1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,720 Speaker 1: Well, well, well, I'm really happy that we could be 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: grace with your presence after the disaster that I just 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:09,799 Speaker 1: saw taking place in your living room. 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:12,600 Speaker 2: I mean, I just came home. I have an eight 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 2: month old boxer puppy and I'm trying to not leave 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 2: him in the crate anymore when I leave the house 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 2: for a little bit, and I came home to what 8 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 2: looked like a bloodbath all over my couch. He had 9 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 2: gotten It's a not sponsored pilot Precise V five red 10 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 2: pen and it is everywhere. It is everywhere, And instantly 11 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 2: I knew which dog it was because his paw is red, 12 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: his chin is. 13 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: Red, like a walking pelle on himself. 14 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: And like there's a book all torn apart, like he 15 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: was very obviously on my dining room table, and I'm 16 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: just like, oh my gosh, Like what have I done? 17 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: But he's so cute. It's hard. 18 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: It is real cute, real cute. I'm real sweet. But 19 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: I would make me want to murder him. 20 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: I just have to, like, I know, all of his 21 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: mistakes are my mistakes. Like I just have to make 22 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 2: more time to like get his energy out in the 23 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: morning so that I can leave him, or I just 24 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 2: have to be fine with him being in a great one. 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 2: I'm gone for a couple of hours. 26 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 3: The life of a puppy dad. 27 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,520 Speaker 2: I know. It just stinks when you have a dog 28 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 2: that is so good and I could leave him in 29 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 2: the house for twenty four hours and he wouldn't touch 30 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 2: a thing or pee. So it's I fall I'm very lucky, 31 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 2: and you're. 32 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 3: Having to retrain yourself from us. 33 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: You're right, that's what it is. 34 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 3: Interesting. 35 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: Well, this week, obviously, is the first week of February, 36 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: and as you guys know, in the first week of 37 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: the month, Marv, my master astrologer, always comes on to 38 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: the podcast and talks about what the energy of the 39 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: month is going to be. He talks about the new moon, 40 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: the full moon, all the other transits that are happening. 41 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: And I sent to Chip kind of, you know, we 42 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: take our Friday podcast from our Wednesday podcast topics, and 43 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: I sent him kind of what we had talked about 44 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: with Marv this on the podcast, and he was like, literally, 45 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: this sounds like did you gobbledgook? 46 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 3: He just doesn't. You don't really know that much about astrology. 47 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: And and it's like, even when you just said transit, 48 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, what is it a train? Like the the 49 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 2: way the words fit together to me is. 50 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 3: It's just a foreign language. 51 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: It is a foreign language, and I shut down. And 52 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 2: the weird thing is is like I appreciate it and 53 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, like I sense that it is very real, 54 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: but it's it's a foreign language, and it just makes 55 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: me go, WHOA. None of the speaks like that sentence 56 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 2: doesn't make sense to me. So anyone who's listening, if 57 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: you're in the same boat as me, I would love 58 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 2: to know. And anyone who's overcome that, I would love 59 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 2: to know how you did it without having to like 60 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 2: go to college and study it. 61 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 1: Well, Okay, I feel like you're being a little dramatic. 62 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: I mean that's what it feels like to me. Though 63 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: it feels like a whole like I need a major 64 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 2: in it, I. 65 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: Do feel like that is how a lot of people feel. 66 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: And so I'm glad that you can express those sentiments 67 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: about the topic because I know it's something I've learned 68 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: a lot about in the last couple of years, and 69 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: I almost forget how much I've learned because I'll just 70 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 1: talk about it and I have a lot of friends 71 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: who I can talk about it with. But then it's 72 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: like when I meet someone who doesn't actually know what 73 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 1: that stuff is, they're like, huh. 74 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be sitting around with y'all and you're like, 75 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 2: blah blah blah. It's such a leout. Uh what's your birthday? 76 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 2: It may sex oh you're this. I'm like, I'm here. 77 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: I am like. Maybe it's because like it makes me 78 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: feel small, Like I don't feel. 79 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 3: Like, oh that's interesting. 80 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 2: It's like a weird thing. It's like a defense mechanism. 81 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. 82 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. 83 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: But these are great things that astrology is bringing up 84 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: for you to explore and dive deeper, which is one 85 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: of the whole reasons I love it. It teaches us 86 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: about ourselves. But yeah, so one of the things I 87 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: said to you, and I think this goes for the 88 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 1: listeners too. When I'm talking with Marv, I know it 89 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: is heavy on the actual astrology talk because we're talking 90 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: about the specifics of what's happening with the planets and 91 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: the houses and all those things. And though what I 92 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: try to do with him is talk about the bigger message, 93 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: and with you today, that was kind of how I 94 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: wanted to incorporate it was to touch on maybe some 95 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: of the energy's happening, but to bring it back down 96 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: to earth and say, like, how does this play out 97 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: in your life right without you having to understand the 98 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: new moon and the full moon and the transits and 99 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 1: all the things that I just have. 100 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 2: I was like the houses in the store. 101 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, see, this is where it does get very complex. 102 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: And again, like I forget. It's taken me years to 103 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 1: learn the stuff I learn, and I literally learned something 104 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: new every time I'm talking to anyone in astrology or 105 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 1: who has a heavy background in this. So it's just 106 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: like this never ending cycle of learning. So don't feel 107 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: like overwhelmed by that. It's just like you just take 108 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: a little bit as it comes and just learn the 109 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: little things like you know your double scorpio, you know 110 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: you have a Pisoce's moon. Those are things you just learned. 111 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: Those are great, right right? 112 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I should write that down so I don't forget it, 113 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 2: and then I'll. 114 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,919 Speaker 1: Teach you about what that means too. But today Marvin 115 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: I talked a lot about the Aquarius new moon and 116 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: also the Leo full moon, which is a very interesting 117 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 1: thing happening right now because Aquarius and Leo are on 118 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: opposite ends of the spectrum. And I'll try to keep 119 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 1: it as simple as I can when describing this, but 120 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: that makes the energy's very different. So like Aquarius, if 121 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: you meet anyone that has an Aquarius in their top three, 122 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,600 Speaker 1: like their sun, their moon, or their rising, they're probably 123 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 1: a little quirky. There may be the outsider of the crew, 124 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 1: they're the one with new innovative ideas, but a lot 125 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: of times they're almost like ahead of their time, Like 126 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: it's just a very kind of individual, detached, freethinking kind 127 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: of energy. And then a Leo, which you know a 128 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: lot of leo's like our friend Tyler that was on 129 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: the podcast last week, the travel Agent, He's a LEO 130 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: and like you know, Tyler is just so cute and 131 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:02,359 Speaker 1: he knows it. That's a Leah like that that energy 132 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: kind of the Leo is the lion, the king, the 133 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: like the regals. Definitely, but also like a confidence is 134 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 1: what I would say, Like a LEO knows they're good 135 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: at things, they're bold, they're adventurous, and they feel themselves 136 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: about it. Like you know, a lot of different signs, Yeah, 137 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:25,920 Speaker 1: a lot of different signs are maybe a little more 138 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: timid or they could be really great at stuff, but 139 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 1: they would never give themselves that credit. A Leo's always 140 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: going to give themselves that credit, Like I envy a 141 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: Leo energy, like I love that energy because I'm like, yeah, 142 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: do you and they will like that is definitely them. 143 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 1: So that's kind of just like I told you before, 144 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gonna set the scene. These are 145 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: the things that like, those are the energies that we're 146 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: going to be talking about a little bit today. But 147 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: with you, I thought it would be kind of fun 148 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 1: if we dove a little more into like just the 149 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: different sides of things and ask ourselves some or answer 150 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: some interesting questions just individually about stuff that could come 151 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: up within these energies. So like, for instance, the Aquarius energy, 152 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: we could say basically like let's get weird and because 153 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: that's very aquarian, and I thought, okay, what are what's aquarian? 154 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: A quirky? Uh, let's talk about quirky habits. So we 155 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: kind of touched on this a little bit when we 156 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: were talking about relationships. But do you have any quirky 157 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: habits that you would like to share with the listeners 158 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: that maybe could speak to your inner aquarian. 159 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 2: Well, it's funny because I mean, I guess this is 160 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: a habit. Like I have this thing where I'm when 161 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 2: I'm talking to people, I bite the hairs in my 162 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: mustache if they're too long, and I do it all 163 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 2: the time. Though, well I do that too, but it's 164 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: like a weird, quirky thing. And in the middle of 165 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 2: doing it, I realize I'm doing it too, and I'm like, 166 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 2: people must think it's so weird. And I don't know 167 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 2: where it came from. But it's like, if there is 168 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: a hair that feels a little bit longer than the 169 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 2: one next to it, yeah, I have to like. 170 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: Storten it, but like you want to shorten it with 171 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 3: your tongue. 172 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I'll just bend my lip. It's like it's yeah, 173 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 2: for those of you who can't see it, it's like, 174 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 2: and it's mostly on the sides. That is probably the 175 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: weirdest thing that I do. 176 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: To be honest, you don't have any like remember when 177 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: I was describing all the things I do for my sleep. 178 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: I feel like I have a lot. Like I do 179 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: a lot of things that I think people would be like, Okay. 180 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: You're a quirky but more Aquarius. 181 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 3: Well, I don't. 182 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: I don't really think that I present that way, and 183 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: so people are often like my boyfriend now is like 184 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: I would have never when I first, like all the 185 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: years that I've known you, I would have never thought 186 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: that you had all these little quirks or whatever. And 187 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,079 Speaker 1: now he looks at me and he just like giggles 188 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: about all the little weird stuff that I do. 189 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I don't think I put it on. 190 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 2: I mean I thought about it over the last several 191 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 2: hours and I really don't. I mean, it's it's not 192 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: that weird. I like to pee outside, but like I'm 193 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: a dude and I wrote that country though, but. 194 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 3: What we've talked about, I don't get it. 195 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: I mean, it's just easier than having to flush a 196 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 2: toilet and clean a bathroom and I'm going outside with 197 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 2: my dogs. But like even last night, I went to 198 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:13,559 Speaker 2: a party like this, like screening, and I had to 199 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:14,680 Speaker 2: pee And when I got in my car, I just 200 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 2: peed by my car and got my car and left. 201 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 3: That is so okay. This is a quirky habit. 202 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, And some of that is just it's so convenient. 203 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: It's so much easier, you know, I don't have to 204 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 2: like pull my pants down and squat. Yeah. 205 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 3: Ability to do that. I was gonna say, have a. 206 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what gives me the ability. 207 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 1: Well, right, because a girl it's so much trickier. And 208 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: I've had this conversation with so many guys. I've seen 209 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 1: so many guys do this, and I'm like, there's a 210 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 1: bathroom right there. I don't understand a lot of guys 211 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: that I've talked to you about it said there's something 212 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: powerful about it, like, especially if you're at your own house. 213 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: It's sort of this like I mean, I almost look 214 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: at it as a little bit animalistic of marking your territory. 215 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really interesting. 216 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, I pick my cue to and I love to 217 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: do it, like I literally love it. I don't know 218 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: why it's so satisfying, but that is like one of 219 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: my big tics yesterday. I have a girl who comes 220 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,080 Speaker 1: to my house and does my nails and she's amazing. 221 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: I posted about her all the time on my Instagram 222 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,839 Speaker 1: mobile Man of Curious if anyone wants to go look 223 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: her up. But she was at my house and I 224 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,559 Speaker 1: get these like sore spots around my thumb uh huh, 225 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: And I still won't stop it's almost like an ingrown 226 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 1: skin because I pick at it so much, and I'll 227 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: still keep picking at it, and it's like, why do 228 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 1: I do this? She goes, have you ever thought about stopping? 229 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 2: I'm a nail biter and I've been really I've been 230 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 2: really good the last year about trying not to like, yeah, 231 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,200 Speaker 2: because it's I would notice. I would be just in 232 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 2: a meeting biting my nails and it's like you're the 233 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: clicking and like, yeah, I don't have as many quirks 234 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: as I would have thought I did, And maybe it's 235 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 2: just hard for me to recognize them because they're just. 236 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 3: Things that ile to you. 237 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't have too many like sort of 238 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 2: routine things. Yeah, definitely biting the hair, like and it's 239 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 2: like weird, I like fold my face up and no 240 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 2: one has ever said, what the fuck are you doing? 241 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 3: I'm obviously going to start saying something now, Yeah. 242 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 2: Please tell me so I'll stop doing. 243 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: Okay, well, have you seen me taking my keuticles? You 244 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,839 Speaker 3: can say something, but I'm not exacting. I will not stop. 245 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: This one probably applies to me again more weird trends 246 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: that you fall for, Like I think you know, like 247 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 1: wellness trends, uh, beauty trends like even I mean, you 248 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: could go dating, you could go fashion all over the 249 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 1: spiritual trends. 250 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 3: That's I feel like. 251 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 2: The one the space that I have always been the 252 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: most susceptible to falling for a trend is diet and 253 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: exercise stuff. Okay, and you know that's deeply rooted in 254 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: my own body issues. But like I have ordered some 255 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 2: of those like weird things, like the thing that like 256 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 2: shocks your belly. You know, it's just like battery operated 257 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 2: and it's like supposed to do. 258 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 3: I try that. Got it for your butt? 259 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: Though in theory it should work, you know, it is 260 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 2: exercising those muscles, but like it is not a replacement 261 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 2: fractional oh. 262 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: It doesn't even really full stay. 263 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 2: My favorite thing that I bought was and this is 264 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:22,200 Speaker 2: hard to describe, but like I have my my chin 265 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 2: kind of goes diagonally to my neck and it's a 266 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 2: it's really a genetic thing. I'm shipped like my mom, 267 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: and it's yes, it would probably be better if I 268 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 2: lost some weight, but I don't think it's ever just 269 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:34,640 Speaker 2: I'm going to have a super tight neck unless I 270 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 2: got like a neck lift. But I found this ball 271 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 2: that like you press under your and you put under 272 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,120 Speaker 2: your neck and you like, yeah, nod your head, and 273 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 2: it's like it's it's kind of like a stress ball. 274 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 2: It's firm, yeah, and it's supposed to like tighten that up, 275 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 2: but really all it did was make the back of 276 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 2: my neck hurt. 277 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 3: Oh so it's yeah. 278 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 2: The fitness, those sorts of things are the ones and 279 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: like we you know, like fad diets and stuff. And 280 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 2: I feel like I finally gotten had enough failed attempts 281 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 2: at all these bullshit things. And you know, I shouldn't 282 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 2: call them bullshit things because they do work for some people. 283 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 2: They're just not They're always marketed to work for everybody 284 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 2: and to be a quick fix. And I know that, like, 285 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 2: as someone who has been overweight most of his life, 286 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 2: most of that is caused by me being too lazy 287 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:25,319 Speaker 2: to fucking just fix it. Yeah, I'm looking for the 288 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 2: quick I've been looking for the quick fix. And now 289 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 2: that I have settled into an actual like routine of 290 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 2: working out and eating better, I'm seeing the results that 291 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: I've been dying for my whole life. And then, you know, 292 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:42,040 Speaker 2: the window shopping of online dating is I don't know 293 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 2: that that's like a trend, but I've certainly been sucked 294 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,599 Speaker 2: into that, and that too is a corner cutter. It 295 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:49,719 Speaker 2: means I don't have to like go out to the 296 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 2: bar and put myself in a weird situation and step 297 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 2: outside of my comfort zone and talk to a stranger. 298 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 2: I can feel it out online and if they don't respond, 299 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: it's like there's no you know, you don't rejection in 300 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 2: those cases. 301 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 1: So, yeah, that's interesting. That almost ties more into the 302 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:07,960 Speaker 1: Leo conversation. Maybe we'll circle back to that, Okay. I 303 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 1: definitely fall into like the beauty trends. I mean, I'll 304 00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: try anything just because it's exciting to me, because it's 305 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 1: my job too, and I'm always curious what are the 306 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: new innovations we could come so far in like skincare, 307 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: beauty trends as far as like what you can do 308 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 1: with aging, and I'm always looking for like a more 309 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: holistic approach. But then also like what are the advances 310 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: in science that we can use, So I'll I mean, 311 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 1: I definitely will try stuff with that. I think I 312 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: fall under it with the spiritual trends or practices as well, 313 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: just because I'm so interested in that side of it, 314 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: which I guess could be considered beauty too. We talk 315 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: about on this podcast like beauty is both external and internal, 316 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: and with the spiritual stuff, I'm like, cool, let me 317 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: try this new process. Or have I ever told you 318 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 1: about the lady in Bali with the electric hands? 319 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 2: I don't think so. 320 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 3: People don't even think I'm crazy. 321 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: But like, so when I went to Bali, my friend 322 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,280 Speaker 1: Mary and I were like, let's try a bunch of 323 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: the different kind of healers that they have, you know, 324 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: And I'm very open to that, and so is she, 325 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 1: and we'll kind of just lean in, like I mean, 326 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 1: we've done some weird shit together, Like we've gone to 327 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,080 Speaker 1: conventions where you do like ecstatic dance and you're inner 328 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: room of strangers just like dancing and contorting your body 329 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: and you're supposed to just get lost. 330 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 3: In the moment, you know, and we do. 331 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: And a lot of people I think if they ever 332 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,840 Speaker 1: saw us and be like, what are y'all doing? 333 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 2: I'm so mad. I wasn't there. Yeah, you, well, just 334 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: as a spectator, I. 335 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 3: Think you would have liked it. As a spectator. 336 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: I'd be curious how you would feel about it. 337 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 2: I mean I was a drama major. We had to 338 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 2: do a lot of that weird. 339 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:47,360 Speaker 3: Tra That's true. That's true. That's true. 340 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 1: I forget about the trauma major. But you're doing this sober. 341 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: It's not like you have any sort of like drug 342 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: or alcohol to numb the effect or like the impact 343 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,840 Speaker 1: of how odd it kind of is. But one of 344 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: the things we tried was in Bali. There was this 345 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: girl and the story behind her skill set I guess 346 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 1: you would call it is that she was literally just 347 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,280 Speaker 1: like living a normal life, working a normal job. She 348 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: was in the shower one day and all of a sudden, 349 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: I think, or shower like washing her hands or something 350 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: happened in her house that triggered an electric current to 351 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: basically go into her body, and so all of a sudden, 352 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:32,760 Speaker 1: her hands became like an electric socket. So she literally 353 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:36,280 Speaker 1: was like a showering and something happened where she felt 354 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:37,800 Speaker 1: it and was like what in the heck, because she 355 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: like shocked herself basically, But for like seven years after that, 356 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: she couldn't get it to stop. So she had to 357 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: quit her job because she couldn't type on a computer 358 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. She literally was like fell into 359 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 1: this deep depression. She said, because she was like, I 360 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: can't even like touch anything because I just shock it. 361 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: And then finally, I don't know, seven years later, had 362 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: like voice come to her and say, you're supposed to 363 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: help people with this skill set. And now in Balie, 364 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 1: she does these sessions where you basically like you go in, 365 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,440 Speaker 1: you get on the table, she puts a wet towel 366 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 1: on your feet and kind of puts like this little 367 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: like pan of water underneath your feet. So and then 368 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:26,639 Speaker 1: she basically electrocutes the trauma out of your body. 369 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 2: I mean, it's she there. 370 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: She got from Balie. She so basically Mary and I 371 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: kept making jokes of like we because she did one 372 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:39,679 Speaker 1: on my like in the between my brows, which basically 373 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: feels like your brain, and I started seeing white like 374 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: I was, I mean my eyes were closed, but it 375 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 1: was like the light was there. I was literally, am 376 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: I dying? You know, like I don't know, and Mary 377 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: was like, I think you got a stroke. Though for sure, 378 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 1: we just felt like we had these big releases and 379 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: it was wild. I mean, she would be running her hand. 380 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:00,920 Speaker 1: I couldn't have taken more than thirty minutes, which is 381 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: what the session was, running her hand all over your 382 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,919 Speaker 1: body kind of like a massage, but she's using oils 383 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: and stuff, so like her hand. The second it touches you, 384 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: it really is like being like not electrocuted. 385 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: But there's looking battery that you know, have you ever 386 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 2: done that? A nine volt battery where you I have. 387 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 1: Not done that, but that could go under your weird 388 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: quirks I think. 389 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:23,400 Speaker 2: I mean that was something I did as a kid. 390 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: Okay, sure, whatever you tell yourself. But anyway, so yeah, 391 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: like though that was a very interesting experience and it 392 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:34,959 Speaker 1: was so crazy because she had me doing these affirmations 393 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:36,800 Speaker 1: when she had her fingers on my brain and I 394 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: was telling you, guys. 395 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 3: Us all white. 396 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 1: But it really did help me release something that I 397 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: was really really stuck on. And it was almost just 398 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: like it like lifted out of my body. It was crazy. 399 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, like those are definitely quirky, I think interesting. 400 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,719 Speaker 1: Maybe they're trends. I don't know if they're trends. 401 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 2: It's more so I feel like it's more of an 402 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 2: evolution for you. Yeah, like that's a searching for you. 403 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: I mean, this is a little but I wonder what 404 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 2: happens when she masturbates. 405 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 3: I don't know. 406 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 2: I wonder if there's an effect on her. 407 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 1: I had so many questions, but we didn't have time 408 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: to ask her, But I was like, how does she 409 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: touch anyone? 410 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 3: Like? 411 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 1: It is interesting though, because she did put the wet 412 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 1: like the towel on us, and she was using oil. 413 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 1: So I'm wondering if she knows how to like harness 414 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:19,960 Speaker 1: it and it would. 415 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 2: Just make it active what's the word for? Like it's 416 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 2: like you have to have that for it to flow, 417 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 2: you know, it's like a can do it. Yeah, if 418 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 2: it's it conducts it. So if you were to touch 419 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 2: the electric line and hang from it outside, you'd be fine. 420 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,359 Speaker 2: But the second you touch somewhere for it to flow 421 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 2: through you, right, it would shock you. So she creates 422 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 2: the path for that to move. That's crazy that it 423 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 2: stays in her though, Like she is right. 424 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,920 Speaker 1: And think about why she would be so depressed for 425 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,960 Speaker 1: so long because she couldn't function. I'm sure she probably 426 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: had to really figure out how to function. 427 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. It's fascinating to me. 428 00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:58,159 Speaker 2: That's cool. I would let her do that to me. 429 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: I thought this was an interesting thought to think about 430 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 1: with you with this Aquarius energy, because we have this 431 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: joke with you about the what if and also the 432 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: BDI the billion dollar idea, and you are constantly thinking 433 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: this way, which to me would be you tapping into 434 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: this Aquarius energy in a way because you're innovative, you're 435 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: coming up with new ideas, you're thinking outside of the box. 436 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 1: So can you explain to people what that is with 437 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: you and why we have that joke in our friend group? 438 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: And then is there any specific one in particular that 439 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: you're like, this was a really bizarre idea and then 440 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: someone went and did it. 441 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 3: Oh, OK, that's happened to you a bunch a bunch. 442 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 2: When you sent me the description of the quirkiness and 443 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 2: the forward thinking Aquarius qualities, I was like, oh, I 444 00:20:40,520 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 2: have this. 445 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: Just let me touch in on that for a second. 446 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: Everybody has every part right as a part of every 447 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,200 Speaker 1: sign in their chart, and so we do have all 448 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: of it. And I need to go look back at 449 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 1: your chart and see if you have any particular planets 450 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 1: in Aquarius in your chart, because that would just maximize 451 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 1: that energy. So maybe that is why you feel that, Yeah, 452 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: But like it also depends the house thing comes into 453 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 1: play of like wherever we have Aquarius, Like I have 454 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 1: Aquarius in my tenth house, which is your house of 455 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: career and public facing stuff, and so probably in my 456 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:20,919 Speaker 1: career I'll do something a little out of the box, innovative, whatever, 457 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: which is what I do. If you think about it, 458 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: nobody else does grooming and styling. And then like the 459 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 1: podcast thing, I'm trying to connect the dots between beauty 460 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: and all that stuff, and I haven't seen that done either, 461 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,800 Speaker 1: where someone works on outsides and insides, and so it's 462 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 1: like thinks a little bit outside of the box. 463 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 2: I mean, you also had a blog and stuff way 464 00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: before a lot of I even knew what a blog was. 465 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:42,919 Speaker 1: Oh, totally, Like I'm over it now when people are 466 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:44,479 Speaker 1: still doing it, and I'm like, I was doing that 467 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,880 Speaker 1: however a little bit ahead of my time probably. 468 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. 469 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, but that's just an interesting way to learn 470 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: about it is how it applies in your actual life. 471 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, goes my my what if thing? And 472 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 2: you know, I should probably preface this that I've been 473 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 2: smoking weed since I was in high school. But I'm 474 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: not always stoned. I'm not always stoned, and I'm not 475 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,600 Speaker 2: always stoned when I have a what if now, I 476 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 2: am not, in fact, I haven't smoked or had a 477 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 2: drink in five days, so I'm very clear. I just 478 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 2: see the world through like a very quirky lens. Yes, 479 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:26,600 Speaker 2: And I have this crazy imagination where I'm always like, 480 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: what if I'll give you an example. This was very 481 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 2: early days reality shows, and I was like, what if 482 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:41,760 Speaker 2: we could get someone to donate any plastic surgery that 483 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 2: you wanted or free, but you get it done on television. 484 00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 2: And I can remember, I can remember having the conversation 485 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 2: with my friend Alyssa in the back of a cab 486 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,640 Speaker 2: in New York City. And then the first was The Swan. 487 00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 2: Do you remember that show? After I had that conversation 488 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 2: with her. And for those of you who don't know 489 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,760 Speaker 2: The Swan, the Swan was for women who deemed themselves 490 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 2: ugly trying to become pretty, and I guess the producers 491 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 2: deemed them ugly too, and it was like they could 492 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 2: get whatever plastic surgery they wanted in order to, you know, 493 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 2: come out of their cocoon as a beautiful swamp. 494 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,280 Speaker 1: They would do so much too, and then they would 495 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: have a full makeover with like hair and makeup and styling. 496 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 3: Yep, all of that. 497 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of a little bit shotspired about 498 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: the whole, like you need to change all this stuff. 499 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 2: But I think it was I think they were all 500 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 2: things that they wanted done. Yeah, yeah, but I'm sure 501 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 2: it's been so long since it was on television, but 502 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 2: I'm sure there was somebody there being like, you should 503 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 2: do this, you should do this, you should Yes, but 504 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 2: they were probably coming from a more like broad approach, 505 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 2: like I don't like my hips and you know, my 506 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 2: nose is big, and blah blah blah, and then the 507 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 2: doctors got a little bit more specific. There are so 508 00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 2: many what ifs, and the thing is is they just 509 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,440 Speaker 2: roll out of my mouth and sometimes I'm not even thinking. 510 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 2: And We've got a friend name Ryan who thinks it's 511 00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 2: the funniest thing in the world because he just he 512 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,160 Speaker 2: can't wrap his head around my imagination. 513 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: Because your brain, it's like where do you come up 514 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 1: with this? 515 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: Like I'll be like, I mean this, I would never 516 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 2: do this, but I'd be like, what if I went 517 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 2: over there and smack that old lady in that chair 518 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 2: and you all feel like, what are you talking about? 519 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 2: Why are you even thinking about it? 520 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 3: Sitting there? 521 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: And he'll say stuff like that, so it's this whole 522 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,640 Speaker 1: like what if it's so? Then now all we respond 523 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 1: with is what if? 524 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 3: What if? 525 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 2: What if? 526 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: Okay, let's move into the Leo energy. So we kind 527 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,640 Speaker 1: of got through the quirkiness, and I'm sure if you're listening, 528 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: like I would be curious how that plays out in 529 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 1: your life, the quirky, the innovative, the free thinking, the 530 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: head of your time does that? How does that Aquarius 531 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: energy play out with you? But then the Leo energy 532 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 1: is really interesting because honestly, if you can use them 533 00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 1: to work together, it could become very beneficial. You create 534 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 1: this really good idea and then you tap into this 535 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:05,679 Speaker 1: Leo side that's like, well, I'm going to go make 536 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: that happen because I'm awesome and I believe in myself. 537 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 1: I feel like it's almost a little bit opposite of 538 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: the way you and I operate, like we're I don't 539 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 1: feel like we're very overly confident. Maybe, but can you 540 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: think through any times where that's played into your life, 541 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,080 Speaker 1: Like these Leo moments? 542 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 3: Do you have them? 543 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 2: My move to Nashville felt like a Leo moment for 544 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 2: me because it was still I was ahead of the 545 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 2: curve on like country music becoming really mainstream, and I 546 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 2: had worked in New York and Los Angeles and people 547 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 2: thought I was crazy. They were like, You're going to 548 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: move to Nashville. And it wasn't just because I saw 549 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 2: the future of country music. It was there were several reasons, 550 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 2: like I had really good friends here, I needed a change, 551 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 2: I didn't I wasn't happy in my job anymore. I 552 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 2: wanted to buy a house. So there were like factors 553 00:25:56,720 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 2: that played into it. But in hindsight, I do think 554 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 2: that there was some Leo energy in that, because I 555 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 2: was willing to do something that that very few people 556 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 2: are willing to do at that moment, and now everyone's 557 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 2: trying to do this shit. So in fact, like all 558 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 2: the labels are trying to, you know, come from and 559 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 2: New York to take over here. I've made a few 560 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:22,360 Speaker 2: like really bold choices. I mean, I'm a kid from 561 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 2: Bird's Nest, Virginia, right, and moved to New York like 562 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 2: a week after I graduated college. And then when I 563 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 2: was over that, I was like, I'm moving to Los 564 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 2: Angeles and I don't have a job, And so there 565 00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 2: are those sorts of things. Where my fear comes in 566 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,719 Speaker 2: is when it doesn't feel like I have a safety 567 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 2: net or I'm going to end up like if I 568 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,439 Speaker 2: think for a second, I'm going to end up with 569 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 2: pie on my face. That's when I pause. And that 570 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 2: is something that I'm working on this year, trying to 571 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 2: like really invest in myself and believe more in myself, 572 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 2: because at fifty years old, it's I have had enough 573 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 2: successes in my life to actually believe that I can 574 00:26:58,600 --> 00:26:59,360 Speaker 2: achieve the things that. 575 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,120 Speaker 3: I want to achieve. Channel your inner Leo, Yeah, there 576 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 3: we go. 577 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,959 Speaker 1: I was thinking about it with dating with you, about 578 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 1: that story you told a couple I don't know, this 579 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,199 Speaker 1: was a while back on the podcast about being at 580 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: that party and you were like, I saw this guy. 581 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,239 Speaker 1: I thought he was really cute. I've walked past him 582 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,639 Speaker 1: and then I was like nope, and you went back. Yeah, 583 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 1: and like introduced yourself Like that was a very bold 584 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 1: to have confidence in yourself kind of moment. 585 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. And I think, you know, my physical journey, 586 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 2: my health journey is helping with that. 587 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 588 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: And I was recently, you know, dating somebody. It's probably 589 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: the right term, Like there was no real that we 590 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 2: weren't exclusive, and I had to like shut it down 591 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,400 Speaker 2: in a way that I've never done it in the past, 592 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: because I'd like I am I do finally believe my value. 593 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,479 Speaker 2: I felt like I was getting crumbs, and at a 594 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 2: certain point, I'm like, I cannot wrap my head around 595 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,320 Speaker 2: why it's worth wasting either person's time, because if my 596 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 2: time is being wasted by if I feel like my 597 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 2: time is being wasted by some they are wasting their 598 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,280 Speaker 2: own time too. Yeah, I was just like, hey, no, 599 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 2: you know, no harm, no foul. This has been really fun, 600 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,440 Speaker 2: But I'm going to go find someone who wants to 601 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 2: focus their time on me in the same way that 602 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 2: I want to focus my time on them, and I 603 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:14,919 Speaker 2: would have never done that before. 604 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, my where I'm feeling it the 605 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 1: most in my life in the last couple of years 606 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: is definitely with dating. It's like, I think I had 607 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: to hit such a bottom with the kind of relationships 608 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: that I was allowing myself to participate in and the 609 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 1: way I was being treated, and then it like something 610 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,679 Speaker 1: just switched, Like the last relationship that I had that 611 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: I would deem toxic really sent me over the edge. 612 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: And I had like a couple other things happening in 613 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 1: life too, that contributed to this, but like it just 614 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: sent me over the edge of like no tolerance for 615 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 1: bullshit like you're talking about. And also like knowing what 616 00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: I bring to a relationship finally like accepting that of 617 00:28:55,240 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: what I have to offer and not really tolerating anything 618 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: less than what I deem to be worthy of that energy, 619 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,959 Speaker 1: you know. And if I ever feel and this like 620 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: this goes for friendships, this goes for work. If I 621 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,840 Speaker 1: feel like the dynamic is one sided, now I speak 622 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: up about it and I remove myself or I set 623 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 1: boundaries or I do whatever. And I would have never 624 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 1: done that in the past. But it's very much this 625 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:21,959 Speaker 1: energy of like, if you want my energy in your life, 626 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: you have to show up in a way that like 627 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 1: is within my vice too reciprocal. 628 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: Yes, wow, you think too. I mean having sort of 629 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 2: stood beside you in that moment, like yeah, you coming 630 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 2: back from that, you now know that, like you're kind 631 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,440 Speaker 2: of indestructible. I mean, nothing is going to kill It's 632 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 2: not going to kill you kill me. Yeah, if you 633 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 2: believe that you speaking up and setting a boundary will 634 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 2: improve the relationship and get help you get it to 635 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 2: where you want it to be. For you to be happy, 636 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 2: then it's worth fucking speaking up. And if it ends 637 00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 2: the relationship, then it was probably a really good thing 638 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 2: and you might cry about it for a week, but 639 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: you're gonna come out of it stronger. And I think 640 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,480 Speaker 2: that episode in your life was like it took you 641 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 2: to such a dark place that you're like, I got this, 642 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 2: you know. 643 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 1: Well, and I had done series of that through my 644 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: whole thirties, and so I think, like you said, exactly, 645 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 1: this is it. It's like when you survive things that 646 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,480 Speaker 1: you think you could never survive and you get through them, 647 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: you're like, okay, Like it's not gonna be pleasant, but 648 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 1: like I know now that if a relationship ends in 649 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: my life, it's not gonna kill me, like you said, 650 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,160 Speaker 1: And I still have built a life that I love 651 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: and can enjoy, and I will meet someone else again 652 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: and fall in love again. 653 00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 3: Like it's not the end of the road. 654 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 1: I think I used to just feel so like doomsday 655 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: because we're painted this whole thing of soulmates and finding 656 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,959 Speaker 1: your perfect match and all this stuff, and I'm like, 657 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,080 Speaker 1: there's a lot of people that I think I could 658 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 1: be in relationship with, or you know, like I don't 659 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: I don't believe in like the one part. 660 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 2: There's a lot of choice that goes into it, yes, 661 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 2: and to choose. 662 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 1: To me, I'm never gonna stay with someone ever again 663 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 1: that doesn't align with with me in a positive evolutionary way, 664 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: like where we're like growing together, we have the same 665 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: kind of values, we're challenging each other those kind of things, 666 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 1: or that I'm being fulfilled and like it's being reciprocated, 667 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: like we said, like I just didn't realize how many 668 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: breadcrumbs I was actually taking until I finally was like, yeah, 669 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to do that again. And then now 670 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: that I have more, I'm like, oh my god, why 671 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: would I never have wanted this? And you know, like 672 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: I just didn't even understand what my options were. 673 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 3: I guess, well, you know what's. 674 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 2: Funny is I saw this thing. I don't know how 675 00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 2: old the clip was or who the person was. It 676 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 2: was a British guy. He was on the Drew Barrymore Show, Okay, 677 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,040 Speaker 2: and he basically said, we're put on earth to take 678 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: care of one person, and it's our self. 679 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 3: It's so true. 680 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 2: And if you're getting into a relationship because you think 681 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: you need to help that person, take care of whatever's 682 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 2: going on in their life. You're kind of doomed to 683 00:31:55,760 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 2: fail because you're not taking care of yourself. And you know, 684 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 2: it's really important in a relationship to have autonomy and 685 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 2: space and for you to be able to be you. 686 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 2: But when you're together, there's like some sort of like 687 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 2: lightning that happens that makes it feel good. But you 688 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 2: shouldn't feel like that person is in your life to 689 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 2: fill some void, you know. You know, I look back 690 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 2: at this most recent person that I was thinking he 691 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 2: had a kid, and I think I never met the kid. 692 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 2: I haven't. I wasn't part of the kid's life, but 693 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,360 Speaker 2: I do think that there was something exciting about, like, oh, well, 694 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 2: maybe one day that kid will be mine. And it 695 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 2: was like, that wasn't me taking care of myself. Well, 696 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 2: it was me looking at a situation and maybe trying 697 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 2: to fill a void in my life when I don't 698 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 2: even know if i'd one percent want a kid. And 699 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 2: by the way, I definitely don't know that I want 700 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 2: a kid that I've never met. 701 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 1: Exactly, you know, just when I say too, there's there's 702 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: a lot more complexity to those kind of situations too, 703 00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: and so but the good thing you learned is like, oh, 704 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: there's some sort of void. So like now you can go, oh, 705 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: you can get curious about that void in your own life. 706 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:02,360 Speaker 2: Right. 707 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, I do think the Leo energy is a 708 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: really good one if you've been in a situation where 709 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: maybe you've been in one sided relationships, are not standing 710 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:15,280 Speaker 1: up for yourself, not believing in yourself, not valuing yourself, 711 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:19,160 Speaker 1: like to really tap into that specifically in your dating relationships. 712 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 3: Like, I'm into that the Leo. 713 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,720 Speaker 2: It's funny. I'm I'm reading a book right now called 714 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 2: No More Mister Nice Guy, and. 715 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 3: It's and it's like, this is very Leo. 716 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's about how to find the things that 717 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 2: you want and love life and sex as a man 718 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 2: who identifies as a nice guy. And it's sort of 719 00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 2: teaching me. I mean, it is teaching me where that 720 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 2: nice guy he calls it, the nice guy syndrome comes from. Yeah, 721 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 2: And you know, we all deal with abandonment, you know, 722 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 2: from the from the day we are born. And it's 723 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 2: not it's not necessarily intentional. You know. It's like if 724 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 2: you're a baby and you're hungry and no one's hearing 725 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 2: you crying, you feel abandoned. It's just a natural thing. 726 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 2: And so a lot of men grow up with a 727 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 2: lot of that, and in order to feel like they 728 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 2: can be loved, they feel like they have to sacrifice 729 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,800 Speaker 2: themselves to be the nice guy, to serve everyone else. 730 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,919 Speaker 2: And this book is about a guy who coaches men 731 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,399 Speaker 2: through the process of breaking that down so that you 732 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 2: can pour into yourself and arrive in whatever relationships, whether 733 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 2: their friends, work, whatever, love, sex, just life. You can 734 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 2: arrive as your whole self, loving yourself, confident in yourself, 735 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 2: knowing that you will be loved no matter what. And 736 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 2: it's really interesting. So I feel like I am sort 737 00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:45,879 Speaker 2: of digging for that Leo energy I know I have. 738 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,319 Speaker 2: I mean, I walk into a room. It's weird. I 739 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 2: am such a yin and yang of myself because I 740 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 2: walk into a room feeling very confident, but also expect 741 00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 2: nobody to like me. And I've never met I've never 742 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 2: ever had anyone tell me they don't like me. 743 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 3: You can anyone who doesn't like you, and it's it's. 744 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 2: A weird thing. I don't know where that comes from. 745 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 2: I'm and that's I think stuff that I've internalized, probably 746 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,839 Speaker 2: from being recognizing that I was gay as a young 747 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:15,120 Speaker 2: kid and having to hide it and wanting everyone to 748 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,440 Speaker 2: like me, and the older I get like I'm learning 749 00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,439 Speaker 2: like I don't want everyone to like me. That's exhausting. 750 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,040 Speaker 1: Well, if everyone likes you, someone did teach me this 751 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,920 Speaker 1: along the way, You're probably not being fully authentically yourself 752 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 1: because we're not for everybody. 753 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that's the mistery in me. 754 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, which I think that's I love that mister nice 755 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 1: guy point. And I think you really do sound like 756 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: you're leaning more into Leo than you even knew. 757 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 3: So I love that. 758 00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: If you had to decide between the two, like I'm 759 00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 1: going to be fully Aquarius or fully Leo, which one 760 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,479 Speaker 1: would you pick? I can't really think about that because 761 00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: I think they're both really interesting in my life. 762 00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:54,239 Speaker 2: I think Aquarius is suiting. I mean, it's yes, the 763 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,879 Speaker 2: weird genius thing suit. I think it suits me more. 764 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, because I would I would much rather someone 765 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 2: think that I'm weird than cocky. 766 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:09,839 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's where I would go to. Yeah, yes, yeah, 767 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,480 Speaker 1: And I'd love to think about like creating some really. 768 00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 3: Cool thing that helps. 769 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 1: The future of our society, you know, like that excites 770 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: me way more than like give me all the praise 771 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,360 Speaker 1: like that kind of thing. Yeah, well anyway, okay, so 772 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,880 Speaker 1: do you see what I'm saying about these can be 773 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 1: ways that like astrology is actually that book perfect example 774 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,800 Speaker 1: of how certain astrology and certain energy, Like you're reading 775 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 1: it right now for a reason. You were led to 776 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 1: that for a reason. So it all ties together even 777 00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:41,959 Speaker 1: if you don't understand the actual like Leo Aquarius, which 778 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: is a new moon, all of that stuff. 779 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 2: Which is funny because I feel like, I mean, I 780 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 2: feel like a baseline. Everyone's entry point into astrology is 781 00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,479 Speaker 2: when you read your horoscope in the morning or whatever, right, 782 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 2: And it's funny because there is a thing and this 783 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 2: is probably more often when and you don't really have 784 00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,359 Speaker 2: an understanding of astrology, you read it and you're like, 785 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,120 Speaker 2: how does it know? Like how is that so right? 786 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 3: How is it so spot one? 787 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And it feels like that almost every single time 788 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 2: I actually read one. And then I guess the more 789 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 2: in depth you get with the understanding of astrology, you're like, oh, well, 790 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 2: that's because it's supposed to. 791 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: No, it's literally a map out for you. People are 792 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 1: just like, oh, I don't believe in astrology. Whatever, and like, Okay, 793 00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,280 Speaker 1: well I'm going to take the map and like figure 794 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: out the way, but you can go without it if 795 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: you want. 796 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 3: Anyway. 797 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 1: Well, I think this is a really good kind of 798 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 1: juxtaposition to the deep talks I do with Marv about astrology. 799 00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: Is just to also mention like it can be very 800 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 1: baseline that you're learning about this stuff and you can 801 00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:45,120 Speaker 1: still apply it to your life, and I just think 802 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,640 Speaker 1: it's really interesting. 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