1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 2: Hey guys, have you watched Sirens No Good? 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 3: Is it good? 4 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 2: Yeah? 5 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 3: I finished watching. 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: Oh, I watched like half, maybe not even half of 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: the first one. I'm like, I can't tell if I'm 8 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: gonna like it. 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 2: You're it's good, it's on my Oh. Hannah goes yes, 10 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 2: so good and faith I can't ever say I don't know. 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: I actually don't know how to pronounce her last name. 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 2: She's everywhere. She is in that one Netflix show, but 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 2: then she's like been in you know, literally she's I 14 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 2: just watched the movie with her called The Drop with 15 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 2: a Brendan I'm gonna I don't know name. She was 16 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: in The Perfect Stranger. Yeah, I mean so much. I 17 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, she's blowing it up. She's good though. 18 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: I like her. I so I saw that. I was like, 19 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:55,800 Speaker 2: I'd like to check it out. But I am so 20 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: behind on so many shows because I'm in I watched 21 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:09,480 Speaker 2: four seasons right now with so good Steve Carell. It's funny, 22 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: it's very real for is fiction, like as you know, 23 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 2: like it's not real, but it's very real. I'm a 24 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 2: big Steve Girl fan. I think he's so Yeah. I 25 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: ran to him a Starbucks one time and. 26 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 3: There, Yeah, I was like one of the first time 27 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 3: I was fun and he was so like nice. Yeah, 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 3: So I like that. 29 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I like it when it matches what you 30 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: think they would be. 31 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 1: And I really do comedy at yeah something. Yeah, that's cute. 32 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: I just remember that was a fun star saying yeah. 33 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:45,680 Speaker 2: Like that, it's funny. I was just talking with girlfriends. Any. 34 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 2: I kind of hate it for up and coming actresses 35 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: and actors right now because if it's a good cast, 36 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: I'm in on the show. 37 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 3: So there's a lot of those recently. 38 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, like Kate Hudson done, I'm in you know, Steve 39 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 2: Carrell was in that one. I'm like sure, but that 40 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 2: Sirens was really great. They say, hey, hey, that's the 41 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: whole point. Okay, it's like a thing in there and 42 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 2: you're like hey, And I was like, oh, hey, can 43 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: you guys start calling me Kiki tablet. We'll talk about 44 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: another time. Hey, how do you guys doings go on? Good? 45 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 3: I'm good. We don't sound. 46 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: I do have something I'll probably bring to the podcast 47 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 2: in maybe a week or two. MM. You're letting it brew. 48 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 2: You're letting it simmer. I'm letting it actually breathe instead. 49 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 3: That's fair. 50 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm gonna do that. Therapist Sam, he's been 51 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,920 Speaker 2: online one this morning, so we're chatting it through. Who's 52 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:49,359 Speaker 2: it about? Kid? Husband? Neither neither. No, So let's just 53 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:53,519 Speaker 2: let hate that. This is what you do to us, Cliffhanger. 54 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 3: Are we already online about it? 55 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 2: No? No, no, No, it's I just I just want 56 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,399 Speaker 2: to give it a minute before I give it, like, yeah, 57 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,359 Speaker 2: I'm giving it real air before we give it on air, 58 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 2: because sometimes it gets a little it's layered. 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. 60 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: Love Amy, she's an organ right now. Yeah. She thought 61 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 2: of me last night, and so when I text sent 62 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,640 Speaker 2: her a little voice note in some sort of desperation, 63 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 2: just like need some clarity or somewhere to bounce this 64 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 2: off of, she was like, I thought of you last night, 65 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 2: And I think that's usually when God is like speaking 66 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 2: into a situation. So that feels good. Yeah, I'm excited 67 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,399 Speaker 2: for summer, so that's what I have. I actually don't 68 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: really have a wine about it either, because I just 69 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: love summer and I'm excited. We're not doing camps, really, 70 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: we're just going all in. Is that I feel like 71 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: I'm the odd man out. 72 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:39,960 Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's been fine. 73 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: It's been two days. 74 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 3: I mean it hasn't been that long. Yeah, it hasn't 75 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 3: been that long. We haven't had that much so, like 76 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: one of my kids has gone, so it really hasn't been. 77 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: Are they camping? Does anybody can do you care? We're 78 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: doing a week of Christian camp. It's like an outdoorbe 79 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: a deer run. Oh yeah, yeah, so it's we're doing 80 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 2: that for a week. When is that? And have been something? Okay, 81 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 2: it's a week in June. So is this the first time? Yeah? 82 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: And they just go all day? Yeah, okay, are you 83 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: nervous about ticks? 84 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 3: Oh, they'll have ticks for sure, that's fine. 85 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: They just had to get a tick off of Yeah. 86 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 3: I've already had to get ticks my kids this summer. 87 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 2: I was like, what is that? And then everywhere they're 88 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:27,559 Speaker 2: wild Dramatic experience. Love is doing a fine arts camp. 89 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: That's yeah, so you are doing a camp. It's our 90 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: first only camp, but like that's it. And it's at 91 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 2: the same time as like Leggie's Little Summer Baseball and 92 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: then that's a wrap for summer activities like in summer 93 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: baseball's like three weekends. So I like that, right, I know, 94 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 2: I'm like excited, Guys, I don't know why. I just 95 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:46,440 Speaker 2: need the weather to get a little warmer. 96 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 3: I know I haven't loved that. It hasn't felt like summer. 97 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so for me, I'm kind of like, I mean, 98 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: i feel like I've been inside me. Ramsey's had like 99 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: a little softball camp that's been a couple hours for 100 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: like three days, but like she wants to go swimming 101 00:04:58,839 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: every day and I'm like, it's freezing. 102 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 2: We're classify as a camp. I mean, you know a camp. 103 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 2: It's like you have a done ball and a flashlight 104 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 2: and hoping Jesus. 105 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 3: And any of those kind of camps. 106 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 2: Doing a sleep away next year because that's the first 107 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 2: year that you can do a sleep away. Yeah, it's fourth. 108 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 2: What do you feel about that? She wants to so like, absolutely, 109 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: that's what you want to do. Is it far? No, 110 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 2: it's just Dear Run. If anyone she's at her vacation 111 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 2: home a Deer Run there's their residence. I love that, 112 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,600 Speaker 2: though I'm excited for she actually wants to do well. 113 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: I saw the cabins there. We just did a camp 114 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: a day camp for school, and I saw the Cabins 115 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,799 Speaker 2: and it's like love was like, now, tell me about 116 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,479 Speaker 2: these cabins, and they, oh, you went to Deer Run. Yeah, 117 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: like the day Okay, I've never been. Oh it's so 118 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 2: it's cute. It's literally out of a movie. It makes 119 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 2: me want to go to camp. It made me want 120 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 2: to like plan a camp. Well, so I started watching 121 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 2: shows with Jolie and Jayce, you know, because they're always 122 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,599 Speaker 2: watching the same ones, like Jase wants to watch The 123 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 2: Sonic One. Uh, Jolie, which one does she she wants 124 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,040 Speaker 2: to watch some like zombie Land thing. And so I'm like, guys, 125 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: two really good movies. I need you guys to watch. 126 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: So we watched The Parent Trap all fun and it 127 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 2: was like introducing Lindsay Lohan to watch that. Now. I 128 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 2: was the only one that ended up watching both movies 129 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 2: because it's like they're they get bored. 130 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, they get bored with those older movies. 131 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, they tried to not retain their Julie a little bit, 132 00:06:24,920 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: Jace again a little bit, and then it was like done. 133 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 2: But then we watched It Takes Two, you know, Gutenberg, 134 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:35,479 Speaker 2: who I just did a movie with, and so, which 135 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: by the way, comes out June seventh on Lifetime. Check 136 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: it out. Uh so, but that movie was The Camp 137 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 2: Yes with the Girls, and I was like, oh, this 138 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 2: would be so I never got to do that. 139 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 3: I never had either. 140 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 2: I did like as I got older, Margie Man Camp 141 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 2: Across Country Camp. That's cute. That's cute. It's not really 142 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 2: what you want to say. 143 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:57,800 Speaker 3: I don't know. 144 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 2: It sounds like maybe what else would you like to 145 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 2: say about No. I love that band camp going. I 146 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 2: mean I opened it wide open anybody anybody I haven't. 147 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:09,119 Speaker 3: It's fine. 148 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 2: A character based off of it for you know, and 149 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: no backbracee band camp. I mean, guys, if if ever 150 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 2: there was a time to just live in. But that's 151 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: great though. It's better than being on video games all day. 152 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 2: Builds character absolutely being on video games. 153 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 1: I love how they can't take because you know, most 154 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: of these Sleepway camps they can't take their phones. 155 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 3: So that's what I also love. 156 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: Like for the older ones, like Caiden's done it every 157 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: year until this year, he won't do it this year. 158 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: Emmy started probably about fourth or fifth grade doing one, 159 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: and then this summer she's just gonna do like a 160 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: regular church camp. 161 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: But we need to actually do the Sleepoy one next 162 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 2: year at the same time. 163 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be interesting to see Ramsey do it. 164 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: Like Emmy and Cayden were like, Peace, don't need to 165 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: call you for a week. I am fine, Ramsey, I don't. 166 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I think she'd be fine. All my kids 167 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: are pretty independent. She's probably the least. I still think 168 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: she'd be fine. But like the others were like Peace 169 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: and not even thought about it, Ransey, You'll be interesting 170 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: to see if she would do it. 171 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 2: Love still thinks she's connected with the Umbilition, definitely, not 172 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 2: that that would be like great pick me up at 173 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 2: too pm today sounds great. Yeah, interesting, we'll try it on. 174 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: We'll try I'll try it on. 175 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Very cool, very cool, very cool, very cool. Cram 176 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 2: or anything. Any updates? I mean, I've got so I 177 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,480 Speaker 2: got this offer finally came in today. 178 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 179 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 2: And they're like, you start on Sunday. 180 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 3: No, I can't. I just knew this was going to happen. 181 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: Another movie. Yeah, are you leaving? No this guy, there's like, no, 182 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: she's not leaving this. We've already agreed to do something else. Uh. 183 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 2: It's a bummer because I wish I could say who 184 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: the actor was. He's a very very well known actor 185 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 2: and he's writing it, he's directing it. Problem is, there's 186 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 2: only sixty pages, so it's not even a finished script. 187 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: So I'm like, I had a call today with the 188 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 2: person that was doing it. I'm like, okay, so we're 189 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: gonna start filming on Sunday. Where is the rest of this? 190 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 2: He's like, let me know if you have any questions. 191 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: I was like, I actually have a lot of questions. 192 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 3: Like how about the middle and the end? 193 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: How does it? 194 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 3: And oh my gosh what He's like, Well, that's. 195 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 2: Just how he rolls like he's been doing. I'm like, 196 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,559 Speaker 2: I understand he is who he is and that is 197 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 2: that's amazing and I would love nothing more than And 198 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: he's like, and he said, if you don't feel comfortable 199 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: with doing you know, he'll just start talking until because 200 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 2: what he's doing is he's filming it like adolescents, so 201 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 2: it's one camera, one thing. So he's like, the first 202 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 2: scene is like an eighteen minute scene. He's like, so 203 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 2: if you don't know your words, it's fine. He'll just 204 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 2: keep talking and then you can catch up to it. 205 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay again, in theory, this sounds great. 206 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 2: I love this idea. Having said that we are this 207 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: is Wednesday, okay, the twenty eighth, and you are starting 208 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 2: shooting on Sunday. I need to at least know the 209 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 2: basis of what is happening character wise, so that I 210 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 2: can know what the hell I'm saying or when I'm 211 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 2: I saying yes to yeah. And so that's a big 212 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: trust fall. It's and Alan was on the phone with 213 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: me because we had just finished playing tennis, and so 214 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 2: I was like, I got to call this guy back 215 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 2: because he's like wanting to book my Airbnb and he's 216 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 2: asking that questions. I'm like, I would like to know 217 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: how the script ends. 218 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 3: I have a question, Like I would love to know. 219 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 2: That piece of it, but they need to film around 220 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:25,680 Speaker 2: this very big A listers schedule, and in any other world, 221 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,440 Speaker 2: I mean, it would be like duh, we'll go do it. 222 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 2: But I'm like, I can't go do that when I 223 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 2: don't know what happens in the script. I can't leave 224 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 2: to pack my bags and be like, what's the script? 225 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: I may be surprised. I'm a little fascinated that this 226 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 2: can happen, saying that's where I'm stuck. 227 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, does this happen? 228 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 2: But because this person is who this person is, it 229 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: can happen or just does this apparently? So but I 230 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 2: texted my agent, I sent her a voice memo and 231 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: I said, Hey, this is where this is at. And 232 00:10:59,880 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 2: I I've said, I have now committed. Since you guys 233 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 2: have been stringing me along this entire time, You've been 234 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 2: stringing me along on the dates, I have said no 235 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 2: to two things. My Lifetime movie wants me to promote 236 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 2: the movie, and I've got another opportunity to do something 237 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 2: a day in LA and so I have now committed 238 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: to that. So if you can't work around my schedule, 239 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 2: now I can't do it. You know, because he's like, well, sorry, 240 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 2: these are we're shooting it in seven days. I'm like, 241 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 2: my go but shooting what because TVD? I mean that's crazy. 242 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, so I'm like and if he but he 243 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 2: doesn't understand why I don't want to do it. He's like, 244 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 2: what do you mean you can't do it? I can't 245 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:41,120 Speaker 2: do it because it's like I also like, this person 246 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 2: doesn't have a family as well, so I'm like, I've 247 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 2: got kids. I have to figure out I'm like, you 248 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: can't throw this on me and leave start shooting. Okay, 249 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: so Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, sorry son in four days. So 250 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 2: I'm kind of with the agent and so I kind 251 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 2: of want you to take I know why you can't, 252 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 2: but I oh, the agent said, She's like no, She's like, 253 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: I agree with you too, take it. She goes, this 254 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 2: seems I mean, I'll tell you all my phones recording. 255 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 2: But she basically was like, it seems very chaotic and 256 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 2: not how this normally would go, and for someone it 257 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,839 Speaker 2: should be more thorough and thought out. I just am 258 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 2: actually floored that they can even present it and be 259 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 2: casting for something that isn't finished, right unless that is 260 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 2: well the characters. And that's the thing. Even when you 261 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 2: read like the script, it's like the names are in 262 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:28,560 Speaker 2: there as the names, you know, it's. 263 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:33,120 Speaker 4: Just like it's just and but here's the thing that 264 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 4: the first there's no character name, just my name, Janna 265 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 4: Kramer playing Janni Crame. 266 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. So and it's again like it would be so 267 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 2: cool and I wish I could say who it was 268 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 2: because it would be freaking amazing and so fun. And 269 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 2: I I just am like, I don't know how I 270 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 2: can how I could do that? If I was I 271 00:12:56,480 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 2: told Alan this, If I was a didn't have kids, 272 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 2: didn't have anything else going on, why not do it? 273 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: Go have fun? Go shoot this thing in a chaos and. 274 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 3: Could be fun. 275 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 2: Could be fun. It could be so fun and creatively. 276 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 2: I would love nothing more than to work with an 277 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 2: actor like that. It would be amazing. Having said that, 278 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: I don't want only four days to prepare for something 279 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 2: up against someone like that too. It also could be 280 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 2: a disaster. Yeah, because I don't want to suck. 281 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: When you have the first seventy pages, you can for 282 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: sixty sixty Sorry. 283 00:13:35,160 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 2: Ninety, we're missing like forty five pages. 284 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 3: Do you like the script so far? 285 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 2: It was not what the script was supposed to be. 286 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 3: Okay, but that's fine. 287 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 2: It was fun, totally different character. This just feels like 288 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 2: a mad lib. I think, yeah, just stay home, honey, 289 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 2: we need you here. So I think all that to 290 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 2: be said is I think I'm gonna not do that one, 291 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: which again is a bummer. But here's my question to you. 292 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 2: Do I text this aless actor, So we haven't. We've 293 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 2: only zoomed once. We have had a a group message 294 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: between the one producer and him, but it hasn't really 295 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 2: been a lot of common But now he wrote the 296 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: script for us, and then this other Academy Award winner 297 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 2: nominee for nominee who she's accepted the role. I know, 298 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 2: this is like this, this is where it's hard. This 299 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: is where I'm like, take it, figure it out. 300 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 3: You can figure out the. 301 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: Because I mean so she's agreed to play the grandma 302 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 2: in it with him, and then me as that I 303 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: would be. I was the girl that he left behind 304 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 2: and he went to jail because he murdered someone. So 305 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 2: it's like this whole like it's a big old I know. 306 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, it is. 307 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 3: Like it's a thriller. 308 00:14:50,120 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 2: Yeah to a list. I'm I'm like happy to be here. 309 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 2: Can we reconsider you? 310 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 3: Can you could figure this out? 311 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: So we're gonna help you figure There's a piece of 312 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 2: me though, that wants to And I asked Alan, I said, 313 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 2: do you think I should text him and just say, hey, 314 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 2: you know, thank you for first of all, loved what 315 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: I read so far. 316 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, real quick, he didn't write it and. 317 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 2: It yeah yeah in real time, it seems yeah, in 318 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: real time okay, So and he's in cans writing it 319 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 2: so like he has a film that he's promoting in 320 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,440 Speaker 2: Cans right now. So there's a piece of me where 321 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 2: So I got alan, I was like, should I text 322 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 2: him and say, you know, from what I've read, I 323 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 2: really like the script. What I'm being told is that 324 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: you have to film in these six to seven days. 325 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 2: Because I wasn't sure of the time. I have now 326 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 2: accepted something that I need to go and do for 327 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 2: a movie for us. Uh, you know, if the schedules 328 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: able to move, would love to be a part of it, 329 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 2: or you know, hope to work with you. I think 330 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,360 Speaker 2: I think if I don't do it, he'll never respond 331 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 2: or be like because it's like I'm a dime a dozen. Yeah, 332 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 2: that's you know what I'm saying, Like I'm a I'm 333 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:05,119 Speaker 2: a dime a dozen in this world right to him. 334 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: But even then, hold hold on, hold on. We got 335 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 2: to really think this is okay. 336 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 3: This can't go away. 337 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: We can only do someday to so we'd have to 338 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: cancel La bib. 339 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 3: Well, I understand that, but hold on. 340 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,920 Speaker 2: Where willing to cancel? This is different? No? 341 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:27,560 Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on? Where is it filming Georgia? 342 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: Okay, I do think it's worth saying, hey, you know, 343 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: I've committed to these things. 344 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 3: You know I know? 345 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: Or is there any way to work around them? We 346 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: can cancel if we have to. 347 00:16:42,480 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: Oh, honey, I'm excited for your next. 348 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: I say that knowing that I came or get in there. 349 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: It is definitely not want to you know me. If 350 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: it's something I don't want to cancel, I'm going to 351 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: say it's something you absolutely cannot cancel and you get 352 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: to work around it. 353 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: But I feel like you could and it would be okay. 354 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: And I say that because I don't like the chaoticness 355 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: of it, but that. 356 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 3: Could be so good for you. 357 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: I love the chaos for you. What is happening, exactly happen? 358 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 3: Go do it? 359 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 2: Who has life? 360 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 1: You did a movie you were I'm sorry, but you 361 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 1: were in where Bahamas and had to leave and get home, 362 00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: figure out your kids, pack a bag, get on a 363 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: plane that night, and go to another movie. 364 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:30,160 Speaker 2: She does know, but that she did have a script 365 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 2: from that. I understand why it all feels. 366 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 3: We're going to start with the sixty pages, I think. 367 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,720 Speaker 2: And I'm going with you. Yeah, And I don't know 368 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 2: what it is, and I suddenly people, I cannot wait 369 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,120 Speaker 2: to be there to support you emotionally, Georgia. It can 370 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 2: be for you. 371 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 3: I can need to do it. 372 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 2: I actually was talking about you last night. Oh I know, 373 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 2: he texted me. Well, they called me. Okay, they were 374 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 2: on a walk listening to us. Okay, was that because 375 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:19,439 Speaker 2: we were talking a bad about country radio? A program director? 376 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: It's a. 377 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 2: Program directors. I've in my phone, I've got the names 378 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:26,720 Speaker 2: and this ship we talked about. And I go and 379 00:18:26,720 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 2: they're like, is this still Jannah? And I was like, yeah, hey, 380 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 2: what's up. He's like, actually, was just talking to Chris, 381 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 2: And I said and then my mind goes, oh but nothing, no, 382 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 2: but truth. We're very honest. And I also said that, 383 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,919 Speaker 2: I said, you know, because this person is such a 384 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 2: such a good dude and a like a buttoned up guy. 385 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 2: He doesn't understand that their slimy ones out there, which 386 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 2: I for him, right, I like it. But he's one 387 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 2: of the ones where I'm like, would love to see 388 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 2: you and your wife if you came in the nash 389 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 2: and we're yeah, deeply. So that's like when I see 390 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: what's his face at church all the time? Oh my goodness. 391 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:07,560 Speaker 2: He used to be the Norfolk pd UH program director 392 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,360 Speaker 2: John Shombi. 393 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 3: Oh, he goes to church. 394 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: He goes, he goes to our church. Every time I 395 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,480 Speaker 2: see him and his wife, like, I give them a 396 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 2: like I love that lovely, Like he was a he 397 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,120 Speaker 2: was a good one, yeah, And Mike is a good one. Yeah, 398 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 2: A good MinC. Yes, and we all need one of those. 399 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 2: So anyways, Oh, it's really tricky these days. Anyways, I 400 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 2: can tear any wonderful people. And they and we were 401 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,639 Speaker 2: talking about this, I'm going to leap this, get us 402 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:34,959 Speaker 2: back to your role that you're going to take. I'm 403 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:37,400 Speaker 2: so sity for you. I'm i gotta get my phone 404 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 2: back to be like, wait a minute, maybe about it. 405 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 2: We can pause for that. I was saying to them, 406 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 2: this version of you, I said, you have to remember, 407 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: like you know, Jana and I have been friends for 408 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 2: a long time now, like twelve eleven twelve. I met 409 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:54,880 Speaker 2: you when I was doing radio so long long time ago, 410 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 2: And I said, I've seen so many different versions of 411 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:02,280 Speaker 2: who she is, and I am, I'm so proud of 412 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: the person she is now in a different way than 413 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 2: as a friend, but just like I just really am. 414 00:20:09,359 --> 00:20:11,720 Speaker 2: I love who she is now and I love who 415 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: she's like invested in herself. I love who Alan brings 416 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 2: out in her. And I texted you and Alan not 417 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,440 Speaker 2: too long ago and was like, I just really love 418 00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,280 Speaker 2: that y'all found each other because we get Alan, we 419 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 2: deserve him. It's been a long ride. And I was 420 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,399 Speaker 2: saying that, I was like, I just think Jana's in 421 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 2: just such a different, sturdier place, and I think you 422 00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 2: could handle the chaos of this, and I think this 423 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:37,959 Speaker 2: could be a really good opportunity. These are the kind 424 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 2: of things that I'm afraid hindsight are like epic because 425 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 2: they weren't normal. Yeah, and I want it could be 426 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 2: a train wreck. 427 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:46,400 Speaker 3: It could. 428 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: But also that Alex said that my agent, she goes 429 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 2: a single cam, not thought out. We cannot control the 430 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 2: outcome of it like it is. It could be a mess. 431 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 1: Well, and that's something to consider and conversation to have. 432 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 1: I just my fear with what we were saying earlier 433 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:09,679 Speaker 1: would be that you are a diamond dozen with this actor. 434 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 1: It would be great to be in with him if 435 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: he is writing scripts, you know, all those things that 436 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: you've already thought about, you know that are obviously also 437 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: important to think about. 438 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 3: But that's a conversation to have. 439 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 1: I mean, if it could be a complete where you 440 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 1: have no control and you're not proud of your work, 441 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:25,199 Speaker 1: I get that too. 442 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 2: I just love a well rounded portfolio for you. You've 443 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: done so much, You've grown in your career so much. 444 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 3: And want you for other stuff, and that is why 445 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:36,640 Speaker 3: you take a lot of these things. 446 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and not many people are going to move into 447 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 2: the trust fall with him, right, This is a trust 448 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 2: I mean, this is a trust fall. But this person, 449 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 2: they are also trying to rebuild the reputation. They might 450 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 2: not be back in as well, but people will watch 451 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 2: because of that. 452 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 3: You can help them. 453 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: I don't know who he is, you do, I don't 454 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: remember you know what name? I don't know Nate. I 455 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 1: don't know anyone's names. 456 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 3: Ask her. I don't know any actors' names. 457 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:10,640 Speaker 2: I just get the reaction from I'm gonna you guys, 458 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 2: hid hide the thing really because you might be like, 459 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 2: oh no, because okay, okay, okay, oh we're going remind 460 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 2: me we're going. 461 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:21,640 Speaker 5: Yeah. 462 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,280 Speaker 3: I looked them up. 463 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, mom. 464 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,080 Speaker 3: Oh, I was like, what was that? 465 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: I never can remember actors. We can talk about it, 466 00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 2: but our singers not actors. I I don't know why 467 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 2: this seems very unbrand for me for this person. I'm 468 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 2: unless shocked. I know, say, yeah, something person would do right, 469 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 2: which is why all right, let's move on to one. 470 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: We'll see you next week Georgia, Carolinas. 471 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 3: And then back on the couch. Okay, I was y'all. 472 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: Nothing is more real than what just happened in the 473 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: last time. I don't know how this is how we 474 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,159 Speaker 1: really knew this. I know, if you really want to 475 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,159 Speaker 1: see how it happens to convince Shannah she can do this. 476 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 2: I just know we have such similar personality types. So 477 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,840 Speaker 2: I do like to speak a little life into you 478 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 2: in those areas of nonstructure, because I know our default 479 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:23,200 Speaker 2: is structure, because that feels safe to us and responsible 480 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 2: to us, and it is all of those things. I 481 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 2: don't think there's anything wrong with the way that we 482 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 2: like structure and prefer it. Yeah, but I also think 483 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 2: sometimes you need the friend that speaks to your capability 484 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: and like what could be good and stretching for you, 485 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 2: and like you are just so talented that I like you, 486 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 2: And I mean my husband wants to be your agent, 487 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,480 Speaker 2: like Preston Brust every time, like Kramer could nail this. 488 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 2: Why doesn't she have this role, so like I want 489 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 2: that for you, you would nail it, thanks, friend. Okay, 490 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: all right, whine about it. You know what I don't 491 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 2: like with my manager and your friend and friend books 492 00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 2: something and then tells me not to do. 493 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 3: That, because that's how it happens. 494 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,440 Speaker 1: I gotta say, I'm not surprised by this conversation in 495 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: the least because when you don't get answers, you don't 496 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: get answers. You don't get answers, you book something else. 497 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 1: The answers come every time. 498 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: I feel a great sense of comfortability and just validation 499 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:14,639 Speaker 2: that this is how your world is working, because this 500 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 2: is how it feels at home for me all the time. 501 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 2: And I'm literally like, can I plan anything and look 502 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 2: forward to anything? It's so frustrating. I like it for 503 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 2: you a lot, just not for me. Any whine about 504 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:30,160 Speaker 2: it for you. Whine about it, man, anything you want 505 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 2: to share, you know, it's interesting. I don't know what 506 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 2: I want to share about this. Maybe mine is a 507 00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 2: brewer too, but I've been kind of going through something 508 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 2: and I don't Yeah, maybe I'm going to brew mine too, 509 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 2: okay a little bit, But I will say I did 510 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 2: start my period after twenty seven something day, So. 511 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 3: You just skipped one. 512 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess so, And you're not in perimenopause. I 513 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: don't know. I haven't heard back yet about my love work. 514 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 2: Stay tuned. I really don't have anything to whine about. 515 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,000 Speaker 3: You don't sound convincing, but that's no. 516 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: I really don't like. I don't. Okay, maybe I feel 517 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 2: like you do, you know, I'm really I don't. I 518 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 2: guess I'm not even a whine about it. But so 519 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 2: we were in couples therapy. Oh kidding, no, and I 520 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 2: she said something so she's new our couple therapist is 521 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 2: new okay to you are new to us as a couple, okay, 522 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 2: not new to the therapy world. No, no, no, no, okay. 523 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 2: But she said something that I don't know. It kind 524 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 2: of like it kind of rubbed me the wrong way. 525 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 2: I want to know, but like a couple things. Yeah, 526 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 2: and have you ever been in a couple's therapy session 527 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 2: where you feel like they just target the girls? 528 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 3: Uh huh yeah? 529 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:14,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 530 00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:17,760 Speaker 2: Where I'm like, but did, and I'm like, I will 531 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:24,159 Speaker 2: take accountability and right, But she said something to me 532 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: where she was like, it's not like I was trying 533 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 2: to we did a little exercise where she wanted to 534 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 2: do something with him, and then I went we went 535 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 2: out for like a little walk and in that moment, 536 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: she said, when he was going through the things, She's like, 537 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 2: you didn't reach over to like touch him or humphort. 538 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 2: And I said, because a lot of times what I've heard, 539 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 2: like other therapists have told me, let that person have 540 00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 2: the moment they're having. So when someone was to give 541 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 2: someone like a tissue, they say, actually, don't offer the 542 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 2: tissue because let that person it's okay for that person 543 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 2: to cry. Basically, so of me handing someone a tissue 544 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,439 Speaker 2: would say like, you shouldn't be cry or something like that. Right, 545 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 2: So another therapist in the past had like told me that, 546 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 2: So I just when someone's explaining their stuff, i'd let 547 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:14,159 Speaker 2: them kind of have their moment. And she's like, and 548 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 2: it's not that I was grading you, but I guess 549 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 2: she's said grading you no, And she's like, but I 550 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 2: just like I was surprised and it's not like you 551 00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: failed the test. And I was like, then stop saying 552 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 2: you're grading me and failing. And I was like, she 553 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 2: kept saying it. I was like, just because I didn't 554 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 2: what did you want me to put my hand down? Like? 555 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 2: And I was like, I was letting him have his But. 556 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,680 Speaker 3: Also shouldn't people be able to be themselves? Yeah? 557 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 2: And then also we were we kind of went into 558 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 2: the fight like I wasn't ready to be warm to 559 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 2: him yet in that moment. That's bizarre to me. So 560 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 2: I didn't like that. But what bothered me, my real 561 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,399 Speaker 2: wine about it is I don't like to feel judged 562 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 2: in a therapy room. 563 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't. I would That would be so hard 564 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 3: for me. 565 00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: It's a little judged. Well it's also just not helpful. Yeah, 566 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 2: So I don't know. Maybe I guess I got to 567 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 2: talk to Alan about and see, wouldn't really talk talk 568 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 2: about it. Yeah, I mean I don't. I just don't 569 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 2: like that. 570 00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:06,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah, I've never I mean, couple therapy was 571 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,880 Speaker 1: always hard for us, but we are therapist a long 572 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 1: time ago who we used to share. She actually really 573 00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,520 Speaker 1: targeted him. I could even see it. I was even 574 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 1: like whoa, whoa, whoa. But I did this, you know, 575 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 1: like like there were moments where I'm like whoa, you know, 576 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,440 Speaker 1: she really did. And I didn't like that feeling. Even 577 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 1: though in moments I was like, yeah, go me, you know, 578 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: but I was like, this doesn't feel like fair, this 579 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:34,920 Speaker 1: doesn't feel in the middle, which I feel like you 580 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: should be a you know, you should feel like that. 581 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,840 Speaker 1: I would think in couples therapy for the most part 582 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:42,480 Speaker 1: and then just help people figure it out, I would think, 583 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, couples therapy was never great for us 584 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,520 Speaker 1: because it always just kinda I loved ours, yeah, and 585 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,160 Speaker 1: maybe because we didn't have the right I mean, I 586 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: know we did not have the right person, but I 587 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: just that would not set well with me. 588 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:54,240 Speaker 3: I already struggled with. 589 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: Doing therapy anyway, and if I felt like someone was 590 00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: judging me or grading me, or thought that I needed 591 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: to touch someone when I did not feel like I should. 592 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 3: Be touching someone, that would be a problem for me. 593 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's so to me the difference, 594 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 2: and I'm just going to say it the way I 595 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 2: want to say, like, between a good therapist and a 596 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 2: bad therapist in that moment, what I have experienced with 597 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 2: our couples therapists, we am a so brilliant. Would she 598 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: would say, I noticed when he did that, you didn't 599 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: reach out. Why didn't you reach out, right, that would 600 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,800 Speaker 2: be because then you could have a minute like that. 601 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 2: We came in and I felt, yeah, I was protecting 602 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 2: myself because we've been in the moat, you know. Yeah, 603 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,480 Speaker 2: like because I'm the one, I get pretty guarded. We 604 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 2: all know, and so like you know, it's that severe 605 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,080 Speaker 2: independent so I'm the one that kind of like it 606 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 2: just walls up, you know. So she would even say 607 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 2: to me, She's like, I did you want to reach out? 608 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 2: Like did you what did you want to say to him? 609 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 2: In that moment? There was not a test or well 610 00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 2: that just makes it. I mean, how can anyone feel 611 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: safe in that space if you feel like everything you're 612 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 2: doing is being analyzed? Yeah, that's weird. Yeah, I'm excited 613 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 2: for you and you couples therapists and I know, right 614 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:07,560 Speaker 2: a bunch of newness. 615 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 3: I can't wait for you to talk to Amy about it. 616 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 2: So did you know? I know Amy's like and off 617 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:22,240 Speaker 2: the recommendation, right, I mean, tidy up that resource page? True? Okay, yeah, 618 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 2: don't be judged in therapy. We're judged everywhere. Can I 619 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 2: just go to a safe place, especially when I'm paying you? 620 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: Yes? 621 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 2: Yes that yeah, yes, yeah, good Grace anybody else. 622 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna let mines do too. 623 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm putting three weeks of. 624 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 3: Can you give us a keyword? I mean I've talked 625 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 3: about it on here before. 626 00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:46,080 Speaker 2: Can you give one keyword? Yeah? Just friends okay and 627 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 2: Cramer kids, friends both. Can I have your keyword because 628 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna pin it. I always love a keyword. It's 629 00:30:52,680 --> 00:30:54,200 Speaker 2: my favorite too. Just to see what it is. 630 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 3: Did you just go into yours or was it something 631 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 3: that's something different? 632 00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 1: No? 633 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 2: I can, I can pull something different. 634 00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 3: Okay, I'll work on that pin. I'll let you know. 635 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: I'll let you know about that one. Okay, what's your pin? Well? 636 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 2: Code word? Will? I don't know what do we code order? 637 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 2: When you go listen to your message, you'll know too. 638 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 2: You just were busy, so you didn't she you were recording. Yeah, 639 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 2: mine will be nature code word, nature code word words, 640 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,640 Speaker 2: runnings okay, boom okay. Jane found a wish that she 641 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,520 Speaker 2: had an intimacy coordinator for her sex scenes. It's hard, 642 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 2: how about okay? Can we've used different words? Come on? 643 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 2: Everyone read the room. So when she was in Oh, 644 00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 2: she was at the Cans Film Festival. Uh, they're called 645 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 2: intimacy corners. I wish I had them while I was 646 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 2: doing sex scenes because it's hard, uh, trying to navigate. 647 00:31:50,800 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 3: Sorry, I again, she was by the way, you just 648 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 3: like move on from it. 649 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 2: No, I did anyone else. I something keeps popping up 650 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: on my Instagram about the Amy Schumer and what's his face? 651 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:15,640 Speaker 2: The wrestler sounds like he actually went inside of her. Wow. 652 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 2: I don't know if that's made up or I just 653 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: made I swear to you, I have seen something about 654 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 2: saying that he actually went inside of her wow during 655 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:34,840 Speaker 2: the scene. Guy, that's called sex, And I know, But 656 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 2: Jane said, what a difference it would have made in 657 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 2: terms of my comfort to the outlet. I missed out 658 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,440 Speaker 2: on that one. It's even hard. It's hard to it's 659 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 2: hard even to describe the difference when you're the only 660 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 2: woman on set, literally the only that would be I mean, 661 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 2: so we're intimacy coordinators like newer I've had. It's well, 662 00:32:56,760 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 2: it costs money for production technically under SAG rules, I believe. Again, 663 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 2: I believe you're supposed to have them on a SAG set, 664 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 2: But I don't remember having an intimacy coordinator on Montree Hill. 665 00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 2: I would think they'd be newer. Maybe you do all this, 666 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 2: this is a newer thing, and that when I was 667 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 2: giving what's his face? You know that fake hand job 668 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 2: in Entourage, I was just gonna ask about that. I mean, 669 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 2: that was there was nobody helping me with that. It 670 00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:38,880 Speaker 2: was me asking Jerry Jerry being like, so what do 671 00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 2: I I don't know to do? Do it like you know, 672 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 2: and the guys, the camera guys and touch my upper leg. 673 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 2: So I was like just rubbing his upper leg, which 674 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 2: is so uncomfortable. But I will say, what they do 675 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 2: do is they take everybody out of the room that 676 00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: doesn't have to be in the room, because there's normally 677 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:58,239 Speaker 2: so many people that are there that don't really need 678 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 2: to be there. So like when I was having the 679 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 2: intimacy scene, the intimate scene with Austin, when we were 680 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 2: filming that movie and I was in my lingerie, there 681 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,640 Speaker 2: was in even people away from Video Village, Like there's 682 00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 2: only the people that have to be at Video Village 683 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 2: are watching and then everyone else isn't in the room. 684 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,600 Speaker 2: But I mean, we didn't have an intimacy coordinator on that. 685 00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 2: I don't think it feels to me like it should 686 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 2: be required. I think it should. 687 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. We probably need to figure out whether 688 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 3: it is required or not required. I don't know. 689 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,400 Speaker 2: It feels like I know that it costs money to production, 690 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 2: which is probably why they don't do it. But I 691 00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:39,959 Speaker 2: think there's something where again, just like in The Blake, 692 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 2: it's like, we know we don't need it. Yeah, you 693 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 2: and I can figure it out. I always just think 694 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,320 Speaker 2: you should air on the for example, like things that 695 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,720 Speaker 2: happen like that movie. You should always a production should 696 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 2: pay for someone to just err on the side of 697 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,920 Speaker 2: just a third party. Yeah, like we had someone for 698 00:34:55,000 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 2: the country h Christmas hump on, then Haebel thing, so 699 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 2: like we have I love. 700 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:08,840 Speaker 3: Today to tell you. I forgot we were so many guys. 701 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 3: You guys the hump on me. Please let the hump 702 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:15,160 Speaker 3: on they be. 703 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 2: The title of this, but we have someone for that. 704 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:24,879 Speaker 2: And then she's like, are you comfortable if he puts 705 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 2: his hand there, are you comfortable? And I'm like, and 706 00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,920 Speaker 2: so it was the penis out when you rubbed the lake. 707 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,759 Speaker 2: I need to know that he was wearing boxers, but 708 00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:40,080 Speaker 2: it was there. Sure, Yeah, that's right, take it out. 709 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 2: Got it nailed that part. No, it's a where's the penis? 710 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 2: When you're like, but I've had people that have to 711 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: do the sock, Like if you're doing a butt, yeah, 712 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 2: someone had to put a sock on a penis. 713 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 3: Because you're showing the butt. 714 00:35:56,840 --> 00:36:00,320 Speaker 2: Because you're showing the butt. But I will say this, 715 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 2: when it comes to intimacy corners, sometimes it's even if 716 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 2: you're not comfortable with the actor. I think an intimacy coordinator, 717 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 2: or if you don't know the actor, like I knew Austin, 718 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 2: I knew I could he can be like, hey, is 719 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 2: this okay? Can am I okay to put yes? Like 720 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,840 Speaker 2: we we have that friendship. If I don't know someone, 721 00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 2: I would I would love and always probably want an 722 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 2: intimacy coordinator. But if you are comfortable with the person, 723 00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 2: then it's sometimes easier than the coordinator being like okay, 724 00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 2: can he put his I was like, can we just 725 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,080 Speaker 2: like this is some realization? Just be there. It's all 726 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, maybe their role is different. Presence is 727 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 2: just to be yeah yeah and let you guys work 728 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 2: it out. But they could just be witnessed to you 729 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 2: working it out. But I can't imagine back in the day, 730 00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't the Wild West, Yes, especially 731 00:36:44,560 --> 00:37:00,439 Speaker 2: for women. Lord. So there was a video, a viral 732 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 2: video that came out is the French president. He's getting 733 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 2: shoved in the face by his wife, Brigitte by The 734 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:11,960 Speaker 2: president forty seven later strugged it off and claimed the 735 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 2: couple had just been squabbling. We're squabbling and rather joking 736 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:18,719 Speaker 2: with my wife. I'm gonna called Macaroon told reporters. I'm 737 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:23,360 Speaker 2: surprised by it. It turns into some kind of catastrophe, 738 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 2: catastrophe where people are even coming up with theories to 739 00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 2: explain it. It's nonsense. What I think is nonsense is 740 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 2: him just like clearly it wasn't just a little like 741 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,279 Speaker 2: to say that like you're caught, it's nonsense. Well, no, 742 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 2: if you guys were just having fun, she wouldn't have 743 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,840 Speaker 2: completely snubbed your arm when walking down the right. She 744 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 2: was pissed, right, you guys were in a fight. And 745 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:51,360 Speaker 2: I think what I would have appreciated is the honesty 746 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,520 Speaker 2: in that moment to be like like every marital couple, couple, 747 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 2: we have our moments and then. 748 00:37:58,360 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 3: Just happened to get caught on camera. 749 00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 2: The problem with it, though, is it is a piece 750 00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,120 Speaker 2: of domestic I mean, it is domestic She was him 751 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,839 Speaker 2: in the face, so it is. And so that if 752 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 2: you say it's anything but fun, it becomes a domestic violence. 753 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: So that's how is that though even if it wasn't fun, 754 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,480 Speaker 1: can't someone say I was joking at any point and 755 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,399 Speaker 1: they put their hands on you, Like, I don't think 756 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:19,319 Speaker 1: that that's okay either. 757 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,680 Speaker 2: So it's just in fun that she put her hands 758 00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 2: on me. Well like when we're like, I'll be like, 759 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,840 Speaker 2: that's so different to me now, But I don't shove 760 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:33,280 Speaker 2: him in his face. Okay, we're let's say this is again, 761 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 2: I am not like we know, this is just a discussion. 762 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,799 Speaker 2: If he is scaring me, Let's say we're playing. Maybe 763 00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 2: they were having a fun game of fucking hide and 764 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 2: seek kind of playing right before the door opens. The 765 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,000 Speaker 2: door opens, and if he if we're playing, I will 766 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 2: shove push in a fun, joking way because I'm. 767 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:57,760 Speaker 3: Like, you scared me? What if you know? Again? 768 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:02,400 Speaker 2: Do I think that's it? But I'm just doing Devil's 769 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 2: Advocate to what you said, in a playful way. Yes 770 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 2: I would. I would push like that if if I'm like, 771 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 2: you scared me, like that is in my nature of 772 00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 2: playing around to be like, ah to my. 773 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,560 Speaker 3: Husband, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, yeah, I hear you. 774 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 2: So maybe they were having a game of hide and mask. 775 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 3: We'll give aaboo peekaboo plenty of places to hide. 776 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 1: The camera is just epic. And then they walk down 777 00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: really joking around. Let me tell you, that's where it's 778 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 1: not joking. 779 00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 2: That's the thing. She was pissed and so clearly they 780 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 2: were having a fight. But to make it so to 781 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,680 Speaker 2: not do that, you know, walking down the stairs then 782 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:49,480 Speaker 2: points to be honest about what just happened, because now 783 00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 2: you're just making a fool and then take ownership for 784 00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 2: the wife to say, in no instance is it okay 785 00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 2: for a woman to put their hands on a man 786 00:39:59,520 --> 00:39:59,920 Speaker 2: to right? 787 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, so absolutely. 788 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,960 Speaker 2: I felt really bad for him that he had to 789 00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,839 Speaker 2: pretend that that didn't happen, because he does, he goes 790 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 2: into instant politician mode. And I hate this is something 791 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:15,400 Speaker 2: I thought about last night. It's I hate how unhuman 792 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 2: these humans have to be sometimes and that goes for 793 00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,279 Speaker 2: every single one of us, everybody, but specifically, like he's 794 00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 2: still a person. Yeah, and I hate that he had 795 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 2: to pretend like it's showtime, you know, like it's like 796 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 2: close the door back up, we had some shita. 797 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,479 Speaker 1: You know you're about to walk downstairs and you're willing 798 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 1: to shove them. Then, I'm just saying, what else is 799 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,399 Speaker 1: going that? It's like, you know you're about to open 800 00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: the door, you know what is going to be in 801 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: front of you when the door's open. It just was 802 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 1: all very bizarre, Like you're not just getting in a 803 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:48,240 Speaker 1: fight right before. 804 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 2: I don't know, It's like it's like hold the door 805 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,359 Speaker 2: for ten seconds, right, and who's everywhere doors. 806 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 3: That you'll are laterally fighting right there. I don't know. 807 00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 3: It's all just yeah, it doesn't I don't know. It 808 00:40:58,040 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 3: doesn't sit well with me. 809 00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,080 Speaker 2: I will just say this though, if it was again reverse, 810 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,799 Speaker 2: if it was a man doing that, oh it would 811 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:07,800 Speaker 2: be a different story. 812 00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, Unfortunately it shouldn't be. 813 00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,160 Speaker 2: Having said that, we don't know what he did to 814 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,920 Speaker 2: her too. Again, yeah, I'm not saying that. 815 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 5: I'm not even assuming he didn't put you know, none 816 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 5: of that. And I feel bad for him. Is not 817 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 5: that I feel bad for him that he got shoved 818 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,880 Speaker 5: in the face. I hate that he can't feel what 819 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 5: he needed to feel in that moment and had to 820 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 5: be a politician. 821 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,759 Speaker 3: Well, he could be covering something up for himself too, 822 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 3: And that's but right, That's what. 823 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,800 Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, yeah, that they can't just be in 824 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 2: that honest moment for a minute while they sorted out. Yeah, 825 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 2: if you were in a place where you have to 826 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 2: be shoving your husband and listen, I have been in 827 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,799 Speaker 2: that place, and what I had to have massive talks 828 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:49,880 Speaker 2: with Amy because you know, I'd be like, well he 829 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 2: can say that, you know I but he was in 830 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,319 Speaker 2: my face. She's like this is protection. So she's like, yes, 831 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:57,799 Speaker 2: never put your hands on someone and you were also 832 00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,880 Speaker 2: trying to protect yourself to get out of a situation 833 00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 2: like it's over them that person then to say well 834 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,880 Speaker 2: you touch me, well yeah, because you were blocking me 835 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 2: in and I felt unsafe and had to fight back. 836 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,000 Speaker 2: You know. So I don't think anybody's innocent or like, 837 00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 2: I don't I'm not even taking that stance because who 838 00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,120 Speaker 2: knows what happened for the door open exactly. I just 839 00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,879 Speaker 2: hate that anyone has to pretend something didn't happen. Yeah, yeah, 840 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 2: even for ten seconds. Yeah, it made me, I mean 841 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 2: made me sad to see. Yeah, like just for the 842 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,880 Speaker 2: whole and that just shows you too. You never know 843 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,920 Speaker 2: what's behind the plane door. Yeah, you know people's lives 844 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 2: because any other time they wouldn't have caught that. You 845 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 2: would have just seen them like smile and wid down, 846 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 2: not knowing what happened two seconds prior. 847 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 3: Yep, and that happens all the time. 848 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 2: A little more empathy for people, that's right. Mormon wives. 849 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 2: Jesse and Demi are following each other again after on 850 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:49,879 Speaker 2: screen feud. I haven't finished the show, so I don't 851 00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 2: even know about the feud yet, but I am watching. 852 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 2: I am following. It's a total spoiler alert. These are 853 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 2: the ones that look identical to me. 854 00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,680 Speaker 3: So I finally, how do you figure out? O? 855 00:42:59,680 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 2: My god? 856 00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 3: Last season, the same human the whole time. 857 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: Finally, this season I could figure it out because they're 858 00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,440 Speaker 1: a lot more involved this season. I feel like they 859 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: have bigger like parts this season, and so I could tell. 860 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 2: I'm still in the Halloween party. It's taking me a 861 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 2: while to finish. 862 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 3: I loved it. 863 00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 2: I left the ship in season one. I couldn't. 864 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: It was very different this season, like Whitney's a completely 865 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 1: different person. 866 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:31,680 Speaker 2: Does Whitney Does Whitney feel I enjoyed our time with Whitney? 867 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 2: Does Whitney feel on this season like she did in 868 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,320 Speaker 2: person for us when we were with her, because we 869 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 2: all she's just real quiet this season. 870 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,120 Speaker 1: She's really just kind of keeping to herself, knowing her 871 00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,359 Speaker 1: place in a sense because she's not necessarily back in yet, 872 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: you know, stuff like that. So she just really she 873 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,360 Speaker 1: seems more peaceful. She seems more at peace. She seems 874 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 1: happier to me. But I'm watching a show, so who knows. 875 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm struggling with how to shift my perspective on someone, 876 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,040 Speaker 2: and I'd really appreciate your insight. One of my close 877 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,360 Speaker 2: friends is married to a guy who, in the beginning 878 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,320 Speaker 2: of the relationship honestly rubbed me the wrong way. He 879 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,160 Speaker 2: was inconsiderate, flaky, and just didn't seem invested in her, 880 00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 2: showing up, blake, canceling plans, sometimes being outright rude to 881 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 2: both her and her friends. I watched her cry over 882 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 2: him more than once, and it was so hard to 883 00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,879 Speaker 2: understand what she saw on him back then. Those early 884 00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:29,200 Speaker 2: memories left a lasting impression on me. Now years later, 885 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:31,760 Speaker 2: he's changed, and I'll give him credit. He's present, supportive 886 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,040 Speaker 2: and seems to truly love and respect her. They're married 887 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 2: and from the outside, the relationship looks stable and happy. 888 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,399 Speaker 2: I know people grow, and I know relationships can evolve, 889 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,760 Speaker 2: but I'm finding it hard to shake those early feelings. 890 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 2: Even though we're polite when we're around each other, I 891 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 2: think he can still feel that I haven't fully warmed 892 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,799 Speaker 2: up to him, given the person he is now. Should 893 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 2: I try harder to accept that growth and move forward. 894 00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,800 Speaker 2: Is it fair or even healthy to hold onto or 895 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,680 Speaker 2: to hold onto who someone used to be, especially when 896 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 2: they've clearly changed for the better. I'm going to shoot 897 00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 2: this to you because I feel like you've had this 898 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,280 Speaker 2: with certain different husbands. 899 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 900 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 1: I think my advice would be to let it go, honestly, 901 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 1: because if they've changed, and you may not know for 902 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,439 Speaker 1: sure that they've changed, that's my thing. Let's just say 903 00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 1: you're hesitant and you think, okay, from the outside looking in, 904 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:22,719 Speaker 1: it looks like you've changed. 905 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 3: I don't know if you've changed. 906 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,160 Speaker 1: But if they're going to be married, if she's going 907 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,000 Speaker 1: to choose to be okay with the man that he is, 908 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 1: then I don't think you really have a choice but 909 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:30,360 Speaker 1: to just let it go. 910 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 3: You can have these you know. 911 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 1: To me, I think you can be have these hesitations 912 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: a little bit and just be aware of it if 913 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,759 Speaker 1: things are to happen, you know. But I think if 914 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: she's letting it go, you let it go, enjoy it, 915 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: enjoy that he's changed, and have fun with them. It's 916 00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:47,280 Speaker 1: my opinion. 917 00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, And if he shows you who he is again, yeah, 918 00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 2: like you've had experience with then. 919 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,040 Speaker 1: If they show again like I don't, I may not 920 00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:55,880 Speaker 1: forget those things, but I'm not going to hold it 921 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,080 Speaker 1: against them. And now if it shows up again, then 922 00:45:58,160 --> 00:45:59,839 Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, this is a pattern that's showing 923 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:03,680 Speaker 1: back up again, and I would do things differently when 924 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 1: it comes to when people are doing things that they 925 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,560 Speaker 1: you know, to the friends, and how you speak up 926 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,480 Speaker 1: about that and how you don't. But I think you 927 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 1: can warm up to that person, accept them unless they 928 00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:14,400 Speaker 1: show you differently. 929 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,120 Speaker 2: I agree. I also was just thinking, like I don't 930 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 2: know that I super loved who I was at the 931 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,800 Speaker 2: beginning of my marriage. Sure, you know, like now I didn't. 932 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 2: It wasn't like whatever. I just like to think back 933 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 2: to you only know what you know. I was always kind, 934 00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,879 Speaker 2: but I was a little attachment. I was a little 935 00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:34,440 Speaker 2: you know, like if somebody wanted to come in and 936 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 2: judge that that was a lot. I mean, I had 937 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:39,839 Speaker 2: every right to be. It's not I'm not even hard 938 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,200 Speaker 2: of myself. I just go like, man, if somebody was 939 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:45,520 Speaker 2: holding something I said ten years ago against me, that sucks. 940 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,879 Speaker 2: And people do change. And I always and I've said 941 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 2: this specifically, well I've said it to both of you before, 942 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:54,320 Speaker 2: but like, only two people know what goes on in 943 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,719 Speaker 2: a marriage. Even if we know everything we can know, 944 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 2: as open as we all are with each other, and 945 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,399 Speaker 2: when we brought each other in for like prayer or whatever, 946 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:05,160 Speaker 2: there's still only those two people know. So maybe at 947 00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 2: the beginning he was going, you know, you might have 948 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,120 Speaker 2: more things that he was Yeah, things that needed to 949 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:13,800 Speaker 2: melt away or work through or whatever. We don't know. 950 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,719 Speaker 2: I think, definitely note it, but we gotta we gonna 951 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 2: move on. Yeah, I agree. I mean I tried to 952 00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 2: do that a lot with Mike. 953 00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's what I was thinking. Yeah, like I know, 954 00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:31,000 Speaker 1: like there were times you thought that he changed, or 955 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:32,840 Speaker 1: we thought that he changed, We hoped. 956 00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 2: I think, but I was just trying to think of like, 957 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,719 Speaker 2: you know, I even when you even when you read that, 958 00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,440 Speaker 2: I thought, she needs to let that go I wouldn't 959 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,040 Speaker 2: be super proud of who I was. And then I 960 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,040 Speaker 2: instantly put myself and was like, well, I've done that 961 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:47,320 Speaker 2: with Mike before, where I haven't fully forgiven him at times, 962 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:49,920 Speaker 2: you know, even when we had him on here, I 963 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,320 Speaker 2: was not super interested. 964 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: I mean, it sounds like this person is obviously grown 965 00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,040 Speaker 1: a lot more and changed a lot more than a 966 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: Mike situation. But there were moments in those it's like, 967 00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,440 Speaker 1: you know, I didn't forget the things Mike did, but 968 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, if you're moving on, that's we're going to 969 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,080 Speaker 1: be friends. Then I got to move on to and 970 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 1: we got to have fun together and we got to 971 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 1: be friends. 972 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:11,040 Speaker 2: It's when the person continues when you can come back 973 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 2: as a friend and go, Okay, I don't I'm not 974 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 2: gonna be aro on this. Yeah, yeah that is that 975 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 2: is then in your right to absolutely fel that. And 976 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,800 Speaker 2: then yeah, and I also love how protective she is. 977 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:22,040 Speaker 3: Yeah I do too. 978 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 1: I do like that it comes from a protection place, 979 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 1: which I do in a loyalty place, Yeah, I do 980 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 1: love that. 981 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 2: I like that a lot. 982 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I mean I would want that in a friend. 983 00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't want a friend who you know doesn't even 984 00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,239 Speaker 1: think twice about it, you know, and is like, oh, 985 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,359 Speaker 1: who cares. They're different, you know, Like I would want 986 00:48:37,400 --> 00:48:39,680 Speaker 1: that in a friend, to be a little hesitant, you know, 987 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 1: to be a little protective and care enough about me. 988 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,240 Speaker 2: Right then I go to like the woman who's married, 989 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 2: and I'm like, gosh, you know, she's running this like tight. 990 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 2: Like my friend doesn't super love him. He had this 991 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:52,680 Speaker 2: thing at the beginning, like that's just it and that's 992 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 2: a twice to be too. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, well ladies, 993 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 2: I did it today. Girls. 994 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:00,840 Speaker 3: We just made a wanted plans. 995 00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:07,040 Speaker 2: I'm excited for you to go put these plans in action. Yeah, okay, 996 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,319 Speaker 2: bye bye bye