1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, thanks so much for joining horrible decisions. I 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: just wanted to make you all aware that our tour 3 00:00:05,680 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: is paused for the meanwhile, but we can't wait to 4 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: see you. Of course we're gonna announced dates. Of course 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: we're gonna drop. Did you headwaite? Did you have to 6 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: say pause? It's a pause? I hate I hate the 7 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: word paul, like like when people pause for ship being gay? 8 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: Can we say postpone? I don't even think about pause 9 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: like that when I say, oh yeah, like I legit. 10 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: It's a pause home because we didn't like stop. We 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: just pushed pause, bitch, and it's gonna play date. I 12 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: am sad that we're not gonna be able to see 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: the whole hives specifically. I do UM real quick. Just 14 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: want to shout out to everyone that was going to 15 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: attend the Atlanta show. It was gonna be over seven 16 00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: hundred people. Hole, So I'm looking forward to seeing y'all. 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: We are going to see y'all later this year, and 18 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: you guys will receive emails and updates from Weezi and 19 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: Ey's social media and all of that regarding when those 20 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: dates UM will be returning. I do tho't want to 21 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:00,040 Speaker 1: say that for the Atlanta show, and I believe to 22 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: the San Francisco show. Guys, they are seated venues, so 23 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: we are asking that you go ahead and keep your tickets. 24 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: They will be valid. They're all seated venues. What she 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: means is, like all of our venues, there's no standing room. 26 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: We're we're always, um, really big on you guys being 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: able to wear whatever shoes you want without paying. But 28 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: specifically for those shows, um, there is a sign seating, 29 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: so that's really why. And and even for Toronto, you know, 30 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 1: Toronto sold out so quickly. Um, we hope that you 31 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,639 Speaker 1: guys keep your tickets because when we announced dates back, um, 32 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: if you can't, if we can't accommodate you with the date, 33 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: of course it will be a refund um if you 34 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: can't make that new date. But just try to hold 35 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: onto your tickets so that you know you got the 36 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: sold out show and we don't want you to miss out. 37 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: All right, Well, again, we want to thank the r 38 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: HI for supporting us, and as usual, we will keep 39 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: you guys with an episode every Monday. So let's get 40 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: on with the show. And Hi guys, welcome to yet 41 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible decisions. This your girl, Mandy b 42 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: a k A pet stallion ak A full core pumps 43 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: a k A negative for covid um. What's up though? 44 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: How you feeling over? I just thought you can't say that. 45 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: That's like saying you're negative for STDs. It doesn't mean 46 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 1: it's a bad thing. You know. This is This has 47 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: been the funniest thing because this has been the only 48 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: time I have seen people so kind of open with 49 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: sharing their positive results. You know. Um. I think that 50 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 1: it's more so because for this one. I mean, I've 51 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 1: like think about if you if you've if you've had 52 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: a person that you slept with that had chlamydia or gonnarea, 53 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: you would expect them to tell you so that you 54 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: can get tested. It's a little bit different, particularly with this, 55 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: because it's if you touch the surface or you're in 56 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: the same space. It's not if you fuck that person. 57 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 1: So that's why I think people are being open about 58 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: positive results only because I think as a human being 59 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: or good Samaritan, you should at least tell someone, hey, 60 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: if you know you're around me in the last fourteen days, 61 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: you should get tested, right, Much like if you've got 62 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: tested and you had something you could be like, Yo, 63 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: my pussy is burning, I expect the same to your dick. 64 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: I hate that people just it was a little ashamed 65 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: that they had sex and calls something. But now we 66 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: out here coughing not covering in our mouths, and it 67 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: makes sense to people, what the hell fundamentals of fucking hygiene? 68 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 1: I guess before we get started. We do have a guest, 69 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: and I'm super excited we're gonna introduce her in a 70 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: moment um. But I guess wheezy, um, we haven't really 71 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: caught up in a while, So what's been going on 72 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,440 Speaker 1: with you? I am active as fuck and y active, 73 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: I mean going crazy in my apartment doing like fucking 74 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 1: fire drills. God damn, I've been doing workouts I ain't 75 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: never done in my motherfucking life. I didn't even know 76 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: I could go on my balcony and do pull ups. 77 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: I bought a bike. Did you know bikes are like 78 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: five I don't know if anybody knows. No, bikes are 79 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: very explsive, like they're not cheap. The brand is specialized. Um. 80 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: So me and old Bay went to a bike store 81 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: because it's literally the only thing. We were like, okay, well, 82 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: how can we be active. So I have a really 83 00:03:56,840 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: bad I have hard a hard time running. Um, I 84 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: get really wheezy, so I normally just lift and ship. 85 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: But we bought a bike, so we went by. We 86 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: go biking in the mornings. It's nice. It's nice. I'm 87 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: not fucking that much. When the NBA got canceled is 88 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: really when I was like, oh, this is gonna be 89 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: some ship. Like we were sucking a lot then at night, 90 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: like earlier in the night, because it would be like 91 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: from eight to eleven, like I wouldn't get dick, and 92 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 1: it was like right after we ate food, now like 93 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: we fuck, which is weird. So you're actually happy the 94 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 1: NBA is canceled. No, because I'm tired of fucking. But 95 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,559 Speaker 1: I'm lucky getting into it. Like the first few days 96 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:37,359 Speaker 1: I had a really hard time, um, detaching and knowing 97 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: that we couldn't meet, you know, fans of the show, 98 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: and that my schedule was like interrupted in a way 99 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: to where I felt useless. Um, and I really hate 100 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: the pressure of like I feel like everybody was like, oh, well, 101 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: you're creative, so just make stuff, and it's just like 102 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I get it, but like still I'm inspired by being 103 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: around people and being collaborative. Even my writing sessions, you know, 104 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 1: I go to them to three time times a week. 105 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: Those are completely over. I mean now when we're doing 106 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: writing sessions, it's like on like we're doing the show, 107 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,240 Speaker 1: but it's different. It's ten people and one idea and 108 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: it's weird. Now, I'll share this link with you and 109 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 1: for anyone listening. You guys may have saw me posts 110 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: it on my social media, but class central dot com 111 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 1: mom has over four Yes, so there's actually a script 112 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: writing class on there, and there's another one that allows 113 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,919 Speaker 1: you to write as it's a it. It helps you 114 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: with a thirty page script for a pilot for like 115 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: an opener to a series. Um so I'll put the 116 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: link in the description. Yes, it is free for the course. However, 117 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: if you want the certification, that does come at a cost. 118 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: But these are literally Ivy League schools. I think the 119 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: scriptwriting class is from Michigan State University. UM at least 120 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: if you guys got some business courses to now if 121 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: it just it heads up, they are free. If you 122 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: want us to certificate, you have to pay for it. 123 00:05:54,520 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: No ship people are like, oh yeah, niggas, I get 124 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 1: out with everyone and Corey included if you could talk 125 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: about it really quick before we even introduced you. I 126 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: want to talk about something we all really like that's 127 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: happening since this has happened. Oh okay, well uh, well okay, 128 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: I guess we'll start with Corey and guys, we are 129 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 1: going to introduce again. I promise she's going to get 130 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 1: a a good introduction. So Corey, Yeah, what what is 131 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: one thing that is good that you think has happened 132 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: because of what's going on? Or like, yea, because I 133 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: think I've been like face timing all of my friends. 134 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: Like I feel like I've been seeing my friends almost 135 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: more because like or like I've been like signing up 136 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: for like live streams of like DJ sets or you know, 137 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,040 Speaker 1: like dance parties or something like that, and I can 138 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 1: like hop into one for like half an hour and 139 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: then like hop into another one. So I feel like 140 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm actually connecting with more people. It's just like not 141 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: that in person, which You're not the only person I've 142 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: I've like I saw on Twitter people like I'm so 143 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: connected with people now I'm like what I'm like, I mean, 144 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: I acknowledge people I was going to say for the 145 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: first time and I've very long time. I was on 146 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: FaceTime with a guy the other night for almost three hours, 147 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: and I was like, well, that's fun. What am I doing? Um? 148 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: I think that one of the I guess positives, UM 149 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: that we have taken out of this, I would say, 150 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: is UM, I mean I have had the time now 151 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: in my house. I think we and I you know, 152 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: you and I have been on the road since like November, 153 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: and I don't stop a lot. I literally have recently 154 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: felt like, why then do I pay run? I'm never home? 155 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: So I've enjoyed being able to binge, being able to 156 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: sleep in my own bed. Um. I've been able to 157 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: clean and organize my home um in which I felt 158 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: like I didn't have time before to do so. And yeah, 159 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: I think that there's I've also gained an appreciation for 160 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: the things that I would have never thought I was 161 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: taken for granted, like the hair store. The hair store 162 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: was motherfucking closed and I couldn't get no acid tone, y'all. 163 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: I had Tory nails off, y'all know. Look, y'all know 164 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: how I feel about these acrylic nails. I'm down to 165 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: three lashes. My lash plays close a bit is a 166 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: really big one. I think for me, like get my 167 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: roots done on Tuesday. No your but I like black root, 168 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: dark roots of blind here. I know some people think 169 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to like, um, I'm grateful for I 170 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: was just saying this the other day, like, um, I 171 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: have noticed so much that I am so present and 172 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: it's weird, Like I feel more calm, Like I feel 173 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: more at peace even though I know it's an anxious time. 174 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: I feel more chill. Um, Like my partner and I 175 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,559 Speaker 1: like we're really connected. Like I'm making so many meals 176 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 1: at home. I'm healthier. Um, I've never cooked this month's 177 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: I mean swordfish the other day, Like I'm cooking a 178 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: lot of crab boil and I'm like really proud of myself. 179 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: Fucking swordfish, big bitch. You think you in Florida? Where 180 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 1: could just bio in Brooklyn? You know I don't live 181 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: in that part of the New York City. But um 182 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: that and uh, the other thing I was going to 183 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 1: say that I noticed like online that I really liked, 184 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: you know, when you're like, Okay, so there's no celebrity 185 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: gossip right now, not for real, right I feel like 186 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: people are just so obsessed with like celebrities and just 187 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: like they're just just their their drama and it's like 188 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: we cling to that. And don't get me wrong, I 189 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: love drama too, right, I watched reality TV for that, 190 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: but I've really appreciated that there's so much more engagement 191 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: between people talking more than like ship talking. There's still 192 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: ship talking instead of TMZ. I'm just following Andrew Cuomo's tweets. 193 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: Ain't much of the differ like Andrew Andrew dropping them 194 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: bombs I love and I'm a huge Cooma fan right now? 195 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: How is that the only we get? But I don't know, 196 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: Like people, they're like engaging more with fun like things 197 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: to say to each other more than like ship talking. 198 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: But maybe that's my fee but I've I've felt that 199 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I got me speaking. We got 200 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: news to Tom Brady uh is no longer on the 201 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: paths though, and I got really excited because I was like, 202 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: it's not it's not it's not COVID news, and I'm like, 203 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: I care about it, So I ain't gonna hold you. 204 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: As far as connecting to people, um, I don't know 205 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: if this is a symptom um or not, but I 206 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 1: have considered flying dick in And it wasn't until recently 207 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: that I realized how sad it is that we are 208 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 1: the epicenter here in New York and Niggas is just 209 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: like no, I'm like, Nigga, I'm offering you a flight 210 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: and some food. I don't even be allfering at the 211 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 1: normal plant, but why don't you? And I think it's 212 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: like you're fucking girl because because I'm just like, because 213 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: I feel like if you come, you come and to 214 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: drop the dick off. Like I'm I'm applying the same 215 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,959 Speaker 1: flyout roles. If you come, you're my sex slave. I 216 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: need the dick on demand. I'm like, I'm just trying 217 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: to be hospitable here and offer the flight. I'm trying 218 00:10:48,920 --> 00:10:53,200 Speaker 1: to be hospitable. Oh, I do have a question, is 219 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: anyone's mom's freaking out? My mom is like, I gotta 220 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: buy a bunch of soup. Like no, my mom is 221 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: so chill in times like this. She's just like, we're 222 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: going to be fine. Well so, so, my mom actually 223 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: is a nurse, so she is an essential worker, so 224 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: she's still um out working. She's just really telling me 225 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 1: how unprepared, specifically Florida and her unit is as far 226 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: as it's Um, someone took a picture of their pandemic 227 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: kit and it's literally nothing but like a fucking hand 228 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: sanitizer that says everyone used, and some paper towels. She 229 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: said they don't have enough masks. Um. It's really crazy, 230 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: like hearing from the healthcare professionals right now. And my 231 00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: friend is an anesthesiologist. Well she's the nurse of necessust, 232 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: but she's still a minister's anesthesia. I don't know the difference. Um, 233 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: And so she's telling me the difference were her job too. 234 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: It's fucking crazy, but about this. Sorry, yeah, I was 235 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: about to be like, all right, we said we wasn't 236 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: gonna talk about this recording remote. Um, so it's hard 237 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: to like, I think we have like a two second delay, 238 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:54,480 Speaker 1: so if we all thought we interrupted before. Um No. 239 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: I was reading some news about the ventilator and I 240 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: actually have a tiny, mini little thing like thinking about 241 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: a breathing machine in my house. Um, Corey, by the way, 242 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,559 Speaker 1: that's why they call me wheezy. And I literally thought 243 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:11,199 Speaker 1: to myself today like I'm going to donate this. This 244 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:14,080 Speaker 1: is like a super expensive machine. But don't nobody want 245 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: you humidified? Um? Like drop droplets in it and it 246 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: has like a huge tube and you can put the 247 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: mask over your face to breathe. So it's not a huge, 248 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 1: like big you know thing for ventilator. But I'm going 249 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 1: through this selfish thing like, well, what if I get 250 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: this ship? You know, what if you needed like and 251 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: I'm just like, but I feel bad, and I'm like, 252 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,320 Speaker 1: I want to do my part. But so I'm like 253 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 1: volunteering to give old people food in the Bronx. Uh, 254 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 1: don't look at you, just trying to be shady. Why 255 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: you had to say the Bronx. Plus, I can't understand why. 256 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 1: First off, you need to give it to Brooklyn because 257 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: the Bronx is stated as the lowest amount of cases 258 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: up here. So give it to your people while you 259 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 1: out there in Brooklyn. Buys. Anyways, let's go ahead and 260 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: introduce our guest. Guys. You guys have been hearing a 261 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: third voice for like the first fifteen minutes of the show. 262 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 1: But we want to let you guys know that we 263 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:15,960 Speaker 1: are doing let's do a Caucasian drum drum roll? How 264 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: do you make it off beat? You're you're so awful, 265 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: not an off beat drum roll? We have ms Corey 266 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: b Um, welcome to Horrible Decisions Man. Thanks for having me. Um, 267 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: do you want to go ahead and let our listeners 268 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: know um what you do? And guys, we we have 269 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: met before, so maybe you could share kind of how 270 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: we met as well. Yeah. So, um So, I'm a 271 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: sex educator, I'm a kink coach relationship coach, um, and 272 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: I also I'm a cannabis advocate um and those are 273 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 1: the kind of things that I like working. And um So, 274 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: King Coach is basically somebody that helps people get better 275 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: at their kink skills. Learn more about King. Um. I 276 00:13:53,880 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: get hit up by a lot of couples that have 277 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 1: never done really kinky stuff, but they're doing it. It's 278 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 1: like it's not like King for like Kink Moore specifically 279 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: King No War and Jasmine. I think that that's kind 280 00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 1: of how we we would we would. I think they 281 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: call themselves fetish trainers. But okay, there's no like, there's 282 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: no like certification, there's no like online certification, there's no 283 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: like that doesn't exist. It's more of just like this 284 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: is how people like people know what a coaches. So 285 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: I just kind of like, you know, you kind of 286 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 1: make your own titles at a certain point. But yeah, 287 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,680 Speaker 1: so I teach people about kink and and so I 288 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: met Mandy at um. So one of the things I 289 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: also do is I'm I perform and I do like 290 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: kink demos um at clubs and parties and stuff like that. 291 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: And so it was. It was a pro It was 292 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: a rally, right, yes, the process. I just wanted to know. 293 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:44,040 Speaker 1: I wasn't there, But I just would like to say 294 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 1: this one word of what I thought a raality was. 295 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: I thought a rally. Actually, let me google it, since 296 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 1: I'm recording on my computer. When I hear the word rally, 297 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,800 Speaker 1: I assume we're all going to rally together and like 298 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: get somewhere and like march together. There was It was 299 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: a gathering of people together her okay, mass meeting of 300 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: people making a political protest or showing support for a cause. Well, 301 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: turns out this that's what we did. Okay, No, so 302 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: so okay, so at this rally and it's so well, 303 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: I was super drawn. I was super drawn to Corey 304 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: because she had this extravagant like bondage type garter belt, 305 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: like it was beautiful, by the way, your body is 306 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: super bombed. Oh my god. Um so she had the 307 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 1: designer for that's creepy haa. She has like an amazing 308 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: Instagram and all this creepy I don't know if they're 309 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: gonna fit my thighs. I need to hit her. She 310 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: does specialty custom so so she has this customer tire 311 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: on and I'm like, yo, that is super super dope. 312 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 1: So we start kind of talking about bondage. But before 313 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 1: the rally ends, you you kind of did a flogging session. 314 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: If I'm not mistaken, right, yeah I did. I did 315 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 1: like a big impact scene with my bottom there, kitty, 316 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: and um yeah, like I whipped her, flogged her, spanked her, 317 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: power told her I probably use clothes pins, knowing me, like, 318 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: um okay, so I like to put clothes pins like 319 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: like on the like closer to like your armpit kind 320 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: of area where that skin is really thin. Wait wait 321 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: wait you you stick them in the skin though, Oh 322 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: you ain't do you You didn't do that, but I 323 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: think you did flogger to where I think she was 324 00:16:22,160 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 1: getting waltz. She likes, she like, you didn't get that, 325 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: but she got only work. So she did get well bro, Yeah, 326 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 1: I hope. So she doesn't bruise very easily. So you 327 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: said that she you called her your bottom instead of 328 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: your stuff term. So like she and I don't have 329 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: like any sort of established dominant submissive dynamic or anything 330 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: like in that scene. Yeah, like, yeah, I was like 331 00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: dombing her. But I usually use the verbs like top 332 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: and bottom, like I'm topping her, she's bottoming to me 333 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: just to kind of indicate like who's giving, who's receiving. Um, 334 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 1: But like you could say that I was like domming 335 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: her as well. Um, I just used those other terms more. 336 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: It was super late. So so guys, um Corey is 337 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: one half of the Never Have I Ever? Podcast, so 338 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: we do I feel like we normally do icebreakers for 339 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: people that we think ain't really into sex like that, 340 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 1: but clearly you are. But we're gonna do the icebreaker anyways. 341 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: And this is also a game that maybe you guys 342 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,719 Speaker 1: can do in your group chat since we're all just 343 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 1: talking to each other remotely anyways, So for the icebreaker 344 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: for this episode, I wanted to do a never Have 345 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 1: I Ever? So so Wheezy Um and I are also 346 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: gonna play along. So we're gonna go around. I guess 347 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: what would this be a triangle We're gonna go around 348 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 1: the rally and we're gonna say one thing that we 349 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 1: have never done, and I do want to know if 350 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:50,439 Speaker 1: the other people have done it. And then for the 351 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 1: second half, I want to go over something that we 352 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: all have done and we never want to do again. 353 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: So let's start with you, Queezy, because I don't think 354 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: there's really nothing you ain never done, but we can 355 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: see so sexually, never have you ever never done this? 356 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 1: And I'm only thinking about it because I'm having recurring 357 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 1: dreams that I'm fucking so Corey just context my boyfriend's 358 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: name partner whoever, his name is Old Bay on the show. 359 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: So I'm having recurring dreams while in the bed with 360 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: him that someone comes in the middle of the night 361 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: and it's someone I know that I used to sleep with. 362 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,400 Speaker 1: I just don't want to say their name on the show. 363 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: And he foxed me well Old Bays next to me, 364 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 1: and then Old Bay wakes up and they're like, fucking 365 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: run this amazing train on me. Now, never have I 366 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: ever had a three sing with two men, But this 367 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: dream is so frequent, it's like three or four times 368 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: a week. Oh but you won't that's a fantasy. At 369 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 1: this point. And here's why I feel bad, because we 370 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 1: had a night on Friday where I was like really 371 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: tired of being in the house. I was like, we're 372 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 1: gonna this about to be the club. I was like, 373 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:58,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get some cigarette smoking here, We're gonna stand 374 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 1: on the couches like it's a section, and we're gonna 375 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 1: make this the motherfucker. He let me stay on the couch. 376 00:19:03,720 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: But basically I found out Magic City was doing lap dances, 377 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: so I did this like stripper dance teas move and 378 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 1: it turned into watching porn and all the porn I 379 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: put on was MMF and he was like, what are 380 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 1: you trying to tell me? I was like, how are 381 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: you receiving what I'm saying? And uh, I feel like 382 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:23,480 Speaker 1: it was a no. So I don't know how to 383 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: get him loose. But never have I ever fucked you guys? 384 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: And it's like a super crazy fantasy right now, Corey, 385 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 1: never have you ever? What? Okay? So I'm really bad 386 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 1: at this game too because I've done a lot of 387 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: ship um and I played this on my podcast too. 388 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 1: So the one that I thought of was never have 389 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: I ever been anally fisted? Oh bitch? Me neither me 390 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: neither no no weezy. I don't think has either. She 391 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: she claims she's still I never really had anal sex, 392 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: but she let the heat going, so I think that's 393 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,600 Speaker 1: anal sex. I mean it is. I just haven't had 394 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: like strokes in masks. That's what I want and I'm 395 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. So well, Corey, have you ever had MMF? Yes? Yeah, 396 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: and I have to so, okay, I guess you're none 397 00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: of us MMF first, like MMF for like f FM 398 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 1: is that what you're asking MMF? Oh my god, Oh god, 399 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,919 Speaker 1: it's my favorite. Getting DP. It was like the best 400 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 1: thing ever, Like I can't, oh my god. So, speaking 401 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 1: of speaking of MMF and DP, never have I ever 402 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 1: been DP during an MMF. Um, So I did so 403 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: I just recently started trying to test what that would 404 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: feel like, and I absolutely love it. So I've been 405 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: getting fucked vaginally and having my partner fucked me with 406 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 1: a dildo in my ass. I've only done plugs. I 407 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 1: can't fit the dildo because I'm not gonna girl you better, 408 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,840 Speaker 1: you better, You've got to make them, but plugs a 409 00:20:50,840 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: little bigger and get that dialdo in there. So you 410 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,679 Speaker 1: could stroke it. That ship feel any time I do 411 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: like the white girl moan no offense. But you know 412 00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Corey like that, huh. It's it's when 413 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 1: like I'm getting a finger in my ass and coming 414 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 1: at this it's crazy. That's the only time I get 415 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: the huh, how do you spell that? I love that ship? 416 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: H h ch that's more like who No, I feel 417 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 1: like there's an edit in there. I was not saying 418 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:25,120 Speaker 1: you So, so we we're gonna We're gonna start back 419 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 1: at the top. What is one thing that you have 420 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: done sexually that you never want to do again? Oh, 421 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 1: getting face fucked after dinner? I don't know. Okay, I 422 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 1: listened to that episode the first it was the first, 423 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: ye second one or something. Yeah, but you talked about 424 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: that and you like felt like you were going to 425 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: throw up your whole dinner. Happened again recently, which is 426 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,000 Speaker 1: what I said. But it's because I'm doing this. Fucking 427 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: God damn Michelin Star meals bro. So have y'all heard 428 00:21:55,280 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: a masterclass? Yeah? Yeah, Like so fucking n and Ramsey's 429 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,760 Speaker 1: on there giving you the secrets to ship. So I'm 430 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 1: making everything okay, fucking state scallop sautean ship and suddenly 431 00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: he got horny and I'm like, it's not oysters, what 432 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 1: the fuss going on? And it was a very big 433 00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:17,400 Speaker 1: like like heaving so and you know, what's the fund 434 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: up thing about niggas doesn't throw off at all? Good? Okay, 435 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 1: see not see? And you know I don't like gagging. 436 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm gonna die, And I literally don't 437 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: want to die giving head like that's just one way 438 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 1: I don't want to go out. And I feel like 439 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,160 Speaker 1: once I gag, I feel like I'm not I'd rather 440 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: die like that from then like you know, some other 441 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: mysterious disease not to be named. Like I always thought 442 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 1: I wanted to die while having sex. I'd be a 443 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 1: pretty great way to go. Which way like like oh, 444 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: like from being choked from being what No, I don't 445 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: want to die from being choked. That would be like 446 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 1: too big of a news story or something, you know, 447 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,960 Speaker 1: like like that like against choking or something, because I 448 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: love being choked by like it once done right, Um, 449 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: I don't know, from being like I'd love to be 450 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,480 Speaker 1: like suffocated with someone's tits or ass or something that's 451 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: a good one. Stuff like, what about you now? I 452 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 1: mean I would want to die maybe from um the 453 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:15,919 Speaker 1: orgasm being so good that I get a heart attack, 454 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm cool with it. Oh, I'm gonna go 455 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: with um being suffocated by dick the first one you said. 456 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 1: I feel like that's a good way to go. Mh, 457 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: I'm with that, Corey. What is there anything that you've 458 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: never done that? I wait, well, is there anything that 459 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: you've done that you never want to do again? Um, 460 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 1: have sex with a straight man? Only queer men? Yeah? 461 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:51,199 Speaker 1: I really do, really like at least some degree of 462 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:53,800 Speaker 1: how to reflexibility must be there. Why not a straight man? 463 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: Why not? I have historically just had like very average 464 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: or you know, low average experience with straight men, and 465 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 1: like as a queer woman, like as a queer woman, 466 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 1: I just have more to relate to with queer men. 467 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: But also just like this with sexist though particularly, I 468 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:16,680 Speaker 1: feel like queer men are usually more focused on my 469 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 1: pleasure and like more like my pleasure is a it 470 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 1: is always a thing, like it's like it's it's something 471 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: that they're thinking about, where it's like I feel like 472 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,320 Speaker 1: a lot of straight guys like just don't think about 473 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 1: that or just don't. That's very interesting, Like I wasn't 474 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: expecting that answer. That's very interesting. Yeah, but like I've 475 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,680 Speaker 1: and like I'm I'm of course not saying like all 476 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: straight men are like bad at sex or you know, 477 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,880 Speaker 1: like aren't consensual or whatever, like there's plenty of straight guys. 478 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: It's just like, based on the like stats of my 479 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 1: experience and the like ratio of like positive negative experience, 480 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: is just like better for me to just be like, no, 481 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 1: I'd rather just suck only queer men. And so far 482 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:53,560 Speaker 1: it's going really well, m hmm, damn I need to 483 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 1: know what to find. Well, no, I was gonna say, 484 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,479 Speaker 1: especially me, so I only deal with black men, and 485 00:25:00,520 --> 00:25:02,199 Speaker 1: so I think it's really hard for them just to 486 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: open up the even the conversation regarding the scale, the sect, 487 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: the Kinsey scale on where they fall in. But clearly 488 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: I like booty play, so I would say that they 489 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 1: still aren't one hetero and a lot of them are 490 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:20,360 Speaker 1: like by curious maybe maybe not having have dealt that way, 491 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: but yeah, they're definitely not Pegasus to Corey. I'm so 492 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: like I'm super subby and botomy, like I really yeah, 493 00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: it's funny, Yeah, I know. So like for work, like 494 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,479 Speaker 1: I learned, I got trained by a prodom like and 495 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 1: how to top properly in like I so like I 496 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 1: do that mainly for work, and then like sometimes if 497 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 1: I've if I'm feeling like in a mood or something 498 00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: and playing around with like my friends, then like I'll 499 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 1: tap my friends. But in my personal life I'm really subby. Yeah, 500 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 1: the most part, well, I didn't even think about it 501 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,360 Speaker 1: until I said it. When I said Pegasus, Now I'm 502 00:25:54,359 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 1: thinking like peg assists. Man, this is my sketch writing class. 503 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 1: That's fucking fun um, I would say, And it's funny 504 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: because my thing that has happened that I don't want 505 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: to ever happen again, um is actually gonna lead us 506 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,640 Speaker 1: into our vanilla ship. But I would say, one thing 507 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,679 Speaker 1: that I've done that I'm cool with never doing again 508 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: would be the Golden Showers. Um. Just pissing on someone. 509 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: And I think I shared that I was drunk, like 510 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 1: the guy tried to return the favor, and I was 511 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: just you have never shared that, ma'am. I did. I 512 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: shared it at the live show the very first time 513 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 1: that I yet know, So so I got asked to 514 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: piss on him and I think I told you how 515 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: hard it was mentally just to go through it. So 516 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: he like we we made He made sure we did. 517 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: We drank a whole lot um. What he wanted to 518 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: do was have me piss on him, but also my 519 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: bladder to be full enough to squirt so that he 520 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:55,639 Speaker 1: could have me squirt in a cup so he can 521 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: make it up with the rock. I shared that story 522 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,399 Speaker 1: before anyways, So I got on top of him in 523 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: the shower and the pages would not come out, so 524 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: I literally had to run to the toilet and come 525 00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: back over him after I pee out to stop my 526 00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: p go back over him. So we ended up going out. 527 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: This was the first night. This is when I was 528 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: um in Qatar with him or whatever. Cutter is the 529 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: way to pronounce it. Not it is cutter, cutter, cutter, 530 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:30,119 Speaker 1: not cutter, bitch, bitch cutter, bitch cutter, ship cut it 531 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,919 Speaker 1: cut it anyways. The next night, the next night, we 532 00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:37,159 Speaker 1: went out to the club, and mind you out there, 533 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 1: it's very conservative, so like we couldn't dance on each other, 534 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: we couldn't be intimate at all in public. But we 535 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 1: drank a whole lot. So when we came back to 536 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: the house, I got on the toilet to piss, and 537 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,199 Speaker 1: he stood in front of me, and before we got 538 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 1: into the shower, he decided to piss into the toilet, 539 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: but make it fall between my tits into the toilet, 540 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: so he pissed on me. I was pissing on the 541 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,159 Speaker 1: toilet and I was just like, oh no, it was warm, 542 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: kind of hot. I just didn't like it. And so 543 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: we've both got into the shower together. But I am 544 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 1: cool never doing golden showers again ever in my life. 545 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: We are interrupting this amazing episode of horrible decisions to 546 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: talk about Manscaped, the best in men's below the belt 547 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 1: grooming ladies. I feel like we've all met somebody that 548 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: could take care of their balls way better. There's like 549 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,879 Speaker 1: an eight out of ten chance. Your balls are a 550 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,600 Speaker 1: little fucked up right now. 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Since we can't do our 589 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:43,120 Speaker 1: own testimonio, let's enjoy the show. So yeah, share that. UM. 590 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,560 Speaker 1: So I wanted to get into the vanilla ship. Um. 591 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 1: This comes from mirror dot UK. It says that so 592 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:51,840 Speaker 1: this is um based on stats in the UK, but 593 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 1: I felt like it's still applied. Um maybe across the nation. 594 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: It's probably more here actually, So one in three women 595 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: deal with unwanted slapping, gagging, or spitting during sex. UM 596 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 1: a research company interviewed over two thousand women between the 597 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: ages of eighteen and thirty nine, and thirty eight percent 598 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:18,479 Speaker 1: of the women experienced unwanted acts of aggression during consensual sex. 599 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,440 Speaker 1: Um It said that forty two of them actually felt pressured, coerced, 600 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,840 Speaker 1: or forced into it, and of the respondent said that 601 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: incidents had them feeling upset or frightened. I wanted to 602 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: kind of have this conversation with you guys, especially because 603 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: we are into a lot of things, um sexually, but 604 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: we also allow our partners the freedom as well to 605 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: be just as you know, UM experienced. So I wanted 606 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: to ask you, Corey, how you go about dealing with 607 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: someone who you know it maybe does something sexually that 608 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, I didn't really feel comfortable with you 609 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,560 Speaker 1: doing that. I mean, I think it's so it depends 610 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: on obviously, like what the thing is and how it 611 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: affects you. UM, but I think that if if it's 612 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 1: something that you're like, Okay, this is like I didn't 613 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,800 Speaker 1: love this, but like we can wait to talk about 614 00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,080 Speaker 1: it after sex is over. Like if that's the vibe, 615 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 1: then like definitely do that be like, hey you did 616 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: something there, Like maybe you are cool with that. Like 617 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: the thing I was I was thinking about when reading 618 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,479 Speaker 1: this article is just like none of these people asked 619 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,160 Speaker 1: beforehand or like had a conversation like oh, I'm into this, 620 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: like do you want to do that? And so I 621 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 1: think it's just like a thing of okay, next time, 622 00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: please don't do this or never do this again. But 623 00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: then like if it's something that like triggers you makes 624 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: you feel like extremely violated, like you should stop and 625 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 1: you should like stop everything and like and like calm 626 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: yourself down and explain to them, like I'm not cool 627 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: with that. Do you think it's so hard for us 628 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: to like I was just thinking about this the other day. Um, 629 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 1: I saw a conversation on Twitter where these guys were like, 630 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: why don't y'all just tell us that you don't like it? Then? 631 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: Why do you think it's so hard for women in 632 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: general too not vote realize that? And I think a 633 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: lot of men that are listening right now are probably 634 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: wondering that as well, like, well, if you don't like it, 635 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: why you just don't tell me? That's a good question. 636 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: I mean there's no right answer. I'm just saying like, 637 00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: because I know I think it's a certain way. What 638 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: do you think. I mean, I think like it's it 639 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't you shouldn't have to list everything that you don't 640 00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 1: want to do before you fux someone, like it just 641 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 1: should be Like it's also like people just need to 642 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,680 Speaker 1: learn how to ask in like a quick and sexy 643 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 1: way so that they don't feel like it like stops 644 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 1: the mood or something. That's the biggest complaint that I 645 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 1: hear about people when it comes to communicating is like, Oh, 646 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's gonna like funk up the mood. 647 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, it's gonna make you feel a 648 00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 1: whole lot better, and it's gonna make your partner feel 649 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: a whole lot better before like you do something that 650 00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: might like really terrify her or something, especially when it's 651 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: like things that are like, you know, degrading and like 652 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:50,200 Speaker 1: spitting and slapping and you know, stuff like that. So also, 653 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,920 Speaker 1: it's weird because Weezy Weeze has mentioned this so much, 654 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 1: just how sexy people asking for consent is. And it's 655 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:02,920 Speaker 1: weird that people find it a mood killer to ask 656 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 1: to do something when actually, like you asking if it's 657 00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 1: okay for you to do this actually does arouse us, 658 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,440 Speaker 1: and I think that that's something that men don't realize. 659 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 1: Like asking isn't really going to mess up the mood. 660 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: We enjoy you asking for our consent, and we enjoy 661 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 1: that you care what I want. Like when you know 662 00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,480 Speaker 1: how people that have never had a three some where like, 663 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: how does it start? How do people start starting? What 664 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: are you doing it? It's the same thing like when 665 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,400 Speaker 1: men are like, well, how do I do it without 666 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: being weird? It's gonna be weird. How could it be 667 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:38,320 Speaker 1: weird that women are being in control of their own body. 668 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: That's really what it is. I have to pee so bad, 669 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: you guys, Oh my god, I'm sorry. All you had 670 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 1: to do was piss the phone to goddamn. Just let 671 00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,439 Speaker 1: me explain myself. Obviously, I'm like trying to be quote 672 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 1: unquote at home fit. So I'm drinking a gallon a day. 673 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 1: It's like fucking running. It feels like a U T 674 00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:00,600 Speaker 1: I okay, I'll be right back. Talk to court. Um so, yeah, 675 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,560 Speaker 1: I guess I'll talk for her real quick. Um, I 676 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,360 Speaker 1: guess Corey. I want to ask you then, for any 677 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,399 Speaker 1: act that you didn't feel comfortable with. Do you have 678 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: maybe a tip for our listeners as to how they 679 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: can go to their partners and say I didn't really 680 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,840 Speaker 1: like this. Can we not do this again? Kind of 681 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,520 Speaker 1: in a way that he doesn't feel like he violated 682 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 1: her or you know what I mean, doesn't make both 683 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: parties comfortable. Yeah. So I mean this is why, like 684 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,279 Speaker 1: aftercare is a really important part of like any kind 685 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 1: of sex, like vanilla, kinky, like whatever the funk you're doing, 686 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,840 Speaker 1: it's really important to have that time to like cuddle 687 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: and you know, like you know, regroup and like you know, 688 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: talk about everything like that happened. So like I think 689 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 1: that can be a really great time where you know, 690 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 1: you can be talking about like, Babe, I really loved 691 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,360 Speaker 1: it when you did this. This was super hot, Like 692 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: let's definitely do that again. And then you know you 693 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:50,919 Speaker 1: can be like there was one thing that you did 694 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,480 Speaker 1: that like maybe we can like not do in the future. 695 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,439 Speaker 1: It's just like it doesn't have to be a big deal, 696 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:58,359 Speaker 1: like you can like you know how it's like give 697 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,239 Speaker 1: it like in a ship sandwich, you know, like like 698 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,839 Speaker 1: saying like you know, I was about to say that 699 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 1: you're you're starting off with a compliment and then following 700 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 1: it up with like even I didn't really like this 701 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:10,239 Speaker 1: to yes, um, but I really really like you and 702 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 1: this was super hot and we should defitely do this again. 703 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: Just not that right. And it's funny because I've been 704 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: like trying to find different ways to communicate um my 705 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,839 Speaker 1: thoughts without feeling like I'm attacking the person or that 706 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm not compassionate. That's I guess kind of been difficult 707 00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 1: for me because I'm pretty blunt and how I say things, 708 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 1: like I'll say, you know, the things that I don't like, 709 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 1: and sometimes it kind of come across as insensitive. Um. 710 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,120 Speaker 1: It's crazy because my homegirl said that iron ship. So 711 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: I did have um sex with with um someone recently 712 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna say his name because he has 713 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: a nickname on the show. But we don't have really 714 00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:52,760 Speaker 1: great sex. But I had an edible while we had sex, 715 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 1: and he made me come three times and he's never 716 00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: made me come, and it probably wasn't good that I 717 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: told him after I pretty much like nick. No, not 718 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: that I faced it, but I we have sex, but 719 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: it's just it's it's like just going through the motions 720 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,360 Speaker 1: of sex. It's not like I ever really orgasm, but 721 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 1: this time, and I'm sure it was like just the 722 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:18,520 Speaker 1: heightened of having the edible, Like I was just like, 723 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: holy fuck, I saw I saw space. I literally saw space. 724 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,959 Speaker 1: It was purple um and and so like afterwards, I 725 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 1: was like, damn, does that mean I have to funk 726 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,319 Speaker 1: you every time I on the edible? And I told 727 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,680 Speaker 1: my home girl. I told my my homegirl that I 728 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 1: said this, and she was like, bro, you probably made 729 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 1: him feel like ship, can you have good sex with outcoming? 730 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 1: Because I think you can. Oh that's a good question. Um. 731 00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,239 Speaker 1: So so to me, I'm not gonna lie. I I 732 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,600 Speaker 1: don't really agree with that, I think because I've had 733 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 1: so many times and we're just gonna jump through the 734 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:58,399 Speaker 1: computer at me, like with I bring it up, but 735 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 1: like I always came no, no, no, like I always 736 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 1: came with him, And so to me, you shut the 737 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: funk up. I hate your fucking face. Um but anyways, no, 738 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 1: like I always came with him. So I grew to 739 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 1: a point where I didn't want to have sex just 740 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,239 Speaker 1: to go through the motions and say, oh, well that 741 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,960 Speaker 1: was fun. I like the feeling of coming and orgasming 742 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: and having like almost like all of my indoor friends 743 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: or whatever the funk comes out while you have sex 744 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 1: like that ship. That's what I want to feel. I 745 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,320 Speaker 1: want to feel that high. I want to feel that release. 746 00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 1: And when I just go through the motions and a 747 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,320 Speaker 1: nigga comes, because clearly I see it in the condom 748 00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 1: or on my ass or all my tips or something, 749 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm kind of jealous that he was able to experience 750 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 1: that and I wasn't, so I kind of say, I 751 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:46,279 Speaker 1: don't give a funk. I'm a bitch. I want to come. No, 752 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: no, no no, I mean that's not by the way, when 753 00:38:47,719 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 1: I said that, I felt it felt like a U 754 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 1: t I. I realized when I was peeing, I was like, oh, 755 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 1: I shouldn't have said that. I mean, like because I've 756 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: had one before, you know how like when you have 757 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: a U t I. It's like, wait, wait, wait, is 758 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:01,440 Speaker 1: that what them out right now? I have to clarify 759 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: because I feel like I got you're drinking so much water, 760 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:09,719 Speaker 1: like when you have a U t I, Like you 761 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: have to drink so much water to like get it out. 762 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: But the thing is, I don't have one. I'm doing 763 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,320 Speaker 1: this because I think it's gonna make me like lose 764 00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:20,480 Speaker 1: my pupa and it's not working. All it's doing is 765 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,160 Speaker 1: making me fucking pe like crazy. But the reason I 766 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:27,360 Speaker 1: brought this up, My pussy has never been more fucking 767 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,520 Speaker 1: juicy since this ship whole. Oh but it's because you 768 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:36,440 Speaker 1: have ship like copious amounts of water, but like crazy wet. 769 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: Like I almost thought I pete on myself the other day, 770 00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:40,160 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh no, this is just like 771 00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 1: me fucking being so horny and like what it's crazy 772 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: what hydration is doing? You could probably start walking around? Yeah, 773 00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 1: for sure you could. Probably Definitely you should try. It's 774 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,839 Speaker 1: not piss. If I car word a lot because I'm 775 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,800 Speaker 1: drinking gallons a day, it's pis. Do you want to 776 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,319 Speaker 1: know we're not? I was like, okay, I'm the educator here, 777 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: Like should I right? I mean, I've talked about squirting 778 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,520 Speaker 1: is piss, But what I am saying, Corey, your guest amn, 779 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,720 Speaker 1: is that this is the time. Nah. There's two different 780 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 1: types of squirting though, and there's one so there's two 781 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,439 Speaker 1: types of scorting. There's one that comes from the skins glands, 782 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: and that's the kind of squirting that's going to be 783 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 1: like milkier and like less volume. It's the it's the 784 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,240 Speaker 1: kind of squirting that most people will report accidentally doing 785 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:31,120 Speaker 1: and be like, I squirted like one time two years 786 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 1: ago or something. Then there's the other kind of squirting 787 00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,319 Speaker 1: that comes from your bladder and it comes out your 788 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,760 Speaker 1: your rethra, just like piss But when your G spot 789 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,799 Speaker 1: is stimulated, your g spot gets in gorge and it 790 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: feels like a sponge. Right, So the g spot is 791 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 1: like nature's britt of filter. It filters the fluid that 792 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: comes from your bladder when you're turned on, and it 793 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: goes out your rrethra. And so there's trace amounts of 794 00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,600 Speaker 1: urine and there when they've done tests, But that's just 795 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: because it's coming from the same place as pissed. But 796 00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:04,440 Speaker 1: it is not bucking one star bitches doing volume shooting competitions. Okay, 797 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 1: so yeah, I that's not coming out. Yeah, so that's 798 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: coming it's coming out. Yeah, that part is coming out. 799 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,760 Speaker 1: It all comes out the urethra um. It just depends 800 00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: on where the fluid comes from the first place. So, 801 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 1: but but porn isn't always like so definitely a lot 802 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 1: of porn stars will be super super hydrated in drinking 803 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,120 Speaker 1: a lot. But then I've also seen like them literally 804 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 1: give girls like a water and like a water and 805 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 1: I'm in like up there to do that kind of 806 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: like gimmicky squirting. But like, who did we have that 807 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 1: said that weezy? Didn't we have a porn star come 808 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: on here and say that they actually do do the 809 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 1: fake like they see them put Maybe no, no, I 810 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,120 Speaker 1: want to say about that. I just remember her saying 811 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:46,120 Speaker 1: that they'd be mixing up the egg yolk and the 812 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: milk or some cream pies. Oh yeah, for cream pies. 813 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,839 Speaker 1: They do like other tell me, I can't remember who 814 00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 1: it was. Maybe it was Marie Love. I could be 815 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,040 Speaker 1: like it was someone around that time in my life 816 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,800 Speaker 1: that told me that she saw them drinking crazy around 817 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 1: out of water. It was either Marie Love or a 818 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 1: makeup artist that was on set with porn stars. So crazy, 819 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: So Corey Um one of our segments that we have 820 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:11,279 Speaker 1: and we wanted to give it to you as the 821 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:15,280 Speaker 1: sex educator and kink coach. Um. We have hore derves 822 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: which are sex tips. So for our listeners, do you 823 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 1: have a sex tip? And it could be in reference 824 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,720 Speaker 1: to B D s M, It could be in reference 825 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,800 Speaker 1: to a kink, It could be in reference to vanilla sex, 826 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:29,359 Speaker 1: any type of sex kink that you feel like our 827 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 1: audience should know. Okay, well I was thinking about this 828 00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 1: kind of like in relation, like a lot of people 829 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,399 Speaker 1: obviously aren't seeing their partners right now, so we're using technology. 830 00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:42,000 Speaker 1: Um so something So like I recently went to a 831 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 1: virtual orgy and we basically, oh, bit, we got to 832 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,360 Speaker 1: talk about this. Look at with the space Wait a 833 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,880 Speaker 1: virtual orgy? Oh please share? Okay. So so basically it 834 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 1: was like all my best friends, So, my my best friend, 835 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,320 Speaker 1: UM runs a play party in New York, and um, 836 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,120 Speaker 1: it was their birthday and they obviously had to to 837 00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,200 Speaker 1: the party and this was last Saturday, and um, they're 838 00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:06,160 Speaker 1: like really upset about it because like they hate their 839 00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: birthday and this was supposed to be the year to 840 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,560 Speaker 1: like reclaim their birthday and like make it great. So 841 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,840 Speaker 1: the fact they had to cancel the party was like devastating, 842 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 1: And I was a facetiming with them. I was like, 843 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,640 Speaker 1: why don't we just why don't we do a virtual 844 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:17,800 Speaker 1: play party? Why don't we do like a virtual orgy 845 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: like for your birthday. We can do it on zoom. 846 00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:22,440 Speaker 1: You can have like a hundred like like like we 847 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,000 Speaker 1: can do this like we can totally do this, and 848 00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,120 Speaker 1: so they're like, fun, yeah, okay, let's do this. And 849 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,920 Speaker 1: so I think probably there was probably eighty people total 850 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 1: that attended. I think at the peach time, what are 851 00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: you doing it again? On line? At once? What what 852 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,520 Speaker 1: are you guys doing it again? Okay? I think there's 853 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:40,759 Speaker 1: one this Saturday, but it's only for like members of 854 00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:43,359 Speaker 1: their play party thing, and like they're like, oh girl, 855 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,840 Speaker 1: we we need special invite. Goddamn it, I need to 856 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:51,479 Speaker 1: do I'm a I'm an efless celebrity and my at list. 857 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,319 Speaker 1: I mean people recognize me like two or three times 858 00:43:54,360 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: a week, and I I feel it, well, I don't 859 00:43:57,960 --> 00:43:59,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to show my face. Can I just like, 860 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 1: can we on there and let people watch? You know? 861 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,719 Speaker 1: So you have so Okay, So the rules I think 862 00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 1: they're doing is like you have to have your video 863 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,479 Speaker 1: on because it's weird if like a bunch of people 864 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: have your video on and then someone does, I'll have 865 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 1: my video on and it'll be like this, you don't 866 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,319 Speaker 1: have to like do anything, but yeah, so I want to. 867 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,359 Speaker 1: It was like they did. They had a bunch of performances. 868 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,279 Speaker 1: They had like a burlesque perform they had like, um 869 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,879 Speaker 1: burlesque performance. Friends of ours like do performances and people 870 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: were like tipping them, like because everyone's out of the 871 00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: job right now. So that was really dope. Um, it 872 00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:29,920 Speaker 1: was awesome. And then by the end, like we counted 873 00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: on my friend's birthday and like everyone was fucking and 874 00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 1: like it was great. It was great. I would just 875 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 1: be playing with so okay, So my set sounds like yeah, 876 00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:42,799 Speaker 1: my sex trip was like was like put on a 877 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: cam show for your partner, like you like like get 878 00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,920 Speaker 1: on FaceTime or Zoom or whatever and like put on 879 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,239 Speaker 1: a little private cam show like like you're a camp 880 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,880 Speaker 1: star for your partner. Maybe maybe you can set this 881 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 1: up in the group chat for Patreon. Hope, set up 882 00:44:56,239 --> 00:45:00,520 Speaker 1: a hole. They're popping up. I'm seeing them everywhere. I 883 00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: think I think likes doing one too. I don't know, 884 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: I hope, And yeah, it's great. I would. We've talked 885 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,200 Speaker 1: about like wanting to funk on chat Roulette. Um, I 886 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,120 Speaker 1: just don't want to show my face, but I definitely 887 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 1: want to work on there. And like you have big 888 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 1: tattoos now, But you have big tattoos now, do you 889 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 1: do you ever? Are you ever concerned about your tattoos, 890 00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: because I know that that's I'm scared of my tattoos 891 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: as far as reporting chat Roulette, but on something more 892 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 1: local with like like NSFW or a bunch of New 893 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:31,880 Speaker 1: Yorkers and there's a can't know, but in person, I 894 00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 1: wouldn't feel that uncomfortable, like at a sex party. There's 895 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: something about the virtual nous, like, for example, Um, I 896 00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:40,600 Speaker 1: just took a picture of us, but you can't see it, 897 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,240 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Oh yeah, yeah, but that's 898 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: I think my fear with even um the only fans 899 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,320 Speaker 1: and and things like that, is that people can screen 900 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: grab and do the like, you know, still access the 901 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 1: content that you put on virtually. Um yeah, I don't know. 902 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: I'll have to consider that screen right now. Let's see 903 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:06,120 Speaker 1: if we could. Oh, I ain't got I ain't got 904 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 1: my meg book. I just got Um, I have this 905 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 1: set up on my HP because I have a two 906 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: monitors set up going on right now and it doesn't 907 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:18,239 Speaker 1: it doesn't connect to mine. Um yeah, I mean that's 908 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,960 Speaker 1: stuffs like the risk of like that's the downfall, that's 909 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,800 Speaker 1: the downside of virtual you know stuff is like people 910 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,239 Speaker 1: can be dishonest and shitty and stuff. And like this 911 00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: one was was like it was a birthday party for 912 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: a friend, so like we kind of all had a 913 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,040 Speaker 1: you know, like people you know, working be shitty, but 914 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,279 Speaker 1: like you know, when you do open up, open it 915 00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: up to more people, Like this community is really heavily 916 00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: vetted and you know they do vetting, phone calls and 917 00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,680 Speaker 1: you have to take a content workshop and you know 918 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:47,440 Speaker 1: all this stuff. Yeah, so like so it feels a 919 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:49,959 Speaker 1: little bit safer because of the amount of vetting that's 920 00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:52,879 Speaker 1: required to become a member. I would say to even 921 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,479 Speaker 1: when I go to the Nude Beach over in gunnison Um, 922 00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,360 Speaker 1: I would say, like people mostly in the kink space 923 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,160 Speaker 1: are a air of privacy and respect for others. And 924 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,840 Speaker 1: so when people have been in this lifestyle for quite 925 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 1: some time, like you just know not to have your 926 00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 1: phone now, you just know, like just to put it 927 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 1: away just to make everyone around you feel comfortable. And 928 00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,959 Speaker 1: speaking of the lifestyle, before we get to this week's 929 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 1: horrible decision, I want to let you know that this 930 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:21,520 Speaker 1: week's episode is also brought to you by dipsy. 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When I 955 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,959 Speaker 1: was reading a little bit more into Corey, I thought 956 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,680 Speaker 1: that just your journey into the sex world was interesting. 957 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:48,879 Speaker 1: And I know that Wheezy and I have been doing 958 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,800 Speaker 1: this podcast now for three years. We finally made three years, 959 00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: and there's just been so much things. I I think 960 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,600 Speaker 1: that this podcast has been a huge part of my 961 00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,680 Speaker 1: sex journey. Outside of all the stories that we've shared, 962 00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,680 Speaker 1: I've learned so much since starting this podcast, and you know, 963 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: being introduced to people like you. So I wanted you 964 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,600 Speaker 1: to kind of for people who may not have had 965 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 1: the conversation regarding sex in their households are growing up, 966 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 1: if you could kind of share your journey into sex 967 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:23,840 Speaker 1: and becoming an education totally so um I. So, I 968 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 1: was actually a theater kid growing up. I did musical theater. 969 00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 1: That was like my life, Like I I went to 970 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 1: I went to school for musical theater at first, um 971 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,719 Speaker 1: and then I hated the program and so I changed 972 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 1: my major and I had no idea what the funk 973 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: I wanted to do, and so I just kind of 974 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,960 Speaker 1: started taking classes of stuff that just was interesting to me. 975 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: And I started taking classes centered around like identity politics, 976 00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:48,200 Speaker 1: you know, and talking about like racing, class and gender 977 00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,400 Speaker 1: and sexuality and all this stuff. And I was realized, 978 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,759 Speaker 1: I'm like really passionate about this UM. And I came 979 00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: out as by when I was in college, so then 980 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:58,080 Speaker 1: like that part of my identity became really important to me. UM. 981 00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:02,319 Speaker 1: And eventually I uh joined an individualized study program where 982 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:05,759 Speaker 1: I created my own major and I studied media and technology, 983 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,160 Speaker 1: gender and sexuality and pop culture and kind of how 984 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:13,600 Speaker 1: all of those are use act. I'm twenty three. UM. 985 00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,960 Speaker 1: I know you've mentioned well and just reading on you 986 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 1: and us having a talk that you didn't really UM 987 00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:24,439 Speaker 1: talk with your parents so much about sex. So when 988 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,879 Speaker 1: you felt that you were bisexual, how was that conversation? 989 00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:30,520 Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had to come out and 990 00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,040 Speaker 1: announce your sexuality to your parents? And I came out 991 00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:37,360 Speaker 1: in the worst way to my mom ship. It was horrible, 992 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:40,320 Speaker 1: Like I I feel so bad in hindsight because I 993 00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 1: freaked her to the funk out. But like I, it 994 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: was like over the summer, and it was like late 995 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: at night and the next morning I was about to 996 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 1: go um fly to see like my my boyfriend at 997 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 1: the time, like in Texas and U and like I 998 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 1: don't know why, but that night I just like came 999 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 1: to the realization. I was just like funk, okay, yeah, 1000 00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 1: I'm by, Like this is real. And then like I 1001 00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,839 Speaker 1: just had this over like my mom and I are 1002 00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 1: really close, and so I just hadn't urge to tell her, 1003 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 1: and so I fucking woke her up at like midnight 1004 00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:12,200 Speaker 1: and and I'm like crying, I'm sobbing, and She's like 1005 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 1: what is wrong? Like what is wrong? And I was like, 1006 00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm not pregnant and I don't have an STD, and 1007 00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,600 Speaker 1: so like I'm setting her, I'm setting her up for 1008 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:23,719 Speaker 1: the words experience. And I finally say like I'm by, 1009 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 1: and she was just like so tired and confused and 1010 00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:30,399 Speaker 1: like groggy, and she was like are you sure. It's 1011 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:33,719 Speaker 1: like yes, I'm sure, like yes, and so eventually like 1012 00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 1: and then she kind of asked me if I was 1013 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,800 Speaker 1: like by with my best friend, and I was like, nope, 1014 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,440 Speaker 1: she's straight as fuck, like that that's not the case. 1015 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 1: I knew it, you guys, because I was also all 1016 00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 1: this time with my best friend that summer too, so 1017 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:53,359 Speaker 1: so that's fine. Um. I wanted to ask you, wheezy, Um, 1018 00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:56,360 Speaker 1: was there an announcement for you when you came to 1019 00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,120 Speaker 1: terms of your sexuality. I know you said your mom 1020 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 1: is super like accepting, but did you feel the need 1021 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:05,320 Speaker 1: to announce it to your sexuality at all? Twice? Um, 1022 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:08,240 Speaker 1: she just thought the first time. So it's funny because 1023 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,200 Speaker 1: my story is kind of similar to Corey's the first 1024 00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,080 Speaker 1: time it happened. My mom might not even remember this, 1025 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,400 Speaker 1: but my first time doing Molly, of course, is a 1026 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,479 Speaker 1: drug story, but that's all the good ones. My first 1027 00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 1: time to molly, I was with um two friends, funny, 1028 00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 1: one of them lives up here in New York now, 1029 00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 1: and we all do Molly together. And it's crazy because 1030 00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:27,879 Speaker 1: when you do a drug that's such a euphoric drug, 1031 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 1: you know, when you get all in your fields. And 1032 00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,200 Speaker 1: it made me want to be around my mom. So 1033 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,600 Speaker 1: it's like three am. I go home. I think I 1034 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 1: was seventeen at the time, and I was like, Mommy, 1035 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 1: oh my god, I did that took extasy her because 1036 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,759 Speaker 1: I knew she didn't know the molly was and I 1037 00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,600 Speaker 1: just I just want to be around you and my 1038 00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: mom was very very sweet to me because my mom 1039 00:52:47,239 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 1: had done some ship before, so she already knew I'm 1040 00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,759 Speaker 1: gonna suck her up if I'm a bit, So she 1041 00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: gave me a bath. We were like sitting there, you 1042 00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,640 Speaker 1: were laughing together. I was like, Mom, you know, I 1043 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,160 Speaker 1: like girls, and she's like, okay, like she didn't believe me. 1044 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:01,759 Speaker 1: Next day she was really mad at me, but I'm 1045 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 1: glad that she let me ride that high out. But 1046 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:08,520 Speaker 1: I was dating Scissors, who I actually have dated now 1047 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: as an adult, but back then, I was dating Scissors 1048 00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:14,080 Speaker 1: and that was the first time, like my mom knew it. 1049 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:15,920 Speaker 1: So I bought a few friends around my mom that 1050 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 1: I fucked, not friends, but girls that I've sucked, and 1051 00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:21,879 Speaker 1: she would always tell me about them. You know, she's 1052 00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:26,120 Speaker 1: a little gay, and I'm like, like, Mama, now She's 1053 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,680 Speaker 1: like I see it, and so um. Not until I 1054 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,520 Speaker 1: brought my girlfriend at the time to my dad's birthday party. 1055 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 1: My mom was like, oh, so we go upstairs. My 1056 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: mom's doing her makeup, and I was like, oh, you know, 1057 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how to tell you this, but and 1058 00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 1: then she looks at me and she's like, yeah, so 1059 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,279 Speaker 1: you guys gonna like adopt the kid or what like. 1060 00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 1: That was the only thing she cared about, which I 1061 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: think is great though. Now that's I really I really 1062 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,600 Speaker 1: like that. Like just that y'all even felt it's weird 1063 00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 1: because for I guess as women were, it's so accepting 1064 00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,319 Speaker 1: I think in society to be bi sexual, so you 1065 00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:04,440 Speaker 1: don't think of like a coming out the same way 1066 00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,799 Speaker 1: maybe a gay mail has to come out or make 1067 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,960 Speaker 1: the announcement um or even I know. So I'm have 1068 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: Jamaican and my sister was lesbian for quite some time, 1069 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,359 Speaker 1: and um, I also have a gay cousin, and so 1070 00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 1: the coming out of my sister I remember even to 1071 00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,759 Speaker 1: my dad was kind of just like uh no, like 1072 00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,520 Speaker 1: he wasn't okay with her being lesbian. And it's weird 1073 00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: now because my my my other sister. It's funny because 1074 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,239 Speaker 1: me and all of my sisters are bisexual. I don't 1075 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,960 Speaker 1: know what the funk that means about our upbringing, but um, 1076 00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,120 Speaker 1: my sister, just my other sister who's in the army, 1077 00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:39,160 Speaker 1: just sent out a survey and it was like seeing 1078 00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:41,920 Speaker 1: how much her friends knew her and she was like, yeah, 1079 00:54:41,960 --> 00:54:44,319 Speaker 1: so does my husband or my wife, Like she put 1080 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,360 Speaker 1: husband wife his her to all of the questions, and 1081 00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,040 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, bit you really you you are 1082 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 1: You're dealing with girls, I know, but it's funny, like 1083 00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,920 Speaker 1: literally all of us UM identifies bi sexual. So I 1084 00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,360 Speaker 1: want to because you now have entered the space of 1085 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 1: being just sexually open, your friends, your family all know, 1086 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 1: I want to ask a question that may help some 1087 00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:08,320 Speaker 1: of our listeners. UM. I wanted to ask what is 1088 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:12,479 Speaker 1: the healthiest way to grow sexually with a partner who 1089 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: may not be as interested in the kink space or 1090 00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:20,440 Speaker 1: being more freaky. I think we get that question so much, UM, 1091 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 1: just from people like, Hey, I want to explore and 1092 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 1: my partner is not really into doing anything. What would 1093 00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 1: you say is the healthiest way to grow sexually with 1094 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:31,120 Speaker 1: a partner who's not really trying to do much. So 1095 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,160 Speaker 1: there's a few options. Definitely, non monogamy is something you 1096 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:37,200 Speaker 1: might want to look into, like realistically speaking, like, there 1097 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,839 Speaker 1: are some people that just like aren't kinky and that's 1098 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 1: totally fine, UM, but you might want to explore some 1099 00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 1: sort of non monogamous options that you have the opportunity 1100 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,720 Speaker 1: to explore on your own. And like, non monogamy absolutely 1101 00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:53,720 Speaker 1: helps people grow individually and does couples, um, so definitely 1102 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,279 Speaker 1: non monogamy or if you like, actually, you know, if 1103 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:59,360 Speaker 1: you're partner, I think there has to be some interest 1104 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,239 Speaker 1: or some willingness on your partner's end to at least 1105 00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 1: try like yeah, like it's the truth is like you 1106 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:09,319 Speaker 1: can't convince someone who is just like dead set, like no, 1107 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,839 Speaker 1: this is not for me. Like some people just are 1108 00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,320 Speaker 1: into what they're into, like I can never be vanilla, 1109 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:18,000 Speaker 1: Like it's just not gonna work. So so there has 1110 00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:19,759 Speaker 1: to be some level of interest. And then I think 1111 00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:22,560 Speaker 1: the best way to go about it. He's like, look online, 1112 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:24,719 Speaker 1: find some sort of b d s M. Yes, no, 1113 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: maybe list, Like find you know a list where you 1114 00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:29,719 Speaker 1: can kind of go down the list and do it separately, 1115 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:31,640 Speaker 1: like go in different rooms, Like do it have a 1116 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,000 Speaker 1: separate exercise? Go down, do your whole list, um, and 1117 00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:38,680 Speaker 1: then come together and then see where there's overlap. I 1118 00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:42,040 Speaker 1: like that. I like that. Do you know do you 1119 00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 1: have a website or anywhere that you know that they 1120 00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:48,080 Speaker 1: have DSM checklist? So could you search one. We're gonna 1121 00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 1: put whatever weathy and I find and maybe whatever Corey suggests, 1122 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:53,719 Speaker 1: we're gonna put it in the description I've really liked. 1123 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:57,279 Speaker 1: So I have an Excel sheet that I use with 1124 00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:01,160 Speaker 1: new like and it's like a really long thorough like 1125 00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:03,359 Speaker 1: there's stuff in this Excel sheet that no one has 1126 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: ever heard of before. So like, that's the one that 1127 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 1: I use because it's it's the best one I've ever 1128 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:09,480 Speaker 1: been able to find. And it was sent to me 1129 00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:11,880 Speaker 1: by like a prodom friend, um that she gives to 1130 00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:15,239 Speaker 1: her clients. So, um, so I can send you that one. 1131 00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 1: I can Sendue a blame copy of that one, and 1132 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,720 Speaker 1: I would love that. And I guess so we'll we'll 1133 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,440 Speaker 1: drop the excel in the Patreon group that we have. Um, 1134 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 1: but we have have you found any b d s 1135 00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:29,080 Speaker 1: M lists over there or any websites that they have? 1136 00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:35,320 Speaker 1: Just making sure they So the Bad Girl's Bible has one. Um, 1137 00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to see if it's a good one. 1138 00:57:37,000 --> 00:57:39,600 Speaker 1: Hold on, Yes, some of them. Some of them are 1139 00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:42,560 Speaker 1: just like a little too vanilla for like that's what 1140 00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: I was thinking, do you like actually like, Okay, this 1141 00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,000 Speaker 1: one a little too much. This is a Google doc 1142 00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,880 Speaker 1: and I'm not a docu person. Just send me the 1143 00:57:51,920 --> 00:57:54,640 Speaker 1: fucking thing and I click yes. No, So it has 1144 00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: different sub chapters. The first one I'm looking at is 1145 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 1: bondage and suspension. Oh, Ship, I'm sorry it went away. 1146 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:05,920 Speaker 1: You see why I can't do mother bucket. Okay, it 1147 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:09,080 Speaker 1: has like a you know, this is I'm actually not 1148 00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,000 Speaker 1: trying to be funny. This is how bad I am. Okay, 1149 00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:15,520 Speaker 1: Bondage and suspension. UM. So they have an activity section experience, 1150 00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 1: limits and interests and in comments, blindfolds, bondage, UM, immobilization, chains, robes, harnesses. 1151 00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 1: Then the next one is impact and percussion, spanking, flogging, tailways, 1152 00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: wooden paddles, Facebook, slapping, Ship like that. The next one's 1153 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:36,800 Speaker 1: sexual activity, uh, swallowing, semen, coming on, partner, fisting, etcetera, 1154 00:58:36,920 --> 00:58:41,840 Speaker 1: sensation play, scratching bite. I like that. I think that 1155 00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 1: that's something that maybe if any couples are listening, I 1156 00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:46,720 Speaker 1: think that this is a great way to maybe introduce 1157 00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:53,200 Speaker 1: this right now when you're stuck together. Service and restrictive behavior, 1158 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: service and restrictive, so some of them on here is 1159 00:58:55,720 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 1: forced servitude, following orders, eye contact restrictions. Ship like that. Um, 1160 00:59:02,720 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 1: I love, I'm not gonna lie I love. I was 1161 00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,920 Speaker 1: gonna say. I love that it takes it out of 1162 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:14,200 Speaker 1: sexual acts to things they really like they're they're different, 1163 00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,160 Speaker 1: and I think that we're learning that just by even um. 1164 00:59:18,200 --> 00:59:23,240 Speaker 1: We had one of the so um Taylor McFly um. 1165 00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:26,040 Speaker 1: She came on and talked about how she's a dom 1166 00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,120 Speaker 1: and doesn't even engage in sex at all, so and 1167 00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 1: she does like Finn dom Um she does, you know, 1168 00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:35,439 Speaker 1: just the servitude aspect, the humiliation. And I just think 1169 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,840 Speaker 1: it's interesting that that list has that. Yeah, if you 1170 00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:39,640 Speaker 1: can save that Weezy just so that we can give 1171 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 1: that to our listeners. Maybe we'll put that link in 1172 00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 1: and then if you can share yours, just Google you 1173 00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,120 Speaker 1: guys if you don't want to click on the link 1174 00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:50,840 Speaker 1: and you're confused. B D s M checklist. It was 1175 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,080 Speaker 1: the first thing that came up in depth medium checklist 1176 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: by bad Girls bible dot com and it comes up 1177 00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:58,240 Speaker 1: as a Google doc on your computer. I'll send it 1178 00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:04,840 Speaker 1: to you guys as well. I like that and I guess, Um, Corey, 1179 01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 1: you've you've been again through this journey. I wanted to 1180 01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:12,320 Speaker 1: ask you, Wheezy Um, in the last three years of 1181 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:16,240 Speaker 1: doing horrible decisions, what you feel like you maybe learned 1182 01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:19,560 Speaker 1: the most sexually during your sexual journey? Um with having 1183 01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: the podcast. I think the most growth I've experienced is 1184 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,920 Speaker 1: like the non monogamy, like I said it, and I 1185 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,480 Speaker 1: feel like people wouldn't believe me at first. Um, I 1186 01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:34,600 Speaker 1: would see like a lot of comments like, oh, like, 1187 01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:36,520 Speaker 1: you're just doing that to please your man and blah 1188 01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:38,680 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah, and like I would get confused 1189 01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:40,400 Speaker 1: with that too, but it's because I was exhibiting so 1190 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:44,560 Speaker 1: much jealousy. But throughout the show, I learned that I 1191 01:00:44,600 --> 01:00:47,720 Speaker 1: really am uh non monogamous, and that the jealousy was 1192 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,160 Speaker 1: just normal. I just didn't know how to navigate it. Also, 1193 01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:54,360 Speaker 1: I think that my partners weren't making me feel secure. Um, 1194 01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:58,800 Speaker 1: Like now I understand the relationship I'm in UM. And 1195 01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 1: I think the interest thing part is not that this 1196 01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:03,440 Speaker 1: didn't stem from the same way but Corey, I don't 1197 01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 1: know if you've heard the term situation ships, but a 1198 01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:08,720 Speaker 1: lot of the relationships I was having were this like 1199 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:13,000 Speaker 1: this unclear boundary of who we were to each other, 1200 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:15,240 Speaker 1: even though there was a lot of time spent and 1201 01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:17,520 Speaker 1: there was a lot of love there. And I would 1202 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 1: kind of use steps as like Okay, well we're blending families, 1203 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: so we're together without having someone say those words to me. Um. 1204 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 1: Now our relationship is different where it's very clear and 1205 01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:32,720 Speaker 1: we call each other whether we partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever. Um. 1206 01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:36,320 Speaker 1: That makes me feel like I can handle this, And 1207 01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:38,520 Speaker 1: it actually makes me feel comfortable enough to do it too, 1208 01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 1: because a lot of times I would be like, nah, 1209 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,560 Speaker 1: they're saying that I can, but if I do, he's 1210 01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,200 Speaker 1: not gonna want to be with me anymore, you know 1211 01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:47,800 Speaker 1: what I mean? Those things would come in my mind. 1212 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 1: But I also really enjoy the aspects of non monogamy, 1213 01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:53,840 Speaker 1: like something that would have made me so jealous of 1214 01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 1: the first year of this podcast. Um, when my man 1215 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,880 Speaker 1: was in Europe, he was to sleep with this girl, 1216 01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:04,120 Speaker 1: but he like we talked every night before bed, and 1217 01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:07,000 Speaker 1: I guess he really still wanted to call me before 1218 01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:09,600 Speaker 1: bed and he was like, Yo, I'm with so and so, 1219 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: like I want to talk to you. Um. I was 1220 01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,520 Speaker 1: in Mexico and I was like, okay, And at first 1221 01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:17,520 Speaker 1: it was weird, but she was smiling. And I think 1222 01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,120 Speaker 1: the other thing too, was like, oh, she gets who 1223 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 1: I am. She knows that this isn't like going anywhere, 1224 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,920 Speaker 1: and he's still making me a priority and it felt 1225 01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:29,000 Speaker 1: really good. Have I done the same for him. But 1226 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:33,680 Speaker 1: like even recently when I was in Orlando and I 1227 01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:36,960 Speaker 1: saw scissors, UM, I was like, damn, yo do I 1228 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,360 Speaker 1: because I really was like, all right, you're going to 1229 01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 1: bed early, babe. Great, Like that's the kind of ship 1230 01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,000 Speaker 1: that I was thinking about, because I'm not as comfortable 1231 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:46,960 Speaker 1: as he is, you know what I mean, Like I 1232 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,000 Speaker 1: feel the freedom, but like I don't know if I 1233 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:51,600 Speaker 1: could be like as in as open. So I'm learning, 1234 01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:55,600 Speaker 1: but I also know I'm very comfortable with it. Yeah, 1235 01:02:55,680 --> 01:02:59,600 Speaker 1: I like that. I like that UM, and I guess 1236 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:03,640 Speaker 1: I guess I can just quickly share UM my journey sexually. 1237 01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:07,080 Speaker 1: I think UM in a condensed version would be just 1238 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:10,240 Speaker 1: kind of my connection now to more of the l 1239 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:14,600 Speaker 1: g B t Q community, identifying more of myself and 1240 01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 1: also realizing that my acceptance and maybe not dating a 1241 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:23,000 Speaker 1: heterocis man and just kind of the more just me 1242 01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,080 Speaker 1: being more fluid with my partners and making sure they 1243 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 1: accept who they are and making sure they're honest with 1244 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 1: me as far as their sexual desires, their sexual past, UM, 1245 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,240 Speaker 1: and making sure that they feel comfortable. I have feel 1246 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:39,240 Speaker 1: I felt like I took like a load on when 1247 01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:41,120 Speaker 1: starting this podcast because I feel like so many people 1248 01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,880 Speaker 1: were just wanting to share with me because they feel 1249 01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: like they can't with not you know, many other people. 1250 01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:50,960 Speaker 1: So for for a long time, I felt like I 1251 01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:54,800 Speaker 1: was just becoming like the fucking Dick Whisperer Diary or 1252 01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,600 Speaker 1: some ship like Niggas was just like sharing this wild thing, 1253 01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 1: and it made me feel uncomfortable because their partners weren't 1254 01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: aware that these things were happening. So I would just say, 1255 01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:08,080 Speaker 1: as far as what I want from my partners sexually, 1256 01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,919 Speaker 1: the conversations have advanced, and just knowing that I don't 1257 01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,120 Speaker 1: want someone with homophobic tendencies. I want someone to be 1258 01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:17,560 Speaker 1: able to hang around my gay friends and not feel uncomfortable. 1259 01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 1: And I think just me so more opening those dialogues 1260 01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: to have other people understand where things are coming from. 1261 01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,280 Speaker 1: Even with the Dwyane Wade situation, I've gotten into mad 1262 01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 1: arguments with a lot of my heterosis friends and just 1263 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:36,080 Speaker 1: having them understand like why how they think is just 1264 01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:38,480 Speaker 1: it does just doesn't make sense. Um So, just kind 1265 01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:42,680 Speaker 1: of the education aspect of what I've learned and sharing 1266 01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:45,720 Speaker 1: that with others has been kind of what I think 1267 01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:47,800 Speaker 1: I take from this journey. Um I wanted to get 1268 01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:50,440 Speaker 1: into the homemail real quick. So this homemail actually comes 1269 01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,360 Speaker 1: from a friend, and I want both of your opinions 1270 01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,240 Speaker 1: on it because I shared with her what I think 1271 01:04:55,280 --> 01:04:57,480 Speaker 1: she needs to do. UM, I'm not sure if she 1272 01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 1: was fully upfront because it's with multiple partners that this 1273 01:05:00,720 --> 01:05:03,640 Speaker 1: is happening, But I wanted to have this conversation and 1274 01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:05,720 Speaker 1: I wanted both of you guys opinion because I'm sure 1275 01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,080 Speaker 1: this is happening to maybe other women and they don't 1276 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:11,440 Speaker 1: know how to respond. So this is this week's homemail. 1277 01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 1: It says I am single and have a pretty decent 1278 01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:19,080 Speaker 1: sexual lifestyle. However, there's been there's been a reoccurring issue 1279 01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,720 Speaker 1: with my partners that I can't get past, and it's 1280 01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:25,080 Speaker 1: really fucking with my spirit. Talking in twenty starting in 1281 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:30,880 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, and I had one too many experiences of stealthing. Stealthing, 1282 01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 1: for those of you who don't know, is when they're 1283 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,720 Speaker 1: removing the condoms without asking, she said. She said. The 1284 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:39,240 Speaker 1: first time it happened, I was extremely irate and went 1285 01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,439 Speaker 1: off and just felt completely disrespected. I just cut them off. 1286 01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:45,240 Speaker 1: And then it started to happen with my partner U oh, 1287 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:48,200 Speaker 1: and and then it started to happen with my partner 1288 01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:52,080 Speaker 1: that I have prior um sexual experiences with. I try 1289 01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,640 Speaker 1: to make it an educational moment and explain that it's 1290 01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:57,800 Speaker 1: not consensual and it is considered as rape in some cases. 1291 01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:01,080 Speaker 1: But I recently just had my third variance and it 1292 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,880 Speaker 1: happened again. I am so tired of this because I 1293 01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:06,760 Speaker 1: feel like they're violating my personal space, and right now, 1294 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,120 Speaker 1: I feel like the average person may say, maybe you 1295 01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: should pick better partners or just slow down. I've also 1296 01:06:12,240 --> 01:06:15,480 Speaker 1: had the conversation about the use of condoms before being intimate, 1297 01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 1: even switching my position so that I can feel what's 1298 01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:20,680 Speaker 1: going on down there. I feel like I'm taking all 1299 01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:23,960 Speaker 1: the appropriate steps to avoid this from happening and taking 1300 01:06:24,000 --> 01:06:26,520 Speaker 1: ownership of the issue, but it's getting out of hand now. 1301 01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:29,440 Speaker 1: This is the third time the third partner. The men 1302 01:06:29,520 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: that are doing this are making it seem like it's normal, 1303 01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:35,520 Speaker 1: using the basic excuse that I just really want to 1304 01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,480 Speaker 1: feel you or it's not that big of a deal. 1305 01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:40,200 Speaker 1: I don't have anything. Do you have any advice on 1306 01:06:40,240 --> 01:06:42,680 Speaker 1: how to navigate this? Because I'm two seconds away from 1307 01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:49,280 Speaker 1: catching a case for hurting someone's son in these streets right. 1308 01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:56,919 Speaker 1: Oh um god, Well, first of all, like, yeah, that's 1309 01:06:56,960 --> 01:07:00,439 Speaker 1: that's sexual assault, Like that's full stop, Like there's there's 1310 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,400 Speaker 1: no way around it. Like I mean, at least the 1311 01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:06,600 Speaker 1: way that I that I see that, it's like that is, yeah, no, 1312 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:08,640 Speaker 1: if you take a condom off in the middle of 1313 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,080 Speaker 1: sex without asking someone before, like that is sexual assault. 1314 01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,760 Speaker 1: You violate someone's consent, Like there's no way around it. 1315 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:16,720 Speaker 1: Our legal system might not be caught up to that, 1316 01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:22,160 Speaker 1: but that doesn't matter. Um, So, I mean, yeah, she's 1317 01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:24,680 Speaker 1: doing all the right things, and it's just like I 1318 01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:27,200 Speaker 1: I hate to give this answer because like she knows 1319 01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:30,280 Speaker 1: it's coming, but it's just like you have to stop that, 1320 01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,640 Speaker 1: and me, like you have to cut them off, you know, 1321 01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:35,480 Speaker 1: like they if they know that they can get away 1322 01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:38,640 Speaker 1: with something, then they're just gonna keep trying to do it. 1323 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: And so like that's got to be a hard limit 1324 01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:43,640 Speaker 1: that you've got to enforce. And I'm sorry these people 1325 01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:46,640 Speaker 1: are being fucking assholes to you and and like trying 1326 01:07:46,680 --> 01:07:49,120 Speaker 1: to say that it's normal, Like no, that's it's not normal. 1327 01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:53,640 Speaker 1: That's not normal normal. I think men wanting to funk 1328 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,600 Speaker 1: you without condoms is normal. Like yeah, like maybe trying 1329 01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:59,600 Speaker 1: to try it but not to do it. Yeah, or 1330 01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:01,280 Speaker 1: I have like I've had people ask like can I 1331 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:03,160 Speaker 1: just like put it in and then pull it out 1332 01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:08,200 Speaker 1: and then put a condom on. I'm like, no, no, hello, 1333 01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:10,960 Speaker 1: we even know. I was thinking, what, what what would you? 1334 01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,280 Speaker 1: What would your advice? I've only let something like this 1335 01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,080 Speaker 1: happens to me when I was young and dumb, and 1336 01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:18,000 Speaker 1: then that's no offense to your friend because she no, no, 1337 01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:20,599 Speaker 1: she is young and she's well. I was thinking, like 1338 01:08:20,720 --> 01:08:23,360 Speaker 1: what now that I look back, because I already remember 1339 01:08:23,360 --> 01:08:25,000 Speaker 1: the guy and like I knew he would take it 1340 01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:26,400 Speaker 1: off and I would let it go, Like why would 1341 01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:29,040 Speaker 1: I let it go? And I think I just wanted 1342 01:08:29,080 --> 01:08:30,720 Speaker 1: to make sure I didn't piss him off. Like there's 1343 01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,840 Speaker 1: a big thing in being um I'm trying to find 1344 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:38,080 Speaker 1: the words, but basically standing your ground with men, and 1345 01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:40,760 Speaker 1: this is much like the vanilla ship is something that 1346 01:08:40,880 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 1: I think really comes with either maturation or age, because 1347 01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:47,800 Speaker 1: I know you're twenty three, Corey, but you have that 1348 01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,240 Speaker 1: already about you, right. It could be your sexual health 1349 01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:53,439 Speaker 1: background though that might be it, But I mean I 1350 01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:55,840 Speaker 1: never really took it serious until I got older, and 1351 01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,840 Speaker 1: then when you really come down to it thinking. I 1352 01:08:58,920 --> 01:09:01,160 Speaker 1: always try to say, like what advice would I give 1353 01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:04,360 Speaker 1: my friend? And if you know what I'm saying, like 1354 01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:07,360 Speaker 1: i'd be like bitch or dumb. But why can't I 1355 01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,599 Speaker 1: set for myself so for me to take her own advice, 1356 01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:13,120 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I'm a I'm a coach. I literally 1357 01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,280 Speaker 1: like help other people. And I still come into the 1358 01:09:15,320 --> 01:09:17,800 Speaker 1: same problems that some of my friends come into and 1359 01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,719 Speaker 1: I have and like I have my group of friends 1360 01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,800 Speaker 1: that I can text and be like I need you 1361 01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:23,559 Speaker 1: to tell me exactly what I would tell you. It's 1362 01:09:23,560 --> 01:09:26,360 Speaker 1: always easier, it's always easier to be done. But I 1363 01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:28,320 Speaker 1: think the main thing that we need to remember is 1364 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:31,040 Speaker 1: like what happened to me when I finally confronted him 1365 01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:33,120 Speaker 1: about it. He was super gas that he like, wow, 1366 01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: like I'm not gonna feel and Nevin isn't gonna feel you, 1367 01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:37,720 Speaker 1: And then it makes you feel like, oh, he's not 1368 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna have good sex with me, and it's like it's 1369 01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:42,680 Speaker 1: really silly. But um, you know the main thing that 1370 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 1: I do want to say about condoms why it's so 1371 01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:48,479 Speaker 1: important to trust your partner and use them, Like I 1372 01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:51,479 Speaker 1: don't know if your friend wants to have kids. But um, 1373 01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 1: we had a friend when we were younger, Mandy and 1374 01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:56,320 Speaker 1: I m who had a kid. I haven't heard from 1375 01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:59,320 Speaker 1: her in years. But her partner, who was the only 1376 01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 1: person should have was slept with, got her pregnant. Like 1377 01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 1: the first few weeks, you know what I'm talking about. 1378 01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:08,920 Speaker 1: She's got gnaia from him and it literally, um was 1379 01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:11,840 Speaker 1: fucking up her filopian tubes because she had it so 1380 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,519 Speaker 1: long and she was in the middle of being pregnant 1381 01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:16,960 Speaker 1: and it could pass on to her kid. So like, 1382 01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 1: not only can it make you infertile if you're not um, 1383 01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:23,559 Speaker 1: you know, like pregnant, but just like how serious those 1384 01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:26,559 Speaker 1: basic STDs are? Like nah, because I've even heard people 1385 01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:29,200 Speaker 1: be like, oh, it's a kail, but it's not like 1386 01:10:29,920 --> 01:10:33,439 Speaker 1: maybe a no. But but also the fact that she's 1387 01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:37,599 Speaker 1: having she has three multiple partners, I think that that 1388 01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:40,400 Speaker 1: maybe needs to be more of a conversation. I know 1389 01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:44,479 Speaker 1: that not so many people are open with sharing when 1390 01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:46,840 Speaker 1: they're having sex and stuff like that, but if you 1391 01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,559 Speaker 1: have multiple sex partners, maybe to make a guy not 1392 01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:52,200 Speaker 1: feel comfortable fucking you're all you should maybe be more 1393 01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:54,200 Speaker 1: open and say, hey, just so you know you're not 1394 01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:56,840 Speaker 1: the only person I'm sucking, and so just so that 1395 01:10:56,920 --> 01:10:59,759 Speaker 1: both of us remain safe and clean, I use condoms 1396 01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:02,160 Speaker 1: with all my partners, and I think that you should 1397 01:11:02,160 --> 01:11:05,639 Speaker 1: respect that. I told her that maybe she wasn't being 1398 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:08,519 Speaker 1: stern enough. And I say this because a lot of 1399 01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:12,439 Speaker 1: women even the giggle no, oh my god, stop, oh 1400 01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:16,120 Speaker 1: you know, don't do that. And so I said, maybe 1401 01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:18,880 Speaker 1: you actually need to be more stern and let him no, no, 1402 01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 1: my nigga, Like I'm taking this serious. You're violating me 1403 01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:25,719 Speaker 1: and actually make him feel bad. And I think during 1404 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:27,240 Speaker 1: sex next time, she's got to do it before she 1405 01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:29,960 Speaker 1: gets no no, this has to be a separate conversation 1406 01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:34,120 Speaker 1: like yeah. And I think that's the word use it 1407 01:11:34,240 --> 01:11:36,559 Speaker 1: that perk people's ears up, being like oh shit, it's 1408 01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,280 Speaker 1: like yeah, like there are states in this country that 1409 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:49,160 Speaker 1: consider that sexual assault, Like yeah, yeah, I just yeah, 1410 01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 1: I just think it needs to I think, what it's 1411 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:55,200 Speaker 1: so weird how reserved we are in terms of making 1412 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:58,599 Speaker 1: sure we don't hurt people's feelings, in terms of telling 1413 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:00,360 Speaker 1: them what we like and don't like daring sex. And 1414 01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,640 Speaker 1: I think that that's something that as women we need 1415 01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,880 Speaker 1: to start just even having the conversation to have women 1416 01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:08,439 Speaker 1: feel comfortable with saying I ain't like this, don't do this, 1417 01:12:08,560 --> 01:12:10,880 Speaker 1: You're not gonna do this, and just kind of saying 1418 01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:12,599 Speaker 1: it more stern to where we don't give a funk 1419 01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 1: how you take it. I'm telling you exactly what it 1420 01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:18,679 Speaker 1: is like, just you know, just to be more stern 1421 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,920 Speaker 1: with with with how we're doing. UM. I like both 1422 01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:23,640 Speaker 1: of y'all's responses. I think it was similar to mine. UM, 1423 01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:25,559 Speaker 1: And I would say too, if you do feel like 1424 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:29,719 Speaker 1: you're violated by any of your partners and they're not listening, 1425 01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:32,320 Speaker 1: that it's not that important to keep them as as 1426 01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,960 Speaker 1: your partner, you may need to just cut them the 1427 01:12:34,000 --> 01:12:37,519 Speaker 1: funk off period. UM. Corey, I do want to thank 1428 01:12:37,560 --> 01:12:42,360 Speaker 1: you for joining us. Guys. We are recordings, so I 1429 01:12:42,360 --> 01:12:45,840 Speaker 1: hope that you guys enjoy this. UM. Do you have 1430 01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:50,120 Speaker 1: any plans? I don't know, but I don't really know. Girl, 1431 01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,640 Speaker 1: I've been listen. Bit I'm on my third coffee for 1432 01:12:52,680 --> 01:12:59,479 Speaker 1: the day, okay, switching somebody, No, I'm serious, I'm trying. 1433 01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm like being so honest, right, I'm on the I'm 1434 01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 1: on fucking live. I'm on a friend's life, not my life, 1435 01:13:05,439 --> 01:13:09,080 Speaker 1: my friend's life. My friend's white, she's cool. And one 1436 01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:10,800 Speaker 1: of my girls jumped in and she was like, why 1437 01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:12,559 Speaker 1: did you sound like that? And I was like, because 1438 01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:13,960 Speaker 1: I can't talk to that. But it's like, I'll be 1439 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:17,960 Speaker 1: talking to you, bitch, but only because like I feel 1440 01:13:17,960 --> 01:13:22,680 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna make her uncomfortable. Right, But like, now 1441 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:24,719 Speaker 1: that I'm thinking about it, did we have a switch 1442 01:13:24,800 --> 01:13:28,680 Speaker 1: up this episode? I mean not, I just think I 1443 01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:32,599 Speaker 1: think this no what oh no? But I said niggas 1444 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:36,679 Speaker 1: just because she probably not fucking niggas, and I feel 1445 01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:39,760 Speaker 1: like I can't, you know, relate to whatever whiteness and 1446 01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:43,760 Speaker 1: pink dick she got over there. You look like you 1447 01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,840 Speaker 1: live in Brooklyn with that brook Wall Yes, okay, So 1448 01:13:46,880 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 1: I'm also from Atlanta. You guys know that. Okay, I 1449 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:57,280 Speaker 1: know it's I don't know, it's funny that you're from 1450 01:13:57,320 --> 01:13:59,240 Speaker 1: Atlanta because I don't know if y'all see this. So 1451 01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:02,560 Speaker 1: there's a guy, Marco or something. He goes through Walmart 1452 01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:05,400 Speaker 1: and he'd be like just saying lyrics to people, and 1453 01:14:05,439 --> 01:14:08,040 Speaker 1: they came up to this Asian and she was like, uh, 1454 01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:11,479 Speaker 1: you better hold up. But she was Asian but with 1455 01:14:11,560 --> 01:14:14,040 Speaker 1: a super Atlanta accent. I was like, oh, bits, that's 1456 01:14:14,040 --> 01:14:17,679 Speaker 1: an Asian from from way in Atlanta. Wait, like from 1457 01:14:17,760 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 1: Stone Mountain. So what's your type? And even if it 1458 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:26,200 Speaker 1: is a white guy, when you go outside of the 1459 01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,960 Speaker 1: the Bobby's here, I'm a Bobby love you know what 1460 01:14:30,000 --> 01:14:31,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's that was my first time going to 1461 01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:34,320 Speaker 1: Williamsburg was for Dick. I'm like, yeah, I fucking love 1462 01:14:34,400 --> 01:14:38,040 Speaker 1: babies already. Are you kidding me? Okay? God, but tell me, 1463 01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:40,880 Speaker 1: like what's your other type? Is it? I mean guy? 1464 01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 1: Is it? Like Western? Okay? I just like so, like, 1465 01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:46,080 Speaker 1: first of all, I don't remember last my dated a 1466 01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:50,320 Speaker 1: white guy I dated. So my my partner, my partner 1467 01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:54,840 Speaker 1: is um, he's half Japanese. Um. And then my my 1468 01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:59,400 Speaker 1: last partner was um half Lebanese Middle Eastern right, um, 1469 01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:03,600 Speaker 1: my last part before that was half Puerto Rican half Indian. Um. 1470 01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:10,000 Speaker 1: And so like dark features like I like dark, thick eyebrows, 1471 01:15:10,120 --> 01:15:13,080 Speaker 1: Like I don't like blonds. I don't date blondes. If 1472 01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:15,280 Speaker 1: you look like you could be my my sister brother, 1473 01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:21,920 Speaker 1: Like I'm not into you. It's just nope. But yeah, no, 1474 01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:23,880 Speaker 1: I just don't. Yeah, that's that's I would say. That's 1475 01:15:24,040 --> 01:15:27,559 Speaker 1: that's my type for for for for all people, all genders. Okay, 1476 01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:29,040 Speaker 1: my best. So you got at you got a little 1477 01:15:29,080 --> 01:15:35,320 Speaker 1: tand of going on over there my bit. I've seen 1478 01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:40,519 Speaker 1: some episodes, the final episode, um, I watched yesterday and 1479 01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,240 Speaker 1: he was in the delivery room with this couple that 1480 01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:44,639 Speaker 1: was having a baby, white girl in a black guy 1481 01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:46,280 Speaker 1: and he's like, oh my god, what did you guys 1482 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:48,920 Speaker 1: name it? And they're like Qualm and he was like 1483 01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:52,800 Speaker 1: a little little life for a Kuam, little life for 1484 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:56,880 Speaker 1: a Qualmie. I honestly was thinking, like, yo, I feel 1485 01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:00,519 Speaker 1: like when I like talked to white girls and they'll 1486 01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,600 Speaker 1: say their partner's name and I'd be like, but what 1487 01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,639 Speaker 1: kind who is that? You know what I'm saying. When 1488 01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:09,160 Speaker 1: she's like Louise, I'm like, oh, he must be like 1489 01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:11,719 Speaker 1: real Latin because you won't say Louis. You said, Luise, 1490 01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:15,640 Speaker 1: you know what he's like for real? But I am 1491 01:16:15,680 --> 01:16:19,599 Speaker 1: always interested in talking to when I meet white people, 1492 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,679 Speaker 1: men and women both that date people of other races 1493 01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,240 Speaker 1: and like seeing the spectrum because I'm gonna be real 1494 01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:28,080 Speaker 1: with you, I don't like meeting white women that only fun. 1495 01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:30,920 Speaker 1: Black guys that ship freaks me out. Yeah, no, I 1496 01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:33,000 Speaker 1: feel like that's like a total fetishist, Like that's what 1497 01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:37,280 Speaker 1: you're fetishizing, not always, not always that. And I hate 1498 01:16:37,760 --> 01:16:40,439 Speaker 1: because my my mom, I've only known of her today 1499 01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:42,760 Speaker 1: black guys. So, bitch, if you really go call it out, 1500 01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,200 Speaker 1: you call it my mama out and the thing mama 1501 01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:50,720 Speaker 1: taking them black. That's what I was gonna say, if 1502 01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:52,240 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, when like you meet a 1503 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:54,360 Speaker 1: fucking girl who's like from Murray Her or even like 1504 01:16:54,400 --> 01:16:56,760 Speaker 1: Williams Bird and they only black, like you all say, 1505 01:16:56,800 --> 01:17:01,360 Speaker 1: nobody else in that motherfucking neighborhood. First off, I also 1506 01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:03,920 Speaker 1: want to let y'all know we recorded remotely, so we 1507 01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,760 Speaker 1: gonna let this go over an hour because we ain't 1508 01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:08,400 Speaker 1: in the studio. So she's like, well, you know, and 1509 01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:11,360 Speaker 1: let's start another topic about interracial dating, bitch, And I'm 1510 01:17:11,400 --> 01:17:14,200 Speaker 1: just like, damn no. But I mean, so it's crazy 1511 01:17:14,200 --> 01:17:18,120 Speaker 1: because I don't feel like every time it's about fetishism 1512 01:17:18,120 --> 01:17:23,320 Speaker 1: with white women dating black guys. Obviously not I mean, 1513 01:17:23,400 --> 01:17:26,040 Speaker 1: but so y'all say a majority because we's rolling her eyes, 1514 01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:32,040 Speaker 1: it's it's always it's always my mom. So here's the 1515 01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:34,120 Speaker 1: thing too, even with my mom, so when she wasn't 1516 01:17:34,200 --> 01:17:36,479 Speaker 1: dating and she got well, when she didn't have a boyfriend, 1517 01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:39,559 Speaker 1: she went back into the dating realm. She actually and 1518 01:17:39,640 --> 01:17:41,360 Speaker 1: of course y'all know, I was born in nineteen nine, 1519 01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:45,800 Speaker 1: so this was like, um, mid nineties to early two thousand's. Um, 1520 01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:49,840 Speaker 1: she felt like bringing us as biracial. You know, she 1521 01:17:49,880 --> 01:17:53,680 Speaker 1: has three biracial daughters. That white men felt some way 1522 01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:59,840 Speaker 1: um in terms of her having three biracists than anything else, 1523 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 1: because if your kids are biracial, then you feel like, 1524 01:18:02,400 --> 01:18:04,960 Speaker 1: I want at least them to feel accepted within the 1525 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:07,240 Speaker 1: relationship I'm in. But you know what, you know what 1526 01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:08,960 Speaker 1: I think would just come into my mind when I 1527 01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:11,640 Speaker 1: said it. I saw the picture of the Kardashians with 1528 01:18:11,680 --> 01:18:15,000 Speaker 1: their entire family. Did you guys see that? And this 1529 01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:18,120 Speaker 1: is such fis but it is weird, like you guys 1530 01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:21,880 Speaker 1: just love them really like that much. Bitch. I'm kindle. 1531 01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:25,439 Speaker 1: I'm kindle. I'm the aunts he with no kids who 1532 01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:28,960 Speaker 1: has a career, Like she's like, she doesn't give a ship, dude, 1533 01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:32,479 Speaker 1: But like how you living on Cory boys, bro, All 1534 01:18:32,520 --> 01:18:35,640 Speaker 1: the fine white guys are fucking in Brooklyn and in 1535 01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:39,080 Speaker 1: l a and then Europe, so you're telling me the Kardashians, 1536 01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:43,400 Speaker 1: they just got Corey fucking gamble what I mean? But 1537 01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:45,400 Speaker 1: but look at the one white guy that we saw 1538 01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:48,120 Speaker 1: Kim Dad, Chris Humphreys. He ain't even good looking. Wait 1539 01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:49,960 Speaker 1: was he white? I thought I thought he was black? 1540 01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:58,799 Speaker 1: What is her? I I didn't know? Courtney Kaus Courtney 1541 01:18:58,920 --> 01:19:05,320 Speaker 1: she dated Luca oh Ship, Yeah, gait Courtot's at least 1542 01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:08,400 Speaker 1: dab at least she sucked Lucas Sabbat and that's how 1543 01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:12,840 Speaker 1: you say his name. Oh yeah, yeah, well I think 1544 01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 1: kendall um she was working. What is Blake black too? 1545 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:29,120 Speaker 1: Bit damn the motherfucker's transparent dough like Blake? Or he white? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, alright, 1546 01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:35,479 Speaker 1: my bad. I tried. I tried, you, right, baby, Dane, Right, look, okay, 1547 01:19:35,760 --> 01:19:39,000 Speaker 1: not the genders, but the Kardashians their Middle East there there, Armenian. 1548 01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:46,200 Speaker 1: So they're right now technically not you consider them people, 1549 01:19:46,200 --> 01:19:50,759 Speaker 1: if you consider them brown, you consider them Google and Armenian. 1550 01:19:50,840 --> 01:19:54,160 Speaker 1: I mean that just because they've changed their features doesn't 1551 01:19:54,200 --> 01:19:56,479 Speaker 1: mean that. I mean, if you remember those old picks 1552 01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:58,880 Speaker 1: of Kim with this almost like low key side burns, 1553 01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,800 Speaker 1: big no is like she had all of her like 1554 01:20:02,280 --> 01:20:05,320 Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't even gonna hold you. I thought 1555 01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:07,519 Speaker 1: this was a really educational episode, and here we go 1556 01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:10,760 Speaker 1: probably gonna get canceled talking about here we go making 1557 01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:15,599 Speaker 1: it probably consider look I mean, I guess. I mean, 1558 01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm also just talking so that I can up my 1559 01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:30,959 Speaker 1: N word counts since Bro. Anyway, it's been a great episode. 1560 01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,760 Speaker 1: I'm so glad let us do that since Corey. You 1561 01:20:33,800 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 1: know what, Corey's got a little mix in there. She 1562 01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:37,680 Speaker 1: said she likes fuzzy eyebrows. I'm gonna do an on 1563 01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:48,920 Speaker 1: beat Caucasian drum roll. Now, I don't feel bad. That's awful. 1564 01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:53,160 Speaker 1: That's that was so bad. So Corey, before we get 1565 01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:55,479 Speaker 1: out of here, can you let our listeners know not 1566 01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:57,240 Speaker 1: only where they can find you, guys, we did talk 1567 01:20:57,280 --> 01:20:59,840 Speaker 1: about squirting in this episode, and that is one of 1568 01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:02,680 Speaker 1: you guys this first episodes on your podcast. So can 1569 01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: you go ahead and let everyone know your website, your 1570 01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:08,320 Speaker 1: Instagram as well as your podcast and even share your 1571 01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:10,280 Speaker 1: your co host name and what you guys talk about 1572 01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:12,040 Speaker 1: on your past. So um, so you can follow me 1573 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:14,960 Speaker 1: on social I'm on Instagram and Twitter. MS Corey b 1574 01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:17,639 Speaker 1: M I S S c O R Y b UM 1575 01:21:18,080 --> 01:21:20,439 Speaker 1: and my podcast is called never Have I Ever? Our 1576 01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 1: first episodes on squirting. We also just dropped a minisot 1577 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:25,640 Speaker 1: about squirting or re read read other people squirting. But 1578 01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:29,040 Speaker 1: my podcast, um, it's different because we bring it. We 1579 01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,599 Speaker 1: bring somebody in that has never done something before, or 1580 01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:34,000 Speaker 1: like I've never done something before, my co host hasn't, 1581 01:21:34,160 --> 01:21:36,559 Speaker 1: and then we actually do the thing on the show. Um, 1582 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:38,680 Speaker 1: but if you want to listen to us doing that thing, 1583 01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:40,599 Speaker 1: so like my friends scored it for the first time 1584 01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:43,080 Speaker 1: ever on my podcast, But if you want to listen, 1585 01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:47,120 Speaker 1: do you want to come on the show like to 1586 01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:49,720 Speaker 1: think what I've never done? Yeah? No, like girl the 1587 01:21:49,800 --> 01:21:52,519 Speaker 1: audio and do you guys share video as well? But 1588 01:21:52,560 --> 01:21:54,280 Speaker 1: on pature, so we don't do any video and we 1589 01:21:54,280 --> 01:21:56,240 Speaker 1: did that in order to protect the identity of people 1590 01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,280 Speaker 1: who want to remain anonymous. But um, so basically we talk, 1591 01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:02,360 Speaker 1: we have a converse about it for the first minutes, 1592 01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:05,160 Speaker 1: and then we break and we set up the you 1593 01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:08,639 Speaker 1: know better mikes and uh yeah, we record the experience 1594 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:11,280 Speaker 1: actually happening. Um, the episode that's going to be out 1595 01:22:11,280 --> 01:22:15,120 Speaker 1: on Monday is yeah, who made who made her? Score? 1596 01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:18,360 Speaker 1: My partner? So you hear just a whole bunch of 1597 01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:23,679 Speaker 1: money here you hear the sound, No no, no, it's okay. 1598 01:22:23,720 --> 01:22:25,720 Speaker 1: So so we can't have that ship on iTunes, right 1599 01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:28,000 Speaker 1: because that's like porn. So so that part if you 1600 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:29,679 Speaker 1: want to listen to actually scorting, is on our only 1601 01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:31,400 Speaker 1: fans you have just you have to subscribe to the 1602 01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:36,280 Speaker 1: only fans. Come on and try it, girl. You so smart. Look, 1603 01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:40,320 Speaker 1: we might have you gonna have fun your partner and 1604 01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:42,719 Speaker 1: record the sounds, and we could make an only fans account. 1605 01:22:42,800 --> 01:22:44,960 Speaker 1: Scared the only fans is going to stop my bag 1606 01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:48,439 Speaker 1: one day? Okay, so we'll do it on Patreon. Maybe 1607 01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:50,000 Speaker 1: you could fucking We just hear the audio of you 1608 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:53,200 Speaker 1: fucking on Patreon. Hey, if you're a Patriot, let we 1609 01:22:53,720 --> 01:22:56,880 Speaker 1: let go ahead and write put all the little um 1610 01:22:56,920 --> 01:23:00,160 Speaker 1: squirt bubbles, the will dropless, under the under the up. 1611 01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:02,920 Speaker 1: I think I got it still in my pahl he 1612 01:23:03,040 --> 01:23:06,040 Speaker 1: was recording and you said those episodes dropping on on 1613 01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:10,240 Speaker 1: Monday or okay, so yeah, so so listen, you can 1614 01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:13,040 Speaker 1: listen to it today. I got I'm getting fisted in 1615 01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:17,200 Speaker 1: this episode in the in the second episode, shut the fuck, 1616 01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:20,320 Speaker 1: I got vaginally fisted for the first time on my podcast. 1617 01:23:20,400 --> 01:23:22,920 Speaker 1: You got vaginally fisted and you like just and you 1618 01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:24,960 Speaker 1: moan and talk, do you like walk us through this? 1619 01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:28,720 Speaker 1: He has four fingers in me Now it was my 1620 01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:32,200 Speaker 1: it was my friend Leonora that did it. And yeah, 1621 01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:34,880 Speaker 1: so it's like yeah, so yeah, I was like, first 1622 01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:38,760 Speaker 1: time vaginal fisting. I cannot get a dude's absolutely not no, no, no, 1623 01:23:38,880 --> 01:23:42,880 Speaker 1: it's too big. We talked about that, thinking about it, 1624 01:23:42,880 --> 01:23:45,960 Speaker 1: it felt it was amazing. But um, yeah, so you 1625 01:23:45,960 --> 01:23:48,679 Speaker 1: can listen to that today. But yeah, we dropped. We're 1626 01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:51,719 Speaker 1: we do bi weekly UM episodes, but we do minisots 1627 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:54,120 Speaker 1: in between two let me read out your stories, so 1628 01:23:55,120 --> 01:23:58,559 Speaker 1: yes mini. So so you guys definitely subscribe to Never 1629 01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:01,439 Speaker 1: Have I like my co host name is Gabby Scary 1630 01:24:01,439 --> 01:24:03,479 Speaker 1: and you can follow her on Instagram as well. And 1631 01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:06,439 Speaker 1: I'm hoping to get Gabby on here y'all. Y'all know listen, 1632 01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,760 Speaker 1: we're setting up remotely. We was like, let's not do 1633 01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:11,760 Speaker 1: four voices the first time we figured a shoot out UM, 1634 01:24:11,760 --> 01:24:13,840 Speaker 1: but we definitely want to bring Gabby on. I want 1635 01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:17,640 Speaker 1: to thank you for joining us. U as usual, we 1636 01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:19,240 Speaker 1: are going to leave you guys with a five minute 1637 01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:21,880 Speaker 1: bonus clip from our Patreon. Again. This is a time 1638 01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:24,400 Speaker 1: where I know, you guys are all working from home 1639 01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:27,000 Speaker 1: unless you're an essential worker. Um, hopefully if you're an 1640 01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:30,439 Speaker 1: essential worker, they're still allowing you to plug your Thank 1641 01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:35,360 Speaker 1: you so much. I just met some construction workers this 1642 01:24:35,400 --> 01:24:37,240 Speaker 1: morning when I was on my bike ride in Brooklyn, 1643 01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,080 Speaker 1: and oh, they just made me feel so good. And 1644 01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:43,120 Speaker 1: you know, they didn't make me feel good this morning, Bitch. 1645 01:24:43,120 --> 01:24:45,320 Speaker 1: I heard the banging on the goddamn concrete this morning. 1646 01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:48,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn they essentially, I was mad. It feels 1647 01:24:48,680 --> 01:24:50,519 Speaker 1: like it feels like there's always these construction sites aroun 1648 01:24:50,520 --> 01:24:52,240 Speaker 1: New York City that are never being worked on, and 1649 01:24:52,240 --> 01:24:54,720 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden everything shut down and they 1650 01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:58,400 Speaker 1: were just like on it, bro, it's it's corporate, man. 1651 01:24:58,560 --> 01:25:02,080 Speaker 1: And honestly, it's really sad because I feel like nursing, 1652 01:25:02,160 --> 01:25:04,240 Speaker 1: like people in the medical field are a little more 1653 01:25:04,320 --> 01:25:08,920 Speaker 1: safe just because maybe they're hyper um hyper aware of 1654 01:25:09,080 --> 01:25:12,200 Speaker 1: keeping clean, whereas with construction workers they're touching the same 1655 01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:14,559 Speaker 1: tools things like that. But I was on the bike 1656 01:25:14,640 --> 01:25:17,160 Speaker 1: when they called after me, and I was like, I 1657 01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:20,559 Speaker 1: wan both dudes like we love y'all. And I was like, oh, well, 1658 01:25:20,560 --> 01:25:22,559 Speaker 1: that's not her. I think he thought one of my 1659 01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:27,240 Speaker 1: nigga was Mandy. But anyway, I was like this, look 1660 01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:29,880 Speaker 1: just going to prove that I'm the darker one of 1661 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:34,080 Speaker 1: the two. So anyway, I said I would hug y'all 1662 01:25:34,160 --> 01:25:36,679 Speaker 1: like but I'm sorry, and they're like it's all right 1663 01:25:37,040 --> 01:25:39,400 Speaker 1: and maybe in a month, and I was like, probably 1664 01:25:39,439 --> 01:25:45,160 Speaker 1: never again. What we ever? The hug is dead has 1665 01:25:45,400 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 1: died dog. Yeah, it's all like waving, weird fucking waving 1666 01:25:50,400 --> 01:25:52,679 Speaker 1: and like my friend just had to come over because 1667 01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:56,760 Speaker 1: I was having a microphone issue. Um and literally I 1668 01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:59,680 Speaker 1: wanted My initial thing in my head was to hug him. 1669 01:25:59,680 --> 01:26:02,080 Speaker 1: And he was like, nah, wipe down the mic. You've 1670 01:26:02,080 --> 01:26:04,479 Speaker 1: been on the bikes and ship. I'm like, yo, he 1671 01:26:04,640 --> 01:26:08,800 Speaker 1: was terrified of me. I would be too. Hold you 1672 01:26:08,920 --> 01:26:12,160 Speaker 1: was in Miami. I'm terrified of you. Now it don't matter, 1673 01:26:12,400 --> 01:26:14,759 Speaker 1: don't matter. You ain't been self quarantine. I'm still nervous. 1674 01:26:14,840 --> 01:26:17,240 Speaker 1: Got damn it. Not think for a second. So I 1675 01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:21,080 Speaker 1: went to Miami after we recorded last week's episode, and 1676 01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:24,640 Speaker 1: it was, I mean, we were both making like we 1677 01:26:24,680 --> 01:26:28,639 Speaker 1: didn't think it's crazy, how like everything has changed so 1678 01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:32,439 Speaker 1: much like day to day, but just even considerably, Like 1679 01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,320 Speaker 1: I would even space out just three days apart, Like 1680 01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:39,000 Speaker 1: we recorded this episode three days later. I went to 1681 01:26:39,040 --> 01:26:41,679 Speaker 1: Miami and literally the next day I was like, oh 1682 01:26:41,680 --> 01:26:45,280 Speaker 1: my god, we should have never got on the plane. Yeah. 1683 01:26:45,320 --> 01:26:48,360 Speaker 1: It was pretty intense and and I know, and even 1684 01:26:48,400 --> 01:26:53,320 Speaker 1: as much so as we scheduled a studio session when 1685 01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:56,360 Speaker 1: Weezy came, um, when Weezy was coming back, and literally 1686 01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:58,320 Speaker 1: the day we scheduled and Corey, this was the day 1687 01:26:58,320 --> 01:26:59,800 Speaker 1: you were supposed to come in. It was a day 1688 01:26:59,800 --> 01:27:01,719 Speaker 1: that New York City was like, as of nine am, 1689 01:27:01,800 --> 01:27:05,040 Speaker 1: everything's on lockdown. Um, a lot of things were closed 1690 01:27:05,040 --> 01:27:08,240 Speaker 1: outside of the central thing. And this was it was 1691 01:27:08,400 --> 01:27:11,880 Speaker 1: right before spring break ish time because nothing was closed, 1692 01:27:11,920 --> 01:27:13,840 Speaker 1: and nothing was closed in New York or Miami, so 1693 01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:17,000 Speaker 1: we were still living. Took longer to close. Florida took 1694 01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,840 Speaker 1: longer to at the time I left, not even New York. 1695 01:27:20,200 --> 01:27:23,720 Speaker 1: Fully yeah, yeah, no, New York wasn't closed when you were, 1696 01:27:23,760 --> 01:27:26,320 Speaker 1: because I know I even got into the studio that weekend. 1697 01:27:26,600 --> 01:27:29,960 Speaker 1: But me and me and um my friend ended up 1698 01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:32,080 Speaker 1: going to Brooklyn chop House after the studio and it 1699 01:27:32,120 --> 01:27:37,519 Speaker 1: was out it's the same, but this was on well, 1700 01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:40,559 Speaker 1: this was on the Sunday and everything was locked down 1701 01:27:40,560 --> 01:27:44,800 Speaker 1: that Tamsday, so literally two days later. Yeah, it was. 1702 01:27:44,840 --> 01:27:47,439 Speaker 1: It was pretty. It was pretty wild. Um, but no, 1703 01:27:47,680 --> 01:27:49,760 Speaker 1: we we are gonna still again. You guys will still 1704 01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:53,280 Speaker 1: get your episodes every Monday during this ship. If you 1705 01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:56,720 Speaker 1: guys have not listened yet, I have a daily podcast. Okay, 1706 01:27:56,760 --> 01:28:03,040 Speaker 1: it's like daily by daily, I don't know, bitch, every 1707 01:28:03,040 --> 01:28:08,439 Speaker 1: other day sometimes it's sexual women. Me and Corey feel 1708 01:28:11,400 --> 01:28:13,960 Speaker 1: like I mean, she said, bi weekly, what the fun 1709 01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:18,800 Speaker 1: every year? Bitch? You know? And I'm so mine is 1710 01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:21,960 Speaker 1: almost every other day sometimes, but it's Dorona Report. You 1711 01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:24,080 Speaker 1: guys can listen to it anywhere you listen to your 1712 01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:26,640 Speaker 1: favorite podcast. Um. But also, like I said, if you 1713 01:28:26,680 --> 01:28:28,759 Speaker 1: guys are all caught up and still listening and maybe 1714 01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:31,280 Speaker 1: all caught up on the regular episodes of Horrible Decisions, 1715 01:28:31,479 --> 01:28:33,799 Speaker 1: we are on Patreon, and you guys are still getting 1716 01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:39,759 Speaker 1: your um three episodes a month. I'm doing a thing. Well, 1717 01:28:39,800 --> 01:28:42,080 Speaker 1: I guess I did a thing last week. Last Friday, 1718 01:28:42,280 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 1: I did a Netflix watch party with the patrons, so 1719 01:28:45,080 --> 01:28:53,560 Speaker 1: we all watched season three episodes Bezark together. Yes, I 1720 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:57,120 Speaker 1: finished it. It It was episodes. I haven't I just want 1721 01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:58,840 Speaker 1: to say, I just want to say, weezy the way 1722 01:28:58,880 --> 01:29:01,519 Speaker 1: you just keep trying to add topics so you want 1723 01:29:01,520 --> 01:29:03,439 Speaker 1: to give these you know, I'm a I'm a quick 1724 01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:10,479 Speaker 1: leave meeting first because I got them to do. So Bye, y'all, 1725 01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:13,320 Speaker 1: Bye guys. Uh. Anyways, I want to thank you guys 1726 01:29:13,320 --> 01:29:15,600 Speaker 1: again for tuning in. Corey, thank you so much for 1727 01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:18,160 Speaker 1: joining us. Um and again, if you guys have any 1728 01:29:18,200 --> 01:29:20,000 Speaker 1: guests that you guys want to hear, let us know. 1729 01:29:20,080 --> 01:29:21,640 Speaker 1: We we don't want to, you know, sit here and 1730 01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:23,600 Speaker 1: give you guys subpart content. But we are going to 1731 01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:26,240 Speaker 1: leave you guys yet. What another bonus clip from our 1732 01:29:26,280 --> 01:29:29,280 Speaker 1: patron You guys can become patrons at patreon dot com 1733 01:29:29,400 --> 01:29:33,200 Speaker 1: backslash Horrible Decisions because um, it is an eighteen plus platform. 1734 01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:36,080 Speaker 1: You do have to type in backslash Horrible Decisions for 1735 01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,920 Speaker 1: us to pop up. And can you go ahead and 1736 01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:41,240 Speaker 1: drop your only fans as well? Yeah, we're only fans 1737 01:29:41,240 --> 01:29:43,920 Speaker 1: dot com slash never have I ever. We're kept it 1738 01:29:43,920 --> 01:29:48,040 Speaker 1: easy yes, ye so yeah easy. So thank you again 1739 01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:50,960 Speaker 1: and we're dropping you guys with a clip. Thank you 1740 01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:56,120 Speaker 1: guys for tuning into yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. Bye. 1741 01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:01,920 Speaker 1: I found it in resting because it was the portrayal 1742 01:30:02,120 --> 01:30:04,639 Speaker 1: of also a bisexual black man, which we did get 1743 01:30:04,680 --> 01:30:08,240 Speaker 1: to see in Rais and Secure UM, and then we're 1744 01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:11,120 Speaker 1: also seeing on the show that's on b ET right now. 1745 01:30:11,200 --> 01:30:13,960 Speaker 1: I can't think of the name the comedy. Yeah, and 1746 01:30:13,960 --> 01:30:16,439 Speaker 1: I can't think of the name right now. But I 1747 01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:23,280 Speaker 1: found that it was interesting how he projected all of 1748 01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:26,840 Speaker 1: his insecurities onto her, but also that he created I 1749 01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:30,880 Speaker 1: wanted to call him a pathological liar because in the sense, 1750 01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:34,200 Speaker 1: so basically, again, if you guys haven't watched UM, these 1751 01:30:34,200 --> 01:30:38,559 Speaker 1: two got engaged. It was Carlton and Diamond, and literally 1752 01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:41,200 Speaker 1: when they're on their honeymoon, I would say, she or 1753 01:30:41,240 --> 01:30:44,160 Speaker 1: not the honeymoon, but the retreat retreat, the couple's retreat. 1754 01:30:44,360 --> 01:30:45,880 Speaker 1: He came out and was like, I just want you 1755 01:30:45,920 --> 01:30:48,599 Speaker 1: to know that I've been with men and women. So 1756 01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:50,720 Speaker 1: fast forward to the next day, they're sitting at the 1757 01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:53,519 Speaker 1: pool and she doesn't understand how they spent all these 1758 01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:58,000 Speaker 1: days talking opening up about everything, and he omitted this information. 1759 01:30:58,520 --> 01:31:01,840 Speaker 1: And so his response was just like, well, oh you 1760 01:31:01,960 --> 01:31:05,080 Speaker 1: my sexuality, Well not only that, but that's the one 1761 01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:07,360 Speaker 1: thing you said. I agreed with what I don't think 1762 01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:12,280 Speaker 1: anyone owes you their sexuality well, and I think we're 1763 01:31:12,320 --> 01:31:14,920 Speaker 1: engaged like I thought. I don't believe It's like, I 1764 01:31:14,920 --> 01:31:16,960 Speaker 1: don't feel like I need to tell you I used 1765 01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:19,479 Speaker 1: to fuck bitches in a pond. I don't believe that 1766 01:31:20,080 --> 01:31:23,040 Speaker 1: I need to tell you have any pussy. And I 1767 01:31:23,920 --> 01:31:25,920 Speaker 1: in the context of the show, you're telling me you're 1768 01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:29,080 Speaker 1: not gonna tell me that's what it is. That is 1769 01:31:29,240 --> 01:31:35,280 Speaker 1: whack as full. Same same. I'm fine. I am very 1770 01:31:35,439 --> 01:31:38,519 Speaker 1: very very serious when I tell you, I believe that 1771 01:31:38,600 --> 01:31:41,000 Speaker 1: my sexuality is private until you need to know. You 1772 01:31:41,040 --> 01:31:43,000 Speaker 1: don't need to know that I'm into choking or spitting 1773 01:31:43,280 --> 01:31:46,760 Speaker 1: or rough ship or bondage until I want to tell you. 1774 01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:49,160 Speaker 1: Now according to this show with ship like that, like 1775 01:31:49,200 --> 01:31:52,639 Speaker 1: I get it. But also I think on his end, 1776 01:31:52,720 --> 01:31:55,760 Speaker 1: now here's the thing that sucks. He was shitty, and 1777 01:31:55,800 --> 01:31:57,800 Speaker 1: I wish it was someone else because it's like, I 1778 01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:00,559 Speaker 1: feel like he made the situation looks but to he 1779 01:32:00,720 --> 01:32:02,560 Speaker 1: but but to say he wanted to know that she 1780 01:32:02,600 --> 01:32:04,400 Speaker 1: would fall in love with him as a person before 1781 01:32:04,400 --> 01:32:08,040 Speaker 1: his sexuality. I was like, damn, yo, nah to me, 1782 01:32:08,400 --> 01:32:10,600 Speaker 1: your sexuality not only the part of you tip to 1783 01:32:10,680 --> 01:32:15,280 Speaker 1: me why I enjoyed Um, how the exchange happened was 1784 01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:17,080 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of people in terms of 1785 01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:22,200 Speaker 1: bisexual men, they automatically think that women attack them. But 1786 01:32:22,439 --> 01:32:24,680 Speaker 1: I thought that it was a clear indication on how 1787 01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:28,880 Speaker 1: much bisexual men genuinely are accepting of themselves. And so 1788 01:32:28,960 --> 01:32:30,839 Speaker 1: the way that he threw the hissy fit and projected 1789 01:32:30,920 --> 01:32:34,920 Speaker 1: himself and also came across as a patholical, pathological liar 1790 01:32:34,920 --> 01:32:37,599 Speaker 1: in the sense where he was like, a woman has 1791 01:32:37,640 --> 01:32:42,040 Speaker 1: never had a problem with this. He kept saying that. 1792 01:32:42,240 --> 01:32:44,320 Speaker 1: He just kept saying, well, a woman has never had 1793 01:32:44,320 --> 01:32:46,280 Speaker 1: a problem this one, and then he went into following 1794 01:32:46,360 --> 01:32:47,680 Speaker 1: this is why I don't deal with it just like you, 1795 01:32:48,040 --> 01:32:51,800 Speaker 1: but literally it literally like flip flop. But but this 1796 01:32:51,920 --> 01:32:55,479 Speaker 1: is why I hate that we do also push the 1797 01:32:55,560 --> 01:32:58,720 Speaker 1: narrative of biphobia and society's hate to it, when in 1798 01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,880 Speaker 1: reality there's a lot of these bisexual men who have 1799 01:33:02,160 --> 01:33:04,960 Speaker 1: an inner hate for themselves and truly not accepting who 1800 01:33:04,960 --> 01:33:07,639 Speaker 1: they are based on how they think people will react, 1801 01:33:08,280 --> 01:33:12,280 Speaker 1: how they think people are people. People reacts black, but 1802 01:33:12,479 --> 01:33:16,240 Speaker 1: people react to two things in in every instance I've 1803 01:33:16,320 --> 01:33:18,800 Speaker 1: I've told guys that you know, even even in terms 1804 01:33:18,840 --> 01:33:21,479 Speaker 1: of pegging or let's not go to pagging, because we 1805 01:33:21,479 --> 01:33:25,840 Speaker 1: we know men attached the anal thing with their masculinity. 1806 01:33:26,040 --> 01:33:28,240 Speaker 1: We really mentioned one time she likes being choke and 1807 01:33:28,280 --> 01:33:32,040 Speaker 1: spent on. It's okay except in the realm of when 1808 01:33:32,080 --> 01:33:34,040 Speaker 1: we had a black guy saying, you allow white men 1809 01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:36,759 Speaker 1: to do that? So to me, especially even being on 1810 01:33:37,160 --> 01:33:39,040 Speaker 1: in a public setting in a way where we see 1811 01:33:39,080 --> 01:33:41,680 Speaker 1: all these people's opinions, everyone's not always gonna like you. 1812 01:33:41,880 --> 01:33:43,800 Speaker 1: The fact that she sat there and was really trying 1813 01:33:43,840 --> 01:33:47,519 Speaker 1: to understand you, like it just shows how much he 1814 01:33:47,640 --> 01:33:50,599 Speaker 1: was more uncomfortable with himself than a person who really 1815 01:33:50,640 --> 01:33:52,679 Speaker 1: was just literally trying to understand why did you keep 1816 01:33:52,720 --> 01:33:55,080 Speaker 1: this for me? What? Why is this something you didn't hide? 1817 01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,120 Speaker 1: I I thought about it a lot, and like you know, 1818 01:33:58,720 --> 01:34:00,479 Speaker 1: the way that it came out, like so, there's a 1819 01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:02,200 Speaker 1: few things about it that I didn't like. He treated 1820 01:34:02,240 --> 01:34:04,960 Speaker 1: her really badly. He's an asshole. The way that he 1821 01:34:05,000 --> 01:34:08,320 Speaker 1: treated her was over the top, like he was hurt. 1822 01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:11,600 Speaker 1: Hurt people, hurt people. They did see he was struggling internally, 1823 01:34:11,800 --> 01:34:16,000 Speaker 1: That's what I'm really And also I don't know one 1824 01:34:16,080 --> 01:34:18,240 Speaker 1: if I could have opened up to like someone like 1825 01:34:18,240 --> 01:34:20,000 Speaker 1: like I don't like you guys saying in this experiment 1826 01:34:20,040 --> 01:34:22,200 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do it that. But like as big 1827 01:34:22,240 --> 01:34:23,920 Speaker 1: and hard as that was to tell them, I don't know, 1828 01:34:24,240 --> 01:34:26,800 Speaker 1: like if you could do that one and two man 1829 01:34:26,800 --> 01:34:28,960 Speaker 1: a producers told him to do that. No, no, if 1830 01:34:28,960 --> 01:34:30,799 Speaker 1: you could do it, if you could do it behind, 1831 01:34:31,760 --> 01:34:33,599 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would start talking too much 1832 01:34:33,600 --> 01:34:35,600 Speaker 1: about sex in those parts. And it seems like a 1833 01:34:35,600 --> 01:34:37,800 Speaker 1: lot of them didn't like it was very clear a 1834 01:34:37,800 --> 01:34:40,719 Speaker 1: lot of them didn't. Well, Brennett definitely made sexual. Anyone 1835 01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:42,680 Speaker 1: knows too everything I'm saying a lot of them. Some 1836 01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:44,320 Speaker 1: people did, some people didn't. I think it depends on 1837 01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:46,680 Speaker 1: the person. And I'm such a sexual person and I 1838 01:34:46,680 --> 01:34:48,320 Speaker 1: feel like I would have gotten into the sex talk 1839 01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:51,040 Speaker 1: that's been something that's used against me, and you would 1840 01:34:51,080 --> 01:34:53,040 Speaker 1: have finding a deeper love than No, I would not 1841 01:34:53,160 --> 01:34:53,320 Speaker 1: have