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Speaker 1: you don't know, but I like um boguesso. Guys. Welcome

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Speaker 1: to the guys. I'm wheezy, welcome back to another episode

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Speaker 1: of Horrible Decisions. I want to give a shout out

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Speaker 1: to my girl Jasmine who told me it was Hispanic

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Speaker 1: anybody like Latino community, seriously, and that's the first of all, Beach,

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Speaker 1: and luckily you know Hispanic because you know, ship's normally

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Speaker 1: us because we it's the black Effect Network. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: have the leeds Chat podcast in the building. We have

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Speaker 1: to say your name first. Dirara Dia. Yeah, they used

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Speaker 1: to call me that when I was there, I was

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Speaker 1: to me that Jojo Jo it's a diarrhean, so it's

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Speaker 1: really Joanna. Yeah, but you guys are we've had a

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Speaker 1: how long y'all been together? Almost three years? What are

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Speaker 1: a podcast? God? Bless oh no, get married? So my god,

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Speaker 1: is that the card? Chin? Nobody proposed it. I just

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Speaker 1: uh this episode. So why what made you guys choose

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Speaker 1: a couple like I want to get into that the podcast? No? Well,

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Speaker 1: I thought you were supposed to be progressing. I'm progressing.

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Speaker 1: What you want me to do? Turn around with my

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Speaker 1: Basically you know what you would say for them and there, yeah,

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Speaker 1: attracted to when they're stud or stud fem semps men

422
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 1: or has been attracted to men. Do you ever find

423
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: yourself because you said I was being a gentleman when

424
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: you're around men getting more girly or do you turn

425
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 1: into one of the bros? I feel like it depends

426
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: who I'm around. Most times I'm I'm bromfucker's but they're

427
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:17,040
Speaker 1: sometimes when I'm like, I'm still a girl. Do you

428
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: want to get her shots? Oh? Yeah, and we out

429
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: I'm getting my free shots. That's what I love about. Yeah,

430
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:27,439
Speaker 1: that's I see that. Do you guys ever use how

431
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: hot you are as like a gay lesbian coupled to

432
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 1: get you, saying that it's going to move everyone to

433
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 1: the YouTube, like let me go see what these let

434
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 1: me go, let me tell they are. If y'all are

435
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: listening auto audio only, please go over to Horrible. When that,

436
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: I would do that, like we went to the club

437
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 1: and beaus at a table like that. Last time we

438
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: went to Atlantic City, we met like this big group

439
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 1: of guys and they had their own section. I was like,

440
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 1: let's get in there, and we got I was actually surprised,

441
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,480
Speaker 1: as like, let's get in here, like know we're gonna

442
00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 1: get drinks. I know, I'm thinking cute. I know you're

443
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: looking cute. Why did she turned into one of the bros? Yeah?

444
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: I did. I had it that because they were like

445
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: probably saying no, they were trying to go to strip

446
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: up after and I was, but we didn't get to go.

447
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: The crazy part is I didn't even have to do

448
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,360
Speaker 1: that though, because like the fit that I was wearing,

449
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: it was like, oh, once they knew like she was

450
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,680
Speaker 1: my girlfriend, it was like, ye ain't even gonna try you,

451
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 1: like you fly a lesbian that they would, but also

452
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: you're gonna but also if they get you drunk enough,

453
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,360
Speaker 1: do you feel like men being around you'll have also

454
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: maybe been like, oh, I'm gonna get both of them. No,

455
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 1: I don't say that I have either of you ever

456
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: stopped with the man? Yes, both of y'all. Y'all don't

457
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: miss the day. Well, I consider myself bisexual, so we

458
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 1: gotta get it too. That not the side, bitch. Oh,

459
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into this. Ask that because penetrative sex.

460
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: Is that enough for you? Or do you sometimes? Actually

461
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 1: see that's the thing. I'm not blessed like Mandy, Like

462
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: I did not penetration, But when you said your bisexual,

463
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,479
Speaker 1: I wondered, like if that was something that men were

464
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 1: giving you that you enjoyed. So no penetrated sex. No,

465
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: how do you guys normally have sex? Well, damn, I'll

466
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: put my mouth on it. Did take my time and

467
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: slow kiss a little bit, start up the engine and

468
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 1: use a couple of fingers, startup, so like it's orally

469
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: your main and favorite form of sex. Yeah, we actually

470
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 1: don't even have a strap m And you know what

471
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: I do. And I didn't want to jump. I hate

472
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: jumping in the outline. But you being bisexual, you being

473
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: a stem, I would say, then I've had a huge

474
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: issue with talking to women because they don't want to

475
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: date someone bisexual. Was that something once you realize I

476
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: like women, I don't want to go back to men.

477
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: You identified you did not identify yourself as bisexual, So

478
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: was it well, was the thought process of being with

479
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 1: someone bisexual? And do you ever feel inadequate, like you're

480
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: not giving her everything she wants with her specifically, No, Okay,

481
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: maybe because she always guy shaming or whatever. She's like,

482
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 1: I'm not here from she do. But even that, like

483
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: I think, for me, I don't. I guess in a sense,

484
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 1: I adn't give a funk because also we're in a

485
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: generation where everybody's bisexual. They were a little bit both.

486
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: That's cool. Everybody's a little fluid nowadays. But I feel like,

487
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: I mean, in our reality, most gate it's just with

488
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: straight girls. So it's like we're accepting the straight girls

489
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: and we always want to hit the turnout, which half

490
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: the time when you turn it out with showty, this

491
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: is showty that was already curious and straight woman they

492
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: do it. One of our we talked about the time

493
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: you guys do the same thing. He loves because he

494
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: knows it takes song, he's like, and he'll call me

495
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: and he's more excited to tell me a story about

496
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,479
Speaker 1: that than fucking dude. Right, he'd be like, and then

497
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,880
Speaker 1: he was wrapping on his dick and then he wanted

498
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: to taste mine and he had to stop when his

499
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: wife was in the room. Man, So do you feel

500
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: like there's a big deal culture with women too? As

501
00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: much as we like when we refer to download, it's

502
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,719
Speaker 1: mostly associated to men, right, is there a deal culture

503
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 1: with women too? Yeah? It's all the best friends, I think, Like,

504
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: you know, friends, they don't get late, and then they

505
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,680
Speaker 1: want to be like, yo, tag me in, Like I

506
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: want to know what that's like. Yeah, when they heart

507
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: sex and straight women, both of you. What did you

508
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 1: find that The most annoying thing about it is I'm

509
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: not here to teach them same same. But I feel

510
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: like for her, like she's had enough of like dealing

511
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: with guys and having to tell them how it is

512
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:58,719
Speaker 1: or whatever. Because she's a very assertive individual, very asserted.

513
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: She's giving masking honestly, Like I look more fun, but

514
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm more masks her personality. She has

515
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 1: more dominance. But that's always how it is with niggas

516
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: when you're dating your man, they'd be like, all right, babe,

517
00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: you know, like so I do want to get back

518
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: real quick to the sex with men. Maybe a threesome

519
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: will happen in your future. Do you think that a

520
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: man would be easier? Because what do you think it

521
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: would be easier? Like you, how would you like? Would

522
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: you want to have sex with the dude? I think

523
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:36,760
Speaker 1: it would depend he gotta be popping. Okay, what's your

524
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: man's respectful? Why you can be asking? And what a

525
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: man type is while they see like a sex podcast?

526
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: Why did Yeah? I just think that I put on accent.

527
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: You do acting every episode? Okay, go because one of

528
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: my icebreakers was celebrity man. If you guys had to

529
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: pick one for the three cents, well, she said it,

530
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: it probably will be Chris Brown. Really, I mean he's

531
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: gonna smet me. Yeah, you know, look like him, but

532
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: not act like him. No, no, don't do that. Not popping.

533
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,719
Speaker 1: She wants rose a little tiny as I want skeptic

534
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: for real. Really, well, you're not white enough. He was

535
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: just with a dolt. You're not giving a deal. He

536
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: was also a name the Campbell God bless. I don't

537
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:39,680
Speaker 1: know he doesn't have a type the list. Okay, okay,

538
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 1: so Chris Brown for the both of you and interesting Okay,

539
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: well I know I am not gonna lie. It's been

540
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: the longest intro of horrible decisions history, right, you know

541
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: the cinnamon love was given the game that we just yeah,

542
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: we didn't. We didn't do that line. So we sorrow.

543
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: This is that, you know when when we does that outline,

544
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: we have no outline. That's for me, flood he is.

545
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:10,080
Speaker 1: At the same time speaking of you know, I wish

546
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: that was so y'all only get the fun twice a month,

547
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 1: like two weeks out of a month, because yes, that sucks.

548
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: Do you hear it sucks? No? I know you do.

549
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: Not heard telling you about yourself, what your body, especially

550
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 1: your bloody You both don't like it or what if

551
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: you want? So we don't. But I'm not scared, which

552
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all know, But I'm not scared

553
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: to go grab my little rosie and get to it. Yeah,

554
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: I think a little Roseby. I don't want to see

555
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: the string hanging out. I'm good on all that. I mean,

556
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna see the string. Listen, I don't see today.

557
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 1: I think it's different to you just ignore it then,

558
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: But you know what, most of the only little it.

559
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: So it makes complete sense that out of know where

560
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: you don't feel we you fucking when you're horny and

561
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: you're feeling it, you're just gonna let it rip. At

562
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: that point, they already they already pushed the boundary. They're

563
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: already like getting you in that mood you like fuck it?

564
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: Are any of y'all? Um? Are? Are either of y'all

565
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: God's chosen? Like myself? You have a three day period? Actually,

566
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 1: just found out I have endometriosis. Say, wow, what's your birthday?

567
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm a very good We're both okay. First off, endometriosis

568
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with what's your birthday? Oh? My

569
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: birthday is tomorrow? Actually, um, but wait, so in finding

570
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: that out, I know that endometriosis can also lead to

571
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: sometimes in fertility, heavy blood flow cramping. What does how

572
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: do you show for her in a moment of say

573
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: a bad month or where it's coming you know where

574
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 1: it affects literally your behavior, it affects your whole body.

575
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 1: Have you shown up for her in those moments? And

576
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 1: are you like not accepting of it? But you know, um, well,

577
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: for her, it's like a hit or miss because I

578
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 1: know for something that like in the beginning she was

579
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: taking birth control to like kind of yeah, um, so

580
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: I didn't get to see it a lot of the time,

581
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: like I said, was bouncing her at some point. But

582
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: recently it's actually been like really bad. So I've experienced

583
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: it in past relations and I know that's it's not fun.

584
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: It's not so I just when I am home at least,

585
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, what you need come home with the yeah, yeah,

586
00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 1: the ice packscause she gets that. I mean there's there's

587
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 1: ice packs, there's hot packs, there's the massaging of just

588
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: your lobe like my friend like would ask just because

589
00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 1: the migraines come. And it's also just the Crimpson. So

590
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: I love that. You're like, what helps cuddling? He is

591
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: there's a cuddle therapist that gets paid hundred dollars and

592
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: be held no sex, no um, basically to sleep over

593
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: and let you cuddle them. So a cuddle therapist is

594
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 1: speaking out about this unusual occupation. Her name is Missy,

595
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: she's forty three. She looked real good, though, he says.

596
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: Hugging heals the body, mind, and spirit. And she never

597
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 1: has sex with clients. She doesn't even call herself a

598
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 1: sex worker. She's never had clients attempt to do anything

599
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: like that. She makes both male and female customers sign

600
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 1: an agreement before the healing can begin. As part of

601
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: the agreement, genitals and breasts are to be covered at

602
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: all times and there are strict limits for touch there.

603
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: They are often touching. Sorry, So basically, um, she was

604
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: a fashion ballogger who was working at a cuddle therapist

605
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: for a short amount of time, and they have experienced

606
00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: erections while there's an embracement because there's an ever an issue,

607
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: and she doesn't believe there's something sexual about it. She said,

608
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 1: people get aroused and embarrassed, but it's only natural. She

609
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: knows that men are often the ones that need this

610
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: service because they can be overlooked when it comes to

611
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: mental health support, claiming that a lack of touch exacerbates

612
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:21,000
Speaker 1: loneliness and can cause um over eating, self destructive habits, smoking,

613
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: nail biting, which I thought was funny to say, but

614
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 1: she said not needs. We're having weird ass fingers. They'd

615
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: be biting in nails. You got nubs all the motherfucker. Yeah,

616
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: maybe putting clear polish on the nubs, especially when I yeah, man,

617
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: hands be not you remember that lady? This said to

618
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: Benny when we were out getting our nails, and she goes,

619
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:47,479
Speaker 1: you want to do clear color because you man, that's

620
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,320
Speaker 1: okay anyway, Sorry. So she had a female customer that

621
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: needed a mommy cuddle and basically, um, she said, she

622
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: called me after her boyfriend of two years walked out

623
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: on her. She had no friends and family in their Yeah,

624
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 1: I went straight to her. She said. Her skills are

625
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,320
Speaker 1: that of a masseuse. I worked like a massage therapist,

626
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: where basically the skin is the biggest organ and the

627
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 1: gateway to our emotional capacity. Some people hate the idea

628
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: of being touched, but we're programmed to need it. So

629
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: for those who can't afford it, she'll offer cheaper packages

630
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: seventy dollars for a cuddle for one hour, two hours

631
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,800
Speaker 1: but overnight. But the one with the mommy issues is

632
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,799
Speaker 1: interesting because I don't think I ever like I think

633
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 1: that she was like, that's the big spoon. Yeah, but

634
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: I've never even felt the need to be boned or

635
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: cuddled or coddled by my mom, especially when you call

636
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 1: your mom for advice, But as an adult, that hasn't

637
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: been an intimacy that I've craved. You know what I mean.

638
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: You're telling me you've never called your mom to like

639
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: I call my mom. Having a conversation with my mom

640
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: is different than being cuddled and cuddled by my mother

641
00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: figure like, so for someone to coddle or be cuddled

642
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: by a woman in search of a mother thing like

643
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: I understand daddy issues mommy issues in the way of intimacy.

644
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,439
Speaker 1: I've never seeked my mom for intimacy. And maybe maybe

645
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: that you don't have daddy issues for intimacy either, But oh,

646
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: but now I love intimacy. I've never hugged my dad.

647
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: I never had, but now now, and that's probably why

648
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: I was with men the way I was in my twenties.

649
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,359
Speaker 1: But now that's all I want is intimacy with men.

650
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: But I've never wanted to be cuddled or cuddled by

651
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: my mother. I've never want to be cuddled by my

652
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: dad either. But I feel like the mom everyone knows,

653
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: like maybe your mom's are like a grandma thing, like

654
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,920
Speaker 1: I can never love that my grandma never want to

655
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: cuddle one. I never want my grandma wat to be

656
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: a big spoon bitch. I think that the cuddle word

657
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: is like, I think it's just such a nurse like

658
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: nursing from a women's standpoint. No, I'm sorry, We're gonna

659
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 1: hug and be God, where's physical touch on your lovelan?

660
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,279
Speaker 1: Physical touches? Actually, I've realized super super high. I would

661
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 1: say maybe number two. Um. Number one for me is

662
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: for short acts of service, active service, physical time, then

663
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:13,240
Speaker 1: quality time, quality time number three five that you service

664
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: each other's um love languages. I tried my best with her.

665
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's a lot more easier for

666
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: me because you like quality time. What is hers that

667
00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 1: you feel like it's a little bit harder for you

668
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: to accommodate her. That's her number one. And I feel

669
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: like for me, when I'm doing my best to try

670
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 1: and give her those acts of service, it's like never

671
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: enough because she's the type of person who's like on

672
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 1: go at all times. I got this, I gotta do that.

673
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 1: Like everything happens within that twenty four hour you know period,

674
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: and I'm like, girl, one day at a but real quick,

675
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: go ahead, something that she does amazing in your relationship.

676
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 1: Here we go. UM. I would say quality time, I

677
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: feel like we we we we go above and beyond

678
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: when it comes to like going on dates and like

679
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,399
Speaker 1: making sure that we have those date nights. That's good.

680
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 1: Like right after this we're going on a date, so

681
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: like I feel like we do well with that when

682
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying it is, which I guess for me, it

683
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: was never access service until like we got together, just

684
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: like I was never affectionate before I got with her,

685
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: and now I'm like, I feel like I'm overly affectionate.

686
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: Like people used to always have to tell me about myself, like, oh,

687
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: you're not affectionate enough, You're not embraceful enough. Does any

688
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:35,600
Speaker 1: of that have to do with coming out and ship? Um? Nah? Nah?

689
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,399
Speaker 1: I actually wanted to ask you another question, um, because

690
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: it's been something that recently I've dealt with. You said,

691
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 1: you you show up in what you believe is access Service,

692
00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: but you don't feel like it's enough. Do you think

693
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 1: that's an internal thing that maybe she will like even

694
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: if she says it's enough. Do you feel like you're

695
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 1: just innately not doing enough? Or is there are a

696
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 1: time that you could say exactly what you're doing is enough?

697
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: And I need you to know that it's enough because

698
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: this is a new love language for you to show

699
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: up with her. And this was an issue with my

700
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: with my ex, where I'm like, exactly what you're doing

701
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: is makes me happy, but he never felt like he

702
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,759
Speaker 1: was enough. Is that something at all that you guys

703
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: talk about where you feel like you know what she

704
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 1: wants and you still don't feel like you're showing up.

705
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 1: For the most part, yeah, I feel like you know

706
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: she I know she does these things every day. Let

707
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: me pick up the slag so she doesn't have to

708
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: do it. And then sometimes I just think like a right, like,

709
00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: even if I do those things, she's about to find

710
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: a whole new thing to get into, and I'm just like,

711
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: can you just really a couple of therapy at all?

712
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 1: It's her? I do think that because for the most part,

713
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: I feel like, which I told you a man, girl,

714
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: you're my ex bitch, because I told her all the time.

715
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, i feel like I'm dating the person

716
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: that I was for everybody else. So again, like I said,

717
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: a lot of people will say you're not embraceful enough,

718
00:40:57,880 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: you're not present enough, you're not affection off, and I'm like, yo,

719
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: I'm sucking here. What more do you want? Um? And

720
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 1: now that I'm with her where I'm like actually more

721
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,040
Speaker 1: intentional and I want to be here and I do

722
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: like want this. I feel like now I'm I'm the

723
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 1: other like people that I dealt with where I'm like

724
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: like I'm here, Hey, I'm here, but you're not. I

725
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: don't Everything that you do is more than Yeah, but

726
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 1: you know the ship like speaking of more than enough,

727
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: I'm assuming she makes you come tell us a horrid

728
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 1: Let's go opposite. You talk about something she does, get

729
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,359
Speaker 1: in bed and you tell us the same. So let's

730
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: start with you. Um, I like when she eats me

731
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,320
Speaker 1: out and then fingers me at the same time, what

732
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: do you do with your fingers? Specifically? It's yeah, so

733
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: for they can see you on YouTube, just you can.

734
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to give you all the juice, how girl.

735
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 1: But for the most part, it's like it's a little

736
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: bit of in and out. But I get to that

737
00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: in and out motion like that come here, come here

738
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 1: with me, and that ship that works for her. Don't

739
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: get no fucking ideas, but that ship it works so

740
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 1: and that you know, I like to give a little

741
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,919
Speaker 1: mouth to mouth at the same time, you know, it's

742
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: it's nice the extra the penetration and and a little

743
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: I read of me And recently they said if they kiss,

744
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: kiss the thighs, and kiss the pussy slow, you know

745
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 1: the head is about to be good. I actually agree

746
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,799
Speaker 1: with that. To me, to the head is even better

747
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: when you come up and kiss me in my actual

748
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: mouth after you kiss my other lips. But then also

749
00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: like now we're connecting to where I know how I smell,

750
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: how I taste, and now I just enjoyed that with you,

751
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: Like that's if you're gonna eat my pussy, you gotta

752
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: kiss me right after. And I stuck your dick, I

753
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 1: gotta kiss you right after. And if you don't want

754
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 1: me to kiss you after I suck your dick, your

755
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: dick is not it? Right? That's it. That's also weird

756
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 1: when they do that, but that has ship, like I

757
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 1: deal with them childish has niggas on. Okay, now you

758
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 1: tell us all right. I don't want to say surprisingly enough,

759
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 1: but I guess it's always shade on feminine women is

760
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: that they don't give good head. And by the grace

761
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: of God, this woman gives good head because I feel

762
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 1: like when you fun with feminine females. Now they're changing,

763
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: they're stepping up. They're like, yo, I want parts too,

764
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 1: But at least like when I started, it was like

765
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:40,160
Speaker 1: pillow princesses. You know, especially with straight women. You know,

766
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: you're fucking women who never fucked with women, and they

767
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: don't want to. They just want to receive. Correct A

768
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: friend that recently told me she was a Hello princess

769
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 1: and I couldn't even believe she admitted it. I was like,

770
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: that's okay. So she was like and she was like,

771
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: I must have good pussy because like they'd be coming back.

772
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: But I don't do ship. You just get wow, like

773
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 1: but to know that, you know, you're like that. Now

774
00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: she got a fat ass and big cities, so like

775
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 1: maybe that's where it's just like fun, we're gonna anyway,

776
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: but yeah, she just flat out It was like, I

777
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:18,080
Speaker 1: just I can't say I'm a blazingly But then let

778
00:44:18,120 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: me ask you, Joejoe, what makes good head? So I

779
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 1: guess from me, I can't speak for all my STEMI

780
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: steady bitches, but it's definitely you know the clip play.

781
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't know that, and I feel like,

782
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: in a sense as females, especially more feminine females. We

783
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 1: like that is because we don't know, like you don't

784
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 1: do it, but it's like, do how you would want

785
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: it done. That's the only way I feel like you can.

786
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:50,439
Speaker 1: You can really start if you like it this way.

787
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: It's either gonna work for her or it's not. She's

788
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:54,879
Speaker 1: gonna tell you it's not, but that's your starting point.

789
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,839
Speaker 1: I don't even know how I fucking did it when

790
00:44:57,880 --> 00:44:59,919
Speaker 1: I started, But you don't know how you started eating.

791
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't either. I watched a lot

792
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: of L Word at the time, like the original what

793
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: is this? It's it's giving life maybe with two men?

794
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: So life L is in life? Yes, life literally words

795
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: are you serious, man, Stock? There's no way you never

796
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: Johansen and the L Word on Showtime, the show about

797
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: lesbian First off, I just got money. Showtime is a

798
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: prey channel. It was the same channel that Zane was on.

799
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: You know, no, Zane was on Oxygen. That was a

800
00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: free cable network channel. It was on Oxygen on pay

801
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: for that channel. Don't know what was literally like as

802
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: a hell of famous show. And what's interesting about that

803
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: is um one of the people I worked with used

804
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,960
Speaker 1: to work on the show, and she was like all

805
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: of the writers like a lot of the experiences were meant.

806
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: So when the new gen L Word came out on

807
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: Amazon recently, it felt more lesbian. Oh yeah, is it

808
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 1: fictional or documentary? It's giving gay sex in the city

809
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 1: in a way out of it is l a base

810
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: which there's how gay they're making avocado tills for each other.

811
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: How basically like you learned about Turkey based ship. One

812
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: of my favorite scenes in The L Word was there

813
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: was a couple of black and white couple um where

814
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 1: they wanted to have a kid and they were trying

815
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: to find a sperm donor and she's like, oh my god, babe.

816
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: The black girl comes home to the white girl. She's

817
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:27,959
Speaker 1: like I found the perfect guy. Like he's an artist,

818
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: Like I found him. He's amazing, Like he's going to

819
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: come over and drive you to sperm bait. She was

820
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: like yes. She opens the door and he's black and

821
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 1: she was like what the fuck because she didn't she

822
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: wanted to buy racial baby then, so she was like,

823
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 1: why don't we talk about this? And the guy was

824
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 1: like she looks as she was like, I'm hoping Beth

825
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,759
Speaker 1: told you I was black, but no, it was a

826
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: really good scene. And um, in the new show you

827
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,919
Speaker 1: get to see like the kid grown up and she's

828
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: like that. But a lot of that how to do

829
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: with coming out. There was a character that was very

830
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: ashamed of being gay and I but you know, before

831
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: we wrap, I think we've definitely got to do our

832
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: due diligence and knowing your families. Do they like each other,

833
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: hate each other, hate you being gay? What is it? R?

834
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 1: Let's be inn is actually been very lucky for the

835
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: most part, Like my parents don't have an issue with it. Um,

836
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 1: I just took a very long time to tell my mom.

837
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: So I told my like I started knowing by like

838
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: eighth grade year, and then by freshman year, I was like,

839
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 1: all right, let me test this theory. And at that point,

840
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 1: talking to bitches, I was like, all right, like, y'all

841
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: do this. Like I was on a basketball team at

842
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 1: that too, so yeah, yeah, I'm around all girls at

843
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 1: the time, so if you're giving me play, I'm taking it.

844
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 1: And at the time I was obsessed with this one girl,

845
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: which it didn't work, so that was a waste. But

846
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: I was like, damn that freshman year I told my dad,

847
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 1: I told my brothers. I didn't give fun because at

848
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: the end of the day, for for my relationship with them,

849
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: it didn't matter, like you either love me or you don't,

850
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,480
Speaker 1: I don't care. My mom was the main person, and

851
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: I honestly didn't officially tell my mom until I started

852
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: dating her. I'm twenty eight. I started dating you when

853
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: I was twenty seventh. That did she tell her? So did?

854
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 1: She said? I knew, she always knew. And other than

855
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: the fact that like I knew, she had her suspicions,

856
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,399
Speaker 1: not even I had a lot of gay friends too.

857
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 1: So my brother went out, me to her, my brother,

858
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,720
Speaker 1: her sister's and like, I'm really close to her siblings

859
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: because her siblings are like around our age. So these

860
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 1: motherucker's already knew. Did you ever consider having like a beard?

861
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: Every thing about bringing home and just be like I did?

862
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: But you had a beard Thanksgiving? Weird? Like Christmas beard?

863
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: What happened? Did they believe you'll talk? This was right

864
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: before actually before I started dating her. Oh so when

865
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: I my mom never knew. Out of high school, I

866
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: dated some some girl. I dated her for like four years.

867
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: We broke up, she broke out me whatever it happened,

868
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 1: and then I was like fuck it, like I'm about

869
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: to do whatever the funk I want because at the

870
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 1: time I felt like I was very um like coddled,

871
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: like I wasn't out here yet, I wasn't doing nothing.

872
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: I had no other sexual experiences other than when that relationship.

873
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: So I got tired of the whole like being in

874
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 1: this box for this person that dubbed me anyway, So

875
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: I was like fuck it, like I'm about to be

876
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 1: out here. And I ended up fucking with guys. Well

877
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: I only fucked with two, and I was like, in

878
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,800
Speaker 1: a way, I guess for me because they know you

879
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: were gay. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. Love that ship. No,

880
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: guys love that ship. They like adore that ship. They're like, oh,

881
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 1: like you you were masking, like like they don't want

882
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,800
Speaker 1: feminine shorty no more. But I would tell him the

883
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,120
Speaker 1: first dude, I was like, yeah, I never sucked with

884
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: a dude, and I don't really care how this go.

885
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: I just think you pop, and that is what it is.

886
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: I did with the first guy for ships and giggles,

887
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: and I think that was out of the idea of

888
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: like I wanted that sexual power because I feel like

889
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: guys think that they're in control and like when it

890
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 1: comes to sex and it's like, nah, like you funk

891
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: cause I let you fuck? Right. Yeah, I really didn't

892
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: have to let that happen. And I think I was

893
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: in the state in a curious stage too, where it

894
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: was like we talk show these all the time, don't

895
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: knock ittill you try it. So I was like, you know,

896
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: let me try it. And I didn't. I was like,

897
00:50:39,080 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: all right, I don't hate the second. Um it was better.

898
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: It was better. I hate to say that, But I

899
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: also think that I dealt with him longer was because

900
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: of the connection that we had. He was giving me

901
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 1: more feminine energy, and I think that I touched to

902
00:50:58,880 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 1: that because I'm used to the way, um, just his

903
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: personality is that what he was giving he's being less

904
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 1: dismissive and more attentive. And he actually happened to be

905
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 1: the person that was like you're not embraceful enough, Like

906
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: you're not you're not here, And I was like, do

907
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: you want, like I want to smell some I mean

908
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like that's even like been my dilemma,

909
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 1: Like I really like enjoy being with women intimately and sexually,

910
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 1: But relationship wise, I'm good. It's too much like literally,

911
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:38,160
Speaker 1: even with dating certain guys, even like I've been talking

912
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: to my hunger like bitch I'm dating a bitch is emotional,

913
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 1: and like I realized how much like I'm someone that

914
00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 1: can't be there on an empathetic level. And women require

915
00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 1: a lot of emotions. And so even when I deal

916
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:55,359
Speaker 1: with a man who is emotional, I, as a woman,

917
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: don't how to deal with that because again, where used

918
00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:01,080
Speaker 1: to mend being more dismissive, not eating as much attention,

919
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: And so for how you have to show up for

920
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 1: a woman, I don't think I even had the capacity

921
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 1: to do. Like, sexually, we get fun. You could go

922
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:11,800
Speaker 1: at home girl and I eat you puts in and

923
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: girl going your way up. Fun, But the emotional needs

924
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: of women it's very hard to come by. And literally,

925
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 1: every time I deal with a woman and it gets

926
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: a little serious, I hit up my homeboys like, oh

927
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: y'all got it hard. That's how New York coming out story.

928
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 1: So growing up, my mom was not with the ships.

929
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,880
Speaker 1: My mom's Dominican, okay, and I remember she found a

930
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:36,520
Speaker 1: picture of my older sister kissing her friend and she

931
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:39,240
Speaker 1: kicked my sister out, not on the on the camera,

932
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 1: they had to be she saw it. She kicked my

933
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: sister out and then after that I was like, oh yeah,

934
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: she was scared with that. So I didn't come out

935
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,040
Speaker 1: until later in life. So I came out when I

936
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 1: started dating her. And it's funny because when I came out,

937
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm gay and I'm actually moving in

938
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: with her, So it was all I wanted. I told her.

939
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: I told them all I want and we're dating for

940
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: like what six months? I think it was eight at

941
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: the time. That's fast, right, Yeah, But that's the great

942
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: part is I never moved that fast until I started

943
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: dating her because she she looked like a Dyakmond bottle server.

944
00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:20,719
Speaker 1: I got my Spanish girl. And you guys are doing

945
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: family functions now, like but now my family is like

946
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 1: totally cool with it. Y'all hold hands and kiss from

947
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:35,640
Speaker 1: the family. But remember funeral. My my mom was super chill.

948
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: But like, for some reason at the funeral, my ex

949
00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: was showing me a lot of love, right, and I

950
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: remember like she leaned over and do mean my mom

951
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: looked at me like, you don't be gay, right, not here?

952
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: You know my grandma. You know, I always say like

953
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: a reason that it was. I think grieving her was

954
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: easier because when she's old, we celebrate someone who's lived

955
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: a long life. But who she really know? Who I was?

956
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:03,479
Speaker 1: I remember her watching us. Okay, are you doing? See

957
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 1: you again? Just this is it before you guys came out.

958
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: And this is just because I want to bring this

959
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:14,600
Speaker 1: all the way back to really our childhood. Did y'all

960
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 1: ever play house with your homegirls or or teacher and

961
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: student or anything that was really toxic now that we

962
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 1: look back at it, but did you ever like dry

963
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: hump your friends early on? I just know that that

964
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 1: was an experience with me, like anytime I played the house,

965
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: I was dry humping my homegirls early early, early on.

966
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: Was that an experience that y'all had? Did that come

967
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 1: later in life? It was? And I was always bad

968
00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: that she was always that not you, not you day

969
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: I was. I was that's how you know, right like daddy.

970
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: But but now I know that everybody's listening and probably

971
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: like running to see what you look like. But um,

972
00:54:57,160 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: I want you to tell people where to find you

973
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:00,840
Speaker 1: and also let them know what they expect in future

974
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: episodes Good Girl. So our podcast it's called Last Chap Podcast. UM,

975
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: it's everywhere on all platforms, and we talk about everything.

976
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,840
Speaker 1: We'll talk about everything gave related, so even when it

977
00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: comes to st d s and t D ask about

978
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: literally everything. So, but what is that conversation, especially with

979
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 1: her being bisexual? But when you guys first met we

980
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: talked about how often lesbians don't go into thinking that

981
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 1: there's STD because I don't know, for whatever reason, the

982
00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: homosexual conversations that we've had on this pod std UM

983
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: testing and questions only arise during heterosexual relationships. It's never

984
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,799
Speaker 1: even a thought as much, especially with women on women interactions.

985
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: What what are those conversations normally like, not only together

986
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 1: but in your past. So it's funny because when we met, um,

987
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,520
Speaker 1: it was in twenty so right like after the pandemic,

988
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: Like restaurants were still like open but not too many people,

989
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: like limited seating clubs were closed. UM. So I was

990
00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: on my whole ship and I started dating this guy

991
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:19,920
Speaker 1: right girl with my luck. We had sex and the

992
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 1: guy gave me HPV. Then I met her like two

993
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: weeks later, and I was like so scared to tell her.

994
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 1: I was like we were. We were already talking for

995
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 1: like two weeks, and then she came over. She drove

996
00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: an hour and a half and I was like, I'm

997
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 1: gonna make her drive. I don't know how she's wait

998
00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: that wait wait, because you couldn't do anything at the time.

999
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: Were you on medication because the thing with HPV is

1000
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: that you can't It doesn't go away like it goes

1001
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 1: away like one to one two years um. But I

1002
00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: didn't have any symptoms. You could either have warts or

1003
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: like no symptoms. So I was like, how the funk

1004
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell this girl that I just met that

1005
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: I have HPV. She's gonna be like, what the funk

1006
00:56:57,360 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: is that? And I was a saying to that head

1007
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:07,319
Speaker 1: chap peet viv, I just like that at the end

1008
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: of everything. So we were laying in bed and I

1009
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 1: was like, oh my, I gotta tell her. So I was,

1010
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: I gonna tell you something, mind you hold on. It

1011
00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:15,879
Speaker 1: took us. We didn't have text for like three weeks

1012
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: because of being a gentleman. Come on, gentlemen, I don't

1013
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: want to be a boy. I actually like her, like

1014
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 1: I don't want pushing on limits. I'm gonna let her

1015
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: call the ship all right, cool three weeks and I

1016
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: was like I can't wait. Yeah, and she trying to

1017
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:33,400
Speaker 1: make seem like it was me girl, No, yeah, it

1018
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:35,840
Speaker 1: was you. Yeah. So I was not gonna tell you something.

1019
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 1: Um and then I told her. She was like super

1020
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: cool with it. I love that. I'm just like I

1021
00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: enjoyed the HPV pussy too. I think I'm not gonna

1022
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: looking at me. No, no, no, But you know what

1023
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: it is that it's probably because we know. I think

1024
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: it's something like women have it. So it's a scary

1025
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: conversation to happen, but it's almost like having it just

1026
00:57:56,280 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: one hvs whatever, like her place, two is on your mount,

1027
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: one is in your in your plus. Okay, so I'll

1028
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: take one of the other. I'll take the one that

1029
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 1: I'll take the cold. But but no, I mean I

1030
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 1: think that women are also more understanding, right, Like I'm

1031
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: sure you didn't be like, oh you dirt. You know

1032
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying that, So we we have any when

1033
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: it comes to even a smell or b V, Like

1034
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: me and my homegirls talk about it all the time,

1035
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: like DV is a thing, like and my home girls

1036
00:58:29,400 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 1: will be like, bitch, what our bork acid. This is

1037
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:34,000
Speaker 1: what you take like, we understand that our body is

1038
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 1: so much more complex than men that we have. We

1039
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: just have and in the one understanding of that, you

1040
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: know what I mean in terms. So let's shot podcast

1041
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: y'all are available everywhere, also YouTube, so they could see

1042
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: all episodes on Monday's bitch, don't try to compete with us. Well,

1043
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: y'all just took our weekend, so we might not even

1044
00:58:56,920 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: have one this Monday. We oh we don't care podcast

1045
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: on Patreon. Check us out where we gave all the

1046
00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 1: updated see what happened last night, what happened the other day?

1047
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 1: And um, yeah, thanks for watching. That's right, thank you

1048
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,640
Speaker 1: for tuning into Yeah, another episode of horrid blad Decision. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. Let's check podcast and check them out.

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Speaker 1: Um yeah, so who knows, maybe I'll meet a hot

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Speaker 1: Spotify exactly. Now. That's honestly the only reason I kind

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Speaker 1: of like go into events, because I'd just be like,

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Speaker 1: who am I gonna meet? Because I realized, and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say this before we get to vanish, because we

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Speaker 1: know it's a good one. I'd be fucking with a

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Speaker 1: lot of niggas that aren't necessarily well to do. And

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Speaker 1: we had this conversation altogether after the link up, huh,

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Speaker 1: we all want to eat And I was talking about

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Speaker 1: how I feel i'd really be bro niggas and Bent

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Speaker 1: was like, I think that's because you just like feel

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Speaker 1: like you don't have time for niggas of money because

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Speaker 1: they're so used to bitch is working hard for them, right,

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Speaker 1: And he didn't. He didn't get Kevin Samuel's on me

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Speaker 1: at all. He was like, but it's not like you

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Speaker 1: don't want dudes to take care of ship for you.

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Speaker 1: He's like, so, why do you think it's attractive on

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Speaker 1: the other side, And I said, I think that I'm

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Speaker 1: low key attracted to guys that aren't necessarily the castanova

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Speaker 1: of the crew because they're not scared to show how

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Speaker 1: much they like me. Like sometimes when like rich dudes

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Speaker 1: are athletes, you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying they don't you trying to haul at me, but

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Speaker 1: like we I mean, we had this conversation literally just

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Speaker 1: they don't. They really don't. But you said you wanted

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Speaker 1: an industry because because you thought it would be easier

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Speaker 1: for an industry dude than a regularly so now it's

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Speaker 1: the opposite. No, no, no, no, no, I still do.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying He's like, why do you think you've

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Speaker 1: been like having these run ins with like you know,

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Speaker 1: think about hospital dick or the skater dude or whatever.

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Speaker 1: He's like, why do you think this is happening? And

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't think industry dudes for rich Nigga's

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Speaker 1: necessarily be the ones that give me the same energy.

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Speaker 1: Like I like guys that like me. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like if I when when someone's giving me

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Speaker 1: that energy, I'm like, yeah, I'm waiting, and sometimes they

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Speaker 1: got rich. Nick has got too many options to where

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Speaker 1: like Brianda said something to me that I really liked.

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Speaker 1: She's been dating a lot, and she said, if I

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Speaker 1: go on, if I have a date schedule to someone

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Speaker 1: and they don't seem excited about the date or text

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Speaker 1: me that day or screenshot the reservation, I cancel. She's like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not really into someone that's gonna hit me up

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Speaker 1: right before, like I want someone that's on it. And

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Speaker 1: she was like, because that's the energy that I'm actually

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Speaker 1: interested in investing in. And I was like, I feel

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Speaker 1: that that's a little dramatic, but I know what she's

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Speaker 1: saying with that, because we all want someone that feels

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Speaker 1: excited to see us and feels like they're lucky to

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Speaker 1: be taking us out somewhere. But I got it. I do,

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Speaker 1: especially if I say yes to going out with you.

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Speaker 1: It's it's strange, maybe be just because I have, Like

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Speaker 1: I actually really hate my phone, so I like when

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Speaker 1: it's literally just a hey, where you at I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: pull up on you? Or Hey, what you're doing? Do

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Speaker 1: you want to pull up on me? I realized that

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Speaker 1: I hate texting. I don't want to get a text

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Speaker 1: me on it because I don't respond. No, I like,

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Speaker 1: I like planned, and you I'm surprised you don't. You

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Speaker 1: don't like planned because you're a plan I mean, I

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Speaker 1: know I like a plan date. But like, like I've

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Speaker 1: literally been like and I've realized it's more like that.

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Speaker 1: When I see I have free time, I'd be like, well,

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Speaker 1: let's do lunch, like I've done that with like Jesus,

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Speaker 1: Like should I just finished recording and I'm stressed, and

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Speaker 1: he'll be like, we'll pull up. I'm at Dumbo House,

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Speaker 1: We'll eat here. That's that's that's our first date. You're

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Speaker 1: talking about something different, But no, I'm just saying I

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Speaker 1: don't need the texting. I don't need the Hey, it's

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Speaker 1: so excited to see you a reservation, like I know

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Speaker 1: what's happening. I'm I realized how much of a non

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Speaker 1: responder I am in text messages now because I really

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Speaker 1: just hate my phone. I mean, if I'm dating some

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Speaker 1: you're dating black jeesus already, so you guys can find

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Speaker 1: talking to see each other. You don't like when men

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Speaker 1: send you reservations? Seriously, No, No, I didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about the texting screenshoting me and like the texting,

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Speaker 1: I realized I am not into whatsoever, like all FaceTime

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Speaker 1: you or we can link up to talk. I realized

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Speaker 1: how minimal I am. Yeah, I don't need it. I

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Speaker 1: don't need a lot of threat. I'm talking about someone

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Speaker 1: showing that they're like, I don't know. I I agree

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Speaker 1: if i'm if I have a date with someone Friday.

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Speaker 1: Actually I did have a date last week. I went

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Speaker 1: to the Short Stories Hotel or two weeks ago. The

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Speaker 1: dude our date was at five around twelve. He's like, hey, Gila,

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Speaker 1: looking forward. Um, I'll be there five where You Star?

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Speaker 1: Are We Still Good? And I was like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: I like this, Okay, Like I I do appreciate that,

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Speaker 1: not on some like corporate worky ship, but I do

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Speaker 1: think sometimes it's nice to feel like you know, you're

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Speaker 1: you remembered me or I'm I'm not an afterthought. I

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Speaker 1: am um Okay. I want to talk about something real

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Speaker 1: quick that I didn't put in the outline, but I

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Speaker 1: just found this on the Shade Room and I could

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Speaker 1: not believe this bitch. Did you see the Erica Banks

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Speaker 1: clip of her saying what she wants people to look

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Speaker 1: like that go out with her? Now? Erica Bank is

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Speaker 1: the girl that's a rapper that you know what I'm

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Speaker 1: saying for everybody else, is you look