WEBVTT - Sticker Shock

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, everybody freshesh off the Q train from downtown

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<v Speaker 1>Ropes and TJ coming to you from the iHeart Studios

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<v Speaker 1>in Midtown man Hattan. Wherever you are, glad you are

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<v Speaker 1>with us, and this is going to robes be the

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<v Speaker 1>final podcast episode that we're recording before your birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's right, you will.

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<v Speaker 1>Be a new woman and the next time we work

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<v Speaker 1>in studio to get.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I'll be officially in my fifties. Oh that sounds

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<v Speaker 2>different than saying I just turned fifty. I'll be in

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<v Speaker 2>my fifties.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that different?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm in the thick of it, like I'm emergency. Yes, yes, yes, no.

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<v Speaker 2>This is birthday week, so it's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you really what are you looking forward to?

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<v Speaker 3>Then?

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<v Speaker 1>For the new year, the new you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifty one, I'm looking forward to looking forward to things.

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<v Speaker 2>And that is actually true because last year was a

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<v Speaker 2>tough year. It's a big birthday, but it was a

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<v Speaker 2>tough year, and so I didn't feel like I even

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<v Speaker 2>had the bandwidth to hope and to dream and to

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<v Speaker 2>be excited and to look forward to. When you're stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in something and you're overwhelmed by circumstances, you don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 2>think that's one of the losses, is that you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of lose hope and excitement about what's coming. And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel that now, So yes, this is I'm excited about

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<v Speaker 2>turning fifty one and Birthday week is probably going to

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<v Speaker 2>turn into birthday month.

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<v Speaker 1>Just letting you know I will be by your side

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<v Speaker 1>the entirety of it. But it's so cool. It's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things I say about you all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I say it to you privately, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>one of the cutest things about you is that you

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<v Speaker 1>get giddy about the smallest thing. No matter how old

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<v Speaker 1>you get, you you have this kid like exuberance about

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<v Speaker 1>the smallest of things. And it's fun to watch. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>should be like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Ah well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool to watch appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we are turning. Now we're here in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>But we got into it about a story out of Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>And I say got into it because it's just I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's polarizing and you're you're going to have an

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<v Speaker 1>opinion about This story has to do with a mom

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<v Speaker 1>down in Florida who's she hasn't been banned from her kids'

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<v Speaker 1>school necessarily please explain.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, her vehicles have been so that might be the

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<v Speaker 2>best way to put it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Florida Mom and this we.

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<v Speaker 2>Were kind of laughing because we've been re immersing ourselves

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<v Speaker 2>into headlines now getting back into the news cycle, and

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<v Speaker 2>this one really stood out and was a talker. Michelle

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<v Speaker 2>Klein's kids go to this private Christian school, Liberty Christian Prep,

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<v Speaker 2>I believe, And for a couple of years now she's

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<v Speaker 2>worked at the same place, had the same decal on

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<v Speaker 2>her car highlighting where she works, and it didn't seem

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<v Speaker 2>to be a problem until it became one. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>because of where Michelle Clein works.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she has like millions of people do actually and

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<v Speaker 1>OnlyFans dot Com page. She goes by Piper Fawn and

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<v Speaker 1>the decal on the back of her vehicles says just that.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have anything elicit like that, it doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any images of any kind. It just says OnlyFans dot

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<v Speaker 1>Com slash Piper font that is on the back of

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<v Speaker 1>her vehicle. She has been dropping her kids off at

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<v Speaker 1>this school and only recently now has the school told her, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>do not come onto campus or in front of campus.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get specifics because Michelle Klein is standing by to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to us here. Don't bring the vehicle on campus

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<v Speaker 1>to where the other kids can see it. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to go across the street to drop your kids off.

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<v Speaker 2>Which Michelle says causes some safety concerns for her with

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<v Speaker 2>her kids crossing the street. There isn't a crossing guard,

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<v Speaker 2>There isn't a place where she feels comfortable. So there's

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<v Speaker 2>several issues at play here, but a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>questioning why now it's not okay for her to bring

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<v Speaker 2>her vehicle on and what harm does it actually do?

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<v Speaker 2>Where does the school get to say, hey, this is

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<v Speaker 2>what we want, and you know, does majority rule here?

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of questions, a lot of people have

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<v Speaker 2>been mulling around, and so let's bring Michelle Kleine onto

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast now. Michelle, thank you for joining us from Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>What of the past?

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to say a few days, what have

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<v Speaker 2>they been like for you? With now national international intention

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<v Speaker 2>focused on you and your vehicles decals.

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<v Speaker 5>It's funny because I think the perception of how we

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<v Speaker 5>would be or what we are is different. We're just

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<v Speaker 5>normal people. We're just a family of five living doing

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<v Speaker 5>our thing and yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's get some of the timeline right you how long,

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, have you had an OnlyFans page of

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<v Speaker 1>your own?

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<v Speaker 4>I've had the page for probably three years.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Now, I know some of our folks that don't

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<v Speaker 1>know it is. It is a site that's geared towards

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<v Speaker 1>creators who want to use more explicit or sexually engaging content.

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<v Speaker 1>But it doesn't mean that everybody on the page has

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<v Speaker 1>something illicit explicit on their particular pages. So you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us what types of things you do have on your

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<v Speaker 1>Only Fans.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'll be honest.

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<v Speaker 5>Mine is definitely explicit, and I was, you know, I

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<v Speaker 5>told the news that as well. It definitely is. It's

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not on go and make cookies, so it's definitely

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<v Speaker 5>explicit material. However, I guess however it can be looked at.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm sure there's every point of view we

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<v Speaker 5>could always give on this, But for me, it's just

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<v Speaker 5>like it's just my husband and I. I don't have

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<v Speaker 5>anyone else joining us, never have, never will. That's not

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<v Speaker 5>saying we're not into like swinging or you know, sharing

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<v Speaker 5>and swapping. Like it's just the two of us and

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<v Speaker 5>before we got into the site. It was always something

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<v Speaker 5>we kind of did for fun, you know, just the

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<v Speaker 5>two of us. We'd send pictures back and forth, videos, whatever,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. And then I had you know, people around

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<v Speaker 5>me that were talking about it a few years ago,

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<v Speaker 5>and we were at first we were like, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know if we want.

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<v Speaker 4>To get into that.

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<v Speaker 5>So then it was we would you know, edit my

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<v Speaker 5>pictures and I would hide my face, cover my tattoos.

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<v Speaker 5>And then that just became so much time in editing,

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<v Speaker 5>and we kind of had this idea and this comedy's

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<v Speaker 5>meetings to speak ironically, and we were like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>let's just kind of make it to where we're you know,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's either put our foot in and go all

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<v Speaker 5>the way or don't. And so we just did it.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I got to Decal probably about a year

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<v Speaker 5>and two. We got the details on the cars, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>drove for two years in the school.

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<v Speaker 4>No one had an issue, and then all of a sudden.

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<v Speaker 2>So then, at what point did you find out that

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<v Speaker 2>someone had an issue? How did you find out there

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<v Speaker 2>was a problem.

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<v Speaker 5>It was approx. With me three weeks ago roughly, it

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty recent. A angry mom h sent me a

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<v Speaker 5>Facebook message, and at first she was just, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>saying I saw this behind a car on Tuesday. It

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<v Speaker 5>was a couple of days prior, and she's like, I

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<v Speaker 5>just I don't think it's appropriate for you to put

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<v Speaker 5>this on there. And my responsor is, you know, basically,

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<v Speaker 5>mind your business. I feel like she was saying, I

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<v Speaker 5>was livid. I saw it. I had a problem, I

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<v Speaker 5>I I. But she never once said my kids questioned it,

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<v Speaker 5>my kids want to know what it was. She never

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<v Speaker 5>once brought up the kids having an issue. It was

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<v Speaker 5>just her having an issue. And I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not saying kids will know what it is. But my

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<v Speaker 5>kids don't get in there and look in, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>at cars when I'm pulling up for drop off.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't have time to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>We drop off, we're there for five minutes, and we're like,

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<v Speaker 5>they don't sit there and look at cars and what morning?

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<v Speaker 4>What's that? What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>We don't do that? And then pick up bline. The

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<v Speaker 5>kids aren't there. It's a mom's sitting in the car,

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<v Speaker 5>so they don't see it until.

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<v Speaker 4>I drive away. You know, I really feel like it's

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<v Speaker 4>started from that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, how long have your your kids have been

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<v Speaker 1>you said two years. You've been doing drop off pick

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<v Speaker 1>up this school for two years, right, without a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your kids? How old are your kids?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 5>I have three? My oldest is fourteen. She doesn't go

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<v Speaker 5>there anymore, she's home school. Does don't think she's actually

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<v Speaker 5>like ahead of herself. She's going to graduate in like

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<v Speaker 5>two years, like she's crazy ahead. Other two are eleven

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<v Speaker 5>and twelve, so they're elementary and then middle school.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, have they had any issues at school? Is anyone

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<v Speaker 1>picking on it? Have they complained at all?

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<v Speaker 3>To you?

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<v Speaker 5>My fifth grader had more talk in her class than

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<v Speaker 5>my eighth grader did, which to me, I think is

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<v Speaker 5>kind of crazy because that tells me that I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like that's parents complaining about it and the kids are

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<v Speaker 5>passing on. Because my fifth gradermar I can tell you

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<v Speaker 5>right now, she doesn't have a clue about what's going on,

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<v Speaker 5>like than what I tell her.

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<v Speaker 4>Like they don't talk about it.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like people around them bring more light to

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<v Speaker 5>it and discuss it way more than we do. They

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<v Speaker 5>just don't really care, you know, until it's brought up

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<v Speaker 5>to them or thrown their face.

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<v Speaker 4>They don't care. And I've just instructed them, like if

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<v Speaker 4>get th rob at school, we don't talk about it.

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<v Speaker 4>We just say we're not going to discuss it. We

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<v Speaker 4>just let it be.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, everyone's going to have an opinion. We just

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<v Speaker 5>we don't discuss it. And so far it's been okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's really good to hear, because I was going

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you, Michelle, how much do your kids know

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<v Speaker 2>what it is that you do for a living, Like

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<v Speaker 2>what do you tell them? And has that changed?

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<v Speaker 5>Thus all of this sounds funny, But the kids, we

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<v Speaker 5>just say a sexy time because they started calling it,

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<v Speaker 5>so they know that it's sexy time between mommy and daddy,

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<v Speaker 5>and they know that we like to film it. They

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<v Speaker 5>do think it's like, eh, gross, you know. Of course,

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<v Speaker 5>because we're the parents. Of course they don't think it's

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<v Speaker 5>like funny or love it, you know. But at the

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<v Speaker 5>end of the day, like they know that, and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>honest with them about what it is, and that's all

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<v Speaker 5>we really say. And we do have a studio that

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<v Speaker 5>I do outside of the house, so I don't do

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<v Speaker 5>any filming. It's not like you walk in my bedroom

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<v Speaker 5>and the tripods and cameras and lights set up, you

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<v Speaker 5>know there's something like that. My house is very normal,

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<v Speaker 5>we have a normal household, normal daily whatever. I know,

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<v Speaker 5>when they go to school, I go to work for

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<v Speaker 5>a couple hours, and.

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<v Speaker 4>That's how I spend my time. So I mean, so.

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<v Speaker 5>Far they really, I mean I was. I had to

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<v Speaker 5>be honest with them and tell them because I look

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<v Speaker 5>at things where the delivery of things means a lot,

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<v Speaker 5>and I feel like if they delivered this by a

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<v Speaker 5>classmate versus hearing it from me, you can come out

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<v Speaker 5>differently and they can have a different perspective on it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I feel like if I kind of told them

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<v Speaker 5>ahead of time before it ever got brought up a

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<v Speaker 5>couple of years ago, you know, when I got the

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<v Speaker 5>decals in my car, that's when.

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<v Speaker 4>I let the kids know. So but they handled okay

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<v Speaker 4>so far.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously you're not doing anything illegal. Obviously the site

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<v Speaker 1>is up and wildly popular. I've read that only fans

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<v Speaker 1>brought in five plus billion dollars in revenue from users

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<v Speaker 1>get twenty two the last time. Its twenty two when

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<v Speaker 1>they last reported. So this thing is popular. You can

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<v Speaker 1>make money doing it. A lot people do it, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's not the issue. So it is the issue,

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<v Speaker 1>in your opinion, not really a disapproval of the decal,

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<v Speaker 1>But all of these people are really expressing a disapproval

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<v Speaker 1>of you and what you do and how you're making money.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's funny that just now it's coming out,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I understand, if I'll be honest, if I would

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<v Speaker 5>have had on for a month and I had this

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<v Speaker 5>kind of blow, I probably would have taken it off.

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<v Speaker 4>I probably like, okay, clearly that the people are really offended.

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<v Speaker 4>This is not going to be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to remove it.

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<v Speaker 5>But I went a solid two years and two almost

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<v Speaker 5>two full school years and no one said a word

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<v Speaker 5>to me. I mean, and I've actually had meetings with

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<v Speaker 5>the principal about completely different things just grades or whatever.

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<v Speaker 5>Behavior nothing else knew bad and every one since it's

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<v Speaker 5>brought up, not one time. And so that's why I

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<v Speaker 5>can tell the school didn't have the issue. Wasn't the

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<v Speaker 5>school of the problem. It was a parent to just

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<v Speaker 5>complain and got her viewers, you know, talking. And at

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<v Speaker 5>the end of the day, I don't care about being

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<v Speaker 5>on campus. It's not really a problem for me, to

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<v Speaker 5>be honest, to walk my kids across like I've heard

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of misconciption's like, oh, you're too lazy to

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<v Speaker 5>walk your kids across.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not the point.

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<v Speaker 5>The fact of the matter is that since August, there's

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<v Speaker 5>been three wrecks right there at this intersection where the

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<v Speaker 5>people pull out of school. The last one was right

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<v Speaker 5>before Christmas, like a gentleman with a seven year old in.

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<v Speaker 4>The car got ta bone and it was a pretty

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<v Speaker 4>severe accident. So my thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And there's multiple neighborhoods nearby the kids walk from. So honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>it's not even just about my kids, because whether I'm

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<v Speaker 5>there or not, that's irrelevant. I just think there's other

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<v Speaker 5>kids that are here that we should at least in

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<v Speaker 5>place like a pedestrian crosswalk.

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<v Speaker 4>Something along the lines right here.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, they do it in downtown, and they do

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<v Speaker 5>it in bigger areas all the time. Why how hard

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<v Speaker 5>would it be to put the little flashing light where,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, recognize that someone there, people stop and let

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<v Speaker 5>a kid cross.

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<v Speaker 2>What has the school specifically told you, what do they

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<v Speaker 2>want from you? And what have the conversations been.

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<v Speaker 5>Like so other than the first couple of emails that

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<v Speaker 5>I got just basically telling me not to come on campus.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't heard anything since the brokeround the press and

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<v Speaker 5>everything we haven't discussed. I've respectfully not even mentioned like

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<v Speaker 5>the principal's name.

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<v Speaker 4>I just I'm not out.

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<v Speaker 5>To badger them or to complain to them.

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<v Speaker 4>And honestly, I didn't ask for this fight, and I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I just feel like I've come three years into it.

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<v Speaker 5>Why back down at this point?

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<v Speaker 2>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>If I backed down this point, that's like everything I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever done, all the hate I've ever put up with

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<v Speaker 5>this for for nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>So why not? Like, I'm not going to stop now,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I've already had it out there, so now I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>gonna quit just because when Mom got mad and got offended.

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<v Speaker 5>But there is other issues you know, that are I

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<v Speaker 5>think that are deeper for her. I think hers honestly

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<v Speaker 5>started out was she supposedly had been complaining about this

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<v Speaker 5>for a while, and I just got told three weeks ago,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's where she was telling me, you know you've

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<v Speaker 5>been asked multiple times to take this down.

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<v Speaker 4>Well no I haven't.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I have the one email that got sent

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<v Speaker 5>literally approxiing three weeks ago and just said we asked

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<v Speaker 5>that you don't bring your car on canvas anymore. And

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<v Speaker 5>then he The words they used were it was causing

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<v Speaker 5>disharmony in the school.

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<v Speaker 1>So you you mentioned this, uh, this other parent, this mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this someone you had a relationship with prior to

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<v Speaker 1>all this happening.

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<v Speaker 5>I had never met her and knew of her. It

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<v Speaker 5>was funny last year my son and her son actually

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<v Speaker 5>ran cross country together, and they were really good buddies.

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<v Speaker 5>He's a year younger than my son, but they're really

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<v Speaker 5>good buddies and really good terms. And I'd always met

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<v Speaker 5>the dad, but the mom was never there, so I

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<v Speaker 5>had no idea this is even the mom. And even

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<v Speaker 5>when I lashed back at her, it wasn't really honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>until we saw in the news and my son said, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>that's so and So's mom, Like I know her, and

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<v Speaker 5>so that's kind of how I even realized that our

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<v Speaker 5>kids were friends last year. And what was funny is like,

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<v Speaker 5>when I'm going to track meets last year and all

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<v Speaker 5>these cross country meets, I had my car then with

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<v Speaker 5>the liggo on it, and her husband was freely speaking

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<v Speaker 5>with us and talking to us and friendly and kind

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<v Speaker 5>and never said a word. But then now this year,

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<v Speaker 5>she sees it and it's the world ends.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Michelle, have you all talked? Have you actually talked

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<v Speaker 1>since all this has gone down? Okay, do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her? And do you think you should

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<v Speaker 1>right parents setting an example maybe through the kids that yay,

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<v Speaker 1>we can work out our differences kind of things.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a third lady from the school that I

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<v Speaker 5>actually have dealt with by volunteering and things of that sort,

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<v Speaker 5>and she actually reached out to me and she was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to know that I may not personally

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<v Speaker 5>agree with you, but I also don't agree with the

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<v Speaker 5>school either, and she kind of turned it into twists,

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I think you two should come together, with

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<v Speaker 5>the amount of social media that you both have come

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<v Speaker 5>together and voice the issues about the school. And that's

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<v Speaker 5>honestly what I ever care about. I don't need the media.

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't looking for like a payout. I wasn't I'm

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<v Speaker 5>definitely not going to try to sue the school and

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<v Speaker 5>never contact a lawyer. That was never I don't care

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<v Speaker 5>what's up even if I could. That's not what I'm

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<v Speaker 5>trying to do. I don't, that's not I'm not trying

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<v Speaker 5>to set that presence for anyone. I just simply am

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<v Speaker 5>just fighting for my rights and just defending myself like anyone.

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<v Speaker 5>Would you know, I want my kids to understand that

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<v Speaker 5>they can stand up for themselves. You know, when they

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<v Speaker 5>feel that they're doing something right and they're not hurting anyone,

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<v Speaker 5>then I feel like they should defend themselves. I can

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<v Speaker 5>respect how people feel, but I also feel like people saying,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, oh, you're soliciting sex to kids at a school. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't purposely put the logo on to take you

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<v Speaker 5>to school and solicit It's just on there permanently, and

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<v Speaker 5>it goes everywhere I go. I don't necessarily try to

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<v Speaker 5>pick up people from Walmart either, but it's on my

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<v Speaker 5>car when I go there.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you consider did you consider at any point saying

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<v Speaker 2>all right, all cover it up when I pull into school?

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<v Speaker 2>Was that something you ever even thought you might do?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, when I first had last year put it

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<v Speaker 5>on and I drove in, I honestly was prepared for

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<v Speaker 5>this kind of backlash back then. I was prepared for

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<v Speaker 5>right away be like whoa, people like why you're not?

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<v Speaker 5>What's what's going on? You know? And then I probably

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<v Speaker 5>would have just removed it because it would have been

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<v Speaker 5>a media issue. But now the fact that it's been

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<v Speaker 5>so long and now just one person just wants to

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<v Speaker 5>say something, and I just I guess I'm being defensive,

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<v Speaker 5>and to be honest with you, it's really not that

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<v Speaker 5>much bish. If we go to walk my kids across

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<v Speaker 5>the street, I don't really mind doing that. That's not

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<v Speaker 5>the point, the more or less the point, it's just okay,

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<v Speaker 5>if you're going to have me do that, well, then

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<v Speaker 5>while I'm doing it, you should look at the safety

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<v Speaker 5>for all the kids crossing the street. You know, consider

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<v Speaker 5>this for everyone. And it's like, if nothing else, if

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<v Speaker 5>all this hate that I'm getting, if it comes out

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<v Speaker 5>to where they do put some kind of safety there

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<v Speaker 5>for the kids across, then I feel like I've done

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<v Speaker 5>my job and I'll take the heat for that. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't care like ultimately that's what's saving the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Show what does a win look like in this situation?

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<v Speaker 1>And it doesn't have to be a win, could just

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<v Speaker 1>be standing up for yourself and not backing down. But

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, what is a resolution between you and the school,

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<v Speaker 1>or even you and the school and this particular parent.

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<v Speaker 1>What's a resolution that you would feel good about.

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<v Speaker 4>I honestly am okay with the school.

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<v Speaker 5>You're most likely playing my kids out, and I have

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<v Speaker 5>considered just, you know, like doing homeschooling and then having

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<v Speaker 5>a private tutor a couple of days a week, just

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<v Speaker 5>to avoid the issues. I'm not here trying to surgrama.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, Like there's an event that's happening this week

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<v Speaker 5>in my kids' school that one of my daughters just

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<v Speaker 5>having a chapel service, and obviously I want to go

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<v Speaker 5>to it, so I'm going to have to either park

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<v Speaker 5>off campus or I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Kind of an asshole.

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<v Speaker 5>So I kind of what I will do is I'll

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<v Speaker 5>go get a black towel and just cover up only

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<v Speaker 5>fans in the back going car, take it on there

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<v Speaker 5>and still leave Piper Fun showing. And then I'll go

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<v Speaker 5>to the school and I'll participate and then i'll leave.

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<v Speaker 5>But then it's not showing a link, it's just showing

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<v Speaker 5>a name. So I mean, I'm kind of that jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're petty. That's my kind of petty I.

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<v Speaker 4>Am.

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<v Speaker 5>I was tempted, honestly, to get a T shirt made

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<v Speaker 5>and just say Piper Fun across the back with no

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<v Speaker 5>logo just my name.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's like, I'm sure I'm already.

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<v Speaker 5>Gonna get hates from hell, you know, awful looks when

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<v Speaker 5>I walk in there to this event this week. So

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<v Speaker 5>but at the end of the day, like I don't,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't walk in school wearing Gucci clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't portray myself as trashy like I wear normal

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<v Speaker 5>things I wear. You know, I'm modest, I don't. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't try to like show my body off everywhere

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<v Speaker 5>we go. It's not like that. It's basically, this is something.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes it's been advertised to be a big deal, but

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<v Speaker 5>I don't openly just show everything, you know, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not open with myself in that way. So it's

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<v Speaker 5>like work is work.

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<v Speaker 4>And then when I'm with my family, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a mom like And I think that's a misconception,

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<v Speaker 5>feel to think that I have this portrayed, you know, character,

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<v Speaker 5>and I just I show it all the time. But

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<v Speaker 5>I can separate the two, And I think that's why

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<v Speaker 5>people don't realize.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just imagining. I mean, I know you were

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<v Speaker 2>kind of going through it in your head too, what

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<v Speaker 2>it'll be like now, so, yes, maybe you cover up

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<v Speaker 2>part of what you have to cover up in your

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<v Speaker 2>car to get into the actual school area, but when

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<v Speaker 2>you're physically there, what are you anticipating, I mean, from

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<v Speaker 2>the other parents.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's going to be awful.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's going to be super uncomfortable. I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>one that ever likes conversation. But also, if it comes

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<v Speaker 5>to me, I will handle it if I need to.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not scared. If I won't back down, I'll defend myself.

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<v Speaker 5>And I've always told my kids even when you're wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll defend you the best I can, you know, because

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<v Speaker 5>that's what I'm your mom. So I believe in defending

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<v Speaker 5>our rights and what we feel is right. And I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not saying like go crazy, like hi a lawyer type,

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<v Speaker 5>get my rights, you know whatever. But i just saying

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<v Speaker 5>to defend yourself when you need to. I'm sure it's

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<v Speaker 5>going to be super awkward. I'm sure I want to

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<v Speaker 5>get a lot of looks because people just recognize me

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<v Speaker 5>and if they don't have to, even if they don't

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<v Speaker 5>see the car, they still recognize me. And at end

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<v Speaker 5>of the day, I'm here for my kids. So I

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<v Speaker 5>mean and I was laughing last night. My kids are

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<v Speaker 5>doing like a little dance thing on Guitar Hero or

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<v Speaker 5>whatever it is on the TV, and my parents were

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<v Speaker 5>over and we're.

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<v Speaker 4>Watching them and they're playing like life is normal.

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<v Speaker 5>And I just I looked at them and I said

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<v Speaker 5>to my parents, I'm like, it's so funny, because if

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<v Speaker 5>you ask anyone else, my kids are traumatized and just

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<v Speaker 5>horrible and just to have this terrible, you know, emotional

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<v Speaker 5>distress right now and that's really not it. Like, look

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<v Speaker 5>at these kids, like how happy they are, Like they're fine.

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<v Speaker 5>They don't they don't care about what goes on until

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<v Speaker 5>people give it life and bring it to them and

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<v Speaker 5>talk about it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like and that's what I want. I keep trying

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<v Speaker 4>to say.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like the more it's brought up and made about

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<v Speaker 5>a big deal, the bigger it's going to last, the

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<v Speaker 5>longer it's going to continue. And like the fact that

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<v Speaker 5>my fifth grader got talked about the next day with

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<v Speaker 5>her friends and my eighth grader didn't, that tells you

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<v Speaker 5>right there. That's parents talking like they're making it worse.

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<v Speaker 5>They're saying they don't want me to bring it out

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<v Speaker 5>to their kids, But then they talk about it in

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<v Speaker 5>front of them and they're they're they're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>It, not me, Michelle, what is I stilled the part

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<v Speaker 1>about it being super awkward at an event for your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Now again, people around town have known, they they knew

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<v Speaker 1>about your site. But you think now just because the

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<v Speaker 1>news is out there, they've been aware. We all been

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<v Speaker 1>to PTA meetings, people buzz, they talk, they gossipy. Everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>known this, So why why would they be giving you

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<v Speaker 1>looks now just because it hit the news.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if it's well, it's because too the

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<v Speaker 5>news is betrayed and people look at it as like

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just, you know, just out to get a buck

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm trying to you know, solicit my kids or

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<v Speaker 5>exploit my kids to make a buck. And that was

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<v Speaker 5>over my intention that when they contacted me, I could

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<v Speaker 5>have just backed down and said no comment, but I

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<v Speaker 5>chose to defend myself because yes, you're right, it has

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<v Speaker 5>already been out there.

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<v Speaker 4>It's already been on my car.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not a new thing that I'm just like trying

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<v Speaker 5>to see how it goes. Like it's been there, so

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<v Speaker 5>I was never out to make a buck off of anything.

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<v Speaker 5>But I just felt like I needed to defend myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it is a Christian school. And I'll assume then

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<v Speaker 2>you wanted your children to have Christian values as a

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<v Speaker 2>part of their learning. What do you think the takeaway

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<v Speaker 2>for them is watching all of this happen, and what

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<v Speaker 2>do you want to make sure they know as their mother.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's got to be a tough spot to.

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<v Speaker 5>Be in, absolutely, and to be honest, to give you

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<v Speaker 5>a little bit of backstory, is we actually the church

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<v Speaker 5>that's affiliated went to school. We actually attended that church

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<v Speaker 5>for a long time where and I honestly grew up

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<v Speaker 5>Church of Christ. So I was very My parents are strict.

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<v Speaker 5>My parents don't agree with what I'm doing. They don't

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<v Speaker 5>just own me for it, like I said there in

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<v Speaker 5>my house last night. So they definitely, you know, don't

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<v Speaker 5>They don't love it, and they're like, you know, you're

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<v Speaker 5>reads bread than this. But they also know that I'm

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<v Speaker 5>an adult and they can't really control that. They just

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<v Speaker 5>have to, like you know, just be there for me

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<v Speaker 5>for any issues to school. And I know there's kids

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<v Speaker 5>like I recognize all of that, but in the day,

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<v Speaker 5>like like you said, it's just a link. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>have an explicit picture up there, and it's blocked by

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<v Speaker 5>a paywall, you know, I mean porn hub.

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<v Speaker 4>It's free access.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyone can type it in. Is there at least mine?

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<v Speaker 5>You can't see anything. There's not even any dirty wording.

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<v Speaker 5>Until you pay, you can't see anything. All it says

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<v Speaker 5>is my name in a brief file, which is very

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<v Speaker 5>simple and very modest until you pay and use a

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<v Speaker 5>credit card and have an ID. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 5>if a kid gains at that point, and that's the

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<v Speaker 5>parent's fault because why are they allowing that to happening.

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<v Speaker 4>You're supposed to be eighteen to access to.

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<v Speaker 1>Stuff, all right, all right, Michelle, this is the point

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<v Speaker 1>where I'll let you speak to to the folks, because

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<v Speaker 1>folks of they are listening to this. There are some

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<v Speaker 1>in the camp saying, lady, come on, just take the

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<v Speaker 1>thing off the bag. It's a school. It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. Even though it doesn't say anything explicit, it

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<v Speaker 1>is still the advertisement sending people to something that does

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<v Speaker 1>have explicit Come on, lady, just take the thing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to those folks for a moment. Whose sake, we

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<v Speaker 1>can sul why is it not okay to just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>cave and concede that some people don't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>that around the school.

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<v Speaker 5>And I respect that, and that's why I've had no

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<v Speaker 5>issue parking off campus. I'm just doing what they ask,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. I realize they don't love it. So that's

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<v Speaker 5>why I'm not fighting trying to say I want to

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<v Speaker 5>be on campus.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to do it. I want to do it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just respected they've asked. I've never gone back and

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<v Speaker 4>forth I argued with him.

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<v Speaker 5>I just have said okay, And ever since he asked us,

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<v Speaker 5>we've been parking, you know, off campus to do so.

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<v Speaker 5>And again as a mom and maybe prior to not

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<v Speaker 5>being in this and not having the different perspective on

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<v Speaker 5>this that I do now, I can't say that I

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<v Speaker 5>would disagree with these women and the parents that are

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<v Speaker 5>feeling this way. I can't say that I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 5>been the same thing, like really, but I also am

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<v Speaker 5>not the one to run my mouth. I'm really I asked,

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<v Speaker 5>so then of the day I kind of tell like, well,

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<v Speaker 5>that's it's you. You do you, that's your thing. But

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<v Speaker 5>so I don't disagree that they feel a type of

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<v Speaker 5>way I'm not knocking them for having that feeling. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>they're entitled to that, just like I'm entitled to feel

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<v Speaker 5>how I want to feel. And again I'm never I

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<v Speaker 5>was never there to push it on anybody. It's just

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<v Speaker 5>simply it was on my car because I do drive

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<v Speaker 5>her out a lot, and it is good advertising. It

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<v Speaker 5>was never meant to affect the school, you know. It

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<v Speaker 5>was just done to just benefit my business, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And like I said, this has been on there so long,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's like it's just funny to just now come out.

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<v Speaker 4>You to now be a.

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<v Speaker 2>Problem, Michelle, How's business now?

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<v Speaker 4>Really good? Really really good?

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<v Speaker 5>And that's what's funny is because one lady made a

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<v Speaker 5>comment I wanted the news posted. And honestly, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>really give into those. I just ignore most of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't don't faint into the comments. And I know people

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<v Speaker 5>are gonna hate, and I've prepared for that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>it's been pretty brutal about the oh you're such a

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<v Speaker 5>terrible mom, you know, like you're disgusting, and like, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 5>The funniest thing is, I don't know if I can

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<v Speaker 5>say this in your podcast, they'll say, like you're a

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<v Speaker 5>whore mich. Well, technically that means if I see by

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<v Speaker 5>multiple people and I'm not I'm only doing it with

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<v Speaker 5>my husband who I'm married to, So technically that's not

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<v Speaker 5>the proper term.

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<v Speaker 4>But if you want to say trashy, say trashy, but

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<v Speaker 4>you can't really call me that because I'm technically not

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<v Speaker 4>that your.

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<v Speaker 5>Insults correct, Yeah, exactly, Like if you're going to call

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<v Speaker 5>me something, get it right. But my thing is like

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<v Speaker 5>they keep giving it life and it just keeps going,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's like, I obviously didn't expect that plan on that.

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<v Speaker 5>I simply was just coming to defense to my own self.

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<v Speaker 5>I had no idea like what it was going to become.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I had an idea I would obviously get

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<v Speaker 5>an increased, but never what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't expect it.

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<v Speaker 1>How big of like that?

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<v Speaker 4>We want to?

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<v Speaker 2>Can we ask how big of an increase?

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<v Speaker 4>I can say as far as.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say, well, as far as money, it's several thousands,

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<v Speaker 5>several thousands, like more than quadurable.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can tell how many new subscribers are new

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<v Speaker 1>views to your page. I'm not sure. Listen to me,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea how this works. But I actually

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<v Speaker 1>don't drivers.

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<v Speaker 4>I went from a few hundred to like several thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and then yeah, it's crazy I had. I had

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<v Speaker 5>no idea that it was going to be like that.

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<v Speaker 5>And I mean again, I wasn't out looking for a book.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I know people say like, oh, this is

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<v Speaker 5>a plublicity sun she planned list, but I really didn't.

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 5>I just like it came at me about needing something,

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<v Speaker 5>and I went back and defended it, and it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm defending myself, and then before I know it, it was

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<v Speaker 5>this huge news story.

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<v Speaker 4>Like I didn't really realize it was going to take

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<v Speaker 4>such life.

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<v Speaker 1>Its a long game.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious, is this your only source of income? Explain,

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<v Speaker 2>explain to us how much you count on this page

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<v Speaker 2>to pay your bills.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's always been like an extra. It's always basically

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<v Speaker 5>always had my studio bills. It always will cover my

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<v Speaker 5>studio rent, my utilities there, anything I need, theirs for

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:03.960
<v Speaker 5>his furniture, lighting upgrades, everything there, and then it's always

0:27:04.000 --> 0:27:06.200
<v Speaker 5>been extra. So technically I would always pay that in

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:08.320
<v Speaker 5>my house mortgage as well, so basically just kind of

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<v Speaker 5>covers all my big bills.

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<v Speaker 4>So anything extra that I make as far as because

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<v Speaker 4>as I do cut hair as well.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been cutting hair since I was sixteen, so I

0:27:15.280 --> 0:27:18.920
<v Speaker 5>do that as well. I incorporate some topless haircuts, so

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<v Speaker 5>that kind of took a life of its own and

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:24.399
<v Speaker 5>made some money. I did a few events actually with

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<v Speaker 5>like Trucks Gone Wilds you know, sponsored me, and I

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<v Speaker 5>did some events with them, and did you know, something

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<v Speaker 5>like a tent outside I had to have covered up,

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<v Speaker 5>you know whatever. But yeah, I've done things like that,

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<v Speaker 5>and so that's definitely helped too. So it's not my

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<v Speaker 5>main source that I rely on. I mean, now I

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<v Speaker 5>could definitely just rely on it, but I haven't ever.

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<v Speaker 5>I've always had I like to have not have my

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<v Speaker 5>eggs in my basket. I like to always be hustling

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<v Speaker 5>and kind of doing multiple things and always just be

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<v Speaker 5>on my toes.

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<v Speaker 4>My husband does ecy.

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<v Speaker 5>Work for a living as well, so he has his

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<v Speaker 5>own business doing that, so we kind of just dabbling whatever.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't ever want to count on one thing and

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<v Speaker 5>just expect that other people desires or I was going

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<v Speaker 5>to basically pay my bills, you know, because I know

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<v Speaker 5>any day that could be over and it's tomorrow that

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<v Speaker 5>could be done. So I don't try to depend on

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<v Speaker 5>and expect that it's going to be there forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe, you said something earlier when referencing your parents who

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<v Speaker 1>were at your house. So you you say, of course

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<v Speaker 1>they love you, love the kids, love the fans, all this,

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<v Speaker 1>and even though they might not agree with what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 1>But you use the phrase raised better than this you

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<v Speaker 1>were selling. You said you had a strict upbringing and

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<v Speaker 1>going to the kids, going to your kids. Now you

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<v Speaker 1>chose to have them at a private Christian school. So

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<v Speaker 1>how do you and how does anyone reconcile?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>The family members or even maybe somewhere in your own

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<v Speaker 1>mind at some point in recent years would have looked

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<v Speaker 1>at someone doing what you're doing and said that's not

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<v Speaker 1>for me, because I was raised better than this. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>people who look at you and say that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>you should be doing, even having kids in the house,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you and help me there? I was raised

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<v Speaker 1>in the church as well, But how do you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of reconcile those two worlds of yours that are kind

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<v Speaker 1>of certainly colliding.

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<v Speaker 4>So growing up I was raised for to Christ.

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<v Speaker 5>I was in church, three times a week, Sunday morning,

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<v Speaker 5>Sunday night, Wednesday night, and there is no missing it.

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<v Speaker 4>And if we were out.

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<v Speaker 5>Of town on Sunday, but we had our own little

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<v Speaker 5>church service in a hotel room, like, we didn't miss

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<v Speaker 5>it for the world.

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<v Speaker 4>So, if anything, when I.

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<v Speaker 5>Turned around, you know, nineteen twenty and I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>moved out of my parents' house, I did get out

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<v Speaker 5>of the church a little bit because I felt a

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<v Speaker 5>little like so pressured for my whole life of always

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<v Speaker 5>being in it. So then I was obviously as I

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<v Speaker 5>had kids, and I wanted them to be part of

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<v Speaker 5>it because that was my childhood growing up and it

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<v Speaker 5>was important to me.

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<v Speaker 4>So when we started hitting.

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<v Speaker 5>This church probably six years ago, we weren't doing this.

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<v Speaker 5>We were just fully into church and we were just

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<v Speaker 5>both working normal jobs. So I was in a barbershop

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:53.280
<v Speaker 5>cutting hair. He was working for an easy company. He

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 5>actually took care of the air conditioning for the entire

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<v Speaker 5>school and the church, my husband did at one point,

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<v Speaker 5>and that the game an issue. Yeah, obviously didn't last

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<v Speaker 5>when the well, once that kind of went away, that's

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<v Speaker 5>when I kind of had a little bit of an

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<v Speaker 5>f you attitude and like Okay, I'm putting a detail

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<v Speaker 5>in my car like that's kind of how it started,

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<v Speaker 5>because I felt like he got a little pushed out.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't like the way it was handled.

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<v Speaker 5>So if you wanted the true backstory, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 5>how it starts, then we still.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, Michelle, that was a very important detail.

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<v Speaker 4>Just you guys got the first two on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're telling me this whole thing started as kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a beef, if you will, between you and the church,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just kind of did it as a as

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<v Speaker 1>an f you to the to the church.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean went to the church.

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<v Speaker 5>That sounds sad, I don't like to say that, but

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<v Speaker 5>too definitely to the school because ultimately what happened, I'm

0:30:40.120 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 5>getting super long winded about it. Basically, the headmaster didn't

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<v Speaker 5>have much of a backbone, so when he was told

0:30:46.960 --> 0:30:49.200
<v Speaker 5>to basical kind of pushed my husband out, so to speak. Again,

0:30:49.400 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 5>pre only fans, pre decals, pre all that stuff. We

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 5>were fully going, dedicated to the church in every event

0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 5>they had. We were doing everything they could, just super involved,

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<v Speaker 5>going to little life groups, the preachers how you know,

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<v Speaker 5>just very very much included. And I mean even when

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<v Speaker 5>I had my boob job, a couple of years ago,

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<v Speaker 5>and the preacher's wife brought me food to our house

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<v Speaker 5>for dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, we're very close.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know you had great stories.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys are hearing all over there, so yeah, I

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<v Speaker 5>mean that's kind of how it was. Like we were

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<v Speaker 5>very close with everyone in the church, and we like

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 5>we che didn't like family, and to be honest, even

0:31:26.280 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 5>more backstory, after before all this even started, probably about

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<v Speaker 5>three months ago, my husband and I just reached out

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<v Speaker 5>to the preacher even though we weren't going there anymore.

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:35.200
<v Speaker 5>I just couldn't ask for some like just couples counseling,

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<v Speaker 5>just because it's healthy and good, and we figured, why

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<v Speaker 5>not just stronger, make our marriage stronger.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>He ignored the call text wait like three or four days,

0:31:43.200 --> 0:31:44.840
<v Speaker 5>and then passed them on to someone else. Here, here's

0:31:44.840 --> 0:31:47.200
<v Speaker 5>a number of someone else you can call. So again

0:31:47.280 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 5>I felt very like, okay, like a few again, you know,

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:52.880
<v Speaker 5>I felt a little bit like shit, like sorry friendly,

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I can say that, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I just didn't like the way I was felt I

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<v Speaker 4>was treated.

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<v Speaker 5>And again, you know, I know everyone has a type

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:01.280
<v Speaker 5>of feeling of about this, So yeah, I guess that's

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 5>where it kind of started. They pushed them out of

0:32:02.960 --> 0:32:05.240
<v Speaker 5>the ac work and so I was like, Okay, Decay's

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:07.680
<v Speaker 5>in the car. But then still nothing was ever said.

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:10.479
<v Speaker 5>They let it go for two years and then finally

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.000
<v Speaker 5>it takes a mom to say something.

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<v Speaker 4>Michelle.

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<v Speaker 2>Michel, let me ask you this, do you consider yourself

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<v Speaker 2>a Christian?

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<v Speaker 1>I do?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, because here's the way I look at it

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<v Speaker 5>and God's eyes. The way I was always taught and

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<v Speaker 5>the way you know I always grew up was that

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<v Speaker 5>a sinning is a sin is the same you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we as obviously as humans and in real life we

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<v Speaker 5>have different levels of you know, what's bad, and some

0:32:31.680 --> 0:32:33.600
<v Speaker 5>have consequences in the law, and you break the law,

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:35.440
<v Speaker 5>you kill someone, and you go to jail. But I

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<v Speaker 5>also feel like I've learned in God's eyes that a

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<v Speaker 5>sin is a sin. Whether you lie or whether you

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<v Speaker 5>shoot someone, You're still in God's eye is an equal sin.

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<v Speaker 5>So like I realized what I'm doing is sinning in

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<v Speaker 5>God's eyes, and according to the Church and Christian beliefs,

0:32:47.480 --> 0:32:48.280
<v Speaker 5>I recognize that.

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 4>But I also at the.

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<v Speaker 5>End of the day, well, when you get on you know,

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<v Speaker 5>online and maybe talk ugly to someone. I judge someone

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<v Speaker 5>online because of what they've done, well, that's sinning. Well

0:32:57.240 --> 0:32:58.920
<v Speaker 5>you lie to someone with that's sinning. Like we can

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:00.600
<v Speaker 5>see and go all day long about what you've done

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<v Speaker 5>wrong or whatever, and in God's eyes, what's bad. But

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<v Speaker 5>that's what the problem is is us, as normal humans,

0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:08.720
<v Speaker 5>we judge each other. We definitely you know, oh, you're

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<v Speaker 5>doing it worse because that's worse than what I'm doing,

0:33:10.760 --> 0:33:12.240
<v Speaker 5>and things like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you know, Michelle, I was going to ask you

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<v Speaker 2>how you for other fellow Christians who don't think you

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<v Speaker 2>could be a Christian and at the same time do

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<v Speaker 2>what you do for a living teach. You and I

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<v Speaker 2>just looked at each other when you said, I know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sinning. What is the actual sin that you're committing?

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<v Speaker 5>I think, biblically speaking, I think pornography in itself would

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<v Speaker 5>probably be wrong if you're looking at from the Christian aspect.

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<v Speaker 4>The way people are looking at it is like, well, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>The privacy of your own home. You should keep your

0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 5>sex life with your husband private. You shouldn't share it,

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:50.880
<v Speaker 5>you know. So I guess that would be where they

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<v Speaker 5>would come from the Christian aspect of what's sinny. I

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<v Speaker 5>would think they would say that, well, you're selling pornography,

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<v Speaker 5>so that's not okay.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's my thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I could see the being this upset if I was

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<v Speaker 5>like had to slew of guys on there or something,

0:34:05.120 --> 0:34:08.600
<v Speaker 5>but that is It may sound stupid or hypocritical to say,

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:10.600
<v Speaker 5>but my husband I both agree we got into this

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<v Speaker 5>that we are going to keep our morals. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>we weren't going to be crazy, and like, sure, there's

0:34:15.080 --> 0:34:17.359
<v Speaker 5>been tons of offers to make money and do other

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.480
<v Speaker 5>things and get thousands of dollars doing other things that

0:34:19.520 --> 0:34:21.200
<v Speaker 5>we've always said we're not doing that. I'm not going

0:34:21.280 --> 0:34:23.759
<v Speaker 5>to stoop down to anything just for money. And that's

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<v Speaker 5>why it's so laughable that this whole thing has been

0:34:25.719 --> 0:34:27.879
<v Speaker 5>made to look like I was doing it for publicity's time.

0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 5>It's like it really wasn't because I've had multiple ways

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.480
<v Speaker 5>to make lots of money and doing this, and I've

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 5>always turned it down because I always wanted to keep

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<v Speaker 5>my morals intact, and we've always agreed that it's a

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<v Speaker 5>him and I thing, and that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Has there been anyone from the church or from the

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<v Speaker 1>school that actually embraces you who even if they you

0:34:47.160 --> 0:34:49.920
<v Speaker 1>can love the sin but not you can love the

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:51.800
<v Speaker 1>sinner but not the sin. I guess, But is it

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:54.800
<v Speaker 1>You're not getting any support from really?

0:34:55.520 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 4>Are one single person has reached out. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 4>my sister.

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<v Speaker 5>My sister's heavily into the church and her and I

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.160
<v Speaker 5>don't really speak, but she hasn't even reached out to me.

0:35:05.200 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 5>And I just laugh because I'm like, she claims to

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 5>be such a better person than me, as all these

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:11.360
<v Speaker 5>other people. But I'm like, but if you got yourself

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:13.799
<v Speaker 5>a Christian, wouldn't that be your Christian duty, you know,

0:35:13.920 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 5>to kind of reach out and say, hey, you know,

0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 5>I love you. I don't agree with doing but I

0:35:17.719 --> 0:35:19.400
<v Speaker 5>wish you would do better and I'm thinking of you

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:21.640
<v Speaker 5>are and praying for you or but no.

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:23.959
<v Speaker 1>Nothing, well, Michelle, you all are? You all are still

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 1>in church regularly, you and your.

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:29.040
<v Speaker 4>Family, So we're not going there. No, not enough that

0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:30.239
<v Speaker 4>we definitely cut that back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I guess that's the point. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>do there too? I'm surprised to hear that, to be

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 1>honest with you, and I think a lot of other

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:45.359
<v Speaker 1>people might not be surprised to think that. Folks who

0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:49.960
<v Speaker 1>are doing good work, or who shouted from the mountaintops

0:35:50.000 --> 0:35:51.960
<v Speaker 1>how good they are and how great a Christian they

0:35:51.960 --> 0:35:54.200
<v Speaker 1>are are sometimes the first to reject you.

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Right, Jesus, if we want to go back to Christianity,

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 2>Jesus was hanging out with the tech collectors and the

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:05.480
<v Speaker 2>people who people considered unseemly, the prostitutes, the sinners. So

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:08.759
<v Speaker 2>you know that that is the cornerstone of Christianity is

0:36:08.800 --> 0:36:12.960
<v Speaker 2>to not judge and to love everyone. And you can disagree,

0:36:13.760 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to accept, but you do love and

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:18.799
<v Speaker 2>you do welcome people. So I we hear you, We

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:20.600
<v Speaker 2>hear you. We were both raised in faith.

0:36:20.680 --> 0:36:22.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was very just so surprised to hear that.

0:36:23.000 --> 0:36:24.840
<v Speaker 1>I saw your face immediately when I was asking the

0:36:24.920 --> 0:36:27.040
<v Speaker 1>question that as soon as it started coming out of

0:36:27.120 --> 0:36:29.359
<v Speaker 1>my mouth asking that, but you were shaking your head

0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:31.520
<v Speaker 1>like that was like, it's definitively nobody.

0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:35.160
<v Speaker 4>Well, and that is surprising, because I'll be honest with you.

0:36:35.239 --> 0:36:37.719
<v Speaker 5>I mean how I was raised and if I was

0:36:37.800 --> 0:36:39.640
<v Speaker 5>actively in the churchren now and I heard this, and

0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:41.760
<v Speaker 5>I probably would reach out to someone and I would

0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:43.759
<v Speaker 5>just say, you know, if I was more heavily into church,

0:36:43.800 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 5>and I would probably reach on and just be like,

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 5>you know what, I'm saying a prayer for you, or

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 5>I'm thinking of you, you know, And that's that's kind

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:52.160
<v Speaker 5>of like all And that's kind of how my mom

0:36:52.160 --> 0:36:54.040
<v Speaker 5>and dad have been. You know, we don't love what

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:56.600
<v Speaker 5>you're doing, but we love you, and we love your kids,

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:57.960
<v Speaker 5>and we love your family, and we're going to be

0:36:58.000 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 5>here for you no matter what. And you know, we're

0:37:00.320 --> 0:37:01.640
<v Speaker 5>here for you as long as the kids are in

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:03.719
<v Speaker 5>harm's way the moment they are, you know, we will

0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:06.640
<v Speaker 5>step in. And that's kind of where it's at. And

0:37:06.640 --> 0:37:07.359
<v Speaker 5>that's all I need.

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:09.160
<v Speaker 4>Like I'm not asking for everyone to agree with me.

0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:11.120
<v Speaker 5>You don't have to love what I do, don't We

0:37:11.160 --> 0:37:13.400
<v Speaker 5>always always something about someone else that we don't like

0:37:13.440 --> 0:37:15.360
<v Speaker 5>what they do or whatever, But that doesn't mean we

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 5>have to hate them.

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:20.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, you mentioned your sister as well. You all

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:24.760
<v Speaker 1>haven't really been speaking before this or since you started

0:37:24.800 --> 0:37:28.560
<v Speaker 1>with only fans, So it was really funny.

0:37:28.560 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 5>In the situation with her, probably two years ago give

0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:37.200
<v Speaker 5>her take, probably before the decal, possibly she had asked

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:39.240
<v Speaker 5>me to go to dinner one night and I said, okay,

0:37:39.280 --> 0:37:40.200
<v Speaker 5>well I knew what it was about.

0:37:40.239 --> 0:37:42.160
<v Speaker 4>Because her and I just don't really have days the

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:42.600
<v Speaker 4>two of us.

0:37:42.640 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 5>I mean, we definitely spend time together as families and

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 5>events and get togethers in whatever holidays, but we really

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 5>don't have one on one.

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 4>So I knew and she asked me had a good

0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:53.799
<v Speaker 4>feeling it was about.

0:37:53.520 --> 0:37:55.680
<v Speaker 5>This, and it was at that time there was I

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:57.600
<v Speaker 5>had a snapchat, which I don't have any longer, but

0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 5>I had then in the local the local fire to

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.239
<v Speaker 5>fire when I guess had found out about it, and

0:38:04.239 --> 0:38:06.520
<v Speaker 5>they were talking about it. Well, her husband worked for

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 5>the city of Tavari's, Well it got back to him

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:11.680
<v Speaker 5>pretty quick, and then she's like, it's embarrassing that he's

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:14.120
<v Speaker 5>going to the fire departments to just talk to people

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:14.720
<v Speaker 5>and they're saying.

0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 4>Hey, check out this girl. And he's like, well, that's

0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:18.040
<v Speaker 4>my sister, you know, like my sister in law.

0:38:18.760 --> 0:38:19.360
<v Speaker 2>So that was.

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously an awkward situation. But when she told me, I

0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:24.680
<v Speaker 5>laughed because I was like, okay, And I think she

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.239
<v Speaker 5>thought like if I knew that she knew that, I

0:38:27.239 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 5>was going, oh my gosh, I'm gonna stop, you know, like,

0:38:28.960 --> 0:38:30.520
<v Speaker 5>and I had to accept it a long time ago

0:38:30.560 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 5>that when I started doing this, it was going to

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<v Speaker 5>be out there.

0:38:32.719 --> 0:38:35.080
<v Speaker 4>I had to just be okay with that. I had

0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:36.920
<v Speaker 4>to just accept, you know, it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 5>And uh but yeah, so that was the first time

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<v Speaker 5>we had an issue and then we kind of I

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<v Speaker 5>just basically where I left.

0:38:44.800 --> 0:38:46.319
<v Speaker 4>It was like, well, I'm not going to stop. I'm

0:38:46.320 --> 0:38:46.799
<v Speaker 4>going to do this.

0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:48.960
<v Speaker 5>And then her thing to me then was like, well,

0:38:49.000 --> 0:38:51.319
<v Speaker 5>what if you get someone's angry wife coming after you

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:54.400
<v Speaker 5>or I'm like, that is always a possibility, all right,

0:38:54.400 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 5>and this is risk. You know, it's definitely risk I

0:38:56.080 --> 0:39:00.919
<v Speaker 5>considered when I got into this. But she we really

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:03.879
<v Speaker 5>don't speak since then. We've never been super super close, but.

0:39:03.840 --> 0:39:04.959
<v Speaker 4>We've always gotten along.

0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:07.279
<v Speaker 5>We've always communicated, but I haven't heard from her in

0:39:07.320 --> 0:39:09.120
<v Speaker 5>months and really since then, it's kind of when we

0:39:09.160 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 5>really did take a turn, and I really haven't talked

0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:14.399
<v Speaker 5>to her at all during this whole thing.

0:39:15.480 --> 0:39:19.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you learn a lot about yourself but also where

0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:22.400
<v Speaker 2>you stand with other people when you go through something

0:39:22.440 --> 0:39:25.879
<v Speaker 2>like this, and it has it has it been worth it?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just curious, like, now that you have experienced this

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<v Speaker 2>in such a large way, what what are your thoughts

0:39:31.320 --> 0:39:32.920
<v Speaker 2>on your decisions?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, like I always I always felt like these parents

0:39:37.239 --> 0:39:39.040
<v Speaker 5>felt this way about me, you know, I always felt

0:39:39.000 --> 0:39:40.480
<v Speaker 5>like they were kind of like pissy and it's like

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:44.080
<v Speaker 5>I only like her and Judge And I've never been

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 5>on like the PTA home to go sit in a

0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:48.560
<v Speaker 5>meeting anyway, That's never me. I will always go to

0:39:48.640 --> 0:39:50.800
<v Speaker 5>navaan I guess have a field day or a travel

0:39:50.840 --> 0:39:53.160
<v Speaker 5>service or an award, like I'm going to be there

0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:55.160
<v Speaker 5>less they forced me out, you know, no matter what,

0:39:55.239 --> 0:39:58.960
<v Speaker 5>I'm going to be there. But I don't go, you know,

0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:01.359
<v Speaker 5>prance and around to get atention. I definitely don't really

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 5>volunteer anymore. I just kind of avoid all of that stuff,

0:40:04.400 --> 0:40:06.480
<v Speaker 5>you know, because I'm not trying to cause issues and

0:40:06.920 --> 0:40:08.760
<v Speaker 5>as they would say, disharmony in the school.

0:40:10.480 --> 0:40:13.000
<v Speaker 4>But I mean, yeah, I kind of already expected they

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 4>would do that.

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:16.279
<v Speaker 5>But I mean it's monetarily speaking, Yeah, it was one

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 5>thousand percent more that I would do it again. And

0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:21.520
<v Speaker 5>so far my kids have not been affected anyway. They

0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:23.319
<v Speaker 5>don't come to me and act like they hate it,

0:40:23.360 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 5>they're miserable, like they haven't really they'll come home then

0:40:26.280 --> 0:40:27.640
<v Speaker 5>maybe tell me a little bit of things. Like my

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:30.279
<v Speaker 5>my fifth grader, she was like, you know, oh, some

0:40:30.320 --> 0:40:31.600
<v Speaker 5>time I was talking about today and I was like,

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:32.800
<v Speaker 5>what did you say. She's like, I just don't to

0:40:32.840 --> 0:40:35.520
<v Speaker 5>stop talking about They were just mad because they're afraid

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 5>their mom will let me hang out with them because

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:38.040
<v Speaker 5>they know what you do.

0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:40.719
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, well that's a risk.

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:43.560
<v Speaker 5>But they didn't really. She didn't really spend long talking

0:40:43.600 --> 0:40:45.360
<v Speaker 5>about it. She quickly moved on, And they have not

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.440
<v Speaker 5>really voiced it to me at all, like that it's

0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:49.839
<v Speaker 5>a problem to them. So I would say, so far,

0:40:49.960 --> 0:40:53.640
<v Speaker 5>I'm fine with it now. I definitely think if if

0:40:53.680 --> 0:40:55.440
<v Speaker 5>he had, you know, if they had any issues, or

0:40:55.480 --> 0:40:57.480
<v Speaker 5>if they were really like struggling, then I definitely have

0:40:57.480 --> 0:41:00.799
<v Speaker 5>a different opinion about that. But so far I can say, yeah,

0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:02.520
<v Speaker 5>I mean, it's been worth it.

0:41:02.640 --> 0:41:05.359
<v Speaker 1>If the adults in this situation could come together and

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:09.160
<v Speaker 1>agree that there's a lesson for not just your kids,

0:41:09.160 --> 0:41:12.200
<v Speaker 1>but all the kids at the school to come out

0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:15.879
<v Speaker 1>of this. What lesson do you see that kids, all

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:17.840
<v Speaker 1>of them at that school could learn from what the

0:41:17.960 --> 0:41:18.839
<v Speaker 1>adults are.

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 5>The problem is with the mom who has got upset. Honestly,

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:25.840
<v Speaker 5>the issues go way deeper. And that's why I was

0:41:25.880 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 5>saying that the third mom. Then it kind of sepped

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.080
<v Speaker 5>in a kind of voice to me, and she was like,

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:30.840
<v Speaker 5>you guys should go together and really team up on

0:41:30.880 --> 0:41:34.040
<v Speaker 5>this issue. Because what stimmed from was she was complaining

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:37.360
<v Speaker 5>about this issue for a while and apparently nothing was

0:41:37.400 --> 0:41:39.319
<v Speaker 5>done about it. I don't know how long. I just

0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 5>know three weeks ago is the first time I got

0:41:41.000 --> 0:41:45.160
<v Speaker 5>brought to me. But she has been complaining for months

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:47.080
<v Speaker 5>well then, and then she felt like nothing was done.

0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:51.680
<v Speaker 5>She felt like administration was really neglecting her kids and

0:41:51.719 --> 0:41:53.439
<v Speaker 5>just not really being there and doing it their part.

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:56.279
<v Speaker 5>And so in that I can relate to her mom

0:41:56.280 --> 0:41:58.239
<v Speaker 5>to mom, I can understand where she's coming from. You know,

0:41:58.239 --> 0:42:00.600
<v Speaker 5>when you're voicing a problem problem, so when you're paying

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.280
<v Speaker 5>for a private school tuition, they should handle your issues

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:05.760
<v Speaker 5>and they should definitely address them. And they never once

0:42:05.800 --> 0:42:07.680
<v Speaker 5>came to me and said anything to me about it. And

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:09.640
<v Speaker 5>they told her that they did, because she said to

0:42:09.680 --> 0:42:11.600
<v Speaker 5>me that I know you've been told about this before,

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:13.880
<v Speaker 5>but I definitely had not. And obviously if I had

0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 5>been already to ask, I would already a stop this.

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:17.360
<v Speaker 5>So this is the first it had been brought to me.

0:42:18.800 --> 0:42:21.160
<v Speaker 4>So in a way, I feel for her because I

0:42:21.239 --> 0:42:22.640
<v Speaker 4>understand where she's coming from.

0:42:23.400 --> 0:42:26.560
<v Speaker 1>No lesson for the kids, Michelle, Is there no lessons

0:42:26.600 --> 0:42:27.319
<v Speaker 1>for the kids here?

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:29.000
<v Speaker 4>Not really?

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, No, I'm sorry a little off fit by Honestly,

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:36.000
<v Speaker 5>I don't really know what the lesson be with the

0:42:36.040 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 5>kids here. I mean, I feel like the kids are

0:42:39.680 --> 0:42:41.920
<v Speaker 5>not really the ones complaining. It's parents, you know. I

0:42:41.920 --> 0:42:44.120
<v Speaker 5>feel like the parents are what's making it a deal.

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:46.920
<v Speaker 5>They're making it a problem, you know, they're making it

0:42:46.960 --> 0:42:49.000
<v Speaker 5>an issue because it never had been a big issue

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:51.960
<v Speaker 5>until now, until this one mom with a TikTok and

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 5>a big mouths use my language, but I just I

0:42:56.200 --> 0:42:58.040
<v Speaker 5>feel like that's how it started. So for a lesson

0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:00.359
<v Speaker 5>to kids, I really don't know. My lesson for my kids,

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:02.759
<v Speaker 5>but I'm trying to say is that when you know

0:43:02.920 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 5>you're not breaking the law, you're not doing anything to

0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 5>harm someone else, and you're sure of that and we

0:43:07.520 --> 0:43:09.880
<v Speaker 5>know that, then defend yourself, stand up for what you

0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:11.960
<v Speaker 5>feel is right. If you think what you're doing is right,

0:43:12.000 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 5>and okay, no matter what it may be, you know,

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:16.320
<v Speaker 5>just because people don't like something doesn't make it wrong.

0:43:16.920 --> 0:43:19.400
<v Speaker 5>And let's be honest, I mean, without sounding too cliche,

0:43:19.480 --> 0:43:23.239
<v Speaker 5>you're cheesy, but typically when you're when you're like making

0:43:23.239 --> 0:43:25.439
<v Speaker 5>a big deal about something or you're out there, people

0:43:25.480 --> 0:43:27.920
<v Speaker 5>are going to hate on you because they just are

0:43:28.000 --> 0:43:29.680
<v Speaker 5>mad because they're not able to get out.

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 4>There or do what you're doing or whatever it is.

0:43:31.600 --> 0:43:33.319
<v Speaker 5>So I feel like if you're being hated us because

0:43:33.320 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 5>you're doing something right, you know everyone's gonna If you're

0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:38.880
<v Speaker 5>not making the scene or not doing anything exciting, then

0:43:38.880 --> 0:43:41.839
<v Speaker 5>people aren't gonna talk about you. And not that I'm

0:43:41.880 --> 0:43:43.880
<v Speaker 5>wanting that, I don't mean to sound like that, but

0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 5>I just I feel like, I don't know, I feel

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:49.360
<v Speaker 5>like there's so many people that get offended so easy

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 5>these days, and I feel like if we just back

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 5>down to everything everyone says, then like what kind of

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:57.359
<v Speaker 5>person are we making ourselves? And I just I want

0:43:57.400 --> 0:44:00.359
<v Speaker 5>my kids to stand up for what they feel it's

0:44:00.480 --> 0:44:02.120
<v Speaker 5>right and as song as like I said, long as

0:44:02.160 --> 0:44:03.919
<v Speaker 5>it's not illegal and you're not breaking you're not burning

0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:06.680
<v Speaker 5>the law, you're not hurting someone, you know, then do

0:44:06.760 --> 0:44:09.520
<v Speaker 5>what you feel is right, Like back up yourself. Don't

0:44:09.600 --> 0:44:12.480
<v Speaker 5>let someone talk you down and push you away or

0:44:12.480 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 5>push you down because they don't like what you're doing.

0:44:15.360 --> 0:44:19.759
<v Speaker 2>Well, Michelle Klein. We really appreciate your time. It was

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:23.920
<v Speaker 2>it was fascinating talking with you and hearing how you

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 2>got to where you are and what your life is

0:44:26.320 --> 0:44:29.120
<v Speaker 2>like now. So thank you so much for coming on

0:44:29.160 --> 0:44:32.160
<v Speaker 2>the podcast. It's Michelle, but also Piper font right. Want

0:44:32.200 --> 0:44:34.399
<v Speaker 2>to make sure everyone knows you're you're And by the way, I.

0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:36.600
<v Speaker 5>Just want to say I have fifty one Holy cow.

0:44:36.760 --> 0:44:39.279
<v Speaker 5>I hope that I have genes that are half as

0:44:39.280 --> 0:44:39.799
<v Speaker 5>good as you are.

0:44:40.600 --> 0:44:42.879
<v Speaker 2>My word, thank you very much.

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:43.799
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it.

0:44:43.880 --> 0:44:44.480
<v Speaker 4>I was hearing that.

0:44:44.560 --> 0:44:49.480
<v Speaker 5>I'm like, wow, no way, thank you, thank you so much.

0:44:49.600 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 4>Husband speaking and trying to like peek around the camera.

0:44:52.120 --> 0:44:55.960
<v Speaker 1>See what I'm like, Oh, I'm here, I'm here. You

0:44:56.080 --> 0:45:00.479
<v Speaker 1>know he was there. Oh my god, it this because

0:45:00.480 --> 0:45:03.360
<v Speaker 1>looking woman. He's been sitting there quietly this whole time. Michelle,

0:45:03.360 --> 0:45:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you should have let us know.

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:05.240
<v Speaker 2>That's funny.

0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:10.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is, well, really God, And I hope I

0:45:10.600 --> 0:45:13.160
<v Speaker 1>guess everything. Your husband's there now and we can hear

0:45:13.200 --> 0:45:15.840
<v Speaker 1>his voice, but I assume a man. Everything she said

0:45:16.520 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 1>you pretty much agree with. But you know, what, how

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 1>has it been for you? Knowing a lot of the

0:45:20.560 --> 0:45:24.200
<v Speaker 1>the negative attention has come the direction of the woman

0:45:24.239 --> 0:45:24.560
<v Speaker 1>you love.

0:45:26.440 --> 0:45:31.800
<v Speaker 3>The attention is it's it's hard to wrap your head around.

0:45:31.800 --> 0:45:34.080
<v Speaker 6>In the beginning, we've been doing this for like three

0:45:34.120 --> 0:45:37.120
<v Speaker 6>years now, so the attention's always been there, but now

0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:40.240
<v Speaker 6>since the media has got ahold of it, it's nerve

0:45:40.280 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 6>wracking but also exciting.

0:45:42.480 --> 0:45:44.440
<v Speaker 3>And I don't know.

0:45:44.640 --> 0:45:46.400
<v Speaker 6>I mean, I guess you could say we got our

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 6>fifteen seconds of fame, but you know, it wasn't at

0:45:50.840 --> 0:45:53.759
<v Speaker 6>the children's expense. That's the biggest thing. There was an

0:45:53.760 --> 0:45:56.399
<v Speaker 6>issue at the school. We tried to bring into it,

0:45:56.600 --> 0:45:59.440
<v Speaker 6>the attention. We never had a resolution, and then finally

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 6>it just took one angry parent to just like not

0:46:02.680 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 6>want it to see the stickers anymore.

0:46:04.800 --> 0:46:06.040
<v Speaker 3>And I'm sure she's already said it.

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.800
<v Speaker 6>The stickers have been on both cars well over two years,

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.399
<v Speaker 6>and we've been in that parking lot two or three

0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 6>times a day.

0:46:13.040 --> 0:46:15.279
<v Speaker 3>You know, as long as skill is going on and

0:46:15.320 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 3>no issues. But I don't know.

0:46:17.239 --> 0:46:20.719
<v Speaker 6>But as far as the attention, it's I don't know.

0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:23.120
<v Speaker 6>It's good and bad at the same time. With all

0:46:23.200 --> 0:46:25.600
<v Speaker 6>this coverage. Right now, she's on her phone twenty four

0:46:25.600 --> 0:46:27.560
<v Speaker 6>to seven, so I guess that's the downfall.

0:46:28.000 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes I don't get.

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:30.719
<v Speaker 6>The one on one that I want at late at

0:46:30.800 --> 0:46:33.240
<v Speaker 6>night because she's so busy all over this phone.

0:46:33.360 --> 0:46:35.799
<v Speaker 3>You know, don't get a phone out of your hand.

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:37.920
<v Speaker 3>Let's go make a video or something.

0:46:37.920 --> 0:46:40.600
<v Speaker 1>Come on, get Oh yeah, sexy time. We heard all

0:46:40.640 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 1>about sexy time. I think is once you got you

0:46:46.840 --> 0:46:48.640
<v Speaker 1>all are smiling and have I know it's a lot

0:46:48.800 --> 0:46:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and people have their opinions, but you all seem to

0:46:51.000 --> 0:46:52.520
<v Speaker 1>have each other and have it together and know what

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:54.799
<v Speaker 1>you want to do, and so you all keep doing

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:56.360
<v Speaker 1>your thing. But thank you for taking some time with us.

0:46:56.400 --> 0:46:58.480
<v Speaker 3>All right, absolutely, I appreciate it.

0:46:58.480 --> 0:47:00.840
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, guys, I appreciate it. It's nice to meet you.

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Good to meet you. And well, you know, at the

0:47:03.160 --> 0:47:04.960
<v Speaker 1>end of the show here we often give our own

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<v Speaker 1>our Instagram account. You can find us at Amy and

0:47:07.680 --> 0:47:10.680
<v Speaker 1>t J Podcast on Instagram. But we know that's probably

0:47:10.719 --> 0:47:13.280
<v Speaker 1>not the first place you're going to go after this podcast.

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