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Speaker 1: little bit. I got all kinds of stuff today. Do

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Speaker 1: we talk about the Bears in Arlington Heights? I mean,

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Speaker 1: I guess they're really doing it. Does that sound good

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Speaker 1: to you? Are you happy about that? Are we happy

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Speaker 1: about the Bears in Arlington High?

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Speaker 1: Why are you so happy that?

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Speaker 3: I love a suburban area and I'm tired. I'm tired

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Speaker 3: of parking four miles away from the stadium.

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Speaker 2: Yes, not that I ever go to a Bears game.

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Speaker 1: The station quest They did a request to visit the

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Speaker 1: island of Soldier Field. But it is a bit of

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Speaker 1: I guess they're going to do better now. I'm glad.

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Speaker 4: I think it is the worst venue to try to

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Speaker 4: this logistically the worst, right Lakeshore Drive, all that happening,

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Speaker 4: or we pick up drunk people from there?

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Speaker 2: Have you done that?

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Speaker 1: No, I've done the drunk person Oh yeah, well I

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Speaker 5: Well my in laws, but when I go pick them

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Speaker 5: up or like Mahabi my husband, like it's it's a

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Speaker 6: Are closed, like it's a whole mission.

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Speaker 2: To pick up drunk people.

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, I don't even think I've tried to.

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Speaker 1: I had one other thing to mention of note our

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Speaker 1: little partnership that we did with South Suburban Humane Society

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Speaker 1: in honor of Taylor Swift's engagement. We wanted you to

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Speaker 1: did there, super clever. But a bunch of the animals

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Speaker 1: short Rim had to get adopted because that's the best name.

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Speaker 1: Short Rib is the best. And then Dipper and Goober

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Speaker 1: the South Suburban Humane Society that you guys stepped up

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Speaker 1: the on the gram, you guys you have some new

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on

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Speaker 1: Scott is here, Hi Scott, good morning, Hey, good morning, Scott, welcome.

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Speaker 1: dot com. And so you're having an issue with your

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Well, like you said, we've been together six years,

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Speaker 9: and like, I don't know, lately, I'm feeling a lot

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Speaker 9: of pressure to like propose, but I'm just not ready.

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Speaker 9: So that sounds familiar, I guess, I guess I just

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Speaker 9: fun I kind of want your opinion on that, Like,

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Speaker 9: do you think it's too long or do you think

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Speaker 9: it's like I shouldn't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, you should worry, all right. I need a

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Speaker 1: little more information. I need I need a lot more information.

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Speaker 1: I mean, right, so that's been six years for every right,

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Speaker 1: what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean we were talking about this earlier. But

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Speaker 1: you know, whether it's Kiki and almost eight years or whatever,

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Speaker 1: it was seven and a half and then you you know,

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Speaker 1: sort of joking about since the day that I met you,

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Speaker 1: where is my proposal? Or you know, it's Kaylin who's

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Speaker 1: been with someone for a little while and isn't in

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Speaker 1: any hurry whatsoever. I mean, there's a lot of context here.

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Speaker 1: So six years is she pressuring you?

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Speaker 9: Like?

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Speaker 1: Is she is she fairly so beginning to ask or

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Speaker 1: it's because maybe people are together forever and never get

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Speaker 1: married and they're okay with that, and then maybe people

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Speaker 1: are together for three months and they're like, hey, where's

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Speaker 1: the ring. I mean, I've kind of encountered both. What

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Speaker 1: what's happening here?

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Speaker 9: Well, yeah, this is gonna sound kind of silly. So

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Speaker 9: like normally like she's never really brought it up or

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Speaker 9: really even seem to like worry too much either, but

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Speaker 9: like she's a giant swifties. So with the last couple

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Speaker 9: can you get caught the marriage bug?

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Speaker 1: I say, get out of here, get out of it?

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Speaker 1: Has she actually cited that? Like she said, well, you know,

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Speaker 1: that hasn't actually come up.

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Speaker 9: Oh well, I was sitting next to her when she

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Speaker 9: and like you know what things look like down the

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Speaker 9: line and things You've got to kid.

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Speaker 6: I was emotionable too, I get it.

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Speaker 1: But it's something to be It's one thing to be

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Speaker 1: emotionable like Scott's grow upfriend. To be emotionable, that's one thing.

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Speaker 1: But then but to put the pressure on because because

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Speaker 1: she's swifty and because she got engaged. I mean, it's like,

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Speaker 1: look at her life, what about you slack her?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 9: I mean?

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Speaker 1: Is that that's not fair? But here's the thing. So

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Speaker 1: she's indicated to you that she wants to be married

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Speaker 1: to you. How long has she been talking like that?

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Speaker 1: Of the six years you've been together, just recently.

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Speaker 9: Honestly, Like it's something we've kind of talked about, Like

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Speaker 9: I feel like we both always wanted to get married,

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Speaker 9: but like this, like like I said, this marriage bug,

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Speaker 9: like that's brand new, and like I'm honestly, it makes

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Speaker 9: me like I'm ready to fight Travis Kelcey. Like I

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I wonder how many people are in

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Speaker 1: I want that too, proposed to me in the backyard,

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? So okay? What's your position though,

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you what's the hold do you want

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Speaker 1: and again I don't say it in the judgmental way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you have every right to live your life

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Speaker 9: I mean, there's a few reasons, but flat out I'm

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Speaker 9: just not ready, Like it's something I want to do

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Speaker 9: like if we're not ready after six years, then why rush?

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Speaker 9: Like I don't know, Like I'm still trying to figure

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Speaker 9: there's no way where we could afford like the wedding.

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Speaker 9: I'd want to give her, the ring I'd want to

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Speaker 1: At what juncture is it fair for a person who

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Speaker 1: But if you're somebody who wants to get married and

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Speaker 1: want to be married when you have kids, if those

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Speaker 1: are things that are important to you, there is kind

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Speaker 1: of a time frame. It's a little bit of a

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Speaker 1: finite thing. You know, you can't necessarily do this when

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Speaker 1: at that point have things passed you by somewhat? I mean,

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Speaker 1: how long is it going to take?

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Speaker 9: Bro I don't know, and I totally get what you're

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Speaker 9: saying like we're well, still relatively young, but like, I

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Speaker 9: don't know, I'm just not ready. It might be a year,

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Speaker 9: it might be another two years. I don't know, but

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Speaker 9: I definitely get what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: Because the worst thing is if you know, I want

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Speaker 1: to be married to you and I'm getting emotionable about it,

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Speaker 1: and then and then we keep, you know, we keep

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Speaker 1: we're ten years in and then you're like, eh, actually

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do this anymore. And now it's like, well, okay,

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Speaker 1: I invested a lot of time in this aspiration that

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Speaker 8: Again?

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Speaker 9: Like if the situations right were kind of always.

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Speaker 1: I'm really torn on this. I'm really in torn on

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Speaker 2: Right until I met my husband, Like I was that

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Speaker 8: You were not.

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Speaker 1: You were not really looking for all people? Stop it

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Speaker 2: This is not a skit or a lie.

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Speaker 1: He got serious.

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Speaker 8: That.

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Speaker 1: I watched many, many, many, many men try we all have,

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Speaker 3: I made that clear to him, because that is what's

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Speaker 8: No.

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Speaker 5: I feel like men all so no, and I'm no man,

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Speaker 1: Happen. I have been with a man right now, A couple,

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Speaker 2: I would talk to you really quick. I think men

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Speaker 1: I know you you because you have.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I met the woman you're like, I

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Speaker 1: Where I think I really want to be with you,

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Speaker 5: I call me crazy, but I do feel like, if

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Speaker 2: Now I see that.

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Speaker 1: I'm really in the middle of this. Because if it

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Speaker 5: Three months, okay, I think in three months, like if

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Speaker 5: I call Shane right now, he will tell me I'm Shane.

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Speaker 1: He wanted to marry her before.

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Speaker 5: He loves Taylor and he's had all the relationships, and

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Speaker 5: Did I guarantee you he did not feel that way

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Speaker 11: I said, we've been together eight years, we.

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Speaker 10: Have three kids, my last name, Okay, I want to

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Speaker 9: I want to get married.

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Speaker 11: You have a year to propose, and we get married

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Speaker 8: That's exactly what we did.

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Speaker 12: Irving?

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Speaker 1: Irving had a good day. Yeah, Oh, she's brilliant and

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Speaker 11: Well, I think it's interesting that this guy is calling

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Speaker 11: he's wasting her time. I think after six years, like

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Speaker 1: Just go and buy her all seven CDs of Life

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Speaker 1: be distracted listening to all seven CDs, even though they're

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Speaker 1: all the same. Samantha, Thank you, have a good day too. Yeah,

437
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Speaker 1: and the kids thing is that it's a big factor.

438
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Speaker 1: Someone said she's wasting her good child bearing years on him.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, again, not a reason to force a marriage,

440
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Speaker 1: but that's that's a real thing. You know, if if

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Speaker 1: you want to be married to someone and have a family,

442
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Speaker 1: things get more complicated this time goes. I'm not impossible,

443
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Speaker 1: but there's there be a lot of resentment there. I

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Speaker 1: would think if you invest all that time and then

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Speaker 1: it doesn't happen, I'm gonna say three as years. It's

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Speaker 1: kind of that, Sorry, Jason. It's kind of that gray

447
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Speaker 1: area we're kind of transitioning into, like Okay, we've made

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Speaker 1: a life together now after three years, like I've seen,

449
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Speaker 1: we've probably traveled to this is this doesn't ply to

450
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Speaker 1: you at all. We've probably traveled together. Like you know,

451
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Speaker 1: I know if you're stinky, I know, you know, I

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Speaker 1: have a good idea what I'm working with here. We've

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Speaker 1: had ups and downs, and like I think we're in

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Speaker 1: that kind of area. It's like, you know, that's what

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Speaker 1: we kind of got to say this is a foreverthing

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Speaker 1: or a long term thing or not not six months

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Speaker 1: or and again this is me just generalizing because Paulina

458
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Speaker 1: over here thinks every guy just looks at the woman

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Speaker 1: and say, oh, you want come me.

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Speaker 2: I'm wrong, though. They are men know when they're somebody

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Speaker 2: you not. No, don't let a man waste your time.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna just leave it that.

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Speaker 1: I don't men say that. I don't think it's that simple.

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Speaker 1: I really don't think it's that simple. I think a

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Speaker 1: lot of people have said that to other people and

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Speaker 1: they're divorced.

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Speaker 5: Okay, possibly, but I'm not saying you look at a woman,

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Speaker 5: you're like, I'm gonna marry you tomorrow.

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Speaker 6: But I think if you just you just know, you're like.

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Speaker 1: I know people who have done that, Paulina, and they're

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Speaker 1: still together, and they've been together for twenty years. I

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Speaker 1: know people who have done that and they're not together anymore.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that it's I simply don't think it's

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Speaker 1: that simple. There are men listening right now, going nope,

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Speaker 1: I was compelled and they are mendless thing right now.

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Speaker 1: Who're going, I was compelled and now I'm paying galimony.

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Speaker 3: Well, marriage the gamble, and some people just are ready

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Speaker 3: when they're ready. Some men just marry whatever is in

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Speaker 3: front of them. When they're ready that that part too.

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Speaker 1: Can't have that. Hey, Jane, that's a bad idea. Oh

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Speaker 1: that's sorry, Mike. No, I want to talk to Mike.

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Speaker 1: That We'll get to Jane.

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Speaker 9: Mike.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Mike. How you doing Male perspective go.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 8: Guys? So?

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Speaker 12: I mean, like my dad told me when I married

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Speaker 12: my wife back in twenty fifteen. We were engaged in

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Speaker 12: twenty fourteen. I was scared. He's like, yeah, he says,

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Speaker 12: you're the provider, you're the protector, you're the shield. Now

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Speaker 12: you've got to protect her and provide for her for

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Speaker 12: the rest of your life. I was like, I'm scared

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Speaker 12: to death and he's like, good, he says, can you

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Speaker 12: imagine her with someone else? I said no, If she

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Speaker 12: walked away from me, that would end my world. And

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Speaker 12: I said, he says, then she's the one for you.

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Speaker 3: So we married.

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Speaker 12: And listen, man, when you're married, listen to the wedding

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Speaker 12: and all that stuff. That doesn't make the marriage.

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Speaker 8: Man.

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Speaker 12: That's all for the parent and everybody else. That's all

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Speaker 12: for her, you know what I mean. That doesn't make

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Speaker 12: the marriage.

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Speaker 9: Man.

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Speaker 12: You know what, if you love her, if you ask

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Speaker 12: yourself this question, for man to man, I'm talking to

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Speaker 12: the guy. If you can see her walking away from you,

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Speaker 12: she's not the one. It's as simple as that.

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Speaker 7: So you either do it.

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Speaker 12: You know, she might not even want a big wedding

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Speaker 12: or a big ring, you know, big ring. My wife didn't,

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Speaker 12: but I still gave it to her, you know what

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Speaker 12: I mean. So you gotta either crap or get off

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Speaker 12: the pot, man, one or the other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, By the way, I don't I think you're right.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it will ever not be scary. If

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Speaker 1: he's waiting to be scary, then now.

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Speaker 12: Right, Okay, you married her, you marry her, you have kids.

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Speaker 12: That's where the real scaries come in.

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Speaker 13: Andy.

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Speaker 12: And I know Paulina knows exactly what I'm talking about,

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Speaker 12: because when you're a parent, you're constantly afraid, worried.

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Speaker 6: That's very true.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Thank you, Thank you, Mike. Have a god day.

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Speaker 1: Appreciate that good perspective.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hello, was always cold.

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Speaker 8: All right?

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Speaker 1: Jane? Hi Jane, Why am I wrong?

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Speaker 9: Jane?

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Speaker 8: Go ahead, Hi, Prad, I normally think your advice is

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Speaker 8: really really great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yes, it actually is, but it's fantastic.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, but I'm a mental health counselor, and at

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Speaker 8: this I kind of hear you're mixing up two different

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Speaker 8: sets of needs. There is a difference between a demand

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Speaker 8: and a saying of what your needs and wants and

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Speaker 8: goals are in the world and that this is what's

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Speaker 8: appropriate for me. And so my Kiki had said, this

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Speaker 8: is my life goal, this is why I'm dating this way.

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Speaker 8: So I'm just putting in my cards on the table.

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Speaker 8: So there you go.

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Speaker 1: But Jane, I don't. I don't think we're saying the

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Speaker 1: same thing. But your trauma no no, no, no no

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Speaker 1: trauma history with Jane. What an ultimatum is inherently a demand, Yes,

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Speaker 1: it is an ultimatum by definition, is saying.

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Speaker 8: Between There's a difference between saying that there's my life

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Speaker 8: goal and this is not, you know, ultimatum. It's it's

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Speaker 8: not really an ultimatum. It's saying no, no.

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Speaker 1: But we're saying the same thing. If I come to you,

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Speaker 1: Jane and say here are the things that are important

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Speaker 1: to me, that's I agree with you. That is different

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Speaker 1: than me coming and saying if you don't marry me

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Speaker 1: by the end of the year, I'm gone. Those are

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Speaker 1: two different things because one's a threat and the other

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Speaker 1: is an expression.

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Speaker 8: But the thing is, it's we're not talking about We're

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Speaker 8: talking about a major life goal and a major life situation,

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Speaker 8: and you're giving somebody time to make a decision.

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Speaker 1: But you're not in an ultimatum. In an ultimatum, you're

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Speaker 1: saying it's this or that if I express my needs

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Speaker 1: and you don't need.

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Speaker 8: It's a mixing of I think it's a mixing of

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Speaker 8: interpretations of what is being said and how it's being set.

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Speaker 8: But it is extremely important in a dating situation to

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Speaker 8: say this is my needs, this is my way.

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Speaker 1: I agree with you. I think I actually agree with you.

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Speaker 8: It's really going on here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. No, this guy's not being given an ultimatum. No, no, no.

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Speaker 1: An ultimatum is separate from this. He's this isn't a

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Speaker 1: conversation they're having. I'm saying I don't like an ultimatum.

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Speaker 1: I don't like an ultimatum in any situation. And you

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Speaker 1: hear about it sometimes, like the woman who called earlier

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Speaker 1: and said, if you don't marry me by the end

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Speaker 1: of the year, I'm gone. I don't like that. That's pressure,

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Speaker 1: that's what it's.

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Speaker 2: A man though, I think that's the choice. You're giving

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Speaker 2: them the choice.

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Speaker 8: Are you in it?

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Speaker 2: Are you out?

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Speaker 8: Like how exactly?

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Speaker 1: That's not why I just say, hey, look, I would

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Speaker 1: like to be married to you. I need to be

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Speaker 1: married to you soon, you know, or I need to

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just if you don't or else.

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Speaker 8: Nobody it's articulated. Nobody is in an articulates you, Fred,

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Speaker 8: You're like one of the most articulate people in the world. Oh,

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Speaker 8: Joso say it average. The average people will not say

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Speaker 8: it that way. Yeah, well I say the other way.

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Speaker 1: And I respect your perspective as a mental health cancer.

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Speaker 1: It's just a threat. For me. The threat is dangerous

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Speaker 1: and I don't like it, and I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: the right way because I feel.

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Speaker 8: You're threat I am.

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Speaker 1: Wants wants to betten in any context though nobody wants

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Speaker 1: to be threaded.

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Speaker 2: But you gotta tell him. It's not a threat. It's

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Speaker 2: a promise.

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Speaker 1: To Jane. I appreciate you, thank you for calling. I

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Speaker 1: have a good day. No, I hear what she's saying.

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Speaker 1: I just don't want I don't want to be confused.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely express what's important to you. Caitlin's Entertainment report is

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Speaker 1: on the Thread show.

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Speaker 7: Raymond Cruz, the actor who played a drug lord Tucco

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Speaker 7: Salamanca on Breaking Bad, was arrested yesterday on suspicion of

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Speaker 7: misdemeanor battery after he allegedly sprayed his neighbor's.

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Speaker 2: Daughter with the garden hose.

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Speaker 7: I guess the altercation started when the actor asked the

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Speaker 7: girl to move as he was washing his car.

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Speaker 6: I would have moved.

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Speaker 2: This man is pretty scary. You watch the show, you

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Speaker 2: scare in the show too.

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Speaker 6: Things escalated from there.

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Speaker 7: No charges have been filed yet, but for minor infractions,

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Speaker 7: the city attorney typically holds an office hearing where the

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Speaker 7: accused defender is warned or offered anger management courses in

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Speaker 7: exchange for having charges dropped. Sense Breaking Bad, Raymond did

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Speaker 7: reprise his role in the prequel spinoff Better Call Saul.

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Speaker 7: You may also know him from playing a detective on

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Speaker 7: the other end of the spectrum on the show The

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Speaker 7: Closer as well. Vanessa Brian is nipping yet another baseless

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Speaker 7: rumor in The Bud, denying that she's pregnant by downing

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Speaker 7: a few drinks at the US Open, which is my

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Speaker 7: favorite way to tell people I'm not pregnant. Kobe's widow

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Speaker 7: made the statement on Instagram, showing a photo of her

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Speaker 7: sipping the tournament's signature Honeyduce cocktail while enjoying the action

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Speaker 7: with their daughter's capri and bianca.

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Speaker 6: She simply wrote, enjoying my Honeyduce.

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Speaker 7: Keep me posted on how this imaginary pregnancy rumor is

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Speaker 7: coming along.

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Speaker 6: Twenty four years later, same rumor.

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Speaker 7: Unclear where the new rumor is coming from, but just

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Speaker 7: a few months ago, remember she had to address the

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Speaker 7: same thing that time. She used a Rihanna meme for

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Speaker 7: that denial, with the caption me protecting my peace, not

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Speaker 7: pregnant and having fun all summer.

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Speaker 6: Of course, it's been five years.

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Speaker 7: Since Vanessa's husband, NBA legend Kobe Bryant, tragically passed away,

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Speaker 7: and she hasn't.

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Speaker 6: Really dated anyone publicly since.

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Speaker 7: Kobe and Vanessa had four daughters together before Gianna tragically died,

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Speaker 7: of course, alongside her dad and seven others in that

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Speaker 7: helicopter crash. And she remembered Kobe's birthday last month just

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Speaker 7: saying we love and miss you and Gig so much.

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Speaker 6: So she's not pregnant and just let her live her life.

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Speaker 6: Please stop doing that.

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Speaker 7: In case you missed it, Ella Langley, Megan Maroney, and

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Speaker 7: Lanie Wilson taught the upcoming CMA nominations with six appease

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Speaker 7: Zac top scored five. Riley Green and Cody Johnson have

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Speaker 6: Which is quite a name.

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Speaker 7: Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen each secured three nominations and

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Speaker 7: the Year. Luke Colms, Cody Johnson, Chris Stapleton and Morgan Wallen.

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Speaker 7: The show will air live from Nashville Wednesday, November nineteenth,

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Speaker 7: at seven or eight, depending on where you are and

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Speaker 7: if you missed this earlier when Fred brought it up,

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Speaker 7: Apparently the woman caught on the Coldplake kiss cam with

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Speaker 7: another man was already separated from her husband. And I

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Speaker 7: don't know how I if I believe this or not,

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Speaker 7: but Andrew Cabot, CEO of a different company, I mean,

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Speaker 7: she really needs to save some CEOs for the.

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Speaker 1: Rest of us.

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Speaker 6: But she he addressed the recent.

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Speaker 1: Controversy Layer CEO too. That's a good one.

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Speaker 8: We like it.

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Speaker 1: We like a laquor ceo.

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Speaker 6: Wait, where are you meeting all the ceo? Like, I

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Speaker 6: know you worked with the other one, but where are

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Speaker 6: you meeting I need to meet.

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Speaker 1: A CEO and lady CEO's out there. I got a

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Speaker 1: bunch of money, Like, how you doing money? It was

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Speaker 1: fred nice to meet you. I don't like ultimatums, but

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Speaker 1: I like everything else. And then you look at her.

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Speaker 2: That's what I knew.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me tell you what.

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Speaker 6: I get that feeling for once.

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Speaker 1: I really know, I really know.

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Speaker 2: That's new.

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Speaker 1: All the big bosses, the big bosses. I'm floating around

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Speaker 1: on the homeway.

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Speaker 6: So many bosses, so many titles. I'm confused.

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Speaker 1: I know it's there, all fake, but yeah, we have

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Speaker 1: seen president. No come up. I bet you even she

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Speaker 1: would tell you, like, what is your title now?

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Speaker 2: Element?

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Speaker 1: Jesus Lord and Mary Joseph? Like what do they make

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Speaker 1: these things up? Senior vice president, regional regional senior. How

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Speaker 1: does everybody advice president? It's a president and then we

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Speaker 1: get an assistant in the vice How are there forty

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Speaker 1: seven vice presidents in one builder of each?

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Speaker 2: Like do I feel like?

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Speaker 6: How do I meet these people? Do I kissing?

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Speaker 9: Like I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 7: Anyways, this other CEO said he and Kristen were already

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Speaker 7: separated before this happened. He said it happened a couple

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Speaker 7: of weeks before she was spotted, you know, with his

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Speaker 7: hands around Andy's hands around her waist at the Coldplay concerts.

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Speaker 7: So he said that their decision to divorce was already

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Speaker 7: in motion prior to that. By the way, if you

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Speaker 7: missed any part of our show, you want to catch up,

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Speaker 7: type the French show on demand and if you could,

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Speaker 7: it really help set us as a preset on the

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Speaker 7: free iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 13: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

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Speaker 13: Shelley in the show Biz Showdown, Good Morning. How many

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Speaker 13: of your life decisions you based on Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 9: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Not many?

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Speaker 6: I like her, but I'm not you know, no, not

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Speaker 6: too many. But I'm very happy for he.

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Speaker 1: Would you say is increased?

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Speaker 9: You know?

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Speaker 1: Not that I mean one about the.

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Speaker 8: No.

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Speaker 4: I think like this is a it's an example of

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Speaker 4: when you need to hide your crazy, right, because I

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Speaker 4: feel like, like, especially with all the engagements everything.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's so sweet, and then I

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Speaker 1: think like, you can't.

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Speaker 4: Help and say like, oh, like at some point I'd

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Speaker 4: like to be that happy right like so, but I

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Speaker 4: would never be like, well, because kicking and Taylor Swift

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Speaker 4: got engaged, I need to be engaged to you, and

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Speaker 4: you have six months days.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a licensed therapist currently, but you can't base

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Speaker 1: your happiness and other people. Yeah, you have to find

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Speaker 1: your happiness from Really. That is something that I am

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Speaker 1: working on. Is that trigger you triggered you? It's true though,

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Speaker 1: trust Shirt, it's coming. It's work, It's a work in progress.

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Speaker 1: I find happiness in a lot of ways that are

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Speaker 1: completely erratic, like, for example, the ratings. My mood is

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Speaker 1: so much better when we're number one. Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you something, and then Nielsen comes along and it makes

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Speaker 1: me feel terrible. Hey Jonathan, how you doing. Good morning guys,

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Speaker 1: how are you Jonathan? Good morning? Fun fact about you is.

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Speaker 12: I work for the United States Postal Service, which just

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Speaker 12: turned two and fifty years old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okaya gets your own segment, bro. Nine hundred and

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks is the prize one fifty one win for Shelley,

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Speaker 1: wins for Shelley only, seventy emotionable only, seventy losses, and

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Speaker 1: twelve straight five pop culture questions. Let go guys, Okay,

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Speaker 1: good luck? All right too. She goes to the sound

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Speaker 1: boof poof all right, are you an actual postal? Are

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Speaker 1: you a mailman male person?

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Speaker 12: No, I'm actually a mechanic. I fix the mailman's cars

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Speaker 12: a lot of It's.

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Speaker 1: A very elaborate. They got a lot going on over there.

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Speaker 1: And Jason likes the mechanic. He likes the mechanic. Are

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Speaker 1: you engaged to be married to anyone? Are you married

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Speaker 1: to someone.

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Speaker 8: Married? All right?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Jason, take into a Cold Play concert. Well. Question

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Speaker 1: number one. Adam Sandler is fifty nine today? Which highly

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Speaker 1: anticipated movie sequel did he release on Netflix in July?

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Speaker 12: Happy to go more too? I just saw him stand

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Speaker 12: up yesterday on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Oh wow. Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora.

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Speaker 1: Who founded the Brandy two no idea, Kyle Richards and

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Speaker 1: Mauricio Umanski reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding, which reality

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Speaker 1: show first brought them to fame.

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Speaker 2: Three two?

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I mean we got the last two. It's

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Speaker 1: all good. Brittany Snow and Maylon Ackerman were both hush

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Speaker 1: hush about season two of the horny show The Hunting

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Speaker 1: Wives on the MTV VMA's Red Carpet on which streaming

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Speaker 1: service would you find that show? Just to say, the

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Speaker 1: most obvious one, the most obvious. Oh, that wasn't the

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Speaker 1: most obvious one. And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with her

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Speaker 1: former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're still close.

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Speaker 1: Who is Jlo's ex named? Ben Affleck and Samuel's father say, benefl,

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Speaker 1: how did you get that? That's crazy? That's a two.

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Speaker 1: You got a two? So here you got a two show?

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Speaker 1: And yeah, but all your questions are about mechanical stuff,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, well he's a mechanic. I'm just kidding. I

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Speaker 1: was skiing switch it up on you. You know, he

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Speaker 1: had to answer entertainment questions.

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Speaker 8: You have to.

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Speaker 1: You have to answer questions about hemmy's and stuff. Adam

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Speaker 1: Sandler is fifty nine. See Jason's getting He's tingling over there.

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Speaker 1: Adam Sandler's fifty nine today? Which highly anticipated movie sequel

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Speaker 1: did he release on Netflix in July? Happy gil Mar

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Speaker 1: Yes Road Beauty is officially available at Sephora. Who founded

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Speaker 1: the brand, Hailey Bieber, Kyle Richards, and Mauricio Yumanski right,

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Speaker 1: reunited to celebrate their daughter's wedding. Which reality show first

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Speaker 1: brought them to fame, The Real Housewives, Sure, Beverly Hills, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll take it. Brittany Snow and Maelon Ackerman were both

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Speaker 1: hash hushed about season two of The Hunting Wives on

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Speaker 1: the MTV VMA's Red Carpet. On which streaming service would

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Speaker 1: you find that show?

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Speaker 9: Three?

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Speaker 10: Two?

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Speaker 2: Peacock?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no Netflix? And Jennifer Lopez was spotted with

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Speaker 1: her former step son Samuel over the weekend, proving they're

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Speaker 1: still close. Who is Jelo's ex and Samuel's father? Then Nefflick,

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Speaker 1: Yeah that is a four and you win. So Jonathan,

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Speaker 1: my man, you're gonna say my name is Jonathan. I

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Speaker 1: got showed up on the Showdown. You know the rest.

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Speaker 12: Hey, my name is Jonathan, and I was so up

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Speaker 12: on the Showdown by Shelly and you.

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Speaker 1: Jonathan the male postal mechanic man can't hang with real, can't.

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Speaker 3: Can't, can't, can't shout out to the postal workers. Can't

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Speaker 3: can't stop raising the price of a stamp.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, Else, Jonathan, we got to talk about

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Speaker 1: the business model of the old postal Postal service.

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Speaker 2: Fix the car.

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Speaker 1: That's another day for another day. We love you and

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Speaker 1: your fellow postal workers. Hey, I have a great day,

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Speaker 1: and thanks for listening, Jonathan hang On.

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Speaker 12: Thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 9: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for that one. It made me dizzy. Jason,

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Speaker 1: love you.

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Speaker 2: Worker and a mechanic.

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Speaker 1: Do you think he has to wear those like pe

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Speaker 1: teacher looking shorts that they wear as if they're a

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Speaker 1: postal worker to work on the car? I hope. So

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Speaker 1: you know the ones I'm talking about, the ones that

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Speaker 1: are made of like burlap, the polyswers not it's not giving.

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Speaker 1: It's not giving. They don't it's not good. Maybe a

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Speaker 1: nice dry fit or something, you know, they don't come

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Speaker 1: on like.

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Speaker 6: My Marilyn Monroe Tupac shirt.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Session, Yeah, I'll order them some from Malaysia. It'll

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Speaker 1: take six months, but they'll show up. Session. Have a

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Speaker 1: good day, Shelley tomorrow. It's a thousand bucks nice.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's good bye.

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Speaker 1: I was dizzy for like a minute after that one

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Speaker 1: because I really gave my all on that one.

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Speaker 9: Me too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, waiting by the phone is more fresh.

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Speaker 8: Show next