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Speaker 1: Second date up date. Normally, when we do these second

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Speaker 1: and they're disappointed the other person isn't responding. But one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners, Bo says he wants to reconnect with

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Speaker 1: to in almost two years. WHOA, So this is probably

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Speaker 1: going to be interesting. I'm curious to know what the

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Speaker 1: story is. Yeh, Bo, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Now, Okay, I understand playing hard to get, but two

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Speaker 3: So you guys wait two days to call, I wait

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Speaker 3: two years?

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Speaker 1: Why wait that long to reach out?

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Speaker 2: Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico

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Speaker 2: was there with a friend. I was there with a

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Speaker 4: Yeah, party party town.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, party city, lots of booze, all that sort of stuff.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is already a lot different than a

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So we go into this one bar and I

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Speaker 2: I like that because I wasn't going too hard either.

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Speaker 2: That's not so much my scene.

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, so they were entering the wet t shirt contest,

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Speaker 2: They were having a cocktail, they were being chill, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, and Jeff so bored right now, Well, now someone

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point too. So did you go

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down. Let's

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Speaker 2: start talking to the girl that I think is really cute, Shila. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we sort of bonded over that we were both

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.

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Speaker 2: So we talk, you know, we learn like where we're

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Speaker 2: And it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.

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Speaker 3: Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?

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Speaker 4: I mean, are we going to try to get a

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Speaker 2: She's from a different state. She's from a different state.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, interesting, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I was thinking. I was just

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool, very sober way to ask somebody out

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Speaker 4: Well, it's not very forward.

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Speaker 3: would just think hook up, right, Like, that's what I say.

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Speaker 1: I thought the story was not like a lunch date

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Speaker 1: the following you say, here's my room number. That yes,

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Speaker 2: Ways say good night? Middle of the night, he called my.

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Speaker 4: Room yeah, exactly what you were hoping for, being.

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Speaker 2: Honest, Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way.

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Speaker 2: So she called in the room. She is freaking out.

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Speaker 2: He tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I get dressed, I go to her room.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just gonna go back to bed.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get

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Speaker 4: That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.

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Speaker 4: One dude against a group of men, like, you're not

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Speaker 1: One of the most romantic things you could do is

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Speaker 2: Well, no bones were broken. There were there were like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was super weird. So I go down and

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Speaker 4: Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk to.

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Speaker 2: Her she was, yeah, you know, she of course heard

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Speaker 2: She did, and then we ended up making out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you did, You're a hero.

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Speaker 2: It was a good makeout session. But that's it. That's

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's cute.

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Speaker 2: So I got her number and that was it. But

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Speaker 2: the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of

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Speaker 2: And I called her one time after I got back

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Speaker 4: Are you sure she was single?

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Speaker 3: You know, like she got wrapped up in the moment

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Speaker 1: That happened on Brooks last Mexican and my.

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Speaker 4: Husband was with me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, awkward.

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Speaker 4: Did you ask her if she was single?

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Speaker 2: Well no, no, I just sort of assumed if she wasn't,

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Speaker 3: Its two years now, so even if she got single,

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Speaker 1: And I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they have a different rules.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken

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Speaker 4: Yeah, how are we even going to say, like Nick

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Speaker 1: Well, well yeah, his name's Bo, so that would help.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she also had a Nick in Cabo. Maybe that's

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Speaker 1: Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the

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Speaker 1: one that Brooke made out with on her family baking.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, okay, you know, look, I know it's a long shot.

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Speaker 4: So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember.

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Speaker 4: I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: it wasn't like that.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't crazy like that.

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Speaker 1: No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine. So

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Speaker 1: we're gonna come back. We'll call Sheila and try and

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Speaker 1: get you your second date update two years after you

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Speaker 1: last saw her, right after this, she's still in right now,

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Speaker 1: hold on second date update. For most young single people,

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Speaker 1: a trip to Cabo is all about to keep the

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Speaker 4: The beach, right, Yeah, but I have my passport to that.

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Speaker 1: It's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.

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Speaker 1: But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The

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Speaker 1: only thing stolen from him was his heart when he

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Speaker 3: Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just

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Speaker 1: Even still, that's shocking, and Bo has thought about her

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Speaker 1: ever since that trip has never been able to reach her.

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Speaker 1: That's why he wants us to try and do it

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Speaker 1: for him today.

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Speaker 4: I don't know that we asked what motivated you to

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Speaker 2: I you know, I just had a birthday, and I went,

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Speaker 2: I'm not getting any younger.

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Speaker 1: Tell her that desperation us all at some point. Okay,

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Speaker 4: You have yet.

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Speaker 1: And a still of your hair or whatever it is? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: You haven't talked to her in two years.

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Speaker 4: And don't be insulted if she doesn't remember who you are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Brooke doesn't even remember who you are. And we

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Speaker 4: So his name is is right, I'm strong and strappy,

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Speaker 4: and it is what he told us. Remember, he's a

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Speaker 4: hero that took on four to five men.

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Speaker 1: It's a little much, but I like it. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing Shila right now.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, we're looking for Shilah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is she.

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Speaker 1: It's okay. You don't have to be afraid.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird

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Speaker 1: Get We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Shila, Hey, oh this again.

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Speaker 1: I can do that. We have to get there first,

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Speaker 1: So I'm really sorry to interrupt you whatever you're doing, Sheila,

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Speaker 1: but we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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Speaker 1: with a segment called second Date Update. Okay, okay, and

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Speaker 1: this is a guy that you met two years ago

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Speaker 1: on a trip to Mexico.

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Speaker 4: While she says, wow, yeah, you were in Cabo.

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Speaker 5: Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Oh

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Speaker 5: oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Oh so there's this guy named Bo that you hung

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: He's a guy who rescued you from all those men

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Speaker 3: pounding on your door, which I can't believe would be

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Speaker 5: Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.

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Speaker 5: I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's okay.

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Speaker 3: Well now you're thinking about him now, and he sun

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Speaker 3: You sound happy that the memory.

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Speaker 5: Kind of, but like, so much has happened since then.

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Speaker 1: Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered Bo,

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Speaker 5: Right right, Yeah, But like back then, everything was so complicated.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we knew you were in a relationship, weren't you.

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Speaker 5: God, I was engaged at the time.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, Oh my god, girl, Well you were engaged.

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Speaker 4: Wait does that when you're married? Are you married?

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Speaker 5: No? I was engaged to two guys actually.

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Speaker 4: At the same time. God casually.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So like back then, I was a hot met

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad? Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 4: that's what I was going to say.

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Speaker 5: I mean I was leaving and I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, waiting, I did get anything that was a

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Speaker 1: That's one proposal. How did the where is the second proposal?

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Speaker 5: So I leave Italy and I go home to my

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Speaker 5: you know, I said yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So then you went to Cabo while you're engaged to

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Speaker 5: Made things even more complicated, and I felt so horrible

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Speaker 1: Well, you're lucky Bowden proposed to you, because you probably

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Speaker 5: Maybe maybe in my life.

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Speaker 4: So wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?

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Speaker 5: I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught

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Speaker 1: Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?

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Speaker 5: I'm casually dating someone. It's nothing serious.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but to him, he's like mom, dad, just casual

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Speaker 4: It's hard. I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it is, I guess, but I told you the truth.

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Speaker 5: I'm an open book.

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Speaker 1: Now, Okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing

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Speaker 2: I believer?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you know what, that is definitely kind of

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Speaker 1: to help you bring back some of your past right

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Speaker 1: now by fling bow Is on the phone right now,

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Speaker 1: listening to this conversation, wanting to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Should I hang.

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Speaker 3: Up right now?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: There I am here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're acted like bo is going to be excited

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Speaker 3: after hearing all of that, Like, yeah, Bo.

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Speaker 2: That was that was a lot. Uh. So let me

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Speaker 2: get this straight. So when we hung out two years ago,

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Speaker 2: you were engaged to two different guys, one of whom

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Speaker 2: you weren't even really talking to anymore.

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Speaker 5: Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.

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Speaker 5: But Hi, by the way, Hi.

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Speaker 2: It's very good to hear your voice. And I really

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Speaker 5: Still thinking about me.

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Speaker 4: Did you just laugh?

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Speaker 2: Wait? I mean, but like, can I ask did you

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Were you actually into me? Or was this just a

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Speaker 5: Or I I mean, I like you enough to make

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is a lot.

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Speaker 5: Right now.

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Speaker 1: It's hard because you were You weren't just the other guy, Bo,

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Speaker 1: you were the other other guy. Yeah, so you were

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Speaker 5: Mister right now, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It hurts so bad, but it's true.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I get it.

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Speaker 5: It's really sweet of you. I thought about.

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Speaker 1: You, and he's gone like he's gone through all of

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, we probably should have done this as

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Speaker 1: a closure call. Well think about it. He kept your

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Speaker 4: It any number who deletes a contact.

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Speaker 3: I mean that happens, friend.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I was just gonna sort of

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Speaker 2: ask Sheila, you know, I mean I I did take

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Speaker 2: in the fact that you were single. Yes, that did

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it wasn't like fully single.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 2: No, I guess I was just gonna say, like, this

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Speaker 1: Dating thing, And if you're open to that idea of

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Speaker 1: facilitate that by paying for your official first date.

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Speaker 4: I mean not because I've.

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Speaker 3: Also been told long distance relationships don't need too much.

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Speaker 4: Trust, it's very It might be just their type.

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Speaker 1: Acaila. This You've had two failed proposals, but the third

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Speaker 1: times the charm is what they say.

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Speaker 4: To that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she'll say yes, yeah, unless her casual relationship proposes

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Speaker 3: first the four.

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Speaker 5: You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.

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Speaker 4: I bet.

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Speaker 1: He enthusiastic. Yeah, good, I'd like to follow up. So

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Speaker 1: we're getting rid of the side guy.

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Speaker 5: Right by the time we go on a day, he'll

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Speaker 2: The great, thank you, Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, bo you're mister right now again. Yeah, they'll take it,

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Speaker 1: Take it, Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. If there was

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Speaker 1: a children's fairy tale about their story, and there really

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Speaker 1: should be, it would be called the Girl who Couldn't

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Speaker 1: Say No. She went into the fraternity house late at night.

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Speaker 1: This frat bro is too swoll, this frat bro is

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Speaker 1: She left, goodbye. Where is that children's fairy tale book?

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Speaker 4: Please don't write it.

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Speaker 3: And you guys were so glossying over the fact that

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Speaker 1: Yes, so casual.

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Speaker 3: When you have a person who is engaged two people

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Speaker 1: Trust yes. I feel like they need to go back

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Speaker 1: to Cabo together and finish what they started. Officially, maybe we.

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Speaker 4: Should do the show live.

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Speaker 1: Because of their day, someone has to translate Spanish for

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Speaker 1: me though. I mean, you never know. It could actually

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Speaker 1: work out, but make sure you go check out all

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Speaker 1: of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey