1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt, 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: and today we're discussing the science of smarter spending. You know, 3 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: a buddy, this episode is going to be all about 4 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: maximizing your satisfaction from the dollars that you get to 5 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: spend every single day. But should we just cut to 6 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 1: the chase and tell folks to that that they shouldn't 7 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: be spending money, They should only be investing their money, 8 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 1: spend their money on e t F that's slightly diversifized, diversified, 9 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: low cost in excellence. Well, we know, we've always said this, 10 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: there are a lot of people in the space who 11 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: kind of lean towards that advice. It's kind of like, yeah, 12 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 1: you want to buy something you enjoy, that's dumb. You 13 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: should be investing for your future instead. And that's just 14 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: a poor way to treat people. One, it's not going 15 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: to be long lasting and you're gonna burn out because 16 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: there are i would say an infantesimally small number of 17 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:06,479 Speaker 1: folks who could actually stick to that kind of plan. 18 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: It's unhelpful and the reality is it's not fun either. 19 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: We want to we're not robots. We want to find 20 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: that balance, right, where we are, Like we talked about 21 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: all the time saving and investing for the future, while 22 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: like living life to the fullest now, and that doesn't 23 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,440 Speaker 1: always mean spending a lot of money, like I think 24 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,319 Speaker 1: sometimes that's the other side of the equation, right, is like, Oh, 25 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: to live life to the fullest means I've got to 26 00:01:25,080 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: spend a lot of money. No, not true. You don't 27 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,280 Speaker 1: have to have a great life. So we're gonna kind 28 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: of try to strike that balance talk about but it 29 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: does mean spending your money in smarter ways. It's not 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 1: necessarily more, but just being smart about it exactly. So 31 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 1: we're gonnaven kind of include some science in this episode 32 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: as we discuss how to spend more intelligently. But before 33 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: we get to that, man, I wanted to mention my girls. 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: This past weekend. They ended up playing in there like 35 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: the best they've ever played, Like five hours together. All 36 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: they wanted to do was play in the room all 37 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 1: all day. It was great. It was great. So, I mean, 38 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: the little dude, we're just kind of paling around in 39 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: the house, and but the crazy thing is we had 40 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: like some extra packaging laying around the house, and so 41 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: they kind of built their own Barbie House out of 42 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: this packaging classic. Yeah, which is so cool, the plan 43 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 1: with the box proud of themselves. The interesting thing though, 44 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: is that my oldest daughter already had she has like 45 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: an actual Barbie playhouse that we got like secondhand from 46 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: one of these, like one of these resale shops, and 47 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: she just she hasn't played with it a ton, which 48 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 1: is which is fun, which is interesting. But for some 49 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: reason they were enthralled with this like boxes Barbie house 50 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: up their own making so and they get they get 51 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,079 Speaker 1: to decide where the rooms are and no, no, no no, 52 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: that's in the bedroom, that's a bathroom. It just makes 53 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: me think a couple of things though, One that I 54 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: don't know, maybe that was a wasted buying the Barbie 55 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: house back in the day, even getting it used on 56 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: a selling swat. Yeah, you never know, maybe we should 57 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: have opted for the cardboard box, right, We just never 58 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: know which toys you kids are gonna end up playing with. 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: But funny though, like like how there are certain items 60 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: that they look really cool, but oftentimes they don't necessarily 61 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: lead to creativity, Like they don't lead to kids in 62 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:08,079 Speaker 1: particular being innovative and and just creating something for themselves. Yeah, 63 00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: it makes me wonder too if I should talk to 64 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 1: my daughter about, Hey, if you want to sell this 65 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: and then put money towards something you're actually gonna use 66 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: more boxes. We can get more of those for free, probably, 67 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,239 Speaker 1: but yeah, so towards something else. Like those are the 68 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: kind of decisions I'm thinking about with my kids to 69 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: help teach some of value of a dollar. It's like, hey, 70 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: we don't you don't have to get rid of your stuff, 71 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: but if it turns out there's some toys you're just 72 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: not using, maybe decluttering a little bit, but also kind 73 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: of finding a way to see if they're gonna want 74 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 1: to sell some of their stuff. It just kind of 75 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: sparked that idea in my head. Maybe we need to 76 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: make that a reality this spring, when people are like 77 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: doing spring cleaning, maybe we do some ourselves. Yeah, man, 78 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,839 Speaker 1: that's right. Spring cleaning is just around the bend. It'll 79 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: be here before we know it. That all right, let's 80 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: introduce our beer that we are going to enjoy during 81 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: this episode. This one is called Song of Winter. This 82 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: is another beer by Hill Farmstead Brewery, sent to us 83 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: by Michael and Emily. Thank you to you both for 84 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: donating This is the last of the four beers that 85 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: they sent our away. But I'm looking forward to enjoying 86 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,400 Speaker 1: this one and sharing our thoughts at the end of 87 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: the episode, for sure. But let's get onto the subject 88 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: at hand. We're talking about the science of smarter spending 89 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: today on the show, and that's made me think of 90 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: board games. A lot of things made me think of 91 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: board games because I just really like board games the best. 92 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: Yeah you do too, But it was up this was 93 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: that the second ever episode we did, or the third 94 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: or something. It was early, I don't know, it's like 95 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,600 Speaker 1: one of the earliest episodes. We were like, all right, 96 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: let's let's break down all the different connections between board 97 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: games and personal fight yea, well, and it's just one 98 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: of those inexpensive hobbies that you can has a lot 99 00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: of replayability, right, So even if you drop thirty or 100 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 1: forty bucks fifty bucks on an awesome game, the reality 101 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: is you can get a ton of plays out of 102 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:40,440 Speaker 1: that game, which means your dollar. It just feels like 103 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: it's going a lot further, right, And and part of 104 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: what makes them fun, you know, besides getting to play 105 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: them with friends and family, is the competition for scarce resources. Right, 106 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: That's like an elemental part of most of the great 107 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: board games out there, and it takes a few times 108 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 1: around the board to get the resources that you need to, 109 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: let's say, in the set Settlers of Catan, which is 110 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: one of the biggest, you know, or at least the 111 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: longest standing great board games, it's like the it's the 112 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: gateway drug of board games for sure. Like I feel 113 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: like it's oftentimes the first one, one of those first 114 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: German classics. Oh yeah, well, we used to always call 115 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 1: that one Settlers, by the way, but now I don't 116 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: even think they put Settlers on the box on the 117 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 1: newer versions. It just says Catan. Well it's easier too, 118 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: it's five letters. But settlers stands out, Kayton, what is that? 119 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: Is definitely the most recognizable of those words. I like 120 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: saying settling. But when you're going around the board, you're 121 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: you're trying to make settlements, cities, You're trying to get 122 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: development cards that help you rack up victory points in 123 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: this game, right, and you just don't get them all immediately, 124 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: and you're trading back and forth. And you know, Matt, 125 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 1: you we you know how we used to play that 126 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: game back in the day, but we recently revisited it 127 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: with our wives. We played on a recent trip. We 128 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: had a blast. But like the game is all about 129 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: trade offs. Where are you going to build the road 130 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: if you have the resources to do it, should you 131 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 1: scrap your road building altogether right in favor of another plan? 132 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: You just can't do it all, uh, And you can't 133 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: get everything you want all at once, And if you could, 134 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: that would make the game real quick, but also probably 135 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: really boring, would be a lot of fun. It was 136 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 1: just shooting fish in the barrel. And that's kind of 137 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: the way life is in a lot of ways, right, 138 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: Like our our money lives are kind of like a 139 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: game of Catan, as individuals were always making trade offs. 140 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: Should I take that vacation, or should I contribute to 141 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: my roth ira A. Should I get those new shoes 142 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: or should I go out and have a nice dinner. 143 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: How do we decide these things? These questions that we 144 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: come across almost every day. That's kind of what today's 145 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: episodes all about. That's right. And by the way, I'm 146 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 1: not going to rub it in, but I'm pretty sure 147 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: I was the winner of that round of severe losing 148 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: streak lately, and I'm not okay with it. I will 149 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: say it took me a few minutes until after I won. 150 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: But we used to do this thing that whoever won 151 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 1: the game, that all the other players had to say, 152 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: all hail Lord of Catan. It's just another way of 153 00:06:49,520 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: just making all of your friends hate you even more 154 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: after you've whipped out this three final victory points. It's 155 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 1: definitely salt in the wound. It is. So you're talking 156 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: about the resources that we can we get as we're 157 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: playing a game of settlers, but our our resources, the 158 00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:05,720 Speaker 1: amount of money that we have on hand is obviously 159 00:07:05,800 --> 00:07:08,520 Speaker 1: limited as well, and so we are all constantly making 160 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: these decisions about how it is that we should allocate 161 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: our dollars so that we can maximize our satisfaction while 162 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: still making the money moves that a fully grown adult 163 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: really needs to be doing, you know, given the future 164 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: things that we're saving up for as well. But aside 165 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: from saving towards retirement, we often find ourselves stuck in 166 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: a similar situation when it comes to the stuff that 167 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: we want to buy right we are we're torn between 168 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: the decision of spending some some big money on an 169 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: item that we know is going to last versus maybe 170 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 1: an inferior item. It's going to get the job done 171 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: at least for a little bit before breaks. Right. Uh, 172 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: And so how should we approach some of these different 173 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 1: spending decisions, Because concessions are necessary. Just like I can contained, 174 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: we can't do it all at once. And that's what 175 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about today. That's like the pre eminent 176 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: reality in macro and microeconomics is a city scarcity in 177 00:08:00,880 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: trade offs. Right. And so the main problem we bump 178 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: up against, right as we try to become more intentional 179 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: in our spending is planned obsolescence. And this is summed 180 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: up with the phrase they don't make them like they 181 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: used to. If you've heard someone over the age of 182 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: fifty say that, I don't think anyone over the age 183 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: of fifty hasn't said that phrase, right, That's just kind 184 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: of it's part of getting older. He starts to saying 185 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: those things. I think I found myself saying stuff like 186 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: that more and more as I'm like, you know, I'm 187 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: not I'm not over the hill yet like you, Matt, 188 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: but I'm getting closer now that I'm forty. I say 189 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: it once a week. Understandable as you should, and like 190 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: we all tend to point our fingers at a lot 191 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: of items that do this right. There's there's fast fashion, 192 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,719 Speaker 1: there's home appliances, electronics all come to mind. Textbooks or 193 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 1: one of those textbook examples of something that is made 194 00:08:45,240 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: to be obsolete pretty quickly. There's a new edition every 195 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: couple of years, and so the one you bought, if 196 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:51,959 Speaker 1: you bought it too early, well it doesn't work for 197 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 1: the class, and and then maybe you can't actually sell 198 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: it for anything. It's worthless by the time you're done 199 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: with that class too. But we've all experienced it right 200 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: where the newer model is lacking because it's not made 201 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: with the same standards, the same rigor, and oftentimes we 202 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: don't even have the choice to offer the product that's 203 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: going to last the longest to bring us the most 204 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: satisfaction because companies and manufacturers aren't delivering quality goods. It's again, 205 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: it's baked into the business model of the company for 206 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: their item to fail after a certain number of years, 207 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: or to stop updating the software so that you can't 208 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: actually use it the way you wanted to. After a 209 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: certain period of time. You'll be back at their doorstep 210 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 1: making another purchase. That's the way they like it, that's right. Yeah, 211 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: So let's let's give an example here. Should you buy 212 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: a Yetti cooler. I don't even know how much of 213 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: the scenes cost, but I'm pretty sure they're in the 214 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: hundreds of dollars kind of thing, like to fifty for 215 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: a decent Yetti cooling, which is crazy. So you can 216 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 1: even do that the way. Did you see that the 217 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: new story that YETI coolers were washing up on the 218 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: shores of Alaska? How cool is that? Like enterprising young 219 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: folks were like just sitting there with their trucks ready 220 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: and waiting to pounds. I have a hard time believing 221 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 1: that actually wasn't like a publicity where they're just like, 222 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: are cooler as are so bad a that they're gonna 223 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: be like floating out at sea And they're still gonna 224 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,839 Speaker 1: be solid, They're still gonna have the ability to keep 225 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,599 Speaker 1: your beverage cold. But you don't have to go the 226 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 1: Yetti route, right because instead you could go to the 227 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: gas station. You could drop five bucks and get yourself 228 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 1: a decent styrofoam cooler. But so, first of all, the dichotomy, 229 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be that extreme right, Like I've 230 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: got a twenty five dollar backpack cooler from Costco. It 231 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: does what I needed to do, keeps all the beverages 232 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: cool in there while we go out to the beach. 233 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 1: That's the most important thing the cooler does. Although right 234 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: it's it's unlikely to the last for decades, like a 235 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: YETI product claims, But I think that's that's totally fine 236 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: with me. But the thing is, the variety of options 237 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,160 Speaker 1: that we have open to us allows for like a 238 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: like a different strokes for different folks kind of approach, 239 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: and so we can each opt to purchase what we 240 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,840 Speaker 1: want to suit our specific needs. Uh. And so before 241 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: you click by, it's just wise to think through how 242 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: long you're gonna want a product and what it is 243 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 1: that you plan to use it for. That'll help you 244 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 1: to answer the question if whether or not you really 245 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: need a cooler? Are if you're just itching to you know, 246 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:04,199 Speaker 1: have that name brand to show off next time you 247 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 1: go to the go to the lake or something like that. Um, 248 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: do you plan to use this cooler more than once? 249 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: Or are you planning to put fish bait in it 250 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: and it's gonna make it really stinky and it's gonna 251 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: be something that you end up passing right away. I 252 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 1: don't want to do that with your yet cooler exactly, 253 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: but if you do want to keep it forever because 254 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: you're you're thinking I'm gonna always want my beers to 255 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,960 Speaker 1: be cold, that that I don't know, maybe spending more 256 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 1: on the more expensive coolers the way to go. Bottom line, 257 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: we are all making trade offs. We just want you 258 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: to know the ones that you are making before you 259 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: make a purchase. That way, you are making a smart 260 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: spending decision. Yeah, what am I going to use this 261 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: for is a great question to ask because it will 262 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: help inform the choice you make. Whereas you might just 263 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: be susceptible for the name brand or the cool new 264 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 1: look when you know what you're not actually going to 265 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: use it in the way that it was intended, and 266 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,760 Speaker 1: the price point just doesn't make sense for what you 267 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: plan to use it for. Absolutely, And I think planned 268 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: obsolescens Matt that that can also be just like really 269 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,200 Speaker 1: frustrating as a consumer as well. Nobody likes to be 270 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: in the middle of a object and have a tool break. 271 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: That's that's never fun. Nobody likes being on vacation and 272 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: having their beach share folding on them. I feel like 273 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: you have made uh, really cheap beach share decisions in 274 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: the past. Hey, I still have those that orange and 275 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: yellow chair that I got from Public's. They still hold up, Okay, 276 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 1: all right, so all right, sorry Mr Tommy Bohama. Well 277 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,280 Speaker 1: I got myna Costco, and of course you know I 278 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: can return them anytime if they suck. But they're also 279 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: they're built to last for a lot longer, and they 280 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: weren't that much more money, So I was totally okay 281 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 1: with that purchase. But it's I think it's important to 282 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: uh not to forget to calculate the annoyance factor of 283 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: feeling like your cheap crap is breaking on the rag 284 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: into your purchasing decisions, because you know the fact that 285 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:42,319 Speaker 1: the cheap item just isn't getting the job done as 286 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: well as it could be. That matters, right, And so 287 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 1: keep in mind that not only are you wasting your 288 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: own money if by buying something that's going to break 289 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 1: down on you rather quickly that's not gonna last as 290 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: long as you like it too, but you're also adding 291 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: one more chotkey to the mountains of trash that we 292 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:01,319 Speaker 1: all contribute to so yeah, thinking about out those decisions, 293 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: how long you need to sign them to last is 294 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,959 Speaker 1: important too, before you make a purchase. It's true, Yeah, 295 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 1: there's an environmental impact as well. But you know, even 296 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: though we really dislike the concept of planned obsolescence, especially 297 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 1: you mentioned like computers or phones that are no longer 298 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,679 Speaker 1: capable of updating, Like who decides that. The company decides that, 299 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 1: and they're just going to decide that, Okay, you now 300 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: have to buy a new device, right unless my parents 301 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 1: they finally just upgraded from the iPhone seven to north 302 00:13:29,040 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: like to the newest model. Was it because they were 303 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: no longer receiving software updates? No, I don't think so. 304 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: I think they like they were just like, okay, these 305 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 1: things are getting long in THEO. But it's one of 306 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 1: the way I feel like iPhone supports their stuff longer 307 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: than Android does. And I was actually disappointed. I think 308 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 1: we talked about it on the show when some of 309 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,520 Speaker 1: the pixel phones after like three years they stopped receiving updates, 310 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 1: and that just feels where seven came out what like 311 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: five years ago. Yeah, and I think those those pixel phones, 312 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:55,960 Speaker 1: like they could still work for a lot of people, 313 00:13:56,280 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: but Google just doesn't want them to work for you anymore, exactly, Uh, 314 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: the evil conglomerate. And I still have a pixel saying 315 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: that as a Pixel owner myself. But bottom line, like, 316 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,599 Speaker 1: we're kind of dragon planned obsolescens through the med a 317 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: little bit, right. But even with that being said, I 318 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: think there's a silver lining to planned obsolescens that that 319 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: I think is important to point out, and that's the 320 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: fact that it allows for there to be more affordable 321 00:14:18,640 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: goods available to more people who otherwise wouldn't have the 322 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: opportunity to make that purchase. Right, So not everyone can 323 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: afford the nicest or even like the middle of the 324 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: road option. So going back to the cooler example, like 325 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 1: sometimes the most affordable five dollar option is going to 326 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: be all that someone can actually swing well. And going 327 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 1: back to the smartphone example, the pixel phones can be 328 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: in the two something dollar range when the newest iPhones 329 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: are twice as much a thousand dollars or more often times, 330 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: so exactly it's a big discrepancy and so yeah, they're 331 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 1: not gonna last as long, but man, that costs a 332 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: lot more a lot less money. Yeah. I think the 333 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: most important thing here though, is that there are options 334 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: for folks, And I think a lot of times this 335 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: is when folks might want to demonized capitalism to its 336 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 1: and extend. They're like, oh, of course they're they're just 337 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 1: out for profits and they're you know, they're gonna brick 338 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: my phone. Whatever it is that folks are saying out there. 339 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: But fact is, if that means that there is somebody 340 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: who has access to a supercomputer basically in their pocket 341 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 1: and they're trying to climb the ranks of society, and 342 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 1: and for a lot of folks that means being able 343 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: to be in touch with an employer, if if they're 344 00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: trying to reach out and or fill a shift something 345 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 1: like that. I think there are a lot of advantages 346 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: for something like a more affordable phone as opposed to 347 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: drop in a thousand bucks on not even the newest iPhone, 348 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: but maybe one that's been released fairly recently. Yeah. Well, 349 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: so when we're talking about spending smarter, I guess one 350 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: of the things we want to avoid, and it's not 351 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: completely avoidable, is some of the retailer tricks that make 352 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 1: some of their items obsolete much quicker. So we want 353 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: to be thoughtful in our purchases, but you know, sometimes 354 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 1: it is that the products themselves are the problem, and 355 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 1: you know, it's up to us to determine which products 356 00:15:57,080 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: is going to get the job done before we actually 357 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 1: may that transaction gonna be savvy consumers. Yeah, but other 358 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: times we are the problem. And so after the break, 359 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk about how to make a mental shift 360 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: for for how we spend and how we think about 361 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: spending so we can make smarter decisions moving forward buying 362 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: the stuff that's actually going to move the needle on 363 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: the happiness front for us. We'll discuss right after this. 364 00:16:29,280 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: All right, we are still talking through the science of 365 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 1: smarter spending and joil before we before we dive into, 366 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: you know, some of these adjustments that we can make 367 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,240 Speaker 1: to our mindset in order to internally adjust how we 368 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: can approach spending more intelligently. Let's dwell for a little 369 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 1: bit longer on how products are made. I think because 370 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: of the planned obsolescence culture that we live in UM, 371 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: oftentimes we're primed to think that all of our purchases 372 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: are disposable in some form of fashion, right, But I 373 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: think this is often like just a self fulfilling prophecy, 374 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: causing us to in fact engage and throw away consumer behavior. 375 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: What you're saying is it's not always the item, it's 376 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: not always the manufacturer. Often times it's our mindset because 377 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: we feel like everything around us is is toossible trash 378 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: to a certain extent, that we just kind of participate 379 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: in that economy. Sure, sure, I mean, and I do 380 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 1: think some of the responsibility, like definitely lies with us, 381 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,719 Speaker 1: because I think, on one hand, somebody might blame companies 382 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,119 Speaker 1: because they're saying, well, everything is just cheap, and everything 383 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 1: is meant to be thrown away, everything is disposable, and 384 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,160 Speaker 1: they make it harder to fix sometimes. Right. Therefore, everything 385 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: I buy I throw away when it's looking a little 386 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: long in the tooth, when it's looking a little ragged, right. 387 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: But yeah, simultaneously it's it's It also comes down to 388 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: us as individuals. It comes down to how we think 389 00:17:41,320 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 1: about things. I think we have the ability to fight 390 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: back and instead opt to buy items that are just 391 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 1: made better or or that have better warranties. Because if 392 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 1: a company stands behind this product to the tune of 393 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: a stellar return policy, I think we should be more 394 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 1: willing to purchase from that company, even if it ends 395 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: up costing us more. I think we can expect to 396 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 1: pay a little bit more because what you're paying for 397 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 1: is an item. You're paying a little bit more for 398 00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 1: an item that should be a whole lot better. Yeah, 399 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 1: but again, I do think as consumers we've just to 400 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,639 Speaker 1: a certain extent, I think we've gotten lazier and instead 401 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:18,560 Speaker 1: of maintaining items and cleaning items and changing the oil 402 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 1: in our item, like they're all sorts of ways that 403 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: we should, I think, be more prone to taking care 404 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: of the things that we have. But I think some 405 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: of this comes down to us, and we just want 406 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 1: things to be easy. We're lazy and oftentimes would rather 407 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,359 Speaker 1: just buy a new, cheap thing that's shiny and fresh, 408 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 1: that's got that fresh out of the plastic new smell, 409 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,679 Speaker 1: rather than figuring out how to like change the batteries 410 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: and something that makes me think of the buy it 411 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: for life movement, which I think is is cool to see. 412 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: I think it's kind of like gaining some steam. More 413 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: and more people are saying I'm going to try to 414 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: buy stuff that's actually gonna stand the test of time. 415 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 1: It's not like this massive, massive movement. I'm sure it's 416 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 1: it's just a few sporadic people right around the country. 417 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: But that is something that I can get behind because 418 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: it's it's consumer reacting to the planned obsolescence trend, and 419 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: they're choosing to buy items that are are made to 420 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,680 Speaker 1: stand the test of time, that are made to last 421 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 1: a whole lot longer, and they're backing companies who are 422 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: making these items. And so we're just like kind of 423 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: racking on the price of a YETI a little bit 424 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: like they're they're not cheap coolers, right, And I think 425 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: a large part of the interest in Yetis is kind 426 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: of a name brand fascination, which I'm not on board with. 427 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 1: But I will say it's a dope looking logo. It 428 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 1: looks cool, is it? Is it Austin FC, the soccer 429 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,480 Speaker 1: sponsored by They got the yetti great yet You're written 430 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: across those four letters across the front of their jerseys. 431 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: Looks pretty nice. It looks great. It does look great. 432 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: And this has coming from somebody who does not own 433 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 1: a Yetie. Man, they are getting so much air time, 434 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: I feel like we should just completely switched to like Microsoft. Well, 435 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: but let's keep going on this on this for a second, 436 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: because they are one of the companies that do make 437 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: a great product that will last for decades to come. 438 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 1: And so we're not saying that everyone should go out 439 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: there and buy one Matt. You don't know one. I 440 00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,360 Speaker 1: don't know one. I don't plan on ow anyone my gosh. Okay, 441 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,120 Speaker 1: so I did really didn't know how much they cost. 442 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm looking at something that are like two hundred sixty 443 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: here's one for fos for like the Big Boy. Yeah, 444 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,639 Speaker 1: so that's a lot of money, not cheap. But again, 445 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 1: some people it might be worth it. They might get 446 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 1: enough value from it. Other people might just be buying 447 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: into the hype. They don't need it, uh, And they 448 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 1: don't need the most invincible cool or known to man 449 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: or whatever yet he's making. But it's helpful to know 450 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,920 Speaker 1: which brands are flipping the script on our disposable culture. 451 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: And I think when we highlight those brands, and when 452 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: we highlight the retailers that are kind of promoting long 453 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 1: term ownership and they're promoting selling goods that are higher quality, 454 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:34,639 Speaker 1: that's the kind of thing that we should all be 455 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: getting behind. Yeah, and aside from the fact that they 456 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 1: last longer, I think it's okay to buy certain items 457 00:20:39,320 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: that we that that mean a little bit more to 458 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: us as individuals just to appreciate the craftsmanship of an item, 459 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 1: right because not only will it lasts longer, not only 460 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 1: does that mean that we will spend less in that 461 00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 1: category of expense, hopefully for the rest of our lives. 462 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 1: But I think there's something to be said to appreciating 463 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: like the artistry or appreciating the craftsmanship that goes into 464 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:59,720 Speaker 1: a quality item and the job that oftentimes they're able 465 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: to do in a much superior way, I guess, to 466 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: their inferior but more affordable counterparts that are out there. 467 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: But we did want to highlight of a few specific brands, 468 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: and you know, just trying to light on companies that 469 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: are prioritizing making solid products and again they almost always 470 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,640 Speaker 1: cost more than the cheapest version that you could pick 471 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 1: up at Walmart or at like Dollar General. But it's 472 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: at least worth mentioning several brands that we think do 473 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,719 Speaker 1: a good job in this realm. And so from personal example, 474 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: Darn Tough Socks are amazing. They've got these lifetime I've 475 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: got like two pairs of Darn Tough socks, but I 476 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,120 Speaker 1: can't wait to continue wearing these bad boys. And then 477 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: one day when there's a hole in it or something 478 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: happens to them to be able to send them back. 479 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 1: I think even the company replaced them a decade later. Like, hey, 480 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: I've had these for a long time. They're like lifetime warrant. Audi, 481 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 1: They've got the twice as a nice guarantee. Ll Bean. 482 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: They've actually modified their um they used to have like 483 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: that lit lifetime war. They're still great, but they're not 484 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,199 Speaker 1: as good as they used to be, the same with Costco. 485 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 1: They've got great, but they had to dial it back 486 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: because of some you know, customers taking advantage of their 487 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,040 Speaker 1: extremely generous return policy. But so like electronics only have 488 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: I think like ninety days, but most other purchases, a 489 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:09,919 Speaker 1: lot of other purchases, you still have the ability to 490 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: return them for life. Yeah, Zappos, Dwalt, Craftsman, Philson, Patagonia. 491 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 1: These are all a bunch of different companies out there 492 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 1: who do a really good job standing behind the products. 493 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: Uh Interestingly enough, even though I KEA, it definitely doesn't 494 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 1: make the cut from like an heirloom furniture company or 495 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: anything like that, but they still have a one year 496 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: return policy and I think that's a nice happy medium. 497 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 1: And that being said, like we know that there are 498 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,479 Speaker 1: more companies out there than just the few that we've mentioned. 499 00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: And so if there's a company that you are a 500 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,399 Speaker 1: fan of or that has just treated you really well. Actually, however, 501 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: to the Facebook group over on Facebook, how do money 502 00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: hop on there and share some of the different companies 503 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: who you have interacted with who have treated you well? 504 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: Because honestly, those we if you have the ability to 505 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: those are the kind of companies that we would love 506 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: to be able to support more and we want other 507 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: shout them out because about them as well. Not a 508 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:01,919 Speaker 1: few here, but we know there are more, if you 509 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: know once that really stand behind their products, that have 510 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: a great return policy and just have high high levels 511 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: of crafts and ship even if it costs more, then 512 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: I think that those are the it's at least worth 513 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:14,879 Speaker 1: letting people know so they can say, Okay, I normally 514 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: spend you know, twenty bucks on a belt. This place 515 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 1: makes belts that are a hundred dollars. There was I 516 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 1: forget what the is it Hanks belts or something like that, 517 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: and I'm like, within our research, we ya, I don't 518 00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,479 Speaker 1: know that I care enough about belts. Yeah, yeah, It's 519 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 1: like I am a hundred dollar belt guy yet. I 520 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,520 Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't think I am. But you know, 521 00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: it's nice to know that they exist, and it's nice 522 00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,439 Speaker 1: to know they're making something quality that's gonna last a 523 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: long time. But here's the other thing that the flip 524 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: side of the coin math. It's important to mention because 525 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: cost does not necessarily equal quality, and that is true. 526 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: That makes it even tougher out there as an individual 527 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: consumer walking through this world. It's not a direct correlation. 528 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: And and sometimes you're paying for a name brand for 529 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,679 Speaker 1: a hot new look, not something that's made better, and 530 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: you can't just equate the price tag to the quality 531 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: that you're getting. Is a Balenciagra purse, for instance, made 532 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: better than other persons that cost a whole lot less? 533 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,439 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I doubt it. Yeah, there's just 534 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: a lot. I think it's more the name, and yeah, 535 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: the scribbles at least stick on there and the signaling 536 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 1: that you're sending out to the world that hey, I 537 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 1: wear Balenciaga. But yeah, you just can't assume that just 538 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: because the price tag is high, that's bound to last forever, 539 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: or that the comedy stands behind the stuff that they make. 540 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: And another important question to ask is if I opt 541 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,919 Speaker 1: to pay more for this item, not only will it 542 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,280 Speaker 1: last longer, but also will I use it for a 543 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: longer period of time, Because even if it doesn't wear 544 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 1: out on us, we might get tired of that item. 545 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: And I think that's particularly true when we're talking about 546 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,680 Speaker 1: fashion related purchases. Matt like, when you opt to spend 547 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,439 Speaker 1: more on higher quality goods, try and get things that 548 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: you're likely to want to use for years to come 549 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:46,360 Speaker 1: that are going to kind of stand the test of time. 550 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 1: I think about that with clothing. I'm more willing to 551 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:52,479 Speaker 1: buy a more expensive article of clothing if it's more 552 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 1: neutral and it's something that I'm like, oh, I'm gonna 553 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 1: wear that for a lot of years, but it feels 554 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 1: more like a staple, like an essential, as opposed to 555 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: like something that's really flashy. Yes, exactly, chances are you're 556 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: not gonna like that flashy years. It's fun right now, 557 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,439 Speaker 1: but it's probably not something that I'm gonna wear for 558 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,600 Speaker 1: years to come, exactly. That's it's actually a pretty good 559 00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: argument for more expensive belt because I'm like, I'm not 560 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: hardly ever looking for anything special or fancy or flashy 561 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 1: out of my belt. I wanted to fit through my 562 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 1: belt loops, hold my pants up. What you're looking for, 563 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 1: and a belt doesn't really change much over years, at 564 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: least from basic dudes like us. Although that being said, literally, 565 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: the belt I I have right now is a belt 566 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 1: that I purchased in college, and so this is I mean, 567 00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: we're talking like decades ago, but this is about I 568 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 1: purchased from Abercrombie and Fitch. I don't know how they 569 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,439 Speaker 1: did it, but this thing is still holding up, and 570 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: it's my favorite belt. You've always been an Abercrombie pitch guy, 571 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 1: so used to actually be a model. You stand up front, 572 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: up front of the store with your shirt off. Yeah, 573 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 1: I still do sometimes, but I don't get paid for 574 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,239 Speaker 1: it now. In fact, you get escorted out of all. 575 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: Come with us, okay, But then there are going to 576 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: be some instances where it doesn't make sense to buy 577 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,439 Speaker 1: the thing at all. It doesn't make sense to go 578 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 1: the cheap route, doesn't make sense to go the really 579 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,879 Speaker 1: expensive route, because you're unlikely to ever need that item again. 580 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 1: And in those situations we should consider renting or borrowing 581 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: those items. Kate and I were talking through maybe doing 582 00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: some some yard projects. Here in the spring. And you 583 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: know what would be foolish is if I went out 584 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: and bought a little mini bulldozer literally of a little 585 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 1: front endloader. Because we're talking about it, you should get one. Well, 586 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about renting one because this is likely going 587 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: to be an item that I used once or you know, 588 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 1: like I would use it the whole weekend. But it 589 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: would be incredibly foolish to go out and buy one 590 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,520 Speaker 1: of those, to buy a massive tool like that. But 591 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:37,880 Speaker 1: generally speaking, I don't think that this gets talked about 592 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: enhing Obviously, renting a front end loader or something like 593 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 1: that as a fairly extreme example, but for instance, borrowing 594 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 1: an article of clothing that you'll probably need only once 595 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 1: isn't taboo. It's awesome. But that being said, there are 596 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: other places that you can borrow from as well. And 597 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: I guess my minds in the space of tools and whatnot, 598 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: but there are tool banks out there. You can look 599 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: up local tools dot org and locate tool banks near 600 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: wherever it is that you live, and honestly, just libraries 601 00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,040 Speaker 1: in general, um I think those are worth mentioning as well. 602 00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 1: Looking to some of the different options that are available 603 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 1: to us and to be honest, there are they are 604 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: options that you pay for with your taxes, and so 605 00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,800 Speaker 1: these are resources that are available to us, and I 606 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: think we should all take advantage of winter often. When 607 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: you mentioned borrowing clothing, by the way, there's stuff like 608 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: rent the runway out there, but you could also literally 609 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: just ask our friend. Oh yeah, I'm talking about like 610 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,160 Speaker 1: asking your neighbor. Because if I needed a blazer because 611 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: I don't dress up very much, but I knew a 612 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: friend same size he had one of that could probably 613 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,919 Speaker 1: use just for a night. Because literally I dressed up 614 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,880 Speaker 1: like once a year. I've got like one nice suit. 615 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: But let's say I needed something a little fancier, I 616 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: could reach out to a friend and ask. I mean, 617 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: I could try one of those services online where I 618 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,639 Speaker 1: could rent something, but I can also just got borrowed. 619 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: I think we we've kind of gotten away from asking 620 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: friends to borrow stuff, and the more we like reincorporate that, 621 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,359 Speaker 1: the more money we can save. But also it's like 622 00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 1: a community building effort to where we just like start 623 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 1: to borrow from one another more regularly. I think that's 624 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: just a healthy way to live. Totally. Yeah, I couldn't 625 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: agree more. I think this is one area where online 626 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,680 Speaker 1: shopping has sort of weakened the fabric of our communities 627 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: because I feel like that would have been something or 628 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: you know, borrowing a tool from a neighbor, Like that's 629 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 1: the kind of those are some of those weak It's 630 00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: not I don't wanna call him weak, but like casual 631 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: connections that reinforce that strength in the community. And when 632 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,000 Speaker 1: it it is so sticking easy just to order something 633 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: online and just have it show up. Well, I mean, 634 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: don't we want to do things that that are that's easy. Yeah, 635 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 1: I mean we've got busy lives and just I can 636 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: just hop on the app and order it, as opposed 637 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 1: to texting and asking a bunch of questions, going back 638 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: and forth, having them you know, set it out in 639 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,919 Speaker 1: their garage or setting it out on the even if 640 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: you don't know the super well and you're like, I 641 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: don't know, maybe this is an imposition, or I just 642 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,400 Speaker 1: moved in the neighborhood. I don't know that neighbor super well. 643 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 1: But these are kind of the ways that you deepen 644 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 1: those ties that like the fabric of a community grows 645 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: as opposed to deteriorates. Right totally, it might sound weird. 646 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people actually start to think 647 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: of it as like imposing on somebody else, or that 648 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 1: you're being lazy or you're being cheap by asking. But 649 00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think that's how it works. 650 00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 1: And I think there's a reciprocity that can take place, 651 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: and then you lend something to them in the future. 652 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 1: Are you know, give them a couple eggs that are 653 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 1: worth a million dollars now because eggs are so expensive. 654 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 1: I mean, there's just there's so many ways I think 655 00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,880 Speaker 1: that you can encourage that where you live without just 656 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: going to the online resource or you know, yeah, borrowing 657 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: from a friend makes a lot of sense to me 658 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: for for a lot of different things that you might need. 659 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 1: But so far, we've kind of addressed the problem of 660 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: quality verse quantity to a certain extent, like you don't 661 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: need eight coolers, you might need one great cooler. But 662 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: for the most part, this is an issue that lies 663 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: outside of ourselves. These are external problems on the purchasing 664 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: front that we've discussed, but another major problem is internal. 665 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: It's the mindless consumption that most of us all take 666 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: part in it. And I say most of us, I 667 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: include myself in that because I'm not immune from kind 668 00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: of perfect No, I'm not immune from the realities of 669 00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: kind of our consumer culture, and I'm trying to try 670 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: to be cognizant of it. I try to combat it, 671 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: but it doesn't mean I do it perfectly. And so I, yeah, 672 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: I think it's important to mention that these are things 673 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 1: that Matt and I struggle with as well. But there 674 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: are things that, Yeah, I think we all need to 675 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 1: work to come back together. And one economist he referred 676 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,720 Speaker 1: to our inability to rain in our spending desires as 677 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 1: trickled down behaviorism, which I think is a really good definition. 678 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: And I see that happening to I see other people 679 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: spending in certain ways, and it kind of, I don't know, 680 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: it primes the pump for me to spend in ways 681 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 1: that I might not otherwise choose to do. Either. You're like, 682 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,400 Speaker 1: I got money, Yeah, I want that thing too. They 683 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: can do it if they can afford it, why don't 684 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: I do that? And so, yeah, I think a decent 685 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 1: chunk of the American public they kind of tend to 686 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: base consumption choices on what they're seeing others do around them. 687 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: And when we're marching to the beat of other people's drummers, 688 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 1: were bound to find ourselves making decisions that arn't in 689 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: our own best interest and which caused us to spend 690 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: money in ways that don't line up with our own 691 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 1: personal goals, you know, our own personal desires, and it's 692 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: it's also known as keeping up with the jones is 693 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: of course, like you've heard that term. But that's why 694 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: starting to think more about what we want, not what 695 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,000 Speaker 1: our culture tells us we should want, is an importan 696 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: and step to take and kind of like another nerdy 697 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 1: term here, Matt, that is called compensatory consumption. And probably 698 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 1: the best example of this is a guy in like 699 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: a yellow sports car. You're like, Oh, what's he? What's he? 700 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: What's he? Uh? What's making up for? Yeah, he's compensating 701 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: for something, right, and so, but we often do this 702 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 1: in smaller, more subtle ways too, and we tend to 703 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: tend to spend, at least sometimes in ways that are 704 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 1: making up for other ways in which we feel like 705 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 1: our lives aren't what we want them to be, and 706 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: that leads to a precarious financial position for a lot 707 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: of people. It's just it's poor spending, but largely goaded 708 00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 1: by the fact that, like other parts of our lives 709 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,719 Speaker 1: just aren't going exactly the way we hoped. That's right, 710 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: and kind of going back to what you're saying to 711 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: about keeping up with the Joneses. So if we're highlighting 712 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: the fact that we are spending in ways that they 713 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,600 Speaker 1: think we should be spending, I think that brings up 714 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: another problem, Right, what do we actually want to spend 715 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: our money on? You know, what kind of spending is 716 00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: actually going to make us happy? Well, we'll discuss how 717 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:06,680 Speaker 1: to be in thinking through that right after the break 718 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 1: alr Matt, let's keep going. We're talking about the science 719 00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: of smarter spending on today's episode, of course, and we 720 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 1: want we want how the money listeners to you know, 721 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: not fall prey to planned obsolescence. We want them to 722 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 1: buy better things that are gonna last longer, and or 723 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: buy fewer things all together, and rent more stuff. Maybe 724 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 1: all those kinds of things I think are helpful in 725 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 1: kind of curbing the cycle of just like spending more 726 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: than we should. But then we have to really address 727 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,520 Speaker 1: the core issue. And I think that's what we're gonna 728 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: get into here, which is what matters to me as 729 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 1: an individual. What moves the needle from a purchase perspective, 730 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,800 Speaker 1: Because the truth is, some of the things that we 731 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: buy are meaningful. We We even did uh an episode 732 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: back in the day matt on experiences versus things, and 733 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 1: a lot of the literature shows that buying experiences matters most. 734 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: We'll talk about that in a second. But like, it's 735 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: that that's true to a certain extent. But some of 736 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 1: the things we buy mean a lot to us too. 737 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,720 Speaker 1: There are definitely some things that I own that I 738 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: placed a lot of value on, Like my bike is 739 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: one of them, right, And if I if my bike 740 00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: got stolen, it would feel a lot worse than someone 741 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: taking that money out of my bank account even right, 742 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: because I've got I just have like a lot of 743 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 1: history with this thing. And sometimes the things we own 744 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,600 Speaker 1: can have that deep of a tie to who we 745 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,960 Speaker 1: are um and and but like not everything we own 746 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: should have that Probably we should have a relationship to 747 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,280 Speaker 1: everything we own. That's that extreme. But you know, let's 748 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,640 Speaker 1: focus on spending less on the things that the culture 749 00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 1: is steering us towards and more on the things that 750 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 1: matter the most to us. I think it's a really 751 00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 1: important thing when it comes to spending smartly, and who 752 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: we follow on social media directly impacts our mental state 753 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 1: and how likely we are to go out there and 754 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: spend like maniacs. If you're following celebrities and fashion influencers 755 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: and in they're putting you in the wrong state of mind, 756 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 1: that could lead to spending in ways that you don't 757 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,320 Speaker 1: want to write. Literally it's in their name. Influencers like, like, 758 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: their goal is to get you to do something that 759 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: companies are paying them to get you to do. I'll 760 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,399 Speaker 1: click the link below for ten percent off, and you're like, well, who, 761 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: all right, that's great? Well, I mean in who you 762 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:15,839 Speaker 1: like specifically, curating that feed is one way to kind 763 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 1: of reduce that that cycle of buying things that you 764 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: weren't otherwise thinking about purchasing. And it's it's important too 765 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: to work towards reducing our wants. And the thing is, 766 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,759 Speaker 1: and something that I think we we often fail to 767 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,759 Speaker 1: realize is that our our pension to overspend means will 768 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 1: be forced to reduce our wants in the future to 769 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: pay for prior spending. So we're unwilling or have the 770 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 1: option the future. We're unwilling or spending today to do 771 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,600 Speaker 1: it right now to say no to the thing that 772 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,680 Speaker 1: we want, which means that we're going to have to 773 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: future us is going to have to say no to 774 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: things because we're paying you know, likely uh interest with 775 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,320 Speaker 1: an interest rate attached for the things that we bought before. 776 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 1: And the truth is, and this is kind of maybe 777 00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:56,560 Speaker 1: a weird thing to say, but if you set your 778 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 1: expectations and your desires low, there's a really good chance 779 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: are going to spend less and that you'll actually be happier. 780 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: And I think the things that we encounter, especially on 781 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 1: social media, they kind of elevate our expectations for what 782 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,600 Speaker 1: our lives should look like, and then we start to 783 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,920 Speaker 1: spend accordingly because we think our lives should look like that, 784 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 1: because darnett, if there's scan, why can't mind? And in 785 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 1: the end it actually makes us more indebted and less 786 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,920 Speaker 1: happy overall, Yeah, leaving us in a less healthy mental 787 00:35:21,040 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 1: state as well. So, yeah, you're talking about social media. 788 00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 1: But once we've quieted all that noise out there, right, 789 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: we've put to rest all the messaging telling us what 790 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: to buy, I think it's time to get a little 791 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 1: a little more introspective to identify your craft beer equivalent. 792 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: We briefly mentioned this at the beginning of every interview, 793 00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: but we want to find out, for individuals who we're 794 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 1: talking to, what is your craft beer equivalent? What is 795 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 1: the thing that you are intentionally spending money on now 796 00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 1: in order to basically prove to yourself that is not 797 00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:53,760 Speaker 1: just about deferring happiness and enjoyment and leading a life 798 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 1: of deprivation now. Uh. And so for some this will 799 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,680 Speaker 1: be easy because you already know yourself pretty well. But 800 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: for others, this you know, honestly, it might take some 801 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: some time. It might take some trial and error because 802 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:07,640 Speaker 1: identifying the spending that move the needle the most for you, 803 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 1: like that might not be the most intuitive process. And 804 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: so I want to say that, first of all, it's 805 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,960 Speaker 1: okay to make some mistakes, in particular mistakes that don't 806 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: cost you a ton of money, because the vital part 807 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 1: of spending more on quality is determining the areas of 808 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: spending that matter the most to you. You know that 809 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: keep this in mind, like this is your hard earned 810 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,320 Speaker 1: money and you're not spending it to impress other people. 811 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 1: It's okay to make some mistakes, to make some errors, 812 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 1: but we want there to be I guess smaller price 813 00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: tags associated with those mistakes, with those areas of spending 814 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: that didn't bring you the most joy. Necessarily before you're 815 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 1: spending out the nose, don't buy Abravian and then be like, 816 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,280 Speaker 1: oh crap, now, I guess I don't really like electric. 817 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 1: Maybe start with the leaf um, but it's just hard 818 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,280 Speaker 1: to know, right if if your craft beer equivalent is travel, 819 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,479 Speaker 1: if you haven't gone on any sort of trip, don't 820 00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:56,279 Speaker 1: start with like the four week long international trip. But 821 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 1: maybe start with like visiting your local state park, or 822 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 1: start with a local city that you can visit and 823 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 1: spend some time. And it's it's good to go ahead 824 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,840 Speaker 1: and just dip your toe in the waters first to 825 00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 1: kind of ease on into it, and then you know, 826 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 1: after you try that purchase out, then do just a 827 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: little bit of reflecting, maybe a little bit of soul 828 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,879 Speaker 1: searching to see if it's moving the needle for you. Yeah, 829 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,400 Speaker 1: I think it's always to me, it's always fun to 830 00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,719 Speaker 1: see how other people spend money and what lights them up, 831 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,960 Speaker 1: when they know what excites him, when they know what 832 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: moves the needle. And it made me think I was 833 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: reading Calypso by David Sedaris recently, I was listening to 834 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: the audiobook as a new one. No, I think it's 835 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: a few years ago, but I think I'm on the 836 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,319 Speaker 1: on weight at the library to get his new one. 837 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: But actually was so good and so funny. But he 838 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: was talking about how he and his sisters like to 839 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:43,720 Speaker 1: go shopping in Japan at this like weird, weird store 840 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: with where the clothing almost looks like it's been used 841 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:49,840 Speaker 1: or put through like a war battlefields the way he 842 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 1: describes it. But it's funny. That's what he loves, and 843 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,800 Speaker 1: he talks about how it lights him up, how he 844 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: gets so excited, and that's just you can tell in 845 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: so many other ways he's he probably die back, but 846 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 1: that is something he's like, I spend a lot of 847 00:38:02,320 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: money on that stuff, and I don't care because it's 848 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 1: the best experience ever to go do that with my sisters. 849 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 1: I love to see when other people they kind of 850 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 1: know themselves to that extent, and that's part of what 851 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: it takes to know your craftier equivalent means getting to 852 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,399 Speaker 1: know yourself a little bit. And like you said, Matt 853 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: might have to make some mistakes in the process of 854 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:20,719 Speaker 1: figuring that out. But it's worth figuring out because then 855 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 1: you're like happy to spend those dollars as opposed to 856 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: beating yourself up every time you fork over money to 857 00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: spend on something that you care about, right and well 858 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:31,200 Speaker 1: and going before we move on, like it makes me 859 00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: think back to at the beginning of the episode more 860 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,440 Speaker 1: we're talking about your kids, you know, it's like the 861 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:37,319 Speaker 1: doll the Barbie dream house or whatever. I think this 862 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: is when as parents, it is so important for us 863 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 1: to put our kids in situations that allow them to 864 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,440 Speaker 1: make some mistakes while they still live under our reof right. 865 00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: We want to expose them to the ability to make 866 00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: some errors. I think it's important for them to fail occasionally, 867 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:56,200 Speaker 1: but to fail where the fail when the failure is 868 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 1: not gonna be fatal, when when the stakes are low exactly, 869 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 1: And this is gonna be a good chance for me 870 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 1: to talk about trade offs with my oldest daughter too, 871 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 1: which is, like we said, just a massive part of 872 00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:09,399 Speaker 1: spending wisely like cool, now that this isn't necessarily some cost, 873 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 1: you might be able to get some of your money 874 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: back for this and and spend it on something that 875 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: you care about more, which is also true, Like we 876 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 1: can sometimes sell things right when we're like, oh, that 877 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 1: was a mistake, Well, then get that thing out of 878 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: your life, right, sell it and move on and use 879 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:22,239 Speaker 1: that money to buy something that is going to make 880 00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: a difference, That is something that you're going to want, 881 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 1: want to have. And you know, we've spent a lot 882 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,520 Speaker 1: of this episode already talking about stuff, Matt, but let's 883 00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: talk about experiences for a second, because they are I 884 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: think I think stuff is underrated sometimes buying the right things, 885 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: but experiences are often one of the best ways to 886 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: maximize the utility of your dollars. Because we're we're all 887 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,400 Speaker 1: for low cost or even free outings with friends, but 888 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 1: this is probably an area in life that you intentionally 889 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,840 Speaker 1: choose to spend more on in order to lead to 890 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 1: much more happiness. Part of what's cool about spending money 891 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:58,480 Speaker 1: on experiences is often the anticipation that you get in 892 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,279 Speaker 1: advance of that experience, and then also the memories that 893 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:05,359 Speaker 1: you get as you look back on that experience. So, Matt, 894 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: we just you know, we just went on a trip actually, 895 00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,200 Speaker 1: and then we're about to go on another trip later 896 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 1: this spring, and the I'm already I'm already excited about it. 897 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: Planning it as we're talking about it, thinking about it, 898 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,240 Speaker 1: and I'm already looking back at our recent trip together 899 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: where we just made some awesome memories with our wives. 900 00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:24,879 Speaker 1: We had a great time trapesing around Louisville, Kentucky, and 901 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,920 Speaker 1: there's all sorts of just joy associated with even just 902 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,240 Speaker 1: a short weekend trip like that. I think experiences are 903 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:35,360 Speaker 1: and they really can be one of the best uses 904 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: of our dollars because via the memories we have, the pictures, 905 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,319 Speaker 1: they can almost like be the gift that keeps on 906 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,919 Speaker 1: giving in that way, right, And but it's it's also 907 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,280 Speaker 1: not just that shoulder season trip to Iceland that provides 908 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: a payoff. Iceland I think is still one of the 909 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,399 Speaker 1: hot destinations right now. But but buying your time back 910 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,400 Speaker 1: and having more margin is a pretty sweet use of 911 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: your dollars too. That's true from an overall, you know, 912 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: financial independence perspective, when you're talking about like trying to 913 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 1: retire early or something like that, then YEA, having more 914 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 1: money in your bank account really does allow you to 915 00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: leave work before you thought you'd be able to, or 916 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,440 Speaker 1: leave work earlier than most. But it also can impact 917 00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 1: your day today, right, and free time is hard to 918 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,279 Speaker 1: come by, but those who feel like they have more 919 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,479 Speaker 1: of it are often more willing to do other things 920 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,960 Speaker 1: that are good for them, like exercise and volunteer, which 921 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: are two great habits. So I think at times, you know, 922 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,479 Speaker 1: it might be worth testing some spending on maybe paying 923 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,960 Speaker 1: someone to do lawn care or house cleaning for you, 924 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: so that you can have more time to do some 925 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,080 Speaker 1: of the things that matter to you. It might not 926 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 1: even be buying more stuff. It might be buying more 927 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 1: of your time back to enjoy the things that you 928 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: care about, even if it's as simple as like laying 929 00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,520 Speaker 1: in your hammock reading a book. That's true, man, And 930 00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 1: I think this is really important to bring up as well, 931 00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 1: because it can be difficult for folks to choose intentionally 932 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,240 Speaker 1: choose to not do tasks that they are very capable 933 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:56,799 Speaker 1: and physically able to do in order to do something else. Um. Oftentimes, 934 00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 1: when we're younger, we have less money, right Like, we've 935 00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,080 Speaker 1: got less money and plan tea of time. But for like, 936 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:05,160 Speaker 1: the more wealth you build up, oftentimes those two things 937 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,680 Speaker 1: flip and you're like, oh man, I'm realizing they're like, Wow, 938 00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: we're doing great with our finances. We're on track for 939 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,359 Speaker 1: a retirement. Whatever financial goals we've set for ourselves. Uh, 940 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: it seems like that that's working out. But oftentimes the 941 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,400 Speaker 1: stressor revolves around time. And so I totally agree. I 942 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 1: think this is a way that we can proactively reclaim 943 00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 1: some of that time by paying for for some of 944 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,319 Speaker 1: those things. Um. And again, I think it's it's something 945 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,280 Speaker 1: that we oftentimes have to challenge ourselves to do, because truly, 946 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 1: the frugal approach would would be to say, oh, well 947 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,800 Speaker 1: I can do that if and if I am capable 948 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,040 Speaker 1: of doing that, why should I pay somebody else to 949 00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: do that? Um? It's like, well, well, like what is 950 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,320 Speaker 1: it that you're trying to get more of in your life? Okay? 951 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,880 Speaker 1: So but once you've identified that, you know, like the 952 00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,839 Speaker 1: things like the items or the different experiences that make 953 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 1: you the happiest, I think something that you can do 954 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:51,960 Speaker 1: to to heighten your your satisfaction even more is by 955 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,759 Speaker 1: making your purchase a rare treat. Um. I think the 956 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: more regularly that we do something, the less special it becomes. Right. 957 00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,239 Speaker 1: And so we were just talking about travel. I think 958 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: there's a massive difference between taking a couple awesome week 959 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,719 Speaker 1: long trips every single year and living a life of 960 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,840 Speaker 1: just perpetual, NonStop travel. Yea, all of a sudden probably 961 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,880 Speaker 1: doesn't feel all that special anymore if you're just constantly 962 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,040 Speaker 1: just like, that's just your new normal. Uh, and that 963 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 1: hedonic treadmill kicks sent in before you know it. You 964 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,320 Speaker 1: don't even realize that you're traveling. This is just your life. 965 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,280 Speaker 1: Oh but by the way, it's your life that happens 966 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,839 Speaker 1: that cost a ton of money. Makes me think of 967 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: talking to Elane and she talked on Monday about the 968 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,000 Speaker 1: Frugal Traveler from The New York Times, and she mentioned 969 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 1: that one of the things that she does sometimes use 970 00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 1: those some of those points, she's accrued to upgrade to 971 00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: a nice re seat in the airplane and she's traveling 972 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,600 Speaker 1: all the time, and so splurge. Yeah, it's a splurge 973 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 1: and it's and I'm like, that's a great way to 974 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: treat it, because I know some people and it's like, 975 00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 1: that's all you do, first class all the time, no 976 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: matter what. All of a sudden, that's just the new normals, 977 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,320 Speaker 1: the new normal, and it doesn't feel the same and 978 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 1: it doesn't provide the same rewards. Yes, Similarly, it makes 979 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,920 Speaker 1: me think of every Monday, you and I we go 980 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,960 Speaker 1: to our local little coffee shop, a little stand over there, 981 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,920 Speaker 1: and we order a coffee. We enjoy that that barista 982 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,760 Speaker 1: made coffee way more when we get it once a week, 983 00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:02,880 Speaker 1: and as opposed to imagine if we went over there 984 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 1: every single day. First of all, just the financial irresponsibility, Um, 985 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 1: we lose our job, as how to my host, we 986 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: lose our street credit if we were doing that. But 987 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 1: I don't think we would enjoy it nearly as much. 988 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 1: It would just kind of it would become again the 989 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: new normal. There's just something about the novelty that I 990 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,279 Speaker 1: think that makes us appreciate the purchase even more. Yeah, man, 991 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 1: I think that that's totally true that the more we 992 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 1: get used to certain things, the less valuable they become. 993 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 1: But we kind of continue to expect to do those things. 994 00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,200 Speaker 1: We keep spending money on those things, and yet the 995 00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 1: payoff isn't quite the same right after a while. And 996 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: it makes me think of an old old personal finance 997 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,239 Speaker 1: guy that I used to keep up with, and he 998 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 1: would say that eventually, if you lobster every single day, 999 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 1: it just tastes like soap, which I've never been a 1000 00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: huge lobster fan myself. But I get that. Yeah, I 1001 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 1: get that too. I think if I hate stake every 1002 00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,240 Speaker 1: you get tired of it pretty quick. Right. So, um, 1003 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: even the things that you love, if you overdo it, 1004 00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: it has it one. It's going to be bad for 1005 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,840 Speaker 1: your finances. But too, it's just not gonna it's not 1006 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: gonna provide the same return on investment. Well, and the 1007 00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,719 Speaker 1: goal of this episode is is for all of us 1008 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,520 Speaker 1: to really dial in and optimize our spending. But it's 1009 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 1: likely a great goal just just spend less overall as well. Right, 1010 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,000 Speaker 1: I think that's probably what a lot of honey money 1011 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 1: listeners want. They are some of them might have like 1012 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: a thirty savings right and they're like, yeah, no, I 1013 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:21,319 Speaker 1: just not really. I think I'm good. But then there 1014 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:22,959 Speaker 1: are other people who are like, no, really, that's something 1015 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: I want is to spend less overall. And there's a 1016 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,400 Speaker 1: slogan from one of our favorite people in the personal 1017 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,680 Speaker 1: finance space, Katie Wolke Stanley. She she goes by the 1018 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 1: anti consumer advocate and what she says is use it up, 1019 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 1: wear it out, make it do or do without. And 1020 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,400 Speaker 1: if you follow her on Instagram, she's always doing something 1021 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,880 Speaker 1: to save money, and it's often something that most people 1022 00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 1: just wouldn't even consider. Like she shops at the Third 1023 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,040 Speaker 1: Store regularly. She she's often selling the things that she 1024 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:51,759 Speaker 1: finds at the Third Store and telling you how much 1025 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,920 Speaker 1: she made, how much she profited by selling it on eBay, 1026 00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,360 Speaker 1: which I think is awesome. Like she fixes the stuff 1027 00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: that she owns when it's falling apart, even if it's 1028 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: just like a cheap pair of sandals. For her, no 1029 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,840 Speaker 1: stone is left unturned. And I love following her because 1030 00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,200 Speaker 1: it goads me into leaning harder towards wasting less and 1031 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,359 Speaker 1: making do with what I've got. Matt just kind of 1032 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 1: like what we're talking about earlier with social media, the 1033 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: influence they can have, Like her influence on me when 1034 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,640 Speaker 1: I'm scrolling through social media is a positive one. It's 1035 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 1: the exact opposite I think of what a lot of 1036 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,239 Speaker 1: people are getting in their feed So follow people like 1037 00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,320 Speaker 1: that that are going to encourage you in the right direction, 1038 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,520 Speaker 1: that aren't going to lead you down the path of 1039 00:46:25,560 --> 00:46:29,279 Speaker 1: like just rampant consumer spending, enticing you towards things that 1040 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,879 Speaker 1: you can't necessarily afford and that you don't necessarily need. 1041 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:34,360 Speaker 1: Totally agree man. Yeah, I think it's important for us 1042 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,480 Speaker 1: to start thinking about our purchases from a different perspective 1043 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,640 Speaker 1: because it's sure, spending more money it can fix certain 1044 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,239 Speaker 1: problems in our lives, but it's not the solution to 1045 00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:45,279 Speaker 1: every problem that we face. A friend of the show, 1046 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: Morgan Housel, he says that spending money to make you 1047 00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,480 Speaker 1: happy it's hard when you're already happy. And so I 1048 00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 1: think that's just kind of a great quote for us 1049 00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 1: to end on, because being content with you know, what 1050 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: it is that we have will just make it easier 1051 00:46:57,760 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 1: to avoid some of those spending traps that we can 1052 00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: fall into. When we know ourselves well and we can 1053 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: pinpoint exactly, you know, what actually makes us happy, I 1054 00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:07,560 Speaker 1: think we're going to be less likely to waste our 1055 00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 1: money on either crap that's going to break or the 1056 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 1: things that that culture in society says that we should 1057 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: be spending our money on. Yeah. I like that quote. 1058 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,680 Speaker 1: I mussa say it one more time. Spending money to 1059 00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,080 Speaker 1: make you happy as hard if you're already happy. That's 1060 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 1: just a great way to think about it, right, And 1061 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,080 Speaker 1: we're all going to feel that need, that desire less 1062 00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,279 Speaker 1: to spend money when we're truly happy and and and 1063 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,280 Speaker 1: part of that knowing yourself, it becomes more about utility 1064 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,680 Speaker 1: as opposed to the feelings that something that that I 1065 00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 1: purchase gives you. And we all know, we've all been 1066 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,080 Speaker 1: there that sometimes it's that the temporary feeling that a 1067 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,439 Speaker 1: purchase can provide. That's what we're seeking. And we're saying, 1068 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 1: Matt and I are saying in this episode, no, no, no no, no, 1069 00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,880 Speaker 1: we want to avoid trying to maximize those fleeting feelings 1070 00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:50,920 Speaker 1: right that sometimes consuming things, buying stuff randomly on the 1071 00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,439 Speaker 1: internet can provide. We were more about that long term 1072 00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 1: health and so hopefully, uh yeah, spending wise. Hopefully we've 1073 00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,720 Speaker 1: given you some tips in this episode to spend wisely 1074 00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,879 Speaker 1: and to spend in a more reflective manner that that 1075 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 1: is going to help you achieve those goals that you've 1076 00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:09,000 Speaker 1: got for yourself. That's right, Yeah, And not surprisingly this 1077 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:10,480 Speaker 1: is I feel like this is gonna a very balanced 1078 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: approach to spending money, which I think folks should come 1079 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,799 Speaker 1: to expect from us here at how the money some 1080 00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:19,440 Speaker 1: sometimes again where there's the classic personal finance way of 1081 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 1: talking to people is like stop buying everything, don't buy 1082 00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,480 Speaker 1: anything you know only drive a twenty five year old 1083 00:48:24,520 --> 00:48:26,120 Speaker 1: use car. And there are certain things like we're hardcore 1084 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: on you and I we do drive older used cars. 1085 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 1: We have one car, and that's something that we're one car. 1086 00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: We're pretty into. But then there are other things where 1087 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: it's like people would be like, oh, really, you bought 1088 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 1: a two hundred dollar jacket. I would have thought you've 1089 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 1: been wearing something from the thrift store. And it's like, no, well, 1090 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:40,160 Speaker 1: that jacket's gonna last me a long time and I 1091 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: really like it, so uh yeah, but it's really important 1092 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: for me to have a down jacket so I can 1093 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,520 Speaker 1: stay warm in the winter. I spent a lot of 1094 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 1: time outside and on the bike riding. So yeah, those 1095 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 1: are the kind of things that like, they're gonna be 1096 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:53,120 Speaker 1: different for each of us as individuals, but they're important 1097 00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 1: for us to think through exactly. That's right, man, all right. 1098 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 1: So the beer you and I enjoyed today was a 1099 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,880 Speaker 1: Song of Winter. This is a chocolate stout brewed with 1100 00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 1: fresh cocoa nibs by Hill Farmstead Brewery. What were your 1101 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,319 Speaker 1: thoughts on this beer? Yeah, so honestly, it made me 1102 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: think of Monday's beer a whole lot. The I p 1103 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 1: a that we had in the fact that it was 1104 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: kind of just a basic style, like nothing over the top, 1105 00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 1: but it was well executed. It was just a great 1106 00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 1: example of kind of like a milk stout. This is 1107 00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 1: definitely what what this vibe was going on. Yeah, dude, 1108 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 1: I totally agree with you there because it was like 1109 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,560 Speaker 1: it was super toasty and roasty, but simultaneously it wasn't 1110 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,480 Speaker 1: too acidic, like it was really smooth, uh, And oftentimes 1111 00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:35,480 Speaker 1: you find that in the milk style there's to be 1112 00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 1: lactose in there, right, but it doesn't say it's that 1113 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: it's a milk stout at all. Okay, it tastes like 1114 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,319 Speaker 1: that to me, and but it also is just one 1115 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,400 Speaker 1: of those things where it's, uh, it's basic in its approach, 1116 00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,399 Speaker 1: but it's really really well done and so um. Yeah, 1117 00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,919 Speaker 1: i'd say it was clean and delicious. And it's still 1118 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 1: stout season where we are here in Atlanta, it's still 1119 00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 1: it's still somewhat cold, so chilly. Yeah, I did counsas 1120 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 1: winter for sure. But yeah, So these were the first 1121 00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,759 Speaker 1: two Hill Farmstead beers that we've ever had, and I 1122 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,919 Speaker 1: will say they were most excellent. They're they're very good, 1123 00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: but they didn't. At the same time, they didn't completely 1124 00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,960 Speaker 1: blow my socks off like Fidens did. Those are the 1125 00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: beers we had last week Monday and Wednesday. Wednesday's beers 1126 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:16,280 Speaker 1: from last week that Michael and Emily donated as well, 1127 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:20,359 Speaker 1: those big beers completely, I mean they blew us both away. Uh, 1128 00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,800 Speaker 1: they were mind blowing. Well. Hill Farm said has apparently 1129 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 1: some of the best, and these are, by the way, 1130 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,440 Speaker 1: are totally so good. They're they're very good. But I 1131 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,640 Speaker 1: think some of their barrel age hours or maybe the 1132 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 1: most earlier I think Hill Farm said, so maybe one 1133 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 1: of these days we'll grab one of those. That's the goal. 1134 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I would totally I would give these an A. 1135 00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 1: But the beers last week were like a plus plus. Yeah, yeah, 1136 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 1: agreed for sure. Actually I would give this an A plus. 1137 00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,719 Speaker 1: It's just last week was just over the top. It 1138 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 1: was way more than I think either of us were expecting. 1139 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,319 Speaker 1: But incredibly appreciative to again Michael and Emily for sending 1140 00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,279 Speaker 1: these are away. For sure, I was gonna do it 1141 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 1: for this episode. If you want show notes, you can 1142 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 1: go to our website at how to Money dot com, 1143 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,439 Speaker 1: and as always, you can find the best credit card 1144 00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,200 Speaker 1: for you at how the Money dot Com slash credit cards. 1145 00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 1: But Matt, that's going to do it until next time. 1146 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,680 Speaker 1: Best friends out, Best friends Out,