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Speaker 2: The bridge Amelia for Sandy on my way. I don't

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Speaker 1: Amelia. Thanks for meeting with me. You probably know what

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Speaker 1: this is about.

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Speaker 2: Shall I can't say that I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that scares me even more. I want to talk

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Speaker 1: about yesterday, and I want to talk about the champagne service.

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Speaker 2: What was wrong with the champagne service.

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Speaker 1: So in maritime law and on my boat, and probably

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Speaker 1: super yachting, you cannot drink with guests. I know guests

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Speaker 2: First ever on boat, I only tasted it to make

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Speaker 2: I tasted it just to make sure they hadn't gone off.

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Speaker 2: And then yes, one of the guests did ask me

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Speaker 1: Amelia. Sorry, you're a super smart girl. I see it.

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Speaker 1: And here you've done a lot of great work on

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Speaker 2: Thank you. That's sort of like my calling in life,

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Speaker 2: Like I think it's like one of my actual calling,

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Speaker 2: Like I always want to be a yochtie in lock

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Speaker 2: have drinks with guests, like on the Dick. I'm good.

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Speaker 1: So if you're getting into the yachting business to meet

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Speaker 1: in the wrong business. You are hard to respect the hierarchy. Cindy,

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Speaker 1: it's birth Captain Sandy keep tin I'm sorry. So let's

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Speaker 1: say this happens. A primary charter member asks you to

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Speaker 1: taste the champagne. The champagne gets you really drunk. Then

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Speaker 1: you're vomiting off the side, and our Sue Boson chef

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Speaker 1: needs help down in the galley then what's happening. Then

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Speaker 1: it goes to me, because it all comes back to me,

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Speaker 1: and it is my job to make sure everything goes correct.

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Speaker 1: And that's why this cannot happen ever again. You can

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Speaker 1: never drink with a guest again, nor on boat. And

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Speaker 1: I'm afraid that you're going to because it sounds like

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying, really had LifeLock, It's just.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to fire you. I'm so fat from her.

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Speaker 1: Can I share a quote from my favorite movie Invictis

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Speaker 1: with you? Okay, he who shall walk through the fire

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Speaker 1: comes back stronger? Okay, trial week, Okay, Okay, how you

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Speaker 1: do you can do this? Okay, you can do this, Amelia,

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Speaker 1: your own beautiful young Boson.

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Speaker 2: Okay I'm actually third Stu, not Boson, but but okay,

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Speaker 2: thank you, Kiptain. I'm sorry. I won't have you again.

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Speaker 2: I won't have you again. Oh my god, she's such

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Speaker 1: Who's that knocking at the door. It's all your friends.

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Speaker 2: You've filthy horse, your husband's gone, and we've got books

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Speaker 2: and a bottle of wine to kill.

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Speaker 1: It's hollywood, it's books, it's gossip. I'm sure it's memoir.

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Speaker 2: It's Martini it.

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Speaker 1: While it's hot Celet Book Club, I'll tell your secrets.

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Speaker 1: We won't talk clety books.

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Speaker 2: No boys are aloud, say it loud and pound Celety

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Speaker 1: Buzz me in. I brought the queer vow. Hey, best friend,

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Speaker 1: thank you for joining me today. On this island we

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Speaker 2: An island, and we do travel here by boats, and

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Speaker 1: We are dockside, and since we are on land right now,

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Speaker 2: Yes, but we never, of course drink at sea because

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Speaker 1: Why are we talking about boats.

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Speaker 2: Because once again we've read a memoir by one of

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Speaker 2: the captains from Bravos franchise Below Deck.

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Speaker 1: You would think, oh, in the life of a podcast

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Speaker 1: But no, you would be wrong, because one, it's Pride Month.

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Speaker 1: I'll just say the book we read Say It with

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Speaker 2: By Captain Sandy Yan you know her from below deck

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Speaker 2: Mediterranean and her book Be the Calm or Be the Storm,

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Speaker 2: Leadership Lessons from a Woman at the Helm, And as

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Speaker 1: The sternest captains. And not to compare her this entire

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Speaker 2: a little bit more of a good time charlie who

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Speaker 2: who have their license from the Maritime Association, from the

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Speaker 2: US Maritime Legal Association, the International Association of Yachters.

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Speaker 1: In Women's Yachters Weekly, who have articles in seafares dot Com,

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Speaker 2: And Sandy is really all about, like you know, finding

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Speaker 2: I was just watching the episode of Below Deck Mad

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Speaker 1: She should have known and if this wasn't news to you,

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Speaker 1: Let's stop, hello, NYU forty five k down the drain.

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Speaker 1: Be taking robotics or my natural disaster's class? Do you

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Speaker 2: this thing about how like every country owns like two

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Speaker 1: Which is why people love the sea, which is crazy

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Speaker 1: because it's like, as a stern lesbian captain, Sandy loves

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Speaker 1: Before we really get into this book, damn, this made

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Speaker 1: She said. This thing that I was like, that's so

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Speaker 2: Just like, don't put a bunch of Ustralian girls in

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Speaker 1: And city throughout this book is always like bragging about

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Speaker 2: So much of this book is hurt listing marina like

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Speaker 1: And she's always like in the acknowledgements, everyone named and

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this book it's so very Staples, very Staples.

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Speaker 2: This book was designed to get her speaking engagements at

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Speaker 1: Yes, by the way, she meets her current wife, who's

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Speaker 1: But she heard Leah saying and it gave her chills,

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Speaker 2: Like a weekly magazines.

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Speaker 1: You read this in this current book. But she likes

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Speaker 1: She's so eighties, nineties and today.

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Speaker 2: playlists of songs to serve different purpose, to inspire, focus, cheer,

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Speaker 3: Daye.

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Speaker 2: That's like so Christian to say you have eclectic music. Tabe. Yes,

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Speaker 2: everyone does. Fuck You by Celo Green gets me through

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Speaker 1: I mean, could she be more? Getting VIP platinum tickets

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Speaker 1: No point zero because she is an addict and thirty

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Speaker 1: Well's I was like, playmate is so polly.

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Speaker 2: her like successful therapist friends named Jennifer. Yeah, but she

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Speaker 1: But like you think, not Christian. I feel like she's

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Speaker 2: Let's go to that part where I know we're jumping

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Speaker 1: Sorry, we're out at sea. Okay, it's a very time.

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Speaker 2: Law Oka, wait, let you just find this piece because

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Speaker 2: she the phrase she says, is so crazy. What I

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Speaker 1: It was from vibance probably like adderall, even more intense

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Speaker 1: that's an adderall in vivance right now. It's not the

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Speaker 1: No, they're cutting it. They're using cheaper stuff that's on

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Speaker 1: maritime bits.

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Speaker 2: That's maritime. They're cutting the abbey with fenty honey put

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Speaker 1: Also, it's so lesbian to say my veins are clear.

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Speaker 2: My veins are actually completely clear because I eat healthily

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Speaker 2: that I was also her saying, prescribed. It's so the

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Speaker 2: Valume episode with her every time, right, She's just being like,

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Speaker 2: and just so you know, I do keep my adderall

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Speaker 2: Even adderall, And it's just kind of like, well, but

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Speaker 1: Because she, like me in Paris Hilton.

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Speaker 2: Suffers from EIGHTHD. I'm just like, can you write a

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Speaker 1: It's because like adult ADHD is like a whole new thing,

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Speaker 1: and because women are under Diagno. Yes, all these like

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Speaker 1: are just fucking unmedicated. You know, yeah, watch out cet. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but where's Sandy from? You might be wondering where else.

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Speaker 2: Florida where all unhinged folk from. So she grows up

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Speaker 2: sort of bouncing between her divorced parents' houses in mama's

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Speaker 1: I think her mama was a beautiful Cherokee woman who.

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Speaker 2: Was a total badass and like went to class and

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know who I imagine the mom ass as

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Speaker 1: that famous country song Harper Valley PTA about like a

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Speaker 1: talk shit about, Oh, Harper value Pta. That's like Mama

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Speaker 2: Like long, beautiful, yeah blowing cherokee.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a long, dark haired woman. But the mother also, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, was a serious alcoholic and did die from sosis

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Speaker 2: She had a heart attack. And that's why I am

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Speaker 2: getting checked for heart disease and not taking adderall anymore

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Speaker 2: while I'm soul cycling.

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Speaker 1: This book is such an ad for a pill. Also,

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Speaker 2: The whole thing is like so celex.

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Speaker 1: It's like live your life. And it's like a woman

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Speaker 2: Outside constantly, like just turning one onion as the nieces

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Speaker 1: But then privately touching her wrist and like the god,

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Speaker 2: My female led heart disease is causing me pain and

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Speaker 2: I can't enjoy my extended family.

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Speaker 1: stealing cars at fourteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, oh, you're so fucking badass. And it's

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Speaker 2: very like weed is a gateway drug. It is because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and seventies, and she's like stealing cars and then

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Speaker 2: Or my yes, okay, that's the seventies and it's like

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Speaker 1: You see DC is blasting and.

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Speaker 2: Like Christy Macanowski like gives her a lude and she's like,

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Speaker 1: She's like, hey, fox is Sandy, I want to do

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Speaker 2: I bet she was so fucking Foxy.

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Speaker 1: Oh I bet she was fat.

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Speaker 2: Has feather. I mean she's a looker. She's a handsome woman.

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Speaker 1: Taws are big.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, her tenders keep those tied down.

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Speaker 1: And she was like strong arms snatched but thick waist.

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Speaker 2: Very like, you know, the kind of body a lot

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Speaker 1: Definitely, but she wouldn't do that because it's actually all

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Speaker 2: Do you think that like she's such a top that

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Speaker 2: like she doesn't even get eaten out?

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Speaker 1: Oh Stone, Yeah, I think her captain's uniform stays on

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Speaker 1: to me, though, she is so like go into a

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Speaker 1: tory's secret still and picking out some panties. She's like,

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Speaker 1: so five for thirty five, good deal. Okay, I'll get

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Speaker 1: get one thumb because Lea likes it.

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Speaker 2: No, she and there are going on vacation to Prince

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Speaker 2: Edward Island and she's packing all the sexy sale under.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and just like cleavage bearing. I feel like she's

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, Leah, that is the spot right there. I

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Speaker 2: love what you're doing. Just keep what you're doing. You're

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Speaker 1: Stay course, and you will be rewarded. I wish she

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Speaker 1: got more. She gets into two of her relationships, but

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Speaker 2: Like so brief. She's like, I, what's the Berta who

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Speaker 2: then does basically adopt her niece who dies of alcoholism. Yes, son, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and then they like she and Sandy kind of like

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Speaker 2: alcoholism in the family. But what she found was the water. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: boats and boats saved her and she worked her way

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Speaker 2: from the bottom up literally and figuratively, cleaning barnacles off

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think there's something about it's very Borday and

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Speaker 1: there's something about boating and cooking that feel like this

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's so last up. You know, it takes the runaways.

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Speaker 2: It takes the.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the people can fit into society and the drunks,

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Speaker 1: the drunks and the gamblers and the druggers.

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Speaker 1: As she says, the worst thing that can happen losing

441
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Speaker 1: a chef literally worse than like a storm. Yeah, as

442
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Speaker 1: I saw with that whole lobster disaster.

443
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 2: No, I mean, the chefs are always very tumultuous on

444
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,359
Speaker 2: the show. It's a huge for chef.

445
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Speaker 1: On Land is already like the most like tatted, legendary

446
00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 1: toxic type of person. How toxic do you have to

447
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:34,919
Speaker 1: be to be a chef on Water.

448
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 2: Because you have to work in a much smaller kitchen.

449
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: So even if you're the same amount of toxic, your

450
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,959
Speaker 2: toxicity level is going to rise because you're just like

451
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: so pissed at having to be in this small space

452
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 2: and like be on these weird timelines and cook like

453
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 2: so much Hilton food for all these like annoying rich

454
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 2: drunk gusts, freaking drunks, all these Australian girls being like

455
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 2: where the dorms are we doing dorms?

456
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Speaker 1: And then you also have to cook crew food.

457
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

458
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 1: And it's also like, well you're in the water, you're

459
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:06,520
Speaker 1: on maritime law, so it's like you're running for something, okay,

460
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: Cause she always talks about people she loses to land.

461
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, and she has this kind of wistfulness

462
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: about like all these people that she's sort of like

463
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 2: raised up and shown the ropes and then they ultimately

464
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 2: like do settle down and like get married and go

465
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Speaker 2: back to land. Yes, I also want to talk about

466
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:23,719
Speaker 2: so when she starts working for this guy John and

467
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 2: his wife John Flynn from Max Lynn, and she's always

468
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 2: like driving his boat up from the Caribbean, like to

469
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Speaker 2: Boston and then back the part where his wife teaches

470
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Speaker 2: her how to use Excel. Yes, Fran who was great

471
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Speaker 2: with computers and data analytics, taught me how to use

472
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Speaker 2: Microsoft Excel and keep track of the accounts in a

473
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Speaker 2: professional manner. And like this whole book is very like

474
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Speaker 2: business y, and she's always been like and this is

475
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Speaker 2: what's important to know, Like you have to use you

476
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Speaker 2: have to use Excel. You have to like start adding

477
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 2: to your list of responsibilities little by little so that

478
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Speaker 2: you can do every piece of your business that you

479
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 2: run and you know, I mean she's not wrong, not wrong.

480
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,679
Speaker 2: It's like she takes all these very specific things that

481
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Speaker 2: happened to her in the Law of the Sea and

482
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 2: like takes like incredibly generic lessons away from them. Like

483
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: the end of every chapter has Captain Sandy's log where

484
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 2: she'll just say things like invest in others. Not only

485
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,479
Speaker 2: is mentoring and important in terms of paying it forward,

486
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 2: but helping others to grow. I help to grow myself,

487
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: my business and my industry. Attitude is everything. You can

488
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 2: boast all the credentials in the world, but if you

489
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 2: allow anxiety and anger to take over, you bring down

490
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Speaker 2: the whole team. It's just like, Okay, this is becoming

491
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 2: like Successories sayings.

492
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Speaker 1: I forgot about success is that amazing?

493
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Speaker 2: It was like always next to Spencer's Gives that's.

494
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Speaker 1: Sold, like all the paintings that are like believe yeah

495
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Speaker 1: that you put in offices. It's also so Successories, which

496
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Speaker 1: I haven't really seen. Another book is like there's like

497
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Speaker 1: ads and we have the hardcover version. There's like ads

498
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Speaker 1: for like other free business books that you're like.

499
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Speaker 3: Okay, books need ads. Throw other folks is a national choir.

500
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 3: You're reading a website this book is a website. The

501
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 3: part where she talks about how while.

502
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 2: She was doing research for the book, Oh yeah, I know,

503
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 2: She's just like I found a really cool infographic. She goes,

504
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 2: while I was researching the subject of leadership for this book,

505
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: I came across a cool infographic by the global software

506
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Speaker 2: company Vlaris Group. It posts the question are you a

507
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 2: boss or a leader? I won't go through the whole

508
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 2: list here, but here are a few contrasting qualities. A

509
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 2: boss is a no at all. A leader's always willing

510
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 2: to listen. Boss is direct leaders coach. So she's I.

511
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Speaker 1: Literally she screamed when she quoted a like an infograph

512
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Speaker 1: an infogras group. It's like, that's the lesbian maritime version,

513
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:45,359
Speaker 1: because lesbians are obviously always posting infographics, being like this

514
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: is why this movie theater is canceled. But her version

515
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Speaker 1: is like, can I quote my favorite business groups in

516
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Speaker 1: photographic Belarus?

517
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Speaker 2: Well, even like all the quotes on the back of

518
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Speaker 2: the book are written by the CEO of Celebrity Cruises,

519
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Speaker 2: the CEO of Quantumer Stabilizers.

520
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: And then Gigi Hernandez, professional tennis player and Olympic gold medalists.

521
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 2: It's kind of just like so.

522
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,240
Speaker 1: Loss, so yeah, it's like I admire her, but like, also,

523
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: did you sleep together? There are definitely some people where

524
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, you guys slept together, but.

525
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: You think she slept with John's wife, fran.

526
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: I don't think so, Ram, But I am just even

527
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: though she's so like, let's keep it professional on deck,

528
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: when she's always just like and I mentored another amazing woman.

529
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: Her name was Bianca, and then I mentored another amazing because.

530
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 2: But the reason she went to so many women is

531
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 2: because there are very few women in the yachti industry.

532
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 2: And every time she's constantly getting flat from a cap

533
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: and so she starts the book out with this really

534
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 2: exciting story, full spy, full spy novel about she's in

535
00:27:48,320 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 2: the Red Sea. She's trying to take this boat to harbor.

536
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 2: She's always just like launching a boat but then having

537
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 2: to like take it to another port even though it

538
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: like just got launched.

539
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: Is confused by where It's like you're picking up the

540
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 1: ode in Key West and you have to bring into Massachusetts,

541
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 1: but you're going to the Bahamas, right, But because.

542
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 2: It's just like boats have to be going places in

543
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: the sea all the time.

544
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Speaker 1: I think that's what stressed me out about it. I

545
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: was like, can we stop for a second.

546
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: I know, like she just anchor, just anchors away for

547
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: one minute. So she's in the Red Sea and like

548
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 2: she comes out of Suez and you know how, and

549
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: she's like, CEO's can so boring? And then you get

550
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 2: into the Red Sea and all of a sudden, like

551
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 2: one of the engine like has like a fire, and

552
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: then they have to like pull into port in like

553
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 2: a yea many military port and then like get boarded

554
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: by many like military mercenaries. And then like her head

555
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 2: of security tells her to hide in a closet because

556
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 2: they're just like they might rape the women. So like

557
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 2: you and all of the Australian girls like get in

558
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: the closet and she says no, and then he's like no,

559
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: you need you actually have to.

560
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: And she was like what I thought of it? So

561
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: when Kathy Griffin talks about going in Afghanistan, oh, and

562
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: she's like look at this face. This look at American face,

563
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 1: usay and it's being so like America proud. She here,

564
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 1: this is freedom right here. Okay, this woman.

565
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 2: That's right. I will not cover my head.

566
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: And then Sandy is like, okay, for the safety of

567
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: my boat, the passages.

568
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: And my crew and the souls on board.

569
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Speaker 1: The souls on board, I will hide.

570
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: Because she's always radioing like the local colostcord, being like

571
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 2: I've got seventeen souls on board.

572
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: Communication is so important.

573
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Speaker 2: That's another lesson that I learned from this book is

574
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Speaker 2: that communication really matt.

575
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: And also always call insurance, and this will be useful

576
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 1: in everyone's life.

577
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: Always call call your boat insurer before you even call

578
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 2: the owner of the boat. If something goes wrong, just

579
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Speaker 2: call the insurance.

580
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: He like, look the anchors on. But she's in this

581
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: crazy scenario where it's like then, also like they're going

582
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: to so many different military ports and like there's guys

583
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 1: with AK forty seven's on the boat and I'm like, yeah, damn.

584
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, Yemen is a war zone and you

585
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: know they've been in alwer for quite some time.

586
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: But that's why I'm like, get.

587
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 2: All the pirates. Well, but you she got to where

588
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 2: the money is and the owners in Dubai. So this

589
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: is an interesting thing. So I was looking at the

590
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Speaker 2: list of all the superochts, the biggest superyachts in the world, oh.

591
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: Wikipedia, Oh, okay, a superyacht list.

592
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 2: The owners of every boat. It's like Arab Arab, Russian, Russian, Russian,

593
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: Arab Russian Ussian. It's like everyone it's just all oil money.

594
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: And then it's like David Geffen.

595
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Speaker 1: And then it's okay, guys.

596
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 2: But I was but I was talking to friend of

597
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: the Pod Dan Areta about this last night.

598
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: I was talking to a friend of the pod and

599
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: fellow yacht.

600
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Speaker 2: Fellow owner Dan al Gretto about the ownership of all

601
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 2: the superyachts and he was just like, oh, it's sex trafficking.

602
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, of course. The sea, well,

603
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 2: the seat. All of these oil barons and like sultans

604
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: and Russian oligarchs are just like out in the middle

605
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 2: of the ocean with their sex slaves on their superyachts.

606
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Speaker 1: And you're not drinking with the primary base.

607
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 2: You're certainly not. And also I'm sure that's why David Geffen,

608
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: yeah for good and he's got all his little boy

609
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 2: toys toys in the water.

610
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: Okay, because on below deck, like here's like how a

611
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 1: day goes like no matter how like wasted, you get

612
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: like in a really awkward way where it's like always

613
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: four people and then like the hot deck and like

614
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: has to kind of like dance sober with the like primary.

615
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 2: But they still have their like microphone on and.

616
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: They're making them. They're making so many espresso martinis and

617
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: it's just like I want to throw up watching below

618
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: Deck constantly because I'm just imagining how nauseous I would be.

619
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: And then they're always having the lobster and respresso martini's

620
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 1: is the boat like shakes, and.

621
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 2: Then it's like you have to stay up and clean

622
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: after they're done with their sis Martins. And they're all

623
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 2: just like fifty six year old, like everyone is always

624
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 2: fifty and they all look like Jeff Bezo's wife. And

625
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: they're also like kind of like snatch thick.

626
00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: Snatched, like like tan I'm like wearing sexy clothes like.

627
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 2: Sody Amazon caftans, and then they're stumbling in to their

628
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 2: suite and then you have to like get up before

629
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: they do it. Eke weird eggs and make weird eggs

630
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,480
Speaker 2: and like have their like hangover Corpse Revivor but most

631
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: coffee ready to go.

632
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 1: Oh, and then they do like maybe a hot up

633
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: and then it's toys on the water. Yeah, Sandi is,

634
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: so she's so jet ski, like that's her need for

635
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: speed and that's why she's so lesbian, being like, oh,

636
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: I love driving Ferraris and.

637
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: I love what's lesbian about is the rules thing. It's

638
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 2: like she's such a park ranger. But then it's like

639
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 2: the need for speed.

640
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: Isn't that so lesbian? And like motocross and just like

641
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: she drives a.

642
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 2: Gee, well yeah, motocross, but like fast cars I feel

643
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 2: like are not for lesbian, but we're straight. I mean, yeah,

644
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 2: that's classically just like so like guy with a small

645
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 2: dick syndrome.

646
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: But don't you think it's also lesbian with huge oakles

647
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: being like I love to drive fast because she's sober,

648
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 1: so she needs that outlet.

649
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: No, I mean I get that she is. I guess.

650
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 2: I just I feel like that is more of anomally though,

651
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 2: don't you huh? I mean, how many lesbians do you

652
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 2: know who are so my car collection?

653
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not in that economic packet where I feel

654
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: like some of the people in the real l word

655
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: are a little more like my car collection, like Rosa,

656
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: that real estate agent. If we were in Okay, I.

657
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: Love the heady debates that we got how do you know.

658
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 1: I mean, these are the intellectual debates. I mean, we

659
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: always talked about everything at the dinner table. That's what

660
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: my parents taught me. Okay, talk about everything.

661
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 2: Everything, Everything is on the table at the table. Okay. Basically, basically,

662
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 2: she likes to go fast. I was gonna say, I

663
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 2: do feel like her toys in the water obsession is

664
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 2: like she's too lesbian Park Granger about that, where it's

665
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: like every episode she's yelling at the crew to get

666
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: toys in the water, like whether or not the guests

667
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,280
Speaker 2: want to use like the inflatable slide, or like they

668
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: have to be in the water at seven am, and

669
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 2: it's kind of just like do this, and it's.

670
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: Always kind of storming. You know why I think she

671
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: does it is to give deck crew a break so

672
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: they can clean up and not be making a thousand

673
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,800
Speaker 1: espresso martinis. Get them on the jet skis, get toys

674
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: of the water, give the staff time to reset.

675
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: Well, I guess, but it's the deckies who do the

676
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 2: toys in the water, stews, and the stews are the

677
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 2: ones making their drinks labor.

678
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 1: Okay, true, I'm just saying like, let's get the guess

679
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,880
Speaker 1: off the boat for a second.

680
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 2: Well, okay, you're one hundred pcent right, it's about getting

681
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 2: the guests off the boat. But I guess I'm just

682
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 2: thinking if I am a guest, Okay, I don't necessarily

683
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,720
Speaker 2: want to wake up to a huge inflatable slide every morning.

684
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: Like that's like not she I.

685
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 1: Say, like never, I never want to go to yacht.

686
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: It's just like nauseous lobster and now you have to

687
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 1: go in a slide and then like you're like begging

688
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 1: for gross eggs.

689
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,200
Speaker 2: No, I mean it's hell.

690
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 1: And then there's this moment where like she's like, we

691
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: have to give guests whatever they want, and sometimes people

692
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: take it too far. And that's when I do step in.

693
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: You can be like off the coast of Croatian someone's

694
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: like I need my hair done.

695
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: Yeah this coaffor chauffeur.

696
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 1: Pretty ridiculous thing happened where this one want her hair

697
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: done for Newear's eve.

698
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: This story is so like it's such a dad humor,

699
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 2: Like yeah, it's the kind of thing that like dads

700
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,360
Speaker 2: email each other. It's that kind of joke story, like

701
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: you're not going to believe what happens. It's forward from

702
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: an AOL account, like they're in Caribeine or something, and

703
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 2: so like one of her decies is trying to like

704
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 2: get this hairstylist and are on a French speaking island

705
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: of San martin In and it's New.

706
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:36,759
Speaker 1: Year's Caribbe and everyone of course is on a yawn.

707
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: Everyone wants their hair done. So he looks for a

708
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: local stylist, but they don't have each other's numbers. So

709
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: he's looking on the crowded deck for stylism and sees

710
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 1: a guy who recognized on the dock. On the dock

711
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: who recognizes the boat name brings some on. It turns

712
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,480
Speaker 1: out he's not an hairdresser. He's a chauffeur.

713
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 2: Because he looked up the word for he thought he

714
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 2: was looking at a coffur, but he actually got a

715
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 2: chauffeur because those words in French are says some. Isn't that?

716
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: How hilarious is Sandy being like? And then we did

717
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: have to spend six hundred dollars like extra to cover

718
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 1: his time even though he wanted to park, and that's

719
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: on him and you're like, Sandy.

720
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: No, And then she goes on about how she made

721
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 2: her like decy barter down the number, like over the

722
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 2: course of three days, like on the phone with the driver,

723
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 2: like getting the number down to a thousand dollars from

724
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: tho thousand. But then she still made him foot it

725
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: the deck, like she made her like staff eat the

726
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 2: cost because it was his mistake and that was a

727
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 2: learning lesson for him. I'm like, Okay, you're being a

728
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: little bit like too mean right now.

729
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 1: I mean, that's very my old cleaning boss when I

730
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 1: would do a bad cleaning job and I would have

731
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: to go redo the clean for free if the person

732
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 1: was unhappy.

733
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 2: Wow, but she should eat that cost, not you, because

734
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 2: that's her company. Her company, You ate the cost.

735
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: I literally like ate the time, which is basically I

736
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: gave him another free clean to redo my mistakes.

737
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: Wow.

738
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that did that happen? That just happened I

739
00:36:58,160 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 1: think around two times.

740
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: And did you learn your lesson from that and become

741
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 2: a much better maid?

742
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 1: I became a much better maid, But I think more

743
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: what I learned was self respect for myself and to

744
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: say I'm.

745
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 2: Not going to say now, the power of no no.

746
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 2: That's definitely another lesson in this book, I think.

747
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Because there are times when she's like, yes, I

748
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,359
Speaker 1: will take so much responsibility. But she walks away from

749
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: John Flynn.

750
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 2: Because she has a better opportunity. And then she also

751
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 2: has that dick guy who like doesn't really care about

752
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,040
Speaker 2: her safety, her safety in the boat. He's always like

753
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: asking her to come through a storm to like dock

754
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 2: the but too quickly and that doesn't care on like

755
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 2: the engines are overrun or whatever. And then they get

756
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: caught in this really bad storm and like two of

757
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 2: the tenders like get lost basically in the storm. And

758
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 2: she's like and you know what, and I'm gonna give

759
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 2: you my letter of resignation.

760
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, that's what I expect.

761
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 2: And she's just like and she's like on a safe fine,

762
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 2: like I like, fuck you. I only stayed on this

763
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:53,319
Speaker 2: for a year because I care about my.

764
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: My crew and the Soul's aboard. Though she would never

765
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: say fuck you, no, of course, of course not. Though

766
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: there was a time when her mentor John Flynn, he

767
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 1: didn't get it and she was like, I need to sleep,

768
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: and he was like, I want to see the stars,

769
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: and he didn't understand that to even see the stars,

770
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 1: she would have to go eight hundred miles halfway to

771
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: the Bahamas to see stars.

772
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: Wait with that the guy when he pointed on the map.

773
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,320
Speaker 1: So that was a thing of difference.

774
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 2: You keep calling out John Flynn as being toxic, but

775
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,800
Speaker 2: he's not toxic. But there was a really important mentor John.

776
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: He learned his lessons. Then they had like coffee and

777
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: he was like, I'll pay for you to go to

778
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: Key West to like and relax. And he apologize and

779
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: she was like, I don't want your money. I want

780
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: you to understand that I'm not a machine. Yes, and

781
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: it's about that important communication. But there is a guy,

782
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: another guy who points on the map and it's like, well,

783
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: it's an inch on a map, and it's like even

784
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: I understand the map.

785
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 2: Even gets the concept of scale on a map.

786
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, so maps are going to get ahead, be like

787
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 1: smaller than the actual world. Man, where do you live?

788
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: Can I just read to circle back with just some love?

789
00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,760
Speaker 1: How she met her gospel wife? Yes, please give me grace.

790
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:03,520
Speaker 1: I believe God has a way of preparing you for

791
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: the one he knew. I wasn't ready for her all

792
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: those years ago, and she wasn't ready for me. We

793
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:12,399
Speaker 1: were both being prepared for each other. God waited for us.

794
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 1: He gave me opportunities to make choices and be more conscious.

795
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: So that was when that sweet little Facebook message came

796
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: across my page. I was open. Leah, the woman who

797
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: would later become my life partner, had just caught the

798
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 1: first season below deck Bed and sent me these simple words,

799
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:35,960
Speaker 1: congrats on the show. Many blessings, so hot, so hot.

800
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: That last part caught my eye. It's like, it's a

801
00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: pretty sure message. I had just been thinking, yeah, it's

802
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 1: like many blessings, like click this link. She's like ooh.

803
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: Then Leah had sent me a link to her music,

804
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 1: and her voice gave me chills. She was also gorgeous.

805
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: I decided to invite her to perform on my I

806
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: Believe tour blah blah blah. That same month, I have

807
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 1: flew Leah to Los Angeles to meet her in person.

808
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: It was love at first sight. We hugged and we've

809
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: been together ever since. By twenty nineteen, we were living

810
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: together her home in Denver, which we watched the Denver

811
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: House Tour.

812
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 2: Her very small house which we'll get to and how

813
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: does she live? Yeah, okay, back to her sexuality. Did

814
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 2: you clock that she knew she was butcher? At five

815
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:26,320
Speaker 2: very you.

816
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: Wait, when she was like playing boats or something like.

817
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: That, she was like, there was this one cutie with

818
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,439
Speaker 2: long curly hair who I hugged and held hands with,

819
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,839
Speaker 2: pouring all the affection of my five year old being

820
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 2: onto her. Of course it was innocent, but there was

821
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: no doubt that my feelings were romantic and that I

822
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 2: was the prince to her princess.

823
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: Oh wait, obsessed, I forgot about that. It's also she

824
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 1: is so gay that this book is very like me.

825
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,440
Speaker 1: She's also god and so like sexuality. Who cares?

826
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 2: Number seven, number nine, number nine?

827
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 1: I really she's just like I'm a captain first.

828
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's really no coming out story in here, which

829
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 2: I'm like kind of surprised because it's such a like

830
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 2: leadership lessons book that I feel like that could have

831
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 2: been maybe a lesson and.

832
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: Addiction because she's like, in her whole mass dealing caring.

833
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 2: She sent herself to be a good leader or something,

834
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

835
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 1: Hooking up because drugs robviously kind of distracting her from Yeah,

836
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,439
Speaker 1: but she didn't even do that thing where she's like, oh,

837
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't come out, so I turned to drugs.

838
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, she kind of just doesn't mention that. I mean,

839
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: she has been so Christian. I mean when she talks

840
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 2: the whole thing about all of her playmates, she goes,

841
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 2: Randy Gold is my other playmate, that platonic friend on

842
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: speed dial. It's like we've all got that a friend

843
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,280
Speaker 2: on speed dials. Like why are you specifying platonic?

844
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 1: Well, because Jen her playmate who she met on the doctors.

845
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 2: That made me think maybe she is Polly.

846
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: Now she doesn't say platonic.

847
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 2: Maybe that Denver condo is a rockn.

848
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: That's why I was wanting to see life. It's an

849
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 1: alternative lifestyle. Okay, you're not home every night to watch American.

850
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:58,279
Speaker 2: Idol, certainly not. And maybe Layah is doing something else

851
00:41:58,320 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 2: on her knees other than praying.

852
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: But it's crazy because I feel like there's so my

853
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: life partner, Like do you imagine like Lea maybe has

854
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 1: another Christian male lover from their church.

855
00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: Group, and Lea so by church by I don't know

856
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: about that. It seems like maybe that's not happening. Okay.

857
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: Another thing I want to talk about is the phrase

858
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 2: showing up, which they say constantly on the Ultimately that's

859
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 2: so ultimating constant book.

860
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 1: And lesbian terminology to show.

861
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: In the past few years, lesbians have really adopted showing up.

862
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 1: Like mal which we'll get into the VIP lounge just always,

863
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 1: just like I'm showing up for you every single day.

864
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just the most broad term, I.

865
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 1: Think, because it's like lesbians need like a new phrase

866
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: for just like being together.

867
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something and make it more powerful. Christian and

868
00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 2: Leadership conference about.

869
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, showing up to the conference. Show up for yourself, right,

870
00:42:58,880 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: journal meditate.

871
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 2: I actually had a question I wanted to ask you.

872
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh, that's funny, I'll show up and listen.

873
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:05,719
Speaker 2: Who are you mentoring?

874
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 1: I have mentored in the past, Right, you don't currently

875
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,919
Speaker 1: have a mentor, but I currently feel like I don't

876
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 1: have a mentee. I'm menteeless.

877
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 2: Who are your past mentors?

878
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: Well, I felt like when I did my career Art

879
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: of Improv class, I kind of felt like there were

880
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: some people who were around like four years younger than me. Yeah,

881
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: and I felt mentor esque.

882
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

883
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 1: Some may call that teaching.

884
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: But you know, call it literally you were teaching a class,

885
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 2: which is but yeah, I.

886
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 1: Feel like menteeless. Do you feel like, well, it's interesting,

887
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: I have a mentor.

888
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 2: A younger gay writer, a Spanish fellow oh based in London,

889
00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 2: reached out to me recently saying he wanted to interview

890
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: for his thesis project or something. And we had a

891
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,440
Speaker 2: nice chat and he was really just a nice up

892
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: and coming young man and he was a huge fan

893
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 2: of my work, which I think is so brave of him.

894
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:56,439
Speaker 1: That's really brave.

895
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: But so I did email the matter. I was like,

896
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 2: thank you, like great talking to you, and was like

897
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: giving advice on writing all this kind of stuff. And

898
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: then I was like, you know, if you ever want

899
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 2: me to read anything you've written, like, feel free to

900
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 2: send in my way. And he has a respond to that.

901
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 1: So you kind of have a mentor incoming.

902
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm kind of trying to be a mentor.

903
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 1: But this was just last week.

904
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:16,440
Speaker 2: It was like maybe two weeks ago.

905
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 1: Hey, bumping this you want me to read?

906
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 2: Really looking to mentor someone? So if you kind of

907
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:24,959
Speaker 2: wanted to fill that role, like now me the time,

908
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 2: I'll bump in a month.

909
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 1: So I guess what we're saying is we're both out

910
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 1: here looking to ment looking to ment I guess my

911
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: other question for you is what's your route You're you're

912
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,240
Speaker 1: super yawning. Where are you going?

913
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god. The thing is I love the Mediterranean,

914
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,920
Speaker 2: but the notorious piracy.

915
00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 1: It's crazy that pirates are like still real, like yeah,

916
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh okay, like Caribbean.

917
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 2: It's fully real. I think that the notorious like unpredictability

918
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 2: of the sea in the Mediterranean makes me very nervous,

919
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: like I really hate the idea of and it's one of

920
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: my least favorite things.

921
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: Have you done it well?

922
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 2: I feel like I had an air death experience.

923
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: When you tumbled in Nantucky.

924
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, like a few summers ago. And I've been a

925
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: little bit of afraid of the water.

926
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 1: You actually, I have been very afraid of the water

927
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: ever since I've seen you be afraid and I want

928
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 1: to mentor you.

929
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 2: And that's what trauma does. It changes the brain. And

930
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: if you read the Body keeps the Score, you'll learn

931
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: about this. But so I think I would be more

932
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 2: Caribbean based where this caees are typically calm. I mean

933
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 2: maybe my route is honestly just going back and forth

934
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 2: across the Panama Canal because you know, I love shipping

935
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,600
Speaker 2: and logistics.

936
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:34,400
Speaker 1: Right, But that sounds like you're getting in a hold

937
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: because like.

938
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:40,240
Speaker 2: You are interested and you're in a hold. Hmmm, Okay,

939
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 2: I'm just like going from Nevas to Saint Martin and

940
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 2: then like back to Nevas, back to Nevas, back to

941
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 2: the four Seasons from my parents' vacation in the nineties.

942
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: Oh, and didn't they go back there and it just

943
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: wasn't right?

944
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was kind of off.

945
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: Something was off.

946
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 2: I mean, we can never recapture the glory that hotel.

947
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: The nineties in the Night Navas absolutely not.

948
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 2: I can't imagine how fab I mean, no Grand Hotel

949
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: is Fabin anymore. And it's like even the four seasons

950
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 2: that they shoot the White Lotuses. At both seasons they

951
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,240
Speaker 2: had to like totally redo the interiors for the show

952
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:17,240
Speaker 2: because the interiors are like so bland.

953
00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure the Rits like Sichilia is like not popping

954
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: and what like. They had to make it like so fab.

955
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:27,560
Speaker 2: And tile and like, yeah, what's your route?

956
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 1: I think I would do Keys Bahamas okay again, like

957
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: keep it little little northern. I want to go to

958
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:37,439
Speaker 1: the Keys. I just don't want to be too far

959
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: from shore.

960
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 2: I I want to see the shore.

961
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 1: Quite frankly, I want to be on the beach.

962
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 2: I also want to go on Armani's yacht like for

963
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 2: the day day Now.

964
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: We're day yachters. Yes, I am not trying to do overnight.

965
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: I want to do Armani's yacht a Mulfi coast. Yeah,

966
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 1: bring me back home.

967
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 2: But I'm not going to Gibraltar on like a one

968
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 2: week trip. It's horrifying.

969
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do buye to key West.

970
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 4: Certainly, Lessons and segments from the woman at the helm.

971
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:17,439
Speaker 1: How does she live?

972
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:18,359
Speaker 2: What does she wear?

973
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: What does she eat?

974
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 2: What does she eats?

975
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: Okay, very I think she's like Denver salads up the

976
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: Who and Marina Pasta's and like Hilton surf and turf.

977
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean all her diet is extremely Hilton.

978
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,840
Speaker 1: And I mean mostly she's having a crew.

979
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: Food when she's at home at the condo. Like I

980
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 2: think Leah is like I mean bison tacos, absolutely and

981
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 2: tacos and there's like no side, Like it's just like

982
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: the two tacos on like a white flower tortilla.

983
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: You don't think it's like three slices of carrot and

984
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: three broccoli. I think Leyah is like making like a

985
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,240
Speaker 1: little bit of a field green salad.

986
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,439
Speaker 2: I don't think she making a field green salad maybe

987
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 2: inside of broccoli.

988
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 1: Broccoli, just like a box of salad cranberry.

989
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 2: And then Sandy's like, oh, Leah, this is delicious.

990
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 1: You've got yourself.

991
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 2: What did you do? And then Leah's like, I put

992
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 2: some red pepper flakes on it.

993
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 1: Oh, Leah's not doing red pepper flakes. Red peppers.

994
00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: Yes, No, She's like not even doing red pepper flakes. Okay,

995
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,359
Speaker 2: she hasn't heard about that yet.

996
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, what does she wear when she's not in her whites?

997
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 2: Just like the most normal like Target yoga. I mean,

998
00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:34,720
Speaker 2: she's so TJ max departments.

999
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,240
Speaker 1: Also my eyes when we that page, I like TJ

1000
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,439
Speaker 1: MAXX stood out to me and I was like, rush

1001
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 1: to the TJ max parks. She instantly goes to TJ

1002
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:50,319
Speaker 1: max to get huge duffels to carry new propellers.

1003
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:54,680
Speaker 2: That's just like buying Fort Lauderdale because that's the supplier

1004
00:48:54,719 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 2: that she trusts, and like she.

1005
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: Doesn't want them getting caught it customs. And if you

1006
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: fly first class, they're not going to bother you with

1007
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,439
Speaker 1: your big duffels, which is.

1008
00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 2: A hot tip I guess if you're trying to smugle

1009
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 2: just fly first class.

1010
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's all athletic wear. And then I feel like

1011
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 1: she is like in a tropical bikini, Like is dressing feminine,

1012
00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: like a weird top with Leah and it's just so

1013
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,399
Speaker 1: shoulders and very yep.

1014
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 2: I think she's one piece. I don't think she's a bikini.

1015
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: I saw a photo of her in a bikini. Huge,

1016
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: but it's like supportive.

1017
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, all right, I sent correct. I mean you

1018
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,919
Speaker 2: got to support the tenders.

1019
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: How does she live? So we'll post this apartment.

1020
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 2: Tour, the saddest, smallest, one bedroom. It's scary and it's

1021
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 2: got a beautiful view. I've done for but there's nothing. Okay.

1022
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:45,960
Speaker 2: The tables, a trading desk with like seven PC monitors.

1023
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 1: She was this is where I day trade, and then

1024
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:52,439
Speaker 1: and then it's like white couch, then ring a light

1025
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 1: and then a full DJ set up.

1026
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 2: Cool? Is that demented? She's an insane person.

1027
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: Maybe it's very trump dy jagon bar alongo, I guess.

1028
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 2: But I was like you're said, she's doing like a

1029
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 2: live twitch. There's Leah getting into like Christian d Change.

1030
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm spinning my favorite track by Both of.

1031
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 2: Their pelotons are in there. And there's like one successories

1032
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 2: frame to poster on the wall. It is so obviously.

1033
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: They're always eating their bison tacos like at the counter

1034
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:32,160
Speaker 1: and high chairs. Absolutely, and then the bedrooms just like

1035
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: Leah's spinning some awesome eat I'm Kristen track and Sandy's

1036
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: sitting down on the white couch with her bison taco

1037
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: being like, oh yeah, yeah, probably, I feel like so talented.

1038
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: That's the to go dead for salad. And Leah's like,

1039
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 1: don't get it on the couch.

1040
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 2: And Sandy's like, I've worked extremely hard to afford this

1041
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 2: couch and I'll make a mess on it if I

1042
00:50:57,800 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 2: want to.

1043
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:02,320
Speaker 1: It's also has wick Away fabric, so it doesn't stain

1044
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 1: who are you in the book? I think I'm this.

1045
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: I think she's British. This deckcan name ifa who's like Irish.

1046
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: It was like this wild Irish British deckcand She's always

1047
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: like she's like the Tasmanian devil. But it is like

1048
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: really good with guests, and guests don't see howly fucking

1049
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 1: crazy and like she gets the job done, she gets

1050
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: it done messily.

1051
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 2: No, that's so true. Your ADHD brain is crazy. I

1052
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:34,800
Speaker 2: mean I remember the one time I hired you to

1053
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 2: clean my apartment and I was just looking at some

1054
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,400
Speaker 2: of the like little areas you did, just being like,

1055
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 2: what is going on in her little brain? Just the

1056
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,360
Speaker 2: way that you would arrange some of the items on

1057
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:49,240
Speaker 2: it shelf. I was like, I would have never occurred

1058
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:53,520
Speaker 2: to me, you like sunglasses and pens like go on

1059
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,800
Speaker 2: top of the sticky notes. Like you're like what, I

1060
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 2: don't know.

1061
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: Look, some design is crazy, no.

1062
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: And I home design is insane. Like I think that's

1063
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,760
Speaker 2: why you're a genius, and like I love your apartment. Yeah,

1064
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: I think that I am. I do remember this one

1065
00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 2: charter guess on the show this is not in the book,

1066
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 2: who like they get really specific about like a tequila

1067
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 2: brand and they like make them fly it in and

1068
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 2: then like it's still not the right brand.

1069
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:21,959
Speaker 1: I was about to say, like you're not being like, oh,

1070
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm such a ridiculous guest that like we're in the

1071
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: smallest town off the Maldives and I need Monkey, but

1072
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 1: I think you're a little bit closer to Shore asking

1073
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: for Monkey.

1074
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of being like, well, we're paying three hundred

1075
00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 2: thousand dollars very.

1076
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: You at Friend of the Pod Alex's parents when we

1077
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 1: went out to dinner with them, and you convinced them

1078
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: it's okay to send backline and it was And that

1079
00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 1: was a mentoring moment.

1080
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: And I was also menteing myself, and it was very sandy.

1081
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: When she gives Amalia the chance.

1082
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: Go above your pay grade to dock.

1083
00:52:57,800 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 2: The boat and like sets around the bridge and it's

1084
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 2: just like you isn't part of her job description. She

1085
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 2: knows that this is going to like scare her but

1086
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 2: also encourage her to like develop her skills and like

1087
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 2: putting her in the hot seat actually like lit a

1088
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,960
Speaker 2: fire under her. And I think I lit a fire

1089
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:16,399
Speaker 2: under us all when I sent that wine back.

1090
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: Yes, I learned about wine.

1091
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I.

1092
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:19,720
Speaker 1: Was just saying the staff.

1093
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 2: All my instincts told me was like this is wrong,

1094
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 2: Like we don't even have amla, like one star restaurant

1095
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 2: should have a song.

1096
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,839
Speaker 1: Listen to your gut. She also says, and look at

1097
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 1: your surroundings. That's what they teach in the.

1098
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 2: CIA, and that came very useful when she was in

1099
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 2: the Red Sea, yes, escaping pirates and the many military.

1100
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,879
Speaker 1: So God, it's kind of so crazy to rate this

1101
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 1: book because on one side, I feel like it led

1102
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: to such a joyful conversation.

1103
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 2: It really did. I had such such a.

1104
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 1: Great time on c and it's so fun to learn

1105
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: these moments about, you know, meeting a sexy playmate on

1106
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 1: the set of the Doctors or having a heart attack

1107
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: and so cycle. The beginning of the book was a

1108
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: little hard for me personally to really get into.

1109
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,080
Speaker 2: Not because it was triggering, not because it.

1110
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: Was triggering, but while actually no, this was a nausea

1111
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 1: boat triggering.

1112
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,440
Speaker 2: That part of triggering, I guess I'll say all the

1113
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,240
Speaker 2: like staples leadership, generic advice part like to me is boring.

1114
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 2: But I still am going to give this book three

1115
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 2: point nine extremely overcooked steaks, yeah, with the balsamic glaze

1116
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 2: like this, because because she actually does give you a

1117
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 2: ton of like specific stories that are kind of interesting.

1118
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: No, that's crazy stuff that happens.

1119
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 2: There's a lot of crazy stuff that happened.

1120
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 1: And there is stuff that if I was a captain

1121
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: or if I was the deckhand, I would just be

1122
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: like coast guards.

1123
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 2: The waters that like that sea tornado that comes up,

1124
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 2: and she literally is like, I think this is it.

1125
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna die. She calls her sister to give her

1126
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 2: her final coordinates to aid with search and rescue so

1127
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:51,560
Speaker 2: they can find the bodies.

1128
00:54:51,719 --> 00:54:54,320
Speaker 1: And then she says, while that's happening, though, they're still

1129
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: filling up the passengers glasses of champagne because you never

1130
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,040
Speaker 1: let them know as.

1131
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 2: Well when the boat was in a tornado, I think

1132
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 2: everyone knew it.

1133
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: Was, but she's still just saying, and we were keeping

1134
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 1: them happening. It was toys in the water. So yeah, no,

1135
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I'm high threes three point eight, three

1136
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: point nine.

1137
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 2: Hi threes, Hi Captain Sandy.

1138
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're going to learn a lot and

1139
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: learn how to.

1140
00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 2: Lead and to everyone out there. If you don't have

1141
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 2: a mentee, find one and part your skills. And if

1142
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 2: you're a young person in your industry, seek out a

1143
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: mentor because they will really help you develop.

1144
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: We will see you, guys out on the waters this summer.

1145
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 1: Be safe.

1146
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 2: We will see you within view of land. Best Best

1147
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 2: Celebrity Book Club is a highly successful international yachting crew

1148
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:49,000
Speaker 2: agency produced and edited by Darby Masters, who also brokeered

1149
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 2: the sale of Doc Walk, an incredible magazine about yachting.

1150
00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:56,960
Speaker 2: Our supervising producer, who is also The editor of the

1151
00:55:57,080 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 2: Crew Report is Abu Zafar, and executive producer who has

1152
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 2: worked with billionaire CEOs and investment bankers and environmental scientists

1153
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 2: is Christina Everett. Teddy Blanks did our graphic design Wall

1154
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 2: on a three weeks sojourn on an eighty foot yacht.

1155
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 2: Stephen Colip's Horst produced the music on a seventy five

1156
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 2: foot or on a Hatteras that's actually a decommissioned vessel.

1157
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:28,240
Speaker 2: It was docked in the slip when he did the production,

1158
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 2: but the vessel has since been rehomed and the show

1159
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:35,359
Speaker 2: was originally created by Prologue Projects, also on a now

1160
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,720
Speaker 2: decommissioned vessel in Dumbo, which is one of my least

1161
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 2: favorite marinas in New York. I'll say it just in

1162
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 2: terms of the amount of slips they have and just

1163
00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 2: logistically it's very difficult to get in and out of

1164
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 2: that marina. Thank you so much for listening, and please

1165
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:52,879
Speaker 2: be safe on the water.