WEBVTT - Lifting the Viall with Natalie Joy 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:04.320 Hell, we suck at being newlywged Kylen Miller Key and 0:00:04.600 --> 0:00:09.680 Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. All right, welcome back to 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:13.000 help I Suck at Dating, Kaylin Dean myself here. We 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:16.000 have a very special guest, a close friend of all 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:18.880 three of us here on the podcast. She currently lives 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:22.239 in Los Angeles, California, with another friend of ours and 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:24.239 they sleep in the same bed. It's kind of weird, 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:26.599 but I get it because they're engaged. It is Natalie Joy. 0:00:26.720 --> 0:00:29.760 Ladies and gentlemen, Hello, Natalie, how are you hello? What 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:33.479 an intro? I try sometimes I try so you are 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:35.680 obviously recording at your house right now. I can tell 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:37.879 about that gold wall. What do you think about that 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:40.320 gold wall? When you first saw it? Were you intimidated 0:00:40.320 --> 0:00:41.640 by it? Did you like it? Were you like we 0:00:41.680 --> 0:00:43.159 need to change this whole thing? Or do you love it? 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:48.960 You know, with the that the previous owner had, it 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:52.680 was intimidating and a lot. But I feel like since 0:00:52.760 --> 0:00:54.760 I've come in, and when Nick first moved in, he 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.360 got it was very bachelor patty, so like then once 0:00:57.440 --> 0:00:59.680 I came in, I really homed it up yea, and 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:03.080 feel like it's survibe. He thinks it's for the packers, 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:07.280 so like, that's well. I see the green plant next 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:09.080 to it as well, so I get it. Green and gold. 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:11.360 That's nice. Yeah, we have a green chair too, so 0:01:11.400 --> 0:01:14.000 he's really pushing for it. All right, I get it. 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:17.240 So how are you? Obviously everybody knows that you are 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:22.759 currently engaged to Nick Vill do your friend of ours? 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:25.600 Is it still weird to say engaged? Like do you 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.800 still call Nick your boyfriend? Or or have you progressed 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:32.080 to like, okay, no, I know he's my fiance. I've progressed, 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.000 but it took me a minute. I would be like, oh, 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:38.120 me and my boy my fiance Nick, and then he was. 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:41.959 We'd call each other and it was really disgusting, like gross, 0:01:42.000 --> 0:01:46.360 and we'd be like, hey, fiance. So we got past that. Dan, 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:51.280 did you do that with Klein? Sure? Don't. I just say, nope, 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:54.720 just calling my girlfriend until further notice. Dean Klin is like, 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:58.680 what's up, bro? Exactly? Uh No. We talked about this 0:01:58.760 --> 0:02:02.160 actually occasionally because it is weird to say fiance. It 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:03.840 just feels like a bit pretentious. I don't know what 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.160 it is about it, but I guess as long as 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.520 you own it and You're just like, yeah, she's my fiance, 0:02:09.120 --> 0:02:11.880 but like it's just you know, until it's a lot 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:15.400 of questions, Yeah, like when's the wedding, when she get engaged, 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:17.440 and just a lot of questions that you're like, no, no, 0:02:17.480 --> 0:02:20.400 I'm just addressing the person in my life, right like 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:24.120 a boyfriend. You don't get that exactly. Yeah, that's so true, 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:28.679 but you're my girlfriend until September. So sorry, suck it, 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.959 suck it, sucker, Natalie. Are you going to be Natalie Viall? 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:37.720 I will be yes, w yes. You know, we cannot 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:41.120 change Nick's last name to his mother's maiden like some 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:45.800 friends of ours. So yeah, which his mother's maiden is Parker, 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:50.480 So Nick and Natalie Parker is like, yes, I love that. 0:02:50.960 --> 0:02:54.840 Why not Nick Joy? Nick Joy sounds pretty nice? You know, 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:58.960 I don't think he would go for that. Do you 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:04.080 think he would? Yeah? Come on, he's a progressive women's 0:03:04.200 --> 0:03:06.840 rights activist. I feel like he would be interested in 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.560 you're not taking his wife's last name. No, you're so right. 0:03:09.600 --> 0:03:12.639 I need to actually bring that back. It might make 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:15.480 great content, so like he could be down for it. 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:19.919 It's true if you take a content approach at them, 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.800 he'll definitely consider it a lot harder. He's in baby, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:27.040 He's run that by him all, you know, Natalie. So 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:28.600 I haven't talked to you guys actually in a while 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:32.320 since the engagement. I saw the post on Instagram. It 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:34.400 looked lovely. Can you guys walk us through? And I 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:36.680 know Jared was there, but could you walk us through 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.560 the whole night from your perspective, because I'm sure for 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:41.000 you it must have been a whirlwind. Yeah, it was nuts. 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:45.920 He for like, well, he was building out his studio 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:48.760 the same time that he was planning this engagement. I 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.120 found out, So he's gone a lot. He was at 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:54.840 the studio a lot and was constantly on the phone, 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:57.200 stepping out to take calls and doing all of this 0:03:57.240 --> 0:04:00.240 stuff that I assumed was to do with the studio video. 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:04.000 And then like a week before he sent me a 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:07.440 flyer that I now know his publicist made on canvas 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:12.240 for a Tom Hanks movie premiere and was like, she 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.760 thinks we should go to this. I was like, okay, cool, whatever, 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.840 and she was like you should probably get like hair 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:24.520 and makeup. But I'm like, okay, like interesting, you never 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.200 told me to do that. So let's say I bet 0:04:27.240 --> 0:04:29.560 He's never said that to you, never in his life. 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.839 He's honestly, he does the opposite. He's like, movie premieres, 0:04:31.960 --> 0:04:34.120 don't do not waste your money, don't. But he's like, 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:38.799 I'll pay for it. I'll do it. I'm like, okay, okay, 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.120 we're Tom Hanks. But he's like, no, we're gonna meet 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:44.440 Tom Hanks, like we need to do it. I'm like okay, 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:48.280 And so I get hair and makeup. The makeup artist 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:51.240 that I was actually gonna use called me maybe thirty 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.000 minutes before she's supposed to be here, and she was like, 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.719 I have food poisoning. I've been throwing up NonStop, like 0:04:56.760 --> 0:05:00.880 I can't come. It's like, okay, at least tell me 0:05:00.920 --> 0:05:03.000 you have someone else you can send, because I am 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.320 literally about to walking out the door. And so she 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:09.920 thankfully sent me someone else. We met up with Victorian 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:14.320 greg at a restaurant in Venice and had dinner with them. 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:17.320 They apparently were also going to the same movie premiere, 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:23.400 and we get there. Actually it's so funny because I 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.000 brought this up to Nick. I was like, we're in 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:26.919 the car on the way to Venice. It's like forty 0:05:26.920 --> 0:05:30.359 five minute drive from where we live, and the entire 0:05:30.440 --> 0:05:33.680 time he does not look at his phone, not once, 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:37.839 and I'm like, this is so unlike him. I'm like, 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.719 this is so weird. Why has he not checked his phone? 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:42.720 Later on I find out obviously, I was like, phone 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:44.919 is blowing up with people coming to the house or 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:48.800 like asking questions, setting up or whatever. But um so, 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:52.360 then we pull up to this random warehouse in Venice. 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:55.279 It's like an art gallery. There's a line of people. 0:05:56.279 --> 0:06:00.400 There's a woman with like a clipboard. She's like, Hi, 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:02.720 I want to be checking everyone in, like checking your IDs, 0:06:02.720 --> 0:06:04.400 and then everyone goes in one by one. It's an 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:08.760 immersive experience, like everyone goes in before me. There's a 0:06:08.760 --> 0:06:11.880 girl behind. He's got these extras there that are acting 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:16.040 like they're all going to and they're like, oh, are 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:18.160 you so excited to meet Tom Hanks? Like very much 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:23.279 playing into it. And then she goes, oh, no purses 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:25.080 are allowed in there. Because I was holding my bag, 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:27.440 I was like, okay, well where's it gonna go? And 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.080 the extra was like, oh she told me that too, 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:32.800 so they were really playing into it. She took my purse. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.520 She's like, all right, it's your turn. I walk in 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:40.080 and see all the handles and the TV and he's 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:43.200 talking to me, and it's pretty crazy. That's such a 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.799 small detail. That's quite genius. The fact I would never 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.600 have thought about you holding your purse when you walked in. 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:51.920 I know you would have had to. It would have 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.720 kind of broken up the moment because you would have 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:55.480 had to hand it to somebody or put it down 0:06:55.720 --> 0:06:58.000 or hold it while he was, you know, putting the 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:01.440 ring on your finger. Wow, read thought out. You know. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:04.280 So did Nick know about the makeup artist, because I 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:06.760 feel like he would have freaked the hell out if 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.279 he found out, like the makeup artists canceled the thirty 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:12.160 minutes before it was pros. I think I texted his 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:15.840 publicist first, who she was like, obviously knew everything that 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.120 was happening. So I texted her and she was like, 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.679 oh my gosh, okay, like we're finding someone. I'm messaging 0:07:20.760 --> 0:07:23.360 everyone that I know. Like she was definitely freaking out too, 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.600 So I don't think I told him afterwards and he 0:07:26.680 --> 0:07:29.600 was like, oh, that's pretty crazy. Well so from what 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:33.800 we saw on Instagram. So you walk in, then there's 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:37.120 the video and then Nick comes down the stairs, and 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.560 then after that you guys then go to a separate room. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.680 I guess, right, or how did that all work? No, 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:47.200 So I walk in, saw all the candles, the screen 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.280 as him talking to me. It's like a five minute 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.760 video probably, and then at the end of it he's like, now, 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:54.680 if you'll just look up, and he comes down the 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:59.040 stairs of this loft and he proposes. And then obviously 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.680 we had a videographer camera there who were two of 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:05.520 our good friends, and we just stayed in that room 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:09.000 and they took a bunch of pictures and kept videoing 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:12.520 it and whatnot. And then we got in the car 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:18.200 and went back to our house and posted. So we 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:20.640 had to get the post up before, so Sarah, the 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:23.840 photographers like editing the photos on then from finish to 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.640 our house. Um, and as soon as we walk in 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.600 we hit post and then walk into the house and 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:31.600 all of our you know, family and friends, they are 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:35.520 screaming and nice. Do you remember what Nick said? Did 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.760 he say anything? I know he had the video, but 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:40.079 did he say anything to you in person? Or when 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:46.560 he got down on one knee he said, hey, baby, 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:49.640 said are you ready? Yes? And he said okay, and 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:54.079 he got down on one knee said wayman or. He said, well, 0:08:54.080 --> 0:08:55.440 you spend the rest of your life with me, and 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:56.920 I said yes, and he was like, okay, wait, I 0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:00.480 have to ask you to carry me now. So it's cute. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.319 That is cute. Can are you wearing the rank and 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:06.520 you hold it up to the camera for us? Oh? 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:09.840 You gotta okay, I gotta click. Oh, very pretty beautiful, 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:25.160 very pretty well. But it's great, he did great. Have 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:27.240 you started wedding planning? Have you jumped into it? Are 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:31.040 you like taking the time? We have started, like the 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:34.160 talking about it. We've started figuring out a guest list 0:09:34.240 --> 0:09:36.840 and if we want big or small. We've talked about 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:40.560 kind of where um, and we think we might have 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:45.000 our where figured out, um, but we don't know where 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:46.640 as in like you picked out a venue or you 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:48.640 just know kind of the city in place you're gonna 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:51.200 get married. I mean, it's still in the works, but 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:55.200 I think we're gonna do like my family's farmhouse, um, 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:57.560 and just kind of like bring it back to the 0:09:57.600 --> 0:10:00.200 south and it we can have as many people as 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:02.000 we want there and kind of do whatever we want. 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:04.440 So I was going to ask you that was gonna 0:10:04.440 --> 0:10:06.120 be big because you're from the South, and I feel 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:09.440 like Southern girls like good ways. But also we just 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.120 have massive families, like he's one of eleven, I'm one 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.680 of seven. Like there's just it's gonna be hard to 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:16.280 have a small wedding, but I think we might try 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:19.320 for under one hundred for sure. So do you feel 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:21.240 do you feel like you're at a disadvantage in the 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.880 relationship right now because Nick's been engaged so many times 0:10:23.880 --> 0:10:28.440 and this is your first time. Well, I feel like 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:31.880 this is the first time, he said, out of all 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.520 the times he's been engaged, that he's ever talked about 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:38.800 a wedding. So that was my follow up question. I 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:42.280 bet you he's further along with this engagement than he 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.319 ever has in the past. That's that's very good. That's 0:10:44.320 --> 0:10:46.439 a very good sign. We're happy to hear that. Yeah, 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:49.760 and I was just messing. I think I think he 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:52.960 probably would make that same joke very often. But my 0:10:53.080 --> 0:10:55.040 next I mean, it's great that he pulled out all 0:10:55.040 --> 0:10:57.760 the stops for the proposal, because next time I propose 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:00.199 to someone, I'm definitely gonna havel ask it as you 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:04.079 should for sure. Michael turned out for a second and 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:09.560 I came, oh, I know it is next time I 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:14.600 propose to some one, it's gonna be just ok I 0:11:14.640 --> 0:11:17.400 get it for sure. It was last week we had 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.839 Serena on and she said, Joe's very involved. Do you 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:24.440 think Nick will be pretty involved? Yeah? I think there'll 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:26.800 be a lot of places where he's like, I don't really, 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.160 I don't know, you just do I don't know, But 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:32.680 I do think he will have at least for sure 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:36.720 one hundred percent the guest list so particular about he's coming. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:38.839 He already told me he's like, I'm excited to ask 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:44.679 people and can't come, Like, Okay, I feel like Nick 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:47.480 will be a good groom Zella. He'll he'll care for 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:49.800 the important things and he'll definitely like take a firm 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:52.480 stance on it. I feel like a groom zilla percent 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:55.079 will be Yeah, do you see yourself being a bridezill 0:11:55.120 --> 0:12:00.360 at all? No? I mean, I guess it's like not really. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.400 I'm a pretty chill person, and I guess if it 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:06.160 just but I also am feel like I'm a virgo. 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:08.680 I am a virgo, and so I feel like I 0:12:08.760 --> 0:12:12.320 just feel like I am virgo. So no, but I'm 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.040 very I do have a way that I like things 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:17.440 so I maybe in that aspect of like how I 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:20.400 don't know table settings. Look, it was fun, but I 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:22.520 feel like I could be particular about stuff like that. 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.319 But I feel I think that's good though, because that's 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:27.559 how I've been. I'm very decisive and I'm like, this 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:29.160 is what I want, and I think it makes it 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:32.560 a lot easier, not necessarily like bridezilla esque, just like 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:36.360 it gets done quicker and how you want. Maybe that 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.160 is a bride sail. Maybe I'm a bridezil. I don't know. 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:44.360 My biggest advice for both of you, having helped play 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:48.480 a wedding and been pretty involved, is that just make 0:12:48.520 --> 0:12:53.640 sure that you do what you want to do. Don't 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:58.720 be afraid to ask people, not only for help, but 0:12:58.880 --> 0:13:01.840 like a good example that we always say is Ashley 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.720 and I. We were a little bit of bride I 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.600 guess and groom Zilla's but like the band, the band 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:10.679 was wonderful and they really catered to us, which was 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.839 great because we gave them a set list and we said, hey, listen, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:16.439 we would love for you guys to play it our wedding, 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.440 but these are the songs that we want played within 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.520 like the hour and a half and if you could 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.400 do it, great and if you can't, then thank you 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:25.520 so much, but we're gonna go with somebody else. And 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.480 they were like, yeah, no problem, will learn them good 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:29.280 to go. And it was great because it was all 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.480 the music we wanted to hear, and music obviously plays 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:35.160 a big factor into it. And so just like stuff 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:37.679 like that, like we asked, you know, a lot of 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:39.760 these people especially for you guys. I mean, all these 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:41.640 vendors are going to cater to you. So it's like, 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.480 you know, what you guys want, They're gonna want to 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.240 make sure that they do to the best of their ability. 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.320 So that would be my advice because I feel like 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:52.280 so many people kind of sacrifice some of the things 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:55.840 that they want because like, you know, I don't know 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:57.560 that's my best advice. I don't know if I said 0:13:57.559 --> 0:13:59.839 that properly, but there we go. That makes sense. That 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:04.360 definitely makes sense. We ran in we are at a 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:08.760 Miranda Kerr event and she was like, I'll give you 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:11.400 one piece of advice for wedding planning, and she was like, 0:14:11.960 --> 0:14:16.120 go smaller and only worry about yourselves. She was like, 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:18.200 be in the moment with each other, like don't worry 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:19.800 about how we need to go say hello to them, 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:22.240 we need to say we need to just like don't 0:14:22.240 --> 0:14:24.200 even worry about that, like just be in the moment 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.280 with each other. And so that's why I feel like 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:29.200 we definitely might go smaller and just I don't know, 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.080 not worry about it. Yeah, it's gonna be hard you 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:33.120 guys go small though, because, like you said, you're it's 0:14:33.120 --> 0:14:37.200 going to add up so freaking fast, because you obviously 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:39.760 need to invite your entire family. You come from the South, 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:41.720 so you have a lot of people I feel like 0:14:41.800 --> 0:14:44.200 to get together. And then Nick obviously comes from a 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:47.320 very big family. And Nick also has his Bachelor so 0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:49.800 he has his personal friends and family, but he also 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:52.000 has Bachelor that he's going to invite like a lot 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:54.640 of people from. So man, yeah, it's gonna be tough 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:59.440 for you guys. He's got his like before Bachelor life, 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:03.200 Bachelor life after Bachelor life. Yeah, and all of my 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.920 families in the South, so I can't not invite people 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:08.320 who live in the state, you know. I mean, you 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:13.080 guys had probably what I'd say, I guess fifth fifty 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:14.880 people at your engagement party. I don't know if that's 0:15:14.880 --> 0:15:17.120 a good Yeah, probably, Yeah, so think of it. So 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.240 that was just your engagement party, so you can only 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:22.280 double that. There's no and that was just my mom, 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:26.840 Like none of my siblings came. Yeah. M So do 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.840 you have a plan for like a date for the 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:32.320 wedding yet or is that still being considered. It's still 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:34.680 kind of being considered. I would love a fall wedding, 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:36.680 I think, just because if it is going to be 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:42.400 in the South, it's like the prettiest time, um and 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:44.800 like mosquitoes are kind of gone, you know, I gotta 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:48.880 worry about the gnats aren't out. So I think Fall 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:50.920 for sure. But if we end up doing it somewhere else, 0:15:51.080 --> 0:15:52.880 like if we do it in California, then it's like 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:57.240 the weather is nice, I mean not including now, but 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:00.640 is typically nice all year round. So I don't know, 0:16:01.200 --> 0:16:06.240 but probably Sorry, have you got no wedding planner yet? No? Okay. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:08.080 That was the first thing I did because I got 0:16:08.120 --> 0:16:10.800 so overwhelmed. I was like, there's so much that I 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:14.040 don't know, Like you have your Pinterest all pinned and everything, 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:17.400 and then you're like, oh, there's so many logistics. So yeah, 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.000 that was the first thing I did, and it helped 0:16:19.000 --> 0:16:22.240 a lot. How soon did you get one? Well, I 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.400 really like to plan. It's just like, I really enjoying this. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:28.960 So the second we got engaged, I started looking at 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:31.440 wedding dresses and then I think I hired the wedding 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:34.600 planner like two or three weeks later. Oh okay, yeah, 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:38.120 I'm definitely EN's most excited about planning the wedding instead 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:47.080 of actually getting married. Yeah, I'm oh my gosh, no, 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.160 I'm excited to marry you and get and live in Denver, 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:56.600 Colorado or asking a uniform. Hopefully we're going there next 0:16:56.600 --> 0:17:04.480 week today Denver. My brother is a strong man competitions. Yeah, 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:06.359 that's fun. I remember when I when I was a kid, 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.520 I used to watch the crap out of those strongman 0:17:08.600 --> 0:17:12.879 competition Metric's World's Strongest Man. I used to watch every 0:17:12.880 --> 0:17:15.520 single week, and yeah, they're nuts. They're incredibly strong. So 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:19.520 good LuxI really that's gonna be awesome. I know it's crazy. Um, 0:17:19.600 --> 0:17:21.119 if you guys, so, if you guys do a fall wedding, 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.560 if that's what you end up going with in the 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.880 South at your family farm, would you try and turn 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.520 around quickly for this coming fall or would you wait 0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:32.399 until next fall? That's the thing. The next fall feels 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:35.520 so far away that it's like, can totally do it 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.439 this year, But then you think about everything you have 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:41.280 to plan and get together, and then it's saved the Date. 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:42.720 I feel like Save the Date should have been sent 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:45.119 out a month ago, so like, now you know, I 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.000 don't know, it'll probably most likely be next fall, but 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:54.080 which is sad. Yeah, like it's just hard to I mean, 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:57.520 I guess girls in the South they're together when four 0:17:57.600 --> 0:17:59.840 months or something, so I could probably do it. I 0:18:00.160 --> 0:18:04.280 really put my heads true. Well, I remember Nick saying 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:07.680 he wanted a fast engagement. I know we both do. 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:10.920 We both do, but maybe since we're going to go smaller, 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:15.240 it might be easier to plant. I need to get 0:18:15.240 --> 0:18:17.080 a wedding planner. I need to talk to someone because 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:19.440 Nick and I need a wedding plan Nothing about the 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:22.600 wedding are just like talking about this and we're not 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:26.240 helping each other. So no, I was wedding planners is 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:28.879 going to be very helpful. I was not down for 0:18:28.920 --> 0:18:32.520 the idea of a wedding planner. At first. We had 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:38.280 our friend Troy, and I mean, if he wants Troy, Troy, 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:40.840 there's nobody better in the world. And plus Troy is 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:44.119 he's gonna make it so much fun planning, you know, 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:48.200 because he really just became a part of our family. It. Yeah, 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:50.800 so if you guys, I couldn't recommend a better wedding 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:54.560 planner than Troy Williams. But we so, you know, because 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:57.280 it is expensive to get a wedding planner, and you're like, 0:18:57.520 --> 0:18:59.159 and I remember just being like Ashley, we can just 0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:01.800 plan ourselves with like, I love Troy, but you know, 0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:03.440 we should probably save the money and put it into 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:05.280 the wedding. And I could not have been more wrong. 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:07.760 If we didn't have Troy, we would have been One 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:10.280 it wouldn't have been as enjoyable, and two it just 0:19:10.280 --> 0:19:14.720 wouldn't have been nearly nearly as memorable as it was, 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:16.920 because there's so many logistics, not only leading up with 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.600 the day of, because you don't, like you said, you 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:22.000 don't want to worry about those things, like Miranda gave 0:19:22.000 --> 0:19:24.200 you good device. You should not be worrying about anything 0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:28.200 except you and Nick. And you know obviously you your 0:19:28.240 --> 0:19:30.560 mom or anybody else who's very close with you. You You 0:19:30.640 --> 0:19:32.160 want to make sure that they're having a good time. 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:34.719 And so like a wedding planner's job is to make 0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:36.600 sure that they cater to everybody else, so you can 0:19:36.640 --> 0:19:38.680 just focus on yourself and enjoy every aspect of the 0:19:38.720 --> 0:19:43.480 wedding because of the day really only is about YouTube. Yeah, 0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:45.359 he said your wedding like the best he's ever been to. 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:47.879 So doesn't he end up saving you a bunch of 0:19:47.880 --> 0:19:50.199 money too? Like you buy, you pay however much for 0:19:50.240 --> 0:19:51.600 the wedding planner, and then they end up getting you 0:19:51.600 --> 0:19:54.440 discounts on other things or something like that. That's just yeah. 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:59.600 It's also like us use a utilizing you know, the 0:20:00.440 --> 0:20:04.720 our social and the name recognition as we will should 0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:07.440 because anybody who doesn't try to save money, I don't 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:12.000 know what to tell you. To tell you, Yeah, well 0:20:12.400 --> 0:20:14.080 we're saving as much money as we can and we're 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:18.440 still spending way too much of it expensive. All right? Yeah? 0:20:18.760 --> 0:20:20.520 Um oh, I had a question. I can't remember what 0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:23.720 it is now. I've got a question, fun stuff. Have 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:26.600 you tried on any wedding dresses yet? No? I went 0:20:26.640 --> 0:20:30.800 to Paris right after we got engaged with some girlfriends, 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:32.320 and I was like, this will be so fun to 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:34.720 do in Paris, like to try on some wedding dresses 0:20:35.359 --> 0:20:38.240 and then It was like two days after we got engaged, 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:40.359 and it was freezing cold, and I was there for 0:20:40.440 --> 0:20:42.679 eight days and I was missed. I was like, I 0:20:42.800 --> 0:20:45.360 need to get home, like I'm missing so much. This 0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:48.800 is a planned trip, like I don't need to be here. 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:51.320 And so I didn't do anything. I just wanted to 0:20:51.359 --> 0:20:55.159