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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we go. This is from Tika

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Speaker 1: in Germantown. Tika says, I have an Instagram account that's private,

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Speaker 1: and I won't allow my husband or my family to

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Speaker 1: follow that account. I don't have anything to hide, but

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear their comments. When I'm out

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Speaker 1: with my girls and we post pictures popping bottles and

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Speaker 1: hanging out with ballers. I always wear my rings, so

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Speaker 1: there's never any funny business. I think husbands and wives

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Speaker 1: need to keep something separate. Should I delete my private

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Speaker 1: account because they think I'm being sneaky?

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Speaker 2: Well, let me ask you this. If your husband had

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Speaker 2: a private account, how would you feel about it? And

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Speaker 2: you just said something that I found interesting? When we're

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Speaker 2: all popping bottles and hanging out with ballers ballers. Now,

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Speaker 2: the reference that I've always heard ballers used to has

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Speaker 2: always been to men. I've never heard a group of women.

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Speaker 2: I'm just hanging out with all these ballers. I've never

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Speaker 2: heard that come from women before about women. So when

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Speaker 2: you say we are popping bottles and hanging out with ballers,

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Speaker 2: but I always wear my ring, that means you are

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Speaker 2: around men oftentimes. But you think because you got your

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Speaker 2: ring on it. That don't stop nobody from saying nothing

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Speaker 2: to you. That don't stop nobody from offering you nothing

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Speaker 2: because you got a ring on.

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Speaker 3: If you're in a section.

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Speaker 2: Doing what everybody else is doing, DNA, let's do what

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Speaker 2: everybody else is doing.

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Speaker 3: So is this shady?

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Speaker 2: One hundred percent? Can you be married and have a

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Speaker 2: private account? You can until they find out about it,

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Speaker 2: and they all know you have it because when they

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Speaker 2: go to it, they can't get in it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Man, it's social media.

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Speaker 1: It's insightful of you to say that you know about

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Speaker 1: the ballers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And if it was the other way around and he

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Speaker 4: was out with some women popping bottles, having a good time,

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Speaker 4: I got my way and ring on too, right exactly

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Speaker 4: with dancers or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, So she should delete her private account, is

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Speaker 1: what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how she don't think it should be there.

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Speaker 2: She should be allowed because everybody should have privacy. Look,

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Speaker 2: I think that married people should have things that they

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Speaker 2: do by themselves.

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Speaker 5: Yeah right, think of that.

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Speaker 2: I think that everybody should have some me time. Everybody

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Speaker 2: has the right to be themselves. But if it being

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Speaker 2: yourself infringes on the trust and happiness of your partner.

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Speaker 3: What you're doing.

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Speaker 1: Right, exactly exactly. I'm with you, and you're right all right?

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Speaker 1: We have time for another one, Steve. This is from

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Speaker 1: LaToya and Orlando U. LaToya says, I'm dating a guy

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Speaker 1: that used to be married to a close friend of mine.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: He wants to keep our relationship quiet for now. I

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Speaker 1: have no problem telling my friend that I have an

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Speaker 1: interest in her and we want to date each other.

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Speaker 1: I don't get how people think they own a person

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Speaker 1: after they break up.

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Speaker 5: He wasn't her soul mate? What if he's mine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't tell her this, gon't tell her? Watch this?

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Speaker 3: Give it a shot? Yeah, go tell her. Watch this, y'all.

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Speaker 5: Through girl code.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, go tell her yo.

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Speaker 5: And then what are you saying, Steve? If she tells

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Speaker 5: her and tell.

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Speaker 2: Her and watch this here? I don't know how people

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Speaker 2: think they own people. It wasn't her soul mate, It

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Speaker 2: may be mine. All that all that you're saying, Oh

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Speaker 2: that's cool, Gon tell.

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Speaker 1: Her when I was dating him.

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Speaker 3: That best friend.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna be the reason why they broke up. You

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Speaker 2: listen to me, Oh so you wanted him the whole time?

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Speaker 2: That's all she gonna be thinking, and really.

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Speaker 1: It sounds yeah. And then he wants to keep it

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Speaker 1: on the low. He doesn't want the ex to find you.

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Speaker 2: Already know he'll want that extra smoke, right y'all. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you both of y'all tend to get it.

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Speaker 5: From the wife, from the ex wife.

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Speaker 3: And her friends and family and a bunch of stuff.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, don't do that. Don't do that.

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Speaker 1: As with his friends, hu, all these men in the world.

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Speaker 3: You got to go with your friend's ex husband, girl.

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Speaker 1: By because because she thinks he might be her soul mate.

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Speaker 1: All Right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.