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Speaker 1: different room and he's talking to the you know, to day,

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00:30:51,885 --> 00:30:55,965
Speaker 1: the prosecutor okay, and the cops are in there. Now,

422
00:30:56,005 --> 00:30:58,565
Speaker 1: this guy's supposed to be on my side. Hi Fi,

423
00:30:58,925 --> 00:31:02,405
Speaker 1: justly unsatisfied with this lawyer who's already given him up

424
00:31:02,405 --> 00:31:06,205
Speaker 1: for guilty, gets a recommendation for a superior or lawyer

425
00:31:06,325 --> 00:31:10,045
Speaker 1: from his new bank robber friend and sealemate. So he says,

426
00:31:10,085 --> 00:31:12,005
Speaker 1: you know, one thing that you have to tell me

427
00:31:12,085 --> 00:31:13,525
Speaker 1: is that we're going to sit down, and you have

428
00:31:13,605 --> 00:31:19,365
Speaker 1: to tell me exactly, you know, second by second what happened. Okay,

429
00:31:19,405 --> 00:31:21,165
Speaker 1: So I basically told him the same thing, and I

430
00:31:21,245 --> 00:31:24,005
Speaker 1: just told you, and he says, yeah, you know, it

431
00:31:24,045 --> 00:31:26,845
Speaker 1: says you know, I think we've got something here. You know,

432
00:31:27,285 --> 00:31:30,645
Speaker 1: later later I found out that you know, the cop

433
00:31:30,765 --> 00:31:34,765
Speaker 1: that that arrested me, you know, it was a rookie

434
00:31:35,605 --> 00:31:38,325
Speaker 1: and they were giving him the carler. You know, now

435
00:31:38,405 --> 00:31:42,405
Speaker 1: my suspect is a I'm suspicious. Up to this point, somebody,

436
00:31:42,525 --> 00:31:48,365
Speaker 1: somebody dropped the dime. Arming HiFi believes that someone dropped

437
00:31:48,405 --> 00:31:51,845
Speaker 1: a dime on him, and at this moment, sitting in

438
00:31:51,885 --> 00:31:56,485
Speaker 1: an Ohio jail, he doesn't know who, but realizes my

439
00:31:56,565 --> 00:31:59,565
Speaker 1: dad is a possibility. I mean the first question, you think,

440
00:32:00,245 --> 00:32:03,925
Speaker 1: did I drop a dime on him? Yeah? Yeah? And

441
00:32:03,965 --> 00:32:11,805
Speaker 1: then he didn't. And I mean, that's the I mean.

442
00:32:11,805 --> 00:32:15,725
Speaker 1: And that was really ugly, Steph, to think that my

443
00:32:15,885 --> 00:32:20,325
Speaker 1: partner kish It thought that I dropped a dime on him.

444
00:32:21,125 --> 00:32:24,285
Speaker 1: That's how ugly it was, That's how sad it was.

445
00:32:26,165 --> 00:32:28,805
Speaker 1: High fives in jail for a month. He puts up

446
00:32:28,845 --> 00:32:32,525
Speaker 1: twenty five thousand dollars for bail, plus ten thousand up

447
00:32:32,525 --> 00:32:35,725
Speaker 1: front for his new lawyer, and he spent six thousand

448
00:32:35,765 --> 00:32:39,925
Speaker 1: already for the previous inadequate lawyer. So he's already out

449
00:32:39,965 --> 00:32:44,885
Speaker 1: forty thousand and he hasn't even gone to trial. Now. Thankfully,

450
00:32:45,045 --> 00:32:49,245
Speaker 1: the superior lawyer recommended by the bank robber wins hi

451
00:32:49,325 --> 00:32:57,165
Speaker 1: Fi his freedom, but he's in enormous debt. In desperation

452
00:32:57,245 --> 00:33:00,405
Speaker 1: to pay back his legal debt, Hi Fi sets up

453
00:33:00,405 --> 00:33:05,445
Speaker 1: a trip with the Mexican cartel and his family pressed.

454
00:33:05,525 --> 00:33:08,045
Speaker 1: Sure's high fight to work with his brother in law

455
00:33:08,325 --> 00:33:11,565
Speaker 1: on the trip. Okay, And I've done business with him

456
00:33:11,605 --> 00:33:14,125
Speaker 1: before before, and he was three, didn't have a good tractor.

457
00:33:14,365 --> 00:33:17,525
Speaker 1: I've lost product with him before. But being family and

458
00:33:17,605 --> 00:33:19,925
Speaker 1: people in the family are begging me, I listen, give

459
00:33:20,005 --> 00:33:21,965
Speaker 1: him a no, no, the chance you know you'll make

460
00:33:22,005 --> 00:33:25,525
Speaker 1: good and all that I got the trip together, and

461
00:33:25,645 --> 00:33:28,965
Speaker 1: you know, Mexican Mexican cartels, we know, you know, they

462
00:33:29,045 --> 00:33:32,605
Speaker 1: don't they don't bullshit around, you know. And I felt

463
00:33:32,605 --> 00:33:34,805
Speaker 1: confident that I could turn you know, turn it over

464
00:33:35,005 --> 00:33:37,285
Speaker 1: and pay him back and all that. But next thing

465
00:33:37,325 --> 00:33:40,765
Speaker 1: I know is that, you know, these people telling me

466
00:33:40,805 --> 00:33:46,685
Speaker 1: that they lost the trip. The trip goes terribly wrong.

467
00:33:47,405 --> 00:33:50,645
Speaker 1: Hi Fi's brother in law and associate end up losing

468
00:33:50,845 --> 00:33:55,045
Speaker 1: the Mexican cartel's pot or betraying high Fight, depending how

469
00:33:55,045 --> 00:33:58,725
Speaker 1: we look at it. And the Mexican cartels pot was

470
00:33:58,725 --> 00:34:02,685
Speaker 1: worth four hundred and fifty thousand dollars worth over eight

471
00:34:02,765 --> 00:34:08,085
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars in today's money, leaving High Fi massively

472
00:34:08,125 --> 00:34:13,725
Speaker 1: in debt to the Mexican cartel. So Hi Fi meets

473
00:34:13,805 --> 00:34:16,525
Speaker 1: up with the two traders to figure out what to do.

474
00:34:17,005 --> 00:34:19,045
Speaker 1: You know. So I'm telling, I says, listen, you know,

475
00:34:19,045 --> 00:34:21,885
Speaker 1: I said, we've got to come up with a payment

476
00:34:22,005 --> 00:34:24,965
Speaker 1: on this. Maybe I can negotiate them down, or we've

477
00:34:24,965 --> 00:34:27,485
Speaker 1: got to start paying them back. You know. So this

478
00:34:27,645 --> 00:34:30,685
Speaker 1: other guy that with him, you know, I says, he says,

479
00:34:30,725 --> 00:34:33,445
Speaker 1: what you know, you want war, We'll give you war,

480
00:34:34,245 --> 00:34:36,925
Speaker 1: I said, war. He says, you know right there, and

481
00:34:36,965 --> 00:34:38,885
Speaker 1: then I said, okay, you know, these guys, these guys

482
00:34:38,885 --> 00:34:42,845
Speaker 1: are out of their minds. We don't deal in those parameters,

483
00:34:42,965 --> 00:34:45,285
Speaker 1: you know, like like like they're talking about, you know,

484
00:34:45,685 --> 00:34:48,925
Speaker 1: it's all gentlemen and handshakes and all that. I felt like,

485
00:34:49,005 --> 00:34:51,005
Speaker 1: you know, I said, okay, you know, because I'm capable

486
00:34:51,045 --> 00:34:53,045
Speaker 1: of I was going to waste them right there. And

487
00:34:53,085 --> 00:34:56,045
Speaker 1: then well then I said, okay, you know, if I

488
00:34:56,165 --> 00:34:58,565
Speaker 1: do that, then then but I go to jail for

489
00:34:59,045 --> 00:35:01,885
Speaker 1: a couple of low lives. Hi Fi is referring to

490
00:35:01,965 --> 00:35:05,845
Speaker 1: his brother in law and his brother in law's associate. Now,

491
00:35:05,885 --> 00:35:09,965
Speaker 1: ultimately hi Fi is responsible for the product, and these

492
00:35:10,005 --> 00:35:14,045
Speaker 1: guys put hi Fi's life on the line. He severs

493
00:35:14,165 --> 00:35:17,965
Speaker 1: all contact with them and never talked to them. I

494
00:35:18,045 --> 00:35:21,965
Speaker 1: never contacted them and blacklisted them. And that didn't go

495
00:35:22,005 --> 00:35:24,725
Speaker 1: all the well, because you know, my family's going what

496
00:35:24,845 --> 00:35:27,765
Speaker 1: happened and that, you know, I said, well, you know,

497
00:35:27,925 --> 00:35:30,205
Speaker 1: let's let's keep it that way. I don't want anything

498
00:35:30,245 --> 00:35:33,365
Speaker 1: to do with this guy. Ever. Again, what ended up

499
00:35:33,365 --> 00:35:35,845
Speaker 1: happening to these guys is the guy that once said

500
00:35:35,845 --> 00:35:38,285
Speaker 1: that he wanted war, he got shot by his own

501
00:35:38,325 --> 00:35:42,125
Speaker 1: people killed and the guy that you know that that

502
00:35:42,365 --> 00:35:45,205
Speaker 1: betrayed me family member. He ended up going to jail

503
00:35:45,245 --> 00:35:48,165
Speaker 1: and he died in jail. The karmar Karma is a bitch,

504
00:35:48,245 --> 00:35:54,565
Speaker 1: isn't it. Now This sounds brutal, but remember Hi Fi

505
00:35:54,845 --> 00:36:00,245
Speaker 1: is the son of concentration camp survivors, Holocaust freedom fighters,

506
00:36:00,725 --> 00:36:05,325
Speaker 1: plus he's a Vietnam Vet. Furthermore, Hi Fi got into

507
00:36:05,285 --> 00:36:10,485
Speaker 1: smuggling as a bodyguard for a reason. He excels at

508
00:36:10,605 --> 00:36:15,205
Speaker 1: keeping people safe, and his brother in law's deadly betrayal

509
00:36:15,845 --> 00:36:19,285
Speaker 1: has just turned Hi Fi into a bullseye for the

510
00:36:19,325 --> 00:36:23,925
Speaker 1: Mexican cartel. I had met with the cartel, you know,

511
00:36:24,045 --> 00:36:27,605
Speaker 1: in mid Manhattan, and I thought I wasn't going to

512
00:36:27,645 --> 00:36:29,725
Speaker 1: walk out it there. But but I had back up.

513
00:36:29,805 --> 00:36:33,005
Speaker 1: I said, listening, anything happens to me, you know, because

514
00:36:33,205 --> 00:36:35,885
Speaker 1: you know, I had guys look look looking out for

515
00:36:35,965 --> 00:36:39,085
Speaker 1: me in case something did happen. You know, we're going

516
00:36:39,125 --> 00:36:43,245
Speaker 1: to escalate the meeting, you know. But nothing happened. He says, Okay,

517
00:36:43,285 --> 00:36:46,405
Speaker 1: you know, listen, because give me time to work this out,

518
00:36:46,925 --> 00:36:50,085
Speaker 1: you know, and I'll make good on it. Then I did, okay,

519
00:36:50,125 --> 00:36:53,925
Speaker 1: but it took me a long time. Now always spectacular

520
00:36:54,005 --> 00:36:57,205
Speaker 1: at his job, Hi Fi made a deal with a

521
00:36:57,325 --> 00:37:02,285
Speaker 1: Mexican cartel and after ten years of arduous work, repaid

522
00:37:02,445 --> 00:37:05,685
Speaker 1: his debt. And he tells me at the end of

523
00:37:05,725 --> 00:37:14,765
Speaker 1: it all, he's not afraid of who's behind him. But

524
00:37:14,885 --> 00:37:18,565
Speaker 1: along with the casualty of colleagues, the Mexican cartel's pot,

525
00:37:19,005 --> 00:37:23,125
Speaker 1: and ten years of high stakes debt, was the loss

526
00:37:23,165 --> 00:37:26,565
Speaker 1: of the friendship between High Fi and my dad. We

527
00:37:26,805 --> 00:37:32,605
Speaker 1: were great business partners, aren't friends for a good decade.

528
00:37:32,805 --> 00:37:36,725
Speaker 1: But you know, when things weren solved for whatever reason,

529
00:37:36,885 --> 00:37:40,405
Speaker 1: you know, I tried to reach out, but rip wasn't

530
00:37:41,285 --> 00:37:44,725
Speaker 1: we see a purple I guess why didn't my dad

531
00:37:44,765 --> 00:37:50,005
Speaker 1: connect with High Fi after his bust, shame and guilt.

532
00:37:51,805 --> 00:37:55,565
Speaker 1: My dad was embarrassed he couldn't help his comrade, ashamed

533
00:37:55,565 --> 00:37:58,925
Speaker 1: he couldn't save him, so he just shut down and

534
00:37:59,005 --> 00:38:02,125
Speaker 1: buried the whole thing. Never spoke a word about this

535
00:38:02,165 --> 00:38:08,405
Speaker 1: trip to anyone, including my mom, until now. But did

536
00:38:08,445 --> 00:38:11,565
Speaker 1: you wonder why High Fi didn't come around anymore? Yeah,

537
00:38:11,565 --> 00:38:14,045
Speaker 1: because we had quit. We had quit years we could

538
00:38:14,205 --> 00:38:17,685
Speaker 1: so we we just I thought we had quit. She

539
00:38:17,725 --> 00:38:20,005
Speaker 1: didn't know this. I did this secretly. I just said

540
00:38:20,005 --> 00:38:24,885
Speaker 1: I was going going on something or something, you know,

541
00:38:24,965 --> 00:38:28,445
Speaker 1: and so I didn't like. I was always like, I

542
00:38:28,485 --> 00:38:30,925
Speaker 1: had no idea. That would have been awful. I mean

543
00:38:31,045 --> 00:38:35,325
Speaker 1: it was awful when our friend who's who introduced us

544
00:38:35,365 --> 00:38:40,005
Speaker 1: to him died, but that this was really awful, too awful,

545
00:38:40,565 --> 00:38:47,765
Speaker 1: and I I just didn't want to dump it on you. Also,

546
00:38:47,885 --> 00:38:51,965
Speaker 1: I didn't feel like you needed to carry this this burden.

547
00:38:52,965 --> 00:38:58,565
Speaker 1: Well it's a I don't know if that's a good idea. Well,

548
00:38:58,685 --> 00:39:01,125
Speaker 1: usually when you do something like that, you take your

549
00:39:01,165 --> 00:39:05,605
Speaker 1: own responsibility. You don't expect other people to be all

550
00:39:05,685 --> 00:39:10,005
Speaker 1: you out, well, especially if they don't have any money. No,

551
00:39:10,125 --> 00:39:17,405
Speaker 1: I'm I'm well aware, like irresponsible to my family. Oh

552
00:39:17,925 --> 00:39:21,165
Speaker 1: that you were, you were, you were well, he was

553
00:39:21,205 --> 00:39:23,565
Speaker 1: as close to us as anybody was. When you do

554
00:39:23,885 --> 00:39:30,005
Speaker 1: something and you get caught, it's your responsibility snitch, right,

555
00:39:30,445 --> 00:39:33,725
Speaker 1: he did what he did. He didn't snitch. Oh, he

556
00:39:34,205 --> 00:39:36,685
Speaker 1: was strapped, right, he didn't at all. It was always

557
00:39:36,765 --> 00:39:39,165
Speaker 1: true to a sword. And you were. I mean you didn't.

558
00:39:39,685 --> 00:39:42,485
Speaker 1: We didn't have any money at that point in time.

559
00:39:42,565 --> 00:39:47,325
Speaker 1: We lost the whole house. I just really went into

560
00:39:47,445 --> 00:39:51,525
Speaker 1: a deep hot that's when you went your depression, your

561
00:39:51,565 --> 00:39:55,485
Speaker 1: your long depression might be. And then and get out

562
00:39:55,525 --> 00:39:59,685
Speaker 1: of the couch. Remember you couldn't get up for months.

563
00:40:01,805 --> 00:40:05,005
Speaker 1: You just laid their watch television on the red couch

564
00:40:05,085 --> 00:40:09,005
Speaker 1: and the dan. Yeah, what do you remember you hold

565
00:40:09,005 --> 00:40:13,205
Speaker 1: about him at that time? Did you got really depressed?

566
00:40:14,245 --> 00:40:18,005
Speaker 1: Really depressed? Nine two? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know what,

567
00:40:18,045 --> 00:40:20,605
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, right, there was nothing I

568
00:40:20,645 --> 00:40:23,565
Speaker 1: could do. But that doesn't that that doesn't I mean

569
00:40:23,605 --> 00:40:25,565
Speaker 1: you were both kind of really dumb to go out

570
00:40:25,565 --> 00:40:32,245
Speaker 1: there without any without anything. Yeah, it's really dumb. That's boke.

571
00:40:34,085 --> 00:40:36,445
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I didn't mean. Yeah, well, no, it's important

572
00:40:36,565 --> 00:40:41,845
Speaker 1: to have the wherewithal to back up with your doing

573
00:40:42,685 --> 00:40:46,405
Speaker 1: in case, just in case, because like obviously you thought

574
00:40:46,445 --> 00:40:55,565
Speaker 1: you guys were never gonna get in trouble. Witnessing my

575
00:40:55,645 --> 00:40:59,205
Speaker 1: dad reveal this story to my mom was incredible and

576
00:40:59,365 --> 00:41:05,205
Speaker 1: cathartic for all of us, and we all feel lighter, free, disencumbered.

577
00:41:06,085 --> 00:41:09,925
Speaker 1: How do you feel hearing this? I feel Walter accused

578
00:41:10,005 --> 00:41:13,565
Speaker 1: himself of not being good enough. I mean, this was

579
00:41:13,725 --> 00:41:17,285
Speaker 1: like very horrible, but it happens like I you know,

580
00:41:17,965 --> 00:41:22,805
Speaker 1: I do with it? Do you wish you know? Uh? Yeah,

581
00:41:23,485 --> 00:41:27,405
Speaker 1: because it would have caused him no less suffering. You know,

582
00:41:27,805 --> 00:41:33,485
Speaker 1: actually you could have shared the suffering with him. Yeah,

583
00:41:33,525 --> 00:41:37,205
Speaker 1: well he's still suffering because she should never like think

584
00:41:37,325 --> 00:41:39,565
Speaker 1: that you should never think that you're not good enough

585
00:41:39,565 --> 00:41:42,685
Speaker 1: because she couldn't do anything. I mean, we all knew

586
00:41:42,725 --> 00:41:45,965
Speaker 1: that we couldn't do anything without a lot of money,

587
00:41:46,645 --> 00:41:52,005
Speaker 1: you know. Oh, yes, then you get more desperate, more desperate.

588
00:41:53,125 --> 00:41:57,445
Speaker 1: How do you feel? How do I feel? I feel

589
00:41:57,925 --> 00:42:04,005
Speaker 1: greatly relieved, and I feel that what I have known

590
00:42:05,525 --> 00:42:10,445
Speaker 1: most of our whole lives is how this person has

591
00:42:10,485 --> 00:42:16,605
Speaker 1: been my partner my whole life and supported me through

592
00:42:16,805 --> 00:42:22,885
Speaker 1: the ups and downs of mine and our mistakes and

593
00:42:23,205 --> 00:42:34,885
Speaker 1: has so I feel. I feel I'm managed. Telling my

594
00:42:34,965 --> 00:42:37,525
Speaker 1: mom this big secret about leaving Hi Fi on the

595
00:42:37,565 --> 00:42:43,245
Speaker 1: battlefield lifted an enormous burden from my dad. But there's

596
00:42:43,245 --> 00:42:46,245
Speaker 1: one more thing my parents want to do to release

597
00:42:46,405 --> 00:42:49,205
Speaker 1: shame and guilt and heal the wounds of the past,

598
00:42:50,845 --> 00:42:55,365
Speaker 1: apologize to Hi Fi and thank him for not turning

599
00:42:55,405 --> 00:43:00,485
Speaker 1: them in. Next week's episode is the last of this season.

600
00:43:01,325 --> 00:43:03,925
Speaker 1: We wrap up with my dad's smuggling career and I

601
00:43:04,045 --> 00:43:07,005
Speaker 1: reflect on being a smuger's daughter with one of my

602
00:43:07,085 --> 00:43:10,645
Speaker 1: closest friends who shares the same title as me, but

603
00:43:10,805 --> 00:43:16,405
Speaker 1: experienced a very different childhood, and my parents give Hi

604
00:43:16,445 --> 00:43:21,245
Speaker 1: Fi a call. I'm Rainbow Valentine. This is Disorganized Crime

605
00:43:21,485 --> 00:43:32,605
Speaker 1: Smuggler's Daughter. Disorganized Crime Smuggler's Daughter is written and recorded

606
00:43:32,605 --> 00:43:36,685
Speaker 1: by Me Rainbow Valentine. Our producers are Gabby Watts and

607
00:43:36,805 --> 00:43:41,405
Speaker 1: Taylor Church. Executive producers are Brandon Barr, Brian Lavin, Elsie

608
00:43:41,405 --> 00:43:44,605
Speaker 1: Crowley and Me at School of Humans, and Connell Burn

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00:43:44,645 --> 00:43:47,645
Speaker 1: and Charles Bryant at iHeartRadio. Our music is by Gabby

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00:43:47,725 --> 00:43:50,565
Speaker 1: Lala and Claire Campbell, with original theme by Mark Karen

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00:43:50,685 --> 00:43:54,405
Speaker 1: and Me. You can follow us online at Disorganized Crime

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00:43:54,605 --> 00:44:11,085
Speaker 1: podcast dot com. Young, Free and Groovy, making it up

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Speaker 1: swee roll along, Rolling along, far out country roll he

614
00:44:21,685 --> 00:44:25,805
Speaker 1: lit the Great in the Golden Gate, doting far up

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00:44:25,965 --> 00:44:31,285
Speaker 1: New York State, making it up as we roll along,

616
00:44:35,725 --> 00:44:42,565
Speaker 1: pulling the uby, Young rich and groovy, making it up

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Speaker 1: sweet roll along, rolling along, far out country roll, following

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00:44:53,525 --> 00:44:57,845
Speaker 1: the sunshine as we go go, chasing a darting kids

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Speaker 1: and keylows, making it up as we roll along. Writing

620
00:45:06,325 --> 00:45:13,805
Speaker 1: novel story, doing as with me, Tamble by Steeping Princess

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00:45:14,765 --> 00:45:19,325
Speaker 1: of the red wood trees. She helps us keep it real.

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00:45:20,725 --> 00:45:26,965
Speaker 1: Handshake seals the deal, wrap the sky, seal, Meal road

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Speaker 1: up these, always rolling the Doobi, Young, rich and groovy,

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00:45:35,765 --> 00:45:43,165
Speaker 1: making it up as we roll along, Rulling along Far

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Speaker 1: Country roll, Rolling along Far Country roll, Rolling along far

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Speaker 1: O Country roll