WEBVTT - Scheana Shay 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:09.840 Hello, gorgeous. I'm super excited today because. 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:12.039 I get to bump gums with one of my besties. 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.880 Hi, she s, Hi, how are you good? Happy to 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.000 be here? It's so crazy. I feel like we've come 0:00:18.079 --> 0:00:20.480 so far. I know, we really have, Like so far? 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:22.760 Have you ever been mad at me for a podcast 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:23.760 I've recorded about you? 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:25.400 I don't say. 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:27.040 I wouldn't know because I don't listen, because that's going 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:27.960 to hurt my feelings. 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:32.400 No, I have listened to your podcast, as I've told you, 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:34.760 because I asked you about certain episodes when you did 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:37.920 my podcast. There are things I think more that you've said, 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.839 not necessarily on yours, but on others, Like there was 0:00:40.880 --> 0:00:45.040 something you said on Katie's that I was like, well, 0:00:45.280 --> 0:00:47.159 you know what, Lala, don't be that person, and I 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:48.520 wouldn't have had to open my mouth. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:50.960 Oh wait, tell me more. What did I see on 0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:52.360 the JAVO con recab? 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:57.400 And Katie said that she didn't like when people who 0:00:57.400 --> 0:00:59.680 have the window seats like keep the window closed, And 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:02.280 you see said that you didn't like how I told 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:05.800 you to stack your bin at the airport. 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:08.400 It was something along those lines. 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:13.760 I think, yeah, but it was like an ick about 0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:16.480 something that happened Bravo Con weekend or it was like 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:20.480 something air I don't know. No, I told the story 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:23.240 about how you got upset at me because I didn't 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:24.040 stack my bin. 0:01:24.360 --> 0:01:28.160 That's what it was at the airport, yes, but I 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:30.600 was like, then stack your fucking bin. You know. 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.319 I don't feel like it was that deep. No, yo, 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:35.119 So some people didn't stack your bin. 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:37.920 Some people really like to split hairs, and I know, 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:39.119 something out of nothing, and. 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:40.520 There will be like other things. 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:43.640 The statu of the bins made me laugh and no 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:46.800 one had raged on me. I was, so I was 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.920 just like, well I did kind of get I urged 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:55.240 Sena by my lack of bin stacking abilities. But yeah, 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.040 I just feel like sometimes people at the airport are 0:01:58.080 --> 0:01:59.880 bored and like they need something to do, so like 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:01.800 stack my bins. 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:06.120 That's so funny because every time I've been in the 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:08.280 airport with you, you stack your bins. 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:09.040 I told. 0:02:10.560 --> 0:02:12.280 Walked away from it and I go, oh la la, 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.040 I go, please don't be that person. She goes what 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:17.920 and I go, your bin And she's like, oh, I 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:19.560 mean they're just standing here and I'm. 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:22.280 Like, just just they've got other things to do. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:24.280 Actually last time we were in the airport, because I 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:27.200 remember this, you grabbed mine and stacked mine with yours. 0:02:27.360 --> 0:02:30.320 I know. She just my off days. Yeah, it was 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:30.720 just that. 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:33.240 And I was the one who was on the ruggle 0:02:33.240 --> 0:02:35.280 bus that day. She didn't even do anything. Day three 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:38.240 of Bravo Con, I was up till five am, which 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:40.880 by the way, was my own fault. But I was 0:02:40.960 --> 0:02:43.400 up till five am, then back up in glam at 0:02:43.440 --> 0:02:47.600 eight am, and then did a full day of press 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:51.200 fan interaction and then get to the airport with Lalla 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:55.280 and Yeah, I want to know how you do it, 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:58.160 because I have never met anybody who is on the 0:02:58.200 --> 0:02:59.520 move like you. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.480 Never in my life. Like I will talk to Shena 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:04.040 and try to plan things with her. Yeah, and she'll 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:07.200 say to me, I'm going to be in San Diego. 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:10.760 We're leaving tonight and then tomorrow we're gonna drive to 0:03:10.880 --> 0:03:12.800 Palm Springs for two days, and then we're gonna come 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:15.480 back to my mom's and get on a flight to 0:03:15.560 --> 0:03:17.760 Las Vegas. I'm like, oh my gosh, I need a 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:21.840 nap just from hearing about your plan. Now, Yeah, how 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:23.480 do you have this kind of energy? 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.120 I want that I don't know, because it's not like 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.280 I drank a ton of caffeine. I mean, right now, 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:30.079 you offered a cup of coffee and I was like, oh, yeah, 0:03:30.080 --> 0:03:31.080 I didn't have coffee today. 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:34.200 Like, it's not like I really run on fumes. I 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:34.560 don't know. 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:36.920 I think I just I have a lot that I 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.560 like to do, and I feel like if I stay 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:42.680 still too long, I maybe get too much in my 0:03:42.760 --> 0:03:44.840 head and I feel like I'm not accomplishing enough, and 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.920 at least right now between my homes. You know, I 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:51.120 just moved from San Diego, and I have all these 0:03:51.120 --> 0:03:53.240 boxes in Palm Springs in my garage that need to 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:55.000 be unpacked, and I don't want to go there for 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:57.680 Christmas and look at all these boxes. I'm like, well, 0:03:57.680 --> 0:03:58.880 I need to go here for a day and a 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.040 half to unpacked to then go here. And then we 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:04.240 had tickets to go see Aerosmith in Vegas, and then 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.560 they canceled the rest of their tour. We walked up 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.120 to the door and they hand us a paper and 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:10.760 say it's rescheduled for Monday. 0:04:11.160 --> 0:04:13.240 But then we didn't even stay and wait till Monday. 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:14.240 But then they ended up. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:18.239 Canceling the rest of their residency for this leg because 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:20.960 I guess Stephen Tyler was ill. I don't know what 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:24.680 kind of illness, but his doctor recommended he call it 0:04:24.720 --> 0:04:28.080 off Aerosmith without Steven. So then then we're just in 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.760 Vegas with my family who we just spent several days 0:04:30.760 --> 0:04:33.360 with and are gonna have Christmas and Thanksgary. 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.440 It was just like so much. But you did get 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:37.160 to have sexy time with your man. 0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.080 We did? We did? 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:43.880 Okay, yeah we reverse cowgirl sexy bit. You did. 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:47.440 I did. But we'll talk about Will and Elaine's party, 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.680 your friends who you were so kind to introduce me to. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:53.880 But at this party, Sheena shared a show whoa. 0:04:54.080 --> 0:05:04.119 She shared a story. She shared a. 0:05:00.480 --> 0:05:05.960 About I'm always curious to know about couples sex lives, 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.719 and not because I need something to flick my being too, 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:14.320 but I just I've heard when you get into a relationship, 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.160 and I've also been like this myself. You get into 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:20.800 a relationship, you're fucking like jack Rabbits, and then just 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:24.880 slowly things get normal and you sink into it and 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.360 you're comfortable, and maybe you decide to watch Netflix rather 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:29.600 than you know, have sex with your partner. 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:30.760 You have a baby. 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:34.360 Yeah, so I asked you this question, and you told 0:05:34.400 --> 0:05:38.080 me about your time in Las Vegas, so please yeare so. 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:41.360 I think we've had more sex in Vegas than we 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:45.640 have anywhere else since having summer. Like, every time we 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:48.080 go to Vegas, there's just something about it, whether it's 0:05:48.440 --> 0:05:52.040 the shower, like some of those showers that have the. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:56.440 Seat in it, you know, right, you can have that. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.680 Space to start with your vibrator while Brock has the 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:02.200 water on him, and then it's like then he gets 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:04.520 involved and then turn me around and it's just. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:05.000 I don't know. 0:06:05.000 --> 0:06:06.919 I love shower sex. That was the first time we 0:06:06.920 --> 0:06:10.920 had sex post baby. I love a good shower sex session. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:11.760 Wow. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.960 So this time around, we were not in one of 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:19.000 those type of showers, but we had a nice big 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:22.080 bed and my parents had an adjoined room because they 0:06:22.120 --> 0:06:24.120 always want to get an adjoining room because it is 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:26.920 better for the baby to run between the two rooms 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:30.839 and have more space and whatnot. But every time we 0:06:30.960 --> 0:06:33.520 have a family trip to Vegas, I'm like, ugh, so 0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:35.240 is this gonna be a time when I don't have 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:36.960 sex because my mom's. 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:40.080 Literally in the room attached. That is so awkward. No. 0:06:40.080 --> 0:06:42.000 No, because the first time we did. My mom was 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:46.440 also attached, but you find the right time. So I 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:50.320 wake up the last morning of our trip, I'm horny. 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:51.960 He's horny, and. 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:53.920 I'm just like, but Summer's in the other room, and 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:55.599 I can hear her with my parents, and I'm like, 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.320 I can't. It's like, can't do anything about it. But 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.040 you know, it's like a little touch, little touch, and 0:07:00.040 --> 0:07:01.280 I'm like, dude, she's gonna. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:02.160 Run in here any second. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:05.120 And then I hear my mom go, we're gonna run 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:06.080 down and get coffee. 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:09.240 I'm gonna take Summer. Let me know. If you want anything, 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:09.840 just text me. 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:14.760 And I'm like, okay, cham that door closes and I'm like, 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:19.840 we're doing this, and I just hopped on turned it 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:24.160 around and yeah, we went to completion, and thankfully it 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:26.920 was so quick because the coffee line was so long. 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:28.520 They turned right back around. 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.880 But it was the perfect timing that we needed for 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.800 us both to get off, because it does not take 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.920 us long anymore, not at all, like we don't have 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:38.960 enough sex that it's like marathon. 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:40.200 Yeah, totally. 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:43.320 Well, I was dying because Sheena was like, you know, Brock, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.920 it always is like love making, Okay, yeah, always. 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:50.000 He needs to be in the mental emotional like he 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:53.720 wants like our souls to touch, and I'm sometimes like, 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:54.960 can you just fop me? 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:55.720 Yes? 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.560 Yeah, you know, like let's doggy style finish on my 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:01.600 back because I was terrify him coming inside me, because 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.520 I'm terrified of getting pregnant again. My doctor has assured 0:08:04.520 --> 0:08:07.320 me my IUD is placed perfectly. There's a ninety nine 0:08:07.320 --> 0:08:09.600 point nine percent chance I'm not going to get pregnant. 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.960 So you're fixated on the smallest chance point one. 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:15.680 You never know, but don't you don't. 0:08:16.360 --> 0:08:20.720 But if God forbid point one happened, that child is 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:23.200 going to change this world. If you were able to 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:27.200 still get me pregnant on an IUD, then you know what, 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:28.800 savage baby? 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:29.680 Yeah? 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:33.120 So was this then a fucking rather than making love? 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.959 It was a little bit of both, Okay, yeah, because 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:39.120 it started out with the touching and I was like, Okay, 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:41.400 I'm wet, and I don't want my own hand here, 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.120 I want yours. He's got the big hands. I wanted 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.840 that inside me. But also my parents and my baby 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:50.480 are right next door, so it's like, Okay, I'm laying 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:54.200 here a horny, I'm wet, You're touching me, but it's like, oh, 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:56.040 the baby might run in at any second. So I'm like, 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.360 we can't, we can't, we can't and write them when 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.960 they said they were going to get coffee, I was like, 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:03.440 Holley Lou, Yeah, oh my gosh, let's do it. 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:04.560 We don't know how much time we have. 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.280 They might have forgotten something in the diaper bag and 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:10.520 ran back right in. So brock with blue balls, yeah, 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:13.880 exact dad would be and she with blue balls, so 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.400 whatever the equivalent. 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:20.000 Yeah, also not fun fun. No, So for you guys, 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.200 I know it, and it was everything. 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:25.800 That's what it is. 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:30.000 When I find someone who is my person and I'm excited. 0:09:30.600 --> 0:09:35.600 I really hope that I mentally can make time for 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:38.199 that because it is so different when you. 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:41.400 Have a child. Yeah, I don't want to bang knowing 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:44.640 my kids in the same house. No, No, we don't 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.559 have a hard time having sex knowing that my kid 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.000 was in the same state. Yeah, I took my as. 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:54.560 No, it's so hard, like if we're at home, I'm 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:59.240 just not horny at home, like hardly hardly ever, because 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:02.199 like she's there, Okay, she's napping, she might wake up. 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.800 It's just I'm two in my head right. 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:07.199 So there have been like those couple of times where 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.720 at my house in Palm Springs, you know she's on 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:13.719 this end, we're maybe outside. I've had sacks in that 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:16.400 backyard with Brock. I don't even know how many times 0:10:16.600 --> 0:10:20.120 Smer may have been conceived in that backyard, but who knows. 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:23.720 We have privacy at night because we face the golf course, 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:26.199 but at night it's closed, and I have like the 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.960 high walls and hedges and plants and stuff. So when 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:30.560 we're outside and it's just the two of us and 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:33.040 the baby's inside, I don't feel like she's. 0:10:32.960 --> 0:10:36.040 There there right okay. But at home, the room down 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.720 the hallway, I can't do it. 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:41.280 I wonder if that'll change when your babies grow up. 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:42.000 I've heard no. 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:45.080 I feel it's harder now they can like open doors. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.440 See I am, I remember, did you? 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:49.880 I remember growing up and my parents would go, hey, 0:10:49.880 --> 0:10:51.800 we got to go do the bills, or we have 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:53.920 to go do the taxes, and we were. 0:10:53.800 --> 0:10:56.080 Just like ugh, because we knew they're doing their taxes. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:56.400 Yeah. 0:10:57.520 --> 0:10:59.280 They'd be up in the room for like forty five 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.200 minutes and then they come down and we were like. 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.560 My mom claims that there was a time, and I 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:10.240 obviously have blocked this from my memory. I walked in 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:14.679 on my mom and dad having sex, and I left 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:19.520 crying grant away. I have zero recollection. My mom remembers 0:11:19.520 --> 0:11:23.120 it vividly, but clearly. I was Yeah, I remember that vividly. 0:11:25.080 --> 0:11:27.200 I'm old, were you because why were you crying? You 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:28.199 didn't know what was going on. 0:11:28.360 --> 0:11:30.120 I'm sure I didn't know what was going on, and 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:36.040 I couldn't believe that it was happening. There's this couple, 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:39.440 Will and Elaine who are a rich honey, and they're 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:43.200 also very kind and sweet and amazing human beings that shesh. 0:11:43.520 --> 0:11:47.200 You were kind enough to invite me around this group 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.880 of people, and they also have a baby, Yeah, Ocean 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:51.560 in Summer's age or around the same age. 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:54.280 Yeah, So Sheena and. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:56.360 I go down with Brittany and Jack's to the party 0:11:56.400 --> 0:12:01.000 I was telling you about Jess. Okay, fabulous, fucking fabulous. 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:04.520 Oh yeah, Like I've been to Oscar parties that were 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:07.480 not even close to the caliber of this. 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:12.600 It was insane and they're like just amount of wealth, 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:15.760 you know. I'm walking around with my fucking little diamond 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.280 rings from Amazon, and these bitches walking in. 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:23.080 Our decked in like ra fucking money. All right, it 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:24.360 was insane. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:26.600 Ball because you were all dressed to a gala. 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:29.360 Oh it was a gala, and like, no shade to 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:31.920 our group of friends. But let's be real, like without 0:12:31.920 --> 0:12:34.040 Will and Elane, like you ain't having a gala. I'm 0:12:34.080 --> 0:12:36.400 certainly not having a gala in my three bedroom, three 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:37.440 bathroom apartment. 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.040 No, you know, like I don't want it. 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:42.000 I like to think like when I get into my 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.760 forties or fifties, we'll be having galas. But my lazy ass, 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:46.520 I just don't see it happening. Yeah, So I was 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.680 really excited to get all dressed up and get glammed, 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.280 and it was like mom's night out right. 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:56.120 I asked Jack's where Brittany is literally nine fifteen. 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:58.800 He's like, she's in the Casida. So I'm like, all right, 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:00.960 I'm just gonna go check on her, fixing her makeup. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:02.640 I should do that too, because it was a very 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:07.440 hot man there. Yes, a big motherfucker clam that like 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:10.200 a tree. 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:12.560 So I go with I hope I do too. I 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:13.120 deserve that. 0:13:13.559 --> 0:13:17.400 But I go into the Casida and Brittany is like 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:18.440 she's done. 0:13:18.880 --> 0:13:21.120 She is like are you ready to go, Sleepy? 0:13:21.200 --> 0:13:23.040 She's ready to go yeah, and I'm like, mind you 0:13:23.080 --> 0:13:25.319 They got to the party an hour late and are 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:27.200 now leaving just two hours later. 0:13:27.600 --> 0:13:29.520 Yeah. No, it was definitely not a good This is 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:32.960 like nine pm. It was nine thirty. We got there 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:33.440 like seven to. 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:36.760 Fifteen, okay, and it started at six, so they're already late. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:37.199 Already late. 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:40.280 We're already late, which was not the plan. Traffic was crazy. 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:44.200 I won't bore you guys with that story. So I'm like, yeah, 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:47.320 if you're ready to go, we can go. I take 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.840 my gown off, she takes hers off. I'm in my 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:53.480 give them La La skin, which you can purchase on 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:54.640 give them Lala dot com. 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:59.520 Yep, your rope robe and. 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.959 She puts her like Kentucky sweats on. Shena comes up 0:14:03.000 --> 0:14:04.840 and I can hear her right, So I'm like, oh, 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:06.200 this is gonna be so funny. 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:07.719 So I start recording. 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:09.640 I start recording because I'm like, this is gonna be 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:12.679 an instagrammable moment, and I had little content, so like, 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:17.800 this is this is gonna get a lot of views. Yeah, 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:20.480 she goes, what are you guys doing? I'm like, we're 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:22.800 getting cozy. I think we're gonna go, and she's like, 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:25.120 are you kidding me? I was like, no, really, what 0:14:25.160 --> 0:14:27.360 the fuck are you doing? And then I see that 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:30.200 she is actually upset, so I like slowly lower my 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:34.960 phone on the bedside table. Sina was literally ready to 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:36.080 assassinate both of us. 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.960 Okay, I can see why though, Yeah, but like, I 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:39.440 get it. 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:42.280 You're there with your friend. What was your mindset? 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:46.360 Well, I told Sheena because Sheena is my little dove, right, 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:50.320 so I have to I have to disarm her because 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.840 she's a little dove until she ain't playing anymore, right, 0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:57.560 So without lying, because I very well could have just 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:00.200 placed all the blame on Brittany, but I felt bad 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:01.800 about that, so I told you. 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.760 And I was like, here's the deal, dude, Like you 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:04.560 got to understand. 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.560 I could be at the Obama's house and if someone 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:08.720 says to me, do. 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:09.400 You want to go home? 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:14.480 I immediately go into home means a bathtub, sweatpants, bed, 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:17.560 and housewives. Yes, that's where I want to be, Right, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:20.720 So I did disarm her. Brittany did not come back 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:21.360 to the party. 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:23.160 She slept, she took a nap. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.600 She took a little snoozl yes, well, which sad for her. 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:27.160 That bed though. 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:30.400 Five star, I know, crawling there. That's my new third home. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:32.520 We don't have San Diego, but we have the Casita 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:33.360 well on the lane. 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:36.120 Yeah, and just for people like me. Casita is a 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:36.760 guest house. 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:39.680 Guesthouse that's like a two story guest house, a little 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:42.120 mini kitchens in my apartment. Yeah. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.360 Okay, so it's like it's. 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:48.600 Ridiculous and this home is like Kobe Bryant type shit. Okay, 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:52.720 you walk out and it's nothing is obstructing your view 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:53.520 of the ocean. 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:55.000 Nothing, not a thing. 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:58.440 Maybe this tiny little cliff that also has a home 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.800 on it, but that's stunning too, so that isn't an obstruction. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:04.880 But literally there's nothing but ocean. It is gorgeous. 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:08.080 So the point of this story is in that moment 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:12.440 Sheena and I have yet again managed to not have 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.560 a falling out over something. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.040 Yeah, and I think that that deserves a moment. 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:18.280 What was your mindset? She know, when you wropped in 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:19.120 and you saw them. 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:23.240 There were not even maybe one hundred people at this event. 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:26.600 It was very obvious if someone was missing. Hence how 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.520 I even found them, because about twenty minutes went by 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:31.280 and I was like, where are my friends? 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.360 I didn't even think where notice? Oh yeah, oh no, 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:35.720 I noticed, Elaine noticed. Everyone noticed it. 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:36.880 So it's not packed to the gills. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:38.040 Okay, okay, no. 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:41.360 Also, it would have been even more spread out. But 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:43.800 it started raining, and so half of the party had 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:46.880 to be kind of shut off because the whole glass 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.080 mirror dance floor is now wet, so that part of 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:53.680 the party is shut off. Everyone's upstairs, so you can 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.040 literally see everyone in one place. 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:58.760 And so it wasn't like, oh, they're probably downstairs. 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.600 You know, Brittany's made be at that bar over there, La, 0:17:01.680 --> 0:17:04.439 LA's maybe talking to this guy at the pasta station. No. 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:08.040 I look around, I'm like, where's my friends? So I'm like, 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.560 they're probably just touching up or something. I'm going to 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.080 go check on them. And when I get to the 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:16.280 room and I see them, and so I'm like, no, no, no, 0:17:16.400 --> 0:17:21.640 it is not eleven pm. You have Lisa watching Cruise. 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:24.119 Oh yeah, my mom watched Cruise. I'm like, you have 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:27.760 a perfectly capable babysitter right now. You don't have to 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:29.840 worry about I mean, you always worry about ocean, but 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:31.280 you know, it's not like I need to get home 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:32.400 because my baby is sick. 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.400 I'm like, so we only got cruise, and we got 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:34.800 cruise in. 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:38.400 The best hands right now, So is there something that happened, 0:17:38.440 --> 0:17:42.480 because like, why are you and your pajamas at nine pm? 0:17:42.760 --> 0:17:46.840 And I know how much time and money and effort 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:49.520 Will in a Lane have put into this gala. They 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:53.040 have been so nice and generous opening up their home 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.800 to my friends because they're new friends of mine too. 0:17:55.840 --> 0:17:59.600 I've known them like about two years now, okay, but 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:00.800 we are newer friends. 0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:03.560 And so over the past year, they've invited all of 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:04.639 my friends on their yacht. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:07.200 They've invited them to dinner parties at their home. 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:11.880 And on Halloween specifically, Jack didn't show up at all 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:15.320 because he was hungover. When he hosted a Halloween party 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:17.520