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Speaker 1: Yeah they talk better than the excited tell me. These

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Speaker 2: It's like for running in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 2: them a loud We call him blog. Jason Brown, Welcome

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Speaker 2: back from assignment. Yes in La yep with good Charlotte. Yes,

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Speaker 2: good Charlotte was there. Yes, so, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: I did fly to La over the weekend to work

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Speaker 3: our Alter Ego concert.

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 3: But if you know me, you know that being on

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Speaker 3: a plane is my probably my peak eggs. I absolutely

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Speaker 3: hate it and La is the farthest flight I've taken

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Speaker 3: in a very long time, so it was bad. But

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Speaker 3: on the way there there was no one next to me,

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Speaker 3: so it was great. I was like able to stretch

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Speaker 3: you out a little bit.

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Speaker 1: It was great. Coming home was a full flight. This

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Speaker 1: guy sat next to me.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He was probably like in his lower twenties, and I'm like, okay, cool,

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Speaker 3: like you know him on Southwest. So I'm already judging

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Speaker 3: you that you chose to sit next to me, because

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Speaker 3: I'm like, why me, Like you could go sit in

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Speaker 3: any other middle seat, but okay.

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Speaker 2: Right, So he said, no, you didn't do the thing

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Speaker 2: where you phone with the mouth like I taught you. No,

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Speaker 2: you're supposed to foam with the mouth when it's getting

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Speaker 2: a little bit slim in the seating department and never

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Speaker 2: make eye con Now, this is all going to be

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Speaker 2: over here pretty soon on Southwest because you're going to

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Speaker 2: be like that. You got to not make eye contact.

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Speaker 2: You gotta have a mean look on your face. You

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Speaker 2: got to phone with the mouth, drool a little bit,

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Speaker 2: you know, so that people look and go like I

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Speaker 2: don't know about this one, and then they pick another one.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't do that.

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Speaker 4: It was a six.

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Speaker 3: Forty am flight, so I was doing the sleeping thing,

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Speaker 3: thinking like, oh, if I sleep and it looks like

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Speaker 3: I'm leaning a little bit to my right, then maybe

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Speaker 3: you know, no one will want to sit there. But

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Speaker 3: alas this man did, it's fine. But in the middle

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Speaker 3: of the fly, he decided that he wanted I guess

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Speaker 3: he was sleepy too, and so he's sort of like

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Speaker 3: scooted his butt like on me and then pulled his

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Speaker 3: like yes, and literally.

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Speaker 1: His butt was on my leg for the entirety of

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Speaker 1: those yes.

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Speaker 3: In the middle seat, Like I was like, this is

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Speaker 3: a crime, Like get like we're already touching legs, Like

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Speaker 3: that's already gonna happen, right.

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Speaker 4: But get off you're sitting on my leg.

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Speaker 2: Do we have any sympathy for the middle seat seaters

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Speaker 2: people like like are there rules?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you get both the arms left.

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Speaker 3: And I literally become one with the wall if I'm

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Speaker 3: the wall scrunch up because I want to make sure

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Speaker 3: they have enough room. But why do you have to

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Speaker 3: do a sideways fetal position while you're on the plane.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that? You should have wrapped your arms around.

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Speaker 3: Do you want me to spoon?

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Speaker 2: Like, I don't know what he wanted a spoon with you.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't down.

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Speaker 4: I was tired.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to sleep, but I couldn't sleep because I

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Speaker 3: was just like then I was just froze because.

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Speaker 5: I was like, I wasn't a decision he made while

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Speaker 5: he was away, because in his defense, I've woken up

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Speaker 5: and my little head's bet on the person next to me,

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Speaker 5: and they're like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He put his iPad away and then like that was

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Speaker 3: the immediate position.

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Speaker 4: So I feel like it was a choice.

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Speaker 1: It was a choice.

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Speaker 3: Choices were made, and and then I had to pee.

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Speaker 3: But of course I'm not going to wake him up,

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Speaker 3: so I wake anyone up. So now I'm like in,

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Speaker 3: I have a right ut I and now this guy's

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Speaker 3: butt is on my leg and you least it's six am.

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Speaker 3: Like Jason, I was not down. You need to ask

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Speaker 3: for consent before you put your butt on people.

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Speaker 4: You don't like.

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Speaker 6: Don't like a lot, Yeah, you don't like touching, you

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Speaker 6: don't like an unsolicited hug.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't like people random strangers butts on

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Speaker 3: the end the plane and I don't think that's.

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Speaker 7: Too more.

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Speaker 2: Normally you say that sentence and but then you add

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Speaker 2: into on the plane. So like that's to say, I've

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Speaker 2: never heard you complain about other people's botchs before, but

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Speaker 2: like then it's on the plan.

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Speaker 2: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty six for her studio sessions Las Vegas Residency. You

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Speaker 2: for two to the July twenty fourth show, a two

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Speaker 2: night hotel state at Flamingo Hotel and Casino in Las

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Speaker 2: Vegas July twenty third through the twenty fifth and round

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Speaker 2: People were emailing over the weekend. How would I tell

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Speaker 2: you my stay or ghost story? Well, just like that,

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Speaker 2: show'll find us there. Hey Claudia, good morning, welcome.

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Speaker 1: Clad morning. Oh hi, oh hi, hi Claudia. How you doing?

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Speaker 7: So?

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Speaker 2: You know I had an obvious place. Oh boy, someone's

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Speaker 2: upset that. Someone's very upset about your scenario, your situation here.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm babysitting. That's all good.

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Speaker 2: So you you were recently proposed to, and that's very exciting. Congratulations.

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Speaker 2: But there's there's trouble in the water, isn't there.

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Speaker 7: There's trouble in the water. I was. I was super

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Speaker 7: excited to get proposed to, and I said yes, but

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Speaker 7: I my friends kind of held an intervention with me

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Speaker 7: after it happened. I told them and I really wanted

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Speaker 7: them to be excited for me, but they told me

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Speaker 7: not to go through with it.

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Speaker 1: They said it was going to be a mistake.

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Speaker 2: Well, I was inspiring, you know, you get proposed to,

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Speaker 2: it's like, you know, one of the best moments of

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Speaker 2: your life, and then only for everyone to tell you

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Speaker 2: not to do it. Now, why would your friends not

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Speaker 2: want your little friend, Why would the peanut gallery not

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Speaker 7: I guess I'm not surprised because I did tell them.

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Speaker 7: I told them about six months ago that I was

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Speaker 7: thinking about bringing up with them because I got him

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Speaker 7: cheating on me.

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Speaker 8: So they yeah, they they but it was only text messages,

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Speaker 8: like he didn't like go anywhere, but I just caught

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Speaker 8: him like texting someone, and so anyway, it wasn't good,

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Speaker 8: but it wasn't like.

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Speaker 4: Horrible horrible, And I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I just he proposed and I really want to get married,

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Speaker 7: and I'm really I was really excited, and I don't

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Speaker 2: Well, who was he texting, Like, if he didn't if

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Speaker 2: he didn't go anywhere like this, someone somebody knew obviously

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Speaker 7: He was texting someone from work, who I just I've

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Speaker 7: been a little suspicious about before. Just the way that

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Speaker 7: and then I saw that he was texting her, and

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Speaker 7: it was just kind of like crossing a line, like

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Speaker 2: A little inappropriate. I'm just trying to figure out sort

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Speaker 2: of the depth of this year. I mean, he violated

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Speaker 2: that he it was just some little flirty texting or

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Speaker 1: We're certain it didn't go any further. I mean, not

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Speaker 7: And the only thing is like they went on this

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Speaker 2: Yeahat was it just wasn't just the two of them.

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Speaker 9: Apparently it was the whole office, right, But they ended

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Speaker 9: up with they were texting a lot after that, and

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Speaker 9: so and your friends, I'm assuming, are just like he's

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Speaker 7: So I confronted him about that and he was pretty apologetic,

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Speaker 7: think that he's just proposing to me so that I

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Speaker 7: don't break up with him.

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Speaker 1: Well, what was the nature of the text messages?

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Speaker 2: Was it like you're cute you know on this office

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Speaker 1: You know? It wasn't full on that.

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Speaker 7: It was like she said something about like she had

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Speaker 7: she was getting a wax and she yeah, she decided

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Speaker 1: Why why does he get a vote in the no

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Speaker 1: and I get a wax?

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Speaker 10: Why not?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Caylyn does group chats like you know what,

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Speaker 2: you know, how should I?

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Speaker 4: That was one time you guys asked me to stop.

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Speaker 2: It's like a heart or you know, how should I

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Speaker 2: do it? But no, that's that's no, that's wildly inappropriate.

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Speaker 2: That's not like, that's why is she asking him about

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Speaker 2: grooming or if it's not something that he has any

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Speaker 2: even if he's not doing that, she wants him thinking

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Speaker 2: about that. And that's not appropriate. Like that's not flirty,

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Speaker 2: that's like flat out that's now let me ask you this. Well,

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Speaker 2: I guess he responded to it. So because people can't

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Speaker 2: control the messages they get. But if someone is that,

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Speaker 2: don't smile at.

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Speaker 1: Me, like we're both thinking the same way. Look.

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Speaker 2: Look, if I'm sitting, if I'm in my desk and

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Speaker 2: you text me something, the only choice I have is

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Speaker 2: how I'm going to respond to it. That being said,

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Speaker 2: now let me finish my thoughts. If you text me

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Speaker 2: level of comfort between us to where you think you

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Speaker 2: can text me something like that. Absolutely, But so I'm trying.

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Speaker 2: I didn't that why he didn't seem to expedite things

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Speaker 5: Or maybe the retreat was somewhere tropical and she just

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Speaker 4: Or tropical even worse.

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Speaker 4: We're not forgiving?

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Speaker 11: Okay, yeah, forget, We're not for I guys know that

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Speaker 11: I have a very hard time with that. Again, that's

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Speaker 1: They were retreating.

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Speaker 2: All right, Yes, Claudia, I'm gonna take some phone calls

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Speaker 4: Beck you mixed?

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I have a.

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Speaker 2: Good Yeah, I don't like it. I don't like it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you recover from this. You know,

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Speaker 1: It's is possible.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just you have to decide if that's

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Speaker 2: For the rest of your life. But none of her

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Speaker 2: She's hoping. I think that people are going to tell

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Speaker 2: I don't think she's sure about this either, because if

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Speaker 2: you know, the ups and downs of relationships. He wasn't feeling.

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Speaker 2: Whatever his excuse is doesn't make it right. But it's

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Speaker 2: up to her to decide if she's going to forgive him.

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Speaker 2: It's not up to the friend group, it's not up

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Speaker 2: to us. But she's still looking for someone to tell

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Speaker 6: But did he and that tells you every years did

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Speaker 4: You know, like he needs to leave his job or something.

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Speaker 6: If he's so serious about this, Because now you're still

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Speaker 1: I think I think you're right.

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Speaker 2: I do think some drastic change would be like if

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Speaker 2: I think we're gonna have to do something or the

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Speaker 11: Yes, Also, if you think, like all your friends coming

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Speaker 11: together again. I know there's always that one little hater

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Speaker 11: the same page, they're on the same you know whatever,

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Speaker 11: being like this isn't the right relationship for you, Like,

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Speaker 2: Everybody, everybody, everybody, Hey, Telly.

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Speaker 10: Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? Stair goo.

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Speaker 7: Go?

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Speaker 2: Definitely you're not liking this office retreat, are you? I

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Speaker 2: want to know who else was retreating and where it.

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Speaker 1: Was there was an office retreat.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, and I mean there are there is such a thing.

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Speaker 1: I haven't heard of the happening wow.

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Speaker 10: I mean I've heard of couple's retreat, but office retreat

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Speaker 2: Mean, was sting a hedonism in Jamaica or something like

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Speaker 2: I want to know where you win?

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Speaker 1: It was this, I want to know where you win? No,

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Speaker 1: it does exist.

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Speaker 2: There are like off sites and things where big companies

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Speaker 2: do like team building. It does happen. Now, we don't

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Speaker 11: I've heard of like trainings, you know, but an office

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Speaker 4: Come on, they were really retreating themselves.

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Speaker 2: I mean, and again flirty tests like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Telly, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: We are all very close around here, and we know

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Speaker 2: a lot of things about each other, but I don't

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Speaker 2: those those kind of text messages don't fly. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Kiky's always asking me, But other than that, that's different though.

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Speaker 2: Hey Ariel, yes, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Stay or go?

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Speaker 10: What do you think she should leave?

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Speaker 12: She should start by leaving him, as she can't even

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Speaker 12: convince herself that it didn't happen. And on top of that,

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Speaker 12: stop sharing your relationship drama with other people that aren't

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Speaker 12: a licensed therapist. When you do that, you then invite

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Speaker 12: and taint their views of the relationship. And you're not

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Speaker 12: in a relationship with your friends, So don't share your

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Speaker 12: relationship issues if you don't want them to be tainted.

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Speaker 1: I'm always I'm mixed on that.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm mixed because I do agree with you about

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Speaker 2: It's probably not a balanced story, because that's why you

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Speaker 2: opinion of this person is becomes clouded because they're hearing

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Speaker 1: So I mean, this is wrong.

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Speaker 12: She can't convince herself that it's not wrong. She needs

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Speaker 1: Well, she works more than that.

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Speaker 12: I don't care who she is, she worked more than that.

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Speaker 2: There you go, Ariel, thank you have a good day. No, Like,

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Speaker 2: That's not fair because then you know, you may you

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 2: I've held on to things that my friends have let

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Speaker 5: You have to know who you can go to, Like

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Speaker 5: I'd like to think I'm one of those friends. I

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Speaker 4: So I have to disagree.

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Speaker 1: But you can't tell the judging person. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: It can be.

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Speaker 2: Hardyda, Hi, Linda, Linda, there's only okay, there's only one

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Speaker 2: Linda mom. Yeah, Like, we get a special number for you,

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Speaker 2: her friends are saying, do not do this. Hey, Jessica, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 10: What do you think I think she should go?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Why?

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Speaker 10: Well, when she was telling this her situation, right, she

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Speaker 10: emphasize so she wants to get married to him, which

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Speaker 10: tells me she's settling for whoever's going to close to her.

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Speaker 2: That is an interesting that is true. She did say

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Speaker 2: she just wants to be married, So maybe she's in

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Speaker 2: that phase where she's invested enough in this person and

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Speaker 2: it's like, I don't want to have to start over

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Speaker 2: and write. So maybe she's settling and she's accepting this

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Speaker 2: poor behavior.

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Speaker 10: The issue is, though she has friends are looking out

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Speaker 10: for her, it's better to get out now than to

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Speaker 10: be stuck in a marriage where this person could potentially

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Speaker 10: do this again, simply just to say that he's her husband, Like.

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Speaker 4: Why get married now?

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Speaker 5: Even if you want to see together and work on it,

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Speaker 5: what's the rush to get married?

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Speaker 4: In my opinion?

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Speaker 1: You know, well, he's trying.

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Speaker 2: To see I'm totally committed. See so like I mean

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Speaker 2: you no, look see but you're like it's almost like

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Speaker 2: you're throwing gas in the fire here if you don't

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Speaker 2: work through it, because it's just going to compound everything

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Speaker 2: and make everything seem more intense. It's like when people

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Speaker 2: have a baby when they're fighting, like, I'm gonna let's

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Speaker 2: have a baby, Like, dude, that doesn't fix.

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Speaker 4: This, right, that'll fix us?

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Speaker 2: Like no, right? Yeah, need to a culinary song? Yeah, Jessica,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think Jessica's having two conversations. I

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Speaker 2: gotta go Jessica. She's a very talented person. She can

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Speaker 2: talk to her coworkers to talk to us. A CDL

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Speaker 2: that'll solve things.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he need to go figure out something.

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Speaker 2: What are you say, Nobody watches on the CDL school,

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Speaker 2: Nobody does that.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just saying he needs to change careers.

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Speaker 6: If he's so serious about, you know, moving on and

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Speaker 6: moving to their future, don't marry me. Go figure out

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Speaker 6: your next career path and make sure you don't cheat.

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Speaker 4: Get that one.

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Speaker 2: I think Trump fervers watch that's I mean, that's that's

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Speaker 2: what I hear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah,