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Speaker 1: First Day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Becca.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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Speaker 2: get him another date. But first, Mac, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Becca?

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Speaker 3: Been about a week since I've heard Summer.

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Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, several times, you know, texting and left him voicemail. Nothing.

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Speaker 4: So what was the last interaction you had with her?

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Speaker 3: Like, it was good. We went on a date. We

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Speaker 3: met on him and then we went to this like

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Speaker 3: little probably like a little quiet, romantic dinner white qualth

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Speaker 3: type place I like to go out. She's more of

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Speaker 3: a homebody. So after dinner.

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Speaker 5: We went back to her place and you know.

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Speaker 3: We had some wine. You know, we didn't hook up

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Speaker 3: or anything, but like I spent.

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Speaker 5: The night and then everything was great.

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Speaker 1: Did you guys make in the same bed, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But nothing happened, Like we didn't. We didn't hook up,

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Speaker 3: like because we were really into each other. We both

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Speaker 3: feel like you know, you know, agree, like take a

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Speaker 3: little slower because this is this is something good, you know,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, I just I'm really competed.

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Speaker 4: Did you guys like make out though, Like did you cuddle?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Okay, like it's important. Okay, so that part happened. So

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Speaker 6: it's a very mutual attraction as well.

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Speaker 7: Right, did anything happen on the date that was like

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Speaker 7: I don't know, weird awkward, not.

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Speaker 3: That I could think of, Like it just everything went

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Speaker 3: really well. And like I know when when you know,

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Speaker 3: I could be awkward or something happens like I've had

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Speaker 3: bad dates or whatever, but this doesn't didn't fall in

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Speaker 5: So I you know, I thought everything was going really well.

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Speaker 3: Like we really hit it off.

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Speaker 1: How were things when you said good bye to her?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Beeeing fine? You know it seemed like we would

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Speaker 3: uh like we were going to see each other again.

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Speaker 4: So did you stay there the whole night?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 4: Did you see each other in the morning or did

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Speaker 4: you slip out?

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Speaker 3: No? I, uh well, actually I left a note on

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Speaker 3: her pillow, like I slipped out because she was still

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Speaker 3: like I left her note.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that's your.

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Speaker 3: I'm just that I had a really great time and

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Speaker 3: looking forward to seeing you again.

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Speaker 4: Okay. Then did you talk to her after that?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we did have a conversation Okay I did.

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Speaker 3: We were hanging up.

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Speaker 5: I said, I love you jokingly, but like like scare

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Speaker 5: her off.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Mack, you could have started there. Yeah first.

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Speaker 6: I mean some people would really enjoy that kind of

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Speaker 6: a joke because you're like you're on the right track. Bro.

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Speaker 1: What did she do when you said that? She just

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Speaker 3: Was a joke. Yeah, Like I said, I was like

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Speaker 4: Maybe that could have been the left Paul.

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Speaker 3: She knows it was a joke.

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Speaker 1: How was her laugh?

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Speaker 2: Was it like ha orue?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I mean we laughed together before, and like it seemed

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Speaker 2: Well, try to figure it out where you to play

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Speaker 2: a song come back, and then call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, cool, Yeah, thanks guy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll play a song, come back, and get your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up next. Right in the middle of

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Mac is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a woman named Becca. So we're about to call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Mac, why don't you catch

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Speaker 2: us up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on Hinge. We went on a date.

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Speaker 3: Everything was going really well. We went back to her place,

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Speaker 3: had some wine. I stayed the night. We didn't wait

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Speaker 3: a coupy thing, but we did make out, Like you know,

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Speaker 3: it was definitely w comes from there. And when I left,

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Speaker 3: I left her note, you know, like I didn't want

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Speaker 3: on the pillow. Talked her of the following day. Everything

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Speaker 3: some fine, And then do just haven't heard from her.

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Speaker 4: Since you did tell her that you loved Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a joke, but like she was a joke,

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, well we'll see if that's it

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Speaker 2: over something else. Are you ready to call her? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, Hi, missing Dobacca. Please, this is

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Speaker 2: she Hi Becca, how are you? My name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 2: I'm coming from a radio show called The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Becka, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Hi what's that girl?

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Speaker 8: Good?

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Speaker 4: Thank you?

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Speaker 8: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: Not much? Have you listened to the show before?

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Speaker 9: I have?

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Speaker 8: I'm very familiar.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, thank you. We got an email about you

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Speaker 2: from somebody. That's why we're calling.

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Speaker 9: Oh god, okay, Well this is a first date follow

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Speaker 9: up the segment where if you go out with someone

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Speaker 9: on a date ended up ghosting them, they can email

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Speaker 9: us to get you on the phone and ask why

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Speaker 9: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 1: And we got an email from a guy named Mac.

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Speaker 8: Yeah Mac, okay?

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Speaker 3: Did?

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Speaker 8: What did Mac have to share?

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Speaker 6: That got real serious? He said that you're ghosting him,

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Speaker 6: and he said that he liked you a lot. He

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Speaker 6: thought you guys really bonded. Said that you guys snuggled

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Speaker 6: on your first date. You didn't do you know, all

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Speaker 6: the way stuff instead. He did tell us that part,

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Speaker 6: but it was important. That's a weird way to see

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Speaker 6: you just were doing a chemistry check.

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Speaker 4: That's why we asked.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, So I guess we'll just cut to it.

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Speaker 8: I really liked him. Mac.

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Speaker 7: Seems like a really good die. It was a great date.

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Speaker 7: I thought we were going somewhere. I thought it had potential.

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Speaker 7: And then there was a phone call and we hung up,

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Speaker 7: and then like twenty minutes later he called me back,

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Speaker 7: and so I answered the phone and I overhear him

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Speaker 8: It's a butt dial.

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Speaker 7: Oh right, And so he's talking to somebody and he's

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Speaker 7: from n Rock is better termed very encouraging. He was

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Speaker 7: saying things like that's the baby, just like that? Baby,

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, baby like that.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I'm.

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Speaker 7: Hoping it was a butt fire and not him like

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Speaker 7: intentionally wanting me to hear him say things to another woman.

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Speaker 8: So I hung up because I don't know what to.

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Speaker 3: Do with that.

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Speaker 7: I was very upset because clearly he's not a good

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Speaker 7: guy and he's a player and fine, like.

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Speaker 8: Move on to the next one, leave me alone.

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Speaker 4: So awkward because you never told him that you heard that?

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Speaker 4: Oh who I mean?

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Speaker 5: Dad?

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Speaker 7: Something he does all the time, Okay, I guess, I

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Speaker 7: guess this is what he does.

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Speaker 8: He like spends the night and we had agreed. I

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Speaker 4: Growth like, no thanks, And this was like right after

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Speaker 7: This was a morning. So the next morning he called me,

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Speaker 7: so we talked and it was fine. And then twenty

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Speaker 8: A woman and then you call me like are you

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Speaker 8: out of your mind?

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Speaker 2: I can understand why you're ghosting him then, because normally

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Speaker 2: that's not like you. No, that doesn't make me anymore.

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Speaker 4: I get that.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you for telling us that.

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Speaker 3: Becca.

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Speaker 1: Also Mac is on the phone and wants to talk

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Speaker 1: to you.

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Speaker 8: Oh, I'm Mac. Guys, this is gross.

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Speaker 3: Is you can't?

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Speaker 8: This is gross?

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Speaker 5: You have spent a night on the house.

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Speaker 8: We had a great date.

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Speaker 7: I thought you that potential and then you but guile

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Speaker 8: Who knows while you're doing who knows what? Who knows you?

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Speaker 7: Like? Is this a normal for you?

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Speaker 8: Gross?

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Speaker 5: I talked to you true once I gross.

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Speaker 3: I will.

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Speaker 8: Go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I have a puppy and she's just sick. She hasn't

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Speaker 3: been able to eat, and she's a little Maltese puppy

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Speaker 5: And I was encouraging her like, come on, baby, there

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Speaker 5: you go, very good job. I'm gonna touch your picture

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Speaker 5: of a baby.

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Speaker 3: Right down here. You go.

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I have a puppy. I have a mai. Her

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Speaker 3: name is Baby. Her name is Baby.

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Speaker 9: Believable, based on what you heard, I want I need

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Speaker 9: to see this photog.

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Speaker 3: I just text you sure, so funny.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I don't know. Can you see yourself doing

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I would cheer him on if

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Speaker 2: he was sick and he was finally eating, I would

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Speaker 1: I don't know how I would say it.

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Speaker 6: I think he just sounds a little more interesting because

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Speaker 6: the dog is named baby, right.

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Speaker 8: I do remember him saying get in their baby, but.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, like get in the food.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just really having to was eating. I

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Speaker 3: was just trying to cheer on. She hadn't eating for today,

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Speaker 3: so so I was really happy that it was finally eating.

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Speaker 8: I mean, this is true.

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Speaker 4: That's actually really hilarious.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, okay, I can confirm there's a very cute

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Speaker 7: dog that has at the intact for this baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, well that's awkward. But if that, I mean,

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Speaker 2: that sounds like that's really what was going on.

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Speaker 8: I am so embarrassed.

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Speaker 6: I mean in your defense, Becca, I mean, how would

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it didn't sound good.

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Speaker 3: But now.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, well I'm so sorry Becca.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another date with Mac?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it and you can meet baby?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, I'm is that?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: I would?

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Speaker 8: Is he open to time?

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Speaker 3: So sorry? Yeah? Of course. So I was wondering what

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Speaker 3: happened like this is a huge misunderstanding, So I'm glad

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Speaker 3: we got to clear it up. Like I obviously would

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Speaker 3: love to see you again, I don't want the girlfriend

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Speaker 3: around player. You do have to share me with babies though.

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Speaker 4: That's there

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Speaker 1: You Will's first Date follow up