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Well, Paulina had 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 1: a question and Bellamine is on here right now. I'm 12 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: wearing a shirt that says it's one of my favorite 13 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 1: shirts one if you guys gave it to me. I 14 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: think it was Calem. It says a Blockbuster on it. 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 1: And the question that you had for belahemine was belahmine. 16 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 2: Welcome get in here, friend. 17 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 1: Scared you have your phone? We can just text you 18 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: right yeah, anyway, Okay. 19 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. 20 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: No, you don't have to be sorry. What is this? 21 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: What did I do? What? No? I'm asking you what 22 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 1: my shirt? 23 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 2: What is that that's Blockbuster? 24 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? And how old are you? 25 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 2: I'm twenty seven. 26 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: And do you know what this is? Yes? 27 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 2: I know, Blockbuster, I don't think. 28 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: You would you know what this is? 29 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 2: Have you been to one? 30 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? When? 31 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: Well, well, when's the last time you been to one? 32 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 1: So you know what this is? Because Baulina was very 33 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: worried that you didn't know what my shirt said, I 34 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: just yeah. 35 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: So no, I know what that is. I just I 36 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,119 Speaker 2: told Kat. 37 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: The other day, I didn't know the difference between Jared 38 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 3: what was that? 39 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 2: What was that guy's name? Jared Leto? 40 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 3: And Jared Leto and and j Leto? 41 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: And you don't know the difference between Jared Leto and 42 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: Jay Leno? 43 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was so confused me neither girl. I mean, okay, good, 44 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 2: It's not. 45 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: Just wildly different people though. 46 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I also don't know the difference between Christina Aguilera 47 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: and what and uh oh god, what's that girl's name? 48 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 2: Ged Steffani? But come next to each other, I don't 49 00:01:58,160 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 2: know which ones which girl. 50 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 4: Now you ask me the Jared j line, will think, Okay, 51 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 4: I can see that because how similar. 52 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,919 Speaker 1: How wait, how could you see that the differenceween Jared Lett. 53 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 2: And j l if you put them together? In side 54 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: by side. 55 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 4: Yes, but if like Kaylin, did an entertainment report and 56 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 4: brought it up, I might confuse at you the. 57 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 2: Right The names are just too similar. Yeah, but now 58 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 2: goen so Fani and Christinaguilar, Jared. 59 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 1: And Ja are not the same name at all. Jay 60 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: and j. 61 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,400 Speaker 2: No, I get it. 62 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: Anyways, So, probably didn't think that you knew what this 63 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,200 Speaker 1: shirt meant, and I just I was curious. I was hoping, 64 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: I mean, at twenty seventh that you knew when Blockbuster was. 65 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: But there's probably some someone listening now, maybe some young 66 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: kid who has no idea. 67 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 2: No, we all know have been informed. 68 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,839 Speaker 1: Have you ever been to one? You have? So you've 69 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: rented I assume a DVD. 70 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 2: Well I never did, but because I'm too little. 71 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,679 Speaker 1: But my mom, oh I see, so you you accompanied 72 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: somebody inside a Blockbuster. 73 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: It's like a library. 74 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: It sort of was like a library, right, it was. 75 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can check them out. That's that's kind 76 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 2: of good. 77 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 78 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, you v vhs sate. Yeah, I had a lot. 79 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, because my sister, oh, her sister's millennial. Yeah, 80 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,800 Speaker 3: i'd like to speak with her three thirty two, I 81 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 3: don't remember, Okay, So and I always get these wrong, 82 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 3: but I'm I'm gen X slash millennial, but more I mean, 83 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 3: like on the cost of I guess most of you 84 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 3: are millennials and your gen Z. 85 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm ninety eight, so this is the list. 86 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: I'm twenty one. I know Blockbuster. Someone texted, well, that's good. 87 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: I'm twenty three. I used to go to Blockbuster. Okay, good, 88 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: thank god, Okay, we formed, Well, I do it. Paulina 89 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: was worried about it, whether that you knew, because one 90 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: is like the Netflix era start right, like, what age group? Well, 91 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: I would think it would be hers. Yeah, probably. I 92 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: think the DVDs in the mail were like late mid 93 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: to late two thousands, right. 94 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: I think so. 95 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 96 00:03:53,680 --> 00:03:57,119 Speaker 3: I remember when Netflix only did DVDs and you would 97 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 3: get a mail to your house. 98 00:03:58,880 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 99 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that was your version of Blockbuster. And I 100 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: was talking to someone the other day. Fifty million bucks, 101 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: I believe was the number that Netflix offered to sell 102 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: to Blockbuster for five zero fifty million dollars and now 103 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,840 Speaker 1: they're worth like fifty billion. Wow, let me see it again. 104 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 1: I looked it up the other day. No, excuse me, 105 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 1: five hundred and sixteen billion dollars so Blockbuster could have 106 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: bought Netflix for five zero fifty million, and instead they said, ah, no, 107 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: why would we do that. We're Blockbuster. We'll need you 108 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: now Blockbuster's gone and they're worth five hundred and sixteen 109 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: billion dollars. Yeah, one Blockbuster left in vand Oregon. Yeah. Yeah, 110 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: there was a whole documentary about him. How they like, 111 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how they do it. I don't know. 112 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: I don't know where they're getting all the DVDs from. 113 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, ry someone's basement. Yeah, I don't know 114 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 1: how it's all working about it. 115 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 2: Don't sell DVDs, you guys. It's like target, Well okay, 116 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 2: but how do you play it? 117 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,840 Speaker 1: I mean, like I just actually donated a bunch of 118 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: DVDs because well, I everyone, that's true. 119 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: I don't have you don't know. I'm sure, yeah, I always. 120 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: He's a huge gamer, but he's more of a switch 121 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: to guy, now, you know, more of a switch to 122 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: switch one or three? No, certainly, not certainly not you. Yeah, 123 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: I mean I'm sorry I haven't sent you three already 124 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: because you know you're on the cutting edge as a 125 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:27,800 Speaker 1: gaming influencer, right, well, yeah, the g Yeah, the game, 126 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: the game part for sure. 127 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 2: You get that lock that down right. 128 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: I know a podcast you're gaming with jam. Okay, so 129 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: your vibe on this eight five five five one three 130 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: five and you can contact the same number. But bell 131 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:49,680 Speaker 1: stay here because so these are the things, but well 132 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:54,720 Speaker 1: you you are your gen X. Why why why? I 133 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know, I don't know what all 134 00:05:58,000 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: these things are. And then you guys just keep saying 135 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 1: letter and now I'm really confused. Okay, So these are 136 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 1: things that basically that our parents would have most of 137 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: our parents would have allowed us to do. And I 138 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: just want to get your reaction to like how this 139 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,279 Speaker 1: would have gone in your house. Then again, your parents 140 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 1: are a little while. Your parents are are a little 141 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: I mean I've talked to your mom. She's a little while. 142 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: Apparently your dad's trip believes that he needs airtime now 143 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: too to speak about his mayoral duties, which is not 144 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 1: happening because I can't. I can't provide equal time to 145 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: your whole family, nor can I provide equal time to 146 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: the entire you know political uh uh, you know the 147 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: landscape of California. There are actual election laws against this. 148 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: His competitor would have to get equal air time. 149 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 2: I don't know's it doesn't have a competitor. 150 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: Well, he wouldn't end. Yeah, so he ran unopposed. So 151 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: he did, He's gave it to him. Why and why 152 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:46,840 Speaker 1: is he bragging about it? 153 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: He's just jealous that my mom is on air. He's 154 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:50,160 Speaker 2: just jealous. 155 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm sure your dad's a lovely man. But if he 156 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:57,280 Speaker 1: ran unopposed, I mean that's what he volunteered, basically campaign dollars. Right, 157 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: if no one ran against him, he didn't really win 158 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: or lose, just sort of is okay? Anyway, here's my question. 159 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: I want to know from the people at home and 160 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: the people in the room, and then you, as the 161 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 1: youngest member, how this would have gone on in your house. 162 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: For example, Okay, were you allowed to just well you 163 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: kind of grew up in it. Did you always grow 164 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 1: up in kind of a smaller town. Yeah, maybe maybe 165 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: this doesn't apply as much to you. But were you 166 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: allowed to just roam the neighborhood? 167 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: Oh? 168 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 3: It depends, my It depends how old I was, if 169 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 3: I was in trouble, like you know, like grounded. 170 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 2: When you were old enough and not in trouble, could 171 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 2: you roam? Yeah, for the most part, But like my 172 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 2: mom would want to know where. 173 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: Well, I'm not talking about the time where you were 174 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: grounded or sleeping fellow, I mean like, were you all 175 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: I'm wondering if you were allowed on a time when 176 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: you were conscious, ungrounded, not in jail, right when the 177 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 1: weather was nice, you know, when they were one of 178 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: the most parts and people weren't protesting. Were you able to. 179 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 2: Within the neighborhood? Yeah, okay, you could in my neighborhood. 180 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm in a different reality, Like that doesn't seem real. 181 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm having you guys are having a conversation. I'm having 182 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: a conversation. She's having a conversation, but it's not the 183 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 1: same conversation. Okay. So because because like as kids, like 184 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: when I was young, it was and it was just 185 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: you know, ride your bike, go, just go, And there 186 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: was no way really for us to get you know, 187 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: there were no cell phones. Maybe a pager, but I 188 00:08:25,040 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: didn't have one really, I mean, there was really no 189 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: way to know where we were, what we were doing. I 190 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: mean they were payphones, but we didn't really use those. 191 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: And it was like, hey, go at you know, nine 192 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,199 Speaker 1: am or whatever, and just come back before it gets dark, 193 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: which in Arizona in the summer is like ten o'clock 194 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: at night. And I'm not saying my parents didn't care, 195 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: but they did. There was nothing was happening. See. 196 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: That was that's where we differ. I had to have 197 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 3: a cell phone, so I wasn't allowed to roam. You 198 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:51,080 Speaker 3: weren't really roaming, So I wasn't really roaming. I mean 199 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: like it felt like I was, but not really. 200 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: Okay, were you allowed to go to someone's house whose 201 00:08:57,880 --> 00:08:59,559 Speaker 1: parents your parents didn't know? 202 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 2: Yes? 203 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so you could do that, yes, because I guess 204 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: that's the thing, and that's that didn't mean my wife 205 00:09:06,600 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: went to all kinds of people's houses and parties and stuff, 206 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: and my parents didn't ask where I was or or 207 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: who the people. They didn't interview the parents ahead of time. 208 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: They didn't call over there and see what was going on. 209 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: They weren't. They weren't logged into live stream, you know, 210 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: on YouTube or whatever to see. Okay, So you were 211 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: allowed to go to people's home so your parents didn't know. 212 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: My parents were like, thank god, Okay, were you allowed 213 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 3: or Slasher? 214 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: When you're given the opportunity to go hang out in 215 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: the mall all day? Was that even a thing you 216 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: could do. Yes, I hung at them all because that 217 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: was something when we were like before we could drive. 218 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: That was what like three or four dudes in the 219 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: weekend we get dropped off of the mall and then 220 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 1: three or four girls had dropped off of the mall 221 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: and it was essentially a date, but it wasn't a date, 222 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: and we would we didn't have any money so we 223 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: could maybe eat, maybe we had money to eat, you know, 224 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: but like, yeah, we would just walk around in circles 225 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: in the mall, and you know, it was like a 226 00:09:58,040 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: little flirty walk. 227 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 2: I dabbled d thing. 228 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: Okay, So you were able to do well here there 229 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,079 Speaker 1: are people growing up right now who don't even probably 230 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: know there are towns where them there isn't a mall, 231 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 1: right or there's nothing there to do, so like you 232 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:16,079 Speaker 1: wouldn't walk around them all, okay. Were And by the way, 233 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: this is a list that was made by a website. 234 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: It's eleven things that parents of gen X kids did 235 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,440 Speaker 1: that would be considered a neglect today. 236 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 2: My parents neglected me. 237 00:10:25,720 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: I guess. So were you expected to cook your own food? 238 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,559 Speaker 1: Apparently now you don't have to cook your own food? 239 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: Dangerous or something. 240 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 3: I always cooked with my parents because my parents are chefs, 241 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 3: so I like they wanted me to learn how to cook. 242 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 3: That was a big thing. 243 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: But like if you wanted to make something and you 244 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 1: were eight years old or ten and they weren't there, 245 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: maybe that wasn't even a thing either. But I mean, 246 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: were you allowed to, you know, turn on the stove 247 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: and cook an egg or something if you wanted. 248 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 2: To, I would. 249 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 3: The thing is I was really lucky because I grew 250 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 3: up with a house with a lot of food, so 251 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:56,199 Speaker 3: I never really had that. 252 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: You never had to cook it. 253 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 3: Okay, well I did, but like not like I know, 254 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: ever cooked eggs by myself or anything. 255 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 2: Plus I'm the youngest, so my sister was always home. 256 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: I was never really alone. 257 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: You hit people serving on you, serving you? Okay, are 258 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: your nieces and nephews who are much younger, are they 259 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: allowed to do any of that stuff? Like can they 260 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: go roam the neighborhood. 261 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 4: And they can go to the park, but there's cell 262 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 4: phones with locations on them, so that doesn't really count. 263 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 4: They're not allowed to cook. Everybody gets door dashed or 264 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 4: uber eats, now. 265 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's okay, So don't turn the stove on 266 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:27,800 Speaker 1: that because you might burn the house down or whatever. 267 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 4: I know, I I was crying up pork chops at teams. 268 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 4: You're making spaghetti, Oh. 269 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, noodles rice? Who had to make rice? And you 270 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: had to make eggs? Oh oh yeah? And you had 271 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: to make mac and cheese. Oh yeah, No, there was 272 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: no it was an order of peacha every time you're hungry. No, 273 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:45,719 Speaker 1: oh no. Interesting. 274 00:11:45,760 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 2: I didn't touch a stove till I was definitely in 275 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: my twenties. 276 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: We talked about this yesterday, making babies cry it out. 277 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: I guess that's not a thing that people do anymore. 278 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: It's just let the baby cry out, because you know, 279 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 1: Paulina was talking about how little baby Gigi, you know, 280 00:11:58,200 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: gets mad and stuff and like hits and whatever at 281 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: one year old, which is you know, and tells her 282 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 1: mom to f off and you know, leave and stuff 283 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,200 Speaker 1: like that. That's crazy and one, it's a lot of 284 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: angst in that kid already. But you know, the thing 285 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,599 Speaker 1: was you just let them have the outburst and just 286 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: let them do it. But I do think that like 287 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 1: in this day and age, you know, people would be 288 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: annoyed or they would actually think you were not doing 289 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: your job. If your kid freaks out in the store 290 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 1: and you just let them freak out and walk around 291 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: like that, right, yeah, I mean that's what you're supposed 292 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,520 Speaker 1: to do. I thought as a parent, but I don't 293 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 1: know that people wouldn't call cps on you. Now, if 294 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: you were walking around the you know, the jewel or 295 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: the Walgreens or whatever, and your kid was just screaming 296 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,520 Speaker 1: because you just weren't going to deal with the fact 297 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:36,959 Speaker 1: that you were going to buy them the popsicles or 298 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: the toy or whatever, how did the cops show up 299 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 1: for that? Like abuse now or something. Letting kids figure 300 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: things out themselves. Ignoring school bullies now, this is a 301 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 1: more controversial topic because bullying has gotten far more sophisticated now. 302 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 1: I mean, it's the same spirit of idiots saying mean 303 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:57,959 Speaker 1: things to other people because they're projecting that they're actually 304 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: the loser, which is the thing that you're paying parents 305 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: always tell you when you're growing up, Like when the 306 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: kid's making fun of you and saying mean things about you, 307 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 1: it's like, well, this person actually is very insecure about themselves, 308 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 1: and they make you know, it's a terrible quality that 309 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 1: someone people to make themselves feel better by putting you 310 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: down and so, and you're going to grow up to 311 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 1: be really successful and great, so don't worry about them, 312 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 1: you know. That's the advice I got about bullies. But 313 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: my parents weren't calling to school saying don't bully my kid. 314 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 1: My parents weren't calling the parents. But my parents were like, 315 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 1: this is part of life, and people are always going 316 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: to be a holes. And that's true to this day. 317 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:32,440 Speaker 1: And I'm forty four years old, and there are still 318 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 1: people who get off on other people's failures and meaning. 319 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: So like, if you're not equipped for that, then I 320 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: don't know how well you're going to do in the 321 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: real world. But I and I will admit you know, 322 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: it's gotten far more dramatic, far more drastic. The accessibility 323 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: with technology and social media and the ways that people 324 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:53,920 Speaker 1: are bullying are far vaster than they were. But as 325 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,599 Speaker 1: it pertains to just kids being mean to kids, I 326 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: don't know how much of their that there is anymore. 327 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,440 Speaker 1: How did your parents deal with you being bullied? 328 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: Well, my dad's Italian, so. 329 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 1: There's a big hole in your backyard, so he said, 330 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: put me on the ratios. 331 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 2: Outside. 332 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 1: I put you, and I let her speak freely. She 333 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 1: doesn't know my name. 334 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: I know Jeff. 335 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 1: No. 336 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 3: My dad my mom would give very opposite advice. 337 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: My Dad's like, let me. 338 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 3: Know who they are, I want to talk to them. 339 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 3: I was like, he's like very confrontational, and my mom's 340 00:14:36,440 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 3: just like who cares, just like blow it off their losers. 341 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 3: And so I would never really listen to my dad 342 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:44,400 Speaker 3: in that sense. I mean, like a couple of times 343 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 3: I did, and I probably shouldn't have, but I tried 344 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:49,160 Speaker 3: to stick with what my mom said because it felt 345 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 3: a little more. 346 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 2: Rash when you egged the car. Oh, yeah, that is true. 347 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 2: Maybe I am like my dad. 348 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:58,720 Speaker 1: I did. Okay, it sounds like your dad would actually 349 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: kill people with his bare hand, and you egged a car, 350 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: so you're not. 351 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 2: Like you're going to make a car. 352 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 3: I threw poop at people's cars. 353 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 1: Poop. Oh, I thought I thought you were going to 354 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 1: say your poop. I was worried about in this segment. 355 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: Is you're not the person to talk to you? Are 356 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: you the bully? No? 357 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 3: Somebody egged my house and I didn't even know who 358 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 3: they were, and. 359 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:21,320 Speaker 2: So I retaliated with dog poops. 360 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: That's what it's giving Okay, so your parents basically raised 361 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 1: you like you were one of us, So this is 362 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: not you're not the person to talk to. 363 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 2: But I'm sorry. 364 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: And like the bullying thing, I know, i'd look like 365 00:15:31,520 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: and someone's gonna text up here and go, oh, the 366 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: you know, terrible example of this. Then, yes, of course 367 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: are extreme examples, and there are ways that people are 368 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: bullying now that they couldn't bully a stend. But I 369 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: do say that there's something too kids being mean to kids, 370 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: and you've got to teach your kids how to manage 371 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: that because it's not going to go away in adulthood. 372 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: And so like if you take your kid out of 373 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 1: school or if you I don't know a lot of 374 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,119 Speaker 1: different things that I've heard of people do or homeschool 375 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: your kid simply because you don't want to expose them 376 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: to things that are mean. I understand that that sort 377 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: of desire, but like what happens then when it's time 378 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: for your kid to go out and get a job 379 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,520 Speaker 1: and be in the real world and someone's mean to 380 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 1: them and they don't know what you had to cope 381 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: with that or what to do, because it's going to 382 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: happen because people are mean. 383 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: Oh yes, my dad taught me how to punch mine. 384 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 2: Is that bad? 385 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: No? But the rule in our house was don't hit 386 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 1: unless you have men hit. If you get hit, then 387 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,560 Speaker 1: you can hit. That was my thing. Yes, and that's 388 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: different for. 389 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 2: What I gotten his first on the butt with a stick. Yeah, 390 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: when we were in kindergarten. And so my dad taught 391 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: me how to throw a punch. Kindergarten, throw a punch. 392 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: And so the next day he said, there he is, 393 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: and I punched him. 394 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: I mean, if a boy, I guess if a man 395 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:42,320 Speaker 1: hits a woman, and you Italian, you can do what 396 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: you gotta do a. 397 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: Man, it's a woman. He was a little boy. 398 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: He's probably fine, that's what I well, that's what I 399 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: just said. 400 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,080 Speaker 2: Though I just said, hit a welt on my butt. 401 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: So she was little and it was she was a child. 402 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: But like, if if a man hits a woman, then 403 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: you know, a woman can retell you in whatever way 404 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 1: she pleases, except you know, not ring poop. You know 405 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:05,120 Speaker 1: there's a limit there too. Heyse Jose, Okay, what why 406 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: do we call Jose? So? Like why do we call 407 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 1: the radio station and then we don't say anything? Maybe 408 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 1: put him on hold and then pick him backup one 409 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: more time, Jose, because I hear that there's like a 410 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 1: phone on. Okay, well that was fun, thanks, Ose. I 411 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: agree with you. That was I mean, what insightful one 412 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 1: insightful feedback there. And honestly, the middle, the middle part 413 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 1: of that call touched me the most. I think where 414 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 1: he really got into his childhood. 415 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 4: And talked about it was like when he was talking, 416 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 4: time had no meaning. 417 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: He could have gone on forever. 418 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 1: It was for me, it was poetic, Like the guy 419 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 1: is a true orator. Like a lot of people say that, 420 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,919 Speaker 1: like like uh, Barack Obama can speak, and Martin Luther King, 421 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: But when Jose talks to me, it's like I'm the 422 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 1: only person in the room. I'm a different person, you 423 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:55,399 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like a true speaker. Yeah, he 424 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: was great, a true orator, you know what I mean? Yeah, 425 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: I was. I was totally just locked in on everything 426 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 1: he had to say. I feel like, Jo, No, your 427 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: mic is very much on and you can speak. What 428 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:15,120 Speaker 1: an incredible speech. Okay, Well, anyway, I was wondering if 429 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:16,879 Speaker 1: any of this related to you, because because you do 430 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: represent that generation, but I think your parents made it 431 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: such that none of that represents no, it's okay, it's okay. 432 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,119 Speaker 1: You can go now and Poliny can come back have 433 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: a nice day, because that's that's where we're at now, 434 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 1: is with this we have to switch people, physically switch 435 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: human beings so that we have enough people to do 436 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: the jobs. Rather and the doors tell her, no, we 437 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 1: don't really follow directions. Well you all right kicking? 438 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 4: Yes, the live stream is going great this morning. I'm 439 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 4: having a great. 440 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: Oh you mean that or is it not true? I'm 441 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: so serious? Okay, yes, I really can't tell. I can't 442 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:56,680 Speaker 1: tell if we're having a good time with the live 443 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: stream more if we're not. I also can't tell if 444 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: my lips are saying something. Maybe day's starting on the 445 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: lic straight. I have no idea