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Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone today for our first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Becca.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Mac, how long has
Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Becca?
Speaker 3: Been about a week since I've heard Summer.
Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, several times, you know, texting and left him voicemail. Nothing.
Speaker 4: So what was the last interaction you had with her?
Speaker 3: Like, it was good. We went on a date. We
Speaker 3: met on him and then we went to this like
Speaker 3: little probably like a little quiet, romantic dinner white qualth
Speaker 3: type place I like to go out. She's more of
Speaker 3: a homebody. So after dinner.
Speaker 5: We went back to her place and you know.
Speaker 3: We had some wine. You know, we didn't hook up
Speaker 3: or anything, but like I spent.
Speaker 5: The night and then everything was great.
Speaker 1: Did you guys make in the same bed, Yeah.
Speaker 3: But nothing happened, Like we didn't. We didn't hook up,
Speaker 3: like because we were really into each other. We both
Speaker 3: feel like you know, you know, agree, like take a
Speaker 3: little slower because this is this is something good, you know,
Speaker 3: So yeah, I just I'm really competed.
Speaker 4: Did you guys like make out though, Like did you cuddle?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Okay, like it's important. Okay, so that part happened. So
Speaker 6: it's a very mutual attraction as well.
Speaker 7: Right, did anything happen on the date that was like
Speaker 7: I don't know, weird awkward, not.
Speaker 3: That I could think of, Like it just everything went
Speaker 3: really well. And like I know when when you know,
Speaker 3: I could be awkward or something happens like I've had
Speaker 3: bad dates or whatever, but this doesn't didn't fall in
Speaker 3: that category.
Speaker 5: So I you know, I thought everything was going really well.
Speaker 3: Like we really hit it off.
Speaker 1: How were things when you said good bye to her?
Speaker 3: Uh? Beeeing fine? You know it seemed like we would
Speaker 3: uh like we were going to see each other again.
Speaker 4: So did you stay there the whole night?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: Did you see each other in the morning or did
Speaker 4: you slip out?
Speaker 3: No? I, uh well, actually I left a note on
Speaker 3: her pillow, like I slipped out because she was still
Speaker 3: asleep and like I had to get up really good
Speaker 3: work and I didn't want to wake her. Up, so
Speaker 3: like I left her note.
Speaker 4: Okay, well that's your.
Speaker 3: I'm just that I had a really great time and
Speaker 3: looking forward to seeing you again.
Speaker 4: Okay. Then did you talk to her after that?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, we did have a conversation Okay I did.
Speaker 3: We were hanging up.
Speaker 5: I said, I love you jokingly, but like like scare
Speaker 5: her off.
Speaker 4: Okay, Mack, you could have started there. Yeah first.
Speaker 6: I mean some people would really enjoy that kind of
Speaker 6: a joke because you're like you're on the right track. Bro.
Speaker 1: What did she do when you said that? She just
Speaker 1: laughed and you told her it.
Speaker 3: Was a joke. Yeah, Like I said, I was like
Speaker 3: love you, like it was like a joke, Like.
Speaker 4: Maybe that could have been the left Paul.
Speaker 3: She knows it was a joke.
Speaker 1: How was her laugh?
Speaker 2: Was it like ha orue?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: I mean we laughed together before, and like it seemed
Speaker 3: like a genuine laugh.
Speaker 2: Well, try to figure it out where you to play
Speaker 2: a song come back, and then call her and see
Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 2: get you another date.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, cool, Yeah, thanks guy.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song, come back, and get your
Speaker 2: first day follow up next. Right in the middle of
Speaker 2: your first day follow up if you're just joining us,
Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a woman named Becca. So we're about to call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, Mac, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: us up on your situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on Hinge. We went on a date.
Speaker 3: Everything was going really well. We went back to her place,
Speaker 3: had some wine. I stayed the night. We didn't wait
Speaker 3: a coupy thing, but we did make out, Like you know,
Speaker 3: it was definitely w comes from there. And when I left,
Speaker 3: I left her note, you know, like I didn't want
Speaker 3: to wake her up, so I just left her note
Speaker 3: on the pillow. Talked her of the following day. Everything
Speaker 3: some fine, And then do just haven't heard from her.
Speaker 4: Since you did tell her that you loved Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a joke, but like she was a joke,
Speaker 3: like I was joking.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, well we'll see if that's it
Speaker 2: over something else. Are you ready to call her? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, Hi, missing Dobacca. Please, this is
Speaker 2: she Hi Becca, how are you? My name is Jewbel.
Speaker 2: I'm coming from a radio show called The Jewel Show.
Speaker 4: Hi, Becka, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 8: Hi.
Speaker 4: Hi what's that girl?
Speaker 8: Good?
Speaker 4: Thank you?
Speaker 8: What's going on?
Speaker 1: Not much? Have you listened to the show before?
Speaker 9: I have?
Speaker 8: I'm very familiar.
Speaker 2: Right, Well, thank you. We got an email about you
Speaker 2: from somebody. That's why we're calling.
Speaker 9: Oh god, okay, Well this is a first date follow
Speaker 9: up the segment where if you go out with someone
Speaker 9: on a date ended up ghosting them, they can email
Speaker 9: us to get you on the phone and ask why
Speaker 9: you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1: And we got an email from a guy named Mac.
Speaker 8: Yeah Mac, okay?
Speaker 3: Did?
Speaker 8: What did Mac have to share?
Speaker 6: That got real serious? He said that you're ghosting him,
Speaker 6: and he said that he liked you a lot. He
Speaker 6: thought you guys really bonded. Said that you guys snuggled
Speaker 6: on your first date. You didn't do you know, all
Speaker 6: the way stuff instead. He did tell us that part,
Speaker 6: but it was important. That's a weird way to see
Speaker 6: you just were doing a chemistry check.
Speaker 4: That's why we asked.
Speaker 8: Okay, okay, So I guess we'll just cut to it.
Speaker 8: I really liked him. Mac.
Speaker 7: Seems like a really good die. It was a great date.
Speaker 7: I thought we were going somewhere. I thought it had potential.
Speaker 7: And then there was a phone call and we hung up,
Speaker 7: and then like twenty minutes later he called me back,
Speaker 7: and so I answered the phone and I overhear him
Speaker 7: talking to somebody, and I realized.
Speaker 8: It's a butt dial.
Speaker 7: Oh right, And so he's talking to somebody and he's
Speaker 7: from n Rock is better termed very encouraging. He was
Speaker 7: saying things like that's the baby, just like that? Baby,
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, baby like that.
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I'm.
Speaker 7: Hoping it was a butt fire and not him like
Speaker 7: intentionally wanting me to hear him say things to another woman.
Speaker 8: So I hung up because I don't know what to.
Speaker 3: Do with that.
Speaker 7: I was very upset because clearly he's not a good
Speaker 7: guy and he's a player and fine, like.
Speaker 8: Move on to the next one, leave me alone.
Speaker 4: So awkward because you never told him that you heard that?
Speaker 4: Oh who I mean?
Speaker 5: Dad?
Speaker 7: Something he does all the time, Okay, I guess, I
Speaker 7: guess this is what he does.
Speaker 8: He like spends the night and we had agreed. I
Speaker 8: think he's just a player and a user and.
Speaker 4: Growth like, no thanks, And this was like right after
Speaker 4: he left pretty much.
Speaker 7: This was a morning. So the next morning he called me,
Speaker 7: so we talked and it was fine. And then twenty
Speaker 7: minutes later you were like pumping or.
Speaker 8: A woman and then you call me like are you
Speaker 8: out of your mind?
Speaker 2: I can understand why you're ghosting him then, because normally
Speaker 2: that's not like you. No, that doesn't make me anymore.
Speaker 4: I get that.
Speaker 1: Well, thank you for telling us that.
Speaker 3: Becca.
Speaker 1: Also Mac is on the phone and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 8: Oh, I'm Mac. Guys, this is gross.
Speaker 3: Is you can't?
Speaker 8: This is gross?
Speaker 5: You have spent a night on the house.
Speaker 8: We had a great date.
Speaker 7: I thought you that potential and then you but guile
Speaker 7: me or intentionally?
Speaker 8: Who knows while you're doing who knows what? Who knows you?
Speaker 7: Like? Is this a normal for you?
Speaker 8: Gross?
Speaker 5: I talked to you true once I gross.
Speaker 3: I will.
Speaker 8: Go ahead.
Speaker 3: I have a puppy and she's just sick. She hasn't
Speaker 3: been able to eat, and she's a little Maltese puppy
Speaker 3: named Baby. She was finally starting to eat.
Speaker 5: And I was encouraging her like, come on, baby, there
Speaker 5: you go, very good job. I'm gonna touch your picture
Speaker 5: of a baby.
Speaker 3: Right down here. You go.
Speaker 1: Are you serious?
Speaker 3: Yes, I have a puppy. I have a mai. Her
Speaker 3: name is Baby. Her name is Baby.
Speaker 9: Believable, based on what you heard, I want I need
Speaker 9: to see this photog.
Speaker 3: I just text you sure, so funny.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I don't know. Can you see yourself doing
Speaker 4: that to mister Peeves your dog? Yes, Baby go, Baby,
Speaker 4: just like that.
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I would cheer him on if
Speaker 2: he was sick and he was finally eating, I would
Speaker 2: be cheering him on.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I would say it.
Speaker 6: I think he just sounds a little more interesting because
Speaker 6: the dog is named baby, right.
Speaker 8: I do remember him saying get in their baby, but.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like get in the food.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just really having to was eating. I
Speaker 3: was just trying to cheer on. She hadn't eating for today,
Speaker 3: so so I was really happy that it was finally eating.
Speaker 8: I mean, this is true.
Speaker 4: That's actually really hilarious.
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, okay, I can confirm there's a very cute
Speaker 7: dog that has at the intact for this baby.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, well that's awkward. But if that, I mean,
Speaker 2: that sounds like that's really what was going on.
Speaker 8: I am so embarrassed.
Speaker 6: I mean in your defense, Becca, I mean, how would
Speaker 6: anybody take that?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Yeah, it didn't sound good.
Speaker 3: But now.
Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, well I'm so sorry Becca.
Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Mac?
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it and you can meet baby?
Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, I'm is that?
Speaker 3: Yes?
Speaker 4: I would?
Speaker 8: Is he open to time?
Speaker 3: So sorry? Yeah? Of course. So I was wondering what
Speaker 3: happened like this is a huge misunderstanding, So I'm glad
Speaker 3: we got to clear it up. Like I obviously would
Speaker 3: love to see you again, I don't want the girlfriend
Speaker 3: around player. You do have to share me with babies though.
Speaker 4: That's there
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