1 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 2 00:00:04,880 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to STEFRVEFM dot com and click 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 5 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:19,760 Speaker 1: on the air. It's just like we're gonna do this 6 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: one right here, right now, and it could be yours. 7 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: You never know. Bugle up and hold on tight. We 8 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: gotta pall you here. It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, Tommy. 9 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: What's your fine? Self? All right? Subject? He doesn't make 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 1: me feel safe. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty nine 11 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,319 Speaker 1: year old woman and my fiance is thirty. We met 12 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:43,520 Speaker 1: at a house party four years ago and we got 13 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: engaged a few weeks ago. We started out as friends 14 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 1: for a while because of his height. He is shorter 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: than the men I used to date. I love his 16 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: personality and that's what got me hooked on him. Whenever 17 00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: we are together, everyone always says we're such a cute couple. 18 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: It's because we're short. I'm five to three and he 19 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 1: is five six, But he loves to say he is 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: a lot taller. He works out a lot, so he's 21 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: got muscles everywhere, but he's not an alpha male, and 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:16,119 Speaker 1: I don't feel protected when we are out. And here's 23 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: why we got engaged and then went to Paradise Island 24 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: to celebrate. Our getaway was going great until the second day, 25 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: when I was sitting by the pool and a man 26 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 1: came over and tried to talk to me. I let 27 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: him know that I was newly engaged, and my fiance 28 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 1: went to get me a drink. He said that was cool, 29 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 1: but he was going to sit by me anyway. When 30 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: my fiance came back, they shook hands and my fiance 31 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: asked him if he needed anything. The guy said he 32 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: was just sitting there trying to get to know me better, 33 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: but I told him I'm engaged. My fiance laughed it 34 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: off and leaned back in his chair. Then the guy 35 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 1: said he could still take me, but he was there 36 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: to relax, not to steal anyone's girl. I looked at 37 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: my fiance so crazy, and he was lying back, drinking 38 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 1: his girly frozen drink, and I could not believe he 39 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: didn't say a word. He didn't ask the guy to 40 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: move or ask me to move with him to a 41 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 1: different area. I sat there, stressed, out because he didn't 42 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,120 Speaker 1: protect me. Am I overreacting? Or is this a major 43 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: sign that I'm marrying a whim. Why didn't he say anything? Well, 44 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: you're not engaged to will Smith, that's for sure. Will 45 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: Smith is not your man because he didn't do anything 46 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: and Will Smith did. But I'm going to take a 47 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: little different approach to this letter. I agree with you. 48 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: Women do like to feel protected when we're out. We 49 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: absolutely do. We like to feel that security when we're 50 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: with our men. But it sounds like your man was 51 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: saying to the guy, if you think you can get her, 52 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: go ahead and shoot your best shot. Your fiance had 53 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: probably already sized him up when the guy hit on 54 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: you at the pool. He was at the bar, remember 55 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 1: getting drinks. He probably saw everything and go down, and 56 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: that's why he wasn't worried. I think your man sounded 57 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: confident and not worried about this man at all. This 58 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:10,119 Speaker 1: other man, he probably thought he could take him if 59 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: something jumped off, if he had to throw the hands, 60 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 1: he probably would. And I think that's why he laughed 61 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 1: and just leaned back in his chair and sipped his cocktail. 62 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 1: I don't think he's going to the gym every day 63 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: and working out for nothing. He said he has muscles everywhere. 64 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 1: I suppose he could have told the guy to keep 65 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: it moving, to leave you alone, to get up, you know, 66 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: all of that. He could have customed out, he could 67 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: have punched him in the face, but he decided to 68 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: play it cool and not start anything while you guys 69 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: were on Vaca. He could have done more, he could 70 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: have said more, but I think he took the high 71 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 1: road out of the country. I think that's what he did. 72 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: If you're concerned about his method, I think you need 73 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: to talk to him and let him know how you 74 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: feel that. You don't feel protected, you don't feel safe, 75 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: and you know, I don't want you to go into 76 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 1: this marriage. If you feel this way, you need some 77 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: reassurance from this guy. You want to feel secure. Steve, 78 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: I don't even go ahead. I was eating this letter, 79 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: just rubbing my thighs on top of you. I couldn't 80 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 1: even what I already known because I kept waiting. I 81 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: kept waiting. Yeah, and what twenty nine year old woman 82 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: fiance thirty met at a house party four years ago, 83 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: got engaged a few weeks ago. Started out as friends. 84 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: Because you know of his height, he's shorter than the men. 85 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: You know, I used to date. I love this personality 86 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: and we hooked up on him. Now whenever we're together, 87 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: people always say we're such cute couple. It's because we shot. 88 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: I'm five three and he five six. But he loved 89 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: to say here a lot taller. This is so fun, 90 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:16,239 Speaker 1: just what, It's so familiar. So I'm not gonna say anything. 91 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:20,719 Speaker 1: But I know men who say they are a lot 92 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 1: taller than they are all the time. But and y'all 93 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 1: all cute couple because you five three and he five six, 94 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: But he say here a lot taller all the time. 95 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 1: They do that. He works out a lot. Oh, this 96 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: is so familiar. He works out a lot, always running. 97 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: It just helped the lady. Helped the lady. I am okay, 98 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry Tommy. You know you get caught up Steve. 99 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 1: And he's got muscles everywhere. But he's not an alpha male. 100 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: Now that's the only reason this ain't about Tommy, because 101 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: Tommy is an alpha mayle crazy that he wanted. He 102 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: ain't got a lot of muscles everywhere, but he do 103 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: have muscles. But everything else, clo it's not about Tommy. 104 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: We the wors Paradise Island. Why do I know that? Okay, 105 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: I get away. He was going great until the second day. 106 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: Sitting by the pool, a man came over and tried 107 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: to talk right hold that thought. This is where the 108 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: letter gonna go craze. Okay, surely totally. We disagree on 109 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: this one. I knew we would. All Right, listen, we'll 110 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 1: have part two of Steve's response coming up in twenty 111 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subjects he 112 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: doesn't make me feel safe. He doesn't make me feel safe. 113 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it. Gets Steve's response, Part two 114 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listening show, All right, 115 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Ruberry letter. The subject 116 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: is he doesn't make me feel safe, and I think 117 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 1: we have a problem here. I've heard Chili's response, and 118 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: that's fine, But let me explain something to you. Now. 119 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: Y'all look cute to ask coupling everything. People call y'all 120 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: cute because you're short. You five three five six, you know, 121 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: and people think y'all cute. Now, he always telling people 122 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 1: he a lot taller. I don't know how you're gonna 123 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: keep telling me you're talling. You ain't. I've been dealing 124 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: with that for years, so you can stop telling me 125 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: you're tall. Cost to me you ain't little. So but 126 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: let's get off of that. Because you're tall and I 127 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: knew it, and I've been around basketball players and looking 128 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: up going one, I'd be damned god. I mean, it's 129 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: six too. Ain't nothing right here, ain't throwing all my 130 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 1: shots out in the hallway. But he's not a now 131 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: for male, and I don't feel protective when we're out. 132 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: And here's why we got engaged. We went to Paradise 133 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 1: Island celebrate I get away. He was going great until 134 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: the second day. I'm sitting by the pool and a 135 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: moment man came over and tried to talk to me. 136 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: I let him know I was newly engaged, and my 137 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: fiance went to give me a drink. He said it 138 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: was cool, but he was gonna sit by me anyway. 139 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: When my fiance came back, they shook hands and my 140 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: fiance asked him if he needed something. The guy said 141 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,080 Speaker 1: he was just sitting there trying to get to know 142 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: me better. But I told him I'm engaged. My fiance 143 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: laughed it off and leaned back in his chair. Then 144 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 1: the guy said he could still take me, but he 145 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: was dad a relax, not to steal anybody's girl. I 146 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: looked at my fiance so crazy, and he was lying 147 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: back drinking his girl. He froze and drink and I 148 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: could not believe he did not say a word. He 149 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: didn't say to the guy move or asked me to 150 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: move with him to a different area. I said that 151 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: stressed out because he didn't protect me, and my overreacting 152 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: was it's a major sign that I married a whim. 153 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:02,239 Speaker 1: Why didn't he's saying anything. I don't thank you overacting 154 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,320 Speaker 1: at all. And I'm gonna tell you because these are 155 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: the rules of manhood. This is man engagement. I'm not 156 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 1: asking anybody out there to agree with me. I'm gonna 157 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,720 Speaker 1: give a damn how you feel this, how it'd go, 158 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 1: because I've had something similar happened to me when I 159 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: first started dating Marjorie. We were standing at a party. 160 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 1: She asked, I said, you want something to drink. I said, 161 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go get your champagne. Were standing there with 162 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: about two three people. I told the guys, I say, hey, man, 163 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: this is my fiance right here. This is Marjorie introduced 164 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: it to some guy. I'm gonna go get a drink. 165 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: I go get a drinking. Now, what I was doing 166 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: was marking my territory. What happened in this latter was 167 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 1: the guy had been watching her from a distance and 168 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: him so when he got up, he swooped in. He 169 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: had already sized him up, figured he little man going 170 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: on out the way. He walked his tall ass over 171 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: there and set out and started talking. So this dude, 172 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 1: I come back with the drink. He's standing there and 173 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: I'm walking up. He don't see me coming, and his 174 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: head is tilted to the side talking to margin. Now 175 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: I know when a man got his head cocked to 176 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: the side, I know what's happening. So I walked up 177 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 1: and poured the drink on it. He went, oh, man, 178 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 1: hold up, damn, you just poured a drink on it. 179 00:10:20,160 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: I said, hey, man, didn't I tell you when I 180 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 1: went over here? Who she was? Dog? We're just talking. No, dog, 181 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 1: you ain't just talking. You're hitting on it. And I 182 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:32,079 Speaker 1: told your ass. He said, man, you're just gonna pour 183 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: a drink on me because I'm trying to get it started. 184 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: Then you ain't doing nothing. I can't handle. So that 185 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 1: was it. That's how my reaction to it. So now 186 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 1: he come back with his drink. The girls then told 187 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: him I'm help with my fiance safe you newly engaged, 188 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: and he went to get you a drink. He said, 189 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: that's cool, but I'm gonna sit by you anyway. Then 190 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 1: the fiance shortly came back. They shook hands, my fiance 191 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: asking me, my fiance, do we need something because see 192 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: right now I'm finging this thing to go down. Hey man, 193 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: you need something? Nah, man, I'm just sitting here. I 194 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: was trying to get to know your girl better. But 195 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: she told me she was engaged. And then my fiance 196 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 1: laughed it off and leaned back in his chair. The 197 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,520 Speaker 1: guy said that. Then the guy said, I could still 198 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 1: take her, but I'm just here to relax, not to 199 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: steal nobody's girl. And now we're sitting here, let me 200 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,559 Speaker 1: tell you something. I to put them to a strong 201 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: ass muscles to work. Now I'm in the gym to 202 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: get all these muscles. It's time to test them. That 203 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: a man. Listen to me, Hey, my man, she told 204 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: you she was engaged. That you still gonna sit here. 205 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 1: Then I come back and now you're gonna sit here 206 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,680 Speaker 1: and tell me that you're gonna sit here anyway. But 207 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 1: you could try, but you ain't here to take nobody's girl. See, 208 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: first of all, let me tell you something like Shirley said, 209 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 1: he took the high road because they out of the country. 210 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn if we end on Pluto. 211 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,959 Speaker 1: You don't have to like me. You're not gonna disrespect me, 212 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 1: and that's the ultimate show of disrespect in the manhood game. 213 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: So now let me tell you what. We're gonna see 214 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: how much you want to disrespect me, because we're gonna 215 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: get to move in some furniture around out here at 216 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: this pool, because what you're not going to do is 217 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,959 Speaker 1: sit over there on the other side of my girl 218 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: and say, you know, I could take you anyway, but 219 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: I ain't really here to take nobody's girl. Pardner, you're 220 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:36,240 Speaker 1: asking for this ass whipping, and I got to issue it. No, 221 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,600 Speaker 1: I don't have a choice, because you can't disrespect me, 222 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: and that's ultimate disrespect. And yeah, you're marrying a whim. 223 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 1: You need to slow this thing down because he ain't 224 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: gonna protect you now. He ain't gonna protect you later 225 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,599 Speaker 1: because it ain't any heina alpha male? Why would you 226 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 1: marry a man that ain't an alpha mail? What kind 227 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: of male is it? Beta? Thank you, Steve. 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