1 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: What's up y'all is Sugarl Lex Pete any Sugarl Dre 2 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: and a call, and you are. 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: Tuned into another episode of. 4 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Poor Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought. Well, 5 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 1: first of all, let me just apologize to y'all again, 6 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: because this is not how we're starting off the new year. 7 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 2: It is, though, because this is how we started. No, 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 2: this is not what this is not gonna be how 9 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 2: the year is going to be. You know what I'm saying. 10 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: We got really drunk last night. We stayed in and 11 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: had a girl's night, and we've basically just. 12 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: Been dead and in the bed all day, all day. 13 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: It's literally nine pm and we're just now recording. We 14 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 2: just got the bed. 15 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: We just got out of the bed, literally, like we've 16 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 1: been in bed watching grays Anatomy all day. 17 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 2: Yeah. 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: So we didn't drop an episode last week because it 19 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: was Christmas, of course, and I was in Legos. 20 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 2: So give us some update, Drea. What's been going on? 21 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: What's new? What's tea? What's been going on in your life? 22 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 1: I really had like a very chill week. Honestly, the 23 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: past week two weeks, I just really been chilling, you know, 24 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: trying to reflect on twenty nineteen and everything that happened 25 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 1: in twenty nineteen. I hadn't had anything too crazy go 26 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: on in the past two weeks for me. Okay, you 27 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: know we're ready to hear about your Legos trip, So 28 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: enough about it. 29 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 2: Yes, let me give y'all a little rundown of my trip. 30 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: When I tell y'all this is the I traveled a 31 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 1: lot this year to wrap up my trips. 32 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: I went to Jamaica twice. 33 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: I went to Dubai, I went to Tulum, Damn, where 34 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: else should I go? And then I went to Legos. 35 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: Of course, I took domestic trips. I went to La 36 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: I went to New York. 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 2: I went to d C. Houston. Of course, I don't know. 38 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: I was just kind of ripping and running a lot 39 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: this the last half of the year. But of all 40 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: my trips, I went on, Legos was definitely the best trip. 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: I went with a group of my friends and we 42 00:01:58,320 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: had an amazing time. 43 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: The guy that to me that I went out there with. 44 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: He just made sure I was straight, like everything I needed, 45 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: everything I wanted. It was just like I felt like 46 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: a little protest the entire time. My homegirl Killer was 47 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 1: with me, and it. 48 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 2: Was just lit. 49 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: The thing about Legos is it's a fucking party city. 50 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: And during December, the reason everybody goes out there because there's. 51 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 2: Like a big music festival. 52 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 1: Like everybody was in Legos, Like, I'm sorry, but if 53 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: you aren't in Legos this month, like you need to 54 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: get your shit together and make sure you in Legos 55 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: next year. Because everybody was there. I literally was running 56 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: into people that I used to see at Dreams back 57 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: in the day beach Like that's how much everybody was 58 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: out there. So basically it was a what ten twelve 59 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: hour flight to get out there. The flight actually wasn't bad. 60 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,839 Speaker 1: I pretty much slept the whole time I landed, and 61 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: the Legos airport is very crazy, so I was safe. 62 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 1: For anybody traveling to Legos, make sure that you're going 63 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: with somebody who has been there before, or you have 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: somebody who lives there meeting you, because the airport is 65 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,160 Speaker 1: very intimidating. Oh why because Okay, so you know you're 66 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: supposed to call unquote take shots before you go, but 67 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: you don't have to write. 68 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: So they want, you know, because they want you to 69 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 2: take shots for yellow fever. 70 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: Yellow fever is something that was around like in the 71 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: nineteen hundreds. Bitch, it's a disease that's been long gone. 72 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:19,799 Speaker 2: But if they. 73 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: Notice that you're American, or they notice that you're like 74 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: a tourist, they'll be like, oh, where's your card. 75 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: Oh you don't have your Yellow Fever card. 76 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: Well you need to pay me, you know what I'm saying, 77 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 1: Like they'll take bribes, like they'll try to do that, 78 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. 79 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 2: He hate them for what to get in to get 80 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: in the country. 81 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: And luckily, like the guy was about to ask me like, oh, 82 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: you don't have your Yellow Fever card. 83 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: Well I'm gonna need some money. 84 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: But the guy that was picking me up at the airport, 85 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: because he had people in the airport waiting. 86 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: For me, he was like, are you Tierra. I was 87 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: like yes. He was like, oh, no, she's with me. 88 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 2: She needs to come with me. 89 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: So he like basically took me cause I did the 90 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: visa on arrival, so he had to take me to 91 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: the office so I. 92 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 2: Could get my visa and do all that stuff. 93 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: So the airport is actually it was intimidating, but it 94 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: was it was a good process for me because I 95 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: have people there to walk back through the airport, right, 96 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 1: So the people if you're traveling to Legos, like I said, 97 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: if you've never been, I wouldn't do the visa on arrival. 98 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: For anybody who's visiting and it's their first time, I 99 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 1: would definitely try to just get your visa before you 100 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 1: go out there, because I don't want to tell people 101 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 1: that in their process not be as smooth as mine was. Yeah, 102 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: because it's the airports are different in every country. This 103 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: was the most confusing airport I've ever been to. It 104 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 1: was very like a lot going on. So anyways, bachually 105 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: get to the good shit as soon as I land. 106 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: It was it was probably about five or six in 107 00:04:40,320 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: the afternoon. 108 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 2: They party there. It's like you literally start. 109 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: Partying around eight or nine, and you go to the 110 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,239 Speaker 1: you leave that first spot, you go to your second 111 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: spot at like midnight, eleven midnight, you stay there till 112 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: about three or four. Then you go to the last spot. 113 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: You stay there till like four to seven. I swear 114 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: to god, I'm not lying. 115 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: We were leaving the club at. 116 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: About seven every day, and we would leave the club 117 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: at seven am and be walking out and it would 118 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: be people still coming into the club. Why their clubs 119 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: don't really close there. They just close when like the 120 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: last person leads. Really yes, it's they if they're party, 121 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: want to leave that bi stay open, that bitch staying open. 122 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,239 Speaker 2: They don't have a home. I'm dead beach. 123 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 1: But I mean, of course, I think it's like whenever 124 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:28,480 Speaker 1: it reaches a point, they're like, okay, niggas, you know 125 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 126 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: But they know how to party. Like I would say. 127 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: The one thing that I kind of didn't like was 128 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: not that I didn't like it, but I don't know 129 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 1: all the Nigerian music. And y'all know I do like 130 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: afrobeats and but I don't know all the music. And 131 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: that's literally all they play in the club. 132 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,599 Speaker 2: Like that's it. 133 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 1: I mean sometimes music, sometimes you'll have a DJ that 134 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: will play like you know, on American music every now 135 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 1: and again, but like sometimes you know, they don't know 136 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: the American Music's that that's fired. Like niggas started playing 137 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: at Least the Dragon by Cisco not want to un 138 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 1: Least the Dragon. Nigga me, yeah, that song he was playing. 139 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: I was there, but I had an amazing time. They 140 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: played Unleash the Dragon. 141 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 2: On Jackson. 142 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: I put that on everything. He was playing, unleast the Dragon. 143 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: But there was one club we went to, Damn I Can. 144 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:23,599 Speaker 1: We went to so many clubs, but the DJ was 145 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: like playing mix Ship, Like he was playing Migos and 146 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: Cardi and Nikki and you know Beyonce has a song 147 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: with Chat you know that song on that line King, Yeah, 148 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: they played, Yeah, they played that song a lot. 149 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 2: They played that I Dress Elbow song a lot. 150 00:06:41,120 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: I was like, that's my ship, Like yeah, like they 151 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 1: were playing a lot of good songs, so I do. 152 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: The club culture was kind of like sometimes like everybody 153 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: would get hyped up for a song and I didn't 154 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: know the song, so I would just kind of be 155 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:54,280 Speaker 1: sitting there like bothering my head. 156 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 2: So it was kind of like weird on that end, 157 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 2: but I still had fun. 158 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 1: One of the days he had like like rented out 159 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 1: a beach house and so we like got on a 160 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: boat and we're on the boat for like thirty minutes 161 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: to go to an island. So we went to like 162 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 1: this village and it was literally like the stuff that 163 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: you see on TV. 164 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:14,280 Speaker 2: You lived like a village, Like they had. 165 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: The little not huts, but like little houses, and there's 166 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: no electricity. 167 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 2: Anywhere. 168 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: Like the house that we went to was like the 169 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: nice part. So of course they had electricity and stuff, 170 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: but it was like a private little beach thing and 171 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: they had a pool, we had a DJ, they had hookah. 172 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: You know, I love my hooks beach, so the hookah 173 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: is so good there. It was really, really good. I 174 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: was really surprised one thing about me. Why I we 175 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: know all the Nigerians, we know, love who I know. 176 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 1: But what I'm saying was, I mean, just being another country. 177 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: I just didn't expect it to be that you would. 178 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: But I will say this about the food. I don't 179 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: like Jamaican food. I'm not a rice and goat and 180 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: curve Jamaican. I don't like stuff like that. So Nigerian 181 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: food is kind of the same thing. So I'm I 182 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: did not like the food. I did not like the food. 183 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: And but had you ever had Nigerians? Yeah, Like I 184 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 2: like souya. I love souya. But I'm just y'all know me. 185 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 2: I like tacos, bitch. I love Mexican food. I like cheese. 186 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 2: They don't eat cheese. They don't do no kind of 187 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 2: dairy like Nigerian food. They don't. 188 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: They do not fuck with cheese. They do not fuck 189 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: with cheese at all, Like they don't like cheese at all. 190 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna lie by the's third day, I 191 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: like made them order me some Dominoes pizza. 192 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 2: Pizza good. The pizza was fire, bitch. The pizza was 193 00:08:31,400 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 2: good as fuck. But they had when we went to Jamaica, 194 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 2: that pizza was good. 195 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like they have nice little restaurants, like we had 196 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,720 Speaker 1: went out to eat a couple of nights and you know, 197 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: I got my standman, you know, the usual stuff like that. 198 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: So when we went out to eat, that was cool. 199 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: But when we were at like when we were at 200 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,719 Speaker 1: like different restaurants and stuff, it was like, I mean 201 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: when we. 202 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 2: Were like popping fireworks by my house. 203 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: And when they were at like different when we were 204 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: going like different locations just like picking up food, I 205 00:08:57,840 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: didn't really care for the food too much. 206 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 2: And one thing I will say is their food is 207 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: like very very organic, like very clean. 208 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: So when you eat their food, you gonna be shitting bitch, 209 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: Like right after you eat, the food just runs straight 210 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: through you. Because you gotta realize, our food is processed here, 211 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: so our bodies are used to that process as food 212 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: so when you're eating food that has nothing in it 213 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: and it's just straight healthy food, it's like, bitch me, 214 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: I have the pepper, but I'm not gonna lie, bitch. 215 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 2: And then that food is spicy, so I know your 216 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 2: booty was burned. 217 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: No, no, I'm used to spicy food. It wasn't the 218 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 1: spice that was bothering me. It's just that shit was 219 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: running straight through me. I really didn't get sick till 220 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 1: like the last day, because before, like a month before, 221 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: I was on a really good clean so all I 222 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 1: was eating was vegetables and soup anyway. So I really 223 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 1: didn't get as sick as the average person does because 224 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: I was eating healthy before anyway, so I felt like 225 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: I prepared my stomach. But we saw Megga Stallion when 226 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: performing when I was out there, that was so fucking lit. 227 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 1: And her DJ is actually one of my really close friends. 228 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: Shout out to Jabon Me and Jaybon came up and 229 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: dreams together. So seeing him DJing and legos and just 230 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,440 Speaker 1: seeing how far he has come, it was just so amazing. 231 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: Like we was at the club lit afterwards, having a 232 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: good time. But next year when I go, I'm definitely 233 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: staying for two or three weeks. Like I feel like 234 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: I didn't stay long enough, like at all, I did 235 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: not stay long enough. 236 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 2: So yeah, my trip was amazing. 237 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 1: If anybody has a chance to go to Legos, like 238 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: definitely go, y'all have to remember it's still, you know, 239 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: a poor country, so there's a it's not like America, 240 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: you know. 241 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 2: You know, don't go there expecting. 242 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: To see like all these beautiful buildings and this and that. 243 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 2: You know. 244 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: It's like they to me, they don't really have a 245 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: middle class. It's either you're really poor or you're really rich, 246 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. 247 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 2: And thankful for me. 248 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: The people that I went with, you know, were well 249 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: off and my friends were well off, and so I 250 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: had an amazing time. But I mean it's still I mean, 251 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: every country has things that need to be worked on. 252 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 1: No country is perfect, but I had an amazing time. 253 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:56,840 Speaker 1: Nigerian people are very very nice. So yeah, that was 254 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: my Legos trip. Guys, so we loved. Yes, I love 255 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 1: to see it. I mean, landing in a country and 256 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: you see nothing but black people, that was just a 257 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 1: beautiful feeling, like just to see like our nigga. I'm 258 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: not gonna lie I'll be lying, I'll be joking around 259 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: saying Nigerian. 260 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: But I literally felt like I was at home. 261 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: Like they make you feel they're just so welcoming and 262 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: they can look at you until. 263 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 2: You're not Nigerian. You know what I'm saying. 264 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, they can just tell, but they're very welcoming. It 265 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: was an amazing experience. Shout out to Charles. I had 266 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: an amazing host. 267 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 2: I just had a good time. Okay, so much. Yes, 268 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 2: so we're. 269 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: Back and yeah, I'm getting ready for another trip, bitch, 270 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 1: because in February, I'm going somewhere. 271 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: I just don't know where we're here, so. 272 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: It's it's upbeach. So speaking of the trips and things 273 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: that we planned on, what we wanted to talk about 274 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: first is we kind of wanted to talk about like 275 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,319 Speaker 1: our goals for twenty twenty, and then we. 276 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 2: Kind of wanted to do like a little recap. 277 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: And countdown and like our favorite things of four months 278 00:11:53,000 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. 279 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: You want to go first, you want me to go first, 280 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: you can go, Okay. 281 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 1: So for two thousand, one of my main goals is 282 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 1: to really just travel. 283 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:05,680 Speaker 2: I want to be I want to go on a 284 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 2: trip at least once a month. 285 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: I feel like I got the travel bug right now, 286 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: and I want to see different countries. 287 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 2: I really just need to get up and go. 288 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,839 Speaker 1: Like I love living in Atlanta, but Atlanta just has 289 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: doesn't have anything to offer me outside of my career. 290 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 1: I feel like, Amen, I have achieved so much as 291 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 1: far as the things that I want to do with 292 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 1: my career, and I have a lot more work to do. 293 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: But bitch, I'm trying to travel. I'm trying to see 294 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:30,599 Speaker 1: the world. So that's one of my main goals of 295 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Another one of my goals is obviously do 296 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: a live show for Poor Minds, and we are working 297 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: on that. For y'all, it's just a lot of stuff 298 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: with poor Minds I want to do. I just see 299 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: I see our audience growing, and I see how much 300 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: y'all fuck with us and interact with us. So I 301 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: feel like we are cheating y'all by not giving y'all 302 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 1: more so our goal like we got. I'm telling y'all, 303 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: we stay this a lot, but this month, we really 304 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:55,200 Speaker 1: do have a lot coming for y'all. 305 00:12:55,200 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: We hear y'all, We hear y'all about y'all. 306 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: What y'all be requesting and what y'all want for us 307 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: from us, And I know it takes us a while, 308 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: but this is something new to us. Like when we 309 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 1: started windown Wednesday for the people who used to listen 310 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: when it was wind Down Wednesday, we didn't Yeah, we 311 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: didn't expect for it to grow to this. So we're 312 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: just figuring this shit out as we go. So yeah, 313 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: so I want poor Minds of course to grow, and 314 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: then of course Where to Next. I really want Where 315 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: two Next to get picked up by like a media 316 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: company and so we can start getting sponsored and doing 317 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,200 Speaker 1: more stuff for Where to Next. I feel like Where 318 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,719 Speaker 1: two Next is so dope, Like people always tell me 319 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: that they go to my channel and they be like, 320 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: oh I never heard of this, Oh I never thought 321 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 1: of this, And so you know, I feel like we 322 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: can definitely grow it and start going to different cities 323 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: and you know, just putting young people want to travel now, 324 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: So especially me, I want to take where too Next 325 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: and start doing it when. 326 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 2: I travel out the country and do these things. 327 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: So I definitely want to get you know, a budget 328 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: for my team and start doing all that. And you know, 329 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get on my media shit all 330 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Okay, what about your goals, sister. My goals 331 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: are very similar to yours as far as I know 332 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,559 Speaker 1: it pertains to the show and the podcast or whatever. 333 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: I definitely really want us to hit fifty K listeners 334 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 1: this year. 335 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 2: That's a goal that I'm setting for us. 336 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: I feel like it's very doable, you know what I mean, 337 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: especially with it be in January. Like she said, you 338 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: know already, we have so so so many things that 339 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: we're working on that we know that we're super excited 340 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 1: about it. We know y'all gonna be excited about it too. 341 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 1: Another goal that I have is I would really like 342 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: for us to get on TV. 343 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 2: Like I really want us to have like a show. 344 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 2: I think that's a good goal too. 345 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: So that's another goal of mine for this year. I'm 346 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:46,680 Speaker 1: also planning on I'm also working on another business venture 347 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: and I'm about to relaunch very very soon. I will 348 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: tell y'all about it, but you know, I just rather 349 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: just wait and then just launch it. So I'm working 350 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: on something. But it's gonna be really really good for 351 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: the ladies, y'all. I'm gonna really like it. And yeah, 352 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm just really excited for what's to 353 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: come for Poor Minds, Like we really fuck with y'all, 354 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: we really rock with y'all, and we appreciate all of 355 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: y'all support, and we got March coming and stuff. 356 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 2: I'm looking forward today. 357 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: Y'all better be wearing y'all shirts and tagging us of course. 358 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: But yeah, like I don't know, I'm really excited, but yeah, 359 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 2: my main goal is just I want us to hear 360 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 2: the fifty K listings this year. 361 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: And oh and I also am ready for us to 362 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: get back on YouTube, which we're doing very very soon. 363 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, so that's some good goals. 364 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: So as far as my favorite moments of Poor Minds 365 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: from twenty nineteen, first of all, I want to say 366 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: my favorite guest that we had on last year Carlos. 367 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 2: No, it was Coody Hoodie. Yes, Cuty was my favorite guest. 368 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, Carlos, Mandy, Key Key, everybody we've 369 00:15:57,920 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 1: had on the show. 370 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: We're like everybody. 371 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: I really liked everybody, but Cuddy was my favorite episode. 372 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: I do think that the episode with Cuddy was a 373 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 1: really good. Yeah, but I'm torn between that episode in 374 00:16:07,520 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: the world Carlos funny nigga, You're definitely gonna have Carlos 375 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: back on the show. We Are Cuddy was definitely like surprisingly, 376 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: like not surprisingly because Cuddy is funny. I always followed 377 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: her and stuff, but you know, it's like, Cuddy really 378 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: like us. 379 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: You know, I was very nervous before she came on. 380 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, I gotta get the champagne, I 381 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: gotta have everything set up. 382 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 2: Mic. I was really nervous because I'm like, Okay, this 383 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 2: is what she does. She does medi and she does this. 384 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 1: So I was like, let me get the ship together. 385 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 1: But she was very humble and very sweet. I've been 386 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: around Cuddy. Yeah, I've been around Cuddy a few times, 387 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 1: but not like in the atmosphere we're working and ship. 388 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: So she was very cool. She brought us some books 389 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 1: and I read her book. Her book is amazing. 390 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Cuddy, I'm still waiting on my book. I'm dead. 391 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: She did say she was on another one, but but yeah, 392 00:16:56,960 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: Cuddy was like my favorite, my favorite. Yes, my favorite 393 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: topic was when we talked about is a nine to 394 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: five of hustle? Yes, because I just think that was 395 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: a really spicy topic, bitch, because we got into it 396 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: real we was going back and forth about if a 397 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: nine to five was a hustle, because you was like. 398 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:18,439 Speaker 2: No, it's not. 399 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm like it kind of is, like it's a Nana 400 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: five a hustle. Can you say you hustling on Twitter? 401 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 2: Sweet about it? Yeah, to talk about this, talk about it. 402 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: So, yeah, that was one of my favorite topics about 403 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,000 Speaker 1: the episode. Actually, yeah, that was one of my favorite topics. 404 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 1: Another one of my favorite topics is when I came 405 00:17:37,040 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 1: open about me having my body dys morphia. 406 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:41,439 Speaker 2: I feel like whenever I feel like that was a 407 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:42,360 Speaker 2: good episode. 408 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever I opened up about that, so many women 409 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:50,119 Speaker 1: were contacting me and letting me know how they were struggling. 410 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 1: They're like, you're so beautiful, so I know that it's normal. 411 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 1: Like if you look like this and you're struggling, I 412 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,480 Speaker 1: know that what I'm feeling is okay, you know what 413 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So I felt like me opening about my 414 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: issues with my body, I don't know. 415 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: I felt like, now I'm more. 416 00:18:04,840 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: Comfortable talking about my body, and I feel honestly, when 417 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: I opened up about it, I'm more comfortable in my skin. 418 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 2: I feel like not. 419 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 1: That I've completely healed from my body dys morphia issue, 420 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: but it's gotten a lot better, you know what I'm saying. Like, 421 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,120 Speaker 1: when I look in the mirror, I don't see an 422 00:18:22,200 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 1: ugly person anymore. 423 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 2: Like I see somebody not ugly. But I just didn't 424 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 2: like my body. 425 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:29,640 Speaker 1: I just felt like my body was just trash. When 426 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:30,920 Speaker 1: I would look in the mirror, I'd be like, bro, 427 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,680 Speaker 1: my body. I used to be disgusted at what I 428 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: would see in the mirror, but now I'm like, Okay, bitch, 429 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: you look the fuck good. 430 00:18:37,520 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 2: Like when I look in the mirror, now I'll be like, okay, bitch. 431 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: Like some days, I. 432 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,479 Speaker 1: Still have my moments, but I feel like me opening 433 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,320 Speaker 1: up about my body dys morphia I didn't even know 434 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: at the time, but that was my first step towards healing. 435 00:18:49,320 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: So that was another one of my favorite topics as well. 436 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, those are my top three moments. 437 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 2: I think that poor moms. 438 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: I think that I really liked Tevin Tahoe on the 439 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: show too. 440 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I forgot. 441 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really liked the episode that we did with 442 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 1: Tahoe because he just so was a fucking crazy in 443 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,120 Speaker 1: his opinions and all of that shit. 444 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 2: I've never met somebody so loud and wrong in my life. 445 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. 446 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: I mean that's what I was getting at. Like, he 447 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: his opinions are just crazy. So I felt like it 448 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: was good to have him on the show because it 449 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 1: was like a good country. 450 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we. 451 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: Have to have him back to Yeah, I agree. I 452 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: would say that the body Dysmorphia episode was a really 453 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: really good episode. I think all of the episodes for me, 454 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: the ones that we really vent and we really get 455 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 1: deep and talk to the listeners, I think that those 456 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 1: are some of my favorite moments. 457 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 2: And I'm really that's I get like anxiety. 458 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: Or whatever, Like I don't I probably have never really 459 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,359 Speaker 1: told the listeners that, but I get anxiety talking about 460 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: like emotional stuff. And so that's another goal of mine 461 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: that I didn't mention earlier, but like, I really want 462 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,439 Speaker 1: to try to start being a little more transparent with 463 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: y'all because I feel like I'm not as transparent sometimes 464 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 1: as you are. But that's just because it's really hard 465 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 1: for me to talk about like emotional things. 466 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 2: For the people that do know me, they know. 467 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: That, right, But yeah, I don't know. It's like I 468 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: just I love the fucking show. 469 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: You know. 470 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,760 Speaker 1: I used to listen to every episode. I stopped doing it. 471 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 1: Now I don't really be listening every week anymore. So 472 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 1: it's like it's really hard for me to come up 473 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: with my top moments because I really be thinking every 474 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: day of episode be funny as hell. I used to 475 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: be sitting over here every morning. They used to be 476 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 1: the thing I used to do every Wednesday morning. Well, 477 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 1: I would wake up and listen to the fucking show 478 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,360 Speaker 1: and be over here cracking up, like we just recording 479 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: shit last. The only reason I've never you know, I've 480 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: never listened because I hate the sound of my boy. 481 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean me too. I hate the way I sound. 482 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 1: I'd be like, ooh, bitch, like I really in this 483 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 1: bitch sounding like Zero. Bitch Like I'll be like, why 484 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: is zero talking about second Big? When I look my ak, bitch, 485 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: niggas gonna let what No. 486 00:20:55,359 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 2: I was going along, I was WHA, Okay, So let's 487 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 2: get into the topics. 488 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: So I want to talk about We're gonna get into 489 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,200 Speaker 1: some real tea right now, because I want to talk 490 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:16,439 Speaker 1: about a man that you're dating, him introducing you to 491 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 1: his friend, which happens to be a woman. 492 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 2: I think we talked about something like these before. 493 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: I don't know the bitch. I'm ready to talk about it. 494 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: I'm ready to talk about it now. I don't really care. 495 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 1: I don't care either, because let me tell you, at 496 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: end of day, yeah don't. This is my niggah and 497 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: you're his friend. Neither one of us are going anywhere. 498 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:36,280 Speaker 1: But let me tell you something. You're gonna act accordingly 499 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: because you know what. A lot of times, especially with 500 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 1: the type of men that we date, you gotta realize 501 00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: a woman is a woman at the bitch y'all host 502 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: is not low so you thinking that you are cool 503 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 1: and being like, oh, I'm his best friend, but you 504 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:50,880 Speaker 1: low key got a crush on my man. 505 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 2: And that's and that's where we're gonna draw the fucking 506 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,119 Speaker 2: line at b or you might not even know that. 507 00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: They probably don't fuck already fuck A lot. 508 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: Of the time these niggas, like a nigga is not 509 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,400 Speaker 1: gonna tell you a bitch that he wants to keep 510 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: around because they have a bun. 511 00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 2: Then he fuck with her and it's his homie. 512 00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: He's not gonna tell you that he fucked that in 513 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: the past because he knows you don't have an issue 514 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 1: with it. Any any woman is going to have an 515 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 1: issue with finding out that somebody who is supposed to 516 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: be her nigga his friend and they fucked in the past. 517 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,560 Speaker 2: Well, I'll tell y'all the story about this. 518 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: It's like the guy Nigerian Bay his homegirl, he used 519 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: to date her friend and they just ended up being 520 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: real close. 521 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,440 Speaker 2: But the girl was just being around real nasty to me. 522 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 1: Bitch, Charlie, you will I d I had said, probably 523 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: because she ugly, y'all belixation. No, she was gorgeous, And 524 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 1: that's the thing. So pretty house be mean too. That's 525 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: why I hate when girls be like, I don't never 526 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,360 Speaker 1: get hater, I don't never be having issues with pretty women. 527 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:56,679 Speaker 1: He always be all ugly house no A lot of 528 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: the time too, he's stirring up the pip and I 529 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of time like maybe because maybe 530 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: he's brought women around that maybe as out going as me, 531 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: or maybe not as pretty as me. 532 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,959 Speaker 2: I don't know what the issue was. I don't know 533 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 2: what the fucking issue was. 534 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: But she was just making little snod remarks and just 535 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: being real nasty towards me the whole time. And you 536 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: know me, bitch, I don't care because I'm not Me 537 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: and him are not about to stop talking and being 538 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 1: cool or dating or whatever we're doing right now anyway, 539 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 1: right and you're his friends, so you're not going nowhere anyway, 540 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: even so we might as well just get long, you 541 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I wasn't tripping, and you know, 542 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 1: he didn't say nothing about it until like he was 543 00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: like checking on me. He was like, Yo, are you good, 544 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,480 Speaker 1: because I've noticed that this and this is this. 545 00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:37,880 Speaker 2: Is going on. 546 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,440 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, thank god you said something because 547 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,520 Speaker 1: I just started going off. I'm like, at the end 548 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: of the day, I'm not going nowhere. And he just 549 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: started laughing because you know, he want to get that shit. 550 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,960 Speaker 2: You know, you know niggas like that shit. 551 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 1: But I'm being but I'm being honest because I feel 552 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: like we fuck with each other. 553 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:53,879 Speaker 2: He's a cool guy. You know. I'm not saying me 554 00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 2: and a nigga getting married, but. 555 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: For right now, it's a cool little situation, like we 556 00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,520 Speaker 1: get along and we enjoy we enjoy. 557 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 2: Each other's stuff. Me so I just feel like her 558 00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 2: being nasty towards me is like, Sis, what is it? 559 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: Do you like him? Are you not think? No? Because 560 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,679 Speaker 2: he used to date her friends, so. 561 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,880 Speaker 1: That means something. Well, No, I don't think I don't 562 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 1: think that's what it is. Because he said that he's 563 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: brought girls around her before, and she was just she 564 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 1: don't normally act like that, and she don't normally act 565 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: like that and girls. She had pulled us to the side. 566 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: It was like, we was all talking and she was like, yeah, 567 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 1: it's best to just hang out with these niggas and 568 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,160 Speaker 1: not fuck them because you can get so much more. 569 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 2: Now. 570 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that me and him had fucked at 571 00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:39,520 Speaker 1: this point or whatever the situation may mean. But what 572 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:42,119 Speaker 1: I'm saying is, you know that I'm like kind of 573 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: liking your friend right now and we're kind of so 574 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 1: eventually I am gonna fuck him. So why are you 575 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 1: telling me, oh, don't fuck these niggas? Like, bitch, what 576 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: she just randomly pulled you to the side. She No, 577 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,159 Speaker 1: we were all just sitting to the side talking, like 578 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: me and her and some other girl. And then she 579 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 1: was like, Lex is really really sweet. She told us 580 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,920 Speaker 1: something one of my homegirls. Lex is really really sweet. 581 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 1: But I hope she doesn't really like him like that 582 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: because he has a lot of women. Well, I got 583 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 1: a lot of niggas, we twin problem, got something and come. 584 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 2: Still, ain't no motherfucking problem all? What is you saying? 585 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: Callsby weird? You are madass, bitch. I just don't. 586 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 1: Understand beaches that bitch. Stay in your motherfucking lane. Stay 587 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: in your pain. 588 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,919 Speaker 2: You worry about you? Why are you worried? 589 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 1: Now? I can see if I was doing something to 590 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 1: your friend. Are you just feel like I was an 591 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,640 Speaker 1: ain't sheep? I was doing she to exhibit ain't sheep 592 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,640 Speaker 1: beach behavior or some sheep, but beach, stay in your. 593 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 2: Mother fucking lane. 594 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,119 Speaker 1: I'm not doing nothing to this, nothing to you, right, 595 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 1: and you shouldn't give a fuck about who the fuck 596 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: he fucking anyways? If this is just I don't understand 597 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 1: that about people, I really don't. I put this on 598 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: everything out love. When it comes to my friends and 599 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 1: who they fucking or who they in relationships and sit with, 600 00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 1: I literally don't give a fuck unless these unless that 601 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: nigga or less that bitch it's bad for you, like 602 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: they doing things that I feel like they fucking with 603 00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:09,120 Speaker 1: your fucking with you mentally, they being physically abusive? Are 604 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: they just not a good person and ship like that, 605 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 1: then okay, cool, it's okay to have your your opinions 606 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: about the person they your friend is dating, but just 607 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,920 Speaker 1: off of a first encounter. And then I know how 608 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,639 Speaker 1: you are because I know you, so I know you 609 00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: was being pleasant. I know you was being nice. 610 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 2: So, bitch, what's what's your problem? 611 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 3: What's That's why I couldn't figure out it does and 612 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 3: it's my And furthermore, even if you do got a 613 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:35,120 Speaker 3: motherfucking problem, bitch, it ain't s your business, right, that's 614 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 3: your friend. 615 00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: He gonna fuck with who he want to fuck with. 616 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: He gonna like who he want to like. And if 617 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 1: that bitch ain't doing nothing to you and she ain't 618 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 1: doing nothing to him, mind your business, mind your business. 619 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: And that's why I just feel like, because let me 620 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: tell you something. And this is for women, and Poe's 621 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 1: always do that. They always trying to interject their opinions 622 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 1: so they male homeboys exactly, He's shut up this pussy fire. 623 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 2: He's not about to stop sucking with me, period. 624 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 1: I don't know about Garfield. I told John Garfield kind 625 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,959 Speaker 1: of mediocre, so he might leave, But stim bitch, maja, 626 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:09,200 Speaker 1: goddamn bit the way am about to stuck. He's deep 627 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: front the bank. Now you ain't about to be able 628 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: to compete with the well at the end of the day. 629 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 2: This is how I feel. 630 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 1: I just feel like I hate the homegirls that are like, honey, 631 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:20,479 Speaker 1: I'm his best friend. 632 00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 2: I'm the woman in his life. No, you're not getting 633 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,440 Speaker 2: out my check, bitch, since he's mama. That's not even 634 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 2: that bitch. I slept that hotel. 635 00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 1: Baby, Yes, baby's mama's be getting out of my mama's 636 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: be getting out of line. We talked about that before. 637 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 1: But these homegirls, I don't mind. I don't care if 638 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: a nigga got fifteen homegirl. 639 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 2: I really don't give a fuck. I don't care about. 640 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: But what you're gonna do is respect me and stay in. 641 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: I'm not doing nothing to this nigga. 642 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:49,320 Speaker 2: Trust me. 643 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: When I fuck with niggas, I feel like I'm a 644 00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 1: good partner. I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I don't 645 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 1: do whole ass shit to people. 646 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm not a bitch, like I don't have 647 00:27:58,080 --> 00:27:59,159 Speaker 2: no hoe in my blood. 648 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:00,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And like I was just 649 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,880 Speaker 1: saying too, I don't be knowing what be going through 650 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 1: people's head. 651 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 2: When they be like, oh, that's my best friend. I'm 652 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 2: the woman in his life. 653 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: Like for example, I have a male bes's friend and 654 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend now and they're in a serious 655 00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: relationship right and I don't feel like I'm his best friend. 656 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: I feel like he is in love with that girl. 657 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: And if he boiled down to it for real, for real, 658 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: if he has to peak me or her, he gonna 659 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,359 Speaker 1: pick her because that's the look like that's his girlfriend. 660 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 2: Love that girl. 661 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: And so it's like, so Ben is also inconsiderate for 662 00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: you to say things like that mean you don't know 663 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: how much this nigga gonna fuck with me. So, going 664 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,280 Speaker 1: back to what I just said, if it boiled down 665 00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: to it, Bach, you don't know if he really starts 666 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,040 Speaker 1: fucking with me like that, you was the lady in 667 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: his life. 668 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 2: But shit, it's a new sheriff in town now, Bobby. 669 00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 670 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: And that was one time she was like, oh, well, 671 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 1: where are we gonna eat for dinner? I was like, well, 672 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to eat this food, like I want 673 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 1: something else and she's. 674 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 2: Like, uh, well I'm not eating that. 675 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 1: Well, bitch, where is your nigga? Bitch, your nigga cause 676 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,920 Speaker 1: your nigga need to come to take you to eat. 677 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: Where is your nigga? Every time every night we going out, 678 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: you talking about this? You popping up, bitch, where are 679 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: your niggas at? Because I'm tired of this ship. Where 680 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: is your man? That's why you were touching yourself to mine. 681 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,880 Speaker 2: Where is your man? Says? Where is he where? 682 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Because at the end of 683 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,520 Speaker 1: the day, that's why these holds be overstepping their boundary 684 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 1: because you ain't got no man, So you're treating your 685 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: homeboy like he's your man. He paying for this and 686 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: because let me tell you something, he is a gentleman. 687 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,800 Speaker 2: He gonna pay for everybody. Okay, Atlanta. 688 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: When he came to Atlanta, Diamond had met me at 689 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: this restaurant and he was like he came up there, 690 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: he was like, oh, have you eaten? I was like, oh, 691 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: I'm good, And Diamond was like, oh, I think I 692 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: about the order some. He was like, get whatever you 693 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: want because that's the type of nigga he is. Because 694 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,560 Speaker 1: that little three hundred dollars bill that ain't shipped to him. 695 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 696 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: So it ain't about that, but it's like you're depending 697 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 1: on him to feed you, but you don't have a nigga. 698 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 2: Now, let me tell you something and can't be tru 699 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 2: be Okay, wait, let me. 700 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: Finish though, because my thing is if I went my 701 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: homeboy and he got his bitch, If he says all, 702 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay for your shit, that's cool, but I'm 703 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 1: gonna be like. 704 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm gonna get my tab separate, you know what 705 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 2: I'm saying, just out of. 706 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 1: Respect, Like if my homeboy is out on a date 707 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,480 Speaker 1: with a girl and I run into them, or he 708 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 1: invites me up there and I come up there, I'm 709 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: not expecting him to pay for my shit. And even 710 00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: if if he decides to pay for it, I'm gonna 711 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: let him be like, oh no, Alex, put your. 712 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 2: Tab on my shit. 713 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: I got all of y'all. But if not, I expect 714 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,160 Speaker 1: it because that's not my nigga, that's your nigga. 715 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 2: He's paying for your shit, you know what I'm saying. 716 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 1: So the fact that she was just expecting, expecting, expecting, 717 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: which is cool because he's that type of nigga. So 718 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 1: that's fine, but bitch, stop putting your hand out to 719 00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,920 Speaker 1: my nigga, like stop it, Like I'm here now. I 720 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: wasn't here last week. I just got here, but I'm 721 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 1: here now, bitch, so relaxed. 722 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 2: And I hate girls like that. 723 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: And like I said, you know, I can speak from 724 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: experience because I've had a meal bits friend for a 725 00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:01,760 Speaker 1: really really right. I never overtook my boundaries with my 726 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 1: best friend Jordan ever. 727 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 2: Ever, whenever he have. 728 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: A girlfriend, I let it be what it is, right 729 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:11,000 Speaker 1: because I'm telling you, it's always gonna end up bad 730 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 1: when you be trying to be like, oh I'm the 731 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 1: best friend, I'm decent. I'm not. And a nigga met 732 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 1: the beach that he really liked and really fuck with, 733 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: but she's not gonn in well because if he gotta 734 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,160 Speaker 1: choose her, he ain't fucking you will in my case, 735 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 1: me and my besson, cause I mean, some people do 736 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,040 Speaker 1: be some people have fuck their friends, you know what 737 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: I mean. But in my case, me and my best 738 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 1: friend have never had six. So you know, if it 739 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: boils down to it and he really loves somebody, he's 740 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 1: gonna choose them. But I've had to happen to me 741 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: before with another person that used that I used to 742 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: be really really close to me. Now this person was 743 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend, but you know, we became best friends 744 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: after we broke up, and we never had sex again 745 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: for like eight years, and then he ended up getting 746 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: a girlfriend. 747 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,040 Speaker 2: Got the well, not a girlfriend. He ended up start 748 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:56,840 Speaker 2: messing with this girl. 749 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: She got pregnant, and she was intimidated by our relationship. 750 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: She did not like me being friends with him. She 751 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,479 Speaker 1: was like, I don't I don't like it, and I mean, 752 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: and that's me he ended up. Now me and him 753 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: not cool no more because at the end of the day, 754 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: that's his baby mama. 755 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:09,719 Speaker 2: What we gonna do? 756 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 1: And I feel like that's respectful though, Like she wasn't 757 00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:13,840 Speaker 1: trying to start beep. She just let him let it 758 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,880 Speaker 1: be known that she was uncomfortable. No, she you know, 759 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 1: it's a little more to this story. You remember how 760 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: she was and she pretended like she was me that 761 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: all was weird. 762 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a little to. 763 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,719 Speaker 1: Me. But it was so strange because that was literally 764 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: my best friend, like and yet it is my boyfriend. 765 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: And I don't know if he ever. 766 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,920 Speaker 1: Disclosed that to her, But I literally don't want this 767 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: niggas right, and but I have nothing to worry. That's 768 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, But I mean, you know that, but 769 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,680 Speaker 1: she didn't know that. You know what I'm saying in 770 00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 1: her defense and because I can. The only reason I'm 771 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,840 Speaker 1: playing devil advocate right now is because I was in 772 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 1: that girl's position. But I'm not weird though, so I 773 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 1: didn't say nothing to him. I was never gonna say 774 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 1: nothing to him. You know why, because I'm not ever 775 00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 1: intimidated about these But that's what I was about to say, Like, 776 00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, if a nigga fuck 777 00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: with you, but you got his kids, you got. 778 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 2: And then it's like, not only that, but a nigga's 779 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 2: gonna do what he wants to do. 780 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: So if he wants to fuck you behind my back 781 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,680 Speaker 1: or whatever he's doing gonna do, he gonna do it. 782 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 2: And no matter how much I cry, plead and beg, 783 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 2: it's gonna happen. 784 00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: So I feel like with me, the only reason I 785 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: got vocal about is because he asked me if I 786 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: was okay, and that's when I started letting him know. 787 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 2: But I've never even the thing he asks, was you okay? 788 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 2: Because he peeped yes. 789 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,680 Speaker 1: And his friends had peeped it even his friends because 790 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 1: his friends had brought it up to him. 791 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 2: He was like, nah, Lex would have told me if 792 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:36,120 Speaker 2: she felt uncomfortable, blah blah blah, but not knowing I'm drunk. 793 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck, Like nothing's gonna nothing. None 794 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,400 Speaker 1: of the shit is bothering me. So but at the 795 00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:43,400 Speaker 1: end of the day, it's like it's not bothering. But 796 00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, bitch, what's tam Why it's table bothered? 797 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 2: Be bothered? As you really are so nice. I'm not 798 00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 2: with me. 799 00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: I understanding why be like in me because I'm called 800 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 1: to stand off you. I'm very, very nice and don't 801 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,000 Speaker 1: get the titos in me, bitch, I'm everybody. 802 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 2: That's when I be nice. Give me a few dreams, 803 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 2: but I'm just a nice person. 804 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: I be trying to get on, especially if like we 805 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 1: all just turning up and having a good time. So 806 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,520 Speaker 1: I just felt like once he asked me, that's when 807 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, well let me tell you. Let 808 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: me tell you what's really going on. You know what 809 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, And just like I said, I don't know. 810 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 2: I just feel like homegirls. 811 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: I don't feel like men do that too much unless 812 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: they have a crush on you. I feel like when 813 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,640 Speaker 1: I like all my guy friends that I have, they 814 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,560 Speaker 1: never be like, oh, les, don't fuck with this nigga 815 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,360 Speaker 1: because of this and that, because they just be like, 816 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: they let me do my thing. 817 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 2: You know who used to do that all the time. 818 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,279 Speaker 2: It was so annoying. You already know who I'm about 819 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,839 Speaker 2: to say. They was both of our friends. A god 820 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 2: friend who Oh yes he was a hater, he was, 821 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,759 Speaker 2: but he liked the both of them. He used to 822 00:34:53,800 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 2: be hating. He used to be so much, so much 823 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,880 Speaker 2: salt that she was wild. Oh it was a crazy 824 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 2: We're gonna move. 825 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 1: On from this top before I get mad, Beach, So 826 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: let us know how y'all feel about, you know, guys 827 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: having best friends that are females, and any females out 828 00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: there that have a god best friend, and can y'all 829 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: just ride us in and let us know if we're tripping? 830 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know we not. 831 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,840 Speaker 1: Like I said, I have a male bee's friend. So 832 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:27,839 Speaker 1: I just feel like Beach, staying your lane. Even if 833 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: some shit go down in that beach do something, still 834 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: stay in your lane because they might get back with 835 00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 1: the period. Just stay in your line. 836 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: So we go move into the by bubb ay. 837 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I actually had this conversation with somebody and 838 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 1: you know, I kind of like talking about fetishes and 839 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,320 Speaker 1: little weird things and because I feel like, like I said, 840 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,880 Speaker 1: I learned last year in twenty nineteen that I'm very vanilla. 841 00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 2: I thought I was a freaking league. I thought I 842 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 2: was wild until I went to heatingism. Bitch, I'm not 843 00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 2: a freak. I'm not what I thought I was, you 844 00:35:58,680 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 845 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,880 Speaker 1: So I had this conversation with somebody, and you know, 846 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,400 Speaker 1: there's a male fetish of straight men that like to 847 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: kind of wear female's clothing, like in the bedroom, Like 848 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: they like to wear thongs, or they like to wear stockings, 849 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 1: maybe bras or like that. 850 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,800 Speaker 2: What So I would to not like, how would you? 851 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:22,279 Speaker 2: How would you? 852 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:22,480 Speaker 1: Like? 853 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 2: Say you met a guy and the dates are fire, 854 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 2: conversation is fire, and it's time to get in the bedroom. Bitch. 855 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 2: He y'all in fucking Milde's bitch and it's the first 856 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,879 Speaker 2: time y'all about to fuck. He take off his pants 857 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 2: and he got on the throng and they say juicy 858 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,239 Speaker 2: on the front, or what if he got on one 859 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:45,040 Speaker 2: of them things that the garden. They make your booty. Yeah, 860 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 2: that women be wearing to make their still yeah, how 861 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:51,240 Speaker 2: would you feel? Mind you, he's perfect in every aspect. 862 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 2: I would fly back home. 863 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 1: You would leave why with But he's not gay, He's 864 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: not you know, But because I mean, I'm telling you, 865 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, this is the ideal situation. 866 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:05,560 Speaker 2: Like, he's perfect, that's dressy. 867 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 1: Would I think I would like try to get into 868 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 1: it with him, though now, I don't think I would 869 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: necessarily try to get into it with him. I think 870 00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 1: I would make the best of the situation and we 871 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: will probably still fucking she because I mean we and. 872 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,439 Speaker 2: These were gonna have a good time. 873 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 1: But when you go home you take the throng out. 874 00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,120 Speaker 1: Of course, it's gonna take it off. You gotta fuck you. 875 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 1: So you went fuck with him when y'all got back home. Though, No, 876 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 1: why that's weird. 877 00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:31,920 Speaker 2: That's too much for me, that's too much for you. 878 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,520 Speaker 2: I'm not judging him, but it's just too much for me. 879 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not gonna lie. 880 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: I would definitely think it was weird, but I would 881 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,760 Speaker 1: try to, like, you know, make him feel more comfortable. 882 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 2: About it if he was. 883 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 1: Now, I make him feel comfortable about that ship, because 884 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: you shouldn't feel comfortable having all no female throng. But 885 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,680 Speaker 1: this is how I feel though. These niggas have so 886 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 1: much bad ship going on for them. It's a lot 887 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,720 Speaker 1: of wait Listen, these niggas. 888 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:56,880 Speaker 2: Are These niggas are trash. 889 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: So if I be the perfect nigga and the worst 890 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 1: thing about you is that you wear throngs, let's get 891 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: into it, buddy. 892 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 2: I can handle a little. No, I'm not gonna lie, y'all. 893 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 2: That's a lie a g stream with a ring. Oh 894 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 2: and what if he had way if he put on 895 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 2: some boots too with. 896 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 1: Some friends, I got some French boots too. Bit No, 897 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: I would love it absolutely. I said, it's a lot 898 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,359 Speaker 1: of ship I could get into. I'm definitely okay, well 899 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: pushing the envelope when it comes to gender roles and 900 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 1: ship like that, especially you know in the bedroom or whatever. 901 00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,520 Speaker 1: I don't have no problem, you know, messing with the 902 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,640 Speaker 1: booty and know all that type of ship. But you 903 00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: want to wear you want to wear? If I come 904 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,239 Speaker 1: home and you got on my mother's sucking lunch a right, 905 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,400 Speaker 1: I don't have an issue with it. 906 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 2: So you can't wear my lunch be surprised. 907 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 1: But yeah, I would really have a serious problem if 908 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: I came home and see my nigga in the mirror 909 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,799 Speaker 1: with my throng and my roll bone, I would have. 910 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 2: An issue with it. 911 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,320 Speaker 1: I think I would have an issue if he was 912 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 1: trying to hide it from me. But what if he 913 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 1: is trying to hide it and you just walk in 914 00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 1: on you. Now, if he tries to hide it, I'm like, 915 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 1: why are you trying to hide this from me? Because 916 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm cool withitty, because I'm cool with it. Yeah, that's 917 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 1: wild that you cool. I would be cool with it 918 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 1: as long as you don't. Now, I don't want a 919 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: man that wants to be a woman. I wants to 920 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 1: dress like put makeup on and wigs on and stuff 921 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: like that. Like I'm not necessarily into like men that 922 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,839 Speaker 1: are in drag, if that makes sense. That's not That's 923 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:30,920 Speaker 1: something I'm not personally into. But if you want to 924 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 1: wear like women's paties, I think that's funny. 925 00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,879 Speaker 2: I think it's funny. Shit funny bout this shit? Why 926 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 2: the fuck you want the thong? Why did you know 927 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 2: how uncomfortable thongs? 928 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:40,680 Speaker 1: Like? 929 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 2: Do niggas really know how uncomfortable? Thongs. Are they really 930 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:46,400 Speaker 2: like it in that booty hole? Why would you know? 931 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. Let me show you what 932 00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 2: I saw. 933 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 1: I saw a video today of a man he had 934 00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 1: stuffed his balls in his booty hole. 935 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 2: How I don't know, long ass ball he stuffed his 936 00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 2: balls in his booty hole? Look you look, I don't 937 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 2: fuck no, I'm sorry, y'all. I just saw the dre 938 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 2: video over God pushing his balls out of his ass? 939 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:11,800 Speaker 2: Why did he do that? 940 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 1: You know? 941 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 2: Sometimes when they to they dig. Maybe that's what they 942 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:16,000 Speaker 2: do sometimes, I don't know. 943 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: I feel like they gotta be uncomfortable though, and they 944 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:22,480 Speaker 1: gotta hurt because balls are so sensitive. Balls are very big, 945 00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,479 Speaker 1: That's what they tell me. That's why you gotta suck 946 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:28,000 Speaker 1: it gently. 947 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:34,320 Speaker 2: We be sucking it in and you gotta be tists 948 00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 2: are very very Anyways. 949 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: I feel like if my man want to put on 950 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 1: the throne, it would kind of like freak me out 951 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: at first. 952 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 2: But if I really liked him, if I really like 953 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,840 Speaker 2: a nigga, I can work I can work through I can't, No, 954 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,360 Speaker 2: I can I can't work through anything. 955 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 1: It's a lot of ship I could work through, but 956 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,799 Speaker 1: it's some things that is just not negotiable. 957 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 2: And you wearing a throe it's one of. 958 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,239 Speaker 1: The Well, let us know how y'all feel about men 959 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 1: wearing females undergarments. 960 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,000 Speaker 2: Is that a deal breaker for you? Could you deal 961 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:11,120 Speaker 2: with it? So we're gonna get into the by age. Okay, 962 00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 2: So what's your bop of the week? My box is 963 00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:21,560 Speaker 2: the box pull up the whole Non get a lady easy? Okay, 964 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 2: you know what. No, I'm not, But anyways, what about it? 965 00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 2: That is a motherfucking box. That's the number one song 966 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 2: in the world right now, and it. 967 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: Should be. 968 00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:39,000 Speaker 2: She sucked a nigga, sir. Yeah, Roddy Ridge did what 969 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,640 Speaker 2: he got to do. Honestly, I'm a big fan. I'm 970 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 2: a big fan of Roddy Rich. 971 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 1: I feel like he's gonna have longevity in the industry. 972 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 1: He's very talented. I don't know, he also plays. 973 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,360 Speaker 2: The piano, I don't know. Yeah, I just think that 974 00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 2: he's a really good artist. 975 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,840 Speaker 1: Like I just feel like he's a creative and I 976 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,759 Speaker 1: love artists that are actually creative that stuff. 977 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,560 Speaker 2: Outside the box. O good word. 978 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So I have two bots of the week this week. 979 00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,840 Speaker 1: One is gonna be dedicated to my you know, my 980 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 1: little my coat. I'll try to be culture with my 981 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: music a little bit sometimes. So I'm actually a big 982 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 1: fan of Spice. I don't know if y'all know that Spice. Yes, 983 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: I've always liked her music. So whenever she went on 984 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:21,759 Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop, I thought it was a little weird, 985 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: but I kind of understood. 986 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: It because you were a fan before. 987 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I understood it a little bit. Because she 988 00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: wanted to start bringing her music to more American audiences 989 00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,360 Speaker 1: because in Jamaica she's that bitch. So she did a 990 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: feature with a song. It's called Dumpling. It's by Stylo G. 991 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:39,320 Speaker 1: It's with her and Sean Paul and the song is fire. 992 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,359 Speaker 1: They played it when I was in Legos and I'm like, damn, 993 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: I was listening to it at home, but hearing it 994 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,919 Speaker 1: in the club is just different. So that's my first 995 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: bop of the week. It's called Dumpling by Stylo G. 996 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 1: It's featuring Spice and Sean Paul. 997 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 2: Yes, it's about bitch like because I used to fuck 998 00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 2: with Sean Spice. Bitch Spice be talking that ship on 999 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,319 Speaker 2: the track, yes, and I love that, like I love 1000 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 2: a bitch that just be talking shit like I fuck 1001 00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:05,880 Speaker 2: with spice. Yeah, I fuck with spice. 1002 00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's my first bop of the week and 1003 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 1: my second bop of the week was actually sent to 1004 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 1: me by football band. 1005 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:14,760 Speaker 2: Oh what, let's see what he's tasting music. He actually 1006 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 2: has a good tasting music. 1007 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: Now. He really likes trap music. He's very good like 1008 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: his favorite rappers like Young Doll, Like he loves shit 1009 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,440 Speaker 1: like that. But me, But he sent me an R 1010 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,520 Speaker 1: and B song and I was actually pleasantly surprised by 1011 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:30,200 Speaker 1: It's called Rehab by Brent Fayaz. I think that's how 1012 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 1: you say his fans, But I love Brent fay fans 1013 00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,640 Speaker 1: and how he say his name. He makes really good music. 1014 00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 1: He has a really soft voice. I love the tone 1015 00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 1: of his voice. But the song Rehab is basically about him. 1016 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:42,200 Speaker 1: He fucking with a bitch and he got a lot 1017 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:43,880 Speaker 1: of holes, but he just can't stop fucking with the 1018 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 1: bitch Like she a bad bitch, her pussy yankee bitch. Yeah. 1019 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:50,839 Speaker 2: Like it's just a song like he got a bitch 1020 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 2: that he just can't stop fucking with. And I guess 1021 00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,919 Speaker 2: he was trying to send me a missy dude. But anyways, Yeah, 1022 00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: that's my second to give Garfield more gritty than twenty twenty. 1023 00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:02,120 Speaker 1: I am, I'm gonna give Gardfield a little bit of 1024 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 1: credit in twenty twenty. Oh you know what I'm I'm 1025 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna read that at the end. 1026 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,600 Speaker 2: But anyways, Yeah, that's my bible. 1027 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:14,040 Speaker 1: The Week Rehab by Brent Faz and uh Dumpling by 1028 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:21,239 Speaker 1: Spice Stylogy and h Sean Paul. Okay, so we're gonna 1029 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:24,480 Speaker 1: get into the email this week. Yeah, make sure that 1030 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,360 Speaker 1: if y'all have any I'm sorry, y'all, I'm trying to 1031 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 1: multi test. Yeah, m just make sure if y'all have 1032 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,240 Speaker 1: any questions that y'all would like for us to answer, 1033 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,040 Speaker 1: make sure you send it to ask poor Minds at 1034 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:38,880 Speaker 1: gmail dot com and we will happily read your. 1035 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,279 Speaker 2: Questions on the shows. Okay, I put you know, I 1036 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,080 Speaker 2: had to put mine in my room because I couldn't 1037 00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:44,839 Speaker 2: put it on silent. 1038 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, y'all, so we have a question this week. 1039 00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:51,359 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make sure she's okay saying her name. 1040 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 2: I don't think we should say her name because I 1041 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 2: feel like I read something that said don't. 1042 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:54,839 Speaker 1: Say my name. 1043 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:56,960 Speaker 2: Oh Okay, I read I'm wonna say it, she said, 1044 00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:57,400 Speaker 2: just call me. 1045 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:57,759 Speaker 1: Damn. 1046 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 2: Oh, okay, hey you guys, I love your show. Just 1047 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,320 Speaker 2: call me. Danielle started listening around April and I haven't stopped. 1048 00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: I have a question for the poor girls. I have 1049 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: a friend who always wants to be included in things, 1050 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 1: and it's very pushy about it. She considers herself my 1051 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,560 Speaker 1: best friend, but I've been honest in the past and 1052 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,839 Speaker 1: saying she's not mine. I have few friends, and out 1053 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,880 Speaker 1: of all of them, she will most likely be the 1054 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: one I take places. 1055 00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 2: I take places the most due to her entries. 1056 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,319 Speaker 1: The problem is she doesn't do her hair at all. 1057 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,280 Speaker 1: Oh It's been like this since we were in high school. 1058 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 1: At twenty two now, she wears her natural hair out, 1059 00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:38,319 Speaker 1: but that's not the issue. The issue is Slash are 1060 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:41,239 Speaker 1: that she doesn't comb it, stolid or fixed it up. 1061 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 2: She literally has a. 1062 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:44,840 Speaker 1: Bird's nest on her head at all times, and she 1063 00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 1: doesn't care. Slash think it's a problem. I've tried many 1064 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,480 Speaker 1: approaches to get her to at least do her edges 1065 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: or shape it, but she think it looks fine. The 1066 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:55,960 Speaker 1: thing that doesn't click is that we all go out 1067 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: together and She complains that men hit on me and 1068 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 1: not her. She has a boy and because of that 1069 00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,200 Speaker 1: think she can continue to look that way. He doesn't 1070 00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: keep up with himself either. I want to tell her 1071 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,400 Speaker 1: it's because she looks disheveled, but again, she thinks she 1072 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 1: looks fine. If a nigga wanted me to bring some homegirls, 1073 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 1: I could not bring her because they would roast her, 1074 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,479 Speaker 1: although she would be offended if I didn't. I would 1075 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,200 Speaker 1: defend her, obviously, but it's hard when I would agree 1076 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 1: with what they're saying. 1077 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 2: Her hair looks really bad, and to add to this, 1078 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,439 Speaker 2: she can't dress. Oh my god. I try my best. 1079 00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,200 Speaker 2: I'm sorry your life, trying to lavi y'all for it. Try. 1080 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,319 Speaker 1: I try my best, y'all and mention tips when I can, 1081 00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: but she doesn't listen. It's been years and I don't 1082 00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 1: know what to do besides continue to look for a 1083 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 1: pretty friend who puts herself together that I can stunt 1084 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:47,040 Speaker 1: with my other friends out the question to be to 1085 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:51,800 Speaker 1: be honest. Oh, but please help, because I don't know 1086 00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,840 Speaker 1: how to continue not including I mean, I don't know 1087 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:58,280 Speaker 1: how to continue not including her in things, mostly because 1088 00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 1: she walks around looking homeless. Have y'all ever had a 1089 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,760 Speaker 1: friend who didn't match up to your standards of looks, 1090 00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 1: or at least have a friend who literally was delusionable 1091 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 1: delusional about how she looks. Thank you and I loved y'all. 1092 00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 2: Well, let me let me be the first. I'm gonna 1093 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:13,600 Speaker 2: answer it first because I'm kind of on both ends. 1094 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:15,799 Speaker 1: You always answer it first, don't act like you don't. 1095 00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: Never always do these, Okay, So this. 1096 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,600 Speaker 2: Is how I feel because I'm on both ends of it. 1097 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:21,839 Speaker 2: Because I'm not gonna lie, bitch. 1098 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:23,560 Speaker 1: Like I told y'all the first half of the year 1099 00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: last year, I was very depressed and I was going 1100 00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 1: through shit. 1101 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:26,239 Speaker 2: Bitch. 1102 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 1: Dre had to pull me aside, like, bitch, you need 1103 00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 1: to do something like you walking around here looking a 1104 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:34,320 Speaker 1: mask because I was having my moments, bitch, But so 1105 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:34,840 Speaker 1: I do. 1106 00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 2: So I felt I've been that friend. I'm not gonna lie. 1107 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,279 Speaker 1: I've been that friend with a walking around with your 1108 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 1: hair and disheveled and look in the mess. 1109 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 2: Bitch. 1110 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,840 Speaker 1: My wigs wasn't tight, my clothes wasn't right, my makeup 1111 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:48,120 Speaker 1: was sloppy. I was just but like you know, when 1112 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: she pulled me to the side and let me know that. 1113 00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 1: Then that's when we got to talk about me just 1114 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: being depressed, and I just wasn't. 1115 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 2: In my right mind. 1116 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: So I feel like one on her end, maybe just 1117 00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 1: have a conversation, cause she might be going through something, 1118 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, you know, when you 1119 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:04,719 Speaker 1: look good, you feel. 1120 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:05,439 Speaker 2: Good, you know what I'm saying. 1121 00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:07,960 Speaker 4: So maybe she doesn't feel good. So I feel like, 1122 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,919 Speaker 4: maybe you should have a lot these years she said. 1123 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 4: I'm just I know what I was saying. 1124 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:19,520 Speaker 2: She said it being along time, been willing one. 1125 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 1: Maybe have a serious conversation with her for one. Now 1126 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:27,680 Speaker 1: me playing that was advocate bitches. I'm gonna tell y'all 1127 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 1: right now. I love there's nothing wrong with natural hair. 1128 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,880 Speaker 1: I wear my natural hair a lot, but every I 1129 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:34,239 Speaker 1: don't care. 1130 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,520 Speaker 2: I don't. 1131 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 1: I hate when people be like, oh, this is our 1132 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,880 Speaker 1: natural hair, how else are we supposed to wear it? 1133 00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 1: You still need to style your natural hair. Natural hair 1134 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:42,919 Speaker 1: needs to be taken care of. Everybody has to comb 1135 00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: their hair at the end of the day. People don't 1136 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: realize that you this is a We're in America. We 1137 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: are a very judging world. We judge you about the 1138 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,800 Speaker 1: way you look. People are gonna treat you how you 1139 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:57,280 Speaker 1: look unfortunately. So for the other end, tell your homegirl 1140 00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 1: get hers shit together, because at the end of the day. 1141 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:02,560 Speaker 2: I bring certain friends to certain places with me too, 1142 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:03,279 Speaker 2: because I get it. 1143 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,800 Speaker 1: But I talked about this that's so crazy that this 1144 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,839 Speaker 1: ended up being a question that we had this week 1145 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 1: because I was just talking to another one of my 1146 00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 1: friends yesterday about how like you literally take different I mean, 1147 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:18,879 Speaker 1: and it's kind of fucked up, but I mean it's 1148 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,840 Speaker 1: just reality, Like you have different friends for different stuff, 1149 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean honestly, Like I do have 1150 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 1: some some friends that I wouldn't take them to certain places, 1151 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,800 Speaker 1: but I have other friends that I would take certain places. 1152 00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,640 Speaker 2: And it's not nothing personal. I just feel like I 1153 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,800 Speaker 2: just know who fit what occasion. And I mean, and 1154 00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 2: it's not kind of sucks, but it's like we're just 1155 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 2: living in the world where look apart. 1156 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,960 Speaker 1: Yeah sucks, it does, but I mean, you you and 1157 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,759 Speaker 1: then like Lex said, most importantly, you know, just make 1158 00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:51,360 Speaker 1: sure you have a conversation with your friend. Like in 1159 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,520 Speaker 1: me and Lex's case, I mean, I've been knowing her 1160 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:57,600 Speaker 1: for a really long time and she always has like 1161 00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,600 Speaker 1: been into like makeup and here and. 1162 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,960 Speaker 2: All of that stuff. And when I first would why 1163 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:07,959 Speaker 2: are you laughing? Laugh bitch, I was struggling. Yeah, she's 1164 00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:10,440 Speaker 2: she's always been really really. 1165 00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:14,320 Speaker 1: That's what I was gonna But that's what I was 1166 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,799 Speaker 1: That's why I was gonna get it, Like I wasn't 1167 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 1: gonna say his name. But since you said, but yeah, 1168 00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,320 Speaker 1: she's always been really really into makeup and here. So 1169 00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:26,120 Speaker 1: lex is actually part of the reason why I took, 1170 00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,800 Speaker 1: you know, the steps that needed to learn how to 1171 00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 1: do my own makeup because she used to do her 1172 00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:32,600 Speaker 1: makeup so nice when I first met her. 1173 00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 2: So yeah, like when she. 1174 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,320 Speaker 1: Started looking crazy and stuff, she just used to be 1175 00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,120 Speaker 1: coming around looking crazy, y'all, like I. 1176 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:44,399 Speaker 2: Used to be looking crazy, like clothes, hair, just out 1177 00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:45,919 Speaker 2: of everything, just out of there. 1178 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:49,359 Speaker 1: And so I just felt like I needed to say 1179 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,359 Speaker 1: something to her because I kind of knew something had 1180 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 1: to have. 1181 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:53,880 Speaker 2: Been going on for her to be walking around like that, 1182 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:58,759 Speaker 2: because she does why are you laughing? This ship is funny? Man? 1183 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, for real, I knew it probably had to 1184 00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 1: be something going on for her to be walking around 1185 00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,759 Speaker 1: like that because she normally don't be walking around just 1186 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: looking like that. 1187 00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:11,800 Speaker 2: I was not that you were looking bad, but not 1188 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,759 Speaker 2: in a good way. But then Joe said something to 1189 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,200 Speaker 2: me too. No, Joe said something to me funny though 1190 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 2: now he said something to you and me. But that's 1191 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And he was just like, man, what's 1192 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:23,960 Speaker 2: going on with Lex? 1193 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,200 Speaker 1: Like she be looking crazy? He was like, you always 1194 00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,759 Speaker 1: come around, you be looking polished. He was like, can 1195 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,480 Speaker 1: she just be looking crazy as ill? He was like, 1196 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,680 Speaker 1: y'all have a brand? And so when I talk to her, 1197 00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 1: that's kind of what I talked, like, you have to 1198 00:51:36,880 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: find a nice approach to you know what I mean. 1199 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,840 Speaker 1: I felt like that was a good way to approach 1200 00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,640 Speaker 1: the situation as well, because yeah, you my friend. But 1201 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:46,160 Speaker 1: then bitch, also, we do business together. We got a 1202 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:47,799 Speaker 1: lot of stuff that were trying to do. I can't 1203 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 1: be coming place these looking cute and polished and you 1204 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,800 Speaker 1: coming up in here looking well, well, they don't have 1205 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: a business together talking No, no, no, I'm not saying 1206 00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 1: that they do. I was just saying within finding her approach, 1207 00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 1: maybe trying to find some type of good appro right 1208 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,360 Speaker 1: to make her feel okay about it, not like you 1209 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,840 Speaker 1: just attacking her for how she looking, you know what 1210 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,879 Speaker 1: I mean. It's like you gotta be careful though, because 1211 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,160 Speaker 1: like what if she feels good like that, Like what 1212 00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: if she looks in the mirror, like if that she 1213 00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:12,960 Speaker 1: said she does. 1214 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:13,960 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 1215 00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: So that's the difference because I was looking in the 1216 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 1: mirror and I was unhappy and I was depressed as fun, 1217 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:20,800 Speaker 1: and I was going through it. So I needed that, 1218 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: like get back on your ship because you were a 1219 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 1: bad bitch, you know what I'm saying, And a bitch 1220 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:27,640 Speaker 1: bounced back and I came back when you know you did. 1221 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: And now I can take her places again, you know, 1222 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:37,000 Speaker 1: because I was at home now. But they used to 1223 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:37,799 Speaker 1: be like real licks. 1224 00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:38,800 Speaker 2: I'd be like, I don't. 1225 00:52:40,360 --> 00:52:42,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I wouldn't say that. But that's 1226 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 1: the difference, though, because that girl is looking in the mirror, 1227 00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:46,759 Speaker 1: she feels like she looks good. So that's why it's 1228 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 1: gonna be harder for her situation. Yeah, So I feel 1229 00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:52,880 Speaker 1: like I just feel like, leave it all alone. No, 1230 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:55,120 Speaker 1: don't leave her a longest. I mean, obviously you still want. 1231 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,480 Speaker 2: To be friends, but just don't bring it. She don't 1232 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 2: look like did you listen to the business, You know 1233 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:01,520 Speaker 2: you did it? 1234 00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,320 Speaker 1: She said that in the beginning, she says, she be 1235 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,879 Speaker 1: telling people that she's my best friend, but she's not mine. 1236 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 2: But they're still cool. But they obviously ain't say. Let 1237 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:11,759 Speaker 2: me tell you something. At the end of the day, 1238 00:53:11,760 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 2: you're a grown woman. You're your own person. 1239 00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:15,920 Speaker 1: If I don't invite if I don't want to invite 1240 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,320 Speaker 1: somebody somewhere, guess what, I just don't invite them. Like 1241 00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: like Dreda said, we have certain friends that you Everybody 1242 00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:23,400 Speaker 1: has certain friends. 1243 00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 2: That they bring to certain places. 1244 00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,319 Speaker 1: Like it. Plenty of times I see my other friends. 1245 00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 1: They be somewhere they didn't bring me because that's probably 1246 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:32,640 Speaker 1: like not my scene or bitch, I don't. I don't know, bitch, 1247 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: I might be too boogie for someone I'm may not 1248 00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,080 Speaker 1: be boogie enough, you know, But it don't hurt my 1249 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:38,239 Speaker 1: feelings because I don't. 1250 00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,200 Speaker 2: You can't get all caught up in that. 1251 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:41,880 Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, I feel like, 1252 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,160 Speaker 1: if you don't feel comfortable bringing her places, then don't 1253 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:47,080 Speaker 1: simply just don't do it, because I know how these 1254 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:49,600 Speaker 1: niggas are. So for you to say, like niggas gonna 1255 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 1: be roasting her, I wouldn't even I don't even put 1256 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:53,080 Speaker 1: my friends in that situation. 1257 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah, without her. 1258 00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:57,200 Speaker 1: But that goes back to what I said earlier about 1259 00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 1: just knowing who's appropriate sometimes to take to certain shep 1260 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I feel like it's certain 1261 00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 1: times I might go certain places. I know I might 1262 00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:08,719 Speaker 1: not be able to take a certain person or you 1263 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:09,040 Speaker 1: know what I. 1264 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,839 Speaker 2: Thought I was about to say, bitch, I was like, bitch, 1265 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:15,279 Speaker 2: my past is good everywhere. Bitch now, so it's still 1266 00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:18,840 Speaker 2: for them nine months it was like six now it 1267 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,520 Speaker 2: seemed like nine. Well it was about eight because I 1268 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:23,800 Speaker 2: didn't get my shit together to around my birthday. I 1269 00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:28,719 Speaker 2: was like, whoa, okay, bitch, that's enough. See that's enough. 1270 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 2: Being literally she was a poor girl. Oh girl, But 1271 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,600 Speaker 2: I bounced back, but she did, she bounced bad. I'm 1272 00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,359 Speaker 2: back on my my bad bitch shit. So yeah, I mean, 1273 00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:43,840 Speaker 2: I just I do feel like you need to have 1274 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 2: maybe try to have one. 1275 00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,960 Speaker 1: The reason I say let it go is because the 1276 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,359 Speaker 1: reason why I guess I said just stop fucking with her, 1277 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,240 Speaker 1: because it's not no. I mean, it's really no common 1278 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: ground to come to come to between them. I feel 1279 00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:58,960 Speaker 1: like she's already had numerous conversations with the girls. She 1280 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,719 Speaker 1: already don't let her know, you know what I mean, 1281 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: she'd be looking crazy. She doesn't try to help her 1282 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:04,680 Speaker 1: do her hair, she doesn't try to help her switch 1283 00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 1: up her style, and she like. 1284 00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:07,640 Speaker 2: That, and the girls just don't want to do it. 1285 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: So it's like if she just don't want to do it, 1286 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: but then she's constantly hurt and her feelings is constantly 1287 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,399 Speaker 1: hurt because you don't want to invite her nowhere. But Beach, 1288 00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,560 Speaker 1: I told you, I don't bring you nowhere because you'll 1289 00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 1: be looking a mess. 1290 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,759 Speaker 2: And so where do we go from here? 1291 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,719 Speaker 1: But I will tell you this, sister, don't be looking like, oh, 1292 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make I want some friends just because they're pretty, 1293 00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,440 Speaker 1: because those be the worst house to be friends. You 1294 00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 1: don't link up with people just because you think they 1295 00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 1: look good and y'all can roll together, because that's gonna 1296 00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:32,160 Speaker 1: be a. 1297 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 2: Disaster as well. 1298 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:37,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't have friends with people because of like 1299 00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:40,080 Speaker 1: social staties and all that type of Bullshet is always 1300 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 1: a bad people. Don't a lot of people especially that's 1301 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,840 Speaker 1: in like a certain circle or beaches there look a 1302 00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: certain way, then be the worst type of friends to them. 1303 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:51,960 Speaker 2: House be all out for seals. So you know, just 1304 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,319 Speaker 2: be smart. Yes, so, yes, that's our advice. I hope 1305 00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:59,480 Speaker 2: he helps make sure. If y'all wants your questions means 1306 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,759 Speaker 2: to give her she to get make sure. 1307 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:05,719 Speaker 1: Y'all email us at ask Poor months at gmail dot com. 1308 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,560 Speaker 2: That's a s k P. Oh you are in my 1309 00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:13,360 Speaker 2: n d s at gmail dot com. And for the 1310 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:15,160 Speaker 2: item of the week, what's your autumn of the week 1311 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 2: this week? Damn? Can you talk about your hair? Because 1312 00:56:17,800 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 2: your hair looks really good? Thanks? 1313 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 1: I really I'm not even being funny. I really like, 1314 00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:23,759 Speaker 1: I'm really gonna get me some micro link. 1315 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:24,879 Speaker 2: You are I probably am. 1316 00:56:25,120 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 1: You should and you should, but you should get it 1317 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,520 Speaker 1: while it's still cold, because then I think in the 1318 00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 1: summer it would be really really hard to maintain. Oh okay, 1319 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,480 Speaker 1: but yeah, so okay, I'll talk about them. So I 1320 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 1: got micro links, I think about two weeks ago now. 1321 00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:44,839 Speaker 1: My friend Kiki, y'all. But yeah, so Kekey has been 1322 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,839 Speaker 1: having micro links since September, so she's been having them 1323 00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 1: for like three four months, going on four months now. 1324 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:54,600 Speaker 1: And yeah, I really like how hers look. I wanted 1325 00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 1: to try something more natural because I don't know if 1326 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:58,520 Speaker 1: y'all know, but I used to wear wigs a lot, 1327 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 1: and I used to wear wigs with clothes. I don't 1328 00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,080 Speaker 1: really like frontal weeks for me because they just hard 1329 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 1: to maintain. Yeah, you have your hairline touches your and 1330 00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:12,359 Speaker 1: my hairline is kind of low, so that's another thing too. 1331 00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, frontals aren't really my thing. And I don't 1332 00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,480 Speaker 1: really like the way closures look anymore to me. They 1333 00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,120 Speaker 1: just don't look they don't they don't look natural, they don't. 1334 00:57:20,680 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 1: They don't do it for me either. So I got 1335 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:26,160 Speaker 1: I had a wig recently and it had a closure 1336 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:27,960 Speaker 1: on it, and I just was not feeling how the 1337 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:29,480 Speaker 1: wig was looking. So I'm like, Okay, maybe I need 1338 00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 1: to just go back to like more natural looking hairstyle. 1339 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,920 Speaker 1: So I called up the girl they did Kiki's hair, 1340 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,600 Speaker 1: and I had to go to a consultation. So you 1341 00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,440 Speaker 1: have to get a consultation if you want to get 1342 00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,840 Speaker 1: micro links. You can't just be like, oh, I want 1343 00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:45,800 Speaker 1: to get microlinks. They have to make sure your hair 1344 00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:48,880 Speaker 1: is long enough around the whole perimeter of your head 1345 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 1: to be able to like put it in a ponytail. 1346 00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 2: And all that type of stuff. And on top of that, 1347 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 2: just the health of your hair because if your. 1348 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,120 Speaker 1: Hair is fried and died and fucked up, it's not 1349 00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,000 Speaker 1: a good idea for you to get micro links because 1350 00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 1: so much of your natural hair is gonna be out. 1351 00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,160 Speaker 2: So I had to go for the consultation. Consultation was 1352 00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:07,000 Speaker 2: twenty five dollars. 1353 00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:08,880 Speaker 1: Now that's one thing that I didn't like because they 1354 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:11,200 Speaker 1: didn't say that the consultation was gonna cost money. 1355 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,360 Speaker 2: And the money that I paid for the consultation did 1356 00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,760 Speaker 2: not go towards the shoh waw right. 1357 00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:18,720 Speaker 1: So if I would have known that, I probably wouldn't 1358 00:58:18,720 --> 00:58:20,880 Speaker 1: have went to the specific place that I went to. 1359 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 2: So I did the consultation a few days later. Now 1360 00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:25,320 Speaker 2: I did have some. 1361 00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 1: Hiccups with mine, but hopefully you know what I mean. 1362 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:29,880 Speaker 1: If y'all go to different people, y'all won't had the 1363 00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: same issue. But they didn't have the hair texture that 1364 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,160 Speaker 1: I need. Because when they do your consultation they tell 1365 00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,320 Speaker 1: you what type of hair you're gonna need and stuff 1366 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,960 Speaker 1: like that. I ended up needing a certain type of hair. 1367 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:40,960 Speaker 1: They didn't have it and stop. 1368 00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,000 Speaker 2: So I had to end up buying hair from the 1369 00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,440 Speaker 2: girl that Licks does promo for. 1370 00:58:47,760 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know, I feel like my install 1371 00:58:51,480 --> 00:58:53,080 Speaker 1: probably would have ended up better if I would have 1372 00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:55,320 Speaker 1: used the hair that they provide their but they didn't 1373 00:58:55,400 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: have it. 1374 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,640 Speaker 2: But all in all, for the most part, but it does. 1375 00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:01,120 Speaker 2: It does look really really natural. 1376 00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: But I'm actually getting it redone this week, y'all with 1377 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: the other hair, so I'll give y'all an update once 1378 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:09,240 Speaker 1: I get it redone with the hair that the girl provides. 1379 00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,800 Speaker 2: Okay, But I really like it is versatile. You could 1380 00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:15,440 Speaker 2: I could wear it in a bun. Is for the 1381 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:18,320 Speaker 2: people who don't know. Basically, it's like a braidless sow in. 1382 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 1: So you get regular bundle hair, just like you would 1383 00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 1: do if you're getting a sewing or you getting a 1384 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:29,160 Speaker 1: week made, and they take the tracks and they put 1385 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:32,040 Speaker 1: like these beads on them and they put them in 1386 00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:36,120 Speaker 1: between your real hair. Okay, and that's what makes it stay, 1387 00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:40,000 Speaker 1: is the bee Okay, but so much of your real 1388 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,280 Speaker 1: hair is out, you can still, like I said, it's versatile, 1389 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:43,720 Speaker 1: so you can still put your hair in a bun. 1390 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,280 Speaker 2: You can wear a middle park, you can flip. 1391 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 1: It to the side, were like a little side kind 1392 00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:50,680 Speaker 1: of part. Like it's a very versatile hairstyle. But like 1393 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 1: I said, you know it I feel like it's better 1394 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:54,760 Speaker 1: for the winter months, in my opinion if you have 1395 00:59:54,920 --> 00:59:58,440 Speaker 1: natural hair, because when you get hot outside. 1396 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:01,680 Speaker 2: Your real hair gonna be curling the okay, so yeah, 1397 01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:02,800 Speaker 2: but I really like you. 1398 01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Well, I think I'm gonna try it because y'all know, 1399 01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm frontal with mommy bitch. 1400 01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 2: I love my fucking frontal And your head is kind 1401 01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,320 Speaker 2: of small to but you make it work. 1402 01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,840 Speaker 1: I make it work, beach, I make it fucking But 1403 01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:15,480 Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of hair. My hair don't 1404 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,480 Speaker 1: come down like that. I have a small forehead, but 1405 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,520 Speaker 1: my hair don't come down like And I'm not gonna lie. 1406 01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:23,080 Speaker 1: My wig is fucked up right now. But yesterday I 1407 01:00:23,200 --> 01:00:25,440 Speaker 1: put my front on so fucking good, y'all. I was 1408 01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: very proud of myself. 1409 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm frontal with bad. We didn't go no 1410 01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:33,680 Speaker 2: fucking where. Oh sorry, r pitch, y'all. I'm dirty. I'm 1411 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 2: not gonna lie to y'all. I'm taking a shower today. 1412 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:40,160 Speaker 2: So yes, y'all, we got a big surprise for y'all 1413 01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 2: next week, so look forward to that. I'm not kidding. 1414 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,920 Speaker 2: We do have a surprise for y'all, Like please, like, 1415 01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:48,680 Speaker 2: please be excited. To do. Please, I'm sorry. I'm just 1416 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:51,880 Speaker 2: I'm apologizing because this episode is so late. I love y'all. 1417 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 2: Thank y'all so much for sticking with us. We have 1418 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 2: a very exciting year. I'm so excited I missed y'all. 1419 01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:02,360 Speaker 2: Happy New Year, y'all. We love y'all. Is gonna be 1420 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 2: a great year for all of us. 1421 01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:07,480 Speaker 1: And thank you to everybody that shares our podcast with people, 1422 01:01:07,680 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 1: And thank you to everybody. 1423 01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:10,760 Speaker 2: Like I always say this every week, but. 1424 01:01:10,880 --> 01:01:15,080 Speaker 1: Y'all that reposted on y'all stories, y'all, if y'all retweeted, 1425 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 1: y'all understand that word of mouth is the biggest promotion. 1426 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,280 Speaker 1: Say when y'all repost out on y'all story and y'all 1427 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,960 Speaker 1: retweeted or whatever that y'all do shared on Facebook, that 1428 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 1: means so much to me, Like y'all taking two seconds 1429 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:30,240 Speaker 1: out of your day, it means a lot because somebody 1430 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,440 Speaker 1: is gonna All it takes is one person to be like, 1431 01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:33,959 Speaker 1: oh let me see what this is about. 1432 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,000 Speaker 2: Oh I fuck with it, and we got another listener. 1433 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 1: So whether one person or ten people listening because of 1434 01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 1: y'all's post, we fuck with it either way. 1435 01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 2: So everybody that appreciates and we really really appreciate it. 1436 01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:46,720 Speaker 1: So thank y'all and shout out to everybody that always 1437 01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:50,800 Speaker 1: posts poor mind. Yeah, fuck with y'all, and yeah, hit 1438 01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,360 Speaker 1: me up. I want to know what y'all's New Year's 1439 01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:54,600 Speaker 1: goals are. I really I love hearing from y'all, like 1440 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,880 Speaker 1: when y'all send me messages that really makes my fucking day. 1441 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:03,720 Speaker 2: Speaking of, I want to read the message that I'm sorry. 1442 01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:04,840 Speaker 2: Let me go to Instagram. 1443 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: I want to read this message because I had a 1444 01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,600 Speaker 1: fan of the show write me this message and it 1445 01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,960 Speaker 1: was just really really really really fucking sweet. So let 1446 01:02:13,040 --> 01:02:15,400 Speaker 1: me read what the message did, y'all, and I want 1447 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:16,520 Speaker 1: to just shout her out. 1448 01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 2: Actually I can't because it's gone. Why is it going? 1449 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:21,920 Speaker 2: I don't know. I thought I saved it. 1450 01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:26,160 Speaker 1: Damn well, i'ma I'm gonna save it for next week. 1451 01:02:26,400 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 1: Hold on, let me let me pause it real quick 1452 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:28,880 Speaker 1: and try to find a y'all. 1453 01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 2: Hold please, Okay, I'm back, y'all. I found it. 1454 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,560 Speaker 1: So this is a message I have received from a 1455 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:40,280 Speaker 1: proactive on Instagram, and it said you're so humble you 1456 01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: don't give yourself enough of the accolades and love that 1457 01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:45,600 Speaker 1: you give sometimes when you speak about your co host 1458 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:49,000 Speaker 1: while taping your podcast. But baby, I'm here to tell 1459 01:02:49,080 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 1: you that my daughter and I love, love, love you 1460 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,240 Speaker 1: to life. We see your beauty, we hear your humility, 1461 01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:57,959 Speaker 1: and this will take you places you've yet to see, 1462 01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,480 Speaker 1: not because of your beauty or your brains, because you 1463 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:01,720 Speaker 1: have a heart and. 1464 01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:05,080 Speaker 2: A big ass and big tds. Keep minding the business 1465 01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:07,120 Speaker 2: that pays you and doing what comes natural for you. 1466 01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:11,240 Speaker 2: Just leap. Just wanted to share some honest words from 1467 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 2: one of your season stands. So that's one thing I 1468 01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:15,280 Speaker 2: am gonna work on. 1469 01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:17,960 Speaker 1: I feel like toot my own horn a little more 1470 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:21,080 Speaker 1: this year and being more proud of myself, Yeah, standing 1471 01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 1: in myself. So thank you, honestly, Tiffany. That message meant 1472 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,080 Speaker 1: a lot to me. Like I was on vacation when 1473 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 1: I read that, and it just made me so fucking happy. 1474 01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,960 Speaker 1: So all the people out there that have recognized my 1475 01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:33,520 Speaker 1: growth and Drea's growth and just been sticking it out 1476 01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:37,640 Speaker 1: to us with us our season stands, the season poor. 1477 01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,200 Speaker 2: Girls, the people appreciate the poor boys, and the people 1478 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:41,880 Speaker 2: that have been here since win Down Wednesday. 1479 01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:44,760 Speaker 1: We really really, really really appreciate y'all. And we just 1480 01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,600 Speaker 1: want to risk y'all a happy new year, and guess what, 1481 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:48,320 Speaker 1: we'll see y'all. 1482 01:03:48,360 --> 01:03:52,120 Speaker 2: We'll see y'all next week. We will see y'all next week. 1483 01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: Bye,