WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Surprise Surprise 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.040 We're gonna get you started on Monday with a brand 0:00:02.120 --> 0:00:05.920 new episode. Thanks for finding the official second podcast with. 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.040 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:07.480 --> 0:00:10.240 I've been seeing another influx by the way of like 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:11.600 Facebook videos. 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:12.760 That's random. 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:15.160 I know of people stealing our audio and then using 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:17.279 weird AI pictures of jeff and I Brook. 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:19.840 Are you on Facebook seeing these? Are people are sending 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.360 them to you? I know it's just in my algorithm. 0:00:23.480 --> 0:00:23.840 I like that. 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:25.639 I do appreciate that it finds me. 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:29.159 Yeah, so that's nice. Target audience has been reach you. 0:00:29.920 --> 0:00:32.559 If you've come here from social media. Thank you for 0:00:32.640 --> 0:00:35.760 finding the real stuff. We appreciate it. But first let's 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:36.440 get to comments. 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:38.800 Yeah, well that makes me think of this comment by 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:41.840 m Pickle, who said, dang, they still make these Yes, 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:44.760 we do. 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:46.400 Well. 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:49.959 Some people get stuff on those playlists, yes, and they 0:00:50.000 --> 0:00:52.680 don't realize that there's a whole show that you could 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:53.400 click over. 0:00:53.240 --> 0:00:56.440 To that has like years stuff of new episode. Please 0:00:56.480 --> 0:00:58.600 go comment on that stuff for us. We can't because 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:00.760 then we look weird, right, So you could do it 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:02.320 for us. Yeah, and it's just hard to keep up 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:06.200 with all right. Hey, thanks for being here in the present. Yeah, 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:07.280 episode just for you. 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.280 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:14.560 Brooke, how would you feel if you came home and 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:18.080 your husband tells you he has planned a date night. 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:19.480 I'd be so excited. 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:22.520 Child's care is handled and what you're doing is a 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:23.880 special surprise. 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:25.520 Oh I love surprises. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:29.240 Surprises are like my jam don't tell me, don't tell me. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:30.760 I want to be surprised. 0:01:30.840 --> 0:01:33.920 Wow, baby number three would happen that night? 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:37.559 Oh yeah, he got snipped. We're good. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:37.880 Now. 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:43.119 Imagine there's no kids, no husband, and it's a first 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.040 date with a cute guy you just met online and 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:50.640 did no background check on and he says he has 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:51.840 a surprise for you. 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:54.600 Are you still feeling the same way? 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:59.080 No? No, not Why didn't I do a background check? 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:01.160 Jeff that even now, I have a lot of regrets. 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:02.680 Just an accepting type of lady. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.360 Okay, I only asked because that's the approach one of 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:08.960 our listeners, Wesley took on his first date. He thought 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:12.120 it'd be fun to be a little bit secretive about 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:15.680 what they were doing. But now he's not getting a callback. 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:18.160 So we'll see if we can pinpoint any clues for 0:02:18.320 --> 0:02:19.680 why that might be happening. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:21.960 But I feel like we already found the big reasons 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:22.680 it could be. 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:24.400 But Wesley, welcome to the show. 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:26.800 Hey, hey, guys, how's it going. 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.919 Oh hey, that's a big bold move planning a surprise 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:31.920 date for a very first meetup. 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.320 So what's her name? Let's start there. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:36.519 Ramona is her name? 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:36.880 Okay? 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:37.399 Okay? 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.280 Can I ask did you have any inclination that Ramona 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:44.480 likes surprises because some people absolutely hate um? 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:45.080 Good point. 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:47.920 Well, I mentioned the idea of like, oh, it could 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.079 be a surprise if you want. 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:50.680 She was like, yeah, let's go for it. 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.840 Ohka, that's a good way to bring it up. It 0:02:52.880 --> 0:02:55.320 was like, you put it on her if you want, right. 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:58.920 Yeah. So what did you end up doing for your 0:02:59.120 --> 0:02:59.839 surprise date? 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:03.520 Well it might be a little bit cheesy, but when 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:06.240 I picked her up, I left a trail of rose 0:03:06.240 --> 0:03:08.200 petals from her door to my car. 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.120 That's very romantic. 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.239 Oh wow, that's what I'm saying. 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.079 Immediately, That means you want to do. 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:18.000 It her belt? 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:22.320 All right, I'm not going to say no. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:23.960 To a bag. 0:03:25.919 --> 0:03:27.720 It's stronger vaccine. 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:29.640 Okay, but no on a first date. It's kind of 0:03:29.720 --> 0:03:31.280 like a path to romance. 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:34.000 He is a wagon, thank a lot more space. 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:37.760 What did Ramona think when she saw the rose petals? 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:41.000 She laughed, but she said it was really sweet and kissed. 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:41.320 Me on the cheek. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:46.200 Wow, you got kissed on the cheek immediately. Yeah yeah, wow. 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:48.800 Okay, so you're starting off on the right foot. 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.800 All right, what happens next? 0:03:51.400 --> 0:03:54.080 So for like the surprise part of the night. 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:58.400 I took her to this couple's Mediterranean cooking class. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.400 Oh my god, that's actually really cute. 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.080 That and you had her cook the meal while you 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:10.720 just sat there and waited right trail of all of it. Yeah, 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:15.000 all right, now that's cute. What did you guys cook? 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:19.240 I had never heard of this until we made it. 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:22.080 It's a hummus and seafood piea you guys know what 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:22.760 a pia is. 0:04:22.880 --> 0:04:25.640 Yeah, pia is amazing hummus and awful. 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:26.599 Oh it was so good. 0:04:26.880 --> 0:04:28.200 You mean those are separate dishes? 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:31.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:32.400 Yeah. 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:35.520 It was her and I chipping on wine and it 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:38.200 was just good conversation. You know, we were flirting, we 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.120 were talking about ourselves, that whole thing. 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:43.120 So from how you're describing it at this point, things 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:46.719 are going pretty perfectly. There hasn't been any speed bumps yet. 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:47.600 Exactly. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:51.120 Yeah, so nothing has gone wrong, but she just kind 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:53.960 of stopped responding to me, kind of ghosted me a 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:54.360 little bit. 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:57.120 Well, hold on, we don't know how the date ended, 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.680 Like how did you and Ramona leave it? 0:05:00.160 --> 0:05:02.560 Okay, okay, Well, well that's a good question because I 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:06.440 don't think anything messed up there either. So yeah, we 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:09.560 get in the car, she kisses me again, and then 0:05:09.720 --> 0:05:11.960 I drive her back to her house and she said, 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.440 I don't want this night to end. 0:05:13.760 --> 0:05:14.880 Oh oh my. 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:16.520 Oh that's what she said. 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:19.200 That's what she said. Why is that good? 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:20.040 What do you mean? 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:20.880 Why is that good? 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:22.159 I'm asking why. 0:05:22.520 --> 0:05:26.120 It's confusing to me because this whole situation, but we 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:29.240 ended up making out in the car for like thirty minutes. 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:31.960 Leaving the car action. I knew it. 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:32.880 I called it all along. 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:37.240 And then what you walked her to. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:40.040 Her door or I walked her to her door, and 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:41.920 that was that. It was kind of a late night 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.480 at that point. 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:46.720 I mean, I bet, yeah, you should. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:50.839 You get out the rose pedals again? 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:53.840 Yeah, I bet you were so giddy, Like what were 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:55.440 you feeling when you got back in your car? 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:56.640 I felt great. 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.840 I felt like I had done everything right, and I 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:01.720 was feeling really optimistic. 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.400 I was really excited. This is a girl that I 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:06.000 really like. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.320 So I don't understand why we're suddenly uh no, I 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:12.400 thought why she all of a sudden stopped answering me. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:16.040 Yeah, like completely. She didn't say I don't want to 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:17.960 Did she say anything after the date? 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:21.200 Well, after the date, yes, we texted for days after that. 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.120 Oh, there has been communications. 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:26.239 We were just texting, but it wasn't just a normal 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:27.400 like hey, how you doing. 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:29.000 It was kind of lovey dovey. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:31.520 Stuff, kind of you know, there's a second date on 0:06:31.560 --> 0:06:32.919 the horizon type of stuff. 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:36.440 Okay, and then when was the last time you talked to. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:38.840 Her a couple of days ago? 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:41.800 Well, maybe it's like I said before, she didn't want 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:44.160 the date to end, because that means she goes back 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:46.240 to her boyfriend inside of the house. 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.320 That was her one night of freedom. 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.200 It's going to be awkward since you didn't pick up 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:52.640 those rose petals. 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.200 Yeah, so is it possible that, I mean, do you 0:06:56.279 --> 0:06:58.400 think maybe there could be another dude you've only been 0:06:58.400 --> 0:06:59.200 on one date with her? 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:00.839 Well, I sure hope not. 0:07:01.080 --> 0:07:03.680 We seem to have a really good connection between the 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:05.359 two of us, so that would be kind of messed 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.680 up if she was going home somebody. 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:08.960 Else and it's something that you'd want to find out 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:09.400 right now. 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:13.440 Yeah, that's the answer for you, brother, because it's nothing 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:17.480 to do with you that we can't pershing to do 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:17.720 with you. 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:19.960 I try to fix this and get him another date. 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:22.000 Like it could be just a bad communication. 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:23.920 Sure, but if it falls apart, let's hope it's her 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:24.320 on her. 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:25.560 Maybe it's a little bit of both. 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.480 Let's hope Forday, when we come back, we'll call this 0:07:28.520 --> 0:07:31.040 girl and find out why she isn't wanting to see 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.680 you again. After the most romantic date that I think 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.480 we've heard all year long. When we do your second 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:38.960 Gate update right after you you don't think so. 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:40.600 Now you're doubting yourself. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.440 It was kind of a bold statement. I don't know. 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:43.560 I'm trying to remember the other. 0:07:43.520 --> 0:07:46.400 Day, the most mid romance date we've ever heard. In 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.480 your second Date update right after this. 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:53.440 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates, Dude. 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:57.320 Talk about a cool surprise date that didn't involve ropes 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:58.360 or duct tape. 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:00.800 Yeah, that's hard off. 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:04.120 Shockingly, Wait, that's a normal thing to say. 0:08:04.280 --> 0:08:06.400 This is what all women expect the first time a 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:08.320 stranger picks them up at their house and says, I 0:08:08.320 --> 0:08:08.880 have a surprise. 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:09.800 Are you okay? 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.720 Our listener, Wesley went a different route, connected with a 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:16.360 woman named Ramona online, picked her up at her house 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:19.280 with a trail of rose petals leading from her door 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:21.080 to his car, and. 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:24.560 She loved it. Yeah, well, at least that was the 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:25.240 vibe she gave her. 0:08:25.400 --> 0:08:28.720 Definitely, And so they ended up doing a Mediterranean cooking 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:32.120 date where they learned how to make hummus and paea. 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:33.600 How awesome is that? 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:36.480 We discussed this separately. 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.520 And when she got home she said those magic words, 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:41.960 I don't want this night to end yet. 0:08:42.400 --> 0:08:44.680 Oh, I don't think any girl's ever told me that. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:45.960 That sounds magical. 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:51.000 That led to a half hour long makeout in the car, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:55.440 followed by a string of romantic texts afterwards until things 0:08:55.480 --> 0:09:00.000 suddenly stopped and he doesn't understand why. So you can imagine, 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.560 and if you're in Wesley's shoes, you want to know 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:03.800 what is going on? 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:06.440 God, I really hope it's I broke my phone and 0:09:06.480 --> 0:09:07.600 it's taken me a couple of days. 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:09.680 Yeah, I got the replacement. 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:11.800 Wouldn't that just be the best thing? Ever Wesley. 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:15.480 Yeah, yeah, ideal situation there. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.240 Yeah, she's like this. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.880 Phone call in now. Yeah, we got a lot of 0:09:19.920 --> 0:09:20.400 talking to you. 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.320 Well, we'll see if her phone is still working, because 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:24.720 I'm about to dial it right now. 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:26.920 I'm nervous for you because there's a lot on the line. 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:29.440 You invested in this day, you know, when you like 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.440 this girl, Usually these things don't matter when we call people. 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:37.800 Yeah, yeah, not to downplay all of our other listeners, 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:40.600 but sure, this one definitely has a lot of weight 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.600 behind it. Let's dial Ramona's phone number and see if 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:52.800 she answers. Here we go, Hello, Hey is this Ramona? 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:56.559 Hey Ramona. 0:09:56.880 --> 0:09:58.960 My name is Jeff from a radio show called Brook 0:09:58.960 --> 0:09:59.960 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.400 Say Ramona, the whole shows here. 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:02.800 Hey Ramona, good morning. 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:05.920 Okay, good morning. 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:10.920 You don't have to be afraid of us. We're pretty friendly. 0:10:12.200 --> 0:10:12.840 What are we doing. 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.720 We're we're doing a segment here. It's called the second 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:17.480 date Update. 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:20.240 Oh okay. 0:10:20.360 --> 0:10:22.560 That maybe means that she's heard of him before, Jeff. 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:23.679 That type of reaction. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:26.880 Maybe this is a segment where if you go out 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.400 on a date with somebody and they're not getting a 0:10:29.440 --> 0:10:32.320 call back afterwards, you can reach out to us and 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:34.280 we'll try to get a hold of that person to 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:35.920 find out if there's a reason why. 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:38.600 And we have one very confused man. 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:41.840 Oh yes, yes, no, no, you don't. You don't have 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.040 a confused man. I don't go on very many eights. 0:10:44.040 --> 0:10:48.040 So I know exactly who you're talking about. It has 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:49.160 to be Wesley, am I right? 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:49.720 Yeah? 0:10:50.280 --> 0:10:52.560 We wait, he's very confused. 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:56.319 Yeah, you know, he's not just confused, he's in a 0:10:56.520 --> 0:11:00.959 whole Okay, whoa, I never talked to him again. 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.880 Not Okay, that's not the guy we talked to. 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.760 Dude, that's wild because that is not who he portrayed 0:11:05.800 --> 0:11:09.640 towards us, Like he sounded like a hero of a 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:12.080 first date night shining armor. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.240 Well, I've already blocked him, so we really don't need 0:11:15.280 --> 0:11:16.160 to have a big conversation. 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:19.280 Okay, First of all, we didn't know that. I don't 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:22.560 think Wesley knows. He never mentioned that he was blocked. 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:25.440 Then he is both rude and stupid. 0:11:25.760 --> 0:11:28.680 Okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, Emona. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.280 We need the details of this because the story he 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:34.920 told was the most romantic first date and rose petals 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:36.439 and cooking classes. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:38.280 Well, first of all, I had nothing to do with 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:40.240 the date. It was a lovely evening. 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:45.240 Oh I never heard the words a lovely evening uttered 0:11:45.280 --> 0:11:46.400 with such disdain. 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:48.640 Is it something you found out after? Is that what 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:49.120 you're saying? 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:50.920 Yeah? 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.440 He body shamed me over a text. 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.959 WHOA, what do you mean body shamed? 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:00.000 What did you say? I'll get mad for you? 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:00.520 Oh? 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:02.040 No, what do you mean? 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:06.720 He thinks that I have this giant, big Fred Flintstone forehead. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:11.200 I mean, seriously, how dare he? And he texted me 0:12:11.240 --> 0:12:13.000 that hold on? He tested me. 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:14.800 That hold on hold on? 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:19.280 You felt like Ramona, he was pointing out a flaw 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:20.040 with you. 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.680 I don't feel that way. I read it. He sent 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:24.560 it to me. I can read it over and over. 0:12:24.720 --> 0:12:25.839 Oh can you read it to us? 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:27.360 What exactly did it say? 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:29.760 I'm not going to read it to you because it's 0:12:29.800 --> 0:12:31.360 going to make me feel bad all over again. 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:35.160 So okay, well that is absolutely not what we're going 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:35.679 after day. 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:37.840 Wonder you blocked him if you felt like he was 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:38.800 making fun of you. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.320 I'm not going to sit back after one date. Unlet 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:43.319 some guys pick on me. I mean, my god, I 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:44.440 got a better thing to do. 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:48.120 Yekay, we got a very different view of what was 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:50.560 going on between the two of you from Wesley. So 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:53.800 I'm really interested to hear his side of this and 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:55.559 figure out what's really going on, because I need to 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.600 let you know, Ramona, Wesley is already on this phone call, 0:12:59.040 --> 0:13:00.560 listening and waiting to talk to you. 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:04.920 Oh well, that's just great. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:06.680 Yeah, Leslie, are you even there? 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:07.400 Romota? 0:13:07.840 --> 0:13:09.600 Oh my god, I never body shamed you. 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:12.240 Oh. 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:14.640 I wouldn't come in with that one. 0:13:14.840 --> 0:13:15.280 Lexleye. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.280 Please tell us that there's been some sort of horrible 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:22.360 miscommunication here and you're not doing the things that she's 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:23.400 accusing you of doing. 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:26.640 Well, I'm not here to make her feel bad, but 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:30.000 in my defense, I'll tell you. What I said is 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.280 I wish you were here so I could give you 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:33.400 big forehead kisses. 0:13:34.600 --> 0:13:36.360 Did you say big forehead kisses? 0:13:37.000 --> 0:13:37.960 Yeah? I did. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:41.000 I said I wish you were here so I could 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:43.040 give you big forehead kisses. 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:46.520 Okay, that means. 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:48.800 Big kisses on your forehead. It doesn't mean you have 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:49.840 a big forehead. 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:52.760 Yeah. I don't know if it really sounds like body shaming. 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:56.880 No, I'm so sorry you read it that way. 0:13:57.080 --> 0:13:58.560 I bet you felt so bad. 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.920 You guys aren't understanding. I got his text. I specifically 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:08.480 read it. It said big forehead. You can't just unsee 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:09.000 that stuff. 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:13.080 Oh yeah, it's just the unfortunate way of wording it. 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:15.760 I mean I could see Ramona, if you had some 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:19.120 like self conscious things that you would read it that way. 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.920 But I think everyone in the room is trying to 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.000 tell you that was definitely not the intention. 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:24.840 It was cute. 0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:26.280 It's not cute. 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:29.360 I mean, we're trying to defend him. But Wesley, talk 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.120 to Ramona, tell her what you meant. 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.000 What I meant to say was that I want to 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:37.320 lay a big kiss on your forehead. 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:38.320 On your normal forehead. 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:41.320 M yeah, I'm not saying I want to kiss you 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:45.120 on your big head? 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:45.400 Right? 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:48.320 Are you hearing the wrong time? To cover that dome? 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.160 But you said big forehead? 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:52.720 Those are your words. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:55.560 You've you texted it in that order. O. 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:59.680 My god, I know what I said. But people always 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.600 say you a big forehead kiss. It's just a term. 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:07.000 You need to tell me right now, Honestly, I'll know 0:15:07.040 --> 0:15:09.720 if you're lying. I mean, when you texted me, did 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.520 it or did it not come into your mind subconsciously 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.240 that I have a big forehead. 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:19.240 No, No, it did not see. 0:15:19.640 --> 0:15:22.440 Okay, so now you don't think I have one. But 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:23.920 every time you look at me, you're not going to 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.280 think about my forehead being a little bit too big. 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:28.560 After this conversation, maybe. 0:15:29.840 --> 0:15:34.240 I mean, maybe you could say it slightly bigger than. 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.960 Normal, but not that much. I don't mind. 0:15:37.680 --> 0:15:38.280 I don't care. 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:42.600 Okay, Well, a big fourhead? Is it a bad thing? 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.440 Yeah, it's not. That's a lot of head to kids, 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:47.000 you get an extra forehead. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:50.640 Yeah, you guys don't know how to make a girl 0:15:50.640 --> 0:15:54.360 feel good to you. 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:57.280 You have a romantic guy who's seriously interested in you, 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:00.360 who put in a lot of effort and really wants 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:03.840 to see you again. Like that doesn't happen very often. 0:16:04.080 --> 0:16:05.200 We don't know about this a lot. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.800 We really think you should give him another chance. I mean, 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:09.680 if you want to on your next meetup, you could 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:11.880 wear a hat so the forehead is out of the picture. 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:14.080 Sure, just pick a body part of his to shame 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:14.920 you know then you. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:20.840 Yeah, I don't know about that, but Ramona, we think 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:23.320 you should give him one more chance. Forget that one 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:26.400 text message, because everything before it was so good. Need 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:28.960 him one more time, and if you're willing to, we 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:29.920 would pay for the date. 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:33.320 I think that you guys have had enough of a 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:37.840 laugh on my part and I'm just gonna I'm just 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:41.080 gonna say no, no, I don't. I don't need it at. 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:43.680 So maybe let it go. 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:44.720 It's to go. 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:49.360 Let it go, Ramona. I'm really sorry it worked out 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:52.040