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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beta Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's so cool. We're still on the high. You still

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Speaker 2: feel like we're on the high.

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Speaker 3: Can't turn on a microphone, but yeah, still professional.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh, but I do want to say I got a

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Speaker 4: lot of d ms of people being like, are you

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Speaker 4: a beck Okay, because like you, I guess in the

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Speaker 4: video you like grab the trophy from me or something.

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Speaker 5: No, because I said, this one's nine, I know, And

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Speaker 5: so I wanted to say, like, so when our first

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Speaker 5: one that we got, every I guess everybody thought that

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Speaker 5: we got two awards, so that now we'll each have two.

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Speaker 6: But that's not the case.

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Speaker 3: They give you one award.

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Speaker 6: I assume that if in Sync won a Grammy, they'd

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Speaker 6: get five Grammy award. We're not in y Wow.

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Speaker 4: So when we got this one, Becca like was joking

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Speaker 4: and she's like, this one's mine. But like, I guess

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Speaker 4: if you didn't know we were joking, yeah, if you

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Speaker 4: see the video, yeah, because and I was like I

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Speaker 4: was getting a few of them and I was like,

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Speaker 4: what are they talking about? So then I watched it,

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Speaker 4: I was like I guess if you could if you

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Speaker 4: didn't know what you said to me and like it

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Speaker 4: was saidden jest obviously, Yeah it looked.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, you guys were fine after.

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Speaker 2: You tackled me, when you hugged me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very aggressive.

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Speaker 2: It was an aggressive moment on both of our ends.

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Speaker 3: That was just overwhelmed.

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Speaker 2: I had a great sighting last night. Oh no, okay,

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Speaker 2: Well first I'm just gonna set it up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 2: So I went to the Trevor Trevor Live Trevor Trevor

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Speaker 2: Project Live, which was actually such an inspiring event, like

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Speaker 2: it basically, Trevor The Trevor Project is a twenty four

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Speaker 2: hour hotline for people who just really need to hear

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Speaker 2: like things are going to be okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they need like a human on the other end.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they just need someone to talk to. Anyways, So

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Speaker 2: Haley was being honored as the Youth Innovator by the

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Speaker 2: Trevor Project.

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Speaker 6: So cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was really cool, and Debbie Ryan presented her.

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Speaker 2: So we sat next to I sat next to Debbie

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Speaker 2: all night.

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Speaker 6: I love that so much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a really good time.

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Speaker 3: I've also offended.

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Speaker 4: I didn't get a little video from you guys, But

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Speaker 4: that's neither here nor there.

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that. So I walk in. First of all,

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Speaker 2: I like went to slide out of the car for

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Speaker 2: like to the point where I didn't want to check

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Speaker 2: it because I was like meeting people and talking to people.

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Speaker 2: But I was like, this feels like it's not calming down.

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Speaker 2: So I turn and look and I have like these

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Speaker 2: two huge, like red marks that are like bleeding, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like in the middle of I didn't walk the

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Speaker 2: car breathing, but we're at the beginning, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I feel like I need to get this clean. So

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Speaker 2: they're trying to find me like an alcohol wipe.

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Speaker 3: It was a real dramatically trying to be patient.

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Speaker 2: So I'm standing there just waiting and in walks.

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Speaker 6: Don't say, who do you think? In walks I'm going

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Speaker 6: to say, don't tell me how to write robles each

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Speaker 6: give our guesses the Trevor Project. Jesse L.

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Speaker 3: Williams, I'm going Jacomo.

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Speaker 2: In walks, Jesse Williams look at that, and I am like,

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Speaker 2: but Haley's on the carpet and like I was with

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Speaker 2: her team, and so I didn't. I didn't know who else.

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Speaker 3: So it was just like a gender neutral bathroom.

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Speaker 2: We're not in a bathroom a red carpet.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Why did I think.

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Speaker 2: You're in a bathroom and are in said bathroom?

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Speaker 3: You were cleaning off your cut.

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Speaker 2: I was waiting for alcohol.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, So I said, Jesse L. Williams. That's not

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Speaker 6: as middle name. I don't know why I said that.

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Speaker 2: When you said Jesse L, I was like, was Wesley.

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Speaker 6: I don't know why. Anyway, I got it right. Anyway,

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Speaker 6: I'm taking it.

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Speaker 2: So I'm just sitting there fangirling by myself and I

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Speaker 2: hear Hayley's manager behind me go, oh, Jesse's here. And

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Speaker 2: you talking about Jesse Williams. And she's like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I've known him for years. And I was like, she was,

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Speaker 2: she just casually walks over. She's like, hey, Jesse, and

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Speaker 2: so they talk and she's like, this is my friend

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Speaker 2: Becca and she was like she actually has a podcast.

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Speaker 2: It's based on Grey's anatomy.

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Speaker 3: Oh please tell me you asked him to be a guest.

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Speaker 6: Awkward.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is awkward now at this point. And so

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Speaker 2: he's like, what's it called? And I'm like scrubbing. But

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Speaker 2: in my head I was like, oh my god. In

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Speaker 2: my head, I was meeting like a crush, you know,

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Speaker 2: like it wasn't just like a great It wasn't like

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Speaker 2: I've been like, I would want to be impressive in

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Speaker 2: front of him. So the fact that I'm saying our

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Speaker 2: podcast is scrubbing in with Becallian Tanya Rad knowing that

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Speaker 2: it's based off of Grace was a little much for

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Speaker 6: Because when you first meet him, you are presumed to

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Speaker 6: be a peer. When you find out that you have

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Speaker 6: a worship podcast for him, it becomes different.

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Speaker 2: Already out Hi, I was like a friend of hers.

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Speaker 2: I was just like, Hi, I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 2: looked really pretty last night, like my dress. I just

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Speaker 2: looked good. And then I went into it was a

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Speaker 2: fan mode, so it was fine. Anyways, I say scrubbing

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Speaker 2: in effect tilling Ton around and he goes he said

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Speaker 2: was like, we've actually had quite a few of your

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Speaker 2: co stars on the show, and was that right? And

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Speaker 2: then they called him to do the carpet So that

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Speaker 2: was the end of our interaction, but it went I

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Speaker 2: would say, well, okay, so here he's aware of it.

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Speaker 2: Now here's what we need to do. Right now.

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Speaker 3: I need to get out your phone and d M him. No,

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Speaker 3: it was so nice to meet you last night. Thanks

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Speaker 3: for being there to try.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 3: We'd love to have you on the pod anytime. You're

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Speaker 3: a veil.

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Speaker 2: This could go south, but you know what, it's okay, No,

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Speaker 2: this is so good.

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Speaker 6: Who's the Who's the one Who's the person we want

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Speaker 4: Camilla because she's still there, and you like, are these

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Speaker 3: Sarah Drew She's not on the set anymore.

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Speaker 2: She was his loving chip.

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Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is like, probably not in touch anymore.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, you.

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Speaker 2: Guys, are you kidding? I feel like they were best friends.

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Speaker 6: I mean in our idn't think in real life. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: So I would throw something in there about Camilla had

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Speaker 6: a really good time, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or okay, like nice meaning last night, we would love

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Speaker 2: to have you on the podcast in all your your

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Speaker 6: We're not crazy.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, I've already got I've already come

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Speaker 2: across this crazy right, I'm trying.

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Speaker 6: How do we soften it more? How do we get

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say we had Sarah Drew and.

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Speaker 6: It's like you're helpless, say yeah, you don't want that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well then I'll just end it there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so he's not going to respond, No, okay, read

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Speaker 2: Nice meaning you last night, we would love to have

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Speaker 2: you on the podcast and all of your free time.

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Speaker 2: Did I put like a cry facing.

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Speaker 3: Class and then they can be like, here's my soul?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. No, I'm wait. Let me see I

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Speaker 3: Well, it's gone, it's gonna show up. Let me see it.

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Speaker 2: What did you think I said high, you're hot or something.

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Speaker 3: I just need to see the receipt.

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Speaker 6: She just said.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It's not like I did anything. It's

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Speaker 2: so good. It's so good.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I need you to keep this just open.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm I will check it by the end of

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Speaker 2: the episode to see but there's no chance.

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Speaker 3: Anyways, Wow, I'm proudly you for doing that.

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Speaker 2: That that is a little fat. It was really shout

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Speaker 6: the current one. I'm the only one that's watched every

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Speaker 2: Well that's good, but that episode, I was what happened.

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Speaker 2: I was trying to catch up on all the episodes.

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Speaker 4: I saw those messages as well, and so what I

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Speaker 4: That's how far behind.

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Speaker 6: You're very busy this weekend. Too busy, re Becca. You

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Speaker 2: I'm so I like don't miss a Temptation Island? Are

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Speaker 6: Way we should change to the show never.

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Speaker 3: Actually asked me last week. They were like, when will

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Speaker 3: you stop watching Grace now?

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Speaker 2: To me?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, I think Taylor Banks asked me that.

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Speaker 3: I was like, when it's over.

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Speaker 4: I think She's like, what if like Meredith dies, And

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Speaker 4: I was like, I'd probably still watch it.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not stopping.

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Speaker 2: I mean at this point to say, I might get

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Speaker 2: right This last episode really got me back in there.

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Speaker 6: You want to leave the room while we talk about this,

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Speaker 6: like how do we do this? So it's not smilling

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Speaker 6: for you.

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Speaker 3: To talk about it. I'm sure if Denny comes back

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Speaker 2: Wrote me that not really comes back my dream Denny

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Speaker 4: Like JK, guys.

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Speaker 6: It was really great because it was Meredith on trial

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Speaker 6: whatever I mean, or you know, the review board or

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Speaker 6: whatever it was, and so they spoke to and about

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Speaker 6: many people from her past.

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Speaker 2: Like life.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not back because I've never really like been

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Speaker 6: You don't know automatically whether she drains you or feeds you.

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Speaker 7: I don't know like friends, I drain you, it required No,

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Speaker 4: But there's like a meaning for every color. I'm not

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Speaker 4: Like the fact that the Roxy Marquis is gonna say

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Speaker 2: at iHeartMedia dot com if you would like tickets to

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Speaker 2: see Cheryl Crow in La. All right, So, a few

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Speaker 2: weeks ago on the podcast, I kind of butchered a

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Speaker 2: story about our friend Amy, who went on several dates

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Speaker 2: for a month. I can't remember. All I know is

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Speaker 2: I butchered it.

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Speaker 6: I think you did a good job.

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Speaker 4: She went on one hundred dates and then ended up

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Speaker 4: marrying the one she met at a one on one.

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Speaker 6: But in thirty days, that's correct. Dates in the two years,

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Speaker 6: it's okay, fine, But in thirty days, that's the crazy part.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you mentioned that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, maybe I did anything bad herself right now, okay,

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Speaker 2: But anyways, we have Amy here today in studio so

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Speaker 2: she can tell the correct story of how this all

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Speaker 2: went down. So let's welcome Amy. We're so had to you.

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Speaker 6: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: I love your show and not just fans of you both,

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Speaker 1: but also fans of Grace, my favorite show. So this

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Speaker 1: is like a great two for one special talking about

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Speaker 1: love on a show that loves Grace. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you've got my heart already, all encompassing.

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Speaker 2: We should have all worn scrubs. So I think I

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Speaker 2: was talking to Ashley I about your story. I can't

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Speaker 2: remember how it came up, but I think we were

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Speaker 2: just talking about dating and how hard it is, and

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Speaker 2: you know, the struggles of like the dating apps and

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Speaker 2: how all that works. And she told me your story

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Speaker 2: and it really fascinated me because you went on one

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Speaker 2: hundred date, one hundred and one dates in thirty days,

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Speaker 2: So that means how many how many dates a day?

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Speaker 1: I mean I was averaging three a day, so I'd

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Speaker 1: have like a breakfast date or a brunch date, a

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Speaker 1: lunch date, a coffee date, a dinner date, a drink state.

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Speaker 1: Like I was just dating, like it was my job.

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Speaker 1: I literally making it work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I date this week, and I'm exhausted thinking about

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Speaker 4: three in a week.

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine three in a day.

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Speaker 1: Well, the backstory on that is my grandma, who was

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Speaker 1: my best friend, my everything. My grandma and grandpa were

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Speaker 1: married for sixty seven years and I always idolized their

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Speaker 1: relationship and I wanted to find what my grandma and

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Speaker 1: grandpa had. And when I was a little girl, my

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Speaker 1: grandma gave me this poster and it hung on my wall.

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Speaker 1: My entire life growing up, and it said, before you

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Speaker 1: meet the handsome prince, you have to kiss a lot

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Speaker 1: of toads. And so my grandma said to me right

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Speaker 1: when I turned thirty, you know, Amy, you put one

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Speaker 1: hundred and ten percent of yourself into your business and

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Speaker 1: you've made that such a success in blood, sweat Tears,

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Speaker 1: and I see how hard you work, and it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: But if you applied that same energy to love, you're

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Speaker 1: going to find what you're looking for. And she said,

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Speaker 1: don't be afraid of meeting all the wrong guys, because

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Speaker 1: it means you're only closer to meeting the right one,

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Speaker 1: and you only need one right one forever.

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Speaker 2: Right, That's right.

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Speaker 1: So it totally sunk in and made sense to me.

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Speaker 1: So I said, all right, well, I'm going to listen

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Speaker 1: to Nima. That was what I called my grandma, and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to date like it's my job and just

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Speaker 1: put all of this amazing, beautiful, positive energy into it.

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Speaker 1: And instead of being upset when I meet someone that

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Speaker 1: wasn't right for me and didn't work out, I was

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Speaker 1: actually really excited because I looked at it like, well,

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Speaker 1: check that guy off the list. It just means I'm

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Speaker 1: one guy down closer to the one that's going to

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Speaker 1: be right for me. And I wanted to go in

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Speaker 1: with a really good attitude, and I figured everybody's worth

520
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Speaker 1: making an hour of my time to meet. You never know,

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Speaker 1: like what's going to happen from that interaction. So I

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Speaker 1: just said, I'll give everyone one hour of my time,

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Speaker 1: and you know, in minutes, I knew if there was

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Speaker 1: chemistry or not, if there was going to be anything

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Speaker 1: more to move forward on. But I just figured I'll

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Speaker 1: go in with an amazing attitude. Just be authentic, be myself,

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Speaker 1: be open, say yes to all these experiences.

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Speaker 2: And eventually it's going to work out.

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Speaker 1: And for me it was one hundred and one. I

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Speaker 1: don't think that that's the case for everybody.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: Over my span of my dating life, my romantic life,

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Speaker 1: before I did this little social experiment, you know, on

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Speaker 1: dating websites, I had dated lots of guys, more than

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Speaker 1: one hundred, you know, in the thirty years of my life.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't have a lot of super serious relationships.

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Speaker 1: But I did go out on a lot of dates.

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Speaker 1: But when I really focused and put my energy in

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Speaker 1: this small, like concentrated amount of time of one month.

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Speaker 1: It was incredible. I learned so much about myself and

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Speaker 1: what I want and didn't want, and it led me

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Speaker 1: to who I was meant to be with, and I

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Speaker 1: feel so blessed and lucky.

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Speaker 2: So so as far as the dates went, did you

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Speaker 2: have any guys that like maybe didn't end up being

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Speaker 2: the one, but you were like, I like them, I'm

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Speaker 2: going to go on a second day.

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Speaker 6: It was very second daters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So one experience was actually very interesting. I met

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Speaker 1: this guy that worked in the music industry and we

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Speaker 1: had a lot in common since I work in entertainment

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Speaker 1: and I DJed for ten years back in the day,

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Speaker 1: so I love talking about music. And I thought, oh,

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Speaker 1: this guy's really cute. There's a lot in common. And

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Speaker 1: you know, he said I want to see you again,

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Speaker 1: and I thought he'd ask me out, maybe like a

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Speaker 1: week or two later, and he said, I'd love to

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Speaker 1: hang out with you tomorrow. And of course I had

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Speaker 1: a few other dates the next day, but I made

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Speaker 1: a plan to meet up with him the next night,

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Speaker 1: and so I show up. If you guys know that place, Yamashiro,

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Speaker 1: It's like a well known sushi place in Hollywood, and

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Speaker 1: so I show up there and he didn't tell me,

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Speaker 1: but it was his birthday, so it was a little awkward.

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Speaker 1: It was flattering that he, after knowing me for like

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Speaker 1: a few hours, decided he wanted to spend his birthday

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Speaker 1: with me, but I didn't know until I got there

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Speaker 1: and he took a call from his parents and he said, oh,

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Speaker 1: is it okay if I take this. My parents just

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Speaker 1: want to wish me happy birthday, And so I was

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Speaker 1: totally caught off guard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, take the call.

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Speaker 1: And he takes a call and he gets off and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, when's your birthday? And he's like right now, like, oh.

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Speaker 2: My god, happy birthday.

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Speaker 6: That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: And then I felt like a total jerk off because

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Speaker 1: I didn't have a card, I didn't have a gift.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, what do I do?

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Speaker 1: So, you know when you do that thing where you

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Speaker 1: fake having a pee so you can order someone, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, a birthday dessert.

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Speaker 2: So I went to the.

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Speaker 1: Bathroom after just having having gone ten minutes before his parents.

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Speaker 2: Called, so he was probably like, why is she peeing

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Speaker 2: so much?

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Speaker 1: But I went and I ordered him a dessert and

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Speaker 1: then he was drinking saki. So I just said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll pay for that too. Didn't know it was one

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Speaker 1: hundred dollars bottle of saki, but he had great taste,

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Speaker 1: so I ended up buying the saki and dessert, and

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Speaker 1: you know, it was it was a nice experience, but

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Speaker 1: it didn't go beyond that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wow, Okay. What I need to know is, so

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Speaker 3: you go on one hundred dates.

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Speaker 4: Yeah okay, and you knew fairly quickly on in the

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Speaker 4: first date. If it's like a yeay or.

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Speaker 1: Na oh, I knew it inn minutes chemistry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so your husband is the one you met that

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Speaker 3: was one on one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What was it about him when you met him that

603
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Speaker 3: you were like, that's my dude?

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Speaker 6: Or did you say that?

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Speaker 1: So this is where the story is really interesting. And Scott,

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Speaker 1: my husband, and I we believe in timing and like

607
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Speaker 1: fate and destiny, and so this is how I know

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Speaker 1: that the stars aligned and we were meant to be together.

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Speaker 1: Two years before we met on Jade eight, the website

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Speaker 1: where we eventually met on, we met on another website,

611
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Speaker 1: match dot Com, And at that point I didn't know

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Speaker 1: Scott was getting out of a nine year relationship and

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Speaker 1: he was not in the place to jump into anything

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Speaker 1: serious right away, and I wasn't in the place at

615
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Speaker 1: that point in my life for what I thought I wanted,

616
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Speaker 1: So the universe actually was looking out for us. So

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Speaker 1: long story short, I had been messaging with Scott on

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Speaker 1: match and like very cute, like flirty emails. And then

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Speaker 1: it was a Saturday night, about ten o'clock at night,

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Speaker 1: and at that point, being single, I didn't even go

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Speaker 1: out till ten or eleven o'clock at night, you know.

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Speaker 1: So it's just starting my night with my friends. Different

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Speaker 1: part of my life, you know. Now I have two

624
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Speaker 1: kids and I'm at home watching grades, so it's a

625
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 1: different kind of life. But my phone rings and it

626
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Speaker 1: was Scott and it was the first time that we

627
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Speaker 1: were talking. And he said, Hey, I'd love for you

628
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Speaker 1: to come and meet me at a party. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to go with my best friend. There'll be lots of

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Speaker 1: cool people. And it was the first time ever in

631
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Speaker 1: my life that I wasn't a doormat to guys and

632
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Speaker 1: I wasn't being the aggressor, you know, in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: And I said, if you want.

634
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Speaker 4: To meet me, why don't you do it the right way?

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Speaker 1: So I'd love to meet you, and I have no

636
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Speaker 1: problem like turning up into a room full of strangers

637
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Speaker 1: and meeting new people and making new friends.

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Speaker 6: I love that.

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00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: But instead, why don't you call me tomorrow and meet

640
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Speaker 1: me for coffee or like tea, and you know, it

641
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: could be a half hour, and if we like each

642
00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: other cool, we can hang out longer. And if not, like,

643
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: that's okay too. But I have plans tonight with my friends.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to change them. So fun at your party,

645
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 1: but i'd really love to meet you, and I hope

646
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Speaker 1: you call me tomorrow. And he was trying to get

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Speaker 1: me to go to this party and I didn't budge

648
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Speaker 1: and I said call me tomorrow, and he didn't call me,

649
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Speaker 1: and I was really sad for like two weeks. I cried,

650
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Speaker 1: I don't care. I'm not afraid to a minute.

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Speaker 2: That's me girl.

652
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Speaker 6: And I felt.

653
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Speaker 1: Like something a feeling that I never felt before in

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Speaker 1: my life that I couldn't describe. And I called me

655
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Speaker 1: mom my grandma, and I said, I don't know what

656
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Speaker 1: to do because there was something with this guy. And

657
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Speaker 1: my Grandma's like the guy you didn't even meet, and

658
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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I know it sounds crazy, but there

659
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 1: was something there, this connection, this feeling, and I can

660
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Speaker 1: tell from the emails and the instant messages and just

661
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Speaker 1: talking to him on the phone for ten minutes and

662
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Speaker 1: like the way I was like giving him shit in

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Speaker 1: the way he was reacting, there was something there. And

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00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: my grandma said, you can't call him, and I said

665
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: why and she said, that's what you would do, right,

666
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 1: Normally you would call him. So you can't because she said,

667
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 1: one he needs to come after you, like let him

668
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: chase you. And two, if it's I meant to be

669
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 1: there was this word in Yiddish beshared, and that's like,

670
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: if it's meant to be your person, he will come

671
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: back to you and the universe will bring you guys together.

672
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: So I listened and it was really hard. I was

673
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 1: basically like sitting on my hands, like not calling him.

674
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: I still had his number on my phone, but I

675
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: didn't call him.

676
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: And it was great. It was the.

677
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: Universe protecting our relationship for what we have now. And

678
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: then fast forward to two years later No yeah yeah,

679
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 1: on a completely different website where we both only tried

680
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: it for one month and Scott had like two hours

681
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: left his was about to end at midnight. Mine was

682
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: going to end the very next morning, so I only

683
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: had a few hours more than him, and I'd been

684
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: out with three dates three guys that day when I

685
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: reconnected with Scott, and I had a few housemates at

686
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: the time where I was living, and I came home

687
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: and one of the girls that I lived with was just,

688
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: you know, like thought what I was doing was hilarious.

689
00:30:56,880 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: And she's like, oh, did you meet Prince Storming on

690
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,120
Speaker 1: date three to And I said no, he was really nice,

691
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: he just wasn't for me. And she said, oh, I

692
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: bet you're going to go on the website now, Huh,

693
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: You're gonna still shop around? And I said, you know what,

694
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: it ends tomorrow morning. I'd be stupid not to, so

695
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: I am going to go on and you never know.

696
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 1: And then I went on and it was like ten

697
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: o'clock on a Sunday night, and a few moments later,

698
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: Scott messaged me, and the second I saw his picture,

699
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: I thought, oh, my god, I'm ninety nine percent sure

700
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,040
Speaker 1: this is the guy from two years ago. And I

701
00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: got chills and I started freaking out, and he was

702
00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: thinking the same thing about me. I'm pretty sure this

703
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: is the girl from two years ago, and he messaged

704
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: me and we're like messaging for a half hour, and

705
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,560
Speaker 1: then I just said, you should call me. It'll be

706
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: better than messaging. So he called me and his number

707
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: was still saved in my phone and then I was like, oh,

708
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: I got to give it to him. So I said, oh,

709
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: what's up? Two years later? You were gonna take me

710
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: out the next day after that party that I didn't

711
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: meet you at, and then like what happened? And he

712
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: right away like acknowledged and apologized, and he said, you

713
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: know what, that was my fault, Like you seem like

714
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 1: you were awesome, and he said, I didn't you know,

715
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: let you know at that point, but I just got

716
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: out of a really long relationship and I was not

717
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: in the place to start something serious. And you seem

718
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: like he said, I don't know how I felt that

719
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: way at the time, but you seem like someone that

720
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: i'd want to be serious with, and this would have

721
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: just been all like messed up. And so then we're

722
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: talking and he said, do you want.

723
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 3: To go out?

724
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: And I thought he meant now, because I'm like a

725
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: do it now person, So I said, yeah, Well, at

726
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: this point, it's after eleven on Sunday, and I said, well,

727
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,719
Speaker 1: I'm not a drinker, so I'm not going to go

728
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 1: meet you at a bar. And you know, he was like,

729
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: I don't want you to meet me at like a

730
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 1: Jerry's Deli. I don't know what to do. He didn't

731
00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: mean now, though he had meant the next day. That

732
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: was just my interpretation. So I said, uh, do you

733
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 1: watch the show Entourage? It was very popular at the time,

734
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: and he said yeah, And I said, are you an

735
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: ex murder And he's like no, And if I was

736
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,719
Speaker 1: what I tell you, I'm like, good point, But I

737
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: don't do this, which is true. I have a bunch

738
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: of housemates, but if you want to come over, I

739
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 1: recorded Entourage and like I can make us tea and

740
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: we can watch a show and like hang out and talk.

741
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 1: And not even fifteen minutes, like he's rolling into my

742
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 1: you know, gate at my house and he got out

743
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: of the car and I felt something I never felt

744
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: before in my life. I never believe people when they

745
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: said like love at first sight before, but I felt

746
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: the feeling of like this could be that, and inside.

747
00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 3: I was like, yes, you know, if he's.

748
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: As awesome on the inside as he is cute on

749
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: the outside, like you know, game over, this is gonna

750
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: be amazing. And we stayed up and talked till like

751
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: six in the morning, and then literally the next day

752
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: we hung out and we were together every single day,

753
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 1: and then got engaged one year later on the anniversary

754
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: of the day that we met. Yeah, and he had

755
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: me meet his family, by the way, after five days

756
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: of knowing me, I went and met everybody.

757
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 9: Wow, guys, I mean this story is that's crazy, like

758
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 9: a movie, like you should pitch the story of your

759
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 9: life talking thank you.

760
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: That's what Ashley and Jared said. They're like, this is awesome.

761
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 2: She doesn't know you know that this is uncomfortable when.

762
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,520
Speaker 1: Please, I have two children, I've been peed on. Nothing

763
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: makes me uncomfortable.

764
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: No, you're good. You're good.

765
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:28,280
Speaker 4: It's just it's so funny because I think, like I

766
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 4: think the way that that your your story, your story

767
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,280
Speaker 4: are ways that I think and everybody thinks I'm crazy,

768
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 4: you know, like it's never.

769
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 2: Gonna happen, like those don't movies.

770
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 4: And then I hear your story and I'm like, this

771
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 4: is the stuff I'm talking about, you know, like these

772
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:49,359
Speaker 4: stories exist and this kind of like he was in

773
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 4: my life. And then because I mean, girl, I've dated

774
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 4: so many guys like I don't even know, like I

775
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 4: don't even know a guy.

776
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 3: That I dated two years ago that pop back actually

777
00:34:57,160 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 3: one of them just pop back in.

778
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 2: I just find it very very interesting because you were

779
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 2: Tanya was you were very against dating online and apps

780
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 2: like you would kind of put that to.

781
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 4: This suggest don't And you know me, I'm not a

782
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 4: good Texter, so I'm much better in person. So the

783
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 4: apps were never for me because I felt like I

784
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 4: just didn't thrive in the messaging on apps.

785
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,919
Speaker 1: I totally get that I'm much better in person too,

786
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: and I think that's why I would say to anyone

787
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: that I met on these sites. Then this was before

788
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,919
Speaker 1: there was tender and people were swiping left and right,

789
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: before there was Instagram, and you could, like, you know,

790
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,959
Speaker 1: socially stock people and find out what their real deal

791
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: was as opposed to like the false advertising campaigns they

792
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 1: were putting online. But I also prefer talking on the

793
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: phone or even better, hanging in person. And I just

794
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: looked at it like the sites were a means to

795
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: an end what I was doing in my regular life,

796
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: meeting people through working in the entertainment industry or meeting

797
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: guys at the gym or at the.

798
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 6: Grocery store wherever.

799
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 2: I mean, I did all of that.

800
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:58,760
Speaker 6: It wasn't working.

801
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: So I just figured, oh, well, here's a way in

802
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:03,839
Speaker 1: theory where people are saying this is me and this

803
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,799
Speaker 1: is what I want and what I don't want. So

804
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,800
Speaker 1: I'll see like who I align with and what things

805
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 1: we have in common on paper, you know, and then

806
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: try to meet in person in the real world and

807
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: see if that chemistry is there.

808
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 2: And of course there.

809
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: Were like a lot of duds, you know, where I'd

810
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: meet and I'm like, you're definitely not.

811
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 3: The guy and the profile, and then other people that.

812
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: Were awesome but just weren't awesome for me and I

813
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: wasn't awesome for them. And there were a few people

814
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 1: that I met that were great guys that I ended

815
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: up setting up with my girlfriends, and you know, literally

816
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 1: I would switch places like on the date and I

817
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 1: was telling Ashley and Lauren they loved it. I was like, yeah,

818
00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 1: my friends would call me flipper because they were like,

819
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: wait a minute, is your date Like the entrance exam,

820
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: I was basically interviewing these guys to then go date

821
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: my friends, because in a few minutes I knew, like,

822
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: this is a really good guy, but it's not going

823
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: to work out with us. But I have a girlfriend,

824
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 1: who are you are gonna love? Do you mind if

825
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 1: I call her, like right now? And then I'd find

826
00:36:58,360 --> 00:36:59,840
Speaker 1: out if my friend was free, and if she was,

827
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 1: say here's where we are, come down and like switch

828
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: places and they would take over and you know, be

829
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,719
Speaker 1: on their own date. And so I thought, like, that's

830
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: a beautiful outcome. You know, if it wasn't meant to

831
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: be where there'd be something between us, but I could

832
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,879
Speaker 1: introduce you to someone else and maybe you'll go off

833
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: and have something. Then I was happy that, you know,

834
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: that worked out. So I just was open, and I

835
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 1: think that was the thing that made all of this work,

836
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 1: and that led Scott and I to each other because

837
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 1: I did a lot of work on myself to get

838
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: to the place where I was able to give and

839
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 1: receive healthy, beautiful, unconditional love. Yeah, whereas years before, had

840
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: I met Scott on the other site, it would have

841
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 1: crashed and burned. So you have to be in a

842
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: place where you're able to believe that you deserve it

843
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 1: and you have the self worth to know. You know

844
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: what it means when someone wants to love you and

845
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,400
Speaker 1: you can recognize that good thing when it comes along.

846
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 2: Oh that's so cool. I have one question, yeah, of

847
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 2: course say goodbye. How many of the one hundred and

848
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 2: one dates ended with a kiss?

849
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good question. I didn't count, and I

850
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 1: don't want Scott to be mad, but not many, like yeah,

851
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: maybe maybe a handful. Yeah no, no, no, no, a handful,

852
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 1: a handful because like I said, I knew, uh, just

853
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: based on something that I discussed with my grandma and

854
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: grandpa my whole life. They were like, relationships are about

855
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 1: one word, it's chemistry, and so I was waiting for

856
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: that feeling. And sometimes there was the physical connection with

857
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: someone and then they'd say some like wild and crazy

858
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,240
Speaker 1: shit and I was like, whoa, Okay, you're really handsome,

859
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: but like this would never go to date too, But yeah,

860
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, like three or four guys where

861
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: there was just like a kiss and then you can

862
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,720
Speaker 1: tell too, like in that kiss is there something more?

863
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: And when Scott kissed me for the first time, you'll

864
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: get this reference. But it felt like watching The Bachelor

865
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 1: of Bacherette with the fireworks.

866
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 6: You know. And with Kingles, I didn't.

867
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, like just all over, but something where it felt

868
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: like physical, spiritual, like emotional, like a connection, like like

869
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: I knew this person or I was meant to know

870
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: this person and I wanted to know this person. And yeah,

871
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: and then it just grew and blossomed into so much.

872
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 4: The other day and I had got the tinkles down there.

873
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 2: Oh hey, now, yeah, yeah, that's a good sign, specifically

874
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: saying you know where the tingles happened.

875
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 6: Will there be a date too? There is a date too.

876
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, you got to keep me ploseed for sure.

877
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 6: He's a lucky guy.

878
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:32,440
Speaker 2: Oh you're sweet.

879
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 1: That's true, and it's it's gonna happen for you obviously.

880
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 1: Listening to the show, I hear some of your adventures,

881
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 1: which I think is awesome and how open you are

882
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: to sharing.

883
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 6: But you have to.

884
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:49,320
Speaker 1: Keep believing, because believing is why it's going to happen,

885
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 1: you know. And my son just said to me last night,

886
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: he was like, Mama, what's the meaning of life? And

887
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: I said, it's one word.

888
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 2: It's love.

889
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: And there are a lot of people who haven't figured

890
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,760
Speaker 1: that out yet. And I feel bad for them because

891
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: I've feel like they're wasting this precious time that we

892
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,400
Speaker 1: have and they're busy hating and judging and discriminating and

893
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 1: not focusing on having interactions based on love and kindness.

894
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 4: And it's just so funny that you said, you know,

895
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 4: because I feel like I say that I'm open, but

896
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 4: I feel like right now I really am open. Like

897
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 4: I'm just saying like, thing, yes, we're before No, he's

898
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 4: kind of and I'm just like, Okay.

899
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: Say yes, because you honestly never know, and it might

900
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: not be the one for you forever, but something else

901
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 1: beautiful might happen out of it, or it might be

902
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: someone for someone else in your life, and that's a

903
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,919
Speaker 1: great thing too, But you just never know. When you're

904
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: open to like letting those doors open and seeing what

905
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,240
Speaker 1: comes in for you, you never know what's going to happen.

906
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, Well, thank you so much for coming. It

907
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 2: was okay, it was a much more enjoyable coming from

908
00:40:49,320 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 2: you than me trying to remember what I had heard.

909
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 2: So I love your story and I I'm so happy

910
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: you came in to share it.

911
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so having me, and congrats on

912
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: your PE Choice Awards.

913
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 2: So happy for you. Guys, we're back to talk about

914
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 2: freezing your eggs with ton you.

915
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 4: It's just been at the top of my mind lately

916
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 4: because I just feel like everybody has been telling me

917
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 4: lately to freeze my eggs. And so Malika, who is

918
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 4: Chloe Kardashian's best friend, she got pregnant and she just

919
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 4: started opening up about the fact that for her thirty

920
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 4: for thirty fifth birthday, she gave her present to herself

921
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 4: was she froze her eggs, and then a year later

922
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 4: she got pregnant like in love, you.

923
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 6: Know, like she got naturally jelly.

924
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm like, this is exactly why I don't

925
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 4: want to freeze my eggs. Like I know it's all

926
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 4: going to happen when it's supposed to happen for me,

927
00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 4: So like why because it's such a like it's a

928
00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 4: treacherous road. It's not just like, oh, let me just

929
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:04,440
Speaker 4: like get a spoon and scoops of eggs out of

930
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:07,520
Speaker 4: my vagina, like it's like my injections, and like it's

931
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 4: a really intense process.

932
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's like your body goes through a.

933
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 3: Lot and it's expensive as hell.

934
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 2: That's a big birthday gift to herself.

935
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I'm like, I don't know, I just have

936
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 4: been very drawn to this story and it just keeps

937
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,440
Speaker 4: popping up in my in my zeitgeist.

938
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: Something tells me, because I know you, that another person

939
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 2: will give you a great experience and hopeful experience about

940
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 2: freezing their eggs, and you'll be back on the train

941
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: of needing to get your eggs.

942
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 4: Roson, I do have a friend that's good in the

943
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 4: process of it currently, so going through getting them pros

944
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 4: uh huh.

945
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 6: You're susceptible to influence.

946
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 2: Very much so, but right now you're feeling like things

947
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,560
Speaker 2: are going to happen to how they're gonna just don't.

948
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: Want to freeze them. I want to keep my eggs

949
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: cooking in there.

950
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,400
Speaker 4: What if you did half? You don't get to decide

951
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 4: how many they take and then they just like take

952
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:01,720
Speaker 4: them from me. You like, you don't just keep making eggs.

953
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: You think you'll be married in having a baby by

954
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one.

955
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 6: Whoa who you know, that's a year and a month away.

956
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 2: It could be at the end of two thousands, right

957
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: like I could be like to announcing pregnancy at early

958
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:16,800
Speaker 2: twenty twenties.

959
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 6: In the next twenty five months, she will be married

960
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 6: and talking about babies. Wow.

961
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 4: You know what's interesting you say that because Sydney the

962
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 4: other day, so we were in New York. Well, we

963
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 4: were New York with Mark for Ryan's Radio Hall of Fame,

964
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 4: and then I came back for PCs. Then I went

965
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 4: back for this thing that Sysney and I did, and

966
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:37,440
Speaker 4: I was in her hotel room and she was like

967
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 4: she literally held up her hand and she was like

968
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:40,919
Speaker 4: because I was just talking her about like the date,

969
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,479
Speaker 4: Like I'm like, my hinge game is really strong right now,

970
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 4: like my mojo's really flowing, like things are going good.

971
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,359
Speaker 4: And so she's like I literally could just like watch

972
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 4: you like a television and she goes, but do you

973
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 4: know what's weird?

974
00:43:53,080 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 3: I feel like you're getting closer. And that really stuck

975
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 3: with me.

976
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 4: Because she was like, you used to date these guys

977
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 4: that like lived far away or like had all these things,

978
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 4: and she's like, recently you're really getting You're really dating

979
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 4: guys that are really good and like live close, and

980
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 4: like she's like, I just I just feel like it's really.

981
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:13,160
Speaker 3: Close for you.

982
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 2: Well, it's not getting further.

983
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 6: You have had three dates since we last had a podcast.

984
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 6: I believe.

985
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 2: I think I've had more, but like I'm just in

986
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: the mojo zone.

987
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,959
Speaker 4: I'm in the zone, and like I'm really I'm trying

988
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 4: not to trying to like divvy up my eggs, you know,

989
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 4: like just just toss some eggs and some other baskets

990
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 4: and just kind of keep them in my own basket.

991
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 3: And it's really good.

992
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 4: I also have to recommend everybody the Hinge is like

993
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 4: where it's poppin'.

994
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 2: I've heard great things about it Hinges. I remember being

995
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: I like the format of Hinge.

996
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 4: It's just I do you know what their tagline is?

997
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 4: What the app we want you to get rid of

998
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 4: something like that because they want you to like.

999
00:44:58,360 --> 00:44:59,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want you to delete it once?

1000
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,160
Speaker 3: Like that is the best slogan for dating app.

1001
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 2: Great slogan. I agree, Right, I'm proud of you. Thank you.

1002
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,680
Speaker 2: You got a lot going on, you're busy, so the

1003
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 2: fact that you're making time to go on dates, you know.

1004
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 4: So I was I had my slava this weekend. Everybody

1005
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 4: was like my sister's kind of just like, why are

1006
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 4: you so tired? You know, because you're let your schedule's

1007
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 4: always kind of crazy, and I'm like What's the interesting

1008
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 4: thing is that I've been trying to have like a

1009
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 4: personal life more like I'm trying to date and just

1010
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 4: kind of be in that where normally I'm just like work, work, work,

1011
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 4: and then I'm not working. I'm just sleeping, right, But

1012
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 4: now I'm just not making the time for sleep.

1013
00:45:31,160 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 6: I found the actual slogan designed to be deleted.

1014
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 2: Wow. A great slogan, A great slogan.

1015
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 6: We are not a hookup app. We want you to

1016
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 6: find the person for life and you can get rid

1017
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:43,840
Speaker 6: of this app. That's really a great way to go

1018
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 6: about it.

1019
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: It really is.

1020
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1021
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 4: So yeah, keeping it, keeping it sanzi.

1022
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 6: But it's good.

1023
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: Everything's going good.

1024
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 6: It is going good. But nobody worth nicknaming yet, right,

1025
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 6: we aren't to that point with anybody. Yeah, we're going

1026
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,400
Speaker 6: to keep it, keep it moving, Okay. We do like

1027
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 6: one of them, like one.

1028
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:06,760
Speaker 3: We like I see potential in one.

1029
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 6: And that's good. You can say that and everyone listening.

1030
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 6: If all of these guys you've gone out with recently

1031
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 6: are listening, don't think it's them.

1032
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 2: Oh nice, yeah, yeah good.

1033
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah. It's like you know when you're watching you know

1034
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 3: when you're watching.

1035
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:25,719
Speaker 2: Uh, I just se I'm thinking about on Daily Pop

1036
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 2: when you're like, if that window closes, you gotta go

1037
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 2: through the mousehole or something. It's like, well, tanyaisms wherever

1038
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 2: she goes.

1039
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 3: I still don't know what I was trying to say there.

1040
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: Basically, it's like when one window closes you it would

1041
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: have been nice that you could say, like you can

1042
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: go through the door. I don't even know where it started.

1043
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 6: Another one opening. No, it's like if the.

1044
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 3: Door's closed, you can't get through the door.

1045
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 2: Like, no, you go around the door was never mentioned. Weirdly,

1046
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 2: you went from window to like mousehole.

1047
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I don't know where the mouth the mousehole

1048
00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 4: was really, like I said, it came out of my mouth.

1049
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 3: I was like, that's not right.

1050
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 6: That's true of most things you say. I feel most

1051
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 6: expressions anyway.

1052
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm trying to like I'm trying to give

1053
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 4: it like a visualization here.

1054
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 3: It's like if you're watching if you're watching like a

1055
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 3: what's something that we.

1056
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:18,760
Speaker 4: Watch sadly not lately no, like a like a okay,

1057
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 4: like what's the thing like a race car? Like a

1058
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,760
Speaker 4: race car race and you're watching it and like sometime

1059
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 4: like there's like one car that's like in the front,

1060
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 4: and then there's like another one that comes in the front,

1061
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 4: and then there's one that just like comes in out

1062
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 4: of nowhere and like really just takes it home. I

1063
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 4: feel like there's one on one, one car on my track.

1064
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 2: That's like taking it home.

1065
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,919
Speaker 3: It's it's it's like it's getting there. He's like coming

1066
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 3: around the corner, the corner.

1067
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 6: And then they spun out correct, Yes, what should happen

1068
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 6: on in the racetrack?

1069
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 3: You can't? And then soaking in life as do the

1070
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 3: days of our lives.

1071
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 6: When one when a door is locked, try the window, right, I.

1072
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 2: Expression, yes, But the mousehole?

1073
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 3: They like, what are the mousehole?

1074
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 2: Who has a mouse? Right?

1075
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 6: Even the doggie doars a better idea?

1076
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 7: You know?

1077
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,719
Speaker 3: Also, nobody can fit through a mouseholes? Like that doesn't

1078
00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 3: even make sense.

1079
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 2: No they can't.

1080
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I don't know. One was weird to me too.

1081
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:27,320
Speaker 2: When it comes to the holidays, what do most people

1082
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: think of They think of food, family, quality, time, presence,

1083
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 2: and boxes. We all love a good subscription box, right

1084
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 2: from food boxes to wellness boxes, they're all the rage. Well,

1085
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 2: a Kiwiko subscription makes a perfect holiday gift for every

1086
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 2: young explorer. Engineer and artists in your life. Empower them

1087
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 2: to be creative, confident, fearless in all their endeavors. With

1088
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,760
Speaker 2: Kiwiko's innovative projects.

1089
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 4: Kiwiko creates super cool hands on projects for kids to

1090
00:48:56,680 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 4: make learning about Steam fun. So Steam is science, technology, engineering, art,

1091
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 4: and math. They're designed by experts and tested by kids,

1092
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 4: so there's no need to research or worry about gathering

1093
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 4: up all the supplies.

1094
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 2: They have so many great boxes that are so personal

1095
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: to your the kid in your life, their personality and

1096
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:20,760
Speaker 2: what they're interested in. Like there's not just one box

1097
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Speaker 2: I feel like we haven't done emails in a while

1166
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 2: because we haven't because we've had like some episodes where

1167
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 2: we just talk and talk and talk, and we've neglected

1168
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 2: our advice column.

1169
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 6: Well, Lauren emailed us about the greatest episode. She says,

1170
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 6: I'm a huge fan. I listened every morning on my

1171
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 6: way to teach fourth graders. Isn't that sweet? I just

1172
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 6: finished the latest episode of Grades and was legit sobbing

1173
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 6: when they read the letter from Christina.

1174
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 2: I forgot she is the Sun.

1175
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 6: By the way, you know what had been great if

1176
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 6: Christina showed up, if any of the old actors could

1177
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Speaker 6: have showed up, Kepner, Torres, I.

1178
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 2: Know they got everyone.

1179
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 6: Onlnstgomery, anybody would have been really cool. I mean, they

1180
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 6: read letters from all those people.

1181
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 2: But when he said she is the son and then

1182
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 2: he said, sincerely, Christina, Yang's good. I got me.

1183
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 6: From I thought of you all as soon as I

1184
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 6: saw that, And hope you're recovering, okay from the latest episode.

1185
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 6: I'm glad to finally get Mayor back where she belongs.

1186
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's been I can believe honestly, when I was

1187
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 2: looking at the number of episodes that the seasons that

1188
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 2: she's still not been back to the hotel.

1189
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 6: And what was she wearing in this episode that green

1190
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 6: outfit at the beginning with the hat, I was not

1191
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:10,640
Speaker 6: feeling that what's happening. She was draft as like a soldier.

1192
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 6: It was very strange. My wife and I both come

1193
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 6: and they're like, what is this outfit? Like like she

1194
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:19,239
Speaker 6: just seems lost. Now she's back at the r it's

1195
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Speaker 6: going to be better. Are the gray No, maybe it

1196
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 6: was gray grayish green, like military green early in the episode.

1197
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Speaker 6: All right, so let's try this one. Let's give it

1198
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Speaker 6: to try. We're gonna try to actually call somebody here.

1199
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Speaker 6: This is an email from Wendy and how sweet is this.

1200
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Speaker 6: You're gonna love this email. This is gonna make your day.

1201
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 6: Over the summer, I was taking my twenty three year

1202
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 6: old daughter, Mattie to the airport. We usually take turns

1203
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 6: playing songs loud and singing at the top of our lungs.

1204
00:54:44,280 --> 00:54:46,719
Speaker 6: On this particular day, she says, Mom, you have to

1205
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,240
Speaker 6: listen to this podcast. It was the one where Tanya

1206
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 6: set the text I'm at Whole Foods. Where are you

1207
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 6: remember that?

1208
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 2: Yes, we did it live.

1209
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 6: And you pretended to be at hop.

1210
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,200
Speaker 2: Oh right right, Wow, that's so.

1211
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 6: Embarrassing, she says, Well, we laughed so hard that hour

1212
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 6: drive flew by. Can a podcast be life changing? Now

1213
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 6: we're both listening to reruns. Maddie's birthday is this weekend.

1214
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 6: I think this was last weekend. I think we were

1215
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 6: a little bit lax on this one. And I'm sorry

1216
00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 6: she just turned twenty four. I would love for y'all

1217
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 6: to try to prank her and wish your happy birthday

1218
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 6: and listen to how she talks about her daughter. This

1219
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 6: is so sweet. She's hilarious, the life of the party,

1220
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 6: but still sweet and generous. She said daredevil. She loves

1221
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 6: to rap, she loves Jesus. She coaches high school cheerleaders

1222
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 6: in her free time, and she's a great role model

1223
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 6: for them. She's positive and beautiful and I don't know

1224
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 6: what I ever did in this life to deserve this

1225
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 6: girl as my daughter. Thanks for giving us one more

1226
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 6: thing to connect on. Y'all are the best. I'm totally

1227
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 6: a Tanya. She's a Becca and if you knew us,

1228
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 6: we'd all be best friends.

1229
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is so key.

1230
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 6: Let's try Maddie Danielle. She's gonna dial it. Oh yeah,

1231
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 6: hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. Are you

1232
00:55:58,520 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 6: gonna you're gonna come?

1233
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 3: Do you want to do it this time?

1234
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 2: You think you can? Like, we need a stick I'm

1235
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 2: calling about.

1236
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:10,399
Speaker 6: Oh, somebody do some.

1237
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 2: The high school cheer team that you coach?

1238
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 6: Yes, okay, So here's what you should be.

1239
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 4: You should be like whatever your name is from, like something,

1240
00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 4: uniforms and just like try to pitch your uniforms to her?

1241
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,240
Speaker 2: Oh? Should I just say, like, we have your uniform

1242
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:25,800
Speaker 2: order ready, yeah?

1243
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:28,239
Speaker 3: Or just like try and pitch your uniforms like we

1244
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 3: see that you're.

1245
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 2: That's so wrong. No one's selling. I'm just gonna say,

1246
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,319
Speaker 2: we have your your team uniforms ready for pick up.

1247
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 3: Would you like to pick them up?

1248
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 2: I have two hundred orders under two hundred uniforms and

1249
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 2: maybe somebody give these to you.

1250
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 3: Did you have a birthday or something.

1251
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 6: That's Good's getting her cheer uniforms?

1252
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 2: Go ahead and I get set up or disaster?

1253
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: Do you know what you're gonna say? What's your name

1254
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 3: going to be?

1255
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 2: Evelyn?

1256
00:57:02,760 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 3: Evelyn?

1257
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, she owns a uniform place.

1258
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 3: What's the name of the uniform place?

1259
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 10: Hello?

1260
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 6: Hi?

1261
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 2: Is this Maddie? Yes, Hi, Maddie, this is Evelyn. I'm

1262
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 2: calling from Uniforms for you. How are you?

1263
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 10: I'm good? How are you?

1264
00:57:19,760 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 2: I'm good? I was just calling about the order of

1265
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,920
Speaker 2: uniforms that we have for your chair team, and I

1266
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: was wondering if you were available to pick them up

1267
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:27,120
Speaker 2: this week.

1268
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 10: Hang on one second, okay? Can I call you back

1269
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 10: in one minute?

1270
00:57:36,280 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 2: Okay? Are you able to call me back? And just

1271
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 2: let me know your availability because we just want to

1272
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 2: make sure we have these in the right place at

1273
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 2: the right time.

1274
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 10: Yes, I will, Maddie, I'll tell.

1275
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:50,840
Speaker 6: You, Maddie.

1276
00:57:50,880 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 2: This is Becca, Tonya and Mark and Danielle.

1277
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 10: No way birthday. I'm at your practice, my coach, and

1278
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 10: I'm like, did you I say.

1279
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 3: That really held it down?

1280
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 2: That like you and Deliverery?

1281
00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 10: How I didn't recognize that crazy?

1282
00:58:26,400 --> 00:58:27,600
Speaker 3: That was so good?

1283
00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 10: Was really good? Wow, I'm really impressed.

1284
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 2: Honestly, Wait, when was your birthday?

1285
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 10: It was last Saturday?

1286
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 2: I think, yeah, Saturday or a week ago? A week ago,

1287
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 2: So sorry, we're a little bit late.

1288
00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, just a little bit. So well, my mom actually

1289
00:58:50,640 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 10: told me she's like banana sing that bes I'm tyingya.

1290
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 10: But I guess they didn't get it.

1291
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:59,840
Speaker 6: I was like, oh, we got it, and your loves

1292
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 6: you so much, so much?

1293
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 10: Does I know?

1294
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 6: But this description of you that you gave us, like

1295
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 6: I don't know what I did in this life to

1296
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 6: deserve this girl as my daughter, Like what a sweet

1297
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 6: thing from you?

1298
00:59:11,600 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 2: So sweet she is?

1299
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 10: That's hilarious. Well, I thought you guys were actually like

1300
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 10: spamming or what is it scamming?

1301
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:22,919
Speaker 2: Thing.

1302
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:28,000
Speaker 10: I recently got scammed a lot of money, so I'm.

1303
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 2: Like, maybe you're like triggered from members. Well, I'm glad

1304
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 2: we got a hold of you, and I hope that

1305
00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 2: you had a great birthday. Even though we're late, I

1306
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,439
Speaker 2: feel like it worked out better than it came late

1307
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 2: because you had no idea.

1308
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 3: You were on your toes.

1309
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 10: We got a practice. So I'm like, who the heck

1310
00:59:56,000 --> 01:00:04,800
Speaker 10: is Evelyn? So she's like no, She's like, no, that's

1311
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 10: not for us. They got the wrong Like, well, they said, Paddy.

1312
01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:14,439
Speaker 6: So so so so much.

1313
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 3: We love you and your mom.

1314
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 10: I love you guys. Thanks for having the best podcast ever.

1315
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 2: Oh thanks for listening you and your mom, and have

1316
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,959
Speaker 2: a great cheer practice. Wait where do you guys live again?

1317
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 6: Where do you guys live again?

1318
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 10: Auburndale, Florida.

1319
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 3: Oh so maybe if we take our tour to Miami,

1320
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 3: you could come.

1321
01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's only four hours away.

1322
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 2: Okay, but you.

1323
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 10: Know, actually I think Beth is going to the stage coach.

1324
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I am right. Maybe, Well I'll be there so.

1325
01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:49,920
Speaker 2: Well, hopefully we'll run into each other.

1326
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 6: It's small, ya, looks like Tampa would be better.

1327
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,040
Speaker 3: Might arrange some things.

1328
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, come to Tampa. That's really.

1329
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:02,240
Speaker 2: Perfect. All right.

1330
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 6: We love you, I love you, I love you.

1331
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 10: Bye bye, guys.

1332
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 4: That guy, I'm impressed. She didn't shake, she didn't waiver.

1333
01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 4: You were in character. You knew exactly what you're saying.

1334
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,760
Speaker 6: Plus it was a realistic human voice where Tanner's like.

1335
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:26,800
Speaker 2: She does like Hella Gypsy Road. Yeah, full gypsy. It's terrifying.

1336
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 3: That was good.

1337
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, Hey, one more email here. Megan needs some advice

1338
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 6: for him than any advice, Meghan says, I had a

1339
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 6: thing with a guy for two years. He would never

1340
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 6: commit to me, so I ended it. Then I slept

1341
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 6: with a random guy and got pregnant. Before finding out

1342
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 6: I was pregnant, the guy I had been seeing before

1343
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 6: started telling me how much he loved me and wanted

1344
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 6: to be with me. When I told him I was pregnant,

1345
01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 6: he was very upset. Didn't know how. I didn't know

1346
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,320
Speaker 6: if you could handle the situation. Flash forward a year

1347
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:55,240
Speaker 6: and a half later, I have a seven month old baby,

1348
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 6: and he has been around the whole time, through my

1349
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 6: whole emotional pregnancy and after, and he loves my kid

1350
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 6: so much.

1351
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, this is the two year one.

1352
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:07,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, this is not the dad. Okay, he keeps telling

1353
01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 6: me he can't commit because it's weird for him, but

1354
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 6: he hangs out with us all the time and constantly

1355
01:02:11,640 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 6: shows us how much he cares and loves us. I've

1356
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,040
Speaker 6: tried being patient because I love him and I want

1357
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 6: him in my life, but I'm starting to doubt they'll

1358
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 6: ever commit to me, which was the whole reason I

1359
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 6: left him and slept with someone else in the first place.

1360
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 6: What would you guys do He's thirty two when I'm

1361
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:25,560
Speaker 6: twenty eight.

1362
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 2: My gut says to move on, you know. I mean,

1363
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,800
Speaker 2: she's just waiting around for something that she's not guaranteed.

1364
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 2: He's told her he can't commit because he feels weird

1365
01:02:41,040 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 2: for whatever reason. You don't want someone who feels weird

1366
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 2: in your life.

1367
01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 3: Here's the thing. It's not hard.

1368
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 4: Like if a guy says I don't want to commit

1369
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 4: and you want commitment, it's not there's no gray area here.

1370
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 3: It's very black and white.

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01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:58,920
Speaker 2: Well, I mean there is, but like when you're in

1372
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 2: this situation you love someone, it's much easier said than

1373
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 2: done to for sure.

1374
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I live my life being like I want

1375
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 4: to commit to you, and they don't want to commit

1376
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 4: to me, Like, hello, you're preaching to.

1377
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 6: The choir here.

1378
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 2: No, But I'm saying, like he's involved enough that she

1379
01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 2: feels like she's like he's like dangling commitment in front

1380
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,160
Speaker 2: of her, but she just can't get it from him.

1381
01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 3: You are not the dangling type.

1382
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 2: You're not. And you have a child who is probably

1383
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 2: the center of your world, who deserves the best. And

1384
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,919
Speaker 2: you don't want someone who just comes in and out

1385
01:03:33,960 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 2: when he pleases.

1386
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 4: Oh, you don't want the dangled fruit, you want the

1387
01:03:37,200 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 4: whole damn tree. So let me tell you something, Megan.

1388
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 4: This is a no.

1389
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 6: This is a no. Can I give you the guy's perspective. Oh,

1390
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 6: I think that it's very difficult for him to commit

1391
01:03:55,040 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 6: to raising another man's child.

1392
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 2: Well, then he needs to get on out.

1393
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 4: But tacking around two years ago, she didn't have she

1394
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 4: was son's baby, and he still couldn't commit to her

1395
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 4: that two years ago.

1396
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 6: So that's true, that's true.

1397
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 2: And if he she can't change the fact she's not

1398
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 2: gonna get rid of the kid. The kid's not going anywhere.

1399
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 2: So if he doesn't want that, he needs to get

1400
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 2: the heck out of Dodge.

1401
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 6: I'm just saying I think it's possible he could come

1402
01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 6: around on this situation. But I'm not saying she should

1403
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,000
Speaker 6: wait around for him, but if she wants to seeing

1404
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:26,120
Speaker 6: other people, she should be honest with him and say, so,

1405
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 6: here's the deal. I'm gonna go on hinge or whatever

1406
01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 6: it is. I need you to be aware of that

1407
01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 6: because you're not committing here. I love that you spend

1408
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 6: so much time with my kid. That's awesome, but nothing's happening.

1409
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 4: Let me tell you, Megan, this is what's going to happen.

1410
01:04:39,440 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 4: He is going to come back around and he's gonna

1411
01:04:41,520 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 4: literally tell you everything that you wanted to hear, and

1412
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:47,240
Speaker 4: it is going to be too little, too late, because

1413
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 4: you're going to be moved on. And it's like literally

1414
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:51,960
Speaker 4: going to be the craziest thing. And I can vouch

1415
01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 4: for this because it's currently happening to me. People are

1416
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,840
Speaker 4: coming back saying everything I wanted them to say, and

1417
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 4: I'm just like, not there anymore.

1418
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 2: You're just like Sanzy out keeping it.

1419
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 3: Sanzy over here is Sanzi in the city.

1420
01:05:05,640 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 4: Because I'm like, I'm like, if you would have told

1421
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 4: me this however many years ago, when I really was

1422
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 4: into you, maybe the outcome would be different. But like

1423
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 4: now I've like mentally and emotionally closed that door. You know.

1424
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 6: I hope that at the Roxy and in San Francisco

1425
01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 6: people come and keeping it Sanzy t shirts.

1426
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 2: Yeah you should release it.

1427
01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:28,320
Speaker 6: Keeping in it's its own word, but we all get it.

1428
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 6: It's but you know, it's funny.

1429
01:05:29,920 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 4: I keep using it in like different connotations, Like I'm

1430
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,560
Speaker 4: saying I feel kind of Sanzy, and I'm like, but

1431
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 4: that does mean without what I felt kind of sick

1432
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 4: when I was saying.

1433
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 2: I get it too. I know what I get it.

1434
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,280
Speaker 3: Just use it in whatever context you want and like

1435
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 3: it works.

1436
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 2: I had a word called ronxy and I would say

1437
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 2: like I don't know, or like if something wasn't great,

1438
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 2: it'd be like that's such a wronx or that I'd

1439
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 2: be like, oh, it's such a wronxy. You know. It's

1440
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:56,280
Speaker 2: just I get what you're saying, a definition, whatever you.

1441
01:05:56,200 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 8: Wanted whatever, like smurf whatever, I'm so smurfing mad like that.

1442
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:03,120
Speaker 8: You know, they could be anything.

1443
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, so he does have a definition. It's without well sons,

1444
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:10,280
Speaker 6: So I understand that. But Sanzy has like a vibe

1445
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 6: to it, like I did, I get feeling Sanzy. I

1446
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:15,320
Speaker 6: guess get what that means. Yeah, it's like not really

1447
01:06:15,320 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 6: feeling like doing much. It's kind of like feeling off

1448
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 6: your game a little bit.

1449
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:18,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1450
01:06:18,560 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 4: But what's so funny is this one of the guys

1451
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,600
Speaker 4: that I'm like dating right now used said Sanzi like,

1452
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:26,080
Speaker 4: he said, you're the Sanziest And I was like.

1453
01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,960
Speaker 2: Are you You're like you had your veil on in

1454
01:06:30,000 --> 01:06:30,760
Speaker 2: your wedding dress.

1455
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 5: Ye.

1456
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 4: I was like, you're speaking my love language and I'm

1457
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:34,400
Speaker 4: hearing it.

1458
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 6: Okay, good, it's just the guy who's leading the race

1459
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 6: right now.

1460
01:06:37,080 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh.

1461
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I think he thought I meant sexy because

1462
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 4: he saw my Instagram photo and he was like, it

1463
01:06:43,720 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 4: said songs in the City. So I think he thought

1464
01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 4: it meant like sexy. And so he's like, well, I

1465
01:06:47,240 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 4: think you're the Sanziest.

1466
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:51,760
Speaker 6: I was like, oh wow, I was putting forth effort.

1467
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:52,280
Speaker 2: I know.

1468
01:06:52,400 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 6: I love it.

1469
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 2: I did too.

1470
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 6: Did you want to add anything to this?

1471
01:06:56,520 --> 01:07:01,440
Speaker 8: No? Wait, is us about what I think it's you?

1472
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, you have a thing.

1473
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 8: Yeah, actually I do. I do want to add something.

1474
01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 8: I just want to lob this into the show.

1475
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:08,200
Speaker 3: Your muscle looked really big right there.

1476
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 8: I have been working out, Thank you very much. Wow,

1477
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 8: my goodness. Sorry, I've I've been hitting the gym very

1478
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 8: hard and I'm very excited that you noticed.

1479
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 2: Thank you totally did.

1480
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,040
Speaker 8: But but what I want to bring up is that

1481
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,800
Speaker 8: Disney Plus has come out with the streaming service from Disney.

1482
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 8: And one of my favorite things that I got into

1483
01:07:29,400 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 8: is the show A Smart Guy and.

1484
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 6: Has no recollection of No, nor should you.

1485
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 8: It was Taj Maori. He was the younger of the

1486
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 8: Maori kids, Tea and Tamara. We might all know from

1487
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 8: Sister's Sister. Anyway, on season two, episode five, you can

1488
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 8: see our very own markol and Itsky in the show,

1489
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:52,680
Speaker 8: and much of Mark.

1490
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:54,640
Speaker 2: A lot of story.

1491
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 6: No, do you have the video?

1492
01:07:57,160 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 8: I do have the video. Actually I may have the

1493
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:03,920
Speaker 8: episode still. I love it. It's so good. Hang on,

1494
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:05,160
Speaker 8: you know, I am just gonna pull it up so

1495
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:06,120
Speaker 8: I know exactly where it is.

1496
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 6: Well, I'll just tell you the story, because it's not

1497
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:09,880
Speaker 6: a great story. But when I moved out here in

1498
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 6: nineteen ninety eight with a friend Kurt and j d

1499
01:08:12,640 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 6: is another friend of ours who already had moved out

1500
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 6: and lived here and was fairly established and had a

1501
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:19,720
Speaker 6: role on Smart Guy, the or just Smarcus Smart Guy

1502
01:08:20,320 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 6: as Mackie Nagel, their nerdy white friend, and so in

1503
01:08:26,240 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 6: effort to get Kurt and I are SAG cards. And

1504
01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:29,720
Speaker 6: it's so that's first thing when you get to LA

1505
01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 6: to be an actor or a performer or host, you

1506
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 6: got to get your Screen Actors Guild Cards your first priority.

1507
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 6: And so you got to get it however you can.

1508
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 6: And if you get a Union extra part that counts.

1509
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 6: If you get three of those, you can get your

1510
01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 6: SAG card. So he got a part as extras. Now

1511
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 6: these kids are all it's they're all sixteen and the

1512
01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 6: throwing a house party when their parents are out of town.

1513
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:50,000
Speaker 6: And so we were cast as just extras at this party.

1514
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:52,800
Speaker 6: But the thing is I was twenty seven years old

1515
01:08:52,840 --> 01:08:55,840
Speaker 6: at the time and Kurt was twenty eight and nearly bald,

1516
01:08:56,840 --> 01:08:58,920
Speaker 6: so he had to wear a hat the tall guy

1517
01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:01,760
Speaker 6: with me on the show where a hat is Kurt, Oh,

1518
01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,719
Speaker 6: time you just sell me you're dancing in this part.

1519
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:09,719
Speaker 6: Oh and so yeah, we were extras on The Smart

1520
01:09:09,720 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 6: Guy and that was it.

1521
01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:12,800
Speaker 8: I mean, that's the thing that I was so excited

1522
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 8: about Disney Plus is that Marcus told me this we've

1523
01:09:15,240 --> 01:09:17,680
Speaker 8: talked about this before. I knew about this because you know,

1524
01:09:17,720 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 8: when you meet someone you always say like, hey, have

1525
01:09:19,280 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 8: you ever been on the Disney Channel? I think, right,

1526
01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:25,439
Speaker 8: that's right, and we like, I would get reminded like

1527
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 8: every couple of months, like, oh yeah, Marks on Smart Guy,

1528
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 8: I better find that clip just to watch it for

1529
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 8: my own entertainment. And you'd have to scour YouTube for it.

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01:09:32,360 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 6: It was so hard. Ten minutes seconds in. If you

1531
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 6: have it, that's that's that's my that's the showcase part.

1532
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 6: And that's me and my friend Kurt, who's almost bald,

1533
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:40,719
Speaker 6: at this high school party.

1534
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 8: So this is a season three episode five of Smart

1535
01:09:44,160 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 8: Guy Henderson's House Party, which should be adapted to a

1536
01:09:47,640 --> 01:09:48,360
Speaker 8: full length film.

1537
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:53,080
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Tech in his pockets.

1538
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:58,799
Speaker 5: Oh oh that is really great acting.

1539
01:09:58,960 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 6: Mark sneaking in. Get paid for that? Nothing? You're an extra.

1540
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 6: Oh I don't think we got anything. Maybe I got something.

1541
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 6: I don't remember, but I don't think we got Maybe

1542
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 6: you do. I don't know that we did. I think

1543
01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 6: the seg cud was the deal. If we got paid anything,

1544
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 6: it was not much. And then I think I might

1545
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:16,519
Speaker 6: have done I did an episode of Just Shoot Me

1546
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 6: where I was completely removed from the final episode. This

1547
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 6: are the things you do when you first get to La.

1548
01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 6: So the episode is if anyone's ever seen just shoot Me.

1549
01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 6: Maya is that her name? I think?

1550
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 4: So.

1551
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 6: She is dating French Stewart who's playing a puppeteer, and

1552
01:10:31,680 --> 01:10:34,520
Speaker 6: the puppeteer is all everything he feels about the relationship.

1553
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:36,639
Speaker 6: He says as the puppet, like, the puppet talks about

1554
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 6: his rotten l this show. And so he's at a

1555
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:42,640
Speaker 6: puppet show and she physically attacks the puppet at the

1556
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:44,840
Speaker 6: puppet show. And I'm the stage manager of the puppet show,

1557
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:46,720
Speaker 6: and I go and pull her off the puppet. So

1558
01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:49,240
Speaker 6: we werehearsed it all week, and then the Steve lovettan

1559
01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:52,000
Speaker 6: who created the show and then later Modern Family, comes

1560
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 6: to watch a run through. And he watches the run

1561
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:56,200
Speaker 6: through and he says, I don't like when that guy

1562
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 6: comes up and pulls Maya off the stage. I'm like, okay, great,

1563
01:11:00,040 --> 01:11:01,640
Speaker 6: And so I was off the episode, but I was like,

1564
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 6: well that's okay. I'm in the background so many times.

1565
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 6: I'm definitely gonna be in this episode. You can't see

1566
01:11:06,479 --> 01:11:08,280
Speaker 6: any of me. You can't even see my elbow. I

1567
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 6: am completely excised from that show. But I did get

1568
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 6: paid for that one, and I got a script and

1569
01:11:12,479 --> 01:11:13,559
Speaker 6: I got my SEG card from that.

1570
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 2: Wow.

1571
01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:14,840
Speaker 6: Wow.

1572
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 8: I posted on the internet the other day and I've

1573
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 8: never gotten more dms about something. Then I got just

1574
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:21,559
Speaker 8: in an date of people going like, I need to

1575
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 8: hear about this on the podcast. I need more from

1576
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:27,040
Speaker 8: Mark about this. So lots of smarty Mark fans out

1577
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 8: there brought to.

1578
01:11:29,040 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 6: That, brought to the attention.

1579
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, that it deserves.

1580
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,720
Speaker 4: Maybe on the next podcast you can give us some

1581
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:35,080
Speaker 4: tips on how to be a good extra.

1582
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna yeah, all right, let's do that.

1583
01:11:39,479 --> 01:11:39,679
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1584
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 2: Well, oh wait, I want to give the birthday shout

1585
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 2: out to the boyfriend the boyfriend of the year. So

1586
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:50,320
Speaker 2: the email said what never, The email says, Hey, Becka,

1587
01:11:50,439 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 2: so sorry if this is the wrong place to do this,

1588
01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 2: but my girlfriend absolutely loves your podcast and her twenty

1589
01:11:55,200 --> 01:11:57,880
Speaker 2: second birthday is coming up. I was wondering if you

1590
01:11:57,880 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 2: guys would just give her a birthday shout out on

1591
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:02,639
Speaker 2: the podcast because it would make her day. Her name

1592
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,600
Speaker 2: is Lexi Marco and she listens and writes in questions

1593
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 2: all the time. I would really appreciate it and keep

1594
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:10,439
Speaker 2: doing what you're doing because it makes her really hot.

1595
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:15,760
Speaker 2: Happy Lexi Marco, that's a happy birthday, twenty second birthday.

1596
01:12:16,240 --> 01:12:17,600
Speaker 6: Happy birthday, Lexi.

1597
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. We love you all right, Glad.

1598
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 2: I wanted to stay high because I thought it was

1599
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:23,799
Speaker 2: so cute little boyfriend.

1600
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 6: It is cute.

1601
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:27,719
Speaker 4: Nothing makes me happier than like a man reaching out

1602
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:29,840
Speaker 4: in lieu of his girl.

1603
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:32,599
Speaker 6: You know, yeah, like that's really cute.

1604
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:33,679
Speaker 2: I know, really cute.

1605
01:12:33,720 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 6: I think I found her Instagram. Oh wow, and there's

1606
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 6: her boyfriend. Oh they're so cute together.

1607
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 2: Can you confirm his name for me?

1608
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 6: Okay, but I think that's that birthday cute cute.

1609
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:47,240
Speaker 2: Can you confirm his name is Scott.

1610
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:49,920
Speaker 6: Let's see see if it says is from Oh there

1611
01:12:49,960 --> 01:12:52,240
Speaker 6: it is Happy birthday, Happy National boyfriend Day, Scott.

1612
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh wow, wow, that was great.

1613
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 6: This is taking at some sort of outdoor festival. He's

1614
01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 6: in a red T shirt. She's in looks like maybe

1615
01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:03,200
Speaker 6: overalls anyway, adorable, adorable and that's going to do it

1616
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 6: for another episode of Scrubbing in with Becktillian Tanya.

1617
01:13:06,479 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 2: Rad An I dou time.

1618
01:13:11,400 --> 01:13:14,679
Speaker 3: But not nominated for an iHeart podcast Award.

1619
01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 6: Isn't that strange? Like eighteen categories and nothing.

1620
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 3: Alright, you know what, It's okay because next year we're

1621
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 3: going for an Emmy.

1622
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 2: All right, I.

1623
01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 6: Don't know that sure how that's gonna work exactly? Wait,

1624
01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 6: all right, fair enough

1625
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:41,400
Speaker 2: Globe perhaps, Time of death twelve fifty three