave it a try, and
Speaker 1: I don't know what I think yet, Like, I like it.
Speaker 1: It's darker than I wanted it to be, Like when
Speaker 1: I watched sci fi and stuff, I kind of wanted
Speaker 1: to have a little bit of lightheartedness and kind of fun.
Speaker 1: I love Ready ready Player one because it's so it's
Speaker 1: so action packed, but it is still light and you're
Speaker 1: still in I don't know. I don't know how to
Speaker 1: explain this in the best way possible, but he said
Speaker 1: it reminded him of Ready Player one, and that's why
Speaker 1: that's one of my favorite movies of all time, and
Speaker 1: so I wanted to watch this, and I haven't decided
Speaker 1: how I feel. I think I've watched three episodes now
Speaker 1: and it's definitely interesting. I'm definitely intrigued, but it's darker
Speaker 1: than the usual sci fi stuff that I watched so far. Yeah.
Speaker 1: How long are the episodes? Oh they're like over an
Speaker 1: hour long? Oh wow, Bublo movies? Oh my gosh. Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So also, don't you know, I would rather just watch
Speaker 1: a movie at that point, but I'm trying. I'm giving
Speaker 1: it a try. Maybe I might like it as the
Speaker 1: episodes progress. Yeah, because I'm still intrigued enough to keep watching.
Speaker 1: It does not intrigue that miche Im want to watch
Speaker 1: this forever yet. I watched Blonde on Netflix about Marilyn Monroe. Oh,
Speaker 1: how was that as the weirdest movie I've ever seen
Speaker 1: in my life? It was weird? Oh, it was so weird?
Speaker 1: What There were moments that I enjoyed it, and there
Speaker 1: were moments where it was interesting. But this is a
Speaker 1: fictional movie, so which I did not realize. I thought
Speaker 1: it was like a docuseries or basically like a makereal
Speaker 1: documentary where they kind of like reenact things that happen,
Speaker 1: and I think there are moments that are real, but
Speaker 1: it is a fictional movie, and it just I don't
Speaker 1: know the way that they did it, the way they
Speaker 1: created it. I would have thought, like, if you're going
Speaker 1: to do a fictional movie, go all out make it
Speaker 1: a fictional movie. And they made it like square screen,
Speaker 1: so it was like old school. They acted like they
Speaker 1: were adding an old like filment. It was just interesting
Speaker 1: and a lot of the ways they did things were bizarre,
Speaker 1: and it was like two and a half hours long,
Speaker 1: and I just seas it was not like good, Like
Speaker 1: I genuinely did not appreciate it at all. Wow, that's weird.
Speaker 1: I loved the actress who played Marilyn. I think she'd
Speaker 1: be great in any type of Maryland role. But besides that,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just didn't and maybe I'm maybe
Speaker 1: I missed the point on the movie. And that was
Speaker 1: it where I was just like, I don't understand why
Speaker 1: I'm watching this, And halfway through I just kept pausing
Speaker 1: it because I was like, I'm bored, but I kept
Speaker 1: watching it because I was like, maybe it'll get better.
Speaker 1: Maybe never got better. Two and a half hours later
Speaker 1: never gets better. It doesn't a long movie, especially if
Speaker 1: it's not good. So not want to waste your time on. Okay,
Speaker 1: good to know Manifest season four came out. Oh did
Speaker 1: you ever get into Manifest? I did not. Did you
Speaker 1: ever try and watch an episode or anything? Nope? I
Speaker 1: think you could potentially like Manifests. Okay. It's like hit
Speaker 1: or miss. Either people love it or they hate it.
Speaker 1: I love it. It's there's definitely cheese acting. Do not
Speaker 1: get me wrong, there's cheesy acting in the show, but
Speaker 1: I think there's I like something that just kind of
Speaker 1: keeps me on my toes the whole time. I never
Speaker 1: know what's going to happen, and that's what this show is.
Speaker 1: And the season four was like not supposed to happen,
Speaker 1: and so the fact that they were able to do
Speaker 1: a season four and the new episodes are coming out,
Speaker 1: I'm stoked about. Oh and I've binge this all one day.
Speaker 1: That's how much I like, still liked it and enjoyed it.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, one day. That's always really sad though,
Speaker 1: because you're like, okay, now what I left it on
Speaker 1: cliffhanger too, So of course, so I'm waiting for the
Speaker 1: rest of season four to come out and the season
Speaker 1: four is the last one, so that is so sad.
Speaker 1: Why just four? Um, I don't know. Maybe they you know,
Speaker 1: maybe that changes because obviously it changed. They were they
Speaker 1: had gotten canceled from season three from being on television,
Speaker 1: I think is what happened, and so they did like
Speaker 1: the season four streaming for Netflix, and maybe something comes
Speaker 1: from it after because people do really love it. But
Speaker 1: my guesses they're going to in season four with like
Speaker 1: a finale. Okay, so at least it's not Indian on
Speaker 1: a cliffhanger like season three did. Mm so, but it
Speaker 1: is really good. You want something binge worthy, yes, manifest
Speaker 1: I like just except that there might be some cheesiness
Speaker 1: and things where you are like what is going on?
Speaker 1: It's definitely like out of the box kind of thinking.
Speaker 1: But I love that. I love a little out of
Speaker 1: the boxing in are they short? Episodes were like forty
Speaker 1: five minutes okay roughly I could be wrong on that.
Speaker 1: It never felt like it just felt like it just
Speaker 1: kept going. Okay, those are the best. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: there's so many twists and torrents that you're never sitting
Speaker 1: there like, okay, when's the next episode, gotcha. Okay, wait
Speaker 1: you said Netflix, Netflix, Okay, Manifest and there you get
Speaker 1: to watch four seasons, so you'll have plenty there. Yes,
Speaker 1: so that that's one for you. And then Enolah Holmes
Speaker 1: two on Netflix and Nola Holmes so you know Sherlock Holmes,
Speaker 1: those movies. So they made an Enola Holmes last year
Speaker 1: with Millie Bobby Brown. I belive is her name, and
Speaker 1: Henry Caville, isn't it. I also don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: pronouncing that correct either, but they are. They're both in it.
Speaker 1: And I loved the first one and I really loved
Speaker 1: the second one. They're both really good. Oh they're kind
Speaker 1: of like curated Netflix movies. Fictional enjoyed them. They were
Speaker 1: so fun, like easy to watch movies, and I just
Speaker 1: I liked them. And these were all during your when
Speaker 1: you were sick. Yes, you're binging all this, I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: I never left the couch, oh my bed. It was
Speaker 1: either of the couch from my bed. M The only
Speaker 1: times I got up were to feed Remy or take
Speaker 1: her outside. Oh my god. And like you know, you've
Speaker 1: been to my house, right, My house is like very clean.
Speaker 1: I like to make sure everything has a place. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, just the cleanest house I've ever been to.
Speaker 1: I gotta say I felt like the biggest slob. I
Speaker 1: went home and clean my house. I was like, I
Speaker 1: gotta do something. Oh my god. No, I'm not kidding, Like, no,
Speaker 1: it's like amazing. I wish mine was like that. Oh
Speaker 1: well it's not. When I pure chaos enters my life.
Speaker 1: And this was pure chaos. So like, I had things everywhere,
Speaker 1: and I'm telling you, but I couldn't get up to
Speaker 1: move them. I was so sick that there was no
Speaker 1: chance for me to actually go and do the things
Speaker 1: I needed to do. So I just kept watching a
Speaker 1: crap kind of things on TV. And this is my list. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: what about you, What have you watched? Even if it's
Speaker 1: not a lot, maybe watch something it's not a lot,
Speaker 1: but I will say, so October is Halloween, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: like the whole month is basically all Halloween. So I
Speaker 1: watched the movie Halloween and all of the sequel like
Speaker 1: Halloween Returns Wait for the first time. No, no, I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I watched it probably twenty times. I'm not kidding.
Speaker 1: I don't think obsessed with horror movies. I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I really don't really like it's happy to watch those
Speaker 1: on repeet. You know, I think I think it's good
Speaker 1: to have shows to watch on repeet, but I do
Speaker 1: not think it's a good thing to watch horror movies
Speaker 1: on repeat. I don't know what it was. And I
Speaker 1: was questioning this as I was watching. I was like,
Speaker 1: what is happening? Because I love scary movies, but I
Speaker 1: live alone, so I don't want to watch ones that
Speaker 1: are like super jumpy, and I guess I know the
Speaker 1: outcome of those, and so I just I don't know what.
Speaker 1: I'm a little concerned. I don't know what that was.
Speaker 1: Maybe not twenty times, but I think I watched the
Speaker 1: original one like seven times and then hey in October,
Speaker 1: all of them. I'm never going to knock somebody watching
Speaker 1: a movie on repeat. I love it, but just a
Speaker 1: little concern because these are like whole guy, that's yeah,
Speaker 1: like stabbing people and you watched it on repeat, Like
Speaker 1: that has to do something to your brain, abby, does it?
Speaker 1: What does it it has to? I just I cannot believe,
Speaker 1: Like I'm sitting here watching rom coms on repeat, and
Speaker 1: you're watching a man being stabbed over and over. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't be good for your mental health
Speaker 1: on some level capacity I was feeling fine or you
Speaker 1: know what, Maybe it's good for you. Maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's the exact opposite that it's actually really good
Speaker 1: for you. I think it is. Rom Coms don't make
Speaker 1: me feel good. They're not feel good movies to me,
Speaker 1: because I'm just like, get it, I get it. That
Speaker 1: doesn't ever happen to me. So then this is just
Speaker 1: your brain it has the capacity to watch this on
Speaker 1: repeat and know that it's not real. This guy is
Speaker 1: like a super free Maybe it makes you feel nost
Speaker 1: like nostalgic in some way, and that's might be like
Speaker 1: the movies I watch. I can't explain what it is,
Speaker 1: but I was going to go to the newest one
Speaker 1: in theaters but it didn't happen. Nope, just watch the
Speaker 1: others like five times over and basically, yeah, yeah, hey,
Speaker 1: you were in this season. I shouldn't be knocking you
Speaker 1: as hard as I am. I know. I take it back.
Speaker 1: I take it all back. So that is weird. I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know what I was doing. No, I
Speaker 1: take it back. It's not weird. I take it back.
Speaker 1: You don't judge me exactly. I take it back, And
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you found something you enjoy and you
Speaker 1: had fun watching it all month, because it is also
Speaker 1: the only, you know, month of the year that you
Speaker 1: can actually watch that on repeat, right, Maybe that's why
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I only have him right now
Speaker 1: to watch it, so I just need to get it.
Speaker 1: I think you can watch it like all year and
Speaker 1: it really doesn't matter. But it's just like, you know,
Speaker 1: socially acceptable to only watch in October exactly. But like
Speaker 1: I said, we don't care. Oh good, I'm very happy
Speaker 1: for you, Thank you, very proud. I've also been watching
Speaker 1: I think I brought it up last time. But Selling Sunset,
Speaker 1: I'm still obsessed with that. Did you watch the break
Speaker 1: off one of that yet? Selling the mosieh? Yes? Oh
Speaker 1: I already watched that one because that's close to where
Speaker 1: my uncle's house is, so I like that was more.
Speaker 1: They were playing volleyball on the beach he goes too,
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's crazy. But this one, I
Speaker 1: just love the draw. It's so dramatic. I don't like
Speaker 1: a lot of trash TV, but I love trash um,
Speaker 1: real realty television shows. Yeah, because I get to see
Speaker 1: all the fancy houses. Yes, that's what I love the most.
Speaker 1: Like there's like a a ten million dollars listing, and
Speaker 1: I love seeing the commission. I mean it's it's insane. Yes,
Speaker 1: like this one one of them, he sold like a
Speaker 1: forty four million dollar house. Is that crazy? That? Yeah,
Speaker 1: someone that would buy that, But imagine the commission on that.
Speaker 1: I could. I could sell that house only and be
Speaker 1: set like two years right oh yeah, uh huh, Like
Speaker 1: that's crazy to me, but it is so fun to
Speaker 1: And also they're just like amazing, like bad women, Like
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, yes out there like work in it.
Speaker 1: It amazes me that they do that. Those are good ones.
Speaker 1: Those are good recommendations. Yeah, yeah, that's a good one.
Speaker 1: So that's basically I've been been binge watching. Now I'm
Speaker 1: just picturing you watching Halloween and then going to Selling Sunset,
Speaker 1: and then going back to Halloween and then watching Selling
Speaker 1: OC and look onto my brain. Interesting world. That's a lot.
Speaker 1: It's it's your world, and I love it for you
Speaker 1: because it makes you happy. I don't know if I
Speaker 1: love that for me, you don't. That's that's so weird,
Speaker 1: like something's going on in my brain. I watched Superhero
Speaker 1: movies on repeat, like I will probably go home because
Speaker 1: I'm so tired and I don't want to watch them.
Speaker 1: New that I'll probably put on a vendors in game. Okay,
Speaker 1: how many times? Yeah? I see how many times have
Speaker 1: you seen that? Oh? A lot? It's all of the
Speaker 1: Marvel movies are my comfort movies. Yeah, And if I
Speaker 1: just need something on to not think about, I'll put
Speaker 1: those on. I think that's what it was, because a
Speaker 1: lot I was like working at night and then i'd
Speaker 1: have Halloween on, and then you know, like it's like
Speaker 1: this background, I'm tabet up this story about lunchbox. He's
Speaker 1: going to the store to do this. Oh, Jason just
Speaker 1: killed somebody. My Harry is Michael? What is it? I
Speaker 1: don't seeing the Halloween movies. Oh my gosh, Well you
Speaker 1: haven't even seen him. No, I haven't watched the first one.
Speaker 1: I don't like horror movies. I think you might like
Speaker 1: this one though. It's kind of different, because I mean,
Speaker 1: I do not think he's a world that I like
Speaker 1: horror movies. But he is like so strong. He's kind
Speaker 1: of like Hulk, but he wears a mask. You cannot
Speaker 1: try and turn this into a superhero. There's no world
Speaker 1: for that. Fixus. I'm just saying so you know it's
Speaker 1: not like real and it's not based on a true
Speaker 1: because my brain hit you on talking about like what
Speaker 1: is my brain doing? Like I would watch that, I'd
Speaker 1: be like, No, that could happen in real life. You'd
Speaker 1: figure that out. Somebody can figure that out. Huh, what's
Speaker 1: gonna happen to me tomorrow? Maybe tonight? Actually, and just
Speaker 1: the masks a creepy yeah, yeah, and like just the
Speaker 1: freaking the ability anything that could possibly fat This is
Speaker 1: why I love superhero shows because ninety nine percent of
Speaker 1: the time it's not gonna come true. It's very fake. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but this stuff horror movies. Yes, that could absolutely happen.
Speaker 1: But it's a spoiler. But it's been out forever. I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's a spoiler. Okay, just say a
Speaker 1: spoiler and then you can tell me because I tell
Speaker 1: you to watch it. Yeah. Well, they kill him off
Speaker 1: at the end of every movie, and he comes back
Speaker 1: to life every movie somehow, so that you know that's
Speaker 1: not real at all, Like he does not die he
Speaker 1: just true. They shoot him a thousand times and he
Speaker 1: does not die. They stab him, they hit him with things.
Speaker 1: He gets knocked out, and he always gets back up.
Speaker 1: That's the thing, Like, he gets back up. He's a
Speaker 1: superhero villain. Yeah, killer horror movie. Maybe that's why I'm inspired.
Speaker 1: He gets knocked down, but he gets right back up again.
Speaker 1: Knocked down and I get up again, you know, kind
Speaker 1: of gave me down. Oh that's sad. No, that's that's crazy. Okay. Hey,
Speaker 1: maybe sometime I will watch with you, Okay, next Halloween. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just catch one of the times I watch. It. May
Speaker 1: be I'm not committing to that entirely, but maybe you
Speaker 1: have me at least enticed. Okay. And then during the
Speaker 1: day maybe too, Yeah, definitely during the day. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you know, maybe somebody lives with me at that moment,
Speaker 1: because I don't want to be going home by muzzlf
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't want you to be you might
Speaker 1: get married, ye, No, okay, okay, yeah that was fun.
Speaker 1: U the loser of Amy Verse lunchbox at a sardine
Speaker 1: with whip cream this week. Disgusting. No, And I'm very
Speaker 1: glad that they're at least listening to my dietary restrictions
Speaker 1: when I play Older Verse Millennial and I lose often
Speaker 1: that I've never had to eat a sardine and I
Speaker 1: will never have to eat a sardine because I am vegetarian.
Speaker 1: But you're a lucky, disgusting Yeah, oh, I would not have.
Speaker 1: I don't eat fish like, I just don't. And I
Speaker 1: don't think I could have done it. What if you
Speaker 1: don't do it? What happens? You know, I've never found out.
Speaker 1: I've never said no, not find out. That's the problem.
Speaker 1: When you're there, there's no no. Yeah, it doesn't feel
Speaker 1: like it's just anywhere you can say no. So I'm
Speaker 1: not sure. Like even like with the shot Amy got,
Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't. I don't think I would have
Speaker 1: survived that. You know, I think it's a pride thing
Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, like sitting in that studio and
Speaker 1: if somebody tells me I have to do something, even
Speaker 1: as much as I don't want to do it, it's
Speaker 1: a pride thing because I will forever know that I
Speaker 1: didn't do it, and then I will get crap for
Speaker 1: forever not doing it. That I would never live it down.
Speaker 1: And it's almost like the painful, like you're acquitted. Response
Speaker 1: of doing whatever I have to do is better than
Speaker 1: the month's worth of aguing the people, of saying you
Speaker 1: never did it, but that one that what was it again?
Speaker 1: Like scream, Oh my gosh. I like she just like
Speaker 1: kept eating the whipped cream. She doesn't make it. Ay, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I would do, same. I do you know
Speaker 1: this is not at all related to Sardians whipped cream
Speaker 1: or Amy versus lunchbox. Do you have any dating updates
Speaker 1: you want to talk about, any dating life things you
Speaker 1: want to chat and share. I'm honestly off of the
Speaker 1: dating apps. I have not visited them since the last one. Dang. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was serious when I said that. I just it's
Speaker 1: just too much, you know, like we only went on
Speaker 1: two dates, but I feel like I get to know
Speaker 1: these people so much. Like everybody's saying, I jump in
Speaker 1: really fast, and I like, just go all in. But
Speaker 1: how what are you supposed to do when they're asking
Speaker 1: you tons of questions? Like you're trying to get to
Speaker 1: know each other, right, so they're like, leave mystery? What
Speaker 1: am I supposed to do to be? Like, I'll answer
Speaker 1: you like fifth date, I don't think it's as much
Speaker 1: that I think because I know I totally know what
Speaker 1: you mean when you're talking to someone and you're you
Speaker 1: want to get to know them and find out things
Speaker 1: about them. I think if you're ever in a conversation
Speaker 1: and you're like, Okay, well I can share this, or
Speaker 1: I could share all of this, it's only in those
Speaker 1: questions where you're like, I'm just going to share this
Speaker 1: right now, yeah, and then you can share kind of
Speaker 1: the rest later would be the potential idea for like
Speaker 1: saving mystery. But I also like, I don't necessarily believe
Speaker 1: in that either, because I also I'm listen at this point,
Speaker 1: like now I do not day crap anymore. I'm done, like,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm out, you got, you got? You want to
Speaker 1: be asked your way, you want to play games like
Speaker 1: I'm out like or I'm not messing with that anymore.
Speaker 1: And so the idea of being mysterious is playing a game.
Speaker 1: You're playing into the ability that they can play hard
Speaker 1: to get and the whole you're back to square one
Speaker 1: with dating games with that idea. So I don't know
Speaker 1: that I agree with it. However, I do agree that
Speaker 1: you just can't give every part of yourself the first
Speaker 1: few days, and some of that I think comes in
Speaker 1: you know, kissing and all of hook up culture and
Speaker 1: stuff too. Maybe that's where you pull back. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you do that. I'm saying, in general,
Speaker 1: this is my brain thinking of things when I'm going
Speaker 1: to like start going on dates again, that I would
Speaker 1: make sure that that's something that comes definitely coupled dates later,
Speaker 1: because that is something I can pull back without taking
Speaker 1: away from who I am, and it establishes do I
Speaker 1: actually want this person that part of my life? Right? Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: that's exactly. So maybe that's like the way, and I
Speaker 1: think you're already doing that based on just like our
Speaker 1: personal conversation. So I don't think it's actually you do
Speaker 1: anything wrong. I think genuinely what it is is dating
Speaker 1: in the culture that we're in right now. It's so
Speaker 1: freaking hard, and I genuinely don't think there's a rulebook,
Speaker 1: and I don't think there's anything that you have been
Speaker 1: doing that's wrong. I think we can always work on
Speaker 1: ourselves and do things better. But that comes it's so
Speaker 1: funny that people are like, well do this or do
Speaker 1: this different? You have to be in relationships and be
Speaker 1: willing to be in relationships of some capacity with people
Speaker 1: to learn more things about yourself. Yes, And so it's
Speaker 1: funny too when I hear people say, like, I'm working
Speaker 1: on myself, I can't be with someone, and there is
Speaker 1: a level of that you got to make sure like
Speaker 1: you are strong on your own. But it's funny when
Speaker 1: I like meet guys and they are like they have
Speaker 1: that figured out, they have themselves figured out, but then
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, you know, I got to work on this,
Speaker 1: when really the things they need to work on are
Speaker 1: involved in relationships, but they don't want to actually work
Speaker 1: on it, so they don't be in a relationship. So
Speaker 1: the easy way out is just avoiding it all together. Yep.
Speaker 1: But it's not going to fix itself if you don't
Speaker 1: have You have to physically make yourself vulnerable be in
Speaker 1: a relationship, learn about it to grow from that. And like,
Speaker 1: that's what I've learned because that's where I'm at, Like
Speaker 1: I'm at a place where like even still I've even
Speaker 1: worked through a lot of my relationship issues by being
Speaker 1: in relation ships, dating people and things. But that's always
Speaker 1: going to be a part of who I am. I've
Speaker 1: been cheated on way too much in my life, Like
Speaker 1: that's never going away. Oh yeah, that will continually be
Speaker 1: something that I will always have to work on in
Speaker 1: any new relationship I get into and probably for the
Speaker 1: rest of my life. That's just it's a scar. It's there.
Speaker 1: And so it's funny to me when people are like,
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't work on that, and it's more
Speaker 1: of a capacity because they don't want to be vulnerable
Speaker 1: and actually grow past it. They just want to think
Speaker 1: that they can fix it by themselves, when reality is
Speaker 1: so much of a lot of our relationship issues and
Speaker 1: trauma and things like that have to be fixed in
Speaker 1: relations like that's literally the purpose of it. I know.
Speaker 1: That's why I don't understand. Yeah, And it's like I
Speaker 1: don't go on many dates and I make sure that
Speaker 1: they are in it, like for the long term, they're
Speaker 1: not just messing around, Like I make it clear that
Speaker 1: that's what I'm looking for, is something serious, and they
Speaker 1: make it clear too. And so that's why I get
Speaker 1: so confused why it keeps happening, because you would think
Speaker 1: like that would happen if I if I didn't establish
Speaker 1: what I'm looking for, you know, and it's like they
Speaker 1: say all these things you want to hear, but when
Speaker 1: it comes down to it, they're basically lying, or it
Speaker 1: just their actions aren't matching their words and that just
Speaker 1: happens all the time, or like or if it's if
Speaker 1: it's like that is their way of getting out of
Speaker 1: a situation, like just be honest. Really, hey, this isn't
Speaker 1: working for me. M cool, cool, cool, Well move on, cool.
Speaker 1: Appreciate you saying that now. I would so much rather
Speaker 1: you say that than just like ghosts I yeah, or
Speaker 1: you know, just have a oh I'm working on myself
Speaker 1: kind of excuse. Well, And that's it's funny too, is
Speaker 1: there's so on like on the dating apps. Obviously you
Speaker 1: go out off of them, but I think what's funny
Speaker 1: is one of the things on there is you're what
Speaker 1: does it say. I'm looking at this right now, and
Speaker 1: before I forget what I was, it asked you what
Speaker 1: you want in a relationship if you're like just dating,
Speaker 1: if you want like a long term or you're open
Speaker 1: to a short term, or you want like a live partner.
Speaker 1: And I think it's funny. I pay attention to that
Speaker 1: more now than I ever have. Wait, so you're on
Speaker 1: dating apps. Yeah, really, Yeah, it's interesting. It's been an
Speaker 1: interesting thing to dive back into. But your girl has
Speaker 1: a lot of matches on here. Wait? Yeah, is this
Speaker 1: like have you talked about this with anyone? Is this new?
Speaker 1: I want to talk about that. I don't care. You don't.
Speaker 1: I don't care you're on them? Um? Okay? Yeah, And
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm actually like something's going to
Speaker 1: come from any of it, as more so as I'm
Speaker 1: just like, you know, moving on, putting myself out there,
Speaker 1: next step. I'm very like good at moving forward. Do
Speaker 1: you want to talk about what happened? Or you're just
Speaker 1: moving forward? You know? I think over time it'll come out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and all of that. But yeah, I am single again, okay,
Speaker 1: and I am on dating apps. Well, welcome to the club.
Speaker 1: I don't think I want to be a part of it,
Speaker 1: but you know, I'm still here. Yeah, let me know
Speaker 1: how those go, because I'm causing them for a while.
Speaker 1: I am supposed to have a date coming up soon.
Speaker 1: You aren't like this weekend? Yes? I think tomorrow. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I have a few that people are trying to plan
Speaker 1: and I am trying to not make myself reluctant and
Speaker 1: not be like a recluse and just do it to like,
Speaker 1: you know, start dating again, because yeah, I need to.
Speaker 1: I need to move on. I deserve to move on,
Speaker 1: you do, and so that is what I'm trying to do.
Speaker 1: But I on there the whole life partner thing. I
Speaker 1: pay attention to that. If somebody tries to match with
Speaker 1: me and it says I'm not even kidding you. If
Speaker 1: it says long term relationship but open to short, I passed.
Speaker 1: I don't see that now, I passed. I'm like, listen,
Speaker 1: if you're open to the idea of short, then you're
Speaker 1: gonna be open to the idea of short with me.
Speaker 1: And absolutely not am I there in my life? Right?
Speaker 1: How about that? I don't know what are you looking for?
Speaker 1: I don't know? Hard pass well, the only ones that
Speaker 1: I'm saving on are long term relationship and life partner. Yes,
Speaker 1: And if you lie on there, then f you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's messed up because that's like the basic. That's the basic.
Speaker 1: That's where you can literally say when I don't know,
Speaker 1: you might want to just be a hook up. You know,
Speaker 1: that's basically what you're saying exactly, And there's nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with that. If that's what someone else is looking for, cool,
Speaker 1: but just be honest about it. I'll look. There are
Speaker 1: three things I have learned about myself that I absolutely need.
Speaker 1: I've known it. Sometimes they get pushed the side went
Speaker 1: off all in love because Morrian loves love. Consistency, honesty,
Speaker 1: in freaking communication. There are three things that are a
Speaker 1: necessity boom fired up like necessity. If you cannot accomplish
Speaker 1: the three things, you don't even deserve to be dating. No,
Speaker 1: you just don't. Okay, I'm sorry that I put it
Speaker 1: out there. Those are like the basic that's the like foundation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like what you stand on the bar is under
Speaker 1: the ground. Okay. It shouldn't be that difficult. It really shouldn't.
Speaker 1: Like communication, It's so much easier when you just communicate.
Speaker 1: There shouldn't ever be like a point of questioning. There isn't,
Speaker 1: especially if you put it out there. That's like one
Speaker 1: of the first things I say. And I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's too much, but I'm like, just please, like,
Speaker 1: if anything, please be one hundred percent honest with me.
Speaker 1: If you're like, I'm not feeling this at all, I
Speaker 1: would so much rather you tell me that and be like,
Speaker 1: look I met somebody else. Literally anything that's honest answer,
Speaker 1: I will respect you so much more and I'll be
Speaker 1: fine with it. I'll be like, okay, cool, Like I
Speaker 1: wish you the best. I really do. Thank you for
Speaker 1: telling me. But if you just do these wishy washy
Speaker 1: don't answer, like start to play games like where did
Speaker 1: you disappear to? Oh, now you're texting me the next day?
Speaker 1: Did you go on another date but it didn't work out?
Speaker 1: So now you're texting me again? Like, yes, if you are,
Speaker 1: say that, be like I am like actively dating, you know,
Speaker 1: actively date and still be like a decent human being. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's basically what it. Yeah, we just you know, not
Speaker 1: decent human means what we're here. God, I feel I
Speaker 1: feel like I sound kind of bitter, but it just
Speaker 1: it happens a lot and it just gets frustrating. It's
Speaker 1: not bitter, and there is Society has told us that
Speaker 1: it is bitterness, and it's not. What it is is
Speaker 1: a lack of people understanding boundaries in respect and caring
Speaker 1: about other people is what makes it so hard to date.
Speaker 1: And it's not being bitter. It's not I hope everyone
Speaker 1: in this world finds love. I love love genuinely. I
Speaker 1: think it's the most precious thing in the world. But
Speaker 1: what I'm not going to do is sit here and
Speaker 1: act like it's all pretty imperfect when the reality is
Speaker 1: that I've faced a lot of crappy people and they've
Speaker 1: done really crappy things, and so heck, yeah, my standards
Speaker 1: are going to be through the fricking roof, because I'll
Speaker 1: be damned if I put myself through that again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And so it's not bitterness. It's you standing up for
Speaker 1: what you literally deserve. And so I never want to
Speaker 1: hear you say that again because it's not bitterness at all.
Speaker 1: I feel like guys do though that I've been on
Speaker 1: dates with, like if you say things that have happened
Speaker 1: in your past, like they're like, you know, every guy's
Speaker 1: not like that, and I'm like, but you're showing me
Speaker 1: right now. Even this guy went on two dates with
Speaker 1: he proved to me on the second date. You know.
Speaker 1: One time, I was like, on a date at a
Speaker 1: Titans game and I was wearing Bronchos. I'm a Bronchos fan,
Speaker 1: but we were playing the Titans. I think that's who
Speaker 1: it was. And I remember the Titans fans like started
Speaker 1: calling me bad names. Like they were like, oh what now,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I'm sitting here. I was It's
Speaker 1: not like I was trying to make them mat or
Speaker 1: like mocking them or like, oh take that. They just
Speaker 1: started calling me that the guy was on a date
Speaker 1: with like didn't even do anything. And so this guy
Speaker 1: went on the date with I told him about that,
Speaker 1: just kind of joking, and he was like, Oh, I
Speaker 1: would never let someone talk to you that way. And
Speaker 1: then on the second day he was so like disrespectful
Speaker 1: to me and talk like so down to me, and
Speaker 1: that's basically kind of what it was. And I was like, so,
Speaker 1: you told me that you're going to be protective on
Speaker 1: the first date, you know, saying what I want to hear,
Speaker 1: but you you're not. You made me feel the way
Speaker 1: the people there did, So how can you say you
Speaker 1: would protect me if you're over here doing the same
Speaker 1: thing only on second date. People love to use words
Speaker 1: and they do not like to back them up with
Speaker 1: their actions. Love too people. Yes, I hate that for you,
Speaker 1: I hate that you had to experience that, but gosh,
Speaker 1: I'm so glad he showed his colors on the second date.
Speaker 1: I know. If you're lucky, that's what happens. If you're not,
Speaker 1: you find out years down the road and you're like,
Speaker 1: what the frick did I get myself into? This person
Speaker 1: is not the same person that they actually showed and
Speaker 1: said they were. So I'm so thankful that it happened
Speaker 1: to you on a second day. And that's what we
Speaker 1: can all hope for, you know what, Take all the
Speaker 1: bad dates, but not the bad husband, right, Like you'd
Speaker 1: prefer that over the ladder. So and it's just like
Speaker 1: the second day, it was like four to five hours,
Speaker 1: and I'm like that probably is like too much too.
Speaker 1: I know you guys are like, oh, keep it to
Speaker 1: an hour in the first date, which it was, but
Speaker 1: then the second one we were having a great time.
Speaker 1: And I don't. I don't think you can put limits
Speaker 1: on things. Here's the thing. I don't. I don't think
Speaker 1: you can put limits on things either. It's probably a
Speaker 1: good rule to have to try and keep things short.
Speaker 1: I just I so reluctantly think that there is not
Speaker 1: a rule book for any of it. And genuinely, all
Speaker 1: it is about is you're finding a good human and
Speaker 1: they actually are a good human In their actions and
Speaker 1: who they are and who they're being, and the only
Speaker 1: way to find that out is spending time with them.
Speaker 1: And it's funny. My therapist, when I was talking to her,
Speaker 1: she's like, I think what you're going to have to do,
Speaker 1: Morgan moving forward is almost like stir up a little
Speaker 1: a little something so you can find out what their
Speaker 1: true colors are, because the only way you're seeing true
Speaker 1: colors are when like you know, everything hits the fan
Speaker 1: and then this whole person comes out and you're like,
Speaker 1: where the frick human? Right, And that's the only way
Speaker 1: Like that, she said it, you know, you're looking for
Speaker 1: a unicorn. We gotta go through the counterfeit ones. You
Speaker 1: gotta figure out which ones are counterfeit, of them are counterfeit,
Speaker 1: which one is the actual one? Right? I know, there's
Speaker 1: so many good there's so many good ones out there.
Speaker 1: All of my friends are married a really great guys. Yeah. Again,
Speaker 1: they had to sort through all of these things to
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, who is that one? And I think
Speaker 1: there is something up said about being in a big
Speaker 1: city and it being harder in a big city. There's
Speaker 1: a different it's a different state of mind in Nashville,
Speaker 1: one hundred percent believe that. You know, I think I
Speaker 1: think every day that I could move home to Kansas
Speaker 1: and I could find someone and marry someone right away.
Speaker 1: I think the same all the time, Like, is it
Speaker 1: probably gonna be my perfect person? Probably not, because I'm
Speaker 1: not supposed to be there, but I could. I could
Speaker 1: go home, and I couldn't meet a really genuinely nice
Speaker 1: human being that I think would make me happy for
Speaker 1: the rest of my life. But is it gonna be
Speaker 1: my perfect person my uniform that I've been searching and
Speaker 1: going through allocrat for. Probably not hm, And so like
Speaker 1: as much as I say I hate it here, it's
Speaker 1: also like I'm supposed to be here for a reason. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I have to believe that there's the reason that
Speaker 1: also comes in love, whether it's here now, later, whatever.
Speaker 1: So as much as it sucks and as terrible as
Speaker 1: there are parts of it, you still have to keep
Speaker 1: putting yourself through it, which means you still have to
Speaker 1: keep going on dates. You still have to keep putting
Speaker 1: up with people, but you have to be conscious and
Speaker 1: you have to be aware of what they're doing all
Speaker 1: the time. That's another thing that'sn't one thing I learned
Speaker 1: is my therapist right up, was like, you're gonna have
Speaker 1: to like so conci like be so conscientious. I cannot
Speaker 1: say that one conci incious of the person you were
Speaker 1: talking to in their actions and what they're doing. She's like,
Speaker 1: You're just gonna have to. You don't have a choice
Speaker 1: at this point. Like people are so good at figuring
Speaker 1: things out and so good at manipulating and so good
Speaker 1: at like understanding women and dating differently that you have
Speaker 1: to go on these dates almost like you're going to study.
Speaker 1: You're gonna find out who this person is, and it
Speaker 1: takes like some of that level out of it. She's like,
Speaker 1: but you have to. She's like, at this point, you've
Speaker 1: ran into so many the same type of guy. You
Speaker 1: have to be so diligent about making sure that there's
Speaker 1: no possibility they might not be a great guy, but
Speaker 1: there's no possibility that they're going to be this type
Speaker 1: of guy before you get involved. Yeah, And I got scary.
Speaker 1: I know it is. And it's like I want to
Speaker 1: like be friends, you know, like be friends and then
Speaker 1: it could develop into something else. But I feel like
Speaker 1: guys always want to move so fast beyond friends, and
Speaker 1: I'm like you're going so fast and then it's like
Speaker 1: then they just move on to the next thing when
Speaker 1: they don't give what they want, And I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you're looking for something serious, but hey, but at least
Speaker 1: that's helping you weed them out it because if you
Speaker 1: are finding someone who wants to move slow, then that's
Speaker 1: a good thing. So they are at least helping weed
Speaker 1: themselves out. Yeah, you have the ability that you're at
Speaker 1: least in the position that they're weeding themselves out. All right,
Speaker 1: now I have to take a freaking weed whacker to everything. Okay,
Speaker 1: they really are weeding themselves out basically. Yeah, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm hoping. That's I'm hoping. By being on dating maps,
Speaker 1: I just can start I can at least get my
Speaker 1: turn my brain back on to be like, Okay, this
Speaker 1: is what you gotta do, Morgan. This is how you
Speaker 1: got to make sure to we throw all the things right,
Speaker 1: take your weed wagons, freaking go on a date, figure
Speaker 1: it out. I'm just on like the fine line of
Speaker 1: being like just let it happen when it happens, and
Speaker 1: or do I need to put myself out there and
Speaker 1: be on dating apps because I know my friends, they've
Speaker 1: they've met their husband on dating apps, so I know
Speaker 1: it's there. I do know. I think there's a writer
Speaker 1: or wrong answer. I think you just have to do
Speaker 1: it the best for you. But I do think if
Speaker 1: you're not on dating apps, then you have to genuinely
Speaker 1: put yourself out there when you're out in public and
Speaker 1: living your life. You have to be willing to go
Speaker 1: up to people. You have to be willing to not
Speaker 1: be on your phone paying attention and grocery stores there's
Speaker 1: somebody's on their phones. I know it's a more conscious
Speaker 1: level of living, which is also a really good thing,
Speaker 1: but it is something you have to do if you
Speaker 1: don't want to be on dating apps, you want to
Speaker 1: meet somebody out because you have to be open to it.
Speaker 1: The only way to be open to it is be
Speaker 1: conscious and aware of things around you. And I've also
Speaker 1: wanted to, Like I went up to the gym one
Speaker 1: time to this guy that I always on. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, she's so cute and he was wearing
Speaker 1: a Kansas City Royal shirt, so I was like, we
Speaker 1: have something, and like I can be like, oh, are
Speaker 1: you from that area? And I went up to him
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, my fiance is and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, hey have a great day.
Speaker 1: You know what. At least you found that right away.
Speaker 1: And was like, okay, cool, that's awesome. It's such a
Speaker 1: fun team. Good to meet you. Yeah. Down, but I
Speaker 1: guess that's just what I'm afraid of. It is going
Speaker 1: to happen, so I just don't even But you have
Speaker 1: to do it. You have to. If you're not gonna
Speaker 1: be all a dating enough to you have to. I
Speaker 1: was glad I did, though. I was just like sad
Speaker 1: of the answer. I was like, oh, of course, of course. Hey,
Speaker 1: just a minuscule of rejection. Yeah, for you to potentially
Speaker 1: meet a soul mate, Yeah, yes, right, but I at
Speaker 1: least went for it. Or you know, you never know
Speaker 1: why not? You should? You should keep doing that. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do that. I'll never forget the guy I never
Speaker 1: went on a date with him, and I'll never forget
Speaker 1: the guy that in a grocery store parking lot like
Speaker 1: drove up next to me while I was walking out.
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, you want to get drinks sometime?
Speaker 1: It was so bold and so awesome. Had I been
Speaker 1: attracted to him in that manner and been like, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: I appreciate that he did that. I really do. I
Speaker 1: loved it, and I hope he still continue to do
Speaker 1: it any foundest person. I hope that for him, I know,
Speaker 1: just because he wasn't mine, but like I also hope that, like,
Speaker 1: if you keep doing it, don't be discouraged by anyboy.
Speaker 1: You just got it. You just got power through. I know.
Speaker 1: I wish more people would do that. I mean, you know,
Speaker 1: what's it gonna hurt? What is it gonna hurt? What
Speaker 1: you're The worse that's going to happen is be like no, sorry,
Speaker 1: or I'm married or you know I'm gonna happen. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So we shouldn't be that scared to do it. And
Speaker 1: I feel like there's guys out there too that they
Speaker 1: want to and like I see, my scariest thing is
Speaker 1: that I go up to one and they aren't married
Speaker 1: and they don't tell me they're married. That's my scared
Speaker 1: thing that's happened. Uh yeah, I remember, like I shared
Speaker 1: stories about when we'd be at bars and I'd watch
Speaker 1: guys like slip off their wedding ring. Yeah, that happened
Speaker 1: to me when I first moved I'm gonna add another
Speaker 1: thing to my three, like core, like breaking, faithfulness, loyalty,
Speaker 1: like oh my god, I do not understand. I literally
Speaker 1: cannot possibly image and the capability of not being loyal
Speaker 1: to someone. I just I can't. It's seared into my brain.
Speaker 1: How was it not seared into other people's brains? Right?
Speaker 1: And that's the worst thing if you see that happen.
Speaker 1: Because I saw that happen, a guy take his ring off,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I could have been the other
Speaker 1: girl that ruined a marriage without you know, the worst
Speaker 1: part is most people blame the other person and not
Speaker 1: their partner. And it's always a partner, always. I don't
Speaker 1: care who else is involved, it is always them. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I would have been the bad guy, the home wrecker.
Speaker 1: But I didn't even know because you didn't tell me
Speaker 1: every time. Oh my gosh, that was a lot. We
Speaker 1: can talk, I mean dating, I can talk for days
Speaker 1: on that, but your same. I just think we need
Speaker 1: to be positive. And there's such a fear of mine.
Speaker 1: I keep talking about it, and I just think it's
Speaker 1: just gonna keep getting worse and worse and more I
Speaker 1: keep talking about it. It's like I'm chink seeing myself
Speaker 1: in the universe. We just gotta be positive and open
Speaker 1: and not like focus on it, you know, because once
Speaker 1: you just like, those are a whole lot of things
Speaker 1: that people say to me Abby that never actually coming true. Listen,
Speaker 1: I told you I'm good at giving advice. I don't
Speaker 1: do that. Oh yeah, we'll be good, Okay, we will,
Speaker 1: we will, and we'll move on to some exciting things.
Speaker 1: Well this isn't exactly exciting, but we're gonna start talking
Speaker 1: about the CMA is one of the show members CMA
Speaker 1: Awards got broken, and that's what came in at the
Speaker 1: number of three spot, and just the irony of the
Speaker 1: whole situation hilarious. It's probably gonna get fixed, hopefully someday,
Speaker 1: we don't really know. But we're not gonna talk about
Speaker 1: CMAS yet. We're about to dive into that. Oh good,
Speaker 1: you're in a minute. I want to hear. I mean,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about it before we get all
Speaker 1: dived into the CMAS and all the fun stories and
Speaker 1: whatnot from that. And at our number two spot, the
Speaker 1: Raging Idiots released a new collaboration with Laney Wilson and
Speaker 1: Jordan Davis, Super Fun. It's their song opening act in
Speaker 1: Laney and Jordan Bill stopped by the show and talked
Speaker 1: about collaborating on the song Just all fun Things, So
Speaker 1: make sure to go stream it, buy it, do all
Speaker 1: the things, but you can also on the best bits
Speaker 1: here Lady Wilson and Jordan Davis talk Bobby about it.
Speaker 1: Just all around fun, exciting things happening in New Raging Indians. Music.
Speaker 1: What are you jamming to right now? If you look
Speaker 1: at your phone, what you have on your thing? What
Speaker 1: are you jamming to right now? Let me look at
Speaker 1: my phone. I always have a lot of music I'm
Speaker 1: jamming too, but it's usually kind of sad. Well, hey,
Speaker 1: that's mine my You know what My emoji playlist is
Speaker 1: on Spotify currently, it's the rage emoji with the the
Speaker 1: emoji that looks like it's saying cuss words but it's not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how about my mouth? That's what I labeled this playlist
Speaker 1: is that emoji. Three three of them. Yep. So it's
Speaker 1: like this intense, like freaking yes playlist. And some of
Speaker 1: the songs on there are at a Girl from Lady Wilson,
Speaker 1: great song So Good, I Burned La Down, Noah Sirius, Runaway,
Speaker 1: Due their new song Broken Hearts, Joscelyn Olivia, Brian just
Speaker 1: I got a lot on here. There's more. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of things and I cannot say that are on
Speaker 1: this playlist that are a lot of cusswords and a
Speaker 1: lot of Avril Levine of her new album, I just
Speaker 1: oh that one. That one gets me in a good thing, really,
Speaker 1: and some Beyonce and t Swift. Yeah, oh those are
Speaker 1: all good. I am obsessed with Ashley McBride's new album.
Speaker 1: So hey, did you listen? I told you to listen
Speaker 1: to Brenda put your braun? I didn't. Did you listen
Speaker 1: to Bonfire at Tinas? I didn't? Because that's the one
Speaker 1: I love. We keep telling each other thing that we
Speaker 1: forget to do it, Mabbie, I know I probably actually have.
Speaker 1: It's the first one on there. I bet you the
Speaker 1: first song. So it gives me goodbye earl vibes and
Speaker 1: I love it for that. That's the best. So that's
Speaker 1: your jam right now? Those are like whole new album?
Speaker 1: What is your favorite song on there? Oh? That one,
Speaker 1: the Bonfire at Tinas? I just love it. And then
Speaker 1: Landy Wilson's So which one is the one that Lady
Speaker 1: Wilson is on on that album. Um, why I like
Speaker 1: Heart like a Truck because I mean I feel like, okay,
Speaker 1: yeah or sorry, Oh, i've met Lany Wilson's album. Okay,
Speaker 1: her album and Ashley McBride's album separately. Sorry, I wasn't
Speaker 1: actually saying songs. I was just saying, like their albums
Speaker 1: just names people. Yeah we know them, they're best friends. Right,
Speaker 1: but yes, have you heard that at a girl song?
Speaker 1: It's good? No, I haven't. It's from that album. Okay,
Speaker 1: I gotta listen. It's really good. I just love her.
Speaker 1: I know, she's just so good. I'm so excited. It
Speaker 1: was fun to watch her win this week and just
Speaker 1: have like an incredible CMA's week. Yeah, so we will
Speaker 1: start to talk CMA because the show won a CMA Award.
Speaker 1: We went to the CMAS, we went on stage, accepted,
Speaker 1: it was a whole thing. What was your favorite part
Speaker 1: of the night. It would be sitting on the floor.
Speaker 1: I would say, I mean, that's kind of every time
Speaker 1: I've gone to the awards, I'm never on the floor.
Speaker 1: That's kind of like the exclusive. You're either you won
Speaker 1: or you're like a management or something like that. So
Speaker 1: I've always said on the just regular seats, so being
Speaker 1: on the floor and being from that perspective and just
Speaker 1: like by sitting by you and like the whole show,
Speaker 1: that was the coolest thing ever. I was just like,
Speaker 1: I can't believe that happened like that. We got to
Speaker 1: be a part of it, you know, it is really cool.
Speaker 1: I don't think CMA Awards every year, like every year
Speaker 1: we go or something happens with it, it's always a
Speaker 1: pinch me moment. And Abby and I were having that
Speaker 1: because so you heard a little bit about our like
Speaker 1: pre CMA of going to accept the award, taking the
Speaker 1: picture and all of that that happened, and you'll you'll
Speaker 1: hear that in this bit if you missed it this week.
Speaker 1: But after we went up and accepted our award and
Speaker 1: Amy did her speech and we all did the clear Eyes,
Speaker 1: Full Hearts Can't Lose, which is a fun video you
Speaker 1: can see on our Instagram page. But we lost everybody.
Speaker 1: Abby and I went to get our bags from sitting
Speaker 1: on some of the tables and we lost everybody on
Speaker 1: the show. We had no idea where anybody went, and
Speaker 1: we were walking and I was like, well, I guess
Speaker 1: we'll just like, hang out right here. But then we
Speaker 1: saw him like kind of chuffling people back out to
Speaker 1: the front of stage, and Abby I kind of looked
Speaker 1: at I was like, if we hang back, we might
Speaker 1: be able to stay on page on stage and take
Speaker 1: some fun pictures or something, because we're trying to get
Speaker 1: some cute pictures. And we just never had a moment
Speaker 1: up until that point. Yeah, and so sure enough we
Speaker 1: were Nabby and I were frolicking on stage for a
Speaker 1: solid twenty minute. Oh yeah, like duding the cat. We
Speaker 1: were like walking like it was a catwalk, like spinning, twirling,
Speaker 1: we did like a whole We did fo whole photo
Speaker 1: shoots Like Abby and I got a photo. We each
Speaker 1: got individual photos, got some videos of us walking in
Speaker 1: our dresses. That wasn't it was awesome. I was insane.
Speaker 1: And this is when if you saw Lunchbox's post when
Speaker 1: he was backstage harassing the artist, that's what we were
Speaker 1: doing when he was doing that. Yeah, we both of
Speaker 1: us looked at each other. We're like, what is life?
Speaker 1: We're literally just chilling on the CMA stage. It was
Speaker 1: so cool. It was just right there by. Because you
Speaker 1: see that all the time on TV. You see it,
Speaker 1: you know, and to know that you're on the stage.
Speaker 1: You're on the stage, like we had just accepted our award.
Speaker 1: We're on the stage hanging out. Nobody's kicking us off,
Speaker 1: like we were just like standing there. Two girls, Abby said,
Speaker 1: two girls from Kansas just looking at my stage as
Speaker 1: Wichitai girls coming to Nashville. That was like a bit
Speaker 1: I felt. I had like imposter syndrome when that was happening.
Speaker 1: I was like, this isn't real life. Yeah, same felt weird.
Speaker 1: And then we got to go backstage and eat crapped
Speaker 1: down on food and drinks for free. I know. That
Speaker 1: was really cool. They had a candy bar. They had
Speaker 1: a candy bar like every canny you could think of,
Speaker 1: just unlimited. Oh my gosh, I ate so much random
Speaker 1: food I had. Let me just detail you so because
Speaker 1: beforehand when we went to before we went and accepted
Speaker 1: our ward and stuff, we also had food and drinks
Speaker 1: available to us there and there. I had some peppers
Speaker 1: filled with pimento cheese. There's a huge cheeseboard. Got some
Speaker 1: extra cheese too. There. Got some kind of brownie little thing.
Speaker 1: Amy made me try, like a chocolate wafer that she loved.
Speaker 1: I know. And then they had baked twice baked potatoes.
Speaker 1: Those were delicious, were cute. Yeah, they were a little mini. Yes,
Speaker 1: had a drink and then we went and did our ward.
Speaker 1: But then we went to the second place to get food.
Speaker 1: Definitely went to the candy bar. I had some candy
Speaker 1: that definitely kept getting lost throughout the night. I'd always
Speaker 1: make my way back to this like the sitting area
Speaker 1: with it, and how I would lose the candy on
Speaker 1: the way there really or I don't know where I went.
Speaker 1: I don't know where I went. I had popcorn and
Speaker 1: they had a popcorn machine. More cheese, um, I think
Speaker 1: I had Oh, butterboard. You and I both had a butterboard.
Speaker 1: But it was so cute it had they had your
Speaker 1: own butterboards that you could just pull one and you'd
Speaker 1: get your own butterboard. It was the cutest thing I've
Speaker 1: ever seen. It was also very spicy. Was your spicy? Spicy?
Speaker 1: Oh it wasn't, well, I got I got spicy. One
Speaker 1: was on fire and like that. But yeah, it was
Speaker 1: like that was that was also fun. I was like,
Speaker 1: I listen, if anybody ever invites me to event and
Speaker 1: there is free food and drinks like I am in
Speaker 1: the Holy Girl, I will be the happiest girl in
Speaker 1: the entire world. I know. I love food. I also
Speaker 1: just love seeing the different food of things that people
Speaker 1: come up with, because like normally I'm at home or
Speaker 1: I'm buying taco bell, like there's no one between. And
Speaker 1: so when I go to these events and I get
Speaker 1: fancy food, I don't know what to do with myself.
Speaker 1: I mean neither, and I want to take full advantage, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I'm not gonna I can't make a
Speaker 1: butterboard like this. I don't even know what's in it
Speaker 1: on top of it, but it's beautiful. Yeah, and it's delicious.
Speaker 1: And I think at one point I saw Scooba soe
Speaker 1: you dip in like a bacon on a stick in
Speaker 1: his whiskey drink. What is what is he? Yet? The
Speaker 1: boys were getting a little while and they were so wild.
Speaker 1: They it was like hurting cats with this group and
Speaker 1: they're just like kids. I was scared what they were
Speaker 1: going to say. They were so loud. They were like
Speaker 1: yelling everything. Yeah. I was like, all right, why aren't
Speaker 1: you so loud? I was really quiet. I was just
Speaker 1: like taking everything in because I was like, I already
Speaker 1: sometimes feel like I shouldn't even sometimes be here. I'm
Speaker 1: just like this is wild, Like why am I here?
Speaker 1: And so I was just like, I'm just gonna take
Speaker 1: it all in and I'm not gonna get in trouble
Speaker 1: or I get kicked out other than that's being on
Speaker 1: stage for twenty minutes. But I was like, if we're
Speaker 1: not supposed to be here, they'll kick us off, right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything. No, I feel like it was
Speaker 1: a really cool thing to see. You get to experience
Speaker 1: being on stage. You're like, this was our in a
Speaker 1: second or third I think CMA ward kind of experience.
Speaker 1: But this was the first time we all went up
Speaker 1: on stage, all except the award. Definitely, this was like
Speaker 1: the best one out of all of them. But this
Speaker 1: was your first like genuine like CMA Awards, your a
Speaker 1: recipient experience. Yeah, because the last time we went, well
Speaker 1: last year, I went, Um, I guess when I first started,
Speaker 1: you guys had won, so I wasn't really part of it,
Speaker 1: but I still went and I was like, Oh, that's awesome.
Speaker 1: Look what they get to do and it's so cool.
Speaker 1: And then now I was like I got to be
Speaker 1: with you guys. Awesome. Isn't that crazy? Like how that
Speaker 1: happens just over the course of time too, to experience
Speaker 1: things like that and you're like, what, how is that
Speaker 1: even like possible? Yeah? I remember the opening number we
Speaker 1: jam too, when will I Be Loved? Like Ashington Bride
Speaker 1: Kaylee Hammock. That was aveng Cheated and it was so
Speaker 1: I was like, that's my jam. We did. We had
Speaker 1: some jam moments. You and I were to sit and
Speaker 1: there jam went to everything. Huh. You also saw me
Speaker 1: spell my popcorn everywhere too? I did, or I did
Speaker 1: it right before you got there. Oh, there was popcorn everywhere.
Speaker 1: That was scuba scuba spuilt blockward. I also s built popcorn,
Speaker 1: not intentionally. I just I was trying to keep drag
Speaker 1: of a train was also lunchbox kept stepping on and
Speaker 1: did not feel bad about He's like rah, yeah, or
Speaker 1: I was a mess. I came back and it was
Speaker 1: popcorn everywhere. Yeah. The one that was by yours was
Speaker 1: me And it was not intentional. It's because I actually
Speaker 1: I had the popcorn sitting on the chair and then
Speaker 1: I actually hit the chair in the chair folded and
Speaker 1: I was like what, Oh, remember when I. Oh, I
Speaker 1: was looking at something on my phone and someone was
Speaker 1: giving a speech and it started playing the video and
Speaker 1: I freaked out, Like my hand jumped and I spilled
Speaker 1: my drink all over your dress, Rember. I don't know
Speaker 1: why I freaked out so much. I was like, I'm ruining.
Speaker 1: I'm just ruin. I'm being that girl ruining someone's speech
Speaker 1: right now with a video. I get off your phone.
Speaker 1: So I freaked out. Hey, it's okay, nobody knew it
Speaker 1: was for you. Yeah, in your dress and my dress
Speaker 1: is fine. But it was also cool. Sorry. One more
Speaker 1: thing was picking up the award because I picked up
Speaker 1: mine Scooba picked up other people, so I was like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm getting mine. I don't trust Actually, I was
Speaker 1: had to get a COVID test anyway, so I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick mine up. That was crazy and it's heavy.
Speaker 1: It's so box. Where did you put it in your house? Oh?
Speaker 1: I don't have a place yet. It's still in the box.
Speaker 1: I'm deciding where I bought at home, and that was
Speaker 1: the first thing I did. Yeah, where'd you put it?
Speaker 1: So I have my um bar cabinet that sits in
Speaker 1: the corner has a little place and my ACM is there,
Speaker 1: and so I put the CMA right next to them,
Speaker 1: and there's a little crowded on my little thing. But
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't care. Everybody has to see this.
Speaker 1: That's a good spot. I don't feel like I have really,
Speaker 1: you might just have to make its own spot right
Speaker 1: space my table, yes, right, and then at all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the center of my kitchen table. It's a it's a
Speaker 1: magazine weight it is no yeah, why not? Oh that's
Speaker 1: a flex right there? Yeah, like heck yeah, you should flex.
Speaker 1: It should FLEXI for the rest of the time. I know,
Speaker 1: because I'm scared to touch it. I was shaking when
Speaker 1: I took it out of the box, honestly because I
Speaker 1: was like, I cannot drop this. I like, because I
Speaker 1: don't even know it's easy. I see. I get how
Speaker 1: people drop it though. Those things are they're heavy and
Speaker 1: they're slippery, they are all glass. It's insane, but it's
Speaker 1: it was cool, cool moment. It was that I'll never forget.
Speaker 1: I'm glad and I'm glad and it was funny Bobby
Speaker 1: ass like everybody's favorite moment. I was like, it was
Speaker 1: just hanging out with the show, Like genuinely, we don't
Speaker 1: actually all get to hang out outside of the show.
Speaker 1: It's just normal human beings experiencing something, especially that cool.
Speaker 1: And it was so fun just for all of us
Speaker 1: to be there together and like enjoying, laughing, not working. Yes,
Speaker 1: well I was working, but you know, just still having
Speaker 1: fun and like enjoying and hanging out for something. And
Speaker 1: then it's all getting to like relive and be there together.
Speaker 1: I know, no, it really was. I was like, we
Speaker 1: need to hang out more, but everybody's so busy. It's hard.
Speaker 1: Everybody has kids and they're married and it's hard to
Speaker 1: get everybody. Then there's us, get I'm ready to go,
Speaker 1: we'll hang out, and then there's us. Well day hang out.
Speaker 1: We'll keep doing our things. We get to do all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we get to do this anytime. So this is true. Hey,
Speaker 1: what happened? No kids, we don't have to find a babysitter. Oh,
Speaker 1: I know that's true. That is Oh well, Abby, thanks
Speaker 1: writing out of me and talking about all the things.
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry to all the people of this was
Speaker 1: a little chaotic. My bradin is all over the place.
Speaker 1: But I feel like we did pretty good. Yes, I
Speaker 1: feel like it's sped up. At the beginning, I was
Speaker 1: a little just like, oh my god, I'm so tired.
Speaker 1: But my coffee kicked in all the caffee you needed.
Speaker 1: K Now, I'm like jittery. Oh man. We'll tell the
Speaker 1: people where they can find you. On Instagram, Abby dot
Speaker 1: Anderson won Underscore and on Twitter sing an Abbey and
Speaker 1: you got TikTok I do. It's not really like public.
Speaker 1: It's like my private one. I mean, I guess I can't,
Speaker 1: so I started out doing it. So when you have
Speaker 1: a private TikTok, not private, but I wanted to be
Speaker 1: able to put content on that's like cussing or something.
Speaker 1: And I feel like sometimes when you're a part of
Speaker 1: the show, you you're kind of representing the show. You
Speaker 1: have to make sure it's clean and whatever. So I
Speaker 1: felt like I couldn't. But it's Abby Underscore, Lee thirty
Speaker 1: l E, I g h, Well, people want to follow
Speaker 1: your private TikTok. It's not private. I feel weird. But
Speaker 1: I meant to not just be like a personal account
Speaker 1: for fun to go viral and otherwise I feel you,
Speaker 1: I feel you, Hey, potty mouth Morgan. Some comes sometimes
Speaker 1: comes out. You never know when you're gonna get her,
Speaker 1: but sometimes it always comes out for me, and that's
Speaker 1: the problem. All of the sounds on there are ones
Speaker 1: that are like so inappropriate and funny and cussing. Hey,
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes. Okay,
Speaker 1: as a digital director, I don't care. I can't say
Speaker 1: that for the rest of the company or the show,
Speaker 1: but personal perspective, I'm like, there, its sound. You're using
Speaker 1: sounds on TikTok exactly. Yes, it doesn't mean it like
Speaker 1: represents me. It's just a sound that I'm doing. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's how you know. I Again, I'm not the
Speaker 1: I'm not the professional opinion. I'm just the digital director opinion.
Speaker 1: I like your opinion. I am gonna go with it. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll keep rolling with it. I am out of girl
Speaker 1: Morgan on all the things. I hope y'all come hang
Speaker 1: out with me, follow me on there, and make sure
Speaker 1: to check out best bits, just the bits. It's part two.
Speaker 1: In case you missed anything from this week. You can
Speaker 1: hear all the actual segments. We just come and talk
Speaker 1: through them on this one and it's my favorite part
Speaker 1: of it. So I hope you guys enjoy it, and
Speaker 1: we hope from Abby and I and the whole show.
Speaker 1: We just thank you all so much because we wouldn't
Speaker 1: be able to go to the CMA Awards, we wouldn't
Speaker 1: be able to win one or anything like that without
Speaker 1: you guys listening and you guys enjoying the show and
Speaker 1: commenting and just everything that you do. So thank you
Speaker 1: guys so much, and we love y'all. We all have
Speaker 1: a great weekend. I agree with what she just said.
Speaker 1: And the callers that call in and say congrats and
Speaker 1: like that means so much. It's so nice of you
Speaker 1: to call in, like you don't have to do that,
Speaker 1: and you're doing that because we love you and we're friends,
Speaker 1: and that's why we want you to have the best
Speaker 1: weekend ever. We had the best week ever. We want
Speaker 1: you guys to have the best week end ever. So
Speaker 1: love y'all. Goodbye, ye