1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,279 Speaker 1: Iver Sean McDonald I host this weekly Money Making Conversation 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Masterclass show. The interviews and information that this show provides 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,720 Speaker 1: off for everyone. It's time to stop reading other people's 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: success stories and start living your own. If you want 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: to be a guest on my show, please visit our website, 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: Moneymakingconversations dot com and click to be a guest. But 7 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: feel out your information. If you're a small business owner, 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 1: you got a product, you're an entrepreneur, and you want 9 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: to tell your story on my show, let the world 10 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: get out to the drone public a nationwide, a worldwide. 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: You can do it on Money Making Conversations. Now, let's 12 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: get this show rolling. My guest continues to drive impactful 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 1: change through her platform, Pocketbook Strategist dot com, where she 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: offers financial literacy, program resources, tools, strategic insights for those 15 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 1: seeking to take control of their financial future. Her business 16 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: consulting company educates and educational resources and services for small 17 00:00:55,120 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: business owners and inspiring aspiring entrepreneur. Just like I told you, 18 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: please welcome the Money Making Conversations Masterclass. Lakiita Hawkins. Lakita Hawkins, 19 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: how you do Lakita. 20 00:01:07,959 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 2: I'm doing well? 21 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 3: Vershan how are you? 22 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you for coming on my show. 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 1: I know you you're in North Carolina. 24 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 3: Correct, that is correct? 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 1: Now raise born and raised. Now what keeps you in 26 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: North Carolina? 27 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 2: Know? 28 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,720 Speaker 1: I know your business is there. But basically your business 29 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: allowed business allows you to speak to everybody worldwide international. 30 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Tell us about your business structure. 31 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 3: No, my business structure is regarding financial literacy, helping out 32 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 3: those that lack financial literacy, and then offering resources to 33 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 3: small business, small business owners and entrepreneurs. 34 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: Now I read here say your mission is to provide 35 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 1: access to low costs and no cost educational and pocket 36 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: resources for aspiring entrepreneurs like I said earlier and small 37 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: business owners. When you say that, what exactly is the 38 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 1: pocket Book Strategists? Which is your website pocketbookstrategist dot com. 39 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 3: So the Pocketbook Strategists came from a mix of Southern 40 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 3: culture and real life experience. I was always told that 41 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: I had a lot of pocketbooks and I talked about 42 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 3: money a lot a lot. 43 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 1: Of pocketbooks of Miss Hawkins. What do you mean a 44 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: lot of pocketbooks? 45 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 3: Whether you mean a lot of persons? A lot of them, 46 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 3: big ones. 47 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: Small ones, you know, backpack type size, a little little 48 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: corn purses, all type. 49 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 2: All types are shigned, all types, big. 50 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 3: Ones, small ones, corn purses, backpacks, all of them, all 51 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,639 Speaker 3: of them. So growing up, you know, we didn't talk 52 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 3: about financial literacy a lot, but everything we needed seemed 53 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 3: to come out of that one sacred place, the pocketbooks 54 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: the person. So I basically wanted to reclaim that image 55 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 3: and use it as a tool for transformation, step into 56 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 3: this word because I saw how financial instability impacted families. 57 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: Not included, and I knew that once you. 58 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 3: Teach someone how to manage their money, then you give 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: them the power to change their life. So that's kind 60 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 3: of where the pockebook strategist was born. 61 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: Well, you know, people have heard my story many times 62 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: on this show about where I've come from, and and 63 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: you know it wasn't a classic lifestyle that you would 64 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: seem a popular story. I've come from the inner city. 65 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: You know my father I told many times, and I say, 66 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: I honestly tell people he was just a truck driver, 67 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, a truck driver that he did his job, 68 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 1: He went to work, work over time, He had flaws, 69 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 1: but he provided for us and put food on the table. Now, 70 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: when you said the word instability and you talk about 71 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 1: financial literacy. And now I will tell you that word 72 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: financial literacy, which is a modern word now, but the 73 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: word finances were never discuss that our house, especially with 74 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: the children talk to us about your household. 75 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 3: It was never discussed in my household either. It was 76 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 3: more like a I would say, a taboo if you will, like, 77 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: it was never discussed. I just assumed that money grew 78 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: on trees from my mom, as most people think. So, 79 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 3: you know, I just assume that that's how it was. 80 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 3: I got whatever it is that I wanted. But I 81 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 3: was the only child for my mom, so I was 82 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: more spoiled and just assumed that that's how life went. 83 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 3: Grew up and got older, once to college, moved to 84 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 3: a different city, and soon realized, oh, this is not 85 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 3: how this works. I actually have to work for my 86 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 3: money and I actually have to pay bills. So yeah, 87 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 3: I feel the same for my household as well. 88 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: Well, you know, because you know, growing up, if you 89 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: were a child, a teenager and you was in the 90 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: room with grown folks, you could get popped in the mouth. 91 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: I'm just being real. Back then, back in the day, 92 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: they first of all, they stare at you and asked 93 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,720 Speaker 1: for you in this room with grown folks, and so 94 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: that stare alone moved you out the room quickly. Now, 95 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: if you for some reason lost your mind and didn't 96 00:04:58,839 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: know the stair and growing folks move closer to you 97 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: to the remind you you need to get out the room. 98 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: And that level of I guess to's say discipline. I 99 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,880 Speaker 1: felt hurt us because we were never engaged in decision making. 100 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: Oh listen how decisions were being made. And that's I 101 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: think it's a crippling calls to a lot of our 102 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: inability to be entrepreneurs, our inability to understand financial wealth, 103 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 1: our inability to communicate with our parents or adults, because 104 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 1: we tend to be more respectful than and get the 105 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: information from them than to be able to, you know, 106 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: speak when spoken to am I saying anything different from 107 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: the lifestyle that you grow up in, Miss Hawkins. 108 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 3: No, I definitely agree with that. Rashaan as well. I 109 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 3: think that more families have to incorporate their children in 110 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 3: these conversations, you know, even as little kids. You know, 111 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 3: you can start by incorporating you know, financial leadercy with 112 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 3: counting as they're growing up, and then including them in 113 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 3: those conversations with paying bills and things like that, so 114 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 3: they are aware. So yes, I experienced that as well, 115 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 3: and I'm pretty sure others are currently experiencing it. 116 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: Right now, I'm talking to Lakita Lakita as l e 117 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: k E t A. Hawkins. She's based out of Charlotte, 118 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: North Carolina. Her website platform their Pocketbook Strategies dot com. 119 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: What she offers financial literacy, program resources, tools and strategic 120 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 1: insights for those seeking to take control of their financial future. 121 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: With that being said, Ms Hawkins, what are some of 122 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: the most common financial mistakes you see people making and 123 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 1: how can they start correcting them today? 124 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 3: Absolutely wish. I just want to go back for one second. 125 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 3: I actually reside in the Riley area, not in Charlotte's 126 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 3: North Carolina. Still Carolina Carolina. 127 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: Okay, we will just keep saying North Carolina. I won't 128 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: say no mostly. Okay, yes, that's right. 129 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I think I heard your question correctly. So 130 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 3: one of the biggest pitfalls that I see is basically 131 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: emotional spending, you know, trying to heal or celebrate with 132 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 3: purchases that don't serve any of our long term goals. 133 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: Another is not budgeting at all because it feels restricted 134 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 3: and so my advice for them today is to start 135 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: with awareness, tracking their money for just one week and 136 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 3: see where it's going, and then ask themselves is just 137 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 3: spending serving me? And then ship from autopila to being intentional. 138 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: Now let's talk back to the emotional spending. I've never 139 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: heard that, and I'm gonna tell you, when I get 140 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: bored or I get tired, I tend to spend money 141 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: that I shouldn't spend. And that's always and I noticed 142 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: that about me, and I go with Sean, stop stop 143 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: you being stupid, okay, because you just there's no rational reason. 144 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: I there are things that I have in my closet. 145 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: I look at it and go when you're going to 146 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: wear that? And why did you buy it? So let's 147 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: go back to the emotional spending because I think people 148 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: need to have some warning signs about that, because it 149 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 1: is important to know when you have a trigger like 150 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 1: that and when you slow down. And I love the 151 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: fact that you pitch the idea of tracking your expenses 152 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: for the week. I never heard that. That's a very 153 00:08:25,520 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: smart move, miss Hawkins. 154 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:31,360 Speaker 3: So emotional spending, it kind of comes back goes back 155 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 3: to what we were talking about earlier. Our upbringing, our childhood, 156 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,439 Speaker 3: and it brings in the psychology of. 157 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: Money, so we kind of go off of what. 158 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 3: We experienced as a kid. That kind of develops our 159 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 3: habits of how we spend as adults and or what 160 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: we're currently experiencing. So if we're going through. 161 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 2: A bad day, we had a bad day. 162 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 3: At work, or we want to assume that emotion by 163 00:08:56,080 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 3: going to go spend. So those are some triggers that actually, 164 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 3: you know, we're trying to heal or have to stop 165 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 3: us from doing, I guess because we tend to do 166 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 3: that from childhood to adulthood. And so just tracking your 167 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 3: money during that week or a couple of days, you 168 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,679 Speaker 3: can kind of see where your ebbs and blows are. 169 00:09:16,960 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 3: You can see, Okay, I wasn't having a good day 170 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: and I spent all this money on Amazon and aware 171 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 3: of that, and I. 172 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: Think online is really dangerous. First of all, I knw 173 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: rooms were dangerous. But one can find it much more 174 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: easier to spend money because you don't have to get 175 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 1: in your car or go to a store, because you 176 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: can just sit around there and press press the button, 177 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: brows and things like that, So you are much more 178 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: in a position to spend money that you were talking 179 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: about emotionally or why are you fatigued or in boredom? 180 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: And that's important that you understand that correct. 181 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 3: Yes, being self aware. You know you have goals and 182 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 3: trying to make sure you b reach those. So just 183 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 3: being self aware and. 184 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: Being aware of the spending that you're doing. 185 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 3: In order to correct something, you have to be aware 186 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 3: and the knowledge that that it is actually happening. 187 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: Wow, that's great. We're talking to miss Lakita Hawkins, pocketbook 188 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 1: Strategist dot com. Don't go nowhere. She's offering us tips 189 00:10:17,559 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: on financial literacy, program resources, tools and strategic insights. You 190 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: listen to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. 191 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 4: Please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more 192 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 4: money Making Conversations Masterclass. Welcome back to the Money Making 193 00:10:36,600 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 4: Conversations Masterclass hosted by Rashaan McDonald. Money Making Conversations Masterclass 194 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 4: continues online at Moneymakingconversations dot com and follow Money Making 195 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 4: Conversations Masterclass on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. 196 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: So let's get back to show money Making Conversations. Because 197 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: I have doctor Hawkins. She's known as the pocket Strategists 198 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: as pocket Strategist dot com it's her website platform. And 199 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 1: you've been sharing us a lot of stories, doctor Hawkins. 200 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: But it's another website that you have, and I didn't 201 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:06,959 Speaker 1: want to see it because, you know, I didn't want 202 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: to mess it up. Because I'm from the South. I 203 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: have a country voice. I try to talk as clear 204 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 1: as possible. If I hear certain words, I just avoid, 205 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: so I can say, pocket strategists dot com, what is 206 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: your other website there. 207 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 3: Doctor Hawkins's Houcky dot com. 208 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: See spell it? Please spell that to my listeners. 209 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 3: So it's h A W C L E I G H. 210 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: Now tell us about that doc that website. 211 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 3: So that website just talks about what you were saying before, 212 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 3: with all of the resources, the financial literacy resources and 213 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 3: that classes and courses and things like that on that 214 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 3: particular website. And pocketbook Strategists has products on that webcast. 215 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: Okay, cool, So pocketbook Strategists, I would send them to product. 216 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: If they want to get the financial information, the courses, 217 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: the strateg the insights, they go to that website. And 218 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: what's that website? Down again, because I'm not going to say, 219 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna mess it up. 220 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,719 Speaker 3: It's just hockey. So if it's said like h A 221 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 3: w k l e E when it's felt Hackley, like Raleigh, 222 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 3: where I'm currently located. So A h A w c 223 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 3: l E I g H. 224 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 1: I know, but tod, I try to leave it in 225 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: the in, the in the founders and the speakers like this. 226 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: You speak your truth. See that's your truth, and I 227 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:33,440 Speaker 1: stay in my lane. I tell everybody you are the 228 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: financial expert, are you my subject matter expert? I am 229 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: only the storyteller and this story I stay in my lane. 230 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: And one of my questions I want to ask you 231 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: right now is about because we talked about budgeting, and 232 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 1: we talked about a lot of great things on this 233 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 1: interview so far. We talked about which I love the 234 00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: old concept of tracking your expenses for a week. I 235 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: love that idea of emotional spending. Never heard that that 236 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: is a that is something then I know I've fallen 237 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: victim too, And especially with online being available, we really 238 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:06,920 Speaker 1: have to look at our budget and I want to 239 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: go to that conversation to budget strategies. Talk about that 240 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: and also youth financial literacy. We kind of talked about 241 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: it earlier when as far as adult time they treated 242 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: young people back then, but we in today's time, and 243 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: youth are being allowed to understand and appreciate and train 244 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: in financial literacy. So two questions budgeting strategies and then 245 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: slide right over to youth financial strategies. 246 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 3: Yes, regarding budget strategies, I use one that is the 247 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,960 Speaker 3: fifty thirty twenty. Some people call it twenty thirty, fifty 248 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 3: ten ten, twenty thirty, but basically it's fifty percent of 249 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 3: your needs, thirty percent of your wants, and twenty percent 250 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 3: goes to saving their dad. For some people use it 251 00:14:00,679 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 3: for tithes as well, And so every paycheck that you 252 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 3: get you actually break it down into these percentages. I 253 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 3: don't care if grandmother gives you one hundred dollars, you 254 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,679 Speaker 3: didn't take that one hundred dollars, and he's going to 255 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:15,000 Speaker 3: break it down. Fifty dollars is going to go to 256 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:18,719 Speaker 3: your needs, thirty to your wants, and then twenty to 257 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 3: savings their debt. So it gives you structure and flexibility. 258 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 3: And for those people who feel overwhelmed, you know, always 259 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 3: say name your money before you spend it. If you 260 00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 3: don't give your dollars a job, they'll just wander off 261 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 3: without telling you where they went. Right, So just having 262 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 3: a place for your money and telling your money where 263 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 3: to go. And I think your next question, I think 264 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 3: you said, is regarding you financial literacy. 265 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: Right right. We talked about how I was treated. There 266 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: was a whole generation of people who are listening to 267 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: this phone call. Know that when grown people were discussing 268 00:14:57,440 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: what they filled with grown folks information, it wasn't shared 269 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: with the youth. But in the world of financial training 270 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: now we are more inclined. I know I am with 271 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: my daughter. I was very upfront my wife, and I 272 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: was very upfront of trying to get her to understand 273 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: stock and what to do with her money and engage 274 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 1: her even now as an adult, to try to educate her. 275 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: But as in the youth, how does that change? And 276 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 1: what can a person who's listening to this show that 277 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 1: has children or teenagers can do an assistanm there their 278 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: growth in financial literacy. 279 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: So I believe in basically planning, planning the seeds early 280 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 3: in the youth, when they're younger. I think young people need. 281 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 2: To know that money is. 282 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 3: A tool, is not a goal. Right, we start with 283 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 3: the with the basics. You know you earn more than 284 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 3: you spend. You know you don't just earn more, just 285 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 3: suspend it. We save something from every dollar that we get. 286 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 3: We just talked about those savings rules, understanding the power 287 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 3: of compound interest, knowing that we can actually make make 288 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 3: money off of our money. And then, uh, just never 289 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 3: being afraid to ask questions about money. I think, being 290 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 3: able to allow your kids to ask you questions. And 291 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 3: then if you don't know, invest in your own self, 292 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 3: investing in your own financial education so you can learn 293 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 3: and teach your kids. And I think when kids understand 294 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 3: how money works, they're less likely to be manipulated or 295 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 3: taken advantage of later. 296 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: Right now, you know, I would show I have a 297 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: lot of listeners who are female and women. I work 298 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 1: with six sisters, so I understand the value of a 299 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: woman's voice. That they said that in the home when 300 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: the leading purchaser or decision maker is the woman when 301 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: it comes to purchases at home. Now, empowering women financially, 302 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 1: that's a question you submitted to me. What do you 303 00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: mean when you say empowering women financially, doctor Hawkins? 304 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 3: So I believe, as a you know, a successful woman 305 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 3: and finance myself, the message for women we feel financially 306 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 3: overwhelmed or sometimes dis empowered. So you know, just telling 307 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 3: the women out there that they're not alone, you're not behind. 308 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 3: I think many women carry the emotional and financial load 309 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:17,280 Speaker 3: that you talked about and for others without ever being 310 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 3: poured into themselves. As we mentioned, so, I think we 311 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:25,160 Speaker 3: deserve financial clarity the piece the joy, and it starts 312 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 3: with just one step. And you know, we learn one 313 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 3: new thing this week, just like we're tracking our budgets 314 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 3: this week, learning new one thing this week, and then 315 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 3: knowing that every decision you make towards financial wellness is 316 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 3: a form of self love. So basically investing in your 317 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 3: own financial education, learning financial literacy for yourself, well. 318 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,439 Speaker 1: That's important, doctor Harkins. As we are near the close 319 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: of the show, like I said, you have two websites. 320 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: Once a website is about product and the other website 321 00:17:54,640 --> 00:18:00,159 Speaker 1: is about the lessons or insights the courses. You a 322 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: little bit more breakdown of what their website brings to 323 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: the table, so my listeners can know and also out 324 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: of curiosity may visit their website to gain more information. 325 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: Floor is yours? 326 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 3: Absolutely so the PowerBook Strategies dot com, it's a guided experience, 327 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 3: is basically designed to help individuals smash through their limited 328 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:21,679 Speaker 3: beliefs and map out of strategy to help them safe. 329 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 3: That's where that product comes in. At at Hawkley dot 330 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 3: Com is building a resource hub of tools and templates 331 00:18:28,840 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 3: and training because I believe everyone deserves access to real transformation. 332 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 3: I'm not here just teaching numbers. I'm changing narratives. So 333 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,960 Speaker 3: that's mainly the difference between the two. I want everyone, 334 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 3: no matter their background, to have access to tools that 335 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: change their money story. I believe your pocketbook or your 336 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: pocket is personal and your power starts with what's inside 337 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 3: of it. 338 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: You know, as we close out, this is my final 339 00:18:55,119 --> 00:18:59,679 Speaker 1: question to you, what's what's one financial lesson that you 340 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: have personally that you have and that came into your life, 341 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 1: it personally transformed your life, and how can you share 342 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: that with others or can you share with us on 343 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: this show. 344 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: Money doesn't change who you are, it amplifies who you are. 345 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 3: I think some people think if I make too much money, 346 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 3: it's going to change me. Or this person made this 347 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 3: amount of money and it changed them. So if you're generous, 348 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 3: it gives you more room to grow. If you're scared 349 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 3: and would expose that, so just healing your relationship with 350 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 3: money is deeply personal work. I teach him experience because 351 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 3: I lived on both sides, struggling and thriving, and I 352 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,719 Speaker 3: want others to know the transformation is possible. And if 353 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 3: I can just one other thing, because I feel like 354 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 3: it's not just one. Everyone needs to know the difference 355 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 3: between assets and liabilities. Assets puts money into your pocket 356 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 3: and liabilities takes money out. So once we have that 357 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 3: concept down, then all the other things will begin to 358 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 3: make better sense. 359 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 1: I think, you know, I agree with them. I have to. 360 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:03,640 Speaker 1: You know, I've been fortunate to been on both sides 361 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: of the track, and you know, people always say, you know, 362 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: as you gain money, you cannot live the way you 363 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,399 Speaker 1: live when you didn't have money. In other words, you know, 364 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: if you was buying McDonald's, which is nothing wrong with 365 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,879 Speaker 1: buying McDonald's, you might want to buy a steak. Because 366 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 1: you're making more money, you start treating yourself, you start moving. 367 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:24,919 Speaker 1: I won't live in this neighborhood. I want to live 368 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: in this neighborhood, so you're always going to uplift there. 369 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,920 Speaker 1: You always hear these rare stories by people who got 370 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 1: all this money, but they still living like they don't 371 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: have money. You hear these stories now that ain't ra 372 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: Sean McDonald. Okay, not that I spend what I get, 373 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: but I do spend, Okay. But in anyway, your valuable 374 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,119 Speaker 1: information you've given us, Doctor Harker's to my listeners again, 375 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 1: I want to invite you back on my show middle 376 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: of the summer. You know, values change, and I want 377 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: to bring people on because the information you gave today 378 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:58,200 Speaker 1: I think was filled with common sense and I think 379 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: that's a lot of things. That's something people don't understand 380 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 1: about money. If common sense stays at the top of 381 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: your list, you keep a lot of your money for 382 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 1: a lot lower. Thank you for coming on my show, 383 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: doctor Harkins. I appreciate you and we'll talk soon. 384 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, have a good one. Mite. 385 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: This has been another edition of Money Making Conversation Masterclass 386 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: hosted by me Rashaun McDonald. 387 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 5: Thank you to our guests on the show today. 388 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 1: And thank you our listening to audience. 389 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 5: Now if you want to listen to any episode I 390 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 5: want to be a guest on the show, Visit Moneymakingconversations 391 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,720 Speaker 5: dot com. 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