1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,559 Speaker 1: Show three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit music station, 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Hoo can Mom's up to rot Chicago Land thanks to 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: Amy Witherwright and one eight hundred truck Wreck. Tell us 4 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: what your mom is amazing at one O three five 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 1: kiss fm dot com and she could win one thousand 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: bucks if we love the story. And we're getting so 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: many that we love we can only pick a few. 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 2: Though. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: If we love the story, then we'll call you. You'll be 10 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 1: on the show on Friday morning, and we'll hook you up. 11 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 1: And you know, it's never a thousand bucks with Amy 12 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: wither Right, It's never what it's supposed to be. Whatever 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: it is, it could be so much more. So, tell 14 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: us why your mom deserves something special. Don't have to 15 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: be a sad story either. It could be very happy 16 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 1: story then have to be tragic whatever. Here's the question. 17 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: Though. 18 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: I was in Arizona a couple of weeks ago, and 19 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: my mom, my mom is My mom is becoming pretty 20 00:00:46,000 --> 00:00:48,599 Speaker 1: good now that I have grown up money at dropping 21 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 1: hints about things that she would like me to buy her. 22 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: And I think she thinks she's sly and subtle, but 23 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: she's not. It's very obvious. And I'm like, you know what, 24 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: this is my dad's job. Okay, so why don't you 25 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: whisper this stuff a little louder in front of him? 26 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: But she wanted some kind of suitcase from the internet. 27 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: It wasn't very expensive, but it had all the bells 28 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: and whistles. It was on Instagram. She was so, you know, 29 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, mom, you know, it's not like a flux capacitor. 30 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: It's not magic, like you have to remember to try it. 31 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: You have to remember to charge the bag because she's now, 32 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,399 Speaker 1: but it has a charging port in it. I'm like, 33 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,559 Speaker 1: but what good is that when you got to charge 34 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: the bag first? Like I don't know anyway. And it 35 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: had like a little cup holder on it, and it 36 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 1: was it was pink, and it was had all these features. 37 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: It was not expensive, and I was like, okay, so 38 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 1: I just I just ordered it and I bought it 39 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: and it showed up. 40 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 3: This was like three weeks ago. 41 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: She was having kind of a crabby week and I 42 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: was like, here, look, I got you a suitcase, and 43 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: she was all excited. 44 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: Does that count as Mother's Day? 45 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 2: No? 46 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 3: Unfortunately no, my friends. 47 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: It was within four to six weeks proximity of the 48 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: days basically. 49 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 4: No, she had not given her a grandkid, so you 50 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 4: need to give her a Mother's Day gift. 51 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I could have just waited. 52 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: I could have just not given it to her right 53 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: when she wanted it, and I could have kept it 54 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: and then given it to her her Mother's Day and 55 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 1: nobody would have been upset about it because I wasn't 56 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 1: expected to give a gift a month ago. 57 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 5: What you are her only begotten son. You must get 58 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,680 Speaker 5: her a Mother's Day Gift's. 59 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:23,360 Speaker 3: Day, Carl, get me you? Yeah? I mean so that 60 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 3: doesn't count. No, how did you get a gift a 61 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 3: month before? And be like, by the way, this is 62 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 3: your gift for. 63 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: That was a very nice gift to give just for nothing, 64 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 1: just because she existed. It was here, here's a nice gift. 65 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: So and I don't anything I would get her now. 66 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: I don't know that she wanted it because I got 67 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: it the thing she wanted. So why am I buying 68 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: more gifts? 69 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 3: And I gave her a suitcase with a cup hold 70 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 3: her on it and it's a charger. No, Mom, she's 71 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: so excited about this thing. 72 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you know I thought I got away 73 00:02:56,280 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: with one because it wasn't that expensive. So I'm like, 74 00:02:58,360 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: this is what you want? Are you sure this is 75 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: what you? 76 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: Oh? 77 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 3: I really wanted? Okay, well there you go. 78 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 1: I mean she probably could have told me she wanted 79 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: something five times morning. It would have been like, oh Jesus, 80 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 1: but she didn't. But now you're telling me I got it. 81 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 5: Yes, and it has to be better than the super 82 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 5: make it out. This is the grand finale. This is 83 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 5: the big day. You can't drop the ball. My sister 84 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 5: didn't get her anything. She gave her two grandkids. You 85 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 5: are the only begotten son. You need to get her 86 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 5: a gift. 87 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 6: What son gutten? 88 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:28,519 Speaker 2: Yeah? 89 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:29,239 Speaker 6: I made it. 90 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: Keep saying hello, does that make me? Does that make 91 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: me spiritual? Something that my spirit? Am I getting her 92 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: a gift from? 93 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? You need to be getting yourself out of here. 94 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 3: You need to be getting yourself away from my credit card. 95 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 3: It's the French show. 96 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 6: When the last time you'll seen a grasshopper. 97 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: Trying? Clearly in northern Michigan. Clearly you have good pest 98 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 3: control or something. 99 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 7: I don't know, because where all these bugs are, please 100 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 7: go outside. 101 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 3: Fred show is on. 102 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 1: I was saying just a minute ago that you know 103 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: mom's Mom's Day, just to you know, to be casual 104 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: about it. 105 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 3: Mother's Day is the. 106 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: Eleventh of May, I believe, and it's my dad's birthday 107 00:04:25,800 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 1: the same day, so that'll be an expensive day. But 108 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: I got my mom a little something that she wanted 109 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, just because because I love her, 110 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: and I was just curious if there was a grace 111 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: period for. 112 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 3: The Mother's Day gifting. 113 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: It's not that she doesn't deserve more, it's that whatever 114 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: I get her now is just I just made it up. 115 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: But I got her the thing that she wanted. And 116 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: I don't think I should be penalized because I could 117 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: have just gotten it and then not given it to 118 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 1: her until Mother's Day. I thought about that. I was like, well, 119 00:04:57,240 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: this would be a great Mother's Day president. I should 120 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: just get it and then I can keep it and 121 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: then I'll give it to her Mother's Day. But no, 122 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 1: I gave it to her right when it arrived because 123 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: she wanted it and I wanted her to have it. 124 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 1: But now I don't have anything to give it her 125 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: Mother's Day because she hasn't you know, come in my 126 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: sleep and whispered in my ear over and over again, 127 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: subliminal messaging. You know, so I don't know. I mean, 128 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 1: you know, I was just wondering if that kind of 129 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: got me by, But. 130 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 4: You said it was a just cuz gift, So it 131 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 4: can't be a just cuz gift if now you're trying 132 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 4: to count it for a holiday. 133 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: But it wasn't just cuz gift because I decided not 134 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:34,359 Speaker 1: to keep it and embargo it until Mother's Day and 135 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: I and now I feel like I should have. I 136 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: should have I should have done it to late play 137 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: me too late? Why is your microphones? I don't know. 138 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. Why did you unplug your microphone? It's 139 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 3: too late. I want I don't want to hear what 140 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 3: you were in it. 141 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,160 Speaker 1: You were going to tell me I have to spend 142 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: more money and I don't know. Hey, hello, it doesn't 143 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: work anymore. Sorry, Okay, So I all right, But now 144 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: I got people blow me up on the text, going, oh, 145 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 1: you know, moms deserved this, and I'm like, I never 146 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: said she didn't. I said anything I would get it 147 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 1: from Mother's Day would not necessarily be as targeted as 148 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: that gift was. That she wanted it and she got it. 149 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 6: Somebody said a trip to Italy. 150 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,839 Speaker 3: What Yes, I love that suggestion. That's a good one. 151 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 3: She deserves Italy. 152 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 6: H sorry my mic off again. 153 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: I know just now I'm just willing nilly bying trips 154 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: to Italy. 155 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 3: Have you seen the tariffs? Have you seen your points? 156 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 3: I forgot the points. 157 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: She had whatever she wants, but the last thing she 158 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,040 Speaker 1: has for I already gave her. So it is what 159 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 1: it is. Good morning, Everyone's Tuesday, April twenty night, The 160 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 1: Fred Show's on. Hi, Kaleb, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina Hikki, 161 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: Good morning Bellahamen is. 162 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 3: Here on the phone. 163 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: In the text eight five five five three five, stare 164 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,120 Speaker 1: go some group therapy, wle debate some relationship drama. In 165 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: about Ted two minutes, we'll get to show up his 166 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: Kiki a tie with Dana three hundred and fifty bucks? 167 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 3: Is the Price your record? Twenty four and four? 168 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: In five pop culture Questions, he entertainment reports on the 169 00:06:58,560 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: way to what are you working on? 170 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 4: K Some amazing moments from the Cowboy Carter Tour Night one, 171 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 4: including a robot pouring Beyonce whiskey which I could get behind. 172 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: And then I saw Luke Colmes doing like Backstreet Boys 173 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: from stage coach. Oh yeah, and Garth Brooks and I 174 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: guess this is like karaoke cover nights. Yeah, the show 175 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: is on. It's stay or go all right, Page is here? 176 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: Good morning, Page? How you doing? 177 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:26,679 Speaker 3: Welcome? 178 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 8: Hi, good morning. I'm okay. 179 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: How are you Page? I'm doing all right, except for 180 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 3: the fact that now. 181 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: I have to apparently buy my mom a trip around 182 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: the world or something. I don't know, And now everybody's texting. 183 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 8: It sounds expensive. 184 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: Everybody texting up here going on. Everybody knows you got 185 00:07:43,520 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: to do this. I'm like, and what do you get 186 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: mom from Mother's Day? A card? Don't let me don't 187 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: let me find out. Don't let me find out that 188 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: y'all get mom a tick or tape parade or something. 189 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 3: I'm mothers that y'all tell me to senter to Italy. 190 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 3: It's wow. So what's going on with you? And stay go? 191 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 3: Understand that you're having an issue with your boyfriend. 192 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, I am. 193 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: So. 194 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 8: We've been dating for three years, and you know, it's 195 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 8: three years, so there's lots of good moments, bad moments, 196 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 8: I'm sure you know, but I really just think that 197 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 8: we could be together forever. He's just he's comfortable, you 198 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 8: know what I mean? 199 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so three years together, you see a future. 200 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: So what you're going is because there's an issue. So 201 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: what's the issue? 202 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, well, two years ago I cheated on him, which 203 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 8: I feel awful about. But it was one night. I 204 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 8: never did it again. It was at a work conference 205 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 8: and it was like this happy hour and a dinner 206 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 8: and honestly, I was drunk and I don't want to 207 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 8: give an excuse about it, but it's honestly my biggest regret, 208 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 8: and I don't think it was really had any meaning 209 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 8: to it. And I told him about it, and I 210 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 8: thought we worked through it and he did forgive me, 211 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 8: but it didn't come up again. Because it's that's something 212 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 8: I really want. 213 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: To bring up, right and in fairness, if you guys 214 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: work through something and then the forgiveness, you don't get 215 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: to just throw that in there. 216 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 8: You know. 217 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: It's not like every year when you guys get in 218 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 1: a fight. Yeah, a big blowout, he go. And by 219 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: the way, when you cheated on me, because it's like, uh, well, 220 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: I mean, if we really forgave me that, we don't 221 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: get to just keep you know. And yea, I'm sure 222 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: some men but in my experience, women are very very 223 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: good at keeping an inventory of all the things I've 224 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: ever done that upset you so that we can bring 225 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: them all up. 226 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 3: As bomb boom. 227 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: Every it's like, oh, really, I'm gonna oh you think 228 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: you won this one? 229 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 3: Remember that time he cheated on me? Boom? You remember 230 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 3: that one time? 231 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: It was my birthday and you and you gave me 232 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 1: a suitcase two weeks before. You didn't give me a 233 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: gift of my boom anyway. So okay, all right, So 234 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: so it was forgiven, but correct. I thought, why are 235 00:09:59,280 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 1: we talking? 236 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 3: Uh? 237 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 8: Well, three months ago he came clean that his work 238 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 8: wife scenario that he has with his wife or work wife, 239 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 8: not me, that it's been a bit flirty and the 240 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 8: text had been kind of intimate, and that they also 241 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 8: made out in his car one night. 242 00:10:18,480 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: Oh okay, and the work wife's thing like, so this 243 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: woman is on his team or sits next to him, 244 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 1: or has an office next to him, or you've heard 245 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: this work workwife, which I don't really love. I don't know, 246 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: I don't know me, I don't love. Some people brag 247 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: about that your wife. 248 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 8: This woman's not your wife. 249 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: You know, you're basically saying to me, when you say that, like, 250 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 1: I spend way more time with this person and get 251 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: along with them most of the time better than you. 252 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:46,199 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 253 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 8: It's like I've also known him for longer. You know, 254 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 8: she just joined not so long ago. 255 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: For equal Okay, we ain't equal. I got to sleep 256 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 1: in bed with you and listen to your farts or whatever, 257 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: and this lady, you know what I mean, Like, we 258 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: ain't equal. 259 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 9: M hmm. 260 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:04,679 Speaker 1: Okay, so this year having it gut inappropriate? Now, was 261 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 1: that as far as it went? They just kissed or 262 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: was it more? 263 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 8: Well, you know, he said that there's no more contact 264 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 8: between them. I don't know. I mean, they work together, 265 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 8: but he says that there's none, just that I think 266 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 8: it's wrong. 267 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: And wait, so did he like leave jobs or something? 268 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: Because how is it that they don't have contact if 269 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: they work together? Like did he how was he able 270 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 1: to cut her off? I guess is my question? Like 271 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: he was able to cut it completely off? 272 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 8: He says that he's actively avoiding her. Okay, I genuinely, 273 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,199 Speaker 8: I'm not in the office, so I don't know. I 274 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 8: don't have link a camera in the office, blauding. 275 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 3: All right, So we're going to take him at his word. 276 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 1: I guess then I guess, so you did your deal 277 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 1: and and I guess you moved on. He had this 278 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 1: inappropriate thing with his coworker, and he claims that he's 279 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 1: now has he has boundaries, and he came to you 280 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 1: to come clean because you knew it was inappropriate. Okay, 281 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: So I assume, and then you're going to show him 282 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: the same grace, right. 283 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 8: Yeah, But he's saying that what he did was wrong, 284 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 8: but what I did was worse, and that that it's incomparable, 285 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 8: and that it's not even really bad what he did, 286 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 8: and that I don't really deserve a full, true apology 287 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:22,560 Speaker 8: because what he did wasn't so bad comparatively, and it's 288 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 8: kind of keeping score. It's just very like take for 289 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 8: cat to me. 290 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 1: So because you had a full on sexual well I 291 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 1: shouldn't say, relationship experience with another person years ago, now, 292 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: this thing that he did, in his opinion is not 293 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: so bad and it's like, you know, you should get 294 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 1: over this quickly because well, you did this to me. 295 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 3: Right, right? 296 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 8: So that again, is that is that okay? Or if 297 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 8: he makes out with somebody else, it's okay because I 298 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 8: slept with somebody. It's very It doesn't feel good to me, 299 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 8: especially since we talked through it and there was apologies 300 00:12:57,400 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 8: made and it's never happened again. I never will. So 301 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 8: I don't like it. 302 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: And you're finding you're finding in his in his sort 303 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: of I mean, he did come clean to you and 304 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: ask for your forgiveness, I guess, but you're finding his 305 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: kind of laissez fair attitude like this. What I mean, hey, Bot, 306 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: it was nowhere near as bad as what you did, 307 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 1: which I don't know. I might argue, and this may 308 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:27,320 Speaker 1: be unpopular, but at one time, one off physical interaction 309 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: while drinking with a dude you know, at a work 310 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: conference that you've never seen again, that might not I mean, 311 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: it's bad, but I might argue that an ongoing emotional 312 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: affair with someone you see every day, that's almost deeper 313 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: and in some ways worse. Now. I know that we're 314 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 1: not keeping score here, but for him to be like 315 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: mine's not as bad as yours, I don't necessarily think 316 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: that's true. 317 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 8: I don't either, and I but I also don't want 318 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 8: to keep score. I don't think that that works in 319 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 8: a relationship. 320 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 3: And so what are you wondering here, like, can I 321 00:13:59,360 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 3: stay with a guy? I who? This is how we're 322 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 3: going to do stuff? 323 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 8: Like? 324 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: Or I guess my other question would be, as long 325 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,319 Speaker 1: as he doesn't sleep with someone, is every is everything 326 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 1: he does that that's not nice to you or not 327 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: good for the relationship? Is he going to throw that 328 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: one out? 329 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 3: You know? Are we Is he doing the thing I 330 00:14:13,320 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 3: was just talking to my birthday? 331 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 8: Would he say, oh, well, you slept with somebody? 332 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, you shouldn't have gotten with that guy. 333 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 8: Saying oh, well, you slept with somebody. I don't like it, girl, 334 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 8: because it can it can be pushed to something further. 335 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 8: And then if I need a small mistache, is he 336 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 8: going to say, well, you know, let's think about when 337 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 8: you like slept with somebody. I guess this mistake is 338 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 8: not so bad, but you know, it's piling up. I 339 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 8: don't I. 340 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: Don't like how Sorry I left the towel on the ground, 341 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: But you shouldn't have slept with that guy three years 342 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:46,040 Speaker 1: you know, it's like and you're right, But at the 343 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: same time, if you're gonna move on, then you've got 344 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: to move on. And I under and I know that's 345 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: easier said than done. Much easier said than done. But 346 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: if that takes months or years or whatever, it is fine. 347 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: But like I think, once you get to the point 348 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: of relationship where you guys have moved past whatever the 349 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 1: issue is, so long as that behavior doesn't return, then 350 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: that then we're done with that. We worked through that. 351 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: You cannot just continue to bring that up. And it 352 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 1: sounds like as opposed to just taking complete ownership of 353 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: what he did that was wrong. It's why I know 354 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: it was wrong, but yours is wronger, which I don't know. 355 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: I don't I might argue his was worse if we're 356 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: going to play that game, which I don't think you 357 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: were willing to or trying to play. But hey, you 358 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: having an ongoing emotional relationship, and you wrote in the email, 359 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: but you failed to mention by the way that this 360 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: woman at work, the work wife is married to another man. 361 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 1: You wrote that in an email, so he was having 362 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: an extra amount of affair as well. Knowingly it's a 363 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 1: lot going on. So and this dude is his hands 364 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: are not cleaner. 365 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 3: I don't know one's hands separate way. 366 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 6: So you think at this point. 367 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 8: And I'd like them to be clean, I will, I 368 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 8: don't know. 369 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: If you have to break up with him yet, But 370 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:00,080 Speaker 1: I think you have to have a firm conversation, and 371 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,840 Speaker 1: Keiki doesn't agree with this look on her face. I 372 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: think you have to have a firm conversation where you're like, look, 373 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: I messed up. I acknowledge that I came to you. 374 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,320 Speaker 1: You didn't catch me. I came clean. You forgave me. 375 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure that was hard. We moved on. Now you 376 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: did this. That's bad. 377 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 3: You need to say that's bad. You need to own it. 378 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: I need to feel like you understand you made a 379 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: mistake independent of what I did, and then we're moving on. 380 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: And if you don't think he can do that, then 381 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: this relationship will never work. If he realizes, okay, fine, 382 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: look I can't. You're right, I'm trying to compare these things. 383 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: They're independent things, they're mutually exclusive. I should have done it, 384 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 1: and so I'm sorry. Well, and if you forgive me, 385 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: then we're moving on together and hopefully this never happens again. 386 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: Short of that, then this dude is going to make 387 00:16:44,320 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: excuses forever. 388 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 3: You're right, I. 389 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 8: Really need to just sit him down and say this 390 00:16:50,440 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 8: is what's really bothering me. I think I've probably avoided 391 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 8: the conversation and. 392 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 3: Kicky, you don't think you just just oh, no, she 393 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: needs to go. 394 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 6: They're three years in, they're playing this tip for tag game. 395 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 3: She cheated, he cheated. 396 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 6: They sleeping with people at work. This messy. She needs 397 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 6: to go. Absolutely, this is a boyfriend girl, get another one. 398 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah. 399 00:17:10,000 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: I mean it is interesting that there was the infidelity 400 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: and that hurt him, I'm sure deeply, as it would anybody, 401 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 1: and it was a huge problem, and that you guys 402 00:17:17,119 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 1: work through it, and then he goes and does it 403 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: like I would think there would be an additional sensitivity 404 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: to that kind of behavior, like it was so bad 405 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 1: for me, now I'm gonna go do it. It's almost 406 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 1: like he knew that, he thought he had a pass 407 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:32,679 Speaker 1: or something. It's like in his mind it was like, 408 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: I can try this out over here because if I 409 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:37,359 Speaker 1: get caught it, well, remember. 410 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, she don't know I did that. 411 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 10: She was not gonna go anywhere because, like you said, 412 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 10: you did it, now I didn't. 413 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 3: We're even kind of thing. 414 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 6: That's how he's gonna see it forever. 415 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:44,640 Speaker 2: Page. 416 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take some phone calls on this and have 417 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: the radio on of the iHeart app whatever, and and 418 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: let's see what happens. But thank you for sharing. And 419 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: it's a tough one. Good luck, thank you eight five 420 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: three five. 421 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 5: I am she's not innocent either, you know, she made 422 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,399 Speaker 5: her mistakes. But it seems like this guy has kind 423 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 5: of been just sitting around plotting on his time to 424 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 5: get her back. And he got his lick back, and 425 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 5: now it's just like okay, both of the outs and 426 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 5: messy and cheating. 427 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 6: So you need to leave each other. 428 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: And I think you got choices here, like if you 429 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 1: were if you were betrayed in some way, you either 430 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,439 Speaker 1: move past, work through it, move past it, forgive and 431 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:22,640 Speaker 1: then it's not like it never happened. But as far 432 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: as like ammunition is concerned, it's not fair game anymore. 433 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I said, you could also 434 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:33,960 Speaker 1: just leave too, you know. So if he thought that 435 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,240 Speaker 1: he had to pass somewhere down the line then he's 436 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 1: then then he should have just laughed, Like if. 437 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 3: That's the way he thinks that, Like, can you ever forget? 438 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 1: You have to forget. I don't think you forget. You 439 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: have to forgive, yeah, And you can't just throw it 440 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: in everywhere, of course, like you forgot the bananas at 441 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:49,200 Speaker 1: the store. 442 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 3: Righting, you know what you can. 443 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:56,560 Speaker 10: But maturing is also like realizing exactly you can't forgive. Like, 444 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 10: for example, I would not be able to move past it, 445 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 10: bring it up every five minutes, I know I would, 446 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 10: So butturing, I think for me would be realizing I 447 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 10: can't be in this relationship anymore. As much as it hurts, 448 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 10: I can't do it. 449 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 3: That's right. 450 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 6: You know you've betrayed me. 451 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, chase me quiet here. Yeah, I mean you you can't. 452 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 7: I've had experience with this, and you can't. If you're 453 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 7: going to get over it, you have. You're not gonna 454 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 7: forget it ever, but you have to sort of look 455 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 7: past it in order to progress, right, if that's what 456 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 7: you choose to do. But just like what you're saying, 457 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 7: like you can't bring it up again, you can't talk 458 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 7: about it again like people did what they did. 459 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 3: You chose what you chose. 460 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 7: And if it was early on in a relationship and 461 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,439 Speaker 7: now we're farther down the line and now he decides 462 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 7: to do it, like to me, that's a bigger issue 463 00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 7: because now we have so much more invested. You know, 464 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 7: if it's years or however long in between, and now 465 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,919 Speaker 7: you're choosing to do it, so like now we're taking 466 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 7: huge steps back. So I don't I don't know if 467 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 7: it's possible to continue. 468 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 3: Well, I don't love the whole. 469 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:54,879 Speaker 1: Well, mine's not as bad as yours, because honestly, we 470 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: could get into that if you want to. 471 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:58,439 Speaker 3: Like, honestly, I. 472 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 7: Mean, cheating is cheating to me at the end of 473 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 7: the day, right, no matter who it's with or what 474 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:02,199 Speaker 7: the stipulation is. 475 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 3: But I don't think he's going to like the way 476 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 3: I don't. 477 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 1: I don't like that argument because he's like, well, actually, 478 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 1: let's let's break this down. You know, how long was 479 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 1: yours going on? What were you talking about? Were you 480 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: talking about this relationship? Were you talking about that relationship? 481 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: You know, this is an ongoing thing. This person is 482 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: still around, this person still, you know what I mean? 483 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: As opposed to again, should I have slept with someone? No, 484 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,920 Speaker 1: I don't know where Steve lives now, you know, I 485 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: ain't talking to Steve anymore. I hope his name isn't 486 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: I hope. I don't know if it's Steve, Carl Craig. 487 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: What's your kids name? Jose Jose? It was Jose Aldo Hi, 488 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: good morning Aldo. Now you want the cheater, but you're 489 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 1: on the phone high What do you. 490 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 3: Want to say? 491 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 2: When does it end? I mean, if allegedly or assumedly, 492 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 2: this relationship is moving toward, you know, a marriage, When 493 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 2: does the kissy face with a co worker? H When 494 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,879 Speaker 2: does that become not okay? When does the relationship become 495 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,719 Speaker 2: so involved that it's not okay? 496 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:56,199 Speaker 3: Yeah? 497 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: And when does this cycle stop? You know, like, Okay, 498 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: he got his So are we done now? I mean, 499 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: is this the last time we're ever going to talk 500 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: about this kind of thing? 501 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 8: Or no? 502 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 2: Right, Either you're vested in the relationship and you aren't. 503 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: I mean, it's sort of like that simple if you're 504 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 2: not playing catch up or something. Either you do wherever 505 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: you do, it's either helping the relationship or its hurting 506 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 2: the relationship. 507 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 1: And why would you have any interest in keeping that 508 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: as a card? Like why if you've forgiven which I 509 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: don't think he has, why would you have any interest 510 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,160 Speaker 1: in keeping something that's really going to hurt someone as 511 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: a card to use? You know what I mean? Like 512 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: you would you wouldn't want to. I wouldn't want to 513 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 1: put somebody through what you've been through. 514 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 2: If you really care, he hadn't forgiven, if this guy 515 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 2: hadn't forgiven that he even brings it up, you know, 516 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:43,720 Speaker 2: or anything, because I mean, what's his game plan? Okay, 517 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 2: now I've done this, Now what can I do? I'm continuing, 518 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 2: you know, with this with this co worker. We don't 519 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 2: know if he's continuing or not, but you know, I 520 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:57,360 Speaker 2: sort of suspect, especially if he doesn't see the problem, 521 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:01,080 Speaker 2: if he doesn't see what he did, if he doesn't recognize. 522 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 3: That's a big one for me too. 523 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 1: Again, I agree, I agree, Thank you Aldough, thanks for listening, 524 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 1: for calling oat, thank you. Have a good day, Christina. Christina, 525 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:10,720 Speaker 1: you're saying he's not over it. 526 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 10: No, he's not. 527 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 9: He has not forgiven her. He might have said and 528 00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:18,320 Speaker 9: he forgave her, but he haven't. And he's still using 529 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 9: it to hold it over her head. And he's not 530 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 9: over it at all. And he's also using it to 531 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 9: you know, manipulate her. 532 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 8: Now now he's. 533 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 9: Saying, no, it's okay that I do this stuff because 534 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 9: you did it and it's not totally different. 535 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 3: So it's over. They got to go. 536 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, because he's trying to make excuses for 537 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 9: himself and it's not. He has like basically a relationship 538 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 9: with his work life which is very different. 539 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, I think so too. Yeah, thank you, Christina, 540 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:46,560 Speaker 1: have a good day. 541 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:47,680 Speaker 9: Yeah you too. 542 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: Someone texts you this is not a tough one friend. 543 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 1: They have to go the separate ways. I guess the 544 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 1: reason I'm saying it's tough is because you're going to 545 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 1: have to make an assessment. Is this is this how 546 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 1: it's always going to be? Or is this he screwed 547 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: up and he's having a hard time owning it and 548 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: we have to work through this together and he hasn't 549 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: fully forgiven me, And is this a guy? 550 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 2: You know? 551 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 1: Can we make it through this after three years? And 552 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: then are we done with this? And there's a lot 553 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: of things, a lot of presuppositions you have to make. 554 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff that you got to decide. 555 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:20,440 Speaker 1: And my guess would be that between the repeat offense, 556 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: the like the the I guess what's the word I'm 557 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: looking for sort of the uh, what is it when 558 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 1: you the reoffending at least from him to her? And 559 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: but really for me, it's the lack of ownership and 560 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: the comparison. It's like, is this how you're going to 561 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,679 Speaker 1: operate now, like, well, mine's not as bad as yours 562 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: because I didn't, you know, put the thing in the thing. 563 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 1: It's like, no, that's worse, right, that's worse or as bad. 564 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 1: So why are we doing that? 565 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 3: Tip for town is never gonna work? 566 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, So I guess that's what I'm saying is 567 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: do you walk? 568 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 3: Do you walk? 569 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: Because you screwed up and you kind of planted the seed, 570 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,439 Speaker 1: but yet he forgave you. So I guess you just 571 00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,159 Speaker 1: have to ask yourself, are we gonna do we need 572 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,520 Speaker 1: to burn this whole thing? Because you know what I 573 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 1: mean answer, That's why I think it's hard. I agree, 574 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: let it burn out. The Entertainer Report and Showby's Kiky 575 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:10,800 Speaker 1: and Dana a tiebreaker next on The Fred Show. 576 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,520 Speaker 3: Cain's Entertainment Report is on The Fread Show. 577 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 4: Months after winning Excuse Me Album of the Year at 578 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 4: the Grammys, Beyonce kicked off. 579 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,680 Speaker 3: Her Cowboy Carter World tour in Inglewood. 580 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,919 Speaker 4: Beyonce brought out both of her daughters, Blue Ivy and 581 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 4: Roomy for her song Protector, and while Blue is very 582 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 4: used to being on stage with her mama, Roomy was 583 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 4: very much not. 584 00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 3: It was the sweetest thing. 585 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 4: She was smiling all big, waving to the crowd. 586 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 3: It was so sweet. 587 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 4: As for Blue, she's becoming a good little dancer. She's 588 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 4: really I mean, she had her own dance breaks during 589 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,439 Speaker 4: songs like Deja vou in America has a problem. My 590 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 4: personal favorite surprise though, a robot actually poured Miss Beyonce 591 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 4: a glass of whiskey, assuming it was her whiskey brand. 592 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 4: But that is a robot that I could finally get behind. 593 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,960 Speaker 4: So Tesla get on that. And remember Renaissance was one cowboy. 594 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 4: Carter is act too, so there were apparent connections showing 595 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 4: that the albums are related. And I'm expecting ticket prices 596 00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 4: to now go up and there will be no tickets available. 597 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: To I need to see Luke Colmes on stage with 598 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,680 Speaker 1: her doing single Ladies, That's what I need to see. 599 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 3: That's because it apparently. 600 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 1: Lukes to them Backstreet Boys now at stage Coach, so 601 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:18,640 Speaker 1: I need to see them on. 602 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,960 Speaker 3: Stage collaborating manifested. I need to see it. 603 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, speaking into the universe, well, I just never know. 604 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, I let's get all the people mad, you know 605 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:30,680 Speaker 1: what I mean. Let's get all the folks. You don't 606 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 1: think that Beyonce should be doing country. Let's get her 607 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: and Luke and I don't know, throw Garth Brooks in 608 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: there too. 609 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 3: Why not? Okay? That that one. I get down. All right, 610 00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 3: let's do it. I want the whiskey robot though for 611 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,440 Speaker 3: sure to be there. 612 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,000 Speaker 4: Jordan Hudson went completely off the rails during Bill Belichick's 613 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 4: CBS interview, which we talked about yesterday but getting some 614 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,320 Speaker 4: more info, and things were so bad that she actually 615 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 4: stormed out of the room and delayed shooting for thirty 616 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 4: minutes because she expected Bill to follow her. She's giving 617 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 4: very much. We thought maybe she was older than twenties. No, 618 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 4: she's giving very much. She's in her twenties. Y. 619 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 3: Bill did the. 620 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 4: Interview to promote his new book, The Art of Winning, 621 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 4: but no one's talking about his book after his twenty 622 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 4: four year old girlfriend interrupted the interview. But outside from 623 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 4: that moment, there were numerous other instances of Jordan butting in. 624 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 4: Even when the legendary coach was answering questions about football, 625 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 4: she would stop and correct him, which is a wild 626 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:28,479 Speaker 4: At one point, like I said, she got so heated 627 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 4: she wanted him to. 628 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 3: Follow, so I read this morning. 629 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true, but I read this 630 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: morning to the university is now concerned. 631 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 4: They are because she's acting as his manager essentially, and 632 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,919 Speaker 4: she's butting in on football questions and now they're like, 633 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,640 Speaker 4: wait a minute. And they even said for this interview, 634 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 4: he didn't show up with a team. He didn't show 635 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 4: up with a publicist, no one from what is it unc? 636 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 3: I mean, it was just. 637 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 4: Her And it's very concerning for them, I think. And 638 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 4: while we're talking about football, Sorry, Jason. According to CBS 639 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 4: sports reporter Jonathan Jones, Sanders purposely did poorly in interviews 640 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 4: with certain teams that he wasn't interested in being drafted to. 641 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 4: He said, some of those combined meetings with certain teams 642 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 4: that maybe should or Sanders didn't really want to go to. 643 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 4: I was told that he more or less sandbagged those interviews. 644 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 4: He mainly had a few major suitors coming into the draft, 645 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 4: the Giants, Saints, Steelers, and Raiders. All of those teams 646 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 4: passed on him in the first round, then the second, 647 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 4: then the third. 648 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: Why would they all pass on because he wouldn't have 649 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,359 Speaker 1: tanked all the interviews on purpose, So the other teams 650 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: that he would have tried for would have taken him, 651 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: right if in fact that was really what happened, Right, 652 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: this is a spin. 653 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 4: Right as someone who calls himself, what does he call 654 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 4: himself an icon. 655 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 3: Legend, a legend? Okay, so I mean I need the 656 00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:45,120 Speaker 3: legendaries that he calls himself. I don't know, something like that, Yeah, 657 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 3: legend that right there? 658 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: If I honestly, I'm sorry, and people can say, maybe 659 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: there's other things going on or whatever. Maybe was his dad, 660 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: maybe it's a million other things. But if I'm interviewing 661 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 1: somebody for a job, especially a team sport like this show, 662 00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 1: and you walk in and you go introduce yourself, I'm 663 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 1: the legend you're getting You're not getting the job. 664 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 4: You're not you're not getting the job to talk about 665 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:06,160 Speaker 4: our interview that we will you. 666 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,480 Speaker 3: Got the job. I got the job. 667 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: But if you do it again, okay, tomorrow, if you 668 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 1: do it again tomorrow, it's been every mornings for the 669 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: last six years. But if you do it again tomorrow, 670 00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: you know, but yeah, come on, Like if somebody walks 671 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: in and I'm militious I'm a legend, I'd be like, 672 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: you're twelve, honey, you haven't done any you really haven't 673 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: done much. I mean, you're very talented and I you know, 674 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,439 Speaker 1: you could go very far, but like that doesn't that 675 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: doesn't scream to me. 676 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 3: You're going to fit in with our culture. 677 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 4: You know, grow your frontal lobe a little more and 678 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 4: then we'll talk because you're a young, little baby. But yeah, 679 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 4: of course he ended up slipping to the fifth round 680 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 4: and that was not what they expected. 681 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 3: But this is how they are trying to spin it. 682 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 3: By the way, if you missed any. 683 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 4: Part of our show, just type the Fred Show on 684 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 4: demand and set us as a preset on the free I. 685 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 3: Heard radio app is that his moniker or legendary. It's 686 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 3: something like that. 687 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 1: It's something and I'm just going, oh god, really, bro, 688 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: you gotta be a little humble, like a little humble 689 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: and then how about come in and beat the badass 690 00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 1: that you could be and then talk about a legend. 691 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 2: Now. 692 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 1: I also heard that they like and maybe I guess 693 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 1: this would go along with the tanking thing. But like 694 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: I guess, on these interviews they'll install offense or like 695 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 1: football things and to see how to see how like 696 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,560 Speaker 1: adaptable you are and how smart you are and how 697 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 1: quickly you can take new concepts or whatever. So they'll 698 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 1: go to these interviews and then they'll say like, okay, 699 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 1: well what would you Hey, here's a play, break it 700 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: down for us how we're going to execute this. I 701 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: guess he didn't want to do any of that. And 702 00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: I guess sometimes they'll give you that ahead of time 703 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 1: so you can study it and then come in because 704 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,160 Speaker 1: you have to do as a quarterback, you have to 705 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: be super prepared or whatever, and so then they'll ask 706 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,239 Speaker 1: you questions about your preparation. And what I read was 707 00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: that he was like, I'm not about that. Oh. 708 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 3: If I was his dad, I would smack. 709 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 1: I mean, it would be like if we gave you 710 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 1: a task on an interview, like, hey, come and tell us, Well, 711 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: Paulina just gave it to us. When she came in front. 712 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: She was already prepared. We didn't even have to ask her. 713 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,960 Speaker 1: She came into her interview with all the reasons that 714 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 1: our show sucked. But no, I just wanted to get 715 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 1: a job. I'm like, can I squeeze him here? I 716 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 1: love my version of the story, which is based on 717 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: a slight amount of fact and then mostly embellishment. But 718 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 1: you did come up with a little notebook and a 719 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 1: bunch of tips. And you called yourself a legend too. 720 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 1: You weren't wearing a skirt. You're wearing a power suit 721 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: with shoulder pads. That's why you got highed. 722 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 3: That's it. 723 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 6: It's the power suit. 724 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 3: I don't know. 725 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, hey, Jason like dropped the show for 726 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 1: us today. You're like, I ain't about that nothing. 727 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 3: You don't have the job. You are not about it? 728 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: Tie Breaker show his Kiky with data. Next in two minutes, 729 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: Fred's show. 730 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 3: Red Show. Do you have what it takes to battle 731 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 3: UK with the cake? 732 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 6: I know that's right? 733 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 1: All right, Cak, we got Dana and she's back. Hold on, 734 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: there's a draft. Dana, welcome back, Good morning, Good morning. 735 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 1: All right, you tied yesterday. You may have earned yourself 736 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: some extra money. Fifty dollars added to the tab, so 737 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,960 Speaker 1: three fifties the price today twenty four and four five 738 00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 1: pop culture questions. And if you are at home and 739 00:30:58,280 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: you listen to the show, you know yesterday's show, on 740 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: today's show, you probably have all the answers you need 741 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: to win. 742 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 3: All right, Dana? Are you ready? 743 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 2: All right? 744 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 3: I'm ready? A right? Good luck? All do you expect yo? 745 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:11,440 Speaker 3: Good Blue. You gotta go, Kiki. What's up with the Dodgers? 746 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: Hat? 747 00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,880 Speaker 3: Can I get hit Cubs? Hat? Please? Thank you? I 748 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 3: don't know what's going on with them all right? 749 00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: Then in question number one, Travis Kelcey reportedly unfollowed Blake 750 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: Lively's husband, I mean rumors of drama between she and 751 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift named Blake's. 752 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 3: Husband Ryan Reynolds. 753 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: Which Goosebumps rapper caused Coachella organize the cost Coachella organized 754 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,840 Speaker 1: just twenty grand after being late for his performance. 755 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,600 Speaker 3: Travis Scott is in DAYA and her. 756 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: Fiancee were spotted out in public for the first time 757 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: since getting engaged, name her fiance. 758 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 3: Three two one Sinners. 759 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: Was number one of the box office for the second 760 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 1: weekend in a row. Which actor plays twins in the 761 00:31:56,280 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: movie Idea Okay, and final question, you got this? You 762 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: definitely have this one, which former Patriots coach is trending 763 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,160 Speaker 1: after an extremely awkward interview where his girlfriend kept interrupting 764 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,120 Speaker 1: Bill Beck. Yeah, I will take that. Yeah, it's fine. 765 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,640 Speaker 1: I think we added a nan in there somewhere. 766 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 3: But that's okay. 767 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 1: Close enough, that's all right, that's all right, close enough. 768 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 1: You were talking about the same person. 769 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 2: Three. 770 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,360 Speaker 3: Okay, is this scorre of beat? Are you ready? Yes? 771 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: Travis Kelcey reportedly unfollowed Blake Lively's husband I meand rumors 772 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 1: of drama between she and Taylor Swift named Blake's husband 773 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 1: Ryan Reynolds. That's right, which Goosebumps rapper caused Coachella organizers 774 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: twenty grand after he was late for his performance. 775 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 6: Travis Scott, that's right. 776 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: Sinda and her fiance were spotted out in public for 777 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: the first time since getting engaged. Name her fiance James James, James. 778 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 6: Saint Laurent, Yes, Sat Laurent. 779 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 3: Wow? Oh god? No? Is he related to Eve San Laurno? 780 00:32:57,600 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 3: Know different? 781 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 1: This was number one of the box office for the 782 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,280 Speaker 1: second weekend in a row. Which actor plays twins in 783 00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: the movie I'm Michael b Jordan yep, And which former 784 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: Patriots coach is trending after an extremely awkward interview where 785 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 1: his girlfriend kept interrupting Bill Belichick. 786 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 3: Right, that's he's a wind. 787 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,479 Speaker 1: Dana so close, but you have to say, my name 788 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: is Dana. I got showed up on a showdown, And 789 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:21,320 Speaker 1: you know the rest. 790 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 3: My name is Dana. 791 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 8: I got showed up on the Showdown, and I can't 792 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:25,960 Speaker 8: hang with. 793 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:33,600 Speaker 3: The you, Dana. You almost could, but can't hang with key. Can't, 794 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 3: can't cat boo boo boom, can't can't boo get boom 795 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:41,480 Speaker 3: boo boom can I can't? I got a wet cat? 796 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:47,760 Speaker 3: What the hell's going on? I had a cough. I 797 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 3: heard a stuttering cat. 798 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 1: Can get get get get, Yeah, that's weird, Dana, hang 799 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: on one second, have a great day. Thank you for 800 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 1: playing it, Thanks for listening. You're the best. Four hundred tomorrow, 801 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,680 Speaker 1: four hundred bucks, Win number twenty five Man twenty five 802 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,160 Speaker 1: and four. 803 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 3: It's really good, Kiki Man. Dana is good, though she 804 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 3: was good waiting by the phone. 805 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,760 Speaker 1: We'll do it next, The entertainment of for the headlines, 806 00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,160 Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day, and the fun fact 807 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: all on the way and we're commercial free state There more. 808 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,240 Speaker 3: Fread show next