WEBVTT - The Perfect Date

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<v Speaker 1>Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds with Dean Angler, Kaylen

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<v Speaker 1>Miller Keys, and Jared Haven.

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<v Speaker 2>An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everyone, and welcome back to an

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<v Speaker 2>all new episode of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds.

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<v Speaker 2>I am one of your hosts, Kayleen Miller Keys, joined

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<v Speaker 2>by Jared Han and Dean the Angelic Unclert.

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<v Speaker 3>Not just one of the hosts, the best hosts, the.

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<v Speaker 2>Best host No, no, I'm just the I'm just here

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<v Speaker 2>to make sure you guys don't talk about poop.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we're just living.

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<v Speaker 3>You're doing a really bad job because we still talk

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<v Speaker 3>about it every single day. Well, Kaylen, what are we

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<v Speaker 3>talking about today? Will you just lead this whole escapade?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I don't want to apologize real quick. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in an airport lounge, so if you hear any noises,

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<v Speaker 3>just just ignore them.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the airline?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to be judged for this, but it's Spirit.

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<v Speaker 1>Not to be a dick. Spirit has a lounge.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, no, no, I'm in the Centurion Lounge, which is

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<v Speaker 3>actually funny enough at Denver Airport, and the Centurion Lounge

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<v Speaker 3>is right above the gate that I'm flying out of.

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<v Speaker 3>Which is like in an hour and fifteen minutes, so

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<v Speaker 3>I might need to get out of here early, by

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<v Speaker 3>the way. But but no, it's not the Spirit Lounge.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure the Spirit Lounge would be amazing. I actually

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<v Speaker 3>really do like Spirit as an airline, but yeah, not

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<v Speaker 3>this time.

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<v Speaker 1>What did I fly? I Flow Allegiant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're very similar. I like it because I travel

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<v Speaker 3>light and with other airlines, you know, Southwest is different

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<v Speaker 3>because Southwest is very nice as well. I love them,

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<v Speaker 3>but you're paying for certain upgrades like baggage or drinks

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<v Speaker 3>or food, and I'm like, I don't want any that

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<v Speaker 3>stuff anyways. Let me just pay for my ticket and

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<v Speaker 3>then I'll pay for whatever I want in addition to that.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, Caitlyn, would you consider yourself a light traveler

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<v Speaker 4>or do you travel heavy?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I've become light because of Dean. We were in Italy

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<v Speaker 2>for a month and I only packed a carry on

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<v Speaker 2>suitcase and a little small bag.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we got to get that into just one small

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<v Speaker 3>bag that you can on your back.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in France and my friend Okay lost her

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<v Speaker 2>luggage because she checked a bag, and on her way

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<v Speaker 2>back to America, they chipped her back to Spain. She

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<v Speaker 2>was on a flight from Spain and they just took

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<v Speaker 2>it right back to Spain instead of bringing it to Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>So just to emphasize, you should never check a bag.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes sometimes it's necessary, though I get it, sometimes it's necessary.

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<v Speaker 4>But Ashley is the complete opposite of a light traveler.

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<v Speaker 4>And it makes me so mad because we always have

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<v Speaker 4>to get to the airport early because she's checking a bag,

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<v Speaker 4>and she just we could be going for two days

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<v Speaker 4>and she has to check a bag. She has to

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<v Speaker 4>check a bag, and now she blames it on Dawson,

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<v Speaker 4>which is completely irrelevant because she always checked a bag

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<v Speaker 4>before Dawson. And she's one of these people that she'll

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<v Speaker 4>check a bag and then she'll take a huge Duffel

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<v Speaker 4>bag with her or two, she'll have two bags. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 4>she'll get away with three, which is completely ridiculous, but

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<v Speaker 4>sometimes she does. And of course we get on and

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<v Speaker 4>of course there's no overhead bin space, and of course

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<v Speaker 4>it's just chaotic, and then we have to go get

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<v Speaker 4>her luggage.

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<v Speaker 1>Afterwards.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, can you please just bring a backpack and

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<v Speaker 4>a small bag. Let's get on the plane, let's get off,

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<v Speaker 4>get into the car, and get on our way. But no,

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<v Speaker 4>it's a whole thing and it's annoying.

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<v Speaker 3>What about when you when you guys went to Italy

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<v Speaker 3>for your honeymoon, and like, what did she travel with then?

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<v Speaker 3>Because in Italy there's like a lot of narrow, steep

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<v Speaker 3>streets with like cobblestones and stuff, So how did she

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<v Speaker 3>get around there?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Italy was a little different because it was our honeymoon,

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<v Speaker 4>so of course we were there for of course we

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<v Speaker 4>were there for two two and a half weeks. You

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<v Speaker 4>gotta check it back, makes sense, But it was uh yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>it sucked just dragging these staircase they excuse me, these

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<v Speaker 4>suitcases upstaircases and on these cobblestone roads, and you try

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<v Speaker 4>not to look like a tourist, but of course we're

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<v Speaker 4>walking in and I have, like my iHeart Italians.

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<v Speaker 3>Shut on.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't have that, but I might as well, carrying

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<v Speaker 4>a map, trying to get to the hotel, lugging these

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<v Speaker 4>suitcases behind us on cobblestone roads, mostly probably arguing with

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<v Speaker 4>Ashley because at this time, at this point, I'm tired,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm exhausted, I just want to sleep. Trying to find

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<v Speaker 4>the hotel It's amazing how traveling is just the least

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<v Speaker 4>amount of fun until.

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<v Speaker 1>You get to the destination. Maybe maybe it's different for

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<v Speaker 1>you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>But well, yeah, no, I mean except for when we

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<v Speaker 3>flew them all these we like we're first class or

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<v Speaker 3>something like that. That's nice. And I think you guys

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<v Speaker 3>were first class on your flight, weren't you, Jared, We.

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<v Speaker 4>Were first class on the way to ITAA, Yeah, which

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<v Speaker 4>was really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we're trying to do for our honeymoon because

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you're flying on your honeymoon, you want

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<v Speaker 2>to be first class, but first class tickets are like

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<v Speaker 2>ten grand one way.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeahsane, it's not worth it, but it is nice when

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<v Speaker 3>you get the lay down beds and you wake up,

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<v Speaker 3>or you get to the destination fully arrested, not fully arrested,

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<v Speaker 3>but like more than you would be otherwise.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying where you're going on your honeymoon?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't even know yet what we're going to South Africa.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we've talked about it, but we haven't done

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<v Speaker 3>anything about it, so we still don't technically know where

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<v Speaker 3>we're going.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're going to South Africa unless we change our minds.

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<v Speaker 1>Unless hello, boy has a change of mind.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I mean that's where I want to go.

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<v Speaker 3>But you also wanted to go to Maldives. You wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to go.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, Dean, Okay, that's a bad memory. Just let

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<v Speaker 2>me talk. Dean has bad memory and forgets like half

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<v Speaker 2>the things that he says. He was like, hey, I've

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<v Speaker 2>been thinking I like kind of want to go back

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<v Speaker 2>to the Maldives. And I'm like, okay, that's like the

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<v Speaker 2>epitome of a perfect honeymoon destination, so should we just

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<v Speaker 2>go back there? And we talked about it, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I bring it up to him like a month later.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, hey, got us a hotel for the Maldives.

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, what, I don't want to go to

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<v Speaker 2>the Maldives.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not that I don't want to go to the Maldives.

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<v Speaker 3>We've already been there.

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<v Speaker 2>But you were the one who put it in my head.

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<v Speaker 2>I was never thinking we'd go to the Malies Fair honeymoon,

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<v Speaker 2>and you forgot you said that, and then you were like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I never said it's just the epitome of a of

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<v Speaker 3>a honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, You're just You're like totally ignoring the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that you said you said that and then you didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I do kind of remember you saying that because the

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<v Speaker 3>way that you got me on board with the idea

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<v Speaker 3>of going to the Maldives, which is your idea, by

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<v Speaker 3>the way, not mine, because because you said no, Kaitlin,

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<v Speaker 3>you brought it up and I just I simply agreed

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<v Speaker 3>with you. You said that we could go to Sri

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<v Speaker 3>Lanka afterwards, which has been on my list for a

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<v Speaker 3>long time now, so that was what kind of peaked

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<v Speaker 3>my interest. But I do think it's a long way

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<v Speaker 3>to go for a place that we've already been to, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, so we're going to South Africa probably, But you

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<v Speaker 4>booked the hotel for the Maldives. Can you just cancel

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<v Speaker 4>that thing? It feels like a whope, hotel for the

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<v Speaker 4>Maldives is not he.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't bok it.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I didn't book it. I just found what, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like a trade deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta say too. And back to the luggage thing.

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<v Speaker 3>When we were in Japan, I wore the same pair

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<v Speaker 3>of shorts every single day and I probably only wear

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<v Speaker 3>wore three different shirts. I'm going to just start bringing

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<v Speaker 3>backpacks with me from now on, wherever I go, Like

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to ball in two weeks, I'm literally just

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<v Speaker 3>going to bring this little backpack with me and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just gonna test it out and see what it's like.

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<v Speaker 4>The problem is it all depends on what kaaln breaks,

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<v Speaker 4>because sure you could pack light, but if she's checking the.

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<v Speaker 1>Bag, you're weighing in line anyway.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, you're absolutely right. And in Japan, for instance,

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<v Speaker 3>I was stuck her heavy bag around because the hotel

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<v Speaker 3>I booked was half a mile from the train station

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<v Speaker 3>and it was late and it was a lot of blocking,

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<v Speaker 3>and so then I was like, just give me your bag.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna do it for us anyway. So this way,

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<v Speaker 3>at least, if I do that, I'm not bringing my

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<v Speaker 3>back in her bag. So it'll all even out, I

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<v Speaker 3>think eventually. But yeah, we'll see how that goes.

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<v Speaker 4>There was a guy in uh there was a guy

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<v Speaker 4>in Italy who carried our bags for us. When so

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<v Speaker 4>we brought our bags down the stairs at this hotel

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<v Speaker 4>that we were staying in, and it was probably about

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<v Speaker 4>one hundred and twenty steps. It was a long way

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<v Speaker 4>and they were wide steps too. It like these were

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<v Speaker 4>one of those steps where you had to put step

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<v Speaker 4>two or three times before, Yeah, before you can get

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<v Speaker 4>to the next step.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude.

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<v Speaker 4>So this guy he looked like Ivan Drago, except a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit skinnier, and he took both of our check

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<v Speaker 4>in bags that were probably about fifty pounds, put one

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<v Speaker 4>on each shoulder, and carried them one hundred and twenty steps.

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<v Speaker 4>We watched the entire thing in awe, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm very escalated right now, but also I'm not tired.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's great, that's why they have them there. I

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<v Speaker 3>gotta say one of my biggest pet peeves in life

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<v Speaker 3>is sets of stairs where you have to step twice

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<v Speaker 3>on the same stair and so every downstep that you're

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<v Speaker 3>using the same foot, and especially on long staircases like that,

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<v Speaker 3>every downstep I have to like step down with my

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<v Speaker 3>right leg and then I'm like, oh, my left leg

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<v Speaker 3>could step down a couple times when my lef leg's

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<v Speaker 3>getting a little jealous, maybe my right legs getting a

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<v Speaker 3>little tired. It makes me so rationally frustrated. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>even know. I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why do they build staircases like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just double the amount of stairs, No, no, No, just

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<v Speaker 3>build their staircase with a regular with stair and then

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<v Speaker 3>do like a flat walkway up near the top.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, makes no sense to me. They maybe it's too

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<v Speaker 4>It's like a marketing ploy. So you're like, you only

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<v Speaker 4>have to go down sixty steps, but then they don't

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<v Speaker 4>tell you that the sixty step is actually gonna take

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<v Speaker 4>you three hundred actual steps.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, No, that's your it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably onto something, right, you're onto something there. Well, great

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<v Speaker 3>episodes so far, you guys kill What else are we

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<v Speaker 3>going to have about today?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I want to talk about wingwalking that you did

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<v Speaker 2>last week? And did you watch vander Pump last night?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? I haven't, but I did watch the finale or no,

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<v Speaker 3>I watched Scammed of All and I watched the first

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<v Speaker 3>episode of the reunion with you. I'll watched on my flight. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>any juicy details you want to spill?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, can you tease?

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't that great? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a three part reunion and the second part

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<v Speaker 2>was last night.

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<v Speaker 1>How long is each part?

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<v Speaker 2>An hour? They're really dragging it out, So the last

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<v Speaker 2>one is next week and they said the last five

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<v Speaker 2>minutes are insane. They're like spilling something nobody knows what

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<v Speaker 2>it is, and they are giving the cast members the decision.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, wait until you hear what this is, what

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<v Speaker 2>this like big bomber dropping is until you decide if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to film next season. So I'm like dying

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<v Speaker 2>to know. And last yeah, last night, they didn't really

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<v Speaker 2>give anything away. It was like Raquel, the one who

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<v Speaker 2>cheated on her best friends with her best friend's boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 2>she sent this other girl a seasoned assist they were

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<v Speaker 2>going to court, and so that she dropped that last episode,

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<v Speaker 2>And honestly, that's like all we really got.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't get much, not a season desist, the restraining order.

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<v Speaker 2>A training order. Yeah, sorry, sorry restraining order. And then

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<v Speaker 2>Scandaval kind of like lost his freaking mind and was

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<v Speaker 2>like yelling at producers and telling them to f off,

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<v Speaker 2>and we just like saw a different side of him

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<v Speaker 2>that I feel like we've seen, but like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't expect for them to air what they aired

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<v Speaker 2>last night.

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<v Speaker 4>Has vander Pump always been this way or is it

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<v Speaker 4>now just gotten to a point where it's so dramatic

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<v Speaker 4>because of what happened between Raquel Tom and then whatever

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<v Speaker 4>the other girl's name is Arianna.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but yes and no, I think TikTok and social

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<v Speaker 2>media has definitely put it like making this bigger than

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<v Speaker 2>it normally would be.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never heard because Vanda Plunt has been on for

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<v Speaker 4>so long and of course rules, but I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's it's, for lack of a better word, climaxing

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<v Speaker 4>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's speaking.

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<v Speaker 2>I also just realized I said Macon. I meant to

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<v Speaker 2>say maked.

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<v Speaker 3>I noticed you said Macon, and I was like, that was.

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<v Speaker 2>My brain's not working. But no, okay, So Vanderpump, it's

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<v Speaker 2>been going on for ten years. Watched it in COVID

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<v Speaker 2>for the first time, and this there's like a pattern

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<v Speaker 2>of this. So this girl Stoss used to be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>she cheated on or was cheated on by her best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>So like this is like a pattern of behavior. This

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<v Speaker 2>has happened so many times. But I think they've been

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<v Speaker 2>together for almost a decade and it was her best friend,

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<v Speaker 2>so it happened before. I think it's like the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that they were together for ten years.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've said this on the podcast before.

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<v Speaker 4>Ashley made the analogy that it would be like Sean

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<v Speaker 4>Lowe cheating on Catherine with like Andy Dorfmann, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like big players and be like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, speaking of Andy, she just got married, Yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Your day.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's why she is on the mine Cora.

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<v Speaker 4>Congrats Dandy, not to make accusations of cheating with Andy Dorman.

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<v Speaker 3>Already beautiful wedding, I'm sure, Yeah, it was beautiful. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll watch it on the flight, So don't you worry.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll get home and I'll be all caught up.

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<v Speaker 2>Next week is the week that you know, it all

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<v Speaker 2>comes up.

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<v Speaker 3>And the next week comes soon end, and they're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be like, but actually we got twenty minutes of behind

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<v Speaker 3>the scenes footage your gun. I want to watch next

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<v Speaker 3>week on vander Pump Rules.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think this big bomb is at

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<v Speaker 1>the end, Kaitlin.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm wondering. And I saw something on Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>today of like someone saying keep this synonymous whatever, and

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<v Speaker 2>she said that she thinks Raquel has been sleeping with

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<v Speaker 2>Tom since she was engaged to not that you know

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<v Speaker 2>these people, but James, and she broke up her engagement

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<v Speaker 2>with James, and Tom was supposed to break up with Arianna,

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<v Speaker 2>but he never did, and that just doesn't seem like

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<v Speaker 2>people would quit the show over it. So I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that's it.

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<v Speaker 3>That can't be true. There's no way. I mean, maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it is. That would be incredibly like out of this world, though,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, right, because they've all just been saying

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<v Speaker 3>seven months or however long it's been.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I think that Lisa vander Pump, that's like

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<v Speaker 2>the only thing that would make people not do the

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<v Speaker 2>show again is if Lisa knew this whole time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true, that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think people would really not do the show again?

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<v Speaker 2>No, No, they'd be upset, but they'd still do it,

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<v Speaker 2>of course, Like their paychecks are massive.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean unless they're at a point now where

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<v Speaker 4>they don't care about money, which I can't imagine they

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<v Speaker 4>do they're at that point at least.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, if Tom Brady still cares about money, These

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<v Speaker 3>people still care about money, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very sad.

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<v Speaker 4>Though he posted, there was an interview on Sports Illustrated

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<v Speaker 4>where he was like, nope, guys, I'm done, I'm not playing.

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<v Speaker 3>But hey, part owner of the Las Vegas Raiders.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, go Raiders go to Vegas? Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I now, wait, Tom Brady.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he just did like a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he announced it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So does that mean you're a Raiders fan?

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<v Speaker 4>No, but of course I'll like now I have a

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<v Speaker 4>rooting interest in the Raiders because now I want Tom

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<v Speaker 4>to succeed. So i'm i'm, I'm Now I can watch

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<v Speaker 4>Raiders games with like an investment level, which is pretty cool. Uh,

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<v Speaker 4>it's so funny poor Buccaneers, Like I could care. I

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<v Speaker 4>could give a rats as the Buccaneers anymore. What if

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<v Speaker 4>the big bomb she's not like pregnant with his kid?

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<v Speaker 3>Would that be?

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<v Speaker 2>They speculated that too. It's just like, what would people

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<v Speaker 2>quit the show over? Like, they wouldn't quit the show

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<v Speaker 2>over that they already know that they've been sleeping together.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know. Lisa vander Pump is the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing that I think would make people like that upset.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would people be pissed off if she knew, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>She's supposed to be like this mother figure, she's supposed

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<v Speaker 2>to be like this mentor to them, and it is

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<v Speaker 2>just imagine this. I don't know. I guess that's a

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<v Speaker 2>good question.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I agree with you, Kyle, and I think that

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<v Speaker 3>if it were to be true and Lisa was like

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<v Speaker 3>harboring this information and not sharing it with anyone, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, even I think in the first reunion episode,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't remember who it was, but she was mad.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was Tom for saying that she was

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<v Speaker 3>mad at someone for not for saying that he was

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<v Speaker 3>or her was happy to get out of her wake,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. And so like they kind

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<v Speaker 3>of look at this person as like the person that's

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<v Speaker 3>kind of helped them establish themselves, and then now you

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<v Speaker 3>know they've leaned so heavily on her, and then for

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<v Speaker 3>this information come out, and again I'll speculation. Obviously we

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<v Speaker 3>have no idea, but I could see that that really

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<v Speaker 3>is a bigger bomb, of course than a pregnancy, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And so Lisa has invested a lot of money

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<v Speaker 2>into Tom Tom, which is named after obviously both Tom's

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<v Speaker 2>and then I don't know if she invested, but she

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<v Speaker 2>was like had a hand in their second restaurant. So

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<v Speaker 2>she has invested quite a bit in terms of money

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<v Speaker 2>and time. So it would make sense for her to

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<v Speaker 2>hide that if she didn't want it to come out.

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<v Speaker 4>And one of the Toms named after Tom Tom's is

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<v Speaker 4>the Tom that is being a douchebag?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well both Toms suck, but.

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<v Speaker 3>I just looked it up. So on on the Scammed

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<v Speaker 3>of All episode.

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<v Speaker 2>It's scanned aval. He keeps saying scam. It's scanned of all.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, well, scammed ofval makes way more sense. What is

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<v Speaker 3>a scaned of all? Well, his name is Sandoval, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I understand that, But what is a scan? A scan?

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<v Speaker 3>Is a scan? Is nothing?

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<v Speaker 2>A scam can be down myself, but I'm pretty sure

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<v Speaker 2>it's scanned of all. It's scann of all.

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<v Speaker 3>It should be scammed a scandaval doesn't make sense. Adding

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<v Speaker 3>the sea doesn't make that.

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<v Speaker 2>See what used in the chat?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, well now I sound like an idiot. Can

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<v Speaker 3>we set it all that out? Anyways, in that episode

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<v Speaker 3>they were talking about their Yelp rating. The other time

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't do the bad things, maybe other bad things,

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<v Speaker 3>but they had a four point nine star review on Yelp,

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<v Speaker 3>and now I just checked it down to three point five.

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<v Speaker 3>So he's not good for them.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to keep talking about this. I could talk about

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<v Speaker 2>it for hours, but Dean and I went to a

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<v Speaker 2>friend's house and we got into the most heated debate.

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<v Speaker 2>I think there were like six of us talking about Scanned,

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<v Speaker 2>of all, and the men had a different opinion than

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<v Speaker 2>the woman, and it was just.

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<v Speaker 3>What was the debate? I kind of don't really remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say with the first half because

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<v Speaker 2>I totally and I don't want to say it publicly.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think I was. I think I remember now,

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<v Speaker 3>and I remember saying it because I was like looking

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<v Speaker 3>over at you and you were like getting all crazy

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<v Speaker 3>at me, and I was like, I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking for a reaction, and I gave it to

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<v Speaker 2>you fully. But you guys like Schwartz, and Schwartz is

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<v Speaker 2>a terrible I won't say it's a terrible person. On

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<v Speaker 2>which one's one that you think is handsome?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, yeah, he is handsome, that's what he has just.

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<v Speaker 2>Been such a horrible person to his wife. His wife's

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<v Speaker 2>also messed up or ex wife. But it's like, and

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<v Speaker 2>granted you haven't watched a show and we talked about this,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just been consuming our lives.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's lives, our lives.

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<v Speaker 2>It was consuming the hours at the party last weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I well again, I was just I was

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<v Speaker 3>just trying to be funny, silly, goofy guy, trying to

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<v Speaker 3>make people laugh like I usually do, and I was

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<v Speaker 3>I was doing pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>No, you were making everyone angry enraged.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but then I would like throwing a couple jokes

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<v Speaker 3>and make them laugh and be like, oh, actually, pretty

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<v Speaker 3>funny guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sure, I want to know what you said.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even remember, and I don't think I want

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<v Speaker 3>to remember. It sounds like, so that's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you remember falling in love with the guy. He

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<v Speaker 3>was the funniest guy I've ever seen in my entire

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<v Speaker 3>entire life. No, Trevor, oh so obsessivate. He would like

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<v Speaker 3>he would like, go somewhere. I was just like falling

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<v Speaker 3>around like little puppy dog, like schenging out with me.

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<v Speaker 3>You're so funny and makes me laugh so much.

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, dude actually gets upset at me when I'm

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<v Speaker 4>when I like fall in love with the guys, Jared

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<v Speaker 4>relax because like, I'll joke around with my buddy Chad

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<v Speaker 4>and uh, because we're we you know, we're very close.

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<v Speaker 4>And one of my friends, Crystal was like, you guys

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<v Speaker 4>are like boy toys, so we always call each other

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<v Speaker 4>boy toys. Now, like, it's my boy toy right there,

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<v Speaker 4>and it actually gets so weirded out, Like Ashley, I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Relax.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, no, it's just weird when you call them

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<v Speaker 4>your boy toy. I'm like, it's not a sexual thing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm joking. I'm I'm I'm being sarcastic. Like and then

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<v Speaker 4>so now I just say to even piss her off more. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like to get a reaction. Yeah, different, I just

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<v Speaker 4>missed my I wish my you know, boy toy was

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<v Speaker 4>right here sitting in between us.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just like, Jared, that's so weird. I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>shut up.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a good thing, you know, to develop friendships this

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<v Speaker 3>late in life for us, it's not an easy thing

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<v Speaker 3>to do. So when you find someone you like, hold

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<v Speaker 3>on tight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly, I know. What are you gonna do?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we do have a great episode, obviously, we're talking

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<v Speaker 4>about vander Propper rules. We could talk about all that

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<v Speaker 4>all day and all night. We do have some emails.

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<v Speaker 4>We haven't done emails in Qui. It's some time here

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<v Speaker 4>and help we suck at being newlyweds. Have we done

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<v Speaker 4>emails since the rebranding of the podcast, or was that

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<v Speaker 4>like a suck we have Oh okay, all right, never mind,

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<v Speaker 4>I thought this was like a.

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<v Speaker 2>You weren't there that episode?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, So now all three of us are here

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<v Speaker 4>for the email episode of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds.

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<v Speaker 4>We have an email from Brooke, Victoria Alyssa, unfortunately none

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<v Speaker 4>from anonymous, our favorite Nick viol We're gonna get to

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<v Speaker 4>those emails, though, but first we're gonna take a quick break.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome back to Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds. Dude,

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<v Speaker 4>I it's I must be allergies. I can't breathe through

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<v Speaker 4>my nose, so talking while trying to breathe through my

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<v Speaker 4>mouth is just so annoying right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Worse than that, do you get tired? I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>you run out of breath.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm I'm exhausted, and then I can like, I'm I

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<v Speaker 4>keep turning my head because I'm like, oh, yeah, guys,

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<v Speaker 4>good topic. Yeah No, what's next? What do you guys

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<v Speaker 4>want to talk about? Because I'm like, it's like so annoying.

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<v Speaker 4>It's annoying, and I feel like my voice is changing. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 4>we have some emails.

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<v Speaker 2>Should we talk about Dean's wing walking?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? My God, I totally forgot about Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, Caitlyn, it's good to know that someone on this

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<v Speaker 3>podcast cares about me and my life and the things

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<v Speaker 3>I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but before we talk about you, I'm still not

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<v Speaker 2>over that the fact that I said making and maked

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<v Speaker 2>I meant to say made. And my brain just isn't

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<v Speaker 2>working today, and I want everyone to know I'm not stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just a slow day for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't remember this exact context you said it in,

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<v Speaker 3>but you said I don't want to remember, no, And

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<v Speaker 3>then I was like trying to think of like it

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<v Speaker 3>made sense, Like no one really noticed except for us, obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>Except for everyone that's trying to break it down.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, she was trying to say this,

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<v Speaker 3>which basically is what she said. You just like said

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<v Speaker 3>it in Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyways, I haven't been able to let it go since

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<v Speaker 2>I said it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what's the fun The funny thing is is

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<v Speaker 4>that Dean and I say stupid shit on this podcast,

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<v Speaker 4>probably on average every ninety seven seconds. Caylin says a

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<v Speaker 4>dumb thing for the first time in the history of

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<v Speaker 4>her host of this podcast, and now she's like.

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<v Speaker 2>It's consuming me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's consuming me.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't let it go, and I need to let

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<v Speaker 4>everybody know that I'm not as dumb as Diana Jared.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, you know, when you listen to a

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<v Speaker 2>podcast and someone says something, you're like, that's not a word.

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<v Speaker 2>I like, focus on that, And now I'm focused on myself. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not important. I just feel silly. But I do

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<v Speaker 2>want to talk about your wing walking.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, let's talk about it. What do you want to

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<v Speaker 3>know about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us everything, walk us through the wingwalk.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you tethered to the plane at all times?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, there is a static line on. I know it's

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<v Speaker 3>not as exciting as it maybe could have seemed. I

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<v Speaker 3>think I edited the video well enough to where you

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't see the line. God and I even asked when

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<v Speaker 3>we were like, because you do a couple of run

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<v Speaker 3>throughs before you go up there, I was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>that static line would suck to fall on like it.

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<v Speaker 3>You would survive, but you would be mangled, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like you do some broken zones and stuff, but you

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't die. You would just have a couple of broken bones.

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<v Speaker 4>So, like say, hypothetically, when you're climbing to the wing,

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<v Speaker 4>because you're tether to it you do slip off the plane?

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<v Speaker 4>How far would you fall? Yeah, Like, how loose is

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<v Speaker 4>this rope?

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<v Speaker 3>It's maybe like four or five feet long, So you

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't be like, you wouldn't be too far below the plane.

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<v Speaker 3>I would imagine you could pull yourself back up. I

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<v Speaker 3>have no idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Did they go through that in your safety brief, like

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<v Speaker 2>here's what happens if you fall?

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<v Speaker 3>I asked them, and I was like, hey, how many

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<v Speaker 3>people have needed the tether there? Like, how many incidents

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<v Speaker 3>have you had? Like We've had zero people fall on this,

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<v Speaker 3>So it's like, you it's there for a safety reason obviously, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, I was thinking, because you go up, it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>so you're in the seat and the anchor point is

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<v Speaker 3>like kind of above you to the left, but then

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<v Speaker 3>when you're on the wing, it's below you into the

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<v Speaker 3>left like a good four or five feet, And so

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<v Speaker 3>if you were to fall, you would fall five feet

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<v Speaker 3>to the anchor point and then five feet further like

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<v Speaker 3>bouncing off the airplane the sharp wings and stuff. So

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<v Speaker 3>I just imagine you I would be like I would

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<v Speaker 3>You probably could get a concussion and get knocked out

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever, but thankfully it was not necessary for this,

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<v Speaker 3>but yeah, you just do a couple of practice runs.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I showed up an hour late and so shocking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wait, what do you mean practice runs?

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<v Speaker 3>Like the planes on the ground, And they're like, this

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<v Speaker 3>is how you climb up and this is where you go,

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<v Speaker 3>this is what you do, this is the sequence of

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<v Speaker 3>events you need to do to get up up there

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<v Speaker 3>safely and effectively. And there's only one plane and there

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<v Speaker 3>was six of us, and so you know, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>forty minutes between each person to go, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>got there an hour late, and they were like, we

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<v Speaker 3>were trying to decide the order, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to go first, and everyone's like, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 3>all want to go first. You were shut up, so

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<v Speaker 3>you should go last. And I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 3>wish I could argue that logic, but I can't. So

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<v Speaker 3>I just had to sit there all day and watch

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<v Speaker 3>these people go up and come down. And it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>that bad. I guess you're waiting, but it was a blast.

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<v Speaker 3>I think if anyone has the chance to do it,

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<v Speaker 3>they should definitely do it. It's it's just kind of expensive.

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<v Speaker 3>Them swiping my card kind of killed me a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was.

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<v Speaker 1>To give us a ballpark. I want you to gas first, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how you how long are you up in the air?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe thirty minutes? On the wing? For like fifteen or

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<v Speaker 3>twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't imagine. It's too expensive. I mean two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, you must be guessing way too high because

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<v Speaker 3>you know that it's it's expensive.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, that's why I was like, I can't wait.

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<v Speaker 4>So how it killed your I don't know. Eight hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I say exactly how much it was. Eight hundred dollars,

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<v Speaker 3>which for a thirty minute it's basically like for a

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<v Speaker 3>thirty minute roller coaster ride.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, it's way more intense than a roller coaster

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<v Speaker 4>ride and way less what's the word. Like, you're not

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<v Speaker 4>able to do it as much as you're able to

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<v Speaker 4>do a roller coaster. So I get why you'd have

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<v Speaker 4>to pay decent amount money, especially for all the safety features.

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<v Speaker 4>Plus the pilot per hour probably costs you a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of money.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the pilot, the training you're there all day, the fuel,

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<v Speaker 3>the way on the plane, the fuel. They gave me

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<v Speaker 3>a nice little SD cards, so I got to keep that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like a fifty dollars that's nice to they give you,

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<v Speaker 3>like a hat or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>That would be a nice little added bonus, you know

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<v Speaker 4>they should have, but they yeah, nice a little piece

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<v Speaker 4>of merch a shirt. I survived wing walking.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah it was fun. I mean you could just

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<v Speaker 3>crawl up there and you put your feet in these

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<v Speaker 3>little stirrups and then you give the guy the thumbs

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<v Speaker 3>up and then he just starts going crazy. He starts

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<v Speaker 3>doing flips and barrel rolls and hammer heads or what

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<v Speaker 3>they're called, where you fly straight up and then like

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<v Speaker 3>banks over the side and then you go straight down

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<v Speaker 3>towards the ground.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you do it again?

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<v Speaker 3>I would do it. I would for sure if it

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<v Speaker 3>was free. There's two things you can do. So you

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<v Speaker 3>can go up on the plane, like on the wing

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<v Speaker 3>like I did, and then there's a sec like an

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<v Speaker 3>alteration where you can go out like towards the tip

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<v Speaker 3>of the wing, and then like between the two wings

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<v Speaker 3>you can like hang in the wires there like you're

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<v Speaker 3>on your stomach so you're like flying through like Superman.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it'd be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>It looks so cool and I like just test her

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<v Speaker 3>in at once just to see what it was like.

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<v Speaker 3>And it feels so cool. I can only imagine what

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<v Speaker 3>it feel like while you're actually flying. But that was

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<v Speaker 3>like an extra four five hundred dollars and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>that just doesn't just I mean, But then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm probably gonna do this once, like I should just

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<v Speaker 3>splurge to do it. But then, like I was, I

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<v Speaker 3>felt so bad about spending hud dollars on it. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, I can't spend any more money on this,

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<v Speaker 3>so I just did the one.

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<v Speaker 4>But your feet are the only thing locked in. You

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<v Speaker 4>have like a waistband that you put on, okay, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was scarier there. He's like on like the third loop,

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<v Speaker 4>I think he went like bigger or slower.

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<v Speaker 3>Or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get a little air?

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<v Speaker 3>I felt my feet come out of the stirrups and

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<v Speaker 3>like my hands were out like this, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>like a like a cross the whole time. And that

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<v Speaker 3>was the one time where I like wrapped behind me

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<v Speaker 3>and tried to grab on because I was scared of

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<v Speaker 3>I was gonna fly out, which I wouldn't have. I

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<v Speaker 3>kind of panicked a little bit. But but people of

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<v Speaker 3>like all shapes and sizes were there. There was a

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<v Speaker 3>girl who was like five foot two, and then the

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<v Speaker 3>guy who was like six three, two hundred and ten pounds,

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<v Speaker 3>like a bigger guy. So it's definitely like anyone can

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<v Speaker 3>do it, you know. It's it was cool and exciting

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<v Speaker 3>and very very awesome. But it's not like you have

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<v Speaker 3>to be a certain caliber of adrenaline junkie to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, would you say, what what has more adreneraline adrenaline? Uh,

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<v Speaker 4>skydiving or win walk wing walking?

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<v Speaker 3>Skydiving by a million percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're in control of your shoot or why.

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<v Speaker 3>Every time I'm on the airplane skydiving like about to

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<v Speaker 3>jump out. Every single time, I've got one hundred jumps,

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<v Speaker 3>so really not that many, but a lot more than

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<v Speaker 3>most people. Every single time I'm riding up in the

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<v Speaker 3>airplane and I'm like, I'm gonna I'm going to die,

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<v Speaker 3>this is the end of my life. And then you

0:27:24.960 --> 0:27:26.520
<v Speaker 3>just jump out of the airplane. And you have to

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<v Speaker 3>really have to make the decision at some point to

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<v Speaker 3>be like I don't care, Like not that I don't

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<v Speaker 3>care that I'm going to die, obviously, because I don't

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:35.880
<v Speaker 3>want to die, but you have to, like, there really

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<v Speaker 3>is a bigger mountain to overcome to push yourself out

0:27:38.440 --> 0:27:39.840
<v Speaker 3>of the airplane than there is to get on top

0:27:39.880 --> 0:27:43.960
<v Speaker 3>of the wing. So definitely skydiving. And then one of

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<v Speaker 3>the guys, actually the big talk guy, had like five thousands,

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<v Speaker 3>five thousand skydives and I asked him too, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>how does it compare? And he goes, bro not even close. So,

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<v Speaker 3>h Klin, you've skydived. You could definitely do the wingwalking.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good, I think, yeah, I'm good on that.

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<v Speaker 4>How many how many jumps do you have to have

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<v Speaker 4>in order to skydive on your because Caylen, I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 4>you'll you'd have to get attached to somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm attached zero jumps.

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<v Speaker 3>Your very first jump ever in your entire life could

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<v Speaker 3>be fully solo.

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<v Speaker 4>There's I don't think that's legal, no way.

0:28:12.600 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 2>But you have like three people next to.

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 3>You, yeah, like controlling your body because you don't have

0:28:17.880 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 3>body control at that point. You might some people do, surely,

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:23.960
<v Speaker 3>but and then like they don't pull their parachute until

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<v Speaker 3>they've seen you pull your parachute. So like, let's say

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 3>you can't find your parachute or something, or you're in

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:31.040
<v Speaker 3>a free fall and you can't get out of it,

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:34.120
<v Speaker 3>they'll like rip your They'll rip your parachute out for you,

0:28:34.200 --> 0:28:35.880
<v Speaker 3>and then they'll just pull theirs out a little bit lower,

0:28:35.920 --> 0:28:36.400
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean?

0:28:36.520 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 2>What if you get detached from the people, that's crazy.

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:42.560
<v Speaker 3>They're such professionals. They would know how to contort their

0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 3>body noise to catch you. Like if you're if you're

0:28:44.840 --> 0:28:47.320
<v Speaker 3>like sparrel rolling and like flipping through the sky, you're

0:28:47.360 --> 0:28:48.880
<v Speaker 3>going to move a lot slower than someone that's like

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:50.920
<v Speaker 3>head down die bombing at you, so they can get

0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:52.120
<v Speaker 3>to you way faster than you could.

0:28:52.200 --> 0:28:54.000
<v Speaker 1>But also your moving object.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's very as you're free falling towards the ground.

0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I get that these people are professionals, but

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:03.480
<v Speaker 4>you're telling me if I'm doing spins in three sixties

0:29:03.520 --> 0:29:05.959
<v Speaker 4>because I can't control my body as I'm screaming and

0:29:06.040 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 4>flaring around like Dawson getting his diaper change, you're telling

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:12.040
<v Speaker 4>me that as I'm careening towards the ground, there's somebody

0:29:12.040 --> 0:29:13.080
<v Speaker 4>who's gonna be able to.

0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 1>Grab my parachute and release it for me mid air.

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred percent, they would come in super hot. They'd

0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:21.840
<v Speaker 3>probably smack you pretty hard, but they would they would

0:29:21.840 --> 0:29:22.840
<v Speaker 3>grab your body first.

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh great, so I'm also gonna get a concussion in this.

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 3>Thing, but you're gonna lift, and I think the most

0:29:28.600 --> 0:29:31.320
<v Speaker 3>important thing that like grab obviously your body kind of

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<v Speaker 3>probably try to like level you out, I would imagine,

0:29:33.320 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 3>and then rip your parachute. And at that point too,

0:29:35.400 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 3>since you're just learning your parachute so big, like two

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:40.200
<v Speaker 3>or three times bigger than it will be once you

0:29:40.240 --> 0:29:42.120
<v Speaker 3>get good at it, that like you could literally just

0:29:42.160 --> 0:29:44.040
<v Speaker 3>not even touch anything and land safely on the ground.

0:29:44.200 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 3>So it's pretty safe.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not saying you guys should do this, but I

0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 4>think also would make a great video if you guys

0:29:49.320 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 4>jumped out and then Dean was the one who.

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<v Speaker 1>Had to pull your parachute.

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<v Speaker 2>Kalb, I'm good, But you should go with my grandparents.

0:29:55.760 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Haven't you been talking to them about that for a while?

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.480
<v Speaker 3>I should go with your grandparents. I was just texting

0:30:01.520 --> 0:30:04.320
<v Speaker 3>Tom earlier. Did they actually oh sky diving?

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? My grandparents haven't been in like twenty or thirty years,

0:30:07.320 --> 0:30:09.360
<v Speaker 2>but they keep telling Deane they want to go with them.

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:12.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, not to be morbid, are you nervous

0:30:12.240 --> 0:30:13.760
<v Speaker 4>about them dying, Kaylen.

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:18.160
<v Speaker 2>No, my grandpa is like he's eighty, but he is

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:20.720
<v Speaker 2>more like a sixty five seventy year old.

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:25.040
<v Speaker 3>He's a young eighty as got a young soul, which

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:25.480
<v Speaker 3>is good.

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Even a young eighty, i'd be nervous about.

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 3>I remember seeing some articles, like a couple of months ago,

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 3>the oldest person ever Scott I was like ninety eight

0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:36.600
<v Speaker 3>or something like that. Damn, I can't I can't remember

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 3>if that's true or not. But yeah, I just wish

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:41.960
<v Speaker 3>Justice never moved away. He's the reason I would always

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 3>go skydving before. And now he's gone, and so I

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:48.800
<v Speaker 3>don't jump really bunch anymore. It's gone forever. But yeah,

0:30:48.800 --> 0:30:50.680
<v Speaker 3>that was my wingwalking experience. Kaylin, thank you so much

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 3>for bringing up. I really appreciate it.

0:30:52.640 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I hate you both. So before your plane board, do

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:10.200
<v Speaker 1>you want to answer some of these emails?

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've got a good I got ten minutes, fifteen minutes.

0:31:15.040 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 2>There's a question about alistair, so we could talk about that.

0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:20.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's read that one first from Brook. I'll let

0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:22.400
<v Speaker 3>you guys read it because there's a lot going on

0:31:22.440 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 3>around here.

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Kaylen, you can read it all right, so from

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Brook Hi, guys, I have a question for Dean and Kaylin.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys mentioned on a recent episode that Alistair is

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<v Speaker 2>a total nightmare and people don't feel comfortable staying in

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 2>your home. Can you give me more details on what

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:37.000
<v Speaker 2>he does that's so bad as long as you feel

0:31:37.000 --> 0:31:39.600
<v Speaker 2>comfortable sharing. I'm writing from Chicago as a rescuer of

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<v Speaker 2>two small naughty dogs who both see a canine behavioral

0:31:42.400 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 2>therapist their prescribed daily prozac and also Xanax for when

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:49.240
<v Speaker 2>life gets too hard. I'd love to commiserate with you,

0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 2>well wonderful, because having a misbehaved dog is awful. Like

0:31:55.160 --> 0:31:57.920
<v Speaker 2>Pappy was an angel, He would never have like bitten anyone.

0:31:58.520 --> 0:32:00.640
<v Speaker 2>We could like walk them off leash. He was just

0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:03.960
<v Speaker 2>so perfect little yeah yeah, well at the end, at

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:08.320
<v Speaker 2>the end when he had dementia. But Alistair is so

0:32:08.320 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 2>sweet to us, like he's he's just like so cuddly

0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:15.960
<v Speaker 2>and loving, and to anyone else, he's just so protective

0:32:15.960 --> 0:32:19.360
<v Speaker 2>and he'll like bite or nip or he likes to

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 2>go after dogs on walks, so we have to like

0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 2>keep him separated, and anytime he's around a person, I'm like,

0:32:24.520 --> 0:32:26.280
<v Speaker 2>don't get near him. Don't pet him. I don't care

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 2>if you're a dog person, like, he will bite you.

0:32:28.520 --> 0:32:30.280
<v Speaker 2>And we had we got him trained. We worked with

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:31.920
<v Speaker 2>a trainer for a few months, and the trainer gave

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 2>up on him. He told us to give him back

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 2>to the pound. Wow, just so messed.

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:40.280
<v Speaker 3>Up, I told him and never text us again. Yeah, yeah,

0:32:40.360 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 3>I was mad. We were friends too, and we were like,

0:32:42.440 --> 0:32:45.200
<v Speaker 3>we got a tattoo together once and then he texted

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:47.000
<v Speaker 3>me that and I was like, just don't even ever

0:32:47.040 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 3>bother showing your face around here again.

0:32:48.880 --> 0:32:50.640
<v Speaker 2>I do think we've gotten it down to a science

0:32:50.640 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 2>where it's like we have him on leash during walks,

0:32:52.800 --> 0:32:54.600
<v Speaker 2>we'll like separate him if there's like a dog on

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 2>the other side of the sidewalk, we'll like, you know,

0:32:56.640 --> 0:32:59.200
<v Speaker 2>make sure there's a safe distance. We tell everyone not

0:32:59.280 --> 0:33:01.840
<v Speaker 2>to pet him, like I think that's just the way

0:33:01.960 --> 0:33:03.880
<v Speaker 2>he will be. He also has like four teeth left,

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:05.960
<v Speaker 2>so once he has no teeth, it'll be nice too,

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:07.720
<v Speaker 2>but only gums.

0:33:08.080 --> 0:33:10.920
<v Speaker 3>So he I've diagnosed him. And I read this email

0:33:11.160 --> 0:33:14.600
<v Speaker 3>before coming to the airport because I wanted to answer it. Well,

0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 3>so he has leash aggression, which like whenever he's on

0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:19.680
<v Speaker 3>the leash and he sees another dog, he'll be pulling

0:33:19.680 --> 0:33:22.479
<v Speaker 3>on the leash, lunging at the dog, barking all those things.

0:33:22.880 --> 0:33:24.600
<v Speaker 3>And then if you bring him up to the other dog,

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:26.479
<v Speaker 3>he'll like spite and an attack and all that kind

0:33:26.480 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 3>of stuff. He also has submission aggression, where if you

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:31.800
<v Speaker 3>are over at our house, he'll like kind of keep

0:33:31.840 --> 0:33:33.560
<v Speaker 3>his distance, but occasionally will come up to you and

0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:35.200
<v Speaker 3>like lay on his back and show his belly, like

0:33:35.280 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 3>offering you to pet him. And then the second you

0:33:37.320 --> 0:33:40.280
<v Speaker 3>lean into pet him, hill bite your hand. So what

0:33:40.320 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 3>I've noticed with him is I just took him on

0:33:42.440 --> 0:33:44.720
<v Speaker 3>a week long, two week long trip to Idaho and

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.479
<v Speaker 3>Colorado when Kylen was in Europe, and didn't have him

0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:50.600
<v Speaker 3>Mono leashed once. And Kylen's probably gonna die hearing this.

0:33:50.840 --> 0:33:53.160
<v Speaker 3>Didn't have Mona leashed once at the campsite. When he

0:33:53.240 --> 0:33:55.960
<v Speaker 3>thrives outdoors. You know how happy he gets when he's outside,

0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:57.680
<v Speaker 3>didn't have a mono leash, and there's like a lot

0:33:57.680 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 3>of people around, a lot of dogs. He would run up,

0:34:01.120 --> 0:34:03.600
<v Speaker 3>get excited, run up, maybe bark a couple of times,

0:34:03.960 --> 0:34:05.960
<v Speaker 3>sniff the dog, let the dog sniff him, and then

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:07.600
<v Speaker 3>just like kind of saunter back over.

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 2>He my heart is racing hearing this right now.

0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:14.400
<v Speaker 3>So he's so much better off leash and outside. Like

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:17.839
<v Speaker 3>I was maybe a little concerned at first, but then

0:34:18.360 --> 0:34:20.640
<v Speaker 3>very quickly I realized that he is just like he

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 3>wants to wander, and I think that's what he gets

0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:25.120
<v Speaker 3>angry a is he feels confined when he's on a

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:28.239
<v Speaker 3>lesion in the harness. One thing I do say, though,

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:30.400
<v Speaker 3>like if he's off leash and we're walking around, like

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.480
<v Speaker 3>and he runs up to a person and there every

0:34:32.520 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 3>time they're like, he's so cute, Oh my gosh, he

0:34:34.280 --> 0:34:36.000
<v Speaker 3>looks like a little teddy bear. I'm like, yeah, he's cute,

0:34:36.000 --> 0:34:37.920
<v Speaker 3>but do not pet him. Whatever you do, do not

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:38.399
<v Speaker 3>pet him.

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:40.239
<v Speaker 4>Don't you get nervous when he runs up to and

0:34:40.239 --> 0:34:42.160
<v Speaker 4>you have to like scream at this person like.

0:34:42.160 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>Don't bo don't look at him.

0:34:44.680 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I just say, don't pet him. I just say,

0:34:46.440 --> 0:34:47.920
<v Speaker 3>don't pet him no matter what. And the nice thing

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:51.760
<v Speaker 3>about taking him camping is, Caitlin, I'm sorry, let me finish.

0:34:51.800 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 3>The nice thing I was taking him camping is most

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:57.040
<v Speaker 3>dogs that go on these adventures camping and stuff are

0:34:57.040 --> 0:35:00.160
<v Speaker 3>like big athletic dogs and so like, even if he

0:35:00.280 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 3>did act up, he would get put in his place

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:04.759
<v Speaker 3>really fast. And I think it could be good for

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:06.440
<v Speaker 3>him to be, you know, learn a lesson.

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:08.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's gonna get punched the face.

0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:11.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah right, everyone's got a plan to get punched in

0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:11.520
<v Speaker 3>the face.

0:35:11.680 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say two things. The first thing is

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:15.879
<v Speaker 2>like he'll never just like go out of his way

0:35:15.920 --> 0:35:17.799
<v Speaker 2>and bite someone, which is nice, Like we don't ever

0:35:17.840 --> 0:35:19.319
<v Speaker 2>have to worry about that. We can add people over

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 2>and he'll never bother them. It's a second you touch

0:35:21.680 --> 0:35:24.279
<v Speaker 2>him and he realizes it isn't us that he goes

0:35:24.320 --> 0:35:27.080
<v Speaker 2>to bite. But then if we leave them with the sitter,

0:35:27.080 --> 0:35:29.040
<v Speaker 2>if we leave them with the groomer, like whoever it is,

0:35:29.600 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 2>he accepts that new person as his owner. And whatever

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 2>dogs they have or animals they have, he like accepts

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:36.840
<v Speaker 2>them as well. So it's weird.

0:35:37.280 --> 0:35:39.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's weird. And kudos to Brook for doing like

0:35:39.480 --> 0:35:42.840
<v Speaker 3>the prescription medication thing. Yeah, we've thought about that a

0:35:42.840 --> 0:35:45.920
<v Speaker 3>little bit as well. I personally want to do everything

0:35:45.920 --> 0:35:48.400
<v Speaker 3>we can to avoid it. I'd rather him be fully

0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:51.480
<v Speaker 3>aware and coherent at all times than to subdue him

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:55.360
<v Speaker 3>with medication. And that's just personal preference. I think like, honestly,

0:35:55.360 --> 0:35:56.759
<v Speaker 3>he probably would be better off with like a little

0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:58.040
<v Speaker 3>bit of his annex every once in a while.

0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:00.000
<v Speaker 2>But he's like such a funny dog, and I feel

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.239
<v Speaker 2>like if we put him on Xanax, his personality would

0:36:02.280 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 2>be dimmed.

0:36:03.400 --> 0:36:05.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like Pappy for instance, we had to give him

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 3>medication for his seizures and that kind of like dimmed

0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:11.400
<v Speaker 3>the lights a little bit for him. Yeah, but it's tricky,

0:36:11.560 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 3>like at kudos to Brook for rescuing. I think that's great,

0:36:14.320 --> 0:36:17.400
<v Speaker 3>and I think that you shouldn't let the naughtiness deter

0:36:17.600 --> 0:36:20.120
<v Speaker 3>you from loving them and then doing it again later

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:23.200
<v Speaker 3>on at some point. But it's definitely a challenge, and

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 3>I do I do agree with you, Kileen. I do

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:26.719
<v Speaker 3>think that we've kind of figured out the system a

0:36:26.760 --> 0:36:30.239
<v Speaker 3>little bit with Alistair. Yeah, but even like you know,

0:36:30.280 --> 0:36:33.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm outside in our front yard and I'm friends with

0:36:33.080 --> 0:36:35.879
<v Speaker 3>our neighbor who's got two dogs, and they're all off leash,

0:36:35.920 --> 0:36:38.680
<v Speaker 3>and they're getting along. They're not like playing, but they're

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:43.160
<v Speaker 3>like co existing at least. Yeah, So it's a good sign.

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:44.920
<v Speaker 2>It's a good sign, all right.

0:36:44.960 --> 0:36:48.080
<v Speaker 4>This The next email comes from Victoria and it says,

0:36:48.320 --> 0:36:50.480
<v Speaker 4>what are your thoughts when you need a friend?

0:36:50.600 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 3>Excuse me?

0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:53.719
<v Speaker 4>What are your thoughts when you meet a friend or

0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:57.040
<v Speaker 4>co worker of your significant other who is the same

0:36:57.200 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 4>gender as you and they're not super friendly or care

0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 4>to get to know you. Are you not bothered and

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 4>just think it's no big deal? Or does it irk

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:08.479
<v Speaker 4>you a tiny bit and you get curious if they're

0:37:08.560 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 4>slightly interested in your significant other?

0:37:12.080 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Curious on your take? I know it's super situational.

0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Ah, well, Jared, you're the only one that

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.840
<v Speaker 3>has well, I guess Ashley doesn't really have coworkers, but

0:37:21.840 --> 0:37:24.399
<v Speaker 3>you're the only one here that has a job, So.

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:25.960
<v Speaker 4>I guess Ashley would be the correct person to ask

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:28.960
<v Speaker 4>for this. I don't think anybody's ever. It's also we're

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:33.320
<v Speaker 4>in a unique situation that everybody knows me as Ashley

0:37:33.360 --> 0:37:37.560
<v Speaker 4>and Jared, you know, so it's it's different because we're

0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:40.279
<v Speaker 4>just in a public relationship. Yeah, but I wonder she

0:37:40.360 --> 0:37:42.319
<v Speaker 4>did say, you know, I was gonna say, she did

0:37:42.320 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 4>say once that there was this girl that came in

0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:47.000
<v Speaker 4>and she's coming a lot, and she had a boyfriend,

0:37:47.040 --> 0:37:48.840
<v Speaker 4>and like it was like it was a group of girls,

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:50.480
<v Speaker 4>but she was like, I think she wants to have

0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:52.919
<v Speaker 4>an affair with you. I'm like, Ashley, I got news

0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:54.080
<v Speaker 4>for you. I don't think she wants to have an

0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 4>affair with me. Like, that's very sweet of you to think,

0:37:56.440 --> 0:37:58.360
<v Speaker 4>but I don't think that's the case. And in fact,

0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:01.359
<v Speaker 4>I'm very confident that's not the case. But she even

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<v Speaker 4>said that, she said it a couple of times. She's

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<v Speaker 4>like that girl, I think she wants to have an

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<v Speaker 4>affair with you. I'm like, that honestly means a lot

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:10.360
<v Speaker 4>to me because it makes me feel like I'm still attractive.

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<v Speaker 4>But unfortunately, I don't think that's the case.

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<v Speaker 3>Pape. Yeah, it's kind of a unique situation world, and

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.480
<v Speaker 3>because we are all known as being in a relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with each each other, like you know, I've got Kaylen,

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<v Speaker 3>you got Ashley.

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<v Speaker 4>But from past experiences, I mean, we've all had jobs

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<v Speaker 4>where we've worked with other people, So I think, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, maybe they just don't like you, maybe they're

0:38:33.520 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 4>not you know that.

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<v Speaker 3>The situation I can the only situation I can think

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<v Speaker 3>about is when I didn't even meet the guy. I guess,

0:38:38.960 --> 0:38:40.640
<v Speaker 3>but Kylen was on a trip in Florida and you

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<v Speaker 3>met that guy that was like really hitting on you

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<v Speaker 3>super hard.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, that was awful. That guy was like a

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 2>rare breed too, and I think that's part of his brand.

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<v Speaker 2>But then there was that time, Yeah, just call him out.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care. I don't even care if he oh way,

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<v Speaker 3>but I think he's a douche. Chase he was like

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<v Speaker 3>on too hot to handle or something.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, damn it. I thought we were talking about

0:39:02.080 --> 0:39:04.279
<v Speaker 4>Chase from Bachelor. I was like, damn, this is some

0:39:04.360 --> 0:39:06.320
<v Speaker 4>hot tea right here holding too hot to handle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you guys mind if we look this up?

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty juicy stuff, Chase.

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<v Speaker 2>Too hot that he's like kind of known as a

0:39:16.080 --> 0:39:16.959
<v Speaker 2>you know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Guy, Chase the more football player. Hold on, I'll show

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<v Speaker 1>you a picture.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that guy exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah wait this guy, uh huh. I mean he's got

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<v Speaker 1>more followers than Deans.

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<v Speaker 4>So like, I don't know, Kaylon, Yeah, right's he's got

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<v Speaker 4>a real chance.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he I don't know. It's fine. I don't want

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:34.440
<v Speaker 3>to dwell on it too long, but he just he

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<v Speaker 3>like was in a boxing match recently and he down

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<v Speaker 3>the guy and he was like punching the guy as

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:40.680
<v Speaker 3>he was on the ground and it was just the

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<v Speaker 3>worst displayer sportsmanship I've ever seen in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, but there was also that girl in Mexico

0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:50.840
<v Speaker 2>that didn't quite care that we were in a relationship.

0:39:50.880 --> 0:39:55.080
<v Speaker 2>I feel like they're they're what girl? Honestly, I don't

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:57.200
<v Speaker 2>even know her name, but I wouldn't say it if

0:39:57.200 --> 0:39:59.799
<v Speaker 2>I did. She was knocking on your van door.

0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:05.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh that was that girl.

0:40:05.520 --> 0:40:08.480
<v Speaker 3>That was that was weird and it was okay.

0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:10.759
<v Speaker 2>I was just about to say to Victoria, I think,

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<v Speaker 2>like my advice is killing with kindness and eventually they

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<v Speaker 2>have to accept you're in a relationship. They can either

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<v Speaker 2>be friends with you or not. And then I was

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about that and it was really hard for me

0:40:21.160 --> 0:40:22.799
<v Speaker 2>to be nice to her. I was still nice to her,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was very hard for.

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<v Speaker 3>Me to be You just pulled an ouncer and like

0:40:26.200 --> 0:40:27.960
<v Speaker 3>avoided her, and then if you did come close, you

0:40:27.960 --> 0:40:32.960
<v Speaker 3>got a little That's funny. I totally forgot about that.

0:40:33.040 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 1>Did you have to deal?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel because Dean, let's be honest, Dean was a

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<v Speaker 4>a hot commodity.

0:40:40.280 --> 0:40:41.880
<v Speaker 3>You can call me a boy. It's fine.

0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:43.759
<v Speaker 1>No, No, that's not what I'm talking about.

0:40:43.800 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 4>I'm talking about like a hot commodity, Like, I'm sure

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:47.520
<v Speaker 4>there was a lot of girls with a bachelor who

0:40:47.560 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 4>had Dean on their list of like, this is the

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:50.839
<v Speaker 4>guy that I want to date, this one guy.

0:40:50.840 --> 0:40:51.719
<v Speaker 1>I want amount of.

0:40:51.719 --> 0:40:55.200
<v Speaker 2>Girls myself included that have slid into Dean's DMS. He's like,

0:40:55.239 --> 0:40:56.839
<v Speaker 2>oh that girl DMV, Oh that girl DMV.

0:40:57.719 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 4>Did you have to like kind of deal with that

0:40:59.239 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 4>early on when you guys first started dating, like people

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.720
<v Speaker 4>being like, oh damn it, like before it gets too serious,

0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 4>I need to see if I can still shoot my

0:41:06.200 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 4>shot with Dean.

0:41:09.560 --> 0:41:12.239
<v Speaker 2>One in particular that's coming into coming to mind. But

0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:16.960
<v Speaker 2>woo uh yeah, I mean, and I think you know,

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 2>girls probably still slide into your DMS and tell you

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:21.480
<v Speaker 2>that they'd be better with you than me.

0:41:21.560 --> 0:41:25.759
<v Speaker 3>But no, no, it's just nice, nice people that ask

0:41:25.880 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 3>for photography tips or band tips or construction tips. Uh.

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:33.240
<v Speaker 3>They're They're not trying to holler at me. I promise

0:41:33.280 --> 0:41:36.839
<v Speaker 3>you that. But I think in the beginning, sure, yeah,

0:41:36.880 --> 0:41:40.440
<v Speaker 3>of course I guess. But whatever, you got the big

0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:42.320
<v Speaker 3>prize at the end of the day, so congratulations, a

0:41:42.320 --> 0:41:46.719
<v Speaker 3>bigger But yeah, I agree with Kaylin. Kill them with

0:41:46.800 --> 0:41:50.120
<v Speaker 3>kindness and if they're not gonna like you. They're not

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:51.560
<v Speaker 3>gonna like you. You don't need them to like you. Who

0:41:51.640 --> 0:41:53.759
<v Speaker 3>cares like Sure, it'd be great if they did, But

0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:55.919
<v Speaker 3>if they don't, whatever, it's no skin off your bones.

0:41:56.600 --> 0:41:59.359
<v Speaker 1>M I agree. Who wants to read the last one?

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<v Speaker 2>I'll read it. This one's from Melissa. I have a

0:42:02.239 --> 0:42:04.400
<v Speaker 2>question for all of you. I just got engaged and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to figure out a wedding date. I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to have a meeting sound good and be within a

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:11.040
<v Speaker 2>good season. We have several days with meeting behind them,

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<v Speaker 2>but trying to find one those, but trying to find

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:15.640
<v Speaker 2>when those days land on a weekend could push the

0:42:15.640 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 2>wedding out way longer than we want. How did you

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<v Speaker 2>all choose your wedding date? Did I have a meeting

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<v Speaker 2>meaning or did you take the opportunity to have another

0:42:22.680 --> 0:42:23.319
<v Speaker 2>meaningful day.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm not the best one to answer this question

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:28.080
<v Speaker 3>because I want to get married on Tuesday, and Caitlin

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<v Speaker 3>said no, And so we got married in the worst

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:33.359
<v Speaker 3>during the worst month imaginable.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but you're happy with it. And I said, we'll

0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:38.319
<v Speaker 2>get married in October. If you really want to get

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:41.279
<v Speaker 2>married in October. There was an open date and you said, no, no, no.

0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:44.200
<v Speaker 2>Our wedding location is very dependent on weather, and it'll

0:42:44.239 --> 0:42:46.680
<v Speaker 2>be the best weather in September for Batam.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm just trying to make you happy, not trying

0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:52.560
<v Speaker 3>to make you happy. I am succeeding at making you happy.

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:55.240
<v Speaker 3>But I just figured it was a fight not worth fighting.

0:42:55.320 --> 0:42:57.359
<v Speaker 3>And I, you know, I kind of say it tongue

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<v Speaker 3>in cheek, where, yeah, I don't want to get married September,

0:42:59.880 --> 0:43:02.440
<v Speaker 3>but I don't care that much to that point, to

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<v Speaker 3>that extent where I would go, you know, mess everything up.

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:06.280
<v Speaker 3>I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. But I think like when you pick a date,

0:43:08.920 --> 0:43:11.919
<v Speaker 2>you pick like an open Saturday, because typically with wedding

0:43:12.000 --> 0:43:14.880
<v Speaker 2>venues there's limited availability. So you find, you know, the

0:43:14.960 --> 0:43:16.640
<v Speaker 2>year you want to get married, the month, and then

0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:19.719
<v Speaker 2>you find that Saturday, Friday, Sunday, Tuesday, whatever it is,

0:43:20.040 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 2>and then that just becomes a meaningful day. I don't

0:43:21.960 --> 0:43:23.880
<v Speaker 2>know if it necessarily has to be meaningful before that.

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:26.080
<v Speaker 3>All I know is I'm not going to ever celebrate

0:43:26.120 --> 0:43:30.160
<v Speaker 3>our wedding anniversary. Oh gosh, I'm sorry, I'm not. This

0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.719
<v Speaker 3>is what you should have known when you chose a

0:43:32.760 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 3>wedding date in September I'll celebrate our engagement anniversary, but

0:43:36.480 --> 0:43:37.839
<v Speaker 3>not our wedding anniversary.

0:43:38.080 --> 0:43:41.839
<v Speaker 1>What sorry, we all know that's not true.

0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 3>Well then what do we do I celebrate every anniversary. No,

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:47.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to pick one, and I picked the one

0:43:47.840 --> 0:43:50.839
<v Speaker 3>on it that's on the date that I appreciate more

0:43:50.840 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 3>than the silly September.

0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:55.799
<v Speaker 4>You celebrate the wedding anniversary and you let go of

0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:56.439
<v Speaker 4>all the other ones.

0:43:56.440 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 1>That's why I try to relate it.

0:43:58.080 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 3>Celebrate the wedding anniversary, sure, but just.

0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:01.560
<v Speaker 2>No by myself.

0:44:01.960 --> 0:44:03.960
<v Speaker 3>You can do something for me on our wedding anniversary.

0:44:04.120 --> 0:44:07.120
<v Speaker 3>I would love that. And I'll do something very self anniversary,

0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:08.800
<v Speaker 3>and you don't have to do anything for me on

0:44:08.840 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 3>that anniversary. It'll be like birthdays, you know, like.

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:15.960
<v Speaker 4>Interesting, You're just adding more anniversaries to yourself.

0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, I see, I could see it how it

0:44:19.000 --> 0:44:23.560
<v Speaker 3>appears that way, But I'm telling you I'm not. I'm

0:44:23.560 --> 0:44:25.719
<v Speaker 3>not celebrating a September holiday ever ever.

0:44:25.920 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 4>So jesu, Yeah, I agree with Calen. The date just

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:34.400
<v Speaker 4>becomes meaningful after it happens. I mean, we Ashley and

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:36.200
<v Speaker 4>I said we never wanted to get married on a Sunday.

0:44:36.200 --> 0:44:39.399
<v Speaker 4>We wanted our wedding on a Saturday, and then we

0:44:39.480 --> 0:44:41.640
<v Speaker 4>saw our wedding venue, Rosecliffe and they were like, well,

0:44:41.640 --> 0:44:45.399
<v Speaker 4>we don't have any Saturdays available for this next year,

0:44:45.760 --> 0:44:47.879
<v Speaker 4>only Sundays. And we're like, okay, well we're getting married

0:44:47.880 --> 0:44:50.960
<v Speaker 4>on Sunday then because we just love the venue so much.

0:44:51.000 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, just kind of get a you know, we

0:44:56.000 --> 0:44:58.120
<v Speaker 4>get a year, get a timeframe of the year, see

0:44:58.160 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 4>what's available, and then the venue you I find is

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:01.959
<v Speaker 4>much more important than the data.

0:45:03.760 --> 0:45:04.480
<v Speaker 1>So yeah.

0:45:04.880 --> 0:45:08.760
<v Speaker 4>So well, congratulations Alyssa on your engagement and your upcoming wedding.

0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:09.880
<v Speaker 1>That's very exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much for listening to this episode of

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<v Speaker 4>help we Suck at being newlyweds, and thank you so

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<v Speaker 4>much for listening to the podcast in general. Dean, have

0:45:16.880 --> 0:45:20.279
<v Speaker 4>a safe flight, Caitlin, you keep being wonderful. Don't worry

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:22.640
<v Speaker 4>about that little mishap. It probably will never happen again.

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<v Speaker 2>What a word?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh the making. Yeah sorry, if I might even just

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<v Speaker 3>be cut out this podcast entirely because of the NBA

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<v Speaker 3>nice here, so I apologize, but thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>in whatever airport you are.

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