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Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show I

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Speaker 1: like running in our diaries, except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Kiki, Yes you ready, Yes, I

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Speaker 1: can't wait to hear this take good.

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Speaker 2: Well, dear blog.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe I'm saying this, but I have to

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Speaker 3: agree with our good brother Rufio on this. We need

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Speaker 3: to make divorce announcements a thing. It needs to be

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Speaker 3: a thing, like the same way you invite me to

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Speaker 3: a wedding, or the same way you posted up you know,

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Speaker 3: just got engaged with your finger picture. I need something

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Speaker 3: to say this is over and just you know, let

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Speaker 3: us all just hit us all at once. Because I

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Speaker 3: was at dinner the other day and just chatting with

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Speaker 3: a friend, just you know, talking, catching up, and the

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Speaker 3: friends start talking to me about dating other dating man

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Speaker 3: and then you know, I was like, oh, I got

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Speaker 3: this one in that one.

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Speaker 1: And you're like, oh my god, you're so openly cheating.

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Speaker 1: Yes because you're married.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, wait a minute, what happened to Lutha who

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: And she was like, girl, we get a divorce show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he moved out.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, wait a minute, now hold on.

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Speaker 1: And I felt bad after.

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Speaker 3: Because I had to like go through this whole process

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Speaker 3: of accepting what their new relationships that and it's really

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Speaker 3: not my business, you know, Like I really should have

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Speaker 3: just said, okay, girl, cool. But when it comes at

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Speaker 3: you like that and you just the last thing you

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Speaker 3: saw was them in love, when you tell me you

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Speaker 3: get a divorce, like I have to sit with that,

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Speaker 3: I have to process that.

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Speaker 1: It's heavy on you.

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Speaker 3: It's heavy on my hockey sleep. Last night, I couldn't

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Speaker 3: believe it. So I'm like, wow, Lutha is out the door,

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Speaker 3: and I just couldnot accept that. And I just just

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Speaker 3: feel like if we would beget a nice little divorce

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Speaker 3: announcement like a baby announcement in the mail, I would

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Speaker 3: have been able to process that and I would have.

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Speaker 1: Known I would agree with that. Kiki. And I also,

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Speaker 1: I think since we're you know, whiteboarding here, we're just brainstorming. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think now there should be some form of a

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Speaker 1: duel verification process too, because I'm no longer going to

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Speaker 1: believe one individual who tells me that they're getting divorced

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Speaker 1: or broken up. I need the other person to confirm it,

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Speaker 1: So like there needs to be like I am no

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Speaker 1: longer just based on you know, various issues in my past.

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Speaker 1: I'm no longer interested in one persons side of the story.

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Speaker 1: I need. I needed to be some formal process by

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Speaker 1: which each individual of the broken up party certifies the

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Speaker 1: breakup and then maybe even includes their side of the story,

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Speaker 1: like maybe like a nice reddit for breakups, because I

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Speaker 1: no longer believe one no I'm not I'm out of there,

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Speaker 1: I'm out of there, like oh great, only to find

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Speaker 1: out you know, no, you are absolutely not out of there,

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Speaker 1: or like going back or like and also maybe like

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Speaker 1: a nice meter like how serious we are about like

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Speaker 1: like like a like a like a heat check, like

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Speaker 1: and and both people need to be within, you know,

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Speaker 1: a point of each other. So like if I if

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Speaker 1: I'm going to break up with with Caitlin, and I

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Speaker 1: need to because well you have a boyfriend now, so

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Speaker 1: I need to probably break up with deal. But like

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Speaker 1: I would fill out the questionnaire and I would say,

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Speaker 1: you know, ten out of ten broken up, we are

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Speaker 1: broken up. It's fantastic, and that I cried myself to

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Speaker 1: sleep each night with the memory however, we are no

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Speaker 1: longer together. And then Canon would go on.

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Speaker 2: And say I am and yes, yes, we're done.

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Speaker 1: And it's a ten strength wise of how broken up

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Speaker 1: we are. However, I'll never I'll never be pleased like

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Speaker 1: I was that way ever again in my life. And

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Speaker 1: I've never seen body parts as pristine as the ones

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Speaker 1: I saw when I was with Fred. But ten out

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Speaker 1: of ten I am broken up with him and then

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Speaker 1: and that way an outside party it's been. It's been

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Speaker 1: certified now but like Ernst and Young or something, and

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Speaker 1: that way an outside party can both people have commented,

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Speaker 1: this is a certified breakup.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and can you prove too that you've moved out?

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Speaker 1: Also, I need photographs. I'll need photographs of the new dwelling. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I will, I will, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean really like you guys know, if your relationship is online,

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Speaker 2: I always say this, then the breakup needs to be

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Speaker 2: online too. If you've included me in every step of

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Speaker 2: your relationship, you're one month anniversary, celebration whatever. I need

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Speaker 2: to know exactly what happened when you broke up because

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Speaker 2: you decided that you decided to make your relationship my business,

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Speaker 2: and now I need to know all the details of

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Speaker 2: your breakup.

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Speaker 1: I think it's the right thing to do that. If

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Speaker 1: you've had a very public sort of build up, and

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Speaker 1: then I think that the ice it needs to be

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Speaker 1: public too, because people don't want to feel stupid, like

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Speaker 1: in this case, for you, like how's Luther? Yeah, Luther

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Speaker 1: is no longer in the picture, and you're like, when

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Speaker 1: did that happen? And you know, yes, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, I was shook, and I feel bad because you

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Speaker 3: literally have to go through a process of accepting that

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Speaker 3: this person is they're no longer together, like get that

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Speaker 3: through your hair, ki key, except the fact that it's over,

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Speaker 3: and it's like, why am I this invested?

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Speaker 1: To make matters worse? Have you ever caught up with

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Speaker 1: somebody from that you hadn't seen in a while, and

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Speaker 1: maybe you did, maybe maybe you were told that, like

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Speaker 1: there was a divorce or a breakup, maybe you were

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Speaker 1: told at some point that like mom passed away or something,

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Speaker 1: But yet out of your mouth comes how's Luther? Even

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Speaker 1: though you were told you just don't have a lot

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Speaker 1: of exposure to the person, or you're like how's your mom?

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Speaker 1: And as it comes out, you're like, ah, you know,

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Speaker 1: and see you're like, oh, yeah, you did tell me that, sorry,

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Speaker 1: or the one where it's like you didn't see it

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Speaker 1: on Facebook, like you're now. I'm in charge now of

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Speaker 1: like studying, keeping up. I got to do my homework.

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Speaker 1: But I will say, if someone has a Facebook and

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen them in a while, I will go

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Speaker 1: peruse their Facebook a little bit before I go visit them.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so I got a look, you know. I

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Speaker 1: just so I just feel like I'm a little bit updated,

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Speaker 1: you know, because I don't want to feel dumb if,

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Speaker 1: like you, there's some major life of it, like a

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Speaker 1: divorce that I somehow missed because we don't have a

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Speaker 1: lot of exposure with one another. But I think we're

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Speaker 1: onto something with this certified, certified breakup. I need to

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Speaker 1: hear from both sides, you know, because what if what

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Speaker 1: if one person receives the certification breakup you know questionnaire

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Speaker 1: and they're like, I didn't know we were breaking up.

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Speaker 1: We're wreaking up, you know, And then then then a

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Speaker 1: am I right, I don't know what this is, you know,

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Speaker 1: zero heat check for me. And then as the bystander,

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Speaker 1: I can go look and say, okay, well, someone here

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Speaker 1: is going to cause some problems because they're not ready

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Speaker 1: to be to be done yet, you know, and I

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Speaker 1: don't well I don't want the smoke, and so then

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Speaker 1: I won't do it. You know, I think we're onto something.

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Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah. No, this is this is

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Speaker 1: what great ideas when they come to die. They're born,

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